How Black Women Weaponize Themselves Against Black Men
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- Опубликовано: 30 июл 2024
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I recently saw a clip that had me boiling. The weaponizing of black women against black men begins early in his life. Vivica Fox should be ashamed but we know she isn't. Let's dissect the dysfunction that black men are forced to live through and then shamed if he doesn't survive it. Let's talk!
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These mothers have weaponized emotions so bad that their kids are stuck in a emotional prison, that it's always about her and never about you.
If and when black men stand up to do something in the community, or just in the home, and they don't like it, Don't want to take logical instructions from black men?
*They'll Call Police Who Will Arrest Us Without Any Evidence Of Wrong Doing.*
I tried defending black women in the community stores, overhearing them calling young girls whores, baby mommas.
*Those Two Girls Got Highly Upset With Me!*
One even said the desi guy was her uncle.
I tried to save property for my grandchildren.
Their mother took her stimulus money, and the money I have her, while not paying rent and blew it.
Never went back to the properties, never allowed me to get my tools.
I lost $4,000 easily.
*She calls and says she's going to take me to get the tools, Because They're Selling The Properties For Unpaid Taxes, Maybe I Could Play For Them?*
Tell her that's what I was doing from the start, then she never came back over a year. After we started working to clean one of the homes up. Wouldn't allow her son to take me to get my tools.
*What happens when you try to help black women.*
*A Man Can't Force His Authorities Upon Women Who Doesn't Want Guidance.*
Exactly
These hyenas are dangerously toxic ☠️
YES, and they only do it with their sons never the daughters because they know it wont work on the daughters hence why these mothers and daughters hardly get along
@@acetrap they have done it to their daughters. Or they'll turn your daughter into a mini version of them with their bad behaviors and mindset.
My older sister and me raised our younger siblings. We convinced our mother to send our younger siblings back to their father because she was struggling. Me and my older sister had the same father than our younger siblings. I went to live with my father when I turned 17. When I look back on it all, all of us that went to live with our fathers became successful in life. The 2 sisters of mine that stayed with my mother, mirrored my mother’s life, full of hardship.
They destroy their children.
Wow
Black boys who survive being raised by their mother are literally miracles. Absolutely no lies detected here. And I thought my mom was a pretty decent mother. I loved her and she wasn't a complete monster but she didn't do right by me in ways that mattered the most.
Things that mattered the most💯
I feel you bro. We just gotta pick up and make our way the best we can. Nobody is perfect but we as men have the ability to CREATE. We create realities, families, communities and neighborhoods. Pick a fertile space on gods green earth and CREATE.
Where was your dad? Did he do right by you or is that your mom's fault too?
@@khoney6600 Mom's fault. The selection of father for the child matters for the outcomes of the child.
Can you give me some insight? I believe that I am a good mom to my son but I would like to see if I'm missing things that matter the most
It's been this way for decades. A man or black man cannot express how he feels, if he's hurt, or if something has been bothering him to women, but when a woman hurts even a little bit, you can't beat somebody trying to listen to them, trying to help them, and trying to encourage them. This is all done on purpose, and that's why we have some of the problems that we have
Couldn't agree more with this, when he spoke on his issues I took note of it but the responses of the women was surprising to me because it's to a T what women say when they're a victim. So when women say they've had a hard life they're depressed its believed when a man says exactly the same thing its you're ungrateful
Nobody cares what black men think
Indeed my friend, well astutely said, it's part of the existential horror and axiological distortion or even depravity of gynocentric misandry.
@@acetrap Stop believing women then. Hold them accountable and mock their frustrations, too. This is how they want it. We need to stop being better and bigger people than them.
@@KtotheG my friend I never believe women absolutely not. I possibly didn't articulate myself well in my previous comment I was just high lighting the clear double standarded
I never liked Vivaca Fox, and never knew why. But now I know why after seeing this.
They down played the young brothas feelings. This is why men can't tell women their problems. Dude said he was tired and depressed and they basically said so what.
The only ppl these hyenas care about is themselves. Hell they don't even have sympathy for other dirty back feet. The selfishness and self-absorbance is real!
Exactly!!!! Where are the men on the panel? Those women are bitter!!
Interviewer: "What was Ty (Not me) like as a child"?
Mom: "I'm a single parent...".
She downplayed him and what he's going through before he even spoke. Sickening.
@@ladydee7099 men are “evil” …until the air conditioning goes out…
It was sickning to watch. I felt that young man's pain!!
I remember one time I wanted a date with somebody and I went to her house to change my clothes. Actually we went out and bought clothes and I went to her house to change my clothes and her kids were there, and when I went through the door she started screaming and yelling and cursing her kids out like they were strangers. I mean all types of mf'ers and punk asses and all types of vitriolic rantings to the point where I took it to the side and I asked her why she on her kids like that ( these were two boys). And she told me that these are my kids don't you tell me what to do with my kids and all like that and I told her if those were my kids and you screamed up them like that me and you would have a serious serious issue. Matter of fact I have a serious issue with you now so tell you what you go by yourself I'm not going on a date with you anywhere. And I left her right there in shock. I never talked to her again.
Salute
Yea she was sizing you up brah she was lookin for the next sucka to give birth and raise (PAY) for those kids
Shout out to you bro for foreseeing the future of your legacy. Props to you for having peen discipline and using discernment.
💯
@@dman221 if every man and woman refused to participate in her child abandonment she would have to think about her ways.
That boy lost his childhood, now he is a man trying to find his real purpose.
I ran groups in the jail system. I have seen first hand the results of these crazy toxic mothers. Again...that was hard to watch.
That video is a prime example of the unaccountability of black women. The mama felt that it was her oldest son's duty to raise the kids she made with some bum. All of the women attacked him instead of asking the mama the tough questions. Too many of our sons are being destroyed by their dysfunctional single mamas. The black community is doomed.
They are being destroyed by their lack of BOTH PARENTS! STOP EXPECTING WOMAN TO RAISE MEN INTO MEN . MEN COULDN'T RAISE PRODUCTIVE WINAN ON THEIR OWN EITHER BECAUSE THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO BE A WOMAN. You can't guide them through their periods, hormone issues, puberty! Just as we woman can't teach these boys! GET YOU SONS AND I STILL THINGS IN THEM WHEN YOU HAVE THEM INSTEAD OF Disappearing & EXPECTING THE MOTHER TO FIGURE IT ALL OUT ON HER OWN!
That is what happened to my best friend.
He was the oldest of 8, and dude had a heart attack a little bit after I left the for the Army. We were teenagers back then...
Damn smh
The boy even had enough empathy to call his mom his Best friend despite her ragging & ganging up on him with strangers. Not one of those females (his mother included) showed any empathy or regard for his mental state or cry for help. But you gave Vivica & that whole entire panel of Hyenas & Billy Goats that flame work 🔥🔥🔥👏🏿👏🏿💪🏿
that heifer also had a bunch of women gang up on Ice cube as well, she is an old toxic woman like most of em.
That's the first problem his mother ain't his friend
@@jermaineburgess3767 I agree 💯 She's his enemy, clearly 🤷🏿♂️🤔
She was acting like he was her baby daddy's..
That video just pissed me off 😤
Look how not ONE BW checked his mom. NOT 1!
That whole panel was trash!
Pure freaking trash!
Accountability?
Lacking.
To Vivica....
"Stop it...get some help."
-Michael Jordan
There is NO other community that would give someone like her a voice
@@thepassportog Yup. Let a sister or brother start talking about cleaning up our behavior and they'll get the Feds to investigate to get dirt to bring them down ala Bill Cosby. Folks knew Bill wasnt perfect and they let him ride......the minute he started talking to blacks about doing better they sent the ravens to his eyes because he had the pull to actually wake us up and they can't have that. Let a Hyena like Fox talk all day cuz she doing the grunt work to keep BW looking ignorant. And that's what the system wants. Im glad BM are walking away, yet sad at the same time. I just wish we were better as a people.
@@thepassportog see my brother that’s the issue… We didn’t give her a voice we own no media so there you go that’s the reality
He needs men around to help him. That was ridiculous. None of those women on that show would understand what he went through.
They were all German Shepards
The reason why I love your Channel is because you get it. You understand the life of being raised in a household with a single black mother
SINGLE BLACK MOTHER BUT QUICK TO FORGET DEADBEAT FATHER'S IN THE EQUATION AS IF THAT DOESN'T EXIST!
@@khoney6600 Women who fail to pick an appropriate man to have kids with, don't have the tools to parent sons or daughters because those women value the wrong things.
@@khoney6600 personally my father was never a deadbeat. My mom moved us out of town and changed her number when I was still a baby. What was he supposed to do besides move on with his life. Try again hyena
@@khoney6600 Again who are the idiots who keep PICKING men who wont marry them first before impregnating them?.
Bad mothering and unaccountability is pervasive in the black community.
In yours too. Foh
@@daddyeyez740 WTFE
😱😱😱😱 please have this show cancel. My heart goes out to that young man. My oldest brother is seeking therapy at 35 because of all the abuse my single mother did to us. The physical abuse, the promiscuous behaviors in front of us, her bullying me her only daughter and more. My oldest is in therapy and my youngest is a junky at 25 dojng very bad. I went through my poem traumas and through it all everyone was saying that’s your mom get over what she did and move on. So guess what my older brother and I moved on and we recently cut her off and our family is pissed mainly because my mom is lazy and won’t work and we were her retirement plan but now we are done with her. I pray my little brother leave her alone before it’s too late.
Yes be done with her!
This was my story too. I raised siblings and cousins. Kids raising kids. Couldn't get homework done ... never had money to join school activities.. it is very triggering. My childhood was not the best. 🙏🏾💕 I feel this boy when he says he tired. Thats how I felt and partly why I've held off on having kids bc I've raised them from young. Now im grown and see everything for what it is. I'm ready to have my own little family now and yes I have a man willing to do that with me. 💕
The momma's are wrong and so are the FATHERS that made them because none of those kids were your responsibility! You were failed by both BW & BM! Don't let this channel fool you into thinking only BW had a hand in that! Both parents failed their children & put them off on YOU Ma! Sorry for your lost of childhood. That's not fair fr any child.
Your story reminds me of my eldest aunt. Hope you have the happy family you’re looking for.
@@khoney6600 I hate people like you ., you can’t hold women accountable so you gotta bring in the it’s not all or men do it too arguments..
That video was disgusting! They disregarded him like he was the bad parent and should've known better! Wtf was a 13-year-old doing drinking alcohol?! Trifling mother
my eyes got teary listening to those Jezebels bash that poor young man who is crying out for help.
This video clip was so upsetting on so many levels. I pray to the Most High that young man don't delete himself
Wow! Im at a lost for words after seeing that. That man was trying to tell them what he was going through and they drowned him with S.I.G.N language to the ultimate degree. This is terrible
Really…they beat this guy the hell up.
@@tonyjones1560 Exactly! And they wonder why men don’t express their feelings.
@@jamalhaleemtucker8425 Learned early, be careful what you tell a woman. You can “bank” on your business being in the street or being thrown back into your face…
@@tonyjones1560 yup, even if it’s your own mother, such as in this case.
Thank God I was raised by my father .
I recall once asking my mother if she would be okay playing a supportive role in the lives of the men around her.
She was appalled at even the thought.
As a Black Man, the ONLY real threat to my blackness is Black Women.
My step-father (I don't know who my biological father is) virtually had no outward disciplinary role in the home, at my mother's agitation.
As a general rule, I no longer give Black Women the benefit of the doubt. It's very rare to find reasonable Black Women.
I genuinely fear for the future of the Tribe.
!?!?!?!? What!?! Black women aren't our enemy!! If it wasn't for them we wouldn't have gotten this far! Bruh..you can't be serious! It's US Black men who have dropped the ball. We need to step up and be the leaders our community needs!! We can't fix our condition without the Black woman! Outside communities are trying to trick us into turning against each other!
And thats the fix brother. As a group of men we have our faults so I only cook black women to a medium rare. I am married to a White woman. Only after a horrifying marriage to a BW. I can honestly say...I have never been attracted wholesale to white women. Black or Afro-latin women were always who I dated and married first time around. After my 1st wife trying to destroy my reputation, career, finances, and even my daughters mental health, I broke out and got full custody of my daughter. I was lucky in that one. . I met a white lady and like the man in the video said...her softness and Femininity was off the charts. That activated a fire in my soul I didn't even know was there. She was / is Submissive, In shape, came in and got on MY program and has never stepped off. 14 yrs and she has never cursed at me, slammed a door in my home or called me out of my name. Looks wise she is an adjustable 6 because her toned little frame can make a little black dress cry. She is a woman with strong traditional values like Crimson Cure...thats why its so easy for mento support Kendra. My wife compliments me when she is on my arm. She is a great mom to our two kids and an unbelievable support system to me, but....this is not all white women or women of other races.My wife comes from a home where her mom still makes a plate for her husband and holds his hand after 46 years of marriage. She was bred to be a wife from childhood. This is why I took my ass to Jared and took her off the market. After I met her mom and sisters and they were all clones of Femininity like their mother. Her mom was 55yo when we met, she was cute and still a 120lbs...it was a wrap!!!! I was sold! Im proud of young dudes waking up although.... ironic as it may sound....my heart warms when I meet a young black couple making it work and doing it right. I will always root for a solid black family. But I agree with you, its getting harder to find them. I am in my mid 40's and made my choice for happiness and a home life that would foster my growth as a husband and father, not challenge it everyday and be a battle ground. When it comes to good food, peace, great loving, making career or business moves, alone time, or pursuit of my hobbies I have never had to beg or even ask twice to get or do what make me feel like a man in my home. I have women shooting shots at me all the time. I am in shape and drive nice cars and let me tell you....OTHER WOMEN DONT STAND A CHANCE IN HELL. Many women look better than my wife but my little lady could teach a PhD level curriculum on how to keep your man. On God! No flex just truth. Salute to the young brothers who are working to build the new black America, because the old one needs to be burned to the ground!
I said to my husband today, I’m actually glad we only have daughters now. We wanted to try for a boy but I’m so disgusted by how evil and vile blk women are I would never want my son to deal with their offspring. I’m raising my daughters to be a wife first and foremost and I show them that by serving and submitting to dad but most women are not doing that. I came from a vile abusive evil single mother who til this day in her 50s is still vile. The future is bleak. I was all for blk love but I’m not anymore. Blk men go out and get those passports .
@@PassengerFifty7ot gonna hold you I don’t believe in interracial marriage but I will say this to you. I am so sry you and your father wen through what you went through. I came from an evil single mother who tortured us the kids and the men in her life. I understand why went looking elsewhere and I am glad you were able to save your daughter. My father knew my mom was terrible as his is too but my mom is violent and he left us with her and we felt every it often her anger. I’m glad that you get experience a happy marriage and your daughter is in a stable situation. I agree with the future looking grim for blk women. I am fully submissive and teach my daughters to submit to my husband and my female family member exclude me and shun me and make fun of me for it. I get dragged for being a house wife and for homeschooling our children. Blk women hate blk men and kids and it will be hard to find the very few like me that understands the importance of having a husband lead you and the family.
@@PassengerFifty7 From a personal perspective, I have misgivings about miscegenation. Before going to that extreme, I would rather just adopt black children. This is not to say that I disapprove of your decision - because I understand the appeal in dating outside of the Tribe. However, I want to sire children who look like me - who share my genes, history, and culture. All the best to you and your family. Happy Christmas!
I'm so happy that I found this channel. It's tough love for "black" women.
CC is the bomb. Only channel I watch EVERYDAY
@@thepassportog yes she is the best woman in this space. I love her so much she's so real and I've cried many times by her words. She is a true prophetess
No. It's "I hate BW"! You found a Pick Mee that says the things you want to hear! Just like Candace Owens. She found an audience that agrees with her rhetoric against BM the same way y'all do BW on this channel!
@@khoney6600 girl shut up. 😂👎🏾 we love the crimson cure over here. She got her foot on you whores necks and yall hate it. Its about time someone WHOLESOME speaks up against the ratchetness that is black women today. No respect. Haughty. Mean. Think they can do whatever they want. Disrespectful to our men. Call her a pick me all you want we all pick mes and proud. Rather be a pick me than a pass me. Cause winter is here baby. All that strong and independent going out the window when shit gets real over here in the US. And best believe I'm covered and got my man. While yall out here tryna get a piece of a man.byall claim yall don't want men but riding dicks every night out here slutting yourselves out.
Thats cause no man will take you serious. You're only good for laying on your backs and thats all you'll ever be good for. Its cool just accept it. And women like crimson gon talk about ya. And im here for it.
@@khoney6600 Seek therapy... it's easy to see that your mother destroyed you. You will never be able to develop healthy relationships until you heal that TRAUMA. You do not need to suffer along with her. She made her choices before you were born. You owe her nothing. Consult a premium therapist so that you can live your life and be happy. Thank me later.
After 23 yrs of being a man, father, and stepfather, I hatethis shit!
If our women don't have our back then who does. We been fending for ourselves since we were little boys. And some of us never grew up. We never had anyone to show us how.
Brotha!!! We walk this dark weiry path alone
THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO DEFINE WHAT A WOMAN IS ..... BUT THEY CAN TELL US HOW TO BE A MAN, THIS IS THE HEIGHT OF INSANITY.
Hearing the pain in this young man's voice and the blatant disregard for his feelings is disgusting.
Indeed!
This absolutely BLOWS my mind, i aint never seen a barrage that pointed and heartless. Im struggling for words WOW!
I was born in the early 80s. I've seen this neglect. This constant abuse of black children. It's nothing new and after decades. Black men are waking up.
This is common with BW.. they lack nurturing, love, care and respect for BM. This is who they are. They don't even love their girls, which is why BW always complain about TRAUMA. They just won't go against their mothers out of Sister code.
Yeah cuz you never opened your eyes ..
@@coldhardtruth333 im guessing that was an attempt at an insult, anyway im sorry if something like that happened to you or someone you know. But the fact remains, this is reprehensible behavior whether ive seen it or not....THAT'S the relevant issue, wouldn't you agree? God be with you my friend
God help that young man.
They treated that young man like nothing! Smh.
Thanks, Kendra, for those messages...sadly our black culture is on jeopardy at the expense of our own BW. The BS surrounding western society is overwhelming..feminism, entitlement, jezebelnature, lack or respect for men, etc. Men protect yourself and your future
Vivica and the hyenas took the "ACCOUNTABILITY" away from the mother and attacked the son and broke him. SYSBM! Passports don't sound bad after all!💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾✌🏽✌🏽✈✈
Stop dating American modern bw. Stop saving them. Stop being polite to them. Stop fixing their cars. Their houses. Don't send them any money. Ignore other races of people chiming in on a situation they will never understand. Go elsewhere. Till they learn. And if they don't. So be it. They sre broken.
Seems to be the only answer
Yeah he seemed very weak and broken, but the way to help him is not to further break him down and shame him like they did ! 🔥
This is how boys are treated in this world compared to girls.
That lady was toxic and we wonder why all these young men are the way they are!
Vivica dead to me I swear this was the most disgusting moment I ever seen and I’m glad u did a show on it cause I thought I was the only person to see this bullshyt…. I was screaming at the scream for this young man smh
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Weave companies
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I know this lady she threw her kid out in the streets as soon as he turned 19. I told her not to because he's still young let him enjoy his twenties while he can but she didn't listen to me and he hasn't talked to her 13 years. If you mention it to her she'll start crying. He won't even let her see her granddaughter.
I swear, I only see this in the black community where alot of parents make sure to put their kids out as soon as they turn 18. I have seen plenty in the Asian community who will allow their children to live with them until they can afford their own home or atleast get married.
@@charlesirby1643 that's so utterly messed up dude. I'm so sorry.
@@charlesirby1643 sad brother.
@@shaungarrett5291 The Young Black Male Homeless problem in ATLANTA is the Primary Origin of this...
My mother put me in a dress when I was around 5 or 6. My mother kicked me the first time when I was 10. I haven't spoken to her in 5 years and she won't meet her grandchildren. I forgive her because I understand she comes from dysfunction but I'll never forget or subject my children to her care.
PROVERBS 21:19 IT IS BETTER TO DWELL IN THE WILDERNESS,THAN WITH A CONTENTIOUS AND ANGRY WOMAN.
This scripture has nothing to with the discussion.
Sis went in on this one, thank you so much cc, means a lot to the blk mn who don't know how to express or have a voice
Watching that clip with the woman saying that boys emotions were just a game too her and she felt no emotion toward him… This clip really pissed me off for hours.
An entire panel of adults, elders, telling that boy that his feelings were essentially meaningless to them.. and then these same people seem confused that men don’t open up at all as older men, it’s because we experienced this as children.
Then these women confused about why black men have these movements about saving themselves as if it isn’t obvious…
The payoff analogy is spot on Kendra! They women will bust a son upside the head and then buy a damn gaming system just like they got busted upside the head and got a handbag in return.
GET EM SIS GET EM. I'VE BEEN ON THIS FOR SO LONG YOU'RE A GOD SEND.
My mother was so broken and bitter from my own father that she would often say “you look too much like your daddy”..So bad that she and my ex wife would plot against me and would even side with my ex wife in the OBVIOUS mistreatment of me…My ex knew,if she wanted to get back at me?She would use my mother as her weapon
@@renedonaldson2415 and you know the shit that I laugh at when I hear it?When I hear women say”I judge a man off his relationship with his momma”..Hmph….I always say”you should ask how did your mother treat you”..Cause I can say WHOLE HARDILY that my mother was a provider but NEVER was a nurturer
@theesquireofsports7251 when women ask that question,I believe they wanna see if you have been BROKEN already..it makes their job a little easier
And I’m 46 and STILL have faith that the most high have that one sista that was designed for me and vice versa..But I refuse to be a emotional punching bag for anyone
My father told me "a person can't hate me and love my children". I believe that applies to parents.
They always say that.
And this is how black men become criminals suicidal and broken, some unable to have healthy relationships, because the single black mothers have broken us from the time we're little boys and by the time we grow up to be men we still struggle trying to find our way in a world that treats us no better.
True
This woman mad her son won’t be a dependable son husband. Just toxic. Passport bros don’t even need commercials. Mothers losing the ability to nurture. If women can’t nurture, they are men…and should be treated as such
Omg I felt like they were ganging up on him!!picking on him when he opened up abiut depression.. grilling the young man about how HE COPES. This is sickning as hell. They are desensitized to black men and boys pain!!
Omg!!!! This was AWFUL to witness i pray for that young man to come out of his darkness and get AWAY FROM HIS MOTHER 😩😔
Vultures and vampires . They took his soul .
Thank you thank you so very much for always telling the truth about the main problem in the black community. This is what these women want and love to do. Keep up your great work telling it like it is. These women are out of control and it’s too late. All they want to do is argue, fight, complain daily. The black family is dead. Your show is telling the truth and this woman can’t stand it. Period!
Preach! Thank you for speaking out on this! This needs to be talked about more and how it is causing depression and anxiety in older children. It’s not your children’s responsibility to raise your children. You had those babies. Be a mother and take care of your own children!
So sad it has come to this. Women only caring about themselves and their false code. Just sad.
This is so sickening, I know what it's like , but my mom was the opposite. She wrote me a letter one day saying all the love she ever had for me was gone and that basically she wasn't my mom anymore! That was 20 years ago and I don't fool with her since that letter she wrote.....smdh
Damn dude. That's tough.
Wtf smh aye man much success to you
Thank you for the message big sister Kendra ❤️🌹🕊️
Those women on that panel guaranteed that the young brother will only grow up to absolutely hate women.
FEEL BETTER SOON KENDRA! No young brotha should be so overwhelmed at that early age this is how suicides happen..or other crazy drama!😢😥
I agree. I hope the young man does not hurt himself. It was a hard clip to watch.
The way these women are downplaying this young man's frustrations. Scolding him asking ridiculous questions, belittling him in the manner they did.
PROVERBS 9:13 A FOOLISH WOMAN IS CLAMOROUS:SHE IS SIMPLE AND KNOWETH NOTHING.
Amen!
Everything is forgiven when Blk mothers are at fault.. I'm surprised the father wasn't blamed but I guess 1 BM is good enough..Blame the son this time..
Facts
That video was a great example of black females misleading through their misguided and misandrist thought process. That young man had a lot on his mind to say and was only brow beaten by a bunch of bitter women, especially his mother. It seems that his mother is bent on making his life as hard and difficult as she can because she feel like the baby daddies made her life hard and difficult by not staying with her. Not to mention that the mother wants to move as if she doesn't have children. Smh
@The Esquire of Sports ® No way, I'll pass fast and not slow on having a crazy witch like anyone of those psychotic women in my life!!! Therefore, it is now your sacred duty to embrace them and take one for the team. Good looking 💯💯
This video is a great example of how A SINGLE MOTHER HAS ISSUES! THIS ONE WOMAN DOES NOT REPRESENT EVERY BLACK WOMAN NOR MORE THEN FUTURE REPRESENTS EVERY BLACK MAN! He doesn't see any child he has had in person, & signs his rights over without a drop of a dime ! Multiple babies that he has 0 relationships with BY HIS CHOICE ! Does that mean all BM make babies and do what Future does??? Exactly! ACCOUNTABILITY IS A TWO WAY STREET
PROVERBS 14:1 EVERY WISE WOMAN BUILDETH HER HOUSE:BUT THE FOOLISH PLUCKETH IT DOWN WITH HER HANDS.
Amen!
Get well soon ma’am. We appreciate your work ethic.
Man this video hit home for me asap very powerful
His mother should have been in constant conversation with him discussing how he felt, there is a reason why he started drinking and is drinking like that.. that was horrible. I’m sorry how is this woman telling them he’s not depressed and just want attention. All wrong..
She’s the reason he started drinking lol he literally said she put him on and they ignored that
Thanks for making a difference , Kendra.
I would like to wish you a happy holiday and I hope your feel better soon...
I watch your cast regularly and I must say some of your topics hit home. But today for some reason the response to the women who wrote Black Men need to be accountable resonated with me. You don’t hear the success story of the brothers who had every reason to fail. And through impossible odds and seer will rise to the challenge…
Thank you… we need your voice.
OMG did Vivica Fox really create a show to destroy…. Not even destroy a black man but a young black boy… SMH… Sometimes social media is too much
Protect this QUEEN 👑✨ By Any Means Necessary 🙏🏾 keep teaching Keep preaching🙏🏾👑✨ We Need You💯
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️❤️❤️. So much truth being spoken in a space full of lies. Crimson Cure is quickly reaching legendary
This is more common then you think
Another by product of being a single mother.
He was he first child!
And SHE HAD MORE WITHOUT being MARRIED.
This is disgusting and they need to watch this young man cuz he might end it seriously!!! poor man. I hope he gets a true friend b4 ifs too late
That video pissed me off! They won't let him be a man he's surrounded by too many women.
This topic really hits home for me. I have heard the story of having to raise their siblings on my maternal side of the family from my mother (one of 8) and her 7 siblings about their mother ( my grand mother), from my grand mother ( one of 7) about her mother (my great mother), and from my great grand mother ( one of 24) about her mother (one of 17) about her mother (my great great grand mother). Similarly, practically the same story on my paternal side as well. None for them stayed married to one man on either side.
All these hyenas on that panel publicly emasculated that young man for something out of his control. I wish I were there to defend that BROTHA.
They didn't took into account this young brotha stating that it was his own mother that introduced him to alcoholism at the age of 13; and these hyenas say nothing about that abuse.
This brought me to tears
Almost got me too..
& I'm a only child.
I'll speak on them saying black men haven't lead the community. A lot of the time the go getters leave their hometown to go to college, the military, larger cities with more opportunities while leaving a lot of sistas that don't want to leave their hometowns.
They like the pookie and think the quality men are corny being young minded. The brothas that leave are exposed to more and kind of out grow them.
I'm guilty of this I live in Sacramento but I'm from SoCal. I wanted to help with the youth so I started coaching youth basketball. That experience let me know how bad the single mother epidemic is.
The boys that were raised by single mothers that don't at least have an uncle or someone in their lives respond to men leadership like their moms do poorly. It was sad seeing that young man literally say he doesn't have basic people skills because his developmental years were spent making up for his mom's irresponsibility.
Then the mothers that didn't know the sport but want to be a basketball mom were horrible to deal with.
We'd be up 20 points running the clock out and some undisciplined hyena is in the crowd yelling for the boy to shoot the basketball not knowing the game. I had to tell a few that you're not LeBron or Kevin Durant's mom go sit down or leave the gym.
We grew up a community and I wanted to do that. But when things changed from you don't talk to adults like that to you don't tell my kid or me nothing it makes men not want to waste the effort as sad and defeated as that sounds.
I hear you brotha.
Your first and last sentence are fine. The middle is missing women utilizing law enforcement. They can scream lead all day but it's a trap. A man can wear the hat of leadership until you don't do what she wants.
@@dickdastardly8067 I been through that with the mother of my child. I used that amongst other things to eventually get sole custody of my kid.
They walk in lying, being emotional, and thinking they're going to win no matter what. Use that against them.
Keep communication only on text message or any communication in text, never lose your cool in text or anything like that, and if you can show she's using law enforcement as a tool to harass you and your child that will backfire. It's abuse to the child and when you can display her actions have an adverse affect on the child and your wellbeing if you put it together right you'll have sole custody of your kid and I even was able to get a restraining order against her mother. Using law enforcement to harass affects your peace of mind and it's abuse. I used it to get one on the mother of my child that would call the police to my house randomly for welfare checks making up lies about me. I flipped it, got my daughter, and haven't heard her mom's voice in years 💯
And I'm in California where we get done dirty.
@@renedonaldson2415 too many people are raised to think they don't have a chance, too many want it all instantly because ultimately they want and is best for both parents to be involved, but they go to court messy.
So I'll give this advice. Spend more time trying to discredit your own case than you do building it. The worse thing you can do is be in court and not have an answer for something. If you think you have a valid point try to discredit yourself.
If you bring up any issue make sure you can prove it, but what people don't do is show what corrective action taken. Men go to court with Facebook posts, videos of the mom outta pocket, but if it's something that's been an issue, you did nothing to correct the issues, then you look asleep at the wheel when it comes to your kid. They see people throwing dirty at each other every week they don't have energy for that and if you can't answer what did you do it'll backfire.
When you go have a primary, backup, and back up to the backup about whatever arrangement you are petitioning for.
If you just fill out a holiday schedule and ask for 50/50 without a plan it makes you look lazy and the judge doesn't like feeling like they're putting more thought into your child's life than you.
Basically in court show your leadership while the mother shows emotions and chaos and you'll be the clear choice to be the more fit parent.
Might not happen over night it took me years. The court will give some to see if you're going to follow through.
But the days of she's keeping the kid from me are gone and our community needs us to be fathers. So black men there's so many resources for you to learn to represent yourself in court. Fight for your legacy we can't let them raise our kids 💯
@@renedonaldson2415 no doubt good luck 💯
You are doing a phenomenal job. Hope you get to feeling better.
I was waiting for you to say it, Kendra: the problem begins with Black women treating adult men as subordinates while treating their male offspring as "son/husbands" or sonbands.
I was sooo hoping you speak on this, thank you
Man if Tory would've stayed at that white chic spot none of this would've happened smh
May be....but Megan...my God, she is about as worthless as a woman can get. These young boys think a big ass and a cute face is the end all be all. I tell all my young guys get you a 6 from a good family and build a fkn empire. I did😎. Women like Megan are the dregs of society sent to destroy all they touch in the black community..if Tory had a cute white girl from a decent family hed be up financially and Spiritually but they take these boys and give em a million dollars and aim them at whores like Megan knowing they will destroy themselves with them. Thats why they get mad when well to do black men get women of other races because they know that man will not have to deal with the cancerous venom of BW and he will grow that wealth and be at peace and that's not the play. They wanna see us destroyed.
Isn’t that the sad part.
Word smh 🤦♂️
@@saints0538 it is sad but it's where we at in our community
When he said she put me on they didn’t say anything smh
Madam Kendra,
my wife is foreign and I have always marvelled at how my female inlaws are CAREFUL how they
talk to/correct/discipline
their young sons
KNOWING WHAT IT IS HE WILL BECOME!!
The root cause of his depression is his upbringing or lack there of . How was that boy 13yo drinking, 1. His mom didn't know (shows inattentiveness) and why he feeling like alcohol is his only escape?
Where is his daddy so he can escape to his house! Failed by both parents but nobody want to hold BOTH parents accountable!
Didn't y'all hear him say "MOM YOU STARTED ME DRINKING"
It's against a young male child's nature to be forced into a situation which does not lead to his development as a man. As a male matures from a young boy into a man, there are many important things to consider regarding his health and stages of development. This is a lifelong process by which young male develop patterns of behavior and a man's sense of self-worth and accountability when he accomplishes or fails to accomplish a specific task. Mentorship is very important and a key for him to properly progress into manhood. Completing a task or learning a new skill which can only come from the mentorship of or the observation of other males. For his young life he did not receives the guidance from a mentor. He was never taught how to be a man. He was taught and trained on how to be dysfunctional as a man within today's society. The only thing he learned was how to be barely functional as a female.
this needs to be pinned👍🏾
So many black women simply don’t understand this. Masculine men are not born they are built over decades of completing difficult tasks. I believe this is one of the most fundamental dysfunction in our community. Black boys/men are simply not valued. Hence there is no investment. This young man’s mother saw no intrinsic value in him. She is only concerned on what benefits her. I experience the exact same behavior from my own mother and sisters.
But men still leave this for women to do & blame the woman when it fails knowing they were the ones who was supposed to raise men anyways!
@@khoney6600 And women wouldn't have to do this if they'd picked better men to have children with like I dont know, the ones who would wife you up first. Unless ya'll are raped, it's women who TOTALLY RESPONSIBLE for the men you allow to enter you.
@@khoney6600When a man marries a woman he is putting his life and future into the hands of the government and the goodwill or should I say lack of goodwill of the woman he chose to marry. Over 80% of divorces are filed by women, because they know they have the support of the government to liberally destroy the life of the men who were unfortunate enough to have married them. Men don't typically leave their families, there are no benefits for him in the abandonment of his wife and children. However, there are significant benefits for the woman if she decides to destroy her family. Often men are removed from the homes they spent years of blood sweat and tears to provide for his family. There have been thousands of documented cases in which the Ex will not allow the fathers of their children to see them even when ordered by the courts. Especially if his visit did not provide some type of benefit for her. Let not forget the jails are full of men whose only crime was to have married a wicked woman and the failure to pay child support. I have been married twice to BW and both times they chose to destroy the families I have spent years building. Unlike many men who have been destroyed by the government and their Ex, with many becoming homeless or imprisoned, I was one of the few able to overcome this terrible situation and rebuild my life both times.
@@xmanlatter6013 Unfortunately our community is full of young males who behave more like women than men. These female dominated communities are a result of years of planning on how to destroy and remove leadership from the community. Remove the man and let the women do the rest.
Shukraan for the smoke, I knew you would not allow this to go down without setting the record straight.
49:49 “If you can gather your kids and save them from the clutches of these demons…”
Well before discovering “The Crimson Cure” I fell out with my own hyena mother.
I’ve since then maintained that until her demise, I’ll die with my hypothetical children spending their lives curious about their paternal grandmother.
Baring premature demise of my mother or myself, she’ll never have the satisfaction of ever meeting any more grandchildren than the ones she’s already met.
1 TIMOTHY 2:11 LET THE WOMAN LEARN IN SILENCE WITH ALL SUBSECTION.(12) BUT I SUFFER NOT A WOMAN TO TEACH,NOR TO USURP AUTHORITY OVER THE MAN BUT TO BE IN SILENCE.
Those women were getting wet (excuse my bluntness) tearing into him. They brought him on as a sacrifice.
Black men need to stop allowing ourselves to be ambushed by our enemies.
1 CORINTHIANS 11:8 FOR THE MAN IS NOT OF THE WOMAN;BUT THE WOMAN OF THE MAN.
Amen!
As a black man whose taken care of his family for 41 years and now going through stupid issues, this was like a freaking lynching...
They didn't address, the fact that he said ..she drank with him @ 13 ..nobody said anything about that..
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Protect this women with y'all life 💯 sound the 🚨
19:15 - 19:38 was pure gospel. That whole piece should be clipped and shown on every major news network on television!! When I say word for word that’s my situation AND MY FATHERS. #ShitCrazy
WHAT DO U CALL A SHAMELESS WOMAN?
A "DOG"
ECCLESIASTICUS 26:25 A SHAMELESS WOMAN SHALL BE COUNTED AS A DOG;BUT SHE THAT IS SHAMEFACED WILL FEAR THE LORD.
Amen!
Thank you for the video, it’s SAD.
My daddy raised me 💕 im so glad he did
My wife's dad raised her too and the last 20 years of marriage has been so pleasant omg. Y'all are definitely a definitely breed of women. I tell brothers all the time if you so happen to come across a woman that has her dad in her life (especially in her upbringing) lock her down quickly.
@@diallo6197 we are different for sure. All the girls in school knew my dad even the guys.. they would always tell me "keyera you got a good daddy" it made me feel proud. 💕 I felt for my girlfriends bc they did not have fathers.. only one did and me and her are still friends to this day
@@theintuitivecounselor Y'all are just some crazysexycool, easy to get along with chicks.
This angered me so bad
He’s the “son-husband.” He’s raising HER kids that she had with other men.
Press on Kendra..we need you strong for. the new year. You are priceless!!!
Thank you!!!
That clip of Vivica's show was some of the worst 💩 I've seen in a long time!!!!
Absolutely NO ACCOUNTABILITY!!!!!!!!!!
And then that whole panel of cackling hyenas goan pile up on him!!!!! I couldn't watch it! I had to fast forward through it! I got way too mad!!!! 😡 And sister Kendra sure cooked!!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
He said she was his best friend, and she gave him his first drink, she made him her drinking buddy since no man was around, so she turned him into her son husband. This is why parents cannot be your friends. She spoiled him giving everything and he was not even aware he was being abused his fake friends because of it. But they did not address his concerns, instead blamed him for not being stronger. The ex alcoholic went against the AAA program for credits and validation.
I thank God I found your channel I've learned so much about myself and my people from listening to you I pray that God Grants you all the blessings you deserve