@@reflections4068 well if you don't care then why are you watching the video, why are you looking through the comments and why would you bother replying if you don't care. Obviously you are stupid if you think nobody cares and why are you speaking for others in the first place. Oh yes there 116 likes on the comment and surely all those 116 people doesn't care
You’re probably about to get a buncha nasty thoughts verbalized at you in a bit because you’re everywhere and people are salty at you for it for some godforsaken reason but whatevs I guess
Thats littereally me too, when i do try to be social people are like “nah fam thats not you” and when i quiet people are like “speak dude” thats why my friends never invites me (fake friends)
@@DeadPool-gg3pe yes that's what happened to me in elementary school I would try and talk because they always say I don't say anything but when I did try, they would talk over me and completely ignore me when I talked and after they would say why didn't you talk with us so but the good thing is that I'm not like that anymore though I'm still a little shy
@@tahasavur7774 will I found friends that except me for who I am and that made me feel important to them and feel free to express myself without worrying about what they would say or think about me and I didn't need to pretend to be a other person that I'm not to fit in but even so I still sometimes struggle with being shy I'm much better now I'm not that shy any more will I don't know if you are going through the same thing or something similar but if you are I just hope that you can overcome this and can be free to express yourself without worrying about what others think and you know sometimes our biggest enemies are ourselves we push ourselves back from doing what we want to do
Just say, "Yes I have the ability to speak because I am a human being, just like you. And not to sound rude but I would appreciate it if you would stop making obnoxious comments about me."
I relate so much ;( Music teacher: ok so I want you to sing this song tomorrow in the assembly. Ok? Me: oka- Class teacher: whAT? She can't sing because she doesn't even know how to talk. Class: *laughs* Me: heh.. :( The thing is, I was a little kid back then and that kind of stick on me. What do teachers think they are doing? Making jokes? A small joke can affect somebody's whole life- My point is, Its easy to say one shouldn't care abt wot others think..but it's very hard to actually do that.. I was affected by this situation and then all those years afterwards, I was a shy, introverted, quiet person.. Please. If this is happening to anyone else, PLEASE just..take a break from all these overwhelming thoughts..and don't be afraid to sometimes let lose..let's try to not care wot others think 🌼🌼
My god yes it happens way too frequently.. I've learned to either deal with it or really try to capture the other person's attention by verbally underlining that they're ignoring you
Finally someone understands it. When someone talks to me, I just smile and my brain starts thinking about 1 billion different things to say, but then nothing happens, and I'm still smiling.
@@fleas. awh. it's gonna get better. i'm also kinda socially anxious sometimes so i understand. you just have to step out of your comfort zone once and maybe you'll get hurt but at best you'll find actual friends who adore you and understand you. that's what helped me with my anxiety, it was tough but also so worth it
Ayinco triviño I'm no good at starting conversation especially to someone I hardly ever know. If someone starts talking to me then I'll be able to keep the conversation going
they dont know that, i know that its difficult to start a conversation with someone you dont know but its better to actually try something than doing nothing, inst like if they care if you say something awkward because they dont know you, and for the same reason you shouldnt be afraid.Sorry for my bad english i tried my best to explain myself because i used to feel like you for almost all my life and i want to help
why are you describing my life? edit: damn I haven't seen this comment in a while and I ask myself why I commented this bc I felt really sad just one year ago lmao and now things really changed. I hope everyone can experience such change like this 😔💖💖
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Ikr Literally everyone except my one non-toxic friend thinks I’m weird for being alone. They tend to patronise me and it hurts how they think they can treat me like I’m five years old.
I know right, when my friends talk about something I don't know/something I have nothing to do with they ask me why I'm so quiet, but like what the f*ck do you want me to say dude!? Maybe if you'd be more respectful and talk about something I understand I would talk back...
@@Someone-tf1tk I remember back in 1st grade I transferred to a new school after my old one closed and I had to sit next to this one girl. Anyway I was super shy because I did not know anybody in this school so I awkwardly said "Hi, I'm _________ what's your name?" and the girl replied with her name. Then I blurted out something super dumb and weird I said to her "So.....wanna talk about....um....things we don't like....??" and she gave me such a weird look and I was like so embarrassed and she didn't talk to me for the rest of the day. I managed to make friends with this one really sweet quiet girl on my first day and we got along pretty well but the other girl didn't talk to me and thought I was super weird after what I said to her and because I was mostly quiet she acted like it made me dumb. She looked over to my desk where I was doing math work and said "do you need me to help you with the math work? Yes or no?You don't look like you can handle it." After that I was so mad at her and I mustered up the courage to say "Do I look like I need help?" and showed her my work, which was neatly written and I had finished all of the problems while everyone else was halfway done. After that she was like "whattt your finished with it all can you help me pleaseee" and I replied with "You said I wasnt capable of doing a math sheet and now you want my help? Go find someone else to help you" After that she was so shocked and didnt think I would stand up for myself. Later on in the year I was grouped to work with her and some other people and whenever I gave the answer to something she would say "we all know you know the answer. You always get the best grades your always the smartest kid stop rubbing it in" and I'm sitting there looking at everyone else in the group and they were just as confused and I was. We ended up kicking her out of our group because she was being mean to me and others out of pure jealousy. Even though this girl was such a pain, she helped me to be able to fight back and stand up for myself. Its been quite some time since that happened but I get how you feel. Its so annoying when people treat you like your 2 just because you dont talk a lot.
@ᴄᴏsᴍɪᴄ ᴀᴇʀɪ Thanks a lot! It wasn't anything big but I think the main thing that helped build up that courage inside of me was the thought that if I didn't say something back, they would get away with it and keep saying those things to me and other people. I didn't want to give them that pleasure of feeling powerful and that nobody could stop them. Im sorry that you had to deal with toxic friends in the past and weren't able to stand up to them. If you are ever in a situation where you are scared to stand up for yourself, remember that you can talk to others about it instead of facing it alone. A lot of people care about you and im sure they would be fine with helping you solve any problems or reporting bullies/ toxic people (mostly for if you are in school or of the person is at your workplace. if its like in public i dont think you can really report them but you can at least talk to others about it so you can feel a little better). The only reason people may target you is because of their own imperfections, and they could even be jealous of you and are just being salty. Confidence can't completely develop overnight, but it does build up over time. For me i got even more confidence after that incident by seeking advice from my parents and pushing myself to be a little bold and to get out of my quiet shell. I would start with little things like participating a lot in class or maybe volunteering to present something and even though it made me uncomfortable at first, the more i kept doing it the more i built up that confidence. Then i would be able to do things like stand up for myself and others. I would also be able to talk more to other classmates without being so awkward. I can't exactly say that what i did will 100% work for you, but if you want to give it a try you most certainly can! I hope you found some of this useful for yourself or anyone else who is in a similiar situation!
I talk to myself too but in home i think it started when pandemic (yea im so alone:') i just like. "what should i do now.." "i have no idea" "maybe just play game" "yea maybe" "hah who am i talking with lol" "idk.. Its me" "yea.. I was you.." "yea.. Haha"lol im laughing after that But i think i talk like that with my language so yea its not really like that i have say bad word? (not really bad language?) and me in my language so yea haha but yea it just funny Oyea if i wanna talk with mysf sometimes my eyes always go to up haha like i talk with my brain actually or heart? Idk lmao
@@sta.r47 oh I just realized a day ago if I just lonely lmao ya like i didnt have much interaction because pandemic? I didnt talk with my friend actually so ya, sad 🤣 But ya i didnt really care my manners before is just too empty(when i comment my first comment) its sucks i think now im better but still always talk to myself bcz idk why in positive way too
the moment he said my loop it just instantly described most of my life. also the answer to stopping this is realising that is because we are with the wrong people but can't find or are too stupid to find/ hang out with the right people. (and then doing smth about that, wich I didn't so hopefully you will)
*stop scrolling* Know that whatever you are going through, it’s temporary. You are an individual expression of yourself. Others can’t define you. Stop trying to impress your crush or others. You are life itself. You are power. Any problem in your life comes to the same believe that your fear or it happening will over through you and overturn you. You are scared. I am scared. The world is a crazy place, filled with crazy twists and turns, but promise me, no matter what your doing or what your going through, that you will stay strong. You are power. You control yourself and your emotions. Life is temporary and so are they. Stay strong and when you get hit with a wave, you ride it. When you fall over, you get back up and you strive. I believe in you, and so should you. I am talking to you, yes you, the individual on the other side of the screen. I don’t know you personally but you are my family, have faith in yourself. Nothing will last. Make the most of life. After you read this take a moment to yourself and find your peace. You are strong. You are smart, beautiful, courageous, energetic. You are enough because you are power.
This is me. I always heard negative comments about my shyness. One day (maybe I was 14 then) I was eating with a group of people. The guy who was sitting in front of me talked to me and even challenged me to do arm wrestling with him. I refused to do it, because I wouldn't have a chance. And I also didn't wanted that other people could see how weak I am. I ate a burger and then the guy said: "You are really polite." Because I was making sure, that I wipe my mouth with the serviette and hold the burger carefully, so I don't make myself dirty. I did this, because it's awkward for me, to have food leftovers in my face or hands. It embarrassed me a bit, that he noticed my "polite" behavior. Then the guy said: *"Your shyness is cute."* Wait what? Cute? *C U T E ?* I never thought that there are people who think so about shyness. I didn't know this before. Nobody told me this before. I always heard negative comments about my shyness. (I share this, because maybe someone need to know that too.) Now to my other topic: I want to improve myself. At one point I thought: *"I don't want that my only memorys are how my room looked like. I am in the bloom of my life. I don't want to waste it. I want to experience many things. I want adventures."* Some people may think: "Don't change yourself for the society." I want to change, because sometimes I WANT to say or do something, but I don't because I'm afraid. I think to much about what other people would think. THIS is not good. It holds me back. As a teen I read a little post with something like: "No matter how you look or what you do. People will always talk. So don't mind this." and *"Be yourself so you will find the right friends, you can connect with."* Last year there was a guy I was interested in. I never talked to my crushes in the past or did a "step". But I wanted to change. So I did a step. A few times I could manage to walk to him and say something. But sometimes I didn't know what to say or I my heart was beating so hard and my mind gone blank, that I didn't talked to him. That's okay. I never did something like this before. I just need to train and gain experience. *But* I also thought, that if other people see me walking to this guy and talking to him, then they _knew it_ and would talk. For me, romance was always something embarrassing and very private. "Uuuuh, so this is the type of guy you like?" "Did you ever kissed someone?" Aaah. I hated those comments. But then I thought: "What if he is the right person? You will never know if you don't try to talk to him. *STOP thinking about the things other people COULD think/talk/do.* It doesn't matter. If this guy is the right person ― the one person you can be comfortable with, happy and all other good things, then don't waste your chance. *Don't waste a chance for a possible best thing in your life.* " _At some point I think, that it is unnessecary to share this all. But if this could help only one person, then it was worth sharing my thoughts._
You know that one person who says “omg she talks!” It gets on my nerves which is what probably discouraged me from socializing with people, it’s not my fault I just don’t like being the center of attention
I got pretty much bullied by a boy in my class. He swears constantly because he hates sitting next to me in history so much. He keeps calling me a neek. He hates me so much and it hurts. Literally, my personality from before I moved to secondary is gone.
I always wonder why I don’t talk to people more until I start talking to people and remember listening to , and making an effort to think about the stuff that comes out of people’s mouth to make conversation is *_a g g r a v a t i n g_*
This is to the people who have asked someone or wondered why someone in their class or job is so quiet. These kind of people have a huge fear of getting emotionally hurt. It's hard for them to keep their mind off other peoples thoughts and opinions abt them. This is what makes them stressed and overwhelmed, and sometimes it could cause bad depression. This is a metal health condition/disorder called social anxiety. Social anxiety is a lot more different from shyness. Shyness is more of a Personality trait, and Social anxiety is a Mental heath condition/disorder. If u ever see anyone like this, don't ask why their quiet when u first talk to them. If u want to talk to them, at least try and help them. Talk to them, and rlly try to understand why they behave this way. Be there for them, be their friend. Give them some company. If u keep doing this, they will break out of their shell and feel more comfortable to be themselves around u. Be that friend. That one REAL friend. But I need more than one person to do this. Anyone who took the time to read this, God bless u. Make sure to do this if u EVER see anyone like this. I am saying this bc I suffer from Social anxiety, and I know how it feels. ily, have a blessed day:). and yes, I liked my own comment.
i think i have social anxiety, but my parents would never believe me because i used to be so social. now i’m terrified and i hate doing things. sometimes it’s okay though because if i’m around people i trust it goes away- otherwise it’s always there
"When I I'm out with people, i wish I was home and alone. When I am home and alone, i wish I was out with people. It's a horrible loop" I'm calling fbi, you are committing privacity invasion my sir.
@@ealpacaf.7463 I have some bad experiences while trying to socialize, i take them in a way I don't like, some sort of trauma, I guess(?) there goes one of them: in the center of my city, there are a little park-place some people go to to talk, encounter, date, etc. It's not normal to this place to be full of people btw, it normally have some few peoples, teens, to be more accurate (I have 16 years, for context). Some day, I send a message to a old friend of an school we used to go together, he was my classmate some years ago, well, I texted him just saying hi, and talking basic reencounter shit. All the conversation ends with him calling me to go to a walk on the already said "Park-place". I didn't know how to refuse, and I also was feeling so damn lonely those times I was actually liking the idea of going out home to meet people. so, the day comes, he text me about a location where he and his friends would reunite with me so we could go to the park, i went there and we walked all the way until the park. my anxiety went up a lot at the point where I saw that the park that normally had few people, now had A LOT OF PEOPLE, JUST ON THE FUCKING DAY I DECIDED TO GO THERE. then the basic symptoms of anxiety began, cold sweating, I started shaking, my head had a thousand thoughts about how the people there would judge me and those anxiety stuff. the guys I was with were much more sociable than me, they knew a lot of the people who were there, but I got stuck, ALL the time I was there. I couldn't talk to anyone, look into anyone's eyes, and all I thought about was how everyone there were finding me weird. There came a point where I couldn't stand being there anymore, so I made up an excuse that I wasn't feeling very well, and I asked my friend to call a taxi, and I came home, where I finally feel peace. And to this day this friend of mine and me don't talked anymore. the point of me telling you this is to show how the line of the video is relatable. (I hope you understand, I dont live in USA, or any other country who has English as his primary language, so sorry about that ^^)
@@MalvadaoDasAmericas oh no I understand what your saying😅 I don't live in the US either so yeah. True tho it really is very hard to be around or interact with lots of people when you have social anxiety.
"Why are you so quiet?" "Are you okay?" "Why aren't you talking?" I get asked these questions and my answers are "Because I'm just tired", "Yes I'm fine", "I'm just bored that's all" when I'm actually dying to say "Because you don't really let me talk while interrupting me", "No I'm not fine. Please ask me why", "I'm not talking because I don't feel like talking to anyone right now because you make me feel like I'm boring" Thank you for listening and please understand that I'm telling the reality of me and others who go through the same thing's lives.
Your emotional intelligence is waaaaaay higher than most people's. Haha. But thank you for being so kind as to consider how to make others feel comfortable. It's really all anybody needs.
Its really so hard ;( I am too shy I don't know how to overcome that feeling my friends always ask me why I shrug -_- I am so cringy and weird I think they hate me now
girl!!!! Your not too shy and your perfect the way you are. Also dont feel bad about yourself for "friends" other people that cant accept you for who you are, be yourself because your amazing no matter how shy you are! ❤
Lmao when i hitted puberty, i became so shy to the point that i'm afraid of talking to my own cousins that i've known for years. So if you think introverts having conversations with others is normal, they actually put their best efforts upon talking.
This comment section makes me feel like I'm not alone, like I'm not the weird one. Now I have the proof that there are tons of people who are really shy or who have the same anxiety that I have. For once I finally feel understood. So thank you all for existing lol to whoever is reading I hope you're having an amazing day cuz you deserve happiness like anyone else does 💕
This is totally me!!! 😂 Edit: How the f*** did I get that many likes for an average comment like THIS??? Was it the Just keep-liking-liking-liking-RUclips-rule? 😂😂😂
I hate this tho... Bcs of that sentences i want to run away from home, i don't want to attend family gathering. It makes me feel so insecure... I want to say this to my family if they tell me that "yeah, it because she is beautiful and i'm ugly, people like her and they hate me and you all too... You all hate me TT" u know...and that is one of the reason why i keep silent too, i don't want to make a bad situation, but if i can't handle it and i say that maybe i would say "that is the first and the last i talk much to you guys"
"You know, you are really quite. Why don't you try talking with people once?" "You know, you are really talkative. Why don't you try shutting up for once?"
Funny how both my parents claim they used to have the same scale of social embarrassment as me act as if they don’t even know what it’s like. Literally, you KNOW I can’t go up to people just like that
Honestly that sorta hurts... It’s also not my fault I like talking So everyone should just stick to their own things instead of getting mad at others. That’s sorta why I don’t like extrovert and introvert memes they’re sorta disrespectful
My younger sister is an introvert meanwhile I'm an extrovert trynna enjoy the life to the fullest. I can't help expressing my thoughts and feelings. But my sis is like "Why do you have to always talk/protest?" As I'm living 24/7 with her I know even though she doesn't wanna express, how beautiful and meaningful her thoughts are. She always says that she wanna go out and have some fun but with no one we know around. And I'm like "Yeah! let's go.." When we're at family functions or something she doesn't even speak so I never leave her alone thinking she'll feel akward. But surprisingly she's super talkative with me. And I had to put a lot of effort to make her comfortable with me. No matter how busy I am, I always listen what she wants to say. Always supporting what she wants to do. I'm always an LP soldier yet became a directioner too cause she loves 1D. I literally try to put everything on the line to support her. I even quarreled with my relatives and other people several times when they say something bad about her like "Why she doesn't talk? /she has ego problem." "I love to talk so talk with me. Why do you have to judge her! And I'm happy that she rather observes than badmouthing others like you." [ and she's annoyed with me for picking fights like this 😂] Not all of us feels the same. So someone's not talking with ya it's not his/her fault or ego. We don't have to judge them right away. Why don't we think like it's our fault that we can't make them feel comfortable with us. They really talk cool and can entertain a lot if you can make them to. I know it. I've made it. And now I have good connections with many introvert people. My best friend is introvert too. I have a senior as my drawing mentor who's also introvert. But they're coolest ones. It just depends on the way we treat them, we talk with them. So if we really want them to express themselves we should stop saying "Why are you shy?" and say "Hi. You seem cool. I can't tolerate and observe like you!" instead.
for the iphone users who need a shortcut for uhhehrm i don’t know why i am this way. when i’m out with people, i wish i was home and alone. when i’m home and alone, i wish i was out with people. it’s a horrible loop. there’s no explaining my strange ways, and i’m trying to better myself with every chance i get, but you getting frustrated with me won’t help at all. i appreciate you taking me places and making an effort. but please, unless you suffer the same anxiety i do, stop being mad at me for my social difficulties. i will get there when the times right. in the meantime, please try to understand why i’m like this.
And thats why we only sit and watch youtube for hours discovering memes and interesting stuff that we cant share with anybody because we are socially awkward
My life I swear.
nobody cares
Yochi Ayuzawa {Gacha L&C} can’t relate more 😭✋🏼
@@reflections4068 well if you don't care then why are you watching the video, why are you looking through the comments and why would you bother replying if you don't care. Obviously you are stupid if you think nobody cares and why are you speaking for others in the first place. Oh yes there 116 likes on the comment and surely all those 116 people doesn't care
same like literally😓
@@moondewan exactly lol
That last part really hit me:
“Are there snacks at this party”
lol 😂😂😂😂😂
It's real. We're hungry, but wouldn't tell anything.
i think the party is over at this point
Their mind of words can make a grown man cry...
And im a teenage girl 😿
That's some deep stuff
Extrovert: “Why are you so quiet?”
Introvert: “Why can’t you shut up?”
Me, an ambivert: shut up and start talking
FRRR
Louisa Oresanya another ambrivert- YeSsSsSs
Louisa Oresanya mood
yep, shut up
*I stay quiet*
Everybody: why she is so alone?
*try to talk*
Everybody: lol, let's forget about her!
*try to say that it's not funny*
Omg, can you shut up?
same..
exactly
omfg ikfr like if u want me to not shy away and have anxiety then give me freakin equal attention and laugh on my freakin jokes!! ughhhhh
Same bro... even in text messages ;-;
When the video is funny, but hits your deepest insecurities.
StaLKAtoN Xx lol
Your profile pic accurately represents the mood of your comment
Lol true 😂😂
StaLKAtoN Xx
Hah
Got me having a mental breakdown
This is why I'm glad nobody can see other's thoughts
Justin Y. Hello again 😂
You’re probably about to get a buncha nasty thoughts verbalized at you in a bit because you’re everywhere and people are salty at you for it for some godforsaken reason but whatevs I guess
**insert comment about seeing you everywhere or maybe an unnecessary insult**
Justin Y. Srob it daddy justin
Please go away
It really pisses me off when people ask "Why are you so quiet?" or make a big deal about it when I do talk.
Thats littereally me too, when i do try to be social people are like “nah fam thats not you” and when i quiet people are like “speak dude” thats why my friends never invites me (fake friends)
@@DeadPool-gg3pe yes that's what happened to me in elementary school I would try and talk because they always say I don't say anything but when I did try, they would talk over me and completely ignore me when I talked and after they would say why didn't you talk with us so but the good thing is that I'm not like that anymore though I'm still a little shy
Wow 100% same with me
@@ade_a_a5890 how did you beat that shyness ?
@@tahasavur7774 will I found friends that except me for who I am and that made me feel important to them and feel free to express myself without worrying about what they would say or think about me and I didn't need to pretend to be a other person that I'm not to fit in but even so I still sometimes struggle with being shy I'm much better now I'm not that shy any more will I don't know if you are going through the same thing or something similar but if you are I just hope that you can overcome this and can be free to express yourself without worrying about what others think and you know sometimes our biggest enemies are ourselves we push ourselves back from doing what we want to do
Everyone: why are you so shy?
Me: * talks *
Everyone: oMg ShE cAn TaLk
Just say, "Yes I have the ability to speak because I am a human being, just like you. And not to sound rude but I would appreciate it if you would stop making obnoxious comments about me."
I relate so much ;(
Music teacher: ok so I want you to sing this song tomorrow in the assembly. Ok?
Me: oka-
Class teacher: whAT? She can't sing because she doesn't even know how to talk.
Class: *laughs*
Me: heh..
:(
The thing is, I was a little kid back then and that kind of stick on me. What do teachers think they are doing? Making jokes? A small joke can affect somebody's whole life-
My point is,
Its easy to say one shouldn't care abt wot others think..but it's very hard to actually do that..
I was affected by this situation and then all those years afterwards, I was a shy, introverted, quiet person..
Please. If this is happening to anyone else, PLEASE just..take a break from all these overwhelming thoughts..and don't be afraid to sometimes let lose..let's try to not care wot others think 🌼🌼
@@taylorsversion07 yess
people say that i should simply talk more, but they dont understand how hard it is
@@isadoramasierodossantos exactly..try being in our shoes.
I had the same thought about a girl in the preschool and now we are besties XD
Me to a person: Hi
My brain: oh my GOD why do you have to be so awkward?!
Omfg I feel this every time I'm around my brothers girlfriend and other ppl-😳
Omg same I always feel like that I'm actually really awkward I've embarrassed myself so many times
@@Mahamooo17 yesss I've embarrassed myself so many times I can only find literally one memory where I operated like a normal human being ^^;
me too man :C
shrimp Urh fr
A friend: why u don’t talk r u shy?
Me talks:
Friend don’t listen to me.
My god yes it happens way too frequently.. I've learned to either deal with it or really try to capture the other person's attention by verbally underlining that they're ignoring you
Yes! And im just sitting awkwardly in mid sentence ....that is why i carry headphones with me
Same thing goes with my crush...
@@adityarajasekar5138 i feel you
... Yes.. It's true :(
Person: **Says something**
Me: 🙂
My brain: 🙃
same
Legit
Legit xd
Same :)
Sameeeeee
Teacher: Class be quiet, we need to Hear what she (me) says!
*My mind* : Please Dont be quiet
Same
Same ! The teacher is always like "can you stop making noise ? I can't hear what he is saying !" 😭
Finally someone understands it. When someone talks to me, I just smile and my brain starts thinking about 1 billion different things to say, but then nothing happens, and I'm still smiling.
Same :'-[
Same haven't even talk to know body anf 10-30 hrs
Ikr
I hope it changes.
For you all. You really miss a lot of chances!
I appreciate you shy people making an effort. It's literally all it takes, I'm proud of you.
(*´ω｀*)💕💖💝❤️💓💞💘thank u
Thank you ♡
thanks. i'm a real anxious person and i am somewhat afraid of other people. it's good to know that there's someone here who understands that
@@fleas. awh. it's gonna get better. i'm also kinda socially anxious sometimes so i understand. you just have to step out of your comfort zone once and maybe you'll get hurt but at best you'll find actual friends who adore you and understand you. that's what helped me with my anxiety, it was tough but also so worth it
Now I feel special 😭
This is me.
Noonit x2
Ismael Rio x3
Same ;.;
Noonit no it’s not
x5
When people tell me not to be shy, I'm like ಥ‿ಥ I can be louder than everybody here I just need to be cOmFoRTaBLE with U and everyone else.
Same I talk a lot if someone I know rly well is there
You're an ambivert then lol
Fr fr
Exactly but I can't say this to them
Ikr QwQ
Everyone is always like "why are you so quiet?" and in my mind I'm like "because none of y'all are talking to me"
villa girl I have the same Situation
God damn, why is this so me?
nor are you talking to them, thats the point
Ayinco triviño I'm no good at starting conversation especially to someone I hardly ever know. If someone starts talking to me then I'll be able to keep the conversation going
they dont know that, i know that its difficult to start a conversation with someone you dont know but its better to actually try something than doing nothing, inst like if they care if you say something awkward because they dont know you, and for the same reason you shouldnt be afraid.Sorry for my bad english i tried my best to explain myself because i used to feel like you for almost all my life and i want to help
*send this to all my annoying lovely friends*
phat fucking mood
i think "lovely" isn't a right word
just annoying
SendED you ment right? RIGHT!!!!
666 likes
Friends? What's that?
why are you describing my life?
edit: damn I haven't seen this comment in a while and I ask myself why I commented this bc I felt really sad just one year ago lmao and now things really changed. I hope everyone can experience such change like this 😔💖💖
Do u know twosetviolin
@@lingling8047 yas
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Ehm
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"Stop being so quiet"
Sis- nobodys talking to me do you want me to randomly break into song and dance like this is highschool musical?
Ikr
Literally everyone except my one non-toxic friend thinks I’m weird for being alone. They tend to patronise me and it hurts how they think they can treat me like I’m five years old.
I know right, when my friends talk about something I don't know/something I have nothing to do with they ask me why I'm so quiet, but like what the f*ck do you want me to say dude!? Maybe if you'd be more respectful and talk about something I understand I would talk back...
@@Someone-tf1tk I remember back in 1st grade I transferred to a new school after my old one closed and I had to sit next to this one girl. Anyway I was super shy because I did not know anybody in this school so I awkwardly said "Hi, I'm _________ what's your name?" and the girl replied with her name. Then I blurted out something super dumb and weird I said to her "So.....wanna talk about....um....things we don't like....??" and she gave me such a weird look and I was like so embarrassed and she didn't talk to me for the rest of the day. I managed to make friends with this one really sweet quiet girl on my first day and we got along pretty well but the other girl didn't talk to me and thought I was super weird after what I said to her and because I was mostly quiet she acted like it made me dumb. She looked over to my desk where I was doing math work and said "do you need me to help you with the math work? Yes or no?You don't look like you can handle it." After that I was so mad at her and I mustered up the courage to say "Do I look like I need help?" and showed her my work, which was neatly written and I had finished all of the problems while everyone else was halfway done. After that she was like "whattt your finished with it all can you help me pleaseee" and I replied with "You said I wasnt capable of doing a math sheet and now you want my help? Go find someone else to help you" After that she was so shocked and didnt think I would stand up for myself. Later on in the year I was grouped to work with her and some other people and whenever I gave the answer to something she would say "we all know you know the answer. You always get the best grades your always the smartest kid stop rubbing it in" and I'm sitting there looking at everyone else in the group and they were just as confused and I was. We ended up kicking her out of our group because she was being mean to me and others out of pure jealousy. Even though this girl was such a pain, she helped me to be able to fight back and stand up for myself. Its been quite some time since that happened but I get how you feel. Its so annoying when people treat you like your 2 just because you dont talk a lot.
LOL genius
@ᴄᴏsᴍɪᴄ ᴀᴇʀɪ Thanks a lot! It wasn't anything big but I think the main thing that helped build up that courage inside of me was the thought that if I didn't say something back, they would get away with it and keep saying those things to me and other people. I didn't want to give them that pleasure of feeling powerful and that nobody could stop them. Im sorry that you had to deal with toxic friends in the past and weren't able to stand up to them. If you are ever in a situation where you are scared to stand up for yourself, remember that you can talk to others about it instead of facing it alone. A lot of people care about you and im sure they would be fine with helping you solve any problems or reporting bullies/ toxic people (mostly for if you are in school or of the person is at your workplace. if its like in public i dont think you can really report them but you can at least talk to others about it so you can feel a little better). The only reason people may target you is because of their own imperfections, and they could even be jealous of you and are just being salty. Confidence can't completely develop overnight, but it does build up over time. For me i got even more confidence after that incident by seeking advice from my parents and pushing myself to be a little bold and to get out of my quiet shell. I would start with little things like participating a lot in class or maybe volunteering to present something and even though it made me uncomfortable at first, the more i kept doing it the more i built up that confidence. Then i would be able to do things like stand up for myself and others. I would also be able to talk more to other classmates without being so awkward. I can't exactly say that what i did will 100% work for you, but if you want to give it a try you most certainly can! I hope you found some of this useful for yourself or anyone else who is in a similiar situation!
*When you talk to yourself but somebody’s listening*
I always talk to myself and sometimes ppl r listening and their like ummm it gets so awkward
Alex da blueberry I talk to myself too! If I get caught I just say I’m talking to Leo! My imaginary friend! (I am so childish 😅)
I talk to myself too but in home i think it started when pandemic (yea im so alone:') i just like. "what should i do now.." "i have no idea" "maybe just play game" "yea maybe" "hah who am i talking with lol" "idk.. Its me" "yea.. I was you.." "yea.. Haha"lol im laughing after that
But i think i talk like that with my language so yea its not really like that i have say bad word? (not really bad language?) and me in my language so yea haha
but yea it just funny
Oyea if i wanna talk with mysf sometimes my eyes always go to up haha like i talk with my brain actually or heart? Idk lmao
I talk to myself alot. HEH looks like i can survive in the wilderness because you can go insane if there's not much social interaction
@@sta.r47 oh I just realized a day ago if I just lonely lmao ya like i didnt have much interaction because pandemic? I didnt talk with my friend actually so ya, sad 🤣
But ya i didnt really care my manners before is just too empty(when i comment my first comment) its sucks i think now im better but still always talk to myself bcz idk why in positive way too
This literally describes me
It's kind of sad to see the sheer number of comments that say this
Fragile Badger :/
My face is the antidote _just be with the right people_
People are introverted and have social anxiety¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Kittykat 2005 oh
Why does this describe my life?
Mr. Nedrick yeah most
not most teenagers have anxiety
Ikr
the moment he said my loop it just instantly described most of my life.
also the answer to stopping this is realising that is because we are with the wrong people but can't find or are too stupid to find/ hang out with the right people. (and then doing smth about that, wich I didn't so hopefully you will)
*stop scrolling*
Know that whatever you are going through, it’s temporary. You are an individual expression of yourself. Others can’t define you. Stop trying to impress your crush or others. You are life itself. You are power. Any problem in your life comes to the same believe that your fear or it happening will over through you and overturn you. You are scared. I am scared. The world is a crazy place, filled with crazy twists and turns, but promise me, no matter what your doing or what your going through, that you will stay strong. You are power. You control yourself and your emotions. Life is temporary and so are they. Stay strong and when you get hit with a wave, you ride it. When you fall over, you get back up and you strive. I believe in you, and so should you. I am talking to you, yes you, the individual on the other side of the screen. I don’t know you personally but you are my family, have faith in yourself. Nothing will last. Make the most of life. After you read this take a moment to yourself and find your peace. You are strong. You are smart, beautiful, courageous, energetic. You are enough because you are power.
Woaahhh Draco I guess u aren't such a bad boy after all ❤️❤️ But seriously thanks for such a positive message u r amazing
@@ruchamansukh1203 ❤️
Thank you so much for this comment. You made my day 🥺❤
Thank you, i needed that
thanks, Draco
"Why don't you talk more"
Justin Y. leave
Damm you early
Justin Y. Again dude why
Go awaay
Justin Y. THE PARTY IS OVER JUSTIN
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This is me.
I always heard negative comments about my shyness.
One day (maybe I was 14 then) I was eating with a group of people. The guy who was sitting in front of me talked to me and even challenged me to do arm wrestling with him. I refused to do it, because I wouldn't have a chance. And I also didn't wanted that other people could see how weak I am.
I ate a burger and then the guy said: "You are really polite." Because I was making sure, that I wipe my mouth with the serviette and hold the burger carefully, so I don't make myself dirty. I did this, because it's awkward for me, to have food leftovers in my face or hands.
It embarrassed me a bit, that he noticed my "polite" behavior.
Then the guy said: *"Your shyness is cute."*
Wait what? Cute? *C U T E ?*
I never thought that there are people who think so about shyness.
I didn't know this before. Nobody told me this before. I always heard negative comments about my shyness.
(I share this, because maybe someone need to know that too.)
Now to my other topic:
I want to improve myself.
At one point I thought: *"I don't want that my only memorys are how my room looked like. I am in the bloom of my life. I don't want to waste it. I want to experience many things. I want adventures."*
Some people may think: "Don't change yourself for the society." I want to change, because sometimes I WANT to say or do something, but I don't because I'm afraid. I think to much about what other people would think. THIS is not good. It holds me back.
As a teen I read a little post with something like: "No matter how you look or what you do. People will always talk. So don't mind this."
and
*"Be yourself so you will find the right friends, you can connect with."*
Last year there was a guy I was interested in.
I never talked to my crushes in the past or did a "step".
But I wanted to change. So I did a step. A few times I could manage to walk to him and say something. But sometimes I didn't know what to say or I my heart was beating so hard and my mind gone blank, that I didn't talked to him. That's okay. I never did something like this before. I just need to train and gain experience.
*But* I also thought, that if other people see me walking to this guy and talking to him, then they _knew it_ and would talk. For me, romance was always something embarrassing and very private. "Uuuuh, so this is the type of guy you like?" "Did you ever kissed someone?" Aaah. I hated those comments.
But then I thought: "What if he is the right person? You will never know if you don't try to talk to him. *STOP thinking about the things other people COULD think/talk/do.* It doesn't matter. If this guy is the right person ― the one person you can be comfortable with, happy and all other good things, then don't waste your chance. *Don't waste a chance for a possible best thing in your life.* "
_At some point I think, that it is unnessecary to share this all. But if this could help only one person, then it was worth sharing my thoughts._
Thank you for sharing 😊 I have a presentation tomorrow and I gained so much confidence from your comment ✨✨✨
Wow
Thank you for this. I shall think back to this comment when I'm in a similar situation (which happens everytime I'm outside)
Thank you
Thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts..I can't even tell you how much I relate to it..😊 Thanks again ♥️
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You know that one person who says “omg she talks!” It gets on my nerves which is what probably discouraged me from socializing with people, it’s not my fault I just don’t like being the center of attention
n when ur loneliness makes u the center of attention ~_~
Nacnactemre Cunnutcn exactly 😑
I got pretty much bullied by a boy in my class. He swears constantly because he hates sitting next to me in history so much. He keeps calling me a neek. He hates me so much and it hurts. Literally, my personality from before I moved to secondary is gone.
@@Someone-tf1tk Hang in there, the same thing happened to me in elementary school but I was able to go through it and I know you can too 💜
Yep -_-
I always wonder why I don’t talk to people more until I start talking to people and remember listening to , and making an effort to think about the stuff that comes out of people’s mouth to make conversation is *_a g g r a v a t i n g_*
Placeholder is your profile picture from dirty robot?
I can’t make a conversation without talking about pi. Cause I somehow memorised it, it’s 3.141592653589..that’s all I know.
Good chat
*Same, man.*
Love your profile pic, and also *same man.*
I'm a potato
100th like
We do NOT want that attention
*straight bars* 👏🎶
That's like... A lil too relatable
Stardust 505 couldn’t have been said any better
Why is this so relatable
I think you're my name
I feel like sending this vid to my group chat so they understand me, but I won't cuz I'm too SHY
Same :,(
Person: Why don't you talk more?
me: *_My goodness, what and idea. Why didn't I think of that?_*
Parties give me good memories of people saying “Hmm you don’t really talk much do you?” when they are quiet themselves
My nigga Junji Ito
Cecil That boi's messed up
I can’t stop thinking about you
Your profile (channel name& pict) creeps the f outta me dude
Oren Fredericks static.tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pub/images/Binjo_Tsuji_4918.jpg
Help Me im gonna have nightmares😢
"We are not shy, we are just uncomfortable with you" - Me
good one
Fact.
fax
Yuh
i said that out loud to my class group
"oh my god, you're still being alone and weird?"
i relate to that spiritually
Damn 😂Same tho
Everyone in the comments: *OMG ThaTs sO MEEEEEeeeeeEEEEE*
That's literally me in school
beans you too so shut up and let them commend what they wanr
so what? what comments did you expect to see under this? Did you come here just to write that? Because...it's not original or funny
this is me everywhere
beans Because it is, I legit ruined my reputation in school for life with my social anxiety issues.
Obnoxious person: why are you so quiet?
Me:
*because I don't like you*
Hello
*but* *I'm* *too* *nice* *to* *say* *that* *to* *u* :(
This is to the people who have asked someone or wondered why someone in their class or job is so quiet.
These kind of people have a huge fear of getting emotionally hurt. It's hard for them to keep their mind
off other peoples thoughts and opinions abt them. This is what makes them stressed and overwhelmed,
and sometimes it could cause bad depression. This is a metal health condition/disorder called social anxiety.
Social anxiety is a lot more different from shyness. Shyness is more of a Personality trait, and Social anxiety is a Mental heath condition/disorder. If u ever see anyone like this, don't ask why their quiet when u first talk to them. If u want to talk to them, at least try and help them. Talk to them, and rlly try to understand why they behave this way. Be there for them, be their friend. Give them some company. If u keep doing this, they will break out of their shell and feel more comfortable to be themselves around
u. Be that friend. That one REAL friend. But I need more than one person to do this.
Anyone who took the time to read this, God bless u. Make sure to do this if u
EVER see anyone like this.
I am saying this bc I suffer from Social anxiety, and I know how it feels.
ily, have a blessed day:).
and yes, I liked my own comment.
❣️
Thank you so much you just said everything 🤗🤗
i think i have social anxiety, but my parents would never believe me because i used to be so social. now i’m terrified and i hate doing things. sometimes it’s okay though because if i’m around people i trust it goes away- otherwise it’s always there
I thought I was the only one
I feel shy even walking around my own neighborhood
I kinda Think that people Think the worst of me
That's me.
Same goes to me
Mahesh Panda when my mom gets mad I even get shy around her-😣
Im shy walking around my own house
*Alone*
Dude you’ve had two youtube lives. My sister and I used to watch u from the studio days and now you have even more clout with these! Same comedy tho🔥
"That's definitely me"
*why are you so quiet? What’s on your mind?*
Me in the inside:I need to get rich
mood
This is all of us because instead of going outside, we're watching RUclips videos
Sunny · Waifu exactly
Presumptuous, you are.
no. speak to yourself. this is totally not me. I'm not outside doing things because I'm not allowed to
Sunny · Waifu nah there's a guy with a gun outside and I don't feel like dying right now
Sunny · Waifu no it isn’t
"Im okay"
Translation: im mad, im sad i just dont know
Suxhii sameee
@ADreamer X haha aww idc about your opinion too :)
Suxhii I give zero shits about your depression
Sad because mad. Mad because sad.
Suxhii Yep that true
Yep i was at a party yesterday and someone asked me this question and "uhmmm erhh" was my response. This video is 100% accurate.
As an extreme introvert I feel offended when my "friends" ask me why I'm so shy.
Him: stop being so shy!!
Me: I CANT :(
cat the artistic Girl ik
Same.. I only brave enough to communicate through social media ;-;
@Rachel Chay Loong wow.. that's pretty long reply I ever had
@@onyim6335 LOL
@@onyim6335 i make longer replys sometimes,
*just trust me*
"When I I'm out with people, i wish I was home and alone. When I am home and alone, i wish I was out with people. It's a horrible loop"
I'm calling fbi, you are committing privacity invasion my sir.
Lol same
This so true from EVERY certain level.
@@ealpacaf.7463 I have some bad experiences while trying to socialize, i take them in a way I don't like, some sort of trauma, I guess(?)
there goes one of them:
in the center of my city, there are a little park-place some people go to to talk, encounter, date, etc. It's not normal to this place to be full of people btw, it normally have some few peoples, teens, to be more accurate (I have 16 years, for context). Some day, I send a message to a old friend of an school we used to go together, he was my classmate some years ago, well, I texted him just saying hi, and talking basic reencounter shit. All the conversation ends with him calling me to go to a walk on the already said "Park-place". I didn't know how to refuse, and I also was feeling so damn lonely those times I was actually liking the idea of going out home to meet people.
so, the day comes, he text me about a location where he and his friends would reunite with me so we could go to the park, i went there and we walked all the way until the park.
my anxiety went up a lot at the point where I saw that the park that normally had few people, now had A LOT OF PEOPLE, JUST ON THE FUCKING DAY I DECIDED TO GO THERE. then the basic symptoms of anxiety began, cold sweating, I started shaking, my head had a thousand thoughts about how the people there would judge me and those anxiety stuff.
the guys I was with were much more sociable than me, they knew a lot of the people who were there, but I got stuck, ALL the time I was there. I couldn't talk to anyone, look into anyone's eyes, and all I thought about was how everyone there were finding me weird.
There came a point where I couldn't stand being there anymore, so I made up an excuse that I wasn't feeling very well, and I asked my friend to call a taxi, and I came home, where I finally feel peace. And to this day this friend of mine and me don't talked anymore.
the point of me telling you this is to show how the line of the video is relatable.
(I hope you understand, I dont live in USA, or any other country who has English as his primary language, so sorry about that ^^)
@@MalvadaoDasAmericas oh no I understand what your saying😅 I don't live in the US either so yeah. True tho it really is very hard to be around or interact with lots of people when you have social anxiety.
it's always "why can't introverted people stop be so quite" and never "why cant extroverted stop pretending to be the main character"
I love it when people say " just stop being shy" as if I'm going to say "Holy shit, you're right! why didn't I think of that before"
Can relate.
"Why are you so quiet?" "Are you okay?" "Why aren't you talking?" I get asked these questions and my answers are "Because I'm just tired", "Yes I'm fine", "I'm just bored that's all" when I'm actually dying to say "Because you don't really let me talk while interrupting me", "No I'm not fine. Please ask me why", "I'm not talking because I don't feel like talking to anyone right now because you make me feel like I'm boring"
Thank you for listening and please understand that I'm telling the reality of me and others who go through the same thing's lives.
That's so relatable.. Thanks for sharing 😊
Thank you 😢
fr..
@@ealpacaf.7463 your welcome 🤗
@@adrianparker6861 your welcome 🤗
A true video for introverts
Finally 😢 there is hope for us
C Chan mmm mhhm
#introvertsquad
Introvert and social anxiety are different things.
Introvert is to prefer to not talk by choice
Anxiety is this video lol
It's rather social anxiety
Shashank Bharadwaj I have both then....huh....what a world😐
When someone is being shy, if you want to help them try to get them into the convo by asking them things, listening to them or telling them something
Your emotional intelligence is waaaaaay higher than most people's. Haha. But thank you for being so kind as to consider how to make others feel comfortable. It's really all anybody needs.
I relate on a spiritual level.
Its really so hard ;(
I am too shy I don't know how to overcome that feeling my friends always ask me why I shrug -_- I am so cringy and weird I think they hate me now
Same
same
same
girl!!!! Your not too shy and your perfect the way you are. Also dont feel bad about yourself for "friends" other people that cant accept you for who you are, be yourself because your amazing no matter how shy you are! ❤
Thats how I feel everyday. And I'm an Aquarius so basically nobody likes me and thinks I'm so called "wierd"😐
fun challange: try to find a comment that DOESN'T say some form of "this is sooooo me!"
Already found like 3 comments
The Ramen Man I found yours
Antonio Biondi G. DAMMIT! YOU'VE FOUND THE LOOPHOLE! XD
Lenny Jerry genius 😂
Just goes to show how many special snowflakes there are.
Lmao when i hitted puberty, i became so shy to the point that i'm afraid of talking to my own cousins that i've known for years. So if you think introverts having conversations with others is normal, they actually put their best efforts upon talking.
"erm", translation: *narrates the story of my life*
“Ur still being alone and weird?”
My friends @ me.
This comment section makes me feel like I'm not alone, like I'm not the weird one. Now I have the proof that there are tons of people who are really shy or who have the same anxiety that I have. For once I finally feel understood. So thank you all for existing lol to whoever is reading I hope you're having an amazing day cuz you deserve happiness like anyone else does 💕
being shy is normal.
@@mrt7654 not for boys lol. Just a reality
"when I am out with people I wish I was home. When I am home I wish I was out with people"
I feel like being caught red handed.
Armyyyyy💜
@@purpleheart2323 💜💜💜
Being quiet may be annoying cuz they forget you and stuffz but well... you can get out of some stuff you dont wanna talk about
Whenever I was In my parents car they would forget I was there
Ikr
update they do not forget im in the car anymore
@@celestial2661 how
absolutely true
This is totally me!!! 😂
Edit: How the f*** did I get that many likes for an average comment like THIS??? Was it the Just keep-liking-liking-liking-RUclips-rule? 😂😂😂
LaughingForNoReason XD this is totally everyone in this comment section, so it seems to me
Same
LaughingForNoReason XD no it’s not
Ridonkulous What *is not* ?
Same XD
KETNIPZ
plastic bag DIPSHITZ
AmirAli Tn Lol idk if that was a joke or if you're a dick.
My classmates: Why you’re so quiet, are you shy?
Me: *laugh*
My classmates: Oh, she can laugh. This is the first time she laughed with me
"look at your cousin she is 5 years younger than you and a better talker
OH and she also has a BF"
Lulu Sh ... why is this LITERALLY my grandma
i dont get the funny factor
Look at that chihuahua, even him Is more social***
I hate this tho... Bcs of that sentences i want to run away from home, i don't want to attend family gathering. It makes me feel so insecure... I want to say this to my family if they tell me that "yeah, it because she is beautiful and i'm ugly, people like her and they hate me and you all too... You all hate me TT" u know...and that is one of the reason why i keep silent too, i don't want to make a bad situation, but if i can't handle it and i say that maybe i would say "that is the first and the last i talk much to you guys"
@@joshuaaguilar8631 yes! They just can't understand that I hate fake people and their fake conversations.
Social anxiety
i dunno how to not be shy...
dont have to be so mean
"You know, you are really quite. Why don't you try talking with people once?"
"You know, you are really talkative. Why don't you try shutting up for once?"
Funny how both my parents claim they used to have the same scale of social embarrassment as me act as if they don’t even know what it’s like. Literally, you KNOW I can’t go up to people just like that
Woah that’s amazing habznzhah
But if we said that they're gonna hate us and we are going to be isolated more than before
Honestly that sorta hurts...
It’s also not my fault I like talking
So everyone should just stick to their own things instead of getting mad at others. That’s sorta why I don’t like extrovert and introvert memes they’re sorta disrespectful
exactly.
my anxiety: *no, i don’t think i will.*
0:18 *Describing My Social Anxiety...*
*THIS IS MEEEE*
*LOOK OUT CAUSE HERE I COME!!!*
Mala Dutta same
*AND IM MARCHING ON TO THE BEAT I DRUM*
I'M NOT SCARED TO BE SEEN I MAKE NO APOLOGIES
THIS IS ME
My younger sister is an introvert meanwhile I'm an extrovert trynna enjoy the life to the fullest. I can't help expressing my thoughts and feelings. But my sis is like "Why do you have to always talk/protest?"
As I'm living 24/7 with her I know even though she doesn't wanna express, how beautiful and meaningful her thoughts are. She always says that she wanna go out and have some fun but with no one we know around. And I'm like "Yeah! let's go.." When we're at family functions or something she doesn't even speak so I never leave her alone thinking she'll feel akward.
But surprisingly she's super talkative with me. And I had to put a lot of effort to make her comfortable with me. No matter how busy I am, I always listen what she wants to say. Always supporting what she wants to do. I'm always an LP soldier yet became a directioner too cause she loves 1D. I literally try to put everything on the line to support her.
I even quarreled with my relatives and other people several times when they say something bad about her like "Why she doesn't talk? /she has ego problem."
"I love to talk so talk with me. Why do you have to judge her! And I'm happy that she rather observes than badmouthing others like you." [ and she's annoyed with me for picking fights like this 😂]
Not all of us feels the same. So someone's not talking with ya it's not his/her fault or ego. We don't have to judge them right away. Why don't we think like it's our fault that we can't make them feel comfortable with us. They really talk cool and can entertain a lot if you can make them to. I know it. I've made it.
And now I have good connections with many introvert people. My best friend is introvert too. I have a senior as my drawing mentor who's also introvert. But they're coolest ones.
It just depends on the way we treat them, we talk with them. So if we really want them to express themselves we should stop saying "Why are you shy?" and say "Hi. You seem cool. I can't tolerate and observe like you!" instead.
OMG I want my bro to be like you
If you're the only person she talks with, let me tell you, she really loves you
I CAN'T OK? THE ONLY PLACE I CAN BE SOCIAL IS THE INTERNET
Same
When ur too shy to even write a comment
What do you want?
Uhhh Erm.
Family : why are you so shy?
Me: *nervous laugh*
My brain: I'm not shy I just don't wanna talk with you guys lmao 😃
Me At school...
Adelina Valean ikr
for the iphone users who need a shortcut for
uhhehrm
i don’t know why i am this way. when i’m out with people, i wish i was home and alone. when i’m home and alone, i wish i was out with people. it’s a horrible loop. there’s no explaining my strange ways, and i’m trying to better myself with every chance i get, but you getting frustrated with me won’t help at all. i appreciate you taking me places and making an effort. but please, unless you suffer the same anxiety i do, stop being mad at me for my social difficulties. i will get there when the times right. in the meantime, please try to understand why i’m like this.
Also, are there snacks at this party?
I think the party is over at this point
*Another video plays*
Bruh you have so much free time
@@computer_dude *AD PLAYS*
This is sadly me
林•Xy its a phase
Forgot my name It’s not
its *kinda* me
them: don’t be shy
me: *oh my god why didn’t i think of that*
Danny, stop watching me, you described my life :,v xD
My entire social life in 59 seconds
I'm not shy, the helmet is part of my skull.
And thats why we only sit and watch youtube for hours discovering memes and interesting stuff that we cant share with anybody because we are socially awkward
The shy one is TRUELY ME.
This is me. . .only if my friends knew what my silence and sitting in a corner is.
This is a kind of *ART*
When nobody understands
How hard social anxiety is
Yes😟
Fr
Ikr
*SO. RELATABLE.*
I wish that people without the social anxiety understand the people who have the social anxiety like me
Why people ask you about you're so shy or because you don't talk but nobody tells you *let's talk*
When people do say "let's talk" I always assume it's about something bad or I get confused because nobody ever talks to me.
The anxiety of the voice-over catching up to the words before it disappears on top is REAL
The light pink person is me 10000000%
iSuck AtEverything same
*Sends to the little friends I have*
Same
Sends to my *parents*
Wiktoria Ś. Ok, that's sad
Seba Barrenechea Hah xD it could be worst
That's literally me when people ask me why I'm so shy and I should talk more. Don't pressure me dude !!! I'm shy :v
Are you a 2D pink monster with nothing but eyes? If not, then you're not "literally" it
(Lmao being an annoying fuck is fun)
@@batatinhacomlepra6899 stfu u r not funny illy
Anytime anybody says stop being so antisocial and quiet I’ll show them this immediately right after and say “This is my anxiety”
Bro even u can't after showing this people would make fun and jokes of u which makes u more uncomfortable and shy and introvert.....