IS GIRL DEFINED DEVOLVING + WHAT HAS BETHANY BEAL BEEN UP TO?
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My win: I had my last cancer surgery this week and my recovery is going better than I expected! (Plus I’m cancer free!!)
I really cannot express how strong my discomfort is when I watch Glenn and Phyllis talking and Bethany is doing her best to make affirmative noises and faces. I just hate all of it. It's awful.
Seriously! Shut up Bethany haha
Yeah she looks INCREDIBLY uncomfortable. I don't know why she put up with that, let alone kept it in the course/channel.
Mmmmm. Hmmm
. Sure. Yeah. Of course yeah. Totally. Yeah. Girl . . . Your affirmations don’t add what you think they add.
I was just about to comment something similar. Those head movements, facial expressions, hums, all of that is fake. This is a learned behavior in church that is designed only to show truth and that the sanctity of the church prevails and is strong. She might´ve been uncomfortable even but she´ll go on and do it anyways. These girls and everything they promote are a disgrace.
Jesus has left the church a long time ago. It has become a manipulative cult. God save us all.
I cannot look at the guy, but at the same time I can't help it. Bethany is looking completely fake but also appropriate. I think she shows the socially appropriate face in the situation.
Honestly I would be so much more supportive about this if Bethany at any point acknowledged that she contributed to the reason that women feel ashamed of their bodies and even need courses to help them be more sensual and enjoy sex with their husbands - and acknowledge the hypocrisy of what she’s telling married women to do from what she’s told single women
Same. I just commented pretty much this 😅
@@desireemclaughlin1455 great minds!
Bethany. That poor girl is working so hard to make her life make sense.
I really think that in 2024, Bethany will start her own MLM. She's really going for that "passive income" grift.
Definitely a Christian-y Pure Romance grift coming.
I could totally see that!!
She tried to do a "course on courses" using the Kajabi (sp?) platform. All the typical MLM tactics but so far it looks like very few people signed up, thankfully. And Beal didn't continue pushing it once it became apparent that nobody was interested. So it's back to her usual cringy "seggggs" clickbait content.
@JovanDacic I have a suspicion her course was that "master resell rights" thing that's been going around MLM circles but she got greedy and DOUBLED the price. No wonder it isn't selling smh
@@AceCasinova Sounds about right. This family is chock full of people who grossly overvalue their talents and believe God guarantees them material comforts. Even the clan mother Baird does grifty stuff like the book-exchange scam, and the kids write these godawful rehashed self-help PDFs, everything from spicy biblical seggggs to godly digestive health.
Am I the only one that often feels like Bethy isn't even listening while she's nodding and saying "wow" over and over again? Everything she does feels so performative.
"Try acting out Song of Solomon," she says.
**proceeds to demonstrate an assortment of Charlie Brown cartoon dances for getting your husband in the mood** 😂
I still can't wrap my head around how Glenn did his "research" and STILL couldn't find the clit 😂😂😂 how on earth he convinces ANYONE he's a sexologist is beyond me. You'd think finding the clit would be question number one on the exam for that.
Apparently his reading resources never had diagrams
@helenr4300 maybe they were Christian resources
Her Ten “Spicy” tips are more like
Ten Flavors of Vanilla
-by Bethany Beale
for the first time since I went blind three years ago, I’m going to be returning to work.
I start in like two weeks or so and I’m over the moon.
14:06 people under purity culture will do anything but pick up a health science book omg
Win for the week: I started knitting a new project. No idea what it is yet, but it's definitely something.
That's a mood
@@nony_mation a hooded scarf
I wouldn't be shocked to hear if one of them ended up joining an MLM.
Win for the week: got a job after months of unemployment 🥳
arnet they part of one? not a trad mlm with oils or shakes but one that teaches you how to make courses or something? i feel like i remember that
@@43v3rh1d3n oh! MRR (master resell rights')?? That tracks tho. People make like $500 each course sold
Didn’t bethie start an mlm-type business???
Congratulations!!
@@user-uy1pt8rl8f thanks!! 😁😁😁
On a funnier note: my demented brain registered “where old lingerie and tear it off EACH OTHER” as …
*Bethany’s husband is wearing her lingerie, too?*
… I’ll see myself out.
Same
Rachel Oates actually bought the course and did a 3 hour deep dive critique of it. If you’re interested in what is in that course.
Interesting look at Bethany.
So, my win this week is getting through this week. For full transparency I live with depression. So getting through the work week is an accomplishment.
I deep cleaned and rearranged my terrace to that deepdive, it was amazing. It may have contributed to me now feeling positive towards having to clean my terrace regularly.
I keep going back and forth on watching that one-mainly because of the length. I normally can’t get through a vid/podcast longer than 1.5 hours, but I have enjoyed listening to Rachel in the past.
@@rivendells_shona I had it on kind of like a podcast and even then it took me a couple days.
How do you get to be a clinical sexologist and not know the anatomy of a woman!?!?
The situation is disturbing, what i think could be even more disturbing is if they made this up! I really don't believe either of them have never seen a clitoris in their entire life!!!!! Even if she doesn't have one! Also, how are they not aware the clitoris isn't the only area down there that can produce an orgasm? Also again, there are only 75 recorded cases of aphallia. There are more cases of the clitoral hood hiding the clitoris which can be corrected with surgery and there are instances where a parent or guardian have the clitoris cut off, over 80 million women worldwide suffer from this and It has been practiced in the past in the United States. Referred to as 'curing' to prevent masturbation when a child gets older, which is obviously horrible!!!! Has she never seen a gynecologist? I think they would have educated her on what was going on, instead of having someone use their child as an example! Anyway, all I'm saying is, there seems to be way more going on there and they definitely don't seem fit to be speaking about sex and the body to anyone in an educational way!
Also, let's say that it's possible that she has no clitoris... She's basically saying (the sexologist couple) that their bedroom life is so dry that she doesn't find it fun? They just "get it over with"?
As if literally THOUSANDS of foreplay methods don't exist, that don't involve touching the clitoris. Like, girl 😭the clit is NOT the only erogenous zone! Save her
I thought the same thing. Some part of the story is missing. Basic level one anatomy teaches where each part of the reproductive system is and that more than one of them can produce pleasure. Something isn't lining up here.
My win for the week: We found out our third and last baby is a girl. Also this coming week is our wedding anniversary and we plan on doing a fun family photoshoot and announce our baby. We've been putting off posting and talking about baby for a long time due to complications and previous losses so these past 24 weeks have all been feeling like wins tbh 😬
Congratulations!! Prayers/ best wishes for a healthy rest of your pregnancy and healthy baby girl!
Thank you 💖
My win for the week is that I'm finally going to an appointment at my favorite cat shelter to find a kitty for me! I'm so excited to go!❤
I GOT A KITTY AND HIS NAME IS FINN
Awwww, what a cute name!
The stuff about the couple and them saying what they showed what they did with the baby - this is what inevitably happens when you are in a culture that doesn’t understand proper boundaries. They think anything can be okay if it’s between “believers”. And then they gaslight you afterwards if you bring up any issues because you need to understand “their intentions”. 😒
My win for the week is that my mental health is tentatively improving! I'm also in the process of starting another treatment for medication-resistant depression. We just need to make sure insurance covers it.
Bethany using "spicy" so often is ruining the word for me 😭 It's so cringe in a way I can't explain
Hi B, love watching your videos.
Win for the Week: I have not been feeling overly anxious in the week before weigh in (for the army). Ever since having my daughter I have not gone down on the scale but my waist is slimming down and I’m definitely getting stronger thanks to the gym:) I have trichomania (pulling of hair and mine are my eyelashes) and I have not in about a month and usually it gets bad the week before weigh in because I stress the consequences of not meeting the army standards, but thanks to my therapist who gave me tools to not let this overcome me.. I am feeling great in my body and not anxious like overwhelming.. 🎉
I know what a huge deal it is to not succumb to your trich compulsions. I have dermatillomania, so I highly empathize. I'm so excited for you! You're doing fantastic, I'm really happy to hear your therapy tools are working🎉😊
Congratulations!
I think theres a difference between healthy open conversations about sex between women and even their husband but this seems like next level obsession. I dont want all this in my mind
I got rid of something that had been memorializing my old trauma.
My win for the week: I got back into strength training and my body is responding well! My physical therapist said I should be good after another 1-2 sessions. I've been dealing with these stupid injuries for MONTHS so I didn’t think I could get to this point. I'm so happy 🥳
Her "spicy" content is always the goofiest stuff I've ever seen
That’s what happens when you grow up in purity culture.
I think Bethany is going over board with her new stuff she’s posting online.
I’m not even a Christian and I did a double take at “Daniel and Goliath” 😂😂😂
Also I completely agree with your discomfort with Bethany’s new stuff…. Literally she has lambasted everyone else for even mentioning sex as a concept beyond her narrow view of it. To tout herself as some kind of expert is absolutely insane.
Edit: hey Bethany how are people supposed to turn themselves on before sex if masturbation and even thinking about sex is a sin???
also win for the week: my fav musician dropped a new album and I love ittttt ❤
daniel and goliath makes me think of like a david/daniel role reversal au. david kills some lions with a slingshot and daniel. just chills with goliath ig lol
@@2121bassplayerok but that’s the funniest thing I’ve ever read actually
I saw it and said “She’s marketing herself on Biblical proficiency but the average preschooler (even one’s not raised in church) would catch that error.”
It may be a genuine name-swap but how did she not catch it before publishing?
Sorry are you saying that the way you turn yourself on to have $x with your husband is by "self-pleasuring"?
my win for the week is that I quit nicotine two weeks ago! I'd been vaping for years, yet I quit cold turkey and I feel great now 😄
Omg! Congratulations 🥰 so proud of you, keep it up!! 🤭❤️
@@nadine9518 thank you 😊 still going strong! have a great day
"oh my God! You have a baby! In a bar!" 😆 iykyk
Win for the week I read 12 books this week and today is my birthday
Happy birthday! 🎉🎈🎊🥳🎂
Happy birthday! :)
@@hannah.n.m thank you
@@theshunnedBandersnatch thank you
I have mixed thoughts on Bethany.
On the one hand; her girl boss, mlm vibe, and creating a course she has so business creating leaves me... with an uncomfortable taste in my mouth.
On the other hand; if she was JUST doing the sexual/sensual discussions without selling a course, I'd be here for it. As an ex fundie I can't tell you how much i felt like i was behind mentally, emotionally, and sexually when i was figuring out who i am. I don't mind watching Bethany "over correcting" and basically word vomiting sexual topics because i did the same thing in my 20s.
She's starting to figure out who she really is but is struggling with how to still be a relevant content creator. She can get a little spicy and direct.... but only if she talks about it "in a god honoring way". She hasn't found her footing yet and it has me rooting for her and hoping she finds what she needs to experience fulfillment because i think she's starting to realize that she doesn't quite fit the mold she was raised in.
I find it extremely confusing that Bethany, the woman that openly talked about not enjoying sex with her husband, is now doing ultimate sex guides. Girl, what?
Almost as confusing as the sexologist who doesn’t know where a clitoris is?
The way I run here to watch a Girl Defined video. Well any of your videos really, but especially these!
The cynical part of me wonders if Bethany held her baby on camera to see if she could get more clicks.
💯 percent correct.
Win for the week? We got all our Halloween stuff up outside before the rains came!
Wow. So her husband is a sex therapist but didn’t know she had a clit ??? Not only that but the wife didn’t know what it was and asked her “friend” to show her on her baby ?!? What the heck is going on? Purity culture is ridiculous and this couple gives me the ick
Who the fuck goes to show on a baby instead of just pulling up an anatomy diagram on their phones. Wtf is happening in that house?! THE BABY?!?!
@@-MaryPoppins-That most likely happened long before there were smart phones so they wouldn’t have been able to look it up on a phone, but they should have had some books in the house since he’s supposedly a “professional”.
@@kristenmae6761 none of that makes any sense though. Even the strictest of religions require anatomy 🤡😂 you can’t be a urologist who’s never seen a penis. You cannot be a sex therapist who’s never had sex ☠️
@@-MaryPoppins- Yes, I agree with you. Not sure if you miss read my comment. I was only commenting on the part about looking it up on a cell phone. I wasn’t excusing what they did because it’s disgusting. Also not true that the most strict religions require anatomy because fundamentalist Christians are proof of that.
@@-MaryPoppins- yes agreed !!!
Hey B! Love your videos and your voice, it's just so soothing.
I don't know if you have noticed, but on Spotify there's been replays of old interviews for the last 2 or three weeks, it's weird
Win for the week: scheduled my (tiny, legal) wedding!
I don’t remember exactly who found it, but someone did digging and suspects Girl Defined is really their mother's idea.
And Bethany is probably feeling pretty put out about being "just" a married woman now and taking a.... bizzare path to coping. (I hope she can start deconstructing and really thinking about her relationship with Christianity like her husband has- it might help her a lot)
Bethy’s ig sounds like a never ending list of cosmopolitan magazine sex tips. I really wonder where she gets this info from…
That whole situation that happened while changing the baby is another example of how many parents believe it's ok for them to override their child's right to privacy if they think the situation warrants it. When the child is a baby, they are unable to speak up and advocate for themselves, and it's up to the parents to provide that. It's very concerning that the mother didn't realize that.
because to them, a child is just a living breathing extension of themselves that they project all of their values, beliefs and wants onto. they wouldn’t even consider it a violation i guarantee it. it’s vile.
The 5 things Bethy 'hates' about biblical womanhood are 5 things I genuinely hate about womanhood, mostly the expectation thay we have to want to be mothers, have to want to be pregnant and exist solely to be sensual to the eye of men? How are those good things? (I mean all the more power to you if you actually individually want those things, I'm all for people making the choices that make them happy)
Pretty sure that video can be turned in to CPS. As a therapist I would DEFINITELY have to call as a mandated reporter. Creeeeepy.
I agree with your takes on Bethany, it's fascinating watching her evolved over time. I hope one day she'll realize how awful the purity culture messaging she's put out has been and learns how to just be herself.
Song of Solomon: "SUSTAIN ME WITH RAISIN CAKES!"
💀💀💀
My win this week: my migraine finally stopped? It would SEEM to have ended only to just rebound within the hour. But finally, yesterday, it broke (after 4 days) so I'll take that!
Basically, what the whole "Catholic Girl" concept (which basically had started with less errrr "corn-y/corn-style", though, was (due to the amount of well, whatever it was called in the Church (I don't even know, we were never taught a name and while I knew of purity culture growing up it wasn't among fellow Catholics and not taught to us by Catechism teachers, not at Mass etc
Lots of repressed things and the BAM! SE X UAL AWAKENING!(More like supernova o.o)
It's a whole new world, Bethany. I know.,,a dazzling place...I'll shut up or I'll type out the whole song.
I get migraines like that too and it’s the worst. I hope you’re feeling better 🙂
@@desireemclaughlin1455
So sorry to hear ;_; it truly sucks, doesn’t it?? We can only keep moving forward one foot after the other and Keep some positivity.
WFTW: My wife and I got our new vehicle this weekend.
Why does Bethy insist on keeping that cringy interview in her course? I saw Rachel Oates’ review of Bethy’s $169.00 seminar, and I was shocked at the lack of any information presented. Bethy was essentially clueless, reacting mostly the same way she was with those “experts”.
Sorry, but Bethy’s idea of “spicy” is like shaking too much pepper on your food. I would be taking cover instead of being aroused by those dance moves.
Yayyyy love ur videos!
Speaking about tomato toast, I have an amazing recipe!! Instead of just mayo, add shredded sharp white cheddar to your mayo! It gets melty on the toast and adds a nice lil punch. ❤ its about equal parts cheese and mayo. The mayo keeps covered in the fridge for about 5 days. I had a tomato toast OBBESSION earlier this summer when we had a ton of tomatoes.
Having the baby in some of these videos leaves a bad taste in my mouth! But it depends on the topic. One of the worst ones I’ve seen is when she had her baby in her sex course (I believe she may have been breastfeeding) while interviewing a woman with fertility issues.
My win is i got a job! Its even in my feild and pays well
“Why can’t women be the ones who sacrifice their lives for their families?” Millions of women who have died in childbirth would like a word.
Win for the week: I was able to get past a writing slump and figured out a story element that had me stumped for a while ❤❤❤
Thank you for your videos! I really enjoy listening to your thoughts on these topics!
Tomato toast is so good. I’ve always disliked Mayo & use cottage cheese or fresh mozzarella instead.
How can think think what the friend did to the baby is OK? They don't know wha they did was wrong! Yeesh.
The presence of babies, whipped cream AND chocolate chips is scary! Bethany will make a great little old lady. Bethany keeps sending Dav back for more conversion therapy.
I think they're going to change girl defined to fit an older demographic. They're both getting to old to be "cool" and "relatable" to young single christian women (their primary audience). I think in the next few years you're going to see them start focusing more on mom life and topics middle aged women struggle with since they're both approaching 40. Idk how old exactly they are but my guess is mid to late 30s.
I won’t be surprised if Bethany starts swinging and starts teaching “ the Bible never said you couldn’t add a 3rd into your bedroom “ lmao
my win for the week was starting therapy!
She thought she didn't have a clitoris... Why didn't she talk to her ob-gyn about it? Especially if she had a baby then we know she had a doctor she could talk to about it.
He may have been a boy dr and that would have been inaccurate to her
re: Daniel and Goliath
I think some content creators will purposely leave in mistakes to drive up their engagement. I'm not saying that's what happened here, but it's a possibility.
Hey b did you see cruel world happy mind video ab girl defined? I’m Interested in your thoughts also thanks for another great video, I love your perspective and how you deliver your message !!!
Enjoying your videos so far but if I may say I'd appreciate a darker background because the videos are so bright to watch in low light. 🖤
Game changer for a tomato sandwich, do everything you said, but rub garlic on the toast. you can also smash a bit of the tomato into the bread as well. Love using heirloom tomatoes, and putting a bit of purple onion wont hurt either if you want😉
Tomato toast ...you mean bruschetta? 😂
I definitely feel uncomfortable when people talk about sexual topics with young children present 😬 Idk if you saw Rachel Oates’ video going over Girl Defined’s “sex” course, but there’s a point where Bethany is (I believe?) breastfeeding her infant while they discus infertility? I’m sure it’s second nature to have their kids around, but, even if I was a fan of theirs, there are just times/topics where I’d rather not have children present 😬
2:37 I have only just started watching and OMG it is so cringe (then just, nope! No!) already.
3:36 I think it potentially COULD normalise talking about almost anything (likely JUST EVERYTHING) in front of their kids. And at some point, that child WILL be old enough to catch on to what the parent(s) is/are saying around them. Children pick up much more than adults realise (often, because especial during that whole critical period of development synapses are just in an exponential growth phase.) Though I could be very wrong (I'm not a mum).
At some point she was discussing masturbation with her 3 or 4 year old son around. I don't remember what it was on, they were in her car and it was in a shorter format. Even if you think your kid won't understand, the kid can still repeat stuff, jeez.
I feel like just how some similar minds dissected the Barbie movie, they would similarly dissect tearing or cutting off lingerie as a dangerous act of violence towards women. You tell me.
YES tomato sandwiches! I didn't realize this was a sourhern thing though. I grew up eating them all summer in Michigan.
Win for the week: I found my "MIA, presumed deceased" Red Sox hat. I love that hat so I was really happy I found it and I hadn't lost it forever. (Unlike my vape, which has vanished somehow. I believe it's floating in some kind of lost objects limbo somewhere, the same place all the missing dryer socks go.)
my win for the week is discovering probiotic soda! it’s really helping my stomach ❤
'Green Seggs and Ham' by Bethany Beal 🤭
I loooove tomato sandwiches! Lol
You’re taking a much more compassionate approach to Bethy than most including me. She’s just been digging in on so many bad takes that it’s hard for me to feel for her, though I fully see where you’re coming from in feeling unfulfilled in her fundie wife lifestyle because she can pretend as much as she wants to have chosen it but I think you’re right and she would’ve benefited from higher education and some time in the outside world.
Did you do tomato and toast alone or add mayo? I love a toasted tomato sandwich!!!!!!!!!!!!
That story about anatomy still makes me wonder, how that medical field friend haven't had a single book at home to show them.
Well Beth I was influenced by both my parents it was always shared in our house
You should collab with Josh from Dad Challenge Podcast, you two are my current favorite RUclipsrs, his platform is primarily shining a light on the exploitation of children on YT/social media, but he’s a former pastor/ worship leader (he went to Bible college) who also has developed some very strong views on organized religion, purity culture, and the damage to LGBTQ communities. He still considers himself a Christian but has a very unique perspective. Some of your material overlaps, I’d love to see you two collab on some topics you both cover!!!
Win for the week: got notification that I’ll be getting a 5% raise!
I don’t think you’re over thinking about not having the kids present for the filming. Even if they aren’t old enough to understand now, they will be able to watch those videos later on and see themselves as babies around these conversations that were then made public. Maybe the kids won’t mind, but you cannot predict how they will feel when they get older, so parents need to protect their kids.
Tomato sandwiches are so good! I suggest adding a few leaves of basil *chefs kiss*
My win for the week - I wish I could think of something today. It's been a rough day. But I guess I did shower, got dressed, and put some make up on. I guess that is a little win.
I'm sorry but that's so weird and awkward and I don't even have words for bringing biblical "dance" moves into the bedroom for your husband and I am christian
Jo custom cosmetics...do you think they have any shades for darker skin tones? Absolutely not. I checked...just out of curiosity. Lol ALSO, I can not imagine how mortified and exhausted Dav must be on a regular basis. Omg. 👀
In the early days, Girl Defined was all about how to stay sexually pure, and modest dressing hacks, and how not to have crushes on boys, but now they're both married, it's about Bethany's sex course and spicing things up in the bedroom, and I feel like that is confusing to the fanbase that has been following her/GD's content for years. I mean, GD were the biggest subscribers of purity culture, and they were very unapologetic in their endorsement. It seems like Bethany is trying to run a business and make money off the complete opposite of what the GD 'brand' was originally based on.
WTH? What is wrong with getting a book or discussing with your physician? He is what type of doctor?. Two twisted people. Oh a psychologist
My win: I'm on vacation!!
Enjoy your vacay! 🎉
If she had spent half as much time & effort working on her course as she has spent creating posts to advertise it maybe it would be a product worth selling - at least to her own audience/people who are aligned with her values.
OMG Bethany! WTH!
It almost sounds like Bethany is deconstructing.... But that interview was so uncomfortable.
I know Bethany has spread some harmful stuff, but I hope that she finally gets to do what she really wants someday. I'll pray for her.
Win for the week! I started school again! Small start to hopeful big career change! :)
My win for the week was being at the game watching my Niners beat the Cardinals (sorry)
Uhhh no one thought to just look at a video to find what and where that is rather than using your poor daughter 🤦🏻♀️
I can't even post on the girl defined instagram and I have no idea what I wrote to make them make it so I can't comment.
Oh no 😳
They give me a bit of ruby franke's vibes
B, babies don’t know what OnlyFans is😂
I know!! But it still feels weird to me to make a video talking about SW while holding your kid and then posting it on the internet 😬 lol
Yeah it’s not bc your baby will comprehend the content. It’s because the baby just being there for people to see while listening to that content…is just off.
Get a medical book, Phyllis …
20:14 women continue the world? Hmm not without male contributions
Agree the Biblical womanhood one is a bite back against people like Sheila Gregoire at Bare Marriage who are challenging BW (and other books) from inside the camp.
23:21 the song of songs woman isn't defined as a bride AFAIK. But then with Daniel and Goliath Biblical knowledge is not her strong point.
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I don't understand her rant about women/mothers/biblical womanhood.
I feel like every time I hear about Bethany she's talking about sex, she's a freak i can tell 😂 i guess that's what years and years of making the topic taboo will do to you
With the Song of Solomon I am genuinely interested in hearing a perspective about that from someone like a sex therapist because it is a erotic poem. Same way as I love feminist takes on Eve and Lilith (Lilith is a Jewish figure not a Christian one I feel like that’s a important distinction because she is often said to be biblical)
Wait there was a video of this??? I will say when changing a baby girl and using wipes the cliterus will be exposed so a quick this is it..maybe wouldnt be such a big deal if it was private and not put or talked about on a platform....🤷♀️ I think the parts thats cringe is turning it in to something its not, abd if it were than thetes a problem.
I think the concern is that if we wouldn’t want someone doing that to us “just quick” then we shouldn’t do it to babies. Just cause they are not able to say “don’t look at my clitoris” and we tend to believe kids won’t understand or remember these things doesn’t make it healthy. Babies have not donated their bodies to science and they are full sentient humans-not anatomical models or baby dolls.