1. Grow in your relationship with God. 2. Do your forgiveness work. 3. Reconcile your pain. 4. Complete your relationship with yourself. 5. Discipline yourself sexually. 6. Become familiar with your own future.
*Heal betrayal by being self-loyal. *Heal rejection by self acceptance. *Heal abandonment by self love. *Heal humiliation by self respect. *Heal injustice by forgiveness.
You better not only discipline yourself sexually before relationship you better discipline yourself before you get into Ministry are you be a loose cannon in and out of the church! Aman Saints! Smile Keshia
I have healed a lot and thought I was ready to open myself up to courtship but after listening to this, I’ve realized I have more healing to do in the area of forgiveness. Thank you Pastor
Yeah because you don't want to be bitter and bring that bitterness to the next man we don't like that we don't know what u had going on and we.dont want your old drama ...We fresh building and we got things to do. Not paying for no other dudes mistakes
I ALWAYS get so much from your messages...I cry and thank God because I know I am getting so much better in understanding myself as it relates to relationships....realizing I've had too many "situationships". I am working on healing and understanding so much more about me and doing the work on me instead of wishing I had a husband. I always say I can't find anyone to date. But I guess God does not want that for me at this time. He wants me to concentrate and spend time with him! So I can be made whole and then he can send me my husband...even at the mature age of 64 yrs old. It's not too late 😊 Thank you RC Blake's for always bringing a powerful, heartfelt message.
Pastor Blake u r leaving me speechless because u r hitting a homerun with me...I have been trying to fill a void for years and afterwards I was still empty on the inside..thank very much for this sermon
Bro you really be preaching every video. You drop so many nuggets and confirmations. I know these videos are geared towards women but as a straight man I can understand everything.
Hello Bishop, my name is Alex reaching out from Uganda. I justed to appreciate you for fathering us. I honour you and your lovely wife, Lisa, for responding to call of God to serve us in this way. I have learnt alot. I am not yet married and thanks to your mentorship, I am looking forward to it.
Absolutely FANTASTIC! All the most important foundations of relationship and life on the whole! I used to follow you in UK, now I live in Poland, I am good Catholic, but I still enjoy listening to you. God speaks through you and you speak so much truth, because you are a man of God! It shows that we all should be with God and only being with God makes us wise, good humans and guides us to live our lives in Truth. Let God bless you and the work you do.
Thank you so much for being here to share this with us. There is a timing as God wants. Today I told the man I was dating that I loved him but there is no room in my life for nonsense. He can keep sowing his oats. I will remember that God wants me to have someone not perfect but faithful.
He hit the nail on the head with this one. For those who come across this video, please have the ears to hear. Lay down your fleshly senses and open the heart of your Spirit. Sooo good. Most of us women, MISS this part or dont even know this is the missing piece.
Felt blessed by this message. I can feel in my spirit and with product that I’ve grown and worked on myself fully. It took me 3 years to fully “love” myself and that showed me that everything takes time. “Self-concept”
I'm speechless! Bishop put it down! Real TRUTH! I'm praising God for the mindset to keep to Bishop's teachings. I don't have to feel convicted by this message! I'm engaged and my fiance and I are proud to be living celibate and holy! It's a good feeling to keep God first, honoring Him and our temples! Bless you Bishop and Lady Lisa! See you at the top!
Thank you 🙌for the information to the many single women looking for love, I truly believe that only a man can teach women about men 💪 just listening to your teaching us women how we should conduct ourselves as women and holding men accountable on how they should treat us as women and not to accept anything less than our value 💪 Using the example of your 27 year marriage to your wife Lisa is inspiring ❤️ I appreciate your hard work and dedication from a biblical point 🙌 Thankful to you and Lisa 🌹
I was at work 6 days ago a clinic with my two female coworkers in the lunch room. I walked in and said my hips were tight and one girl said you really need to get laid and the other one suggested I buy a dill doe and tie my legs behind my bed post. It was so vulgar the words were emotionally violent and I had to report the incident. Most women I work with are immoral and having sex all over the place, with drug addicts and their all in toxic relationships. I asked God to help me find something else and to protect me from such a low vibration work place.
When you talked about some of us are trying to build a relationship with people to fill a void of God instead of building a relationship with God, it really hit me. I pray and read scripture. However, I have sought out the advice of people maybe more than I should have went to God first about my situations.
Hello from Iran. I found you couple of days ago. God bless you and your teachings. I am benefitting from your talks alot and learning about christianity at the same time! I am a practicing Muslim and love and respect all religions. I am in a l9ngdistance relationship going to meet him in person in a third country. He lives in Canada. Lot of stuff you talk about dating i needed to hear and i am happy it has the gods words toyour teachings as well. Thank you i can resonate with you 110 percent.
1 Grow Spiritually and be in a position that brings Glory to God Genesis "Ref" Adam relationship with God" *Get your relationship with God In Place Mathew 11_28 Proverbs 3, 5_6 2 Do your Forgiveness Work "You cannot be bitter n happy at the same time.." Mathew 5 , 23 -25 Hebrews 12 -1 3, Reconcile your Pain Proverbs 28-13 5 RULES OF HUMANITY *Betrayal *Rejection *Abandonment *Humiliations *Injustice Hebrews 12 ;15 4 Complete you relationship with your self Gen 2:7 5.Discipline your self Sexually 6. Become Familiar With your Own Future
I was always taught life will make you bitter or better, YOU CHOOSE. I wake up EVERYDAY and I praise and thank God for all my blessings. I have been thru a lot in this life but I’m at peace angry at no one and HAPPY, by God’s love and grace. I know you are a blessing to many, patiently teaching us a BETTER WAY to be, not of this world only in it. I thank you for this necessary ministry. And to all reading this comment, may God show and allow you to feel the GREATEST LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP IS with HIM 1St than ourselves. Stay Blessed
Thank you so much Pastor you are really sowing spiritual healing amongst the female communities around the world. Most us fail in life completely because our fathers are absent and there is no-one to show us what we should be looking for in a life partner. Our mothers are not equipped to teach us how to conduct ourselves in relationships and life because they are also really spending their lives trying to figure it out. This pattern of being lost then continues from generation to generation. But having resources like you are providing available to us is really helping us to put things into perspective for ourselves and also aligning our lives so that we set a better example for our daughters. You are equipping us with the knowledge we need to make better life decisions and teach our daughters to do the same. Thus breaking this cycle of perversion and broken homes that woman have been leaving as an inheritance for their sons and daughters for so many generations, really because we didn't know any better. May God continue to bless your Ministry and your family for you are making an impact that will have a healing and life changing effect for generations to come.
I haven't listened to you for a while, so tonight the holy spirit said, listen to this message...MAN!! (with all due respect) this message was like a cool glass of water on a hot summer's day. Those pre-relationship goals hit like firey darts and landed like a jet out of the sky needing a gasoline refill. And I felt like I was on my therapist's couch.
This is so true! Being right with God gives us the discernment to see if a person is truly right for us or not. It gives us peace within ourselves even if we aren’t currently in a relationship. 😊
I enjoy this channel. I follow the Torah, and no longer identify as Christian. You are like a father mentor. 💙 May the almighty Elohim continue to bless your union.
Your first point has been my prayer for myself for the past few months and especially on today!! And for you to speak on it tonight is confirmation in itself!!! Thank you for this word!
Abstinence has become increasingly easier. By His grace, I don’t have soul ties. As a single lady, in this dating climate, the desire and temptation is nonexistent. I’m about building my relationship with God and focusing on self improvement. I’m not interested in dating right now. Unless it’s a solo date ☺️
Saying hi from Colombia. Thanks all for your help and wisdom. May God you and your family good health and years full of blessings and helping others. Gracias!
I so agree and journaled it Bishop. For me, it means to be honest and own it. NO CONTACT, is important for me to protect my peace, keep focus, trun down the noise via covert actions and continue to self love. I want peace more than sex (I'm in no rush), money (I walk by faith) and have knowledge of healthy resources, choclates ( are all things outside of what matters) I am going to have a libarary to share Bishop. God thank you for this time with you, continue to search me Oh Lord.
I had to give up dating for now. My relationship was interfering with my relationship with God Almighty. I gave it up, to focus on my relationships with God!
Loved this video. I agree with all these pre relationship goals. Gotta check them up in my life. Thank you for the beautiful prayer at the end. God bless us all 🙏🏼💖✨. Ps: jfyi I’m watching you from Brasil 🇧🇷🙏🏼🥰
I recently found your channel, and I love it. Thank you for sharing your wonderful wisdom. I appreciate you. It's been very helpful for my growth. Peace and Blessings to you and all the beautiful souls out there 🙏💙🩵🕊
Pastor said have Pre-Relationship goals 😂. I am a happy woman and a happily married woman and immediately my spirit said yes! I haven't even watched the video yet, but the title caused my spirit to leap and agree. I am about to take all the notes, let me go grab my pen 🖊 😂❤
Has to be my favorite relationship coach!! The way you are unapologetic about the place of God in our lives is so inspiring, only because i already know that to be so true. Outside of God there is literally nothingness. So glad i bumped into your content.
Thank you so much for this amazing lesson. I needed this message, it spoke directly to me. You have been so impactful and encouraging. I truly thank God for you. Bless you and Lisa⚜️
1. Grow in your relationship with God.
2. Do your forgiveness work.
3. Reconcile your pain.
4. Complete your relationship with yourself.
5. Discipline yourself sexually.
6. Become familiar with your own future.
Thank you
Thank you 🙏🏽❤
Thank you
Thank you 🎉
Thank you
*Heal betrayal by being self-loyal. *Heal rejection by self acceptance. *Heal abandonment by self love. *Heal humiliation by self respect. *Heal injustice by forgiveness.
Thanks for your notes!
HELLO FAMILY! Please share this for us tonight and please LIKE. Welcome 🙏🏽
Shared Bishop but been meaning to ask what artist & song is your intro please ?
You better not only discipline yourself sexually before relationship you better discipline yourself before you get into Ministry are you be a loose cannon in and out of the church! Aman Saints! Smile Keshia
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I really love the song
Yassss!
I said the samething… he should post the full track.
I know it had to grow on me at first lol
Me too ❤
Me too!
I have healed a lot and thought I was ready to open myself up to courtship but after listening to this, I’ve realized I have more healing to do in the area of forgiveness. Thank you Pastor
I can relate 110%
Yeah because you don't want to be bitter and bring that bitterness to the next man we don't like that we don't know what u had going on and we.dont want your old drama ...We fresh building and we got things to do. Not paying for no other dudes mistakes
I ALWAYS get so much from your messages...I cry and thank God because I know I am getting so much better in understanding myself as it relates to relationships....realizing I've had too many "situationships". I am working on healing and understanding so much more about me and doing the work on me instead of wishing I had a husband. I always say I can't find anyone to date. But I guess God does not want that for me at this time. He wants me to concentrate
and spend time with him! So I can be made whole and then he can send me my husband...even at the mature age of 64 yrs old. It's not too late 😊
Thank you RC Blake's for always bringing a powerful, heartfelt message.
Pastor Blake u r leaving me speechless because u r hitting a homerun with me...I have been trying to fill a void for years and afterwards I was still empty on the inside..thank very much for this sermon
Girl same thing, I'm realizing. This message is too real.❤
Thats so true. People out here sleeping around like its the norm Thats why i stay in my bible. 63 years old
Bro you really be preaching every video. You drop so many nuggets and confirmations. I know these videos are geared towards women but as a straight man I can understand everything.
Hello Bishop, my name is Alex reaching out from Uganda. I justed to appreciate you for fathering us. I honour you and your lovely wife, Lisa, for responding to call of God to serve us in this way. I have learnt alot. I am not yet married and thanks to your mentorship, I am looking forward to it.
All the way from Uganda as well. Bishop's ministry is a blessing to me and to my heart. I'm learning, entertained and empowered.
Absolutely FANTASTIC!
All the most important foundations of relationship and life on the whole! I used to follow you in UK, now I live in Poland, I am good Catholic, but I still enjoy listening to you. God speaks through you and you speak so much truth, because you are a man of God! It shows that we all should be with God and only being with God makes us wise, good humans and guides us to live our lives in Truth. Let God bless you and the work you do.
Thank you so much for being here to share this with us. There is a timing as God wants. Today I told the man I was dating that I loved him but there is no room in my life for nonsense. He can keep sowing his oats. I will remember that God wants me to have someone not perfect but faithful.
He hit the nail on the head with this one. For those who come across this video, please have the ears to hear. Lay down your fleshly senses and open the heart of your Spirit. Sooo good. Most of us women, MISS this part or dont even know this is the missing piece.
Wow this is exactly what I was talking to God about this week🙏🏾 thank you Lord for yet another confirmation ❤
same! Feeling like acceleration in spirit + preparation in practical all around
When you pursue your future - your KING 👑 will pursue you. AMEN 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Felt blessed by this message. I can feel in my spirit and with product that I’ve grown and worked on myself fully. It took me 3 years to fully “love” myself and that showed me that everything takes time. “Self-concept”
I'm speechless! Bishop put it down! Real TRUTH!
I'm praising God for the mindset to keep to Bishop's teachings. I don't have to feel convicted by this message! I'm engaged and my fiance and I are proud to be living celibate and holy! It's a good feeling to keep God first, honoring Him and our temples!
Bless you Bishop and Lady Lisa! See you at the top!
Right on time❤
Most people are lost by the world 🌎 things
Thank you 🙌for the information to the many single women looking for love, I truly believe that only a man can teach women about men 💪 just listening to your teaching us women how we should conduct ourselves as women and holding men accountable on how they should treat us as women and not to accept anything less than our value 💪
Using the example of your 27 year marriage to your wife Lisa is inspiring ❤️
I appreciate your hard work and dedication from a biblical point 🙌 Thankful to you and Lisa 🌹
Again, right on time❤
I was at work 6 days ago a clinic with my two female coworkers in the lunch room. I walked in and said my hips were tight and one girl said you really need to get laid and the other one suggested I buy a dill doe and tie my legs behind my bed post. It was so vulgar the words were emotionally violent and I had to report the incident. Most women I work with are immoral and having sex all over the place, with drug addicts and their all in toxic relationships. I asked God to help me find something else and to protect me from such a low vibration work place.
When you talked about some of us are trying to build a relationship with people to fill a void of God instead of building a relationship with God, it really hit me. I pray and read scripture. However, I have sought out the advice of people maybe more than I should have went to God first about my situations.
Hello from Iran. I found you couple of days ago. God bless you and your teachings. I am benefitting from your talks alot and learning about christianity at the same time! I am a practicing Muslim and love and respect all religions. I am in a l9ngdistance relationship going to meet him in person in a third country. He lives in Canada. Lot of stuff you talk about dating i needed to hear and i am happy it has the gods words toyour teachings as well. Thank you i can resonate with you 110 percent.
1 Grow Spiritually and be in a position that brings Glory to God
Genesis "Ref" Adam relationship with God"
*Get your relationship with God In Place
Mathew 11_28
Proverbs 3, 5_6
2 Do your Forgiveness Work
"You cannot be bitter n happy at the same time.."
Mathew 5 , 23 -25
Hebrews 12 -1
3, Reconcile your Pain
Proverbs 28-13
5 RULES OF HUMANITY
*Betrayal *Rejection *Abandonment *Humiliations *Injustice
Hebrews 12 ;15
4 Complete you relationship with your self
Gen 2:7
5.Discipline your self Sexually
6. Become Familiar With your Own Future
Thank you ❤
@@kasand01 he changed my life... I will never e the same
I was always taught life will make you bitter or better, YOU CHOOSE. I wake up EVERYDAY and I praise and thank God for all my blessings. I have been thru a lot in this life but I’m at peace angry at no one and HAPPY, by God’s love and grace. I know you are a blessing to many, patiently teaching us a BETTER WAY to be, not of this world only in it. I thank you for this necessary ministry. And to all reading this comment, may God show and allow you to feel the GREATEST LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP IS with HIM 1St than ourselves. Stay Blessed
Thank you so much Pastor you are really sowing spiritual healing amongst the female communities around the world. Most us fail in life completely because our fathers are absent and there is no-one to show us what we should be looking for in a life partner. Our mothers are not equipped to teach us how to conduct ourselves in relationships and life because they are also really spending their lives trying to figure it out. This pattern of being lost then continues from generation to generation. But having resources like you are providing available to us is really helping us to put things into perspective for ourselves and also aligning our lives so that we set a better example for our daughters. You are equipping us with the knowledge we need to make better life decisions and teach our daughters to do the same. Thus breaking this cycle of perversion and broken homes that woman have been leaving as an inheritance for their sons and daughters for so many generations, really because we didn't know any better. May God continue to bless your Ministry and your family for you are making an impact that will have a healing and life changing effect for generations to come.
I haven't listened to you for a while, so tonight the holy spirit said, listen to this message...MAN!! (with all due respect) this message was like a cool glass of water on a hot summer's day. Those pre-relationship goals hit like firey darts and landed like a jet out of the sky needing a gasoline refill. And I felt like I was on my therapist's couch.
This is so true! Being right with God gives us the discernment to see if a person is truly right for us or not. It gives us peace within ourselves even if we aren’t currently in a relationship. 😊
I enjoy this channel. I follow the Torah, and no longer identify as Christian. You are like a father mentor. 💙 May the almighty Elohim continue to bless your union.
Golden wisdom shared with love. Thank you for your guidance to queens as well as kings.
Thank you Bishop it was as usual a pleasure to listen to you from Africa. I am muslim yet a devoted Queen of yours. God bless you 💜💜
Thank you beautiful soul 🤍🕯️ faith move mountains 🏔️ love and light to you all 🙏
Your first point has been my prayer for myself for the past few months and especially on today!! And for you to speak on it tonight is confirmation in itself!!! Thank you for this word!
Abstinence has become increasingly easier. By His grace, I don’t have soul ties. As a single lady, in this dating climate, the desire and temptation is nonexistent. I’m about building my relationship with God and focusing on self improvement. I’m not interested in dating right now. Unless it’s a solo date ☺️
Saying hi from Colombia. Thanks all for your help and wisdom. May God you and your family good health and years full of blessings and helping others. Gracias!
Great Sermon
You can not be bitter and happy at the same time🗣️📣
This is going to be another great message from the Lord
Amen Bishop! Keep teaching the truth!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Yes yes yes!!! God is good!!!
Pastor Blakes, This is such an anointed message! God is the ultimate matchmaker. I am waiting on Him. I thank God for both you and First Lady Lisa.
I truly needed this in this season of my life. I am going to apply this message to my life. Thank you
Thank you Bishop for your is rich wisdom!!
I so agree and journaled it Bishop. For me, it means to be honest and own it. NO CONTACT, is important for me to protect my peace, keep focus, trun down the noise via covert actions and continue to self love. I want peace more than sex (I'm in no rush),
money (I walk by faith) and have knowledge of healthy resources, choclates ( are all things outside of what matters) I am going to have a libarary to share Bishop. God thank you for this time with you, continue to search me Oh Lord.
Hello queens!
This preaching is awesome and helpful in my recovery, I appreciate it mentor🙏
This was an amazing teaching Pastor Blakes. I always look forward to Monday's night teaching. Thank you 🙏🏾❤🔥
This segment is gold.
Thank you again for all teaching! Love the analogy of the pair of shoes 🙌
Thank you 🙏
RC Blake’s boy do I wish I knew this growing up. You can be sure I share this with my 3 girls and my son!!!! Amen! You’ve saved ! ❤
Thank you so much. May God continue to use you mightily. May God bless you exceedingly abundantly all the days of your life .
Thank you very much for this sermon/information. It certainly helped me.
💯Amen.......🙏😊🙌💯
Thank you
God bless you Pastor and Thank you and First Lady Lisa. Take your time and teach us. We appreciate what you're doing.
Great 😊 conversation I will be sharing this on my Facebook and all social media platforms
🗣️ OOOOOOOWEEEE this pop popped me all upside my HEAD...thank you thank you Pastor BLAKES🔥🔥
Wonderful message! Thank you
Very helpful! Thank you 🙏🏽
This whole message was well received. I am so thankful for the wisdom you provide us with. May God continue to bless you to do his work.🙏🏽
I'm ready
Wonderful conversation - thank you so much
Exceptionally Excellent.
I’m focusing on completing myself at this point and time in my life and Thank You for confirmation that I Am on the positive path!!!
THANK YOU JESUS CHRIST FOR THY WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT ! ❤🙏🏼😔
Thank you so much... much food for thought
Thank u Bishop RC for this powerfull teaching!
Thanks for the wisdom.
Your right God will give you everything need 🙏 in his time ❤❤
I can do it by myself, with God and his angels ❤
you are a smart man Bishop. Thank you
Pastor (Lady Lisa) This was a another powerful production!!! Thank you!❤❤
Excellent teachings❤🎉
Thank you for this beautiful word!! Praise Be❤
I had to give up dating for now. My relationship was interfering with my relationship with God Almighty. I gave it up, to focus on my relationships with God!
Always timely and
appreciated❤
Powerful power filled messages🙏🏾🙌🏾💛blessGod and all of us for the deliverance 💞🙏🏾✨🙌🏾
Thank you for this teaching tonight! So good!
Thank you Pastor..right on time
This is pure gold ❤
Divine timing on this subject for me…God’s timing and Thank You for your Heaven sent sage advice Pastor Blakes❣️🙏🏽✨🙏🏽
Loved this video. I agree with all these pre relationship goals. Gotta check them up in my life. Thank you for the beautiful prayer at the end. God bless us all 🙏🏼💖✨. Ps: jfyi I’m watching you from Brasil 🇧🇷🙏🏼🥰
This is excellent. Such a great roadmap to doing my own self work. Thank you!!❤
This, by far, is the absolute best relationship advise.
Instantly loved the song
Beautiful song
I recently found your channel, and I love it. Thank you for sharing your wonderful wisdom. I appreciate you. It's been very helpful for my growth. Peace and Blessings to you and all the beautiful souls out there 🙏💙🩵🕊
This is wisdom right here!!! Thank you Bishop🙏🏾
Pastor said have Pre-Relationship goals 😂. I am a happy woman and a happily married woman and immediately my spirit said yes! I haven't even watched the video yet, but the title caused my spirit to leap and agree. I am about to take all the notes, let me go grab my pen 🖊 😂❤
Hello Pastor and First Lady Blakes! Hello Everyone! Please have a Blessed Day!
Excellent!
Thank you sir😊
Has to be my favorite relationship coach!! The way you are unapologetic about the place of God in our lives is so inspiring, only because i already know that to be so true. Outside of God there is literally nothingness. So glad i bumped into your content.
Thank you so much for this amazing lesson. I needed this message, it spoke directly to me. You have been so impactful and encouraging. I truly thank God for you. Bless you and Lisa⚜️
Thank you - I can barely make it through the entirety of this message because you are dropping so many gems that I keep ‘rewinding’. Thank you🤓
I’m currently reading: The Child in you by Stefanie Stahl it’s amazing for discovering hidden stuff and beginning the healing process
Great video 🙏🏽
Thank you Pastor, may Yahweh continue to bless you and your family 🙏🏾
Course correct, wow!!🙌🏽🙌🏽