LADIES WHO DIDN'T KNOW THEIR MAN WAS MARRIED.....😳🤢

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  • Опубликовано: 28 авг 2024
  • Hi here's a video of women who dated married men but didn't know at first.....in my commentary you'll realize I talk about clips that you may not have seen in the video but that's because I had to trim them out due to copyright claims...luckily that didn't touch major sections of the video so I hope you enjoy it....leave your feedback in the comments section....😘😘I love y'all

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  • @Annonymight
    @Annonymight 2 месяца назад +219

    I dated a man for 8 months. Went to his house and everything. His big mouthed friend (we appreciate mem gossipers) let it slip that he had a wife in another state. He called me "immature" for not wanting to continue the relationship.

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  2 месяца назад +70

      Yeah they'll always gaslight you.....

    • @p.gizzle90
      @p.gizzle90 2 месяца назад +12

      Wow 😮

    • @MadMax-cg6gh
      @MadMax-cg6gh 2 месяца назад +1

      Coming from a man nothing can surprise me anymore 😔

    • @Annonymight
      @Annonymight 2 месяца назад +57

      He said him and his wife had an arrangement. I told him he should have said something about this arrangement so I could choose whether I wanted to participate...that's when he called me immature. I dropped him off at the side of the freeway and we never spoke again so I think I may have won that round.

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  2 месяца назад +22

      @@Annonymight Glad you dodged a bullet ....some guys once you confront them for their shit... they'll always get physical especially if you threaten to leave them....I'm glad you never seen him again....okay little storytime...(There's this one time we were going through a breakup with my BD and he insisted to stay at my place....and once I put my foot down and told him to leave he grabbed a knife immediately and I was so scared it was at midnight...the next day he beat me up so bad...and even almost stabbed me on my face while kneeling on my chest....as he stabbed the pillow out of anger.......to this day that really traumatizes me koz it could've been much worse....)I dodged a bullet for real....may God keep protecting us women....Lord knows what we go through in the hands of men....

  • @BABYDOLL87LOVELY
    @BABYDOLL87LOVELY 2 месяца назад +156

    I HAD A SITUATION LIKE THIS IN MY EARLY 20'S. MARRIED MALES ACT MORE SINGLE THAN SINGLE MEN. THEY ARE TRIFLING!

    • @sg5720
      @sg5720 Месяц назад +4

      I’m a married woman and you ain’t lie. It is always married men trying to holla at me, and they never believe I am married when I tell them. 😞.

  • @AramintaRossPistol
    @AramintaRossPistol 2 месяца назад +123

    We need a US Army version of "I didn't know my man was married" with their pictures included. Guaranteed, thousands of children in Germany and Korea of all age groups will find their fathers.

    • @Hopdog230
      @Hopdog230 2 месяца назад +2

      The amount of ppl I have met in Europe who had American grandfathers is astounding. And I mean not only in Germany or UK. Y’all’s grandpappies were dropping babies all over Europe.
      They are all 🗑️.

    • @amysworld5521
      @amysworld5521 2 месяца назад +1

      Why r women having children with men without knowing if they can truly trust them

    • @prettyxbonez96
      @prettyxbonez96 2 месяца назад +17

      Oh that's the real tea...I'd be here for that 😊

    • @txspacemom765
      @txspacemom765 2 месяца назад +7

      Mine was Navy. UGH

    • @yvelineyuok2235
      @yvelineyuok2235 2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂

  • @tamekadavis6641
    @tamekadavis6641 2 месяца назад +130

    Start doing back ground checks.

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  2 месяца назад +14

      FR though 💯

    • @bestlife9143
      @bestlife9143 2 месяца назад +22

      Background checks, social media checks, property record checks. The social media, property records & court records are completely FREE! If he says he “doesn’t have social media” he’s lying. Next!

    • @aishageorge3056
      @aishageorge3056 2 месяца назад +18

      He didnt even tell me his real name 😕. How could I have a done a background check? 😅

    • @dieschonen
      @dieschonen 2 месяца назад +9

      @@aishageorge3056 That's your answer right there! You can't find anything on a name OR someone else pops up! Do your due diligence or live to regret it. No excuses!

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 2 месяца назад +14

      They want to play delusional very few men are truly single women forget to use common sense

  • @msessenceofreality
    @msessenceofreality 2 месяца назад +48

    This reminds me of when I started talking to a guy swiped on tinder 2 years ago and when I got a random call from a random number. I felt like I needed to answer it. It turns out that it was his girlfriend who also was the mother of kids. She was livid.. I'm a girl's girl at the end of the day so I was at full support of her. I've set her everything she needed to seen. And she went from having him flaunted all over her Facebook to posting about her spiritual journey. Mind you some of these guys pretend like they are good Christian men.

    • @idrawattention900
      @idrawattention900 13 дней назад

      @@msessenceofreality OMGG that last part!! Those are the worse one’s! & I’m glad you handled that situation the way you typed it. A lot of women would’ve still talked to dude & clowned the girl & would’ve competed to keep the guy!🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @kelseyhahn4737
    @kelseyhahn4737 2 месяца назад +68

    I wanted to hear the 2nd one 😩

    • @cynthiakila1161
      @cynthiakila1161 2 месяца назад +5

      Girl wys , I got too invested like what’s up with my internet 😅

    • @LifeisaBeautifulting
      @LifeisaBeautifulting Месяц назад +2

      Right!

    • @bharris4517
      @bharris4517 7 дней назад +1

      You didn’t miss anything. Basically, his wife came home, the girl told the wife she’s 17 and ran out. The wife texted the girl from husbands phone and threatening her and the girl repeated her age and said she’ll call CPS on them because they had a daughter and the husband was 30 instead of 19 like he told her.

    • @kelseyhahn4737
      @kelseyhahn4737 7 дней назад

      @@bharris4517 dang 17 😳

  • @roxannemorrow6859
    @roxannemorrow6859 2 месяца назад +44

    Always trust your gut. Loving your channel!

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  2 месяца назад +1

      I'm glad you're enjoying it....I'm working harder to make it even better for you guys..... I'll get back to doing videos and not voiceovers sooner than you expect ❤️

    • @andylee4299
      @andylee4299 2 месяца назад +2

      Yes, please do. I started poking around after things weren't adding up. He had the audacity to tell me that he was afraid to tell me. Lol. Blocked 2 years ago. To this day, periodically tries to reach out because I can see it although he is blocked. I guess he can't believe that he is FOREVER blocked.

    • @Jamiefit11
      @Jamiefit11 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@andylee4299😅 forever block lol

  • @younaatz
    @younaatz 2 месяца назад +33

    If I have to broadcast/advertise my marriage on social media to protect it...I DON'T WANT THAT MAN.

    • @sg5720
      @sg5720 Месяц назад +1

      PREACH!!!!

  • @thepragmatist
    @thepragmatist 2 месяца назад +46

    This is so unfortunate. I feel for all the women here but especially that woman who was involved with the guy for two years. She really got played. People who do this have no conscience.

  • @TeriMYaki
    @TeriMYaki 2 месяца назад +81

    It seems like Married men date more than single men. My friend found out the guy she was pregnant by was married. She decided to not have the baby because he switched up but after is when she found out he was married with a new baby already. smh Very messy men.

    • @PrettyDope
      @PrettyDope 2 месяца назад +23

      Lucky her, he withheld that info until I was 7 mos pregnant on purpose. He abandoned his child bc he thought trapping me would work but I told him I can’t trust him and we would never ever be together. Needless to say I’ll never have another child ever ever ever bc I just cannot trust men and there’s nothing that guarantees you won’t be a single mother no matter how well you vet.

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn 2 месяца назад +23

      They get married or even move in with a long term girlfriend , for the purposes of having someone at home. That’s the one who has pledged her loyalty to him the most- so he rewards her with the position of “main woman”. LOL

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 2 месяца назад +2

      She dodged a big bullet!

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 2 месяца назад +7

      @@AmberColeman-gq1wnChile! You need to stop telling so much TRUTH!!!

    • @sg5720
      @sg5720 Месяц назад

      They do. I’m a married woman and it is always married men hollering at me. They don’t even believe me when I say I am married. It is so disgusting. 😔

  • @Zen-cx5tc
    @Zen-cx5tc 2 месяца назад +52

    I was with a guy who had a pregnant girlfriend. Mr was upset when I found out. 😂😂😂

    • @Pandcakes936
      @Pandcakes936 2 месяца назад +24

      The audacity to be upset.

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 2 месяца назад +12

      Cause what you doing in his bizness 😂😂😂

    • @HolisticAngel444
      @HolisticAngel444 2 месяца назад +11

      Same! Thats why I became celibate last Summer.

    • @daughterofsekhmet81
      @daughterofsekhmet81 2 месяца назад +8

      This happened to me too. I was dating this guy for 3 weeks, his GF found me on facebook and introduced herself and asked if he told me his usual story for why I couldn't come to his house. She was 6 months pregnant and had caught him cheating numerous times, giving every girl the same story about a schizophrenic roommate who freaks out if he brings anyone over. Sure enough, down to the letter exactly what he told me lol. He was upset when I found out too, begged me not to dump him, blamed her for "ruining our relationship" and thought "I promise I won't have anything to do with the baby!" would convince me to stay. I kept in touch with the GF and she did thankfully kick him out after that.

    • @Pandcakes936
      @Pandcakes936 2 месяца назад +6

      @@daughterofsekhmet81 He promised to be a deadbeat?! Like that would make anything better--omg. Hoping the ex and baby are doing well 💌

  • @susan-7865
    @susan-7865 2 месяца назад +27

    Being with a married man IS A DEAD END! You are with him you're a side chick and you have a relationship with him, he'll cheat on you! Either way, it's going to end badly!

    • @prettyxbonez96
      @prettyxbonez96 2 месяца назад +7

      Lmao tell that to the wife

    • @bw-dn1wp
      @bw-dn1wp 6 дней назад

      Yep! They never leave the wife!

  • @terrylu1843
    @terrylu1843 2 месяца назад +43

    I’m still confused on why women think marriage means anything to a man??? Obviously we are the only ones who got the memo on what marriage means…and ur still marrying them tho 😂

    • @harrietagosa
      @harrietagosa 2 месяца назад +3

      😂😂💔

    • @Ilikefrogs..
      @Ilikefrogs.. 2 месяца назад +9

      Because we’re still deprogramming ourselves.

    • @terrylu1843
      @terrylu1843 2 месяца назад +4

      @@Ilikefrogs.. I think it’s an open shut case..

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 2 месяца назад +8

      @@terrylu1843You seem to operate from a logical place instead of emotion like me.

    • @terrylu1843
      @terrylu1843 2 месяца назад +7

      @@staceywilliams1863 yes I’m definitely more logical.

  • @kimlisette4442
    @kimlisette4442 2 месяца назад +35

    All of this sounds like so much work all for the sake of being married.. I am in my 50s and it just doesn’t sound like it’s worth a headache. I also heard a video of a divorce attorney that says everyone that is planning on getting married to talk to a divorce attorney first. You need to find out what the laws are in your city and state and that way when you need to break that contract, you are already aware of what the penalties will be. Anyone seeking marriage I hope that you find a partner that you can trust. I am personally not that willing to put that amount of trust in any human being.

    • @kekecampbell812
      @kekecampbell812 Месяц назад

      🎯

    • @idrawattention900
      @idrawattention900 13 дней назад

      @@kimlisette4442 What if someone get’s married w a pre-nup & in that prenuptial agreement the woman demands spousal support/alimony due to sharing kids w their partner?

  • @user-jw1bl4hq9j
    @user-jw1bl4hq9j 2 месяца назад +16

    This should be THE RULE TO KNOW ALL ABOUT MEN …..PAY FOR A BACKROAD CHECK BEFORE YOU GET INVOLVED EMOTIONALLY .

    • @idrawattention900
      @idrawattention900 13 дней назад

      @@user-jw1bl4hq9j Where & how? I will be doing this! I don’t play abt myself or my daughter!

  • @natureovermind7649
    @natureovermind7649 2 месяца назад +11

    There should be some type of law behind this. Married men stepping out of their marriage. That will drive some women to the point that they will hurt either him or the wife. So that man is putting family in danger.

  • @stephaniecarter8495
    @stephaniecarter8495 2 месяца назад +9

    These woman be painting on completely different faces😂😂😂😂😂

  • @brendamoon2660
    @brendamoon2660 2 месяца назад +12

    Way back in highschool when i was 15 i started dating a 17 year old who was way out of my league. I was madly in love with him and couldnt believe how lucky I was. A friend told me there was a rumour he had gotten married to another teenaged girl. He admitted it but told me he "had" to marry her
    He didnt want to. He told me we could continue dating. I did the right thing and never saw him again but it took years to get over him.

  • @Staceystaceystaceystacey
    @Staceystaceystaceystacey 2 месяца назад +54

    Try dating a guy, suspect hes married, then he shows you divorce papers only for 10 months later his wife call you 🫣🫣
    It turnt out that the divorce papers were from marriage number one. He was on the second.
    I didnt sleep with him thank the lord but still the emotional side
    Always trust your gut ladies

    • @p.gizzle90
      @p.gizzle90 2 месяца назад +11

      😧That’s crazy.

    • @thepragmatist
      @thepragmatist 2 месяца назад +6

      Oh. Wow. I'm so sorry. Glad you got out.

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie 2 месяца назад +7

      That's a new level of psycho! I have asked to see the Divorce Decree before

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 2 месяца назад +6

      Just trifling! The extent they go to deceive women is pathetic!

    • @msessenceofreality
      @msessenceofreality 2 месяца назад

      Tell me why that story sounds almost like the hood. The f did I marry series?

  • @Cantetinza17
    @Cantetinza17 2 месяца назад +29

    When I was in the military I was dating this guy who went on leave and got married and didn't tell me. I didn't find out until some Ship Brother's of mine happen to be talking about how mean he was to his wife. I had to have them repeat it and I calmly said, "Oh I didn't know he was married. No one knew that we were dating, so I wasn't going to blow up, but when I saw him I told him it we were done. fast forward 4 months, the man tried to R8p me AND he let his racism fly high like a flag on the fourth of July. He also r8pd 5 of my friends and he told me that it was my fault. If I just knew my place and continued to sleep with him he wouldn't have had to go after my friends. That didn't impact me the way he thought it would. I got his Azz Court Martialed and he received a Dishonorable discharge AND they made him call his wife. The next military guy I dated, I made sure to go to personnel and look at his page 2 in his file.

    • @msessenceofreality
      @msessenceofreality 2 месяца назад +14

      This is absolutely terrible
      I hope your friends are ok.
      The x.
      And that you never experience shi% like that again

    • @Cantetinza17
      @Cantetinza17 2 месяца назад +17

      @msessenceofreality Yeah, I was able to round all of them up and court martial him. They all are in great relationships and marriages.

  • @cvzdez
    @cvzdez 2 месяца назад +8

    2024 everyone gets checked background checked

  • @BarbaraFlowers-wq1ru
    @BarbaraFlowers-wq1ru 2 месяца назад +15

    They never break up they just make their rounds until you find out who they really are

  • @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard
    @Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard 2 месяца назад +58

    In the United States, in certain states they have what is called abandonment of affection. That means if you sleep with a married man, the wife can sue you for all of your money.

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  2 месяца назад +15

      What the hell🥴🥴that woman can sue you for your money??? Wait what??? I didn't know about that

    • @anastasiawortham8833
      @anastasiawortham8833 2 месяца назад +22

      Not just the United States. Abandonment of Affection is also called Alienation of Affection. Any place colonized by the English will have those terms because the concept comes from English Common Law. Originally it was so that a man could sue his wife's lover to save face but not have to divorce her. This was from the time that it would take an act of Parliament to get divorced and women could not represent themselves in court but a male guardian had to sue in her interest/on her behalf.

    • @amilllion1
      @amilllion1 2 месяца назад +45

      She should sue her lying husband

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  2 месяца назад +7

      @@amilllion1 Exactly 💯

    • @Staceystaceystaceystacey
      @Staceystaceystaceystacey 2 месяца назад

      😮😮

  • @BadGirlMimi94
    @BadGirlMimi94 2 месяца назад +24

    One of your stories were cut short and we didnt get to see it

  • @BABYDOLL87LOVELY
    @BABYDOLL87LOVELY 2 месяца назад +22

    SOME OF THESE CLIPS ARE CUT BEFORE STORY EVEN BEGINS 😑

  • @kimberlyjones6476
    @kimberlyjones6476 2 месяца назад +6

    May take you a few days if you want to do this for free but marriage and divorce info is public record here in America. I used to do internet searches for friends of mine on the guys they were dating and I was even able to find records indicating who owned the houses in which they lived and often the wife’s name was right there alongside the man’s name I was looking up. The info is available. You just have to be diligent enough to find it. Cheaters are sloppy too, so they will eventually get caught or slip up.
    Trust even a man missing a leg will cheat. I’m not trying to be funny. I know this for fact, unfortunately. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @mscece1900
    @mscece1900 2 месяца назад +10

    I found out the worst way a guy I was dating was married. This was yrs ago, we was dating for like 5 mths, had seggs.. I started noticing things like not hearing from him when he got home from work. The final red flag was when we had laid together one day and he took a shower right after and claimed he was going back to work at 6:00 in the evening and did construction. That was a dead giveaway, I cut off communication, he blew me up for 2 weeks. He popped up on me twice looking thru my windows. I got a call later on the second day he popped up from his WIFE!

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn 2 месяца назад +1

      And the wife is an idiot- who definitely knew who she married. I hate when women reach out to other women regarding a man. It’s so stupid and it won’t stop anything that man is doing,
      These dudes are entitled too - he knew he had a wife but still decided to stalk you after you went ghost..? That’s pitiful .

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 2 месяца назад +4

      What she say???

    • @msessenceofreality
      @msessenceofreality 2 месяца назад

      ​​Right, like how she not go and finish the story?

    • @mscece1900
      @mscece1900 2 месяца назад

      @@staceywilliams1863 Nothing nice I'll put it like that lol! He tried lying until I sent her explicit msgs between us. After it was said and done, she tried getting me for herself 😳

    • @mscece1900
      @mscece1900 2 месяца назад

      @@staceywilliams1863 Let's just say she wasn't nice about it lol

  • @staceywilliams1863
    @staceywilliams1863 2 месяца назад +12

    Husbandt 😂 One thing a man gone do is keep some shit going!

  • @msessenceofreality
    @msessenceofreality 2 месяца назад +8

    The video at the 2 minute mark did not give a story. And it was chopped up clips. I don't know if you had an issue with editing, but it did not actually play properly.

  • @VNX-dc7wk
    @VNX-dc7wk 2 месяца назад +25

    The last man I dated was married with two baby mothers and lied and said he’s divorced. Then ignored me for 3 weeks, texted me and said his phone was off and his ex didn’t pay her side of the phone bill so I moved on and he called me a liar but I found out about his whole life and 4 kids and called him out he said f* you I knew you were a liar 😂

    • @amysworld5521
      @amysworld5521 2 месяца назад +7

      We should paste their picture everywhere telling them this married men is lying

    • @sourcandydoll
      @sourcandydoll 2 месяца назад +7

      Yeah he sounds very unstable. Get you a stick.

    • @VNX-dc7wk
      @VNX-dc7wk 2 месяца назад +3

      @@sourcandydoll 🙌🏾😂 ain’t that the truth and the sad part is I’m 35 and I can’t believe I trusted him. These kind of men are the worst.

    • @cynthiakila1161
      @cynthiakila1161 2 месяца назад +2

      Playing poker face is not their strong suit “ so they state the obvious . I swear they some bots lol

  • @MadMax-cg6gh
    @MadMax-cg6gh 2 месяца назад +23

    The ladies who're still willing to date after this know how it should start and go on : federal investigation 😂
    Sad reality but true sadly. And that's one of the main reasons why men want to keep us out of social medias 😏

  • @TweSunshine
    @TweSunshine 2 месяца назад +11

    This type of behaviour is normalised where I'm from. I know countless married men who have children with side chicks and sometimes the wife just accepts it.

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  2 месяца назад +6

      Could never be me😂😂

  • @peachesjeter5480
    @peachesjeter5480 2 месяца назад +2

    Ladies, if you have to make everything public in your relationship or marriage, that means you do not trust that man do not marry him 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Spokentruths725
    @Spokentruths725 2 месяца назад +5

    My friend just found this out too but we all knew something was off with him.

  • @sourcandydoll
    @sourcandydoll 2 месяца назад +4

    My mother is 54 and she is knowingly engaged to a married man. This will be her third marriage.

    • @sourcandydoll
      @sourcandydoll 2 месяца назад +6

      And the last two men I dated two years ago were BOTH married. Just messy, I’d rather be single.

  • @AyesheIsAlwaysLovely
    @AyesheIsAlwaysLovely 9 дней назад +2

    21:01
    If the lady is his EX-wife, there will be a dissolution of marriage/divorce decree. U can literally read through the divorce transcripts. They’re very detailed too, down to who paid the fees. The only thing that will be redacted are child custody and holiday schedules.

  • @Karina_Engr
    @Karina_Engr 2 месяца назад +6

    I dated this guy who told me the same, 5:40. He’s married. What’s wrong with these people?

  • @moniquen.johnson1023
    @moniquen.johnson1023 2 месяца назад +4

    Videos are messed up sis

  • @Whistlesonthewind
    @Whistlesonthewind 2 месяца назад +4

    Terrible editing. But, at least people are able to find the videos.

  • @tigerbarksdale6899
    @tigerbarksdale6899 2 месяца назад +2

    How can you tell if you stay in USA, but other woman back home over sea. How can you get information.

  • @dearjuan
    @dearjuan Месяц назад +1

    Girl at 04:00 acts like she was just Randomly driving by his house, NO SHE WAS STALKING HIM lol

  • @cierarashell9645
    @cierarashell9645 2 месяца назад +1

    This happened to me

  • @user-vz7pf6tm1q
    @user-vz7pf6tm1q 2 месяца назад +1

    I was see a man a couple of street away from me and i didn't know that i was married, men

  • @min_tea_
    @min_tea_ Месяц назад

    ❤❤

  • @minahtheweirdo
    @minahtheweirdo 2 месяца назад +3

    😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

  • @reet7060
    @reet7060 2 месяца назад

    Damn ole boy’s mama was in on it

  • @vogtrina
    @vogtrina 2 месяца назад +1

    Girl you need a different shade and to blend in neck giving 2000s vibes

  • @peachesjeter5480
    @peachesjeter5480 2 месяца назад

    Thank God I am not the Marion type. I even had multiple married men trying to hit on me DAM SHAME

  • @brendadickson9583
    @brendadickson9583 2 месяца назад

    Dated a married man for days before his wife sent me a email n warn me about her husband, he was a serial cheater, he cheated on her n she even lost a baby, but told me she died from the miscarriage, the wife was kind n warn me, even told me to call n confront him 😂😂I did n he didn't even deny me in front of her even saying he wanted a baby with me😡, the wife n I insulted him n hev didn't care imagine, I dumped that fool n block him.

  • @dearjuan
    @dearjuan Месяц назад

    HOLY shit Makeup does wonders to women, look at 05:00

  • @idrawattention900
    @idrawattention900 2 месяца назад +14

    Every time a girl’s man has pursued me or has done something as small as add me on social media or mssg me on social media, I told her. I will always do this bc if it were me, I’d want 2 know if someone was being sneaky behind me. Idc.