Single Motherhood Is A Generational Curse
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"Fancy baby showers, but no wedding and no man."
DAMN DAAAAAMMMMMN!!! "You let him hit it raw" 🎵🎵🎵🕺🕺
Now you're a single mom🎼🎵
Now you're a single mom🎼🎵
The baby shower is the wedding, because they marry their kid. They will try to create either a son-husband or a daughter-wife. They will hamper the child to get them to rely and depend on the mother well past adulthood. These women are insidious.
It is truly pathetic. Let’s not forget the fancy, extravagant prom send offs for girls who will probably never be a wife and then next is the elaborate baby shower which has taken the place of the wedding. SMH
Shame that dude that made the song crash out HARD.
Being raised by a single mother is a traumatic experience
The worst situation ever for a child.
I wouldn't wish it on anyone
If you became a mother in your teens and a grandmother in your 30s, then you have failed yourself and your children.
NOT NECESSARILY. SOME CULTURES STILL START EARLY. THE FACT IS THAT A FEMALE IS NO LONGER A CHILD WHEN SHE STARTS TO BLEED. HOWEVER, A DAUGHTER WOULD NOT BE FUKKING UNDER HER PARENTS' ROOF. SHE WOULD BE WITH HER HUSBAND ... UNDER HIS ROOF. 😎
She's aware of that and is why she's crying 😢
If she couldn't keep the father in her life, then it was only a matter of time.
@KtotheG I agree that something we will never know because we don't know what happened in their relationship. You can sometimes have both parents and diligently raise that child, and they can still go astray.
@@KtotheGfacts
Those are not tears of joy. That’s the “ugly” crying of a broken heart.
It crys of a broken heart for sure.
That is the best description I've heard. This is the cry my Mother gave me when she BEGGING me to not fully invest my life in the Streets 25years ago.
@@lroyjetsonson5060 It’s the cry my first GF gave when admitted that I had cheated on her and that I was breaking up with her. (Yeah, not my finest moment. Never did it again. Her pain forced me to grow up a bit.)
I was like, “Note to self: don’t ever do that again…”
Indeed!
Instant poverty. But we are so very delusional! I have heard many young single moms say “I take care of my kids!” Except for the food stamps and section 8. SMH!!!
This is why a solid family structure is needed.Don't let the Ebony K's sell you a dream
Exactly. Smdh
Fathers keep their daughters off of stripper poles and their sons out of jail. Eboni K was the daughter of a single mom herself. She can’t appreciate what she’s never had herself.
Sell you a good looking nightmare
Indeed!! And, end up living in a nightmare.
@@seensay2132
Bingo 👈
A one-way ticket to the Boneyard 💀
Thats the cry of a mother knowing both their lives are ruined and repeating her mistakes. Tragic
The cycle continues.
Her failure is complete.
In my Darth Vader voice (not to make light of our situation). But sometimes, all we can do is laugh to...
Well said.
I was reading this in Vader’s voice 😂
Almost. Grandma is going to raise the baby while her daughter get her back broke at least 2 more times. She’ll be calling Kendra G in 2029 looking for a high value man.
@damianholmes3049
With a str8 face 👈🤣
1. That is a cry of disappointment in her daughter.
2. That is a cry of agony because she knows the kind of struggle and pain she's about to go through again.
3. It is also the cry of fear because now she has to deal with whatever little boy has gotten her pregnant and she don't know how he going to react
Daughter did it like it was a report card with all A's.
RIGHT. Smh
Ass backwards
She was probably thinking, mom did it so how can she be mad at me for doing it?
I've heard my own Momma cry like that. There's nothing joyful about it. That's pain and a broken heart. The second I heard it I recognized it.
But the Hyenas will call you out on it…
@@delite7DFGthe hyenas are a different pack
Daughter sees NOTHING wrong. She thinks she's "Winning".
They think it’s cute until reality sets in and then they want everyone else to help them.
That's the saddest part about this.
Wait till she wants to hang out with friends and be a teenager. This kid has no idea that she put a chain around her neck for the next 18 years. She's in for a rude awakening, and she's not going to like it.
That why she RECORDED her failure to her mother and her mother's fault as a mother. Asian, Indian, and African children.... DON'T DO THIS!!! Only AA parents have families like this
@@desmondjefferson2127now that’s total b.s. 🐂 💨
Her daughter made a CHOICE. She chose this life. She is not a victim, so later we do not want to hear no BS about how BM need to step up and all that BS.
The daughter only learned what the single mother did at her young age.
The daughter is a victim. A victim of poor decisions and stupidity.
Exactly 💯 percent right because as soon as these females get themselves in some sort of trouble and they physically did what they did they want to blame a black man for it nope. That's like a woman who gets herself in trouble she'll try to go call a male figure to step in and take up for her and he gets hurt or killed behind it nope.
She has made a choice with a lack of information and understanding. She's a child.
@azariahyisrael3209 The law charges 16-year-olds as adults. What are we going to do next, blame the father for the daughter "Taking In All That Pleasure"
It's not being pregnant that destroys a young girl's life. It's being pregnant without a husband to take care of them.
Tell me you don't have a father, without telling me you don't have a father.
IT is blaringly obvious that the dad is not around here! Bw's need to wake up before it is too late! Now we have another teenager about to go on welfare!
Mom realized that the cycle is continuing
Exactly
I fell out with my sister because she got pregnant by a dude who didn’t marry her and he didn’t have nowhere to stay. I told her she was dumb and we fell out. They moved in with my mom when she got pregnant and this was 2 years ago and he still ain’t got them nowhere to stay. Just dumb.
Wow. Sounds just like someone else I know. Smh
I fell out with my sister also she was 17 just graduated high-school got pregnant and had two abortions. I told her that she could die on the table and guess what my mother said “Nobody is perfect and everyone has done things they aren’t proud of” my older sister who has two baby daddies told her to “keep it” sometimes it be your own ppl who don’t want you to do better smh
Keep away from that environment; especially if you have resources. People with that sort of mindset will just leech away your future and can never take correction and accountability.
These single moms let they daughters shack up with men when they don't have a man and they want some form of masculine energy around them
My sister became a first time baby mama at 37. I was surprised and disappointed, because up until to that point, I was beginning to think she was rainbow... so that was the surprising part, and she still might be one, because they have babies all the time... but the disappointing part was her continuing the cycle as her mother and becoming a baby mama. And she is also keeping her child away from the father. So we don't talk much. I will never help nor aid her in any way when it comes to her daughter. My response will be, "Go to your baby daddy." "Get back with him." "Marry him." I refuse to assist single mothers in any way. I don't approve of their decision.
When the mother started crying that was her realization of her dauggter being a 304
Mom's cry is that of disappointment.
Facts!!! That's the cry that Mothers make when they sons get 25-Life. I've seen and heard several Mothers cry like that.
@@lroyjetsonson5060 But these be the same women talking about, "I don't need no man to help me raise my kids." FOH.. I feel nothing for them when they cry over their kids' failures. They weren't crying when they kicked their fathers to the curb. They weren't crying when they said, "I'm the mama and the daddy." They weren't crying when they were playing keep away with the child or going down to the courthouse and calling the police on the dads who tried to be involved.
@@KtotheG 🤣🤣🤣
Her pain is twofold. 1. Disappointment with her daughter and 2. And just as important she knows she will have to take care of the baby
Yup. Those were tears of, "I fucked up rasing this child".
The fact that she didn't show what the Mother SAID after speaks VOLUMES!
That's the reaction of disappointment.
I know how she feels, my mother did the same thing when my sister told her she was pregnant after both my parents sat my sisters down and told them don't bring no kids into the world we can't afford to take care of. My father went postal !! This is a two parent household it changed the dynamic of the whole household. Single motherhood affects everyone in the family. It's a selfish act on the part of the young females and males. It's not fair 😡
That's why you need a whole male and females accountable nobody seeking no free pass for having sex with another what are protection
Is she use condoms and birth control pills or adoption or abortion
Or you need to tell her to make her baby daddy accountable problem solve
@@JohnThorpe-gr5ur He's certainly accountable because he's the rifleman that shot cum bullets.
When my oldest sister came home from college pregnant and I saw the heartbreak in my parents face I swore to myself that I would never do that to them! I married and had my only son at 30. It is the best thing ever to have a husband and present father for my son. He is grown now but we were able to create a blessed life for him as a FAMILY!!!
The worst part os not only is that a cry of grief and sadness, the dingbat daughter doesnt know thats what it is.
They don't have emotional intelligence. But they want the men to have it. They want the men to have everything that they lack. Emotional intelligence, nurturing, sensitivity, cooking skills, etc. They want the men to be women.
I approve this message. Makes it even worse.
They have no emotional intelligence. Yet they want BM to have it. But We have it in spades. We just refuse to be their punching bags.
WANNA BET SHE THOUGHT HER DAUGHTER WAS HER "BEST FRIEND" AND SHE KNEW EVERYTHING SHE WAS DOING?! 😎
They always do 😂😂😂
@@thelightseeker94it’s not funny though.
The mama definitely knew something was up.
🎯🎯🎯🎯
Kiesha culture is undefeated.
lol.
And the most undesirable and unwed
I.e. Baby mama culture
@@shaungarrett5291 I.e. plantation breeders
Exactly 😂
I feel nothing for that mother. These are the choices of rebellious women. Rebellious mothers have rebellious daughters and the cycle continues.
I have no sympathy for the mother or her daughter; choices have consequences.
Amen
They got too much pride. They can never replace the fathers, no matter how hard they try.
I have to give credit where credit is due. What you wrote was DEEP! Don't stop.
The men and women are in rebellion. There's too many men choosing to be whorish and irresponsible. Men ain't off the hook. Both genders are failing.
Divine Judgement
I had a cousin who got mad when she told me her 17 year old was pregnant and she was happy, so I said “for what?” 😂.
Then told my kids, aint nothing good about that. She messed her life up by making a bad decision. I had to tell multiple family members that I don’t care about any of that spooky “blessings” talk, that was a bad choice and she’s gonna suffer for it in the long run.
It was a cry of pain. She was crying because she failed her teen daughter.
Nowadays, being a single mother, especially at a young age, is insanely difficult. Because the father in this situation might be the same age as a teen.
It's sad since the black community is the only community that glorifies single motherhood like it's an amazing thing.
I just looked up the statistics for teenage births by race/ethnicity (per 1000) and it seems the black community isn't the only one that accepts teenage single moms:
American Indian/Alaska Native: 24.4
Black: 21.6
Hispanic/Latina: 21.2
Native Hawaiian/Pacific Islander: 21.1
Multiracial: 14.2
White: 9.3
Asian: 1.7
If anything it seems white and Asian people are the weird ones for *not* being so accepting of it.
Recording it, AND, posting it online! 🤦🏾♂️
Embarrassing 😢
They want attention.
It's cute, bunch of idiots.
Very soon, we'll be seeing it "🎼🎶 ...showing the baby off, showing the baby off... 🎶"
Sounds fake
I had my husband and I had my 1st child when I was 34. My mother was a teenage mother when she had my siblings and I. She had 4 children by the age of 21. She always, always stressed to my sister and I about not being like her and having children at a young and with someone who will most likely not be around. Now, at the age of 40, I am expecting my 2nd child, and my sister, who is 43, does not have any children. It was a struggle for my mother to raise us, and my sister and I surely were determined not to repeat this same cycle.
I have 2 children&have been married 14 years!APTTMH!!!❤❤❤
Congratulations to you&your husband!!APTTMH!!!❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Those were tears of sorrow, not tears of joy. Whoever wrote that caption has a very different idea of what a "sweetest reaction" looks like and sounds like. 🤷♂️ Hyenas will do anything to praise this foolishness.
It's sarcasm.
No stupidity is a generational curse😅😅😅
😂
What was the dad's reaction? Oh Yeah dad's don't exist anymore. Hence why we have situations like this running rampant.
The fatherlessness of it all.
🎶 You let him hit it raw...you had no second thoughts...🎶
Some things are just not designed to post on the Internet... This is one of those situations.
I agree. It’s embarrassing!
90% of what goes online is just garbage these days.
Adopt the baby out! Put the young woman on a five-year birth control method. Educate this young woman about how and why the 'baby daddy' is not likely to be involved in the child's life and that having the government as the child's father is a disaster. And, begging for bread (WIC, WELFARE, SECTION 8) is the road to perdition!!!
Getting pregnant at any age before marriage should get the same reaction.
The way she kept beating her over the head with reasons this lady was crying I’m like damn…. That’s a lot of disappointment
That sounded like pain not joy
It's gotten so bad they can't even tell what type of cry that is... Hope has left the building.
Ain’t no joy in that cry and reaction….I’m getting, “Why, why, WHY!” from this….
Daughter repeating her life choices - also, she understand SHE HAS TO RAISE HER GRANDCHILD AND HER GRANDKID while her immature daughter might thank her by making some more kids.....
Some of these single mothers have daughters that's 14 15 16 yrs old that's pregnant or already have a kid or kids and they Mama's saying oh well that's them so now they have to take care of them babies I done my part and that's the attitude a lot of them have. So now your baby has a baby.
They didn't do their part. They didn't do the best they could. If they did, they would have been married to their fathers and raised their kids together to give their kids the best chance.
She's heartbroken 💔
Generational praise and foolery especially in the BC
Yep. Exactly. Smh
It's not just the BC. Here are teenage births per 1000 girls divided by race/ethnicity
American Indian/Alaska Native: 24.4
Black: 21.6
Hispanic/Latina: 21.2
Native Hawaiian/Pacific Islander: 21.1
Multiracial: 14.2
White: 9.3
Asian: 1.7
She’s hearing all the voices telling her her daughter was gonna go up the same road.
That cry is momma being mad that she now has to be referred to as “Grandma” and she feels that will lower her dating value when she calls into Kendra Springer dating show looking for a $152k earner….
Lol
no joy in those tears.
People are slow, low, selfish and delusional. Of course that was not a cry of joy, and even if it was, who with good sense would think this is a good thing? I would give any woman the business who came to me with a "Shower" invite after that.
Another battle lost in this ongoing war.
Not being a 16 yo virgin isn’t good news for a parent, that mother & daughter gets an F grade.
If that mom was so caring the daughter wouldn’t feel a need to hide she was having sex in the first place. There would have been an open conversation from the beginning, but you know how that goes. 🤷🏻♂️
@@lifeisrandom1760 right. That’s what my initial thoughts were. Daughters announcing their pregnant after having inter course is a red flag
The daughter really got an "F" grade.
I would say it’s a generational cycle that continues to be repeated because it is what is seen and normalized.
Exactly. No examples of [true] entrepreneurship. No examples of revolutionary action. Just all blk brokenness and blk failure.
Are you saying it’s not a curse?
Cycle nonsense, it's a curse and you people stay stuck on stupid.
The mother didn’t fail that girl; the mentality of this modern black culture did! “Rinse and repeat”! 🤷🏾♂️
To be fair it's not just black culture. If anything it's white and Asian people who are the weirdos. He are teenage births per 1000 girls
American Indian/Alaska Native: 24.4
Black: 21.6
Hispanic/Latina: 21.2
Native Hawaiian/Pacific Islander: 21.1
Multiracial: 14.2
White: 9.3
Asian: 1.7
You can fail your child by letting them have too much internet access. That's like leaving her around a bunch of adults but no one sees it that way.
Sounds like she was upset and hurt to me.
It's almost like the daughter did this on purpose to hurt her mother.
I hear pain in her cry I even got goosebumps so sad
my mom became a great grandmother at 56 .my mom had my brother at 16, he had his second daughter at 22, that daughter had her first kid at 17. my mom is a hyena for sure but she will tell you NOW that having a kid at 16 was a big mistake.
She's also becoming a Grandmother.
No more Thursday Night "turn ups" at the club; she gotta stay home with Pookiesha Jr. while the daughter goes to work or school 👈🤣
I had a math student who got a scholarship to community college, went there and did well enough to get a full-scholarship to a private college in New Hampshire. She destroyed her life by getting pregnant.
This was not surprising since she followed her mom's example. I am not excusing the boys or men involved either. But my sister could not at any time in her teens come home and tell our parents she was pregnant. Even as an adult she is not will to have a child until she is married to the father.
The cycle has to stop at some point and that takes children breaking it. If mom gave her the lessons, it’s on the daughter to abide by them. All mom can do is provide the information.
For me I'm trying my best I'm single and childish so I'm doing my part from breaking the for general curse
And she does NOTHING in reaction to help console her mother. Any guesses as to where she learned that?
I knew the “girl” wasn’t ready to be a mother when grandma asked why she didn’t tell her earlier about the baby. “Well I’m telling you now.”
Immaturity and ignorance allowed to run wild. Then the “girl” goes on to say that she would do “online school”. So now we have a single mother with no education and direction. Disappointing…
Getting these young ladies not to have a baby by Pookie jr. It is like fighting Darth Vader and the dark side of the force.
".....Your strength has returned....but the WEAKNESS remains, and that is why you will always....LOSE!!!......"👈🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Cant stop the single mother hood trend it look like a hat trick in that family
My ex had a kid at 17. Her daughter will follow in her footsteps.
It’s pain.
I know that cry. It was not a happy or a sweet reaction. It was a cry of failure doom and gloom.
Its a dam shame our people keep us on the bottom. My older sister had 3 kids in 3 years in high school. I will never forget her telling me her new boyfriend was in 8th grade with me, and had 2 more kids with him. She 3 years older than me. They say girls mature faster than boys and are smarter than boys. Stop the cap. A 12 year old dope boy. And put him on child support at 18. 🤦♂️ She says she chose to have kids early 😂. My little sister 7 years younger than me. She had 2 kids back to back in high school by a teenage boy. My family act like that shit was cool. I hate them for being selfish and ruining me and my brother lives.
Too many people in a community having children like that is a socioeconomic disaster. Two people getting married and waiting until they're relatively financially stable before having children is almost like giving their kids a superpower compared to their peers being raised by young single mothers. It's better for the mother and father too.
That's not to say that everyone who is raised by a young single mother is going to turn out bad or that having married parents guarantees a good outcome for a child. What it comes to things like that we can't speak in certainties but we do know which situation correlates with each outcome. A teenage girl having a child (let alone multiple children) often means both her and her child are going to struggle. In your case it obviously didn't just effect their lives either. I hope you and your brother were able to recover at least somewhat from the bad situation the rest of your family put you in.
She didn't have a father in her daughter's life😩
The saga continues
That woman said, "oh my goodness" that wasn't an old my God, so she sounds happy to me
Here's the "Sisterhood" attempt to control the narrative on their foolishness with "Teen Pregnancy " and not take any accountability for their failures once again. Epic Fail!
Anyone notice, there’s no Father there. And cycle continues.
That was not a sweet reaction. She was trying not to go off, so she went into default as to cry. Why are people putting their personal matters on social media? It's beyond stupid.
Idk what made the daughter think that it was a flex to put that on social media. Why she (daughter) didn't show her face on the video? If you're going to be a fool, be a full one and show yourself.
No joyful hugs, no congratulations, no lets "call everyone with the good news". Mom is going to have sleepless nights
A definite cry of disappointment and concern over all that she would most likely go through!
This is not what Mom wanted for her child!
I cried with this mother. The soon to be grandmother will be the primary caregiver.
Call come through on the house phone my mother had that same cry. My brother was killed 10 days after his 21st birthday. That's a cry of deep sorrow
Same that the same cry i heard from my mother when we found out bout my brother dying. I prayed to never hear it again and then 2 years later i heard it again wit my last brother.
I agree. When my sister was a freshman in college her boyfriend died in a car accident. This mother was absolutely having that kind of cry.
You know that the daughter is guilty of her actions because she couldn't verbally express the result to the mother.
I feel so awful for that woman. I literally almost cried myself. I don't know what kind of example she set for that girl, but that was terrible.
It is not always the parents fault. Children will some times do what they want to do, have to learn the hard way.
She is so disappointed,…..smh
She broke her moms heart.
Its very sad. One of my student's graduating 8th grade last week. I found out she was pregnant. I was really disappointed. Hard road ahead for her. She's already dealing with special needs issues
I think she would've touched her, if she was happy, she sound sad, she know she gone have to help that girl, and bigger hopes
No more revolutionary mindset. We stay suffering because ours have forsaken the goal and even have forgotten what that goal is. Ours have more desire to be comfortable as opposed to free and it is destroying us, so we have neither comfort nor freedom.
That mom sounds pained not a sweet reaction.
Nah, this doesn't sound like tears of joy. This definatley sounds like tears of disappointment. I feel for that Mother.
That was not a happy cry.. I was scratching my head..
That mom crying is a clear example of babies making babies.
Where is the girls FATHER in all of this? And some women think that DON"T NEED NO MAN?
Im so happy my married daughter waited until she was of age and married 5yrs before she gave us our sweet baby granddaughter. I love children ❤
Happy reaction? NO!!
And her daughter is trained to be proud of fail as if this is an accomplishment !!! Now she has another child to raise by proxy!!! Pride, you can clearly hear the pain in that woman’s voice!!!🎉
Havin' 2 Listen 2 That Gave "ME" A "MIGRAINE HEADACHE"! 👂👀😵😵😵😵😵😵
The cries of the mother are cries of sorrow and grief. I agree with you that single motherhood is a generational curse.
I've shared this video with Facebook and Facebook Groups.
This video is worth a trillion words.
Mom is CRYING BECAUSE SHE KNOWS THE CURSE HAS STARTED ALL OVER AGAIN, THIS WAS NOT HAPPY, THIS IS A FAILURE ON THE MOTHERS BEHALF!!!
It's been a rough under 35 years
You let him hit it raw! 💯🤣
It never stops this story tells itself.
*This daughter is only 16yo, but she is very WICKED. I feel she wanted to see her mom BREAK.* You're going to suffer Divine Judgement for this young female.