Hi there, Diniele I myself think that what passes as "inappriate" depends on the type of people in the group. In university, there are students that give their opinions without considering the restraint of time to give the other students a chance to reply~they just go on and on~especially in large classes. They do not consider the limited class time for all students to offer their own replies. I consider this to be "inappropriate ". If one is in a group of aggressive people, where interrupting others is common, then your interrupting is not really "inappropriate". It depends on the type of people. In a mix of polite, aggressive, and shy people (classes are like that), I personally would wait for an "in" (like taking turns in jump rope), and then jump in with my reply. If you want your leave, just say "excuse me", and go! A parent concerned about their child's anger and aggression might try asking what is bothering them, or get them to show what is bothering them through play: using clay, drawing, puppets, and so on. The parent has to be intelligent about this.
Your doing a great job expressing yourself. It takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there. I think there are a lot of people who relate to your experiences and you are helping them understand what they are going through.
The direction issue is probably adhd with autism. My kids have adhd, cant give them more than one direction at a time. I have autism and adhd together as well. Also, i laugh or smile when very upset or anxious. Got into a fight with a past boyfriend and to keep from crying, since people dont like you crying, i started laughing which made it worse. I just found out im autistic a month ago at 44. Now in counseling. Great video ❤️
I'm brand new to your channel and just diagnosed at 46 with Level 1 ASD (although my psychologist used the old term of high functioning Autism, formerly known as Asperger's). I don't have an intellectual disability, but I did have several years of speech therapy as a child, beginning at age 3 and continuing on in elementary school. My young adult children actually diagnosed me, and themselves, before I had any clue. I got into therapy for what I now realize is Autistic Burnout and told my therapist that I'd like to be assessed for Autism and ADHD. She was instrumental in helping me get the appointment with the clinical psychologist, and I'm sure that if the therapist didn't agree with my suspicion, she would have suggested we stick with therapy first for a while. I'm sticking with therapy post-diagnosis, and am pretty sure that I'm her first late diagnosed Autistic, because she's asked me to send any articles or videos that I find helpful to her. Anyway, thank you. You've got a new sub. I appreciate how you talk, it's sort of like listening to myself. Who knew it was a thing? I've had friends tell me that they like how I talk, even though it's a little bit different.
Awesome video Diniel 👏 When I was younger I would process my own overwhelming emotions by crying when I felt hurt & I cried A LOT. I felt embarrassed, ashamed & humiliated cause it usually happened around others.. I was always told to stop crying and stop being so sensitive. I truly wanted to stop, but physically I couldn't stop the tears. All I could do was ride it out till my body would reset itself back to a calmer state. Over time I've learned to accept myself & appreciate how sensitive I am. Now when I feel hurt & overwhelmed I try to be my own best friend & tell myself that these intense emotions won't last forever. I try to practice self care by doing things that I know will bring me joy like watching something funny, listening to music or treating myself to something delicious. Now when I reflect on these experiences I feel I've made it thru the otherside a little stronger, wiser & more in tune with myself ☺️💓👑
Oh my gosh this is a thing I have the hardest time with his stopping a conversation so I just get more and more anxiety ridden and excited and by the end of it I can either be sweating or just really want to go home and not talk to anybody. But it is a strange experience it's like I don't know how to end a conversation so I just get more and more anxiety start talking a lot more and faster kind of like I'm doing right now.
@@AZ-delaware I'm sorry you've been getting discouraged. I get it. But I meant everything I said!! I LOVE listening to your videos. They are really soothing for me. You're amazing 💙
I love your videos. I've said it before but your speech is wonderful. I think your very eloquent. I love and appreciate seeing/hearing someone like me explaining behavior traits so clearly.
Hi there, Diniele
I myself think that what passes as "inappriate" depends on the type of people in the group.
In university, there are students that give their opinions without considering the restraint of time to give the other students a chance to reply~they just go on and on~especially in large classes. They do not consider the limited class time for all students to offer their own replies. I consider this to be "inappropriate ".
If one is in a group of aggressive people, where interrupting others is common, then your interrupting is not really "inappropriate".
It depends on the type of people. In a mix of polite, aggressive, and shy people (classes are like that), I personally would wait for an "in" (like taking turns in jump rope), and then jump in with my reply.
If you want your leave, just say "excuse me", and go!
A parent concerned about their child's anger and aggression might try asking what is bothering them, or get them to show what is bothering them through play: using clay, drawing, puppets, and so on. The parent has to be intelligent about this.
Your doing a great job expressing yourself. It takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there. I think there are a lot of people who relate to your experiences and you are helping them understand what they are going through.
I really appreciate the support thank you. Definitely takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there, I just hope I'm able to help others
The direction issue is probably adhd with autism. My kids have adhd, cant give them more than one direction at a time. I have autism and adhd together as well.
Also, i laugh or smile when very upset or anxious. Got into a fight with a past boyfriend and to keep from crying, since people dont like you crying, i started laughing which made it worse.
I just found out im autistic a month ago at 44. Now in counseling.
Great video ❤️
Thank you I always appreciate the girls commenting 💖
I'm brand new to your channel and just diagnosed at 46 with Level 1 ASD (although my psychologist used the old term of high functioning Autism, formerly known as Asperger's). I don't have an intellectual disability, but I did have several years of speech therapy as a child, beginning at age 3 and continuing on in elementary school. My young adult children actually diagnosed me, and themselves, before I had any clue. I got into therapy for what I now realize is Autistic Burnout and told my therapist that I'd like to be assessed for Autism and ADHD. She was instrumental in helping me get the appointment with the clinical psychologist, and I'm sure that if the therapist didn't agree with my suspicion, she would have suggested we stick with therapy first for a while. I'm sticking with therapy post-diagnosis, and am pretty sure that I'm her first late diagnosed Autistic, because she's asked me to send any articles or videos that I find helpful to her.
Anyway, thank you. You've got a new sub. I appreciate how you talk, it's sort of like listening to myself. Who knew it was a thing? I've had friends tell me that they like how I talk, even though it's a little bit different.
I really like your vibe, so easy to listen to and down to earth!
Oh, thank you very much! I really appreciate your kind words.
Awesome video Diniel 👏 When I was younger I would process my own overwhelming emotions by crying when I felt hurt & I cried A LOT. I felt embarrassed, ashamed & humiliated cause it usually happened around others.. I was always told to stop crying and stop being so sensitive. I truly wanted to stop, but physically I couldn't stop the tears. All I could do was ride it out till my body would reset itself back to a calmer state. Over time I've learned to accept myself & appreciate how sensitive I am. Now when I feel hurt & overwhelmed I try to be my own best friend & tell myself that these intense emotions won't last forever. I try to practice self care by doing things that I know will bring me joy like watching something funny, listening to music or treating myself to something delicious. Now when I reflect on these experiences I feel I've made it thru the otherside a little stronger, wiser & more in tune with myself ☺️💓👑
Yea I noticed, if I do not like a texture during eatings or touching, I cannot do it. Always felt like an alien.
Great job! What your doing is one of the best meds for the Soul. A big part part healing is exactly what your doing, your helping yourself and others.
Thank you for the support & words of encouragement. I definitely hope to help others have had any similar situations
As always great content 👀😁 and thank you for sharing 💯
Thank you for your information! Very helpful. 🙂
Great video!
Oh my gosh this is a thing I have the hardest time with his stopping a conversation so I just get more and more anxiety ridden and excited and by the end of it I can either be sweating or just really want to go home and not talk to anybody. But it is a strange experience it's like I don't know how to end a conversation so I just get more and more anxiety start talking a lot more and faster kind of like I'm doing right now.
Hi Richard you are definitely not alone in how you feel. Entering or ending a conversation has always been a challenge for me as well
@@AZ-delaware Thank you for that. Actually, Richard is my husband. I'm Missy. Nice to meet you.
Another great video, Diniel! Just want to say that you're so pretty and your very well spoken in your videos. 💙
Thank you. Iv been getting discouraged & the support is really appreciated 💖
@@AZ-delaware I'm sorry you've been getting discouraged. I get it. But I meant everything I said!! I LOVE listening to your videos. They are really soothing for me. You're amazing 💙
I did not know that about girls on the spectrum. as guy on the spectrum I struggle with social norms and I can not read body language.
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My names dinnell lol
I love your videos. I've said it before but your speech is wonderful. I think your very eloquent. I love and appreciate seeing/hearing someone like me explaining behavior traits so clearly.
Aww💖 Thank you for the positive feedback!! Hopefully with time I won't be so nervous to be on camera, I think that's why the speech is bad.
Hey do u have Instagram?
No Instagram
@@AZ-delaware oh ok, How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?