Breakup Brad, you are a genius. I've been listening and applying your advice to my dating life. So far, I've noticed a huge difference in the way I'm treated and the results I want. I'm so happy I came across your channel.
Help yourself feel better too. Life is short! :-) Go out there and meet your friends, take a new hobby whenever possible. Basically just try to live your life again before meeting your ex, that's when you'll get the best chance of getting her back. Best of luck and thanks for watching!
Exactly, not to mention that it helps you give more clarity to the situation and your ex, especially if you're dealing with an abusive one. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Take care!
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Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
I've done everything possible to make sure she will not come back!! But I'm very glad you mentioned that we are not bad or we have to be better for them!! Thank you
Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Best of luck!
Great advice , Dam I’ve done all those stupid things in the last 10 weeks of break ups , until last week I rang and said I need to stop coming through , it’s hard going no contact but it’s for the best
Yes, your best bet is still to cut off contact completely for around a month or even more in order to clear your heads. You'd increase your chances of getting your ex back if you've got your sh*t together than if you were doing the opposite of the no contact rule which is begging/pleading or negotiating/trying to woo your ex again. Well, there are a few rare who take their exes back if you beg/plead but it hardly ever lasts since these people are taking their exes back out of pity. So my point is, don't let your ex take you back out of pity, all right? The best way to avoid that is to work on yourself and get your life together by having fun, hobbies, etc. and to stop chasing your ex. I've made numerous videos about the "no contact" rule and why it's important. Check those out. Also watch the stories here and try not to be a statistic: ruclips.net/video/1U_IOm8ofFo/видео.html
Every person thinks different but in my case if a person leaves me in my bad momments then I think it's better if he is away in the good ones too. He is an ex for a reason ;)
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
I was just dumped after 3 years of being together after moving to the UK for my ex, it’s been hard but I will definitely be applying all of these tactics because I truly love her and believe somewhere that she still cares . I’m going to just have o contact for 30 days and if we bump into each other at college I’ll just give a little “hi” and be on my way. Thank you for these tips 😊
You're welcome. Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Best of luck!
I genuinely think you are the best the way you speak, the tips you give i look forward to have one to one coaching session with you soon keep up the good work , greetings from Algeria 🇩🇿
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Brad, I made a bunch of mistakes in the first two weeks after my breakup. I apologized a lot, asked why, and I allowed her to continue the flow of conversation until we got to the point in which we don’t talk. I’m in the no contact phase, but I’m wondering is this a lost cause now?
Broke up with my girlfriend for about 2 years. Begged and plead. She's in a relationship now. Now were living more than a thousand miles from each other. And I am not doing any drama regarding the break up. I guess I've moved on. But I do miss her sometimes. Do you think that she can probably miss me too ?
Hey Brad. My gf broke up with me last week and she made contact with me Tuesday this week. She asked how I was and we had a quick conversation. She said night and I replied with goodnight, it was nice talking to you. She aired the message in the morning. The convo was positive.
That's what I call the "check-in" text and your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and here's how to handle each text. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message, here: ruclips.net/video/VMAHVJ6tvSM/видео.html
Not an ex but an acquaintance that rejected me. Only hung out 3-5 times over 3 years ago, got rejected & haven't seen her since. 2 months ago, she contacted me saying she was sorry and she wanted 'closure' (pfft) Just did small talk of only 1 text and her replying. Thats it. This video seems helpful.
I created a slideshow of our relationship together the day he broke up with me and sent it to him. I did all the wrong things within the first three days. Do I still have a chance?
Watch this first: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html So it's it's best you go by the golden rules here as much as possible: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html Now I can't assess the damage per se, assuming you've only begged for a short while as opposed to months on end, and it may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Cant find my last comment so I type again: Hi. Brad I made a mistake last week and texted her around 1h after 17d. Do u think nc can still work or I screwed? And btw I just talk about what I did in last 2 and half weeks shortly and shared some musics.
My ex is my ex, we are in good terms now but not to the extent that we are getting back together, just friends thats it! I am happy now without him as my boyfriend.
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
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Hi Brad! I love your videos. She communicates to the other before breakup that first week of December. And now ask for space for the both of us. Is no contact still a step to do?
If I understand your question correctly.... yes, you should apply No Contact for at least a few weeks, especially if she's specifically asking for space
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You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
It seems to be effective . Im trying myself to get my ex-girlfriend who lost interested all of a sudden. I asked her the problem and she never mentioned it until now. Later we broke up , we still have a contact each since we are in the same class. It's a tough period. If this tips useful , I would be happy. But im proving myself better while im listening your advice. Great work!
Hey brad, I started no contact 3 weeks ago. But I wasn’t happy with how I left things. I used your clean slate text and she responded well. Do I need to restart my no contact?
Wait a few more days before contacting her. Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
it hurts because we stopped talking for a while and then he came back apologizing and all and i thought that yes he finally realized my worth as soon as we started talking again he never mentioned us coming back and we kept talking as friends . guess I was just a person he got the validation he was seeking for with no intention to actually work things out
You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
So, you've completed 3+ weeks of No Contact already? If so, good job. Probably safest to stick it out for another few days until Sunday before you start thinking about reaching out, but you're nearly there! Watch this vid before you contact her: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html
We did no contact for close to a month, no progress. We talked yesterday and I guess we’re gonna be friends so either way it’s easier. Move on by drifting apart or fix things in the healthiest way possible instead of jumping right back into things.
I don't know your entire situation but it looks like you're on the right track. The progress should be felt on your end... this is assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
Will this work for my husband that has left and been gone almost 5 months? We still text occasionally, he always texts me first. He says he don't know what he wants to do. I made the mistake of telling him I was giving up and moving on. I think he took it by surprise. I totally figured I wouldn't hear from him. And he texted, we had small talk. He says "I don't know ALOT"!!
If things seem hopeless and you're wanting to save the marriage on your own, my clients found their peace by having applied the tips similar to the ones I mentioned on these videos: ruclips.net/video/F1nFUvtof7Y/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/lvH0STXVqdI/видео.html If you're still having trouble, consider signing up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
Brad, I would like to say thank you for your help, but unfortunately my ex moved on way to quick, she’s 16 and she had moved on for a 26 year old who lives on another continent. This is a week after the break up bearing in mind. Is there any hope ?
The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Your ex is diverting his/her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/7KE6nb4-ndA/видео.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/TBtb34gy6zw/видео.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
It's off to a bad start if you agreed on being friends right away instead of giving each other space first. If you meant you ended things with your ex though instead of being broken up with, try to apply the tips here: ruclips.net/video/IhGnPtpJTbM/видео.html
I broke up with my girlfriend because she was desperate for me to collect money for marriage, I was on a tuff spot to do that since my salary is small, we've been together for 3 years . And she was controling me for the past 3 years I just follow her words attitude, because I love her. But the time came where I can never put up with that. And frustrated when she ask about the money, she was a college student. And now after the brake up months after I'm still sad and feel regret.. I don't know what to do, she was toxic to me she didn't respect me anymore. But I still love her. So many memories it's hard to move on.
Sorry to hear that. In situations like this, I always suggest for folks to really take a step back, gain the clarity you need (that she was abusive to you and may only want your money) and then accept it for what it is. Being stuck happens when you have this idealized version of how your ex really is and how she has treated you versus who she really is and what the relationship was about. Yes, it takes time to do all that, I've had clients who has suffered for 5, 10, even 14 years in an abusive relationship, but with time, you'll get there. Right now your mind is having trouble accepting because of the great memories you two shared and it's trying to make sense with how she was with you towards the end of the relationship, when her mask came off and she showed you who she really is. Get my coaching program if you need more help with this and/or make sure you watch this, too: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html
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Hey brad, Can you please make a video on having a break, like me and my girlfriend we are have a break and beings friends right now and hoping for the best,can you please help.she’s still cares for me but she’s just isn’t have the vibe she had before what may I do to bring it back. Loved this video it is of a great help, Thank you so much 😊❤️
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Hey Brad I broke up with my Ex four years ago. But in the first two years i gave him all the signals that i wanted us to get back together but he kept passing them all and didn't reciprocate my efforts so i gave up. I've been like waiting for him to act but nothing until lately when I found out he might be seeing someone and i feel very horrible and sad about it. All the pain just hit me back again. What should I do Brad?
Always strive for balance in relationships. If you're the one constantly giving without getting anything in return, that should be your clue to walk away.
Hey brad I need some guidance. My ex and I had a one month break and then decided to break up. The breakup went well and we agreed that it was mutual. I am currently in no contact and am curious what next steps I should be taking once no contact is up. P.s we are still friends
I would say don't reach out. Let him come to you, and if he does just assume he is interested again. Be normal and casual the way you were when you first knew him. If he is really interested he will ask you out again.
brad! it’s been months since my ex has spoken to me. i never got the chance to apologize for my how i acted leading up to the breakup. she now goes to school 2,000 miles away. should i send her something with an apology along with it? thank you 🙏
Yes, I do, especially if it makes you feel better and just get it off your chest... assuming you really did something wrong. What did you do? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html and from my other vid here: ruclips.net/video/PN-07kAtIjw/видео.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html
Heyy Brad..!! We are in a long distance relationship and we broke up 4days back.. We didn't have a fight...He just blocked me off saying he loves me but can't do it with me anymore...Out of frustration I blocked him back...Should I call him or take the no contact..? Or should I unblock him to make it work ? Plsss do Rplyyy🙏❤
Unblock him when it's time to contact. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
How on earth would no contact help to get someone back? I did that unconciously with my ex, way before I've even heard about any "winning your ex back techniques". I was just mad at her and didn't want to contact her, but after about a month I started to miss her, so I wrote to her and we started talking. Turned out she already had a new guy. I now think she ended up with him exactly because I didn't contact her and she felt very sad and lonely, so she was susceptible to romance and feelings from other guys. She was hot so there were always some guys hitting on her, that made it easy for her to get comfort after break up. And no, she didn't left because she already had a new guy, we broke up after a big argument, and we were both mad at each other.
How long were you in a relationship with her? It doesn't look like there were deep emotions there if she can do that easily... or she may be rebounding, depending on what your real issues were in the relationship aside from the constant fights especially if you constantly ghost her for long periods of time after the fights. And no, she may not have dumped you for someone else, but 9 times out of 10, she already has stacked up a bunch of suitors for her to go to as soon as you two break up. It's her escape plan.
@@BradBrowning 7 years man. We've been through so much shit, obstacles, fights yet we stayed together, that was a love like in movies but that's a story for another time, so don't say there were no emothions, while I stated why she found someone so quickly, and the reasons are exactly because she had so much emotions in her that she had to release them in a way she in that time thought would help her. Idk why you speak about "constant ghosting", I've never said that, even after big fights we couldn't stand not to contact each other for more than an hour. We didn't even have almost any fights in about a year before breakup. It's not that I'm making it up, we've been talking with eachother after the breakup, and I know her so well that I can tell what she said about what she did exactly fits her personality. She was mad, lonely, lost, sad, and she hates to be single, like she fears it, that is weird but we talked about it in the past, so I think it is one of the main reasons she found someone so quickly, and those are the reasons we are not together anymore. Idk if she is different than others in those areas but I don't think so. It is psychology, and when you are a pissed off hot girl with a lot of options you will not wait untill HE graciously talks to you and allow you to be together again. Mad sad and lonely state makes girls want to fall in someones arms, so if you wait untill she falls into someone elses... well I don't think that's a good strategy.
I already have begged and pleaded and trust me, I looked like a fool. I was really embarrassed myself. But how can I change that? How can I repair the mistakes so that I can move on
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
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What can I do when my boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him meanwhile I am not? Also we've stopped contacting each other but he hasn't told me if we've broken up or not? What do I do?
Discuss things like adults. What made him think you cheated? What did you do and did you try to explain stuff to him?Just do your best to explain it to him and give him time to process that information.
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Im ur fans from Thailand. I try to follow ur videos😋 i hope he will come back in no time! Now me and him still talking to each other he say like he give me a chance but we start like friends first so he will see how it goes. And see if i can change myself as i told him or not😂 wish me luck🥺
If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: ruclips.net/video/bZ1KetALZrc/видео.html
Hii Brad.... I watched many videos of you it's mind relaxing one during this my breakup situation . I don't know what to do after 30 days no contact , I want to initiate the text with my ex or I want to continue the no contact after 30 days and wait for my ex text ???
Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Right before me and my ex broke up we were sitting in the bathroom holding hands and crying about how she doesn’t want to lose me and that I’m her soulmate in a friend kind of way and we wasn’t exited to see me when I went over anymore then we shared a kiss, do you think I have a chance or should I move on?
She's acting confused, which is understandable. Give her time and space. Discussed that confusing behaviour your ex tends to experience here: ruclips.net/video/LtzNIbWP1pQ/видео.html
Hi Brad! We broke up almost 2 months ago, and within the first month we were seeing each other and trying to adjust things. But he said he wants to be alone to do the things he wants to do in life, without having to do anything for anyone. I found out he's been seeing a girl for two weeks. What to do? i broke up with him but i was doing this too often.
The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Your ex is diverting his attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/7KE6nb4-ndA/видео.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/TBtb34gy6zw/видео.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
Sorry to hear. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then it's good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html however, due to the current global health crisis, everything may be put on hold. Remember, your health comes first so there's nothing much left to do but to use your time productively and change your perception for a bit and see this as an opportunity for a lot of things. Pain is also a great catalyst, so use that to work on things within yourself that you know needed some work. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
I work with her in the same facility so we cross paths every now and then she asked for time and I want to give it to her but working around each other "I'm maintenance" she's "therapy" it's Healthcare.... makes it hard to no contact at times. What should I do becuase i don't think this will be effective? We ended on understanding each other and I know she isn't seeing anyone else.
Do limited contact instead and keep any limited conversation you have strictly work related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
I am three days in to no contact the last thing I said to my ex through text was that I had some of her things to get back to her she did not reply. She text me today just a random text saying that she took a kratom shot that I bout for her and that she was feeling it. As of now I have not replied what should I do brad?
Shes playing a game or testing you. She messaged you to see if you would reply just wait a day and say something like "oh cool" or "nice" and leave it at that then she will text you more then just gradually build things back up
@@harleyduhon2415 your doing the no contact by waiting a few days the simple reply is just nothing more then acknowledgement then leave it at that then she will start to wonder and end up messaging you more just play the game
Act cool. That really doesn't matter. Sorry, but that's hardly a sign at all. For solid signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: ruclips.net/video/CsVR7yV4X8k/видео.html
My penpal and I have been exchanging letters for years now… we recently ran into this app Text a letter and we’ve been sending 2 letters per week because it is sooo freakin easy
I really hate to burst your bubble here but let her finish whatever unfinished business she has with this ex. Sorry, but there's not much you can do at this point, especially if your relationship only lasted a short while and more so if she's seemingly (subconsciously or not) used you as a rebound, for your ex to jump back too quickly with him. Good luck and I hope you find the right woman for you soon!
An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
Hi Brad, what if your ex reaches out to you in a positive way (last msg he wants to meet up) after day 6 into no contact, break-up was two weeks ago. Is it rude to just ignore them? Some say it's still too soon, this no contact is quite confusing.. I'm afraid after 30 days he will start dating someone else.
Assess the risks first if it's all worth it. Remember, meeting up when you're both not ready will only alienate your ex further, and that's best case scenario. Worst case scenario will land you a spot in the dreaded friendzone. Watch this first: ruclips.net/video/Jzb18j7ZMPE/видео.html but if you're both ready, watch this video on how to tell as well as how tips for you on tipping the odds to your favor: ruclips.net/video/eJPGrkuQnm0/видео.html Best of luck!
The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then I'm afraid it's good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey Brad, thanks for the advices. I have one question. What would you advice for me in regards to no contact rules as I am working together in the same department of the same company? In fact, both of us has to do the same work together. Beside this, she is intentionally trying to make me jealous by being into another guy in my office. Please I need you suggestions. Thanks
Do limited contact instead and keep any limited conversation you have strictly work related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship form divorce, pregnancy, financial problems, protection and wealth, etc,,
Hey Brad, need advice. What would you do after say 4 months of contact and I still feeling same but her saying she still needs more time cause she still angry and wants be left alone.
Probably won’t see this but I recently got out of almost 8 year relationship and she said she didn’t want any contact with me and fell out of love with me . I’m blcoked on everything and she’s out there living her life like nothing happened. I asked her I needed a friend because what I was goin through isn’t easy . She told me to figure it out and get over it and to not text her again . Out of nowhere she started treating me like she Dosent care at all . Can this be that she found somone new ?
My ex used to fall out with me nearly every few months for the past eight years, now I think it's over because I said some hurtful things during the last break up. I just lost it! Tired of getting accused of cheating while I'm at work etc. We both have our faults I suppose. Brad, will the no contact work for me due to the fact I said some bad things? Any comments would be much appreciated. Thanks
Have you lied to her in the past? That could be the root cause there why she's having some trust issues. Try to be sympathetic of what she's going through. So try to reassure her. If you haven't lied though and she's just throwing blind accusations, then that's not good. If this is the case, the breakup may be a blessing in disguise.
@@BradBrowning hi, no I haven't lied to her to be honest. She's just insecure it seems for example, when we're driving somewhere, she will accuse me of driving in specific routes as she thinks I'm doing this on purpose so I don't get seen by women who I'm supposedly dealing with etc. I've appologised for the hurtful things I've said but that's as far as it goes. To be honest brad, I feel weak appologising. Please tell me I'm not weak? Lol
I did all these things and then after i stopped talking to them all together and got to the point where i didn't even like them anymore and they tried to contact me telling me sorry and trying to talk to me again... Trust me when you dont want them anymore then they will come back...
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Would it work if your ex broke up with you because they were not willing to convert to your religion to marry you? I accept him how he is but it's just a formality thing he would need to do. He even refuses to even look into it to see if it could work with him, he didn't have this attitude before and it makes me think it's just because he fell out of love :(
We have been for 6 months unofficially together. He just have problems to fall in love with any girl (include me). He really did care for me. He tried so much to fall in love with me. But then it was very emotionally breakup (we wished all good in our lifes for future apart) I am in 2 week NC. Will no contact help to get him back in this situation? I am desperate. He was perfect...
Yes, make him realize what he has lost. Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/ZuHWCWeG1xs/видео.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
I don’t know why he broke up with me, but one of my guy friends sent me a video that was inappropriate on RUclips saying “this is awful” so he wasn’t sending it to me cause he liked me, he sent it to tell me why would someone post stuff like that, and I sent a screen recording to my bf to show him the gross video someone posted, and he acted dry about it and I realized I didn’t have even context in the screen recording. He might’ve thought my guy friend liked me, and taken it the wrong way. He said “it’s cuz he wants you” and then stopped texting. About a hour later he broke up with me. I’m not sure if that’s why he broke up with me, but now he just wants to be friends and I think he’s moving on to another girl. I rlly want him to be happy, and I’m sorry if I sound desperate, but all I do is wanna fight for us. I am truly in love with him. And I don’t wanna lose him. I can’t be his friend because if he moves on, I can’t be happy for him because I like him, how do I fix this and get him back. Is it too late or not?
This depends. A long distance is not easy to maintain, especially if you two had a weak foundation where you don't get to spend time with each other much in person. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html and/or ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hi there! Getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? This vid contains an infograph that might be of help to you: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html but watch this too as this contains equally important information: ruclips.net/video/BLTA4yjTc2I/видео.html The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship form divorce, pregnancy, financial problems, protection and wealth, etc,,
Hey Brad, what do I do if he doesn’t want a relationship rn (maybe in the future) but still loves me, wants me in his life, finds me beautiful etc. Right now he just doesn’t want a relationship how do I change that as soon as possible. (This is after no contact) Right now we are talking daily, planning to meet up next week and continue to meet up etc how do I get him to want a relationship with me
Hi there! Getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? This vid contains an infograph that might be of help to you: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html but watch this too as this contains equally important information: ruclips.net/video/BLTA4yjTc2I/видео.html The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
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I wouldn’t say to my ex that I brought another person to a secluded beach the other day and it looked better than when I went with him… LOL that may make him a bit jealous… I know it would make me a little irked☹️
You're doing it for you and not for anyone else. As to being blocked, I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
Bro my girl broke up with me...She blocked me on whats app only...And i been doing no contact for a month now..After a month she comment and liked my photos on Facebook with a heart react...and...one day i noticed that shes not coming online..soo i went to her profile and i noticed that she was unfriend me...But she didn't blocked me....i need a help..I want to know is why did she do like that? And what should i do now?
Assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: ruclips.net/video/KMMv9ljdrkk/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!
As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
My boyfriend is ignoring me, then twice I have seen him with a girl, I do not know wether he is cheating on me or not but now he cold and distant towards me. Just yesterday he text me and blame me that I am not texting or calling him up,and that I am different to him
Tell me what to do @brad ! Me and my ex have a dog together and I tried the No Contact thing, but he can't respect that and says he misses his dog. No Contact only lasted 2 weeks and he got to see his dog.. I was the one to break up due to daily anxiety, we were together for 6 years, engaged for 3. I really miss him, but he has a rebound relationship and had no problem to jump into another womans arm after 4 weeks after breakup. Please help me.. 💔
The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Your ex is diverting his attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/7KE6nb4-ndA/видео.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/TBtb34gy6zw/видео.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
Watch this first: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html So it's it's best you go by the golden rules here as much as possible: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html Now I can't assess the damage per se, assuming you've only begged for a short while as opposed to months on end, and it may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Good morning brad here from Philippines. I'm using the no contact right now, but i've been seing her post something about letting me go. What should I do about this? Is this a sign that there's no chance for us?
Maybe stop trying to look at your ex's profile/messages/snaps, posts,etc.? An essential part of the "no contact" rule is to turn your focus inwards for a good 30 days, and looking at what your ex is doing and whatnot largely deviates from that point, don't you think? Discussed that here, too: ruclips.net/video/MroLZ7XK9gY/видео.html
It's very important to give it time to let whatever anger and hurt there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/видео.html
Hi brad...it has been a week and a half since i applied no contact rule with my former bf...until yesterday when he texted and i replied...then he kept asking me to take him back...that he wants the old us. I told him i needed to think and he replied that after i have thought things through i give him an answer...Brad! What do i do next?? Coz i still like the dude
Hey brad! Is it cool to ask her to a movie date right after the 30 day no contact if I phrase it correctly? Because we had both talked about seeing it while we were together and I think it would be a good idea, but what are your thoughts? I don’t want to come off too strong but I feel as if this could be a good opportunity.
Honestly bro it’s hard for me to answer that without knowing more. Generally speaking a movie night as the first meeting since no contact would probably be too much too soon, but if you know she’ll agree to it for sure it’s probably a gamble worth taking. It’s sort of up to your intuition to gauge her reaction when you suggest it. If there’s a decent chance she’ll be weirded out or outright decline, don’t do it. Good luck!
Too late brad😭 i did your list of mistakes like begging and pleading, also sudden appearance on my ex workplace to say something and trying to reach her out with her mutual friends on social media in 2 weeks after our break up. Then she blocked me, the later after 1 week, she unblocked me and then after 2 days. She blocked me again even if i didn't do anything.. what should i do brad? 😭 Please help.. i want her back
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
This pandemic has affected people worldwide. Nothing left to do but to use your time productively and change your perception for a bit and see this as an opportunity for a lot of things. Pain is also a great catalyst, so use that to work on things within yourself that you know needed some work. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
Really sorry, but your window of opportunity may have already passed. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/e3l5KWEpIpw/видео.html and especially if you see the signs here: y2u.be/k1myDIp0gSc It's time to move on.
This is what I'm here for! :-) I recommend you to watch my other videos to maximise all that you need to know. Anyway as what so many people here are already doing across my videos, you may also leave a comment detailing your situation (keep it concise, please) and I'll get back to you the soonest I can. So state your situation in a separate comment because I can't backtrack even if I wanted to, got to move on to hundreds of new comments added daily. However, if you need my full attention where I focus in on and prioritize your situation or need a response as soon as possible, feel free to sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
I really don’t do social media, hate it. Any ideas on how to show her I’m good? Ex wife and I reconnected after years. We don’t have same group of friends, only our son and her kids that I’m close with.
Just do well for yourself and if you have mutual friends, which I'm sure you do, word will go around. This is something I've discussed here, around the 4-minute mark: ruclips.net/video/XodgaAi8EbM/видео.html
I’m 12 and my boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago… I’m heartbroken and don’t know what to do!! He keeps looking at me at school with such sad eyes! I know he still likes me I just don’t know what to do! Please help!!
Life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
I used no contact and she got over me within just a week, I cheated but it made me wonder to myself was I actually worth as much as she said if she can forget me and think nothing of me in just 7 days
A key component is to avoid small talk as much as possible, especially during the most critical stage: 30-day "no contact" rule because there's a huge chance your ex may be slowly easing herself away from you. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA The thing with exes, especially the one whose idea is to break the relationship, is they also struggle with the breakup and finding all means to cope...including talking to someone they're used to talking to, a.k.a you. What that leaves you, however, is unknowingly becoming their emotional sponge. So if you want this ex back, you ought to let her feel what it's like not to have you in her life first, so employ the 30-day "no contact" rule, okay? Here's how it can help you: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html An exception is if your ex is trying to contact you about something really important or is sincerely asking you to get back together. Understand that you risk too much by staying in touch and you best not respond unless it’s about something important. Watch this, too: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html
Don't apologize if you have nothing to be really sorry about. However, you ought to take responsibility if you did something wrong. Be the bigger person, but then again this depends on the situation. Only you would know if an apology is overdue or not!
I always try the go out and have fun with my friends approach and I do at the time. But I always end up breaking down crying when I get home because I wish she was there with me.
I feel your pain. It's always awfully painful when the breakup is still fresh. Take time to heal though and love yourself first, all right? Just try to make sure you maximize what you can within this 30-day period such as healing yourself, enjoying your own company, as well as spending time to see where it all went wrong, but only when you start to feel better, so be sure to take time to grieve first and feel the loss and cry all you want but then make an effort to pick yourself up first. Remember, you can't pick someone up (to be back in a relationship with you) if you're also feeling down yourself. Now is the time for self love. So give yourself the time and attention you need to heal first, all right? Make sure you watch my other vids too for more tips on what to do next. Good luck!
My ex blocked me on social media but I didn’t text back because I don’t know if I’m blocked we still have mutual friends and now he’s in a relationship but I just want to be friends what do I doo I can’t even sleep
Unless you've done something really epic to mess up things, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
Hey Brad so i think i’ve figured out how my relationship ended with my girl. First of all we were together for about 7 months. One night we where face timing and i got a little upset with her about something (nothing major) i ended up yelling at her, but i didn’t raise my voice. In general she is very emotional and sensitive, she hung up and started crying her eyes out. A couple minutes later i felt really bad and she ended up calling me back and i apologized and she said she forgave me... so i thought everything was okay. About a week later something wasn’t right... she wasn’t texting me she was only replying to my texts and didn’t want to facetime as much as we used to. This went on for about 3 to 4 weeks. I just thought it was because we haven’t seen each other in a couple months due to the pandemic. I ended up confronting her about it and asked what’s going on. She told me she was feeling distant ever since i got upset with her that one night. About a week later she told me that it would be best if we broke up, she was very emotional about it and said that she still loved me and she hopes things work out in the future. it’s been about a mouth in a half since the break up. I’ve texted her a lot at the beginning. Then i came across your youtube vids and i started following your advice. I haven’t contacted her for a couple weeks now, i’ve been posting on my social media of me having fun and enjoying my life, i’ve told her the break up was good for the both of us, and i haven’t showed her my emotions. Now... i still love her and i want her back more than anything because i honestly feel like she’s the one and we broke up for a silly reason or something. It feels like i’m the reason we broke up and i hate myself so much for it. What do you think my chances of winning her back are? Thanks
I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
It's a different set of rules if you live together. If you still live with your ex, then do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk AND y2u.be/GTjEAGJWTuA I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!
Breakup Brad, you are a genius. I've been listening and applying your advice to my dating life. So far, I've noticed a huge difference in the way I'm treated and the results I want. I'm so happy I came across your channel.
Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: ruclips.net/user/bradbrowning”
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Already did most of these and I think she is way way long gone
He said “fuck it”😭 that really made me feel better after my breakup …. Love this guys energy 😂
Help yourself feel better too. Life is short! :-) Go out there and meet your friends, take a new hobby whenever possible. Basically just try to live your life again before meeting your ex, that's when you'll get the best chance of getting her back. Best of luck and thanks for watching!
Love these videos they help me lots having no contact gives u thinking time and learn if you ever want them back ..
Exactly, not to mention that it helps you give more clarity to the situation and your ex, especially if you're dealing with an abusive one. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Take care!
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Been broken up for 4 months, applying your techniques brad. Wish me luck.
Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Any updates regarding this?
I've done everything possible to make sure she will not come back!! But I'm very glad you mentioned that we are not bad or we have to be better for them!! Thank you
Yes, be a better version for yourself for your ex or for someone new.
These videos are giving me hope Brad! I really do hope it works !!
Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Best of luck!
Great advice , Dam I’ve done all those stupid things in the last 10 weeks of break ups , until last week I rang and said I need to stop coming through , it’s hard going no contact but it’s for the best
Yes, your best bet is still to cut off contact completely for around a month or even more in order to clear your heads. You'd increase your chances of getting your ex back if you've got your sh*t together than if you were doing the opposite of the no contact rule which is begging/pleading or negotiating/trying to woo your ex again. Well, there are a few rare who take their exes back if you beg/plead but it hardly ever lasts since these people are taking their exes back out of pity. So my point is, don't let your ex take you back out of pity, all right? The best way to avoid that is to work on yourself and get your life together by having fun, hobbies, etc. and to stop chasing your ex. I've made numerous videos about the "no contact" rule and why it's important. Check those out. Also watch the stories here and try not to be a statistic: ruclips.net/video/1U_IOm8ofFo/видео.html
Is it ok to start the “no contact “after 2 months?
Every person thinks different but in my case if a person leaves me in my bad momments then I think it's better if he is away in the good ones too. He is an ex for a reason ;)
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
I was just dumped after 3 years of being together after moving to the UK for my ex, it’s been hard but I will definitely be applying all of these tactics because I truly love her and believe somewhere that she still cares . I’m going to just have o contact for 30 days and if we bump into each other at college I’ll just give a little “hi” and be on my way. Thank you for these tips 😊
You're welcome. Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Best of luck!
I genuinely think you are the best the way you speak, the tips you give i look forward to have one to one coaching session with you soon keep up the good work , greetings from Algeria 🇩🇿
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@@BradBrowning I'm already subscribed and I'd be happy to share your channel to all of my circles
Brad, I made a bunch of mistakes in the first two weeks after my breakup. I apologized a lot, asked why, and I allowed her to continue the flow of conversation until we got to the point in which we don’t talk. I’m in the no contact phase, but I’m wondering is this a lost cause now?
Broke up with my girlfriend for about 2 years. Begged and plead. She's in a relationship now. Now were living more than a thousand miles from each other. And I am not doing any drama regarding the break up. I guess I've moved on. But I do miss her sometimes. Do you think that she can probably miss me too ?
If you haven't heard from her in years? Most likely not, man.
Hey Brad. My gf broke up with me last week and she made contact with me Tuesday this week. She asked how I was and we had a quick conversation. She said night and I replied with goodnight, it was nice talking to you. She aired the message in the morning. The convo was positive.
That's what I call the "check-in" text and your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and here's how to handle each text. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message, here: ruclips.net/video/VMAHVJ6tvSM/видео.html
Not an ex but an acquaintance that rejected me. Only hung out 3-5 times over 3 years ago, got rejected & haven't seen her since. 2 months ago, she contacted me saying she was sorry and she wanted 'closure' (pfft) Just did small talk of only 1 text and her replying. Thats it. This video seems helpful.
Thanks a lot❤ all to the point
I created a slideshow of our relationship together the day he broke up with me and sent it to him. I did all the wrong things within the first three days. Do I still have a chance?
Watch this first: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html So it's it's best you go by the golden rules here as much as possible: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html Now I can't assess the damage per se, assuming you've only begged for a short while as opposed to months on end, and it may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Cant find my last comment so I type again: Hi. Brad I made a mistake last week and texted her around 1h after 17d. Do u think nc can still work or I screwed?
And btw I just talk about what I did in last 2 and half weeks shortly and shared some musics.
This all depends on how she responds.
I really love your advices
My ex is my ex, we are in good terms now but not to the extent that we are getting back together, just friends thats it! I am happy now without him as my boyfriend.
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
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I really love this video!
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Hi Brad! I love your videos. She communicates to the other before breakup that first week of December. And now ask for space for the both of us. Is no contact still a step to do?
If I understand your question correctly.... yes, you should apply No Contact for at least a few weeks, especially if she's specifically asking for space
Nice video
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Hey brad!! My girlfriend and I broke up in November but we talked a pretty good amount since then and now. What should I do, did I screw up?
You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
It seems to be effective . Im trying myself to get my ex-girlfriend who lost interested all of a sudden. I asked her the problem and she never mentioned it until now. Later we broke up , we still have a contact each since we are in the same class. It's a tough period. If this tips useful , I would be happy. But im proving myself better while im listening your advice. Great work!
Good. Just make sure you have good conflict resolution and try to see if the problems can be resolved or not.
Hey brad, I started no contact 3 weeks ago. But I wasn’t happy with how I left things. I used your clean slate text and she responded well. Do I need to restart my no contact?
Wait a few more days before contacting her. Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
it hurts because we stopped talking for a while and then he came back apologizing and all and i thought that yes he finally realized my worth as soon as we started talking again he never mentioned us coming back and we kept talking as friends . guess I was just a person he got the validation he was seeking for with no intention to actually work things out
There's no need to stay friends with an ex.
It was too soon to meet up, and never be friends with your ex
You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
Brad how do you do the 30 day rule if you have kids and have to talk to her. Almost impossible to not see or talk to her. I'm confused
Should I do 30 day no contact? Or just don't contact her at all? The 30 day mark is this Sunday
So, you've completed 3+ weeks of No Contact already? If so, good job. Probably safest to stick it out for another few days until Sunday before you start thinking about reaching out, but you're nearly there! Watch this vid before you contact her: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html
We did no contact for close to a month, no progress. We talked yesterday and I guess we’re gonna be friends so either way it’s easier. Move on by drifting apart or fix things in the healthiest way possible instead of jumping right back into things.
I don't know your entire situation but it looks like you're on the right track. The progress should be felt on your end... this is assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
Will this work for my husband that has left and been gone almost 5 months? We still text occasionally, he always texts me first. He says he don't know what he wants to do. I made the mistake of telling him I was giving up and moving on. I think he took it by surprise. I totally figured I wouldn't hear from him. And he texted, we had small talk. He says "I don't know ALOT"!!
If things seem hopeless and you're wanting to save the marriage on your own, my clients found their peace by having applied the tips similar to the ones I mentioned on these videos: ruclips.net/video/F1nFUvtof7Y/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/lvH0STXVqdI/видео.html If you're still having trouble, consider signing up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
Brad, I would like to say thank you for your help, but unfortunately my ex moved on way to quick, she’s 16 and she had moved on for a 26 year old who lives on another continent. This is a week after the break up bearing in mind. Is there any hope ?
The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Your ex is diverting his/her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/7KE6nb4-ndA/видео.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/TBtb34gy6zw/видео.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
Wait wait wait- she’s into a 26 year old?
Thank you for helping me sir
You're very much welcome! Take care!
What if your friends with your ex? What can I do with that? I'm trying to get back together with my ex because I regret breaking up with them.
It's off to a bad start if you agreed on being friends right away instead of giving each other space first. If you meant you ended things with your ex though instead of being broken up with, try to apply the tips here: ruclips.net/video/IhGnPtpJTbM/видео.html
THANK YOU SO MUCH.
You're welcome!
Appreciate man
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Great sir thanks...Love from Brazil
Just what I needed bro💯
Awesome!
I broke up with my girlfriend because she was desperate for me to collect money for marriage, I was on a tuff spot to do that since my salary is small, we've been together for 3 years . And she was controling me for the past 3 years I just follow her words attitude, because I love her. But the time came where I can never put up with that. And frustrated when she ask about the money, she was a college student. And now after the brake up months after I'm still sad and feel regret.. I don't know what to do, she was toxic to me she didn't respect me anymore. But I still love her. So many memories it's hard to move on.
Sorry to hear that. In situations like this, I always suggest for folks to really take a step back, gain the clarity you need (that she was abusive to you and may only want your money) and then accept it for what it is. Being stuck happens when you have this idealized version of how your ex really is and how she has treated you versus who she really is and what the relationship was about. Yes, it takes time to do all that, I've had clients who has suffered for 5, 10, even 14 years in an abusive relationship, but with time, you'll get there. Right now your mind is having trouble accepting because of the great memories you two shared and it's trying to make sense with how she was with you towards the end of the relationship, when her mask came off and she showed you who she really is. Get my coaching program if you need more help with this and/or make sure you watch this, too: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html
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Hey brad, Can you please make a video on having a break, like me and my girlfriend we are have a break and beings friends right now and hoping for the best,can you please help.she’s still cares for me but she’s just isn’t have the vibe she had before what may I do to bring it back. Loved this video it is of a great help, Thank you so much 😊❤️
Already did. Feel free to browse my other vids! But here's what you're looking for: ruclips.net/video/QPJprJuf-iU/видео.html
Good advice
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Hey Brad
I broke up with my Ex four years ago. But in the first two years i gave him all the signals that i wanted us to get back together but he kept passing them all and didn't reciprocate my efforts so i gave up. I've been like waiting for him to act but nothing until lately when I found out he might be seeing someone and i feel very horrible and sad about it. All the pain just hit me back again.
What should I do Brad?
@@bradbrowning9168 Hello Brad
Always strive for balance in relationships. If you're the one constantly giving without getting anything in return, that should be your clue to walk away.
Hey brad I need some guidance. My ex and I had a one month break and then decided to break up. The breakup went well and we agreed that it was mutual. I am currently in no contact and am curious what next steps I should be taking once no contact is up. P.s we are still friends
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Cut all contact for at least 2 month and don’t be friends with this person.
I would say don't reach out. Let him come to you, and if he does just assume he is interested again. Be normal and casual the way you were when you first knew him. If he is really interested he will ask you out again.
@@RR-oy5mt no bro no contact is for one month two months she might get into a relationship with someone else and not be willing to get back
@@pablosanjuan3941 sometimes one month it’s too soon in my opinion. You have to let the dumper miss you.
brad! it’s been months since my ex has spoken to me. i never got the chance to apologize for my how i acted leading up to the breakup. she now goes to school 2,000 miles away. should i send her something with an apology along with it? thank you 🙏
Yes, I do, especially if it makes you feel better and just get it off your chest... assuming you really did something wrong. What did you do? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html and from my other vid here: ruclips.net/video/PN-07kAtIjw/видео.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html
Heyy Brad..!! We are in a long distance relationship and we broke up 4days back.. We didn't have a fight...He just blocked me off saying he loves me but can't do it with me anymore...Out of frustration I blocked him back...Should I call him or take the no contact..? Or should I unblock him to make it work ?
Plsss do Rplyyy🙏❤
Unblock him when it's time to contact. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
How on earth would no contact help to get someone back? I did that unconciously with my ex, way before I've even heard about any "winning your ex back techniques". I was just mad at her and didn't want to contact her, but after about a month I started to miss her, so I wrote to her and we started talking. Turned out she already had a new guy. I now think she ended up with him exactly because I didn't contact her and she felt very sad and lonely, so she was susceptible to romance and feelings from other guys. She was hot so there were always some guys hitting on her, that made it easy for her to get comfort after break up. And no, she didn't left because she already had a new guy, we broke up after a big argument, and we were both mad at each other.
How long were you in a relationship with her? It doesn't look like there were deep emotions there if she can do that easily... or she may be rebounding, depending on what your real issues were in the relationship aside from the constant fights especially if you constantly ghost her for long periods of time after the fights. And no, she may not have dumped you for someone else, but 9 times out of 10, she already has stacked up a bunch of suitors for her to go to as soon as you two break up. It's her escape plan.
@@BradBrowning 7 years man. We've been through so much shit, obstacles, fights yet we stayed together, that was a love like in movies but that's a story for another time, so don't say there were no emothions, while I stated why she found someone so quickly, and the reasons are exactly because she had so much emotions in her that she had to release them in a way she in that time thought would help her. Idk why you speak about "constant ghosting", I've never said that, even after big fights we couldn't stand not to contact each other for more than an hour. We didn't even have almost any fights in about a year before breakup. It's not that I'm making it up, we've been talking with eachother after the breakup, and I know her so well that I can tell what she said about what she did exactly fits her personality. She was mad, lonely, lost, sad, and she hates to be single, like she fears it, that is weird but we talked about it in the past, so I think it is one of the main reasons she found someone so quickly, and those are the reasons we are not together anymore. Idk if she is different than others in those areas but I don't think so. It is psychology, and when you are a pissed off hot girl with a lot of options you will not wait untill HE graciously talks to you and allow you to be together again. Mad sad and lonely state makes girls want to fall in someones arms, so if you wait untill she falls into someone elses... well I don't think that's a good strategy.
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I already have begged and pleaded and trust me, I looked like a fool. I was really embarrassed myself. But how can I change that? How can I repair the mistakes so that I can move on
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
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What can I do when my boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him meanwhile I am not? Also we've stopped contacting each other but he hasn't told me if we've broken up or not? What do I do?
@Make Saviour okay thank you
Discuss things like adults. What made him think you cheated? What did you do and did you try to explain stuff to him?Just do your best to explain it to him and give him time to process that information.
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Im ur fans from Thailand. I try to follow ur videos😋 i hope he will come back in no time!
Now me and him still talking to each other he say like he give me a chance but we start like friends first so he will see how it goes. And see if i can change myself as i told him or not😂 wish me luck🥺
If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: ruclips.net/video/bZ1KetALZrc/видео.html
Thank you for ur comment🥰🙏🏼 yes will change for myself first but if he comes back then is a bonus!! Haha
Hii Brad.... I watched many videos of you it's mind relaxing one during this my breakup situation . I don't know what to do after 30 days no contact , I want to initiate the text with my ex or I want to continue the no contact after 30 days and wait for my ex text ???
Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Right before me and my ex broke up we were sitting in the bathroom holding hands and crying about how she doesn’t want to lose me and that I’m her soulmate in a friend kind of way and we wasn’t exited to see me when I went over anymore then we shared a kiss, do you think I have a chance or should I move on?
She's acting confused, which is understandable. Give her time and space. Discussed that confusing behaviour your ex tends to experience here: ruclips.net/video/LtzNIbWP1pQ/видео.html
Hi Brad! We broke up almost 2 months ago, and within the first month we were seeing each other and trying to adjust things. But he said he wants to be alone to do the things he wants to do in life, without having to do anything for anyone. I found out he's been seeing a girl for two weeks. What to do? i broke up with him but i was doing this too often.
The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Your ex is diverting his attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/7KE6nb4-ndA/видео.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/TBtb34gy6zw/видео.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
How to get back with your long distance ex during quarantine??? 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
Sorry to hear. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then it's good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html however, due to the current global health crisis, everything may be put on hold. Remember, your health comes first so there's nothing much left to do but to use your time productively and change your perception for a bit and see this as an opportunity for a lot of things. Pain is also a great catalyst, so use that to work on things within yourself that you know needed some work. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
I work with her in the same facility so we cross paths every now and then she asked for time and I want to give it to her but working around each other "I'm maintenance" she's "therapy" it's Healthcare.... makes it hard to no contact at times. What should I do becuase i don't think this will be effective? We ended on understanding each other and I know she isn't seeing anyone else.
Do limited contact instead and keep any limited conversation you have strictly work related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
I am three days in to no contact the last thing I said to my ex through text was that I had some of her things to get back to her she did not reply. She text me today just a random text saying that she took a kratom shot that I bout for her and that she was feeling it. As of now I have not replied what should I do brad?
Shes playing a game or testing you. She messaged you to see if you would reply just wait a day and say something like "oh cool" or "nice" and leave it at that then she will text you more then just gradually build things back up
@@ericfriendzoned1303 so you think it would be better to say oh nice or cool then to go with no contact?
@@harleyduhon2415 your doing the no contact by waiting a few days the simple reply is just nothing more then acknowledgement then leave it at that then she will start to wonder and end up messaging you more just play the game
Act cool. That really doesn't matter. Sorry, but that's hardly a sign at all. For solid signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: ruclips.net/video/CsVR7yV4X8k/видео.html
Yeah I really want a second chance :'(
My penpal and I have been exchanging letters for years now… we recently ran into this app Text a letter and we’ve been sending 2 letters per week because it is sooo freakin easy
What if she's back with her ex boyfriend. Does no contect work.
I really hate to burst your bubble here but let her finish whatever unfinished business she has with this ex. Sorry, but there's not much you can do at this point, especially if your relationship only lasted a short while and more so if she's seemingly (subconsciously or not) used you as a rebound, for your ex to jump back too quickly with him. Good luck and I hope you find the right woman for you soon!
What if you want a 3rd chance with your ex if you were the one that dumped her both times?
An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
Hi Brad, what if your ex reaches out to you in a positive way (last msg he wants to meet up) after day 6 into no contact, break-up was two weeks ago. Is it rude to just ignore them? Some say it's still too soon, this no contact is quite confusing.. I'm afraid after 30 days he will start dating someone else.
Assess the risks first if it's all worth it. Remember, meeting up when you're both not ready will only alienate your ex further, and that's best case scenario. Worst case scenario will land you a spot in the dreaded friendzone. Watch this first: ruclips.net/video/Jzb18j7ZMPE/видео.html but if you're both ready, watch this video on how to tell as well as how tips for you on tipping the odds to your favor: ruclips.net/video/eJPGrkuQnm0/видео.html Best of luck!
Got any videos on long distance relationship?
The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then I'm afraid it's good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey Brad, thanks for the advices. I have one question. What would you advice for me in regards to no contact rules as I am working together in the same department of the same company? In fact, both of us has to do the same work together. Beside this, she is intentionally trying to make me jealous by being into another guy in my office.
Please I need you suggestions. Thanks
Do limited contact instead and keep any limited conversation you have strictly work related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
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Hey Brad, need advice. What would you do after say 4 months of contact and I still feeling same but her saying she still needs more time cause she still angry and wants be left alone.
Probably won’t see this but I recently got out of almost 8 year relationship and she said she didn’t want any contact with me and fell out of love with me . I’m blcoked on everything and she’s out there living her life like nothing happened. I asked her I needed a friend because what I was goin through isn’t easy . She told me to figure it out and get over it and to not text her again . Out of nowhere she started treating me like she Dosent care at all . Can this be that she found somone new ?
I agree with you
My ex used to fall out with me nearly every few months for the past eight years, now I think it's over because I said some hurtful things during the last break up. I just lost it! Tired of getting accused of cheating while I'm at work etc. We both have our faults I suppose. Brad, will the no contact work for me due to the fact I said some bad things? Any comments would be much appreciated. Thanks
Have you lied to her in the past? That could be the root cause there why she's having some trust issues. Try to be sympathetic of what she's going through. So try to reassure her. If you haven't lied though and she's just throwing blind accusations, then that's not good. If this is the case, the breakup may be a blessing in disguise.
@@BradBrowning hi, no I haven't lied to her to be honest. She's just insecure it seems for example, when we're driving somewhere, she will accuse me of driving in specific routes as she thinks I'm doing this on purpose so I don't get seen by women who I'm supposedly dealing with etc. I've appologised for the hurtful things I've said but that's as far as it goes. To be honest brad, I feel weak appologising. Please tell me I'm not weak? Lol
I did all these things and then after i stopped talking to them all together and got to the point where i didn't even like them anymore and they tried to contact me telling me sorry and trying to talk to me again... Trust me when you dont want them anymore then they will come back...
That's mostly the case, yeah. This means you've already made a lot of work on yourself too and not obsess with your ex.
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Would it work if your ex broke up with you because they were not willing to convert to your religion to marry you? I accept him how he is but it's just a formality thing he would need to do. He even refuses to even look into it to see if it could work with him, he didn't have this attitude before and it makes me think it's just because he fell out of love :(
Love that!
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We have been for 6 months unofficially together. He just have problems to fall in love with any girl (include me). He really did care for me. He tried so much to fall in love with me. But then it was very emotionally breakup (we wished all good in our lifes for future apart) I am in 2 week NC. Will no contact help to get him back in this situation? I am desperate. He was perfect...
UPDATE: he reacted on my storie on IG..we had small talk and then he told me, he is dating an awesome girl...
Yes, make him realize what he has lost. Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/ZuHWCWeG1xs/видео.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
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I don’t know why he broke up with me, but one of my guy friends sent me a video that was inappropriate on RUclips saying “this is awful” so he wasn’t sending it to me cause he liked me, he sent it to tell me why would someone post stuff like that, and I sent a screen recording to my bf to show him the gross video someone posted, and he acted dry about it and I realized I didn’t have even context in the screen recording. He might’ve thought my guy friend liked me, and taken it the wrong way. He said “it’s cuz he wants you” and then stopped texting. About a hour later he broke up with me. I’m not sure if that’s why he broke up with me, but now he just wants to be friends and I think he’s moving on to another girl. I rlly want him to be happy, and I’m sorry if I sound desperate, but all I do is wanna fight for us. I am truly in love with him. And I don’t wanna lose him. I can’t be his friend because if he moves on, I can’t be happy for him because I like him, how do I fix this and get him back. Is it too late or not?
@Brad Browning does any of the tips work for long distance
This depends. A long distance is not easy to maintain, especially if you two had a weak foundation where you don't get to spend time with each other much in person. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html and/or ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
I hope i can apply this .. and she will come back ..
Hi there! Getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? This vid contains an infograph that might be of help to you: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html but watch this too as this contains equally important information: ruclips.net/video/BLTA4yjTc2I/видео.html The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
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Hey Brad, what do I do if he doesn’t want a relationship rn (maybe in the future) but still loves me, wants me in his life, finds me beautiful etc. Right now he just doesn’t want a relationship how do I change that as soon as possible. (This is after no contact) Right now we are talking daily, planning to meet up next week and continue to meet up etc how do I get him to want a relationship with me
Hi there! Getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? This vid contains an infograph that might be of help to you: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html but watch this too as this contains equally important information: ruclips.net/video/BLTA4yjTc2I/видео.html The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
Thank you brad
I loved your advice
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You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
I wouldn’t say to my ex that I brought another person to a secluded beach the other day and it looked better than when I went with him… LOL that may make him a bit jealous… I know it would make me a little irked☹️
Do you girl but don't use someone else to get over him as you'll end up hurting the guy and don't tell your ex either. None of his business 🤷🏼♀
Yeah do away with the details, you'd want to be mysterious!
Hey Brad, what to do if you've been blocked on every social. How can we show that we are living our best life?
You're doing it for you and not for anyone else. As to being blocked, I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
Bro my girl broke up with me...She blocked me on whats app only...And i been doing no contact for a month now..After a month she comment and liked my photos on Facebook with a heart react...and...one day i noticed that shes not coming online..soo i went to her profile and i noticed that she was unfriend me...But she didn't blocked me....i need a help..I want to know is why did she do like that? And what should i do now?
Call her
Assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: ruclips.net/video/KMMv9ljdrkk/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!
I want him to want me but now I will never ever go back to him
As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
My boyfriend is ignoring me, then twice I have seen him with a girl, I do not know wether he is cheating on me or not but now he cold and distant towards me. Just yesterday he text me and blame me that I am not texting or calling him up,and that I am different to him
He could be projecting his own behaviour to you. If he's creeping behind your back, you could be better off without him, as much as it hurts.
Tell me what to do @brad ! Me and my ex have a dog together and I tried the No Contact thing, but he can't respect that and says he misses his dog. No Contact only lasted 2 weeks and he got to see his dog.. I was the one to break up due to daily anxiety, we were together for 6 years, engaged for 3. I really miss him, but he has a rebound relationship and had no problem to jump into another womans arm after 4 weeks after breakup. Please help me.. 💔
The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Your ex is diverting his attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/7KE6nb4-ndA/видео.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/TBtb34gy6zw/видео.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
what if i already did everything you said not to do is it to late?
Watch this first: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html So it's it's best you go by the golden rules here as much as possible: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html Now I can't assess the damage per se, assuming you've only begged for a short while as opposed to months on end, and it may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Good morning brad here from Philippines. I'm using the no contact right now, but i've been seing her post something about letting me go. What should I do about this? Is this a sign that there's no chance for us?
Maybe stop trying to look at your ex's profile/messages/snaps, posts,etc.? An essential part of the "no contact" rule is to turn your focus inwards for a good 30 days, and looking at what your ex is doing and whatnot largely deviates from that point, don't you think? Discussed that here, too: ruclips.net/video/MroLZ7XK9gY/видео.html
If i slanged her in anger? Can i get back my ex?
It's very important to give it time to let whatever anger and hurt there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/видео.html
Hi brad...it has been a week and a half since i applied no contact rule with my former bf...until yesterday when he texted and i replied...then he kept asking me to take him back...that he wants the old us. I told him i needed to think and he replied that after i have thought things through i give him an answer...Brad! What do i do next?? Coz i still like the dude
If you feel the same way, give it a go.... or if you feel like the issue has not been resolved, then meet him halfway and don't commit fully yet.
Hey brad! Is it cool to ask her to a movie date right after the 30 day no contact if I phrase it correctly? Because we had both talked about seeing it while we were together and I think it would be a good idea, but what are your thoughts? I don’t want to come off too strong but I feel as if this could be a good opportunity.
Honestly bro it’s hard for me to answer that without knowing more. Generally speaking a movie night as the first meeting since no contact would probably be too much too soon, but if you know she’ll agree to it for sure it’s probably a gamble worth taking.
It’s sort of up to your intuition to gauge her reaction when you suggest it. If there’s a decent chance she’ll be weirded out or outright decline, don’t do it. Good luck!
@@BradBrowning thank you brad you’re the best!
@@thewheyoflife3548 no bro terrible idea, stay strong ignore her move on
Too late brad😭 i did your list of mistakes like begging and pleading, also sudden appearance on my ex workplace to say something and trying to reach her out with her mutual friends on social media in 2 weeks after our break up. Then she blocked me, the later after 1 week, she unblocked me and then after 2 days. She blocked me again even if i didn't do anything.. what should i do brad? 😭 Please help.. i want her back
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Brad it's a bit of a problem in this current situation with covid
This pandemic has affected people worldwide. Nothing left to do but to use your time productively and change your perception for a bit and see this as an opportunity for a lot of things. Pain is also a great catalyst, so use that to work on things within yourself that you know needed some work. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
1:30 what if I have this for 10 months already now already?
Really sorry, but your window of opportunity may have already passed. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/e3l5KWEpIpw/видео.html and especially if you see the signs here: y2u.be/k1myDIp0gSc It's time to move on.
Thanks po can u gave me some advise pls
This is what I'm here for! :-) I recommend you to watch my other videos to maximise all that you need to know. Anyway as what so many people here are already doing across my videos, you may also leave a comment detailing your situation (keep it concise, please) and I'll get back to you the soonest I can. So state your situation in a separate comment because I can't backtrack even if I wanted to, got to move on to hundreds of new comments added daily. However, if you need my full attention where I focus in on and prioritize your situation or need a response as soon as possible, feel free to sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
I really don’t do social media, hate it. Any ideas on how to show her I’m good? Ex wife and I reconnected after years. We don’t have same group of friends, only our son and her kids that I’m close with.
Just do well for yourself and if you have mutual friends, which I'm sure you do, word will go around. This is something I've discussed here, around the 4-minute mark: ruclips.net/video/XodgaAi8EbM/видео.html
I’m 12 and my boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago… I’m heartbroken and don’t know what to do!!
He keeps looking at me at school with such sad eyes! I know he still likes me I just don’t know what to do!
Please help!!
Life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
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I used no contact and she got over me within just a week, I cheated but it made me wonder to myself was I actually worth as much as she said if she can forget me and think nothing of me in just 7 days
A key component is to avoid small talk as much as possible, especially during the most critical stage: 30-day "no contact" rule because there's a huge chance your ex may be slowly easing herself away from you. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA The thing with exes, especially the one whose idea is to break the relationship, is they also struggle with the breakup and finding all means to cope...including talking to someone they're used to talking to, a.k.a you. What that leaves you, however, is unknowingly becoming their emotional sponge. So if you want this ex back, you ought to let her feel what it's like not to have you in her life first, so employ the 30-day "no contact" rule, okay? Here's how it can help you: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html An exception is if your ex is trying to contact you about something really important or is sincerely asking you to get back together. Understand that you risk too much by staying in touch and you best not respond unless it’s about something important. Watch this, too: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html
don't apologize that's easy!!!!
Don't apologize if you have nothing to be really sorry about. However, you ought to take responsibility if you did something wrong. Be the bigger person, but then again this depends on the situation. Only you would know if an apology is overdue or not!
I always try the go out and have fun with my friends approach and I do at the time. But I always end up breaking down crying when I get home because I wish she was there with me.
I feel your pain. It's always awfully painful when the breakup is still fresh. Take time to heal though and love yourself first, all right? Just try to make sure you maximize what you can within this 30-day period such as healing yourself, enjoying your own company, as well as spending time to see where it all went wrong, but only when you start to feel better, so be sure to take time to grieve first and feel the loss and cry all you want but then make an effort to pick yourself up first. Remember, you can't pick someone up (to be back in a relationship with you) if you're also feeling down yourself. Now is the time for self love. So give yourself the time and attention you need to heal first, all right? Make sure you watch my other vids too for more tips on what to do next. Good luck!
My ex blocked me on social media but I didn’t text back because I don’t know if I’m blocked we still have mutual friends and now he’s in a relationship but I just want to be friends what do I doo I can’t even sleep
Unless you've done something really epic to mess up things, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
Hey Brad so i think i’ve figured out how my relationship ended with my girl. First of all we were together for about 7 months. One night we where face timing and i got a little upset with her about something (nothing major) i ended up yelling at her, but i didn’t raise my voice. In general she is very emotional and sensitive, she hung up and started crying her eyes out. A couple minutes later i felt really bad and she ended up calling me back and i apologized and she said she forgave me... so i thought everything was okay. About a week later something wasn’t right... she wasn’t texting me she was only replying to my texts and didn’t want to facetime as much as we used to. This went on for about 3 to 4 weeks. I just thought it was because we haven’t seen each other in a couple months due to the pandemic. I ended up confronting her about it and asked what’s going on. She told me she was feeling distant ever since i got upset with her that one night. About a week later she told me that it would be best if we broke up, she was very emotional about it and said that she still loved me and she hopes things work out in the future. it’s been about a mouth in a half since the break up. I’ve texted her a lot at the beginning. Then i came across your youtube vids and i started following your advice. I haven’t contacted her for a couple weeks now, i’ve been posting on my social media of me having fun and enjoying my life, i’ve told her the break up was good for the both of us, and i haven’t showed her my emotions.
Now... i still love her and i want her back more than anything because i honestly feel like she’s the one and we broke up for a silly reason or something. It feels like i’m the reason we broke up and i hate myself so much for it.
What do you think my chances of winning her back are? Thanks
I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html
Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
Boyfriend blocked me want him back what to do 😢
Hey, can you update us how is the situation right now... I am going through the same right now, so please inform me how is it going
How do i apply the no contact with my ex bf if i still live with him, and see him everyday?
It's a different set of rules if you live together. If you still live with your ex, then do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk AND y2u.be/GTjEAGJWTuA I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!