HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR SOUL MATE by RC BLAKES

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  • Опубликовано: 9 сен 2020
  • In this session we revisit the idea of SOUL MATES. I talk about how one may attract her/his soul mate.
    In this discussion I deal with the reality that a real RELATIONSHIP will require much more than sexual attraction.
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  • @DunstanW
    @DunstanW 3 года назад +970

    Today's points 📝 to work on self or to confirm you're on the right track...
    Thank you Bishop...
    #1- Evaluating your presets attractions
    #2- You have to become what you desire
    #3 -You got to be available
    #4 - Marry your purpose
    #5 - You've got to Trust God completely
    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @kasand01
      @kasand01 3 года назад +14

      Thank you for the highlights!

    • @divinelychosen5554
      @divinelychosen5554 3 года назад +5

      Thanks so much for the key points

    • @DunstanW
      @DunstanW 3 года назад +1

      @Kasand01 and @ChynaAjayi-khiran... You are both welcome🙏🏾

    • @divinelychosen5554
      @divinelychosen5554 3 года назад +12

      @@DunstanW
      RC Blakes is such an awesome teacher. Learnt alot from him in the last 2 years.

    • @DunstanW
      @DunstanW 3 года назад +2

      Chyna Ajayi-khiran Ohhh I know, truly a Blessings this side of heaven 🙏🏾 and so is Bishop Samuel R Blake's... The Blessing Brothers 🙌🏾

  • @kimberlyhill948
    @kimberlyhill948 3 года назад +1023

    “Hard to attract a soul mate when you’re still attracted to a soul tie”- facts!

  • @mnorwo2
    @mnorwo2 3 года назад +476

    "Soul mates make you big. Soul ties make you small"! R.C Blakes

    • @apriljohnson7772
      @apriljohnson7772 3 года назад +1

      Love this quote

    • @colemacedo-phillips5768
      @colemacedo-phillips5768 3 года назад +3

      You sure make a great deal of sense R. C. Blake's! Thanks!

    • @kmonette
      @kmonette 3 года назад +10

      And soul mates draw us closer to God while soul ties draw us away from God.

    • @sofianyoni-7209
      @sofianyoni-7209 3 года назад +1

      Thats deep!!!

    • @rosinamhlambi5212
      @rosinamhlambi5212 3 года назад +1

      Good morning Pastor Blake's , thank you very much for the empowerment I received from to since last year May 2020 , my husband passed on 2018 and I asked God to help me as I was alone , and was not empowered how to deal with the high libido I had as my husband was sick for a long time , o think God s not you to me through You tube , since then I become blessed and empowered by you through our Alsmighty , thanks a lot , Go d bless you

  • @trinaj.2427
    @trinaj.2427 3 года назад +269

    Pastor Blake’s words are full of truth. One must make room.
    Once I freed myself from a toxic relationships,my king showed up! My sisters do the work and become available. Praise God!

    • @kirk1007
      @kirk1007 3 года назад +8

      That is very encouraging.

    • @ninahm6267
      @ninahm6267 3 года назад +4

      I'm a queen now, common my king 🥰

    • @ikrambaouchouch9511
      @ikrambaouchouch9511 3 года назад +10

      It's been two years since i let go of a soul tie with a narcisst. Ive done all the work on myself spiritually and financially and im now ready to meet my soul mate but sometimes i feel discouraged when I put myself in the dating scene and i find all these clowns , then i go back to RC blakes videos to remind myself that the journey to my soulmate can be hard but it's worth it at the end. I hope i meet him in this life time 🙏💕
      Thank you for the encouragement and making me believe that mine is out there making his way to me ❤

    • @trinaj.2427
      @trinaj.2427 3 года назад +7

      @@ikrambaouchouch9511
      Stay encouraged!!
      God has showed up and showed out; not just in my life but in my daughters lives.
      My King was just the icing on the cake.
      When I decided to put Him first and live for Him.
      He turned the ashes of my life to beauty!
      Jesus did it for me and I am confident He can do it for you!One step at a time my sister and one prayer at a time!
      God bless you!❤️

    • @ashleymoffettnzeribe9353
      @ashleymoffettnzeribe9353 2 года назад +7

      Mine came too and now we are engaged to be married. Jesus works!

  • @BeautifulMorning-dl6nl
    @BeautifulMorning-dl6nl 3 года назад +284

    Right. People think you are about to sit up and play games with them I WILL NOT. I will wait on my soul mate before I entertain these clowns.

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 3 года назад +668

    Meet the requirements of your requirements, do the work, dont focus on externals, dont be thirsty, let God write your love story, be prepared for God to make the introduction. Thanks Papa. Another amazing one.

    • @buttereffect3798
      @buttereffect3798 3 года назад

      Oh so sweet your right right though.

    • @blondiek35
      @blondiek35 3 года назад +1

    • @ladyt3701
      @ladyt3701 3 года назад +2

      Love your bullet points

    • @dortheamcnulty6465
      @dortheamcnulty6465 3 года назад +3

      Definately he knows what he is talking about. Ain’t enough men in the World. Piling soul ties on top of soul ties. He is telling the truth.

    • @theresadunn7279
      @theresadunn7279 2 года назад +4

      Just started watching your channel and I'm loving all your messages. Thank you God.

  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  3 года назад +852

    I DEFINITELY BELIEVE IN SOUL MATES. However, I don’t necessarily subscribe to the idea of God doing all the work. I believe that we must attract our soul mate, primarily through becoming what we desire. Just my thoughts. What do you think?

    • @ritaf2366
      @ritaf2366 3 года назад +42

      I just got to knowing about you and your teachings a few weeks ago and I don't wanna keep wondering why it didn't happen several years back. Rather I remain extremely thankful to God that He led me to your teachings even now..I feel like the best season of my life has just started. Thank you very much for availing yourself for God to use in helping women like us. About attracting our soulmate...having followed your teachings so far, I believe we have great work to do on ourselves, while we trust God to bring our soulmate our way. So while we work on the weak areas in our lives as God reveals to us and as He empowers us to, we are working with Him to attract our soul mate.

    • @pooh4025
      @pooh4025 3 года назад +6

      I agree Pastor.

    • @letsbefruitful5457
      @letsbefruitful5457 3 года назад +30

      I totally agree one thing I have learned from watching your channel is self love and alone time , so you can attract righteousness in your life “soulmate”!

    • @idb6673
      @idb6673 3 года назад +10

      @RCBlakes, Jr I agree. I once had a friend, who, when describing the 'MAN' she desired, said... "He has to be educated (some type of degree), he must have a car, live on his OWN, speak well, definitely- has a great job, or his own business, nice looking (a few more adjectives... Or accolades... I can't recollect).
      My Response (other than being exhausted by her 'desires')... I said, "Whelp! THAT does it for The Law, Prophets, Apostles... & ...Our LORD & Saviour. JESUS 'walked' or rode a donkey, And, when HE wasn't inViting HIMself onto someone's boat, He stayed with his parents. If Isaiah 55 is an accurate description, HE was NOT to be 'desired'. Moses was a thief & a liar (He told THE LORD that he didn't speak well. He knew varied languages!!); Peter cursed, and cut off folk's ears; Paul... Well, too much to say about him. John lived in the wilderness. Thomas doubted; Timothy was timid; Paul constantly said, "Stir up the gift!" Guess, Only Luke, the Doctor & James & John, 'Sons of Thunder' (ambitions, they (or their Mom were) fit. But, the kicker- I said, "You desire these 'traits'; Yet, You possess none of them. Geez!
      Let us become that or WHO we seek... Or, desire.
      There's That. Now, I'm HERE for it! 🗒️ ✍🏽 ✔
      🌸Blessings Pastor & Sis` Lisa for sharing your "Sacrificial Life & Love"
      🙏🏾✝️ 🛐 🙇🏾

    • @pooh4025
      @pooh4025 3 года назад +4

      @@idb6673 wow!!

  • @kasand01
    @kasand01 3 года назад +212

    Wives Wait! Analyze & Prioritizes. Girlfriends go for anything! What a Word! Thank You Pastor I got to share this with my Queen friends!

  • @jenniferreedcoachjrose4301
    @jenniferreedcoachjrose4301 3 года назад +50

    You don’t know who fits into your life until you find your purpose 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾‼️

  • @teopistorsind9874
    @teopistorsind9874 3 года назад +117

    "Untill you evaluate what you are attracted to, you are not gonna get there" Preach pastor preach!

  • @Ash2beauty
    @Ash2beauty 3 года назад +158

    I can say that i just met and have been spending time with the man of God that I believe is my soulmate . We both agree that we’ve never had moments as enjoyable as what we have. I was not looking but waiting for God to send a mate. God had me prepare for him by losing 20 lbs, wking on my mindset, strengthening me spiritually, changing my wardrobe and ridding myself of any soul ties. He will prepare you before he blesses you. Great job Pastor. 🙏🏾

    • @lindaharris3432
      @lindaharris3432 3 года назад +8

      Ashes 2 Beauty : I'm so happy for you , Make sure he love God as much as you do . Be bless 🙏🙏🙏💝 🙂💞💘💕

    • @msharic85
      @msharic85 3 года назад +1

      How did u get rid of the soul ties?

    • @deewils381
      @deewils381 3 года назад +1

      Amen

    • @TracyTranquility
      @TracyTranquility Год назад

      Beautiful sis

    • @Summer-tk8yk
      @Summer-tk8yk Год назад

      Blessings for you ❤

  • @estherngongi3977
    @estherngongi3977 3 года назад +103

    Has to match your energy, your vibe, your mental level, your purposes align some how, understands your emotions, your thought process, they don't try to change your essence and speaks life into your life... You'll never find a soulmate if the exterior package is what gets you ... Be the one for you and that soul mate should match you... Stay blessed y'all 🌹🌹🌹

  • @pooh4025
    @pooh4025 3 года назад +271

    He always has the best messages

    • @Priesthood275
      @Priesthood275 3 года назад +5

      yknow! He is a blessing. Am learning alot i wish i knew 10yrs ago

    • @youx457
      @youx457 3 года назад +1

      Most Women Are Not Going To Get A Legal Marriage Contract This Brother Quoting Biblical Christian Text Is Very Smooth Authoriative Sounding But Can't Help These Women He Has No Current Contextual Message For A Time At This Hour With These Mordern Day Draconian Marriage Laws That Are Not Any Good For Men He Is Preaching From A Judgemental Fire & Brimstone Fear Perspective . Many Of These Women Will Never Be Married & They Should Still Live Happy Fufilled Lives . These Marriage Family Court Laws Are Designed To Extract Resources From Men . Quoting Scriptures From A Book Printed In A Book Printed In A White Male Run Warehouse Mean Nothing in This System of Institutional Marriage License State/Government Pair-Bonding Validation Contruct . Some Men/Real Good Men Are Just Not Doing It ... The Preacher Makes Good Points But Is Not Progressive & It Makes Delusional Women Feel Unworthy ... Because Men Are Not Entering These Marriage Contracts .... His Message Is For Women Most Of Whom Are
      Fantasy Hard-Core Jesus Gonna Send Me A Man After I Hit The Wall Wishful Thinking Types.

  • @thuladei5552
    @thuladei5552 3 года назад +290

    Hello Pastor, I have to tell you I never imagined I would find a father figure this way, but I am so glad. Your videos feel more like conversations, and I go back to them when I need a reminder on a lesson. Thank you for sharing your teachings with such genuine love for us ladies who did not have that before.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  3 года назад +16

      Whendy Kin Thank you❤️😊🙏🏽

    • @thuladei5552
      @thuladei5552 3 года назад +5

      RC Blakes, Jr Bless you pastor

    • @ShawntaE99
      @ShawntaE99 3 года назад +9

      At Whendy Kin I 💯 Percent agree with you. I feel Pastor is a true definition of a spiritual father. Which was something I never had growing up, my own father having these conversations with me. The depth of his conversations are mind blowing. I’m honestly thankful I found Pastor on RUclips. 🙌🏾

    • @SheilaTrueLove
      @SheilaTrueLove 3 года назад +1

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    • @bumptv2028
      @bumptv2028 3 года назад +1

      So true, sis!

  • @exoticbarbie1000
    @exoticbarbie1000 2 года назад +53

    This really spoke to my heart. I told God I can’t endure anymore heartache so I decided to marry Jesus. I’m solely focused on my purpose and not my pain anymore. I went back to school to further my career in medicine and also my daughter and making sure I model a good image for her so she will grow up and be a virtuous woman. I trust God completely. Thank you for this message ❤️

    • @takyrica
      @takyrica 2 года назад +4

      Beautiful ❤️ trusting God sounds simple but it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done. And let me tell you, it is beautiful.

    • @rimakaram1313
      @rimakaram1313 Год назад +1

      BLESS YOU AM PROUD OF YOU MY SISTER

  • @ozlemeda2852
    @ozlemeda2852 2 года назад +14

    Pastor Blakes, I am Muslim and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. You showed me the difference between soul mate and soul tie. We believe in the same God but i needed to hear this. Thanks so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @mnorwo2
    @mnorwo2 3 года назад +115

    "Self-actualization is the KEY to what you DESERVE"!

    • @tanikanakeyalewis4202
      @tanikanakeyalewis4202 3 года назад +1

      You are Born Actualized, until You're required to learn to become Independently, and Self-Sufficiently Actualized.
      At Age Eighteen, how many Years does that Process require?

  • @sscott504
    @sscott504 3 года назад +211

    If grown people still have a "type", I would encourage them to evaluate their maturity level

  • @MySideHustleStash
    @MySideHustleStash 3 года назад +76

    Wives wait...😇 I needed that.

  • @carolynjaynes36
    @carolynjaynes36 3 года назад +38

    Married to my purpose, I’ve lived my dreams while I wait for God to bring my king. Trusting God in all things.

  • @ilissawalker7051
    @ilissawalker7051 3 года назад +190

    This is just what I need to hear. Straight facts from my RUclips father. In the past 7 months he has really helped me stay on track.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  3 года назад +12

      😊🙏🏽♥️

    • @s.crockett5457
      @s.crockett5457 3 года назад +4

      Praise God. What a blessing

    • @kimberlyl.mccauley8501
      @kimberlyl.mccauley8501 3 года назад +3

      Me too! Blessings from God!❤

    • @josannebruce3096
      @josannebruce3096 3 года назад

      RUclips father lol 😥

    • @ilissawalker7051
      @ilissawalker7051 3 года назад +5

      @@josannebruce3096 lets be real.. People have have parents but you should understand one parent might have been absent their whole life. So many people come from broken homes ,So many people need to get a proper understanding from and RC Blake's Jr.. Is my positive person a fresh breath of air & yes my RUclips Dad.. find something good to do with your time.. Have a blessed day..

  • @normaortiz216
    @normaortiz216 3 года назад +99

    We need to heal first from the past and work on ourselves and our relationship with God! Thank You Pastor!

  • @divinelychosen5554
    @divinelychosen5554 3 года назад +44

    "We are attracted to everything we are getting". Wow!

  • @mofimTV
    @mofimTV 2 года назад +20

    Soulmate gets u mentally
    Aligns with your desires in life
    Ministers to u emotionally
    Knows how to build u up emotionally
    Makes u larger
    Ushers God's presence in your life

  • @lashundawashington3321
    @lashundawashington3321 2 года назад +7

    Though I've been single for 10 yrs, this is EXACTLY how I think and feel. Many ppl try to tell me I should put myself out there but I refuse. I work on me daily and trust GOD for all things!

  • @lashawnames9066
    @lashawnames9066 3 года назад +120

    "Are you a nickle searching for a dime?" Wow!

  • @elainepjones2478
    @elainepjones2478 3 года назад +142

    This was right on time! Thank you sir! I'm over 50 and I have decided not to compromise or settle. I've determined that God will bring the right Man at the right Time! I just published my first ebook called Spark Fire to Your Day. Im having it printed in paperback. Ive done all this since listening to your for the past 4 months!
    Due to your advice I also listen to Tony Gaskins! I'm learning, growing and developing! God Bless you!!! Thank you!

    • @bumptv2028
      @bumptv2028 3 года назад +6

      Congratulations, Sis!

    • @Talkwithtina808
      @Talkwithtina808 3 года назад +4

      Congratulations

    • @naturallenatty8199
      @naturallenatty8199 3 года назад +6

      Stephens speaks is amazing as well ♥️

    • @alishadennis7077
      @alishadennis7077 3 года назад +2

      You rock 👑😍👏👏 sister & you look so lovely.
      I watch RC Blake & Tony Gaskins who are both called, guided & anointed by God 🙏💗 my Abba father to teach & motivate with knowledge & wisdom from the Bible & the
      Moving of the holy spirit to bless & minister to women & People for holy, blessed victory in our lives to God's 🙏💗 true glory!!!!!!
      Our choices & strength, with true queenship 👑😍👑😍 operating in our lives is very, very important to activate for our own well being that God's 🙏 💕 love wants for his ladies, girls & people, especially in - during these days & times that are highly challenging for us.
      These 2 Christian men are like big hugs, also correction with direction & love 💖💕😘💗👑 that we needed from God 🙏 . It especially dose bless & assist guide & teach girls & women who will hear & submit to knowing God 🙏💗👑🙏 as Lord & our savior. As our King 👑❤️ & Lord 🙏💗 God 🙏 wants even better for us than we can want for our selves, if we learn to believe, learn, get ready & then recieve in our lives.
      I 🤔 think is special for us women who have been mislead & told to except small, lower & less in life. That's more often said or implied to females if color in this 🌎 world.
      We are being told the truth, as Gods 🙏 word & his greatest , awesome 😎🆒😁 loving, strong 🦉 purposeful futures & lives for us period amen!!!!!!💕😘💕 Thank you Lord for your grace, power mercy & loving kindness for us by sending your male servants to minister to us now!!!!!
      I pray God 💗🙏 🙏💗 always keeps blessing these brothers & teachers & their families highly & greatly, in Jesus blessed name, Amen !!!!!!!
      Also Lord 🙏💗👑🙏 bless the ladies, girls & people who follow your guidance through holy ministry here. With great results & holy blessings they give honor & thanksgiving too you for Lord. I pray this in Jesus name, amen!!!!!!

    • @janicewoods8399
      @janicewoods8399 3 года назад +12

      I agree with you Elaine…..I was 50yr old when I met my husband I am 60 now and I can truly say he is my soulmate keep waiting for your soulmate no matter what age you are….he will show up

  • @kayrahmaansheppard8377
    @kayrahmaansheppard8377 Год назад +24

    Yes sir. Listened to this message when you first posted and corrected myself. I’m happy to say I’m getting married to my king on the 20th. Praise God 🙏🏽❤️

    • @TracyTranquility
      @TracyTranquility Год назад +1

      Beautiful sis. Congrats 👏

    • @Ireb100
      @Ireb100 Год назад +1

      Congs

    • @trineshacatrell
      @trineshacatrell Год назад +2

      Amen. That is so excellent. I pray that you both increase and allow God to guide you both through your journey never forgetting what God has done and continues to do in your lives.

  • @coriwilliams1983
    @coriwilliams1983 3 года назад +96

    Psalm 37:4-5 "Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart.Commit everything you do to the LORD. Trust him, and he will help you. Reread🌹🌿 This a few times🌿🌹
    Your soulmate will be your equal. Marry your Purpose 😊 Stop wasting your time on these clowns in crowns 🤣🤣(Preach Pastor RC Blakes Jr)

  • @heavenlyheartgirl1995
    @heavenlyheartgirl1995 3 года назад +60

    Soul ties with clowns 😂 That's a good one.

    • @clairewolf6013
      @clairewolf6013 3 года назад

      Have a soul tie to a literal clown. I found him so sweet for dressing up as one and going to nurseries of elderly people and alleviating their loneliness. Wasn't my soul mate, but a phenomenal person. I wish clowns wouldn't be used as negative metaphor in that sense so often...

    • @violetselene244
      @violetselene244 3 года назад

      @@clairewolf6013 I think it's just meant to mean a foolish, silly person, someone not to take seriously. And I feel like clowns purposely portray that type of personality for laughter.

    • @jackiemuthoni7302
      @jackiemuthoni7302 2 года назад

      😀😀😀😀

  • @LeslieMBates
    @LeslieMBates 3 года назад +16

    I begged and begged for my to husband to "speak INTO me"...Im over it now. I've learned to keep pushing and to encourage MYSELF. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @TracyTranquility
      @TracyTranquility Год назад

      Let Yah speak into your heart... be encouraged sis

  • @free2bmecoaching
    @free2bmecoaching 2 года назад +3

    "Marry Your Purpose!" That's the key to a healthy and exciting relationship! "I'll wait, while becoming what I desire!!"

  • @jacquelineharris8850
    @jacquelineharris8850 3 года назад +36

    Marry your purpose 🙌🏽

  • @indyTyson
    @indyTyson 3 года назад +102

    Cant wait for this word from the man that inspired me to give my life to Christ and then my whole world changed for the better! Glory to God & God bless you pastor Blakes, you are my spiritual dad! ❤

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  3 года назад +13

      Wow! This is too much.❤️😊🙏🏽 I am so honored

    • @indyTyson
      @indyTyson 3 года назад +5

      @@RCBlakesJr. I will send you an email just to let you know how you have helped me and will be forever grateful. 🙏🏾

    • @gailtshehla5368
      @gailtshehla5368 3 года назад +2

      @@RCBlakesJr.
      Thank you so much Ps Blakes. Gail from South Africa.
      Your teachings and coaching truly helped me through my difficult time, where I was battling with self forgiveness and breaking away from toxic relationships.
      I've decided to WAIT UPON THE LORD, and MARRY MY PURPOSE inorder for me to ATTRACT my SOUL MATE.
      THANK YOU SO MUCH PASTOR BLAKES

    • @ARighteousLife
      @ARighteousLife 2 года назад +2

      Amen 🙌🏾 He inspired me also to re-dedicate my life completely to Christ. ❤

  • @mjbvd2
    @mjbvd2 3 года назад +30

    You couldn't have been my father but your advices feel like i get them from the father i never had in my upbringing. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Im becoming another person through your advices and video's. You and your beautiful wife change lives. ♥️

  • @pussywillow2957
    @pussywillow2957 3 года назад +18

    “Are you a nickel, praying for a dime-moment of silence please~Wooooow🤯

  • @jamie1425
    @jamie1425 3 года назад +59

    Become what you want. Absolute facts.🙌

  • @SuccessBug
    @SuccessBug 3 года назад +54

    👀👀 I'm taking detailed notes on this one. 🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🤸🏿‍♀️🤸🏿‍♀️😆

    • @angelgatlin9285
      @angelgatlin9285 3 года назад

      All the note taking means nothing when you meet your soul mate you are going to know it! I knew when I met my soul mate this was the man God made for me and it took 10 years before we we went on our first date.

    • @SuccessBug
      @SuccessBug 3 года назад +1

      @@angelgatlin9285 Good for you. I'm still taking notes anyway 📝😌✍🏾💅🏾

    • @daishanewsomednp6956
      @daishanewsomednp6956 3 года назад +1

      @@SuccessBug same here sister

  • @paulinemontgomery971
    @paulinemontgomery971 3 года назад +35

    This is definitely some “get right “ for me, it hurts but is gonna help me to grow into the woman of God I’m called to be with grace. Thank you so much.

  • @africanwoman5571
    @africanwoman5571 3 года назад +17

    Woow! This is beautiful
    Kings and QUEENs.
    #Put GOD first in everything
    #Become what you desire.
    #selfEvaluation
    #purpose
    #Be available.

  • @jamie1425
    @jamie1425 3 года назад +65

    Are you your best version? Still working🌹.

    • @DanaeLaurenTolbert1
      @DanaeLaurenTolbert1 3 года назад +6

      Same sis. Definitely improved a great deal. But God is still doing construction.

  • @ThePsimmons3821
    @ThePsimmons3821 3 года назад +8

    Here I am 5 months later....And right on time for me!! I hear you Father God!!! Move Me Out The Way!!! Less of Me & More Of You!!! You are making it plan and I hear you loud and clear!!! Trusting You God🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾45 and working on my mindset and breaking soul ties In Jesus Name 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @deonsinclair9598
    @deonsinclair9598 2 года назад +10

    Let me confess I'm a more positive person right now after listening this video..thanks a million..
    Thank You Jehovah God for this powerful msg through Your Servant..

  • @laurai2599
    @laurai2599 3 года назад +17

    I love the term “situationships”... very accurate.

  • @dominiquejonte268
    @dominiquejonte268 2 года назад +9

    Your Wife and children are blessed to have you in their life!! I feel blessed to have found you and thank God for placing you in my life!!

  • @ryleyray9404
    @ryleyray9404 3 года назад +35

    Yay I love listening and it's helped me a lot through my first heartbreak but I've learned how to better myself and no longer am in love with a narcissistic butt.
    Truly has been a milestone finding this channel for me

  • @akaSuni
    @akaSuni 3 года назад +53

    I've healed, done the work, have no soul ties, changed the type I'm attracted to. But I feel like this is more a problem of today's society and the lack of quality men. Narcissists, Players and grown boys are all over, all though I'm not saying there are no good men out there, but actually finding one is searching for that one special sand corn in the desert.

    • @ribaker822
      @ribaker822 3 года назад +42

      We need people to help shape the men. Soooo much focus on mentoring women that women are over-ready. MEN FOLK NEED AS MUCH MENTORING IF NOT MORE.

    • @akaSuni
      @akaSuni 3 года назад +7

      @@ribaker822
      AMEN TO THAT!!!!!

    • @LV2308gmail
      @LV2308gmail 3 года назад +10

      Like looking, or yet waiting for a diamond, in a world full of cubic zirconias 😂😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @minimalassembly7893
      @minimalassembly7893 3 года назад +16

      I agree. I feel like this video is speaking to a specific type of broken woman who is not ready for marriage. There are good, well-adjusted, healed and marriage-ready women out there, some who have never been in relationships, some who are even Virgins, who are single as heck!!
      How does he respond to those women and what have they done wrong?
      A few things that I am finding helpful.
      1. Stop hunting, the man will be introduced to you. You don’t need to search for him. Men value what they find, not what finds them.
      2. That said, let your friends, family, co-workers, former classmates, acquaintances, hairdresser and even the mailman know that you are looking for a single, Christian man. Treat it like a job where the more staff you employ to help, the more efficient you will be.
      3. Watch the RUclips video,
      “The Miseducation of the Christian Single Woman,” by Godzdesign. She used to be single then got married last year. She and her friend break down the myth that Christian single women (particularly Black women) have bought into that keeps them single into their 40’s. Meanwhile, other women are getting married left and right. She was introduced to her husband through married friends.
      4. Pray for revelation from God about the things you should know about your future husband, future marriage and also if you need to fast. Sometimes the enemy blocks kingdom marriages because they will advance God’s work. Prayer is your first line of defense even before you start letting people know that you are looking.
      I pray that God will give you the revelation that you seek about your husband and why He is making you wait in this season. Be blessed.

    • @ninobk196
      @ninobk196 3 года назад +3

      Ri Baker teachings of Pastor Blake geared specifically to men. I would pray and support that!

  • @deeb8060
    @deeb8060 Год назад +3

    Well I'm 33 never had a real committed relationship , never had a situationship, always working towards my relationship with Jesus. Still waiting on the man God has for me. I know that I'm suppose to be protected , loved and to be provided for. I ain't gonna let nobody tell me my clock is ticking to jump into the wrong relationship.

  • @nadiacharles8091
    @nadiacharles8091 3 года назад +19

    This just took my breath away. I’ve been doing so much work to work on my childish attractions. This video just reminded me all the work I’m doing is for the betterment of self, being closer to God and attracting my soulmate.
    Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @angelgatlin9285
      @angelgatlin9285 3 года назад +3

      It's nothing you can do to attract your soulmate when you meet him you will know. It is God timing when you two will become one. I was drinking and partying when I met my soulmate I knew it but God didn't allow us to be together until 10 years later it.

  • @aleeshamucharwa9127
    @aleeshamucharwa9127 3 года назад +15

    God can make a way out of no way 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️

  • @MJCreative-Bleu96
    @MJCreative-Bleu96 3 года назад +1

    What a beautiful and truthful message! Thank you so much for connecting the dots for soulmate and marrying my purpose first and for all 5 Soulmate guidance lines. Amen!

  • @rhccit6032
    @rhccit6032 3 года назад +13

    Wow right on time, I'm in the process of breaking a soul tie. I asked God for a husband out of desperation before I began that 5 year soul tie journey. This discussion made me realize I need to focus on my God given purpose first. Thanks again pops. God bless u and ur family.

  • @jackiejackson2859
    @jackiejackson2859 3 года назад +19

    you have a smile., that makes me smile back when im feeling, sad.

  • @leratoshawane8920
    @leratoshawane8920 3 года назад +6

    This had me in tears five minutes into the video. Thank you for this. Just what I needed to hear

  • @pmack6977
    @pmack6977 2 года назад +1

    That prayer at the end blessed me tremendously!!! God bless you and your lovely wife, family and ministry!!! 🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽

  • @keyotatribble931
    @keyotatribble931 3 года назад

    These videos are EXACTLY what I need RIGHT NOW..
    I feel like everything that has been said in the last few videos that I have watched of yours are talking DIRECTLY to me!!
    Everything in these videos applies to me!
    THANK YOU for making these videos for women like me!
    I have already began to pick up my self-esteem!

  • @leratomaithufichosenbyyaweh
    @leratomaithufichosenbyyaweh 3 года назад +23

    I am so calm after hearing this word! Thank you, Pastor RC Blakes. Be Blessed

  • @annwamuyu8560
    @annwamuyu8560 Год назад +3

    Waoh I thank God I am listening to this after my therapy sessions. Been in toxic relationships until I enrolled for therapy and I am really enjoying the new me. I feel a lot of difference and too fit for marriage than ever before. Am 30, Kenyan and trusting God for a mate soooon.... indeed Jesus is Lord!!!
    Thanks Blakes you're so resourceful

  • @pamelacartwright9263
    @pamelacartwright9263 3 года назад +1

    This is the absolute BEST teaching on this issue and subject matter. Bless you and your ministry of obedience.

  • @realrosesforever3847
    @realrosesforever3847 3 года назад

    I love that you acknowledge our creator - so much wisdom in the Word and many don't know about it. Thank you and God bless you for putting it out there.

  • @amandadavis5246
    @amandadavis5246 3 года назад +2

    Thank you pastor. You are refreshingly real and honest and unapologetically truthful. I love it

  • @anna-laurahocker5570
    @anna-laurahocker5570 3 года назад +5

    Every time this pastor opens his mouth to speak, I learn something. RC Blakes, Jr. is a BLESSING! Don't miss out. Give him and his take on the Scriptures a close listen.

  • @32HUNNYB32
    @32HUNNYB32 2 года назад +1

    That part "be available" hits different! Thank you!

  • @brigetfull
    @brigetfull 3 года назад +2

    This is the best opening I have heard, it was beautiful. Thank you.

  • @bereniceocampo8601
    @bereniceocampo8601 3 года назад +28

    Hola pastor Blakes looking farward to lisend your wisdom 😊 the papa i never had. I pray 4 months ago to God to have some terrenal father guidance then i found your chanel. Answered prayer 😃

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  3 года назад +4

      This is so special. I am honored.😊❤️🙏🏽

    • @patriciawhite1664
      @patriciawhite1664 3 года назад +1

      God indeed answers prayers. Love HIM!

  • @LifeCoachLi
    @LifeCoachLi 3 года назад +4

    This message was an on time Word Pastor, I’m truly grateful to have your honesty and commitment to see us, as Gods daughters, living and loving better. 🙏🏽 I receive your prayer, divine connections that’ll enhance the lives of singles in waiting be our portion.

  • @vee2890
    @vee2890 3 года назад +1

    Nothing but gems & wisdom in this video!! Thank you Pastor Blake’s.

  • @rabbitroyale1315
    @rabbitroyale1315 3 года назад

    Of all the things I've listened to here on RUclips your wisdom and words have come through the clearest to help me see how I've lost my way. Thank you for the gift of clarity, understanding, trust and blessings that you bring 🙏 ❤

  • @gwendolynhall2321
    @gwendolynhall2321 3 года назад +7

    This was a great word. Everything you said is the absolute truth! Keep going!

  • @danadane4375
    @danadane4375 3 года назад +3

    So true . Thank you. Been listening to you now for 1 year . And taking your advice . Yes happy spirit and pleasant I am and shall be . I have a PURPOSE.

  • @deborahreed8213
    @deborahreed8213 2 года назад +2

    Bishop Blake I truly appreciate your messages very thought provoking and on point.
    Thank you and first lady 💜

  • @beatricephillips2761
    @beatricephillips2761 Год назад +1

    This so good, and you are making absolutely amazing sense. Thank you.

  • @dartinadunlap3741
    @dartinadunlap3741 3 года назад +3

    This lesson is absolutely empowering. I am grateful that you are a blessing to women in this way.

  • @gabihicks1405
    @gabihicks1405 3 года назад +22

    Yesss 👏🏾I can’t wait because I know Pastor Blakes bout to teach us something gudd!🙌🏾🤩

  • @nickywood3573
    @nickywood3573 3 года назад +1

    You always seem to speak what I need to hear exactly when I need to hear it. Thanks for blessing me and encouraging me. I'm so grateful for your service to the Lord.

  • @paulamcnairunapaulagetic
    @paulamcnairunapaulagetic 3 года назад +1

    Good word Bishop . Thanks for sharing your wisdom! You’ve BLESSED MY LIFE!

  • @timdand
    @timdand 3 года назад +7

    🥺Just fills me up. Bishop your preaching has been such a blessing to my life. May God continue to bless you and your family 🙏🏾❤Thank you

  • @snsnj7180
    @snsnj7180 3 года назад +3

    You’re so right! You’re the father I never had... man, your words make me cry 😢

  • @cathrinet6298
    @cathrinet6298 3 года назад +1

    U spoke to me like a real father. Especially on the part of internal excellence. Working on that🙏🏽

  • @SARAHSAAVEDRA1
    @SARAHSAAVEDRA1 3 года назад

    RC Blake. Everything you said here was on point. I needed to hear this. This message was a wake up call but you provided me with hope and realization of what I need to do. Thank you.

  • @sibylgale5208
    @sibylgale5208 3 года назад +6

    This was an on time talk for my life. Seems like God always comes through for me with one of them when I need to hear from him. Thank you, Pastor Blakes

  • @jessicapurple3737
    @jessicapurple3737 3 года назад +6

    I really needed this message! Thank you!

  • @aprilashley17
    @aprilashley17 3 года назад

    Wow. This is helping me so much. I’m so thankful I’m finally at a place mentally where I’m able to receive this fully and apply it.

  • @blessedtg9702
    @blessedtg9702 3 года назад +2

    What a blessing!! Thank you and God bless u + your ministry!

  • @kimmieann316
    @kimmieann316 3 года назад +5

    I have been out of work last few days and I have been binge watching all your videos . You are really making a difference in my life with your messages. I am going to continue to work on self and wait on God.

  • @tiffani728
    @tiffani728 3 года назад +4

    Excited!

  • @ebonytauriac511
    @ebonytauriac511 Год назад

    I’m just discovering these videos they are helping me soooo much! I really need to heal and grieve the loss of my narc relationship

  • @heatherhubertz4161
    @heatherhubertz4161 3 года назад +1

    I have learned so much from listening to your videos. You are like the father I never had. Your voice is calming and inspiring

  • @thompsonthompson5581
    @thompsonthompson5581 3 года назад +6

    Thank you for this ministry. I’m not looking. 62 Years young. Been there and done that. Been in these streets when I was younger. It’s too much work. I’m content.

  • @nicoletrulyyours
    @nicoletrulyyours 3 года назад +7

    This message is so on point🙌🏾 Thank you ❤️✨

  • @lisatremblay8506
    @lisatremblay8506 11 месяцев назад +1

    I so appreciate your words and how you tie scripture to it. So helpful. Thank you!

  • @melissatrowell3720
    @melissatrowell3720 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for this video. I completely get what you're saying. Thank you for your time, your energy much love. Much appreciation much respect blessings on your journey.

  • @prettibrowneyez2u
    @prettibrowneyez2u 3 года назад +3

    Thank you Pastor Blakes, I needed to hear this🙌🏽💯

  • @maiangellove8949
    @maiangellove8949 3 года назад +3

    A purpose that’s greater than sports 🏀, very nice. Good evening Bishop!

  • @AngelInk-Poetess
    @AngelInk-Poetess 3 года назад +1

    Pastor Blakes, I’ve just discovered your videos and thank God for your sharing all this truth, wisdom, knowledge and insight with us. I have been praying for my soul mate for a few years, and God has directed me to you... the father I never had to tell me and show me the way. I’m doing the work. Thank you, Pastor, for praying for us at the end of the video. I receive it. God bless you and your bride. 🌹

  • @karenmitchell5809
    @karenmitchell5809 3 года назад +1

    This made me so excited about life and focusing less on age and time but on my purpose. Wow!

  • @TUFTSLOVE
    @TUFTSLOVE 2 года назад +6

    Thank you Bishop. Many things that you have said confirm what I already knew but haven't put into practice. I'm 65 years old I intend to get married again for the second time but this time around I'ma rely on God and use the wisdom that he instilled in me

  • @jackiejackson2859
    @jackiejackson2859 3 года назад +7

    I feel Greatness.,in you strengthening, me with your words of wisdom.

  • @louiseseaman-4903
    @louiseseaman-4903 11 месяцев назад

    wow thankyou so much RC Blakes! This was the most powerful message I've heard of yours. it's like finally the answer to why none of my relationships have worked out. choosing the wrong ones ,& staying too long. if we are always chasing after a relationship we are not allowing god to bring someone into our lives. wish I had heard this 15 years ago!

  • @susanruiz5564
    @susanruiz5564 2 года назад

    Level up and be the best version of you, LOVE IT!