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"There's actual men that will just love you." That hit me right in the feels. ❤
I love bindi’s facials when cam drops a good line lolllll.
SAME! 😂❤
@@jannadee77 😂 same here
Yes! She’s like “preach it!”
Bars lol
@@megank3358 that kills me too. 😂❤️
So true! Internet christians are so different from real life christians, that's why it's so great to find a channel like this.
I know what you mean…eventhough it ain’t logic 🤣 i wish average christians would be willing to hold each other accountable this way too and know the Lord that deep.
“And you have a baby in the car” was so powerful for me! Cam and Bindi definitely dropped gems in this series!
If you marry a non-believer, it will be chaos, confusion, lies, and complete dysfunction all of the time. There will be no principality to set the record straight, or to even walk a straight line within a peaceful journey. You will be stressed out and extremely unhappy. Why because devils are miserable and misery loves company. Don’t do it… 😢
I am divorced and this is soo wonderful to listen to. It’s healing my wounds. Tears are running my for joy to watch this couple and see that marriage can work and it fills me with hope that I even will be able to enjoy a Christian marriage in the future
Bit isn't re-marriage considered an adultery if your first spouse is still alive?
It's called adultery
@@nikokapanen82 There are biblical reasons for a marriage to end. Yeshua spoke of the reasons. Please look them up before speaking into someone else's situation that you know absolutely nothing about.
@@by-the-Lord There are biblical reasons for a marriage to end. Yeshua spoke of the reasons. Please look them up before speaking into someone else's situation that you know absolutely nothing about.
I am so encouraged from finding this channel at the time I did.
Married 14.5 years. I was saved 13 years into my marriage. Praying daily for my husband's salvation
I'd take advice if you have any. The last thing I want to do is become the kind of person that turned me off of religion. I haven't claimed to be Christian yet, but I definitely have accepted Jesus and have been regularly attending a church that might be a fit. It's only been months. I didn't expect this. Before this me and my husband were on a similar page.. a general liberal agnostic page. He has great innate morality, his mom USED to be Christian, took the kids to church she taught Subday school etc and nobody in his family is now?....which is weird. Last time I mentioned it his dad actually got really into it and was like, very adamantly saying " I don't believe in God" so I'm guessing he had something to do with how the family went though she's definitely in control.
Anyway we have not yet had any huge discrepancy at all with his leadership or opinions on anything major.
Leviticus 6
As a single woman, your video are very informative thank you ❤
Very true. Brother William Branham admonished that 'under no circumstance should a believer marry an unbeliever. There will be problem down the road.' Thanks for all you do.
Amen! Under no circumstances should a believer marry an unbelievabler!
I think a video series on Biblical manhood/husbandhood with you two would be 🔥!
As a mother of a young, impressionable daughter, I am so grateful for the way you've both outlined what God wills for us. It's so important to value a walk with Christ over romantic feelings!
What you are saying is very true. I was a believer but married an unbeliever (was tired of waiting on God to provide a spouse so I took matters into my own hands) and the damage it caused me WOW its only the grace of God but the Lord has healed me it was a long and hard process. He ended up leaving but the Lord has called me to peace
please let me ask something because i am getting no answers. before the relationship, did you constantly hear “he will never marry you”? my boyfriend broke up with me and i feel like i ruined it but i kept hearing that but idk if it was just my imagination or anxiety. i’ve prayed for him to come back and for God to show me a sign if he will come back. i think i saw the sign, it just wasn’t in real life. now i am struggling and feeling sick there are conflicting answers. everyone is saying no, but i really think it is possible
@@bigheadfriendly when we met I never heard anything in my spirit that said he wouldn’t marry me. In fact we “hit it off” basically saying we got along TOO well. We actually did get married and I thought everything was going so well. But ignored the prior warning from the lord through my dream which said that he would take my salvation away if I married him. God truly warned me but I didn’t listen: If you felt in your spirit or u heard in your spirit that he was not going to marry u then your spirit was warning you. If he is an unbeliever please leave him alone God has better for u. You can not change them or make them better what u see now is what u he and if it’s not from God please run don’t do what I did he will destroy your self esteem, your peace of mind, it will take away your peace. If God has pushed him out of your life let him go. If you are living in confusion about it, confusion comes from the devil not from God because the Bible say God is NOt the author of confusion and don’t rely on signs rely on God’s word because he says a foolish generation seeks after a sign. Read Gods word he will speak to you and pray. He will send u dreams and confirmation. Trust him. Hope this helps
@@Godsdaughter1025 he wasn’t a believer, but idk i really am not sure if it was God or my imagination that said he would never marry me or that he would marry someone else it was so frequent and repetitive but the voices and answers always are for anything. he was kind of nice there were instances where i questioned if he really loved me or cared (like when my phone fell in the lake at his family’s camp upstate and he didn’t help, he just said “well, it’s not my phone” and his sister and cousin helped instead. but he sent me money and spent time with me over the phone (long distance). he had a girl best friend that i wasn’t too comfortable with, but idk i feel like i really ruined everything and i kept feeling out of place, but maybe that was my anxiety. i asked God to save him (so he wouldn’t have to experience hell, not for my own selfish desires), but idk. also, i thought your salvation couldn’t be taken away. but speaking of bad dreams, i’ve had a lot lately, but idk if they seriously mean anything. i really wanted things to work but i feel like everything is my fault now and i feel like such a loser. i just want him to come back, but this is the second time he’s breaking up with me. he said he doesn’t see me as a girlfriend anymore and doesn’t care about the relationship. he told me to send the promise ring back. but even with all that i feel like he doesn’t actually mean it. but now he’s following some girl on ig in the same city as him and she’s following him so idk. i guess a stripper is better than me. it’s been over a month and i haven’t heard from him. i just feel so sick
I agree that real-life Christians who walk this faith out daily and are a part of a body of believers do not operate the same as nominal Christians (in name only).
It could also be a difference of church culture and how much accountability one's church holds for those who "live in sin" (co-habit) or fornicate. I saw a drastic difference in my church and my then boyfriend's (now husband) church. My old church would actually ask people applying for leadership positions such as bible study small group leader if they are dealing with specific sins. And if they were, they would not get that position. They properly vetted the men and women in church. Open cohabitation was not even something people who thought to engage in.
While my husband's old church allowed anybody on stage. People were in all kinds of sin. The worship leader was living with his girlfriend for many years. It was mind-boggling to me but actually prevalent. Think of churchs that allow sexually immoral lifestyles to propagate in the choir.
As a woman, I say, look towards your friend group and other sisters in Christ. When I was unmarried, none of my Christian friends lived with a man unmarried. I surrounded myself just naturally around women who got married and then moved in with a husband. You and your sisters, though you may fall, should always be striving towards sanctification, righteousness, and fleeing even the appearance of sin.
Be well, sisters. This was a great message. 💛🌻💜 Thank you, Joyce, for bringing your husband. His insight was profound.
Love this, This is most important for the younger women, so they take heed before they make the same mistakes most older women have made, and do better. Older women and men who get divorced while being a Christian don’t want to obey the commandment to remain single after… so many currently committing adultery. They don’t understand the gravity of a ruined marriage/broken family, and how God hates divorce. And that remaining single or reconciling is TRUE repentance from such a awful deed… but they don’t wanna hear that. They think they deserve a second/third/fourth chance. They shouldn’t feel offended when we advice the younger women to not do what they did, instead they should be telling them that theirselves! Older women must do better🙏🏽
👏🏾 ITS CONDEMNATION 👏🏾…. We hear you sis 😂😂😂 i love when you’re passionate
And the little clap with it. I laughed so much.😂😂
I'm speechless. I'm not in the same situation as the author but this 3 part breakdown has cut me deep but has also healed me and it gets better the deeper you go in dissecting the matter with the Word, which is a sword. Please lead a congregation at some point if it's Our Father's will. You two are something else 😩 and I just praise Him for it. Wow. You just don't know what you did. Hallelujah to the King of Kings!
Yes this last part was truly a blessing and I was confirmation for myself as I watched!!!!!!!!
GLORY TO GOD
In response to your hope that bringing your husband on is helpful (13:30), yes. So many women out here are fatherless and hearing this perspective from a man who loves Jesus is absolutely valuable. I appreciated his comments about the measures men will take just to get a woman in bed. Women don't realize this. And his closing thoughts were truly encouraging. When a man who loves Jesus takes a wife, he will forgive her past and love her just the way she is. The way Jesus loves us.
In my case... very sad but very true... Everything that you said. I pray everyday that God corrects my mistake. Its so painful because so matter how much you cry or beg, they just simply don't understand or don't care.
Stop crying & begging & I know it's incredibly difficult. The word says the wife may win her unbelieving spouse to Christ without a word. By her Godly behavior. You want to spend daily time in the word. You need the support, encouragement and nurturing of the church. True, genuine believers in the Lord.
Wow thank you! Not in the situation but I feel empowered by the word. More Cam insights please! A males perspective is invaluable and as always Bindi thank you for the great content ❤❤
Nobody:
Me and my sister: AND SATAN IS YO DADDY 🤣
All jokes aside tho this is precious content and unfortunately someone I know ended up marrying a man who isn’t a Godly man, with no regard to me and others that warned her before she was even engaged. But I love and appreciate you Joyce and Cam’s male input. I hope to join y’all in sharing and making plain what’s in The Word one day soon
Please do more of these series, this was so good and helpful to all!!!!❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing this video! Once again, these discussions between you two have been such a wonderful series on your channel.
These were so good ❤️ Healthy biblical discussions between husband and wife are the best! Love seeing you guys interact
I can certainly appreciate the multitude of warnings to this young lady. I can attest to the trials in the flesh and temptation of divorce in the midst of those trials. God has redeemed my husband and I through the blood of the Lamb and sanctifies our spirit daily by the washing of water by the Word. I encourage the teachers to remember 1 Corinthians 13 nkjv, 1 & 2 Peter nkjv, James 3 nkjv.
Ohhhhh Bindi coming through in this video with wisdom and passion
Absolutely love this subject! Thank you for parts one, two and three. Amazing advice.
More content like this please.
I love you both, you are speaking so much truth 👏🏼👏🏼 me and my husband love your videos. Thank you for doing the good work
You are preaching!!! Thank you I really needed this. I was confused about a decision. But now I am crystal clear. 🙏🏼
Selfless leadership 🙏
Make it plain brother Cam and Bindi!! Loved it ❤
This was really good, thank you..... discernment is very necessary today...
Powerful video. I agree with everything said. God bless you and your husband for speaking up.❤
You all are teaching GOOD (and right down my row)!! Thank you so much for your wisdom!
Every time this dude opens his mouth it's nothing but nuggets coming out. I see why God assigned you both this great work.
Thank you guys for this video!!
I love these with both perspectives 💯‼️
You could marry a believer and they later end up backsliding and you end up with the same trauma, destruction and sorrow. You just never know. We're living in the last days and many people are walking away from their faith and when they do that, they walk away from their marriages too. There are no guarantees in life.
And vice Versa. I get what they are saying but you are also right to bring this up.
This is true. Only God knows what lies ahead in a person's life. However they are right in speaking on this subject from the lens of scripture. The Lord has given clear instructions and warnings about being unequally yoked. So at the end of the day if we profess the name of Christ, we have to do our best to vet a man in accordance with scripture before marriage. Even if they may stray, or an unbeliever may come to faith, that's not our business to assume and certainly not something to rely on
Truth unfeigned 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This is wisdom. Thank you my brother and sister. May the Lord God guard your hearts and minds to continue in the Lord. Peace be with you
Thank you you both amazing, this is such a plague in our days!!! I see this over and over, it is very concerning
this is literally so good
This conversation is so real 😢
Amen 🙏🏼 you are absolutely blessed me With your videos. Blessings!and thank you 🙏🏼
Wow!!! This is so true!!
Not having a church community or strong family with wisdom and guidance in my early 20’s led to choosing the wrong person. It can be said that the person “knew the trajectory “, yes there were red flags but lacking the support, wisdom, & guidance of a church family with elders or a wise Christian family can be a reason young women (or any age women) marry a man not worthy of the position. Naïveté and no example can affect the outcome as well. Not to say personal responsibility isn’t there but the wisdom of the community is so important in these decisions as well.
Hence the huge need and value of your discussions ✅✅✅
Thanks so much for all your inputs.... I really needed this.....
You guys are preaching.
I feel like commenting “where have you been all my life” in all the videos😩😩😩
I am truly in awe of God who continually moulds me and has taught me to be accountable to Him as a father as both my parents are late. The transformation He has done in my life even made my grandmother say ‘whatever it is you have started doing, don’t stop’🥹😩🙇🏻♀️
Keep up the great content!
Man's winning from heaven to earth
Can I respectfully disagree?
I was born again after being married to my husband. My husband is still not Christian. He is a good man, a provider, a supporter, an amazing Dad to our girls. He is always respectful of our prayers and me teaching our children the love of Christ.
I pray in time he will open his heart to the Lord, but that is his journey to walk.
praying for you guys!!
That is fine because you found Christ while married and the Bible says to stay married if your spouse will have you. Whereas a single Christian should adhere to the Bible and marry someone they are yoked with.
You want to disagree with what God has ordained? Just because it works for you, is that what you want to teach the unmarried
I think even though it works, if you’re Christian beforehand ideally it’s better to find someone who is a believer.
This is different. You got saved after you married. I pray your husband turns to Christ. I'm glad he's good to you.
Thanks!
Oh My! This was a WORD!!! 🙌🏽😇
Awesome video! I was a virgin when I got married. What’s up with the hookup culture? They devalue themselves and need to come to God. See what God says about you.
Women like you are rare nowadays, I would love to know what kind of church or community you come from?
@@ssuleiman9052 my parents were not affiliated with any religion
Amen! Asi es,thx guys👍🏻😊
I am in agreement
This waa so good !
That's exactly what the devil does , he abuses you , pushes you , rushes you and then blames you and condems you.
God help us single women to be wise and wait on the Lord whatever he has planned
Wow! That’s a good Word! Amen!❤👏👍🏾
This 6:00 go both ways 😮thank you! I don’t know that ! About marriage
we need another series
Sheeeeeeesh. #TheFirstminutesofTheVid ayyeeee Glory to God. Ayeee. As a single I thank you for that . Glory to God.
Yep!
As a believer who married an unbeliever this is true. You are stuck because when we finally truly give ourselves to God and belive that Jesus died and came back to life we have to adhere to what those stipulations of divorce are as true believers. I still have to submit to my husband and still be a Godley wife and mother. I essentially take on a role that was not mine to take on and i did not understand that until i truly believed.
i love ❤️ your dress!
This video goes to my all time favourite videos 😁👍. Modern Women are so afraid of real commitment because they think Men will turn 180 after marriage. But godly Men will never do, only the seducers. Both of you are very firm in your morals, you will grow old together easily ❤️. God, Housband, Wife, Kids .... This order worked so many years before and still does when the Housband is a man of god. actions are way more important than words. You give very valuable advice ❤️👍😁
I absolutely love listening and learning from you guys but it also sucks bc iv realized I’ve picked a bad partner and it’s hard to completely come to terms with that…
Lol I have been nodding for 5 minutes and covering my mouth at times lol. Keep on seeking the Lord. To keep Jesus's Character through this ministry . Glory to God.
So good
Bindi's reactions 😂😂😂
I wish me and my wife had friends like this nearby.
Currently in Nebraska and looking to move back to the south or east coast.
Protect this brother for all costtttt please Jesussss!!! Where are all the men like this 😮😮😮😮😮 YA BETTA PREACHHHHH
I married my husband who is a none believer. And we have been together for 10 years, married for 5. Back then I still had faith but not like I do now! We were in our 20s and got married a few years later. We wanted to party and have fun. And now I am very much seeking my role as a homemaker to him and my 3 kids ( all to him ). He is still not a believer, but he goes to church with me and he will pray with our kids every night. I will talk about God and the Bible with him, and most of the time he has a listening ear. He actually really likes our church but he still idenfies as a non-believer. I would love to hear your thoughts on this. A lot of our friends go to church and are Christians. And he has even said he would like to volunteer sometime at our church. Please tell me your thoughts on this. I want so bally for him to just accept Christ. He is a good man and he love us so much. But I really am praying ( along with my church family ) for him to finally accept christ.
Look up 1 Corinthians 7:12-14! And keep praying for him and I will too…for your whole family :)
Btw that's awesome that he is so understanding and gentle with your faith!
I am in the same boat! SAME exact story for me & my husband wow. I agree with the comment. I read Corinthians & although I grow tired of praying & he seems to be moving father away sometimes from faith I trust in God that whatever his will it will be for the greater good of us. God bless you! I pray he gives us both the desires of our seeking heart ♥️🙏🏽
Keep doing your part as a believer in christ, set out the examples of what a believer should be like in your home, and allow God to do the rest.. The bible talks about a unbeliever spouse and saved spouse, the believing spouse will sanctify the non believer by their conduct, so sister Keep living your faith out in front of your husband with humbleness and God will show favor in his time...Keep up the good work and don't lose hope
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read the book the power of a praying wife. bindi has also done reviews on this book. at this point you need to pray that he receives an encounter with the holyspirit, that he may get a visitation.
I’m catching up on videos now!
I believe that God allows certain marriages as that juxtaposition as well. It’s not the exact same thing but we see it in Hosea.
what about Hosea and Gomer?
Man listen. All we have to do is look at the current state of relationships between men and women. Look at all these women raising children alone, married, single mothers, and the rise of the red pill and manosphere spaces. community 😢
If we get involved with men who are not submitted to God, then we are at the mercy of his ignorance, brokenness, and demons point blank period.
Choose men who are submitted to God. Not religious or who identifies with a religion, but a man who allows God's Word to govern his life.
Been in the mists of my storm for the past 3 years
Whrre can we find the video you did about vetting husbands?
Wow
The very beginning sounds similar to Ezekiel 23
From my experience we can't choose , God has to choose.
The man I was going to marry went to chruch , went to bible study, prayed ect.
I sort God for an answer concerning marriage and in a dream God sent an Angel to tell me the man name was Legion.🙏
After the dream all sorts of things began to happen to confirm the dream. The demonic realm is very real , demons are real and you can't see them with the natural eye.
God has to choose we can't see in the spirit who these people are.
They can be nice , loving , kind, chruch goers ect. We can't see who they are in the Spirit.
Much prayer and fasting concerning a partner 🙏
Wait on God
God has to choose 🙏🙏🙏
Amen
It is scriptural my sister! God warn against unequal yoke, marrying an unbeliever brings many sorrows and troubles to the believer.
In Joshua 23 vs 12-13 Else if ye do in any wise go back, and cleave unto the remnant of these nations, even these that remain among you, and shall make marriages with them, and go in unto them, and they to you: Know for a certainty that the LORD your God will no more drive out any of these nations from before you; but they shall be snares and traps unto you, and scourges in your sides, and thorns in your eyes, until ye perish from off this good land which the LORD your God hath given you.
Think about Hosea as well!
Hi! Question.. how do you guys feel about attending wedding ceremonies where it’s a Christian and non believer getting married? I’m against attending them but would love to know everyone else’s point of view! 😀
Whatever you do, do it with peace in your heart. If you don’t have peace about it maybe it for a reason. I know of a brother in Christ who didn’t say yes to his daughter getting married because (the man was not a believer) the brother Loves his daughter very much but he loves Jesus more! He didn’t attend the wedding, even if it hurt his heart. But we are called to Love God more! We all need more grace and courage to choose Christ always.
God Bless You!
Thanks for the response (: I recently made a decision to not go to a good friends wedding because of this. She even asked me to be a bridesmaid. However, I did not have peace and knew the Lord would be unpleased. @@mariamukungu4236
What if you know all of this (check yes on all the boxes on previous videos) but financially cannot leave.. it seems silly to bring up but when the options are a roof over childrens heads or not it’s very difficult to leave.
Pray, pray, pray. God will make a way. Prepare in silence and secret and always, pray!! He’ll provide a way.
Pray that the Lord work in your husband’s heart. Write your prayers in a journal. I believe that if you are already married & you are at minimum safe, then pray and fast. Repent for marrying him. Confess your error to God and ask for help. We all make mistakes. I completely agree with this video that a believer should marry only a believer. A godly woman should only marry a godly man. I was a baby Christian when I met my husband and he was a nominal Christian. It was extremely hard the first years but I will not ever forget what a Christian friend asked me, are you not going to stand up and do something for your marriage now that you already made the decision? I think once you’ve sinned by marrying an unbeliever, the solution isn’t to sin again and divorce this unbeliever to marry a believer. We get one chance at marriage unless the spouse passes away. I first confessed my mistake to God and then, I started to pray and pray. I read through my prayer journal recently and I have noticed that God has been merciful to me & has answered many prayers about my marriage. I do not recommend any single godly women to marry a non-Christian (not a real godly man) because it will be a terrible experience.
Now if you are not safe then please try to save money or see if your parents will let you and your children stay with them and you can try to find work. I will say a prayer for you. One more thing… Always go to God first when you want an answer or need help because He cares deeply for you!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️ I finally learned this!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼 Peter 5:7 casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.
trust in the lord your God
How would you go about being married before you got saved?
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Question-Does one (always) have to profess that they’re a man of God, or through their actions, their deeds, their commitment to decency, love, and respect, they demonstrate that they’re a man of God? We have friends who are married and carry themselves just as you say, but they do not with their voice, say “I’m a Man of God”. In essence, is it as plausible for this to be so as is the man who professes to be but whose actions say otherwise?
I agree actions speak greater than words. A man lives it, not just talk it.
It’s not about calling our self man of God. He rather has to confess who his Lord and master is. It is more important that he acknowledges his faith in the Lord Jesus, than he give himself self a title like man of God. Man of God without Christ is a moral man that will perish when he dies. It is women that love to give those titles it’s not even in the bible. We as believers are known as children of God, born again children of God anything else is pure pride. If he is in one of the five fold ministries then he gets other titles as per his responsibility in the body. But we all at the end stand as children of God 7:51 before our Father to be guided by him no matter how powerful men think we are.
By their fruits ye shall know them
They don't have to profess "I'm a man of God". They profess Jesus is Lord.
I have met an AWFUL lot of self professed Christians that do not look like they are walking with God. Even pastors that have horribly out of control pride, dishonor their parents, neglect their kids or wives, etc....boastful attitudes, abusive to their congregations. Or So-called Christians that do not follow what they are called to do. Whereas my husband does not say he is a man of God, but sure shows it most of the time with his actions. I DO worry about the state of his eternal soul & we are Catholic. He does not prefer one denomination over another, just has trouble understanding belonging to a church. I don't know where this will land him, but I can pray for him. As for the others? I don't care if you lead a church, a ministry, a family, a business. Don't TELL me you're a Christian, show me. Otherwise it seems too much like prideful boasting if you do not have the actions to back it up. As a Catholic I hear this nonsense all the time about how I am not a 'real' Christian, but I DO read the Bible, attend Church, accept Jesus as my Savior & try to do everything I do for the Glory of God. I just don't go around telling people I am a Christian, I am a Christian. I show them thru my attitudes, & care I give to God's creation.
What if someone got married while bith were nonbelievers and one finds faith during marriage and another one wont? What to do ?
if the unbelieving spouse is willing to stay you are supposed to stay married
Uuugh!! Sooo many use Christianity as a label, NOT an intimate relationship with Christ revealing a changed heart and life!! 👎🏼🚫 Show me the Holy Spirit FRUIT!!!
I’ve heard it said, “Because you lie, tells me you’re okay with being lied to.” *whew!!*
Another reason is: she is not a virgin. I am a well established 26 year old man and remained a virgin by choice. For some reason, I feel like i was deceived in remaining a virgin. In reality, most church women I’ve tried dating were wild party girls and guilt trip me into dating them. They use Jesus’ forgiveness as an obligation for me to date them. It’s depressing at times because why would I sign up to a life of misery? I should be constantly compared to her many lovers in the past? That’s God’s will?
You are absolutely entitled to seek a for a woman that has kept herself pure as well.
Next why she want marriage him ! ⚖️
God's wisdom is what you want.
Enjoyed the commentary but I did find it incomplete. What about the book of 1 Peter ?
Win Your Husband Over by Godly Conduct
As 1 Peter 3:1-2 states, husbands “without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear.” Wives are not called to win over their unbelieving husbands by what they say, but by their lifestyle.
Would like to know your opinion if you are reading this.
That is for a believing woman or man who has found Jesus after already being married to the unbelieving spouse. And those scriptures are the commandments on how to live in that situation… but at the end of the day single women/men who are already believers should marry another believer.
@@ChristIsrealLife it does not specify that. I'm sorry but maybe you have not found yourself or do not know about a number of difficult life circumstances that can lead a Bible believing Christian into marriage with a non believer.
Respectfully, It does specify that, all it takes is common sense. There’s commandments for every circumstance in the Bible.
@@bearifiablepau2095 The verse that you have cited is addressed to wives, not to fiancées. There is a difference because the woman in the situation is engaged, not married yet therefore this verse does not truly apply to her unless ( if it is the will of the Father ) they get married. Since she is a fiancée then she should not carry the duty of a wife. I hope it was clear.
You have described my embarrassingly horrible marriage.
May God show you both His Mighty Salvating Grâce in Jesus name.
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I have been to several humanist weddings and those couples are an amazing example of how two people can share an amazing life. ❤
@sula1529 ~ @sula1529, did you not watch this video? you sound like the epitome of what they're explaining, hun. There's no room here for your exalting idolatry on this subject. @sula, you are on the wrong channel for trying to introduce your ideal "humanist," and "atheist" couples .vs Christian couples who are equally-yoked to Christ Jesus.
@@nicolelove2501 wow and you call yourself a person of God.. he did not divide people he brought them together ..Jesus gathered people around him and didn't exclude anyone from Any walk of life. You cannot even speak without hatred and shutting a person down rather than be civil I feel I am among the devil here not God . shame on you for shaming YOUR God with your division.
@@nicolelove2501 Sister, we can't expect to bring people to Jesus or bring people closer to Jesus if this is how we treat others. May the peace of the Lord be with you.
@@sula1529 you appearantly KNOW WHAT THE WORD OF GOD SAYS and Yet you're here CAUSING DIVISION AND CONFUSION? 😲 Additionally, you're shaming someone for "shaming" you. You can call out the other commenter for MATTER OF FACTLY stating an obvious. Yet, if the other commenter say something, she/he should be "shamed". Wow very interesting 🤔.
@@shanelgordon5447 I was attacked not the other way around..!!! Seems you all are bullies..
What constitutes a legit marriage?
God bless you marriage for his names sake because you are drawing many to Christ
I have a question, should it be quick even harsh to cut off an ungodly man in my life?
If you're even asking the question of who else is out there to be my partner, your answer is already leave that relationship.
Yes
Absolutely. Don't hesitate.
What you said in the beginning is literally the story of Solomon. So,those are not your thoughts they are biblical.
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