6 THINGS A QUEEN CONSCIOUS WOMAN WORKS ON AS SHE WAITS FOR HER MATE - RC BLAKES

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  • @FunintheSun813
    @FunintheSun813 6 лет назад +2315

    This was amazing!! I am a Queen. I was not acting like one because I am 40 single no kids never married and felt like why was God not sending me my mate. After watching this I am going to improve in my personal development--lose 15-25lbs; finish my Master's Degree. I have my own home and very good career and was ashamed that God blessed me so much financially without a mate. I used to feel so sad to attend church and seeing husband's wrap their arms around their wives during the sermon that I would hold into my Bible and cry. Now I will no longer cry about being single; but I will be thankful for God's many blessings! I will roll up my sleeves and get started on weightloss and finishing Grad school! THANK YOU JESUS for this teaching!!!😀😀😀
    5/23/19 Update:I just got married!! God sent me a good husband❤ We were friends ONLY prior to marriage then got engaged then married. I am so glad I learned to love me first before loving someone else❤

    • @TheMonica82
      @TheMonica82 6 лет назад +60

      Congratulations! I felt the same way while viewing Pastor's video! My eyes have been opened. I too can Truly see the Lord's Hand working in my life. What a Blessing~

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 5 лет назад +21

      You got this 👌

    • @lashawnward340
      @lashawnward340 5 лет назад +16

      bless your ❤

    • @deanagatlin4388
      @deanagatlin4388 5 лет назад +16

      Amen lets lose weight together as soon as you lose ten pounds email me please Lords will

    • @makeitcount2985
      @makeitcount2985 5 лет назад +120

      Just because woman are married it does not mean that they are happy, don't envy others you never know what they are battling with?

  • @indiboom1331
    @indiboom1331 6 лет назад +756

    “You don’t need to be obsessing over a man, you need to be obsessing over your credit” 😂🤣
    Teach Sir! 🙌🏽

    • @hollylove3251
      @hollylove3251 5 лет назад +7

      Facts 100%

    • @allesschwarz_liebe5871
      @allesschwarz_liebe5871 4 года назад +4

      indiboom1331 lmfaooo 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @YellowBoneRN
      @YellowBoneRN 4 года назад +4

      classic

    • @wondernelms2064
      @wondernelms2064 4 года назад +2

      I love this

    • @maryannrussell7263
      @maryannrussell7263 3 года назад +7

      I'm at 789 for now...never married, retired and making sure my dollars are covered over my life, home and be responsible...I'm celibate and proud, healthy and living my life in joy and peace and spoil seniors and work on myself and my purpose everyday...

  • @mississippitoafrica
    @mississippitoafrica 5 лет назад +407

    I was working on me and my husband appeared..He's like the duplicate of me...

    • @cjsmomom
      @cjsmomom 3 года назад +5

      That's wonderful, congratulations! How's it going?

    • @MjMyi
      @MjMyi 3 года назад +2

      Yes God is good

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 3 года назад +7

      I have heard and seen this happen.. that’s what I am doing now not rushing the process

    • @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
      @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD 2 года назад +5

      Amēn and won’t He do it when we get out of His way?! 🙌🏽

    • @christineribone9351
      @christineribone9351 9 месяцев назад

      Magically he appeared before you AND was a duplicate copy. Yeah, sure.

  • @dimphomakenete1117
    @dimphomakenete1117 4 года назад +228

    "If you don't fulfill your purpose, you will never be fulfilled" 👏👏

  • @myainyadaniels7774
    @myainyadaniels7774 4 года назад +401

    So glad I’m seeing this at 22 growing up without a father and in an unstable home. I’ve had to learn and do a lot on my own.

    • @whistyg7068
      @whistyg7068 3 года назад +3

      Same here🙏🙏

    • @AjwaB23
      @AjwaB23 3 года назад +14

      You're lucky God brought you here so young.🙏🏽💐

    • @VintageAfro91
      @VintageAfro91 3 года назад +1

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @marajmystiq6731
      @marajmystiq6731 3 года назад +5

      Same but I wish I had this at 22 😪

    • @lyndiamims898
      @lyndiamims898 3 года назад +5

      GODmorning younglady
      Please note that, while you hearing Pastor Blake's work and words stay prayer,keeping your eyes on the prize.
      which is the high calling of Christ Jesus...
      allow GOD to do the rest.
      Glory to his name

  • @kidistaynalem2352
    @kidistaynalem2352 6 лет назад +480

    The six points dat explained here are the following ...
    1. Hv u completed ur personal growth? Or is ur personal growth on schedule?
    *Queens works on their personal growth!
    2. Do u hv a desire for God?
    3. Are u financially secure?
    4. Do u need shelter?
    If so work on it.
    5. Do u need to express the vision in ur heart?
    Do u have a vision in ur heart that u need to express?
    Proverb...when there is no vision the ppl perish.
    6. Do u need to be remembered for any thing?
    U r not going to be remembered for whom u r married to bt with ur accomplishments!
    May God bless u abundantly for these 6 awesome points!

    • @rahabm2001
      @rahabm2001 6 лет назад +7

      Thank you for the notes!!!

    • @kidistaynalem2352
      @kidistaynalem2352 6 лет назад +2

      Rahab mwangi
      Wlkm

    • @Sparklez93
      @Sparklez93 6 лет назад +3

      You're the best!

    • @anointedstilettos
      @anointedstilettos 6 лет назад +2

      Thank you for doing this 🤗

    • @Danielle-lj1zo
      @Danielle-lj1zo 5 лет назад +3

      I thank God for you I was dealing with a narcissist!! I need to get me together first! With the help of My Lord and savior 🙏

  • @NessaCat444
    @NessaCat444 6 лет назад +223

    Working on myself, credit, education, spiritual cleansing. I realized my downfall was making a relationship status my goal. This came thru in divine timing. ❤❤❤

    • @amyandy3655
      @amyandy3655 3 года назад +2

      Sure same with me. Am gonna work on my personal growth from now on. Thank you Pastor R.C Blakes for this message

    • @editholasanya7452
      @editholasanya7452 2 года назад +1

      Same with me.

    • @Mia-ei4mh
      @Mia-ei4mh 2 года назад +2

      Same here.. Now when I'm in silence I'm realising many things which was wrong but I paid blind eye. Thank god for removing people who doesn't serve anymore.

  • @quinnterry2834
    @quinnterry2834 2 года назад +63

    #1 13:02 - Is your personal growth on schedule?
    #2 18:04 - Do you have a desire for God?
    #3 21:10 -Are you financially secure?
    #4 24:10 - Do you need shelter?
    #5 25:53 Do you need to express the vision in your heart?
    #6 29:40 Do you need to be remembered for anything?

    • @JustJacQuaye
      @JustJacQuaye Год назад +1

      Thank you for these notes❤!

    • @elayne2237
      @elayne2237 Год назад +1

      Thank you❤quinnterry for summary

  • @tonwasht2121
    @tonwasht2121 5 лет назад +104

    Find your purpose so you can leave a legacy and an inheritance!!!!

  • @rhamm2469
    @rhamm2469 4 года назад +78

    I’m 50 & White & I LOVE your advice !!! I needed when I was 19 before I wasted 28 years being faithful to the wrong man !!!!!

  • @wintersstar5830
    @wintersstar5830 4 года назад +198

    I was lying on my bed today and I looked up at the sky through my window feeling so heavy and sad. I just whispered "God what do you want me to do, show me what to do you know my heart and fell asleep woke up after picked up my phone and found this video. All I can say is I thank God for using you sir to bring across his message to me. These are my guidelines for 2020 God spear my life.

    • @brendaames6705
      @brendaames6705 4 года назад +11

      Excuse me Pastor I am a Queen and I'm 70 !

    • @the.thandive
      @the.thandive 4 года назад +5

      God is amazing!!

    • @cfcameron7
      @cfcameron7 3 года назад +2

      @@brendaames6705 yes you sure are my sister i am 63 and i am looking forward to getting married Sarah was still beautiful in her mature years and so are we I though some thing on tv a couple who are both 70 who met and got married in a fews months love is ageless And colour less Godbless you my sister

    • @veronika5052
      @veronika5052 3 года назад +1

      Praise the Lord, sister Queen. What a beautiful moment in time!

  • @tmichele8922
    @tmichele8922 6 лет назад +244

    Thank you for being that spiritual father
    1. I do need to stop wondering if he will show up.
    2. I need to finish my real estate classes to add additional income
    3. Own home yes.. done
    4. Next get my credit report together to clean up old mess.
    5. Personal growth. . Got it!!!
    Well done homework is in place.

    • @godsbutt3rfly
      @godsbutt3rfly 6 лет назад +3

      Right there with you Sister Queen! My class starts in January!

    • @darleenthompson3803
      @darleenthompson3803 3 года назад +2

      Yes I have a similar list . Would like to have real estate licence under my belt etc. Multi streams of income .

    • @passyk9968
      @passyk9968 3 года назад

      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🎊

  • @valerierobertson8303
    @valerierobertson8303 4 года назад +12

    So perfectly said, "why relationships fail is because self individuality has not been mastered."

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 6 лет назад +311

    Working and focusing on me solely for the first time , over Three decades of giving of self to men not deserving of my Queendom , if God send an appointed one great! until then , my full growth uninterrupted is all I desire , blessed day to you RC Blakes .

    • @Thefacelessventer
      @Thefacelessventer 5 лет назад +7

      Maggie Edwards I’m with u on that one sis! Thank God that He is a God of a second chance!!!!! And bless God for this man of God too🙂

    • @victoriaqueal3266
      @victoriaqueal3266 5 лет назад +6

      Maggie, I'm doing exactly what your doing and have done. I'm getting so comfortable with myself and being single I'm loving it more than any relationship I have ever been in. I'm starting to feel like it would be scary to commit to any one now, because I'm so happy.

    • @claudine5386
      @claudine5386 5 лет назад +5

      Every single thing you said is 100% accurate!!!

    • @lyrendamoore552
      @lyrendamoore552 4 года назад +2

      Amen this is a very good message and I desire to look deep and ask god for my purpose and work on my self while I'm single.

  • @TheLilly
    @TheLilly 6 лет назад +103

    You and Dr. Myles Munroe changed my life. I thank God for y'all ministries.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  6 лет назад +33

      Lilly N. What an honor for me to be in the company of Dr. Myles.😊🙏🏽

    • @rungamai
      @rungamai 3 года назад +3

      The Lilly those two are my pros too

    • @Abmarp
      @Abmarp 3 года назад +2

      ON EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Pinkgirlyyyy
    @Pinkgirlyyyy 2 года назад +7

    " If you don't know your purpose, you don't know your mate " 👏🏾 This is soooo true! It's easy to just pick anybody when you don't even know where you are going in life

  • @janiceburgess4679
    @janiceburgess4679 5 лет назад +60

    I am Queen... Amen! I have spent the last 10 years working on myself. Finally, I can say I'm ready to give of myself to another.... it took a decade of me being authentic to myself and processing all the hurt from my past... I know my purpose in life... and is living it daily with gratitude.
    Thank you so much!

  • @AkayshaKay
    @AkayshaKay 6 лет назад +360

    Disney films ruined my life 😂 , half joking. Praise the Lord for this man. I’m getting my stuff together, personal development is number one.

    • @TaeMontana
      @TaeMontana 6 лет назад +4

      Akaysha I say this all the time!

    • @soystef
      @soystef 6 лет назад +4

      You are not alone.
      Much love and support to you.

    • @hopekassandra8661
      @hopekassandra8661 6 лет назад +12

      👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙌YES!! Getting myself together!! Getting my house in order: mental, emotional, spiritual, career, finances, etc.

    • @hopekassandra8661
      @hopekassandra8661 6 лет назад +5

      Amen, Pastor!! Security is one of the greatest needs of a woman! I am working on my finances so I can secure myself! I'm putting more towards my mortgage, paying off debt, and looking for ways to increase my income.

    • @stephaniecutts5117
      @stephaniecutts5117 5 лет назад +4

      Many of those films years ago and now, feed into a females natural desires to connect and nuture..and lead many females into fantasy imaginations..Music also...many are Just for profits sake...That is where sound judgement and desernment keeps the female standing on a strong mental & emotional foundation..

  • @Arela1164
    @Arela1164 5 лет назад +32

    Obsess over purpose, not a relationship! I got it!! Thank you!!👑

  • @LoganRena
    @LoganRena 6 лет назад +292

    You had me laughing so hard when you said, “You could marry Jesus Christ and you would create problems”...hilarious and true

    • @kellyjones9573
      @kellyjones9573 5 лет назад +3

      Lol 😱

    • @tawanaboyd7124
      @tawanaboyd7124 5 лет назад +1

      Outstanding

    • @christinagurrola5335
      @christinagurrola5335 4 года назад +1

      😂🤣🤣😭

    • @kizzyrock
      @kizzyrock 4 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ayeshaacharya2568
      @ayeshaacharya2568 4 года назад +6

      True say , my ex used to say I would make a Saint Sin . Now , I am 3 times Divorced , much happier and healthier now since I’ve been Healing and in Recovery from Childhood Abuse and Trauma . Yes, Build your Queen Consciousness before entering into any Relationship/ Marriage with anybody else .

  • @fitnfab6522
    @fitnfab6522 3 года назад +7

    "If you don't know your purpose, you don't know your mate!"
    This hit hard...makes so much sense now. I know my Godly purpose, therefore I know my mate must put God first!

  • @sophisticatedmm3632
    @sophisticatedmm3632 6 лет назад +82

    God Bless you for posting this. I'm 34, single, no kids, focused on my career & traveling the 🌎. My dad was present while I was growing up but he was very mentally unstable, hence you have become my spiritual dad over the past year 😀.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  6 лет назад +10

      Michelle McDonald I’m tremendously honored.🙏🏽😊

    • @Sunshinestarryrose
      @Sunshinestarryrose 6 лет назад

      same im 31

    • @Afiafancy
      @Afiafancy 6 лет назад +1

      Michelle McDonald hiiii girl...best way to go.i luv travelling too...can we get adventurous together?

    • @sophisticatedmm3632
      @sophisticatedmm3632 6 лет назад +1

      @@Afiafancy
      IDK when I'm planning another trip, (I have a paid cruise in early November).

  • @fowziyyahthepoet1074
    @fowziyyahthepoet1074 3 года назад +11

    THIS VIDEO JUST REALLY CHANGED MY PERSPECTIVE, MINDSET AND MY LIFE! I was thinking all of these thoughts, but not admitting it to myself. I thought I needed a relationship to be happy. Now I know I need to focus on me and let God bring me my King. And I will be a Queen 👑 ready to compliment him. THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!

  • @ms.rochelle7588
    @ms.rochelle7588 6 лет назад +185

    Man I knew this was for me I was almost scared to watch it... conviction.... oooo...weeee..just got spanked by the Father that’s how I know he loves me 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank You Father in Jesus Name ... Amen.

    • @adannegadison877
      @adannegadison877 6 лет назад +7

      Latasha Dunlap Amen lol ! I was like yasss Holy Spirit convict me 😂😭. Be blessed !

    • @chellestephens2098
      @chellestephens2098 6 лет назад +7

      girrrrrrl you're not alone lol! i paused it twice and saiD ooh lawd! I NEED TO HEAR THIS LOL

    • @earlinemathis2195
      @earlinemathis2195 6 лет назад +1

      Thank you for the message praise God

    • @deborah8397
      @deborah8397 6 лет назад

      Not uh understanding why ther is a question of whether there are references about Queens in the There are several. Queens which are spoken of . Esther, Vashti, the Queen of Sheba to name a few. The Bible specifically speaks about the preparation to become a queen.

  • @croffittadoo
    @croffittadoo 5 лет назад +39

    God-fearing, Saved, Educated, Single and Content. Next level status in full effect. #fabulouslyFLAWED #queenologist

  • @Saveren_
    @Saveren_ 4 года назад +17

    1. He is talking about self-actualization 🙌🏾👏🏾

  • @yulandatross3110
    @yulandatross3110 3 года назад +4

    Awesome talk. I needed this. I cut off a former friend almost became romantic or intimate, who was juggling me and a younger woman. I found out and cut him out of my life. I had standards that were too much for him i guess. I told him he had to get a divorce before pursuing me ( he is married to another woman, they haven't been together in 10 years). He instead turned to a another woman (who was involved with someone else at the time) then he knocked her up. It broke my heart, i have since earned a certificate in data analytics, i completed a math and python class and i am working on self development and femininity as well as my health.
    I realize i dodged a bullet. He was never worthy of me. My spirit recognized this last year, it took my mind a while to catch up.Thank you for this wonderful discourse.

  • @darrelesha
    @darrelesha 6 лет назад +35

    Thank you so much, I'm a work in progress. I don't want a relationship right now I want to get healed. I just love your teachings

  • @soystef
    @soystef 6 лет назад +47

    These words are changing my life.
    I can feel my queenness re-emerging... and my kingdom manifesting.
    Thank you, RC, for reminding us and reaffirming what we already innately know.

  • @Gloria_All_Day
    @Gloria_All_Day 6 лет назад +90

    Prophetic message indeed. I've been praying to pursue my purpose that God has for me and not to focus on my physical needs for a relationship with a spouse .

    • @kathybeulah2626
      @kathybeulah2626 6 лет назад +5

      Thanks be to God for this message I'm also,praying to pursue my purpose that he has for me .

  • @sharonanderson6926
    @sharonanderson6926 3 года назад +2

    You and your wife is a Blessing too all Women.

  • @xxmm7336
    @xxmm7336 3 года назад +12

    Beautiful testimony! A man who is for you, is for you in every way Spiritually, Emotionally Physically, Financially... He treats you like a Queen, because to him you are a Queen. He shows you that every day. What a wonderful blessing! All Thanks be to God May His blessings surround you!

  • @annwamuyu8560
    @annwamuyu8560 Год назад +2

    Oh my goodness! What a timely message. Am 30, Kenyan. Waiting for a mate and I feel this a timely message to keep me on track in my waiting. I can't thank you enough bishop RC Blakes.....God bless you for me

  • @wandahill5242
    @wandahill5242 6 лет назад +40

    I did not want to hear this but I needed it.Thank you

  • @HannahBee10
    @HannahBee10 4 года назад +16

    Hearing this again after 2 years of healing and personal development, and everything you said is needed was absolutely spot on. You've been so instrumental in my emotional and mental healing Pastor and I can't thank God and you enough. I am so grateful for your heart and your power-packed videos. Keep being used by God and the blessing you are. I love you and Lisa so much xx

  • @chosen44181
    @chosen44181 6 лет назад +41

    After leaving a toxic marriage this is confirmation I've been on the right track! All 6 is fundamental to awaken your queen conscious. Thank you for this!

  • @womanofgod2948
    @womanofgod2948 4 года назад +5

    Wow!
    This is deep.
    Learn to master your individuality!

  • @jamesmcmccray8255
    @jamesmcmccray8255 6 лет назад +58

    From a man this is powerful and much needed for the situation I am in with my wife

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  6 лет назад

      James Yasharael Thank you for sharing

  • @sheria_xoxo1631
    @sheria_xoxo1631 4 года назад +24

    I feel like you were introduced into my life at the perfect time. The lord has a way of showing you signs when you least expect it. Thank you!

  • @Metaphysicalmindspace777
    @Metaphysicalmindspace777 6 лет назад +47

    I clicked on the video sooo quick. Loving this series. I’m 47 and loving life. Thank you for continuing this series.

  • @marlene5494
    @marlene5494 3 года назад +27

    There’s a reason why this man appeared on my timeline. I’ve started watching your videos and they’ve become my personal therapy sessions. Thank you.

  • @TheJayjo9
    @TheJayjo9 6 лет назад +40

    When you open RUclips and see God directly speaking to you! This is for me! Thank you Daddy Blakes. ❤️

    • @mimikers7412
      @mimikers7412 4 года назад +1

      🙌

    • @kathleenwilkins1803
      @kathleenwilkins1803 2 года назад

      AMEN!! NOTHING BUT GOD. I PRAYED ASKING GOD FOR GUIDANCE AND I STARTED WATCHING R.C.BLAKES A FATHER FIGURE I NEVER HAD..

  • @christinagurrola5335
    @christinagurrola5335 4 года назад +10

    I have massive anxiety from childhood drama and two divorces. I have been praying for purpose and I know a stable career and mental therapy is what I need. I’m 36 no kids but rather than drown in angst I need to work on my issues. Thank you for reminding me me with this

  • @EstellaRJF
    @EstellaRJF 6 лет назад +121

    Saw the title and I knew this was for me!

    • @torrihoward9729
      @torrihoward9729 6 лет назад +4

      Amen 🙏 I'll be ordering it next week. I can order it through Amazon I hope?🤗

    • @evamcinnis7992
      @evamcinnis7992 6 лет назад +1

      Indeed!😘💞👣

    • @crystalcormier3148
      @crystalcormier3148 6 лет назад +2

      Fa real another good message I must say!!! Keep it comin my spiritual daddy!!!

    • @sondraferguson5183
      @sondraferguson5183 6 лет назад +2

      I must learn to focus on the things I can control. The rest I leave to God.

    • @sondraferguson5183
      @sondraferguson5183 6 лет назад +2

      So God put us here for a purpose. I don’t understand my purpose. I have ask and begged.

  • @tamarasmith5607
    @tamarasmith5607 5 лет назад +17

    Go easy on me Sir. I was totally convicted on everything you said. I have a lot of work and a new focus. Thank you

  • @queenofthecrossroads2613
    @queenofthecrossroads2613 Год назад +3

    OMG!!! Ok this message was divinely sent! Last night as I laid in my bed I was almost in tears as I spoke to God. I said to Her/Him (I am not a Christian) .. “What more do I need to do!?!” I know how to prepare healthy foods and eat well (I’ve been Vegan for over 10 years). I work out almost everyday and keep fit. I already have a close personal relationship with God. I have already developed and working in my own healing business. I’ve finally exited my relationship with my Narc Ex Fiancé and continuously working on emotional and psychological healing, I know how to keep a house… WHAT IS LEFT!!!?? This morning I saw a video come up in my feed that I wanted to watch of Pastor but when I clicked on it THIS video came up instead! I know NOW what I need to do for my final finishing touches of preparation!! Thank You Spirit!!!

  • @sandraedmonds1955
    @sandraedmonds1955 3 года назад +1

    Thank you RC Blake for allowing God to use you as the messenger for the world to empower people to become better person and Unite with the one that is purposeful in there llife. You are truly a blessing to me for I know God is an on time God thank you so much

  • @sophie_nv
    @sophie_nv 6 лет назад +7

    Amen! I am a woman from France and I've just discovered your channel thank God what a blessing! So wise insightful and helpful. Thank you so much!

  • @sheberry2895
    @sheberry2895 2 года назад +1

    Man. I'm. On ALIGNMENT. Everytime I open one of his videos and others sermons I feel so excited.. listening to God is was the best choice ever in my journey

  • @Nasrumii
    @Nasrumii 5 лет назад +15

    “what are you leaving for those behind you to inherit?” yes sir.

    • @BayouBarbie504
      @BayouBarbie504 5 лет назад

      Omorose Outkast my father died 2 years ago. This is when I began my journey. I realized that even though he wasn't there for me, with his work, it made me not ignore the gnawing feeling inside. I have a legacy, and I'm excited to start my journey.

  • @priscacharo4718
    @priscacharo4718 3 года назад +1

    Wow...thank you pastor. You have just changed my mindset. Kenyan we love you!

  • @sharonmerriweather5369
    @sharonmerriweather5369 6 лет назад +24

    This is beautiful ! I’ve been married under pressure, peer, church, ministry!. I’m fine by myself. Not hating but I enjoy being with me!

  • @gemaramirez
    @gemaramirez Год назад +1

    Thank you… you are contributing greatly to my growth, my transformation and the transformation of my relationship ❤God bless you and your family 🙏🏼

  • @youneekkreations5729
    @youneekkreations5729 5 лет назад +17

    June 12, 2019...just now getting this MESSAGE! CAN I SAY.....RIGHT ON DARN TIME!!!!

  • @Lia-Miya949
    @Lia-Miya949 3 года назад +1

    Yes, I'm just really understanding this topic. This would have been marvelous on my ears 30 years ago.
    Thank you.

  • @s.mcinnis1601
    @s.mcinnis1601 6 лет назад +146

    Someone should tell men, who have an issue with women being so independent...this.

    • @elizabethbutler772
      @elizabethbutler772 6 лет назад +1

      Right!

    • @shakticreates5630
      @shakticreates5630 5 лет назад +1

      I agree ☝️

    • @cavernedmochache4455
      @cavernedmochache4455 5 лет назад +10

      Truth, insecure men have issues with women who are independent.
      When I came to understand this my husband and I found each other.

    • @wynta_roze351
      @wynta_roze351 5 лет назад +3

      HE ☝ should do it but he's oddly obsessed with grooming women.
      There's something very manipulative abt a man that only puts out (truth?) videos directed solely at women (as if WE are the heads.)

    • @flowerjade5938
      @flowerjade5938 5 лет назад +2

      Trinna Simmons thats what I started thinking at “power couple” okeeee I can stay powerful by myself then....

  • @celestep2965
    @celestep2965 4 года назад

    Sir Mr. Blake's you have no idea how much that you are changing my life listening to your videos. I've always been some what of a conscious woman but you have given me a renewed sense of importance about changing things in my life. You have a truly blessed soul and my hat goes off to your queen because she definitely has her a Reigning King. Thank you please keep doing what your doing. God Bless you my brother!!!!

  • @MsNobody
    @MsNobody 5 лет назад +81

    As a single Woman right now. I am so happy just being single & trying to be woed by Men who are interested.
    Having said that I take this time to get to know them & most importantly myself.
    I don't rush. I am choosing wisely this time I am too old to be with the rush & wrong man.
    Ladies enjoy being woed by Men. Take care of yourself. Elevate yourself & make sure you put your Values higher than the Men treat you.
    Do not sleep with anyone who pays attention to you. Only give yourself to the only one who worked hard for it. The only one who deserves it. This is when you fail if you do.
    Grow in your own life & be with your own company & enjoy yourself.
    Be busy with things that are more important in your life.
    There is no such thing as your Bomb is Ticking? The only bomb that's going to explode is your life if you keep rushing & speeding like a car before you know it crash & into big trouble.
    Be happy with yourself because if you are not happy, you can never make someone else happy.

    • @LadyMay8195
      @LadyMay8195 5 лет назад +1

      Ms Nobody I love this ❤️, everything you just commented I’ve been doing. Confirmation I’m on the path and I’ve recently started to date and I have been single and celibate for some time and I feel good. I have no distractions my credit has been repaired and good since 2010 i have my one place, two great jobs and I enjoy my friends and family as we all are busy and make time for each other. I know what’s for me will be for me and I know that God will put the man suppose to have in my life. I believe nothing happens before it’s time and I’m not desperate to be in a relationship. I enjoy my time, work and make time for the ppl who make time for me ( family & friends) and I make time for me and I do the things I like to do and I focus on my peace of mind and my inner peace. I work to be my better self and the best version of myself.

  • @courage2breakfree
    @courage2breakfree 3 года назад

    Pastor as I say you are such like a father to so many of us that didn’t have fathers in the home growing up. I have evolved so much since giving my life to Christ and following your messages.

  • @fatikay5735
    @fatikay5735 3 года назад +4

    I am only 8:00 min into the video and my mind is blown! Thank you, as a Muslim woman, I enjoyed learning about your perspective on feminine self-respect. :)

  • @LuvliexXJazzieXx
    @LuvliexXJazzieXx 4 года назад

    He asked could he pray for me but before I could answer he burst out in prayer. 😂😂😂I’m weak. I had a great laugh and lovely reminder! 🙏🏾Thank you for this video. I clicked because the church I attended was in the background at the beginning! 💕Great click bait! I know exactly why you and Pastor Anthony Taplin are friends. Y’all are too cool brothers. Happy Father’s Day to both of ya’s! The mans a real father figure in my life and I Thank God for him & his family. 💕💕💕 -Jazzy

  • @reeree-tareem
    @reeree-tareem 6 лет назад +37

    Omg right on time as usual Bishop

  • @Melly16yr10
    @Melly16yr10 3 года назад +1

    I'm in my mid 20s and thank god I found this channel. Seems to be about the only decent one I've found so far. Still working on only trying to control the things with in my current reach. still working on the educational and money side to life along with social side to life.

  • @scripturehighlightsforlife6174
    @scripturehighlightsforlife6174 4 года назад +3

    Blessed me very much. I was so stuck on missing him and doing nothing..but this healed my mind and soul. I'm worthy of my legacy.

  • @hollyleann1825
    @hollyleann1825 3 года назад +2

    44 years old. Your changing my life! Thank you pastor💜

  • @sfab5039
    @sfab5039 5 лет назад +4

    I'm so glad I came across this video. You read me very well, I'm embarrassed at how many things I have to work on! I'm 23 about to be 24. I need to change my life, I've been depressed ,and feeling lonely I see why now I don't/didn't try to find a purpose or even find love within me. Thank you RC Blakes, you're out here changing peoples lives ,and you actually have proof to back up the things your talking about which I absolutely love.

  • @fitnleen
    @fitnleen Год назад +1

    Thank you for this, Bishop!!! I am now more inspired to love myself and be better!!

  • @diva-nicole9089
    @diva-nicole9089 3 года назад +4

    I knew I had some work to do, boy it's a lot. Building my relationship with God, loving myself, child trauma, education, physical health, emotional and mental healing, building that Legacy, finding my purpose, healing at the age of 44 smh so much time wasted 😥

  • @c.l.montoya2972
    @c.l.montoya2972 4 года назад +4

    Thank you Pastor R.C.Blakes❣️🙏🏼 HE blessed me when HE lead me to your channel, Praise the Father Almighty. Thanks be to God ✝️

  • @AndreaPortley
    @AndreaPortley 6 лет назад +4

    I strongly believe, coming up on this video was not by accident, it's part of my Divine destiny to hear this teaching!

  • @hannekejeuk9915
    @hannekejeuk9915 Год назад +1

    Thank you for praying for me!

  • @realtruth8703
    @realtruth8703 6 лет назад +116

    I have a home to buy! Just the fright of ownership has pushed me back in that shell. I got this! and being a single mother does require me to reach my full potential. I have the lone I just need to go.

    • @DevineMystique7
      @DevineMystique7 6 лет назад +9

      Fear not Sis!!! You got this!!

    • @shaybutler3074
      @shaybutler3074 6 лет назад +7

      Real Truth I am in the same position. I’m a single mom as well and am currently looking to buy my first home. It is indeed very scary but we got this!!!

    • @strictlyfortherating
      @strictlyfortherating 6 лет назад +7

      New homeowner here to tell you that you got this!

    • @lcjones4682
      @lcjones4682 6 лет назад +4

      I built a home 6 years ago as a single mom. I was fearful too but God confirmed that it was His will for me. Take it step by step and believe that it will all work out. I love being a homeowner. Don’t let fear delay you. Fear delayed my mom. She didn’t buy a home until she was 59 (the year after I purchased mine). She almost gave up but God didn’t let her. She got more than she desired or expected in a house.

    • @shon5199
      @shon5199 6 лет назад +6

      No fears sis! You've got this And God's got you. Stay encouraged!

  • @darbeehyde6873
    @darbeehyde6873 3 года назад

    THANK U!! OUR PR RC BLAKES. BLESSINGS TO THE GREATEST.😇

  • @tawnyasterling5875
    @tawnyasterling5875 3 года назад +3

    Thank you Pastor, for giving us crucial information. My dad left, when I was two, did not have guidance instilled 8n me, to make goals, invest and focus. I recently took out time, for me, did some growing and still am. I gave up on a man, who did what he wanted and I no longer will settle. I felt heart broken, but turned to God, in prayer, focus on me, fill my mindset with positive affirmations and focus on me. Thank you, this further helps me on what I need to continue to be working on - me, A Queen.. God bless you and to all who have tuned in

  • @l.mariemanningbridges8947
    @l.mariemanningbridges8947 4 года назад +1

    This is a very good teaching. I AM A QUEEN!

  • @ConnieP.Online
    @ConnieP.Online 6 лет назад +13

    This is THE BEST VIDEO on the internet!!! Thank you Bishop❤👍✔1,000%

  • @genevafoxx6824
    @genevafoxx6824 3 года назад

    Dear Bishop Blakes, Jr., and family. I've been s fsitjfu student; Bishop, you are a Anointed and Appointed. Your various teachings help us millions to stay out of the muck and mire, demons and Jezebels! They're out here and they want to KILL STEAL AND DESTROY! Real talk! 🤔😙😎

  • @Blurbbox
    @Blurbbox 6 лет назад +4

    Thank you!! I grew up in the South in Christian tradition and I was groomed to be “cake on a plate”. I started grabbing a hold of my purpose a few years ago and it actually cost me my marriage. What you say is so true. I though I was created to be a wife, but marriage is just a responsibility, not really a calling. I thank God that He brought your teaching to me Pastor Blakes. I’ve asked God to order my steps and I believe this video is informing that prayer. Bless you ♥️

  • @gamechanger4christ695
    @gamechanger4christ695 4 года назад +1

    You have to get a thumbs up for what you just delivered. If there is a thumbs down, that means it is not their season or they have chosen this season to walk in this truth. I pray God blesses you and your family and that for all you put out to so many, the God of all truth which brings freedom will pour back into you. You labor isn't in vain

    • @gamechanger4christ695
      @gamechanger4christ695 4 года назад

      Please excuse typos, I am typing while at the gym on the elliptical.

  • @n.v.1173
    @n.v.1173 4 года назад +15

    That is so true Pastor, I did not master marriage because I did not master my individuality.
    Now divorced 12 yrs. I’m 50, I am my best self because I’ve done the work, I’m a professional, self sufficient, purchased my home 4 yrs. ago, two beautiful adult kids, learned patience the hard way and staying in faith that God will bring my future husband. I pray for a second chance. 🙏🏻❤️🌟✨💫

  • @aliajohnson470
    @aliajohnson470 5 лет назад

    Thank you for taking the time to speak as a Father/Sheppard of God. Helping Women mature as they wait on God's time. Blessings.

  • @kfrancis1872
    @kfrancis1872 6 лет назад +328

    New sub. I just had this conversation with my best girl friend from Junior High School. I had to remind her that we have grown children, they're all doing well thank God, we're both turning 50, and we have money. And both being single after divorce years ago, we have freedom. So I told her she needs a passport, we both need bathing suits, and let's go enjoy life.

    • @foxyloxy5693
      @foxyloxy5693 6 лет назад +26

      Krishel Francis my friend of 50 years both celebrated by flying out to Bali....we don’t need a man to make us happy, just be happy with yourself....and whoever comes along can enhance what you already have!

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 5 лет назад +7

      And you look great ma'am 👌

    • @kcfrancis94
      @kcfrancis94 5 лет назад +2

      Olanike Adeyosola thank u!!

    • @kcfrancis94
      @kcfrancis94 5 лет назад +8

      @@menlolotololo4901 Thank u 💕...Cuba in February. My gfs flaked; oh well...I'm blowing out my last 35/40 yrs!!! Lol...got a lotta life left.

    • @MsBelleElle
      @MsBelleElle 5 лет назад +3

      50 where???

  • @feliciahames3511
    @feliciahames3511 6 лет назад +19

    Thank you for this great reminder, going from divorce to single will have one distracted...

  • @Anna-z9z9g
    @Anna-z9z9g 2 месяца назад +1

    You are spot on, pastor Blakes,Anna Belle

  • @torrihoward9729
    @torrihoward9729 6 лет назад +76

    That's why my mother named me Victoria. I'm Fully aware of my birth right I'm in Love More and more with Christ Jesus my Only True LORD and Savior 🙏

    • @michav.4663
      @michav.4663 5 лет назад +1

      I know about that name...comes with a lot of beautiful responsibilities.

    • @bevill72able
      @bevill72able 4 года назад

      Amen

  • @ileneyoung7404
    @ileneyoung7404 Год назад

    Thank you so much again for the confirmation of a queen conscious women. I lesson to you regularly. God Bless you and your family. To God be the glory!

  • @angievega7842
    @angievega7842 4 года назад +3

    This message is just amazing as I am struggling in my life with some changes after been married and still for 39 years. So much that I need to learn and change personally. I decided to become a Queen after the last confrontation I had with my husband. I’m a Queen and a warrior. I am fed up with the verbal, physical and psychological abuse, the manipulation and control ruling in my life through my husband’s actions. Is never too late...I’m 57 and I also had a dad that only used to work to provide but never took the time to share with me. Please pray for me. This message touch me to the tears. I need a change!

  • @sylviataylor4173
    @sylviataylor4173 2 года назад

    You are preaching Sir. This is a personal word for me. A pure vessel used to bring this message. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

  • @starrdavis285
    @starrdavis285 4 года назад +3

    This is so amazing. God made SURE that I found R.C. Blakes and his teachings and I am SO grateful!

  • @noellecannon1411
    @noellecannon1411 3 года назад +1

    I am on a path of self-improvement, awareness, and feminity.
    RC Blake's videos are so grounding and helpful. It also a great balance to the other sources/videos I have been watching. I appreciate his content alot.
    💫💫💫💫💫💫💫💫💫💫💫💫💫💫

  • @GOP7100
    @GOP7100 6 лет назад +9

    Thank you so much for always speaking to my heart. I trust in God.

  • @mstoyagrant
    @mstoyagrant 6 лет назад +2

    Having a whiteboard or even a slideshow is a great idea! I'm on my lunch break taking notes and steady pausing the video writing down all of this knowledge you are speaking. I have never commented this many time under one video before. This topic and the discussion hits home for me. Glory to the Father in heaven. God knows precisely, what you need when you need it.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  6 лет назад +1

      Ms Toya Grant WOW! Thank you 😊

    • @mstoyagrant
      @mstoyagrant 6 лет назад +1

      No, Thank you, Man of God for helping us ladies to know our worth in Christ and how to live out our purpose as Queens and Woman of God! 🙌❤

  • @lulub5059
    @lulub5059 6 лет назад +13

    Right on time Bishop 🙏 I've been waiting for more wisdom like this

  • @brittanyjones4096
    @brittanyjones4096 2 года назад +2

    This is a gem! 💎 I am so glad I was led here. This video is literally right on time. Everything happens for a reason and right now I’m working on myself finally. After years of afraid of being alone and going from man to man I finally know what I need to do to get me right! I am a Queen & I will hold my head up high. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me! Peace love and prosperity ❤️

  • @lisap1487
    @lisap1487 5 лет назад +8

    And when you do enter a relationship with someone when not healed the man who will "dance" with you will be the one who triggers those wounds so you can finally heal. Thank you for this....and your other video things a queen would never do...wow...I did just about it all...and am now aware and leveling up....thank you.

  • @HellenofTroy897
    @HellenofTroy897 3 года назад +1

    Thank u Lord for technology. Am out here in Nairobi Kenya and your videos have truly impacted my outlook on life and relationships. Been working on myself for ten years now, and then I found these videos - confirming and enriching everything I have learned.

  • @focused40
    @focused40 6 лет назад +107

    Can you please do one of these for men pastor.

  • @jewelstubbs5688
    @jewelstubbs5688 3 года назад

    I will say it again i am hooked. I am using this word(hooked) in a very positive sense. I thought i was witty and knew alot until i started listening to you Sir; i am so enlightened! Thanks for being such an inspiration to us. Btw, i have been calling myself Queen Jewel for such a long time and i have noticed people addressing me as Queen J or Lady J. Queenology is wonderful; thanks again.

  • @queensonia7865
    @queensonia7865 5 лет назад +3

    Thanks a lot, good advice for single ladies.

  • @joanm.prettipaul3996
    @joanm.prettipaul3996 3 года назад +2

    Mr RC Blake I'm so happy that I listen to this ministry I've been married for 9 years and I realized now that I am the main problem in my marriage and because God send me to listen to you and your message I know where the problem is and I'm going to work and I thank you 💞🙏