6 Tips To Get A Stubborn Ex Back
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- Опубликовано: 23 июл 2024
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So how do you get a stubborn ex back? In this video, I’m going to answer precisely this.
How’s it going everyone? My name’s Brad Browning, AKA The Ex Back Geek. I’m RUclips’s number one break and marriage expert, and I’ve been helping men and women fix their ailing relationships for over 12 years now. So if you’re looking to get back together with an ex, or if you marriage is in need of help, then subscribe to my channel... and be sure to hit that little “bell” icon beside the subscribe button so that you can get notified every single time I release a brand-new video!
So without any further BS, I’m going to talk about the top 6 tips that you can use right now to make sure that your stubborn ex boyfriend or girlfriend comes flying back into your arms for good.
Are you ready? Alright, let’s do this
1.) What you have to do in this situation is to make your ex FEEL like they’re in the control. You have to allow your ex to feel like they’re dictating what’s happening between you two. You need to convince your ex to come back on their OWN volition, because the harder you press a stubborn ex to change their mind, the more “dug in” they’ll want to be and the MORE they’ll resist your advances
2.) The second tip that I have is to make sure that you’re not forcing a relationship with your ex. Again, you need to make them feel that they’re coming back to YOU and not the other way around. The more you beg and plead for your ex to come back to you, the more stubborn your ex will get. I know this totally sounds counter intuitive - after all, this tactic always works in Hollywood movies, right?
3.) Give them the space they need. Again, I’ve talked about No Contact here… but I really need to emphasize this… especially when you’re dealing with a stubborn ex. You’re not going to change their minds overnight, no matter what. In fact, the more stubborn they are, usually the more time it takes for them to allow their feelings to change.
This isn’t an exact science, unfortunately… and every situation is indeed different. So if you feel like your situation is unique and in need of some help, I encourage to sign up for my coaching program! To learn more about how you can hire me as your personal breakup coach, just head on over to BreakupBrad.com/coaching and get your ex back as soon as humanly possible. Plus, my coaching program is INSANELY affordable so you don’t have to break your bank to hire me.
4.) At some point after a period of radio silence, you’re going to want to set up a meet with your ex. I’m not going to go into detail on how to do this as I have dozens of other videos on how you can set up a proper date with your ex… so if you’re curious to learn more about that then watch those videos after this one.
You can do this by incorporating what I call “Value Stories” - these are subtle yet powerful stories that exhibit a ton of sexual and emotional value. Once your ex hears enough of these sorts of stories, they’ll want to come back to you… even despite their reservations before.
5.) Begin building sexual connection again. Remember, subtly is the name of the game here. You’re not going to get your ex back by kicking in the door and pushing your agenda on them. You’re going to have to utilize SUBTLE, psychological tools and tricks to make your ex to come running back to you.
For more tips and tricks on how to convey powerful sexual messages to your ex, head on over to BreakupBrad.com and watch that free ‘how to’ video. In it, you’ll find the DEFINITIVE guide to getting your ex back. Again, that’s BreakupBrad.com, so head on over there after you watch this video.
6.) Build EMOTIONAL attraction. Making your stubborn ex come back to you isn’t just about sex. It’s also about building that inner connection with them and giving them that warm, fuzzy feeling everyone keeps talking about.
This is an area that only YOU can master since they’re YOUR memories, but subtly reminding your stubborn ex of these nostalgic emotions will psychologically force your ex to fall back into your arms (and into your bed)… for good.
Anyways, that’s all that I have for you guys today. I hope you found this video helpful. If not, then feel free to ask me questions in the comments section below and I’ll get back to you.
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Okay to anyone watching this. This actually works it may takes days , weeks but this works! ... Just don't give up and follow the advice. After 2 weeks of our breakup, we got back together. He was on his knees pleading to get back together. This feels sooo good.
I hope everyone gets back with their (non toxic) ex. 🥰
That's awesome! Thanks for sharing your story... and pat yourself in the back too for staying strong. Best of luck to you two! :-)
@@BradBrowning I did 5 weeks NC but when he dropped my things off I tried to get him back. What should I do?
@@BradBrowning what if you ex blocked you from
Social media and phone ...She said we are done
If you leave it for 3o -45 days there more likely to meet someone.
What if they remarry a year later? We were married 12 years. He doesn’t even respond to me for years. But he interacts with my family and MY Grandchildren?
that moment when you do the opposite of everything he said before watching this video 🥺😭
Uh oh. But how'd it turn out for you?
@@BradBrowning do you specialize in polygamous relationships as well? It would greatly be appreciated if so,
Noooo don't do it!! x
I did too... Now do the new tricks... It will work more...
My wife is so stubborn, I've even told her to stop acting stubborn.. lol
I watch your videos when I feel the need to contact my ex. It gives me advice, calms me down, and helps me think straight. Thanks bro, much love.
Awesome to hear that! You're welcome, bro. Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! 🙂
Send him a message now
Me toooo ❤️
Same here
So how is it now?
Love yourself, choose to be happy with yourself. You don’t need another human to complete you. You are enough just the way you are ❤️ xoxo
People can still love themselves but love an ex too, sometimes it not about been afraid of been alone. They just want that person to share memories with
But i need you..
@@bossmeghdat50 no you don’t
Stop lying on a public platform
Boilerplate.
Come back to this video from the beginning of were i was. Watching these daily and all I been were you guys are, the anxiety anxiousness panic sad all waiting and all... NC will help you, and heal. It gets better and makes your mind clearer. It also puts your ‘crown back up. Off the floor. You got this guys.
Whenever I feel like getting back to ex, I see your videos and that motivates me..love u Brad
Stay strong & love you, too!
Yeah same for me too I be going back in my feelings and every time I watch his videos it keeps me focus to the no contact rule and also gives me faith
@@godofwar8418 yeah I know him I already followed is moves an is on good terms with my already
@@kerrinjohn4031 did it work
@@corywalling861 yes it works 💯
These things can only work if they didn't fell for someone else. I realized that no contact just made him closer to the other girl. And once they fell out of love, it's impossible to take them back. You can but it will hurt A LOT - knowing that they heart now belong to someone else.
I love your work. Thank you so much for the tips. Took me some time to recover and then I realize, I don't want my ex back. She treat me poorly and we all deserve better. You can do better. The no-contact rule works like a charm. Truth is, I rather be single and happy than being in a relationship and feel mistreated. Don't you never give up on yourself boys and girls. Believe in you, do more. Love is a risk. It will payoff at your best. 🤘 Thank you Brad!!!
You're welcome! Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved.
Hello
I’m single and not planning to date I’m Here to add up to the views.
🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for the support! :-)
Brad Browning please tell me ex factor guide is online?
April1989 dont worry, im here tryna help out my best friend get with her ex😂 and im not planing to date either
lmao right now i am also Single
Hey brad,
I appreciate for everything you are doing. If you can make a video on "how to get your ex back, who left you for other person" big help will be done. Love your work 🌼
If that's the case, it may be a lost cause, man. Chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ruclips.net/video/m27TLeyUmwg/видео.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place. Take care!
I've been watching your videos for over two years and bought your guides. But still my ex divorced me last week. I'm very affected because I couldn't put on practice what I learn, your guides were pretty good but I didn't know how to control my emotions, even now I send him some messages but I realize I can't be happy with him or make HIM happy, and that was why I asked for the divorce and at the end he said yes instead of changing. He was a nice husband but it's over. Still I'm gonna continue to watch your videos because I really like them. Thanks Brad!! :)
I feel for you, I am almost in the same boat, about to get divorced...
I can only do so much, Mina. REmember, I can only show you the path, you have to be the one to do the work and walk the path that's on my guide. Make sense? Sorry of how things turned out, though.
One big question I have is that what happens if your ex sees you living your best life and compares it to when you two were dating and come to the conclusion that “they were holding you back from being someone so great” and they become insecure about coming back to you? In other words, what happens if you ex thinks that you look better off without them because of how much you changed?
That sounds like an excuse coming from your ex. Watch this, first: ruclips.net/video/T_W_ilf9x6w/видео.html At this point ...and I really hate to say this, but you may not have much choice. So yes, cut off contact for around a month. Okay? Besides, what do you plan to do if you don't cut off contact? Text your ex every now and then? That would only make you appear desperate and that's never attractive and keep in mind, your goal is to rebuild attraction, right?
@@BradBrowning Genius 🙏
Starr same excuse that my ex told me
Send him a message now
Such a lame excuse
I just happened to stumble up on this today! Writing down notes and I am going to try this. I love her so much and my life is empty without her. She makes me better. Please pray for me. Trying to understand all of your teachings. Need a good solid plan... God bless...
It's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Albert Hull you can have her back if you want.let me know if you want this kind of help.
Day 4 of no contact! Going kind okay I guess... still want to reach out but haven't yet. I've found a female friend to help out as well. She is amazing and really listens and supports me...
Good. Watch this if you're tempted again: ruclips.net/video/5G1IRS-lCvc/видео.html
Wow I blocked my boyfriend 25 days ago and I’m missing him so bad..I was gonna unblock him but after watching this video I’m never unblocking him. Thanks for the tip.
You're welcome!
Hello! Thank you for your videos and great advice. I recently purchased The Ex Factor and look forward to reading it. I haven't seen my ex in 3 months. We're almost 2 hours distance drive. The longest we're had no contact was 6 days. We somehow both reach out to each other as we've built a good connection. I'm not sure if at this point the no contact phase would work since we are at a friendly, joking, positive - Text only contact. I'm not sure what to do next in this situation as we keep reconnecting. Yes I've went on a couple dates. Both single. Any suggestions would be helpful. Thanks!
Follow the guide down to a tee, which at the moment you clearly aren't. It's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed and so I can guide accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey brad! Fantastic content, it really makes sense. Do you have any tips about breaking up over her parents disapproval? We re both in early 20s but she’s chinese and her parents will only accept a rich chinese guy for her. She pledged to them and she says she still loves me so much. Our relationship felt awesome but still ended up breaking up with me cause she s still financially dependent on her parents. Id be thankful for a piece of your wisdom man, this one feels tricky.
Thanks, Darius! I'm gonna keep this simple. If your ex is in the right age to make her own decisions that’s independent from her parents, then there may still be a chance. Otherwise, it's best to consider moving on from this, okay? I’m not quite sure why parents had to get involved in the first place. It's either you're both too young to date or it has something to do with culture. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!
hey brad, thanks for video. How about if someone has tired all 3/4 steps you've mentioned in the video except that the girl doesn't want to meet or keep any kind of contact. What do you advise about the same.
You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily or meet up right away. Getting an ex back is a process. Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
Brad! I’ve been through a tuff breakup , my ex ended up our 6 yrs relationship, two years ago. And I left to abroad for my studies and she wants to know about me now and wanted to know how am doing , she called me back and she’s saying that , once done we are done but she have feelings for me, but won’t take me back it seems I don’t know how to react, what to do if I still want her , I showed up that am not needy still.
Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Since 2 days I have watched many of your videos...it motivated me a lot..Pls help me further. I broke up 2 days ago
Along with the other tips on my channel, what else are you looking for? You've got to let it play out and be patient. Getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
Tried no contact however it made the ex angry for being ignored and his feelings washed away! However I moved on quite a bit and healed my self faster :) works for ur good
Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ruclips.net/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/видео.html Anyway here's a quick overview to help guide you: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html
So it has been 2,5 months since she broke up with me after a 6 year relationship. There weren´t any bad words or arguments after. I did some begging however, then did the NC, during which I picked loads of new interests, lost weight, started exercising and looking after myself. I also started posting on Insta and FB. I tried reaching out and I tried the "sorry" message, however I was met with a negative outcome either way. Through a mutual friend I learned she is on a hate spree supported by her friends because of the interesting things I do and post (I am not posting everything, like 2 posts a week).
I mean "Sorry I am breathing babe". Look I do still care about her, but this behavior is seriously hurting me, considering I have never spoken ill of her. Do you think it is a good thing,? Because she didn´t block me anywhere and she does watch all of my posts. There is also a concert we bought tickets to coming up in two weeks (tickets are in my name), so I am expecting her to contact me because of it. Do you think I should tell her "Sorry, but I dont want to go with her" ?
Not a good idea to be making her feel sorry for you or something. Mum's the word, man! Play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ruclips.net/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/видео.html and this is the principle you ought to follow: ruclips.net/video/EfbgU7v0Ny4/видео.html A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!
Hey brad, me and my gf just broke up 2 weeks ago and ive just started the no contact period. We went out for 8 months, were madly in love, talked about our future together and even debated making plans to move in with each other but one week she just went into a spiral where she said her head was a mess and she just needed to be alone and to be herself and couldnt be with me anymore. she told me she still loved me and meant everything she ever said its just she needed to be by herself to "find herself". Now about 2 weeks have passed and i have strong suspicions shes talking to this guy who looks nothing like what she likes but has been round to his house a few times and stuff. I think this is just a huge rebound but I really dont know how to feel right now. Any advice?
Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
This marks day 3 of my no contact period this is the hardest thing I’ve ever done I hope it’s worth it in the end I know the love is there he’s just going though a tough time 🤞🏻 it all works out thanks for the advice
Hang in there, Stephanie. And make sure to use this time as a chance to make yourself into a better version of you ;)
Brad Browning I’m trying I was a bit clingy but I’m sticking this out until he messages me
Hang in there 🙂
how do you the no contact
@@stephaniejane80 did it ever work out in the end?
Thank you so much brad! Now my ex are together now thank you for your tips,(sorry for my bad English) I really appreciate your video keep it up!
Really did it actually work? How long were u broken up for?
Really how long did u wait and how long were u broken up for?
Yes it work for me,(sorry for my bad English)
I'm from Philippines
Can you tell us what did you do?
Really digging your videos, helps a lot getting my mind set up.
I have a small question regarding no contact:
Me and my ex split a few weeks ago and I initially dug my hole deeper by trying to use reason and logic for 2 weeks (she told me if I work on myself etc. it will work out but oh well..) after wich she said it’s all over now and all hope is lost, I don’t lose hope though and discovered your stuff so I am in no contact since 2 weeks also. When she said we won’t find back together we made a deal about our 2 year old daughter wich basically is me meeting them both once a week and my question is will this complicate no contact for me as I see her once a week ? How should I go about it ?
You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
Honestly.. If they broke up with you for no reason... Then let them be. I had to find this out the hard way.
Just move on.
The bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
Timelord The First literally the situation I’m in, after a 3 year relationship, she calls me immature and says she doesn’t love me as much as she used to
@@madz5453 I know it's hard. But she's not the right one for you. I kept thinking she'll change and be a bit nicer towards me... But she didn't and she won't. It feels crap to start with but you'll soon find the right one. One where everything just falls into place and feels right. Grieve now but not for too long. She's out there waiting for you. All the best mate.
Timelord The First thanks a lot my guy! Quick question how long were you with your partner before you ended
@@madz5453 about 3 years. Don't give up mate. Go and enjoy your freedom.
Hi Brad, me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 days ago and I’m completely crushed. We were together for almost a year and lived together pretty much the whole time. Just 3 days ago he was telling me he loved me 20 times a day and then out of no where he wants to break up and work on himself. I feel like it’s my fault because I was so dependent on him. But I love him so much and I don’t know what to do. I’m scared if I do the 30 day no contact rule he will start talking to somebody else. Any advice is appreciated 😔
how are you now? What is the update?
@@rubelrana304 we are back together! He did start dating someone else about a month after we broke up and I was completely crushed but I completely cut him out of my life after that. About 6 months went by and he started trying to get me back. We got back together on thanksgiving of 2021 & have been together ever since. We’ve honestly NEVER been happier 😌 I think sometimes people need that space to realize what they really want in life. I didn’t know it at the time of course, but it was for the best!
@@moonlightdelightasmr omg i am in the same situation right now with my 2 years relationship. The morning he was telling me he loved me a lot the evening he told me he wants to focus on himself and have more time with his friends. I totally get him i was being too dependent. So my question is how did you survive him talking to someone else and how did you guys get back together after all the history?
Same situation here!! She wants to work on herself alone she said,etc... Been together for almost 4 years now. Will just work on myself more and do the no contact,etc…and see how that goes.
I have a question. What if my ex threatens to cut me off for life during no contact? She's definitely the type to do this. She'll blow up my phone and then say "ok I'm gonna cut you off now bye" and she will, because she's done it to her exes before. In fact she cut off the guy that she was in love with.
She's used to doing it to her exes, which is why you do it to her first, but this time, only for 30 days or so. Watch the free vid presentation here: www.breakupbrad.com
Loved your videos keep going...
Thank you. I will!
Brad Browning tons of love ❤️ from India
I was planning to take up to 30 days... and guess what.. after 3 days, olny 3 of NO CONTACT at all... he contacted me... for professional reasons... I answered normally, cool vibes... din't talk about my romantic live.... I'll meet him on Monday just to talk about professional issues... But It's a great star... THANKS
Brad....i kinda broke no contact with my ex a few days ago, even tho we've been talking, she starts to significantly ignore me. should I do 30 days of no contact again?
Yes, but this time make it 60 days of no contact! ATTACK
@@haboobaabdulaziz1579 Ok ok, thank you!
What is with this 'ignoring' world?!? I mean.. I'm in the same sort of situation.. One minute we're saying let's make 2019 our year and then 3 months in... She starts to ignore me. Like wtf?!?!
You aren't really doing the no contact rule if you ended up breaking it in the first place. So play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ruclips.net/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/видео.html and this is the principle you ought to follow: ruclips.net/video/EfbgU7v0Ny4/видео.html A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!
@@blueapplestudios2881 any news
My ex girl is stubborn as hell through speaking on the phone or text, but much weaker when i'm around her. What does that mean? I'm there , she gives the impression she is torn what to do and shows affection, and when i'm not there she appears to want to cut me out her life completely and pretend everything is fine at the same time. So many mixed signals.
You're not doing yourselves any favor if you keep being around her. From what you've described, your ex is confused, and that kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
We've been friends 18 years. We always had a tension. She skipped over me alot of years. We ended up dating 8 years ago. We have a daughter now. We broke up 3 years ago. She left me for a co worker... however it's been an emotional roller coaster the last 3 years.. We talk a few days a week as we always have.. the first 2 years she slowly opened up here and there... she loves me.. can see it in her eyes and feel our same connection we've had 18 years.. last year we ended up making love and going on some dates. We talked about our future and our kids and being a family again. We both agree that whats best for the kids is us.. Her bf the one she left me for pays no attention to her or the kids. He plays video games all day and can barely hold a job. He has never really talked to me. He won't co parent with me and no kids of his own. She's a mental mess. So last fall she abruptly just stopped everything. She refuses to talk about it. It's taken months to get her to open up. Everytime I bring it up she tears up.. She blurted out a few weeks ago that it's easier to run. I then just hauled off n kissed her. She buried her head n my chest after and I just held her a few minutes... now she's getting distant again and I'm at a loss. It's like love from one of those movies. That's our relationship.. but she's stubborn as hell. We always had a good relationship. Went thru some insecurities and fighting that tore us apart a couple years there but I've kept my word.. I haven't yelled or even called her names in 5 years. She deserves better than that n so do my kids. I love this woman. I've done no contact on and off with her. I'm about to tell her we need to figure this out or move on because this is only hurting us even more. I've dated a couple women the last few years but I know where my heart is.. she does too... I just don't understand and it's heartbreaking
I think it’s time to push her a little. It sounds like she’s not happy where she is, is just looking for an excuse to leave. Give it to her. Especially if she’s crying in yours arms and burying her head in you? You represent safety and comfort and she may be so unhappy she’s convinced herself she doesn’t deserve that safe feeling.
So get her to meet with you in person, and look in her eyes and say, “We both know you’re miserable, and suffering, but you’re proud and you don’t want to need help or have made a mistake, but I got you, i know you, _____\, and I got you and I love you. Everything will be 800% better. “
I think your tips are working....I won't stop till I win
That's the spirit!
He left me pregnant and alone, it’s been a few days of no contact but it just feels he doesn’t care he wants nothing to do with me and it’s really affecting my well being
If you need someone to talk to I can send my email. It sucks.. bad. I’m still in the pain too so I understand. Everyday is a battle but the fog is slowly lifting
Sorry to hear. If he's a deadbeat dad, sorry, but 9 times out of 10, they go missing forever. They just aren't ready for that kind of responsibility, and this is especially more likely if he's still young. Consider moving on from this so you can heal and take care of yourself and your baby.
Brad Browning yeah you’re right, I’m glad you responded because if not I would’ve kept having hope and continued trying to be with him thank you so much brad!
Hey brad , what if it is a long distance relationship. And there is no contact through social media after breakup for almost 10 days. Do all these work in that too?
Yes, it does. The distance will always be a major culprit, though. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then it's good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html
Hey Brad huge fun here and thanks for all the tips brother! I have a problem. I will follow the no contact rule of course but then I can’t send them a message see I am a stubborn myself. I mean if she doesn’t text me or call me either doesn’t that mean that she wasn’t the one and I should let it go? Thanks in advance!
Ideally wait until you don't care either way if you get her back or not, that's the time when you most can. But yeah, if you want to see where it goes with your ex, you ought to send a text at some point. Just wait until you're ready and I suggest you follow my texting tips. :-)
Please pray for me, I'm starting to do the No contact now. He left me because of misunderstanding and said he wants time to himself. He also said that if we're really the one then we will meet again. Due to covid it's hard :( cheer me up!
Use your time productively. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
Any good news??🤞🏾
The same happened with me its day 2 of no contact, I really hope I get my love back I'll do everything for her :(
Any updates?
Hey Brad! Your videos really help me out! My ex broke up with me early this year, and after 2 months of no contact, we started talking and hanging out again. We hung out twice and it was nothing but laughs and fun. After the last time, I told her I was having a good time with her, and she agreed, but said it was a good distraction from her life. Now she rarely responds to me, doesn’t initiate contact, and ignored my snapchat asking her to get lunch. Should I take back control by texting and saying I’m having a good time, but I want an equal relationship and don’t want to just be a distraction and to message me when she’s ready for that? Or should I just initiate no contact again? Any help would be great, appreciate all you do man!
This is a pretty common theme as well, unfortunately. However, don’t destroy the progress you’ve made up to this point. Watch this to gain some insight on what to do: ruclips.net/video/MK7NDfJTbDc/видео.html
I got suspicious and she thought I was investigating her, she broke off saying "she needs space". after 2 weeks no contact since breakup , she basically said politely "... Hope you're good, and got the job... You should move on..". I replied a few hours later with "yeh no worries. Everythings good thanks". Don't know what to do now
Hey, continue no contact use social media start going out with friends or if you have pic when you re out with friens pist them on social media let her think you move on and you re ok without her. If she still have feelings for you she will come back. 🙂
@@SimeonMiglic thanks, yeh it's been 2 days, I'll continue with no contact and enjoy life :)
Continue on on to the first phase which is the "no contact" rule. Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
I'm on the 3rd day of no contact and it's been rough. Seeing as she still has all her things herein our house and our pets are here. She is very spiritual and stubborn. And it worries me that if shes able to convince herself spiritually that this is the right choice when we both know that were made for each other that she wont consider trying to re kindle emotions. Does this come with time? Should I try and push her to move out before 30 days or tell her I'm not rushing her or let her make up her own mind? So confused and lost. Thank you
That's right, and this is why you have to respect her decision. Moving out may be a drastic move and may have serious implications, especially if the place is a on lease where you and your now ex have agreed to pay together. Give it time first. You can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
Hey brad,
First of all thank u so much for giving these points for us. So in my case we and not broke up. But he change while his behaviour since last month. And last week he went abroad. Before he leave the country he did not want to meet me or he just ignore my self. But every time when I ask if he needs to break up; he says NO. So how should I deal with him now?
Do you trust him? He could be going through stuff he's not telling you about. Give it time and see if he'll snap out of it or open up to you. If this goes on for some time though, then it's time to bring up what's going on so you two can resolve it, tell him how it's affecting you but choose the right time for that talk. Good luck!
I'm following the no contact rule and it's been 5days and my ex had called my last night at 2:42 while I was sleeping peacefully 😌😌😌🙄🙄
Ignore it. If your ex continues to reach out to you, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. If not, and your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses his/her power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ruclips.net/video/bgOG9s1fac8/видео.html
@@BradBrowning thank you so much❤🙂
But the fact that you know the exact time he called is sooo me.😆
2:45 in the morning why that late? This is a set up too see you for botty calls nope.... if he’s serious he will call during the day cus you ain’t no vampire to stay up that late
I don't want him now, he came back.
Same🤦♀️
@@lorahgeorge1235 high five lady, all the best for the better people coming in life 💕
Hello coach, me and my ex study at the same college and I cant avoid seeing her. So I’m wondering what could I do when I see her since I’m doing the no contact rule.
Love your videos!
I get this question a lot so I wouldn't be surprised if you've found your answer before I even get to it -- if you've checked my other videos, that is. In this type of situation, try to limit your contact with your ex. And by that I mean only interact with her "only" when absolutely necessary. Watch one of the latest videos I've posted here: ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html Your case is actually one of the few cases where the “no contact” rule is an exception...but DON'T initiate random contact in any way and don’t make any unnecessary chitchats, all right? I've discussed it in these videos, as well as how to handle it: ruclips.net/video/zKhNHhEmYMg/видео.html but read my Ex Factor Guide because you still ought to go through the basics as well. I've posted an overview on how to get your ex back on an earlier vid, check it out as it's all there, but with the guide, you'll have an in-depth view on how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, etc. since good timing is essential at www.breakupbrad.com Okay? Take care!
Hi Brad, I was dating my ex for 10 happy months when he told me he had done some thinking, and although he likes me and does care about me, he does not love me and does not see any future with me... Should I try this “no contact” rule... does it have a chance to work?
Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
Hey Brad. My ex and I were together for 4.5 years. We lived together before and everything. But attraction was lost and he moved out and got his own place and broke up with me. When I try and talk to him about the relationship and getting back together all he says is “I don’t want to talk about that right now” his cousin told me he’s weighing his options. Do I still have a chance? I was a good gf to him and I’m currently 1 week into no contact.
Hey any updates?
I’d increase NC ...to forever.
As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. You know your ex's worth to you as well as your relationship. So you decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
Exactly
What is nc
Ebuk happpiness no contact ❤️🙂
I do feel no contact just give the sign that I am no longer wanting to continue the relationship, and eventually contributing her to forget about me and be with someone else. Just imagine when there's some other guy that is with her when she needs someone.
how can i free my ex to break free from her step families manipulation?
because their the ones controlling her and told her to break up with me due to manipulation someone please please please tell me how
im not gonna give up on her because i still have hope but i dont know how to break the manipulation they have on her
I did everything you said do not. And now he’s very upset. Saying I made the break up messy. I broke up with him cause he did not make me his priority. I always felt like he chose his friends over me. And I always hung out with his friends. At the end I just did not want to be in the relationship that I was the only one who always kept giving not getting enough. After breaking up completely broke me. I couldn’t even get up for 2 days. I regretted it and have been sad about the whole thing and I really wanted him back but when I did everything wrong before watching this video, I don’t think I will ever get him back. But I really want to. Please help
Any updates?
hey brad , i still go to highschool im a senior..me & my boyfriend barley broke up a few days ago , yes i miss him very much . he un added me on snapchat and unfollowed me from instagram but still has my number , i see him at school but he doesn’t even bother looking at me , do u think i still have a chance to get him back ? i’m doing the 30 day no contact but how is he going to see that i’m “ living my best life “ when i don’t have him on anything anymore ? i need answers brad plz and thank you (:
Life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
Brad Browning it’s been over a month now and i’m feeling GREAT ! , my ex moved on...actually i’m now talking to an old old ex of mine...i feel soo much happier , your advice made me realize so many things . keep up the good work brad !
Hi Brad, my ex and I broke up because he has performance anxiety. I initiated the final talk actually but he wasn't willing to work on it, so when I realized that, I packed my stuff and left. After 3 weeks he contacted me to say happy birthday to me and wished me to have a good day. He's checking my social media stories but I try to post very few of them cause I want no contact to work. He is one of the most stubborn person I know. Do you think this means that he started missing me or he will contact me again?
He's missing you, yes. But as to what actions he'll take in the future, it's different for everyone and in different scenarios. Anyway just take note that once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
How to let our ex know that we're having fun ...when we blocked them on social sites cause of no contact period????
Never block. That shows effort and bitterness. Its a loser move.
Letting your ex know is not priority. Having fun and getting your life in order is for you, primarily. Your ex knowing about it is just a bonus.
I did the no contact for 28 days and it was working until we started talking, he thinks I'm in a new relationship, will this make him fight to be with me or push him away ?
It doesn't really matter, he's your ex after all and you're very well within your right if you want to date other people. The fact that he's curious to know, however, sounds promising! Make sure you continue to play your cards right and watch my other vids for more guidance!
We broke up 2 months ago and he blocked me in all way I try to contact him though mutual friend but it didn't work , idk what to do plzz help me outt how can i bring him back to me
I told him I can't do to this anymore when I was drinking over a text because he didn't show up again and he has ignored me for two days I have been trying to fix things with him texting him and calling him but he doesn't respond he does this every time I end up drunk texting him and getting mad and saying I want to break up. What do I do now.
thank you brad i got her back finally aftr 1 nd half months
I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ruclips.net/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/видео.html All the best! :-)
How did it worked? 😍 what did you do ?
Found my ex cheated on me , althou she have not started the new rshp, she told me she has strong feeling the other side. We went cool down period, where by we meet once a week ? And text still on but limited . She said she still cares and love me no matter what , but she is NOT making decision to drop the other side nor to come back. Ive done mistake by pleading her back first week after i found out but now i try play cool. We went out together n nothing about rshp is discussed and when our songs are played on radio, we will both tears cry and hug. What shld i do next? 😰
Really sorry to hear that. There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and/or making a solid effort to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ruclips.net/video/m27TLeyUmwg/видео.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place. Someone asked me the same question as you and here's what I told them, refer to the second question: ruclips.net/video/9Fgc5F9Ck5Q/видео.html Take care!
Thank you so much brad for ur advice....
My bf went becoz i dont care him.he always tells me that iam not caring him...but in my point of view i took care for him he didn't understand that...in his birthday he so angry that i not did nothing special to him i kept quite on that day i think he don't liked me...when he says this day was unhappy cause of u i become angry...then he leaved i begged for him..i continued 8 days no contact,yesterdy i called him he switched off the phone...now i what want to do???
I hate to agree to it but you have made a few misses. A relationship does need a little work to make it work and for you both to feel appreciated. There's also a chance you two speak different love languages but a compromise is important somehow. For now, though, give it time.
Hey Brad!😀
I did the no contact for 7 days and then my ex texted me that she want to come back and I said yes because that is what I want but after that day she said she changed her mind. Should I restart no contact again? Or what to do?
Yes, do that, unless your ex proves it with their words that actually matches with their actions.
What if his dad passed away and he left me because his life changed i begged him he blocked me i'm on no contact Now almost one month is it the right way
This is a common issue which many people face, so I suggest you watch this vid coz I covered that here: ruclips.net/video/UspIarCWk5M/видео.html Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
Hi brad I need your help..I cheated on my boyfriend...few months ago..but I love him now..more than anything..but he broke up with me few days ago..I really wanna fix our relationship..I love him so much 😔..um very guilty about what I did before..he’s very angry at me..please give me some suggestions what to do now
The best thing to do right now is to admit to your ex that you've effed up and try to be patient and sympathetic with what your ex is going through and just disappear from their life for a while, because right now, you are a constant reminder of the pain and your ex needs to heal from that first. By cheating, you're automatically putting the ball in your ex's court and have lost privilege to take your power back in all this. It's up to your ex now and how soon they can forgive you and move on from the incident, not necessarily from the relationship although some people do that. With that in mind, these may help: ruclips.net/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html
Hi sir
I badly want to get the X Factor guide course.. Am desperately in need of it.. My boyfriend left me few days back it's q long distance right now because of pandamic he says he lost intrest and I tried to do some shit to get him back but that pushed him more away but I accepted it and uninstalled my account for a day and at end of the day when I texted him.. He said he missed me.. I saw ur video and decided to cut the contact till a month... I don't own any online payment things. And just have hand cash. Is there any other way I could do.... Please let me know am badly in need
Sorry, but I was only able to set up payment through Paypal and Clickbank. You should be able to find lots of information on how to get your ex back by doing all the right steps on my channel here, so check out my other videos as well. They're completely free and comes at no cost to you. Lots of people have found success with it, maybe you can, too. You can also leave me a brief description of what you're going through. I always respond to comments. Just keep it concise as I try to answer to as many comments as I can. Good luck!
Brad, Im confused how to use social media as a sign to send her that I am living my best life. She blocked me In every social medias.
Hope this will work for me, Its my 1st day to no contact with him, hope god will touch his heart. Thanks brad .. I will update
You're welcome. Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
I stopped contacting for the last 6 months now 😔 and I really want to move on but I find myself really fighting hard to reallylet him go. It's feels better now than it was 4 months ago but when a slight thot of him enters my head it just kills me... I don't know what to do ... Please help!
I tried the no contact he didn’t ask or like talked to me what should I do?
That's no news. The "no contact" rule usually comes naturally to the dumpers. Learn the 3 basic phases I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. It helps to learn the basics of my 3R system here first, so you'll have an idea on how to go about it on your end: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html
in a month we'll be back at school and apparently she's in my advisory so now i have a way easier way to talk to her in person after 30ish days
Cool!
Really enjoy your videos. I was building a relationship with a man in his early 70s and it was really good fun. Then his ex wife caused a lot of problems over more money his ex stepdaughter also won’t leave him alone she’s pregnant and wants him to look after her he became very depressed, she was always round at his especially after they found out he seeing someone. Ex wife encourages it. He has gone really distant and I care about him , don’t want to pressure him at the same time I feel he’s lonely and drained with it all .What would you suggest
Thank you
Give him time to deal with whatever he's going through as he could be having a tough time right now. Just be his rock when he needs it most, without being clingy. Good luck!
Hi Brad, I've followed your 30 days no contact and my EX found his wife right now. He married after our 8 months break up 😂
😆
Well, the 30-day no contact rule is only supposed to last for 30 days, not 8 months. The steps are laid out on my various vids on what to do after. On the flip side, though, chances are he's already talking to her while still in a relationship with you to commit to something that serious. You dodged a bullet! On the other hand
Hello Brad, I've followed the 30 days no contact. After that i talked to him. We've been together for 11 years and his wife now he married after 10 months of knowing the person. Anyhow, he is married now with 1 son, guess we are not really meant for each other... no matter what you do if the person is not for you. It will never be. 😅 But i really adore you Brad! You made me hope for something and not commit suicide... so thank you for that. More power to you 🤗
Be wise to not follow everything you hear from people. Not every situation is the same. If you are the one that wronged your partner, and you’ve realized your wrongs, and truly want to renew your relationship; if you follow this method that this guy is teaching you surely fail and everything will come to a sure end.
Believe me because I am that stubborn person that was betrayed and wronged in so many ways.
Be sincere in everything you do. Remember this clearly - karma does not discriminate, nor does it miss. If you’re wrong, sincerely work on proving yourself worthy of a second chance, which means true change. I can almost assure you that if you do that, you will have a much more respectable, beautiful and passionate rekindled relationship.
Not all that manipulative, control freak behavior that only brings more anger and frustration, after you’ve gotten away with it for 15 minutes, if at all you manage to get away with it.
This sort of thing will only successfully work for the people that have truly been hurt.
These are just stupid and manipulative games that work on amateurs. Yes initially, you might get rattled and desperate because you’ve loved that person. But if you’ve truly been hurt and quickly get out of your emotional confusion, at this point this little game just propels you even farther from the subject. I’m just saying. Be wise
Please answer Brad what about if it was a really bad break up
Make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Hii brad!
I don't think so my ex wanna come back in a relationship with me
Every recently we wroke up and unfortunately I have done all the begging shit
And now I am thinking to apply no contact rule
But on the other hand I know he don't want a relationship again
Should I try or just let him go
Because I want him to come
Hey so i have a genuine question and maybe some serious help. She is stubborn due to her being in a new relationship and says she wants this person she is in a relationship she says me and her are friends for now and she admitted not too long ago saying her partner has toxic traits and is getting quite annoyed with her partner. Ive been watching your videos and been using your advice from multiple subjects. Yes ive been upset and depressed throughout mine and her break up ive apologized about the mistakes i made that caused her to walk away from the relationship. But i just need the further help and guidance to guarantee my chance of getting her back. Please give me whatever advice you have for someone like me in this type of predicament
Like everything else in life, there is no guarantee. But there is of course playing your cards right to maximize your chances of that happening and that's what my videos/channel are all about! Just do the best you can. If she is dealing with someone else though, NEVER be her sounding board or her male "girlfriend." Being willingly friendzoned by an ex is degrading and she'll never respect you for it. Give her space and focus on your own life instead, even consider moving on especially if it's been quite a while . Hope you find the light. Good luck!
Thanks,men hope my ex coming back to me😌
Ohh maybe
Stay strong especially with the no contact rule. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ruclips.net/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/видео.html Anyway here's a quick overview to help guide you: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html
I did everything opposite to this video. He pushed me away and didn't want me back. Because he doesn't love me anymore. 💔
It's best you go by the golden rules here as much as possible: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html Now I can't assess the damage per se, and it may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from whatever mistakes you've made and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
hmmm I applied it and... nothing. No messages , nada.We work on the same company so it is really tough.
Hey Brad, i dont know if you will read it but i kinda have specific situation. We are working together, same shifts, we are pretty much seing eachother every other day of the week. Is there any tip how should i behave
I do! I just have way too many comments in a day that I'm more focused on comments from newer vids now so as not to compromise the time I use to spend on my coaching clients. Sorry. Anyway do limited contact instead and keep any limited conversation you have strictly work related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
Hey brad i wanna know your ex factor guide is online transformation?
Online transformation? My stuff comes in PDF files and audio format, if that's you you mean.
My ex finished with me cause I accused him of cheating and now he says he can't forgive me... What should I do cause I was drunk when I said this.. Thanks Brad
It's very important to give it time to let whatever anger there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/видео.html
I am devastated. I just found your videos and have made mistakes. We were together a year. He said I was perfect and had a great time but wanted to be alone for a while. He kissed me 2 months after our breakup when he came to get something from my house.However he ran into his dysfunctional ex fiance he was with for 3 years that he said was crazy and fought all the time. They are back together now for the last month. I know we still have great chemistry and I am terrified that he is going to stay with her and not consider coming back to me😢we have been broken up 3.5 months now. I accidentally ran into them yesterday. I had to stop my car while they crossed the road in front of me. He never broke eye contact with me the entire time he walked by my car. I hope that is a good sign....it was almost as if he wanted to talk to me. I just held up a quick wave and went on.
One thing that most people don't realize is that they hold the key. It's been months, so have you been actively trying to get your ex back? Take note of the mistake most people make here: ruclips.net/video/1cBpNrDDHnw/видео.html Don’t wait for this person to have an epiphany. If you want your ex back, then keep track of what you've been doing to see if it's productive or not. Here's a quick overview of what needs to happen: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html and it's best to go by the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html Have you checked out my guide yet? It may be time to revamp your techniques. Before anything else though, take the free quiz on my website to gauge your chances of getting your ex back.
My ex still says he loves me and is really struggling with the break up, but he is being stubborn to his own detriment as well as mine. He says he cannot see me because he is afraid of being "sucked back in" and being hurt again. It's been almost 2 months. How do I get him to give me another chance and break through this behaviour?
Right off the bat, it sounds like an excuse to me unless you messed up pretty bad and that's what he meant by being hurt again? Check this out first: ruclips.net/video/YxWY57XCouo/видео.html I'm sorry, I could be way off... but there’s lots of missing pieces here for me to deduct anything concrete, so consider signing up for my coaching program instead so I can look into your situation more clearly and figure out what's going on, then guide you on a regular basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
What if my ex is with his ex than what about no contact rule? Will he come back?
I really hate to burst your bubble here but let him finish whatever unfinished business he has with this ex. Sorry, but there's not much you can do at this point, especially if your relationship only lasted a short while and more so if he’s seemingly (subconsciously or not) used you as a rebound, for your ex to jump back too quickly with her. Good luck and I hope you find the right guy for you soon!
Brad please help me my fiance says she feels nothing for me anymore and weve been together for years we have two children so no contact is almost impossible
I know it's tough but now is a good time to know yourself more and find that inner strength to accept the breakup and be independent of your ex. Do the dynamic "no contact" rule or limited contact. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
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I did the no contact and last week (after 2 weeks into the breakup) he text me and I did respond. He said he thinks we can have something special and all that. I told him we should talk about this in person and he said he agrees. I didn't hear back from him (I was expecting him to take move there) after 3 days I sent him a text saying that if he still wants to talk? He said that since he didn't hear from me he thinks I have moved on and that he should too and that we had our courses, I told him that I was waiting for him to say something. Then he came over and I told him if that's what he wants then I respect that, I'm working on myself and I'm learning from the relationship. I think he was just confused whether he wants to be back or not. He said he loves me so much. Then before he leaves he said talk to you soon because he doesn't want to say bye. I'm not sure what to do here, should I do something or go back to no contact?
Exactly. It's all part of the process when one goes through a breakup. Give it enough time where there's no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed signals. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/RN6ndJZ0J-w/видео.html This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
Help, my tears is dry now. I keep crying anytime I listen to love song even during prayer. He left me because of misunderstanding. He late reply my text and poor communication. I always use love cute call to him but he never use cute loving name. He always open up my wound past relationship. So painful. I said to him that our time is wasted for unclear chat. He changed his phone nimber and I could not contact him anymore and I was depleted and burntout when that time he left me. What shall I do to him back and reconcile. Thank you so much Brad 🙏
Your ex changing his phone number or him going out of his way to not be contacted by you anymore is not a good sign. It could be a sign that it's time to move on especially if the breakup happened a few months ago. Listen, I understand what you're going through. You know moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: ruclips.net/video/01wvLSaS9_I/видео.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup at www.beatmybreakup.com
I'm divorced but we are still friends.but I miss him and want him back.i need advice on what I can do.plz help me
I'd still suggest to give the "no contact" rule a shot because that's still really your best bet, which will work in a sense where you BOTH will get to clear your mind to be in a better position to deal with each other when the time comes - instead of letting emotions overrule everything, risking things to get blown out of proportion even further. Makes sense? But will no contact ALONE work to get your ex back? Sometimes it does, but other times (especially if your situation is unique) it won't, because the no contact phase is only part one of the three-step process I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. Learn the basics here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html I also made a quick vid to those who are seemingly lost and could use a reminder on what to do: ruclips.net/video/obBIttQSak4/видео.html
Ugghh its so hard when starting this no contact rule ;(
Breakups are never easy. Be strong!
Uhm, when it comes to making him jealous, can I post chats with other guys asking me out or something? Or should I just take pictures with another guy and make it seem like there's something going on? My ex is the jealous type actually so.....I need to know what I can really do
Nope, that would be trying too hard. Subtlety is key. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/XodgaAi8EbM/видео.html
@Brad Browning ....my ex broke up with me a week ago and i just found out she is on dates and making out with other guys....I am really hurt and I accidentally sent her a lot of messages about how it hurt and how that is not healthy. I do not know what to do...I really want her back...but i feel like she doesnt want me anymore and I do not know what to do or how to get her back....please help me
Your ex is diverting her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/TBtb34gy6zw/видео.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
You only get a certain amount of time to get her back. After 6 months, your chances of her caring are so slim. Women hold on for a while, but after 5 months, women truly move on. If it's been a year and your ex isn't trying to contact you, it's a 99.9999% probability that she stopped thinking about you, has moved on and you are just a vague memory she has no intent to revisit
Depends , really. Someone who has been in a relationship for 5 to 10 years, for example, won't be able to moveon in that short span of time. I know some women who have been broken up after a say, 2-3 year relationship and they're still trying to move on for a year or even more!
is there any hope of getting my ex back if he's in a relationship already?
The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Your ex is diverting his attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/7KE6nb4-ndA/видео.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/TBtb34gy6zw/видео.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
I really hope you would help me my situation. I’m the first one left my ex, then my ex have new gf, and I realize he’s mine, I couldn’t be without him. Is there any solution to get him back. I know it’s embarrassed to do that because I set broke up first. But it’s just childish decision that I never do again :(
Hi Brad, my ex and I broke up less than a month ago because he feels we’re not compatible in terms of our job, he said i want a career and he wants to travel a lot. We still get along well but i always initiate the conversation or the meet up. Now, he’s moving to another country in less than 2 months and i’m afraid I’ll have less chance to get him back if we’re separated geographically. We still enjoy each other’s company but i want him to see that I want him in my life without losing my dignity. What should I do?
Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
Thank you Brad for this inspiring video 🙏.
I've started the no contact rule for three days now, and I just hope it work out because my ex is a very stubborn boy a boy because he behaves like one and immature for that matter.
With the no contact rule, I'm learning to love myself more and becoming the best version of myself.
I just realized that he always calls me but I pretend not to see it and go offline for one day 🙏
He doesn't even know how to treat a lady right so let me do it for two months no contact rule and see how it goes 😔🥺🥲
Can you make an ex come back even if you think you were a rebound? Also lived toghether for 3 months
Nope
Rebound = victim...dont be.1- Start no contact. 2-Change appearance. 3-show up (accidentally) like a boss. He will get bored with his girl eventually and you'll be the price.
Unlikely. Sometimes, rebound relationships work if the two people involved do end up developing feelings for each other but in most cases, the rebound is often being used and there's no real feelings there.
Sir me and my ex broke up 3yrs ago then we came back again but again he left me due to i doubt him without saying breakup he just told my friend it's enough to handle, sorry i dont need it anymore. It's been one month to our breakup, he blocked me from phone calls and watsapp. Each and everytime my friend want to contact him, he just say I don't have feeling and i don't want to talk. But sir i am sorry and guilty for what I have done.
It's very important to give it time to let whatever anger there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/видео.html
@@BradBrowning what if he didn't want to listen any apology or sorry?
what if I've been doing the opposite up until now? Does it still work? or do you think its all over for me?
is it okay if i block her in phone call and messages? and i deactivated my messenger. and im not using instagram. today is the 1st day of no contact rule.. i hope this works 😞 because she said she dont want to with me again and dont want to fix our relationship.
That's not really necessary. Watch this to help you out: ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html
U r awesome brad
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I just broke up with my ex 1 week ago. And ever since I’ve watch this, I stopped my contact with him. But he said he doesn’t wants to get into a rs anymore for now and just want to focus on his work. And he is pretty stubborn in nature too. Could this still be salvage?
Try out the steps laid out on the vid. Take note of the mistake most people make here: ruclips.net/video/1cBpNrDDHnw/видео.html Don’t wait for this person to have an epiphany. If you want your ex back, then keep track of what you've been doing to see if it's productive or not. Here's a quick overview of what needs to happen: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html and it's best to go by the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html Have you checked out my guide yet? It may be time to revamp your techniques. Before anything else though, take the free quiz on my website to gauge your chances of getting your ex back.