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@@melrobbins this what am really going through now .two opportunity came my way .(1)scholarship to the university and (2)getting a job in the immigration. Now am confuse on what to chose.
@@lynntfuzz Yes. They do. But, it means looking at the big picture and not getting tangled up in the little nuisances/distractions...the coffee shop was out of your favorite flavor, or you have big project that means a few hours of overtime.
In 12 days I will fly across the ocean to begin a new life. I'm going on my own self-care/writer's retreat. My very long relationship dissolved, my lease is up, my career is in the making (late bloomer 🤔). I don't even know where I will live next. I'm scared. I'm excited. This is my journey, and it will work out. This is a new beginning. And big high five to all of us courageous humans. 💗
I too am scared I am on my own and I am giving up everything and moving to a different state I have never done this before only difference is I do have an apartment lined up but I have been playing the negative what if in my mind now I realize thanks to Mel I need to do the what if it's the best thing I've ever done game instead best of luck to you in your new adventure across the ocean
@@melrobbins this is the power of sending the right mindset out there; it is true, it resonates at the true frequency. 👍 thank u Mel for putting all your thoughts and efforts out there and in us...
Mel is such a badass. I love her authenticity. She's a messy, real human being like the rest of us and tells us that we are all capable of managing our own shit. There's not enough Mel's in the world.
I’ve made 3 VERY SCARY decisions in my life 1) about switching careers 180 degrees. 2) getting divorced from a toxic person after 27 years and 3) moving across country. They were scary but had INCREDIBLE results!! I love this podcast!
I am divorced a necessary step Toxic and opportunistic frnd - a girl Friend betrayed me Went for therapy Standing high with career ..,.. Only thing now to be able to trust and get married
I've done 1) and 2) actually they were related and indeed the uncertainty is there but in the end being one of the best decisions in my life. Fear holds people back, often.
You are the only person in this world who manage to give me a kick in the ass, really, to motivate me to do things. Thank you! You are great! 🤗 Warm regards from far away, from Romania
Why do I always get my sh*t together after watching your videos? You're so freaking wonderful Mel. Like do words even matter rn because you are a healer and words alone let me be honest, don't do you justice. I am sorry but you're sent from places I don't believe in but must say HEAVEN.thank you and love you and may you always live in peace.
'What if everything works out?' It's a good day for me to hear this. New day leads to a new way. Mel, I love your honesty. You tell it like it is. HIGH 5 👏
I am so glad you saw this! I hope you try using the tools I talked about to break that terrible what if loop. Bet on yourself and send that application in!
We moved 800 mi away from our home to a town just to be closer in proximity to our son and his children...in order to be more involved in his life (in a healthy way). Today, 16 months later, I have been plugged into a nurturing community of fellow artists and a community that I NEVER could have hoped for. "What if...it all works out, BETTER than I could have hoped for?!!!" It certainly has!
I have been fighting Child Protective for over 3 years to get my son out of foster care. They have failed us but we continued to fight. If a family/parent even gets this far they still usually lose because of the length of time. However, we won!! We are finally being reunified. If it all goes as it should he should be living home on a trial placement by Thanksgiving and on December 16, 2021 they will sign custody back to me. I fought a broken system and I won!!! This is a big deal. I think this post was meant for me. Thank you again!!
I love this, I needed to listen to you. Im in tears. I have been feeling so unfulfilled at work and I always feel like I want to run my own business. I got a degree since 2016 and masters degree since 2018 and has never gotten a job that requires either since i completed. I have started a business which is my youtube channel but Im not yet monetized. I love videography I always have and I love youtube. I can sense that there is so much more in store for me and I will do extremely well on youtube. God bless anyone who had the opportunity to listen to these profound words WHAT IF IT ALL WORKS OUT.
Positive mindset + maximum effort = you'll likely get a satisfying outcome. Just because you know to yourself you've done the work with a clear mind. A work that's not forced, and you having 100% commitment to doing it. Having negative thoughts will only lead to mediocrity, and later disappointment with yourself.
This is truly something I needed to hear today. I just left a toxic workplace, looking for a new job, a little tight on finance, but I just have the itch to start something on my own, and had been doubting myself for months... what if today is the day I do it, start my own thing and forget all the worries that come with it? What if this is something I was meant to do? Thank you for this video! I hope I'll gain the courage today :)
Mel, you have changed my life. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I just finished "Here's Exactly What To Do", half-way through "Start Here" and have purchased "The High Five Habit" and "The 5 Second Rule." You give me hope that everything is going to be alright.
This is so uplifting. Thanks Mel.. I’m making one of the big decisions that comes deep from my heart that I have to quit the job that doesn’t make me be the best version of myself, even miserable instead.. I hope I will write this back when it all works out and it is the best decision I have ever made
I feel you are such an amazing person to put yourself out there and try to help someone the best way you can with your advice. You keep it so real. Thank you. Best wishes and good health
This is so good!! It’s like the universe conspired to make me watch this video today. I so needed to hear this. For sure this will be my mantra from now on. Love you Mel 🤗🤗
Your videos bring life to me, I’ve never been so positive about myself, your words encourage me to be and do more. I’ve managed to get through the most difficult season in my life and I believe something extraordinary is about to happen. .. Thank you. Love from South Africa🇿🇦 ♥️
This is what I needed to hear exactly - the other side of What If. And from now on, that's going to be my mantra for everyday - What If everything turns out better than I expected!! I cried after listening to you, Mel. You are a woman of a kind and we all are there with you. A big high five for such spirit and being awesome.
Mell you are the Mom that I never had .I love my mom but you are amazing. You are a true warrior. Before school or training I want so bad to listen to your speech .You are very special soul .Bless your heart and family and all the people around you.I love you❤🙏
Mel, I have just recently started listening to you, but you've already had a profound effect!! Thank you for helping me. I realize that I HAVE to recognize my own self-worth and believe in myself. I'm the only obstacle in my own way. It's all about getting out of your head and pushing through. What's the BEST that could happen?!
Just found Mel and I feel fortunate that I did! First video I watched was her TED talk! Without knowing her I could tell she was winging it but I could also sense she was genuine! Really enjoy your energy and how relatable you are. To all the men out there that don’t want to deal with your feelings give Mel a shot. Do it to become a better person for yourself your spouse, your children! Change the loop in your head…I am trying and its hard but I can do..VISUALIZE what you want your life to be….Thanks Mel!
Mel! You are so amazing and intuitive. I am watching this late at night, on night where I was really really scared and freaking myself out. I had a huge shift this past weekend and it's has been so many realizations about my life and then this huge freakout and then Mel. Mel and this video for a reason and it helped me so much get through. Thank you Mel!! Love you. You are the best!!!
I am so so sooooooo grateful to have come across this video and most importantly, this person. You are such an amazing push that everyone deserves. I am thankful for your existence, ma'am. I am trying to hold back my tears because it's hard working out with tears dripping all over your specs. 😁😋 I love you much, ma'am. Please, take good care of yourself for you are ONE HELL OF A PRECIOUS LADY. Love love. Namaste.🌈🦋💙
You beautiful human, making this huge difference for many people is the life I aspire to have too, I am getting ready to be amazing, and it's possible that all works out for my best !! High five girl! Thank you, thank you, thank you!! 🙌
Pre-ordered The High 5 Habit. "What if it all works out?" Such a great mindset to have instead of anxiety riddled catasphrozing. Mel is changing and even saving lives.
Lol!!! 🤣 Love, absolutely love how REAL you are. I am 54 years old and can relate!!!! Not just to the hot flash moment but o the whole video, thank you so very much thank you thank you thank you!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
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Hi There! ℹ️🅰️♏️ owning and living in my ideal CROWN HARBOR TOWN HOME @ the beach just like YOU😀♥️👍🏽❗️What if everything works out for me ….and everyone else! Luv U Bette….let’s keep in touch😍🫂
I've moved here and never been happier and more content. @bettyjordan, what state is your beach house? Living here has calmed my mind, made me take time for me and my life. It's fabulous
@@adebslife9928 OMG😃thanks for your reply❗️My beach house is in ALAMEDA, CA which is across from the SAN FRANCISCO, CA BAY. Girl, you literally MOVE FAST. I am gonna do that too. I believe it can work out for me too🏝🌞🏊🏽♂️🎼❗️Where is your beach … can you see the water from your house?? Is your name Deb? What an inspiration you and MEL are . I was about to give up when I saw this post. My birth sign is CANCER…the CRAB 🦀 ♋️ and you know where they LIVE: @ THE 🏖 Beach. I am thrilled your in a serene and peaceful place. I am on my way to the BEACH now to soothe my soul as well and to take time for me and my life too
Better take care of you. Yes the ocean is directly outside my door. I listen to the waves crashing all night and day! It's a little slice of heaven. Yes my name is Deb or Deborah, just not Debbie 🤣.
Mel your messages always come at the perfect time. You really have a gift to tell it to people straight but also be nurturing and supportive. What a way to shift anything with “What if it works out?” And you look gorgeous!
111 comments.. Discovered by accident and I needed to hear this message thankyou universe for guiding me here and thankyou mel for sharing your words and wisdom💞🧚🏻♀️🧿
So true. I had a number of challenges today all because I need a walker to get around & that can make things harder. I wanted to cry then it dawned on me - wait “IT ALL WORKED OUT” Feel good about that. Don’t cry because you had obstacles to overcome. You overcame them that’s what matters. Thanks Mel!
“What if six months from now, it’s not that you’re not gonna recognize yourself… but you’re actually going to recognize yourself, the YOU that’s in there that you’ve been ignoring…” This hits me in so many levels. I spent a good part of twelve years hiding my true self, dumbing myself down until I’m no more than a shadow of my true self. Finally got out of this situation and it’s as if heavy fog lifted off my entire being… And now I see my true self in the mirror, beaten and broken but mending day by day and getting stronger.
one thing you say about growth that i have said is that "IT FEELS WEIRD". of course it does because you are going against the grain of your life. I love it!!!
Found at just the right time. Thank you Mel. I’m about to move to a new county, selling my family home of 25 years, leaving my adult children, start a new business. I’m scared but it’s been a long long time since I high fives my life. It’s been on hold whilst I kept the family home for the children after my divorce 8 years ago. It’s time now! High five! What happen if it all goes right! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
It is always nice to watch you. I have also dyslexia, ADHD (and some other problems), psychologist have told me it is not possible to have all these things but when I read about people with these two I see myself very easily. One psychologist thought I might have it but guessed a 50/50 chance, thought I was trying to avoid or make easy my college work. That was thirty years ago. Thank you for being honest and real.
When it does work out, how do you convince yourself that it's real? How do you prove to yourself that you have what you wanted? Because my biggest problem is accepting when great things do happen that I wanted. Any advice? I always think when a dream comes true that it's probably too good to be true.
"What if I can finally sleep more than 2 hrs/day?" As this is a major obstacle and unfortunately I can't force it, but to say, what if it all works out as I'm laying here spinning and dizzy from exhaustion watching this, gave me that moment of hope that hopefully this won't go on forever. Thank you as always Mel, already pre-ordered.
You are awesome! Yes my living is sucking my soul dry! I live alone and have felt isolated without family connection. I'm not happy with my place, the area, the cold winters in the north. I'm unemployed from the pandemic and dealing with health issues but I want to change and break out of settling. I have an open canvas to create but I'm living in fear of uncertainty. When I think about a new area and warmer climate near water I get excited! I've been stuck in complacency and overwhelm. I'm 51 single, never married, and want to go for my dreams!!! I'm also desiring to build community with like minded health conscious woman. What if it works out??
Dear Amy, everything is temporary! Your dreams are waiting for you ❤️ I can relate to losing a job due to pandemic, but she said it, girl, what if it works out soooo much better than we ever imagined 👏🙌 high five and let's let those good vibes in, and focus on the good! Love Mel
@@Blueyedgal227 Exactly! Imagine your 'What if's' being the fairytales no one ever even told us existed :) I like to dream big, imagine, use my brain for good things :) Mel just keeps us on the 'right track' so to say 🙏👏❤️ very grateful for this video and your honesty takes courage so I think you've got this ❤️ if we can dream - we can achieve!! Only you know your dream and this is a sure sign it is yours ! Believe darling! Thank you for the opportunity to share with you :) 😉 Cheers!!
Done! Pre-ordered your new book on Audible! I just love everything you do and it's such a pleasure to support you in this. Go, Mel!!!! Everyone who has a High 5 Life - speak to me by liking this comment. And everyone who is getting there - much love to you. Great things are coming your way! 🙌🤩❤️
Literally been thinking about relocating and changing jobs for the past couple of months and this randomly shows up in my feed. Love you Mel! I needed this!!!
I moved to N Nigeria for work during an ebola outbreak while Boko Haram was bombing that region. I stayed for over a year, and it was incredible and life changing. There was lots of things to contend with, including cerebral malaria that made for a pretty terrible few months of recovery back home. But do you know what? I have NO REGRETS. I would go again and make the same decisions. I'm happy with my choices, even the ones that appears negative on the surface. I realize my strength and resilience. I'm happy with the choices I've made since then, but in my heart, I know I need to change careers again. This RUclips solidified that. Thanks Mel.
Hi Mel, I am watching this video in 2022 only. But loved it! Resonates!!! WOW! You are an amazing human being!!! Wishing you all the love and success with your new book!!! I just know you will rock it!!!!!!!
I am really looking forward to your new book, the HIgh Five concept sounds awesome. Also, as someone struggling with depression and pessimism, I really needed that speech. Thanks Mel !
I love this! Thank you for being so motivational to all of us!! I used to ruminate on everythingggg I've decided on or taken action on and it really is reassuring to think "what if it all works out?" There were so many examples in my life where this question proved to me right that it CAN and WILL work out. For example, I was scared to start new on the west coast (Arizona) without knowing anyone except my family and not even having a single job lined up lol, but dude, it worked out! I found an amazing connection with the outdoors, created so much content around the outdoors with my blog, and now my blog is my part-time job that connected me to other opportunities (such as finding a profound liking for photography and using some of that to help me to do it professionally). Not to mention other personal things came together: My mental health improved after years of suffering from it and I found my spiritual side through religion (I converted religions) as well as through spiritual meditations. All of these things would have not been possible if I did not move from my state that kept me small and constantly lost and not succeeding, but I will always remember my move here will be the biggest impact in my life, ever.
I’ve always been super adventurous in my life. I’ve loved living many different places and countries, I embrace change. I’ve built businesses. Now, at 60, I find myself stuck, with seemingly no way out. I have had my 80 year old very sick mother living with me for 10 years. I promised her 20 years ago that I would never put her in a nursing home. Sometimes, it’s not the what-ifs that hold us back. It’s the oh-shits. I’m stuck.
I came across this as I am experiencing the opportunity to work from home and anywhere and due to neighbor noise my leasing office is offering an early termination of my lease so perfect timing
You , along with Les Brown , Ziegler, and few others .. I’d listen to you all in my darkest tines years ago . The 5 count really helped me ( more like saves me ) . My life has turned around for the better it’s going great but a few things I hesitated to do , this sparked the desire for the ideas once more . What if … I truly live my dream ! I honestly tell people ,” I believe everyone is given a gift , as distinctive as a finger print , our task is to find out what that gift is ! .. life should not be a burden but an adventure “! Though my life is doing very well , I know I’m not doing exactly what I was meant to do . I have been diagnosed with bipolar depression and though you and others help me to finally assist in diagnosing what had , and I know now how to coups and handle my illness , my gift is to help others that struggle like I did. Thank you Mel . Though many say similar motivational words like yourself , When you say it .. it’s like a friend or sister is talking to you ❤️. Much love from San Antonio Texas Y’ALL! Lol
Unknown author?! Pish-posh!! I’m going to buy it as soon as I’m done watching! Also, this is so timely! I literally just decided this week that I will be quitting my life-sucking job and take a course for some new skills which I can first do an apprenticeship and then eventually open my own business, should I choose to do so. I’m in my mid-50s. I was so excited the first couple days and then the “what if’s” set in like they always do. So, I don’t think it was coincidence that this showed up for me at one of the biggest times in my life that I needed to hear it. ❤️
As always, a super helpful message, Mel, thank you 😊 I’ve been thinking about trying a vegetarian diet without sweets / snacks or junk food. What if it works out? I’ll be happier and healthier than ever. 🌸🧘♀️❤️
I didn't have any kind of high five feeling any Wich way living in California. So my mom and I left for Colorado. Apsulutly love it so much out here. Never though I was going to leave California.
If you don’t wake up in the morning and want to high five your life.. that’s a big fucking sign! #analysisparalysis #whatif love you Mel 😘
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Whew! Dagnabbit!!!
@@melrobbins this what am really going through now .two opportunity came my way .(1)scholarship to the university and (2)getting a job in the immigration. Now am confuse on what to chose.
Do people really wake up excited about their life? Is that a thing?
@@lynntfuzz Yes. They do. But, it means looking at the big picture and not getting tangled up in the little nuisances/distractions...the coffee shop was out of your favorite flavor, or you have big project that means a few hours of overtime.
In 12 days I will fly across the ocean to begin a new life. I'm going on my own self-care/writer's retreat. My very long relationship dissolved, my lease is up, my career is in the making (late bloomer 🤔). I don't even know where I will live next. I'm scared. I'm excited. This is my journey, and it will work out. This is a new beginning. And big high five to all of us courageous humans. 💗
I too am scared I am on my own and I am giving up everything and moving to a different state I have never done this before only difference is I do have an apartment lined up but I have been playing the negative what if in my mind now I realize thanks to Mel I need to do the what if it's the best thing I've ever done game instead best of luck to you in your new adventure across the ocean
You are amazing! I want to be at the stage you are. Congrats on your bravery and for following your dreams 🌠
You've got this Yvonne!!!! Blessings. xxx
Best wishes on your knew EXCITING journey. Super happy for you. Have an amazing time. 😁❣❤
@victoria Best wishes to you on your knew & exciting journey. Have a blast...laugh alot! 😂😁❣
She is the Mom i never had.... *Hugs*
Sending you hugs right back
This comment made me cry.
I agree.
I totally feel this!!! So much!!! You took the words right out of my mouth. I just found Mel this year but she has turned my entire life around!
@@melrobbins this is the power of sending the right mindset out there; it is true, it resonates at the true frequency. 👍 thank u Mel for putting all your thoughts and efforts out there and in us...
Mel is such a badass. I love her authenticity. She's a messy, real human being like the rest of us and tells us that we are all capable of managing our own shit. There's not enough Mel's in the world.
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I’ve made 3 VERY SCARY decisions in my life 1) about switching careers 180 degrees. 2) getting divorced from a toxic person after 27 years and 3) moving across country. They were scary but had INCREDIBLE results!! I love this podcast!
I am divorced a necessary step
Toxic and opportunistic frnd - a girl Friend betrayed me
Went for therapy
Standing high with career
..,..
Only thing now to be able to trust and get married
I've done 1) and 2) actually they were related and indeed the uncertainty is there but in the end being one of the best decisions in my life. Fear holds people back, often.
Whoever reading this, you’ll be succesful someday. Just keep on pushing ❤️
Amen! Thank You so much ❤🙏😇
Thanks
This made me smile so much! Wishing the best for everyone! 🎉
You are the only person in this world who manage to give me a kick in the ass, really, to motivate me to do things. Thank you! You are great! 🤗 Warm regards from far away, from Romania
agree!
That's what I'm here for!! You got this
So true 👍. Me too ✋
Yeah, agree. Hello from Norway🙌
Why do I always get my sh*t together after watching your videos? You're so freaking wonderful Mel. Like do words even matter rn because you are a healer and words alone let me be honest, don't do you justice. I am sorry but you're sent from places I don't believe in but must say HEAVEN.thank you and love you and may you always live in peace.
'What if everything works out?' It's a good day for me to hear this. New day leads to a new way. Mel, I love your honesty. You tell it like it is. HIGH 5 👏
It's like Mel has direct line to my brain! I was sitting here filling out an application and the "What if's" hit me! I needed to see this video.
I am so glad you saw this! I hope you try using the tools I talked about to break that terrible what if loop. Bet on yourself and send that application in!
Thank you! Just lost my job. Felt relief and love and beauty yesterday but today was in fear. 😘
We moved 800 mi away from our home to a town just to be closer in proximity to our son and his children...in order to be more involved in his life (in a healthy way). Today, 16 months later, I have been plugged into a nurturing community of fellow artists and a community that I NEVER could have hoped for. "What if...it all works out, BETTER than I could have hoped for?!!!" It certainly has!
I have been fighting Child Protective for over 3 years to get my son out of foster care. They have failed us but we continued to fight. If a family/parent even gets this far they still usually lose because of the length of time. However, we won!! We are finally being reunified. If it all goes as it should he should be living home on a trial placement by Thanksgiving and on December 16, 2021 they will sign custody back to me. I fought a broken system and I won!!! This is a big deal. I think this post was meant for me. Thank you again!!
Your hardest times often lead to your greatest moments of your life. *Keep going.* Tough situations build strong people in the end. 💯🙏
I love this, I needed to listen to you. Im in tears. I have been feeling so unfulfilled at work and I always feel like I want to run my own business. I got a degree since 2016 and masters degree since 2018 and has never gotten a job that requires either since i completed. I have started a business which is my youtube channel but Im not yet monetized. I love videography I always have and I love youtube. I can sense that there is so much more in store for me and I will do extremely well on youtube. God bless anyone who had the opportunity to listen to these profound words WHAT IF IT ALL WORKS OUT.
Positive mindset + maximum effort = you'll likely get a satisfying outcome. Just because you know to yourself you've done the work with a clear mind. A work that's not forced, and you having 100% commitment to doing it. Having negative thoughts will only lead to mediocrity, and later disappointment with yourself.
This is truly something I needed to hear today. I just left a toxic workplace, looking for a new job, a little tight on finance, but I just have the itch to start something on my own, and had been doubting myself for months... what if today is the day I do it, start my own thing and forget all the worries that come with it? What if this is something I was meant to do?
Thank you for this video! I hope I'll gain the courage today :)
Hope everything is going great for you army! Wishing you the best :)
Same here.
I left my toxic job as well..
all the best!
What if you don't have to forget all your worries but solve them (the rational ones, I mean) And what if you actually do?
Mel, you have changed my life. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I just finished "Here's Exactly What To Do", half-way through "Start Here" and have purchased "The High Five Habit" and "The 5 Second Rule." You give me hope that everything is going to be alright.
This is so uplifting. Thanks Mel.. I’m making one of the big decisions that comes deep from my heart that I have to quit the job that doesn’t make me be the best version of myself, even miserable instead.. I hope I will write this back when it all works out and it is the best decision I have ever made
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I feel you are such an amazing person to put yourself out there and try to help someone the best way you can with your advice. You keep it so real. Thank you. Best wishes and good health
Awh thank you so much!
“What if!” This was the perfect day to hear this message!! Thank you Mel!🤓
I totally believe what if this was the perfect day to hear this message it was the message I needed to hear today
You were meant to see this!
@@melrobbins message came in just when I needed it !!
I've heard the "what if" loop called "rejection sensitivity dysphoria" associated with ADHD
This is so good!! It’s like the universe conspired to make me watch this video today. I so needed to hear this. For sure this will be my mantra from now on. Love you Mel 🤗🤗
Your videos bring life to me, I’ve never been so positive about myself, your words encourage me to be and do more. I’ve managed to get through the most difficult season in my life and I believe something extraordinary is about to happen. .. Thank you. Love from South Africa🇿🇦 ♥️
This is what I needed to hear exactly - the other side of What If.
And from now on, that's going to be my mantra for everyday - What If everything turns out better than I expected!!
I cried after listening to you, Mel. You are a woman of a kind and we all are there with you. A big high five for such spirit and being awesome.
Mell you are the Mom that I never had .I love my mom but you are amazing. You are a true warrior. Before school or training I want so bad to listen to your speech .You are very special soul .Bless your heart and family and all the people around you.I love you❤🙏
Mel, I have just recently started listening to you, but you've already had a profound effect!! Thank you for helping me. I realize that I HAVE to recognize my own self-worth and believe in myself. I'm the only obstacle in my own way. It's all about getting out of your head and pushing through. What's the BEST that could happen?!
Just found Mel and I feel fortunate that I did! First video I watched was her TED talk! Without knowing her I could tell she was winging it but I could also sense she was genuine! Really enjoy your energy and how relatable you are. To all the men out there that don’t want to deal with your feelings give Mel a shot. Do it to become a better person for yourself your spouse, your children! Change the loop in your head…I am trying and its hard but I can do..VISUALIZE what you want your life to be….Thanks Mel!
You are saying from your heart that touches everyone thanks for the words ❤️
Mel! You are so amazing and intuitive. I am watching this late at night, on night where I was really really scared and freaking myself out. I had a huge shift this past weekend and it's has been so many realizations about my life and then this huge freakout and then Mel. Mel and this video for a reason and it helped me so much get through. Thank you Mel!! Love you. You are the best!!!
Thanks Mel. This is exactly what I needed to hear.
I feel like I'm on the verge of a big break, but I'm afraid of standing in the way of self, wish me luck 🙌
This is the video that influenced me a lot, through one of the most difficult periods of my life. Thank you, Mel!
I am so so sooooooo grateful to have come across this video and most importantly, this person.
You are such an amazing push that everyone deserves. I am thankful for your existence, ma'am.
I am trying to hold back my tears because it's hard working out with tears dripping all over your specs. 😁😋
I love you much, ma'am.
Please, take good care of yourself for you are ONE HELL OF A PRECIOUS LADY.
Love love.
Namaste.🌈🦋💙
You beautiful human, making this huge difference for many people is the life I aspire to have too, I am getting ready to be amazing, and it's possible that all works out for my best !! High five girl! Thank you, thank you, thank you!! 🙌
Pre-ordered The High 5 Habit. "What if it all works out?" Such a great mindset to have instead of anxiety riddled catasphrozing. Mel is changing and even saving lives.
I’ve only been doing it 2 days & I already feel a difference!! An excitement! And optimism. I freakin love you Mel Robbins
Literally every time I’ve struggled lately praying to God first and listening to Mel’s advice second has been so helpful.
Lol!!! 🤣 Love, absolutely love how REAL you are. I am 54 years old and can relate!!!! Not just to the hot flash moment but o the whole video, thank you so very much thank you thank you thank you!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
❗ *6 GUIDELINES FOR LIFE:*
*1) When you are alone, mind your thoughts.*
*2) When you are with your friends, mind your tongue.*
*3) When you are angry, mind your temper.*
*4) When you are with a group, mind your behaviour.*
*5) When you are in trouble, mind your emotions.*
*6) When God starts blessing you, mind your ego.*
This comes from deep inside her heart... Where fire of change and adjustment burns anything that's bother those who comes across this special message.... Thanks a lot
Love you Mel! Thank you for being YOU!!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Wow! Thank you for that perspective flip.
I was going through the same thing. I made the decision and am moving to my happy place - THE BEACH!! So excited.
Hi There! ℹ️🅰️♏️ owning and living in my ideal CROWN HARBOR TOWN HOME @ the beach just like YOU😀♥️👍🏽❗️What if everything works out for me ….and everyone else! Luv U Bette….let’s keep in touch😍🫂
@ADebsLife
Please read Bette Jordan reply for you♥️
I've moved here and never been happier and more content. @bettyjordan, what state is your beach house?
Living here has calmed my mind, made me take time for me and my life. It's fabulous
@@adebslife9928 OMG😃thanks for your reply❗️My beach house is in ALAMEDA, CA which is across from the SAN FRANCISCO, CA BAY. Girl, you literally MOVE FAST. I am gonna do that too. I believe it can work out for me too🏝🌞🏊🏽♂️🎼❗️Where is your beach … can you see the water from your house?? Is your name Deb? What an inspiration you and MEL are . I was about to give up when I saw this post. My birth sign is CANCER…the CRAB 🦀 ♋️ and you know where they LIVE: @ THE 🏖 Beach. I am thrilled your in a serene and peaceful place. I am on my way to the BEACH now to soothe my soul as well and to take time for me and my life too
Better take care of you. Yes the ocean is directly outside my door. I listen to the waves crashing all night and day! It's a little slice of heaven. Yes my name is Deb or Deborah, just not Debbie 🤣.
I needed this today thank you Mel, the work you do is truly life changing! Releasing our mind of negative energy is so FREEING
You brought tears to my eyes saying that the last eighteen months have been hard but you can get up again.Thanks Mel 💕
Great, positive message! Thank you so much, Mel. It's just what I needed to hear 👏💪🤗✋
Mel your messages always come at the perfect time. You really have a gift to tell it to people straight but also be nurturing and supportive. What a way to shift anything with “What if it works out?” And you look gorgeous!
Incredible! Getting an audiobook ASAP. “Not a known author?” - have they been under a rock?! Seriously…
111 comments.. Discovered by accident and I needed to hear this message thankyou universe for guiding me here and thankyou mel for sharing your words and wisdom💞🧚🏻♀️🧿
I love you Mel robins thank you so much thank you for coming out and being you I love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Mel for this message. High five to you 🖐😀👍
Nice if you have money. You can change anything. If you don't then the what it's come on strong!!!
Thank you Mel, you are for me such an inspiration and an example of humanity, for humanity. Bless you!
So true. I had a number of challenges today all because I need a walker to get around & that can make things harder. I wanted to cry then it dawned on me - wait “IT ALL WORKED OUT” Feel good about that. Don’t cry because you had obstacles to overcome. You overcame them that’s what matters. Thanks Mel!
“What if six months from now, it’s not that you’re not gonna recognize yourself… but you’re actually going to recognize yourself, the YOU that’s in there that you’ve been ignoring…”
This hits me in so many levels. I spent a good part of twelve years hiding my true self, dumbing myself down until I’m no more than a shadow of my true self.
Finally got out of this situation and it’s as if heavy fog lifted off my entire being… And now I see my true self in the mirror, beaten and broken but mending day by day and getting stronger.
one thing you say about growth that i have said is that "IT FEELS WEIRD". of course it does because you are going against the grain of your life. I love it!!!
Just what I needed. Thank you.
Great advice! Thank you! (I’ll be buying books for Christmas).
And very nice to watch uplifting & proactive video instead of dark, fake news.
"What if the pain you feel is a dot on the map of your life?"
*my lonely depressed ass starts crying* ;m;
This clip is so needed to me right now thanks, Mel!
Found at just the right time. Thank you Mel. I’m about to move to a new county, selling my family home of 25 years, leaving my adult children, start a new business. I’m scared but it’s been a long long time since I high fives my life. It’s been on hold whilst I kept the family home for the children after my divorce 8 years ago. It’s time now! High five! What happen if it all goes right! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
It is always nice to watch you. I have also dyslexia, ADHD (and some other problems), psychologist have told me it is not possible to have all these things but when I read about people with these two I see myself very easily. One psychologist thought I might have it but guessed a 50/50 chance, thought I was trying to avoid or make easy my college work. That was thirty years ago. Thank you for being honest and real.
Your a beautiful soul! Love how you speak for everything I've been feeling! Thnq! 💜❤💞
This brought me to tears, so powerful beautiful peaceful
Great message! Love Mel Robbins..her words always help me.
I’m 22 & I understand this I appreciate you 🏆
When it does work out, how do you convince yourself that it's real? How do you prove to yourself that you have what you wanted? Because my biggest problem is accepting when great things do happen that I wanted. Any advice? I always think when a dream comes true that it's probably too good to be true.
Could it be Imposter Syndrome? I recently read The Imposter Cure and it's amazing. It really calmed my self doubt
"What if I can finally sleep more than 2 hrs/day?" As this is a major obstacle and unfortunately I can't force it, but to say, what if it all works out as I'm laying here spinning and dizzy from exhaustion watching this, gave me that moment of hope that hopefully this won't go on forever. Thank you as always Mel, already pre-ordered.
This was what I needed to hear. Thank you for this great hopeful and empowering content!
Mel, just had to say seeing this today made my day! Awesome message!
This was amazing, thank you so much. I’m at a low point and I needed that. 💜
You are awesome! Yes my living is sucking my soul dry! I live alone and have felt isolated without family connection. I'm not happy with my place, the area, the cold winters in the north. I'm unemployed from the pandemic and dealing with health issues but I want to change and break out of settling. I have an open canvas to create but I'm living in fear of uncertainty. When I think about a new area and warmer climate near water I get excited! I've been stuck in complacency and overwhelm. I'm 51 single, never married, and want to go for my dreams!!! I'm also desiring to build community with like minded health conscious woman. What if it works out??
@@rangolastarfarajevic7151 Seriously, you’re a simpleton.
Dear Amy, everything is temporary! Your dreams are waiting for you ❤️ I can relate to losing a job due to pandemic, but she said it, girl, what if it works out soooo much better than we ever imagined 👏🙌 high five and let's let those good vibes in, and focus on the good! Love Mel
@@martinag6607 Thank you so much for the encouragement and reminder. What if this is opening doors to something better than I could have imagined!
@@Blueyedgal227 Exactly! Imagine your 'What if's' being the fairytales no one ever even told us existed :) I like to dream big, imagine, use my brain for good things :) Mel just keeps us on the 'right track' so to say 🙏👏❤️ very grateful for this video and your honesty takes courage so I think you've got this ❤️ if we can dream - we can achieve!! Only you know your dream and this is a sure sign it is yours ! Believe darling! Thank you for the opportunity to share with you :) 😉 Cheers!!
@@martinag6607 I appreciate your sharing and nice to know we have community... :)
Friggin’ love the book! Just reinforced what I’m visualizing for my life. Awesome, Mel! What if it works? Prophetic! 🥰
Done! Pre-ordered your new book on Audible! I just love everything you do and it's such a pleasure to support you in this. Go, Mel!!!! Everyone who has a High 5 Life - speak to me by liking this comment. And everyone who is getting there - much love to you. Great things are coming your way! 🙌🤩❤️
This is such a great message! David Goggins has the same "What if" mentality and it worked out so incredibly well for him.
👍🏾I like Goggins also.
Literally been thinking about relocating and changing jobs for the past couple of months and this randomly shows up in my feed. Love you Mel! I needed this!!!
We love u and your book Mel Robbins! Keep shining Mel!
Nashville! Nashville! Come to Nashville!! 😄😘 We SO need you here!
I moved to N Nigeria for work during an ebola outbreak while Boko Haram was bombing that region. I stayed for over a year, and it was incredible and life changing. There was lots of things to contend with, including cerebral malaria that made for a pretty terrible few months of recovery back home. But do you know what? I have NO REGRETS. I would go again and make the same decisions. I'm happy with my choices, even the ones that appears negative on the surface. I realize my strength and resilience. I'm happy with the choices I've made since then, but in my heart, I know I need to change careers again. This RUclips solidified that. Thanks Mel.
You are so right Mel things are always working out for me
I needed this video! I too have anxiety and get caught in the what if loop often. Thank you, Mel!!
Hi Mel, I am watching this video in 2022 only. But loved it! Resonates!!! WOW! You are an amazing human being!!! Wishing you all the love and success with your new book!!! I just know you will rock it!!!!!!!
I am really looking forward to your new book, the HIgh Five concept sounds awesome. Also, as someone struggling with depression and pessimism, I really needed that speech. Thanks Mel !
I love this! Thank you for being so motivational to all of us!! I used to ruminate on everythingggg I've decided on or taken action on and it really is reassuring to think "what if it all works out?" There were so many examples in my life where this question proved to me right that it CAN and WILL work out.
For example, I was scared to start new on the west coast (Arizona) without knowing anyone except my family and not even having a single job lined up lol, but dude, it worked out! I found an amazing connection with the outdoors, created so much content around the outdoors with my blog, and now my blog is my part-time job that connected me to other opportunities (such as finding a profound liking for photography and using some of that to help me to do it professionally). Not to mention other personal things came together: My mental health improved after years of suffering from it and I found my spiritual side through religion (I converted religions) as well as through spiritual meditations. All of these things would have not been possible if I did not move from my state that kept me small and constantly lost and not succeeding, but I will always remember my move here will be the biggest impact in my life, ever.
I felt this message deep in my soul .. thank you so much ✋🏼
I’ve always been super adventurous in my life.
I’ve loved living many different places and countries, I embrace change. I’ve built businesses.
Now, at 60, I find myself stuck, with seemingly no way out.
I have had my 80 year old very sick mother living with me for 10 years.
I promised her 20 years ago that I would never put her in a nursing home.
Sometimes, it’s not the what-ifs that hold us back.
It’s the oh-shits. I’m stuck.
I needed this thank you so much 🥺❤️
I came across this as I am experiencing the opportunity to work from home and anywhere and due to neighbor noise my leasing office is offering an early termination of my lease so perfect timing
I really needed this video right now! Just bought the book from audible and will binge listen it. Thank you Mel ❤️
I am from India watching your video. Your message lifts us up and boosting our moral to lead a life with out any stress
Mel's cool. Straight forward honest practical advice mixed a playful humourous spirit. Love that she drops the Fbomb too. 🤣
This was what I needed to hear today! Thank you for your videos! I love these kinds! I wish I can stay in that high five attitude! Ugh
You , along with Les Brown , Ziegler, and few others .. I’d listen to you all in my darkest tines years ago . The 5 count really helped me ( more like saves me ) . My life has turned around for the better it’s going great but a few things I hesitated to do , this sparked the desire for the ideas once more . What if … I truly live my dream ! I honestly tell people ,” I believe everyone is given a gift , as distinctive as a finger print , our task is to find out what that gift is ! .. life should not be a burden but an adventure “! Though my life is doing very well , I know I’m not doing exactly what I was meant to do . I have been diagnosed with bipolar depression and though you and others help me to finally assist in diagnosing what had , and I know now how to coups and handle my illness , my gift is to help others that struggle like I did. Thank you Mel . Though many say similar motivational words like yourself , When you say it .. it’s like a friend or sister is talking to you ❤️. Much love from San Antonio Texas Y’ALL! Lol
Unknown author?! Pish-posh!! I’m going to buy it as soon as I’m done watching!
Also, this is so timely! I literally just decided this week that I will be quitting my life-sucking job and take a course for some new skills which I can first do an apprenticeship and then eventually open my own business, should I choose to do so. I’m in my mid-50s. I was so excited the first couple days and then the “what if’s” set in like they always do. So, I don’t think it was coincidence that this showed up for me at one of the biggest times in my life that I needed to hear it. ❤️
As always, a super helpful message, Mel, thank you 😊 I’ve been thinking about trying a vegetarian diet without sweets / snacks or junk food. What if it works out? I’ll be happier and healthier than ever. 🌸🧘♀️❤️
Thank you for openly talking about hot flashes. Stuff like that helps me be less afraid.
Thanks, Mel! You inspire me every single day.
I didn't have any kind of high five feeling any Wich way living in California. So my mom and I left for Colorado. Apsulutly love it so much out here. Never though I was going to leave California.