This was amazing!! I am a Queen. I was not acting like one because I am 40 single no kids never married and felt like why was God not sending me my mate. After watching this I am going to improve in my personal development--lose 15-25lbs; finish my Master's Degree. I have my own home and very good career and was ashamed that God blessed me so much financially without a mate. I used to feel so sad to attend church and seeing husband's wrap their arms around their wives during the sermon that I would hold into my Bible and cry. Now I will no longer cry about being single; but I will be thankful for God's many blessings! I will roll up my sleeves and get started on weightloss and finishing Grad school! THANK YOU JESUS for this teaching!!!😀😀😀 5/23/19 Update:I just got married!! God sent me a good husband❤ We were friends ONLY prior to marriage then got engaged then married. I am so glad I learned to love me first before loving someone else❤
Congratulations! I felt the same way while viewing Pastor's video! My eyes have been opened. I too can Truly see the Lord's Hand working in my life. What a Blessing~
I'm at 789 for now...never married, retired and making sure my dollars are covered over my life, home and be responsible...I'm celibate and proud, healthy and living my life in joy and peace and spoil seniors and work on myself and my purpose everyday...
GODmorning younglady Please note that, while you hearing Pastor Blake's work and words stay prayer,keeping your eyes on the prize. which is the high calling of Christ Jesus... allow GOD to do the rest. Glory to his name
The six points dat explained here are the following ... 1. Hv u completed ur personal growth? Or is ur personal growth on schedule? *Queens works on their personal growth! 2. Do u hv a desire for God? 3. Are u financially secure? 4. Do u need shelter? If so work on it. 5. Do u need to express the vision in ur heart? Do u have a vision in ur heart that u need to express? Proverb...when there is no vision the ppl perish. 6. Do u need to be remembered for any thing? U r not going to be remembered for whom u r married to bt with ur accomplishments! May God bless u abundantly for these 6 awesome points!
Working on myself, credit, education, spiritual cleansing. I realized my downfall was making a relationship status my goal. This came thru in divine timing. ❤❤❤
Same here.. Now when I'm in silence I'm realising many things which was wrong but I paid blind eye. Thank god for removing people who doesn't serve anymore.
Thank you for being that spiritual father 1. I do need to stop wondering if he will show up. 2. I need to finish my real estate classes to add additional income 3. Own home yes.. done 4. Next get my credit report together to clean up old mess. 5. Personal growth. . Got it!!! Well done homework is in place.
I was lying on my bed today and I looked up at the sky through my window feeling so heavy and sad. I just whispered "God what do you want me to do, show me what to do you know my heart and fell asleep woke up after picked up my phone and found this video. All I can say is I thank God for using you sir to bring across his message to me. These are my guidelines for 2020 God spear my life.
@@brendaames6705 yes you sure are my sister i am 63 and i am looking forward to getting married Sarah was still beautiful in her mature years and so are we I though some thing on tv a couple who are both 70 who met and got married in a fews months love is ageless And colour less Godbless you my sister
Working and focusing on me solely for the first time , over Three decades of giving of self to men not deserving of my Queendom , if God send an appointed one great! until then , my full growth uninterrupted is all I desire , blessed day to you RC Blakes .
Maggie, I'm doing exactly what your doing and have done. I'm getting so comfortable with myself and being single I'm loving it more than any relationship I have ever been in. I'm starting to feel like it would be scary to commit to any one now, because I'm so happy.
#1 13:02 - Is your personal growth on schedule? #2 18:04 - Do you have a desire for God? #3 21:10 -Are you financially secure? #4 24:10 - Do you need shelter? #5 25:53 Do you need to express the vision in your heart? #6 29:40 Do you need to be remembered for anything?
Amen, Pastor!! Security is one of the greatest needs of a woman! I am working on my finances so I can secure myself! I'm putting more towards my mortgage, paying off debt, and looking for ways to increase my income.
Many of those films years ago and now, feed into a females natural desires to connect and nuture..and lead many females into fantasy imaginations..Music also...many are Just for profits sake...That is where sound judgement and desernment keeps the female standing on a strong mental & emotional foundation..
I am Queen... Amen! I have spent the last 10 years working on myself. Finally, I can say I'm ready to give of myself to another.... it took a decade of me being authentic to myself and processing all the hurt from my past... I know my purpose in life... and is living it daily with gratitude. Thank you so much!
True say , my ex used to say I would make a Saint Sin . Now , I am 3 times Divorced , much happier and healthier now since I’ve been Healing and in Recovery from Childhood Abuse and Trauma . Yes, Build your Queen Consciousness before entering into any Relationship/ Marriage with anybody else .
" If you don't know your purpose, you don't know your mate " 👏🏾 This is soooo true! It's easy to just pick anybody when you don't even know where you are going in life
God Bless you for posting this. I'm 34, single, no kids, focused on my career & traveling the 🌎. My dad was present while I was growing up but he was very mentally unstable, hence you have become my spiritual dad over the past year 😀.
THIS VIDEO JUST REALLY CHANGED MY PERSPECTIVE, MINDSET AND MY LIFE! I was thinking all of these thoughts, but not admitting it to myself. I thought I needed a relationship to be happy. Now I know I need to focus on me and let God bring me my King. And I will be a Queen 👑 ready to compliment him. THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!
Prophetic message indeed. I've been praying to pursue my purpose that God has for me and not to focus on my physical needs for a relationship with a spouse .
Beautiful testimony! A man who is for you, is for you in every way Spiritually, Emotionally Physically, Financially... He treats you like a Queen, because to him you are a Queen. He shows you that every day. What a wonderful blessing! All Thanks be to God May His blessings surround you!
"If you don't know your purpose, you don't know your mate!" This hit hard...makes so much sense now. I know my Godly purpose, therefore I know my mate must put God first!
These words are changing my life. I can feel my queenness re-emerging... and my kingdom manifesting. Thank you, RC, for reminding us and reaffirming what we already innately know.
After leaving a toxic marriage this is confirmation I've been on the right track! All 6 is fundamental to awaken your queen conscious. Thank you for this!
I have massive anxiety from childhood drama and two divorces. I have been praying for purpose and I know a stable career and mental therapy is what I need. I’m 36 no kids but rather than drown in angst I need to work on my issues. Thank you for reminding me me with this
Awesome talk. I needed this. I cut off a former friend almost became romantic or intimate, who was juggling me and a younger woman. I found out and cut him out of my life. I had standards that were too much for him i guess. I told him he had to get a divorce before pursuing me ( he is married to another woman, they haven't been together in 10 years). He instead turned to a another woman (who was involved with someone else at the time) then he knocked her up. It broke my heart, i have since earned a certificate in data analytics, i completed a math and python class and i am working on self development and femininity as well as my health. I realize i dodged a bullet. He was never worthy of me. My spirit recognized this last year, it took my mind a while to catch up.Thank you for this wonderful discourse.
Hearing this again after 2 years of healing and personal development, and everything you said is needed was absolutely spot on. You've been so instrumental in my emotional and mental healing Pastor and I can't thank God and you enough. I am so grateful for your heart and your power-packed videos. Keep being used by God and the blessing you are. I love you and Lisa so much xx
OMG!!! Ok this message was divinely sent! Last night as I laid in my bed I was almost in tears as I spoke to God. I said to Her/Him (I am not a Christian) .. “What more do I need to do!?!” I know how to prepare healthy foods and eat well (I’ve been Vegan for over 10 years). I work out almost everyday and keep fit. I already have a close personal relationship with God. I have already developed and working in my own healing business. I’ve finally exited my relationship with my Narc Ex Fiancé and continuously working on emotional and psychological healing, I know how to keep a house… WHAT IS LEFT!!!?? This morning I saw a video come up in my feed that I wanted to watch of Pastor but when I clicked on it THIS video came up instead! I know NOW what I need to do for my final finishing touches of preparation!! Thank You Spirit!!!
Oh my goodness! What a timely message. Am 30, Kenyan. Waiting for a mate and I feel this a timely message to keep me on track in my waiting. I can't thank you enough bishop RC Blakes.....God bless you for me
I have a home to buy! Just the fright of ownership has pushed me back in that shell. I got this! and being a single mother does require me to reach my full potential. I have the lone I just need to go.
Real Truth I am in the same position. I’m a single mom as well and am currently looking to buy my first home. It is indeed very scary but we got this!!!
I built a home 6 years ago as a single mom. I was fearful too but God confirmed that it was His will for me. Take it step by step and believe that it will all work out. I love being a homeowner. Don’t let fear delay you. Fear delayed my mom. She didn’t buy a home until she was 59 (the year after I purchased mine). She almost gave up but God didn’t let her. She got more than she desired or expected in a house.
Man. I'm. On ALIGNMENT. Everytime I open one of his videos and others sermons I feel so excited.. listening to God is was the best choice ever in my journey
I am only 8:00 min into the video and my mind is blown! Thank you, as a Muslim woman, I enjoyed learning about your perspective on feminine self-respect. :)
Omorose Outkast my father died 2 years ago. This is when I began my journey. I realized that even though he wasn't there for me, with his work, it made me not ignore the gnawing feeling inside. I have a legacy, and I'm excited to start my journey.
Hello, my name is Emmelie, I am from Amsterdam in The Netherlands, Europe. I hope my englisch is good enough!! This massage from padtor Blakes has touched my heart! I now know that I have a lot of work to do before God will interduce me to my future husband! Believe me when I say, that I will work my but of to be ready for that moment! Pastor Blakes, I thank you for bringing Gods Word to me, so I can (and WILL) forfil His purpose for my life and enjoy my life with my future husband and our family. God bless you, your works in His Name, and your family!!
Man I knew this was for me I was almost scared to watch it... conviction.... oooo...weeee..just got spanked by the Father that’s how I know he loves me 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank You Father in Jesus Name ... Amen.
Not uh understanding why ther is a question of whether there are references about Queens in the There are several. Queens which are spoken of . Esther, Vashti, the Queen of Sheba to name a few. The Bible specifically speaks about the preparation to become a queen.
Thank you RC Blake for allowing God to use you as the messenger for the world to empower people to become better person and Unite with the one that is purposeful in there llife. You are truly a blessing to me for I know God is an on time God thank you so much
This message is just amazing as I am struggling in my life with some changes after been married and still for 39 years. So much that I need to learn and change personally. I decided to become a Queen after the last confrontation I had with my husband. I’m a Queen and a warrior. I am fed up with the verbal, physical and psychological abuse, the manipulation and control ruling in my life through my husband’s actions. Is never too late...I’m 57 and I also had a dad that only used to work to provide but never took the time to share with me. Please pray for me. This message touch me to the tears. I need a change!
Wisdom is a defense Money is a defense Working on home ownership Express the vision in my heart this message is for me just popped up on my notify God bless you from the bottom of my heart.🙏
I'm so glad I came across this video. You read me very well, I'm embarrassed at how many things I have to work on! I'm 23 about to be 24. I need to change my life, I've been depressed ,and feeling lonely I see why now I don't/didn't try to find a purpose or even find love within me. Thank you RC Blakes, you're out here changing peoples lives ,and you actually have proof to back up the things your talking about which I absolutely love.
Thank you Pastor, for giving us crucial information. My dad left, when I was two, did not have guidance instilled 8n me, to make goals, invest and focus. I recently took out time, for me, did some growing and still am. I gave up on a man, who did what he wanted and I no longer will settle. I felt heart broken, but turned to God, in prayer, focus on me, fill my mindset with positive affirmations and focus on me. Thank you, this further helps me on what I need to continue to be working on - me, A Queen.. God bless you and to all who have tuned in
And when you do enter a relationship with someone when not healed the man who will "dance" with you will be the one who triggers those wounds so you can finally heal. Thank you for this....and your other video things a queen would never do...wow...I did just about it all...and am now aware and leveling up....thank you.
Yes my vision is to publish my books and until I accomplish that I refuse to be involved with a man because I don't know what that entails as of now and I'm constantly writing to improve my skills.
I'm in my mid 20s and thank god I found this channel. Seems to be about the only decent one I've found so far. Still working on only trying to control the things with in my current reach. still working on the educational and money side to life along with social side to life.
Thank you!! I grew up in the South in Christian tradition and I was groomed to be “cake on a plate”. I started grabbing a hold of my purpose a few years ago and it actually cost me my marriage. What you say is so true. I though I was created to be a wife, but marriage is just a responsibility, not really a calling. I thank God that He brought your teaching to me Pastor Blakes. I’ve asked God to order my steps and I believe this video is informing that prayer. Bless you ♥️
I am a queen I.always felt unsuccessful but I got my degree on time busy with my honours God blessed my life my business is kicking off I am 30 years old being single for so.many years but know I see why As a Godly woman I empower myself thank you Jesus for RC Blakes teaching God bless you
Yes, I work on myself consistently. My health is a 7-8. Childhood trauma therapy since 17 years old. Father is good. I'm not Father deprived. Father was great. I'm pretty happy, lol... I'm independent. But yes you are right. God is always with me. I love my own company. I'm complete. I'm good with my looks. ;) Yes, I choose what I would like. I'm working on my career. I'm getting a little more stable. I gave a lot away. Trusted people too much. A lot was stolen from me. I've always taken care of myself!!!
As a single Woman right now. I am so happy just being single & trying to be woed by Men who are interested. Having said that I take this time to get to know them & most importantly myself. I don't rush. I am choosing wisely this time I am too old to be with the rush & wrong man. Ladies enjoy being woed by Men. Take care of yourself. Elevate yourself & make sure you put your Values higher than the Men treat you. Do not sleep with anyone who pays attention to you. Only give yourself to the only one who worked hard for it. The only one who deserves it. This is when you fail if you do. Grow in your own life & be with your own company & enjoy yourself. Be busy with things that are more important in your life. There is no such thing as your Bomb is Ticking? The only bomb that's going to explode is your life if you keep rushing & speeding like a car before you know it crash & into big trouble. Be happy with yourself because if you are not happy, you can never make someone else happy.
Ms Nobody I love this ❤️, everything you just commented I’ve been doing. Confirmation I’m on the path and I’ve recently started to date and I have been single and celibate for some time and I feel good. I have no distractions my credit has been repaired and good since 2010 i have my one place, two great jobs and I enjoy my friends and family as we all are busy and make time for each other. I know what’s for me will be for me and I know that God will put the man suppose to have in my life. I believe nothing happens before it’s time and I’m not desperate to be in a relationship. I enjoy my time, work and make time for the ppl who make time for me ( family & friends) and I make time for me and I do the things I like to do and I focus on my peace of mind and my inner peace. I work to be my better self and the best version of myself.
Pastor as I say you are such like a father to so many of us that didn’t have fathers in the home growing up. I have evolved so much since giving my life to Christ and following your messages.
I knew I had some work to do, boy it's a lot. Building my relationship with God, loving myself, child trauma, education, physical health, emotional and mental healing, building that Legacy, finding my purpose, healing at the age of 44 smh so much time wasted 😥
This video has been stalking me for a while here on RUclips and I've been fighting it cos I knew it would make me face a harsh truth about myself lately. My angels kept nudging me to watch and I finally did. I lived this and I thank you for being blunt and giving it how it is. God bless you xx
Sir Mr. Blake's you have no idea how much that you are changing my life listening to your videos. I've always been some what of a conscious woman but you have given me a renewed sense of importance about changing things in my life. You have a truly blessed soul and my hat goes off to your queen because she definitely has her a Reigning King. Thank you please keep doing what your doing. God Bless you my brother!!!!
Got my list thank you cause I needed to work on me first not just for a mate but as a proper QUEEN. WHO I AM FIRST LOST ABUSEIVE BEGINNINGS BUT HERES A START BACK ON MY JOURNEY.
Like what you said about relationship and felt that but did not know this to be true. "God did not make us for relationship"Helen Keller said it great "God created us to be in love with Him but instead we became in love with each other."
Having a whiteboard or even a slideshow is a great idea! I'm on my lunch break taking notes and steady pausing the video writing down all of this knowledge you are speaking. I have never commented this many time under one video before. This topic and the discussion hits home for me. Glory to the Father in heaven. God knows precisely, what you need when you need it.
Thank you so much again for the confirmation of a queen conscious women. I lesson to you regularly. God Bless you and your family. To God be the glory!
HE ☝ should do it but he's oddly obsessed with grooming women. There's something very manipulative abt a man that only puts out (truth?) videos directed solely at women (as if WE are the heads.)
Mr RC Blake I'm so happy that I listen to this ministry I've been married for 9 years and I realized now that I am the main problem in my marriage and because God send me to listen to you and your message I know where the problem is and I'm going to work and I thank you 💞🙏
You spoke to me pastor! My Mom just finished telling me the same things and it went in one ear and out the other. I guess in order for it to really hit me, I needed to hear it from someone else!!! Thank you. Starting today, I am going to work on all 6 things you talked about!!
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This was amazing!! I am a Queen. I was not acting like one because I am 40 single no kids never married and felt like why was God not sending me my mate. After watching this I am going to improve in my personal development--lose 15-25lbs; finish my Master's Degree. I have my own home and very good career and was ashamed that God blessed me so much financially without a mate. I used to feel so sad to attend church and seeing husband's wrap their arms around their wives during the sermon that I would hold into my Bible and cry. Now I will no longer cry about being single; but I will be thankful for God's many blessings! I will roll up my sleeves and get started on weightloss and finishing Grad school! THANK YOU JESUS for this teaching!!!😀😀😀
5/23/19 Update:I just got married!! God sent me a good husband❤ We were friends ONLY prior to marriage then got engaged then married. I am so glad I learned to love me first before loving someone else❤
Congratulations! I felt the same way while viewing Pastor's video! My eyes have been opened. I too can Truly see the Lord's Hand working in my life. What a Blessing~
You got this 👌
bless your ❤
Amen lets lose weight together as soon as you lose ten pounds email me please Lords will
Just because woman are married it does not mean that they are happy, don't envy others you never know what they are battling with?
“You don’t need to be obsessing over a man, you need to be obsessing over your credit” 😂🤣
Teach Sir! 🙌🏽
Facts 100%
indiboom1331 lmfaooo 😂😂😂😂😂
classic
I love this
I'm at 789 for now...never married, retired and making sure my dollars are covered over my life, home and be responsible...I'm celibate and proud, healthy and living my life in joy and peace and spoil seniors and work on myself and my purpose everyday...
I was working on me and my husband appeared..He's like the duplicate of me...
That's wonderful, congratulations! How's it going?
Yes God is good
I have heard and seen this happen.. that’s what I am doing now not rushing the process
Amēn and won’t He do it when we get out of His way?! 🙌🏽
Magically he appeared before you AND was a duplicate copy. Yeah, sure.
"If you don't fulfill your purpose, you will never be fulfilled" 👏👏
So glad I’m seeing this at 22 growing up without a father and in an unstable home. I’ve had to learn and do a lot on my own.
Same here🙏🙏
You're lucky God brought you here so young.🙏🏽💐
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Same but I wish I had this at 22 😪
GODmorning younglady
Please note that, while you hearing Pastor Blake's work and words stay prayer,keeping your eyes on the prize.
which is the high calling of Christ Jesus...
allow GOD to do the rest.
Glory to his name
The six points dat explained here are the following ...
1. Hv u completed ur personal growth? Or is ur personal growth on schedule?
*Queens works on their personal growth!
2. Do u hv a desire for God?
3. Are u financially secure?
4. Do u need shelter?
If so work on it.
5. Do u need to express the vision in ur heart?
Do u have a vision in ur heart that u need to express?
Proverb...when there is no vision the ppl perish.
6. Do u need to be remembered for any thing?
U r not going to be remembered for whom u r married to bt with ur accomplishments!
May God bless u abundantly for these 6 awesome points!
Thank you for the notes!!!
Rahab mwangi
Wlkm
You're the best!
Thank you for doing this 🤗
I thank God for you I was dealing with a narcissist!! I need to get me together first! With the help of My Lord and savior 🙏
Working on myself, credit, education, spiritual cleansing. I realized my downfall was making a relationship status my goal. This came thru in divine timing. ❤❤❤
Sure same with me. Am gonna work on my personal growth from now on. Thank you Pastor R.C Blakes for this message
Same with me.
Same here.. Now when I'm in silence I'm realising many things which was wrong but I paid blind eye. Thank god for removing people who doesn't serve anymore.
Find your purpose so you can leave a legacy and an inheritance!!!!
I’m 50 & White & I LOVE your advice !!! I needed when I was 19 before I wasted 28 years being faithful to the wrong man !!!!!
Yes! I'm 51 and feel the same way!
54,😔
50.....wasted 23 years
57, it was 25 years for me. Trying to get my crown back on
It doesn't feel any better at 42
Thank you for being that spiritual father
1. I do need to stop wondering if he will show up.
2. I need to finish my real estate classes to add additional income
3. Own home yes.. done
4. Next get my credit report together to clean up old mess.
5. Personal growth. . Got it!!!
Well done homework is in place.
Right there with you Sister Queen! My class starts in January!
Yes I have a similar list . Would like to have real estate licence under my belt etc. Multi streams of income .
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🎊
I was lying on my bed today and I looked up at the sky through my window feeling so heavy and sad. I just whispered "God what do you want me to do, show me what to do you know my heart and fell asleep woke up after picked up my phone and found this video. All I can say is I thank God for using you sir to bring across his message to me. These are my guidelines for 2020 God spear my life.
Excuse me Pastor I am a Queen and I'm 70 !
God is amazing!!
@@brendaames6705 yes you sure are my sister i am 63 and i am looking forward to getting married Sarah was still beautiful in her mature years and so are we I though some thing on tv a couple who are both 70 who met and got married in a fews months love is ageless And colour less Godbless you my sister
Praise the Lord, sister Queen. What a beautiful moment in time!
You and Dr. Myles Munroe changed my life. I thank God for y'all ministries.
Lilly N. What an honor for me to be in the company of Dr. Myles.😊🙏🏽
The Lilly those two are my pros too
ON EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!
Working and focusing on me solely for the first time , over Three decades of giving of self to men not deserving of my Queendom , if God send an appointed one great! until then , my full growth uninterrupted is all I desire , blessed day to you RC Blakes .
Maggie Edwards I’m with u on that one sis! Thank God that He is a God of a second chance!!!!! And bless God for this man of God too🙂
Maggie, I'm doing exactly what your doing and have done. I'm getting so comfortable with myself and being single I'm loving it more than any relationship I have ever been in. I'm starting to feel like it would be scary to commit to any one now, because I'm so happy.
Every single thing you said is 100% accurate!!!
Amen this is a very good message and I desire to look deep and ask god for my purpose and work on my self while I'm single.
#1 13:02 - Is your personal growth on schedule?
#2 18:04 - Do you have a desire for God?
#3 21:10 -Are you financially secure?
#4 24:10 - Do you need shelter?
#5 25:53 Do you need to express the vision in your heart?
#6 29:40 Do you need to be remembered for anything?
Thank you for these notes❤!
Thank you❤quinnterry for summary
Disney films ruined my life 😂 , half joking. Praise the Lord for this man. I’m getting my stuff together, personal development is number one.
Akaysha I say this all the time!
You are not alone.
Much love and support to you.
👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙌YES!! Getting myself together!! Getting my house in order: mental, emotional, spiritual, career, finances, etc.
Amen, Pastor!! Security is one of the greatest needs of a woman! I am working on my finances so I can secure myself! I'm putting more towards my mortgage, paying off debt, and looking for ways to increase my income.
Many of those films years ago and now, feed into a females natural desires to connect and nuture..and lead many females into fantasy imaginations..Music also...many are Just for profits sake...That is where sound judgement and desernment keeps the female standing on a strong mental & emotional foundation..
I am Queen... Amen! I have spent the last 10 years working on myself. Finally, I can say I'm ready to give of myself to another.... it took a decade of me being authentic to myself and processing all the hurt from my past... I know my purpose in life... and is living it daily with gratitude.
Thank you so much!
You had me laughing so hard when you said, “You could marry Jesus Christ and you would create problems”...hilarious and true
Lol 😱
Outstanding
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True say , my ex used to say I would make a Saint Sin . Now , I am 3 times Divorced , much happier and healthier now since I’ve been Healing and in Recovery from Childhood Abuse and Trauma . Yes, Build your Queen Consciousness before entering into any Relationship/ Marriage with anybody else .
So perfectly said, "why relationships fail is because self individuality has not been mastered."
" If you don't know your purpose, you don't know your mate " 👏🏾 This is soooo true! It's easy to just pick anybody when you don't even know where you are going in life
Obsess over purpose, not a relationship! I got it!! Thank you!!👑
God Bless you for posting this. I'm 34, single, no kids, focused on my career & traveling the 🌎. My dad was present while I was growing up but he was very mentally unstable, hence you have become my spiritual dad over the past year 😀.
Michelle McDonald I’m tremendously honored.🙏🏽😊
same im 31
Michelle McDonald hiiii girl...best way to go.i luv travelling too...can we get adventurous together?
@@Afiafancy
IDK when I'm planning another trip, (I have a paid cruise in early November).
THIS VIDEO JUST REALLY CHANGED MY PERSPECTIVE, MINDSET AND MY LIFE! I was thinking all of these thoughts, but not admitting it to myself. I thought I needed a relationship to be happy. Now I know I need to focus on me and let God bring me my King. And I will be a Queen 👑 ready to compliment him. THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!
Prophetic message indeed. I've been praying to pursue my purpose that God has for me and not to focus on my physical needs for a relationship with a spouse .
Thanks be to God for this message I'm also,praying to pursue my purpose that he has for me .
Thank you so much, I'm a work in progress. I don't want a relationship right now I want to get healed. I just love your teachings
Beautiful testimony! A man who is for you, is for you in every way Spiritually, Emotionally Physically, Financially... He treats you like a Queen, because to him you are a Queen. He shows you that every day. What a wonderful blessing! All Thanks be to God May His blessings surround you!
God-fearing, Saved, Educated, Single and Content. Next level status in full effect. #fabulouslyFLAWED #queenologist
"If you don't know your purpose, you don't know your mate!"
This hit hard...makes so much sense now. I know my Godly purpose, therefore I know my mate must put God first!
These words are changing my life.
I can feel my queenness re-emerging... and my kingdom manifesting.
Thank you, RC, for reminding us and reaffirming what we already innately know.
After leaving a toxic marriage this is confirmation I've been on the right track! All 6 is fundamental to awaken your queen conscious. Thank you for this!
I have massive anxiety from childhood drama and two divorces. I have been praying for purpose and I know a stable career and mental therapy is what I need. I’m 36 no kids but rather than drown in angst I need to work on my issues. Thank you for reminding me me with this
I clicked on the video sooo quick. Loving this series. I’m 47 and loving life. Thank you for continuing this series.
Awesome talk. I needed this. I cut off a former friend almost became romantic or intimate, who was juggling me and a younger woman. I found out and cut him out of my life. I had standards that were too much for him i guess. I told him he had to get a divorce before pursuing me ( he is married to another woman, they haven't been together in 10 years). He instead turned to a another woman (who was involved with someone else at the time) then he knocked her up. It broke my heart, i have since earned a certificate in data analytics, i completed a math and python class and i am working on self development and femininity as well as my health.
I realize i dodged a bullet. He was never worthy of me. My spirit recognized this last year, it took my mind a while to catch up.Thank you for this wonderful discourse.
When you open RUclips and see God directly speaking to you! This is for me! Thank you Daddy Blakes. ❤️
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AMEN!! NOTHING BUT GOD. I PRAYED ASKING GOD FOR GUIDANCE AND I STARTED WATCHING R.C.BLAKES A FATHER FIGURE I NEVER HAD..
Hearing this again after 2 years of healing and personal development, and everything you said is needed was absolutely spot on. You've been so instrumental in my emotional and mental healing Pastor and I can't thank God and you enough. I am so grateful for your heart and your power-packed videos. Keep being used by God and the blessing you are. I love you and Lisa so much xx
June 12, 2019...just now getting this MESSAGE! CAN I SAY.....RIGHT ON DARN TIME!!!!
I feel like you were introduced into my life at the perfect time. The lord has a way of showing you signs when you least expect it. Thank you!
1. He is talking about self-actualization 🙌🏾👏🏾
Go easy on me Sir. I was totally convicted on everything you said. I have a lot of work and a new focus. Thank you
OMG!!! Ok this message was divinely sent! Last night as I laid in my bed I was almost in tears as I spoke to God. I said to Her/Him (I am not a Christian) .. “What more do I need to do!?!” I know how to prepare healthy foods and eat well (I’ve been Vegan for over 10 years). I work out almost everyday and keep fit. I already have a close personal relationship with God. I have already developed and working in my own healing business. I’ve finally exited my relationship with my Narc Ex Fiancé and continuously working on emotional and psychological healing, I know how to keep a house… WHAT IS LEFT!!!?? This morning I saw a video come up in my feed that I wanted to watch of Pastor but when I clicked on it THIS video came up instead! I know NOW what I need to do for my final finishing touches of preparation!! Thank You Spirit!!!
Oh my goodness! What a timely message. Am 30, Kenyan. Waiting for a mate and I feel this a timely message to keep me on track in my waiting. I can't thank you enough bishop RC Blakes.....God bless you for me
From a man this is powerful and much needed for the situation I am in with my wife
James Yasharael Thank you for sharing
There’s a reason why this man appeared on my timeline. I’ve started watching your videos and they’ve become my personal therapy sessions. Thank you.
I have a home to buy! Just the fright of ownership has pushed me back in that shell. I got this! and being a single mother does require me to reach my full potential. I have the lone I just need to go.
Fear not Sis!!! You got this!!
Real Truth I am in the same position. I’m a single mom as well and am currently looking to buy my first home. It is indeed very scary but we got this!!!
New homeowner here to tell you that you got this!
I built a home 6 years ago as a single mom. I was fearful too but God confirmed that it was His will for me. Take it step by step and believe that it will all work out. I love being a homeowner. Don’t let fear delay you. Fear delayed my mom. She didn’t buy a home until she was 59 (the year after I purchased mine). She almost gave up but God didn’t let her. She got more than she desired or expected in a house.
No fears sis! You've got this And God's got you. Stay encouraged!
Man. I'm. On ALIGNMENT. Everytime I open one of his videos and others sermons I feel so excited.. listening to God is was the best choice ever in my journey
This is beautiful ! I’ve been married under pressure, peer, church, ministry!. I’m fine by myself. Not hating but I enjoy being with me!
I have never thought that I would understand any pastor as much as I have understood your message. I am a 51 years old woman.
I am only 8:00 min into the video and my mind is blown! Thank you, as a Muslim woman, I enjoyed learning about your perspective on feminine self-respect. :)
Wow!
This is deep.
Learn to master your individuality!
That's why my mother named me Victoria. I'm Fully aware of my birth right I'm in Love More and more with Christ Jesus my Only True LORD and Savior 🙏
I know about that name...comes with a lot of beautiful responsibilities.
Amen
You and your wife is a Blessing too all Women.
Thank you for this great reminder, going from divorce to single will have one distracted...
Than you for the Anointed Word. And you have a beautiful home. Kuddos to your wife!
I did not want to hear this but I needed it.Thank you
“what are you leaving for those behind you to inherit?” yes sir.
Omorose Outkast my father died 2 years ago. This is when I began my journey. I realized that even though he wasn't there for me, with his work, it made me not ignore the gnawing feeling inside. I have a legacy, and I'm excited to start my journey.
Amen! I am a woman from France and I've just discovered your channel thank God what a blessing! So wise insightful and helpful. Thank you so much!
Hello, my name is Emmelie, I am from Amsterdam in The Netherlands, Europe. I hope my englisch is good enough!! This massage from padtor Blakes has touched my heart! I now know that I have a lot of work to do before God will interduce me to my future husband! Believe me when I say, that I will work my but of to be ready for that moment! Pastor Blakes, I thank you for bringing Gods Word to me, so I can (and WILL) forfil His purpose for my life and enjoy my life with my future husband and our family. God bless you, your works in His Name, and your family!!
Man I knew this was for me I was almost scared to watch it... conviction.... oooo...weeee..just got spanked by the Father that’s how I know he loves me 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank You Father in Jesus Name ... Amen.
Latasha Dunlap Amen lol ! I was like yasss Holy Spirit convict me 😂😭. Be blessed !
girrrrrrl you're not alone lol! i paused it twice and saiD ooh lawd! I NEED TO HEAR THIS LOL
Thank you for the message praise God
Not uh understanding why ther is a question of whether there are references about Queens in the There are several. Queens which are spoken of . Esther, Vashti, the Queen of Sheba to name a few. The Bible specifically speaks about the preparation to become a queen.
Thank you RC Blake for allowing God to use you as the messenger for the world to empower people to become better person and Unite with the one that is purposeful in there llife. You are truly a blessing to me for I know God is an on time God thank you so much
This message is just amazing as I am struggling in my life with some changes after been married and still for 39 years. So much that I need to learn and change personally. I decided to become a Queen after the last confrontation I had with my husband. I’m a Queen and a warrior. I am fed up with the verbal, physical and psychological abuse, the manipulation and control ruling in my life through my husband’s actions. Is never too late...I’m 57 and I also had a dad that only used to work to provide but never took the time to share with me. Please pray for me. This message touch me to the tears. I need a change!
Thank you!🙏🏾🙌🏾♥️
Blessed me very much. I was so stuck on missing him and doing nothing..but this healed my mind and soul. I'm worthy of my legacy.
Wisdom is a defense Money is a defense Working on home ownership Express the vision in my heart this message is for me just popped up on my notify God bless you from the bottom of my heart.🙏
I'm so glad I came across this video. You read me very well, I'm embarrassed at how many things I have to work on! I'm 23 about to be 24. I need to change my life, I've been depressed ,and feeling lonely I see why now I don't/didn't try to find a purpose or even find love within me. Thank you RC Blakes, you're out here changing peoples lives ,and you actually have proof to back up the things your talking about which I absolutely love.
Thank you… you are contributing greatly to my growth, my transformation and the transformation of my relationship ❤God bless you and your family 🙏🏼
Thank you Pastor, for giving us crucial information. My dad left, when I was two, did not have guidance instilled 8n me, to make goals, invest and focus. I recently took out time, for me, did some growing and still am. I gave up on a man, who did what he wanted and I no longer will settle. I felt heart broken, but turned to God, in prayer, focus on me, fill my mindset with positive affirmations and focus on me. Thank you, this further helps me on what I need to continue to be working on - me, A Queen.. God bless you and to all who have tuned in
Thank you for this, Bishop!!! I am now more inspired to love myself and be better!!
And when you do enter a relationship with someone when not healed the man who will "dance" with you will be the one who triggers those wounds so you can finally heal. Thank you for this....and your other video things a queen would never do...wow...I did just about it all...and am now aware and leveling up....thank you.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏This was truly enlightening!!! Thank you so much! This came right on time.
Yes my vision is to publish my books and until I accomplish that I refuse to be involved with a man because I don't know what that entails as of now and I'm constantly writing to improve my skills.
I'm in my mid 20s and thank god I found this channel. Seems to be about the only decent one I've found so far. Still working on only trying to control the things with in my current reach. still working on the educational and money side to life along with social side to life.
Thank you!! I grew up in the South in Christian tradition and I was groomed to be “cake on a plate”. I started grabbing a hold of my purpose a few years ago and it actually cost me my marriage. What you say is so true. I though I was created to be a wife, but marriage is just a responsibility, not really a calling. I thank God that He brought your teaching to me Pastor Blakes. I’ve asked God to order my steps and I believe this video is informing that prayer. Bless you ♥️
Wow...thank you pastor. You have just changed my mindset. Kenyan we love you!
I am a queen I.always felt unsuccessful but I got my degree on time busy with my honours God blessed my life my business is kicking off I am 30 years old being single for so.many years but know I see why As a Godly woman I empower myself thank you Jesus for RC Blakes teaching God bless you
Yes, I work on myself consistently. My health is a 7-8. Childhood trauma therapy since 17 years old. Father is good. I'm not Father deprived. Father was great. I'm pretty happy, lol... I'm independent. But yes you are right. God is always with me. I love my own company. I'm complete. I'm good with my looks. ;) Yes, I choose what I would like. I'm working on my career. I'm getting a little more stable. I gave a lot away. Trusted people too much. A lot was stolen from me. I've always taken care of myself!!!
As a single Woman right now. I am so happy just being single & trying to be woed by Men who are interested.
Having said that I take this time to get to know them & most importantly myself.
I don't rush. I am choosing wisely this time I am too old to be with the rush & wrong man.
Ladies enjoy being woed by Men. Take care of yourself. Elevate yourself & make sure you put your Values higher than the Men treat you.
Do not sleep with anyone who pays attention to you. Only give yourself to the only one who worked hard for it. The only one who deserves it. This is when you fail if you do.
Grow in your own life & be with your own company & enjoy yourself.
Be busy with things that are more important in your life.
There is no such thing as your Bomb is Ticking? The only bomb that's going to explode is your life if you keep rushing & speeding like a car before you know it crash & into big trouble.
Be happy with yourself because if you are not happy, you can never make someone else happy.
Ms Nobody I love this ❤️, everything you just commented I’ve been doing. Confirmation I’m on the path and I’ve recently started to date and I have been single and celibate for some time and I feel good. I have no distractions my credit has been repaired and good since 2010 i have my one place, two great jobs and I enjoy my friends and family as we all are busy and make time for each other. I know what’s for me will be for me and I know that God will put the man suppose to have in my life. I believe nothing happens before it’s time and I’m not desperate to be in a relationship. I enjoy my time, work and make time for the ppl who make time for me ( family & friends) and I make time for me and I do the things I like to do and I focus on my peace of mind and my inner peace. I work to be my better self and the best version of myself.
Yes, I'm just really understanding this topic. This would have been marvelous on my ears 30 years ago.
Thank you.
I strongly believe, coming up on this video was not by accident, it's part of my Divine destiny to hear this teaching!
Pastor as I say you are such like a father to so many of us that didn’t have fathers in the home growing up. I have evolved so much since giving my life to Christ and following your messages.
Omg right on time as usual Bishop
Thank you for praying for me!
I knew I had some work to do, boy it's a lot. Building my relationship with God, loving myself, child trauma, education, physical health, emotional and mental healing, building that Legacy, finding my purpose, healing at the age of 44 smh so much time wasted 😥
1. Personal growth
2. Desire for God
3. Personal finance
4. Shelter
5. Vision to Express
6. Legacy to be remembered
Saw the title and I knew this was for me!
Amen 🙏 I'll be ordering it next week. I can order it through Amazon I hope?🤗
Indeed!😘💞👣
Fa real another good message I must say!!! Keep it comin my spiritual daddy!!!
I must learn to focus on the things I can control. The rest I leave to God.
So God put us here for a purpose. I don’t understand my purpose. I have ask and begged.
This video has been stalking me for a while here on RUclips and I've been fighting it cos I knew it would make me face a harsh truth about myself lately. My angels kept nudging me to watch and I finally did. I lived this and I thank you for being blunt and giving it how it is. God bless you xx
Right on time Bishop 🙏 I've been waiting for more wisdom like this
The point of focusing on what you can control is life. I’m working on it. Thank you for your wisdom ! Listen up ladies
This is so amazing. God made SURE that I found R.C. Blakes and his teachings and I am SO grateful!
You are preaching Sir. This is a personal word for me. A pure vessel used to bring this message. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Thank you Pastor R.C.Blakes❣️🙏🏼 HE blessed me when HE lead me to your channel, Praise the Father Almighty. Thanks be to God ✝️
Sir Mr. Blake's you have no idea how much that you are changing my life listening to your videos. I've always been some what of a conscious woman but you have given me a renewed sense of importance about changing things in my life. You have a truly blessed soul and my hat goes off to your queen because she definitely has her a Reigning King. Thank you please keep doing what your doing. God Bless you my brother!!!!
Thank you so much for always speaking to my heart. I trust in God.
Got my list thank you cause I needed to work on me first not just for a mate but as a proper QUEEN. WHO I AM FIRST LOST ABUSEIVE BEGINNINGS BUT HERES A START BACK ON MY JOURNEY.
Like what you said about relationship and felt that but did not know this to be true. "God did not make us for relationship"Helen Keller said it great "God created us to be in love with Him but instead we became in love with each other."
Having a whiteboard or even a slideshow is a great idea! I'm on my lunch break taking notes and steady pausing the video writing down all of this knowledge you are speaking. I have never commented this many time under one video before. This topic and the discussion hits home for me. Glory to the Father in heaven. God knows precisely, what you need when you need it.
Ms Toya Grant WOW! Thank you 😊
No, Thank you, Man of God for helping us ladies to know our worth in Christ and how to live out our purpose as Queens and Woman of God! 🙌❤
I thank the most high for guiding me here. This is absolutely perfect. I'm not Christian, Yet the truth is the truth.
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Thank you so much again for the confirmation of a queen conscious women. I lesson to you regularly. God Bless you and your family. To God be the glory!
Someone should tell men, who have an issue with women being so independent...this.
Right!
I agree ☝️
Truth, insecure men have issues with women who are independent.
When I came to understand this my husband and I found each other.
HE ☝ should do it but he's oddly obsessed with grooming women.
There's something very manipulative abt a man that only puts out (truth?) videos directed solely at women (as if WE are the heads.)
Trinna Simmons thats what I started thinking at “power couple” okeeee I can stay powerful by myself then....
Mr RC Blake I'm so happy that I listen to this ministry I've been married for 9 years and I realized now that I am the main problem in my marriage and because God send me to listen to you and your message I know where the problem is and I'm going to work and I thank you 💞🙏
You spoke to me pastor! My Mom just finished telling me the same things and it went in one ear and out the other. I guess in order for it to really hit me, I needed to hear it from someone else!!! Thank you. Starting today, I am going to work on all 6 things you talked about!!
Excellent that you have a Mother who has spoken this wisdom into your life! Many of us did not. You are Blessed! Amen~
Great message, Will definitely work on my personal growth. Widow five years, was married 30 years.