A guy friend of mine told me years ago, "Never tell a man what you expect from him, let him show you on his own, that's when you will know if he is the one for you".
Yes he will be that one and eating pork chops sandwiches and he don't do his prayers and disappears after the baby born ....A. A Adams and Amanda Calderon Irene and pookie Corinne 🧐😯😲😎
Girl I check the roots too. If he ain't led by the Spirit, then he ain't a son of God and is only pretending. The SpiritGod will reveal a man's heart to you if you ask him. Some have a form of godliness powered by pretense
Girl I don't have time to waste so I check the roots first. If he ain't led by the Spirit, then he ain't a son of God and is only pretending. The Spirit of God will reveal a man's heart to you if you ask him. Some men have a form of godliness powered by pretense
Been praying for a husband for years, but am coming to the realization that I should praise God I’m still single!! Seriously who has time for these jokers he is describing?😂
Bobbi Nez KEEP THANKING CHRIST FOR THE RIGHT ONE WHO THINKD YOU ARE THE BEST. THATS IF YOU BELONG TO CHRIST! AND YOU'RE SAVED BY HIS GRACE. HIS PROMISES ARE FOR THOSE THAT ARE HIS AND THEY ARE A SURE THING. HE MAKES GOOD HIS PROMISE YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO KEEP FAITH. KEEP PRAISING HIM, HE HEARD YOU.IF YOU ATE LOOKING FOR GOD THE FATHER HE WILL POINT YOU TO CHRIST THE SON THAT CAME OUT OF HID MOUTH JOHN 1: READ IT ALL
You should have added Mr Nice Guy....The one who says Yes Too Everything you want,he doesn't Argue or Challenge you....Then he gains your Trust,the Mask comes off and he's a Covert Narcissist it very Insidious .
God has called you to do a great work. A lot of women need to hear this. A lot of young women never had a dad who cared about them enough to teach them.
Caroline Murray I concur. My father was MIA most times. Learned a lot on the streets of NYC growing up, unfortunately I was quite promiscuous, always looking for love bc I didn't get that from my father. Thank God, my Heavenly Father for saving me, He knocked, I answered and have been delivered and set free. I've forgiven myself too. Praise you Jesus❣️and hearing Pastor Robert's teachings help so much.
Caroline Murray because they didn't really know the truth either. My father was around and loving but his marriage was hard from the get go. I later realised it was because he applied certain personal ideas he didn't get from God. He prayed and prays for me to have a great marriage and teaches us patience but he hadn't gotten the formula yet. For most people in the world relationships are basically guesswork. I used to be confused about marriage too but the Holy Spirit came in and taught me and renewed my mind and now I have a great perspective on marriage, I know what to look for, how to know if they're suitable for me etc. It's awesome. The Holy Spirit is really the best father and teacher. If you'd like me to share my ebooks, subscribe to my channel or send me a message to helenenangs@gmail.com God bless you!
Cuz they were too busy out tryin to play women, dog women and cause this cycle to repeat ..degrading, devaluing but then wanting a female to lift the. Up ..
Extremely helpful and full of wisdom - I thank God for your life Sir. As a 19 year old from London, trust me when I tell you thank you! I honestly believe that you have saved me from future unnecessary, dysfunctional relationships. I'm very happy to hear this at my young age. Been praying to God to have a discerning spirit and He lead me to your videos. Will be buying your book soon. God bless you Pastor. 😊
Are you on God's database? If you're fetching from the wrong well, you'll always be thirsty. It'll take Jesus Christ to reset your desires like the woman at the well. Look for a man who is on God's database. How will you know? Well, walk with the Holy Spirit, he alone can teach you everything you need to know about marriage. Pastors, books, advice will always seem like a large pile of dos and don'ts that will take you eons to unravel until you're frustrated. Ask God for the Holy Spirit and that he should teach you all you need to know about marriage. That's the only way to be the right person, find the right person and marry right.
@@ngreat4390 most men are not that good. The bible literally states it over and over. How many stories of betrayal and lies just for sex have men done for how many years now?
Kufre Akpan well, women are not that good either. Women mislead and use men all the time, right from the garden... The Holy Spirit gives a very sound training on marriage without the use of books and preachers. He will revolutionise your thinking on relationships and love. When he does, you won't need to argue with any man. Instead, you'll know how to identify the right man (someone whom the Holy Spirit has equally taught, tried and tested on marriage). I can share some lessons God taught me on WhatsApp +2348061398101 Everyone wants a good spouse but they will only get perilous times if they go for a worldly pers
These are the lessons that my father, grandfathers, and uncles taught me. I didn't always listen but I smartened up really quickly. All young girls must hear this!
Some women give church men too much credit, and it's only because they go to church...devils go to church too. God said no man is perfect and that is including "church men". Thanks Mr. Blake's for the message.
Ugh I'm 34 years old& have NEVER been in a serious exclusive relationship. Watching this video makes me feel better being selective & having a spirit of discernment. Watch for the fruit men bear, not just what they speak
Yep, same thing I thought! The "Fathers" are out still running game their darn selves lol.. How can they slow down long enough to teach his daughter a life long lesson! Sad - just Sad~
It’s sad that most men are taught that they must lie to get what they want especially to women. And especially black men do this!!! It’s a shame that I am to expect that everything that comes from a mans mouth (that’s not my daddy) is an outright lie.
Tyleshia, why you throw out the race card, especially black men!??! Guys will lie just to get the cookie period. The reality is it's the black men that YOU attract from within. Maybe you've been lying to yourself about something whether recently or from something as far back as early childhood. Dig deep and once you find it and acknowledge it, you will see that the liars will be phased out of your life slowly but surely:) Best of luck to you and be patient.
Leanne Ginnetti and it’s crazy how ur defending black men , she didn’t want them to treat her like trash they just did and she’s only telling her experience , she didn’t ask for this .... and a hot dog will holler so are you a black man that is butt hurt cause people are calling U out for ur bs
My great grandmaw used to say "These men just wanna jump up and down on ya" I was like what does this old lady know.......I should have listened. This would have saved me from these frauds.
I am 61 and have been dating for the past 8 or so years. My heart is breaking at the state of this world and the state of men. I would have never thought it would be like this with (haha) mature men. It is exactly the same. White, Mexican, Asian, Black...it is all the same. Using women and wanting no commitment of any kind. Pastor you are a Light in the dark tunnel. Good men need to start educating young men how to be Christ like and follow a good path. Something has to change.. Thank you God for Pastor Blakes!
I am 72 widow. I had an encounter with my first player at 68 yrs old. Old man thinking.he was some.kind of special. He was handsome and could sweet talk like I never heard. Turns out he id just a low life dirty old man. Its not just young guys.
My husband was that & it turned out he was gay. And it was his closeted gay Holy-Rolling father who pressured him to marry. It was 35 years of wedded Hell with this man & it ended with his suicide to spite his father.
My dad taught me these things as a very young child, I was able to dismantle the game and avoid mistakes with lifelong consequences. Thank you for being a father the fatherless. @rc blakes jr
Yep! I can definitely attest to that🙋🏽♀️ I remember my grandma even introduced me to one guy from our church. I didn't tell him what I wanted and I noticed in ONE WEEK OF TALKING. That he had a controlling side and I crazy not so Godly side. I ran 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️ 2nd Church guy was raised in the church since he was young. He reached his teens and up, and was sleeping with everybody. Even broke two friends apart in our church. My young butt dated him, but I knew my limits. Broke it off quick.I ran 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️ 3rd Church guy he LIED about having a second child, claiming he only has one. Didn't have a car, but wanted me to pick him up for a date. Had the nerve to tell me, since I'm a Christian woman(which I am not, I'm spiritual, no religion). That I should be okay with picking him up and paying. Because he's going through hard times, lost his job and had to send his kids Birthday cards. I never dated him or took him seriously. He reacted by cussing me out, saying he should go back to being a dog, sent pictures to my phone in briefs with his penis imprint. Immediately said sorry to me, but I wasn't taking him seriously. He also told me I better hurry up and grab him, cause some woman wants him to move in😂🤣😐🤨. I ran🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
I made the mistake of being too available from day 1. Started with a coffee date and he immediately messaged me to do dinner later that night that I agreed to so he could romance me. This led to him saying all the right things every day for 2 weeks, charming and treating me like a princess. Gave me a key, told me all about his neglectful childhood, that he just wants a normal peaceful family life.... was a gentleman until he hooked me emotionally them it turned sexual because I allowed it so then he started with the sly comments to guilt and shame. Psychological and emotional abuse, push and pull, dangling the carrot and he picked fights to end it but always put blame on me. I’m working on myself now and these videos have been a God-send! Blessings to all who are finally getting these words to help them!
Femme Fatale Listen to SheRaSeven 1 on Utube. She has a lot of videos that’ll put you in a whole different mindset where these good for nothing men are concern. Doc Reid, Tony Gaskins, Debra Cooper have some good ones too. 😊
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To all the other ladies that have been celibate for years.. I say that’s a beautiful thing.. I have been celibate for 21 years .. my ex-husband was my last and female co-workers look at me like “What?”. I love the fact that I am celibate ..and I give God thanks for that.
Cynthia Jernigan An undeveloped man that doesn't understand the purpose and power of the woman. Unfortunately too many men are UNCONSCIOUS. There are some great guys.
I pray that one, just ONE of those great guys finds me in the near future. I love your teachings Pastor Blakes! They bless me, inspire me to greatness, correct me and encourage me. Thank you for taking the time to help us!
Lol. A guy friended me on Facebook per his request because we had been talking for a long time...and quickly unfriended me when there was NOTHING on my page to feed on. I have very little on there. He showed his true colors immediately. He was livid and said I was playing games😂😂😂
You sure dodged a bullet!! I'm sometimes amazed at how guys completely fold and the truth comes out as soon as they think they're not gonna get lucky. It's like a switch. It's always kinda shocking when their nice, sweet, calm, charming side suddenly becomes angry, pushy, disrespectful, and mean. It's like, are they even the same person???
You're talking about a narcissist, I disguise my social media, these demons are not clever at all. I love to play the psychological games with them makes em mad as hell and doubt themselves and their abilities in the art of trickery it's hilarious.
Im 34, and I've really lost faith in the black man. Are you telling me that some men are intentionally playing on a womans vulnerabilities? It is very hurtful. I dont want to deal with black men anymore from my father who left, perverted stepfather, molesting cousin, little brother is mad at me and resentful, the father if my child is a bitch. I am so disappointed in the black men who have come into my life in all different capacities.
Musiq Love Hun, there are good people and bad people; the color of the epidermis doesn't mean a thing,as far as their spirit is concerned. This coming from a "swirler". Stay Blessed!🙏
Men of all colour are the same. I thank you for these teachings. I get so upset and feel so used once I finally sleep with them and they loose interest right after. It’s like they get the candy and now want another flavour. I’m learning to withhold sex until monogamy. I get too emotionally invested into these men and then when I lose them it is like a death for me. Thank you pastor.
Queen ofHearts I understand your anger, but those men you & I encountered where damaged, broken, Lost boys, Healthy Real men Protect women..get better not bitter, your a Queen👑
Since I’ve been listening to you almost two years, I think. I got Rid, Of a 20, year Soul Tie!! 🤗, now living for me and not Settling! Thank You! I came on in a Depression, I’m so much Better!
I'm only 18 and been in a relationship for a year and I told him too much about me I've had relations with him several times unprotected I really regret it and i have a dead beat dad so he didn't tell me that men are like this so I want to thank u for telling me how men are
And now I'm heartbroken he told me if I have a baby abort it and he called me dumb he knows I'm not a fan of life and everything I waited 6 months to sleep with him but I wasn't really ready
I like Cucumbers He's such a POS. I know it hurts but focus on yourself and level up --- the moment he senses you've moved on, he'll come back and don't give him the satisfaction of allowing him back into your life
It's never to let to stop and change. Don't feel you have to keep doing something I don't care if you did it a hundred times before you can still stop and don't let anybody shame or convince you different....be blessed little sis..😇
Neither will you know a man in 10 years, if he has something he want's to hide. My mother is the reason I married the man, that carried me off captive.
Thinking back I saw the signs that this man did not want a permanent relationship/marriage. I take accountability for wasting 3 years. RC, "you and your wife are a gift from God, giving us wisdom."
Pastor, I appreciate your teachings. Thank you for bringing these conversations to women; young and old. We all benefit from your insight and the wisdom God has given you.
We love your ministry and call upon your life Bishop. But we also love the ways you utilize the gifts that God has given you. Keep sharing Sir, we're out here listening and adhering. God bless Leading Lady as well.
I want to thank on of your members, for introducing me to your teaching. Bishop, you have ministered to me dear and I thank you!! May God continue to bless you and your family!!
I'm a 40 y old white catholic female,an RN from NYC originally from Ukraine.I stumbled on your videos while searching for some information to help raise my 12 y daughter as a good person.I appriciate your work and helping ppl.God Bless You. Like ,Subscribed.
I grew up without a father, due to him being murdered when I was 2. I’m 28 now. This information is so useful. Just wish I was able to find pastor Blake’s videos sooner.
My father died in 1962 I was a baby. My mother never remarried, and the lost of my father has had a negative impact on my life. I thank you so much for your fatherly advice.
Thank you. I'm so mad I just found you. I've been celibate for two years, but didn't understand why or how I knew not to bite. Your videos have given me my Queendom validation and helped me to understand I am right where I need to be. You have my attention and respect.
Pastor Blake, I am not a particularly religious woman, but I thank you for your knowledge and the gift of sharing it. You have helped me see things more clearly and act accordingly. Thank you again.
Finding a good man is so simple look for consistency has he been on his job for years has he gone to his church for years. Be direct......ask questions when you meet his family ask some questions ones that aren't obvious to your agenda....
That was my fault from my ex of 10years! I wish I knew about this years ago! But my pain built my character! It’s hurts to finally wake up! Grabbing my heart every night because I was so gullible and silly and lack of even on my spiritual journey! I’m learning one day at a time to forgive myself! Yeah I was hood winked! But I’m still alive!
My ex husband who is a narcissist said these exact words “I felt like I was an actor the whole time” ....yeah...I’d say this falls under the deceiving category.
I love to watch his videos. He is so on the point. He talks about the real deal. Seriously, i am so thankful his videos come my way. Women need someone thta wake them up. We have to have dignity
God bless you, now that ive crossed over into womanhood , just beginning to understand about life and men . A lot of things ive had to try and understand on my own since I never really had a strong positive male influence in my life . Your word are truth and really has opened my eyes and I pray God blesses u for speaking up .
thanks bishop this video was empowering because I know men who have left there own families to be with another woman on the other side of town and have talked her in to believing he's a good man.
I had a guy stalk me who was on the downlow. He was activly trying to destroy me every single day. If God wasn't in my life and I would have engaged in sexual activity with him, he would have put me at a HUGE risk, and destroyed my life. And the sex part is not always true, sometimes they're VERY evil and they'll be patient and wait just so they can discard you after they get what they want. These brothas are patient.
WOW to the beautiful woman who struggles financially these "ballers" trap the naive woman. Education is and financial independence is crucial. but also discernment as a lot of these predators are in the work place and on the college campus ! thanks so much
Exactly l can relate that's why you talk less and listen more. It gets them every time 😅😂 🤭. All those false acting gone and there true nature is revealed.
Pastor Blake's! You ain't nothing but the TRUTH! I wish I had this guidance and teaching along time ago!!! Keep on motivating Much Love and Blessings🙏💖👑
I am 62, and needed to hear your Godly wisdom years ago. Have been hurt deeply by the church guy. Thank you for being there for us woman and daughters. Lord bless you richly.
Series of questions won't help you. Actors already have ready prepared answers to any questions you may have because he has practiced it on others. Again, because your ears are itching to hear what will be relieving, you're willing to believe whatever he tells you so that the relationship can move forward. So what can help you? The Holy Spirit. Walk with him, learn from him and listen and obey. He'll give you the blueprint to recognise the right person for you and most importantly, he'll make you the right person. God specialises in giving good gifts and perfect presents. If you're not walking with God, you'll pick the wrong guy/Lady. That's a fact
@Helen Enang I read your comment before I left this page but was led back by the Holy Spirit to find your post again. I am testifying to the truth of your statement. If we would seek God's will in relationships, the Holy Spirit (He) will guide you. He will illuminate. He will reveal what is true so that it will be obvious to you what is false or fake. The Lord does give good gifts to us. Wisdom is one of those gifts. We must ask for it and glean from the wisdom, in a practical sense, being shared by persons like RC Blakes and others on YT.
Thank you so much for this information. I am old and have gotten so much value of this. I never had any of this information from my father that I recall. Great teachings I've learned from your lessons.
And what, may I ask is so special about you that makes a man obliged to fix your toilet anyway, if you weren't LYING to him about it overflowing in the first place that is? Fix it yourself or do what a man has to do and pay someone. The thing that most of you women fail to notice is how your own sense of entitlement affects your relationships.
@@nevertethered6386 u as a man don't even know how to fix a toilet so u have to call for help? No wonder u think u r equal to a woman bc u act like one. U just told on your b*tch a** self while simultaneously tryna disparage a woman. Go change your tampon b*tch.
@@October3074 Oh, shaming language and baseless conjecture. How unoriginal and typically female of you. Edit. By the way I love the fact that putting me on a level with a woman is an insult in your eyes. If that is not misogyny and an inference/recognition of male superiority I don't know what is.
@@khloe38 I dumped my girlfriend precisely because she had the same solipsistic, entitled attitude as the author of the original comment...which is probably not too disimilar from yours seeing as you jumped on the "what's so special about you" part. I am not dumb enough to have a wife.
A guy friend of mine told me years ago, "Never tell a man what you expect from him, let him show you on his own, that's when you will know if he is the one for you".
Yep whenever a guy asks me I just say if you fit the bill I’ll let you know just be yourself. That’s he tell tell sign they trying to fit the mold
@@staceyj3667 Yes Mam! All truth!
Great advice!
Better One no no no please don’t bring up being Christian! Then they can easily pretend they are!! Let them speak what they believe FIRST!
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This man's daughters are VERY Fortunate to have him as a father.
I ONLY Compete With The Woman I Was Yesterday so true! 💓
Yes ♥️♥️
Amen Pastor never had father but thanks be to God amen
Happy New year to you and your family God bless you all.
Don't trust the leaves, wait on the fruit and fruit requires time. PREACH PREACHER
Yep! 'cause eating an unrippend fruit will give you colic.
Yes he will be that one and eating pork chops sandwiches and he don't do his prayers and disappears after the baby born ....A. A Adams and Amanda Calderon Irene and pookie Corinne 🧐😯😲😎
The fruit is proof on what kind of tree this is.
Girl I check the roots too. If he ain't led by the Spirit, then he ain't a son of God and is only pretending. The SpiritGod will reveal a man's heart to you if you ask him. Some have a form of godliness powered by pretense
Girl I don't have time to waste so I check the roots first. If he ain't led by the Spirit, then he ain't a son of God and is only pretending. The Spirit of God will reveal a man's heart to you if you ask him. Some men have a form of godliness powered by pretense
Been praying for a husband for years, but am coming to the realization that I should praise God I’m still single!! Seriously who has time for these jokers he is describing?😂
LMAO!!!!
Exactly i feel the same way
Bobbi Nez
KEEP THANKING CHRIST FOR THE RIGHT ONE WHO THINKD YOU ARE THE BEST.
THATS IF YOU BELONG TO
CHRIST! AND YOU'RE SAVED
BY HIS GRACE. HIS PROMISES
ARE FOR THOSE THAT ARE HIS
AND THEY ARE A SURE THING.
HE MAKES GOOD HIS PROMISE
YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO KEEP
FAITH. KEEP PRAISING HIM,
HE HEARD YOU.IF YOU ATE LOOKING FOR GOD THE FATHER
HE WILL POINT YOU TO CHRIST
THE SON THAT CAME OUT OF HID MOUTH JOHN 1: READ IT ALL
@imobeus1 immature where?
😂😂😂
You should have added Mr Nice Guy....The one who says Yes Too Everything you want,he doesn't Argue or Challenge you....Then he gains your Trust,the Mask comes off and he's a Covert Narcissist it very Insidious .
Amen!
A lesson I will never forget!❤
spicy1ize Eww I hate guys like that anyways. You could say Nazis are awesome and they would nod their head in agreement.
@@sapiosag9306 I'm witcha
Yes, I was married to that man too!
God has called you to do a great work. A lot of women need to hear this. A lot of young women never had a dad who cared about them enough to teach them.
Caroline Murray I concur. My father was MIA most times. Learned a lot on the streets of NYC growing up, unfortunately I was quite promiscuous, always looking for love bc I didn't get that from my father. Thank God, my Heavenly Father for saving me, He knocked, I answered and have been delivered and set free. I've forgiven myself too. Praise you Jesus❣️and hearing Pastor Robert's teachings help so much.
Or stay around
Exactly. They rather go to the corner store, consume sports channels, etc.
Caroline Murray because they didn't really know the truth either.
My father was around and loving but his marriage was hard from the get go. I later realised it was because he applied certain personal ideas he didn't get from God. He prayed and prays for me to have a great marriage and teaches us patience but he hadn't gotten the formula yet.
For most people in the world relationships are basically guesswork. I used to be confused about marriage too but the Holy Spirit came in and taught me and renewed my mind and now I have a great perspective on marriage, I know what to look for, how to know if they're suitable for me etc. It's awesome. The Holy Spirit is really the best father and teacher. If you'd like me to share my ebooks, subscribe to my channel or send me a message to helenenangs@gmail.com
God bless you!
Cuz they were too busy out tryin to play women, dog women and cause this cycle to repeat ..degrading, devaluing but then wanting a female to lift the. Up ..
Extremely helpful and full of wisdom - I thank God for your life Sir. As a 19 year old from London, trust me when I tell you thank you! I honestly believe that you have saved me from future unnecessary, dysfunctional relationships. I'm very happy to hear this at my young age. Been praying to God to have a discerning spirit and He lead me to your videos. Will be buying your book soon. God bless you Pastor. 😊
Well done ..but all that wise stuff u reding from some books ..and mix a bit of ur one exp.right ..? ;)
😊👍👍😊❤
Can’t tell you how refreshing and healing it is to hear a man tell it straight. My father was not a protector.
I've seen men's fruit and they all turned out to be rotten apples!
Revolution Of Mind
wow that's deep
😂😂❤️
Are you on God's database? If you're fetching from the wrong well, you'll always be thirsty. It'll take Jesus Christ to reset your desires like the woman at the well.
Look for a man who is on God's database. How will you know? Well, walk with the Holy Spirit, he alone can teach you everything you need to know about marriage. Pastors, books, advice will always seem like a large pile of dos and don'ts that will take you eons to unravel until you're frustrated.
Ask God for the Holy Spirit and that he should teach you all you need to know about marriage. That's the only way to be the right person, find the right person and marry right.
@@ngreat4390 most men are not that good. The bible literally states it over and over. How many stories of betrayal and lies just for sex have men done for how many years now?
Kufre Akpan well, women are not that good either. Women mislead and use men all the time, right from the garden...
The Holy Spirit gives a very sound training on marriage without the use of books and preachers. He will revolutionise your thinking on relationships and love. When he does, you won't need to argue with any man. Instead, you'll know how to identify the right man (someone whom the Holy Spirit has equally taught, tried and tested on marriage).
I can share some lessons God taught me on WhatsApp +2348061398101
Everyone wants a good spouse but they will only get perilous times if they go for a worldly pers
These are the lessons that my father, grandfathers, and uncles taught me. I didn't always listen but I smartened up really quickly. All young girls must hear this!
I'm a young college student im listening😊
Some women give church men too much credit, and it's only because they go to church...devils go to church too. God said no man is perfect and that is including "church men". Thanks Mr. Blake's for the message.
Tares among the wheat
None is good but God, Christ said it Himself. 🤷🏽♀️
True!
Often the butterflies are not any indicator of love..... they're part of your warning system telling you to run.
Yep 👍
Lesley EL ALAMI exactly. Butterflies are lies!
Is this true?!?
Lesley EL ALAMI 😂😂
Never heard this but looking back this is sound advice.
"Never take a man at his 1st words.."
Ugh I'm 34 years old& have NEVER been in a serious exclusive relationship. Watching this video makes me feel better being selective & having a spirit of discernment. Watch for the fruit men bear, not just what they speak
✋I know that's right!!
A lot of our fathers are those type of men. My dad taught us that’s just how all men are. Sad
Yep, same thing I thought! The "Fathers" are out still running game their darn selves lol.. How can they slow down long enough to teach his daughter a life long lesson! Sad - just Sad~
Do you really believe all men are this way? All?
It’s sad that most men are taught that they must lie to get what they want especially to women. And especially black men do this!!! It’s a shame that I am to expect that everything that comes from a mans mouth (that’s not my daddy) is an outright lie.
Tyleshia, why you throw out the race card, especially black men!??! Guys will lie just to get the cookie period. The reality is it's the black men that YOU attract from within. Maybe you've been lying to yourself about something whether recently or from something as far back as early childhood. Dig deep and once you find it and acknowledge it, you will see that the liars will be phased out of your life slowly but surely:) Best of luck to you and be patient.
It's not sad, it's despicable
@@leanneginnetti5952 no boo. Majority dont offer anything. Atleast other people will atleast try to offer something and court you
Leanne Ginnetti cause that from her experience... can’t be mad if that’s slll she got from BLACK MEN
Leanne Ginnetti and it’s crazy how ur defending black men , she didn’t want them to treat her like trash they just did and she’s only telling her experience , she didn’t ask for this .... and a hot dog will holler so are you a black man that is butt hurt cause people are calling U out for ur bs
My great grandmaw used to say "These men just wanna jump up and down on ya" I was like what does this old lady know.......I should have listened. This would have saved me from these frauds.
I am 61 and have been dating for the past 8 or so years. My heart is breaking at the state of this world and the state of men. I would have never thought it would be like this with (haha) mature men. It is exactly the same. White, Mexican, Asian, Black...it is all the same. Using women and wanting no commitment of any kind.
Pastor you are a Light in the dark tunnel. Good men need to start educating young men how to be Christ like and follow a good path. Something has to change.. Thank you God for Pastor Blakes!
I am 72 widow. I had an encounter with my first player at 68 yrs old. Old man thinking.he was some.kind of special. He was handsome and could sweet talk like I never heard. Turns out he id just a low life dirty old man. Its not just young guys.
@@barbarariley3488
Absolutely absurd
It breaks my heart too
Yes!
I've met the praying church player before . Thats when I first learned about wolves in sheep's clothing.
quetahackworth I’ve met the church player who knew the whole bible but turn around and told me “I’m a man first”.😳
@@sweetolives2467 Lord have mercy!
My husband was that & it turned out he was gay. And it was his closeted gay Holy-Rolling father who pressured him to marry. It was 35 years of wedded Hell with this man & it ended with his suicide to spite his father.
@@daphneduryea9136 TV movie material. Wow
Sweet Olives 😂😂😂😂😂😂
My dad taught me these things as a very young child, I was able to dismantle the game and avoid mistakes with lifelong consequences. Thank you for being a father the fatherless. @rc blakes jr
I had a church guy some years ago. He was someone I knew of from high school...turned out to be a demon. They are a trip!!!
They're the worst. The biggest hypocrites
I know what u mean.
Yep! I can definitely attest to that🙋🏽♀️
I remember my grandma even introduced me to one guy from our church. I didn't tell him what I wanted and I noticed in ONE WEEK OF TALKING. That he had a controlling side and I crazy not so Godly side. I ran 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
2nd Church guy was raised in the church since he was young. He reached his teens and up, and was sleeping with everybody. Even broke two friends apart in our church. My young butt dated him, but I knew my limits. Broke it off quick.I ran 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
3rd Church guy he LIED about having a second child, claiming he only has one. Didn't have a car, but wanted me to pick him up for a date. Had the nerve to tell me, since I'm a Christian woman(which I am not, I'm spiritual, no religion). That I should be okay with picking him up and paying. Because he's going through hard times, lost his job and had to send his kids Birthday cards. I never dated him or took him seriously. He reacted by cussing me out, saying he should go back to being a dog, sent pictures to my phone in briefs with his penis imprint. Immediately said sorry to me, but I wasn't taking him seriously.
He also told me I better hurry up and grab him, cause some woman wants him to move in😂🤣😐🤨. I ran🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
@@LisaLisaCJ 💞
@@sadepayne lol
some men consistency can even be fake at the beginning especially if he calls u wayyy to murch..narcissists do this
GiGi moore hmmm deep
I made the mistake of being too available from day 1. Started with a coffee date and he immediately messaged me to do dinner later that night that I agreed to so he could romance me. This led to him saying all the right things every day for 2 weeks, charming and treating me like a princess. Gave me a key, told me all about his neglectful childhood, that he just wants a normal peaceful family life.... was a gentleman until he hooked me emotionally them it turned sexual because I allowed it so then he started with the sly comments to guilt and shame. Psychological and emotional abuse, push and pull, dangling the carrot and he picked fights to end it but always put blame on me. I’m working on myself now and these videos have been a God-send! Blessings to all who are finally getting these words to help them!
I can relate to this statement. Ended up in divorce.
Femme Fatale Texting is to set up dates only..period.
Femme Fatale Listen to SheRaSeven 1 on Utube. She has a lot of videos that’ll put you in a whole different mindset where these good for nothing men are concern. Doc Reid, Tony Gaskins, Debra Cooper have some good ones too. 😊
I wish i knew of this stuff when i was younger.😣
imunique19 me too. Smh!
M€ TOO!!!
Me too...
So do I .
And the teacher showed up at the right time and the students are ready!
JUST BOUGHT THE BOOK!!!!! Don't ya'll sit here and whine n cry! GET THE BOOK!!!!! Raise yaself up!!!!! $9 on Kindle $16 Paperback...you spend more in the wig store so put some sense under ya lace! BUY IT!
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lmao
Im crying
😂😂 damn , facts tho! 💯
@Isa Rivera yes she dropped all the jewels in her videos
And most of them are very bad actors.
I M A QYN so true
They think they are fooling someone
Apparently... Some.. Pastor s....Are.
The first one is not until u have experience you will get tricked.
They belong in b movies..
"... At least 9 of them not gonna call you tomorrow, more than likely 10 not gonna call you"... 😂😂😂😂💀. I so love these messages.
Don't trust the leaves....look at the fruit💟💟👏👏👏
“He and his wallet fades into the sunset...” LMBO 😀😃😃😃😃😃😃🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭
Bye✌️
You will Know them by there fruit not their conversation. 🙌🏾
Uniquely Lovely Amen and Amen!!!!
To all the other ladies that have been celibate for years.. I say that’s a beautiful thing.. I have been celibate for 21 years .. my ex-husband was my last and female co-workers look at me like “What?”. I love the fact that I am celibate ..and I give God thanks for that.
Yes and God bless & strengthen us all. When they run when they hear "I'm celebrate" PRAISE GOD!!!
"The most first few phases in a man are not genuine." He sizes you up as you talk way too much (TMI) too soon and he figures you out there and then.
So, the man's whole mission is the cookie? Geesh...That's sad.
Cynthia Jernigan An undeveloped man that doesn't understand the purpose and power of the woman. Unfortunately too many men are UNCONSCIOUS. There are some great guys.
I pray that one, just ONE of those great guys finds me in the near future. I love your teachings Pastor Blakes! They bless me, inspire me to greatness, correct me and encourage me. Thank you for taking the time to help us!
👏👏👏......
95% ! Of these... menBOYS!... Do NOT! even deserve!....a...GOOD!....Woman!...Period.
@@RCBlakesJr. 👏👏👏
Isn't it, what an empty existance.....
I appreciate you more than words can express.
Nice comment, I think we all do. x
You cant even tell what type of tree it is UNTIL you see the FRUIT. Go slow with friends and dating. With people in general.
Lol. A guy friended me on Facebook per his request because we had been talking for a long time...and quickly unfriended me when there was NOTHING on my page to feed on. I have very little on there. He showed his true colors immediately. He was livid and said I was playing games😂😂😂
You sure dodged a bullet!! I'm sometimes amazed at how guys completely fold and the truth comes out as soon as they think they're not gonna get lucky. It's like a switch. It's always kinda shocking when their nice, sweet, calm, charming side suddenly becomes angry, pushy, disrespectful, and mean. It's like, are they even the same person???
You're talking about a narcissist, I disguise my social media, these demons are not clever at all. I love to play the psychological games with them makes em mad as hell and doubt themselves and their abilities in the art of trickery it's hilarious.
M. Monroe : same thoughts. What he is referring to is a narcissist.
I do that too 😁 They can't handle it...
M. Monroe 😂😂
Enjoy your company ladies, love ourselves first & foremost. Patience will pay off.
Seems narcissist are all over the place. Church's bring it out, gives them permission to be misogynistic.
Im 34, and I've really lost faith in the black man. Are you telling me that some men are intentionally playing on a womans vulnerabilities? It is very hurtful. I dont want to deal with black men anymore from my father who left, perverted stepfather, molesting cousin, little brother is mad at me and resentful, the father if my child is a bitch. I am so disappointed in the black men who have come into my life in all different capacities.
Your gonna find it doesnt matter the color, theyre all alike
Musiq Love Hun, there are good people and bad people; the color of the epidermis doesn't mean a thing,as far as their spirit is concerned. This coming from a "swirler". Stay Blessed!🙏
Men of all colour are the same. I thank you for these teachings. I get so upset and feel so used once I finally sleep with them and they loose interest right after. It’s like they get the candy and now want another flavour. I’m learning to withhold sex until monogamy. I get too emotionally invested into these men and then when I lose them it is like a death for me. Thank you pastor.
Queen ofHearts I pray for healing in your life in Jesus's name
Queen ofHearts I understand your anger, but those men you & I encountered
where damaged, broken, Lost boys, Healthy Real men Protect women..get better
not bitter, your a Queen👑
Since I’ve been listening to you almost two years, I think. I got Rid, Of a 20, year Soul Tie!! 🤗, now living for me and not Settling! Thank You! I came on in a Depression, I’m so much Better!
Praise God.
I knew I wasn't crazy! Everything this pastor is saying is so true and I'm a firm believer.
I'm only 18 and been in a relationship for a year and I told him too much about me I've had relations with him several times unprotected I really regret it and i have a dead beat dad so he didn't tell me that men are like this so I want to thank u for telling me how men are
And now I'm heartbroken he told me if I have a baby abort it and he called me dumb he knows I'm not a fan of life and everything I waited 6 months to sleep with him but I wasn't really ready
I like Cucumbers wow so sorry to hear that..hope you learned a very valuable lesson and learn to love yourself..its the greatest love of all
I like Cucumbers
He's such a POS.
I know it hurts but focus on yourself and level up --- the moment he senses you've moved on, he'll come back and don't give him the satisfaction of allowing him back into your life
It's never to let to stop and change. Don't feel you have to keep doing something I don't care if you did it a hundred times before you can still stop and don't let anybody shame or convince you different....be blessed little sis..😇
Saahira Dunford I pray beautiful that you are in great spirits in 2019! You are not alone sweety! Peace & Blessings
You're THE BOMB PASTOR BLAKES, you should have seminars for men and women,you are TRULY GOD SENT!!!!!THANK YOU SOOO MUCH!!!!!
Neither will you know a man in 10 years, if he has something he want's to hide.
My mother is the reason I married the man, that carried me off captive.
"Never define a man until you've tested his character."
Thank you Ptr. Blakes for the beautiful message. God bless you and your family more!👍🙏
Thinking back I saw the signs that this man did not want a permanent relationship/marriage. I take accountability for wasting 3 years. RC, "you and your wife are a gift from God, giving us wisdom."
I wasted over a decade. Three years is nothing. You're still young.
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2017 and woman are still putting their feelings on social media #shakemyhead..
Gina Bee
IKR don't wear your heart on your sleeve
Now its 2019 and they are still doing it 😕
I used to do that but now it's grown to making my social media private and I only repost empowering quotes.
I'm in Philadelphia and again I prayed for understanding and two days later I found you...thank you
I am forever changed! #Nevertoooldtolearn
This is good advice. Especially for women with children.
Pastor, I appreciate your teachings. Thank you for bringing these conversations to women; young and old. We all benefit from your insight and the wisdom God has given you.
smooth operators....so called. christian brothers....beware if he dosent even let u speak....your time to is valuable.... Value urself
My father has been in prison my whole life. I have been in toxic situations my entire life. I bought your book tonight. Thank you
Exactly..The New Game Team "No sex..til marriage"
Cheryl Mcleod are you serious? OMG im shocked .....
rape would sky rocket
Cheryl Mcleod yesssssss!!!!!!!
That's old school. Women need to get back on the old path.
Marriage don't make him a sheep... Speaking from experience... We got married and the MASK CAME OFF!!
I didn't have a father, & I look at u as A FATHER figure. THANK YOU, LORD for sending me in this direction 👏
We love your ministry and call upon your life Bishop. But we also love the ways you utilize the gifts that God has given you. Keep sharing Sir, we're out here listening and adhering. God bless Leading Lady as well.
Thank you very much. I really appreciate it.
+Robert Blakes PREACH PASTOR.
I want to thank on of your members, for introducing me to your teaching. Bishop, you have ministered to me dear and I thank you!! May God continue to bless you and your family!!
No way in hell would I give my daughter's number to a teenage boy. Those women were simple and naive.
I'm a 40 y old white catholic female,an RN from NYC originally from Ukraine.I stumbled on your videos while searching for some information to help raise my 12 y daughter as a good person.I appriciate your work and helping ppl.God Bless You. Like ,Subscribed.
Such a eye opener, we must pray for discernment because without it we will be played. Thank you pastor for this.
I grew up without a father, due to him being murdered when I was 2. I’m 28 now. This information is so useful. Just wish I was able to find pastor Blake’s videos sooner.
My father died in 1962 I was a baby. My mother never remarried, and the lost of my father has had a negative impact on my life. I thank you so much for your fatherly advice.
Trust your intuition ladies!!
Thank you. I'm so mad I just found you. I've been celibate for two years, but didn't understand why or how I knew not to bite. Your videos have given me my Queendom validation and helped me to understand I am right where I need to be. You have my attention and respect.
energy does not lie...it can not be faked.
Pastor Blake, I am not a particularly religious woman, but I thank you for your knowledge and the gift of sharing it. You have helped me see things more clearly and act accordingly. Thank you again.
Captain kid lol! I can't believe I'm 44 and still didn't realize these things. Thank you Pastor for being the dad I never had.
Wow. I guess there's no such thing as a man of God. I guess I'll be celibate for the rest of my life. Perhaps, that's my calling. Great teaching dad.
Starting to think the same thing.
Finding a good man is so simple look for consistency has he been on his job for years has he gone to his church for years. Be direct......ask questions when you meet his family ask some questions ones that aren't obvious to your agenda....
That was my fault from my ex of 10years! I wish I knew about this years ago! But my pain built my character! It’s hurts to finally wake up! Grabbing my heart every night because I was so gullible and silly and lack of even on my spiritual journey! I’m learning one day at a time to forgive myself! Yeah I was hood winked! But I’m still alive!
My ex husband who is a narcissist said these exact words “I felt like I was an actor the whole time” ....yeah...I’d say this falls under the deceiving category.
I love to watch his videos. He is so on the point. He talks about the real deal. Seriously, i am so thankful his videos come my way. Women need someone thta wake them up. We have to have dignity
Allow yourself to allow men to proof if he is a good man . Dont give in to sweet talk and false love, if he love you, want you he will marry you .
God bless you, now that ive crossed over into womanhood , just beginning to understand about life and men . A lot of things ive had to try and understand on my own since I never really had a strong positive male influence in my life . Your word are truth and really has opened my eyes and I pray God blesses u for speaking up .
2 Timothy 3:13
But evil people and impostors will flourish. They will deceive others and will themselves be deceived.
I guess the 58 dislikes are from guys 😂😂.. Good info, Thank you brother RC Blakes. God bless you
I married with church man,was the worst experience I have...open your eyes sisters.Thanks papa🤗
I’m glad I see now the VALUE in taking tine to get to know a man
I wish I had this info when I was a young woman. He is speaking truth here. Real world realities on what is out there.
thanks bishop this video was empowering because I know men who have left there own families to be with another woman on the other side of town and have talked her in to believing he's a good man.
I go to sleep with your videos playing...get it all in my subconscious. I wake up with such clarity as I listen to them again.
Bae let’s have a “word of prayer” at your house 😆😆😆😆😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
AMEN.! Character is everything in a relationship!
You have been a total blessing to me and my relationship mishaps. I have been sharing your video's with my girlfriends. God Bless you!
Me too. I'm sharing these videos. It has helped me too sis. Past and present.
I had a guy stalk me who was on the downlow. He was activly trying to destroy me every single day. If God wasn't in my life and I would have engaged in sexual activity with him, he would have put me at a HUGE risk, and destroyed my life. And the sex part is not always true, sometimes they're VERY evil and they'll be patient and wait just so they can discard you after they get what they want. These brothas are patient.
@Violet flower amen!
WOW to the beautiful woman who struggles financially these "ballers" trap the naive woman. Education is and financial independence is crucial. but also discernment as a lot of these predators are in the work place and on the college campus ! thanks so much
Exactly l can relate that's why you talk less and listen more. It gets them every time 😅😂 🤭. All those false acting gone and there true nature is revealed.
Mine was a cross between captain kid and spiritual rastafarian with dreads, headwrap the lot. The guy was no more a rastafarian than a ball head!
JoJo LMAO
Lol!
Use your mind before they make you loose your mind God Bless This MAN !
Facts...
I have personally seen every type of man on this list. Y’all better take heed-
Some man are deceivers and are liers, thank you pastor blake for your wise words God bless you.
Pastor Blake's! You ain't nothing but the TRUTH! I wish I had this guidance and teaching along time ago!!! Keep on motivating Much Love and Blessings🙏💖👑
I am 62, and needed to hear your Godly wisdom years ago. Have been hurt deeply by the church guy. Thank you for being there for us woman and daughters. Lord bless you richly.
And I am running off the field like a woman screaming, I promise you I am 🤣😂😅... I’m done!.. I hear your message loud and clear Bishop.👍
Series of questions won't help you. Actors already have ready prepared answers to any questions you may have because he has practiced it on others.
Again, because your ears are itching to hear what will be relieving, you're willing to believe whatever he tells you so that the relationship can move forward.
So what can help you? The Holy Spirit. Walk with him, learn from him and listen and obey. He'll give you the blueprint to recognise the right person for you and most importantly, he'll make you the right person. God specialises in giving good gifts and perfect presents. If you're not walking with God, you'll pick the wrong guy/Lady. That's a fact
@Helen Enang I read your comment before I left this page but was led back by the Holy Spirit to find your post again. I am testifying to the truth of your statement. If we would seek God's will in relationships, the Holy Spirit (He) will guide you. He will illuminate. He will reveal what is true so that it will be obvious to you what is false or fake. The Lord does give good gifts to us. Wisdom is one of those gifts. We must ask for it and glean from the wisdom, in a practical sense, being shared by persons like RC Blakes and others on YT.
Thank you so much for this information. I am old and have gotten so much value of this. I never had any of this information from my father that I recall. Great teachings I've learned from your lessons.
Awesome to hear Father Daughter Talk!!! God is so Good you lead me here just to Listen to words of Wisdom!!!
Lack of integrity is endemic. Better to stay single.
Agreed
Thank you so much for your time to teach us women the TRUTH. I truly appreciate you. I admire you pastor you are a great blessing to my life.
I am so thankful I came across you. thank God the Lord is using you to get us out this horrible epidemic when it comes to dating.
Wow Pastor Blake; I have put all your video's on most of the Celibacy groups on FB and my friends! May God bless you and thank you!
You have a point.. Many show their hand and the man can easily play becuz her cards are on seen..
Preach Pastor Blakes!!! You are speaking the truth. God bless you and Thank you🙏🏽.
I have used that trick a lot...pretend that I need help with the toilet overflowing....they make all kinds of excuses to get away..they never come.
And what, may I ask is so special about you that makes a man obliged to fix your toilet anyway, if you weren't LYING to him about it overflowing in the first place that is? Fix it yourself or do what a man has to do and pay someone. The thing that most of you women fail to notice is how your own sense of entitlement affects your relationships.
@@nevertethered6386 u as a man don't even know how to fix a toilet so u have to call for help? No wonder u think u r equal to a woman bc u act like one. U just told on your b*tch a** self while simultaneously tryna disparage a woman. Go change your tampon b*tch.
@@nevertethered6386 "whats so special about you?" Wow. I hope you dont think that way about your girlfriend or wife!
@@October3074 Oh, shaming language and baseless conjecture. How unoriginal and typically female of you.
Edit. By the way I love the fact that putting me on a level with a woman is an insult in your eyes. If that is not misogyny and an inference/recognition of male superiority I don't know what is.
@@khloe38 I dumped my girlfriend precisely because she had the same solipsistic, entitled attitude as the author of the original comment...which is probably not too disimilar from yours seeing as you jumped on the "what's so special about you" part.
I am not dumb enough to have a wife.