Consequences of Traumatic Bonding | Stages & Patterns | Psychotherapy Crash Course

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  • Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024

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  • @TherapistTamaraHill
    @TherapistTamaraHill  3 года назад +9

    Hope this is helpful!! See you next video.

    • @fairygurl9269
      @fairygurl9269 3 года назад +1

      Replacing Ruminations with Self Reflection = More Energy AND Productivity.🤗
      Much Peace To all the Parts That Drive You !🧼🧽🧠

  • @eddielacrosse2
    @eddielacrosse2 3 года назад +9

    This video made me cry. And I am thankful. After quitting Weed, I've been able to feel my emotions more clearly. I have been abused by so many people in my family. For decades. I finally have gotten the strength to walk away. It feels like Love for myself, but there is healing that needs to be done.
    Thank you.

    • @TherapistTamaraHill
      @TherapistTamaraHill  3 года назад

      Eddie, that's a good sign that you are feeling your emotions again. A lot of people do not realize that marijuana numbs you. There's this pervasive belief that marijuana "makes me feel" and "helps me stay calm" or "keeps me from being angry." That may be true in SOME cases but not in all. And it may be true for those who are not getting it off the street where it can be laced. Either way, it can stop your emotions so for you to say this sounds like a breakthrough.

  • @butterflypurplesilver444
    @butterflypurplesilver444 3 года назад +1

    Your example was exactly my personal experience. Wow.

  • @fairygurl9269
    @fairygurl9269 3 года назад +5

    It is Worth the Discomfort to Dislodge!!
    Here's sending out True Hope, Peace, Love, & Sooooo much Compassion for Those who are Traveling thru this Journey💞✌

  • @Homoclite
    @Homoclite 3 года назад +2

    I’ve missed you the last couple weeks and it wasn’t by desire. This is a very thought provoking video and jammed with great info. ✊🏽🖤

  • @maristahuddleston6213
    @maristahuddleston6213 3 года назад +4

    Thanks 🙏🏽 for all you do. Always on time 🌹❤️‍🩹

  • @queennchronicales7815
    @queennchronicales7815 3 года назад +1

    Once again another great video. I missed your live today I will try to catch the next one.

  • @petermonis4616
    @petermonis4616 3 года назад +3

    thank You! another great one

  • @allysonjackson5610
    @allysonjackson5610 3 года назад +1

    This is very in depth Miss Hill. Please follow up with more on this and enmeshment. It was very useful like always. Stay well!! ✌

  • @carolerbph.d3567
    @carolerbph.d3567 3 года назад +1

    Love your video Tamara, thanks for sharing the wonderful topic.!

  • @TheWrightGroupSEO
    @TheWrightGroupSEO 3 года назад +2

    This is painful😞😞😞. My emotions are all over the place today😥😥😥

    • @TherapistTamaraHill
      @TherapistTamaraHill  3 года назад +1

      I'm sorry. I know the feeling. But perhaps this will be clensing for you. Many of my clients say it is.

    • @TheWrightGroupSEO
      @TheWrightGroupSEO 3 года назад +1

      @@TherapistTamaraHill I hope so

  • @samibaheru4029
    @samibaheru4029 3 года назад +2

    Family like you mention most of the time assumes their children possess some demons and then abandonment.If that is true ,What is left for the children to fight their demons for the rest of their life.

  • @amybae4188
    @amybae4188 3 года назад +3

    I was trauma bonded to my mother.... It hurts

  • @queennchronicales7815
    @queennchronicales7815 3 года назад +3

    I also feel like when these people become parents they trauma base parent there own kids.

  • @queennchronicales7815
    @queennchronicales7815 3 года назад +2

    Do you think this happens to people who parents abandoned them. I know someone who was raised by other people I feel like because there was not parents involved in there life they are struggling with this situation which in turns they are serverly damage.

    • @nodozhit
      @nodozhit 3 года назад

      There may be some kind of emotional void or imbalance-
      but the psychological effects of growing up without my biological parents' love and affection is not my malfunction nor is it my missing magic bullet.
      It takes a village to raise a child.
      In my situation, I was adopted at birth and abandoned at age 5 and abused and bullied until age 12.
      I was kind of advanced for my age because I had to grow up quick.
      Yet and still, I started unlearning some things around the age of 25.
      I've had my share of struggles with entrusting others and finding my own way of fitting in with others; and I made my share of bad decisions, but it was still more like I was raised to embrace Christian values and share in our Good Lord's Grace and Glory.
      And I still had to learn how treat people and not take people too personally and still remember to be mindful of others' human condition.
      Ultimately, it is my prerogative to remember my manners and do my best to become a better version of myself that can be the bigger person anytime a conflict unfolds.
      Lots of people came from the school of hard knocks. Therapy, counseling, or self-help aids us all in overcoming our personal mishaps, mistakes, and misfortunes.
      Some of us just have to develop positive mental attitudes or try to accentuate the positives in any given situation.
      But all of the people who come from those broken homes aren't inherently broken people who will mindlessly perpetuate the same cycle of dysfunction within their individual circles of control.

  • @awsome6240
    @awsome6240 3 года назад

    Wow! Sounds so familiar

  • @nancybartley4610
    @nancybartley4610 Год назад

    How do we take this into adult life? By this I mean how will our relationships with others look? Will we be able to form friendships and keep them?

  • @NoBody-xj4bc
    @NoBody-xj4bc 3 года назад +2

    🔥

  • @AdamantlyAdams
    @AdamantlyAdams Год назад +1

    Yeah!