Watch This When You Feel Lost and Alone
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Are you feeling lost and alone right now? Have you ever felt like you were too different from the people around you to ever fit in? Or felt unseen or unheard or misunderstood too many times to count? If you’ve ever felt like nothing you said or did even mattered because no one seems to care about you, we hope this video helps remind you that you're not alone and we're here for you!
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Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Naphia
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We don't usually make these type of videos. What do you think about this new video format? Just remember, you are NOT alone and everyone are in it with you. 💕
First reply 💕
Thx for this video....
I needed this video alot....
Like alot.....
Thank you ❤️
I'm dealing With Some hate right now and This made Me Feel better :)
Love this new addition. And yes, exactly what I needed today. Thank you.
@-shxgarbaby no.....
I am going through alot... like alot.....
Just cant tell....
Watching this while crying silently is a different kind of pain
Fr
Wow...how amazing that I can't even cry now...
Same with me
I do that everyday
same here
I’m so tired. everyone around me always does things with people outside of school... I’m just sitting in my room all day alone with my dogs. I talk to myself.
Hey, you're not alone tho. You're stronger than you think and I'm sure you'll make it. Maybe you haven't found your place in the world or your purpose in life and that's so frustrating, but you will find it. You'll be happy and fine again, you'll start enjoying life. I believe in you. I pray every morning and every night for people who are struggling. I hope my prayers and my love reach you. You're not alone in this and I'm proud of you😉
I was like you along time ago now. Things don't stay the same. We walk through life changing and learning. I wish I could go back in time and tell my younger self that things will be fine but as I can't I'll tell you. Keep a good positive attitude and everything will come your way.
@@GQ-ih1iu You helped me with this. Thank you sou much bro ❤🙏
well, at least you have your dogs. with me, people either want to be friends when i dress well or do well in classes, or something similar. recently, i thought that maybe i should use this period of lonely existence for something productive, like studying hard and just ignore my loneliness and other people. but weirdly, the same day i got fortune cookies, with message "do not push away people". I thought like "what people?". A stranger guy texted me, again weirdly the same day. He said he wants to be friends and likes my content on social media. I decided to give a shot. We started well, but i started noticing his interest was beyond friendship. And when i did not show the same interest after a month of "friendship" he just stopped texting me. Sometimes, i sit in my room and just think, i literally have no one to talk to. I just want to have a friend, maybe not a best friend, but just a friend to talk to. Well, even if i find one, i think i forgot how to hold a conversation
I also talk to myself sometimes and im trying to remember if i did it as a child or if it just started as im growing up lol
People around me say " I'm always there for you" and then disappear like a comet when I need them the most
Sad
How are you feeling now?
@@_NayomieMcLeod starting to feel little bit better because I'm staying away from people who used me and stopped believing or expecting something from them.
@@_.nihaa.05_ love that for you
Thats the worst...I'm literally feeling that way right now :/ I was close to this girl at work, she left, we went bowling once and now I don't even get a text back
All I want is a hug and someone saying "it's alright I got you"
🫂
Same i need it to.. It gets so hard.....
@@prasiddhidixit9648 🫂
Prasiddhi, it's hard for you right now, but soon it will pass, and everything will get better. (Hugs) I got you in the dark and starry night. Grab a book, listen music and sleep . I love you . Keep fighting and you will win in the end and say "I made it" 💜😁🌹 we all love you prasiddhi!!!
@@vihariii4754 thank you so so so much..... You are so kind and wonderful.... Your comment means a lot to me...... Thank you so much 🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭🥺🥺🥺
I don't even remember what genuine happiness actually feels like. It's been too long.
I've actually been thinking about this a lot lately. When was the last time I went through a day and didn't have a feeling of loneliness or depression? Once you've reached a point you're used to it, you forget what life was like before and wonder if you'll ever have that genuine happiness again. You'll get there, we all will and deserve it 💜
I just stumbled upon this video. The past year and a half has been a whirlwind, and the video helped me but I know what you mean. I genuinely truly know what you mean.
Yeah I got so used to feelings of rejection and loneliness that I cant even remember what happiness felt like
I really miss my dad. He was the only one who truly loved me and cared about me. Now i m all alone people come in my life and just leave. I feel unloved and unwanted by people. I like someone and think they are the one but get hurt everytime by people. I even lost the count on how many times I have been hurt. I dont know what to do should i give up. I have no longer got strength. But i worked so hard
@@Artlove8900 you just said what i wanted to say.
But i hope you're not going too hard on your self to figure it out. Just block them or stay away from people who ever used you. I hope they understand how presious you really are. These days I'm trying to find happiness in small things and stopped expecting or depending something on others. Ig I'm starting to feel little bit better and i hope even you get through this sh*t asap and meet the happy version of yourself soon
I just hate feeling this way, I’m so tired genuinely.
When you are tired, sleep.
@@Nezkredk They don’t mean it like that
Yeah same
I really hope thet we find someone who understand and care about us.
Same
So basically everyone that saw this video is lost and alone
Same here brother and sisters
I just came for the comments not to watch
I am not. But I love this channel, the community is nice and welcoming.👍
and nb kiddos too!
I have been feeling very lost, and even confused about what i was feeling. I think this vid had good advice. What stuck out to me was to let go. That was intersesting
Yall are awsome. Enyone, enytime
To anyone scrolling through this comments section while watching the video and silently crying at the same time: I know the feeling of wanting to drop a comment but not thinking you can describe it well enough for the loneliness to make sense. We owe it to ourselves to love our selves better than anyone else could.
Bless you for this comment.
It is indeed hard to describe how loneliness feels, sometimes it could be when you see everyone out there enjoying life meanwhile you sit alone in your room staring at the wall and feel empty.
@@Bella-ze3zp I know the feeling 👍. It's an ongoing struggle for me 😢.
🖤
I cant cry. Ive just lost spirit. im just a body, laying in bed with no soul, and what looks like no emotions, yet theres to many emotions going through my head rn.
Can someone, anyone do me a favor and check back in on me? Cause i dont wanna live, but i dont wanna die.
@@lexieboo8318 please stay alive, I *truly* know how hard it its, but you can do this, one day at a time; we already lived thorough so many, it does get better, or at least more comfortable, and you'll be proud you stayed, for yourself.
after 25 our frontal lobe starts to actually develop and you'll do even more just for yourself and your well being
If you are having bad thoughts go to sleep, anxiety? go take a shower. depressed? move your body. alone? eat something yummy.
take care of yourself, for yourself, you already went through so much, you deserve better in this existence
Aw it’s kinda lonely when you’re the only one in the comment section
19 hours ago? HOW~
What the f-
@@dzahna9492 idk RUclips broken
Nani
What the heckkk
Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They’re either lonely, they’re missing somebody, they’re depressed, they’re hurt , they’re scared from the past , they’re having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn’t believe. They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now, they are sitting here reading these words, and I’m writing this for you so you don’t feel alone anymore. Always remember, don’t be depressed about the past, don’t worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today’s not so great don’t worry! Tomorrow’s a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day. :)
@MrMayhem FTW ofc it is ^^, your welcome 💚
Kind words thank you
@@janeokeeffe5297 your welcome 💚
💚💚💚💚
@@zeliha6232 ^^💚💚
"Don't you ever get lonely?"
"Only around other people"
.............
That's when I feel most lonely
There's nothing worse than feeling that sudden switch from having a good time with friends to feeling detached from reality, questioning the reasons to stay alive
You said it. Perfect
I feel u
People say “I’m always there for you” but the worst feeling is when you actually trust them and share what you’re going through and what your thoughts are ,they just end up judging you and call you a faker.
More worse is that they leave u with short replies, whereas u typing paragraph to explain how u feel/they just keep it on seen
@@JohnWick_is_coming_for_u agree. Or they keep the conversation short so they won’t have to deal with you. When in fact, when they needed you, you were all ears and giving your utmost attention to them. Making them feel loved.
While we all sit here, watching this video, wishing someone would be what we are to other people. I sometimes dream of duplicating myself. But of course, reality check. You end up with no one but yourself.
@@olivianyrene exactly the same shit I go through 🙃
I have just given up on everyone as I feel pathetic for sharing my stuffs and getting negative response from them. I feel isolated, alone, depressed, useless nd many more.. but I am not a suicide guy, so just trying to survive anyhow
This. All of this. 😔
Yeah they always give fake comfort saying" it's okay open up to me." But in the end they brutally judge me. I told one of my friends how my best friend betrayed me and she was like "You must've betrayed her too" It just shattered my heart. This is why now I don't even share my thoughts with my own sibling 🙂
“Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass, but rather learning to dance in the rain.”
Miraculous Ladybug
Hey let me guess you got that from marinete
But it's storm u said then isnt it danger
Yeah man 😭
That's some flapjack facts my guy
How is it possible to feel so empty yet so full of feelings that I don't even understand. Like what-
Its hard to explain but if u know the feelling u will get it
Well its kinda like empty on the inside yet so full of feelings on the outside
@@nataliacardinez122 oh I want actually like asking ppl who feel this way I just dont understand my own emotions srry fr the misunderstanding lmao 😔 (I feel the way I said) aha
@Cindy Murphy oh yeah I just dont understand my own feelings yet there us so many of them but u still feel empty yeah ik uts confusing I'm confused to 😭
I think you need to learn about energy aura meditation something like that
Sometimes we feel lonely and we don't even want anyone around. We want someone but we don't want anyone at same time. It's even more sadder. And some people act like they really care about us when they really don't care
Frrr, reminds me of an NF line 'hands out tryna ask for love but when I get it I just pass it up'
its not sometimes
💜so true
Its not sometimes ami its every fucking second
Being lonely and not wanting people around sucks man
Does anyone else feel like giving the voiceover of this channel a massive hug? She seems so motherly to everyone 🥺
Absolutely, A very big hug
Ikr I love her;I wonder what her name is &ifshe on fb by any chance….
I know, she has such a sweet voice.
Feeling alone in a crowd of friends/family/etc is not a fun feeling. :')
exactly ! happens to me all the time .
@@romagreen8050 ruclips.net/video/22gQP5bzP_s/видео.html
My best female friend was unloved by her father for 7 years and then he left her family... she became social anxious and she doesnt feel close to any of her family members... but when i met her and became aware of what happened and how she lives i cried a lot... in my whole life i never met such an lovely and innocent human being like her it truly broke me and after all i dont want to lose her. And showing love to a good hearted person was the best thing i ever did
@@whaleyou Ah yes especially when u cry silently besides a friend and they didint notice (:
I don’t even have friends anymore :) it makes me so happy I want to drool and yes I’ve gotten insane and crazy this year and I can’t stop it 😃 can someone tell me what’s wrong with me I feel so weird and empty
I feel selfish when I’m focusing on my issues all the time. I realize that I’m not the only person who is struggling in this world however in this time of Covid I’m alone with my thoughts too much and I can’t help but dwell on my problems. Kinda hate myself for it
Look I know how you feel I love being in this comment section becuase people relate and it is like we all know each other and we are a family
Don't feel selfish for thinking abt urself. It is essential for us to think abt and food care of ourselves to remain healthy
You may feel selfish ..... but remember that being privileged smdoesnt mena its a bad thing . Its bad only if you take pride in it , or deny it , or promote it etc . You probably don't, so don't belittle yourselff
I feel the same way..
So do i
i'm crying because i feel like they read my mind in a way nobody else i know can
Yes same reason, I'm crying
discord.gg/FB9Mq86Fke
Me to
RIIIIGGHHHHTTT????? 😭
I really thought I was the only one
Its sad how people on the internet understands you and makes you feel better more than your friends and family do. 😢
Yes. Exactly.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 it is like dead shot
So true
Lmao
Exactly!...
I feel like dying and i've totally lost hope in my future, loneliness is just making everything worse
we can talk if you want, just if you want
my ig is @bici.uwu
As long as you’re alive, you have more to look forward to. You’re not alone okay? ❤️ Don’t give up. It’s cliche but better days will come. I believe it and you can too 🙂🤞🏽
@@miahlove6292 please dont give up
Same here
You must stay busy. Distract your mind. Exercise walk listen to music. Volunteer. It is what the soul needs. Good Luck
To everyone watching this, just remember: you are worthy. You are enough. You are loved 💗
Thank you for the uplifting message!!
Thanks!♥️ hope u have an Amazon life
You are an amazing person, my dear. You deserve all the love and support in the world. Remember, this is a non-judgemental community. You will be succesful, and we are here to support you, no matter what.🤗
Hmm thanks
In what context? And of/for what? By whom? Some family yeah... But that's not enough for me.
this is something I've always said to myself, "if you don't have anyone, a friend, or even someone to talk to, be friends with your inner self, be kind to yourself, before pleasing others remember you need to take care of yourself. Cause in the end if everyone leaves, you only have yourself".
This is really reassuring, i would gonna tell myself this too, since what i keep repeating in mind is only "It's ok, no one cares." and ignoring all the problems. Thank you for your comment.
I needed to read that.
Having myself isn't the selling point it might be for others.
I don’t disagree with you because it literally isn’t wrong. But this harsh fact triggers my tears 😭
and God(if you believe in him)💕
I’m crying rn, this is exactly what I needed to hear. It’s 5am rn, and I feel so lonely, depressed, hopeless, and worthless that I can’t keep a decent sleep schedule. But this video made me realize that I’m not the only one going through this rn. Sometimes, I just need to let my feelings out, even if just to myself, and have a mental restart.
One of the first things I think of doing when I think about a “mental restart” is taking a nice shower. Even if you spend most of the time sitting or standing there in your own thoughts or listening to music that leaves you wallowing in your feelings, just having the water wash away the mental baggage you’ve been carrying makes you feel better. I think I’m going to do just that tomorrow.
Sorry for rambling here, writing had always been the best way to let my feelings out, and I just got carried away. ^_^; Besides, it might help someone else out. I’m pretty sure tomorrow is going to be a better day, but I’m still keeping my fingers crossed. Here’s to a fresh start. ❤️
I hope you feel really,really better soon and wish you the best!
I hope you are in a better place now, I used to feel like this until I became my own best friend. Things starting shifting, now I wont give my happyness away for anything/ anyone. ❤
This is helpful thanks
Just because today is a bad one, doesn’t mean life is going to be bad. Our thoughts/thinking most times aren’t true, if a thought comes to my mind I will always ask myself is this true. Most times it’s not, dos this make sense🤔🥴
@@MsAwt2019______ Same here and day in day out I don't get better, I just get worse and I have no one here with me
I don’t feel lost I just want someone to love me like a soulmate.
Hey if you want to talk to me here I am for you :)
This is something like what I thought watching this
@Ryan Blunt How nice, I would also love to have a person to talk to 🏃🏾♀
God loves you and always be with you.
Not even like a soulmate. I'd be content if someone just liked me enough to spend time with me.
When you realize everyone supporting you is just depressed like you.
-_- Edit:Thank you for the likes folks your all so nice!
Well, if you think about it; people on the other side of the mountain won’t be able to help you as much as those beside you.
and that's really a good thing!
someone who has been through the same path as yours, can only guide you!!
wow thanks for the comments really helps. i only made this comment cuz im depressed myself and i cant get therapy or help due to coronavirus aka Covid-19
would love to get help if it was free tho
Yup and it sucks that you can’t ask for help because you know they’re going through a rough moment at the same time as you do you don’t want to be selfish and hurt them to help yourself. And the people who aren’t depressed just make things worse rather than helping.
It's just hurtful when you feel like you're stuck in a place but don't know what to do
Yes!!!!❤❤❤
Exactly
I don’t know what to do. I don’t know how to escape. I need help.
agree
I’m not alone, I’m lonely. From a young age, I never felt like I was worthy. I learned to become invisible and keep everything bottled inside. I cope by just numbing myself and putting myself on autopilot. I’ve always felt like I had to be there for others so they didn’t feel like how I felt, yet I can’t give myself the same love and sincerity.
Glad we understand each other. I'm 25. It helps when u move out. Gotta find who you are and be content in yourself.
1:19 that "i know" holds so much emotion
Indeed, it made it feel so sincere
“jOy iS a cHoIcE”
- my parents while I was crying
Good advice. 🙂
@@X99GD thank you.
@@X99GD same, I keep trying . but when people say try harder, it really irritates me . I tell myself that im I even trying?
Nothing Ive tried works. The secret to being happy, for most, is to have a good life. If your life sucks, has sucked, and there's no realistic hope of it ever getting better, and it is likely it will just get worse, then its pretty impossible to be happy.
my parents do the same thing 🙄
As messed as it feels to be in this situation, going down this comment section makes me feel better knowing I'm not alone, I really hope one day we can all find the love and happiness we deserve.
But still seeing that there is a lot of people who feel that way and do relate actually hurts
I just suck at everything I shouldn’t be alive rn
I hope for that too.
@@Link_Hyrule211 you will find a purpose. Keep going. You are so very strong and smart. I know life can feel hopless but you have to try. Life is so beautiful once we see it again clearly. I love you sweet soul. Please keep going. I know you can do it.
@@newkindage thankyou..
the main reason i’m here is bc obviously i feel lonely. i feel like everyone around me is moving on with their lives and being happy, but when i’m around? i feel like i’m being ignored or just listened to but not taken into understanding or whatever. i know my friends and family love me, but i just don’t seem to see it recently…not in like a love-love way, just kind of like they’re bothered by me or whatever. i like being alone but i’m getting bored all the time. i need someone who can cheer me up and make me laugh and make me feel loved. but i don’t think that may happen any time soon, but it’s good to know i’m not alone
You're really not alone😊 do you have an Instagram account?
it's just hard to not feel alone when you don't have any friends to begin with.
This is so true
And its hard to act normal w other ppl, like ur alright, doing fine. That u have all u need. And u cant show how weak and alone u actually r bc then ppl wont like u and will look down on u and talk abt ur weaknesses to others. I know..
You’re totally right
As a beginning of realising this truth it might seem so heartbreaking to know that you’re SERIOUSLY lonely , but with time as you accept things (and accepting things i don’t mean to giving up for a hopeless depressed idea of loneliness) , you see the idea of no friends as something normal , you begin to enjoy yourself alone , you begin to see more beautiful sites of life , this is when you start loving yourself and gaining confidence , and people will feel this and get attracted to you more ..
Hope this made sense and helped !!
Remember there are soooooo many beautiful things to look up in this life ❤️
Can we be friends? 😭
I do have but they all have their own friends
Here’s a list of 101 reasons why you should be head over heels in love with your beautiful self.
Your very own dorkiness
Your personal touch in putting together decoration, clothes, accessories
Your big, bold dreams
Your funny way of snoring
Your bad hair days
Your arms that love to embrace others
Your body’s flexibility
Your never-ending fighting spirit
Your Grey’s Anatomy addiction
Your love for traveling
Your giddiness on Christmas Eve
Your dorky Lost fandom
Your unique (maybe loud, maybe soft, maybe screechy, maybe smooth) voice
Your ability to see a positive streak in the darkest situations
Your free spirit
Your reliability
Your cleansing tears
Your big, beautiful smile
Your reminiscent mood
Your distinct taste in music
Your cravings for Chocolate Fudge Brownie Frozen Yogurt
Your wounded heart
Your determination to stand up for yourself (check in next Monday to learn how!)
Your indecisiveness
Your curiosity
Your short legs
Your long legs
Your spaghetti hair
Your curly hair
Your big round eyes
Your guilty pleasures
Your addiction to shoes
Your ability to push through the difficult times
Your seeking spirit
Your experimenting nature
Your love for routine
Your interest in movies that drastically change the way you think
Your daily resolution to start anew
Your sweet tooth
Your distinct way of seeing the world
Your art and creativity; whether it comes in the form of writing, singing, swimming, playing the piano or dying wool
Your fascination with nature
Your excitement about new adventures
Your circle of friends
Your eagerness to lean into your fears
Your love for delicious German food like Spätzle
Your ability to forgive yourself and others
The fun you have when you spend time with yourself
Your sleepy eyes after a good night’s sleep
Your vulnerability
Your peace of mind
Your super active brain
Your very own revelations about yourself, your body and this world
Your refusal to give in to body-hatred and body-shaming
Your way of letting others know they’re special and loved
Your outer reflection of your inner beauty
The sunshine in your eyes
Your anger
Your pain
Your ecstasy
Your fearlessness
Your fears
Your new discoveries
Your old habits
Your wit
Your glowing cheeks
Your frustrations
Your fat days
Your attempts of finding self-love
Your willingness to find a partner in this world
Your occasional self-pity parties
Your afternoons in bed with a good book
Your very own definition of happiness
Your rockstar abilities
Your self-worth
Your colorful inner world
Your delicate emotions
Your complete atypical behaviors
Your confusions
Your grown-up crush on Adam Levine
Your unusual being
Your way of showing love
Your way of expressing fun
Your way of defending yourself
Your way of being yourself
Your knowledge of pop culture
Your ability to let go of convention and live the life you deserve
Your fuck-ups
Your sweet surprises
Your manner of rocking crazy pants
Your favorite flowers
Your readiness to own of your victories
Your special way of solving problems
Your way of shaking your hips and rocking the dance floor
Your beautiful reflection in the water
Your love for the beach and the ocean
Your excitement about the Olympics, the World Soccer Cup or other big tournaments
Your complete ignorance
Your experiments in the kitchen
Your confidence in yourself
Your whole beautiful you - body, mind and soul!
Aww thank you :)
Thank you budd, so much.
But they are useless
cried reading this
😁 I'm not sure I fit into some of that but it sure did make me smile! So thanks., today was extra bad.
"It's time. It's time to let your old wounds heal. And to let love back into your life."
I teared up after hearing that line.
I have so much bottled inside and I'm too afraid to talk about it cause I feel like a burden.
When people say "I'll always be there for you" it's smth I struggle to believe. Because whenever the time came when I needed them, they were never there.
I'm still struggling with trying to achieve happiness and to let love in my life. And in a way it is cause I can't let go of my past..or ig I won't let go of it.
I'm trying..and the day it'll get better hasn't came for me yet..but I'm gonna try to believe.
This video was what I really needed to hear.
And thank you :)
> I have so much bottled inside.
Then let it age like a fine wine, and some day those tears will taste very sweet. Or you can sell that bottle on eBay for a very high price and be rich for the rest of your life.
As an introvert, I was doing fine until my wife passed recently. Now I'm going through the grief process and feeling very disoriented, lost and very much alone without her :(
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Despite it being so long after you've commented, I (and many others reading, probably) hope that you've found healthy ways to allow yourself to cope and grieve ❤
Omg I am so sorry brother 😢
May she rest in peace. You will find a purpose again. Never stop trying to find the happiness you deserve. I love you sweet soul. You are so cared for and there are great things waiting for you.
@@Deddogbounce Though it's been nearly two years since my wife passed, the intensity of the loss has lessened, the feelings of sadness and emptiness remains
(in case I end up writing something hurtful or something, forgive me because I feel that sometimes I do end up doing that but am not able to figure out whether if it is that way or not, hence apologies in case if it is.)
so sorry for your loss, I hope you've found peace though the thoughts and memories can still hurt time to time, or a lot of times which is alright. take your time to get through it and I hope you find loads of happiness.
I'm so tired. The pains that I've been going through alone is really hurting me. It was even more hurt that none of my family or closest friends noticed it. It hurts. a lot. Too much.
Hey, you're not alone tho. I'm sorry for everything you went and still go through. I'm sure you'll make it. You're strong, way stronger than you think. There's still hope. You'll be happy and fine again, you'll be loved by your family and friends. You're not alone, I'm with you and I pray every morning and every night for all the people who are struggling. I believe in you 😉
@@elix00 i woke up to this today 🥺♥️ thank you so much!
Yes im old like youall gma
Things happen for some and riding the lows are wearing me down if I didn't have 2 kids at 40
Now trying to get 1 launched 3rd yr college other autistic
Life doesn't get easier just more challenges we are to work thru like continual life school ugh ugh ugh
Not alone. I cant say im really good at giving advice because i am there too. Just know that, right now, a person somewhere has thought very sincerily and with all her heart that she hopes you get through this. You are not alone.
@@ireneqq2300 thank you🧡
This just broke me more. Being alone is so painful and not being able to tell anyone why or how you feel. Being lost in the dark void of your thoughts.
This is an amazing video, and its sad saying that the feeling of happiness feels like a myth and that no one will ever understand you. Staying awake all night just thinking and crying softly to not wake anyone up. That hurts.
That used to be me, but after I started building good habits, routines and sleeping properly, eating healthy and excersizing and staying off social media as much as possible I became happier and more self inclusive and less prideful and humiliated and trying to waste time or find distractions as my days passed
I have a problem with kitchen/snack drawer/pantry/fridge purging and self hatred and procrastination though.
@@ValentinaLimited well I also have that except that I could go days without eating instead of all at once. Just that I am forced to take medication and eat by my parents and it does not feel good.
hello! I just wanted to say I hope your doing better. just know you are not alone. when this whole pandemic is over I can promise you things will be better
Its even worst when you live alone and you cry louder in the hopes that someone will hear
Psychedelic's definitely have potential to deal with mental health symptoms like anxiety and depression, I would like to try them again but it's just so hard to source here.
The Trips I've been having have really helped me a lot,I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well
@Ana Turner I was having this constant, unbearable anxiety because of university stress. Not until I came across Sporeville , a very intelligent mycologist. He saved my life honestly
@@AgustinNavia-cg3rgPlease how do I contact him?
@@QuekCheung Sporeville
@lG
Did you read my mind or something? I literally was feeling like this morning.
We hope this video helps you! 💕
Same here
(Y)SAME
Me too😔
Being alone with your feelings is the worst because you have nowhere to run; they're all in your head and won't go away, and all you can do is just deal with them.
exactly, that too at night, when everyone around you is asleep, noone to talk to or pick up your calls and you just can't even sleep lol. It seems tough to even get to morning :/
Is there maybe a free help (line) where you live?
"you arent alone"
Me alone in my bedroom at 12 in the morning: hello?! Anyone there?!😭
DR STEVE can help you out.
He's so amazing!!! 🤩
Wh🅰️TSAA🅿️ Him directly
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“Hey there cactulip, it’s me, ya demon!” 😂
@@DaraS652 ;-;
I don't even know how to put into words how I'm feeling. I feel like no one takes me seriously because I've always been the person who you always see happy and making jokes all the time. From the past few years I've lost myself and people think I'm just putting a play. They now think that I've changed and hate being around me. I never feel that my thoughts or feelings are valid because im always ignored. But thank you psych2go for this I'll forever be grateful and thank you anyone who reads this
It’s honestly as if Psych2go stalks me-
Edit: i love how most of the replies are ‘hi’ keep the chain going!
Hi!
@@Psych2go Hi!
@@enlightenedsoul4086 Hi!
@@Psych2go hii
@@karp_ Hi!
"It would be so beautiful"
"What?"
"To have someone who cares about me"
ikr
Everyone hates me.No ever truly listens and you cant do any thing but lie in your tears
There will always be someone who loves u, whether today or in the future, whether online or in person, so just try ur best to be urself and to keep going, and remember there is always a light at the end of the tunnel
@@keegabpshifter1907 Me who never experienced a loving parents : ReALly? They always tell me that im fking kid and their friends kid is better overall
@Not Sus
Sorry for you
But I never did say ur parents and I never said now
Keep going for the person you might meet in the future, the person who will love you unconditionally
I will now watch this every morning to remind myself that I’m not alone and that things are gonna get better, thank you Psych2Go.
It’s very hard for me to hang onto life, it’s been like that for years and nobody would help me or support me, which just added to my pain. Now that this video is up, it quite literally opened my eyes, I realised I was blind all this time and that there IS hope.
To anyone who’s going through dark times right now, know that there are so many people going through the same thing and that they understand and feel for you, even if it’s only over the internet. We’re here for you. Don’t give up.
Beautiful comment. I hope others can read this!
I was about to cry because this is so true but then I saw your profile pic XD
i hope you feel better
Same. It has been like this for years now and I feel so lonely and alone. Whenever I meet very nice people irl, I can't seem to connect to them and then they're gone, But yeah, I'm just gonna go on and hope for better days until my last breath.
Man it’s so lonely being alive sometimes and it’s hard finding your way in the world on your own.
I don’t cry often but this video made me cry my eyes out. I feel a lil better though.
Hope everyone reading this feels truly loved and accepted in the world some day. I’m sure that day will come, just need a little bit of patience :)
If anyone ever wants to talk or vent, this comment will always be here
other than liking comments I wish I met people who goes through this everyday so that they don’t have to feel the need of being alone or not having anyone there for them when they need it…
Im 16 and I wish that I had friends irl not just online but actually to do things and have people who would have the same likes and needs :)
I can't even begin to describe how I feel, My life's been a psychological horror everywhere I see.
From abusive, manipulative, narccicistic parents to siblings to relatives to everyone, everyone is trying to hurt and break me apart.
Hope, I find peace someday and someone who will actually love and understand me and my pain.
I hope all of you are doing well. None of you deserve to feel sad, alone, or any negative thoughts. All of you are worth it. I know this probably doesnt help, and sometimes being told "it will get better" over and over just doesnt mean anything to you. But i really want you all to feel better. I know, life is really unfair. But we are still here. You are more strong, beautiful, talented, lovable, smart, important, and wonderful than you could ever realize. I know how you feel. When you feel alone, it feels like nobody ever has or ever will love you. Like you could leave and no one would care. Like theres no point in even living. But i can assure you that all of that is False. Lots of people love you and you will meet more people that will love you. If you were gone, tons of people would miss you. There are so many amazing things to live for. Even when it doesnt seem like it. Try to think of all the things to love. I bet you cant, because theres too many things to love to recall everything. Why dont i go over some to help you think?
Theres eating so much candy, you feel sick, but your sitting there thinking "it was worth it". Theres the happy yet confused feelings you go through from your first crush. There are those news stories of animals getting rescued. Theres laying around enjoying yourself, knowing you dont have to do anything today. Theres finding a new tv show and getting hooked. There is beating your family at a game. There are inside jokes between you and a friend that nobody else understands. There's your favorite food that you could eat every day for weeks. Theres drinking a refreshing cold beverage after being in the hot sun. There is your favorite song that you listen to on repeat. Theres funny videos of cats and dogs. And the best thing to love about this world is YOU and the fact that you are here The universe would not be the same without you. Sometimes you forget that. Now, if you want, tell me some things you are grateful for that you thought of. It might be a good idea to think of something positive
And i want to thank all of you. This video and every comment made me cry, knowing that im not alone, that other people are going through the same thing, and that people want people like us to be happy. It just makes me feel wonderful. I love you all and have a good day. Just remember that you are awesome. I hope i helped you smile.
I'm fat though
Thanks
Thank you so much. It was beautiful ❤
Thank you! I needed this. And I just wanted to ask a question if you ever see this again.
Is it weird to think of yourself writing a will and imagining what it would say?
I’m only asking since I get a lot of thoughts like this, similar, but none the same.
@dusky._.milkyway
Just because your fat doesn't mean anythung, I can still enjoy all of these things and have fun, or at least have some happy memories in ur life, right?
Sorry if this was offending or hurt feelings, if it was I didn't mean it and again, srry
(nobody will probably see or even try to read this but i'll leave them here anyway)
been having a really hard time these past few months. i'm barely hanging tbh. a few weeks ago, i really thought i was getting better, but as usual, i got lost again. it's honestly becoming exhausting. sometimes i feel like i'm in a never-ending loop of false hopes, impending dooms, and complete misery. no matter how much i try to step forward, life (and more often than not, myself) always finds a way to screw things up and drag me all the way back to where i started. sometimes, i feel like i'm literally losing myself to the point of becoming either numb or insane. i feel so lost and helpless to the point that i literally don't know what to do with myself and this miserable life anymore. i honestly keep thinking that i should just take my own life and all the pain away with it (though, frankly, it's been like that for 4 years so it's kind of a routine for me already - it just got significantly worse this year). luckily, this video came just right on time. psych2go somehow always knows just what i and many others need at the moment. this channel is truthfully one of the very few things that shows me there's still hope for someone like me. i know there's still a _very long_ way to go, and i'll probably get tired of trying to move forward again at some point - but maybe, _just maybe,_ after all of this, it will truly be worth it. i've been through so much after all - why would i give it all up after surviving so much already? it may seem impossible to me right now, but if there's a small chance that i'll find happiness after this, then maybe i will keep trying over and over again 'til things finally get better (and hopefully, they do).
i genuinely wish the best for everyone else who's going through a hard time as well. i know the hardships we're experiencing are different from one another, but regardless of that, i hope we can all get through them together. even if i often deny it, I AM LOVED and SO ARE YOU. there are people who deeply cares about us so even if we think it's pointless to fight for ourselves, then let's fight for them. this is probably too hypocritical for me to say, but don't give up just yet. life has so much more to offer than this pain and conflict we're dealing with. all we have to do is be brave enough to get through them in order to truly see and experience the beauty of life. let's all fight through this together, okay?
p.s. you will probably never see this, but thank you for all the help you have given us, psych2go. we appreciate everything you do and the sincerity behind your videos. whatever happens to me in the future, just know that i, among many other people, will always be grateful for your help. you're a beacon of hope to many people so please continue to help others with your videos. once again, from the bottom of our hearts, thank you
i don't want to leave you alone even if I'm insignificant :(
you can text me in ig if you want, maybe we can make company to each other
@bici.uwu
This helped me so much, thank you.
Aww! You're so thoughtful! Thank u! This definately brought a smile on my face! So glad that there are people like this in the world. Thanks sweety! 😊
Your heart is broken but your soul is strong. If we all met you, we would love you. Peace 💚
Here is some love for you 💕💕💕😘😘😘
Hang in there sweetheart
I feel like I’m at the point in my high school career where you just feel completely lost. I feel like all my friends know what they want to do in the future or have at least an idea, while I’m here clueless of what my future is. I’m ngl I’m almost afraid of what happens after high school ends. I’m afraid of being alone, my friends talk about their relationships or crushes but I haven’t found anyone like that. I just feel so lost
SAME like i feel exacly the same way. i feel like everyone has someone and something that they hold on too while im just lost and alone
you are not alone, feel the exact same way
Same here
I did feel that but I know what job or interest I want to be in
My friend I just turned 29 last month and feel afraid. However, I believe I’m really starting to find myself. I feel the universe planning for me. Don’t allow your years to escape you. Utilize as much time as possible. I graduated in 2011 and that shit feels like yesterday. Just this month makes it 10 years ago and I’m haunted typing that. Don’t cap yourself at an age and take your time. It could take 2 years, 4 years, a few months. Just write things down, plan and take action! You have time my friend!
I just read through the comments and it genuinely made me feel better to see that I'm not alone in this feeling. I just wish there was a way all of us lonely souls could connect and talk to each other. If anyone has any ideas or ways to do this, please let us know. :)
The only way I can think of is replying to comments and whatnot. But I'm sure we all have other social media. Talk to me whenever you want through this comment though💛
This sounds awesome, let me know if there will be one.
“you’re a girl”
“you’re self absorbed”
“you can chose to be happy”
“your life is so good, you can’t be depressed”
Hey I am here for you❤Talk to me if you want💕I am here to support you till the end❤
@@mariaklaire1570 ❤
Boys are treated worse than this by there toxic parents:(
@@olivegosling4610 It's not only boys who have toxic parents, you know.
@@olivegosling4610 It would be helpful for your development of empathy not to consider pain as though it's a competition, but as something that can be shared when people make space for the feelings and experiences of others.
I was crying so much listening to this. It hurts so much. Being alone, having no one to talk to, despite being surrounded by family. I feel like ill be stuck here, forever. How will this pain end?
same over here man....my friends left me and they are enjoying their life....but I cry every single day thinking about them....i want to end this pain.....
Aw I love you guys .. don’t give up meet new people . Go out by yourself dress up . Enjoy yourself I hope it get better ♥️
@@chethkgowda I really feelt that T.T , but if we think about that , literally no one deserve , sweetie ,if they are living there live ,u have a life to live too hon , Get upp and be happy ,smile , make friend , hang out , u are the best ever ❤ they are the losers tho and ..I love u
@@ghizlane5695 Thank you Ghizlane....Its my birthday today and your message made me happy :)
@@chethkgowdauwuuv, Happy birthdayyyyyy ,Soo happpyy tooo for u , bestt wishess ❤❤
I feel this way everyday. No one notices me anymore and I truly am alone. No one really cares as much anymore and I go through live as a hollow shell. No one will really see this or care but this just makes me feel worse...I just can't stop crying anymore...
Hey no matter what you think, there is someone out there who cares about you! Also be your own best friend, you are the only person who will be by your own side your entire life so start there and build a healthy loving relationship with yourself and you will radiate so much love and positivity that you will attract the right people who are meant to be in your life and will accept and love you for who you are! I’m here if u want a friend to talk to x
@@jasmineneesam9241 Thanks but I don't have a reason to smile. Everything sucks amd I barely can keep myself happy anymore. I know it's true I should start with self love but I have lost all confidence in myself. You seem pretty nice...but I am a lost cause at this point. Have a good life.
Look for peace in the small things things that you never noticed before like the trees or the sky pay attention to every detail and things that you have in your life
@@jaystuff489 I do that a lot. But even so...my life means nothing to no one. If I died tomorrow the people I thought were close wouldn’t care. The world would not stop spinning. No one would be sad. I go try honestly try. All I notice now are the trees turning different colors. How the wind blows. I notice that all but don’t even have friend to share it with.
@@jaystuff489 Thanks for telling me this but...I already do this a lot. :3 have a good day.
When i was little, i was just living in the moment and i never for once thought about being happy or sad. As i grew up, all I can feel is sadness. So i have no idea what happiness feels like. But I'd say, it was better when i was disengaged with my feelings
I thought that I would only feel lost and alone in my 20s, but just judging from people I've been talking to, I'm scared I will feel this my whole life
You got this! You're not alone and I'm sure others in their 20s are feeling the same too.
It can come in waves at any age.
I'm 46 and feel lonelier than ever
@@suzetteshares sigh hopefully it's not as intense with age?
@@spiritoftheforest6204 im really sorry to hear that :(
I actually really needed this, thank you.
Thank you ❤️
Me too
Been an introvert it's so hurtful sometimes. Like in my case I have troubles expressing how I feel. When I'm hurt I speak less than usual and I want to be in my room to think about things and my family misunderstands this things. They get angry at me sometimes like If I was in bad humor and I'm like: "wtf man! Im not angry! This is how I express sadness!"
I agree, my parents never said anything right when I was obviously sad. I eventually stopped showing emotion around them because of their narcissism. I felt most alone when I was with my family because of the way i felt excluded. I was even forced to be in family meetings and aggressively excluded if I didn't join them or acted a tiny bit lazy or showed any emotion like sadness or joy or kindness. Both my brothers became incredibly self centred and sickening I could only be safe in my bedroom until they attacked it and accused me of stealing money from them because they viewed me as a liar and theif. Nobody understood me or tried to care. I made myself believe all my past classmates would hate me too. It made me so disgusted and suicidal I started leaving the house at every nighttime and cutting myself and nobody would notice they still treated me as I was invisible/trash. I eventually healed through venting to strangers in a 6 month process and I started feeling less fear, danger, anxiety, loneliness and blindless and self disgust and ungratefulness for my life. But my parents for so forceful so I couldn't enjoy life or appreciate their existences when them screaming they wanted to kill me haunted me everyday. I told one trustworthy friend about what happened to me in hopes of it making me feel relieved but they didn't believe me and felt like it was unrealistic/overreacting and I wasn't. My parents acted like psychos around me but overwhelmingly flirty and complimential towards one another when I wasn't around
At that time period I felt like all my friends left me and turned against me
I cried as I watched this video and realised once again how alone I was. I have no friends in this life who love me. They just see me as a friend even if you need it. Today, I asked myself a question." Who would be very sorry for my death except my family if I died? and the answer was very short: "No one."
I am already tired of crying in secret every day. I have only one sentence in my mind: "No one loves me."
Despite all of this, I still hope that one day there will be someone who really loves me.
You are so strong for being here. I love you❤️ Please keep existing
This doesn't help. My friends are gone. My family is toxic. I can't make any new friends. I don't have any of my own hobbies or interests I enjoy anymore. My grades and performance are down in the dumps and I'm failing everything. I've been told so many times that it will get better and it gets worse every time. So many times I've hit rock bottom, only to realize I can still go lower than that.
UPDATE: I made a friend. The best thing that happened to me in 2 years. Life is getting better.
ANOTHER UPDATE BECAUSE SOMEONE REPLIED TO THIS AGAIN: I'm doing... okay I guess? The friend I made is kinda indifferent to everything now, but I got a bit closer with some other friends. Family still sucks, school still hard, mental health still terrible but getting just a little, little bit better again.
Don't be discouraged. I don't have friends either. But you can talk to me. I'll listen.
It’s just gets worse and worse ..somehow
😔
Hey there don't worry pray to Jesus he will heal your soul❤
I would highly recommend watching this ruclips.net/video/7d16CpWp-ok/видео.html I hope it gets better for you
@@dianamary7727 Sorry, I dont believe in that stuff but thanks for the sentiment
I feel so alone. I see everyone around me so happy with where their lives are at and I'm just sitting in my room being envious of their lives.
Same. I am jealous of people who have friends tbh
Everyone feels sad sometimes. No one can always be happy. Because life needs to balance. Keep searching for your calling my friend. Keep going. Don't give up if you don't believe in yourself. Because I do. I believe in you. You won't feel lost forever. Just take it one day at a time. You're going to be okay. I love you sweet soul.
Jealousy is the main reason I feel this way also.
I cried through this whole thing. She sounded like a caring friend. A loving friend. And it gave me a little hope
❤️❤️❤️
My closets friend replaced me with my ex friend, and now I don’t know who to trust anymore
I feel alone even though I'm surrounded by people. I hope you guys aren't giving up. Please be ok you guys pull through.
Really trying my best here to hold on... it's just so damn difficult when you just feel broken inside 😢
@@jarithys I'm sorry for the very late reply. I hope everything is well with you and know that from the shattered pieces of glass always come the positivity of self reflection. Take care 💞
I first felt lost when my grandfather died in 2012 he was the best grandfather anyone could ever ask for. I eventually found myself again, but felt lost again after i lost both my parents in 2019. I send love and hugs out to everyone who feels lost and alone. May god bring some comfort to you! 💜
I understand what you're going through, I too lost my father in 2019, and my grandmother two years prior, I feel so lost and confused, life is not the same..its like I was born again in a very dark place, I'm still not doing okay, but hope you're feeling better and may they rest in peace 💛
i want to hug you so that you dont feel that pain ... i hope it work :)
I’m so sorry. I’m sure that must be very rough for you. I lost one of my really close family members around a month ago and a couple of others in the past to (that I wasn’t close to but it still hurt back than). I really hope that one day things will truly get better for you
I also share your pain Rare One. I can very much relate to your situation with your grandfather. He was a father figure to me & a man of character. Life was never the same after he passed. Then I lost my mother in 2020. This shattered me inside as we were so close. Then my father passed last year but were never close really. I have no relative's now. I too send my support to you & others in similar situations.
all will change one day. me too I lost my father on 2021. its so painful, I know. but in my personal opinion it gives more strong and maturity to confront problems. one or 2 good persons will appear. Just wait. Hope my video helps. Be strong! ruclips.net/video/c9PtfcPgLwo/видео.html
I'm tired of being left alone by people who I care about so much. I'm so disinterested in doing anything that used to make me feel good
I hope you will be okay❤️
@@janewainaina9890 It just hurts when you give alot and let people be a part of you only for them to leave and then you feel a part of you die.
@person is right
"Letting yourself be happy doesn't mean lying to yourself about how you feel."
Thank you so much. Never realised I do that to myself up until this point. Much love:]
Things I'm gonna try that you can try too:
Delete social media for a while.
Go outside and just, get lost.
Go out on a bike ride.
Play video games less.
Be more confronting, no matter how hard it feels.
Learn new things. (I'm gonna try and get into music.)
Having no one around seriously blows so I'm just gonna start experiencing shit that life and nature have to offer, you get me. Imma Treat life like a game or even a museum.
Thank you for your comment💕
Isn't it amazing how we're all here today, sad, alone worried about everything and then one day we'll meet someone who'll change our whole world. We'll be loved, complete. I know i may sound stupid but holding onto this thought gives me strength.
You don't sound stupid. Naïve, but not stupid.
Yep. Basically my hope which holds me back from ending it all. I feel like if I still can’t find my soulmate after 30, I will then choose to leave sadly since I don’t really think I will have “passion “ I have nowadays until I get to that age.
honestly Iv'e been waiting for that "someone" for too long
@@iiCounted-op5jx same buddy. I should probably learn to be happy alone now.
@@zhanyuxie1490 so you're saying I should end my life then?
Damn! it's so surreal seeing a Pscho2Go comment section so devoid of activity; these comments are usually relatable and funny.
It's a hard time for all of us
There are less comments too
I just look to see the timestamps of everything
For context: this video was originally unlisted, that's why nobody commented at first
I just feel like everyone else is moving forward in life and I’m stuck here, trying to find a reason why I’m not happy
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I’m not so mad, just sad
me too . but hope is my best friend , my day dreaming and sadness is my best friend im trying to embrace this pain and sadness and hoping for better days
Same for me. I'm just feeling completely disconnected from everyone else.
@@hanshans1516 me too every single day .
@@romagreen8050 if you wanna talk just hit me up with ur insta name or something like that. I'm here if you need me.
Same! I'm not even understanding why I'm so sad! Whats wrong with me? I'm feeling so annoyed with myself!
I dropped out of a community that had too much positivity and it was hurting me mentally because I couldn't express myself. Then someone just pointed out to me "oh you're always so negative" which was the last straw.
I feel the same
When you want to give up
And your heart's about to break
Remember that you're perfect
God makes no mistakes
Bon Jovi "Welcome to Wherever You Are"
Thank you for your uplifting message!
I wish I could believe that
There is no god, everything depends on your choices
@@franko815 ................
In my 21 years of living I've never had a single friend. I'm close with no one and I constantly feel super sad and lonely.
heyy let's be friends :))
@@khushi685 m
Heyy we can be friend
I hope you are feeling better now. Being friendless is hard I know. If I could give you a warm hug I would.
Dude wtf hopefully you feel better
the lack of motivation is killing me rn
i hope u all are having a great day
Gotta say, I love that giddy optimism. How do you just know that we'll be okay though? Like, is there a factual basis upon which you have based your statement?🤔
I dunno, it feels risky believing anything that isn't logical.
@@testme7073 ofc it’s risky. and i suppose objectively, no we won’t all be ok. but it’s better to live ur life filled with hope than with fear. always assume the better. i find that life is so much better when u do.
Thank you... i've been feeling incredibly alone but unable to process the sadness i was feeling. This video finally helped me to cry it out. Truly from the bottom of my heart, thank you for making this video.
I'm currently feeling this way 😔 exactly like this. I feel so lonely most of the time these days. I'm surrounded by people at work but I feel so invisible and insignificant most of the time.
Hugs
Sometimes being surrounded by people makes you feel worse than being by yourself . You are not alone in feeling this way.
Wani Ismail same here... I dont have anybody to talk to, I hide my emotions most of the time and I am worried for my friend on roblox because she said she wanted to die and she has not been online....
I’ve lost so many people. Every relationship and friendship I’ve ever made has ended so abruptly with no explanation. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I have always struggled to make and keep friends and now it just feels pointless. What’s the point in making friends if they’re all going to leave? So I’m just alone. Completely. My family never speaks to me or listens to me speak. What’s the point of making friends if they all leave and I always get hurt? I feel like nobody has felt or understands the pain I feel. It’s not that I have some acquaintances that I don’t consider real friends. It’s not like there’s people in my life that are around me that I can speak to. I am completely alone. And I don’t know what’s the point of continuing.
Going through something similar right now though. The person who I've known for years and been really close to found someone else and moved on, i realised that I was pretty dependant on them for happiness and that was my worst mistake yet. I'm still in the process of moving on and it sure isn't easy. It's not the only thing that's bothering me though. For a week I've been worried about what might happen to me in the future, I really wish for a change but I have no idea where to start. Perhaps by accepting ourselves first, I'm not sure how long that would take but it's never too late to begin, we just have to acknowledge our emotions, maybe talk to literally anyone, this is pretty cliche but it has to get better eventually..
ive lost all my friends too and fucked up every relationship ive had . ur not alone. well you are but i feel you.
@@vaekal random question but I’m in a similar situation to you right now, could you maybe give an update if things got better? If they did, I could really use the hope right now :)
@@evanrex2110 oh for me things sure did improve! I no longer feel so hopeless relating that situaion, found new friends to rely on and things have definitely gotten better since then. I still dont talk to the person i wrote about earlier but thats on me, i could be talking to them now but i decided to distance myself for a few reasons.. to me this way worked and i no longer feel attached so while its really painful to accept reality in the beginning, things always change for the better with time. Of course you dont have to go down the same route, what works for me might not work for you but no matter what you decide to do, if you can change the outcome of the situation or not, at the end things will still get sorted out and itll be alright. Just remain patient, i'm sure things will eventually get better, they always do, i wish you the best of luck!
I have the same situation with friends :( you’re not alone
As someone whose struggled with anxiety and depression for 10+ years, I can tell you it’s not easy. There’s a way around it. A lot of it has to do with gratitude and safety. At my lowest, I decided to think of positive things I’m thankful for. At first I felt guilty for even complaining, but that’s the brain and anxiety fighting you. Don’t listen to it. Think of 3 positive things for every negative thing that happens in your life, no matter how mundane.
Here are some examples that I list frequently:
* I have a living family.
* I am a woman living in a first world country with more opportunities than other women around the world.
* My faith and relationship with God gives me purpose for existing.
* I have a roof over my head.
* Despite being overweight, I’m overall healthy with working senses and limbs.
* I can have three meals a day.
* I have a car and a job.
* etc.
List some things you’re grateful for.
👍
I'll try
Believe me I have depression for 6 or 7 years. I thought I defeated it but seems like I couldnt. I am sure there are people who is in the same situation with me. Even though we are in the dark place currently it doesnt mean that we are alond in this dark. Your friends, family anc loved ones are here with you. But most importantly you are with yourself in this dark. Dont be afraid about making a change do whatever you want do whatever makes you happy. Because this world deserves another smile from you ♡
RUclips scared me i was just want to cry and feel nothing but just sad and feel lost
Crying is fine, but don't let the tears drown you! I'm sure you're deserving of love 💛
Take care and have a nice day stranger!
It's better to feel bad than not feeling at all. Allow yourself to cry, bet still take care of yourself
I understand you, but... Why do you want to feel that way? I understand that it's comfortable at times to feel that way speaking as someone with PTSD, but why do you want to?
@@APoliticalConfusionAndMess ithink ididnt say my feelings right but what i mean that i find the video while i was want to cry
@@cutegirle That's really awesome.
The possibility for rich relationships exists all around you-you simply have to open your eyes, open your mouth, and most importantly, open your heart.💞
When I do that everything goes to hell. I don't fit in anywhere.
I just wanna say this to everyone who is reading this.....Good luck in life, Good luck in general and physical, try to live the best of your life.we live every day, we only die once. Hopefully there will be that one shooting star for you and me.
if you feel lost and alone just know that I'll be supporting you all the way. I love you guys🤗❤❤❤👋✌👍👌🤘🖑🖒💗
thanks :)
🙏 it means a lot!
thank you so much for the comment hope you the best too!!!!
Thank you so much 🙏😊
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A year ago I lost my friend. For this year I found 2 people, who as I thought became my friends. Last few months I'm feeling so alone, sad, depressed. I was living with this feeling only inside me long time. I felt the whole world against me, and my friends doesn't care about me. When I said to my friends that I need support, speak - all of them answered "what about your friends" as result nobody supports me, nobody said that believes in me and I have no friends. I'm alone.
"Watch this when you feel lost and alone".
Me: *Guess* *Imma* *have* *this* *video* *on* *loop* *then*
Haha same
Seriously tbh
Ugh I am gonna have to watch this video several times
It's kind of lonely in this comment section
Alone! Everyone in the comments are in it together 💕
Im next to you friend
Wait what the-
I mean youtube is kinda kroken because your comment is 4 hours ago and the video is just 42 minutes ago-
Shhh! We call them time travelers.
@Joanna Ray i call them humans
Imagine all the people going to question how are we so early right also this video is great
hOw wErE yOu hErE 15 hOuRs aGo
ur early cus your a patreon or a channel member or something right
I'm too impressed to be confused
You're good at finding them
Killer queen BItes tHe dUSto
What do you mean?
This video finally helped me to CRY and let out all the shit, the negativity, the anxiety and the anger I was holding inside for so long. It made me feel understood and seeing all these lovely comments made me feel less alone. I feel like I'm never good enough, that there is always something I should have done instead. I feel like a failure, a disappointment and a stupid idiot who doesn't deserve to relax and feel happy. I still feel sad, but less heavy because I let it all out. Thank you. I really needed this.
I wish my friends were like the people in the comment section here, yall seem so amazing 🧃🧸❤️😭
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
And you too are amazing
Same😭🧍♀️
@@sharky1699 Awh tysm
@@Angela-qw1vn awh
I wish I heard those words from my mother.
i wish she could understand me once.
then u will do this when u re parent of ur child
I am broke and in deep trouble, my mother is so passive agressive with me ... thats the most painful thing ... my family in general being so manipulative... i know i am a bad perso but stillll.....
@@lucaspettersen6935 no you are not a bad person you are just a complex human that not a normal dumbo human can understand . You are the one who needs some genius being. ❤💚
"Lost and alone in the world" - Totally me. Clinging to the past is the security blanket between a fearful self and a feared world. One wishes for a 'delete' button so that only the present counts. There is an unspoken option for those of us who fear the present, loath the past, and have lost faith in the future. The 'permanent solution to a temporary problem' may appeal to those of us who have more problem histories than the word 'temporary' encompasses. I guess it comes down to nature - I was not born to destroy myself. That imprinted misconceptions have ruined my 'history' is a lifelong burden to bear. Reinvigorating a mind that gave up long ago is very challenging. Thank you for supporting the thin thread of hope that keeps me going.
Beautiful ❤️
i havent cried in such a long time i cant even guess it. it wasnt a long cry or a relieving one but still i cant thank this video enough for existing, this amount of tears and allowing a tiny fragment of my bottled up pain and suffering to release was enough to keep me going for a little longer
This was beautiful and timely for a lot of ppl. I think that sometimes, a season of loneliness & isolation is when the caterpillar gets its wings. Have a great day :-)
Ik people are trying to make everyone feel better by saying “your loved, and your strong” but sometimes everything around me just reminds me of an expectation of who I should be. I know I should be happy, but every time I sit down all I can think about is how stressful and hard life is and how empty I feel inside. I don’t enjoy anything anymore. Rather that’s hanging out with family, friends, or playing on my phone. I’m living on to work work and work and just sit here in my free time feeling nothing but emptiness. I try to draw, or listen to music since that’s what I used to enjoy so much but nothing works. I just feel…empty and sad. My hearts always heavy and I’d rather sit under a blanket in my room. I don’t smile as much anymore. Sometimes I just sit and thoughts come to my mind. Like sometimes I think the only escape is to just die. Go to sleep and never wake up
This is honestly what's been going on with me. When people say you'll be happy some day, I doubt it. I also feel like I should be happy, like there's no strong reason I shouldn't, but I just am, and this constant feeling of emptiness really just takes you over and gives those thoughts that death might just be better. I just keep hoping that really someday there'll be a reason I want to live, so keep going cuz this is your only life, and you never know what it'll bring you in the future. Stay strong 💜 God has plans for you
I just want someone to need me as much as i need them.... it's always me who wants others to care for me but no one seems to be interested in what I have to say..... it's wrong if i'm quiet, but when i do speak up, no one ever takes me seriously and just pretends like i am not even there........i hate life.
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help...
@@matheodaniel1364 easier to say than do....but thank you for trying to make me feel better.
Going through it. But yesterday I was sitting outside on a bench, and someone came up to me and gave me a small pumpkin and I don’t think they understood how loved that made me feel at that moment. I just wanted to cry. Just hope things get better
To the 1 person that’ll read this: *you’re cool and adorable stay safe*
Stop
no❤
you don't tell me what to do
no
I subed
It gets exhausting trying to explain this to everybody who never cares enough to understand anyway...
It feels so crushing when *the ppl closest to you just dismiss you like the burden you fear yourself to be already....
Its hard to feel worthy when there are always ppl there to *humble you* and knock you down for sport 🧡🍂
hey I've been there too, people around me also are so committed to misunderstand me . im in a very bad place too. but I try my best to see the positive things . its not easy at all . everyday seems like a burden , but I assure you it will get so much better. you can survive and you will . just have faith in yourself .
And especially when they are parents
If they’re putting you down, it means they’re failing to deal with their problems. It’s the ultimate proof that you’re doing alright if you aren’t like them.
My parents and friends dont care about what I say just what I do and dont do such as schoolwork and chores one of my friends realize in me to pass and my dad doesn't care about my school and pretends to care if my grandma asks my dad only cares if I do chores. There is no person who will truly listen care or love me.
Ahhh the sweet seconds of being the first few who felt lonely
I'm 24 soon to be 25 and I don't really have any close friends IRL which sort of depresses me. I spent all my weekends alone most of the times in my bedroom watching videos. I'm grateful for my family and my boyfriend (who is working very hard on weekends which is why I don't hang out with him very much) but yet I don't think I'll ever have the courage to tell these people that how lonely i feel...
I'm 25 and I get you. Being independent and not having relationships can help you heal and become your own person. Its been helpful for me