Tip of the day: Don't invest or try to change a woman that's for the streets. If she needs to talk to other guys in a relationship you don't set boundaries you walk away.
Good point There is a thing tho. many men dont put boundaries because men expect woman to already know them Thats why men dont mention or say them because its like reminding a child that has homework to do
@@Chanpaiix Thank you! I’m always questioning why confronting her about an issue doesn’t get anywhere. It’s like she doesn’t realize what’s she’s doing and never apologizes until I confront her about it.
I agree setting boundaries is good at any point of a relationship. It’s when she doesn’t adhere to those boundaries and gets defensive even at the simple requests that you have to start to reevaluate your relationship. Otherwise she’ll still take advantage of you because now you look like your living up to your word. I hate when women continue to test you and your word and whether you will hold her accountable for the things she’s done against your values. All while playing the victim and defending her infidelities or wrong doings.
@@sykotika13thirteen Yes, if I set a certain boundary for her to adhere by I’m going to do the same. I can’t tell her stop texting or sending snaps to other guys while I continue to snap other women. That’s hypocrisy 101.
@@Blacktooth-yr7ck that’s is the exact same way I feel. It’s the same with all the you can’t hook up with other guys but I can hook up with whoever I want.
She is correct. That's why I had to look for so long before I found my wife. I always try to get everything out of the way before anything gets serious. Beliefs, morals, feeling about certain subjects. But I don't directly ask. I bring them up in conversation and listen to their answers. Then I determine from there. I know it's a sneaky tactic. But that's what I feel will give you the most honest answers. I let them ask me stuff too Because on the other hand. I've had girls blatantly lie and tell me what i wanted to hear and found out later after a catastrophic argument. And honestly nobody has time for that kind of negativity.
@@Sumnerstrain It’s never “just friends” it’s either she wants the validation or he’s waiting for the moment to swoop in when things don’t work out in her current relationship.
This hapened to me. It exploded on my face eventually. Always set boundaries. If you havent set any boundaries by month 1 or sooner, you are proably being walked upon or being seen as a doormat. And it will only get worse.
Top-notch material here. A similar book I read had a remarkable influence on my life. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn
to any men out there: there are women just like you, who have been hurt by the actions of others, but who still have and open heart like you and try to better themselves. often times (too) good people attract bad people, but once you can realize who is "bad", you'll be more likely to encounter and recognize the good 😊 I wish everyone reading this a blessed day and all the best ❤
Interesting point. True. What's wrong here is the fact that she expects you to correct her crapy behaviour, rather then her correcting it herself. In other words a women can be an asshole all she wants, its the man's fault...
You should have your boundaries in place indeed, for yourself mainly. But a woman who constantly tests those boundaries will not stop seeking validation and is emotionally immature. One should ask yourself if you want to keep that woman around because she will stay a hassle. Always be willing to leave.
Boundaries are just deal breakers. You have to be comfortable with the other person for the relationship to work. If you're not, then it's time to go...
@@nextbigthing2917No because we know how guys act. How do we know? Because we’ve done it before. We’ve been that guy that’s been waiting for that moment to strike when her relationship doesn’t workout.
Setting boundaries is a band aid for the relationship, the girl isn’t ready to settle down. Would you want to spend the rest of your life with someone you always have to check? Relationships are a power struggle, focus on yourself gentlemen
The not googling if it’s not bad enough to go to the doctor honestly cured my crippling health anxiety and it was tested. In feb last year I got really sick with flu it wasn’t clearing after antibiotics then I felt so unwell and when you really are that unwell something in you WILL go and get medical help I was too poorly to even be anxious and google I went to the hospital straight away and I was in hospital on IV antibiotics steroids and oxygen for a few days. I spoke to the doctor there about health anxiety and he told me google may have told me to just rest in bed and it could of actually put me in danger so I never trust google anymore it can tell you’re dying but it can also tell you you’re fine when you’re not. Trust your instincts, now I know what it’s like to be really unwell I always ask myself now is this bad enough for me to get it checked? Or I say I’ll give jt an hour and see how I feel by the hour I’ve moved onto something else and forgot it! I put your Chanel on for comfort and know I’m not alone. Thank you from the bottom of my ❤ you helped save my life xxxx
Spot on but also make sure boundaries are reasonable. I see how some of you guys are where your boundaries are rooted in your insecurities. Handle those insecurities first and watch how much falls into place for you.
My ex used to talk to dudes. I was secure so it didn't bother me. Until I found out she was cheating. Women just don't cheat. It starts with talking...then texting etc.
If she’s talking to other guys in a relationship regardless she’s for the streets and you shouldn’t want her anyway , but yeah boundaries are important always have your self respect fellas and don’t waste time on trash women.
The problem with men's boundaries is that nowadays when you place yours women place theirs as well! And speaking as a man we don't like that (this is a big mistake)!
Talking to other guys (in that way) is a little extreme of an example and people are losing the point because her loyalty should be assumed. Realisitc boundaries are like "Please do not yell at me when you are upset and I'm only trying to explain my point or assist you" and "Don't disregard how I feel about something simply because you don't agree with it, it makes me feel like my opinions don't matter to you"
@@zeragrogen5129 she's essentially saying that now you have to announce (after being established in a relationship) that she's not allowed to go flirt with other guys....
@zeragrogen after establishing that you're boyfriend/girlfriend, flirting with others stops, you shouldn't have to say it to the other person. She's blaming the guy for not setting that boundary. Like oh it's your fault you didn't tell me I couldn't go out and get ran through, I guess you should have set more clear boundaries tee hee I bet she has a different response to guys who go cheat because the girl didn't explicitly say that the guy couldn't lmao
@@nategin9009 well, tahts what you assume, but why do you have such confidence that that’s the situation she’s referring to? What about the early signs, like what she may not consider flirting is something you would or early signs if like maybe the way a guy acts towards her and how she acts back towards him. And that’s just one example of many others.
Imagine we lived in a world where we just right off the bat had emotional intelligence and just respected each other. That way we wouldn't have to establish this. It all stems from selfishness.
First time watching her videos. Not sure by "talking to other guys" if u mean literally talking to another guy and having male friends. Or if u mean maybe flirting, casually dating, emotional cheating or putting other guys on the back burner. 'Cuz there's a huge difference. If its the first then the guy being dated has trust issues. If its the second and the guy is in a commited relationship with the girl its time to call it quits. A girl that would do that wouldnt respect boundaries, she would just learn she needs ro be more sneaky I think.
This is so true, I’ve been w my partner since age 16, now 23. Obviously being young I would seek that validation without actually noticing I was doing it. And HE would always call me out on it. The first handful of times I’d get defensive. But as I’ve grown to mature, he’s right. Men will take a conversation from a beautiful young woman whenever they can get it. I was extremely naive. For me it wasn’t necessarily even that I wanted validation but I was very much overly nice.
Self respect I shouldn't have to set boundaries to not get cheated on. This is the bare minimum like all guys want is loyalty. I do set them but you won't come near to conversation with. To the streets 📜
Wellll, frankly... I actually wouldn't have _minded_ "disloyalty" from my last one, because it was a trauma bond wherein any time I pulled away (not often) it would've been devastating to her. How to quit on someone who needs a guy _that_ bad...? ...well, she dropped me like a hot potato after I admitted to touching myself. ...she was 37.
Bahaha this is a joke. If a girl gets in a relationship, is treated well, but still talks to other guys, she's for the streets. The self respect comment is mind blowing gaslighting. If the girl had any self respect she would act accordingly when in a relationship, rather than wanting to go out and seek attention from other guys.
I agree with you 100% but women today don't like boundaries they think we're trying to have tell them what to do in a turnaround on us and they make us look like bad people it's just sometimes it just doesn't work out like that and I wish it's just the type of girl but it's not the case I believe that it's the mother that's coaching their daughters the wrong way it is very hard to talk to girls today it's like they don't want to talk to just want to do
As a man in 2023 in a 1st world fem-centric society, I feel intimidated when setting boundaries. It feels as if I have to be guilty of setting boundaries and as if it is a burden when doing so.
Now here's what actually happens in the real world. You set boundaries, and then once the magic of the relationship starts to become real, she starts getting mad cuz now she's not getting validated by all the men she's use to getting that attention from, then she'll start calling u insecure and mocking your character defects in a really sadistic kind of way. Then eventually a man, who doesn't love her and only wants to fvck her, will convince her that she deserves better than u, and the boundaries you 2 set will be the reason she gives for breaking up with u. Ime she'll also get dickked down by the guy manipulating her
Communicating your values and expectations is important.. you are two (minimum 😅) different people and that's ok but you have to figure out if you are actually compatible and not just attracted to eachother
You shouldn’t have to constantly watch a girl’s behavior like a lifeguard to make sure she won’t cheat and lie. Just move on if it looks like it’ll be a issue.
I tend to give women I'm with a lot of latitude, as I can only be with someone I can trust and respect. The only time I bring something up is when something happens, and I reciprocate that action And if what I asked for is agreed upon yet violated, especially covertly,... ✌️
@@nextbigthing2917Open relationships are nothing but an excuse for women to go out and sleep with other men. She can say “yeah it’s cool if you sleep with other women” but we all know who’s getting more action on the side. And it isn’t the male.
Hmm. There are women that have trouble setting boundaries too. This is not my experience of men giving their all in relationship to me. I’m open to that being different in the future. It’s usually the woman being more twisty bendy pretzel. Than the man honestly. In my experience
@@nategin9009 she is correct. If you do not explicitly state that you wish to be in a monogamous/exclusive relationship with someone, the default behavior is not to be in one.
If your girl is talking to other guys and is staying over at your place. Tell her if she wants to be with you he is gone.. if not pack her things a run along. Don't call or text she treated you like an option you treat her like a choice.
Oh…. By boundaries I thought you meant instead of going with a choke collar actually switching to a shock collar or an invisible fence… 🤔 💭 (It’s still a good idea)
Yep I learned that the hard way. When I started learning how to set boundaries that was a whole other difficult situation. Instead of having proper communication I would be a little to direct and aggressive. Ngl it took me awhile to learn how to properly communicate and handle situations. The growth I’ve made over the last few years is astronomical and I believe I am almost ready to put myself back out there. Hopefully 🤞🏼😅
Pay attention to how often you have to set boundaries, if it's frequent then it's a compatibility issue.
hahahahahahaha ok
That’s not an issue of “compatibility”
That’s a.. you got a 304 on your hands
Nice comment 👍👍
No, that's a your a dick*head issues
It shouldnt be needed to set boundaries or remind her of it *often* , if u feel the need to do that then just leave
Lose a battle, win a war. Set a boundary and accept the consequences. Tomorrow you will still have that boundary.
Tip of the day: Don't invest or try to change a woman that's for the streets. If she needs to talk to other guys in a relationship you don't set boundaries you walk away.
@@abel4776 I totally agree
@@abel4776 Open relationships are a thing so you just gotta make things clear on what you want 😂
Exactly
Exactly
@@abel4776 Lmao yup
Good point
There is a thing tho. many men dont put boundaries because men expect woman to already know them
Thats why men dont mention or say them because its like reminding a child that has homework to do
Of course there are those boundaries like basic human decency. But the worst and most common mistake is to think the other person is a mind reader.
Also date women who take accountability for their own actions. If a woman you are with NEVER apologizes, she’s beat.
Question. would you say apologize on her own or when ever you say something?
@@koreywilliams5534 she needs to be able to apologize on her OWN. if you have to ask, and THEN she apologizes, it's worthless.
@@Chanpaiix Thank you! I’m always questioning why confronting her about an issue doesn’t get anywhere. It’s like she doesn’t realize what’s she’s doing and never apologizes until I confront her about it.
I agree setting boundaries is good at any point of a relationship. It’s when she doesn’t adhere to those boundaries and gets defensive even at the simple requests that you have to start to reevaluate your relationship. Otherwise she’ll still take advantage of you because now you look like your living up to your word. I hate when women continue to test you and your word and whether you will hold her accountable for the things she’s done against your values. All while playing the victim and defending her infidelities or wrong doings.
Do you agree with her setting boundaries for you to adhere to?
That's 90% of modern women. Completely ruined
@@sykotika13thirteen Yes, if I set a certain boundary for her to adhere by I’m going to do the same. I can’t tell her stop texting or sending snaps to other guys while I continue to snap other women. That’s hypocrisy 101.
@@Blacktooth-yr7ck that’s is the exact same way I feel. It’s the same with all the you can’t hook up with other guys but I can hook up with whoever I want.
Men need to set boundaries but women need to also understand what is acceptable and what isnt in a monogamous relationship before she gets in one
If you are my woman, don't disrespect me by flirting with other guys. Flirting is for single people
She doesn’t say flirting just talking to other men. Are you against talking or just flirting?
Open relationships are a thing so be clear on what type of relationship you want from your partner or partners if you swing that way 😂
@@nextbigthing2917 my relationships are open, if either of us cheat the door is open to leave through. Hahaha
@@nextbigthing2917 yeah open relationship.... The biggest cope of mankind 😂
@@nextbigthing2917 open relationship = cuckhold relationship
She is correct. That's why I had to look for so long before I found my wife. I always try to get everything out of the way before anything gets serious. Beliefs, morals, feeling about certain subjects. But I don't directly ask. I bring them up in conversation and listen to their answers. Then I determine from there. I know it's a sneaky tactic. But that's what I feel will give you the most honest answers. I let them ask me stuff too Because on the other hand. I've had girls blatantly lie and tell me what i wanted to hear and found out later after a catastrophic argument. And honestly nobody has time for that kind of negativity.
Ive had brake ups because of set Boundaries... But I was still respected in the end... Love and Respect are on the same level with Men...
If she can’t respect your boundaries then she isn’t for you.
If I’m in a committed relationship, and I have to tell the girl not to go and talk with other dudes, it’s a lost cause from the go.
what if she says they're just friends tho?
@@Sumnerstrain It’s never “just friends” it’s either she wants the validation or he’s waiting for the moment to swoop in when things don’t work out in her current relationship.
@@Blacktooth-yr7ck you mean men and women cant be just friends?
@@Sumnerstrainquite literally, yes.
@@Sumnerstrain Women will never accept boundaries unless you are putting a ring on her finger and she takes half of your earnings
This hapened to me. It exploded on my face eventually. Always set boundaries. If you havent set any boundaries by month 1 or sooner, you are proably being walked upon or being seen as a doormat. And it will only get worse.
Top-notch material here. A similar book I read had a remarkable influence on my life. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn
to any men out there: there are women just like you, who have been hurt by the actions of others, but who still have and open heart like you and try to better themselves. often times (too) good people attract bad people, but once you can realize who is "bad", you'll be more likely to encounter and recognize the good 😊 I wish everyone reading this a blessed day and all the best ❤
Billie; Excellent, detailed presentation! More valuable tips! Yes, set boundaries early! Nip it in the bud before anything escalates! Thank you!
Interesting point. True. What's wrong here is the fact that she expects you to correct her crapy behaviour, rather then her correcting it herself.
In other words a women can be an asshole all she wants, its the man's fault...
It’s always the man’s fault
Modern women call setting boundaries insecure😂
You should have your boundaries in place indeed, for yourself mainly. But a woman who constantly tests those boundaries will not stop seeking validation and is emotionally immature.
One should ask yourself if you want to keep that woman around because she will stay a hassle. Always be willing to leave.
I've never been tall or wealthy but I have always let her know where the line is.
This lady hits it on the head.
Boundaries are just deal breakers. You have to be comfortable with the other person for the relationship to work. If you're not, then it's time to go...
There's no such thing as a guy friend...
Cuz men be insecure these days.
@@nextbigthing2917No because we know how guys act. How do we know? Because we’ve done it before. We’ve been that guy that’s been waiting for that moment to strike when her relationship doesn’t workout.
Well that's bs.
Well that's bs.
Watching from the UK 🇬🇧
Setting boundaries is a band aid for the relationship, the girl isn’t ready to settle down. Would you want to spend the rest of your life with someone you always have to check? Relationships are a power struggle, focus on yourself gentlemen
The not googling if it’s not bad enough to go to the doctor honestly cured my crippling health anxiety and it was tested. In feb last year I got really sick with flu it wasn’t clearing after antibiotics then I felt so unwell and when you really are that unwell something in you WILL go and get medical help I was too poorly to even be anxious and google I went to the hospital straight away and I was in hospital on IV antibiotics steroids and oxygen for a few days. I spoke to the doctor there about health anxiety and he told me google may have told me to just rest in bed and it could of actually put me in danger so I never trust google anymore it can tell you’re dying but it can also tell you you’re fine when you’re not. Trust your instincts, now I know what it’s like to be really unwell I always ask myself now is this bad enough for me to get it checked? Or I say I’ll give jt an hour and see how I feel by the hour I’ve moved onto something else and forgot it! I put your Chanel on for comfort and know I’m not alone. Thank you from the bottom of my ❤ you helped save my life xxxx
Spot on but also make sure boundaries are reasonable. I see how some of you guys are where your boundaries are rooted in your insecurities. Handle those insecurities first and watch how much falls into place for you.
My x to a T, wish I had set things up better earlier on before they got bigger
You are One Smart Human Being
I'd say that you are absolutely right
My ex used to talk to dudes. I was secure so it didn't bother me. Until I found out she was cheating. Women just don't cheat. It starts with talking...then texting etc.
The real physchology might be getting to know the person you're with and using poise when setting boundaries or suggesting boundaries.
You are a wise woman ‼️
If she’s talking to other guys in a relationship regardless she’s for the streets and you shouldn’t want her anyway , but yeah boundaries are important always have your self respect fellas and don’t waste time on trash women.
If you are talking to other girls does that mean you are for the streets?
The problem with men's boundaries is that nowadays when you place yours women place theirs as well! And speaking as a man we don't like that (this is a big mistake)!
Holy fuck! By far the best advice she's passed on to us.
I love That!
Talking to other guys (in that way) is a little extreme of an example and people are losing the point because her loyalty should be assumed.
Realisitc boundaries are like "Please do not yell at me when you are upset and I'm only trying to explain my point or assist you"
and
"Don't disregard how I feel about something simply because you don't agree with it, it makes me feel like my opinions don't matter to you"
lipstick matchin her shirt. and shes all cozied up with a blankie man that looks comfy.
Literally the most attractive woman on RUclips
I like this
You definitely make a valid point
No she doesn't. It's full of holes
@@nategin9009 like…
@@zeragrogen5129 she's essentially saying that now you have to announce (after being established in a relationship) that she's not allowed to go flirt with other guys....
@zeragrogen after establishing that you're boyfriend/girlfriend, flirting with others stops, you shouldn't have to say it to the other person. She's blaming the guy for not setting that boundary. Like oh it's your fault you didn't tell me I couldn't go out and get ran through, I guess you should have set more clear boundaries tee hee
I bet she has a different response to guys who go cheat because the girl didn't explicitly say that the guy couldn't lmao
@@nategin9009 well, tahts what you assume, but why do you have such confidence that that’s the situation she’s referring to? What about the early signs, like what she may not consider flirting is something you would or early signs if like maybe the way a guy acts towards her and how she acts back towards him. And that’s just one example of many others.
Truth bombs again and again ☝🏼
I don’t date women who have any guy friends. If she’s not willing to cut ties, I walk.
Exactly 💯
If your poly it's even more important to set boundaries
Promiscious*
Eres BELLA!🌹🇵🇷
You just said my story
I want to meet this girls boyfriend. Can you imagine having to live up to “expectations”?
We can talk when are you free?
Imagine we lived in a world where we just right off the bat had emotional intelligence and just respected each other. That way we wouldn't have to establish this. It all stems from selfishness.
I find it funny that (to my knowledge) she’s single and giving advice 🤣
I couldn't care less if she's never had a date in her life, if she's right, then she's right. And she is.
Coaches don’t play
she's got a high body count for sure yet she claims she is "traditional". disgusting females
Well yeah she's got all this time because she doesn't have a guy to annoy.
😄
I get the "no one is good enough for me" vibe
Keep doing God's work beauty. Ya priceless!
I set my boundaries too high with her and so she didn’t want to do it but wanted to stay with me and it ended badly.
Yup i like it
First time watching her videos. Not sure by "talking to other guys" if u mean literally talking to another guy and having male friends. Or if u mean maybe flirting, casually dating, emotional cheating or putting other guys on the back burner. 'Cuz there's a huge difference. If its the first then the guy being dated has trust issues. If its the second and the guy is in a commited relationship with the girl its time to call it quits. A girl that would do that wouldnt respect boundaries, she would just learn she needs ro be more sneaky I think.
This is so true, I’ve been w my partner since age 16, now 23. Obviously being young I would seek that validation without actually noticing I was doing it. And HE would always call me out on it. The first handful of times I’d get defensive. But as I’ve grown to mature, he’s right. Men will take a conversation from a beautiful young woman whenever they can get it. I was extremely naive. For me it wasn’t necessarily even that I wanted validation but I was very much overly nice.
how long did you stay after he sat his boundaries?
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp I’m not sure what your real question is
he's asking if you're even in a relationship with your partner@@hannahisabel8015
You are doing a great job!
Once you get rolled, you set boundaries
I set your boundaries in the kitchen.
Self respect I shouldn't have to set boundaries to not get cheated on. This is the bare minimum like all guys want is loyalty. I do set them but you won't come near to conversation with. To the streets 📜
Wellll, frankly... I actually wouldn't have _minded_ "disloyalty" from my last one, because it was a trauma bond wherein any time I pulled away (not often) it would've been devastating to her.
How to quit on someone who needs a guy _that_ bad...? ...well, she dropped me like a hot potato after I admitted to touching myself.
...she was 37.
This is why I give up dating. If I have to set boundaries on things that are just common sense then I’m not going to invest my time with that women.
You got that right. Communication is the problem
Bahaha this is a joke. If a girl gets in a relationship, is treated well, but still talks to other guys, she's for the streets. The self respect comment is mind blowing gaslighting. If the girl had any self respect she would act accordingly when in a relationship, rather than wanting to go out and seek attention from other guys.
backburner is a team fortress 2 weapon
Lmao i love how you bring up guy friends we dont trust as if most girls dont just talk to them behind our backs
The same can be said of the opposite
@@sykotika13thirteen Yeah it can. But girls statistically do it more because if a guy is "working too much" a girl is usually out with someone else.
Thats why you test. A simple, can I borrow your phone for a bit? Is more than enough
@@sykotika13thirteenyes, its quite possible for it to happen the other way around. Still doesn't change the point tho
I agree with you 100% but women today don't like boundaries they think we're trying to have tell them what to do in a turnaround on us and they make us look like bad people it's just sometimes it just doesn't work out like that and I wish it's just the type of girl but it's not the case I believe that it's the mother that's coaching their daughters the wrong way it is very hard to talk to girls today it's like they don't want to talk to just want to do
You re a G
As a man in 2023 in a 1st world fem-centric society, I feel intimidated when setting boundaries. It feels as if I have to be guilty of setting boundaries and as if it is a burden when doing so.
Now here's what actually happens in the real world. You set boundaries, and then once the magic of the relationship starts to become real, she starts getting mad cuz now she's not getting validated by all the men she's use to getting that attention from, then she'll start calling u insecure and mocking your character defects in a really sadistic kind of way. Then eventually a man, who doesn't love her and only wants to fvck her, will convince her that she deserves better than u, and the boundaries you 2 set will be the reason she gives for breaking up with u. Ime she'll also get dickked down by the guy manipulating her
That’s when you tell her to hit the bricks or you excuse yourself from the relationship.
@Blacktooth3547 lol yeah, I think I was just in a mentally really bad place when I wrote that
Communicating your values and expectations is important.. you are two (minimum 😅) different people and that's ok but you have to figure out if you are actually compatible and not just attracted to eachother
Yes dear 😔
"vulnerability?" Obviously I don't understand boundaries because it seems like they're to avoid vulnerability.
Ok
Thank you :)
You shouldn’t have to constantly watch a girl’s behavior like a lifeguard to make sure she won’t cheat and lie. Just move on if it looks like it’ll be a issue.
I tend to give women I'm with a lot of latitude, as I can only be with someone I can trust and respect. The only time I bring something up is when something happens, and I reciprocate that action
And if what I asked for is agreed upon yet violated, especially covertly,...
✌️
You look really good in this video compared to others! Idk what it is
Hair and makeup, as always.
I'm gonna Put my foot down
Boundaries, just like with children.
Dump'em after you've picked up a new one.
Honestly i shouldn't need to set boundaries if they cant figure out how to act in a relationship then ✌ im not teaching you for the next dude
Open relationships exists
@@nextbigthing2917Open relationships are nothing but an excuse for women to go out and sleep with other men. She can say “yeah it’s cool if you sleep with other women” but we all know who’s getting more action on the side. And it isn’t the male.
My grandmother is a boomer I'm 21 she doesn't understand boundaries.
Hmm. There are women that have trouble setting boundaries too. This is not my experience of men giving their all in relationship to me. I’m open to that being different in the future. It’s usually the woman being more twisty bendy pretzel. Than the man honestly. In my experience
After watching some of your clips, I decided I don't need a relationship. Meaningful or not.
If you want to be exclusive, both parties need to follow that rule. Not just her. So make sure you’re ready for that as well
According to her, women don't have to do that unless they're specifically told not to
I totally agree, this whole BS of men not having to be exclusive shows a lack of self control and total disrespect
@@nategin9009 she is correct. If you do not explicitly state that you wish to be in a monogamous/exclusive relationship with someone, the default behavior is not to be in one.
@jo2305 yeah....the point is that after that is said, you don't need to tell her not to flirt with dudes at the bar.
@@jo2305 shouldn’t it be an automatic thought to be exclusive?
What happens if she thinks that your boundaries are crazy and illogical and calls you insecure?
Boundaries are all I set
True
After so many video's of hers popping up in my recommended, I just gotta ask, what women does when think we are talking to?
💯
If your girl is talking to other guys and is staying over at your place. Tell her if she wants to be with you he is gone.. if not pack her things a run along. Don't call or text she treated you like an option you treat her like a choice.
Yap👍👏👏👏👏
Women don’t care about boundaries 🖤💔🖤
be prohecy prepared ...important notes this prophecy started potentially 1850 .......prohecys are like puzzles that have riddle abilty
That’s right!
You need to declare that cheating is a boundary… or she’ll think it’s fine? What?😂
Oh…. By boundaries I thought you meant instead of going with a choke collar actually switching to a shock collar or an invisible fence…
🤔 💭
(It’s still a good idea)
A girl bringing you misery, is misery
Yep!!!
Does eyes are scary and so beautiful at the same time I am so confused… ❤
Yep I learned that the hard way. When I started learning how to set boundaries that was a whole other difficult situation. Instead of having proper communication I would be a little to direct and aggressive. Ngl it took me awhile to learn how to properly communicate and handle situations. The growth I’ve made over the last few years is astronomical and I believe I am almost ready to put myself back out there. Hopefully 🤞🏼😅
Children need to have boundaries set, so what does this say about the maturity of women?
Why would I set boundaries for another man's wife or girlfriend?