7 ESSENTIALS TO BEING SUCCESSFULLY SINGLE
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- Опубликовано: 7 май 2017
- We must master singleness before marriage. If you aren't an individual you can't be a part of a couple. A couple is two complete wholes. There are seven things we discuss that will open your mind.
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"If you're single and stressed out about a relationship, you need something to do." Real Talk!!!
Marshaé Scott wow, rare to come across another Marshé 😊
That's right Marshae Scott when you don't set goals for ya self. Nuttin to occupy time that's what you do. Smh
Thou shall get a life😂😂😂
So true & didn’t realize til 39yrs old. I’m now 41.
goodness. "If a single person is not perfectly comfortable being alone, they are not ready to be with someone else...you will approach your relationships from a place of need, and when you need them, you make a God of them, and then God destroys it." Selah, i hear you.
Wow you summarized it well
What if you are single and was happy following the footsteps of Jesus and one day someone released a spirit in you and formed a soul tie with you and you haven't had sex with this person but he sends a lust spirit and he also sends Iies of love to your mind been trying to brake free for mouths there are many women in his life but his spirit seem to be with me all of the time day and night I know the word says this kind comes forth by prayer and fasting I have done and still doing I know he don't won't me. PS PLEASE HELP ME GET FREE
I love being alone. 🥰 Less drama. You can be alone and happy and married and lonely.
yes. God says have no idols. God told me through a Bible study thru BSF that “I am jealous for your love and attention”. God is jealous for you !
YES LORD JESUS!🎯💯❤
I have been single for 14 years with three children. I acquired academically, promoted three times. Have a house and bought four cars, took my two sons through tertiary education and paying my daughter's fees and seen God at work throughout. Started a business and believe God for its growth. Love everything thing you are saying and still trust God for a God fearing husband one day but honestly I enjoy being single in waiting for my King. Thank you RC for all your empowerment🥳💞💥
Hallelujah
Make GOD bless you BROTHER 🙏🙏🙏
@@romanchaban3246 Is sister
Hallelujah. Thanks for sharing that testimony
Awesome! What is your age if I may ask?
One of your best videos yet! I’m taking a good year of celibacy and no dating, no flirting, no anything! I’m two years divorced and finally removed from a toxic situationship that went on for far too long. It was based totally in lust, selfishness and honestly the work of the devil. I’m glad I finally woke up and found my strength and now I’m determined to get spiritually healthy before I even think about joining myself with anyone else. Thank you pastor from the bottom of my heart ❤️
Perfectly You Beauty awww!:) i really wish you the best! We Real woman are able to make us Happy within ourselves. We know when this happens when we fill at ease alone, with God, and just simply enjoying what we have now😇❤
Perfectly You Beauty very well said
Perfectly You Beauty I'm in there too PYB. Don't you just feel Fabulous?
Amen
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I just started dating someone right after my last relationship, I’ve known him 6 or 7 years but we only started dating months ago. I can’t be myself around him anymore, and noticed I started feeling insecure when his female friends are around.
I came across this channel days ago and God I’m so blessed. I’ve stopped talking to him and sincerely I don’t care. I’ve come to realize that what I need right now is Me, Myself and I. SELFWORK
Aisha palmer I was married and I couldn't be myself around him. I'm by myself now and I'm enjoying myself. I'm working on me
Awesome Aisha how’s everything now ?
Amen to that...well done for walking away you need time to yourself. 👏🏾
Yes, create your Life ! Be the Best of who you are, Learn, be curious, Improve your skills. You deserve to be your Best Self
Thank you for being so open. 💕
“You gonna catch something alright, but it won’t be a husband” 😩😂Hollering 😂😂😂
Shelona Johnson 🤣🤣🤣🤣 that killed me with a laughter.
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"If a man cant abstain from the lust of you BEFORE the marriage, how can he abstain from the lust of OTHERS, after the marriage."
Not particularly accurate.
Wow 🤩. Thank you for that comment!
Sometimes the woman is perfectly ok with being single and it's the society that pressures her in to marriage. Family, friends, etc, all of them asking her: Why are you still single? Is something wrong with you?....and the woman starts to feel depressed, thinking that maybe there's something wrong with her.
Thank you for your life lessons, they are an eye opener. God bless you and everyone.
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tubinho79 thank you... i can't believe my whole family pressures me. I actually realised being alone is an amazing feeling, to be content in your own company-im at peace!:) it even got to a point where my brother asked if i was Gay😐. Like no...whenever i meet a guy, i take things slow...i know I'll meet the right guy for me someday, but God will send him to me at the Right Time & Place for the both of us😊
Summer K Amen!!!
yeah people do pressure you to get married espcially family, if they know you been in a relationship with for a couple of yrs they start ask when yall gone tie the knot or dont let him hold u down if he not gon marry you
tubinho79 yup. I’m happily single and men look at me like I’m crazy when I tell them that not only am I single but I’m not looking.....
I thank God for allowing me to come across your channel. You have become a true blessing to me. I have learned so much from you.
Juwana Striplin Thank you.😊
Pray for me in my relationship not seeing eye to eye
@@RCBlakesJr. thank you Spiritual Father...I prayed for an angel and found your word! ❤
Very true he has opened my eyes grately. What I have learnt and who I'm taday is all thank to him.
I'm 34 single with no kids so I definitely understand this.
If you don't master you, Somebody else will. Say that again. Phenomenal to think about. Deep
1. Put yourself in a position where you are shaped by the Hand of God. 2. Successful singles are filled with God's Spirit. 3. Be totally dedicated to God and His Will for your life. 4. You got to master 'you'. 5. Experience real contentment in God. 6. Dominate now. 7. Be mature enough to give yourself to him (your marriage partner).
I love being by myself... I can come and go as I please. I can get a lot done without someone interrupting me when I'm writing...
If you are enjoying serving with the gifts God has given you, you don't have time to give in to being lonesome because God will keep you busy with visions, dreams and plans for reaching more people.
Tranea Prosser
What if you don.t know which ministry to go into am not wishing to do anything for the sake of it and I don.t know where God wants me at present this is pretty frustrating
Debbie B What you enjoy doing and would do for free is where you will serve God's people and be happy. You will get joy from doing the task (s) that's one way to know where your assignment is. The other way is to ask God where does he want you, as in serving as a choir member, usher , children's ministry, etc. There are books out there that have a matrix that shows you what activities you are interested in.
Children's ministry is not for me just tried that one and am looking at ventures outside of church as well
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I love this broadcast... I’m so busy, working full time, and part time and going back to school, and my daughter is getting ready for college.... I really don’t have time for a husband. It’s a desire of mine to get married, but it’s funny 😄 I don’t have the time for a man...I’m on the grind..To God be the glory..
It's more than being busy with activities msrenata80. Its about the ordained assignment by God, pursuing it. Career is not the end, it is the means to the end. Career just facilitates the assignment. Some were called to raise up women who are Godly and they are bankers. Banking is a means to give them money to help her arrange for meetings and it is also an avenue to meet women who need a mother.
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You are absolutely right about that because after the first husband, I thought I would never get married again. I was in Church, running on in the Lord, most happy with my Life. I didn't care if I got married or not, wasn't thinking about it. But the God of Heaven thought it was fit to put an Awesome man into my life and he became my husband and it didn't take a whole year for us to realize that we were going to spend the rest of our lives together.
Catina Burrough inspirational and beautiful testimony.
Sharing the truth helps all of us heal.
Been practicing no contact recently. Embracing “ out of sight, out of mind” so that I can focus on me, my feelings, my goals, cut off any soul ties & bondages. I’m slowly learning to be content with my singleness and not be caught up in being with someone out of empty voids or loneliness. It’s a process.
Same here too ❤️
I have ended a situationship which has bee draining me for some time. I have cut out all ties. The best decision I have made and am happy...
Am cheering you on Lady Q
I hear you Lady Q. Same here and loving it.
Thank you for saving my life. You have no idea of the impact you have had on my life. You have gotten me thru alot of dark days pastor. I praise the lord I have found you.
I'm going to wait for God to send me the right man and to love me unconditionally
It is true. Since I have God in my life, I see everyone around me from a different perspective.
You're like the dad I wished I had.
I'm single nearly 11 months after relationship, exercising, working, loving my single life, not dating...and totally loving my life. This is great to hear.
2 yrs later and I’m fortunate to have come across this video. Just turned 36, & I’m struggling with my singleness but this is a rhema word. God knew what I needed. Mercy!!!
@8:15 every marriage that I've bared witness to, whether its my elders or my age group, have been manufactured. EVERY SINGLE ONE. Women just scraping up any man they could find, just so society can view them as a spoken-for woman. That led me to try to do the same and that was one of the most unhappiest relationships I've ever been in, in my entire life.
My parents never taught me any of this. I am learning so much, I’m almost overwhelmed. THANK YOU
“ sugar diabetes” I can’t 😂 but I love this channel he keeps it real.. my favorite online pastor.
Bishop this is so good, im learning so much at my age, I got divorced 5years ago, was married to a narcissist for 22years and I finally got the courage to leave. My father died when I was 12years old so it was tough. I got married young to the wrong man. I thank God for your Father, daughter talk. God bless your wisdom and obedience.
This bless my soul successfully single should be a class
I know right! Best singles message I've heard.
I totally agree.
Pastor you nailed and covered every angle. I just wished that i can allow myself to feel again to even consider re-marrying. My husband passed away in 2008 and that was very devastating to me and he was a man of integrity and i just feel there's not to many men out here with those special qualities. So until a honorable man cross my path that can assist me in changing how i feel i will remain single and humble.
You are amazing!! Please don't worry about how man views you have. If people don't invite more people to view your ministry, it's ok! If you have only 1 viewer, you are pleasing God and you are a success towards God's Kingdom...Thank you for helping me.
I agree!
He say that so we can share his lesson with others that may need it for Spiritual growth (such as yourself). It's no different than sharing the Gospel for people to be saved, but the #'s are not up (or added to the body in this case) in order to get to heaven. They are more people going to hell than people going to Heaven. The #'s should be up/more...
Yess! And he's helping me too 🙋🏽♀️
I'm sorry because I forgot to put up my #1 primary because finally I see A Man of God keeping it Real, Transparent, and I spiritually see The Holy Spirit in you.
I'm a Single Divorced Mother at 42 years old and single until further notice. There's nothing else that needs to be said here meaning You covered everything and I thank God for you, your wife and Ministry.
Alicia
It took me a LONG time to understand the beauty of singleness, but I am glad I am finally here! Thank you pastor for sharing this word!
If he can't abstain from sex from you before marriage ! What make you think he can abstain from sex from another woman after marriage ! Hallelujah !
I'm 45 single no kids . Thank you❤
I am a 64 widow for one year. Thank you for your teaching
Thank GOD for your channel !!! 🙌🏾
Brother tell it!!! 🙏🙏🙏
This is so true. I feel so content now. I learned to be happily single 1 year after a painful breakup.
It may sound too simple but, I started a new hobby that was so enjoyable- that it was part of what weaned me from the yearning to couple with the wrong person.
If you are with the wrong person ...it is a hard and dishonest situation but you might hold on DUE to your dislike of being single.
I still talk to people and i now REALLY consider whether i should continue the conversations...
Thank you for your insight. I am loving this relatively new thinking... and feel more in control of myself and who let into my life.
I've been single for 57 years I am content and doing me, no friends, no family, just doing me and taking care of my son real talk, I don't know if I will ever have a mate or get married I'm just single
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@Juanita She's been in something because she's had a son. I don't quite buy her perfect contentedness.
Love Light just because you have a child doesn’t mean you have been in a relationship. I am 40 never been married or engaged or in love. I have a son and he was not made by a loving relationship. People do get raped and not have abortions🤦🏾♀️
@juanita no not a real one to sustain a real relationship most of my life let’s see, never dated in high school, collage no, military one time or another but nothing there besides that if I did meet someone he end up being someone married or a one night stand and that did’nt work and no, I was not in a relationship with my sons father for he was a married man too
@love light, no love light he was a married man I just don’t deal with men like that but I took care of my son myself he’s on his own now it’s was just a learning lesson for me
This is a blessing
Myles Monroe also has great teaching on singleness.
I am a single woman now and I’ve come to appreciate my alone time. I got divorced after 13 years, so it took a while. I’m definitely in no rush to give it up. I always knew at a young age that we had to be complete as individuals before bringing someone else into the mix. I used to say this to my girlfriends all of the time., who were soooo boy crazy and couldn’t be without boyfriends. This alone time has helped me to do some serious soul-searching and it has helped me to cut out from my life, that which was not working. I take it one day at a time and accept what GOD brings to me. I don’t go looking for anything. That has proven to be trouble. I bring a lot to the table (of course, I can always use some improvement) and will not involve myself with anyone who is not worthy. Thank you for opening my eyes Pastor..I now look at what GOD has taken out of my life as protection.. Thank You Pastor!!
"I NOW look at what GOD HAS taken out of my life as protection."
Thank you for the echo.
I've watched a lot of your videos, this video hit close to home. Just ended a 4 year relationship. It was long over due. I'm trying to embrace being single and really don't want to meet anyone new.
Ive been single for 1 year, after a 9 year toxic relationship with a narcissist. First time I’ve ever been completely single, not even a situationship. I feel so peaceful. I can hear God clearly now. I am learning so much about myself. I love and respect myself for the first time ever. In 28 years. I am learning so much about myself. Finding out who I am. I always loved my life for who I was in a relationship with but not any more (praise the lord hallelujah) your videos have helped me so much 🙏🏽 thank you
🔊🔊🔊When you NEED someone you make a God out of them. And then GOD will destroy the relationship. Omg so powerful💯 It happened to me. I been through everything the Bishop says. Im so inspired to now become the best version of myself❤
This really spoke to me today. I am someone who has always believed in taking breaks after break-ups but I haven't really been completely dedicated to being "successfully single" and truly mastering myself without "waiting" for the next "wonderful" (which never happens) relationship to save me. I am embarking on this journey of self discovery, accepting the past traumas and hurt I've gone through, healing and learning. I am ready to do the work, even go to therapy and just HEAL and find the contentment in God and ultimately in me.
Pastor Blake’s. Don’t ever ask if this is helping anybody. The answer is alway YES!!!!
I've officially adopted Bishop as my Spiritual Father. Every video, Periscope has changed my perspective about self. Thank you !
I'm at #5 , I am so consumed with my father's and my business I don't have time , I see ppl chasing the relationship that's not right for them but they still fighting to make a dead horse go over the finish line thank you for this knowledge was referred to your channel by my Minister ,God bless you richly and keep downloading these nuggets to you to teach us
I love this...you hit this on the nose. "Master you" I'm happy being single right now, I'm finding myself and I'm loving what im finding about myself. Ladies listen to this. The right one would come and add on to your happiness. Thank you
I don't believe that God wants us to begrudgingly align our hearts, minds and lives with His Will. I am grateful that I now have a willing and joyful attitude in regard to my cheerful pursuit of God and His Will for my life! Thank you, Pastor Blakes, for confirmation! :-)
I enjoy & feel every word you're saying...I'm single & done raised my 2 sons & daughter which are all grown now...NO GRANDCHILDREN...I took care of my grandmother which passed...I'm okay with my life & GRATEFUL!!....I'm soo focused on myself & loving it after all the storms I've endured...Lord Thank you!!!🙏💪!!
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Honest to God, Pastor Blakes I think I am getting too content being single, because I was hurt so bad, I divorced both of my ex-husbands. I have been so free for 6 years, happy as a single mother and business owner, but as a Queen adjusting her crown 👑 I know the type of qualities in a husband I need. I date with the intent to marry!
You gonna catch something alright... I hollered 😂😂😂😂😂😂. If your single and stressed out about not being in a relationship, you got to must on time on your hand 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. His wife says " that's a handsome man ". Husband says " aw he anit all that " 😂😂😂😂. Wonderful and enlightened message !
Recently single and this is right on. Not ready. Thanks pastor
Thank you for the right teaching. Recently separated from a minister husband who has been from rumors a sexual predator of college girls at 50+ years old and seeing one unknown to me. I am now financially ruined because of his poor and betrayed in my finances.during recent lay off. Married for 22 years w a very spiritually and emotionally handicap person. My son has a basket ball scholarship and we are relocating back to NY been in Alabama for 15 years struggling in marriage and ministry. He tried using a religious spirit and witchcraft to keep me in bondage. Finally free in Christ💃🏽
Shelia Roberts god bless you as you enter this new chapter in life ❤️
How are you doin now, since it’s been 4 yrs later?
Love your teachings. I already feel my life accelerating.
Thanks pastor, this message has helped me truly. I've been out of a relationship for almost four years and I've learned to love myself more and I've gotten to know me. I thank God for loving me enough to allow me to learn more about him and myself. 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Yup and back on that factory point, when something goes wrong because it wasn’t put together right, it is RECALLED! So thank God for His mercies for rescuing you when He did to repair/restore you. Be bless
Good question. Is this helping anybody? You have helped me so much in such a short time after such a long time of suffering and trying to get myself right with God the entire time only I had such bad teachers. I am so lucky to still be alive to keep trying. I have a big smile on my face because God can do all things and I've always known that also. So glad God made me to you :-) thank you
this is so good. People don't want to hear a message like this. smh
This is definitely helping me in 2018! Mastering me is the theme for my life! And God is in the theme!
AMEN!
God!....is!!!...the!...Theme!😚
Yesss. I am finding myself everyday and I got so content that I am not even thinking of having a man. I’m succeeding in life continuing my goals and prospering. But if god blesses me with the situation I won’t turn it down because it’s from god
You know what pastor, I sometimes see the titles of the videos and want to skip right past. I know you’re about to let me have it. I’m so thankful for them because when I watch I learn about myself, and how to make corrections.
This is helping me a lot. I have been binge watching almost all of your vidoes! It has helped me delete men so quickly from my phone when I don't see commitment or consistency when I used to give them chance and time. Queenology is my new thing. I go back to my notes based on it and on my way to becoming a Queen again. Thank you!
I am a widow of 3 years and after a 40 year marriage it is great to rediscover myself and seek out my new life. I was late in knowing your wonderful lessons on love and marriage and now I listen to them daily to catch up. Better late than never..lol…. So Excited about my new adventures in life and love and also now, just for being single..I miss my husband very much and continue to grieve my lost but I know that it’s Gods will I am single and iam embracing it with every breath I have… Thanks to you, if I ever marry again I thank you for your biblical lessons on how to do it Gods way the next time.. God bless you Pastor…
So many married couples aren’t happy with themselves. Just because we’re single it doesn’t mean that we’re “incomplete”. I don’t agree with your teachings but I respect you very much.
"A marriage is a merger of two wholes"
I love you so much Pastor you are like the Dad that I have never had. God bless you and your family and ministry in abundance. You are amazing and a God send!!!
This is synchronicity I'm finally recognize my relationships are toxic and I've been watching youtube videos for over a year now, I never heard or seen you and then BOOM you just come from the air and right on time. Thank you Universe!
I listen to your videos everyday! God bless you brotha ! What an anointing!
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Wonderful teaching! Adam and Eve were the first singles! The 7th principle 'Be mature enough to give themselves to you and receive you' and a King wants a Queen and vice versa! Yassss!
I love your videos.. A lot of insight but you be cracking me up sometimes lol
enjoying the nuggets of the word of God ...such a blessing to hear this truth.
I thank the Lord I found your channel. It has giving me a lot of insights into life. I am incredibly grateful for your advice. Has saved me from a lot of mistakes, thank the lord for that. Yes your video was very helpful.
Amen, I am developing...IM NOT READY FOR NO ONE! Praise GOD!! Thank you Pastor Blakes you are truly a blessing!!
I learnt so much from you Pastor, I am a new Christian and you speak so much wisdom ......UK
I have been a very content single for most of my life. 2 relationships many years ago until one this year that I thought was the real deal. Yet he couldnt be the King. ( 51 years now ) . I love your videos and will be really coming back to my self & queenolgy. Heal the triggers this relationship triggered. Then allow God to bring my King into my life XXX
Eating ice cream and swelling up every year😂😂goodness me, so true.
Ladies and gentlemen, the man speaks the truth.
You take time to find out who you are, find out your strengths and weaknesses. If you are successful you become a queen to a king, no longer desperate. When men see you are not in the chasing game they get desperate, you can't even dine out alone because of them posturing in front of you, mentality is please chase me.
I love me, have much to offer a man, I don't have a lot of junk IN my trunk, don't have a lot of breast, I love and accept myself and you will too, or look else where I TOTALLY AGREE WITH HIS MESSAGE.
Am so grateful for God showing me your teachings at such a time in my life when am starting a new journey, owing my own house, new job, ended relationship... I really prayed to God for a transformation that's happening.. I love you RC Blakes, may God continue to use to touch lives around the world. Livingstone - Zambia.
I had to comment on this, about last year in my prayers I was telling God the same words , "Lord if I'm going to be single I want to be successfully single," that was my prayer on numerous occasions, however I didn't have it in the terms that you were teaching on. My thought of successfully single was 10% being content as a single woman and 90% being economically successful I had it backwards. Many times a lot of the videos that I've watched that you've taught where like prophetic confirmations for me , even if they were recorded months prior, I bless God for your yielding to God to teach.
GOD spoke to me today an told me he wants me to dominate. I have been listening to you lately an decided to listen to You. Brother Pastor GOD is using you on time for me. This is September 5 2020. I am 66.
I am single now an away from ex husband. I know THE LORD is going to help me dominate. I have been told I am bossy! You know where I am headed.
Brother I can tell you spent a lot of time in prayer for God's wisdom. Thank you and God bless you..... Rebuke a wise man and he will love you. This has helped me tremendously. Praise God
"If you're single and stressed out about a relationship, you need something to do!"
Pastor you could have dropped the mic and called it a message at 17:00! Whew. C'mon somebody 🎯
YAASSSS! "I'm gonna have a ball ...by myself"!
Can you speak to single people who have become widows, like after a 50-year marriage? A lot of us, having been successfully married in the Lord, would like to have someone to share our later years with. It is so lonely.
My sympathy on your loss. I feel compelled to offer a comment and advice. I hope you don't think me rude.
I'm inclined to think that this is the time that you need to work on you and not on striving for another relationship. You were married to another for 50 years, but what did you really discover about yourself? I too am single and in my 50s. Have I ever been married? No. I won't comment on the fleeting relationships I have had, except to say that they do not complete you. You complete you. Nobody can do this for you. My counsel is to discover yourself- go on trips, find out what you like to do, be honest about what you want that will give you true joy. NEVER forget your departed love, but do not focus so intently on having another come in or in pursuing one. Live to learn and grow. Your have this chapter of your life to discover all the things you need for you. There is a whole world to discover.
It may be that somebody might come into your life. Still, find yourself and your own happiness. Because even in the bad times [as well as the good] you will know who you are AND you will know how to make it through.
Nemo Thank you, for your words of wisdom!💯
It was well received.....peace and blessings!!!!🌻🙏🏽
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Pastor Blake, I feel so blessed to have heard this message. I am recently divorced after being married 25 years.. I am 49 and single now . Learning how to be content in God....
Get it RC Blakes! You are right! I am realizing alot of mistakes I made, by always thinking "I need a man/husband, I need to get married", now I am in a 13 year marriage, and it has been hell 3/4 of our entire marriage.
ITS NEVER TOO LATE TO LEARN! I am one of those ladies that manufactured a marriage and produced a divorce but God is faithful. 🤗🤗 healing has begun.
What a nice message. We're here together, sister, on the same boat.
Things for me to work on in 2019 #MasterYou #BecomeTheBestVersionOfYou
1. Money. 2. Occupation/ what you want to do 3. House 4. Credit 5. Body/Health 6. Self Esteem/Personal Development
Sometimes you sound like you have to be anchored in some kind of perfection to qualify for the love of a mate.
thank you for these wonderful bible based videos...I AM A 65 YR OLD SINGLE..single for 9 yrs now after a 33 yr marriage to a very difficult man..i managed to run a small beadwork business and get my work published several times..i go places and do things by myself..my aloneness has made me realize that I am happy...I have a man in my life now..asking me to marry him..and I'm a little reticent to give up my freedom..being single is not easy though..everyone always wants to know why...I always say it's my choice for the moment
The right man will maximize you! Wow! So powerful!
Pastor Blakes is merely pointing out all the steps we tend to skip before getting into relationships. Get wit God and yourself first. Praise God
Danielle Sharp you absolutely right Danielle.
This is very good material, however we have to be more specific on what single woman can/can not do. For example, should we still date during this process, how do we really have fun, and besides helping building the kingdom what else can we do to enjoy life. I am starting an online podcast and talk show to discuss some of the methods I use. However, it is not easy to just go by these standards. I am a single mother of 3 yes we do still have time to long for a mate especially laying in the bed alone. This is good material but I also would like to you consider bringing on guests who are living this very example. Speaking from someone who is married you have no idea the struggles in 2018 of living righteously seeking Gods will all while being human. This doesnt take away your wisdom (atleast not for me) but I am building a platform myself to show not only how hard it is but how we manage to get by.
I'm a single mother of 3 as well. He gave several examples of how to enjoy life! I was engaged last year to my ex who I've been with for 6 years. The Lord told me to end it. He had given me many signs! My focus is on becoming my very best self. Financially, emotionally, spiritually! That's enough to work on to keep me busy. My children are 21 and 18. So I travel, take cruises, stay engaged with activities in my Church, and travel with my job! Do you! Explore you and plan for your future!
Every message/lesson I have listened to Blesses me and gives me clarity. God Bless You! My daughters father was not there for them and just now trying to be they are 22 & 20 yrs old.
Your knowledge and wisdom profoundly cultivates a better understanding for myself and putting things into perspective.
So much love and respect 🙏🏼❤️✌🏼
This is one of the most honest talks I've ever listened to. Thank you Pastor Blakes for sharing your gift with the world. Some parts were hard to listen to because of the truth and honesty of it, but I accepted it all and I'm moving forward. Thank you.
Listening to you makes me feel like I'm getting lessons from my dad or uncles ( whom are home with the Lord) .
Man was not made to be alone. And he was not alone for long at all. I love being with our Father alone......a lot.
The practical wisdom you share and teach is mind blowing. I thank God almighty for the spritual knowledge you drop because if one utilizes it to the fullest the devil does not have a chance. Thank God almighty... Free at last!!
Yaaaaaaasssss Pastor Blakes! Love your wisdom. Thanks for ALL you do!
Succeed at your own individuality.
Content in the state i am in. Wake up one day feeling really happy persuing my career what God put in my hesrt.
1. You Must put yourself in a position you are shaped in the hand of God. Financially, physically, emotionally.....rom 12:2 mind renewed by word of God.....
Look for yourself. Discover you.
Consequently produce a divorce.
2. Is filled with Gods spirit.
Eph 5:18 dont be drunk with wine. Temptations and premarital desires. 2cor where the spirit is the captives are free.
3. Dedicated to God and HIS WILL FOR YOUR LIFE. NOT ALLOW ANY RELATIONSHIP TO STEER YOU AWAY FROM THE KNOWN WILL OF GOD. YOU DONT WANNA BE Committed TO ANYONE IF THEIR NOT Committed TO GOD. A SAVED SINGLE IN THE CHURCH SHOULD BE MARRIED TO MINISTRY. SINGLES SHOULD BE EMERSED IN THE CHURCH. ORGANIZE. ICOR 32:7 HOW CAN I PLEASE THE LORD. CONSUME YOURSELF WITH THE WILL OF GOD. NO ONE COMPLETES YOU
4. LEARN TO MASTER YOU.
There was always this thing in me wanting to be single because I could sense that things are not what they are supposed to be but really How they are supposed to be and that is where I would long ahead,restle.thank you,Pastor.