How to know a man is interested? Part 2

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2019
  • How to know a man is interested in you? In this video, I dive a little deeper into the mindset of a man who is interested in you.
    Self-Love University: self-love-u.com

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  • @ebone1974
    @ebone1974 4 года назад +810

    Ways to Know He’s Interested in You (when dating)
    1. He will give you his time, even if he doesn’t have a lot of time to give! This point right here...🔥.
    2. He will go above and beyond, he will do for you!
    3. He will pay for the date (he’ll go in his bag/he’ll be creative if he has limited money).
    4. He does for you, serves you, and expects NOTHING more than your gratitude.
    **The key thing is time & consistency!**
    Be blessed! Thank you for these jewels you drop, Tony. May God replenish you each and every time you pour out for the people.

  • @ellaesparza3151
    @ellaesparza3151 4 года назад +375

    Remember the movie “Thin Line Between Love and Hate”. The woman that went above and beyond, he didn’t want. The woman that checked him and held him accountable, is the woman that he wanted.

  • @queenpeace17
    @queenpeace17 3 года назад +74

    "McDonald is always hiring. I dont believe in a man who doesn't have a job." Bless you Tony "A real man is going to go get it."

  • @godlovescouture8605
    @godlovescouture8605 4 года назад +74

    My bro n love told me “ No, man can keep up a lie for a long time. Pace yourself!

  • @Minister_LaShawn
    @Minister_LaShawn 4 года назад +395

    “You let your desperation, frustration, and insecurities disrupt the natural order of things”🔥

    • @BF-ix9nn
      @BF-ix9nn 4 года назад +7

      Elle Jaye that thang just spoke to me.

    • @missioncalming7172
      @missioncalming7172 4 года назад +2

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @ms.anonymousinformer242
      @ms.anonymousinformer242 4 года назад +7

      By following those rules he talked about.... the natural order of things can make it easier to see if the guy is a loser or a winner. By being masculine and doing the man's job for a man, (assuming you have a lazy bum or no ambition guy) will make it harder to see his own inadequacies, that might be a bunch of deal breakers for you HAD you , had high priorities in the first place .

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 3 года назад +1

      I wasn’t ready for the truth 🤯🤯🤯🤯

  • @itsmekp7207
    @itsmekp7207 4 года назад +247

    All of these tips are 100% accurate. This is why I’m still single and not wasting my time with words. Action and consistency validates he’s genuinely interested.

    • @kimsmith819
      @kimsmith819 4 года назад +16

      Its honestly better to be a little lonely than miserable with the wrong guy. Great job waiting for the right one. He will eventually show up

    • @itsmekp7207
      @itsmekp7207 4 года назад +6

      Kim Smith amen. Prayerfully and patiently waiting 🙏

    • @itsmekp7207
      @itsmekp7207 4 года назад

      Quintessa Bankhead amen!!

    • @larkford4460
      @larkford4460 4 года назад

      Well you can’t show interest without first expressing through words smh

    • @itsmekp7207
      @itsmekp7207 4 года назад +1

      Lark Ford we know thats how it starts ... words! But then what?? Thats what I’m referring to.

  • @annettescroggins3905
    @annettescroggins3905 4 года назад +74

    In other words ladies let a man be a man...be receptive and allow him to court you...stop thinking that every man is a dog or "no good" that is just fear and negative thinking..raise your standards think positive

  • @rickimcfarland2269
    @rickimcfarland2269 4 года назад +60

    My guy friend postmated a meal for me. I thought it was a very kind gesture.

  • @AD_2314
    @AD_2314 4 года назад +162

    I listen to Tony on my way to work, during lunch break, at home while doing chores, and at night before bed. I’ve adopted him as my big brother because my father hasn’t taught me CRAP about men. Thank you, Tony. Thanks for everything. Be blessed!

    • @Inetta05
      @Inetta05 4 года назад +3

      Be blessed

    • @TonyGaskins
      @TonyGaskins  4 года назад +23

      Nikki M thank you so much for your support!!

    • @shaunishine4647
      @shaunishine4647 4 года назад +1

      Don't feel bad because my step dad taught me nothing as well

    • @prettydiamonds2343
      @prettydiamonds2343 4 года назад +1

      Mine nor stepfather

    • @cecil3c
      @cecil3c 4 года назад +1

      Is my big brother too 😆

  • @lisamccall4960
    @lisamccall4960 4 года назад +365

    Tony said...."If he ain't got a job... you watching the wrong vi-de-o..." ☠☠☠

    • @crstlblack0
      @crstlblack0 4 года назад +3

      Lisa McCall 😂😂😂right

    • @elisa5812
      @elisa5812 4 года назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂 I 💀

    • @keitarouse468
      @keitarouse468 4 года назад +6

      Sitting in my car listening and when he stated that I screamed so loud😂

    • @delise5133
      @delise5133 4 года назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @susanjohnson8056
      @susanjohnson8056 4 года назад +1

      He didn't lie😂😂🤣🤣

  • @tamiamatthews4410
    @tamiamatthews4410 4 года назад +55

    Absolutely correct and now I am married to this beautiful god-fearing man

  • @MzSoulll
    @MzSoulll 4 года назад +34

    I've always been insecure about receiving from a man. Watching this makes me realize that I have been compensating with so many dysfunctional things. But I'm gonna stop that now. This video was definitely steak and potatoes! Be blessed.

  • @TaquilaColeman
    @TaquilaColeman 4 года назад +324

    Listen to your intuition. You will know when a man is interested. You will see it in his pursuit of you. He calls you everyday. He listen to you. He invest in you. You will see the progression in the relationship. Listen to Tony, he is leading you down the right path. Great video Tony!

  • @mamort3621
    @mamort3621 4 года назад +101

    You r watching wrong video if you r talking to a man who doesn’t have a job and is not willing to take care of himself ...😹😹😘Preach 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🙌🙌🙌👊🏽❤️❤️

  • @logikgirl12
    @logikgirl12 4 года назад +19

    I wish I was able to understand this fully when I was in my mid-twenties.
    A man truly has to earn your time, attention and eventually your hand.
    And I'm talking real acts of service, real actions to meet your needs. Not sappy words or empty compliments.

    • @aprildanielle2693
      @aprildanielle2693 Год назад +1

      Facts💯🗣🗣🗣I learned the hard way never again

  • @chunkybarbiet.t.671
    @chunkybarbiet.t.671 4 года назад +32

    He’s right,,, real man are amazing when they show up in your life and are genuine..

  • @charmaine3056
    @charmaine3056 4 года назад +114

    Not one lie was told. Class was definitely in session. Be BLESSED

  • @joyh.729
    @joyh.729 4 года назад +86

    “...it doesn’t mean you have to be spread eagle..”😂😂😂. Great line

  • @ToEnlightInLove
    @ToEnlightInLove 4 года назад +42

    The same way a man needs to PUT IN time and consistency, we as women need to GIVE IT time for true colors to show and be consistent in our boundaries.
    Thanks for helping me to connect these dots

  • @thetiffiejourneytv3483
    @thetiffiejourneytv3483 4 года назад +35

    If the man doesn’t have a job then “you are watching the wrong video” 🤣😂

  • @felishapittman2778
    @felishapittman2778 4 года назад +88

    When you play the video and see all the mistakes YOU made entertaining grown boys ...but no more. I'm learning and I won't make these mistakes anymore.

  • @vanessaharris6341
    @vanessaharris6341 4 года назад +195

    Sir this was a darn good video. My husband of 21 years who passed away did all those. He was very sweet and thoughtful! Be blessed!!!

    • @kenyafromcali
      @kenyafromcali 4 года назад +4

      💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘

    • @anointedstilettos
      @anointedstilettos 4 года назад +3

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @ttlilfeet3211
      @ttlilfeet3211 4 года назад +13

      Mines passed away from cancer 22 years of love I'm dating now & he's a good guy but it's scary out here

    • @marquita948
      @marquita948 4 года назад +3

      ♥️

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 года назад +1

      Sorry for your loss.

  • @kjhyler
    @kjhyler 4 года назад +11

    I was with a narcissistic person whom smothered me with time, acts of services, gifts for over 2 years, but later he was also verbally abusive. So be careful still with those things.

  • @maxinec1616
    @maxinec1616 4 года назад +122

    This is wisdom of a father to his daughter. THANK YOU for these jewels.

  • @Minister_LaShawn
    @Minister_LaShawn 4 года назад +88

    “Time and consistency are the main keys in knowing whether a man is interested in you or not”💡

  • @CheMula
    @CheMula 4 года назад +150

    Omg this message has really shown me that I’m not ready for a relationship, and I really need to take some time and reflect on past mistakes and decisions that I have made in my love life. And what I need to look at within myself thank you Tony

  • @fabiennepdt4898
    @fabiennepdt4898 4 года назад +26

    Be blessed! I've been making countless mistakes with men, that's why I am still single at nearly 46. I've barely started to understand what I did wrong. Thanks for your advice.

  • @Denvergirl
    @Denvergirl 4 года назад +10

    You’re definitely right. I can attest to the fact that a man that is interested in you, will definitely give you his time.

  • @motherofseven8403
    @motherofseven8403 4 года назад +139

    My ex- gave me his time and still cheated. That was one bad year
    I was taking it like he was the only man in this world for me but look at me now married and happy.

    • @intentionalgreatness
      @intentionalgreatness 4 года назад +4

      Ok sis. Yes!

    • @kimsmith819
      @kimsmith819 4 года назад +10

      Congratulations to you for getting out and finding a real man

    • @Marebear-bt4rp
      @Marebear-bt4rp 4 года назад +5

      You go girl $!!! GOD Bless !! 💔💔

    • @nicholehamilton5844
      @nicholehamilton5844 4 года назад +4

      What was your process of seeing that he wasn'tthe only man a available? What did you do? How did you change your mindset?

    • @vp363
      @vp363 4 года назад +1

      calanda owens ... congratulations!!!

  • @laquetianewstartmercer
    @laquetianewstartmercer 4 года назад +72

    Key word Man not a grown boy!

    • @kimsmith819
      @kimsmith819 4 года назад +1

      Nope, we gotta stay away from the boys

    • @laquetianewstartmercer
      @laquetianewstartmercer 4 года назад

      @@kimsmith819 We sure do!

    • @larkford4460
      @larkford4460 4 года назад +1

      Ocean Flower just like a woman should never give a man money, a man should never give a woman money🤷🏾‍♂️ y’all want fathers not partners smh

  • @jasminemartin6998
    @jasminemartin6998 4 года назад +21

    “You shoot him the $2500 because you’re trying to by love because you’re desperate”. 😩 Lord have mercy

    • @TakishaDanet
      @TakishaDanet 4 года назад +2

      Jasmine Ivory girl he said it so quick I died ☠️😩

  • @gma904
    @gma904 4 года назад +5

    What I learned from receiving from my kids’ dad all these years is that when he sees I’m happy by what he does... he loves that more than anything else.

  • @traquilasmith2275
    @traquilasmith2275 4 года назад +36

    He interested if he show you respect, consistency, time, good communication, honestly, keep his words, listening,understanding, service you, he not expecting anything in return but your gratitude. Time, actions, consistency and respect if he dont show these qualities then ladies dont waste your time move on its not worth it I agree tony great and bless message i needed this right on time. Be blessed every one👍👍👏👏☺

  • @mrs.carvil8325
    @mrs.carvil8325 4 года назад +48

    "If he doesn't have a job, you are not watching the right video🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣..."You killed me with that one Tony...too funny!!! Great video, very informative!!!

    • @larkford4460
      @larkford4460 4 года назад

      Mrs. Black y’all women are so brainwashed by this society smh I went on a date last week with a woman and she asked if I had a job. I told her no. Then she starts trying to clown saying “you think I’m about to waste time with you”. I said I don’t really care. Then she asked what are my plans. I said I am a real estate investor with 9 properties and currently looking to buy 3 more. Her facial expression and attitude turned around. Needless to say I ended the date right then and there. It’s way to easy to figure y’all women out

  • @rhonnesanelms8969
    @rhonnesanelms8969 4 года назад +19

    Even though I'm old enough to be your mother, I still find your ministry to be a blessing in my own life. It's a foolproof measure to help my daughters and other significant women to learn from my mistakes. I truly appreciate your love and dedication to hurting souls around the world. Thank you😊

  • @teresafreemanparker6967
    @teresafreemanparker6967 4 года назад +15

    Be blessed! Stay on the receiving end ladies. Priceless....acts of service, time, respect, and consistency he's interested!!

  • @arandaholley1719
    @arandaholley1719 4 года назад +40

    I am just snapping my fingers and clapping my hands. Continue sir.

  • @vamanm
    @vamanm 4 года назад +71

    Honestly god bless you for empowering young ladies and women all over the world. We need more men like you in this world.

  • @sparkleinureye
    @sparkleinureye 4 года назад +6

    Tony this is so so so TRUE! I experienced a man that called me EVERYDAY for 3.5 months and we talked an hour plus every day. He carried a good conversation we laughed and really enjoyed each other....Oh and he was a successful Lawyer so his time was money. I couldn't understand how he was able to do it. EVERYDAY no breaks no ghost no games. I absolutely loved!

  • @Exhibit_Obedience
    @Exhibit_Obedience 4 года назад +3

    It's time out for all the foolishness. I'm tired of falling for the okie-doke with these dudes. To make a long story short, I get off work, get my kids and my house in order and get settled. I Pray to Holy God for wisdom and guidance then I watch these videos until I get a profound understanding. Tony, you have truly been a blessing. Please keep the knowledge in rotation. Be Blessed !! 🙏🏽👌🏽

  • @regisnyder
    @regisnyder 4 года назад +56

    I guess after listening to this video, I’m more upset with my parents not telling me the ways of properly dating! This guidance is so logical. Especially when it comes to some of us women (🙋🏾‍♀️) have out done a dude or two by going overboard in our appreciation. Because we perceived what we (I) was doing was reciprocating after he has done something nice for us (me). Way too many times I can recall outdoing a man I was trying to date. (Not in huge monetary gifts! I’m not that crazy, but still...) I just wish I had learned this decades ago.

    • @clarkclarke
      @clarkclarke 4 года назад +3

      our parents cant teach what they don't know ...

    • @misssterling3094
      @misssterling3094 4 года назад

      @@clarkclarke You're correct, and dating has changed so much over the years.

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 года назад +2

      Parents were broken. Not excusing them. But they couldn't give you what they didn't have.

  • @missioncalming7172
    @missioncalming7172 4 года назад +23

    Be blessed. Don't knock the poor man from his role. Let him play his role and you play your role. Let him be the man and you be the woman appreciate him without try to do his work. Show your gratitude verbal and/or written. While you are dating, continue to invest in yourself consistently not just to attract him. Time and consistency!

  • @IAmTheQueen87
    @IAmTheQueen87 2 года назад +8

    This is def STEAK & POTATOES message. I swear every woman needs to be listening to this man! 🙌🏾 Thank you for looking out for us! Appreciate it so much. I listen to your vids every day and I’m learning more, getting stronger and wiser and just staying on top of my game. Thank you! 🙏🏾

  • @yuls16-73
    @yuls16-73 4 года назад +2

    aww! my man flew from chicago to fresno and then drove 6 hrs to come and spend with me the few hrs that he had off! We work like crazy so we understand each other; this video hit me because I still feel like I need to do something like that in return. I will just be grateful and stay calm, he didn't ask for nothing but a few hrs of my time in return. I never thought I would appreciate someone's character so much.

  • @jobossbaby369
    @jobossbaby369 4 года назад +59

    “Captain save him🦸🏽‍♀️” never over invest ladies... thanks Tony for these morning 💎💎💎you be dropping 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Be Blessed...

    • @kimsmith819
      @kimsmith819 4 года назад +5

      I over invested and learned the hard way. I left my husband for 7 months so he could get himself together and relearn to take care of himself

    • @Dtella55
      @Dtella55 4 года назад

      Truth.... 💯💯

    • @Dtella55
      @Dtella55 4 года назад +1

      @@kimsmith819 Sorry but left for good ex SAG a narcissist...serial cheating

    • @kimsmith819
      @kimsmith819 4 года назад

      @@Dtella55 Proud of you Sis! Mine hasn't cheated or i would of left for good. He was emotionally and verbally abusive. He had many months of therapy before I agreed to come back to my home. If he gets all possessive again, i will leave and not look back or kick him out for good.

  • @marquitaw754
    @marquitaw754 4 года назад +32

    Never want a man not able to take care of himself. No finance...no romance! I'm a manager at McDonalds and stay on my grind for our kids. I had to kick him out because he showed me he wasn't growing or even willing to grow. He wasn't expecting me to flip my script. It's just sad I invested 8 years thinking we was gonna be a power couple. I was the power couple. So now I am working so hard to find my femininity again. After being masculine for so long. He is a part time Roofer. You had me laughin laughin when you said McDonalds was always hiring! He has only ever had under the table jobs. Nothing ever on the books and consistent. I snipped him! I did let my desperate insecurity take over...captain save him! Be Blessed!

    • @marquitaw754
      @marquitaw754 4 года назад +3

      @Xiu Zu Thank you...for a very long time I was thinking it was me with all the insecurities but I finally realized I outgrew all of mine and was left seeing all of his and remaining supportive until I seen he wasn't making any effort whatsoever. I knew in that moment. I was done.

    • @kimsmith819
      @kimsmith819 4 года назад +2

      👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @jobossbaby369
      @jobossbaby369 4 года назад +3

      Girl I did the same to my ex husband... too many times I had to put my cape on.....finally trying to be feminine again after so many years of doing everything.... such a relief now to sit back and have someone else lead😊😊

    • @marquita948
      @marquita948 4 года назад

      💯

    • @11940ful
      @11940ful 4 года назад +1

      It's been a month since you made your comment. Hope you're doing better. I wish you the best for 2020 🙌🏽🎈🎉💪🏼👍🏽😙

  • @renestarr5592
    @renestarr5592 4 года назад +4

    52 years old and im still trying to learn this. So glad i found your coaching

  • @michelleortiz5656
    @michelleortiz5656 4 года назад +18

    Best relationship coach I really appreciate you Tony

  • @jayceelaw6772
    @jayceelaw6772 4 года назад +17

    In this life!, If he doesn't have a job/some type of job.. FACE IT, he's a growing boy!!!
    Self-Love❤️

  • @opopdee
    @opopdee 4 года назад +25

    He nails it, ladies.....Go head Tony Gaskins with yo BAD SELF - Be blessed, Sir...

  • @ellaleggett9628
    @ellaleggett9628 4 года назад +7

    I definitely have to stop one upping a man on a date, I never looked at it the way you explained, Thank you Tony for this information 😊, Be Blessed ‼️

  • @shaunishine4647
    @shaunishine4647 4 года назад +8

    I'm teaching all that I've learned to my 3 daughters.

  • @B_Murph
    @B_Murph 4 года назад +31

    Definitely agree with the Daily routine... I’m just learning these things it wasn’t taught to me... and I choose to trust the process and not lower my standards

    • @tlashai9902
      @tlashai9902 4 года назад +2

      Amen, I refuse to lower my standards, I'm in the line with you.

    • @thatguybill34
      @thatguybill34 4 года назад

      I'll teach you Melissa

  • @Marebear-bt4rp
    @Marebear-bt4rp 4 года назад +16

    I'm sending this to my 28yo daughter.... She needs it !! Be blessed y'all !!! 💗💔❤

  • @ericawhitfield7876
    @ericawhitfield7876 4 года назад +9

    "I need a little loan." No Sir!!!!
    🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

  • @joannbolude4216
    @joannbolude4216 7 месяцев назад +2

    Be blessed! Your wisdom is priceless and I thank God for what you are sharing. All of it I recognize as truth. I watch these videos almost daily. I can’t believe all that I am learning and I’m sharing with my daughter as well. We need more godly men to step up like this and be genuine. It will create less heartache, less single family homes and less work for God because people will have less pain. May God increase your wisdom and continue to take you to great places where your wisdom and voice can be heard! Amen 🙏🏾

  • @G.DD3SS
    @G.DD3SS 4 года назад +32

    What I understand about what Tony is, and has been, saying is that it's not about looking at one aspect, it's about observing a combination of aspects: time, acts of service, respect, kindness, making you a priority, etc, and the key ingredient, consistency. If there's time but no consistency; acts of service but no consistency; respect but no consistency... you get the point, he's not the one. Keep it moving.

    • @TonyGaskins
      @TonyGaskins  4 года назад +6

      R0YALT1 you get it!! Thank you!

    • @wendydrummond2338
      @wendydrummond2338 4 года назад +2

      Thanks for sharing this I wrote it down to remember it. God bless you and your family and work love from Wendy Drummond from Adelaide South Australia

    • @coachnatishamommatish185
      @coachnatishamommatish185 4 года назад +1

      Hit it dead on the nail!!! Even if it's time but no consistency, Respect, nor action within his ways on change within internal as well as external. I, mean none whatsoever Ima keep it Trucking.

    • @gloriajjackson5035
      @gloriajjackson5035 4 года назад

      Thank you ROYALT1!

  • @B_Murph
    @B_Murph 4 года назад +28

    Be blessed! Please listen to the whole video!

  • @templeannu5330
    @templeannu5330 4 года назад +2

    You are raising these women who really want to learn. The ones that did not have a father to teach them how to interact with men. Thank you sir. I watch you religiously.

  • @mediakingsmediakings9982
    @mediakingsmediakings9982 4 года назад +7

    Be blessed brother. So many women need to hear this!

  • @msterry196
    @msterry196 4 года назад +22

    "Rock his socks" "no good man" "salad with croutons"😂😂😂 You are so funny and real. True stuff though. Be Blessed

  • @ShelleyG1014
    @ShelleyG1014 4 года назад +30

    Be blessed! Listen all the way to the end ladies.

  • @sharicebryant8149
    @sharicebryant8149 4 года назад +1

    Amen! Be blessed Tony! I’m so grateful that God led me back to your videos at the time I did. 🙏🏾

  • @thisisHowHedidit
    @thisisHowHedidit 4 года назад +2

    BE BLESSED!! THIS RIGHT HERE. SOMEBODY BETTER BE LISTENING. I KNOW I AM... THANK YOU ALWAYS!!

  • @reginaatak9773
    @reginaatak9773 4 года назад +54

    Gems Gems!! Most dating coaches who are men literally be speaking only to cater to the female audiences but Tony, he speaking truth!!! Be Bless🙌

    • @aleishagaston7407
      @aleishagaston7407 4 года назад +3

      Be Blessed Tony🙌🏾💯
      You are a Blessing to all who are willing to receive your knowledge. GOD is using you in a very unconditional way. Ladies, let's pay attention to this much needed wisdom. Again, Be Blessed Tony!!!

  • @talondalove
    @talondalove 4 года назад +32

    I’m going to take some time out to pray just for you as God is Using and Leading you
    I appreciate you Tony
    God a Bless you, your family and all that is a part of you
    Thank you Thank you Thank you!

  • @christineallen3003
    @christineallen3003 4 года назад

    Yessss! Tony you are so right! I notice when I show my appreciation to my man its so breath taking & he responds much better with his time. If I scolded & hound y’all him then he reacts with no time. This is true

  • @Kemi116
    @Kemi116 3 года назад +2

    This video is absolutely incredible and so enlightening. Thank you so much Tony Gaskins. Be Blessed 🙏🏽

  • @diving.deep.
    @diving.deep. 4 года назад +39

    Why do I feel like I’m the only one who would enjoy those chips and a drink at a lake hahaha but then again I love the outdoors

    • @orls9068
      @orls9068 4 года назад +2

      I would too 😊

  • @melissathomas-brown7495
    @melissathomas-brown7495 4 года назад +15

    You have wisdom beyond measure. The TRUTH is within you. Thank you for sharing spiritually based knowledge.

  • @KeishlyR
    @KeishlyR 4 года назад +1

    I’ve been listening to your videos allll day since yesterday, thank you so much for all of the knowledge you’ve been providing. Be blessed! 🙏🏽

  • @fstonum15
    @fstonum15 3 года назад +2

    This is powerful! Thank you for being a blessing! Be blessed!

  • @ruru9400
    @ruru9400 4 года назад +14

    Tony's facial expressions be killin' me though 🤣🤣 Keep dropping them gems, Tony!

    • @nmiburo
      @nmiburo 3 года назад

      I swear 😭😭😭

  • @robincrawley311
    @robincrawley311 4 года назад +9

    That last story you told Sir, Mm mm mm! Lord Have Mercy, "she made it rain, he gave her a famine" WOW!!! Yes, I Know! He was Faking the WHOLE TIME!!! Wide Awake Now, To God Be The Glory!!!🙏
    😇😇😇

    • @robincrawley311
      @robincrawley311 4 года назад

      To God Be The Glory!💛 Thank You for the Thumbs Up whoever you are! Sometimes we have to "Wake Up And Smell Our Own Coffee, Time To Make The Donuts! FULLY AWAKE and In Love With Jesus!!!💛
      😇😇😇

  • @angelaoden3359
    @angelaoden3359 4 года назад +1

    This video has so much confirmation of what I already knew about my worth. Thank you Tony for allowing God to use you.

  • @veralisahunter5013
    @veralisahunter5013 4 года назад +1

    You are amazing! I thank God for you being obedient to your calling. These words (your messages) help me to stay in alignment with what is good, true and wise.

  • @amberlake5753
    @amberlake5753 4 года назад +7

    I love that you sugar coat nothing, and break it all down with a thorough explanation to address every possible excuse that could be given. 🙏🏼

  • @FILA104
    @FILA104 4 года назад +14

    I appreciate you posting this. There are levels & most men & women dont realize this. 💯💯

    • @orls9068
      @orls9068 4 года назад

      Exactly! 😊

  • @neshatimmons2894
    @neshatimmons2894 4 года назад +1

    I am grateful for your teachings Tony! Be blessed

  • @Insightful_Locs
    @Insightful_Locs 3 года назад +1

    I love this video! So true, you’re speaking nothing but facts. Be blessed !

  • @reginajeter6204
    @reginajeter6204 4 года назад +9

    Be Blessed! If you are a bitter woman 👩🏽, listen to the entire counseling that Tony is sacrificing to educate us. Show Love 💕

  • @sonyayoung263
    @sonyayoung263 4 года назад +7

    Time, consistency, and service.

  • @jasandoval1000
    @jasandoval1000 4 года назад

    Tony is not giving you fluff he is keeping it real!!! Thank you Tony

  • @cherylmcdonald818
    @cherylmcdonald818 4 года назад

    Blessed, thank you Tony... we as women appreciate your sharing in how we need to just be patient, endure, and pay attention.

  • @Apostylicpoet
    @Apostylicpoet 4 года назад +19

    "She made it rain!" I'm DEAD!

  • @blacknubianqueen2241
    @blacknubianqueen2241 4 года назад +18

    Be blessed. You’re truly the epitome of a King. Love everything you present to us. Thank you for all u do

  • @sharlotte7369
    @sharlotte7369 3 года назад +1

    Be blessed! This is all so true. I'll have to send this video to my cousin. They said those words to me when I told them how much I get for an allowance from my man. They said he shouldn't be giving you nothing he has his on stuff to do. I just shock my head. You girls have so much to learn. The man who loves you wants to give you everything he has. Point plank

  • @jereline100
    @jereline100 4 года назад +1

    I just discovered your channel and I've been watching your videos for about 4 days now. Today i finally got the courage to confront this guy I have been seeing about him not call me. Our conversations was TEXT ONLY. He simply replied that he didn't like talking on the phone. It really hurt my feelings because from watching your videos I knew right away that it meant that HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO ME! All I said was "OK THEN" and I deleted his number. If I didn't watch your videos I would probably have just excepted it but NO I got the message loud and clear. I needed your guidance 🙏🏾 Thank you. I will keep on watching your videos and educate myself to make sure that I do not end up in a situation like that again. Thank you for blessing us 🙌🏾

  • @tejuanahardison7516
    @tejuanahardison7516 4 года назад +9

    I just watch it and started it over. I need to watch this again.

  • @annettesolomon1347
    @annettesolomon1347 4 года назад +8

    Be blessed... This is so on point a guy I'm interested in has said the very same thing to me that you have mentioned . We live 3 hrs away talk everyday for more than an hour ,and he drives to come visit me. He is very interested thank you Tony for all you do.!!!

  • @debbiehilton2614
    @debbiehilton2614 4 года назад +3

    Great word! I wish there were more men who only want appreciation in return. Some get right to the point in wanting to know if and when they will get the cookie. Sheesh!

  • @KimmieJ1920
    @KimmieJ1920 4 года назад

    BE BLESSED! This is so true. I haven't met a man like this yet, but when I do...I'll recognize it.

  • @intentionalgreatness
    @intentionalgreatness 4 года назад +9

    Man Tony this content has been on fire the past few days. Thank you so much. We hear you and humbly appreciate you.

  • @willLLIt
    @willLLIt 4 года назад +8

    I absolutely love all this knowledge given!! I can listen all day!! It makes so much sense its a shame!!! Be bless all!!!!!

  • @ivalinaaleksandrova1742
    @ivalinaaleksandrova1742 4 года назад +1

    I soo appreciate that I found u. The one, saying things as they are. God..... Probably lots of men hates u, but u have full respect from all of us. Thank u soo much

  • @Breanne_M
    @Breanne_M 4 года назад

    Be blessed!! Im here for all of it..Im growing..U are the real deal sir.. thank you soo much! God bless🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @nicolec.5938
    @nicolec.5938 4 года назад +5

    Priceless info ! Be blessed 🙌🏼

  • @Coolct
    @Coolct 4 года назад +5

    BE BLESSED! I needed this next guy I meet I’m going to see if he gives me time and consistency!

  • @barbbarbee2109
    @barbbarbee2109 4 года назад +1

    Tony, you ALWAYS speak the truth!!!! 100% KNOWLEDGE

  • @jomay4871
    @jomay4871 4 года назад +1

    Agree totally. So happy I was raised with old school morals and values...