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  • @angelajg
    @angelajg Год назад +349

    1. Grow in your relationship with God.
    2. Do your forgiveness work.
    3. Reconcile your pain.
    4. Complete your relationship with yourself.
    5. Discipline yourself sexually.
    6. Become familiar with your own future.

  • @anabautista8071
    @anabautista8071 Год назад +57

    *Heal betrayal by being self-loyal. *Heal rejection by self acceptance. *Heal abandonment by self love. *Heal humiliation by self respect. *Heal injustice by forgiveness.

  • @mariaveronicaechevarrietad3656
    @mariaveronicaechevarrietad3656 Год назад +130

    I really love the song

    • @kenitab1673
      @kenitab1673 Год назад +3

      Yassss!

    • @MelbeeVDs
      @MelbeeVDs Год назад +16

      I said the samething… he should post the full track.

    • @pat4502
      @pat4502 Год назад +8

      I know it had to grow on me at first lol

    • @dona5226
      @dona5226 Год назад +5

      Me too ❤

    • @csparklet
      @csparklet Год назад +4

      Me too!

  • @_evolv3d_
    @_evolv3d_ Год назад +117

    I have healed a lot and thought I was ready to open myself up to courtship but after listening to this, I’ve realized I have more healing to do in the area of forgiveness. Thank you Pastor

    • @leeleeonthemove
      @leeleeonthemove Год назад +6

      I can relate 110%

    • @losmit2194
      @losmit2194 Год назад +1

      Yeah because you don't want to be bitter and bring that bitterness to the next man we don't like that we don't know what u had going on and we.dont want your old drama ...We fresh building and we got things to do. Not paying for no other dudes mistakes

  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  Год назад +78

    HELLO FAMILY! Please share this for us tonight and please LIKE. Welcome 🙏🏽

    • @msv6674
      @msv6674 Год назад +6

      Shared Bishop but been meaning to ask what artist & song is your intro please ?

    • @thequeenofresources
      @thequeenofresources Год назад

      You better not only discipline yourself sexually before relationship you better discipline yourself before you get into Ministry are you be a loose cannon in and out of the church! Aman Saints! Smile Keshia

    • @debz6711
      @debz6711 Год назад +2

      @@msv6674 p

    • @debz6711
      @debz6711 Год назад

      @@msv6674 o

    • @debz6711
      @debz6711 Год назад

      80

  • @loismartin9634
    @loismartin9634 Год назад +28

    I ALWAYS get so much from your messages...I cry and thank God because I know I am getting so much better in understanding myself as it relates to relationships....realizing I've had too many "situationships". I am working on healing and understanding so much more about me and doing the work on me instead of wishing I had a husband. I always say I can't find anyone to date. But I guess God does not want that for me at this time. He wants me to concentrate
    and spend time with him! So I can be made whole and then he can send me my husband...even at the mature age of 64 yrs old. It's not too late 😊
    Thank you RC Blake's for always bringing a powerful, heartfelt message.

  • @robbinpryor2391
    @robbinpryor2391 Год назад +8

    Thats so true. People out here sleeping around like its the norm Thats why i stay in my bible. 63 years old

  • @robbinpryor2391
    @robbinpryor2391 Год назад +8

    Most people are lost by the world 🌎 things

  • @nakalexg
    @nakalexg Год назад +29

    Hello Bishop, my name is Alex reaching out from Uganda. I justed to appreciate you for fathering us. I honour you and your lovely wife, Lisa, for responding to call of God to serve us in this way. I have learnt alot. I am not yet married and thanks to your mentorship, I am looking forward to it.

    • @nabattebrendassozi2102
      @nabattebrendassozi2102 Год назад

      All the way from Uganda as well. Bishop's ministry is a blessing to me and to my heart. I'm learning, entertained and empowered.

  • @michaeldande
    @michaeldande Год назад +6

    1 Grow Spiritually and be in a position that brings Glory to God
    Genesis "Ref" Adam relationship with God"
    *Get your relationship with God In Place
    Mathew 11_28
    Proverbs 3, 5_6
    2 Do your Forgiveness Work
    "You cannot be bitter n happy at the same time.."
    Mathew 5 , 23 -25
    Hebrews 12 -1
    3, Reconcile your Pain
    Proverbs 28-13
    5 RULES OF HUMANITY
    *Betrayal *Rejection *Abandonment *Humiliations *Injustice
    Hebrews 12 ;15
    4 Complete you relationship with your self
    Gen 2:7
    5.Discipline your self Sexually
    6. Become Familiar With your Own Future

    • @kasand01
      @kasand01 Год назад +1

      Thank you ❤

    • @michaeldande
      @michaeldande Год назад +1

      @@kasand01 he changed my life... I will never e the same

  • @Demetriwalker
    @Demetriwalker Год назад +2

    Bro you really be preaching every video. You drop so many nuggets and confirmations. I know these videos are geared towards women but as a straight man I can understand everything.

  • @patriciamitchell1924
    @patriciamitchell1924 Год назад +43

    Pastor Blake u r leaving me speechless because u r hitting a homerun with me...I have been trying to fill a void for years and afterwards I was still empty on the inside..thank very much for this sermon

    • @melanierobinson4566
      @melanierobinson4566 Год назад

      Girl same thing, I'm realizing. This message is too real.❤

  • @MzLena2You
    @MzLena2You Год назад +5

    Abstinence has become increasingly easier. By His grace, I don’t have soul ties. As a single lady, in this dating climate, the desire and temptation is nonexistent. I’m about building my relationship with God and focusing on self improvement. I’m not interested in dating right now. Unless it’s a solo date ☺️

  • @brownshugakale2410
    @brownshugakale2410 Год назад +8

    When you pursue your future - your KING 👑 will pursue you. AMEN 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 Год назад +23

    This is going to be another great message from the Lord

  • @chells_tells3894
    @chells_tells3894 Год назад +42

    Wow this is exactly what I was talking to God about this week🙏🏾 thank you Lord for yet another confirmation ❤

    • @limitlessglobalgirl
      @limitlessglobalgirl Год назад +1

      same! Feeling like acceleration in spirit + preparation in practical all around

  • @Jelaskingdom_
    @Jelaskingdom_ Год назад +1

    He hit the nail on the head with this one. For those who come across this video, please have the ears to hear. Lay down your fleshly senses and open the heart of your Spirit. Sooo good. Most of us women, MISS this part or dont even know this is the missing piece.

  • @km7890km
    @km7890km Год назад +8

    Right on time❤

  • @cececierra5294
    @cececierra5294 Год назад +2

    You can not be bitter and happy at the same time🗣️📣

  • @kh3693
    @kh3693 Год назад +6

    Hello queens!

  • @ivettemendez1739
    @ivettemendez1739 Год назад +8

    Thank you so much for being here to share this with us. There is a timing as God wants. Today I told the man I was dating that I loved him but there is no room in my life for nonsense. He can keep sowing his oats. I will remember that God wants me to have someone not perfect but faithful.

  • @Joylove329
    @Joylove329 Год назад +2

    I enjoy this channel. I follow the Torah, and no longer identify as Christian. You are like a father mentor. 💙 May the almighty Elohim continue to bless your union.

  • @laneym5893
    @laneym5893 Год назад +7

    Again, right on time❤

  • @ellensmith6413
    @ellensmith6413 Год назад +19

    Thank you 🙌for the information to the many single women looking for love, I truly believe that only a man can teach women about men 💪 just listening to your teaching us women how we should conduct ourselves as women and holding men accountable on how they should treat us as women and not to accept anything less than our value 💪
    Using the example of your 27 year marriage to your wife Lisa is inspiring ❤️
    I appreciate your hard work and dedication from a biblical point 🙌 Thankful to you and Lisa 🌹

  • @theophaniai9292
    @theophaniai9292 Год назад +2

    When you talked about some of us are trying to build a relationship with people to fill a void of God instead of building a relationship with God, it really hit me. I pray and read scripture. However, I have sought out the advice of people maybe more than I should have went to God first about my situations.

  • @monarahmani9387
    @monarahmani9387 Год назад +2

    Hello from Iran. I found you couple of days ago. God bless you and your teachings. I am benefitting from your talks alot and learning about christianity at the same time! I am a practicing Muslim and love and respect all religions. I am in a l9ngdistance relationship going to meet him in person in a third country. He lives in Canada. Lot of stuff you talk about dating i needed to hear and i am happy it has the gods words toyour teachings as well. Thank you i can resonate with you 110 percent.

  • @chrystalwells1816
    @chrystalwells1816 Год назад +3

    I'm speechless! Bishop put it down! Real TRUTH!
    I'm praising God for the mindset to keep to Bishop's teachings. I don't have to feel convicted by this message! I'm engaged and my fiance and I are proud to be living celibate and holy! It's a good feeling to keep God first, honoring Him and our temples!
    Bless you Bishop and Lady Lisa! See you at the top!

  • @Anna-iu7dk
    @Anna-iu7dk Год назад +12

    Absolutely FANTASTIC!
    All the most important foundations of relationship and life on the whole! I used to follow you in UK, now I live in Poland, I am good Catholic, but I still enjoy listening to you. God speaks through you and you speak so much truth, because you are a man of God! It shows that we all should be with God and only being with God makes us wise, good humans and guides us to live our lives in Truth. Let God bless you and the work you do.

  • @ruthwells3990
    @ruthwells3990 Год назад +3

    I was always taught life will make you bitter or better, YOU CHOOSE. I wake up EVERYDAY and I praise and thank God for all my blessings. I have been thru a lot in this life but I’m at peace angry at no one and HAPPY, by God’s love and grace. I know you are a blessing to many, patiently teaching us a BETTER WAY to be, not of this world only in it. I thank you for this necessary ministry. And to all reading this comment, may God show and allow you to feel the GREATEST LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP IS with HIM 1St than ourselves. Stay Blessed

  • @bkllily
    @bkllily Год назад +7

    Thank you Bishop it was as usual a pleasure to listen to you from Africa. I am muslim yet a devoted Queen of yours. God bless you 💜💜

  • @IrmaRoma68
    @IrmaRoma68 Год назад +4

    I was at work 6 days ago a clinic with my two female coworkers in the lunch room. I walked in and said my hips were tight and one girl said you really need to get laid and the other one suggested I buy a dill doe and tie my legs behind my bed post. It was so vulgar the words were emotionally violent and I had to report the incident. Most women I work with are immoral and having sex all over the place, with drug addicts and their all in toxic relationships. I asked God to help me find something else and to protect me from such a low vibration work place.

  • @jessicascreenwritingservices
    @jessicascreenwritingservices Год назад +3

    This is so true! Being right with God gives us the discernment to see if a person is truly right for us or not. It gives us peace within ourselves even if we aren’t currently in a relationship. 😊

  • @je39981
    @je39981 Год назад +10

    Felt blessed by this message. I can feel in my spirit and with product that I’ve grown and worked on myself fully. It took me 3 years to fully “love” myself and that showed me that everything takes time. “Self-concept”

  • @cherrymocha7
    @cherrymocha7 Год назад +3

    I haven't listened to you for a while, so tonight the holy spirit said, listen to this message...MAN!! (with all due respect) this message was like a cool glass of water on a hot summer's day. Those pre-relationship goals hit like firey darts and landed like a jet out of the sky needing a gasoline refill. And I felt like I was on my therapist's couch.

  • @meli7315
    @meli7315 Год назад

    Thank you beautiful soul 🤍🕯️ faith move mountains 🏔️ love and light to you all 🙏

  • @Jessica-vc5yd
    @Jessica-vc5yd Год назад

    Saying hi from Colombia. Thanks all for your help and wisdom. May God you and your family good health and years full of blessings and helping others. Gracias!

  • @carishamathews
    @carishamathews Год назад

    @RC Blakes Jr. I thank God for you an your wife Lisa for sharing these blessed relationship videos with God, Man an Woman.

  • @vesnab.1553
    @vesnab.1553 Год назад

    Get back on your knees, get back to God... How true!

  • @soesiewongso3044
    @soesiewongso3044 Год назад +1

    I can do it by myself, with God and his angels ❤

  • @terrymassie7656
    @terrymassie7656 Год назад +5

    I so agree and journaled it Bishop. For me, it means to be honest and own it. NO CONTACT, is important for me to protect my peace, keep focus, trun down the noise via covert actions and continue to self love. I want peace more than sex (I'm in no rush),
    money (I walk by faith) and have knowledge of healthy resources, choclates ( are all things outside of what matters) I am going to have a libarary to share Bishop. God thank you for this time with you, continue to search me Oh Lord.

  • @shannonpennix591
    @shannonpennix591 Год назад +1

    Thank you Bishop for your is rich wisdom!!

  • @sandrasmith3412
    @sandrasmith3412 Год назад +1

    This segment is gold.

  • @nicolienjaggers885
    @nicolienjaggers885 Год назад +3

    Thank you so much Pastor you are really sowing spiritual healing amongst the female communities around the world. Most us fail in life completely because our fathers are absent and there is no-one to show us what we should be looking for in a life partner. Our mothers are not equipped to teach us how to conduct ourselves in relationships and life because they are also really spending their lives trying to figure it out. This pattern of being lost then continues from generation to generation. But having resources like you are providing available to us is really helping us to put things into perspective for ourselves and also aligning our lives so that we set a better example for our daughters. You are equipping us with the knowledge we need to make better life decisions and teach our daughters to do the same. Thus breaking this cycle of perversion and broken homes that woman have been leaving as an inheritance for their sons and daughters for so many generations, really because we didn't know any better. May God continue to bless your Ministry and your family for you are making an impact that will have a healing and life changing effect for generations to come.

  • @Nutritioneats
    @Nutritioneats Год назад +6

    Golden wisdom shared with love. Thank you for your guidance to queens as well as kings.

  • @estherloma157
    @estherloma157 10 месяцев назад

    This preaching is awesome and helpful in my recovery, I appreciate it mentor🙏

  • @sharinaross1865
    @sharinaross1865 Год назад

    Great Sermon

  • @evapreston924
    @evapreston924 Год назад +4

    RC Blake’s boy do I wish I knew this growing up. You can be sure I share this with my 3 girls and my son!!!! Amen! You’ve saved ! ❤

  • @Ms.Peanutthequeen
    @Ms.Peanutthequeen Год назад +1

    I had to give up dating for now. My relationship was interfering with my relationship with God Almighty. I gave it up, to focus on my relationships with God!

  • @tamudefoe7115
    @tamudefoe7115 Год назад +1

    🗣️ OOOOOOOWEEEE this pop popped me all upside my HEAD...thank you thank you Pastor BLAKES🔥🔥

  • @LifeofPeacePurpose
    @LifeofPeacePurpose Год назад +4

    I’m currently reading: The Child in you by Stefanie Stahl it’s amazing for discovering hidden stuff and beginning the healing process

  • @shelbybanks2183
    @shelbybanks2183 Год назад +2

    I felt all 5 still during my separation to divorce. I’m fighting to heal and forgetting. It’s hard but I gotta let go to move on.

  • @fashionforwarddd
    @fashionforwarddd Год назад +1

    That information on sexual discipline is so key!

  • @sylviadancer9851
    @sylviadancer9851 Год назад +2

    Pastor Blakes, This is such an anointed message! God is the ultimate matchmaker. I am waiting on Him. I thank God for both you and First Lady Lisa.

  • @terrymoore5000
    @terrymoore5000 Год назад +2

    THANK YOU JESUS CHRIST FOR THY WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT ! ❤🙏🏼😔

  • @michellebyers7171
    @michellebyers7171 Год назад +1

    I truly needed this in this season of my life. I am going to apply this message to my life. Thank you

  • @mccbern06
    @mccbern06 Год назад

    Bishop, you tickle me! I love it! You keep it so real!

  • @latinagibbs2770
    @latinagibbs2770 Год назад

    Thank you RC... forgiveness is about you and your healing procesd. Its for you to move on in peace. It has nothing to do with the other person. You are not obligated to let anyone back in your life who has intentionally hurt you and has not taken accountability for doing so.

  • @jvdh1887
    @jvdh1887 Год назад

    Thank u Bishop RC for this powerfull teaching!

  • @patriciacampbell7296
    @patriciacampbell7296 Год назад +7

    This was an amazing teaching Pastor Blakes. I always look forward to Monday's night teaching. Thank you 🙏🏾❤🔥

  • @michellewood252
    @michellewood252 Год назад +5

    Your first point has been my prayer for myself for the past few months and especially on today!! And for you to speak on it tonight is confirmation in itself!!! Thank you for this word!

  • @darlenewilliams3849
    @darlenewilliams3849 Год назад +2

    Wow! How do you know who belongs in your life, if you don't know where you're going.

  • @SB-lq9yz
    @SB-lq9yz Год назад +3

    Amen Bishop! Keep teaching the truth!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Yes yes yes!!! God is good!!!

  • @Ana-rb7ws
    @Ana-rb7ws Год назад

    Doing self work is hard work. It takes time, effort, physical resources, etc. One has to commit oneself to it wholeheartedly in order to actually be successful.

  • @charmj737
    @charmj737 Год назад

    Course correct, wow!!🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @robbinpryor2391
    @robbinpryor2391 Год назад +1

    Your right God will give you everything need 🙏 in his time ❤❤

  • @thresapalmer8728
    @thresapalmer8728 Год назад

    Thank you very much for this sermon/information. It certainly helped me.

  • @brendadavis9365
    @brendadavis9365 Год назад

    God bless you Pastor and Thank you and First Lady Lisa. Take your time and teach us. We appreciate what you're doing.

  • @lyndacreeley9536
    @lyndacreeley9536 Год назад +1

    I’m focusing on completing myself at this point and time in my life and Thank You for confirmation that I Am on the positive path!!!

  • @lindam4006
    @lindam4006 Год назад

    Exceptionally Excellent.

  • @JoelSpeaks8
    @JoelSpeaks8 Год назад +2

    I'm ready

  • @Godsgirl45-tx5sd
    @Godsgirl45-tx5sd 20 дней назад

    Love your Wisdom Uncle RC

  • @carterthegamernoob6128
    @carterthegamernoob6128 Год назад

    Great 😊 conversation I will be sharing this on my Facebook and all social media platforms

  • @lapree5419
    @lapree5419 Год назад

    Instantly loved the song

  • @heavenlyprecog23
    @heavenlyprecog23 Год назад

    Can’t be bitter and happy at the same time 🎯🎯🎯

  • @trulycay5714
    @trulycay5714 Год назад +1

    ive did all of that it's just a lot of broken humans

  • @homeworkloungect
    @homeworkloungect Год назад +1

    you are a smart man Bishop. Thank you

  • @dona5226
    @dona5226 Год назад

    Thank you 🙏

  • @BarbaraMcCoy-y8x
    @BarbaraMcCoy-y8x Год назад +1

    Thank you so much. May God continue to use you mightily. May God bless you exceedingly abundantly all the days of your life .

  • @robbinpryor2391
    @robbinpryor2391 Год назад +2

    You have to make yourself happy

  • @sarajohnson269
    @sarajohnson269 Год назад +2

    Thank you again for all teaching! Love the analogy of the pair of shoes 🙌

  • @joycewatt8289
    @joycewatt8289 Год назад

    Yesssss God FIRST!

  • @joycewatt8289
    @joycewatt8289 Год назад +5

    45:30 Yes yes yes and yes!
    IF you are not disciplined sexually BEFORE marriage chances are you will NOT be disciplined sexually AFTER marriage.
    God gave us boundaries for sex for a reason, a good reason. It’s for our own PROTECTION. It’s not bondage…….
    No no no it’s actually FREEDOM.

  • @ericahall9525
    @ericahall9525 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @larresataylor8172
    @larresataylor8172 Год назад

    As always Bishop I have thoroughly enjoyed your teaching and I have shared it with my son's and others.

  • @erikalouise2857
    @erikalouise2857 Год назад +2

    Loved this video. I agree with all these pre relationship goals. Gotta check them up in my life. Thank you for the beautiful prayer at the end. God bless us all 🙏🏼💖✨. Ps: jfyi I’m watching you from Brasil 🇧🇷🙏🏼🥰

  • @Ladyglittersparkless84
    @Ladyglittersparkless84 Год назад +1

    This is pure gold ❤

  • @pamelafletcher1212
    @pamelafletcher1212 Год назад

    This was so rich, and God's timing is always perfect. Thank you.

  • @Velvetta01
    @Velvetta01 Год назад +2

    Pastor (Lady Lisa) This was a another powerful production!!! Thank you!❤❤

  • @corlineblair4960
    @corlineblair4960 Год назад +1

    This whole message was well received. I am so thankful for the wisdom you provide us with. May God continue to bless you to do his work.🙏🏽

  • @faustinembeh
    @faustinembeh Год назад

    🗣🗣🗣🗣thank you I said this you have to visit your future . It’s not everyone who fit your future 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👌🏿

  • @karissarobinson1892
    @karissarobinson1892 Год назад +1

    Powerful power filled messages🙏🏾🙌🏾💛blessGod and all of us for the deliverance 💞🙏🏾✨🙌🏾

  • @EvaBartlett-y6t
    @EvaBartlett-y6t 3 дня назад +1

    💯Amen.......🙏😊🙌💯

  • @lyndacreeley9536
    @lyndacreeley9536 Год назад +1

    Divine timing on this subject for me…God’s timing and Thank You for your Heaven sent sage advice Pastor Blakes❣️🙏🏽✨🙏🏽

  • @lisasunshine773
    @lisasunshine773 Год назад

    This, by far, is the absolute best relationship advise.

  • @noellee1439
    @noellee1439 Год назад +1

    Always timely and
    appreciated❤

  • @mildredherring2541
    @mildredherring2541 Год назад +4

    Thank you Bishop for another great message. May God's blessings and favor continue to take you to the top. Thank you Bishop. I must work on myself, praise God. Blessed night to everyone.❤ 🙏 In Jesus name

  • @leonettebrown5370
    @leonettebrown5370 Год назад +1

    This is excellent. Such a great roadmap to doing my own self work. Thank you!!❤

  • @JessE-mr4yu
    @JessE-mr4yu Год назад +1

    I recently found your channel, and I love it. Thank you for sharing your wonderful wisdom. I appreciate you. It's been very helpful for my growth. Peace and Blessings to you and all the beautiful souls out there 🙏💙🩵🕊

  • @renitaa7148
    @renitaa7148 Год назад

    Thanks for the wisdom.

  • @natalieclarke-white4758
    @natalieclarke-white4758 Год назад

    Thank you so much... much food for thought