HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT ONE by RC BLAKES

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  • Опубликовано: 22 авг 2018
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Комментарии • 953

  • @memesimone9690
    @memesimone9690 4 года назад +448

    1. Respect you
    2. You are Priority
    3. Makes you laugh
    4. Generous in every way
    5. Allow you to be yourself
    6. Patience

    • @nayebareolivias3417
      @nayebareolivias3417 3 года назад +5

      Woo

    • @monicajordan9284
      @monicajordan9284 3 года назад +15

      Thanks for typing those notes 😊...re: #5 Allows you to be yourself...Me and a guy were taking baby steps to get to know each other, had a spiritual connection and all the other five qualities u have listed. But he was feeling like I wouldn't let him be himself bc I told him he had to work on his mouth (profanity). I can see one flying out your mouth every now and then but saying the word sh** 3 times less than and hour bf we got off the phone and u said u would work on it. I just feel if he really wanted our steps to go further he would've worked on it. I feel it's disrespectful and I would've had to listen to alot of profanity the rest of my life is I didn't set that standard. I'm not all there but I'm trying.

    • @yolanda5756
      @yolanda5756 3 года назад +3

      🤗Thank you! I always watch the full video but I love to have the "itinerary" 🙂

    • @ashleymoffettnzeribe9353
      @ashleymoffettnzeribe9353 2 года назад +3

      Thanks

    • @p.s.706
      @p.s.706 2 года назад +3

      @@monicajordan9284 28:30 (Patience) 🙏🏾

  • @lathiemckinney2934
    @lathiemckinney2934 2 года назад +87

    As I listened to this it dawned upon me I've found that RIGHT ONE. Hallelujah!!! He's all of this video. Praise God. At 70 I found the RIGHT ONE.

    • @cynthiajackson2580
      @cynthiajackson2580 Год назад +6

      That's great!!...I'm 60...
      Was married 20 yrs....
      Abstinent 8 yrs....Keep me in your prayers...I pray blessings upon U and yours....🙏❤...I've learned so much from Mr. Blakes teachings...

    • @sunsetstormx
      @sunsetstormx Год назад +2

      I hope you follow up and let us know how things are going in your life!!!❤️🙏

    • @zelin7460
      @zelin7460 Год назад

      Amen 🙏🏾 That’s awesome! I pray all is well ❤

    • @zelin7460
      @zelin7460 Год назад

      @@cynthiajackson2580 Amen, I pray all is well ❤

    • @CHOSENWOMAN777
      @CHOSENWOMAN777 11 месяцев назад

      Congratulations.. Praise God.

  • @Pinkpanda811
    @Pinkpanda811 5 лет назад +409

    If he shows you selfishness at the shallow end, why would you go in the deep end with them? ⬅️That's deep right there!!

  • @aminatasemega-janneh2184
    @aminatasemega-janneh2184 3 года назад +36

    I am a Muslim ; however I admire your teachings. Muslims and Christians have so many wonderful teachings in common. And you advise helps people from all religion.

  • @deebrw52
    @deebrw52 5 лет назад +396

    I made a lot of bad choices but I can't afford to do this anymore Thank You Pastor

    • @ameishellbrown1478
      @ameishellbrown1478 5 лет назад +5

      Amen me either

    • @nataliesgoodies7184
      @nataliesgoodies7184 4 года назад +3

      Amen agree

    • @christyg487
      @christyg487 4 года назад +5

      This statement is hit me very hard! But I am trying to recognise which one is this for!?

    • @missmlb3842
      @missmlb3842 4 года назад +3

      I'm right there with you sis

    • @YS-hw9jr
      @YS-hw9jr 3 года назад +3

      Mr too I'm done...I'm focusing on God 🙏🙏🙏 in my house 🏠 and my life for sure. I meet the worst men. I'm in my 50 + and only when my sprint tells I will run run and running. God bless #MeToo

  • @Clemesha777
    @Clemesha777 5 лет назад +335

    The right one will allow you to be yourself!🙌 Amen🙌

  • @leleflower2366
    @leleflower2366 5 лет назад +472

    It's unfortunate but we are living in a Very Selfish Time and People have found it "ok" to play with folks emotions. Not Cool

    • @Shadow-runner939
      @Shadow-runner939 5 лет назад +1

      Lady Dee so true!

    • @alicefrank2234
      @alicefrank2234 5 лет назад +1

      Lady Dee

    • @Goodlife36
      @Goodlife36 5 лет назад +4

      💯

    • @MissD0829
      @MissD0829 5 лет назад +15

      I could not have agreed more. People are so immature it is so frustrating. Say what you mean,and mean what you say and let's keep moving

    • @jenikajohnson2338
      @jenikajohnson2338 5 лет назад +16

      Lady Dee exactly ,its not right and one of the most hurtful things to do to someone is play with there emotions

  • @KittyPurry71
    @KittyPurry71 5 лет назад +84

    All of these things to avoid I had in my ex husband for 13 years. He turned his back on God a month into marriage. The way he treated me destroyed me over the years. I foolishly kept giving believing his core nature would change. He didn’t. In fact he got worse. Know your worth ladies and do not make the painful mistakes I made.

    • @Vera-dg3hf
      @Vera-dg3hf 3 года назад

      What was the mistake you made?

    • @alishadennis7077
      @alishadennis7077 2 года назад +4

      God's got you love 😘💗👑🙏.
      You are a blessing & God's got his good plan for your life.
      Your freedom & wisdom & self love 💖😘 & standards have you in a blessed place now.
      Your life & all that affects you is important to God 🤣🙏💗👑, queen ❣️ always.
      As Christians we are of royal priesthood.
      God's 🙏❤️🤩😀🙏 wants the best for his daughters & you can believe for God's best now & heal the past.
      Restoration & new good plans are for you!!!!
      God 🙏💗👑😍😀 bless you lovely lady!!!!!

    • @veedee4424
      @veedee4424 2 года назад +2

      Co-sign @Maxine! Made the same mistake marrying a counterfeit Christian who deceived me & got me during my initial transition into Christianity (e.g I have ownership of my ignorance at that point in time of not being a “Spiritual Fruit Inspector.”). Marriage lasted 14 years before biblical release/divorce based on scripture. Trust..God was merciful to both you & I in the removal of these specific men from our lives. God be praised!!

  • @faycollymore9352
    @faycollymore9352 5 лет назад +220

    Thanks for building my maturity into a better woman.

    • @empresserica
      @empresserica 3 года назад +1

      Yes! Me too! Bless you Pastor Blakes!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 5 лет назад +185

    When I meet a guy and I’m attracted to him and it doesn’t work out I get a little bit discouraged ,it’s videos like these that help to pick me up emotionally, and spiritually because I know God has something BETTER thank you very very very much for what you do!!!

    • @louiseottley4995
      @louiseottley4995 4 года назад +6

      It happens to all of us be strong

    • @wendycollington3279
      @wendycollington3279 4 года назад +3

      Get more rooted in the things of God and before you know it the man God has prepared will find you at God's altar...think upon this, bless

    • @wendycollington3279
      @wendycollington3279 4 года назад +3

      It is good to be healthy but allow a man to be the man...at times we are to step back and remember to be female and not try to control everything. Blessed, just think on this

    • @claudettejackson9676
      @claudettejackson9676 2 года назад

      Low self-esteem, is the problem for most people. Teach self-esteem to the ones who needs it. Sex is your problem.we as decent women knows how to handle ourselves. The right one is the one who always leave his wife and go in town but another male and do the do and then go back home to his wife. She doesn't know, but to her he is the right one, and also to you. You cannot be a preacher, not a teacher. When you sees a man, all you see is his face, you cannot see his heart. There's always a sign that you will see and when you see it run. Some women take abuse from men and when you asked them, why are you still with this man? The sex is good, that is what they say. Well, that is their business.

    • @daijadorsey674
      @daijadorsey674 2 года назад

      Amen 🙏

  • @itsmelisalee914
    @itsmelisalee914 5 лет назад +256

    This video has me grinning from ear to ear..at the same time I have teary eyes 😩💓 I'm patiently waiting for my husband to-be to find me.

    • @lindaglover580
      @lindaglover580 5 лет назад +11

      I am waiting for my mate to find me. But along the way men l have met men who just want to play games an waste your time. I tell they up front l am not interested in sex before marriage. Then they started the game playing, yes me too l love the Lord ect.....but when he sees that l.am serious they may have encouraged some emotional interest from me. How do protect yourself from those tape of men?
      me.

    • @b.tjesusbeliever4694
      @b.tjesusbeliever4694 5 лет назад +13

      Lisa Lee I’m waiting on my wife! In the meantime just stay before the presence of God

    • @lamidom
      @lamidom 5 лет назад +3

      @@lindaglover580 Well you are already protected and have wisdom, what do you mean then?

    • @ZaynabSolange
      @ZaynabSolange 5 лет назад +22

      @@lindaglover580 Don't tell them about your celibacy until they've proven genuine interest and consistency over a few months. Some men will take your desires and fashion them into a game plan so it best to stay in observation mode and allow them to court you as they see fit. It's the only way to truly witness their character.

    • @gloriaj.jackson7268
      @gloriaj.jackson7268 5 лет назад +3

      @@lindaglover580 Good word from Zaya!

  • @moniquezmuda3924
    @moniquezmuda3924 5 лет назад +182

    Thank you for taking time out to talk to the women who don't have Dads to talk too. God bless you.

    • @wendycollington3279
      @wendycollington3279 4 года назад +2

      Amen, for many father's are no longer there to help guide us through the different stages of life purposes of its mission. Amen

    • @bornagainchristian3742
      @bornagainchristian3742 3 года назад +1

      Amen

    • @nicolegreene2208
      @nicolegreene2208 3 года назад +3

      Indeed. Mine passed before I was even born. My blessings from that is that his side of the family is so loving and I'm very close to them. He also decided to name me which my mom allowed because he was so excited to know I was coming into the world. But Pastor Blakes and his wife are truly a couple who follows after The Word. God bless their ministry and that we will take from their teachings and live it and even influence others. ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

    • @latarareed5900
      @latarareed5900 2 года назад

      Yesss @MONIQUE

    • @MissJayHisDaughter
      @MissJayHisDaughter 2 года назад

      IN JESUS CHRIST NAME WE PRAY. AMEN.

  • @zephomalunga5251
    @zephomalunga5251 5 лет назад +122

    I always knew I was not crazy. Finally there is someone who agrees with me. Hallelujah...
    Great stuff Pastor

    • @dorothymatthews6690
      @dorothymatthews6690 4 года назад +4

      Yes! I said the same thing. This is confirmation that I'm not picky, but rather waiting for the right one.

    • @mandlenkosihlazo977
      @mandlenkosihlazo977 Год назад +2

      Can you believe I only learnt of this great teacher only yesterday.?Thru a woman I almost got into a relationship with..She said this guy was her gift to me..

  • @jamiejackson1780
    @jamiejackson1780 5 лет назад +75

    “EXIT Stage LEFT or Stage RIGHT”!!!! ....So often we MISS our cue to EXIT!!!! 🙌🏾

  • @fatima101165
    @fatima101165 4 года назад +40

    Here I am gonna be 55 years old this year. Lord knows I’ve made more mistakes than I care to admit. However, I know I’ve grown through the years & the trials that I’ve been through. I praise God for his Grace, love & forgiveness. I’m a work in progress. God knows my heart

    • @SunnySummer777
      @SunnySummer777 4 года назад +3

      Wow you dont look 55....

    • @scarlettthebrave5854
      @scarlettthebrave5854 3 года назад +6

      I’m also at that stage in my life- 52 and still attracted and attracting wrong kind of men( controlling selfish etc) I’m learning that it’s my mindset that attracts them and my low value- finally I’m seeing the light and striving to do better/ better to be alone and have self love than be with a man that doesn’t respect you

    • @decemberlotus
      @decemberlotus 3 года назад +1

      You are a human being.

  • @phoebenaluggwa7019
    @phoebenaluggwa7019 5 лет назад +195

    Respect is the main thing!

    • @dwaynejackson4768
      @dwaynejackson4768 5 лет назад +3

      Phoebe Naluggwa Amen

    • @noworneversoulbeach
      @noworneversoulbeach 3 года назад +3

      This so called “gender war” got people disrespecting each other left and right till they don’t even trust the other gender. 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @alishadennis7077
      @alishadennis7077 2 года назад +1

      Respect for God, himself & for you is an action & not just words too. Trust, honor, joy, commitment, faithfulness, maturity, protection, fun, family purpose, healthy great love, with smart good work ethics all lead by God's leading in him as a man too!!!

  • @destinyraine5452
    @destinyraine5452 5 лет назад +286

    Must be based on the Spirit and not the flesh because the flesh changes, it's inconsistent, not of God. The Spirit is of God, therefore everything is equally yoked

  • @jfreeman3566
    @jfreeman3566 5 лет назад +67

    Sounds like a MINISTRY of Helps towards each other.
    A MAN that shares his
    treasure/Money WITH a WOMAN is sharing his HEART with her.

  • @simplymejourney998
    @simplymejourney998 5 лет назад +117

    Respect is very important

    • @lindagibson24
      @lindagibson24 5 лет назад +3

      Respect is really big with me. I preach about is a lot to my children, family and friends.

  • @joliemiranda5685
    @joliemiranda5685 5 лет назад +62

    1) Must respect you
    2) Will make you feel like you are #1. Never marry a person who doesn't treat you as his major priority. (People make time for what is their priority)
    3) Will have the ability to make you laugh
    4) Will be generous in every way (with time, availability, kindness, support and finances). Never marry a man who is stingy with his money.
    5) will let you be yourself
    ,6) will be patient enough to put him together
    7) Closes the deal

  • @elizabethc9843
    @elizabethc9843 5 лет назад +79

    This came out right on time for me! Been single for 20 yrs after a divorce - when I married back then, having listened and watched your videos now, I can confidently say I married for the wrong reasons and maybe that’s why it did not last. I have by choice not wanted to settle for any man this this time round and I am learning so much I should have known at my age... I now can impart the knowledge I have to my 22yr old son and 20yr old daughter so that they do equip themselves and avoid unnecessary mistakes! I am going on a date tomorrow after a decade 😇 and these teachings have and continue to equip me how I am to be treated and how I should treat the man.. I am not nervous but I feel confident and happy to start again. Thank you for your great teachings 🙏🏾

  • @cloyettegrant1733
    @cloyettegrant1733 5 лет назад +255

    He have to love God more than me.

    • @idealfaith4699
      @idealfaith4699 5 лет назад +11

      Please that will be another problem trust me. Everything should have a limit

    • @lyndapeoples8127
      @lyndapeoples8127 5 лет назад +5

      @@idealfaith4699 ..not sure I understand your comment here. I'm not trying to be confrontational but just trying to get an understanding.

    • @October3074
      @October3074 4 года назад +7

      @@idealfaith4699 women think they sound so pious and holy when they say that. They don't realize how phony they're coming across.

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 года назад +21

      I feel what you are saying. First of all God says that you shouldn't love or put anything before Him. Secondly if they don't love God more then you. They will not know how to love themselves. If they don't love themselves they cannot love you in a healthy or Godly manner.

    • @blessed74God
      @blessed74God 4 года назад +5

      @@ladennayoung2939 AMEN

  • @flutteryingflight3098
    @flutteryingflight3098 3 года назад +8

    I’ve never met a pastor that I felt connected too , and I feel like he’s was sent by God for me . I’ve recently gotten back on the path to get closer to my savior . While on my journey Pastor Blake’s page popped up , and I’ve been entangled ever since . A lot of the times when pastor Blake’s speaks ,I’m in tears because it’s a spiritual awakening for me.This pastor speaks well , is a man of God , and when he prays ,I pray with him . Thank you God for putting pastor Blake in my pathway.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  3 года назад +2

      This leaves me speechless. Thank you 🙏🏽 😊

  • @SanFreeman1
    @SanFreeman1 5 лет назад +111

    I always feel so much better after watching your videos, Pastor Blakes. Thank you!

  • @sharnmonique7155
    @sharnmonique7155 5 лет назад +128

    Love how he cracks up over his own jokes 😅👌🏾 #Classic But yes very insightful. Thank you!

    • @lindagibson24
      @lindagibson24 5 лет назад +6

      Yes he's definitely hilarious. 😂 Told us if we got to pay for our own food, etc., that he is NOT the one.

  • @candace6426
    @candace6426 5 лет назад +137

    This will always be a valid classic to me. You are my youtube father pastor Blakes.

  • @tomikoeaton9786
    @tomikoeaton9786 4 года назад +21

    I had that now I'm a widow of 4 years we are in a wicked world full of narcs we have to focus on God

  • @toldbyharlan
    @toldbyharlan 5 лет назад +100

    Your wisdom is appreciated!!!!

  • @NarcSurvivor
    @NarcSurvivor 5 лет назад +27

    A person's value is defined by how much they respect themselves and how much they respect you. If a person disrespects you they are defective. A person of high value will respect their bodies. They will look after their skin, they will eat healthy and exercise often. A person who respects you will be honest, trustworthy and loyal. You will be able to talk about anything to them. A person with no respect is as good as dead. There is no purpose in wasting any of your time or effort with these types of people.

  • @snowleopard7952
    @snowleopard7952 4 года назад +25

    This is helpful to understand what a loving relationship feels like. This is a good guildline to those who haven’t a clue because they never experienced it.

  • @akc1739
    @akc1739 5 лет назад +19

    “Me an my ice cream cone - we good o’er here” 😂

  • @mariaearthangel7251
    @mariaearthangel7251 5 лет назад +38

    My husband also knew instantly. We had 4 years together then he died. It devastated me I loved him with all my heart we were very compatible. He lived and protected my heart and soul. I feel that I will never have such a decent man in my life again.
    I have decided to try date again. Is it possible there is a second Adam that I could ever be as good as my passed husband. I tend to think there is only one eve for a Adam?
    I know I have to move forward but can’t ever move on from the memories of my darling husband. He was unforgettable. God rest his sweet soul...💔✝️

    • @tracy85777
      @tracy85777 5 лет назад +6

      So sorry for such a devasting loss. I pray God will give you the peace that passes all understanding and holds you in His loving arms and makes you whole again. I know how much it hurts to lose someone and what it can do to your mind,body, spirit, soul,just every part of you. I know how you feel lost and uncertain of everything you think,feel or do. It does a number on you.
      Let God love you through it. That's all I know. God loves you more than even your love did and He is always there. ALWAYS. He promised never leave us or forsake us. This all may sound trite. I speak from a place of live and empathy. I have suffered a great deal in my life. Suffering seems like that's all I have some days. But I have to cry out to my Father, to my Lord Jesus, and I always get through if I remember to seek Him. Blessings. I will keep you in my prayers. God bless you greatly.

    • @toussaintan
      @toussaintan 4 года назад +4

      🙍 you're so strong. 💞 Don't force it. Just let it happen in God's time.

    • @ghs9725
      @ghs9725 4 года назад +1

      It heart breaking and scary that the rships where we are compatible don't last so help us God,

    • @c.l.montoya2972
      @c.l.montoya2972 4 года назад +4

      Sorry for your loss Maria🙏🏽 Sounds like your man was a treasure & you are also a treasure. Your man is building your castle in the sky & waiting for the time our Lord Jesus Christ reunites you two. Honor your memory of him in your dear heart. The afterlife is beautiful beyond our comprehension, have faith you will be together again & don’t forget to live & love your remaining time on earth. God Bless you always sweet lady.💖🌸💖😘

    • @monicajordan9284
      @monicajordan9284 3 года назад +3

      That was a blessing to have had a "Adam" in your life 🥰 and trust and believe God another Adam will find you if it's in God's plan! Jeremiah 29:11 🙏🏽🧡

  • @reginadright2581
    @reginadright2581 5 лет назад +42

    I'm not really into finding the right one at this point. But I just love to hear some Pastor R.C. Blakes Jr. and learn from him.

    • @akc1739
      @akc1739 5 лет назад +4

      Regina Dright I hear ya. Me either, and me too!

  • @phurplkyxxex
    @phurplkyxxex 5 лет назад +34

    You know if he's the right one when you have PEACE within your special. Peace that passeth ALL UNDERSTANDING. THE END

  • @GOP7100
    @GOP7100 5 лет назад +82

    Pastor, I never seen this one. Thank you so much Sir.
    I'm just done with trying to find the right one. I dont think its our (women) place. I have had my heart ripped completely out my chest. So, If there is truly a man out there for me, then he will be my Boaz sent by God. It's just too painful to ever try love again, but i'm listening to you knowing this truth.....
    "A man that findeth a wife finds a good thing."
    I will never look for a man again. Ever!!! It Never works, it only satisfies the flesh. God must be there from the beginning. So, I'm going to love me and take care of me while I wait for my Boaz.
    Thank you pastor, you have helped me come back from the devastation the man I loved caused me. I'm stronger and wiser now. Thank you.
    God bless you
    God's own Princess

    • @akc1739
      @akc1739 5 лет назад +12

      GOP7100 Your honesty is inspiring and I can really relate to this type of pain. 🙏 I can admit that I did not understand “my place” for all of my child-bearing years. And I suffered crushing heartaches from ME picking the men in my life, not God. (Grown boys, really. Not grown men.) The good news is that repeating history is not necessary.! There’s nothing wrong with living a great life on ur own, with God, and then seeing IF God plans to bring a true king in ur life. Queens carry on, regardless ❤️

    • @GOP7100
      @GOP7100 5 лет назад +7

      Ashley Cook Thank you beautiful for understanding and sharing. It has been the most painful journey of my life. But also the most rewarding because my eyes are safely on the prize. JESUS!
      Today I touch and agree with you to love God and self and all our dreams shall come true, to have a man that loves us like Christ love the church. A place of honor.
      Bless you

    • @akc1739
      @akc1739 5 лет назад +16

      GOP7100 I finally understand now that it’s really not. about. the man! It’s about ME getting in proper alignment. On a personal note (and this may resonate with u) I will be celebrating entering menopause next month, God willing, with no children having been born to me. I could choose to see this as horrible but I have a different mind-set. “Child-free” women have SO much to offer the world, but we’re socialized to believe that having “our own” (and a man) is the end all and be all in life when, in reality, it is but ONE of many ways to have a blessed, fulfilling life. I say don’t wait for your king. If he’s to cone, he will come. Instead, live a wholly complete life and discern, as suiters come, if they are truly worth your time, attention, and energy. I do not fear “being alone” because that’s not even possible. God is always with me.

    • @elizabethc9843
      @elizabethc9843 5 лет назад +5

      Ashley Cook amen! I concur! You learn so much about yourself and about men when you stop jumping into wrong relationships. Someone is out there for the waiting lady, it might take long but I so believe...

    • @Shadow-runner939
      @Shadow-runner939 5 лет назад +2

      GOP7100 the mistake we make is loving a man instead of respecting them.

  • @mariamichelle2318
    @mariamichelle2318 5 лет назад +60

    If we were discerning from the start....!!! That part right there will help avoid do many problems. I get now!

  • @realtruth8703
    @realtruth8703 5 лет назад +70

    I enjoyed this message and learning these wisdom keys. It’s So sad people out here play so many games it’s so hard to see the scales.

  • @dorispichardo
    @dorispichardo 5 лет назад +53

    Wow, this was my favorite. I am hearing it over and over. I loved it.

  • @travism3307
    @travism3307 5 лет назад +75

    I’m Agree 💯% If I felt like I do now! I wouldn’t have been in my last relationship! I have decided to not be involved intimately until I meet my potential wife if it’s in “GOD” will 🙏🏽

  • @debbiejones274
    @debbiejones274 5 лет назад +14

    Thank you pastor Blake, my husband and I watched your video together for the first time together to strengthen our marriage and it is helping with a mans point of view. We watch a video one each night. Thank you Godbless you and your wife.🙏🏻

  • @lovehatyudo.8466
    @lovehatyudo.8466 4 года назад +36

    I am literally crying...
    I never got respect bcz i always compromise my soul

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney 3 месяца назад

      You have to earn your own forgiveness. Start with self love

  • @nola8504
    @nola8504 4 года назад +8

    So much wisdom. Never get your heart broken by a man who is not prepared from the start to invest in you.

    • @shaunierockett4964
      @shaunierockett4964 Год назад

      They show potential and give u glimpse of wht life could b like and wheel u in with tht but then completely do a 180 after latching u on smh the games ppl play💔

  • @Saramoonist
    @Saramoonist 5 лет назад +30

    I just got out of my poisonous relationship and noticed none of these things you mentioned pertained to him.. this video awakened me and made me realize what I was desiring was solely because of soul tie , nothing more or less

    • @soystef
      @soystef 5 лет назад +7

      wow that's deep.
      i think i'm guily of the same.
      we are all in this together, learning, growing, and evolving.
      bless

    • @SunnySummer777
      @SunnySummer777 4 года назад +1

      How are you doing now these days Sara?

  • @preciousjewel5323
    @preciousjewel5323 4 года назад +17

    There has been some growing pains (both of us maturing or going through the necessary assembling as you mentioned) but I have married the right man...Too God be the glory! ;) #KeepBuildingWithTheRightOne

  • @Shamarie0328
    @Shamarie0328 5 лет назад +70

    You always seem to upload a video when I am pondering an issue in my life. Thank you for being led by the Holy Spirit. I appreciate it!

  • @missm1975
    @missm1975 4 года назад +14

    I am not religious but spiritual.. I found your message transformative and captivating. Thank you for your service ❤️🙏

  • @maryfrances1307
    @maryfrances1307 5 лет назад +22

    “My wife can be ghetto.” Too funny!

  • @Princess_Lilly13
    @Princess_Lilly13 3 года назад +4

    I am not a Christian, i am a muslim, and i love you, i love everything you preach ❤️ love from Algeria ❤️🇩🇿

  • @salt2420
    @salt2420 4 года назад +12

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 "I can't believe you're eating with your salad fork" That got me.

  • @lmoody2825
    @lmoody2825 5 лет назад +21

    Thank you to my online spiritual Father. I would have never ready for my Mr. Right with this word. #Mrightfoundme

  • @luluoz1
    @luluoz1 5 лет назад +50

    Beautiful and true
    Balance
    Kindness
    SpiRitual growth together
    Amen 🙏 💖

    • @soystef
      @soystef 5 лет назад +1

      amen's right.

  • @tamelacole478
    @tamelacole478 5 лет назад +23

    GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY PASTOR RC BLAKE'S®💪®

  • @Zarasha1
    @Zarasha1 5 лет назад +11

    He is so funny. " My wife can be ghetto" I love that. She can be herself.

  • @e.l.lucychiron
    @e.l.lucychiron 5 лет назад +8

    When you were talking about your partner having basic respect, and then you just stopped and looked right through the camera lens at me, I felt that. 😂

  • @gigiirias9797
    @gigiirias9797 3 года назад +2

    14 years with the father of my child...no marriage...God is good and showed me my worth. I wish him well and wait until God leads me to my husband! God bless you Pastor and protect you and your family! You are a blessing and I came across your videos recently. Stay blessed in the name of Jesus! Amen!

  • @missvanria7174
    @missvanria7174 5 лет назад +15

    Life changing! Where were you when i was in my twenties and thirties :)

  • @gummybear4011
    @gummybear4011 5 лет назад +12

    🙌👏👏👏Thank you Father Blakes! I needed this! You just confirmed that I made the right decision...to walk away! Thru this message..I realize my guy is not understanding,a lil tight on a dollar, doesn't have the mind to provide for me (he ALWAYS talking about a woman working n making money),has no patience,only wants to move at his pace,n simply don't know my value. WOW! He is the wrong man! N I feel good that I truly know it now!🙏

  • @nikenikao6747
    @nikenikao6747 5 лет назад +22

    Pastor is always on time. Thank you so much for such wisdom his words always aids me with my own confirmation. I'm so excited!!! 😌

  • @Aracely_Lopez
    @Aracely_Lopez Год назад +1

    I never comment on videos but I have to say, you are like music to my ears, literally the voice of a father I never had. Thank you.

  • @bettygathee6456
    @bettygathee6456 3 года назад +3

    Sometime I wish I knew you 10 yrs ago things wouldnt be the way they are in my life ..made wrong choices ended up as a single mother ...thank you pastor

  • @benitaflynn7283
    @benitaflynn7283 5 лет назад +10

    Simple and deeply fascinated by your profound words. God Bless you and your loved ones, ALWAYS!
    Panama city Panama - Central America

  • @lyndreal.mcneill2774
    @lyndreal.mcneill2774 5 лет назад +20

    I married a man who declared all he wanted to do was treat me like a Queen & take care of me and 6 months in he suggests that I get a part time gig. I couldn't fathom why in the world I would need to work a 2nd job when I married this man who brought a 2nd income to the household . . . needless to say, the marriage has run its course. Thank you for this powerful and much needed Word!

  • @purrcoy1717
    @purrcoy1717 5 лет назад +7

    Everything about you reminds me of my dad as far as your mannerisms and demeanor...reminds me of a really great side of him that i didn't get to witness a whole lot and you remind me of the kind of a relationship with my dad that i never had thanks so much

  • @whitneynettles3830
    @whitneynettles3830 5 лет назад +26

    "You'll be so proud of the man that he becomes on your watch.". Amen!! In Jesus name!

  • @renitatyree4252
    @renitatyree4252 4 года назад +3

    Thanks for being my spiritual father. I'm 48, been divorced and single almost 17 years now. My Father passed away 16 years ago.

  • @idealfaith4699
    @idealfaith4699 5 лет назад +4

    Every thing you said reflect in my life, from the beginning go the end. I can't wait to start all over again. I made so much mistake picking the wrong one and it has cost me 15 years of wasted life.

  • @houston10
    @houston10 2 года назад +1

    I made the worst choice in a person when I was in a vulnerable moment and hadn’t fully gotten myself together after a neglectful 2 year long distance relationship. WORST mistake ever. Now I’m going to live with the consequence of tht mistake. strict and extremely uptight, hardly ever smiles/laughs and easily offended, stingy, an uncompromising taker, misogynistic, LAZY and very selfish. What was I thinking. I was finally doing so well with myself. I wish I would hv seen this message a long time ago. This message is golden.

    • @TracyTranquility
      @TracyTranquility Год назад

      Hope you have the courage and strength to leave that sis.. if you have not already

  • @pjbachelor1123
    @pjbachelor1123 2 года назад +1

    Praise God 🙏 ... I'm so grateful to find your ad ... I listen very carefully, very enlightening ... THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU

  • @nicholehamilton5844
    @nicholehamilton5844 5 лет назад +11

    Thanks for reposting this! Much needed at this time as someone stated before! God bless you Pastor Blakes and your family.

  • @kamarafavour4935
    @kamarafavour4935 4 года назад +3

    What a wonderful teaching by pastor RC Blake's jr am so tuach by your teaching sir more grace more fire fire fire in your life

  • @catherinebroadnax4089
    @catherinebroadnax4089 3 года назад +2

    Bishop Blakes, you are literally saving my life. I have been experiencing some issues with my husband and all of your lessons have been on point. We are separated at this point. Now that he is out of the home, the Holy Spirit has been revealing so many untruths. God Bless you and Lisa.❤

  • @angelgatlin9285
    @angelgatlin9285 2 года назад +2

    I believe you know when you meet your soulmate because it's something about that person spirit that attracts you its beyond understanding. When you meet the RIGHT one everything comes natural ......

  • @prettybrwneyez7757
    @prettybrwneyez7757 5 лет назад +32

    This is one of my favorite ones from you...

  • @zahraamanah8366
    @zahraamanah8366 5 лет назад +3

    I like the vocabulary you are using sir, coming straight from the ancient times. My favourite words are: Covenant, spirit of generosity, and altar. Thank you for sharing universal wisdom that seemed lost...

  • @Vera-dg3hf
    @Vera-dg3hf 3 года назад +2

    You are such a big blessing in my life. Your videos are so timely. I found you and don’t know how. Thank you for all the wisdom shared. May God continue to bless you and your family.

  • @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451
    @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451 4 года назад +26

    I'm more interested in a man whose spiritual muscle outweighs his physical muscles. he better understand kingdom things and live according to God's ways and lead me to God

  • @makishacox6100
    @makishacox6100 5 лет назад +16

    Right man will you feel like you are number 1 , like you are the only ☝️ beautiful inside and outside! Priority

  • @walkingwiththemosthighgod4507
    @walkingwiththemosthighgod4507 5 лет назад +28

    Totally agree with "Being Patient"

  • @happylindsay4475
    @happylindsay4475 3 года назад +2

    The patience piece... this was powerful.🙏🏽❤️💯

  • @suite467T
    @suite467T 5 лет назад +16

    You are hilarious!! 🤣🤣 But I appreciate your knowledge. Bless you Bishop!!

  • @tamelacole478
    @tamelacole478 5 лет назад +21

    YUPERS WE IN THAT DAY AND TIME I'M TOO OLD FOR THE DRAMA......GIVE ME STRENGTH JESUS®💪®

  • @channychan2182
    @channychan2182 5 лет назад +17

    Thank you. You are speaking to me. I'd like to date but have not seen anyone that I'm interested in. The days of courting seem to be a thing if the past. Texting and no phone calls are what some people I've met seem to like to do. I know someone is out there but I don't want to settle for less. We might not end up together by simply dating but old fashioned courtship and respect can go a long way when dating. Dating is figuring things out.

  • @aporschegirl
    @aporschegirl 4 года назад +2

    This was a good reminder dad! I’m glad it popped up. God knows what you need when you need it!!!!

  • @massimos6863
    @massimos6863 5 лет назад +1

    Father RC Blakes Thanks So much for your teachings and Wisdom you are an amazing Man with a Beautiful Heart and soul God Bless you and all your family!!

  • @RealEstatemarie
    @RealEstatemarie 5 лет назад +22

    Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this message at this exact time. ❤

  • @teachers.higgins2150
    @teachers.higgins2150 5 лет назад +6

    Wow I'm a Jamaican so it's good to know that your wife is Jamaican born

  • @kathythomas8825
    @kathythomas8825 2 года назад +1

    Thank you pastor iam 56,learning how to do the right thing in my life,you never get to old to learn, every man and women should know their self worth,thank you in the name of the lord

  • @queenjkncb9399
    @queenjkncb9399 4 года назад

    Thank you Pastor RC Blakes. Jr. Many more Blessings to you and your family.

  • @patriciavallerycampbell2033
    @patriciavallerycampbell2033 5 лет назад +6

    OH WOW!!!
    Somebody that really gets it. thank you for sharing pastor / first-lady Blake's

  • @MsDeshoun
    @MsDeshoun 5 лет назад +16

    This was a very powerful lesson and I thoroughly enjoyed it. Thank you! Had me cracking up. I love your humor in your messages.

  • @realrosesforever3847
    @realrosesforever3847 3 года назад +1

    I thank God for you Bishop Blakes. Thank you so much for your messages of truth and thank you for setting a good example and being realistic about life's problems and issues. Its so refreshing to hear the Word of God not a carnal feel good message to tickle the hearer ears with worldly easy way outs. God Bless!

  • @leeshet.1937
    @leeshet.1937 5 лет назад +4

    Excellent review! Pastor addresses the Basics (foundation) for relationships to work and last. Too many people especially men stay in “looking mode” even when they are in a current relationship. Men like Pastor are extinct but keep preaching Pastor because you are making a difference. This kind of teaching stopped many years ago let alone us seeing real life examples. I’m applying your principles to my life. Being a Christian woman with a good foundation not perfect but has wisdom and discernment to recognize all the characteristics that you talked about and the willingness to give the right man a chance

    • @hymnodyhands
      @hymnodyhands 7 месяцев назад

      If Pastor is not extinct... then neither are men like him... rare, perhaps...

  • @Bakari02
    @Bakari02 5 лет назад +9

    lol! PASTOR you have me at work literally Laughing out Loud-You did this...

  • @lyndapeoples8127
    @lyndapeoples8127 5 лет назад +10

    The right one..."assembly required "....has the right parts..a job, loves God and has a vision.

  • @alfredrease5931
    @alfredrease5931 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Bishop you have really helping me to be a better man and do things God way listening to you helps me cuz you have been where I’m at and struggled with what I am struggling with so thank you for your authenticity and transparency. Blessing be upon you and your house

  • @ms.bizlady2956
    @ms.bizlady2956 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for this message. It helped me to clarify things for me relative to my dealings with men. He will not ask you to do something that makes you uncomfortable, the right one closes the deal. Please pray for the Black man and the Black woman and our relating to one another.

  • @ingridmarrero8470
    @ingridmarrero8470 5 лет назад +9

    Amen!!! I Agree!!! Thank God for You and You Tube!!! Yes!!!♥️♥️♥️😍😍😍

  • @steffanygourley1926
    @steffanygourley1926 5 лет назад +7

    This one was SOOO GOOD! Thanks pastor. Needed this on a bad day.

  • @amourah3132
    @amourah3132 Год назад +1

    Pastor Blakes what can I say but thank you for your words of wisdom and encouragement. You are so funny too! Your videos are loved by me! 😊😊

  • @sharoneh8929
    @sharoneh8929 11 месяцев назад

    We keep missing the basic keys to a healthy relationship. I love how Pastor Blakes is so practical and gives you the biblical scriptures for foundation. Thank you for all you do. Praise God for this teaching. Real talk,✔️✔️✔️