The woman asks "Why No One Wants To Marry Black Women?" I would tell her to look in the mirror. “Mirror, Mirror on the wall, who's the least married and least desired of them all?” Why you Keisha! The black woman's over all image is a dumpster fire.
@@richk320 Simone needs to stop listening to the Sisterhood. It's affecting her mental health. She doesn't need to have kinship with women who are evil, simply because they share the same skin color.
You mean the same group of Black women that were talking crap about Simone Biles hair and also her choice to purchase an inexpensive wedding dress…? Now they’re allegedly on Team Biles??
Rivah said it best. "Black women keep saying they're the prize. Then where is the prize winner? Who is the collector of the prize? Cause no one is claiming it."
I really hate disingenuous passive aggressive questions. Black Women have been asking this my entire life and refuse to accept the answers from men. They're just fishing 🎣 for simps whenever they do this.
VERY passive aggressive. The real is the ones with bad habits who desire marriage but Don’t want to change, think rephrasing the question can shame Men into accepting them exactly as they are.
They don't consider how BW are when they get married, either... that's a deterrent, as well... it's not just baby mamas keeping the kids away... divorced mothers are doing it, too.
We are undesired for marriage because of attitude, appearance(fake hair, claw nails, lashes, and fitness), single motherhood, unaccountability, and promiscuous ways.
Yep. That everything fake stuff. How do they think those hideous BBLs are appealing?!? The stink alone will make you faint. Who wants someone who can’t wipe their butt and sasses you and has out of control unrelated children and yet insists you treat them like queens???
They won't change until their children start abandoning them in old age. The reason why they even have the children is so that they can replace the father/husband and rely on their children for support and utility. Once they lose that, they'll have NOTHING... and then they'll be forced to look at themselves. It's happening more these days, but not to the extent that they are worried en masse and asking what's going on.
Other races of men have observed them kicking their own male's backs in for decades. Did they really believe that sort of reputation would make them more appealing?
Other men have given that reason as to why they don't want to date them. They are generally viewed the world over as being masculine. Instead of changing, they would rather blame us for their poor condition, hoping that they can get other men to play Captain Save Em
That's not it.....why would a wm marry a bw when in their community bw are known as fun girls.......ive seen wm run through bw easily if i was a wm i would just sleep with them
They were posturing for other races 😂 They treated BM like sh*t for the purpose of saying "I will treat you better" because they saw how WW SW AW treated us BM not realizing it wasn't our race it was JUST HOW THEY THE OTHER RACES WERE/ARE GROOMED to treat their SIGNIFICANT OTHERS!!! these dopes were treating us like sh*t like on some plantation make massa happy tips!!! When they looked up and realized the all the races of women they were around were/are the frumpy dumpy lumpy crufty refuse NO ONE WANTS!!! now...they want answers.
She also has to submit. She can listen and be respectful and still want to do her own thing. That won't fly. There is only one leader and that's me. If she is doing her own thing, the unit is compromised. I cannot protect her and we will fall. I don't know why modern men are so afraid of that word "submit" these days. It's necessary.
no if and buts or questions is how I feel. Women in the side of the hemisphere are too whorish as a whole with dirty attitudes so I don't give them any grace. Either you're on it or not.
I am 68 y o I know how a good wife and woman should conduct themselves .They don't exist today in the US especially in the blk community. I call them men with vaginas .@@KtotheG
100 percent correct. We are Mexican and my husband and I see how black woman hate their men. Our men make a lot less than black men yet we submit to them, wash for them iron for them cook for them. Lots of our men don’t even speak English yet we treat them like kings at home. We have a 23 year old Latina daughter who would like to be married to a black man, she just graduated college and ready to be married. I have told her several times she won’t have a difficult time finding a good black husband because black woman don’t like them. This is just an outsider looking in, to us it seems like black woman do not love their black men. It
@@biggooeyyy Dude, I have seen so many black women over the years say that black men are rapist, thugs, criminals, drug dealers, child molesters' demons from hell that party with Satan and crawl back under their rock to recuperate before crawling back out again to cause mayhem.
Simple, in a dance, if you can’t play you part, and you keep stepping on the person’s toes, you will be known as a bad dancer and nobody will want to dance with you. 🤷🏽♂️
They love “real ninjas” and toxic relationships, think stable, reliable guys are boring and lame, and have terrible combative attitudes. There’s your answer.
Or they will be quick to put u on child support and use the child as a pawn and wont apologize for lying on u trust me that's why I don't want to get married band I'm not marrying no black women I learned from my mistakes I'm done
Smh unfortunately in they're delusional minds and hatred they can come up with many reasons for being unsubmissive disrespectful disobedient and unethical yet complain about being unmarried and how blk mn are no good 🤪
True ….im 32 black man + immigrant …I remember HS and, Community college…majority of Blk women don’t even look at US …they all interested in same men…rappers looking,dope dealers ,tough looking thugs …I remember Latinas and whites love to date or give attention to us than blk women….crazy
I'd say 80% of them LACK these you posted. Especially Image. They wear fake hair, fake nails, fake bodies, fake lashes but claim they want "Real" men making over $100K. They simply don't possess what they request.
They don’t listen , most have a bad attitude, say they don’t need a man and for the most part , overlook the good guy for a pookie. They know damn well why men got tired of it.
If being raised in a single parent household is what makes a man feminine this is also what makes a woman masculine. We need 2 parent households again..respectfully.
I'd say it's both man. No one wants to be around someone they've repeatedly seen throw others under the bus with little to no provocation. However, the attitude these BWs have is ultimately what makes it ok to do so in their warped little minds. Peace to you brother. @comparecards5688
WAIT!!! The woman said that it was "NOT ONLY BLACK MEN", yet failing black men is the most given answer, the question should be why black women can't look at themselves and stop looking to others to put the blame? And they always seem to overlook the fact that black men are able to out marry black women. So black men, who will admit that we are far from perfect, still have women that find value in them even when black women don't want them.
Accountability was never really meant for women, because they were never expected to create, build, lead or own anything. The problem is that now they have entered the arena in building society right alongside men, both men and women will still refuse to give them the same accountability and responsibility that we have given to men for millennia.
These women are really miserable. They stay delusional and lie to each other just to cope with reality and not self-delete themselves. I laugh because I know eventually that delusional bubble they live in will burst. It's inevitable. I've noticed an uptick in black women having public mental breakdowns, displaying desperate se*ual deviancy behavior, and engaging in LGBT relationships with each other. I believe they are cursed and this is their karma for all the suffering they have caused. The good thing is hopefully they self-delete themselves in mass. I believe that will be best for the black community and society as a whole.
Yeah, i don't think she was really concerned with the fact that black women aren't marrying black men, than she was worried about, black women not being desired by Masa and all other races of men!
Here are the facts, black women in the 1940s, 1930s and 1950s had the highest marriage rates of all ethnic groups in America. Black women were known for being amazing wives and mothers, cooks, and home keepers. Every woman had a cooking recipe book. Black women took pride in being great cooks, and mothers and supporting wives. They strived in their feminine energy. They were submissive to their husbands and listened to their fathers. Black men had to get black fathers permission to even talk to their daughters, nevermind date them or marry them. Black women were ladies. They were protected. They knew how to dress modestly, they knew how to talk in public, they knew how to behave in public. They were full of grace. They were respectwd by black men. Black women were pillars of their communities, their families and their homes. Single motherhood was either unheard of or really frown upon and rare. Everything started going down the drain in the late 1960s with the war on poverty. When the government started paying women money if they didn't live with the father of their children in the same home. That is where I don't need no man attitude came from Then the Nixon admistration took the USD off the gold standard and inflation went through the roof. Having a single income home because a luxury and having a 2 income household became a necessity. Meanwhile many black women got hocked on welfare. And developed horrible attitudes. They began to behave, bad, talk bad, dress bad. And hence we got what we have today. Today black men have. Ore options and the black women that are successful are all competing for the same top 5% of men.
Thank you. Every black should know who Thomas Sowell is, but probably 85% don't. Sad, and if you look at the trajectory of this demographic, where is it heading?
Don't buy her absolutely nonsense. She knows why men don't want to be married to black women or any woman today. There's no benefit for men. Men bear all the risk in marriage today and get very very little benefit. Couple these facts, with the psychotic mindset, historical betrayal, disloyalty, and criminality of the black women makes them Worthy of marriage.
Sounds oddly familiar too " I NeEdz Me SoMEbOdee WhO gOnes HaNdleZ mE and KeEpz Me in checks Boo Boo YOUSE AinTz stRongz EnouGHz to HanDlez Me Honey BoO BoO child.. guurrll" they irritating only animal need to be handled and only animal you need strength to keep them in check cause they lack ability to have self control
BW who ask this question don't want an answer; they want an argument. Many different BM have told them basically the same list of reasons. They find fault with each messenger as an excuse to ignore the message. They'll keep asking until a "pander bear" gives them an answer that they like. They love to say, "Who gone check me, boo?" because they refuse to change. SYSBM.
🎯🎯🎯 once Sat on a job surrounded by BW like this! And when asked and given the BM’s perspective, it wasn’t what they wanted to hear so they just talked in circles like they couldn’t get an answer to their ongoing question lol.
Because they don't want to believe what we been telling them for years about how they our 🤦🏾♂️ they believe they better than us brothers they walk around here like we owe them something
For the most part, they reject male leadership and dont want to be married. But they still want the world to believe they are desired. It's cognitive dissonance at it's finest
I got a degree in Computer Science/Design 20 years ago and there were literally zero BW in my university program. 15 years of my tech career and there's been zero BW working at my various companies in a technology capacity. The only ones there are in Human Resources department. They all get degrees in psychology, sociology, etc.
If bw were desired and coveted the way Asian women were, they would be interracially dating and marrying 3x more. They're only "race loyal" because other men aren't checking for them like that
At some point, we just have to let silly people be silly. If you can’t look inward to find your answers you will never find them. It’s no secret why people think and act the way they do.
...Especially when 'they' already know the answer--Bragging about being argumentative, masculine, controlling, & conniving when dealing with men on social media isn't the flex 'they' think it is, and of course leads to no one wanting to wife you up. Simple.
Too pugnacious, too loud, too demeaning, too disrespectful, too aggressive, too deceitful, too materialistic, too fake, too impatient, too unaccountable, too masculine, too irresponsible, too demanding, too over-sexualized, too narcissistic and did i already say too loud?? 😒
*I'll always remember this....* I was in college with a diverse group of my friends on our Intramural team riding in a car (white, black, hispanic etc) Somebody asked to rank their preferences in women and who they wouldn't date... Literally everyone in the car said they weren't interested in Black Women. (Too aggressive, attitude, behavior, not attracted to them, overweight etc) The guys actually tried to preface it by apologizing to me and the other black dudes. We all just shrugged 🤷🏿♂️....How're you gonna try to convince men of other cultures that they're wrong when the traits they dislike are universal?
@@itsgreat7150 Thanks. It's just the reality out here. Another thing they said was... They observed how Black Women treat Black Men and it made them want to avoid them. BW don't seem to grasp how much that disgusts other men outside the culture.
@@Jay-lp5xe This response makes no sense. Black Men don't want these traits in women either. That's why so many of us (myself included) seek women outside our culture.
The angry black woman is a stereotype for a reason. No man wants to come home after work and deal with that. Plus. The wearing wigs thing is ridiculous.
We can tell them but most dont like the answer because it's going to require them to self reflect. Since they dont like doing that, they're forcing our hand. 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
I've noticed that other groups of women don't shame their working class men with cute little nicknames like "dusty"...it's over for us as a group in this country...
They will just blame men. That's why they came up with that "financially unattractive" farce. It's gotten traction in the news media, because women dominate the media. They push that narrative to put men on the defensive and dudes fall for it.
Bruh they have had almost 50 to 60 years to figure this out. And still don’t get it. Yet these are the so called educated women of are race 😂 😂 ok Shaniqua keep thinking your better than your men.
@vintage2946 FACTS!!! Its like deez whaman can't accept da TRUTH!!! Gs~~ UP!!!! HOES~~ All the way |)own!!!!!! LETS GET IT, KINGS!!!! LETS GET IT!!!!!!!! Fill DEM THROATS !!!
I agree with the exception of the not westernized part…those same women are in U.S, Canada, EU…and have solid cultural ties, traditions and family first mindset. Leaving western countries is no guarantee that those women/men aren’t concealing their own ulterior motives…they just play their game while serving you lavish meals.
Is it anything to do with our sista's wanting to sow their "wild oats" a little longer than other groups of women such that by the time she wants to settle down her choices are slimmer and by that time she has other men's progeny to bring to the relationship?
Although not reflected in the statistics, there is also the group of black women who marry a black man when he doesn't have much, but he has a plan. Then they turn around and divorce him because "he couldn't pay her school loans." Fast fwd 7 years, and he built a 3 mil a year business.... yes, this is my story, and she fumbled the bag...
Or I just dont trust those MFkr's. Like you did bro you dont know "when" they are going to hit you with the "im not happy" or we need to talk 💩" and youve built up your value, biz, net worth, resources etc and now she's "looking at the front door" to take your 💩 blood sweat tears, in year (pick one) finnese, manipulative, plotting, misandry to be free and give another cat your 💩. I will hard pass on that 🤡🐂💩
Usually when people ask "Why-eeee...?", like women with men not marrying them or any of these common complaints, they don't seek understanding or resolution. They don't want to make things better. They're just complaining. It's literally just a watered-down tantrum, not an inquiry.
Why? Imperious attitude, lack of respect for men.. We all grew up with this attitude from BW in our own families and communities, so we look for something else.
@@neoloanderson6676 Who’s a good leader? A person is working his butt off to buy House. A person who takes of himself mentally or physically. A person who’s has a good diet. A person that cares about his family.
As a man who's been married for 27 years. Being married and being a WIFE or entirely different. Husband and wife is a duty. Once they understand that their odds might go up. Maybe. Travis Kelce black ex fumbled the bag because she didn't know how to SFTU and play the long game. Simone Biles got dogged by BW because she submits to her black husband.
It truly blows my mind that they are oblivious to the reason’s good men don’t want them. It’s literally like a slave owner saying he can’t understand why his slaves don’t love him
As KS said, we need to own our image. Our image is so important and will open or close doors before you even approach the building. As long as a Sexy Redd has more visibility and influence than an Alexis Isley, this will persist.
There is a building near me Getting a new roof Buy an Hispanic company And as I was watching I noticed That women on the ground Working cleaning up Talking on walkies talking Coordinating Supplies Up to the men Putting in work They're men Do some of the grimmiest low level jobs out Still respected by By their women Peep game
Every race of women but bw knows that their men are their lifeline and protection Turning against their men is unthinkable and would be sui*idal. I've come to the conclusion that the most educated are really slow.
They know exactly why they're not getting married.
Lol
because MOST are unagreeable, nonfeminine, 2 many baby daddies...I CAN GO ON.
U are right, butchu WRONG!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
what is known don't have to be said, iykyk.
to many kids born out of wedlock, uncooperative, nonfeminine, nasty attitudes, obesity through the roof...I CAN GO ON.
How are you supposedly the most educated demographic and still can't figure this out..
That point right there
The woman asks "Why No One Wants To Marry Black Women?" I would tell her to look in the mirror. “Mirror, Mirror on the wall, who's the least married and least desired of them all?” Why you Keisha! The black woman's over all image is a dumpster fire.
That part‼️
That’s what I’m tryna figure out lol
Keisha is out of touch with reality. They have no clue how reality works
Meanwhile they’re telling Simone Biles to “Divorce” her husband…
They’re not really interested in answers.
Things that make you go Hmmmmmmmm ????
They're trying to make Simone join in their misery and she's really happy😂😂
@@richk320 Simone needs to stop listening to the Sisterhood. It's affecting her mental health. She doesn't need to have kinship with women who are evil, simply because they share the same skin color.
You mean the same group of Black women that were talking crap about Simone Biles hair and also her choice to purchase an inexpensive wedding dress…? Now they’re allegedly on Team Biles??
Those are white supremacist posing as bw.....don't fall for all comments i wouldn't be surprised it's a room full of wm paid agents to cause confusion
Rivah said it best. "Black women keep saying they're the prize. Then where is the prize winner? Who is the collector of the prize?
Cause no one is claiming it."
If that's the prize for "winning," I don't want to fathom the consolation prize.
FACTS!!!
I really hate disingenuous passive aggressive questions. Black Women have been asking this my entire life and refuse to accept the answers from men.
They're just fishing 🎣 for simps whenever they do this.
YUP 💯
Yup "Oh that's a biggin there lets throw that bait out.. "why we not married 🥺" "it's because " "ohhh I got me one REEL.EM IN!!!"
Bingo. They will only listen to what they want to.... They have been told the exact same things for over 30 years and they only got WORSE! 😂🤣
VERY passive aggressive. The real is the ones with bad habits who desire marriage but Don’t want to change, think rephrasing the question can shame Men into accepting them exactly as they are.
They don't consider how BW are when they get married, either... that's a deterrent, as well... it's not just baby mamas keeping the kids away... divorced mothers are doing it, too.
We are undesired for marriage because of attitude, appearance(fake hair, claw nails, lashes, and fitness), single motherhood, unaccountability, and promiscuous ways.
The attitude part is the worse.. They have no respect for black men
BW: I do what I want. You can't tell me nothing.
That part.👈
Yep. That everything fake stuff. How do they think those hideous BBLs are appealing?!? The stink alone will make you faint. Who wants someone who can’t wipe their butt and sasses you and has out of control unrelated children and yet insists you treat them like queens???
Don't forget selfish, greedy, financially unreasonable, lack of family/team skills etc, etc, etc.
They won't change until their children start abandoning them in old age. The reason why they even have the children is so that they can replace the father/husband and rely on their children for support and utility. Once they lose that, they'll have NOTHING... and then they'll be forced to look at themselves. It's happening more these days, but not to the extent that they are worried en masse and asking what's going on.
In 2030, the same question will be asked.
Exactly they do not give a Rats 🍑... I hav educated homegirls told me this multiple times lol. They don't give AF
Probably 3030 too
And the year 2050, they will still ask this question.
Fact: by 2030, 45% of American women will be single.
But not in 2050 when the better generation created by smart men comes in.
Other races of men have observed them kicking their own male's backs in for decades. Did they really believe that sort of reputation would make them more appealing?
Other men have given that reason as to why they don't want to date them. They are generally viewed the world over as being masculine. Instead of changing, they would rather blame us for their poor condition, hoping that they can get other men to play Captain Save Em
@@KtotheGlmao ur single & old asf lmaoooo
That's not it.....why would a wm marry a bw when in their community bw are known as fun girls.......ive seen wm run through bw easily if i was a wm i would just sleep with them
😂 Exactly, it backfired
They were posturing for other races 😂 They treated BM like sh*t for the purpose of saying "I will treat you better" because they saw how WW SW AW treated us BM not realizing it wasn't our race it was JUST HOW THEY THE OTHER RACES WERE/ARE GROOMED to treat their SIGNIFICANT OTHERS!!! these dopes were treating us like sh*t like on some plantation make massa happy tips!!! When they looked up and realized the all the races of women they were around were/are the frumpy dumpy lumpy crufty refuse NO ONE WANTS!!! now...they want answers.
If you can't listen and be respectful, you can't be with me. It's literally that simple.
She also has to submit. She can listen and be respectful and still want to do her own thing. That won't fly. There is only one leader and that's me. If she is doing her own thing, the unit is compromised. I cannot protect her and we will fall. I don't know why modern men are so afraid of that word "submit" these days. It's necessary.
And that's that.
no if and buts or questions is how I feel. Women in the side of the hemisphere are too whorish as a whole with dirty attitudes so I don't give them any grace. Either you're on it or not.
Tabernacle
I am 68 y o I know how a good wife and woman should conduct themselves .They don't exist today in the US especially in the blk community. I call them men with vaginas .@@KtotheG
Other races see how badly black women talk about good black men.
Also see Blk men desperate to race mix also..
@@TitB1199I guess that’s why bm started the divest movement. Oh wait
100 percent correct. We are Mexican and my husband and I see how black woman hate their men. Our men make a lot less than black men yet we submit to them, wash for them iron for them cook for them. Lots of our men don’t even speak English yet we treat them like kings at home. We have a 23 year old Latina daughter who would like to be married to a black man, she just graduated college and ready to be married. I have told her several times she won’t have a difficult time finding a good black husband because black woman don’t like them. This is just an outsider looking in, to us it seems like black woman do not love their black men. It
I know one thing it's okay when they have standards but it only becomes a problem when black men have standards.
Any man of any race!
The standard is NOT marrying.
@@gregorylatta8159 No, just BM... they work to fit WM's standards.
Soft guy era Drizzle! Drizzle 😁😁
This is very true. But I’ve noticed too that black men normally have certain standards for black women only.
Why be with someone who sees you as the enemy?
EXACTLY
@@biggooeyyy
Dude, I have seen so many black women over the years say that black men are rapist, thugs, criminals, drug dealers, child molesters' demons from hell that party with Satan and crawl back under their rock to recuperate before crawling back out again to cause mayhem.
Simple, in a dance, if you can’t play you part, and you keep stepping on the person’s toes, you will be known as a bad dancer and nobody will want to dance with you. 🤷🏽♂️
Fantastic analogy.
Yes Lord!!!!!!!
Love the analogy
Good analogy..
They love “real ninjas” and toxic relationships, think stable, reliable guys are boring and lame, and have terrible combative attitudes. There’s your answer.
They know the truth!!!
Fact
@@mallswordislaw5723 they want reliable man when it is tough. When they are single moms and poosey worn out
Seen this since middle school 👀🙇🏽♂️🧐
@@nathaniel3867 M.C Lyte (Roughneck, Beyounce (I can Have Another You in a minute), Etc., etc., etc.
Black men won’t “get” married, because black women won’t “stay” married…L.O.M.
Or they will be quick to put u on child support and use the child as a pawn and wont apologize for lying on u trust me that's why I don't want to get married band I'm not marrying no black women I learned from my mistakes I'm done
I cant imagine wondering why nobody wants to pay me for being a plumber when I refuse to fix pipes.
Great analogy man.
Smh unfortunately in they're delusional minds and hatred they can come up with many reasons for being unsubmissive disrespectful disobedient and unethical yet complain about being unmarried and how blk mn are no good 🤪
SMH. It's that simple, but the blindness to the solution is the most annoying part of it.
Too much like right for them, they're gone
They will throw away a hard working good man for leaving the toilet seat up but willing ride or die for a dope boy.
That's because people attract who they really are because the people who approach them are a reflection of who they really are.
True ….im 32 black man + immigrant …I remember HS and, Community college…majority of Blk women don’t even look at US …they all interested in same men…rappers looking,dope dealers ,tough looking thugs …I remember Latinas and whites love to date or give attention to us than blk women….crazy
Pookie and Ray Ray.
Fact truth
Chad left and tylone is on way out hitting wall
#1 IMAGE . Personally. Attitude. Demeanor. Lack of being feminine and soft. The list is infinite
I'd say 80% of them LACK these you posted. Especially Image. They wear fake hair, fake nails, fake bodies, fake lashes but claim they want "Real" men making over $100K. They simply don't possess what they request.
You look mean ! No smiles -
I swear it's always the hood men speaking like this
Damn i thought they could pull white men... Where they at though ?
They treat all men the same. Take my word for it.
Where 🧐 dey 🧐 at 🧐 doe?
They try and cover up that attitude for the white man, but eventually that nasty attitude always comes out.
@@itsgreat7150 oh of course, they hate themselves and that's the god honest truth.
Asia.
Because you're already married ....
to yourselves... 🤷♂️ 🤷♀️
And the Government.👈
OR JESUS.
😂😂
@@itsgreat7150 And to the Sisterhood... the Sisterhood and the Government are responsible for 98% of their divorces and relationship break-ups.
The most selfish group of women that ever existed
As a black man ,black women need to fix themselves.
Say that!
Bro but like I said above the black women from Africa are getting married this a American thing
Too late for that bro they're DONE
@@TommyAkbar-wt1fg but they got that western mindset.
@@steelesharpensteele6252 SPEAK!!!!!!
They don’t listen , most have a bad attitude, say they don’t need a man and for the most part , overlook the good guy for a pookie. They know damn well why men got tired of it.
If being raised in a single parent household is what makes a man feminine this is also what makes a woman masculine.
We need 2 parent households again..respectfully.
That's only if the boy stays in the house and lets his mother emasculate him... I checked my mother often...
PREACH
Yup. The black family is a failed experiment at this point.
All day these dem are les and there off spring are making the community look bad
That makes no sense! Female headed households have more feminine energy. So, how can it make masculine women? 🧐
Can a traitor redeem themselves? Why should men of any race give a sympathetic ear to a traitor?
On point they have always betrayed us. No one likes a traitor.
It’s not about being a traitor it’s all about their attitude
I'd say it's both man. No one wants to be around someone they've repeatedly seen throw others under the bus with little to no provocation. However, the attitude these BWs have is ultimately what makes it ok to do so in their warped little minds. Peace to you brother. @comparecards5688
@@comparecards5688it's a traitors attitude 😒
Dam right
The women on a reality show called 600lbs Life STAY WITH HUSBAND'S! The answer is simple: ATTITUDE!
They sure do 😂 every single one of them
Yes very true...doritios in bed, frying chicken in bed, but got her husband
@@spade1812😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@keptbygrace6221that's a damn TV show. They ain't reality
@@spade1812that ain't reality
WAIT!!! The woman said that it was "NOT ONLY BLACK MEN", yet failing black men is the most given answer, the question should be why black women can't look at themselves and stop looking to others to put the blame? And they always seem to overlook the fact that black men are able to out marry black women. So black men, who will admit that we are far from perfect, still have women that find value in them even when black women don't want them.
They can't. Reality is very scary for them they are literally incapable of dealing with reality or introspection
@@vintage2946Exactly 💯💯💯
Accountability was never really meant for women, because they were never expected to create, build, lead or own anything. The problem is that now they have entered the arena in building society right alongside men, both men and women will still refuse to give them the same accountability and responsibility that we have given to men for millennia.
These women are really miserable. They stay delusional and lie to each other just to cope with reality and not self-delete themselves. I laugh because I know eventually that delusional bubble they live in will burst. It's inevitable. I've noticed an uptick in black women having public mental breakdowns, displaying desperate se*ual deviancy behavior, and engaging in LGBT relationships with each other. I believe they are cursed and this is their karma for all the suffering they have caused. The good thing is hopefully they self-delete themselves in mass.
I believe that will be best for the black community and society as a whole.
Yeah, i don't think she was really concerned with the fact that black women aren't marrying black men, than she was worried about, black women not being desired by Masa and all other races of men!
Here are the facts, black women in the 1940s, 1930s and 1950s had the highest marriage rates of all ethnic groups in America.
Black women were known for being amazing wives and mothers, cooks, and home keepers. Every woman had a cooking recipe book.
Black women took pride in being great cooks, and mothers and supporting wives.
They strived in their feminine energy.
They were submissive to their husbands and listened to their fathers.
Black men had to get black fathers permission to even talk to their daughters, nevermind date them or marry them.
Black women were ladies. They were protected.
They knew how to dress modestly, they knew how to talk in public, they knew how to behave in public. They were full of grace. They were respectwd by black men.
Black women were pillars of their communities, their families and their homes.
Single motherhood was either unheard of or really frown upon and rare.
Everything started going down the drain in the late 1960s with the war on poverty.
When the government started paying women money if they didn't live with the father of their children in the same home.
That is where I don't need no man attitude came from
Then the Nixon admistration took the USD off the gold standard and inflation went through the roof.
Having a single income home because a luxury and having a 2 income household became a necessity.
Meanwhile many black women got hocked on welfare.
And developed horrible attitudes.
They began to behave, bad, talk bad, dress bad.
And hence we got what we have today.
Today black men have. Ore options and the black women that are successful are all competing for the same top 5% of men.
Thank you. Every black should know who Thomas Sowell is, but probably 85% don't. Sad, and if you look at the trajectory of this demographic, where is it heading?
Don't buy her absolutely nonsense. She knows why men don't want to be married to black women or any woman today. There's no benefit for men. Men bear all the risk in marriage today and get very very little benefit. Couple these facts, with the psychotic mindset, historical betrayal, disloyalty, and criminality of the black women makes them Worthy of marriage.
When she rejected the call to righteousness she fell to the level of the animal
Animals don't need marriage
Sounds oddly familiar too " I NeEdz Me SoMEbOdee WhO gOnes HaNdleZ mE and KeEpz Me in checks Boo Boo YOUSE AinTz stRongz EnouGHz to HanDlez Me Honey BoO BoO child.. guurrll" they irritating only animal need to be handled and only animal you need strength to keep them in check cause they lack ability to have self control
BOOM!
Nicely said!
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BW who ask this question don't want an answer; they want an argument. Many different BM have told them basically the same list of reasons. They find fault with each messenger as an excuse to ignore the message. They'll keep asking until a "pander bear" gives them an answer that they like. They love to say, "Who gone check me, boo?" because they refuse to change. SYSBM.
🎯🎯🎯 once Sat on a job surrounded by BW like this! And when asked and given the BM’s perspective, it wasn’t what they wanted to hear so they just talked in circles like they couldn’t get an answer to their ongoing question lol.
Because they don't want to believe what we been telling them for years about how they our 🤦🏾♂️ they believe they better than us brothers they walk around here like we owe them something
It starts at home.
For the most part, they reject male leadership and dont want to be married. But they still want the world to believe they are desired. It's cognitive dissonance at it's finest
That's because they have a feminist indoctrinated mindset that has nothing to do with women rights advocacy.
Or let them get around a Zaddy ‼️
Black Women earn degrees in the humanities not the sciences.
I had this talk with my daughter's mom, who is a freshman ..she actually listened and agreed ..I'm watch em though ..👀👀👀😅😅😅😅😅
And they don’t all make $100k. If they did then they’d be the highest paid demographic
@@joejoerunya8908 Even when they do make $100K, they overspend and cash-strap themselves. So, they still don't get that far.
The number making 100k is so small it doesn't even count
I got a degree in Computer Science/Design 20 years ago and there were literally zero BW in my university program. 15 years of my tech career and there's been zero BW working at my various companies in a technology capacity.
The only ones there are in Human Resources department.
They all get degrees in psychology, sociology, etc.
She disarmed the, “It’s because we are loyal to black men,” nonsense by making it about all men.
If bw were desired and coveted the way Asian women were, they would be interracially dating and marrying 3x more.
They're only "race loyal" because other men aren't checking for them like that
They scream & yell they don’t need a man
No self respects, no family values.
Exactly
At some point, we just have to let silly people be silly. If you can’t look inward to find your answers you will never find them. It’s no secret why people think and act the way they do.
I'm tired of the same questions being asked over and over again!
💯 They ask the same question over and over cas they don't like our answer
are these chicks serious?!?! They're asking WHY?!?!
blows my mind
...Especially when 'they' already know the answer--Bragging about being argumentative, masculine, controlling, & conniving when dealing with men on social media isn't the flex 'they' think it is, and of course leads to no one wanting to wife you up. Simple.
They have to be trolling at this point.
I think most of them know but they don't like the answer to the question.
Don't worry, black women. The rest of Western women are following right behind😂
It sucks though, man ngl 😅 but they like it. I love it. 🤷🏾♂️
🧢 WW are still marry double the rate of BW.
@@tupactargaryen My point flew right over your head didn't? ✈️
@@tupactargaryen Always Will
@@Helminthis No it didn’t, you was just wrong.
But when we tell them why, they come back with SIGN language and they won't listen. Then they'll ask the same question over and over
They REALLY don't want solutions.
Theyre the most openly combative, addicted to arguing and thinking it's a flex when it's an actual annoyance.
A couple of non black men told me they think a sistah would cheat on them.
Exactly. Think if you were a man of another race. You'd think she would leave you for a black man quick.
Ha! I was married to a white girl, and she cheated on me while I was in Iraq. Marriage is DEAD!
Too pugnacious, too loud, too demeaning, too disrespectful, too aggressive, too deceitful, too materialistic, too fake, too impatient, too unaccountable, too masculine, too irresponsible, too demanding, too over-sexualized, too narcissistic and did i already say too loud?? 😒
Cause u all not following the Most High period it starts their
No it doesn't.....
@@yoseflopez5141 ur opinion is that of sheetrock
@JRMeadows-bb8km Says the person still believing in the imaginary
True indeed my ahch!!! It starts there bottom line
This is how it is, when you don’t agree with someone. Instead of just looking at the data.
Say NO to marriage fellas!!
A man doesn't have to worry about divorce if he doesn't get married!!
Damn
But sex outside of marriage has its own consequences and repercussions.
@@eLion27 Be careful who you have bedroom relations with
1000% Family Court is terrible!
This is horrible advice and this by no means encourages building healthy stable families.
Black women have been told the same thing for years. They hate the answers.
They choose the "butter biscuit contact" over family
*I'll always remember this....*
I was in college with a diverse group of my friends on our Intramural team riding in a car (white, black, hispanic etc)
Somebody asked to rank their preferences in women and who they wouldn't date...
Literally everyone in the car said they weren't interested in Black Women. (Too aggressive, attitude, behavior, not attracted to them, overweight etc)
The guys actually tried to preface it by apologizing to me and the other black dudes. We all just shrugged 🤷🏿♂️....How're you gonna try to convince men of other cultures that they're wrong when the traits they dislike are universal?
You’re speaking absolute Facts. 🫡
@@itsgreat7150 Thanks. It's just the reality out here. Another thing they said was...
They observed how Black Women treat Black Men and it made them want to avoid them.
BW don't seem to grasp how much that disgusts other men outside the culture.
Good more for us!
@@Jay-lp5xe This response makes no sense. Black Men don't want these traits in women either. That's why so many of us (myself included) seek women outside our culture.
@@Jay-lp5xeyou can have them.
The angry black woman is a stereotype for a reason. No man wants to come home after work and deal with that. Plus. The wearing wigs thing is ridiculous.
We can tell them but most dont like the answer because it's going to require them to self reflect. Since they dont like doing that, they're forcing our hand.
🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
I've noticed that other groups of women don't shame their working class men with cute little nicknames like "dusty"...it's over for us as a group in this country...
It used to be a line between prostitution and promiscuity, but those days are gone and so are men
Because they don't want to get married and they burning
These days I play crazy just like they do. “Idk you tell me” 🤷🏿
It works too. Don't answer nothing and flip anything they say back at them. Imma be a mirror too
They will just blame men. That's why they came up with that "financially unattractive" farce. It's gotten traction in the news media, because women dominate the media. They push that narrative to put men on the defensive and dudes fall for it.
Facts I play coy as well, no use in conversation with them about anything
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bruh they have had almost 50 to 60 years to figure this out. And still don’t get it. Yet these are the so called educated women of are race 😂 😂 ok Shaniqua keep thinking your better than your men.
These chicks know what the problem is, they've always known.....they don't care👈
Get your Passport, Fellas, it's a wrap for these chicks 🤣
They are educated dummys.
They don't even know they come from us. Life comes from us yet they stay in the churches. You are who your father is
@vintage2946
FACTS!!! Its like deez whaman can't accept da TRUTH!!!
Gs~~ UP!!!!
HOES~~ All the way |)own!!!!!!
LETS GET IT, KINGS!!!!
LETS GET IT!!!!!!!!
Fill DEM THROATS !!!
@@vintage2946 The church tells them lies to keep getting their money. They aren't being edified in the church.
BLACK MAN'S RESPONSE: IS THAT A TRICK QUESTION???????
Lmao just look at your behavior and the way how u look 20 years later still nothing wrong 🤣
She should have asked the question "why do black women never want the men that truly desire to be with them"....
They want Alejandro 😂
They will never ask that question because they have used their wisdom (lack of) to answer that question.
Hello 🤓 learn how to be more pleasant and peaceful 😮 great place to start 👍 ✌️
BW: You don’t tell me what to do, I do what I want.
Me: More pleasant and peaceful, huh?
Leroy wins the Best comment of the day! 🏆🏆🏆
@@itsgreat7150They also need to eat more salads
@@MB-iv4mq Exactly 🎯🎯🎯
Because black women value being a mother over being a wife, and that's Uncle Sam related.
For fifty years strong and independent and don't need no man
And 50 years of the ignorant B's lie fed to the black community
Overweight attitude but the biggest issue kids out of wedlock
I wonder who gave them the kids
Junior Williams
@@scorpiostar4621 men who didn’t want them
@@Djd271 well they are going to learn to let go cause you men are bisexual anyway
@@scorpiostar4621Whoever they spread their legs for
You can't have peace with them. Period.
So her main concern is why non black men won’t marry them? That’s all I needed to hear.
This needs to be titled differently. Because African, Afro latinas and everywhere else not primarily westernized don’t have this issue.
I agree with the exception of the not westernized part…those same women are in U.S, Canada, EU…and have solid cultural ties, traditions and family first mindset.
Leaving western countries is no guarantee that those women/men aren’t concealing their own ulterior motives…they just play their game while serving you lavish meals.
Simple KS answered her question several years ago completely.
I’m confused.
One day they say they got options.
And the day after, nobody wants them .
Which One Is It?
Neither
We got to ask those BLK women "what do you bring to the table collectively?"
They need to ask themselves that... Men already know the answer.
Debt, another man’s kids, bad attitude, chaos…
Total chaos
Is it anything to do with our sista's wanting to sow their "wild oats" a little longer than other groups of women such that by the time she wants to settle down her choices are slimmer and by that time she has other men's progeny to bring to the relationship?
Yall want to lead most of yall don't want to be submissive.
Brothers are afraid of that "S" word. They let BW turn it into a slur.
Submissive is their kryptonite
Why do they keep asking why when they already know the answer?🤷🤦🤔
‘Cause they’re stupid. That’s the only answer that makes sense.
Couldn't be the same people who say theyre so over qualified and the men are completely outstripped by their knowing their worth and high education?
Because they're insufferablel
Absolutely, people may be starting to wake up about this, and black men know this
Although not reflected in the statistics, there is also the group of black women who marry a black man when he doesn't have much, but he has a plan. Then they turn around and divorce him because "he couldn't pay her school loans." Fast fwd 7 years, and he built a 3 mil a year business.... yes, this is my story, and she fumbled the bag...
Damn I would love to see the look on her face everytime she see you
Or I just dont trust those MFkr's. Like you did bro you dont know "when" they are going to hit you with the "im not happy" or we need to talk 💩" and youve built up your value, biz, net worth, resources etc and now she's "looking at the front door" to take your 💩 blood sweat tears, in year (pick one) finnese, manipulative, plotting, misandry to be free and give another cat your 💩. I will hard pass on that 🤡🐂💩
Sounds familiar. That sounds like a plot from the Tyler Perry movie, Acrimony.
Usually when people ask "Why-eeee...?", like women with men not marrying them or any of these common complaints, they don't seek understanding or resolution. They don't want to make things better. They're just complaining. It's literally just a watered-down tantrum, not an inquiry.
Men have stated publicly what they're doing wrong. They know. So sick of the constantly playing dumb
Attitudes, ws points, not dealing with reality is a start..her question about all men says it all
6 figures, 6ft tall, 6 pack
This shouldn't even be a question anymore. These ladies just don't care what men say, so they keep asking the question over and over.
It's like they feel as if they ask it enough we will give them a different answer
Because we all got to see how bad you Treated black man over the last five decades.
She can’t be serious
Attitude and Appearance. Period.
Better question: WHY SHOULD WE?!!!
Profound but they'll respond with....lies...as usual 🙄
So many of these women tell men over and over again that they don’t need them and then wonder why men aren’t marrying them.
Why?
Imperious attitude, lack of respect for men.. We all grew up with this attitude from BW in our own families and communities, so we look for something else.
Exactly
Is she really serious? Where do i start?😅
I know where I would start but the question is where would I finish. 😂
I believe I will never get married. I see what all of my friends are going through with their wives
Get your passport or a traditional woman who resides in the states i.e. not a western woman.
Stop the attitudes, twerking, oversexed behavior, having children before marriage, the 304 culture.
THEY SUFFER/and live most of their lives in poverty. BECAUSE MOST OF THEM REFUSE TO LISTEN TO THERE OWN MEN. and follow their lead.
But they will follow that WW in a minute and without hesitation.
Like who? As in who is a good leader to follow?
@@neoloanderson6676 Who’s a good leader?
A person is working his butt off to buy House.
A person who takes of himself mentally or physically.
A person who’s has a good diet.
A person that cares about his family.
That doesn't mean you're always right.Relationships is also about communication.
Look at their own men though. Sadly for Blk women other groups of men are not into them so they are kinda stuck and that's why many are angry.
Lets not forget about the divorce laws and how they affect men.
Much needed advice, Mrs Kendra. 🌷
Can't take criticism or take responsibility for their actions. MGTOW and Passport Bro's have changed the game.
Men are the customers . Know your customers, ladies.
Ha! They think is "Rosewood" and we's in Mas-sa store! We have other women to choose from and the world is the Men store.
Respect the customers. It's a reason why they are the worst in customer service.
This analogy 👌🏾
Too bad the SELECTION and SERVICE is always bad👈🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
75% of these women over here are DONE 👈
Keeping it 💯! Bad character is what makes em undesired 💥🧐🤡🤷🏾♂️
As a man who's been married for 27 years. Being married and being a WIFE or entirely different. Husband and wife is a duty. Once they understand that their odds might go up. Maybe. Travis Kelce black ex fumbled the bag because she didn't know how to SFTU and play the long game. Simone Biles got dogged by BW because she submits to her black husband.
Nothing to add. You said it all and very clearly.
Looking for likes instead of creating a home
It’s only 66 likes and 245 watching! Get the likes up Family!!!!
It truly blows my mind that they are oblivious to the reason’s good men don’t want them. It’s literally like a slave owner saying he can’t understand why his slaves don’t love him
As KS said, we need to own our image. Our image is so important and will open or close doors before you even approach the building.
As long as a Sexy Redd has more visibility and influence than an Alexis Isley, this will persist.
There is a building near me Getting a new roof Buy an Hispanic company And as I was watching I noticed That women on the ground Working cleaning up Talking on walkies talking Coordinating Supplies Up to the men Putting in work They're men Do some of the grimmiest low level jobs out Still respected by By their women Peep game
Every race of women but bw knows that their men are their lifeline and protection
Turning against their men is unthinkable and would be sui*idal. I've come to the conclusion that the most educated are really slow.