How Soon Is Too Soon to Sleep with Someone? - Dating Advice for Women
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Are you seeing someone you really like but having an internal battle of when it’s “appropriate” to have sex with them? You feel a really strong connection, but you don’t want to give it up too soon because you want him to respect you?
If there’s one thing that irks me most, it’d have to be people telling women when it’s “appropriate” for them to have sex. You know that advice that says:
+ Guys won’t respect you if you give it up right away.
+ If you’re looking for a real relationship, then play hard to get.
+ Giving it up right away shows the lack of self-respect you have for yourself
CRINGE
Can we not please?
As well intentioned this advice might be, it’s dangerous. It creates a fear-based belief that respect is dependent on someones ability to see your worth. You waiting to have sex or not has nothing to do with your self-worth. NOTHING.
You already ARE worthy of respect regardless of when you choose to get intimate with someone. With that said, there’s one variable that would make having sex with someone wrong no matter how long you wait, and that’s exactly what we discuss in today’s video.
I think people forget women are also sexual creatures and should feel empowered to make sexual decisions for themselves. Please refrain from shaming. In fact, take your shame and judgments you have of sexual women, crumple it up, and burn it because it serves no one.
The best thing for everyone is for us to actively rid ourselves of the taboos we have about sex (a taboo mostly placed on women) and retire the narrative that there should be a waiting period for having sex. [DISCLAIMER: This is advice is for consenting adults only of course]
Guess what!
If your choice is to wait to have sex. That’s amazing!
If your choice is to have sex right away. That’s amazing!
It is an empowered decision only YOU can make. NOT a choice based off what your sexual partner is going to think of you.
Your body is yours. No one else’s.
I’ve seen beautiful and sustainable relationships spark from sex on the first night, and I’ve seen beautiful couples who chose to wait.
You know why because the sustainability factor of your relationship doesn't come from when you choose to have sex. It comes from… shhhhh…. don’t tell everyone….
CHOOSING THE RIGHT PARTNER!
The right person regardless is going to respect you no matter what you choose. But here’s where the real issue is that no one shines a light on. Our ability to trust ourselves. Do you even trust yourself to make the right decision? That’s where the real conflict is.
And if you are stuck here, GURRRLLL we got you covered! It’s TLC’s mission to make women all over the world feel more empowered about who they are so they can make EMPOWERED decisions for themselves! So you are in the right place!
Let me know what you think of today’s video by COMMENTING your “ah-has” below! We love hearing from you! 
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You give such great advice. I feel like you get down to the truth of it
Thank you so much!
I slept with my boyfriend on the very first date because we felt like it! Great decision, we had a great night. And we've been in a relationship for 2 and a half years now!
still going out?
Ba bablacksheep Lol
Ba bablacksheep jealous incel spotted
and hes cheating
Mark Jackson incel
If a guy don’t respect you afterwards that means he never respected you in the first place 👏🏾
C00L Kidd Right💯
Samantha Scott yeah cause I knew some people that slept with each other on the first date and they’re together
Yes. A mature guy - i.e. a guy that doesn't have double-standards - would not detrimentally change his opinion of you after sex.
And it means that he doesn't respect himself because he slept with you fast just like you slept with him fast. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
@@AmaLoveGoddessTV I agree he has no self respect for himself and just sleeps with any girl that shows him attention
I think it's best to first get to know the person before sleeping with them.
Cheers for this, I've been looking for "dating tips for women by men" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - HootDating.xyz ? Ive heard some incredible things about it and my neighbour got great results with it.
Amanda Akishule yes this is not good advice
@@prettynatural1973 men don't respect what stye don't earn. learn form elders true wisdom not this new age advice this advice will et many women hurt
You don’t really know someone until you live with them and only then you will see what kind of person they are !
Men don’t know if they’re going to be compatible with a woman until after they’ve slept with her. So women holding off thinking their being valued when in actuality the man won’t know whether there will be a connection until sex happens. If the connection isn’t there that’s the only reason it won’t work.
The most empowering sexual decision I made was not sleeping with a dude I really fancied because I knew deep down he just wanted the worst for me.
The worst for you? Your not that important
You're smart. He doesn't deserve you.
@@caucasianafrican1435 simp alert. She's not gonna fuck you bro. It's 3 years later
This is 100% true any real man out there can spot a women who loves herself and is confident and theres nothing ugly about making love. ❤️
Leann2.0 there’s nothing ugly about making love. For me, the issue is whether you know if the person loves you. As in friendship, what I’ve learned over the course of my life is that, even when people call one a other friends, both may have 2 different definitions of friendship. The same goes with love. If it doesn’t matter to either party, great. But, if one person feels that sex is the beginning of a new relationship and it never occurred to their partner, is often why people jump in bed and wake up wondering what they were thinking.
You don't get to decide what a real man is.
The answer to these questions is strongly dependent on how sexually attracted you are to the other person. No matter what anyone says: Looks matter a lot!
jakc3d really can you please explain that clearly for me so I can understand what you're saying
The friend that make a long lasting relationship duh
you are the best i' ve ever heard so far, thank you so much..love and light. .you got yourself a new subscriber.
I found your opinions to be much more enlightening than other (male) influencers on RUclips. You focused on self-choice and personal gratification - opposed to either justifying or debunking stereotypes. I agree with everything you said!
This comment means so much, thank you for watching and sharing! XO
Wow! I didn’t expect this answer! Thank you very much!
I personally want to wait till marriage to have sex, because I want it to remain special my whole life. I don't want sex to become something ordinary just to do, but something that will connect souls even deeper in their already existing love on a more intimate level lifelong. I'm currently dating an absolutely wonderful person, whom I feel incredibly free around, since he doesn't pressure me in any way and also wants to take things very slowly. It's absolutely beautiful how our bond slowly grows stronger and deeper, even when we just spend time with each other and have really wholesome conversations, inspiring each other truly.
It's not a bad decision... Just make sure you're with a straight guy and that he's waiting too. Other than that, all good.
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i can tell you for a fact that he will thank you it means so much
I definitely wouldn’t wait until marriage, as sexual compatibility isn’t the most important aspect…it’s still important to explore before committing to that person for life and helps your emotional connection grow.
The first time ever is never a special time. It’s uncomfortable and it kind of hurts.
My most empowered sexual decision was to leave my first ex boyfriend. We hadn’t chemistry, at all. Whenever we had sex, I got bored. I’m glad I made that decision!
by far i swear to god lol you have given me the best advice.i like it that you always come from a place of freedom openness and at the same time awareness.i love it that you never tell anybody what to say or do which is the worst way of doing it.you always go for the root of the problem or thinking.and youre so prettttyyy love u :))
You are completely right! Those three questions are the most important thing to think about when you are trying to decide. Great advice! Thanks :)
Thank you for watching Jenn! XX
The best Advise I heard so far on all dating gurus here on RUclips🙂♥️
Thank you for this advice 😘
I needed that 🤗
Thank you, I've been searching for this video for hours.
I got married and was married for 9 years after having sex on the first night probably the best relationship I ever had
Love this, I agree 💯 you’re so wise to this stuff. I’m just gonna keep following you and only hope I get half as much knowledge! 🙌🏼 thanks for sharing 💖
Thank you for watching Ashy!! XOXO
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i lost my virginity to a boy on the second date. we didn't know each other much. and it was the best decision of my life. no regrets at all. :)
I am an older woman so, obviously, I find it kind of surprising that people would have sex on the first date.
In an age where we’re supposedly aware of STDs, with some of them being deadly, I’ve got to wonder how someone decides, “Hey, I don’t know you but, you’re worth it.” They haven’t even taken the opportunity to get tested for HIV. Do they just not discuss it or is it something where someone thinks, “Well, you look healthy to me!”
People aren’t even that comfortable in the first day of work. So, how do they feel that comfortable sleeping with someone on the first date?
I’m not judging as, everyone’s life is their own. I am just curious about the comfort level when you don’t even know the person.
Private Private LOL your comment is full of irony. I might be way younger than you but even I’m aware that since you’re an “older woman” (I’m gonna assume boomer? Or at least gen X) it means during YOUR time, young people were having MUCH more promiscuous sex, much more often and with more partners (statistics! Look it up!). You literally lived through the sexual revolution!! 🤦♀️ Millennials and gen Z are actually having much less sex with less partners and are more responsible about it!! ALSO, as for the STI’s have you ever heard of protection (condoms) and birth control?? Yeah those exist, lady! And they WORK!! So your entire comment is ignorant and comical 🤡
Olive Branch not really. But you are obviously one of those online buffoons who wouldn’t speak to someone in person that way so, I’ll consider the source...
What I’m speaking of is in terms of protecting one’s very life. If yours isn’t important to you, well, I’d understand.
I’m not speaking of the frequency of sex. I’m speaking of the video’s topic as to how long you should wait before deciding to sleep with someone. There’s a difference. While I am Gen X, I’m disinterested in which generation is having more sex although, for you, it sounds like it’s on topic. And trust, I’ve known about protection since before your parents should’ve used it.
But, I do realize that, for some, no matter what generation they hail from, sex is the same as ordering a burger at a drive thru. Hey, good for them. Perhaps, life is free-wheeling and they’re not actually bright enough to associate sex with more than just a hop in bed, unless they embrace it as sport. What I do agree with in the video these comments are actually for, is that it is up to each individual and whatever they’re comfortable with, including whether they form a relationship with their partner or never meet again.
@@privateprivate8366 I've known about protection since before your parents should have used it.👍👍😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Olive Branch condoms don’t protect 100 percent against herpes so you’re the fool here
Condoms exist
Thank you for the advice. I was confused and did not know what to do. The question is always in my head. When is the best time?
Great advice
Thank you so much saying this
If you're afraid of sleeping with someone because he may disrespect you for it or is a jerk about it afterwards, then maybe you should ask yourself if this is the kind of guy you want to be with in the first place.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you should sleep with him on the first date. I just questioning this kind of thought process some women have and what it tells about their dating preferences.
its their natural burning desire
Men care about the body count. You are wrong here.
Great great suggestion. I have a men's lifestyle channel and as a single male myself, that's exactly what I say. Personally, I think it shows confidence and control. I saw a statistic and it appears to be true from nonscientific polls I've done. According to elicit encounters, 50% of people have sex on the first date. This does not mean it's a hookup because today, 1/3 of serious relationships started with sex on the first date.
I always choose to wait . I’m comfortable like that.
Thank you! 😇
1) One of the many ideas on how to have a lasting relationship. No:1 Patience, No:2 common long term goals No:3 Faith and fear in something greater than you both. No:4 Be unique. No:5 understand that men want sex. And if we get it too easy we dont value the hold much. Much much more. based on my travel experiences east and west and studying cultures and religions and lifestyles that have lasted 1000s of years
You do realize that women also want sex?
Does petting counts as sex or is just a foreplay? How far is ok to go before the relationship?
"Fear"? Why would I want to spend time with someone who lives in fear? I don't have that mindset, why should she?
Every Man and woman should watch this!! LOVE it!!
Hy
@@kaminvestmentcapital8235 she not gone let you hit bro. This video is wrong also, women should preserve their body for the right man. Studies show that once women have more than 3 bodies more more likely to cheat or walk out in a relationship🤷🏾♂️ however it’s not the same for men. We can have 3 billion bodies and still love a girl the same way but they can’t do that.
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You are a beautiful and insightful woman. Wish there were more like you.
Thank you
Exactly! I agree with everything you said 💕
Can you make a video about long distance relationship.
In my experience sleeping with someone right away sets a very casual tone :/ dunno why
It was yes for the first two questions ugh. Love this video tho
How do you tell a guy exactly not to expect sex too soon until ur ready in a good way?
Woooow, i like you, such a beautiful advice
Thank you!! :)
Watching this because I'm trying to figure out if I should make her wait or not. 🤔
😂 what did you end up doing?
Make her beg for it 😉
Never on the first date get to know each other more what if you get prego then hates the kid I've been raised differently
I don’t have sex on the first night but condoms & birth control do exist, js.
This guy took me on a date, things went far, I wanted to do it, everyone was like he is super nice, but then he disrepected me right after, I mean like right after, he said it would be best to just be friends, and then asked me if I had any STDs, cut him real quick he's my coworker, but damn, I've never been disrepected like that before, it really shook my confidence, if anyone can relate please share with me, because I'm real taken aback by it all, and honestly a little hurt
I have seen this happen on numerous occasions with people i know. Tbh some (lets be honest) most guys are very lustfull and they might say alot of perceived nice things (that are actually just bs or not the full truth) to get a girl to have sex. I think figuring out who somebody is and what they really really want is key before choosing to have sex if you want more then just that. 🤷🏽♂️
Wow I can relate. Went to Vegas with a coworker who chased me for a year. We had a very special and romantic weekend and I thought we were developing something beautiful😍... long story short two weeks later he was on to the next less attractive girl at the work place. Left my ego bruise and I was confused. Lost all motivation to work out and gained at least 15lbs... it was a hard couple months watching them flirt. But today I’m over them, trying to get my discipline back and my body right again 😩
I'm guessing you did it without a condom and that made him think u always do that W everyone on the first date which is understandably gross to some people
Here is the harsh reality:Each time you sleep with a man your value diminishes in the eyes of other men(thats actually biological).So when a man dates a modern woman he pretty much instanly knows her body count is well into double or sometimes triple digits....so he ll NEVER have the respect he would if you were a virgin were married to him and had his kids.....as men say nowadays..you are not his..its just his turn....so since feminism destroyed your value and made u just a number to us...the only thing you can give him is sex....and then move to the next number.....thx feminism.
Dreamdancer11 Dreamdancer11 that’s funny you say that, because out of all the men I’ve slept with he was the ugliest, with the smallest dick, the fattest, so I’m sure he was reflecting his insecurities on me, not long after he apologized, and asked me on another dated, it’s not biologically proven people can tell your body count so idk where you got that from, plus it shouldn’t matter the body count, I always practice safe sex, I even have a really great bf now who doesn’t care about my body count, he actually waited to have sex. Some men are just gross and think that a body count matters, whether your a virgin or not no one can really tell the difference, but I assume you probably have been with sleazy women, which makes you think that of women, I hope you get help, and realize how flawed your comment was
You’re a goddess. thank you for the amazing advice.
Take a shot everytime she says "empowered"
Bad advise. You should make sure the guy respects you first if you want anything meaningful unless you just want a ONS and to be tossed aside later
Wow, with all due respect, "self awareness" is exactly NOT the deciding factor on when you should sleep with you man.
To make it short, you can sleep with your man when he "falls in love" with you.
When does he fall in love with you? When his body go through a biological change to a new state (this is another topic) where those love hormones are adjusted to a new level/ratio. And at this new ratio, sex is perceived differently and will encourage (the man) to do actions that build relationship stronger and protect/provide his woman.
There are more to say about this, but I think this is enough for a comment.
That's when sex makes the relationship strong, otherwise it will make your man start losing his "love" feelings for you and even he still doesn't know why until one day he will leave thinking "this woman is not for me"!
Is this assuming that you're already in love with the man?
@@wezichirwa5398 he never said that. He said it’s better if the man is in love with you than just sleeping with anyone,
Personally, when I have sex on the first date/meet up I don’t know why but I don’t feel like pursuing that person anymore. 9/10 the girl tries to get me to stay by texting me all day or asking me to come over
On the other hand I’ve never had sex with the people I was in love with so I wouldn’t know but even touching or being around that person felt better than sex (so I could only imagine how good the sex would be). Maybe I’m different but that’s my experience..
Spot on
Do I want to do this? This is my problem. I always take their lead by what they want like what I want isn't a thing to ask myself. Very sad
depends on the couple
hey!! can you make a video on how to be more aware when talking to people in group/ how to interact with people without really putting yourself down/ what do do when you have verbally abusive mother..
If you are beautiful, you dont need to be attract people. You could stupid or desperate. It doesnt matter for mans. The true nature of us is this. Then tell me your true nature!
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According to her, self-awareness means not thinking about how other people perceive you…
Last three GF. One made me wait three dates. Lasted three years. The second made me wait two dates and lasted two years. Current GF made me wait 10 days. Hope the trend continues. She’s the best. Haha
I am 2 months in a relatieonship. I really love and trust him he asked me if I want sex but I don’t know isn’t too fast? Can someone tell me some advices (I am 16 and he is 18 this will be the first experieins of us both)
I did it on the second date :( honestly I wasn't ready 🤧 i felt used...
I've been with my boyfriend for a month now and I slept with him thrice, but we don't do sex yet.
I love that 😊
If you believe it’s okay to have sex while dating ! Then why dose god say it’s a sin to have sex out of wed lock ? It’s in the Bible, just because everyone does it ! It doesn’t make it right !
Thank you for your advice!!! I keep reading articles that seem to make me feel guilty for choosing to sleep with a guy on a first date. This video makes me feel more confident as a woman and encourages me to take control of my sexual life without feeling shamed.
no one should sleep with a man quickly respect yourself come on don't listen to this. have some self control
Stop sleeping with men on the first date. Nothing good comes out of it.
I ain't giving it up until after marriage.
Im aan and im nervous about having sex. It's kind of sexist to assume that only women need this advice
Do I want too do it, do it with that person and will I feel better about myself afterwards, no matter what..... -Got it.
I had sex with a girl on the first date… Not sure how i feel as a guy with respect for women. We had a deep connection prior to the date and felt an instant connection both chemistry and attraction. I just hope that im not the only guy this has happened with and how often and also making sure it doesn’t ruin anything going forward
how did you have deep connection prior? were you friends or colleagues before?
What about men????
Whenever the woman is ready, she's the chooser, she's the captain of the ship, the man is the hull of this ship, any form of relationship progression should always be started by the woman, (first time sex, official relationships, engagements, marriages) that's all the woman's duties 1st! But the man should always do the pursuing only in the beginning, then the woman chases, if she wants him. Most likely if he's attracted to her he'll always go for it. Unless he's gay 😂😂
Bboy. Tony great advice
This the one
If a woman makes me wait longer than she does for that super hot guy she hooked up with on vacation then I know it's not going to work out. If she's making me wait when other men get one of the best things she can give then I feel second rate or else I know she's playing games just to give the illusion of value. Well, I place the higher value on a woman that knows herself and her needs and doesn't play games like that. My best LT relationships were with women who wanted to have sex a few hours into our date. The worst relationships were the ones with women who 'wanted to get to know me' and later found out they were the type to have sex with other dates first night. I'm as good as any other man out there and I'll be damned if I'm going to be with a woman that doesn't feel that.
I slept with a woman too quick, it can happen to men too. Her words “it should always be like this” are carved inside of me. We had a LDR and it’s honest to say I put 80% of the effort and she 20.
She broke up 4 months ago
I never saw it coming
It hurts too fucking bad when you are a true believer
Okay first of all nobody has to agree with me on this however but where I come from dating used to mean dating anyways the whole world is going backwards seems like what dating is it just means to have a commitment and also getting to know each other. Otherwise it means companion without sex being involved. However most people choose to do that and it messes a lot of people up seems because of the lust of the flesh what I'm trying to say is sex should never come before marriage that's where I come from. But however I cannot speak for anybody else. Everyone has there choice to make in their lives. But anyways that is what dating means not about based on sex. But like I said you don't have to agree with this but it is the truth that is just my opinion.
LOL....why in the world would men want to marry women these days? Absolutely ZERO upside for a man...period
I would believe this but we are apart of nature. Religion is made up. We are the only lifeforms on earth that says sex should be before marriage (nothing more than a contract agreement involving the govt)
it's more that your body may say yes but your brain says no...
I don’t think waiting is mandatory for a woman, but I’d advise not sleeping with someone for the first time when you’re drunk as a rule.
You are wonderful 💜😇🌺🤗🌞💎🌐
When I was younger in my 20s I'd say 3rd date rule now in my 40s I don't play stupid games we all know why we're here sex on the first date is more then common it's pretty much the norm...... The illusion is gone when you're older
thats gross you don't even now where they have been
Female Opinion: Do you find that from your experience you normally can’t contain your feelings and get too emotionally attached after having sex? I’m gonna speak on my experience, but I really enjoy and love sex, I like having sex with whoever I want too when I feel like it and I don’t really derive emotional attachment/love from sex, whereas women get very emotionally attached after having it. Anyways I’m genuinely asking because I really enjoy getting laid, but the problem I have is women get all bent out of shape if I don’t want to be in a relationship with them and that hurts me. I’m not trying to be a scumbag and hurt anybody, but I’m not trying to be celibate either. I’d like to know the female psyche in regards to how you view sex? .
When u first meet women let them know u are looking for hookups...that way u will find the women looking for the same thing as u & there will be no hurt feelings. ... this works best on dating sites where u can list what ur looking for in ur bio honestly
I asked a guy that I really liked not to touch/kiss me ever again when he tried on our 2nd date. We built a relationship on friendship...spent a LOT of time with each other, only cuddling up on the couch to watch movies every night. After a year I told him he could kiss me. 😂 I felt so much love and trust for him and I knew him so well. After several more years together he asked me to marry him. We had a baby. I still LOVE him and I am certain he still loves me even though we broke up. (He has substance abuse problems😢). But our friendship is pretty rock solid and I think that is great because we have a kid together. When you sleep with someone before you love and trust each other...imagine having a baby together. I know about birth control. .but to me if you aren't cool with having a baby together, may be you should reconsider sex. I also know I'm VERY old fashioned. I'm not religious, but I really believe in this. I'm even an atheist ! 😂 Oh...and also, this woman is speaking the truth! I think being self aware is so important. I'm a very sensitive soul so for me to sleep with someone, I get VERY attached. So it has to be the real deal. A REAL strong connection = good sex to me.
Well honestly that's your fault for making him wait a whole year to kids you smh. All your fault
I like to wait because I don’t like the hit and quit it bs.
you can do what ever you want ladies but dont lie about your past to the next man!
You give great advice, but after listening for around 3/4 i almost fell asleep...
Haha
If a woman sleeps with me on a first date, and I call her the next day… congrats! She got the job! 😝🤷♂️
To sleep with a guy the first night I met him even though we had been chatting for awhile but it was the best sex ever and we are still talking
There are no rules ....women make men wait and still get left, you idiots better go out and enjoy life .......just protect yourself
A guy I’ve only saw twice was trying to get me to put out and he was rationalizing that we have such a great connection and that he isn’t going anywhere. I say in order to have sex with me I need you to get an std test and I actually want to eventually be exclusive. He said ok to the std test but come to find out he’s talking to another chick because I asked him if he was interested of anyone else. These guys say anything
Let me share with you the words of Paul
It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable
1 Thessalonians 4:3-4
Everyone should feel comfortable with their partner before sex. But let’s be honest this video is directed towards the female audience, the true desire and needs of males are to have sex and be connected that way. That’s what we truly crave so don’t be surprised if he ends up leaving. Either or be happy and comfortable with your decisions
Live is short. Hunch on the first date.
Sounds like mental gymnastics to justify promiscuity, people are allowed to judge you by your actions and have an opinion, you'd respect others and yourself more if you learn to accept that.
The most empowering sexual decision I made was leaving a man that felt I am only good for nasty dirty sex. I realise now that Im good at making them feel good but Im apparently not good enough to treat well. I need therapy.
They need therapy !
Wise crackers!
How dare they.
Well said coming from a man. :-)
Thank you!
Ive slept with a lot of women, all have given up the poon on thefirst date, as bad as that is, what I find surprisingly shocking, is how many dont even ask for or offer protected s3x 😬😵
I think this is bad advice coming from a woman. You might as well be okay with a one night stand. 🤷🏻♀️. Sex feels good but it shouldn’t be determined by an expectation of a relationship afterwards. I think what makes it annoying is people think you holding off on a guy but really what happens your not ready sexually.... When you want to be promiscuous be honest but keeping someone around is a choice.... if it works cool but sex is like tasting different flavors of ice cream.... it’s just lust in my opinion 🤷🏻♀️
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I am a man watching this. 1. Men do see girls who give it up too easy as lacking self respect, so don't believe this woman on it. 2. Men are concerned about pair bonding as of late because the more sexual partners a woman has, the harder it is to pair bond and have a partner who doesn't just leave.
P.s. I love the womansplaining of what guys think lmfao
You usually give good advice for not only women but men could learn something here too but in this situation to a certain extent I have to disagree,
Thank you for watching though! We appreciate you.
Wayne Hodges WRONG
I do see in my friends that if a woman sleeps with them really fast they lose interest..
she is giving bad advice this is not truth. a man needs to earn a woman sex this is nonsense
It is always about women controlling sex. No videos about Men controlling what women want.
if you search 'how long to wait' into youtube search bar a third of the results that come up are about when to text girls back. so from the men's perspective of how to have control in relationships
Thnx coach you are looking hot 😎
I lost my virginity to a girl older than me when her live in boyfriend was in the hospital. She took advantage of me because she hadn't had sex in a month.
Press F to pay respect.
You are giving truly bad advice to women that trust you. So many of you so called " Ladies Coach's"
think you know what men think when you do not. You are potentially ruining lives, but your ego has the better of you.
fully agreed, when they get older and a potential partner hears how many men theyve slept with and how easily (first date ect) they will be disgusted and instantly lose respect for them. the funny thing is when they get to their 30s or 40s, they will likely make those guys actually wait for sex that they gave to men within a few dates in their 20s. paying more for a woman with no youth. if im interested in a woman and hear a high body count, shes automatically goes into seeing her just for fun category
@@TheScubaSteveO hello..I know this is from a year ago but do you feel the same about males? I see a lot of men be mad at a girl for not giving it up but when she does she’s too “easy” why do some of y’all have sex with so many women then? If sex is for love wouldn’t you only want sex with the person you’re thinking about marrying rather than a random girl you don’t care about? Men having high body counts aren’t attractive either.. i don’t know why people think that 😂😂😂😂
The most empowering is to never ever ever have it. Ever. Even if you are the last one on this planet. Or god himself from the cloud commands you to do it. No. Donkey is better than you as a friend.
Of you are not beautiful curves in yout face then you have no luck in life. Sorry girls this is the real. You dont need to talk too much about it.
I'd rather wait. To me, giving it up too soon seems a little too desperate. IMO!
Why are all of these ladies watching videos posted by dating coaches? If they are happy with a vibrator just go and buy one. If some unsuspecting male should come along and show you some attention tell him to go and watch as many Video's about the subject "MGTOW" as possible. That should change and improve his entire life and he will most likely thank you for the valuable information!
how long would you make a man wait?
Nesha Britwood any “man” that goes along with your “make him wait” and “play hard to get” and “make him work for it” is a desperate beta male with no other options. A pick-me male 😂 so THAT is the type of male you’re gonna end up with 😂🤣
I don't see a ring on this woman's finger. If she can't lock down a husband don't take dating advice from this "empowered woman"
Marriage is not a factor of how much love you show someone. It's only used to show other people how much you love each other, (and taxes) it's a fictional human norm that has only the amount of meaning you attribute to it
This completely ignores a critical aspect of it all. That is how people will perceive you. If any woman wants to hope around with sex partners willy nilly, it’s always been their prerogative. That said, men will look at them as easy and less desirable to marry. This is known by every person who has viewed or commented on this video. It’s like having a new car vs a used car. Used is nice, but everyone deep down wants a new one if they can get it. The used car typically comes with baggage, busted parts, and all sorts of unforeseen issues that a new car doesn’t. Women who sleep around are no different.
I WOULD NEVER TAKE A WOMAN SERIOUSLY IF I HIT IT TOO FAST . HER BODY COUNT IS OFF THE PAGE AND WHO WANTS TO RUN INTO ANOTHER OLD FRIEND TIME AND TIME AGAIN 🤷🏿♂️
Why do men ask women for sex if y’all won’t respect her answer? If she says no she’s playing to hard to get but if she wants what you want she’s a hoe? “If I hit it too fast” Stop asking women for sex then 😂😂