I was a silly woman bc I was naive thinking other ppl had the same heart as myself. But once I “came to myself” I use this as my lesson to never return. Today I was walking into a building. This young guy had just came out of the building when he saw me coming. He turned right back around and opened the door for me. I smiled and said thank you. This has been happening more now than ever before. Why? Bc I feel my own power through God! I’ve worked on so much the past year and a half. I’m so grateful!
I’m here getting back to my senses myself. I too wasted time trying to see the good in people and thinking my love would change them. Boy was I wrong. Lesson learned. ❤️🩹🙌🏽
Me, too. I wish I had heard this after my husband died and especially after my mom died. I mean hearing from my church family in this tough way. My mom surely was one who didn't mind telling anyone this!
I learned more in the last 10 lectures I have listened to than I did when I attended church the last forty years!!! Thank you so much for these valuable lessons!!!
Tokilupe NADZ Amen Sista!!! I embrace my singleness too. The reality is this. These so call men today are playing too many games and I am not the one. If I wanted to play games I can do that with my neices and nephews in the sandbox at park somewhere. Nobody ain't got time for da B. S
It takes my breath away to hear a woman say - you can't even hold on to a man. If she was smart she would know it's His Responsibility to hold on to Her.
I tell these men no you cannot come to my home My daughter is there.... I Don't want a man that is married.. would rather be alone.. Now I focus on getting right with the almighty .. focus on getting my finances right... Work on my business... Work on my own healing... I have two failed relationships behind me No more silly women for me .... I have been alone for two years meeting many dumb men who want everything but give nothing... I am now a Queen.. Ty so much for your works Sir.. Enjoy your videos immensely.. 💯
Marks of a silly woman: 1. She entertains men who are creepy (unstable, uncommitted, living lives loosely). She lacks judgment / discernment. 2. Silly women lets him creep into their personal space. 3. She allows him to lead her into bondage.
I admit I've been silly woman. I'm not angry or mad. I accept this truth and I appreciate you bringing the truth. Please continue sharing the precious,truth searing message from the word of God. Thank you
Shy Goy Amen! All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. I have been silly in the past as well. But, I am fearfully and wonderfully made. God told me that wonderful are his works! I am thankful for Pastor Blake‘s message. It has been reinforced for me as I move on from my divorce. I actually married the man who dishonored me and had a child with him. For 17 years, I dealt with mental, psychological, and emotional abuse. But, God has delivered me from years of pain and confusion. But, I learned to forgive and to remain faithful as a woman of God. He has removed all bitterness, resentment, and strife from me. I now operate in peace beyond understanding, and I have been able to help so many others along the way. Praise God from whom all blessings flow. So grateful!
I was once a silly woman, but not anymore. I'm single now. I'm following GOD, and I'm learning to love myself. I thank GOD that he delivered me from that situation ship. GOD led me too your channel. Thank you RC Blakes Jr for sharing this knowledge. Please keep teaching us what GOD has laid upon your ❤️.
In my case, my ex used to be very sneaky almost undetectable. But God. He maintained the same work schedule, etc. Always came home. I found out he was a narcissist Psychopath to add to that. I tried to leave because of cheating, lying and him trying to kill me by poisoning my food and spraying antifreeze and mixed chemicals in my sleeping quarters. I went to the hospital 6 times. But God. Praise God! I am alive and I escaped! Glory be to God! I fell free and I know my worth! Living testimony! God will restore!
My heart was broken recently due to the very behaviors you spoke of here. Everytime I feel vulnerable or feel like I'm missing the abusers I gave my heart and body to. I immediately say plead the blood of Jesus and watch one of your videos. I have a playlist with only you on it Pastor it's named motivation. I feel empowered and a peace comes over me. The tears fall but I keep listening. Thank you for wisdom Pastor.
I wish I would’ve learned this prior to getting out on my own in my mid- 20’s. I grew up so sheltered that I didn’t know much when I got on my own. Having this knowledge would’ve saved me a lot of heartache, strife, pain, loss, and time. Now I’m picking up the pieces at 36. SMH
This message was so good!!!!! You brought up a good point sister about being sheltered. I think some parents (although well meaning) shelter their children so much that we are sometimes unaware because of not being taught. Some well-meaning parents thought that if they protect us, we will not experience those things. This is true in some instances, but in some, being sheltered made us vulnerable, unknowing, and easy to sniff out by not so good people. It's okay to have some street smarts - we need to know what's going on, and what to look out for.
Does anyone come back and watch this in 2023? ✋🏽I do! His teachings has come along way and I'm still here listening and marriage is going great! Thank you Pastor Blakes! ❤
Abandonment and rejection issues from an absentee father clouds our wisdom and we chase the absentee parent's shadow. We don't know what a true, loving Male leader looks like. Silly=trying to fill voids deepened by low self esteem. Thank you. Found your channel recently and been binge watching ever since. You are a God Shot ❤
This reminds me of this well educated women who married a man who killed his former pregnant wife. This educated women knew this man pass and still brought him into her home where she shared with her two teenagers. After getting married, a few years later she had two babies with him. She wanted to end the relationship. The man slashed her face up, shot the teenagers dead, and locked the two babies in the garage with the gas on and killed them. She was so desperate for love and lost everything but her life, and have a big slash on her face to remind her daily. Very heart breaking and upsetting story. In court he showed no remorse or guilt. They asked him if he had anything to say and all he had to say was only God can judge him. As women especially with children we have to be extremely careful in who we bring around our children. Put your kids first.
Im so glad Im reading these comments. I can relate to it all and glad I escaped a narc with PTSD. No telling what couldve happened if I wouldve stayed and constantly starting fights with him because of his lies. reading stories like this keeps me from going back.
Sadly this happened in my former town of Michigan....Praying for women that are willing to settle for a piece of relationship rather than what they truly deserve...respect and love... I truly thank God for delivering me from the wrong men out of my life.. I thank him for positioning me to being by myself and finally being content until he decides Im ready for another relationship. . #imdonewithbeingthesillywoman!
"When she finds the right man, she will submit naturally"...Deep. I KNEW this all along in my last relationship, but didn't want to admit it to myself or my partner. Definitely life-affirming words...
No u wasnt stupid just misguided from the teachings and guidance from parents and the society that like pastor said in a other video this world builds a guy to be a narrastics and a woman a empath to basically cater to the man and put them before ourselves no girl your not stupid we just brain washed and or operating from a wounded subconcious
When u walk in wisdom and no nonsense u get branded as a mean and bitter woman, well I'd rather be considered that then a silly, used up doormat of a woman
A man saying he plays women because they allow it would be like if I said I pick-pocket the blind because they allow it. If a man is only good around a good woman then he is not noble or righteous in the slightest. There will always be loose women in the world, always has been, and always will be, and a man can't use that as an excuse to be a dog. He's either a dog or he isn't, no matter what type of woman is in his company.
Exactly, that statement takes all responsibility off the man for his own behavior and places it on the woman. This makes her responsible for a grown man's behavior. No, that's not going to work.
Decency says don't take advantage of the gullible vulnerable! The gullibility & vulnerability is not the woman's fault but a conditioning of the background that has robbed her of virtue! Abusive relationships at home or at work steals virtue from children and they grow up to be silly women because their mothers remained stuck in abusive narcisstic marriage unable to make decisions to cut off ties with these sadistic individuals for husbands! Please!!!!!! Pastor with all due respect, we have a lot of work to do to change this thing!!! Thank you!
That is true. The world sees a woman as having no value if she has no man. I believe different. I haven't been in a relationship in years and I am happy. I've went out on first dates with men and see the game and they don't get a second date. Before I decide to give a potential man a chance, I ask God my father. He made this man and knows all about him. I trust God.
I was a “silly woman” for six years to a boy with a beard. He used and abused me. After catching him with another woman in our house, god showed me the light and, I left. Thank you pastor for this message
I've been a silly woman and wasted many years of my life on a clown. I'm glad I found your channel, Pastor. You speak the truth I need to hear. Thank you.
Woooo you got in our butts with this one!! lol but it was really GOOD, POSITIVE and motivating!!! Its tough love and I can only speak for myself but I really needed to hear that.
Chanelle Novoséy Lol, you're speaking for me as well. Fell in with someone that wasn't even my type of guy because I didn't want to be single. I did get something good out of it though 2 of the best friends I've ever had, he has 2 wonderful cousins that are unbiased and true friends. That is what I believe God led me to people I can trust.
Thank you so many women have been used up by these kind of men thank you for your knowledge this has helped me with dealing with relationships that mean no good please keep helping woman understand thier value and worth this is food for the soul thank you very much
Best advice coming from a Man. Im 48 I wished I got this Advice n Teaching early on in life. I grew up watching my Father cheat. I once fell Victim because my Mom told me that all Men cheat. As I began to Love self and know my Worth I refuse to Settle. Im Single n Celibate and Im Content. Thank You Mr. Baker
😔 as i almost caved today to my ex. He was on his way and thank God i opened this. Canceled that mistake real quick! Wow. I almost just made the biggest mistake! Thank God! Ill be in the word all night and a lot more again.
That’s one thing l have never been. I always had standards but l faced pressure and was called boring and too strict many times but l am so happy now hearing this that l have always stood by my standards
I have chosen not to date, I'm to much of an emotional person. I don't have time to date a bunch of men I'm putting my trust and everything in God, I have run into to many bad men. I will court a guy and be his friend but I am only going to date my husband and I believe that God will let me know when I meet my husband along the journey. If I trust God for everything in my life why wouldn't I trust that he has a husband for me so there is no need to date .
Tina Fox have to listen to his def. of dating. dating for data/ dating for discernment... it is a non sexual non romance discovery of anothers soul I forgot wat episode its on went on binge
Tina Fox Sis!!! I’m telling you! It is possible! I am a witness firsthand. Last year I had finished dating someone who was not any good for me. I already knew what he was trying to make happen but I shut him out. Long story short. In the beginning of 2017 I purchased a promise ring for myself, dedicated it to my relationship with God, prayer over it and told God that I did not want to date. My heart would only be open to forming Godly friendships or courting. Well October rolled in and I was commenting on a post and a few other people replied to my comment. My present day fiancé was one of the people who replied to my comment on the public post. For the month of October I ignored him, overlooked him and was chatting with another Christian gentleman that I soon had to cut off for being too forceful and controlling. All the while my present day fiancé simply would wait on me to respond to him. I literally would go days without response to him. One day in November he said something to me and God whispered ‘Look.’ I looked at him again and realized that he was standing there waiting to change my life. We pray together every night before we fall asleep in our separate destinations. And now we’ve begun to pray together in the morning when we wake up. God has blessed me with a future husband. I asked him why he waited on me and I ignored him for a month and he said “I knew I was going to love you forever on the very day I saw your comment on that post. Although you overlooked me for that time I knew that God was helping me because love is patient, love is kind, love keeps no records of wrong.” Boy. Oh boy. God set me up.🤦🏽♀️ I’m all embarrassed. Thought I wanted to stay single. I was so happy there on my own. Now I’m even happier with him hanging around.
Pastor. I admit...you was talking to ME!! At first I was angry, but then I realized that what your preaching is character building, and developing my spirit for maturity. This is what I need to hear REGARDLESS of how much it hurts!! I am going to start hanging around strong powerful women that don't take no crap!! I am in my 40s. I wish I would had listened to you in my 20s when I was really screwing up and needed to hear the truth about my role in being a silly woman back then. Thank You RC Blakes JR.
Pam..that message seared between the division of the soul and spirit,bone marrow 😂😂.I was hurt at first too..cos I have allowed too much BS for too long....it ain't too late.Sometimes to speak into your life to heal&grow in God
Broke financially, broken spiritually, terminally ill, homeless, domestically abused, verbally abused that's how far I let it go. Thank you so much for this, this is the one that I needed. God bless you!
"Maybe you're a dog catcher." lol! I hollered!!!! Pastor Blakes keeping it real ... keeping it 100! One of the the best discussions ever! My mom used to say to us all the time, "No one can ride your back unless it's bent.
In Jesus Christ’s Holy Name. Amen. LORD GOD I hold up Pastor Blakes, his wife Lisa, their children, and all in their circle that are contributing to this Awesome, Powerful, Loving, Peaceful, and Needed message to be sent out to women who have not had the privilege of knowing this secret knowledge which is being shared. Bless them with your protection spiritually and physically that your Truth may be Glorified. Because in Truth is Eternal Freedom and who Christ sets Free is Free indeed. This is a Blessing that cannot be stopped. Only in Jesus Name may it continue to succeed. Amen and Amen.
Oh how I love this man he reminds me of my father.. I miss him so much.. when you have a father like this in your life it’s hard to be s silly women because daddy has already molded you!!!👏🏽🤷🏽♀️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🥰 💯
My daughter is 17 year old and fatherless. I bought her your book "Father Daughter Talk"...she says that it has been so helpful with understanding this complex issue, and continuing to build her self esteem. Thank you, thank you, thank you...thank you for being that truth that so many of us women to hear! May God continue to Bless and keep you and your lovely family🙏
pastor Blakes thanks for telling the truth, I've had to learn this process the hard way, but am glad and happy to say I'm no longer in a battle of this nature anymore. Thank you for telling this to us in your videos.
Summers Rule a father in the home is no different than a father who left the home, sometimes the father is just there or the father is not really good with their own children.
I agree, you can still have a father in the home and if the relationship between father and daughter is not right...or even the father is one of these men, we are telling women to avoid, women can still make the mistake of attaching themselves to these men.
It comes from being fatherless. No father = No identity. No identity = low self esteem. People with low self esteem are easy to manipulate. Because they're depending on someone else to make them feel good about themselves. Thats the person they give control to. Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. You have to forgive your daddy for not being there and allow God to heal that breach in your soul. Otherwise you'll continue to find men just like him because you reap your judgement
they can’t be dogs without a dog-walker! 7 years later and this is still relevant today in 2024; this kinda sound doctrine is timeless! wish more pastors spoke on this and not itching ears. don’t avoid this convo, this needs to be heard over and over again! we love you! ✨
You have changed my life when it comes to self love finding you sept 11th opened my eyes so much that Sept 13th i left my ex of 5 years. I realized I was being a silly woman and I have such more intelligence than that! Thank you for guiding me like an earthly father that i didn't have that privilege but Jesus has brought me through so much and I wear my scars with confidence I didn't break with all the darts the enemy has thrown my way by God's grace I am saved..
Seeing this for the first time- I was married for 12 years when my husband passed away. I was only 35 at the time, and 6 years later I met a man that I've thought to be God given. I realize now 3 years later that this man has and is PRESENTLY doing all the things you are speaking sir! I have married him and thought that if applied all the things I learned from my first marriage as it was successful I could help him be better. I was a foolish woman! My light bulb has literally just clicked on in the last week and its like a shining light of Clarity. I can't apply what I've learned and what worked from my first successful marriage as this man DOES NOT want be a husband, friend, and partner. Some of the comments and the things you say RC Blakes Jr are hurting my feelings... BUT, I know my "SHIFT" is set and ready to go. No more will I be the Silly Woman who allows my foolish husband to keep me Bondage. Thank you for all your very very true opinions and guidance.
Nobody has ever been so real with me Paster,r Thanx you for being the father i never had . Am now done with walking around blind everything now makes sense since i started listening too you
I feel anyone jumping out of this video just weren't ready to hear the message of your truth. Acknowledging the issues before us we would rather sweep under the rug and addressing them is a challenge but necessary for our growth. Such a powerful message in this one!
I love him so much. He's changed my mentality so much this last year I've listened to him. I still have my problems with liking the wrong men, but I'm not so quick or even inclined to pursue foolish things that will drag me away from my life vision. Thank you Pastor
Exceptional message, one many of us need because we've either been there and care not to go back to that or we haven't been there and need to be warned. You are right on all accounts. It is spirit breaking to go through being the person that was led astray or watching someone you love who you believed was so smart degraded to a level of stupidity that no degree or title could rescue her from.....i think if we had a passion for freedom more than a passion for passion, we would walk in the right direction, with our mind, brain and spirit intact. Good messages especially at 5:59, 16:36, 17:39, and 25:37, very good. 👏
"Why do so many men sleep around? Because so many women let them." Really. I wouldnt say that that is fully accurate pastor because most of the time they try to hide it. Not the woman's fault to be blamed at all. Aside that i love your ministry and a lot of what you have to say is so truly helpful, thank you
Love his message. But why do men play these type of games. Can we talk about this ??? Why are women constantly told they need to raise their self worth. What about men, there has to be some sort of responsibility that men own up to for the way they treat women.
Miss LT Right, some men lie and play so many games as if they don't even like women. They do messed up stuff to us and it seems as though they don't care and have no plans to change.
Lady Magnolia they don't. Many of them are Narcissists looking to catch bait for their even bigger Narc Mother to approve of and fawn over. I see this in emotional Incest of single mother's and their son's. I avoid a lot of men like this. These are Princess men who are more Female then male so they lack the Principles and Grounding a Man of God would bring. Accountability, Leadership, Honor, RESPONSIBILITY he was not taught that by the Mother so he will not exercise it themselves. A lot of these males are honestly gay and when you realize that you don't get so impressed by lies. They talk a lot because they are HIGHLY female aka Gift if Gab so you Listen instead of WATCH their actions which is what they want you to do
This was so necessary. I entered into a marriage to a narcissist and was a silly woman due to lust just got divorced and its really time to raise the bar. You said nothing wrong we need to hear this.
I was a silly woman, and I paid the price, I was almost murdered. since then I have turned my life over to Lord. love with intelligence yes, no more creeping into my house. thank you so much for keeping it real. strong message here. Amen. all so true. I think it was because I was molested as a child by my stepfather. exactly, how much do we sacrifice???? no more silly woman here!!!!
Pastor Blake, thank youuuu for these words of truth. A much needed area that many of us, particularly me, needed. Sometimes truth is hard to accept. But rejection if truth makes one the more silly and unwise. Again, many thanks for imparting and sharing. I love following you. Keep sharing
So true! Very convicting😔 I'm typically am not a silly woman. I went into a season of silliness. I allowed myself to get "weary of well doing" due to years of taking care of a chronically ill spouse. I because tried and bitter. The enemy creeped in and I fell for it. Now I healing from PTSD and a broken heart. Thank God that HE doesn't allow the enemy to "snatched us from Jesus' hands." God redeemed me from this narcissists. I thank God for my Pastors and you preaching the Word in and out of season"!!! Praise God, Silly Season is over!!! LADIES LISTEN TO THIS MAN! IF THAT MAN YOU'RE WITH IS DOING WHAT PASTOR BLAKES IS SAYING, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!
I first would have to say hello my name is Lisa I’m 45 and my goodness your that Dad I’ve never had!!! All the messages I’ve heard from you has been so real and honest and I appreciate you to my highest power! Danger this was so needed goodness! Thank you!!
Tell it Pastor Blakes! I've had nothing but clowns & GED men in my life until 2 yrs ago! I was silly but I'm so glad I started listening to God & waited on Him! My last relationship was with a malignant narcissist & I had enough! More churches need to speak on this & make men & women accountable for their soul ties.
I know, I know I'm late, but I'm just now starting to watch you. Man of God, PLEASE keep speaking truth to light! I'm a woman who NEEDS the butt naked truth! Straight laced, with NO chase! I appreciate YOU ❤️🙏🏾
this aint nothing but the truth pastor lord i needed to hear this i wouldnt necessarily call myself silly but ive definitely been tricked a time or two. simply bcuz at the time i thought i needed a man to complete me but after countless times of being hurt i woke up now if hes not God sent i will remain single and honestly right now im enjoying the single life dont even want a man right now.
Wow! You're so on point! Some of it hurts, but the truth will make us free! Thank you so much for addressing the type of man that we SHOULD Be looking/submitting to and the vetting process. I've been saying this for years, but get screamed at and labeled as bitter by the silly "look at me" type women and pimp syndrome men.
Just dumped a silly boy who wanted to force me into a relationship. He is uneducated, a drunk,a smoker,a blasphemer,narcissistic....I jumped & WALKED AWAY....Didn't even waste my prayers on that SILLY BOY To ask God & stuff, truth was in plain sight...all I needed was God, intelligence, self control & discernment.Praise GOD
Preach... AMEN. I am so tired of these women, validated by having a man around and by men period. They need GOD and men like you to tell them to get busy living instead of dying.
Thanks for this message. Came alittle late. I knew better. Dealings with a guy for three years, should have ended way before it started. Dealing with the repercussions of my actions over a guy had no business being with.
Please Bishop don't stop doing these teachings. Sooo many of us need these teachings!! This cut but I truly needed this. I needed this sooo bad. You are a blessing to me and these teachings are setting me right. God bless your honesty and frankness. The truth is such a blessing. Imma dust my lil self off, pick up my face, put on my big girl draws and move on in God. God bless you Bishop.❤❤❤
Thank you Father God for RC Blakes Because I wouldn't have never known that I was a Silly Woman all these years of my life. I could never be upset that the truth is being spoken . For the women to get upset and unfollow Pastor RC Blakes Because he's speaking ALL TRUTH & I thank God I can Admit, But Now know to Make Changes. I Truly Appreciate This Message and God will Use me someday to help younger Ladies . Use me Father God Give me the Boldness to stand up and be an example even in the Embarrassment to know that I am a Silly Woman 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 God Bless RC Blakes above and Beyond his Measure.
I can identify with you, cause I didn't know I was once a silly woman. I also ask GOD to use me too help other women the way RC Blakes Jr. is helping us. A couple of years ago I asked GOD too save me from myself. GOD showed up and he's showing out in my life. May GOD continue to bless you in Jesus name.
I used to be a silly woman and even married an “ignoramus”,lol. I tried to blame God for my marriage ending but God put me in check quickly. This may be TMI but I’ve been abstinent over three years and if God has someone for me, great. If not, that’s great too! I have my joy/peace back & won’t compromise for any body🙌🏾
Please continue to be unapologetic!! Too many babies are being messed up and die because of these situations. It's necessary and relevant. God be with you, Pastor.
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"There is a presence about a wise woman, that a player won't even approach." Amen this is truth.
Karyn N. Amen!!!!! Men know who they can take advantage of. They don’t just approach everyone. They seek out the silly woman
Karyn N. Amen so true.
Sooo soo true.
Living testimony here.
Amen!!!!! True!
Karyn N. Yaaz, lmbo they us at all costs
I was a silly woman bc I was naive thinking other ppl had the same heart as myself. But once I “came to myself” I use this as my lesson to never return. Today I was walking into a building. This young guy had just came out of the building when he saw me coming. He turned right back around and opened the door for me. I smiled and said thank you. This has been happening more now than ever before. Why? Bc I feel my own power through God! I’ve worked on so much the past year and a half. I’m so grateful!
Amen Sister! 🙌🏽🙏🏾
🥰🥰🥰👑 God bless you Queen
Yes u deserve it
Amen and I’m doing the same thing
I’m here getting back to my senses myself. I too wasted time trying to see the good in people and thinking my love would change them. Boy was I wrong. Lesson learned. ❤️🩹🙌🏽
I wish churches would address these issues. Thank you for addressing real issues.
Wanda Santillo I was thinking the same thing! Churches need to speak on this! Thank God for Pastor Blakes😊
The church don't teach us that
Your so right , they don't speak on relationship, other than no sex before marriage.
Me, too. I wish I had heard this after my husband died and especially after my mom died. I mean hearing from my church family in this tough way. My mom surely was one who didn't mind telling anyone this!
I learned more in the last 10 lectures I have listened to than I did when I attended church the last forty years!!! Thank you so much for these valuable lessons!!!
You cannot stop a man from sleeping around!!! But you can definitely leave him!
Amen!
krs1 True!
True let them go
Incorrect, remember part of a man sleeping around it’s bc there’s silly woman that allow him too.
Sure can
I embrace my singleness...unless I have a whole man to complement me I am not in a hurry. You are my virtual dad...thank you so much
Tokilupe NADZ Amen Sista!!! I embrace my singleness too. The reality is this. These so call men today are playing too many games and I am not the one. If I wanted to play games I can do that with my neices and nephews in the sandbox at park somewhere. Nobody ain't got time for da B. S
Good
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It takes my breath away to hear a woman say - you can't even hold on to a man.
If she was smart she would know it's His Responsibility to hold on to Her.
Very interesting point!
No person can "keep" or "hold on to" another person - whether man or woman.
Soo many women are victims to this broken mentally. They sadly allow these men to use and abuse their bodies and resources at their convenience.
So true Sister ✅
They are lost. It's a CURSE! If God did not choose you the cycle WILL repeat!
I can't be a silly woman in a sick world. The world is sick, I need to guard myself.
Thanks pastor
Amen Sister🙌🏽🙏🏾
I was a very silly woman, BUT GOD Changes things. I give God all the glory.
Ladawn D Amen.
Ladawn D you're not alone. many ladies suffer from childhood abuse that damage their emotions.
I lived in shame for years. I believe God delivered me from toxic marriage. 20 years of my life.
This hit me also.
I tell these men no you cannot come to my home
My daughter is there....
I Don't want a man that is married.. would rather be alone..
Now I focus on getting right with the almighty .. focus on getting my finances right...
Work on my business...
Work on my own healing...
I have two failed relationships behind me
No more silly women for me ....
I have been alone for two years meeting many dumb men who want everything but give nothing...
I am now a Queen..
Ty so much for your works Sir..
Enjoy your videos immensely.. 💯
Yes🙏🏾
You must live in Atlanta.
@@carolynwilliams4926 no.. Live in London 🌹
Yes God 🙏
Amen Sister!!! That’s right ✅🙏🏾
I am grateful for a man exposing the game.
Yes indeed Sis!!!!! I appreciate Pastor Blakes! He tells us what many of us was never told.
Marks of a silly woman: 1. She entertains men who are creepy (unstable, uncommitted, living lives loosely). She lacks judgment / discernment. 2. Silly women lets him creep into their personal space. 3. She allows him to lead her into bondage.
I admit I've been silly woman. I'm not angry or mad. I accept this truth and I appreciate you bringing the truth. Please continue sharing the precious,truth searing message from the word of God. Thank you
Shy Goy I have been silly too. I accept responsibility for my past.
Shy Goy we all have..selah n ahman
Shy Goy Amen! All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. I have been silly in the past as well. But, I am fearfully and wonderfully made. God told me that wonderful are his works! I am thankful for Pastor Blake‘s message. It has been reinforced for me as I move on from my divorce. I actually married the man who dishonored me and had a child with him. For 17 years, I dealt with mental, psychological, and emotional abuse. But, God has delivered me from years of pain and confusion. But, I learned to forgive and to remain faithful as a woman of God. He has removed all bitterness, resentment, and strife from me. I now operate in peace beyond understanding, and I have been able to help so many others along the way. Praise God from whom all blessings flow. So grateful!
Been there done that too.....
me too. bless you
I was once a silly woman, but not anymore. I'm single now. I'm following GOD, and I'm learning to love myself. I thank GOD that he delivered me from that situation ship. GOD led me too your channel. Thank you RC Blakes Jr for sharing this knowledge. Please keep teaching us what GOD has laid upon your ❤️.
In my case, my ex used to be very sneaky almost undetectable. But God. He maintained the same work schedule, etc. Always came home. I found out he was a narcissist Psychopath to add to that. I tried to leave because of cheating, lying and him trying to kill me by poisoning my food and spraying antifreeze and mixed chemicals in my sleeping quarters. I went to the hospital 6 times. But God. Praise God! I am alive and I escaped! Glory be to God! I fell free and I know my worth! Living testimony! God will restore!
Lori Johnson God bless you for your story. I hope you came out much stronger in Jesus name.
R. Efila
Lori God is good so glad your out :)
Thank you.
bless your heart💙
25 of age..My father was in & out... so I didn’t get a Real talk with my father & my mother wasn’t no better.. just a lost girl... NEEDED THIS ‼️🙏🏽
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Thank you for being the father that some of us women needed
Amen and Amen to this
My heart was broken recently due to the very behaviors you spoke of here. Everytime I feel vulnerable or feel like I'm missing the abusers I gave my heart and body to. I immediately say plead the blood of Jesus and watch one of your videos. I have a playlist with only you on it Pastor it's named motivation. I feel empowered and a peace comes over me. The tears fall but I keep listening. Thank you for wisdom Pastor.
Remember you're not alone hold on to god
We in the same boat sis i hope all is well now
I wish I would’ve learned this prior to getting out on my own in my mid- 20’s. I grew up so sheltered that I didn’t know much when I got on my own. Having this knowledge would’ve saved me a lot of heartache, strife, pain, loss, and time. Now I’m picking up the pieces at 36. SMH
This message was so good!!!!! You brought up a good point sister about being sheltered. I think some parents (although well meaning) shelter their children so much that we are sometimes unaware because of not being taught. Some well-meaning parents thought that if they protect us, we will not experience those things. This is true in some instances, but in some, being sheltered made us vulnerable, unknowing, and easy to sniff out by not so good people. It's okay to have some street smarts - we need to know what's going on, and what to look out for.
Jahsmeen NunyaBiz It’s OK and could’ve been worse. At 59 I am just waking up and I say, better late than never.
Me too but my brother being a dealer and player and my sister being ran through and ending up an addict is the only thing that saved me....
It's never too late
Girl I’m 40 just now figuring this all out
Does anyone come back and watch this in 2023? ✋🏽I do! His teachings has come along way and I'm still here listening and marriage is going great! Thank you Pastor Blakes! ❤
2024🎉
"The truth may hurt, but a lie can kill"...thanks Pastor for your honest teachings!
Say it again!
A lie can kill if you do not use the wisdom of God to stand up and get everything God has for you.
That would include leave that clown behind.Lol
Amen!!!
Abandonment and rejection issues from an absentee father clouds our wisdom and we chase the absentee parent's shadow. We don't know what a true, loving Male leader looks like. Silly=trying to fill voids deepened by low self esteem.
Thank you. Found your channel recently and been binge watching ever since. You are a God Shot ❤
This reminds me of this well educated women who married a man who killed his former pregnant wife. This educated women knew this man pass and still brought him into her home where she shared with her two teenagers. After getting married, a few years later she had two babies with him. She wanted to end the relationship. The man slashed her face up, shot the teenagers dead, and locked the two babies in the garage with the gas on and killed them. She was so desperate for love and lost everything but her life, and have a big slash on her face to remind her daily. Very heart breaking and upsetting story. In court he showed no remorse or guilt. They asked him if he had anything to say and all he had to say was only God can judge him. As women especially with children we have to be extremely careful in who we bring around our children. Put your kids first.
I remember this Sis & yes it was sad
Zarasha1
Interesting and Sad
Im so glad Im reading these comments. I can relate to it all and glad I escaped a narc with PTSD. No telling what couldve happened if I wouldve stayed and constantly starting fights with him because of his lies. reading stories like this keeps me from going back.
Sadly this happened in my former town of Michigan....Praying for women that are willing to settle for a piece of relationship rather than what they truly deserve...respect and love... I truly thank God for delivering me from the wrong men out of my life.. I thank him for positioning me to being by myself and finally being content until he decides Im ready for another relationship. . #imdonewithbeingthesillywoman!
This is just the saddest case ever! God have mercy!
"When she finds the right man, she will submit naturally"...Deep.
I KNEW this all along in my last relationship, but didn't want to admit it to myself or my partner.
Definitely life-affirming words...
Facts
Boy was I stupid. Thank you pastor Blakes.
No u wasnt stupid just misguided from the teachings and guidance from parents and the society that like pastor said in a other video this world builds a guy to be a narrastics and a woman a empath to basically cater to the man and put them before ourselves no girl your not stupid we just brain washed and or operating from a wounded subconcious
No, you were not stupid, maybe naive, but you live and learn.
Stupid is what Stupid does 😂 Then God! 💖 Bondage No More!!!
@@a64381 Thank you for saying this!
When u walk in wisdom and no nonsense u get branded as a mean and bitter woman, well I'd rather be considered that then a silly, used up doormat of a woman
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Yep. Bitter men always want to label women with self-respect as bitter and mean.
A man saying he plays women because they allow it would be like if I said I pick-pocket the blind because they allow it. If a man is only good around a good woman then he is not noble or righteous in the slightest. There will always be loose women in the world, always has been, and always will be, and a man can't use that as an excuse to be a dog. He's either a dog or he isn't, no matter what type of woman is in his company.
Upgrade Journey agreed.
Upgrade Journey ....preach!
Right! He’s on a great path. Both sexes need to be addressed. One side alone is never to blame.
Exactly, that statement takes all responsibility off the man for his own behavior and places it on the woman. This makes her responsible for a grown man's behavior. No, that's not going to work.
Decency says don't take advantage of the gullible vulnerable! The gullibility & vulnerability is not the woman's fault but a conditioning of the background that has robbed her of virtue! Abusive relationships at home or at work steals virtue from children and they grow up to be silly women because their mothers remained stuck in abusive narcisstic marriage unable to make decisions to cut off ties with these sadistic individuals for husbands! Please!!!!!! Pastor with all due respect, we have a lot of work to do to change this thing!!! Thank you!
"He don't even have a house." say that pastor!!!!!
That is true. The world sees a woman as having no value if she has no man. I believe different. I haven't been in a relationship in years and I am happy. I've went out on first dates with men and see the game and they don't get a second date. Before I decide to give a potential man a chance, I ask God my father. He made this man and knows all about him. I trust God.
Contrina Durant a year I should be glad at the ones who ghosted me after one date then. Protection
I was a “silly woman” for six years to a boy with a beard. He used and abused me. After catching him with another woman in our house, god showed me the light and, I left. Thank you pastor for this message
Wow. This is the most difficult bullet to bite. I guess I should thank the creeper to guiding me to you. This has given me so much clarity💕
Nicole Kay 🙏🏽😊
I've been a silly woman and wasted many years of my life on a clown. I'm glad I found your channel, Pastor. You speak the truth I need to hear. Thank you.
Amen Sister!!! ♥️🙏🏾
Woooo you got in our butts with this one!! lol but it was really GOOD, POSITIVE and motivating!!! Its tough love and I can only speak for myself but I really needed to hear that.
Chanelle Novoséy Thank you.😊
Chanelle Novoséy
Lol, you're speaking for me as well. Fell in with someone that wasn't even my type of guy because I didn't want to be single. I did get something good out of it though 2 of the best friends I've ever had, he has 2 wonderful cousins that are unbiased and true friends. That is what I believe God led me to people I can trust.
Thank you so many women have been used up by these kind of men thank you for your knowledge this has helped me with dealing with relationships that mean no good please keep helping woman understand thier value and worth this is food for the soul thank you very much
Best advice coming from a Man. Im 48 I wished I got this Advice n Teaching early on in life. I grew up watching my Father cheat. I once fell Victim because my Mom told me that all Men cheat. As I began to Love self and know my Worth I refuse to Settle. Im Single n Celibate and Im Content. Thank You Mr. Baker
I love it teaching.. God bless u
😔 as i almost caved today to my ex. He was on his way and thank God i opened this. Canceled that mistake real quick! Wow. I almost just made the biggest mistake! Thank God! Ill be in the word all night and a lot more again.
THANK YOU LORD FOR DELIVERANCE!! THIS WAS PART OF MY PAST. I THANK GOD FOR HIS GRACE AND MERCY.
Amen
That’s one thing l have never been. I always had standards but l faced pressure and was called boring and too strict many times but l am so happy now hearing this that l have always stood by my standards
I have chosen not to date, I'm to much of an emotional person. I don't have time to date a bunch of men I'm putting my trust and everything in God, I have run into to many bad men. I will court a guy and be his friend but I am only going to date my husband and I believe that God will let me know when I meet my husband along the journey. If I trust God for everything in my life why wouldn't I trust that he has a husband for me so there is no need to date .
Tina Fox have to listen to his def. of dating. dating for data/ dating for discernment... it is a non sexual non romance discovery of anothers soul I forgot wat episode its on went on binge
Tina Fox Sis!!! I’m telling you! It is possible! I am a witness firsthand.
Last year I had finished dating someone who was not any good for me. I already knew what he was trying to make happen but I shut him out. Long story short. In the beginning of 2017 I purchased a promise ring for myself, dedicated it to my relationship with God, prayer over it and told God that I did not want to date. My heart would only be open to forming Godly friendships or courting.
Well October rolled in and I was commenting on a post and a few other people replied to my comment. My present day fiancé was one of the people who replied to my comment on the public post. For the month of October I ignored him, overlooked him and was chatting with another Christian gentleman that I soon had to cut off for being too forceful and controlling. All the while my present day fiancé simply would wait on me to respond to him. I literally would go days without response to him. One day in November he said something to me and God whispered ‘Look.’ I looked at him again and realized that he was standing there waiting to change my life. We pray together every night before we fall asleep in our separate destinations. And now we’ve begun to pray together in the morning when we wake up. God has blessed me with a future husband. I asked him why he waited on me and I ignored him for a month and he said “I knew I was going to love you forever on the very day I saw your comment on that post. Although you overlooked me for that time I knew that God was helping me because love is patient, love is kind, love keeps no records of wrong.”
Boy. Oh boy.
God set me up.🤦🏽♀️ I’m all embarrassed. Thought I wanted to stay single. I was so happy there on my own. Now I’m even happier with him hanging around.
Tina Fox Be encouraged!
i agree 100 percent.no dating!
Beautiful story, thanks for sharing!
May God bring together more relationships like this.
“It’s amazing how a PHd of a woman can be led by a GED of a man.”
(drops phone...)
PHD WOMAN IS BEING LED BY A GED MAN WHO WANTS TO LEAD HER TO THE B.E.D. SORRY JUST LIKE USING CAPS
Pastor. I admit...you was talking to ME!! At first I was angry, but then I realized that what your preaching is character building, and developing my spirit for maturity. This is what I need to hear REGARDLESS of how much it hurts!! I am going to start hanging around strong powerful women that don't take no crap!! I am in my 40s. I wish I would had listened to you in my 20s when I was really screwing up and needed to hear the truth about my role in being a silly woman back then. Thank You RC Blakes JR.
Pam..that message seared between the division of the soul and spirit,bone marrow 😂😂.I was hurt at first too..cos I have allowed too much BS for too long....it ain't too late.Sometimes to speak into your life to heal&grow in God
Broke financially, broken spiritually, terminally ill, homeless, domestically abused, verbally abused that's how far I let it go. Thank you so much for this, this is the one that I needed. God bless you!
I pray that you are in a better position now
You Spoke Volumes Sir...I love it. And I wished I'd heard it at 10 and not 40..
me too
"Maybe you're a dog catcher." lol! I hollered!!!! Pastor Blakes keeping it real ... keeping it 100! One of the the best discussions ever! My mom used to say to us all the time, "No one can ride your back unless it's bent.
In Jesus Christ’s Holy Name. Amen. LORD GOD I hold up Pastor Blakes, his wife Lisa, their children, and all in their circle that are contributing to this Awesome, Powerful, Loving, Peaceful, and Needed message to be sent out to women who have not had the privilege of knowing this secret knowledge which is being shared. Bless them with your protection spiritually and physically that your Truth may be Glorified. Because in Truth is Eternal Freedom and who Christ sets Free is Free indeed. This is a Blessing that cannot be stopped. Only in Jesus Name may it continue to succeed. Amen and Amen.
Oh how I love this man he reminds me of my father.. I miss him so much.. when you have a father like this in your life it’s hard to be s silly women because daddy has already molded you!!!👏🏽🤷🏽♀️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🥰 💯
this man is good! I have played this like 3 times.....
Azizi Foster Lol so did I 😄...
Yes Azizi. He is a light in the darkness.
Azizi Foster i totally agree!! His teachings are soooooooo sound!!!
My daughter is 17 year old and fatherless. I bought her your book "Father Daughter Talk"...she says that it has been so helpful with understanding this complex issue, and continuing to build her self esteem. Thank you, thank you, thank you...thank you for being that truth that so many of us women to hear! May God continue to Bless and keep you and your lovely family🙏
Good mommy
Such necessary teaching whether folk want to hear it or not.
Yes. The truth hurts.
My father gave me the game from when I was mere child. Thank God for great fathers. Now my husband and I are training our offspring.
pastor Blakes thanks for telling the truth, I've had to learn this process the hard way, but am glad and happy to say I'm no longer in a battle of this nature anymore. Thank you for telling this to us in your videos.
Ain't nothing better than a LESSON with LAUGHTER! I LOVE THIS MAN! TY!!!!
Can we address the root cause of this? and how can we avoid this. I was one of these women because I wanted to feel loved.
Summers Rule a father in the home is no different than a father who left the home, sometimes the father is just there or the father is not really good with their own children.
I agree, you can still have a father in the home and if the relationship between father and daughter is not right...or even the father is one of these men, we are telling women to avoid, women can still make the mistake of attaching themselves to these men.
wow.. yes
It comes from being fatherless. No father = No identity. No identity = low self esteem. People with low self esteem are easy to manipulate. Because they're depending on someone else to make them feel good about themselves. Thats the person they give control to. Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. You have to forgive your daddy for not being there and allow God to heal that breach in your soul. Otherwise you'll continue to find men just like him because you reap your judgement
Kareen Mondesir we are following self, others and satan, but not God.
they can’t be dogs without a dog-walker! 7 years later and this is still relevant today in 2024; this kinda sound doctrine is timeless! wish more pastors spoke on this and not itching ears. don’t avoid this convo, this needs to be heard over and over again! we love you! ✨
I was a silly woman once.
Vickie wilson So was I. So many of us can attest to this. But thanks unto God who gives us the victory!
Vickie wilson we, all were at one time Sis..the key word is "one" time..so, blessed that I've woken up..remain strong! Let God continue to lead you..
I was a “silly woman” so many times I can’t count! That was then; this is now!
Me too😞
Vickie wilson me too
You have changed my life when it comes to self love finding you sept 11th opened my eyes so much that Sept 13th i left my ex of 5 years. I realized I was being a silly woman and I have such more intelligence than that! Thank you for guiding me like an earthly father that i didn't have that privilege but Jesus has brought me through so much and I wear my scars with confidence I didn't break with all the darts the enemy has thrown my way by God's grace I am saved..
Game is real! stay afloat. stay ready! Stay Queening!
Seeing this for the first time- I was married for 12 years when my husband passed away. I was only 35 at the time, and 6 years later I met a man that I've thought to be God given. I realize now 3 years later that this man has and is PRESENTLY doing all the things you are speaking sir! I have married him and thought that if applied all the things I learned from my first marriage as it was successful I could help him be better. I was a foolish woman! My light bulb has literally just clicked on in the last week and its like a shining light of Clarity. I can't apply what I've learned and what worked from my first successful marriage as this man DOES NOT want be a husband, friend, and partner. Some of the comments and the things you say RC Blakes Jr are hurting my feelings... BUT, I know my "SHIFT" is set and ready to go. No more will I be the Silly Woman who allows my foolish husband to keep me Bondage. Thank you for all your very very true opinions and guidance.
I WILL say it again.....that FATHER DAUGHTER TALK book bless me bountifully!!! Great read......
I don’t know why the women dropped out but I’m 46 and I needed to hear every word of this!! Thank you Bishop you are a gem. I ordered your book
Nobody has ever been so real with me Paster,r Thanx you for being the father i never had . Am now done with walking around blind everything now makes sense since i started listening too you
Addicted to trash ! 🎤….. Preach Bishop ! Someone needs to be a deliverer of the truth.
UNTIL WOMEN KNOW BETTER WOMEN WILL DO BETTER.🙏
A woman will find it easy to submit to a man who is worthy!!!!! THANK YOU Revd!!!!!
Women that allow men to creep into there homes are week without self control. God please help!
I feel anyone jumping out of this video just weren't ready to hear the message of your truth. Acknowledging the issues before us we would rather sweep under the rug and addressing them is a challenge but necessary for our growth. Such a powerful message in this one!
I'm 37 and am just getting over being a "silly woman". Knowledge is key!This was needed and thank you for sharing!
As an ex naive silly woman (since today!) God bless the preacher RC blakes because I was walking in blind and got devoured
I love you too, Pastor Blakes for telling the honest truth sir.
I love him so much. He's changed my mentality so much this last year I've listened to him. I still have my problems with liking the wrong men, but I'm not so quick or even inclined to pursue foolish things that will drag me away from my life vision. Thank you Pastor
Exceptional message, one many of us need because we've either been there and care not to go back to that or we haven't been there and need to be warned. You are right on all accounts. It is spirit breaking to go through being the person that was led astray or watching someone you love who you believed was so smart degraded to a level of stupidity that no degree or title could rescue her from.....i think if we had a passion for freedom more than a passion for passion, we would walk in the right direction, with our mind, brain and spirit intact. Good messages especially at 5:59, 16:36, 17:39, and 25:37, very good. 👏
"Why do so many men sleep around? Because so many women let them." Really. I wouldnt say that that is fully accurate pastor because most of the time they try to hide it. Not the woman's fault to be blamed at all. Aside that i love your ministry and a lot of what you have to say is so truly helpful, thank you
Love his message. But why do men play these type of games. Can we talk about this ??? Why are women constantly told they need to raise their self worth. What about men, there has to be some sort of responsibility that men own up to for the way they treat women.
Some men see women as people they can control. It's the nature of the beast. You have to establish your boundaries.
Miss LT well... If they were never taught....or no role models...then uh.......
Miss LT Right, some men lie and play so many games as if they don't even like women. They do messed up stuff to us and it seems as though they don't care and have no plans to change.
Lady Magnolia they don't. Many of them are Narcissists looking to catch bait for their even bigger Narc Mother to approve of and fawn over. I see this in emotional Incest of single mother's and their son's. I avoid a lot of men like this. These are Princess men who are more Female then male so they lack the Principles and Grounding a Man of God would bring. Accountability, Leadership, Honor, RESPONSIBILITY he was not taught that by the Mother so he will not exercise it themselves. A lot of these males are honestly gay and when you realize that you don't get so impressed by lies. They talk a lot because they are HIGHLY female aka Gift if Gab so you Listen instead of WATCH their actions which is what they want you to do
A Stand brilliant
This was so necessary. I entered into a marriage to a narcissist and was a silly woman due to lust just got divorced and its really time to raise the bar. You said nothing wrong we need to hear this.
I was a silly woman, and I paid the price, I was almost murdered. since then I have turned my life over to Lord. love with intelligence yes, no more creeping into my house. thank you so much for keeping it real. strong message here. Amen. all so true. I think it was because I was molested as a child by my stepfather. exactly, how much do we sacrifice???? no more silly woman here!!!!
Much respect. Peace and love sis.
Pastor Blake, thank youuuu for these words of truth. A much needed area that many of us, particularly me, needed. Sometimes truth is hard to accept. But rejection if truth makes one the more silly and unwise. Again, many thanks for imparting and sharing. I love following you. Keep sharing
So true! Very convicting😔
I'm typically am not a silly woman. I went into a season of silliness.
I allowed myself to get "weary of well doing" due to years of taking care of a chronically ill spouse.
I because tried and bitter. The enemy creeped in and I fell for it.
Now I healing from PTSD and a broken heart.
Thank God that HE doesn't allow the enemy to "snatched us from Jesus' hands." God redeemed me from this narcissists.
I thank God for my Pastors and you preaching the Word in and out of season"!!!
Praise God, Silly Season is over!!!
LADIES LISTEN TO THIS MAN!
IF THAT MAN YOU'RE WITH IS DOING WHAT PASTOR BLAKES IS SAYING, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!
If you can't say amen, say ouch... AMEN & OUCH!!! Im so glad I came across your videos. Thank you!
Please do NOT STOP preaching & teaching this truth. Thanks pastor!!
I first would have to say hello my name is Lisa I’m 45 and my goodness your that Dad I’ve never had!!! All the messages I’ve heard from you has been so real and honest and I appreciate you to my highest power! Danger this was so needed goodness! Thank you!!
THIS RIGHT HERE IS ONE OF THE MOST EPIC MESSAGES BY PASTOR BLAKE!!!
WE CAN'T WAIT TO MEET YOU IN TORONTO 2020.
GOD SPEED😘
Tell it Pastor Blakes! I've had nothing but clowns & GED men in my life until 2 yrs ago! I was silly but I'm so glad I started listening to God & waited on Him! My last relationship was with a malignant narcissist & I had enough!
More churches need to speak on this & make men & women accountable for their soul ties.
Definitely 🙌🏾♥️
I know, I know I'm late, but I'm just now starting to watch you. Man of God, PLEASE keep speaking truth to light! I'm a woman who NEEDS the butt naked truth! Straight laced, with NO chase! I appreciate YOU ❤️🙏🏾
this aint nothing but the truth pastor lord i needed to hear this i wouldnt necessarily call myself silly but ive definitely been tricked a time or two. simply bcuz at the time i thought i needed a man to complete me but after countless times of being hurt i woke up now if hes not God sent i will remain single and honestly right now im enjoying the single life dont even want a man right now.
Wow! You're so on point! Some of it hurts, but the truth will make us free! Thank you so much for addressing the type of man that we SHOULD Be looking/submitting to and the vetting process. I've been saying this for years, but get screamed at and labeled as bitter by the silly "look at me" type women and pimp syndrome men.
Just dumped a silly boy who wanted to force me into a relationship. He is uneducated, a drunk,a smoker,a blasphemer,narcissistic....I jumped & WALKED AWAY....Didn't even waste my prayers on that SILLY BOY To ask God & stuff, truth was in plain sight...all I needed was God, intelligence, self control & discernment.Praise GOD
Amen
My spirit is renewed , my eyes are open and my heart is protected 🙏❤️
Preach... AMEN. I am so tired of these women, validated by having a man around and by men period. They need GOD and men like you to tell them to get busy living instead of dying.
I used to be that woman too. Needed to hear this
young ladies need to stop getting pregnant with the silly thoughts of having a baby will make the relationship better.
Cubbie Smith That’s one of the bondages he is talking about!💯
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I admit it ... that I’ve signed out and put my spiritual self on the shelf to be a SILLY woman to entertain some knucklehead.
Lord have mercy.🙏🏾
Thanks for this message. Came alittle late. I knew better. Dealings with a guy for three years, should have ended way before it started. Dealing with the repercussions of my actions over a guy had no business being with.
Please Bishop don't stop doing these teachings. Sooo many of us need these teachings!! This cut but I truly needed this. I needed this sooo bad. You are a blessing to me and these teachings are setting me right. God bless your honesty and frankness. The truth is such a blessing. Imma dust my lil self off, pick up my face, put on my big girl draws and move on in God. God bless you Bishop.❤❤❤
You are saving lives. Pls talk about this
What you allow, will continue.
I'm a silly woman
Bishop Blakes is the truth!!! I love and appreciate you Bishop. Your messages are always on point. You are a true blessing.
Thank you Father God for RC Blakes Because I wouldn't have never known that I was a Silly Woman all these years of my life. I could never be upset that the truth is being spoken . For the women to get upset and unfollow Pastor RC Blakes Because he's speaking ALL TRUTH & I thank God I can Admit, But Now know to Make Changes. I Truly Appreciate This Message and God will Use me someday to help younger Ladies . Use me Father God Give me the Boldness to stand up and be an example even in the Embarrassment to know that I am a Silly Woman 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 God Bless RC Blakes above and Beyond his Measure.
I can identify with you, cause I didn't know I was once a silly woman. I also ask GOD to use me too help other women the way RC Blakes Jr. is helping us. A couple of years ago I asked GOD too save me from myself. GOD showed up and he's showing out in my life. May GOD continue to bless you in Jesus name.
this was so powerful especially at the end about finding yourself first
I used to be a silly woman and even married an “ignoramus”,lol. I tried to blame God for my marriage ending but God put me in check quickly. This may be TMI but I’ve been abstinent over three years and if God has someone for me, great. If not, that’s great too! I have my joy/peace back & won’t compromise for any body🙌🏾
I had to learn the hard way myself, how I wish I knew this before I opened the door to the devil.
THIS IS A TRUE WORD..BROUGHT ME TO TEARs..continue to let the Lord speak through you
It begins with loving your self. Awesome video!
Please continue to be unapologetic!! Too many babies are being messed up and die because of these situations. It's necessary and relevant.
God be with you, Pastor.