WHEN HE'S JEALOUS OF YOU: SURVIVING YOUR JEALOUS MAN!!!🥴😈

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  • @MarqueshaMartin
    @MarqueshaMartin 3 месяца назад +177

    A jealous person is a very dangerous person.

    • @TheFemaleT.D.Jakes1
      @TheFemaleT.D.Jakes1 3 месяца назад +4

      I'm learning this at 32, I take it very serious. Why I'm trying to move faaaar from this family.

    • @MISAO_SAO
      @MISAO_SAO 3 месяца назад +2

      An envious person is even more dangerous.

  • @PadmajapriyadarsiniPanda
    @PadmajapriyadarsiniPanda 3 месяца назад +178

    " People with dead dreams will poison your own " 👍

  • @maurrissa1
    @maurrissa1 3 месяца назад +71

    Not just men you’re dating. A lot of the times…it’s your dad, your brother, male friends etc. it’s intense.
    They are demons in the flesh

    • @popwilly3080
      @popwilly3080 3 месяца назад +8

      Whew😬....big truth.

    • @TheFemaleT.D.Jakes1
      @TheFemaleT.D.Jakes1 3 месяца назад +1

      I avoid men the best I can. I associate them with bad luck. Cause on word my unk, my male cousin, my brother be jealous of me over dumb shhhh😂😂😂😂

    • @TheFemaleT.D.Jakes1
      @TheFemaleT.D.Jakes1 3 месяца назад +9

      Yes my male friends LGBT or straight were jealous to now that I look back. Jealousy is a male behaviour.

  • @KarenTski
    @KarenTski 3 месяца назад +164

    He is jealous because he knows deep down inside he knows he is a loser and that you can do much better than him

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +10

      Preach Sis 💯🗣️🗣️

    • @starchild7820
      @starchild7820 3 месяца назад +7

      Or gay DL

    • @719kai719
      @719kai719 3 месяца назад +1

      Exactly 💯

    • @userSTAR3330
      @userSTAR3330 3 месяца назад

      🛑✝️🙏🏾🎉🎊🎉AMEN... IF U GOTTA STALK N SNEAK...N U R A TOTAL STRANGER. NOT 🚫 NLY ARE U JEALOUS, BUT A DEMONIACS👿TOO.✝️

    • @userSTAR3330
      @userSTAR3330 3 месяца назад +1

      🛑✝️🙏🏾THAT IS TRUE AS WELL. ✝️🎊🎉🎊🎉🎉🎊🎉🛑NO CONTACT

  • @gonegirl9114
    @gonegirl9114 3 месяца назад +242

    This is m ex. I told him I was going to trucking school, he asked could he go. I said I already been approved. He said something slick like I’m not going to be able to do it. Fast forward I went and I’m driving trucks and thriving. My ex does everything to shit on my career. He downs truck drivers. He says my job is easy anyone can do it. He said he don’t even need training and he bet he can drive a truck. This was the whole vibe in the relationship. Had my self esteem low. So glad I’m done with that pitiful person.

    • @anonymous101-sb1bf
      @anonymous101-sb1bf 3 месяца назад +44

      Mine asked me to do his homework but had the audacity to say my 4.0 must mean my classes are easy... So he pays all the bills I've been using my money for school and I'm almost done. He will be looking for me in the day time with a flashlight 😂❤

    • @AlyssaIrvine
      @AlyssaIrvine 3 месяца назад +12

      Proud of you! ❤

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +22

      Yes they tend to downplay what you have going on...like sir?? If it was that easy why haven't you done it??

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +14

      I'm glad you saw the light and left his sorry ass

    • @boutiquebitcoin809
      @boutiquebitcoin809 3 месяца назад +14

      Girl your job is hard driving truck is not like a car. ❤❤❤❤

  • @txspacemom765
    @txspacemom765 3 месяца назад +214

    He didn't want to take me anywhere because people like me. They would always say "Oh your wife, we love her!" All the time. He could not clap for my accomplishments because he was jealous. I ran circles around him. I started dressing better when I was promoted at work..twice...he always had some back handed comment. He told me I was a terrible public speaker after getting an award for leading a group of people and accepting an award for it. He could not take that I am very direct and factual, always trying to gaslight me. The end for me was he was paranoid about me having appointments- normal, everyday appointments like the OBGYN, getting my teeth cleaned, etc. Yeah. No.

    • @DatDyme980
      @DatDyme980 3 месяца назад +22

      "DO YOU SIS!"🎉🔥💪🏾💯

    • @CrazyLilGemini
      @CrazyLilGemini 3 месяца назад

      6

    • @GwendolynPorter-w6c
      @GwendolynPorter-w6c 3 месяца назад

      Girl BYE!!!😂😂 You mean he was scheming on your teeth 🪥 cleaning!!???😅 How long ago did you dump this fool????!!!😂😂😂😂

    • @dorkygirlsurvivalist3482
      @dorkygirlsurvivalist3482 2 месяца назад +4

      Have a friend whose husband blew up their marriage over this. He hated how people automatically just love her and barely remember him. He tried to destroy her and leave her with nothing. He was jealous that everyone said how lucky he was. Never the other way. It’s insane. Once he decided to blow up the marriage, he started to hate her.

    • @txspacemom765
      @txspacemom765 2 месяца назад

      @@dorkygirlsurvivalist3482 This was me. He tried to take everything in the divorce. He had a nasty lawyer, just like him. I just said Ok life, I've been a good human, do what you must. It was a long drawn out process but well worth it. I appreciate my life more and I am still a kind human being and he is a miserable lonely lump .

  • @tamekadavis6641
    @tamekadavis6641 3 месяца назад +146

    Ladies! Be careful who you date. Your man should never be jealous of you if so get out quick.

  • @damiencheeks6632
    @damiencheeks6632 3 месяца назад +33

    This goes for "friends" too!

  • @FutureBillionaire1111
    @FutureBillionaire1111 3 месяца назад +79

    The last guy I dated was jealous because I had no children. I was free to go anywhere and do anything without checking in. It's scary af

    • @GwendolynPorter-w6c
      @GwendolynPorter-w6c 3 месяца назад +1

      Honey these dusty bums think they're supposed to have control over you whether they know you or not!!! A independent woman shrinks them quicker than bacon in a frying pan!😂😂😂

    • @materiaescuraa
      @materiaescuraa 3 месяца назад +7

      Free 😊❤

  • @anonymous101-sb1bf
    @anonymous101-sb1bf 3 месяца назад +133

    A man not helping wanting you to ask him for help and watching you or expecting you to struggle while they are so helpful to others is an indicator also

    • @mystiquelareaux
      @mystiquelareaux 3 месяца назад +12

      My ex!!! Won't do for his kids and broke up the family but yet pay for prostitutes and drugs without a second thought!!!

    • @anonymous101-sb1bf
      @anonymous101-sb1bf 3 месяца назад +6

      @@mystiquelareaux y'all are better off w/o him.... Hope things work out for you 💕

    • @mystiquelareaux
      @mystiquelareaux 3 месяца назад +7

      @@anonymous101-sb1bf thanks my ancestors don't play about me...I always will be okay, things always work out in my favor each and every time.peace and prosperity to you always...

    • @christelcalvin7463
      @christelcalvin7463 3 месяца назад +4

      Amen 🙏🏿 This applies to employers as well.

    • @jaligawesa
      @jaligawesa Месяц назад

      True!

  • @mandeanraje2300
    @mandeanraje2300 3 месяца назад +77

    “Sometimes a man is jealous not because he loves you so much, but because he knows what he would do in your situation and is trying as hard as he can to not let that happen.” Hello Church!!!

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +7

      Facts 💯

    • @719kai719
      @719kai719 3 месяца назад +4

      EXACTLY

  • @jacquelynn2051
    @jacquelynn2051 3 месяца назад +320

    “You cannot grow with someone who is in competition with you.”

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +15

      She hit the nail on the head right there📌

    • @pmgumeebear
      @pmgumeebear 3 месяца назад +8

      So sad I spent almost a decade of my life with a man like this I NEVER understood why we could never align…plans we had together he would try to accomplish with the women he cheated with it was SO WEIRD to me…every conversation had slick comments in it but I literally thought he was just funny well at least I have my thirties I would definitely be in a better place in life if it wasn’t for this marriage because he denied every single opportunity for us to be great together better off single

    • @keishab7505
      @keishab7505 3 месяца назад +1

      💯

    • @userSTAR3330
      @userSTAR3330 3 месяца назад +1

      🛑✝️🙏🏾IT IS INSECURITY.....✝️

    • @melanatedpurpose
      @melanatedpurpose 2 месяца назад

      PREACH...FRAUDULENT MANBOYS

  • @Ms.K_LaTrailera
    @Ms.K_LaTrailera 3 месяца назад +35

    That man said FACTS 💯. Before I met my husband, I dated a man who didn't like that I made more money than him, and when I began losing weight, he would tell me I looked better chunky, I wasted my time caring for someone who was very demeaning, so I left and now my hubby is the total opposite ❤, be safe out there beautiful people.

    • @thiccredgyal3404
      @thiccredgyal3404 3 месяца назад +5

      I had an ex fiance who said stuff like that to me. When I left, he acted like a crybaby and played the victim.

  • @ElvinaLSmith
    @ElvinaLSmith 3 месяца назад +58

    They’re jealous because they don’t have your presence.

  • @NoName-oe4gm
    @NoName-oe4gm 3 месяца назад +41

    Ladies beware this too can Be the men in your family!
    About 9yrs ago I had to disown my own brothers over jealousy and them KNOWING A woman like ME would Never deal with dude like Them.💅🏾

    • @anonymous101-sb1bf
      @anonymous101-sb1bf 3 месяца назад +10

      @@NoName-oe4gm very true lots of brothers offed their sisters

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +2

      Glad I have no older ones

  • @roxanneroxanne3232
    @roxanneroxanne3232 3 месяца назад +104

    I am going through the revelation stage after being with a jealous person for 3.5 years. They'll stab you in the back, come back with crocodile 😭's.....then do something even more catastrophic like make false allegations when they realize you have officially cut them out of your lives. Boss up, GLOW up, and let your light shine ⭐bright ladies😎

    • @Smyrna37
      @Smyrna37 3 месяца назад +6

      Yes I experienced this. Still piecing the whole puzzle together

    • @anonymous101-sb1bf
      @anonymous101-sb1bf 3 месяца назад +7

      Same but I have an exit plan ❤

    • @roxanneroxanne3232
      @roxanneroxanne3232 3 месяца назад +4

      @@Smyrna37 🙏🏽One day at a time. I'm still processing the aftermath myself.

    • @roxanneroxanne3232
      @roxanneroxanne3232 3 месяца назад +6

      @@anonymous101-sb1bf As long as you recognize what you need to do, your plans will come into fruition one day. Trust 🙏🏽

    • @anonymous101-sb1bf
      @anonymous101-sb1bf 3 месяца назад +4

      @@roxanneroxanne3232 thank you I definitely believe that ❤️

  • @TheGhostofAbigailMills
    @TheGhostofAbigailMills 3 месяца назад +73

    The idea of sleeping next to my own opp is terrifying. And I can't even chalk it up to paranoia because of all the stories I've seen and heard from women: being belittled, undercut, sidelined and outright sabotaged by a man that's supposed to love and support you. My own best friend just had the veil pulled off of her face, and she's coming to terms with how much her ex-fiancé chipped away at her confidence over the years. Too close to home for me to drop my guard. To anyone reading this: you have plans, they're important and "keeping a man" is not enough of a valid priority to compromise your dreams. Good luck, stay safe and be mindful of who's in your corner.

    • @TheFemaleT.D.Jakes1
      @TheFemaleT.D.Jakes1 3 месяца назад +3

      This why I prefer single I feel more confident and appreciated single and with my legs closed. Men do subtle things to try to break ure confidence, they are all about power and dominance.

  • @lessagrowth6898
    @lessagrowth6898 3 месяца назад +104

    Jealous men meant in my opinion, he's fighting being gay and using woman to subdue his insecurities in knowing these facts, and you don't have a clue. 💯...be careful ladies.🙏

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 3 месяца назад +15

      100% the truth!!! ♥

    • @anonymous101-sb1bf
      @anonymous101-sb1bf 3 месяца назад +23

      I agree but some have mommy issues it's normally either one for me

    • @interviewboss8782
      @interviewboss8782 3 месяца назад +17

      My ex has mommy issues, and he’s fighting the good fight to ignore who he really is. I was like, girl bye. 😂
      But seriously, be careful. If they’re fighting being gay, they have no problem harming you to keep that secret….

    • @TheFemaleT.D.Jakes1
      @TheFemaleT.D.Jakes1 3 месяца назад +4

      Not all jealous men are lgbtq. Straight men are jealous too love

    • @anonymous101-sb1bf
      @anonymous101-sb1bf 3 месяца назад +4

      @@TheFemaleT.D.Jakes1 I agree with that some hate the privileges women have because they are lazy and some were never shown love not because they want to be a woman they just want access to the grace they think we have

  • @Juice807
    @Juice807 3 месяца назад +44

    Dated so many men in competition with me.. smh

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 3 месяца назад +2

      I believe you. Also remember that nowadays sooooo many men want to get attention from other men, it's like they'd love being a woman themselves. The number of gay men out there is record HIGH!!!!

    • @ibabechanel
      @ibabechanel 3 месяца назад +7

      THIS.

    • @TheFemaleT.D.Jakes1
      @TheFemaleT.D.Jakes1 3 месяца назад +9

      Me too jealous male bosses try to sabotage me in the work force

  • @geremymason5936
    @geremymason5936 3 месяца назад +58

    Damn. I been seeing that some men talk like they’re jealous of women for a while now - glad to see I wasn’t alone I seeing this. Jealous people tend to have to take jabs at people. Jealous people tend to try to humble people. They can’t have you seeing yourself the way that they see you, so they have to drag you down to make themselves feel better. Absolutely crazy.

  • @TBQBCollections
    @TBQBCollections 3 месяца назад +42

    I remember when I first started my small business my kids dad use to tell me that I will not make it with out him. he Also got so mad that I didn’t add his picture to my business page 😂😂😂 like excuse me. this is a business page not show your man off page bruhh the stuff that I had to go through. he even had the nerve to tell me I’m jealous of him I started thinking he was zesty who know he probably is. He had all this negative energy against me but never at his bros especially when they be violating him. He never say anything to them but come back in the house complaining about this is a man world and what they did to him 😂😂😂😂😂😂 God Took Me Out That Situation And I’m Truly Grateful .
    Crazy thing is all his friends and ppl think he so nice and sweet he a whole walking demon his mother know that too that act just alike

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 3 месяца назад +6

      Could be that he wasn't quite straight though..... fighting with himself. But of course I wouldn't know.

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +5

      Glad you made it without him..know he salty😂

    • @thiccredgyal3404
      @thiccredgyal3404 3 месяца назад +5

      I dated a guy like that. He broke up with me so he could see his side hick. He had the nerve to be jealous of me having more options. When he tried to get back with me, he thought his games break up come back game would work but it didn't lol.

  • @HolisticManifesting
    @HolisticManifesting 3 месяца назад +56

    My ex wouldnt acknowledge my books, I wrote 7 and he claimed it just wasnt his thing lol so sad

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +12

      That's the lamest excuse your partner can give..link them here we go check them out

    • @thiccredgyal3404
      @thiccredgyal3404 3 месяца назад +5

      You're someone I look up to. I was planning on writing a few books.

    • @Adrienne.Michelle91
      @Adrienne.Michelle91 24 дня назад +2

      that's a HUGE flex!!!!! Congratulations 🥳🎉

  • @lindarose3547
    @lindarose3547 3 месяца назад +38

    My ex would ignore me to and from going to places simply because I got stared at and got more attention than him. It would make me cry and feel very small. He also would be very mean to me and at one time wished his mother a happy birthday while was sitting next to me and didn't say anything to me( my daughter was 2) Never again will I be with a man who I am a better man than he will ever be. These are failures of men that can only add hurt and burden to your life and nothing else. No amount of love can cleanse a jealous and spiteful person.

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +5

      "No amount of love can cleanse and heal a jealous and spiteful person " THAT PART🗣️🗣️🗣️

  • @soulsistah5738
    @soulsistah5738 3 месяца назад +37

    If you love yourself he wouldn’t feel like if he love you properly you’ll find your worth. These guys like women who dnt love themselves

  • @JokesandJudgement
    @JokesandJudgement 3 месяца назад +32

    That was my stepdad. I tried to tell my mom but she didn't listen. He definitely sucked the life out of her and she is still healing.

  • @no.9961
    @no.9961 3 месяца назад +20

    I'm so impressed with this younger generation ✌✌💪💪

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +1

      Yes thank God we can easily access this type of information

  • @terjemarken2411
    @terjemarken2411 3 месяца назад +131

    If a man is jealous of a woman I think the reason for him being jealous is mostly because he wants to be a woman himself. There are lots of hidden trans'es out there. And he'd probably also be jealous of women cause he'd also love getting the same attention from men as she would get.

    • @anonymous101-sb1bf
      @anonymous101-sb1bf 3 месяца назад +19

      @@terjemarken2411 I agree some also are really pissed that their moms had them struggling and couldn't figure it out

    • @hawkrose2698
      @hawkrose2698 3 месяца назад +11

      This!

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 3 месяца назад +6

      @@hawkrose2698 Thanks a lot Sis!!

    • @G.G.276
      @G.G.276 3 месяца назад

      THEY ARE BITTER TOO’. BECAUSE THEY CAN NOT EVER BE WOMAN! EVER!

    • @starchild7820
      @starchild7820 3 месяца назад +5

      Hey gay😂

  • @GirlsinnahoodMusic
    @GirlsinnahoodMusic 3 месяца назад +19

    I knew somebody like this how ironic he pursued me so intensely,I’m just mad at myself for entertaining the jerk I wish I would’ve left sooner

  • @haitiqueen0119
    @haitiqueen0119 3 месяца назад +18

    When he can't get through you, he'll assassinate your character whatever he can do to bring you down with him is his ultimate goal.

  • @greengoddess6355
    @greengoddess6355 3 месяца назад +112

    Jealousy is a horrible way to live. It's like rust, turning something beautiful into something frail and brittel.
    Iron is the strongest metals and can only be destroyed by rust. Once you know what causes rust, remove it and stay strong. 💪

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +11

      Love the analogy right here...yeah most of these dudes be rusty AF

    • @G.G.276
      @G.G.276 3 месяца назад +3

      COPPER IS STRONGER!

  • @Goldenerame
    @Goldenerame 3 месяца назад +13

    Currently divorcing a jealous narcissistic man, who felt like he was the prize and didn't have any concept of how to be a man in a hetero relationship, and what role that implies. He was more like a petty hormonal roommate. I feel like he secretly wants to be a woman and doesn't even know it.

  • @shiz1246
    @shiz1246 3 месяца назад +18

    I lost it when you said, “No, the last time I checked sir, you shitted on my face!!” 😂😂😂 But it’s true. They act so vile then get amnesia

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +4

      😂😂😂😂😂yes it's the truth and then they be playing victim and gaslighting you for daring to tell your story but (this is my story) you chose it this way....

  • @crystal.diorrr
    @crystal.diorrr 3 месяца назад +8

    It’s like a man’s place can never be replaced , I don’t care how much money I make etc the man’s role is a role I will ever be able to fulfill because I’m not a man. Any man who gets threatened by a women who makes more then him and so for is a man who doesn’t know his place, so ofc he’s going to be insecure.

  • @hairinhd
    @hairinhd 3 месяца назад +16

    I'm glad the men were in the video telln us the truth💯

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +2

      Exactly 💯

  • @brookehunsaker1875
    @brookehunsaker1875 3 месяца назад +15

    I had no idea this was a thing and spent 14 years trying to please a man who wanted to be me. Since that would involve me not existing, you can imagine the danger one could find themselves in. Be careful ladies.

  • @scrunglybungly
    @scrunglybungly 3 месяца назад +25

    My ex hated my creative expression (guitar & drawing) because his parents had told him to suppress his own creativity, so he resented that I was actively doing it and being good at it. :)

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +1

      Love that! Don't stop for anyone

    • @scrunglybungly
      @scrunglybungly 3 месяца назад +1

      @@mskabue Thank you. 🥰 What’s stupid is that I said that how his parents had treated him was terrible and that he definitely should be creative if he wants to, I was ready to fully support him. But no, he had to take it as a competition and that I tried to outshine him, telling me I’m too ”proud” just for being myself and doing what I do. Boy was so insecure & projecting, he has a problem with pride and flips out whenever he isn’t the best at everything.

  • @RickRorose
    @RickRorose 3 месяца назад +13

    This is a man’s world and some of these men are upset things aren’t handed to him, so he projects that things are handed to her (which is not true, he is jealous). He needs to level up get educated get therapy and get help. This is a man’s struggle. Women can’t help them on this one and we can’t love them out of this either. Let them be. They are either going to be alone, be violent, or get better. Men need to help men and help themselves to be better at this point.

    • @Sanderson5CLC
      @Sanderson5CLC 2 месяца назад

      It’s no longer a man’s world. It’s a mad world!

  • @joannelewis3390
    @joannelewis3390 3 месяца назад +7

    No trust...no love. He knew I'd be happy with out him. He tried to tear me down so I couldn't leave

  • @leonartistthegreat
    @leonartistthegreat 3 месяца назад +19

    Be careful of the Men that point out the flaws in other men. Especially black men. They jealous and your mad smh.

    • @ibabechanel
      @ibabechanel 3 месяца назад +6

      I do not understand the correlation.

  • @ericadacosta6992
    @ericadacosta6992 3 месяца назад +14

    Yup, thats my ex husband
    "Why you want to separate? I still love you" - Love it's not enough
    *shocked face*

  • @paralegalkc
    @paralegalkc 3 месяца назад +14

    This is my ex for sure anything I bought for instance I bought a new truck SUV a bronco he said yeah I need a bigger truck than that. I need an Escalade . OK I bought a TV because I’m not a TV watcher and he was like I need a bigger TV I need a 70 inch TV, regardless of anything I bought I’m proud of you and stuff, but I just need something bigger. I struggled to finish college because I had children and I put all my children through college and now they’re putting me back through college. Well I’ve finished now and he was like my friend said congratulations but what is your little degree in and which degree is it I knew that day I was done with him. I knew that day that was my revelation day That he was jealous and very dismissive about my accomplishments.

  • @leafyveins4985
    @leafyveins4985 3 месяца назад +13

    We always assume we are the exception, because we made an exception for them and lowered our expectations.

    • @EndrikaWhite
      @EndrikaWhite 3 месяца назад +2

      All of this! I feel that immediately, following learning that we aren't exempt is when we should detach.

  • @G.G.276
    @G.G.276 3 месяца назад +6

    BM TELLING ON THEMSELVES! GOOD!

  • @Ifanythingeverhappenstome
    @Ifanythingeverhappenstome 3 месяца назад +31

    Divorced one of these gremlins

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +3

      Good for you.....you dodged a bullet❤️

    • @thiccredgyal3404
      @thiccredgyal3404 3 месяца назад +2

      I'm happy for you. Sending love and good luck

    • @GwendolynPorter-w6c
      @GwendolynPorter-w6c 3 месяца назад +3

      Presently divorcing a gremlin !!!😂😂😂

    • @Ifanythingeverhappenstome
      @Ifanythingeverhappenstome 3 месяца назад

      @@GwendolynPorter-w6c good luck.. life is much better without them

    • @popwilly3080
      @popwilly3080 3 месяца назад

      😂

  • @traceylennon1204
    @traceylennon1204 3 месяца назад +8

    The Guy with the bakery analogy is cracking me UP!!😂😂😂

  • @Freethnkr
    @Freethnkr 3 месяца назад +6

    A competitive, jealous, insecure man is an abusive man...I know from experience...
    Don't want other men looking at you, gets in his feelings cuz women aren't looking at him, always trying out dress you, mad cuz you work for yourself and he's gotta clock in, doesn't want you around other men cuz he's afraid someone will treat you better, hates that you have your child 24/7 and he can't see his like he wants to, mad cuz ppl like you, show you more attention in public, mad cuz you're an artist, can cook good and you're a genuinely nice person, not fake..
    Real love is pure, and wants the best for you...

  • @bijou121382
    @bijou121382 3 месяца назад +3

    Only a person who talks too much can fix their lips to tell someone else that they talk too much.... Uncivilized ppl are everywhere trying to break down other ppls spirits..... I just subscribed. I listened to the very end and found every single word in this video useful... Thank you for making this video ❤

  • @SheilaGibson-s9h
    @SheilaGibson-s9h 3 месяца назад +6

    Cuz why was I exercising and my dude was side eyeing me like in a mean way instead of saying. Oh babe I'm proud of you for exercising. You look so nice

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +1

      He couldn't imagine other men eyeing you out koz he knows he's not doing what he suppose to do....most men are always insecure

  • @alwaysaccurate8725
    @alwaysaccurate8725 3 месяца назад +11

    Okay my ex did all 3 things. You dont need to dress up. He was only comfortable around his men in the family. Slide comments all the time. That man was damn near suicidal when i left.

  • @hadijakalyegira4107
    @hadijakalyegira4107 3 месяца назад +9

    Insecurities 😮. “Hurt people, hurt people”.

  • @casaleeromina
    @casaleeromina 3 месяца назад +6

    When he got upset he said my little business 😂 mind you I wasn’t even working on my business. I’m no longer sharing with any man anything about my business. It’ll be a secret TA-DA!!!

  • @Melvina1975
    @Melvina1975 3 месяца назад +5

    I think my man is jealous of me but i'm not really sure, he never compliments me on anything but I always compliment him🤔🤔

  • @TerraDactyl-hc9ff
    @TerraDactyl-hc9ff 3 месяца назад +7

    INEEDED TO HEAR THIS!!!! That first man was SPOT ON with everything I’m dealing with now!!!
    This was the first video that popped up on my feed!!!

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад

      Glad you found it helpful❤️... subscribe to the Chanel

  • @dclarke1896
    @dclarke1896 3 месяца назад +16

    Excellent video! I experienced the same thing with my son's father. You are not alone.

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +5

      Thanks for watching! Sorry to hear that❤️

    • @dclarke1896
      @dclarke1896 3 месяца назад

      @@mskabue It made me stronger. 💪🏾❤️

  • @reesebloom8093
    @reesebloom8093 3 месяца назад +24

    These are talking points I’ve posted on the internet for the past couple years : a lot of men are jealous of women and are in competition with them. I have literally been posting comments saying this for the past couple years, on Instagram, RUclips, Twitter, etc. I always love when my talking points and trendy phrases become mainstream 😂😂😂

    • @AlyssaIrvine
      @AlyssaIrvine 3 месяца назад +8

      This has been going on forever. A good example of it is Prince Charles and Princess Diana. He was going to be King and he still didn't like that Diana got more attention than him.
      Simone Biles is another example.

    • @interviewboss8782
      @interviewboss8782 3 месяца назад +1

      Are they your talking points? Or are others having similar experiences? I think you would need to have tremendous influence for everyone to be copying you sis. 🙏

    • @reesebloom8093
      @reesebloom8093 3 месяца назад

      @@interviewboss8782 Definitely my talking points. I never saw anyone saying the exact same thing I've been typing for years and I've been very active on these social media spaces for a long time. And yes, there are many trendy phrases that I have started that have become popular. If you knew, you'd know, but you don't know it all, sis 🙏 Next time, keep scrolling if someone else's observation hurts your feelings.

    • @Xoxotho
      @Xoxotho 2 месяца назад

      Elders have been talking about this for years you aren’t saying anything trendy. You think people don’t know a man can be jealous of a woman just saying…

    • @reesebloom8093
      @reesebloom8093 2 месяца назад

      @@Xoxotho Hush up. Please. So tired of you know-it-alls. I know EXACTLY what I’m talking about because I’ve been on numerous social media platforms for many years. Like I SAID, I always LOVE when my talking points & trendy phrases become mainstream. I can guarantee you, every day, you probably use at least one of the phrases I wrote in somebody’s random comment section. Move.

  • @eternallyinternal
    @eternallyinternal 3 месяца назад +6

    I've never been in a relationship with a man who wasn't competing with me. Never.

  • @roxanneroxanne3232
    @roxanneroxanne3232 3 месяца назад +15

    Hey Sis!!!! 👋🏽 I love hearing your POV and voiceovers. Let's send those who don't to the BLOCK 🚫Party 🎉😂

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +1

      Thankyou 😊 sis❤️

  • @sdjames2580
    @sdjames2580 3 месяца назад +1

    This is the most heartbreaking thing to find out! The most hate, Sabotage and malice comes with it.

  • @luanagebre9212
    @luanagebre9212 2 месяца назад +4

    I feel like most Men are jealous of women. Instead of Just doing what Men should do.

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  2 месяца назад

      That part right here 😂

    • @Ali01007
      @Ali01007 2 месяца назад

      Lol not sure about that 😜

  • @asiachestnut4210
    @asiachestnut4210 2 месяца назад +2

    That first man was preaching

  • @sinalopono
    @sinalopono 3 месяца назад +12

    I actually listen till the end as well😂😂 I am always interested to hear what you have to say ❤❤ keep doing the lords work making us women realise and know our worth !!

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад

      You're the best! Thankyou Sis 💯 ❤️

  • @Queenvictoria2k2
    @Queenvictoria2k2 3 месяца назад +2

    So true and it all came out close to my graduation date and him driving me to pick up my cap and gown for my graduation ceremony from U of M Ann Arbor with my Bachelor’s in Nursing. On the drive there he stated “I can be a better nurse than you.” and here he is has not taken not one prerequisite nursing course, he started a big argument with me. Then later he obtained his associates degree in Nursing. We are now currently divorced and was married for 15 years with 2 children due to him being a Covert Narcissist that I uncovered in the last 6 years of our marriage.

  • @Purplestardust9889
    @Purplestardust9889 3 месяца назад +8

    I like listening to your voice overs .

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets 3 месяца назад +25

    This would have been so helpful years ago 😂

    • @TBQBCollections
      @TBQBCollections 3 месяца назад +1

      💯💯💯

    • @mystiquelareaux
      @mystiquelareaux 3 месяца назад +2

      Exactly I'm about 10 years to late and I blame myself for this I fucked up sooo damn bad

  • @queenkimberlyheirofyahwehs9243
    @queenkimberlyheirofyahwehs9243 3 месяца назад +3

    After 15 years of marriage My ex told Me that he never love Me, never was faithful to Me & My problems is I think Im a Boss, Yet didn't want to sign the divorce papers! Well once I got My freedom he thought he was going to go live the good life after Me & YAH(GOD) smacked him right into humbleness & throw his ass in jail as soon as he married someone else.. If only I could give yall a full testimony of My experience with him... Hunty😅All I can say is thank YOU, YAH(GOD) for deliverance💜

  • @DatDyme980
    @DatDyme980 3 месяца назад +29

    Be careful in these streets. Mama always said, "Jealousy will kill you!" ❗⚠️

  • @brittanynicole6309
    @brittanynicole6309 3 месяца назад +13

    My ex husband let me know other men acted weird when he was with me, now I wonder if it was bc it got on his nerves they were aggressive towards him or if it was jealousy..🙄

  • @user-ui6uu3zo6o
    @user-ui6uu3zo6o 3 месяца назад +2

    You hit some great points in this video! I agree with your content. Some people carry so much hate and negativity in their hates. Keeping doing you and speaking your truth! It's your channel. Block the haters!

  • @kimberlysanchez5321
    @kimberlysanchez5321 3 месяца назад +2

    I learned a lot from this video. Thank you queen sista !!!!

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад

      You are so welcome 😊

  • @cameoh.1771
    @cameoh.1771 3 месяца назад +1

    These are all things I wish I had know. At 23 before i met my abus3r. It took 3 1/2 years to get out. Im still mentally dealing with everything he did to me.

  • @empressiveliving
    @empressiveliving 3 месяца назад +3

    I never could see how a man be jealous of a WOMAN omg

  • @CAMICAZE007
    @CAMICAZE007 3 месяца назад +14

    The scariest thing is that man could be jealous of anything.I had a older man.Tell me he's jealous because if he cannot have sex with me he would be mad..

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +20

      I think at this point having a man isn't a flex anymore unless you have a 'Russel Wilson' type of a man....no wonder the 4B movement is making more sense everyday

    • @badgyrl310
      @badgyrl310 2 месяца назад +1

      Hold up, he said what? 😳🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩Girl, run.🏃🏽‍♀💨💨

    • @CAMICAZE007
      @CAMICAZE007 2 месяца назад

      @badgyrl310 Gurl that was 4yrs ago3..and I did walk away slowly but the next day he pulled on me at my neighbor grocery store ..lucky two young Cops was chilling in the freezer department..he had B M on me ..📯😆Black Magix

    • @Ytorisv
      @Ytorisv 14 дней назад +1

      ​@@mskabue It really ain't.

  • @princ345
    @princ345 3 месяца назад +1

    I went through all of this man hate it's crazy Narc season wow

  • @ms.caliqueen3668
    @ms.caliqueen3668 3 месяца назад +4

    New here.... Absolutely Superb!! This was Definitely needed! The commentary was just the 🍒 on top 🔥

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +2

      Thankyou 😊 Sis....welcome to the family ❤️

  • @DatDyme980
    @DatDyme980 3 месяца назад +4

    12:48 She's gorgeous. You go sis!🎯💯

  • @JuniorHendricks-b5w
    @JuniorHendricks-b5w Месяц назад +1

    I love ur video u don't talk too much u have valuable info

  • @kimkimi6285
    @kimkimi6285 2 месяца назад +1

    I wasn’t raised that a man would do this until I met some ..the man even act like he wanted everything I been liking.. Man this wack like crack 😂 A.k.a Jealousy’s 😮😅

  • @UnluckyGirl81
    @UnluckyGirl81 3 месяца назад +2

    I enjoyed hearing your commentary about your life experiences! It's good to talk about these things because it helps to talk about it (I think) and also to educate those that don't know. Keep up the good work! ❤

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +1

      Glad you enjoyed it!❤️ Thankyou for the love

  • @blaqwabbit
    @blaqwabbit 3 месяца назад +29

    Nicki husband is a badddddd example. He at home with the son because he on house arrest for being a convicted rapist lol 😅

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +5

      😂😂😂then I got it really wrong right there....

    • @kbb649
      @kbb649 3 месяца назад +2

      Nicki husband support her

    • @blaqwabbit
      @blaqwabbit 3 месяца назад

      @@kbb649 then y they getting divorced?

    • @kbb649
      @kbb649 3 месяца назад

      @@blaqwabbit they not getting divorce. Where you got that from?

    • @blaqwabbit
      @blaqwabbit 3 месяца назад

      @@kbb649 divorce might be questionable but she said herself she wasn't being supported at her concert. U can find clips of that

  • @soitiswritten88
    @soitiswritten88 3 месяца назад +2

    I loved this! Thank you.

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад

      Thankyou for watching..💕I'm glad you enjoyed it

  • @crystal.diorrr
    @crystal.diorrr 3 месяца назад +1

    Yep, if a man even dare to raise his voice at me for no reason or raise his hand at me I’m out. I know what will come after that and the same for men if the women does this leave. That relationship his about to get toxic in the next coming months. If y’all having a small argument whatever whatever that’s common , but if they yell and there’s no reason to get out ASAP

  • @Website_Blogs
    @Website_Blogs 17 дней назад +1

    Geez this is just demonic! Protect yourself out there. Love yourself no one is going to truly love you more.

  • @imjussayn7936
    @imjussayn7936 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow I got it. SPEECHLESS 😮

  • @C2Different
    @C2Different 3 месяца назад

    Straight Facts ❤

  • @Sandra-jo1lj
    @Sandra-jo1lj 3 месяца назад +4

    Yup a leech and all he did while with me was go out and get more leeches 🤦😂🤣 Wow what a plan 👀🚶‍➡️🚶‍➡️

  • @tiffanytalley1029
    @tiffanytalley1029 3 месяца назад +5

    How do you talk too much on your platform?Whatever sis I enjoyed this video❤❤..

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +2

      Ikr.....😂😂I'm glad you did💕

  • @brendalott3090
    @brendalott3090 3 месяца назад

    So so.sad but true.😅.that why they.try to.break.you.down fact he not lieing yall.

  • @obamadreamsvisionsqueenami6250
    @obamadreamsvisionsqueenami6250 3 месяца назад +2

    You are fighting demons...

  • @kimsanders8262
    @kimsanders8262 3 месяца назад

    Watching these videos, I'm learning a lot wish I seen these years ago. I see how dumb I really was.

  • @Sk-ev8rm
    @Sk-ev8rm 3 месяца назад

    Love this girl❤

  • @LaraY44488
    @LaraY44488 3 месяца назад +1

    So true 🙏🏻🧿

  • @teresam5199
    @teresam5199 3 месяца назад +1

    And i say again: DIVEST ‼️

  • @queenofpeaceandlove1413
    @queenofpeaceandlove1413 2 месяца назад

    So true.❤

  • @angelawilliams5153
    @angelawilliams5153 3 месяца назад +7

    Be careful ladies there is a difference between jealousy and envy. Jealousy isn’t that big of a deal. We all feel it all the time.
    I can be jealous of my friend, but I still want my friend to have good things even if they’re better than my things.
    Envy is when you’re jealous and you don’t want them to have anything nice you’re jealous to the point that nobody should get anything either and that’s not OK. That is dangerous.
    I think a little bit of jealousy can inspire people to try harder I think envy is hurtful….
    Definitely keep your eye out for that. A guy who is a tiny bit jealous, and uses that to rise above is OK because we all feel that a guy who is envious and uses that to tear you down as a whole other story.

    • @tellerofunpopulartruths1344
      @tellerofunpopulartruths1344 3 месяца назад

      Now this is a fact. If they envy you they can kill you that’s how bad they want what you have

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +1

      I think it's the other way around...envy is what you described as jealousy and sth else no man will be inspired by your success 99.99% of them will do everything to tear you down and bring you down to their level

    • @badgyrl310
      @badgyrl310 2 месяца назад

      @@mskabue Well envy is one of the seven deadly sins (greed, lust, envy, pride, gluttony, wrath, sloth), so envy is technically probably worse, but honestly to me they're basically the same. Both creates the same feeling. They're synonyms that can be used interchangeably imo. 🤷🏽‍♀

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets 3 месяца назад +7

    Yaani waliclick kwa page yako and then say you talk too much? As in?? Kwani anataka usimame hapo bila kuongea? Some people are not normal 😅

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад +3

      😂😂badala aende afanye Ivo kwake

  • @-quarlaCarla
    @-quarlaCarla 3 месяца назад +2

    I watched the whole 41:52. Thank you for your time

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад

      Thankyou for yours too ❤️❤️😘

  • @Dkanoun
    @Dkanoun 3 месяца назад +1

    My child father told me I was stupid for trying better myself and go back to school smh

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 месяца назад

      💀💀he simply didn't expect you'd do better for yourself he wanted you stuck in misery...but glad you made the right decision

  • @easylivingwithniecy4317
    @easylivingwithniecy4317 3 месяца назад

    💯 on target 🎯

  • @Nicole12445
    @Nicole12445 3 месяца назад

    A fucking men I wish he could have just kept talking that was very touching

  • @jewleneb8970
    @jewleneb8970 2 месяца назад

    If he's Jealous, Run away. Don't turn around!! Jealousy is cruel as the grave 🪦