Woman Finally Admits She's The Problem
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My ex messed up our finances, broke up with me, and blamed me for everything. She took my daughter to her mother's house. She left me high and dry after 3 years of taking care of my family allowing her to be a stay at home mom because our daughter is non verbal. I feel so used. Please pray for my daughter and I.
Sorry to hear that, that’s crazy
Guess I'm not the only person that went through this. As someone thats in it to after 17 years I'll be praying for you brother.
I can never understand why men today have women who don't work manage the money. That might have worked with our great grand parents
Relationships are like the weather. It rains at times, but the sun always comes back out and it will be much brighter.
I know it's cold and I also love my children sacrificed and take care of them. If people turn their back on me I have to be OK with it. I only have one life to live and I take care of my responsibilities. If I'm painted as the bad guy so be it. I made peace with God a long time ago. I'm not the best man but I try.
Most women only admit they’re the problem once they’ve tried every other option.
😂😂
And then they want to be congratulated when they finally act like an adult by saying they did wrong.
@@dks80721- Facts!
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after all else fails
@@nameblocked yep.
How long have Black men have been saying……….ACCOUNTABILITY!!!!!!!!!
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Let's see, when did homo sapien emerge?
Some Women don't even admit to being toxic mothers you think they will admit to being drama queens.
The dating game has been NUKED that's why I stay Single 💯
You're not alone.
Over the last 5 decades 70-80% of most men who said "I do" have been hit hard by women and the court system that leans heavily in their favor. I was once tempted to get married but so glad I didnt.
@sayitaintso7544 Hats off to you 💯
I feel the same as you.
@@gradymorrrowjr37😂😂😂😂😂😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 9:43 2:2”😊😊 ppp😊
Meanwhile, I guarantee she's still collecting child support checks.
All these victimizers going on these so called healing journeys. Not buying it.
At all.
🤣🤣🤣 Wait didn't forget the empowerment journey also
@@Mr.Edwards233 yeah, how are you going to fix yourself when you're broken? Like the police investigating itself for a crime. They're not going to pick the tools or do the work that challenges their delusion of themselves.
They never get healed neither they come out of it even more broken than before😆
I agree. It's all a ploy. I will never ever deal with ANY western women again. I'm done with all y'all hell-bound souls
NEVER deal with a woman who is is going to cause drama in your life
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That's 95% of all women.
Absolutely 💯
Exactly iam a woman and can't stand many women. They drama queens. I rather have men pals except some men told me men and women can't be friends, but I don't think that's true.
What are you talking about?
Literally Nobody on the damn planet intentionally seeks out a woman who WILL bring drama to his life.
And practically No women announce to you that they Will bring drama to your life. You of idiot advice and wisdom you think you spitting?
Captn. Obvious.
Don't Stay with any women that are causing drama in your life is more appropriate. Generally Nobody knows up front she will cause him drama
C'mon man
Women do not have hobbies/crafts/self development anymore. For a lot of women, their man becomes their focus/hobby. Has nothing to do with the drama itself IMHO. This has just been my experience over the many years dealing with different women. The ones that I meet, not all for romance/segs, that have their own interests are just better overall to be around. The ones that do not are always going through something dramatic/traumatic. Not a bash, just how it is.....
These days if I meet a woman, ask her what her interests/hobbies are and she says "traveling and/or eating out", I know I am not her type. Especially being a man with many hobbies and interests. WHY? Because all my interests and hobbies will be a point of separation. I go out to do stuff with out her (Cause she is not interested) and all she does is sit idle, find things to complain about, accuse me of cheating and winds up cheating on me. If she has stuff to do, she will value her space, try to get interested in what I am doing, or try to get me interested in what she is doing. ...... This could get long....but you get the idea.......
Truth.
Needs to be put to work at your business
Wow that's true I was dating a guy he did not have many hobbies but I did. I would be busy alot with my hobbies and he did not like that long story short we broke up.
@@latrinamcneil5188 Yeah, it goes for anyone. People do not understand that self improvement/investment is why they are attracted to you. Then they get with you and want to put you in a trophy case.
It takes a lot of work to be well read, traveled and rounded. Unfortunate, if you are anything like me, it is hard for people to keep up with your rate of growth as friends or lovers. But the few that do are priceless!!!
@@latrinamcneil5188 What I said goes for anyone. People say they want a lover that is interesting. But they do not realized that it takes effort to be interesting. So what do they do? They tell you what you want to hear to get with them, then they want to put you in a trophy case. They expect to be the center of your effort and attention. Been there, been through that........
It’s always Germaine’s fault.
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BGS is RIGHT!!!!
Holding yourself accountable is the first step in the healing process. Hopefully this woman stays the course because too many nowadays have been lied to and led astray
Hope she's aware that the sisterhood is about to come for her.
And let's see if she retracts or stands her ground
This sisterhood is something else. They will try and get you booted, banned, cancelled and probably deleted if they could just for telling the truth.
Lmao they always realize after destruction 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Me and my wife had a pretty big fight, and I told her everything you just said. Almost verbatim. This is why I love your channel.
Listen, My Bruthas..... Especially if you understand Who We Are
Isaiah chapter 3 explains Everything
DO NOT MESS with THESE WOMEN of THE LAST DAYS!
DISCIPLINE yourselves and look to The Most High.
We are almost at The End
Too little too late for American 304s😢
Yup pretty much there fkd!😢😢
I know this all too well where the husband's short commings is used as a justification for the wife's not taking accountability and the church,the black Christian church uphold and support black women not talking accountability in the marriage.
🎯🎯🎯 You already know how it goes, "men need to man up, be a man" And for the woman, "let's pray for our women because they need strength".
@@Mr.Edwards233that’s part of being a leader
@@raw5889you can’t lead someone who doesn’t no how to follow
These bs churches is part of the problem.
Amen,Amen,Amen. The black church is complicit in the utter destruction of the black two parent nuclear household and specifically the destruction of healthy marriages. They preach" Happy Wife,Happy Life" from the pulpit. They say to men " My wife is always right ". When confronted with a marital dispute, the church always looks to the husband to fix it. No accountability is ever required of the wife. There is the simplistic and dangerous belief that if the husband does more, the wife will automatically submit and fall in line. Biggest lie and deception ever adopted by our Black pastors. Homes have been destroyed because of this false teaching. Is it any wonder why Black men have left the church?
I want to point out one thing that the young lady said in the video that embodies the issue and problem with black women today. " Here I am the prize, your lovely wife." I believe this is their issue and thinks that men are supposed to do whatever she says lol.
Listening to your commentary really relieves a lot of angst from dealing with women today. Like, literally sitting and listening to a woman who can see things from our angle as men is such a catharsis for me. I had a woman I was dating just up and move one day.. no forewarning or anything and I’m still bothered by it 6 months later. Hard to get over, at least right now.. Everything was always my fault, she tried to find any little issue she could to make it a thing so that she didn’t have to face the reality of her own shortcomings. I really thank you for your contribution to this space it really means a lot! May you be abundantly blessed 🙏🏾
Don't let the things she said & did to you bother you for a minute longer.
She left you because she could not fully wrap you around her little finger.
She didn't tell you = she never liked you, just tolerated you.
Just words to trick the next sucker. Narcs don't change.
Enjoy your freedoms
You can’t NEVER escape from yourself. Trying to escape from yourself is crippling your mental growth and mental health. This is why using that DOPAMINE FIX is a popular method to escape/avoid yourself. But, by this young lady admitting that she’s the problem, the road to good mental health is in the horizon for her. Stay strong, young lady. Stay strong. Cheers to you.😊👍
Not the rapture! 😂
Haha, that was good one.
Ain't going to be a Rapture. 😎
@@quantumsolace5864yes there is. And when it comes the tares are the first to go and they going to hell!
You know HELL has frozen over when women finally take accountability. Hahahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶
Give them no children and leave!
Stay discioline
Please leave these 304s along and buy nvidia stock after June split.
Get your passport and bounce!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't buy too much after the split.....wait for it to pull back before loading up!
Buy it before the split and re-up once it's split.
Funny thing...and on topic. I had Nvidia in 2010 but had to liquidate it in my divorce. It was $2.70
@@bhillboy37 wow!
@@bhillboy37😡😡 o man, that's rough to hear
Knowing is half the battle; now comes responsiblity, which means it's time to put in the work. Words of accountable acceptance means nothing without action.😎
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Men have been told to always look within first, so it is about time for women to do the same. If you don't want the men to date out, become passport bros, go MGTOW, or just drop out of the relationship market, a bit of self-reflection and accountability would start to solve the problem.
Too late bro ITS OVER
Shalom Sisters ❤
This is what ALL women need to hear!!!!!! Thank you!
It's refreshing to hear a woman take accountability. I know the brother has a good wife now!
Communication is consistent action. Talk is cheap.
Nah,idgaf what they say. Its all talk and that ship has sailed. They had a 60 to 75 yr run. Its over
Older women talking this "accountability" speech makes the simps go wild but I take it with a grain of salt. Most are single ex-wifes who left marriages on demon time and some, like the lady, remain married seeking validation on the internet to shield themselves from bad behavior at home. Especially, when they are this vague. If this is "I'm the problem" confession, be specific so everyone knows what you put your husband through. Tney don't, in order to preserve it within the relationship. Tell your husband this to his face, not strangers, seeking a pat on the back. Smh.
Facts don’t tell us that.Tell that to the man who had to go through all that bullshit!
@@kingcaine7326- Exactly! You know what he's gonna hear from her? "I already said it. Go to video. Look at the comments." As if that's equivalent to an in person apology about specific issues and the changes that will be made.
Plus shodrys got no options left but him. If she had another spot to land, she’d be quiet as a church mouse.
Nicely said you are right on point keep preaching that message!👍
This is why help only delays what's inevitable. Never help anybody because they will NEVER learn until its too late. You think you're doing something that only makes you feel good, but actually, you're only increasing the damage that will be felt on the backend by the person your helping.
Love is letting a person suffer.
Kendra I know you’re not a comedian, but you be making me weak. 😂😂😂 It really brightens up my day.
THANK YOU AND FOLLOWING OTHER'S, ONE OF THE MOST BASIC THINGS WE LEARNED AS CHILDREN FROM THE OLDER GENERATIONS...
DON'T FOLLOW OTHER'S ..
The sky is falling...
A 304 holding her self accountable wow 🤯 wow
Before braking up with my last girlfriend, I documented dates. Circumstances, Actions and Responses. She said that it wasn't true 😂😂😂😂. Even though the day before I walked away, she did one of these things. SMH.
When I contacted a close cousin, it was a simple text. No words just a link to Bobby Womack's "I'm looking for a love". We laughed for 10 minutes straight.
"If he doesn't just conform; If he doesn't just make you happy..."
6:54 "...a measure of control..."
“...And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you" (Genesis 3:16b NLT.)
... Diabolical.
I said it in another video...but most women wont admit that THEY are the one at fault in all their relationships. Work, friendships, relationships...their nasty selfish attitudes cross all the boundaries. And im saying that as a woman...bc im just as tired of dealing with these types of women as men are! These types of women are not flexible and never think they are part of the problem and cant figure out why they have issues wherever they go.
At least for this woman in the video she realized that she was contributing to the problems in her marriage. Hopefully things work out for her in her future relationships
WOW..As a newly divorced single man trying to mingle after 20 months of separation, I feel like I'm just being recruited to a woman's "roster". I woke up to a manipulative text about how I changed bc..I am not willing to accept that "sponsors" and all the "friends" who get more time and attention on a dating app while on a date with me...SMH. My disposable $$doesn't mean an unlimited source...especially if my needs aren't being addressed or meet. Am I wrong for following her lead by not paying MORE attention and allowing her other suitors to fund her life?
No
Fire 🔥 from heaven itself...
Seeing a Woman evolve and actually take accountability was encouraging. Thank you for that. Great commentary.
Absolutely love this channel 💚✊🏿
As Salaam Alaikum. I thoroughly enjoy your broadcasts. Your presentation of the truth will save marriages.
I've always said it's more women than a little bit. Being a commodity and not oddity. Shows it's generational healing. But they will put $ in things. And not investing within your soul and spirit and mind. I'm a Systar in my 40s. I check with me. And I respect a Brother checking me to be better for myself and my sun. Being their Earth, we must rise up to better on many levels.
Hint to the maybe wise, she said a lot, but the question is , is she sincere ?
She said a lot by saying nothing!
Been there, got that, moved on.
Romans 12:2 This is accountability for me.
Now that someone has finally took accountability, think it's going to rub off on the others? NOT
It's called maturity. Sounds like this one actually reached a level of maturity. I hope she does a follow up video that proves it.
😂😂😂 16 years of my life with my girls' mom. That was her favorite line. "But look at what you're doing." What? Not accepting your fkery like a simp? Bad behavior doesn't get rewarded. U get handled accordingly.
Angry. Codependent. Don't know how to serve. Don't know how to just shut up.
Yah shal'OM beloved meshpaca
Id like to send you the 7 fold doctrine 🔯
Yep!
She is speaking facts!
I don’t think that the majority of women realize or better yet accept accountability for being the problem.
I didn’t but whoop!
There it is…
She’s telling the truth like it T. I. …is!
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Too little too late
😂😂😂😂❤🎉
You all see mr.gs1.5 comment, “Damn people in hell just got ice water!” 😅
Well for the artificial woman they will play that accountability card and probably waste time and never get any work on herself done! Watch out guys because it may take that woman 20 damn years to apologize for destroying the marriage.
I think women with bad attitudes, argumentative, nasty dispositions in relationships all know they have these flaws. But admitting it to a Man? Perceived as weakness like admitting they have something to work on. Modern Feminism isn’t about accountability or being vulnerable. It’s about perceived strength and blame shifting in opposition to all things Masculinity.
I still ain’t buying it although hearing a woman take some accountability sounded refreshing and strange ngl 😂
As Christian Pastor I love the rapture hit🎉????!!!!!!!
Okay but when that rapture comes the first to go is the tares!
@@tiffanydennis4227 Tares are not a part of the rapture they're a part of the harvest that is cast into the fire. "The dead in Christ shall arise and we who are alive shall join them and be caught up in the air!" " The ungodly are not so and shall be cast into the lake of fire!!
THE problem is that most black men were raised by, men and women, that a woman's issues are the most important in a relationship and that they should be honored above all FIRST !! A mans issues don't matter.
Your raised to be her b I t c h, when in reality they enjoy serving a man with purpose and direction.
Not having to be accountable for what you do is the cornerstone of Christianity in the first place, that's how I know it's false man made religion; because anyone who really knows the word of TMH YHWH (The God or Power or EL of Abraham, Issac and Jacob (Yisrael) know that HE is gonna hold each person accountable for their own actions and sins ; Deuteronomy 24:16 kjv Ezekiel 18:20-22 kjv Ezekiel 14:12-23 kjv Exodus 32:31-35 kjv Ecclesiastes 12:12-14 kjv. So let them continue to think a false Greek diety named Jesus (Zeus) died for them , they about to find out it's a total lie.
Jesus and Zeus have nothing to do with one another and the concept of a final judgement is certainly part of Christianity.
I'm not opposed to criticizing Christianity or any religion but the criticisms need to be based in reality.
@@BiggieTrismegistus- oh really? I know you offended because no one ever showed you who TMH is, or actually when HE speaks, but go back and read those scriptures I posted, and ask yourself if it's a contradiction to ANYONE that died for your sins. If you disagree, that's fine, but you not disagreeing with me, you disagree with TMH YHWH. Shalom Shalom
Sorry but im not falling for the reformed toxic ratchet 304 christian church hustle,that time has passed,too little,too late.
What a minute what does she mean when she said..."When you get to heaven Allah isn't going to ask you about him, he's only going to be talking about you"😳
No, Allah is going to bring up a person's past deeds in the judgement stage, that is way before you get to whether you're going to heaven or hell🤓
Your book of deeds is given to you by an angel behind your back in your left hand, that means you're going to hell😭 Now if your book of deeds is given to you in front of you in your right hand, that means you are going to heaven🥰😍🤩 Judgement doesn't take place in heaven if you are there, you are there to stay forever😇
THE RAPTURE !!!!!
They bait you in (Deception) and once you commit your ass is grass!!
Classic Blackwidow Spider Move!!
Satan At Its Finest!!