The longer you live female free and get used to the peace and harmony, the harder it will be to tolerate a woman in your life! We not only become self sufficient, but spoiled to the lack of stress. It's like being on vacation all the time! It's addictive!!
Isaiah 4-7 New International Version 4 1 In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!”
I just went through a nasty divorce. I gave her everything. The new truck I put 20K down on. I give her 33% of my paycheck while she quit her job, moved in with mommy and daddy 1300 miles away from me. She won’t even let me speak to them on the phone regularly. She kidnapped the kids and then when I text her angrily she used that as justification to get a PPO and make it harder for me to see my kids. They are ruthless fellas. I am a disabled veteran and can’t work. I just had my car repossessed and my house foreclosed on because of the amount of child support. It ruined my credit and I can’t rent near my children. I am now in a position that I have to leave the country, most likely Philippines, to rebuild my credit and life before I can finally make it closer to my children. This is truly insane. Men, don’t ever get married. Women, stop using children as pawns.
I have 4 sons 29-39, and they are not even dating. They see women as bad news. They come from a stable family with a mom and dad that have never divorced. Not looking good for the future.
Tell them to learn a bit of Spanish and send them / suggest a trip to South / Central America. Game changer. Just returned from a 2 month trip. Coming back to Australia I now feel disgusted at the quality of women here.
@@8.o.8 You guys are fooling yourselves if you think south america girls are high quality. You're just Chad here, that's all. Women are women (almost?) everywhere. I was typing considering you were american until I read again and saw Australia. So the things are bad there too. Just as I said.
@@fredcavalcante1887Latin women are far superior. Stop saying women are women. Latin women are a higher tier of quality. Have you dated a Latina woman and an American woman? Can you do a side by side comparison for me?
It's almost as if... the accumulated wisdom of 5,000 years of human civilization was right after all, and the current dogmas that reject tradition are... wrong...?
Men just aren't willing anymore to bust their asses to provide for a family in the hopes that the woman won't arbitrarily decide to walk away with everything and leave you penniless and homeless.
People aren't self sufficient enough to provide for themselves let alone others. Not including external factors leading to poor moral choices and people lives being ruined by industries who don't have peoples best interest in mind (entertainment, media, education)
True enough but the opposite is also true: Men are being financially ruined by job destruction and chronic unemployment. They want to work and support a family but....cannot. Many women are too unwilling to understand that men are being economically destroyed and it is not their fault.
@@Tail_sez wanting your partner to change their values, be the source of all your happiness or go against their natural masculine or feminine polarity which most of the times is asked out of the guy... its kinda goofy you are asking when you could literally just look at all the articles and news and watch what is happening against men. like..... have you been living under a rock???
@@sandobando9390To be fair, there are people on both sides who only think about what THEY get from the relationship, not what they can give and provide to their partner. It has morphed into this sociopathic, resource focused mindset...
@@sandobando9390 It was a legit question - especially if there are some people don't follow social trends. There are a lot of them that stumble across the phenomena but haven't put 2 + 2 together. Don't be mean - take it as an opportunity to educate.
Sorry, but as you can read in this comment section there is absolutely no evidence that may be happening in the slightest and the trend is continuing unabated.
But at least she has some understanding of the world, her available choices, and what she must do to in seeking her goals. That sets her apart from some horribly vast majority of her peers. She has a legitimate chance to partner well.
I am an old guy, 62...so sad to see that the whole American dream being crushed into nothingness. Between propaganda of wokeness and f nism....we are losing this country...the loss of family unit was key to the destruction...and therefore they have won
It was all engineered but you seem to know it already and yes it is sad. Even if we started to change everything for the better NOW the trauma and mess that was caused may take decades to heal. Just another lost generation that has to pay for what a few rich psychopaths had planned.
@@vknight7497 fight for each other and the women who had to step into their masculine energy. It isn't a fight against feminists. It's a fight against AI based social media propaganda. United we stand. Divided we fall.
Men are tired. Tired of being shamed for nothing. Constantly being called toxic. Constantly being told we aren't needed. We are tired of it. Woman beat men down so much that fine...it's easier to be alone. Being alone doesn't call us toxic.
100% agree. No more making men responsible for divorce. I think anyone getting a divorce should have to pay a court appointed money manager for the life of the kid until support ends. 50/50 all the way then watch how fast divorce rates go down lol
Single father, raised three girls, been divorced about 14 years. I don’t see anything inviting out there and all the negativity that’s been stacked against us men makes it not worth the time.
@@brewcrew5854 I just got 30. I remember I used to be interested with girls since I was primary school until high school. Just I got rejected many times cuz they think I’m weird and odd. So it’s best to giving up.
@@yantlapanco348 never had girlfriend in my life throughout highschool. Even college until today cuz they think i’m weird to them. It’s fine by me. It’s really peaceful and quiet being single anyway. I used to be social back in the day but no anymore All good things must come to end, right? Just got 30. By the way, it’s my birthday
If I were a man, I don't think I would want to get married in today's world. You're married ten years, she gets bored and wants a divorce. There goes half of everything you worked for, plus you have to pay child support and alimony. It's like that song, that's my house, that's my car, that's my kids, that's my dog, she has a new man who now has your life.
I put my house in my father's name and took my kids out of state, then filed for divorce and full custody. I ended up only getting $39 a month for 2 kids the whole time they were minors
Been single for 20 yrs, seriously l am so use to it that, it would be hard for me to settle down, l don’t mind taking off and doing my own thing; motorbike riding, hitting the road for a 3,000km car trip over 3 weeks with no plans and no bookings, stay in a tent or 4 star accommodation, this suits me; l still have my purpose and goals; that is what matters to me.
I agree. I have a son who has dated several woman and they always become disillusioned no matter how attentive and kind you treat them. Yet they'll run after guys who treat them like crap and jump through hoops to keep these toxic relationships going. Many seem to thrive on drama and enjoy being unhappy. I'll never understand the young women of today. 🤔
Yep these days it isn't love but rather what can you do to please her. Even older people are starting to feel that way. I said 30 years ago I would never marry and it's the best decision I've ever done. Sad seeing so many trapped in such misery. My furry ones don't take much to please, just some treats now and then.
My wife left me about a year ago, and I've tried dating since. I'm a young looking 62 yr old, tall and muscular, financially secure, generous and understanding, and I've been dating women 45yrs old and up. It's been an eye opener to say the least. The attitude of these women, the self delusion of their appearance, what they think they "deserve" in a man, and how they want us to treat them, without them giving us anything of value in return, is amazing. They also have no idea of what men really want in a women. They often list to me their achievements starting with things like "I'm intelligent, I have a successful career, I've got 4 degrees, and then ramble along the same lines like they are applying for a corporate position!! At the end of the monologue I just look them in the eye and say " None of the things you just said are important to me at all. All I want is a woman who is nice to me. Non demanding. Accepting of who I am. Easy to get along with. Loyal and faithful. Loving and affectionate. That's it! And if you can't do that I'm not interested."
Modern woman think we want a version of ourselves... Sorry hunny.. not interested in your career or your degree. Just be nice, smile, treat me well, don't be crazy and just be understanding, nurturing and loving... thats it. Why is that so hard? lol
Most women want a man for what he has and can do. Then they still go and cheat on him. No thanks I’ll continue to be single. I don’t want all the nonsense and drama that comes with women.
I've always wondered why women are so into romantic movies and read romantic novels but yet when it comes to real marriage, they throw all that love and romance out the window!!
It's really what everyone should want. The global population should be 500,000,000. 15 out of every 16 people should be willing to not replace themselves.
@@Rylynn2017 They're referring to the rate at which we consume resources. For it to be sustainable at the rate humans use resources, it's about 500mil. I think if this is orchestrated, that might be one of the main reasons.
Look at the average weight of Americans now compared to 1980s. I am very fit. I do not find un-fit women attractive... AT ALL. The few that are thin or in-shape think that they are beauty queens, even when they are plain at best. They have overwhelmingly high expectations and expect to offer nothing. And they cheat. The situation is grim indeed.
There’s an even more ominous cultural storm cloud coming . . . We’ve essentially told 90%+ of men to die alone, childless and in poverty. 90%. You think these are just going to collectively say “Thank you, sir. May I have another?”
Great choice young man, Mgtow. Here is a post that I wrote that you may want to read: Finally great to see a courageous, intelligent and articulate woman speak the facts, the stats, the truth about the bleak reality of what feminism has brought upon them. I am 72 years old and I am going off again in a couple of weeks to Thailand and other countries to enjoy this incredible world. All I can say to you, young dudes, is to live free, live your life as you want it, because that is the only thing that is truly under your control. Don't sign over your life to a woman and to the government that will enslave you for it and strip you of everything you have worked for to give to her when the marriage ends in divorce ...So, don't get married. Don't cohabitate. Don't impregnate. Don't let feelings control you. Don't spend more than you want to or can afford on women. Protect yourself at all times, women are not your friends. And, have a wonderful life, living free, with peace of mind. If you want that, then go MGTOW! If you don't know what this men's liberation movement is, look it up..MGTOW!!!!!you may want to read:
Marriage is long past the pull date. It passed the pull date about 25-30 years ago. Feminists from Betty Friedan in 1963 to feminist writers during the 1970's and 80's talked about the need to get rid of marriage (which was holding back women from being their own person) and replace it, and the family, with the "rotational family", one where the adults come and go, taking turns raising the children, etc. Take a look around, folks. We're there.
What man is going to sign up for a "rotational" family. Ie. Chaotic finances and court orders to pay? Did they actually think that would be some sort of sustainable paradigm?
It’s honestly crazy how much as guys we need to study and act towards women just so we can get an ounce of their attention. I’ve officially given up as a 20 yr old , just maintaining women and keeping them occupied is soo exhausting , I don’t see the point anymore. Officially practicing Semen Retention for the rest of my life to reach spiritual enlightenment and serve God. ✌✌
The majority of women in real life are pretty chill and just normal human beings living their lives. not being evil crazy human beings who are out to ruin your life. taking time off the internet to go outside will indeed help you to reach spiritual enlightenment and serve God though. and it will also help you to clear your mind's distortion of reality caused by watching too many woke podcasts/videos who take minority situations and represent them as reality
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
One question arises, what about after 50s, 60s when one will start feeling difficulty in even movement. However, if there are children in the house they can help out. I am also unable to figure it out.
My ex wanted a house together, then a ring, then a baby. And when she got all those things, she bounced on me and our 3mth old son. She said "this isnt the life for me". I would NEVER get married again. No fault divorce cost me close to 100k. Ive had full custody of our son since she left, i decided to sell our marital home to settle E.D...BUT.....I was able to build a new home for my son and I, focus on my son and career, i have more money in savings on my 1 income than i ever had being married 7 years with 2 incomes, a unbreakable bond with my son and I truley found out what unconditional love is......but best of all i get to watch her be unemployed, homeless and overweight while searching for the greener grass and whine about being all alone....not that im happy to see her struggle...but happy to know karma is real.
I like women. I prefer to spend time with women instead of men. I like/need companionship. I just don’t want to jeopardize 1/2 of everything I’ve worked for. So I would prefer to have someone to live with… without it turning into a common law marriage. So… I’ll probably remain single and live alone.
again, this comment section is basically a bunch of lonely men coming to this video to get validated for being single, it has nothing to do with woman ruing men's lives, It's all about men who are no longer masculine just face it!
As a single man looking at the current single world, I am absolutely terrified to date women anymore. Most women who are single have expectations of men doing everything and them doing very minimal things and looking for an opportunity to pounce on a guy for their benefit. They all seem to have an agenda and I don't remember women having this mindset from 20 years ago, they were looking for a man to marry or at least stay with long term... this is not the case anymore. Its all about getting as much money and possessions as they can regardless of how much it damages a man's life and reputation. Women have made men scared to date them!
Traditional mothers HAVE to teach and guide their daughters through this climate. They have to coach them while they start dating…their emotional health, chastising them when necessary…and also make them into feminine ladies. Watch them closely on social media and guide them. Unfortunately, so many mothers are no longer present in their kids’ lives.
I have to assume the poison in our food is a factor. Women were SUPPOSED to have the Maternal Instinct to have children. Somehow our Deep State destroyed women's instinct to reproduce.
@@totwallybaba The key is not coming back. Their are plenty of expat communities overseas so you would still be around Americans. You cash would also go a lot further.
still you can go overseas and enjoy real females. Even if at 74 it is going to be harder to find a 25yo girl, still you can go for a 40yo woman that hasn't wasted herself in her youth.
Yeah society has promoted that "smash and pass" life style too...just look at movies in the last 30 years, almost all of them show the lead characters in a promiscuous relationship.
You'll have it so good in heaven it'll make you forget you were ever like this. All you have to do (if you haven't done so already) is confess you're a sinner to Jesus and that you trust he gave his life on the cross and was resurrected to save you and give you eternal life, and you want him as your Lord and Savior.
Where I live, prostitution is fully legal. Our marriage rates and birth rates are plummeting at the same rate as pretty much every other Western country, where prostitution is illegal. Legalised prostitution is meaningless when OnlyFans is legal everywhere in the West
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
Back in the 1950s. They had traditional marriage where the man worked hard for the family and the woman stayed home to take care of the kids and home. At those days. People get married for 60 years and get buried together. Now a some of the men do not want to work and the woman want to be independent. Now divorce is at an all-time high. That is why many men do not want to get married. You be lucky if marriage lasts over 7 years.
oh yeah life was so perfect back then right? then why the people live in this kind of culture suffering huh i live in pakistan and it sucks bro we will see girls doing amazing things if they are from pakistan they are from rich families or some outside country and we just sit here and watch and just burn, ask us how it is to live like this
All I am trying to say is that it is not one sided. There are a lot of gold diggers out there and women that just want to be the boss. But on the other side when it comes to men. A lot of men use women for one-night stands and some men just do not want to work. Both man and woman are at fault on way many people stay single.
I gave women plenty of chances when I was young, but they were all chasing the top 1% of men, so I just walked away. The further I get, the better my life is. Shrug.
There was probably that one women who wanted you but you didn't want her for whatever reason. Just like some of us women weren't wanted by a guy we really liked. It's called "preference"!
@@denesejamerson2356 I can guarantee most of us guys would have never noticed that one just because she wasn't obvious about her interest. Heck, my own mother only got together with my dad after one of his friends told her she had to be straightforward with him, because every other woman who hinted she was into him he wasn't even aware of.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
@@d.c.5033 agreed! The stats for men being single are already higher than women’s projected statistics. People who want to marry, will. And people who are angry at the opposite sex, likely will remain single.
I’m 28 and have pretty much given up on trying to find a partner. I don’t want someone that has an OF or raise another man’s children. I’ve just been focusing on my career and doing things that make me happy but it’s depressing sometimes
Sadly, a disturbing and accurate description of what is happening and in what direction we are heading. I'm pushing 75 and have watched it all transpire, from the early days of feminism to the breakup of the western family. "Give women the vote and they will become your masters" - Cato the Elder, Roman Senator.
Women want what they want, women get what they want. Especially after the vote, everyone caters to what they want. And the cost of women getting what they want, is the slow collapse of society. The cost is just being bared by the next generation.
It took about 45 years for women's vote to really effect America, they pushed the Democratic Party far to the left into open Socialism and Cultural Marxism.
So the fertility rate in America is continuing its decline. If 50% of women are single and childless, 1/3rd are single mothers, 1/3rd are divorced mothers, 1/3rd are married with children(10% are non actively trying to reproduce) that leaves 48 women out of 200 Americans to have enough children to replace the 200 Americans, meanwhile only 15 women out of 200 Americans are in what was traditionally considered an American marriage to raise healthy traditional American family children.
You just don't know them enough buddy. In my culture things still work traditionally to some extent, so women must be loving, non-materialistic and feminine, right? When you compare them to western women, yes. BUT, they often ask for marriage (which is normal), and after you marry them and have kids with them (they insist on having them asap), you're going to see the female version of Machiavelli ahead of you. A woman is a woman, choose the one who chooses you but from what I have seen, and after all what I have read, and with social media and the internet, I wouldn't recommend marriage.
I'm a 43 year old man who never married or had children, I also never went through a divorce or had to pay child support, everything in my life is paid for, I couldn't be happier.
Who is going to have to look out for you, care for you or advocate for you when the underpaid ppl in your care home you hopefully can afford decide to molest you? Happens a lot. I'm stressed with the amount of childless boomer relatives I have to look out for, and I won't be able to ensure adequate care for them all. Hope you've made some intergenerational connections to ensure someone feels loyalty to you when you become dependent. Almost everyone does, in the end.
@@stefaniebeh706 - Having children doesn't guarantee they will live near you nor will even want to provide care for you when the time comes. Most people are selfish with their time & lives.
“If you are afraid of loneliness, do not marry.” - Anton Chekhov. Anton Chekhov (1860 -1904) was a Russian playwright and physician who is considered to be one of the greatest writers of all time.
Yes. The future looks dark. It's dark already in many ways. Western nations left Christ, and have nothing to replace it with, because there is no replacement for the Glory of Christ.
"We know that half will end in divorce" This is why marriage isn't returning. It's coin flip. You have a 50% chance of completely screwing up your life!
Again no, It is not 50% if you considera the relevant stats , from people married ten ago more than 90% ended Divorced. The 50% stats takes in account married people like your granpa and granma
@@Break1815 so you are saying if you only look at marriages in the last 20-30 years the divorce rate is much higher? 90% I know in California it was 2/3 of all marriages end in divorce.
Young men. Do NOT enter into a long-term relationship with a Western woman, or you WILL live to regret it. Happy are those who can learn from the mistakes of others rather than their own.
Once women had the choice whether or not to marry,women have chosen the latter. Even in traditional countries women are opting out. We no longer choose to be house fraus
I have lots of friends in their 40s and 50s. All of the guys say they can't find a single person to date because the women in this age group have super high standards that are ridiculously out-of-touch and all the women are lonely and single and say every day on facebook how "I won't settle" and they cry every night alone with their 4 cats. It's more common than people might think.
You really have 2 options: A) find you a young girl, not run-through, without her head full of crap B) go to other parts of the world to find a decent woman. I.e. the east, including Russia and the eslavic countries. Also, A) is much easier if you do B) first.
@@Synth2000women are the same everywhere don’t think that you will be sheltered if you go to other countries social media and dating apps fu…. Everything
They aren’t looking in the right places. I have a lot of single friends in that age group who would love to settle down with a guy who can be a partner, as long as he isn’t a drunk or a cheater, loves her and makes a good companion. Money isn’t a priority to everyone, just the vocal shallow ones.
All I can say is I am glad I married a woman from my own generation (born in the late 1960s). She works hard, loves me, appreciates me, and values our marriage above anything. She believes in give and take, and win-win, so we each play to our strengths and support one another when things get tough. For that, she will have my loyalty and support in all ways until our last breaths.
Well, women back then were still sane. If you were born in the 1990s or 2000s, there's a decent chance that you wouldn't have been able to find a relationship. Women today are significantly crazier.
Indeed. It's weird to me how so many women basically expect their husband to provide fun + excitement + help her regulate her emotions + make her happy.
Women never accept accountability for their own actions, it somehow is indoctrinated in them. I've been single for the past 24 years, and it's been the best decision I've ever made.
Kind of a meaningless timeline. If you’re 24, you’ve been NECESSARILY single for eighteen of those years. Nobody knows how old you are, and it’s highly unlikely you made some explicit decision twenty four years ago. Given that you write like someone who barely graduated high school, I’m going to assume you’re 24. And your claim is BS.
Women on IG are getting hit up globally by men. This is also why women will have an overall bad view on men because so many foreign men will say the trashiest things that US men would mostly never say.
This is the second generation with this cycle of women. Trouble was there was no internet or social media to exploit this issue. I divorced twenty years ago and I will spare everyone what happened and why. When I started dating other women and was growing frustrated with either women calling off at last minute with bad excuses or not getting a second date. When I met my second wife there were one or two things missing on my checklist. I decided to not concern myself they were missing. I have been happily remarried for 12 years, travelled the world, retired together and one day one of us will pass and the other will have to be a surviving spouse. That’s how we want our life to be
I never married or had children. I earned an ordinary income as a tradesman and, not wasting money, have a net worth of several million dollars. Retired at age 57. Aside from a planned $10,000 campaign contribution for Trump, what the hell should I do with that net worth?
Divorced woman here! Last year for me to make payment to my ex. He came with nothing and left with over a million cash and assets! Not all women are the problem
I was married 34 years to the same woman, before she passed away. We shared the same values and dedication to each other, no matter the circumstances that befell us. I don't see such dedication in today's young people, who would claim that it's too "restrictive". But, if you have rejected those "restrictions", why are you so unhappy now? Sticking together, thru hard times, adds value to your marriage and makes you appreciate it more.
Thank you for the encouragement! I am 26 and have been married for 4.5 years. My wife and I are on the same page with everything. We hope to one day make it to those high numbers.
@@calebpeters6267 Values are the key. Now, my wife had interests different from mine, but our values were the same. It's been over 2 years, since she passed, and I still miss her greatly. Make sure to spend as much time as possible, with your wife.
Can't love what you cant even like. Myself and most of my friends and colleagues are single. What we see out there is dreadful. Woke, obese, shit personality, tattoos, piercings, nothing to say...what's not to like?...Plenty.
The only way you could have a return to traditionalism would be through a true collapse of society, whether that takes the form of most likely an economic collapse or war (or most likely a combination) or I suppose you could have a truly deadly pandemic where you lose at least half the population. But in essence it would take some type of true disaster that would necessitate a return to traditional roles.
Nah, all would take is enough men standing up and demanding the change. Men just need to refuse marriage and it would change. Women would yell and scream but in the end it would change.
As a boomer, I was taught in bad economic times, hemlines go up, as do manners. All I see is mobile phone addiction and pandering to likes or whatever and norming to a fictional 3*6 plus fairytale that must come true. None of this having each others back, through thick or thin. I have given up on these miserable creatures having to agree with the stats that Pearl has stated. May they experience homelessness - because rents are not going down, while shops are placing items in Perspex display cases.
It isn't going to be war or economic collapse, at least not directly. It is going to be population collapse. This will lead to war and economic collapse, but if we don't have the people to do the work society falls apart. China is projected to lose half its population by 2050. Germany, Korea, Japan, Russia, and Italy are all in that same boat. The US has quite a bit more time, so hopefully we can unf**k this before it is too late for the US.
@@darcydicksonI would like that too be true but I agree with OP. It takes the harsh realities of nature to bring back sanity. I think most women do not give two fucks about most men. The men they want to marry they just end up sharing with other average and above average women
Western men in 2024 are dealing with the worst women for dating and marriage in the annals of human history.
Not sure if in the human history, but for sure few of the in the annals
@@renzochepar NO WAY it's ever been worse
@@edwardroy3401Unless of course the powers that be reset our history every so often and this is simply a repeat of what has happened before.
True.
Oh well, these are the beginnings of societal collapse. Every empire in history has fallen and America will be no different.
I'm a 33 single male and I'll never date a woman these days. Screw that. Too much drama.
Same age. Same mindset.
Renting is cheaper. At least you know you get services performed guaranteed.
Smart, Im 49 and given up now, I want to retire in 5 years, too risky getting involved with Women now.
Good you probably have bad seed
The longer you live female free and get used to the peace and harmony, the harder it will be to tolerate a woman in your life! We not only become self sufficient, but spoiled to the lack of stress. It's like being on vacation all the time! It's addictive!!
Latest study: 'divorce rate is on a decline' but they don't tell you so is marriage. Less marriage less divorce
Yep
U know what the biggest cause of divorce is right?
Marriage!
True- but the percentage of marriages (however many there are) that end in divorce is also down.
Isaiah 4-7
New International Version
4 1 In that day seven women
will take hold of one man
and say, “We will eat our own food
and provide our own clothes;
only let us be called by your name.
Take away our disgrace!”
Big deal. People just live together and then split up.
@@acornsucks2111 live together?
Gentlemen, cohabitation is the beginning of the end
No thank you!
I just went through a nasty divorce. I gave her everything. The new truck I put 20K down on. I give her 33% of my paycheck while she quit her job, moved in with mommy and daddy 1300 miles away from me. She won’t even let me speak to them on the phone regularly. She kidnapped the kids and then when I text her angrily she used that as justification to get a PPO and make it harder for me to see my kids. They are ruthless fellas. I am a disabled veteran and can’t work. I just had my car repossessed and my house foreclosed on because of the amount of child support. It ruined my credit and I can’t rent near my children. I am now in a position that I have to leave the country, most likely Philippines, to rebuild my credit and life before I can finally make it closer to my children. This is truly insane.
Men, don’t ever get married.
Women, stop using children as pawns.
If you must then move to the Philippines. Your alternative is becoming homeless. That's not good.
As a divorcee myself i agree, never get married, stay strong brother.
Amen, brother! I hope you find happiness in the Philippines.
Vietnam is better
@@Really2950 honestly I will probably bounce around all of SEA. Still cheaper than living here.
I have 4 sons 29-39, and they are not even dating. They see women as bad news. They come from a stable family with a mom and dad that have never divorced. Not looking good for the future.
Sad but true
Tell them to learn a bit of Spanish and send them / suggest a trip to South / Central America. Game changer. Just returned from a 2 month trip. Coming back to Australia I now feel disgusted at the quality of women here.
@@8.o.8 You guys are fooling yourselves if you think south america girls are high quality. You're just Chad here, that's all. Women are women (almost?) everywhere. I was typing considering you were american until I read again and saw Australia. So the things are bad there too. Just as I said.
@@fredcavalcante1887Latin women are far superior. Stop saying women are women. Latin women are a higher tier of quality.
Have you dated a Latina woman and an American woman? Can you do a side by side comparison for me?
Same with my brothers and I. 3 men with all decent jobs that are single with no kids and refuse to even date. Life is great for us
It's almost as if... the accumulated wisdom of 5,000 years of human civilization was right after all, and the current dogmas that reject tradition are... wrong...?
The very idea. . .
Statistically single women are happier and less stressed than married women. Married men are happier and healthier than unmarried men.
Men just aren't willing anymore to bust their asses to provide for a family in the hopes that the woman won't arbitrarily decide to walk away with everything and leave you penniless and homeless.
I'm scared of it, and I don't even have much to lose.
Never sign any contract with woman
People aren't self sufficient enough to provide for themselves let alone others. Not including external factors leading to poor moral choices and people lives being ruined by industries who don't have peoples best interest in mind (entertainment, media, education)
True enough but the opposite is also true: Men are being financially ruined by job destruction and chronic unemployment. They want to work and support a family but....cannot. Many women are too unwilling to understand that men are being economically destroyed and it is not their fault.
Utter bollox
Remember folks, as bad as Pearl claims things are, THINGS ARE EVEN WORSE
Great. Good. More of this.
Oh hells yeah!
Its a Richter scale, inverse proportional, its going to gat a lot worse a lot faster.
Everything seems to be going to hell on purpose,we are doing nothing as society to fix it so theres only one way to go...
great.. less corpses ($$$) for the cemetery industrial complex
I’m a 40 year old male & the last 10 years has told me that I’m going to be single because of unrealistic expectations of modern women.
What kinds of expectations, just out of curiousity? :)
@@Tail_sez wanting your partner to change their values,
be the source of all your happiness or
go against their natural masculine or feminine polarity
which most of the times is asked out of the guy...
its kinda goofy you are asking when you could literally just look at all the articles and news and watch what is happening against men. like.....
have you been living under a rock???
@@sandobando9390To be fair, there are people on both sides who only think about what THEY get from the relationship, not what they can give and provide to their partner. It has morphed into this sociopathic, resource focused mindset...
Go to a really poor country and find a woman, she will appreciate you
@@sandobando9390 It was a legit question - especially if there are some people don't follow social trends. There are a lot of them that stumble across the phenomena but haven't put 2 + 2 together. Don't be mean - take it as an opportunity to educate.
Traditionalism will return to young women 30/40 years from now. Those people are not born yet
and why is that?
is this your way of saying you're pre booking...
wow you're into kids...
Sorry, but as you can read in this comment section there is absolutely no evidence that may be happening in the slightest and the trend is continuing unabated.
Nah... Pods babies and robots by then, or just wasteland.
Pearl is about to be 30, single and childless. She is 28 or 29 right now and she's single.
FEMINISM
But at least she has some understanding of the world, her available choices, and what she must do to in seeking her goals. That sets her apart from some horribly vast majority of her peers. She has a legitimate chance to partner well.
She is actually in a relationship
So was Mother Terrisa
@@mlackey9812She's not Mother Teresa
I’ve seen mobile phone contracts last longer than some marriages.
Going on 15 years with my phone contract.
@@Noplayster13
I’m going on 9 years with mine.
That's because it is harder to break those contracts as bad as that sounds. :)
@@ispep8882
That just demonstrates how easy a marriage contract is the throw away.
It’s sad really.
I gotta write this comment down this is hilarious 😂
Narcissists are destroying relationships all over the place.
Social Media and internet culture has destroyed relationships
@@brendensangster3571 yea, that's why ya'll need to go outside for once and get off the internet because it's distorting your sense of reality
True
So true!
@@abduwalimuse7482 correct
I am an old guy, 62...so sad to see that the whole American dream being crushed into nothingness. Between propaganda of wokeness and f nism....we are losing this country...the loss of family unit was key to the destruction...and therefore they have won
The fight isn’t over. The men haven’t begun to fight. We have to organize.
It was all engineered but you seem to know it already and yes it is sad. Even if we started to change everything for the better NOW the trauma and mess that was caused may take decades to heal. Just another lost generation that has to pay for what a few rich psychopaths had planned.
Was it divorce? I'm sorry man.
@@vknight7497 fight for each other and the women who had to step into their masculine energy. It isn't a fight against feminists. It's a fight against AI based social media propaganda.
United we stand. Divided we fall.
The American dream is done and the women woke us up!
Most western women aren't worth walking to the next isle at a Home Depot.
Most western women are not worth the effort and are not even worth giving a second look.
Well...what did you think was going to happen when women divorce men and take half their stuff over 50% of the time?
please, like it's all about material possessions?! nah!
Please explain to me in your knowledge why women divorce men🙏🏻
Men are tired. Tired of being shamed for nothing. Constantly being called toxic. Constantly being told we aren't needed. We are tired of it. Woman beat men down so much that fine...it's easier to be alone. Being alone doesn't call us toxic.
There is a huge difference between being alone and lonely. I love my alone time with my dog.
That’s sad. I’m sorry 😢
you dont have to be invested into a girl to be with her
Sorry the truth is hurting you
@jenbodhi1133 so agree that women do these things?
Take child support and welfare away and it would all change in a year
Exactly. Those things are 1950s code when women were not working as much and more vulnerable. Things have changed and so should those laws.
They are afraid that if they take child support and welfare almost no babies will be born at all given the culture they themselves created.
and don't forget Alimony.
100% agree. No more making men responsible for divorce. I think anyone getting a divorce should have to pay a court appointed money manager for the life of the kid until support ends. 50/50 all the way then watch how fast divorce rates go down lol
Along with other things as well.
Single father, raised three girls, been divorced about 14 years. I don’t see anything inviting out there and all the negativity that’s been stacked against us men makes it not worth the time.
What do you hope for your daughters?
No one wants a single father anyway
@@Myview246 exactly they want single men without children, so they can be spoiled and drain wallet
congrats warrior
wish you well sir 3 girls? wow thats a tough cookie
“Enjoy the decline” 😌
-Rich Copper
I'm a 29 year old male and I can barely be bothered dealing with women, let alone signing my life to the government for one...
are u wearing shades cuz ur" future looks bright ! "
@@brewcrew5854 I just got 30. I remember I used to be interested with girls since I was primary school until high school. Just I got rejected many times cuz they think I’m weird and odd. So it’s best to giving up.
Yea bro modern day women are hard to deal w
@@yantlapanco348 never had girlfriend in my life throughout highschool. Even college until today cuz they think i’m weird to them. It’s fine by me. It’s really peaceful and quiet being single anyway. I used to be social back in the day but no anymore
All good things must come to end, right?
Just got 30. By the way, it’s my birthday
29 was the age I got married. I’m now 42 and she has 1/2 of everything I worked for. She’s never had a job.
If I were a man, I don't think I would want to get married in today's world. You're married ten years, she gets bored and wants a divorce. There goes half of everything you worked for, plus you have to pay child support and alimony. It's like that song, that's my house, that's my car, that's my kids, that's my dog, she has a new man who now has your life.
You need to realize that is Soft Communism.
mariage is a deal breaker
I put my house in my father's name and took my kids out of state, then filed for divorce and full custody. I ended up only getting $39 a month for 2 kids the whole time they were minors
They get bored in three years. The divorce is timed on advice of their attorney to max payout. The game is simple and obvious gentlemen.
Women won the divorce battle, but lost the marriage war doing it.
Maybe women today are entitled & somewhat aggressive. You’ll end up lonely. Respect is everything.
Sure woman have gotten stronger, but men have gotten weaker, it's a double edge sword, not everything is the woman's fault
To paraphrase Jack Reacher, to western modern women: " Remember, you wanted this"
Could not have said it any better myself
They will vote for a government that taxes men and hands it to them.
I don't want democracy
The truth is you wanted this also. Stop the cap.
@@assessobserveandexemplify4112 how is accepting reality "wanting it"
Interesting that Tom Cruise isn't married in 2024
The ONLY contract in the history of the world - where one party is PAID to break the contract...
Family court is mostly to blame. No man wants that exposure.
Family court is just a tool. The one who used it is to blame.
Been single for 20 yrs, seriously l am so use to it that, it would be hard for me to settle down, l don’t mind taking off and doing my own thing; motorbike riding, hitting the road for a 3,000km car trip over 3 weeks with no plans and no bookings, stay in a tent or 4 star accommodation, this suits me; l still have my purpose and goals; that is what matters to me.
I feel like I will become like you in the future 🤣
@@andersd8956 Love how you call your motorcycle "she". It reminds me of Han Solo and the Millennium Falcon. Peace, brother.
Good for you.
I'm not even going to try to keep a woman happy in 2024. It's near impossible.
😢
Yup, they seem to be always looking to be miserable.
Smart move
I agree. I have a son who has dated several woman and they always become disillusioned no matter how attentive and kind you treat them. Yet they'll run after guys who treat them like crap and jump through hoops to keep these toxic relationships going. Many seem to thrive on drama and enjoy being unhappy. I'll never understand the young women of today. 🤔
Yep these days it isn't love but rather what can you do to please her. Even older people are starting to feel that way. I said 30 years ago I would never marry and it's the best decision I've ever done. Sad seeing so many trapped in such misery. My furry ones don't take much to please, just some treats now and then.
My wife left me about a year ago, and I've tried dating since.
I'm a young looking 62 yr old, tall and muscular, financially secure, generous and understanding, and I've been dating women 45yrs old and up.
It's been an eye opener to say the least.
The attitude of these women, the self delusion of their appearance, what they think they "deserve" in a man, and how they want us to treat them, without them giving us anything of value in return, is amazing.
They also have no idea of what men really want in a women.
They often list to me their achievements starting with things like "I'm intelligent, I have a successful career, I've got 4 degrees, and then ramble along the same lines like they are applying for a corporate position!!
At the end of the monologue I just look them in the eye and say " None of the things you just said are important to me at all. All I want is a woman who is nice to me. Non demanding. Accepting of who I am. Easy to get along with. Loyal and faithful. Loving and affectionate. That's it! And if you can't do that I'm not interested."
It must have been tough for you when your wife left. I hope you meet a great lady who will be warm and loyal to you.
Modern woman think we want a version of ourselves... Sorry hunny.. not interested in your career or your degree. Just be nice, smile, treat me well, don't be crazy and just be understanding, nurturing and loving... thats it. Why is that so hard? lol
Praise your freedom, mental health.. becareful who you out inside your House,privacy and bed..
Best regards
Get a dawg.
Might be better to get your passport bro. Western women not worth it.
Most women want a man for what he has and can do. Then they still go and cheat on him. No thanks I’ll continue to be single. I don’t want all the nonsense and drama that comes with women.
This says more about the type of women you look for to date than about women my friend.
Question: are those women u talk about mostly 8/10 and above in appearance ?
Question: are those women u talk about mostly 8/10 and above in appearance ?
@@ParulJ77 irrelevant learn some basic common sense
I've always wondered why women are so into romantic movies and read romantic novels but yet when it comes to real marriage, they throw all that love and romance out the window!!
Get those passports out my bros, we outta here 👊
Nah, been there, divorced that. Monk for life.
Nah, theyre sayin leave the f ing US@@DiogenesDworkinson
@@etherealradar yup... and I'm saying I've been there, done that, would not recommend.
This is what the real owners of the world wants
It's really what everyone should want. The global population should be 500,000,000. 15 out of every 16 people should be willing to not replace themselves.
@@rievaulxlucienne1176 what?? Do you think before you comment??.
True. The owners want complete confusion and collapse so it’s easier for them to control everything
@@Rylynn2017 They're referring to the rate at which we consume resources. For it to be sustainable at the rate humans use resources, it's about 500mil. I think if this is orchestrated, that might be one of the main reasons.
@@who_is_dis - You are decieved.
It's over for western women 😮
@@Julie-en5lgI hope you and your cats enjoy your future.
True story. Pearl is on target!
@@Julie-en5lg we're free from women bs.
With the internet, eastern women are going the same way, just slowly.
@@ryzen7428 Isn't it better when everyone's independent?
Make some male friends. Pick up a hobby.
That's fabulous! Women can declare the decision to be single and childless and be respected for the choice!
No one cares.
"Fem Butch"
If no one cares, why the videos and endless discussions? No one caring is fine; everyone do your own thing.
It's okay for anyone to be single and childless. This world is not fit to bring children into now.
All I hear are facts, Pearl cites everything.
Stats ✅
Morgan Stanley ✅
Childless, older & single ✅
Divorce attorney industry ✅
Look at the average weight of Americans now compared to 1980s. I am very fit. I do not find un-fit women attractive... AT ALL. The few that are thin or in-shape think that they are beauty queens, even when they are plain at best. They have overwhelmingly high expectations and expect to offer nothing. And they cheat. The situation is grim indeed.
This 👆🏻
Facts!
Sad, but true.
The whales , they do swim …and proudly tell us we should accept it this way… BS.
They are not cheating they are storing other men's semen for future pregnancies.
There’s an even more ominous cultural storm cloud coming . . .
We’ve essentially told 90%+ of men to die alone, childless and in poverty.
90%.
You think these are just going to collectively say “Thank you, sir. May I have another?”
There are much worse fates.. Try being the patrirch of most modern families these days.. 🙂
MGTOW for 11 years. Happiest decade of my life. That’s a fact.
Great choice young man, Mgtow.
Here is a post that I wrote that you may want to read:
Finally great to see a courageous, intelligent and articulate woman speak the facts, the stats,
the truth about the bleak reality of what feminism has brought upon them.
I am 72 years old and I am going off again in a couple of weeks to Thailand and other countries
to enjoy this incredible world. All I can say to you, young dudes, is to live free, live your life as you want it,
because that is the only thing that is truly under your control.
Don't sign over your life to a woman and to the government that will enslave you for it
and strip you of everything you have worked for to give to her when the marriage ends in divorce
...So, don't get married.
Don't cohabitate.
Don't impregnate.
Don't let feelings control you.
Don't spend more than you want to or can afford on women.
Protect yourself at all times, women are not your friends.
And, have a wonderful life, living free, with peace of mind.
If you want that, then go MGTOW!
If you don't know what this men's liberation movement is, look it up..MGTOW!!!!!you may want to read:
MGTOW FOREVER.
Cope
Let’s see how you’ll be at 70 still alone
@@bluesteel920women most affected.
Society will not go out with a bang, it will go out with a queef.
Best comment!
I can't be the only one who read that in "Terrence and Phillip" voice......
@@thenewbohemian5779 🤣
😂😂
😂😂
Marriage is long past the pull date. It passed the pull date about 25-30 years ago. Feminists from Betty Friedan in 1963 to feminist writers during the 1970's and 80's talked about the need to get rid of marriage (which was holding back women from being their own person) and replace it, and the family, with the "rotational family", one where the adults come and go, taking turns raising the children, etc. Take a look around, folks. We're there.
That sounds like absolute hell.
What man is going to sign up for a "rotational" family. Ie. Chaotic finances and court orders to pay? Did they actually think that would be some sort of sustainable paradigm?
Lol, the very first feminists of the XIXth century already talked about it, nothing good ever came from feminism.
This is hell.
Jesus Christ! (as an atheist)
It’s honestly crazy how much as guys we need to study and act towards women just so we can get an ounce of their attention. I’ve officially given up as a 20 yr old , just maintaining women and keeping them occupied is soo exhausting , I don’t see the point anymore. Officially practicing Semen Retention for the rest of my life to reach spiritual enlightenment and serve God. ✌✌
The majority of women in real life are pretty chill and just normal human beings living their lives. not being evil crazy human beings who are out to ruin your life. taking time off the internet to go outside will indeed help you to reach spiritual enlightenment and serve God though. and it will also help you to clear your mind's distortion of reality caused by watching too many woke podcasts/videos who take minority situations and represent them as reality
@@abduwalimuse7482 also agree there are some good women
As 18 years old I give up dating and I am on semen retention for life for God ❤
"You can ignore reality, but you can't ignore the consequences of ignoring reality."
-Ayn Rand
Humanity is in for a hell of a reckoning... 😬
One of my favorite expressions. I modified it to, “You can ignore reality, but reality isn’t going to ignore you”.
That's an awesome expression! Never heard it before, thanks!
Well Ayn Rand is right.
Read her book Return of the Primitive. There is a brilliant essay in there about Gender Tribalism that is very relevant.
And it's gonna be fuuuuuuuuuuuun to watch . . .
Unfortunately woman are not held accountable and this is why there is family breakdown!
The ststem/ goverment is the problem women are just following their narcissistic nature and what financially best benefits them.
That's because women make 80% of the consumer buying decisions. Big business knows better than to bite the hand that feeds them.
Paulfreespirit: Precisely.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
That old saying...Women and accoutability....LOL
I'm male, single since 6 years, childfree, never married and I don't even want a relationship anymore.
Stressless, peaceful and uncomplicated! 😁
One question arises, what about after 50s, 60s when one will start feeling difficulty in even movement. However, if there are children in the house they can help out. I am also unable to figure it out.
ok do you want a cookie?
@@zk6239This is when the lonely 50 year olds start going for someone half their age
@@zk6239 In your 50?/60s? In your 80s maybe.
it's called life is a joke to you
The tinder girl's are hitting 35 and its a total bloodbath for them 😂😂 invest in cat food companies people, it will be worth more than Apple
That and cat litter.😀
My ex wanted a house together, then a ring, then a baby. And when she got all those things, she bounced on me and our 3mth old son. She said "this isnt the life for me". I would NEVER get married again. No fault divorce cost me close to 100k. Ive had full custody of our son since she left, i decided to sell our marital home to settle E.D...BUT.....I was able to build a new home for my son and I, focus on my son and career, i have more money in savings on my 1 income than i ever had being married 7 years with 2 incomes, a unbreakable bond with my son and I truley found out what unconditional love is......but best of all i get to watch her be unemployed, homeless and overweight while searching for the greener grass and whine about being all alone....not that im happy to see her struggle...but happy to know karma is real.
So even when they have a husband and child, they end up single and childless! Lol wtf
Please don't ever repeat the same mistake again.
Karma is a bitch and so are my 2 Ex-wives. Happily single. Will NEVER marry again.
God is good
Glad that this is one of the few cases where the child isn't paying the price 👍💪
Blame modern day ‘feminism’ which isn’t feminism at all.
Blame modern day toxic masculinism that has nothing to do with being virile.
What is modern feminism? Feminism is rights for women mostly to work and be able to sustain themselves. The rest is unrelated.
@@luckystone2293 priorities capitolist thuggery?
it's all feminism
how. how is it not feminism at all? break it down for us. explain the science.
I like women. I prefer to spend time with women instead of men. I like/need companionship. I just don’t want to jeopardize 1/2 of everything I’ve worked for. So I would prefer to have someone to live with… without it turning into a common law marriage. So… I’ll probably remain single and live alone.
Honestly its because we dont want our lives ruined. Drizzle drizzle
again, this comment section is basically a bunch of lonely men coming to this video to get validated for being single, it has nothing to do with woman ruing men's lives, It's all about men who are no longer masculine just face it!
As a single man looking at the current single world, I am absolutely terrified to date women anymore. Most women who are single have expectations of men doing everything and them doing very minimal things and looking for an opportunity to pounce on a guy for their benefit. They all seem to have an agenda and I don't remember women having this mindset from 20 years ago, they were looking for a man to marry or at least stay with long term... this is not the case anymore. Its all about getting as much money and possessions as they can regardless of how much it damages a man's life and reputation. Women have made men scared to date them!
Agree
omg so true^^^^^^^
They made me homeless here in the UK for having the wrong opinion, now I don't have to worry about dating... Yay 😁🎉
I don't take women seriously anymore. I always keep my options open. I think that's a better answer than staying single.
Women have always been scared to date and marry men, especially in the past, and for good reason. Glad we have more options now.
they became Single is the Natural Selection, but the problem is the Single Mom who will have a bad influence for the future generation
Hide your kids.
Been happening for decades already.
There will be fewer and fewer "future generations".
@@derikuk2967 Yeah...not good.
we see this every day, too many kids without dads end up with bad life outcomes
Traditional mothers HAVE to teach and guide their daughters through this climate. They have to coach them while they start dating…their emotional health, chastising them when necessary…and also make them into feminine ladies. Watch them closely on social media and guide them. Unfortunately, so many mothers are no longer present in their kids’ lives.
Why do they have to be feminine?
@@crystalvulpine2314 so that it will attract the masculine.
@@carriedaway1432 That's not necessary
I have to assume the poison in our food is a factor. Women were SUPPOSED to have the Maternal Instinct to have children. Somehow our Deep State destroyed women's instinct to reproduce.
Unfortunately, many of the mothers in the western world are no longer "traditional".
says the 28 year old unmarried single woman
At 74, I've given up. Not because of my age but I am disheartened at what I see in sciety.
You could of went overseas
Yes. He could have. I am 54. I could go. Why? We can't bring one back without the same risk of loss.@Laambos_house
@@totwallybaba The key is not coming back. Their are plenty of expat communities overseas so you would still be around Americans. You cash would also go a lot further.
I'm 43 and feel the same way you do.
still you can go overseas and enjoy real females. Even if at 74 it is going to be harder to find a 25yo girl, still you can go for a 40yo woman that hasn't wasted herself in her youth.
Women chose the smash and pass lifestyle. And the guys that don’t want to smash and pass have given up.
And thats where all the good men went!
They don't want to pick up after pookie and ray ray, chad, and tyrone.
Yeah society has promoted that "smash and pass" life style too...just look at movies in the last 30 years, almost all of them show the lead characters in a promiscuous relationship.
@@abdulrahmanraheem423 it's part of a larger agenda.
@@benstandard I agree! It's very destructive...and now we see the results.
I'm a single guy with disabilities. I don't even get a look in
Yeah bro it sucks I'm sorry 😔
You'll have it so good in heaven it'll make you forget you were ever like this. All you have to do (if you haven't done so already) is confess you're a sinner to Jesus and that you trust he gave his life on the cross and was resurrected to save you and give you eternal life, and you want him as your Lord and Savior.
You don’t need them!! Trust me. Go get your favorite boat, motorcycle, and your pilots license!! You’ll be happier. Lol
Have you tried dating a women whose experiencing the same thing as you are ?
Passport. Just don't settle down in a hurry. Get experience with them first.
There’s a reason prostitution is illegal in most places.
There would be very few married men if it was.
Yeah and women are slick doing it legally just low key behind their significant others back
Where I live, prostitution is fully legal.
Our marriage rates and birth rates are plummeting at the same rate as pretty much every other Western country, where prostitution is illegal.
Legalised prostitution is meaningless when OnlyFans is legal everywhere in the West
Never get married. No contracts. No shared bank accounts. Pay own tax. Never move out of your house.
Lessons learned and they sure run deep. 🎶
You Sir, are giving the best advice. Hope others read and follow!
...Mom's house? 😂😂
@@jayerbee7147 seeing who you are subscribed on, its clear you are still in your moms basement 😂😂😂😂
living in the age of unaccountability not helping the cause at all
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
How are people not being held accountable?
Good point
men are accountable !, women ? its a hard NO
That’s the real problem. The morals are lost in the profit world.
Back in the 1950s. They had traditional marriage where the man worked hard for the family and the woman stayed home to take care of the kids and home. At those days. People get married for 60 years and get buried together. Now a some of the men do not want to work and the woman want to be independent. Now divorce is at an all-time high. That is why many men do not want to get married. You be lucky if marriage lasts over 7 years.
oh yeah life was so perfect back then right? then why the people live in this kind of culture suffering huh i live in pakistan and it sucks bro we will see girls doing amazing things if they are from pakistan they are from rich families or some outside country and we just sit here and watch and just burn, ask us how it is to live like this
All I am trying to say is that it is not one sided. There are a lot of gold diggers out there and women that just want to be the boss. But on the other side when it comes to men. A lot of men use women for one-night stands and some men just do not want to work. Both man and woman are at fault on way many people stay single.
Not everyone wants kids though they aren't mandatory
@@MMARVEL2003horrible take
@@kingofkingslordoflordsandt6432 thank you finally a sane comment from a man who is not crying.
Without the possibility of love, the only reason to pursue a woman is to relieve yourself, and there are less troublesome ways to relieve yourself.
I gave women plenty of chances when I was young, but they were all chasing the top 1% of men, so I just walked away. The further I get, the better my life is. Shrug.
There was probably that one women who wanted you but you didn't want her for whatever reason. Just like some of us women weren't wanted by a guy we really liked. It's called "preference"!
Funny thing is it gets worse by the year! Instead of fixing the problem we're hyperinflating it.....well women are!
And they then turn round and ask where have all the good men gone. They were in the 99% they ignored.
@@denesejamerson2356 I can guarantee most of us guys would have never noticed that one just because she wasn't obvious about her interest. Heck, my own mother only got together with my dad after one of his friends told her she had to be straightforward with him, because every other woman who hinted she was into him he wasn't even aware of.
It's over for western women and those who copy them.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
But by that logic, it’s also already over for men.
@@Sunshineheart124 exactly. It’s better to be positive and do the best you can and then the right one will come along.
@@d.c.5033 agreed! The stats for men being single are already higher than women’s projected statistics. People who want to marry, will. And people who are angry at the opposite sex, likely will remain single.
@@Sunshineheart124 Men go overseas for traditional women. If the majority of Men leave, the U.S.A will collapse.
REM said it best: It's the End of The World as We Know It!"
Why are they even complaining? The average men is invisible to women.
They all want Chadrick.
I’m 28 and have pretty much given up on trying to find a partner. I don’t want someone that has an OF or raise another man’s children. I’ve just been focusing on my career and doing things that make me happy but it’s depressing sometimes
Get your passport dude.
Just have fun getting some once in awhile. There are very few lasting relationships these days. Do what you can to get by.
Hang in! Look to the Lord for where he wants you to be. That’s all that matters.
@@neatnateable You don't get passport from the Lord son, you get passports from the post office. 😂
@@paulh7798 True. Haha. I wasn't replying to your comment as much as the original one.
Sadly, a disturbing and accurate description of what is happening and in what direction we are heading. I'm pushing 75 and have watched it all transpire, from the early days of feminism to the breakup of the western family. "Give women the vote and they will become your masters" - Cato the Elder, Roman Senator.
Ditto...
Women want what they want, women get what they want. Especially after the vote, everyone caters to what they want. And the cost of women getting what they want, is the slow collapse of society. The cost is just being bared by the next generation.
i looked up that quote and the search comes up with nothing..i wonder if its been washed?
@@WillyEckaslikealso it could be a Woozle Effect
It took about 45 years for women's vote to really effect America, they pushed the Democratic Party far to the left into open Socialism and Cultural Marxism.
So the fertility rate in America is continuing its decline. If 50% of women are single and childless, 1/3rd are single mothers, 1/3rd are divorced mothers, 1/3rd are married with children(10% are non actively trying to reproduce) that leaves 48 women out of 200 Americans to have enough children to replace the 200 Americans, meanwhile only 15 women out of 200 Americans are in what was traditionally considered an American marriage to raise healthy traditional American family children.
I'll stay single!!! Tired of the drama!
When I left America, I was shocked how down to Earth women were.
it's because our culture is so toxic
Europe?
North Korea??
@@beavischrist5 Yes must be North Korea! Lovely place to go!
You just don't know them enough buddy.
In my culture things still work traditionally to some extent, so women must be loving, non-materialistic and feminine, right?
When you compare them to western women, yes.
BUT, they often ask for marriage (which is normal), and after you marry them and have kids with them (they insist on having them asap), you're going to see the female version of Machiavelli ahead of you.
A woman is a woman, choose the one who chooses you but from what I have seen, and after all what I have read, and with social media and the internet, I wouldn't recommend marriage.
I'm a 43 year old man who never married or had children, I also never went through a divorce or had to pay child support, everything in my life is paid for, I couldn't be happier.
Who is going to have to look out for you, care for you or advocate for you when the underpaid ppl in your care home you hopefully can afford decide to molest you? Happens a lot. I'm stressed with the amount of childless boomer relatives I have to look out for, and I won't be able to ensure adequate care for them all. Hope you've made some intergenerational connections to ensure someone feels loyalty to you when you become dependent. Almost everyone does, in the end.
@@stefaniebeh706 - Having children doesn't guarantee they will live near you nor will even want to provide care for you when the time comes. Most people are selfish with their time & lives.
@grubalcava That ain't no joke, seems like if there's any amount of money involved that's all the relatives are after in the end.
To add to your point. Seems a good majority have kids for the sake of adding to their insurance policy, as a benefit. Which is selfish. @@grubalcava
@@stefaniebeh706life isn't peaches and cream cause you have family when your old life isn't a fairy tale
“If you are afraid of loneliness, do not marry.” - Anton Chekhov.
Anton Chekhov (1860 -1904) was a Russian playwright and physician who is considered to be one of the greatest writers of all time.
Say it louder for the ones in back 🔊🔊🔊📢📢📢 No need to draw someone else into your fear and desperation. Getting married for all the wrong reasons.
Yes. The future looks dark. It's dark already in many ways. Western nations left Christ, and have nothing to replace it with, because there is no replacement for the Glory of Christ.
"We know that half will end in divorce" This is why marriage isn't returning. It's coin flip. You have a 50% chance of completely screwing up your life!
Plus all the people who stay married miserably.
Again no, It is not 50% if you considera the relevant stats , from people married ten ago more than 90% ended Divorced.
The 50% stats takes in account married people like your granpa and granma
@@Break1815 so you are saying if you only look at marriages in the last 20-30 years the divorce rate is much higher? 90% I know in California it was 2/3 of all marriages end in divorce.
And what percentage are married are unhappy.
imagine if you could take half your friends stuff every time you fell out. no one would have friends.
Young men. Do NOT enter into a long-term relationship with a Western woman, or you WILL live to regret it.
Happy are those who can learn from the mistakes of others rather than their own.
Agreed.
Once women had the choice whether or not to marry,women have chosen the latter. Even in traditional countries women are opting out. We no longer choose to be house fraus
Also, do not take life changing advice based on Internet comments
Need to embrace Islam, especially western
@@theblackiyepodcast8369Or partners. Maybe. spoiled daughters?
Women own this, they have no one to blame but themselves. Embrace the wall and get a cat.
Bingo.
How the tables have turned🤣🤣
If you are woman and you're still single, just try to touch your head, maybe your crown on your head is too tight.
I have lots of friends in their 40s and 50s. All of the guys say they can't find a single person to date because the women in this age group have super high standards that are ridiculously out-of-touch and all the women are lonely and single and say every day on facebook how "I won't settle" and they cry every night alone with their 4 cats. It's more common than people might think.
The "I won't settle" mantra still makes me laugh at the stupidity. They have been shouting this for decades.
You really have 2 options:
A) find you a young girl, not run-through, without her head full of crap
B) go to other parts of the world to find a decent woman. I.e. the east, including Russia and the eslavic countries.
Also, A) is much easier if you do B) first.
@@Synth2000women are the same everywhere don’t think that you will be sheltered if you go to other countries social media and dating apps fu…. Everything
@@Synth2000 ew.
They aren’t looking in the right places. I have a lot of single friends in that age group who would love to settle down with a guy who can be a partner, as long as he isn’t a drunk or a cheater, loves her and makes a good companion. Money isn’t a priority to everyone, just the vocal shallow ones.
All I can say is I am glad I married a woman from my own generation (born in the late 1960s). She works hard, loves me, appreciates me, and values our marriage above anything. She believes in give and take, and win-win, so we each play to our strengths and support one another when things get tough. For that, she will have my loyalty and support in all ways until our last breaths.
He said this right before he found out about Chad.
What is a woman 🤣😂
@@HappyGermanShepherd-xi5sq His name is Jaimie
Well, women back then were still sane.
If you were born in the 1990s or 2000s, there's a decent chance that you wouldn't have been able to find a relationship. Women today are significantly crazier.
She "makes it work". She kissed you out of duty not because she wanted to. There's a difference. I'm glad you're happy.
Women just want a boyfriend and be entertained. I want a family, traditional. I know I will stay single for the rest of my life.
There will be no future generation in this country
My ex wife was NEVER happy! The only time she was happy was when she was pissed off
Ha ha ha.
Now dats funni
Yep
Some women are not happy unless they are miserable.
Indeed. It's weird to me how so many women basically expect their husband to provide fun + excitement + help her regulate her emotions + make her happy.
Women never accept accountability for their own actions, it somehow is indoctrinated in them. I've been single for the past 24 years, and it's been the best decision I've ever made.
Are you projecting?
@@makeitcount2985 I think it's just stating a generalized fact. Most modern women are like that.
Yes, the truth.@@makeitcount2985
Kind of a meaningless timeline. If you’re 24, you’ve been NECESSARILY single for eighteen of those years. Nobody knows how old you are, and it’s highly unlikely you made some explicit decision twenty four years ago. Given that you write like someone who barely graduated high school, I’m going to assume you’re 24. And your claim is BS.
@@makeitcount2985Not a projection. Modern women are insufferable.
Thank you Perl for speaking the truth that so many people need to hear.
Great video Pearl. Thank you for covering it.
Refuse to be hurt again. Refuse to play mind games. No more western women for me.
"Western" women are fine if they are conservative rural women, do not touch liberal urban women with a ten foot pole.
Well, pump n dump, but no cohabitation.
Same here. Easterns are far better women in all respects. This include eslavic and russians.
Bruh, it's the same in asia too. let's enjoy the decline
@@johnnytate69
agree. online dating apps allow women to check the top 20% of men.. bottom 80% will be ignored.
Dating apps make average women feel like a '10' temporarily. Unfortunately, many women are taking way too long to figure this out.
I agree. Social media played a big role in the narcissism we see today with modern women.
Women on IG are getting hit up globally by men. This is also why women will have an overall bad view on men because so many foreign men will say the trashiest things that US men would mostly never say.
They just have that natural tendency when they receive attention. It’s ridiculous what is happening.
they can get sex with high value guys but can never get a long term relationship from them, aka a "forever side chick"
No lose there lrg pct on Adderall or mifepristone
This is the second generation with this cycle of women. Trouble was there was no internet or social media to exploit this issue. I divorced twenty years ago and I will spare everyone what happened and why. When I started dating other women and was growing frustrated with either women calling off at last minute with bad excuses or not getting a second date. When I met my second wife there were one or two things missing on my checklist. I decided to not concern myself they were missing. I have been happily remarried for 12 years, travelled the world, retired together and one day one of us will pass and the other will have to be a surviving spouse. That’s how we want our life to be
Knowing and understanding the female culture, what benefits does the man gain in choosing her today? Exactly!
A man who has no stake in the future, cares not for the future.
It makes no sense to risk life and limb for decrepit society (and a wicked system ruling over it) that doesn't have your best interest at heart.
Yeahhhh. Mate. Surrreee. Suuuurrrreeeeee
I need to remember that quote.
I never married or had children. I earned an ordinary income as a tradesman and, not wasting money, have a net worth of several million dollars. Retired at age 57.
Aside from a planned $10,000 campaign contribution for Trump, what the hell should I do with that net worth?
@@SeattlePioneerFigure out a way to do something good with it once you no longer need it.
There is no benefit for men to marry. Game over
Free lifetime family healthcare,
Fully survivorable Pensions,
double step-up in basis,
I won't continue,
READ
As it has always been.
Same for women. Game over.
@@kriskeena9438 Just say you can't do math, it's a lot easier. 😂
@@kriskeena9438 Women☕
It’s amazing how much more credible this woman would be if she herself were not childless and unmarried. 😂🙄
It refreshing to hear this side of the story. Women act like nothing is ever their fault.
Like you say, Pearl. Unless the laws DRASTICALLY change to protect men, we are not going to marry. We want to. We just can't. It's not safe.
In some cases judges don't honor prenups either. Their excuse is they must do "what's best for the family".
@@muffs55mercury61 Oh yes, I know. lawyers on youtube say the same thing. A pre nup is useless if the woman says she signed it under duress.
@@orangeandslinky We live in a world where women can accuse men 30 years or more later and try and win civil judgements.
Divorced woman here! Last year for me to make payment to my ex. He came with nothing and left with over a million cash and assets! Not all women are the problem
@@abbeyrandall9390 do not believe any woman.
Liberal women wrecked it with the me too movement 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Enjoy your new reality
I was married 34 years to the same woman, before she passed away. We shared the same values and dedication to each other, no matter the circumstances that befell us. I don't see such dedication in today's young people, who would claim that it's too "restrictive". But, if you have rejected those "restrictions", why are you so unhappy now? Sticking together, thru hard times, adds value to your marriage and makes you appreciate it more.
Thank you for the encouragement! I am 26 and have been married for 4.5 years. My wife and I are on the same page with everything. We hope to one day make it to those high numbers.
@@calebpeters6267 Values are the key. Now, my wife had interests different from mine, but our values were the same. It's been over 2 years, since she passed, and I still miss her greatly. Make sure to spend as much time as possible, with your wife.
@ricardcluter4765 thank you, I'm sorry to hear that. I wish you the best of luck!
Can't love what you cant even like. Myself and most of my friends and colleagues are single. What we see out there is dreadful. Woke, obese, shit personality, tattoos, piercings, nothing to say...what's not to like?...Plenty.
Men choose not to play a game they will lose
My WWII vet Granddad predicted this in the 1970's.
What did he say ? This is very interesting- a view point of a man who has seen stuff.
Also interested in his perspective and insight.
Same!
U didn't answer the question
The only way you could have a return to traditionalism would be through a true collapse of society, whether that takes the form of most likely an economic collapse or war (or most likely a combination) or I suppose you could have a truly deadly pandemic where you lose at least half the population. But in essence it would take some type of true disaster that would necessitate a return to traditional roles.
Nah, all would take is enough men standing up and demanding the change. Men just need to refuse marriage and it would change. Women would yell and scream but in the end it would change.
Yes, just dont marry and dont save them, never pardon them. In some generations things will fix themselves.
As a boomer, I was taught in bad economic times, hemlines go up, as do manners. All I see is mobile phone addiction and pandering to likes or whatever and norming to a fictional 3*6 plus fairytale that must come true. None of this having each others back, through thick or thin. I have given up on these miserable creatures having to agree with the stats that Pearl has stated. May they experience homelessness - because rents are not going down, while shops are placing items in Perspex display cases.
It isn't going to be war or economic collapse, at least not directly. It is going to be population collapse. This will lead to war and economic collapse, but if we don't have the people to do the work society falls apart. China is projected to lose half its population by 2050. Germany, Korea, Japan, Russia, and Italy are all in that same boat. The US has quite a bit more time, so hopefully we can unf**k this before it is too late for the US.
@@darcydicksonI would like that too be true but I agree with OP. It takes the harsh realities of nature to bring back sanity.
I think most women do not give two fucks about most men. The men they want to marry they just end up sharing with other average and above average women