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    Top 10 manipulation tactics used by pickup artists and men who don’t respect women (classic throwback)
    These are the top 10 manipulation tactics used by men who don’t respect women. Don’t be fooled. Men who don’t respect women and manipulate them for sport teach other men these 10 tricks to get in your pants without giving you anything in return. Don’t be fooled by these manipulation tactics. These are rules red pill guys study to get over on women. Using women is the name if the game. Don’t be tricked, these behaviors are no coincidence. If you want to know if a guy doesn’t like you watch this video. If a guy does this stuff he doesn’t like you. If you see more than a couple of these behaviors he definitely doesn’t like you seriously and only plans to use your body.
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Комментарии • 664

  • @KevHick
    @KevHick  2 года назад +264

    Enjoy this throwback Thursday video! Just in case you’re new or you missed it. It’s a few years old but the information is still worth it’s weight in gold.

  • @ummzahra9196
    @ummzahra9196 2 года назад +534

    Don’t deal with men who give you anxiety a man should make you feel comfortable and safe❤️

  • @dnw75
    @dnw75 2 года назад +275

    Do not invite strangers to your home on the first date. And don't accept invites to a stranger's house for the first date. Folks are too crazy out here.

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal 2 года назад +7

      Amen!

    • @pfair774
      @pfair774 2 года назад +12

      I told my cousin this advice because she always has men come to her house or go over there's who she doesn't know from dating apps and she went off on me. One of the guys was actually crazy cuz he picked her up and they went to his city and she spent the night and got drunk and woke up to him trying to have sex with her while she was out.
      As much as I hate going out or being in public around a lot of people, I try to anyway to stick to my standards.

    • @sjay19babybaybay93
      @sjay19babybaybay93 2 года назад +1

      Yes! Very True!

  • @gabrielamartiniuc6322
    @gabrielamartiniuc6322 2 года назад +490

    When you know you have value , these red flags are instantly recognized! And a quick block .

    • @sophiadavid498
      @sophiadavid498 2 года назад +1

      ±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

    • @JvNelsonn
      @JvNelsonn 2 года назад +19

      Yes ma'am! Peep game and move tf on.

    • @ImWORTHITINC
      @ImWORTHITINC 2 года назад +3

      Exactly right Gf!!

    • @PreciousPeach910
      @PreciousPeach910 2 года назад +8

      I’m the block queen 👑 😂

    • @bree3258
      @bree3258 2 года назад +9

      Yes! Be blocked and be blessed!

  • @Reshme77
    @Reshme77 2 года назад +808

    Celibacy makes things more clear

  • @dncprncss
    @dncprncss 2 года назад +225

    A woman who is secure in herself and has honor and respect for herself is the best remedy for predatory men. When she is grounded in the truth and has healthy boundaries players don’t stand a chance. Thanks to Kev for educating, helping and encouraging woman.

    • @reesespieces450
      @reesespieces450 2 года назад +26

      Those traits are like bait to men tho I swear. Some guys they see your truths and boundaries and it's almost like a challenge to them to try and remove them/ break you down! Lol. Scary stuff! 😨

    • @profmj7630
      @profmj7630 2 года назад +3

      Yes ma'am

    • @How.Dare.You.
      @How.Dare.You. 2 года назад +2

      Very rare kind of women

    • @jesssoreal
      @jesssoreal Год назад

      TRUTH!

    • @spiritualqueen3423
      @spiritualqueen3423 8 месяцев назад +1

      I learned that having boundaries is really protecting ourselves, and if someone doesn’t respect them then they have ill attention be cautious!! ⚠️ I rather be single, and wait to be in a relationship then to be stuck and taken advantage of by a man that doesn’t even love me. 😢

  • @seymorepencilart
    @seymorepencilart 2 года назад +386

    Kev is exactly right at the end. These guys aren’t looking to work hard to get you to lay on your back. These types of guys are looking for you to make up for all the distance they put in between you and them in order to validate their egos. Think about that next time you run into a low effort man, and how just how much he must value you as a person; which is very little. If he DID value you, he’d at least be honest and let you make a choice by telling you what he wants. If you feel pressure, you’re likely being played for a fool.

    • @sososanchez3512
      @sososanchez3512 2 года назад +5

      @Jacob Yes..
      He tell you & let you make the decision if you wanna play that part...

    • @bebois2529
      @bebois2529 2 года назад +14

      Yep agree. I think feeling pressurised is a key indicator that your boundaries are not being honoured…that then gives opportunity for one to speak up the next step is to see how much attention and care or lack thereof they pay…

    • @FairyDragon9
      @FairyDragon9 2 года назад +3

      FACTS‼️

    • @vhayashi7369
      @vhayashi7369 2 года назад +9

      Yep! I figured that out over a year ago and staying single!!!! It's all BS and games...

    • @crystalbluewire3339
      @crystalbluewire3339 2 года назад +2

      Right on !

  • @rosemarie5489
    @rosemarie5489 2 года назад +331

    I will also add: Talking about an ex, or about any other woman. It is usually made with the intention to create a kind of insecurity that you are not attractive enough for a guy. I remember once, when I was dating someone, he told me that one of his female friends, was the most attractive woman in our martial arts class. I had joined this group 1 month ago at that time and the other girl and the dude had known each other for a couple of years. I told him, that if that was the case, he should bring her to a date and not me. Later I understood that they were in some kind of friends with benefits arrangement, so it was a nice choice of mine to never start something with him or give him more of my time.

    • @leesteal4458
      @leesteal4458 2 года назад +22

      You're correct.

    • @BeatrizMatias
      @BeatrizMatias 2 года назад +10

      You are so very right 👏🏽👏🏽

    • @gilliankingston8259
      @gilliankingston8259 2 года назад +6

      Sad if you were attracted to him but the most sensible option because if he thinks "friends with benefits" is a good idea/acceptable it's a relationship going nowhere; whatever age he may be he's too young/not mature enough.🌹

    • @rosemarie5489
      @rosemarie5489 2 года назад +13

      @@gilliankingston8259 Yes, I think it was the best option to let him go. He was 30 at that time, I was 23. Maybe he thought that I was easily manipulated because I was much younger 😅.In addition I was very attracted towards him,I even thought I was in love with him. It was heartbreaking to let him go, but still, I am convinced it was the best for both of us.

    • @gilliankingston8259
      @gilliankingston8259 2 года назад +15

      @@rosemarie5489 You're right, older men will very often make a bee-line for younger women because they assume they will be easier to manipulate because of their age - that doesn't say anything good about men who would be prepared to act like this.🌹

  • @stayreal5083
    @stayreal5083 2 года назад +129

    This video is on point. Especially downplaying your beauty. In my younger days I was with this guy for about 3 years and everytime we got into an argument he would say, "Dont nobody want you, who would want you." Or don't nobody want your skinny ass with that scar on your face." Then when we finally broke up. I ran into him a few years later. And he said this to me. "Damn girl you are still fine as hell." You look good. That is when I actually realized he was intentionally trying to screw up my self esteem. From that point on If a guy said anything negative about me even as a joke I would cut him off quick. Because sometimes it starts as a joke.

    • @WholeGrownWoman
      @WholeGrownWoman 2 года назад +15

      Sometimes that's a prelude to physical abuse. Glad you dodged that bullet.

    • @isla24bonita
      @isla24bonita 2 года назад +3

      Good for you! That happened to me as well. After second date I dumped his shitty old ass.

    • @Poodle_Gun
      @Poodle_Gun 5 месяцев назад +1

      "You can't do any better, and you also bore me in bed. I'm getting really tired of making the most of it."

    • @dianaverano7878
      @dianaverano7878 2 месяца назад

      If i hear those insults, i walk out and never to talk to me again. Ever.
      Those are boundaries

  • @nonyabizness3869
    @nonyabizness3869 2 года назад +186

    Take this seriously! This list are all characteristics of narcissists. Don't fall victim to narcissistic abuse

    • @Rose-ez2fm
      @Rose-ez2fm 2 года назад +6

      Exactly! It is the worst type of abuse ever.

    • @SanctifiedLady
      @SanctifiedLady Год назад

      Absolutely is!! Simply put! Monsters among us

    • @KFMServices
      @KFMServices Год назад

      So true! Please stay away from a narcissist 😢

  • @bebois2529
    @bebois2529 2 года назад +124

    This honestly makes me want to cry…why do people play all these games it’s so exhausting…life is too short. Don’t let a bad behaviour of one or 2 stop you from believing in love. It’s really tough out there. I think online dating is the devils playground.

    • @mhharley
      @mhharley 2 года назад +5

      💯💯👍🏽👍🏽

    • @thartsoe1
      @thartsoe1 2 года назад +5

      So sad Really.. why play games ??

    • @knowlegeispower.bym.f816
      @knowlegeispower.bym.f816 2 года назад +1

      Dating in general, u have to pay attention, n protect urself.

    • @brittneysilver2351
      @brittneysilver2351 Год назад +1

      Yes, it's exhausting because if I have to play games to counter someone else's game play I'm no better than them. The good news is that if there are game players there are real ones who are authentic. Just be authentic and you will likely attract the same in due time.

  • @sueblondie1813
    @sueblondie1813 2 года назад +341

    1. Limited phone talks .
    2. Refuse to be emotionally connected or be vulnerable , doesn't listen to your problems , detached emotionally.
    3. Run over your boundaries but stick tight to theirs .
    4. Don't respond to calls or texts fast enough . This makes you accept his challenge.
    5. Refuse to wine and dine you to prep you for minimal effort .
    6. Focused sexually.
    7. They down play how attracted to you they are even when they are attracted to u ,to keep you wondering if you'll ever be enough .
    8. Light put downs
    9. Act hot and cold on purpose . Hot sexually , cold emotionally.
    10. Leave as soon as they have sex with you .

    • @ka8155
      @ka8155 2 года назад +49

      Thank you. Just blocked and deleted an ex boyfriend who has all those traits. Boy be gone!

    • @iamaleo247
      @iamaleo247 2 года назад +18

      Thanks so much for the bullet points! 💯🎯🎯🎯

    • @anxioverted7501
      @anxioverted7501 2 года назад +3

      Thank you ❤️

    • @A-list
      @A-list 2 года назад +3

      Funny I've done most of the above I am a female 😆

    • @loganross4774
      @loganross4774 2 года назад +1

      Thank you

  • @klickingkayasmr7585
    @klickingkayasmr7585 2 года назад +89

    Oof. 8:05
    “Some of y’all are disgusted right now. I am too. …..I’m disgusted that IT WORKS!”
    ~Kev Hick
    Mic drop…he’s absolutely correct

  • @lolenawest3416
    @lolenawest3416 2 года назад +135

    Self confidence, knowing your worth and not settling.. will eliminate all of that!!🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @zelmahenry7300
      @zelmahenry7300 2 года назад +4

      Amen sis

    • @zxcccccc1
      @zxcccccc1 2 года назад +9

      This is for people who aren't there, many women have been abused from childhood and grew up in foster care and are learning to love and value themselves.

    • @anna-kayecampbell1232
      @anna-kayecampbell1232 2 года назад +2

      Eliminate *

    • @lolenawest3416
      @lolenawest3416 2 года назад +2

      @@anna-kayecampbell1232 Wow! I didn’t even pay attention to that. Thank you for correcting me lol

    • @sisterselah5075
      @sisterselah5075 2 года назад

      Most women in my experience say they won't settle but what they really mean is the man needs to be the woman and not them.
      Wanting a man to be effeminate is not the answer. Romance is bullshit. Truth, trust, and a strong, kind, take charge man who works and let's a woman be soft, feminine (not feminist), and a nurturer. I cannot understand why a woman dies not want to be kept by the RIGHT man.

  • @kazzityangel
    @kazzityangel 2 года назад +38

    Man this really hit home and made me sad. My ex was like this and I dumped him once I realised it. Never compliments, emotionally detached, never responding to text messages on time, never supporting me emotionally, no effort to connect or get to know me, downplaying his attraction to me. Slightly putting me down, little digs here and there. He clearly was trying to eat away at my confidence and it worked for a short period of time until I remembered who the fuck I was. I dumped him and blocked his ass and never looked back. He got sex once but after that I was out! Better late than never as far as I'm concerned.

  • @SharlenesJourney
    @SharlenesJourney 2 года назад +189

    Sad days we live in nobody knows how to date anymore or take people out on dates feel like some people just got so lazy that they only just invite you to their house and that’s it. You gotta watch out for many red flags and it’s like who has time for this anymore

    • @oneblessedladyallsbrook1057
      @oneblessedladyallsbrook1057 2 года назад +7

      Well said 👏

    • @sophiadavid498
      @sophiadavid498 2 года назад

      ±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

    • @LeileeBaker805
      @LeileeBaker805 2 года назад +7

      Crazy lazy strategies

    • @merinajalaya740
      @merinajalaya740 2 года назад +16

      I think it's more so that so many women haven't required for them to do anything for the cat and even the ones with standards lower depending on the attraction or desperation. They will tell the guy they don't have sex on the first date but with the same guy they end up having sex with him on the first date. Sometimes they'll lose respect for you not because you gave it up so easily but the fact that you broke your boundaries for them. They low key want you to stick to your guns. Let your yes mean yes and no mean no.
      Also it's like working at a hard job that pays extremely well. If your job allows you to just sit around and do nothing and still get paid the same amount as before for a while. When it's time to work hard again for the same money it can become problem because you're use to getting it without jumping through hoops.
      And the reason why you have to watch for red flags is because we all in general will look for the most easiest route to accomplishing a goal that will benefit us in the long run. Men are great at reading us and shape shifting to what they know we want. But shape shifters always show some sign or another that they aren't really what they look and seem like. So you don't get trick by the bait you have to pay attention. Everyone is trying to get over on someone or something for a better quality of life.

    • @SharlenesJourney
      @SharlenesJourney 2 года назад +4

      Rinagade 💯💯💯

  • @zwartekoffie168
    @zwartekoffie168 2 года назад +90

    My ex has all the 10 signs you talked about. I laughed at all of them. Even I was disgusted with myself cuz I held on to him for 4 years. Thank God I found myself. I'm good now. Thanks to you.😌

  • @teresaolofson8187
    @teresaolofson8187 2 года назад +40

    Forf :) They dont respond to calls or texts promptly or even at all. It makes you work harder ..makes you more willing to cross your own boundaries to get his attention...they take full advantage

  • @kayliathequeen9612
    @kayliathequeen9612 2 года назад +102

    "He may look like a foot" 🤣🤣🤣
    Ladies if you don't love and respect yourself a guy will not love or respect you. Work on loving and validating yourself before seeking a relationship Don't take bull. Know your boundaries, know your value as a human being. When you love, respect and value yourself you become selective about only allowing a quality people into your life. You should NEVER beg for anyone's time or attention. If you do, that's how much they value you, not at all.
    People will treat you how YOU allow them to treat you.
    Guys will tell you what they want and what they're about from the first conversation. Women LISTEN! Don't try to reinterpret what he said. If he's vague, he doesn't want to be with you seriously. If he doesn't talk about being serious and wanting stability he is not looking for that. Next watch his actions, If he says one thing but does the opposite , it's time for you to go home, alone. Don't be thirsty, it's better to be alone and at peace. If you can't be at peace when you're alone, you have a lot of internal work to do on yourself.

    • @paiged6362
      @paiged6362 2 года назад +3

      I agree with you 120%
      But there ARE cases, like mine, where it wasn't just toxicity or player vibes, but narcissism.
      That love bombing is SO for real. I met him at 37. Had confidence, self-esteem, independent, a traveler, great job, no kids....3 dogs, hell i even had a little pep in my step lol.
      I admit and accept my part. But when a persons ENTIRE plan is to lie, gaslight, steal, cheat, crush and just, try to leave you as empty and broken and suicidal as possible, and we arent familiar with that, at all....we never see it coming.
      I know NOW. But my God did it cost me.

    • @craftsentic1899
      @craftsentic1899 Год назад

      Omgggggg dealing with this now!! I think I might be getting played by a forest Whitaker lookalike!!

    • @laken1804
      @laken1804 8 месяцев назад

      🦶🦶👣. And smell like a foot binding gone wrong.

  • @ResetRachael08
    @ResetRachael08 2 года назад +76

    "He may look like a foot..." 😂😂😂 Great points! Thanks for the video!

    • @sophiadavid498
      @sophiadavid498 2 года назад

      ±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

  • @merinajalaya740
    @merinajalaya740 2 года назад +214

    Kev. You make me feel powerful.
    It's like when a group of people are plotting on ruining you while they're around you. Problem is that they speak a language you don't understand.
    Kev you are the translator that saves our lives.👏

    • @jannasterling4153
      @jannasterling4153 2 года назад +10

      Great 👍 comment, I agree with you 💯 you are exactly right.

    • @sky22aje14
      @sky22aje14 2 года назад +4

      Ditto

    • @guacgirl
      @guacgirl 2 года назад +11

      Exactly this. Alot of mistakes we.are making is because we dont understand our enemy's mindset. He is giving us clarity so we have a fighting chance.

  • @nunya5270
    @nunya5270 2 года назад +36

    Pfft smh I'm so easily manipulated it makes me sick. Kev, thank you so much for helping me prevent & protect myself from further manipulation. You're protecting our vulnerable, endearing, beautiful,& loving feminine energies and I am forever grateful for your advice in these videos!!!🙏

  • @shenelove1447
    @shenelove1447 2 года назад +45

    At this point in my life, theres a few things I know to be true. People make time for what they truly want. They value what they view as special and valuable. They sacrifice and make sure you know your place in their lives is only a place you can hold. Alot of this video is 💯 I'm jus saddened it took a few decades flattened tires and busted heads to get here!

  • @marialeonorcobo8962
    @marialeonorcobo8962 2 года назад +72

    I wouldn’t have thought this type of malicious men exist if it wasn’t because of my own experience with one of them

  • @MsCharizma00
    @MsCharizma00 2 года назад +96

    Lord! I experienced every single bit of this 2 years ago. Been trying to heal/grow from it ever since. God bless you for all you do. Silent supporter but I had to say that. You are SPOT on! Thank you.

    • @Deezy381
      @Deezy381 2 года назад

      What are you doing to grow and heal from this.

  • @TanEbear
    @TanEbear 2 года назад +114

    My father was super manipulative to my mom. So was my brother. I adviced him at a young age to be a lawyer cause he'd be able to free anyone with his persuasiveness. My body is physically repulsed by manipulation and it causes me lots of anxiety, fear and anger. Manipulation is literally traumatic to me because of my childhood. I'm learning how to not be afraid of it, know my power and to not use it myself because i am capable of doing it better than any man i know. In the end i think I'm most afraid of myself being manipulative in a relationship rather than my partner.
    Anyway glad you're exposing these men, Kev

    • @sybersandy
      @sybersandy 2 года назад +2

      Same here.

    • @sophiadavid498
      @sophiadavid498 2 года назад

      ±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

    • @lovely1641
      @lovely1641 2 года назад +6

      Ugh. Same. It's so disturbing when you see ppl do it with a straight face and look at you like you're crazy. Like, that's a level of crazy mastery I hope I never reach. You can continue being manipulative but I'm pretty sure I'm gonna stick the same 'no' I said a minute ago. Say your little gaslighting speech and move on sir

    • @janey_oge8865
      @janey_oge8865 2 года назад +3

      We are in the same boat...it is well😫

    • @TanEbear
      @TanEbear 2 года назад +2

      @@janey_oge8865 yeah, no fun. I'm pushing and putting the mental health work in...i wish you the best on your journey.

  • @veronicamackey9547
    @veronicamackey9547 2 года назад +40

    "You can't F your way into a cold heart." Wow Kev, another zinger.

  • @sherrijones9728
    @sherrijones9728 2 года назад +64

    Sadly have experienced all of these and several in multiple men. Took a while to clock the behavior and demand higher expectations. I was easily manipulated because of unhealed childhood trauma. In fact if ever approached now with this BS it's a hard pass because I am numb from all of the previous jokers. It's substance, respect, quality or nothing at all. I wish I could tag these beasts so all women would know from the gate, this not the one, move accordingly girlfriend. Thank you for sharing!! 🙏🏽❤

    • @SharlenesJourney
      @SharlenesJourney 2 года назад +9

      Omg Yesss they prey on women who are empathy and who have unsealed trauma cause they know that they can manipulate and act one one way and then totally change and become fake and do less for you smh these kind of people are so evil

    • @tukessahousen4983
      @tukessahousen4983 2 года назад +4

      This spot on ! Experience recently, the chipping away at confidence was so real ! Glad I for the heads up ! Blessings !

    • @crystalbluewire3339
      @crystalbluewire3339 2 года назад +2

      Throw in the up down bitch look and wave your hand buh- bye. I hope that did not offend you. You are 100% right.

  • @clapyourhands8056
    @clapyourhands8056 2 года назад +23

    Block em ladies

  • @grandmalovesmebest
    @grandmalovesmebest 2 года назад +8

    Good job. To put it simply, if the man doesnt worship the ground you walk on, find one who does. You want a man who ruins your lipstick, not your mascara.

  • @jam1369
    @jam1369 2 года назад +42

    Amen! This is awesome. Never settle for any mistreatment period. You are loved and valued by God.

    • @ibstayfly
      @ibstayfly 2 года назад

      Periodt Gods property

  • @christinejones5073
    @christinejones5073 2 года назад +20

    Know your self worth ladies

  • @TheNisiu
    @TheNisiu 2 года назад +41

    I had an old @$$ dude try ALL of these with me. Then had the nerve to be mad & surprised when he got ghosted!

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal 2 года назад +11

      The audacity of you not accepting his b*llshit!
      How DARE you?
      (insert heavy sarcasm here)
      😅😅😅😅😅

    • @TheNisiu
      @TheNisiu 2 года назад +3

      @@SonjaElizabethTeal right!!! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @roseinharlem8152
      @roseinharlem8152 2 года назад +16

      Those older men are the worst. Acting like that looking how they be looking.

  • @cathy_clarinet
    @cathy_clarinet 2 года назад +34

    So many times you are dead on. This is one of them. I’ve definitely seen most or all of this list, and left. Due to channels like yours, I’m much more educated in these things.

  • @uncommonfavor674
    @uncommonfavor674 2 года назад +166

    I must commend you on this and all of your other videos. Being married over 30 years, I can concur on every piece of advice you give. I have shared this channel with my daughter and nieces, somehow a male perspective goes over better than what “Mama and Auntie” tries to tell them💜

    • @floydwhite1338
      @floydwhite1338 2 года назад +11

      Smart mother and wife. I plan on doing the same. As well as continuing to relay our family principles, in a loving and encouraging way, which starts with me and my wife's testimony of courtship.

    • @Naallaa
      @Naallaa 2 года назад +4

      He is awesome 👌

    • @illusionist1244
      @illusionist1244 2 года назад +4

      i wish my mom would do this when i were younger

    • @traceylennon1204
      @traceylennon1204 2 года назад +1

      AMEN🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @BeingMyoshi
    @BeingMyoshi 2 года назад +14

    Wow this is confirmation. I had a guy I just had one convo with say I wanna meet in person no real convo on the phone, says he dont make plans, and was disrespectful with cursing at me. Like I dont know you sir!

  • @hlhng3706
    @hlhng3706 2 года назад +34

    my first love had almost everything on the list. some guys are just natural. thank you, the video is very informative

    • @sophiadavid498
      @sophiadavid498 2 года назад

      ±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

  • @phoenixrising2759
    @phoenixrising2759 2 года назад +16

    I think Kev just gave up the Playbook, Ladies! WoW! Thank you, Brother!⚘

  • @Shalenda
    @Shalenda 2 года назад +16

    Hunni I was sitting at my desk at work when he said "He may look like a foot." I about hollered 😭😊 Keep hope alive!! Nothing but truth telling.

  • @kriss2340
    @kriss2340 2 года назад +48

    I've been listening to your advice for a while and I'm so thankful for it. It took awhile for me to catch on but I finally dodging bullets and leaving manipulative man where's where they at! I require more and I will remain celibate until I find the right one‼️ thanks Kevin, you like the big brother I never had

  • @toasterpastries5811
    @toasterpastries5811 Год назад +4

    *As a man, I hope women learn from this and only pursue the good, honest, true men.*

  • @dzyahscloud8256
    @dzyahscloud8256 2 года назад +20

    I must admit I appreciate hearing these points even though sometimes its damn obvious to see, but when you are an emotional species as a woman all you hoping for is just a stable and loving relationship, men knows what we want as a woman and they play on our vulnerability.!!!

  • @vesperrose666
    @vesperrose666 4 месяца назад +3

    Never tell a guy you love them first always make sure there the ones who say it to you first

  • @kimberlyblack5865
    @kimberlyblack5865 2 года назад +17

    Yes what Kev said demand more....I can guarantee if you make them wait longer than six weeks most will move on when they are not up to any good

  • @cici7904
    @cici7904 2 года назад +13

    I've never seen your videos, but clicked and watched this today. Glad I did. You are so articulate, how you bring light on why men with bad intentions do what they do and how it relates to you. Breaking it down giving the reason as to why they do things like lightly insulting you to create insecurity therefor creating the need in women to "make up" for what the man has made them believe is a lacking in themselves. I've never heard it broken down that way, very helpful. Coming from a woman, keep doing what your doing.

  • @vhayashi7369
    @vhayashi7369 2 года назад +10

    I've been abandoned and rejected by my family, friends and husband all my life... Spent most of my childhood alone. I'm an INFJ too... So anyone threatening abandonment, please leave! Doesn't bother me at all! I LOVE my PEACE and freedom from Narcissist abuse and NEVER accepting bullshit or abuse from anyone again! I will be alone forever before I accept or settle for bullshit! I laugh when people play games and threaten to leave. I have some amazing friends I treasure and my kids. I have a friend who has had the life from Hell and guys try to talk to her about nonsense and she tells them to leave and says "Don't stop and keep on going!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @anjuliquesvlog6935
    @anjuliquesvlog6935 2 года назад +13

    Listen I didn’t realize all of this until today. I grew up shelter and met my fiancé and he is all 10 in this list. He lied, cheated, etc, etc. everything. I have never been this heart broken in my life. This guy hit everything so far and I feel like crying my eyes out

    • @shirleysaint-remy7115
      @shirleysaint-remy7115 2 года назад +6

      My love, if this is so, carefully and safely remove yourself from the relationship. All narcissists behave this way. It’s all about control. I was told what you see is magnified 10x when married. I had the same experience, nearly got engaged, but cut the relationship fast. His fiery, demonic reaction of breaking it off solidified that I dodged a bullet and lifetime of regrets. Please, please, please. Don’t go forward with the engagement. He won’t change. And even if he begs you back, don’t be fooled again. Like children, women like stability and safety. If he can’t provide that emotionally, physically and financially, LEAVE.

    • @anjuliquesvlog6935
      @anjuliquesvlog6935 5 месяцев назад

      @@shirleysaint-remy7115 We broke, I moved out. Making more money. Met someone else who has a career going for himself. We both are working together to merge our lifestyles and build a family. Life has been good, you live and you learn. The ex has been calling and calling 😂😂😂 apologizing, telling me how changed he has been. Mind you he’s blocked but u get voice messages.

  • @lunchtimeliz3699
    @lunchtimeliz3699 2 года назад +38

    I just love his videos. He’s funny and straightforward. Thank you Kevin for caring!! 🥰🥰

    • @sophiadavid498
      @sophiadavid498 2 года назад

      ±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

  • @Mutsa
    @Mutsa 2 года назад +13

    This video is speaking nothing but facts! I wasted most of my 20's attracting these types of men. If I had watched this video while I was in those situations I wouldn't have received this well. I would have made excuses and stayed in denial while collecting the small breadcrumbs I was receiving. The old me would have said "well hes showing 9 out of 10 of these signs so he must be different" oor "my man is just busy" ooor my favourite "maybe if I stick around he'll change with time" lol. I can laugh about it now but I cried many tears over these men. Ladies, make sure your self esteem is up and you are confident in yourself and truly happy with yourself. If you truly know and love yourself, these types of men will have no chance because you will know that you are worth way more than this type of treatment.

  • @melanieboykin6909
    @melanieboykin6909 2 года назад +13

    It’s not just about knowing your value or worth. It’s about ending generational curses. You can’t do better if you don’t know better. These actions might be normal if that’s all a person knows, so it’s not that a woman doesn’t know her “value” or “worth”.

    • @candacecasey5634
      @candacecasey5634 2 года назад +2

      Sometimes it is just because they perceive you as being more vulnerable than you actually are. You know nothing about someones self esteem unless you know them. Unfortunately they can be very persistent so you have to be " stubborn" when establishing boundaries.

  • @jazrealpretty9383
    @jazrealpretty9383 2 года назад +73

    So glad he used the word “converse” instead of “conversate” 😂

    • @someonesomewhere9254
      @someonesomewhere9254 2 года назад +2

      What's the difference ? I'm not a native speaker

    • @leesteal4458
      @leesteal4458 2 года назад

      How dare you?! Kev is smart. Why do you think he would do that? Is it because he is Black?

    • @User-uw7uw
      @User-uw7uw 2 года назад +4

      @@leesteal4458 the commenter is literally black. Are you okay?

    • @leesteal4458
      @leesteal4458 2 года назад +7

      @@User-uw7uw It doesn't matter if she is Black. Are you okay? Aren't you aware of the fact that some Black people put down, underestimate and disrespect each other because they do not value their worth? Why would she think that a consistently articulate man such as he, would use a word that simply does not exist?

    • @jenniferwalden6862
      @jenniferwalden6862 2 года назад +3

      @@leesteal4458 exactly. And so what if he would've said conversate instead of converse. The point is whether or not you understood the message.

  • @GO-dd1po
    @GO-dd1po 2 года назад +3

    Love the video. Awesome content and very easy to understand. Thank you for breaking down game 101!

  • @elizabethburrell1070
    @elizabethburrell1070 2 года назад +10

    You give the best advice that I've ever received and Thank You so much!

  • @caroldouglas3923
    @caroldouglas3923 2 года назад +9

    Damn!! This ish is right on point!!! Thank you, Kev!

  • @cindeed4422
    @cindeed4422 2 года назад +37

    One guy tried to make fun of my height. I’m very short. Like I’m ashamed of being short. I’m not. That was his hang up not mine! Or was it for manipulation? I thought so.

    • @sybersandy
      @sybersandy 2 года назад +5

      Here one date held my face with both hands, looked at me and told me he d liked my.. ears :))))).

  • @Nnekasprayerpodco
    @Nnekasprayerpodco 2 года назад +5

    Effortlessly reinforcing real shit with humor! Dope videos. 🙏🏾

  • @giftednanointedcrafts6650
    @giftednanointedcrafts6650 2 года назад +5

    Yes indeed, what’s the big rush take your time ladies and gentlemen find out what they’re hiding 🙈 if he’s a good person you will definitely find out in time .

  • @lezliewilliams4443
    @lezliewilliams4443 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for this reminder!! Whew, Lord!!

  • @Emmss_
    @Emmss_ 2 года назад +8

    So true, thank you. 💛

  • @ladyboss2944
    @ladyboss2944 2 года назад +2

    Very awesome throwback 👏 thank you Kev

  • @mariapap8962
    @mariapap8962 2 года назад +2

    Love your videos! Great advice and straight to the point ! Thank you!

  • @michellephillips4394
    @michellephillips4394 2 года назад +2

    Great pointers bro👌🏽. Thanks for these 10 tips. I am going to forward to my daughters. 🇯🇲

  • @briley7779
    @briley7779 2 года назад +2

    The big brother we always needed. God is going to bless you with a Queen my brother 🤴🏽💯

  • @marcy3girls
    @marcy3girls 2 года назад

    Thank you Kev!! Always on point. 🦋🦋

  • @dominiquejacksonn
    @dominiquejacksonn 2 года назад +7

    Yes Keep coming with the videos 💯

  • @apple4914
    @apple4914 2 года назад

    Great video. Much love ladies knowledge is power!

  • @theresagardner7547
    @theresagardner7547 2 года назад +2

    Amazing video...it's right on point

  • @childadvocate8374
    @childadvocate8374 2 года назад +2

    Ooooweee. Had 2 listen twice. Great stuff!!!!!!

  • @amandasadesalako4722
    @amandasadesalako4722 2 года назад

    Thank you for living in your purpose! I appreciate your advice SO much!

  • @bridgetmonday7001
    @bridgetmonday7001 Год назад

    Great watch! I'm glad I got to see this video

  • @lizmatt3314
    @lizmatt3314 2 года назад

    Oh my Kev its all so tru!!!! Love your advice ❤.

  • @shebalove24
    @shebalove24 2 года назад +2

    Grateful for this!

  • @girltalkwithdeedenise9571
    @girltalkwithdeedenise9571 2 года назад +7

    Thank you so much for your wise and timely advice Kev.I am getting ready to start dating and was a bit apprehensive about it but you know what?You are definitely one of the persons that I will listen to👋

  • @arteminor2213
    @arteminor2213 2 года назад +1

    Good job explaining and to the point.
    I cannot see why there would be any thumbs down.
    People that thumbs down should put into words what it's they do not like and or disagree with!

  • @loripalinkas4516
    @loripalinkas4516 2 года назад +2

    So spot on , you're good!

  • @womenwhodate7643
    @womenwhodate7643 2 года назад +4

    Yesss please, this is definitely a MUST WATCH!!! Thank you!

    • @sophiadavid498
      @sophiadavid498 2 года назад

      ±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

  • @Tlittau3944
    @Tlittau3944 2 года назад +1

    You are so bright and honest!!!! Thank you for restoring my faith in humanity! The timing of this is mind blowing! Thank~You

  • @Shellydidit
    @Shellydidit 2 года назад +5

    This guy pursued me for 4 months. I ignored him. Spoke only when he spoke to me. He asked for my number. I said no. He asked everyday he saw me for weeks. I became flattered. So I finally gave it to him for being consistent. He’s never called, just text. He’s displayed 4 of the red flags in this video. He won’t ask me out because he said he’s waiting on me. I told him, “I guess you’ll be waiting”. We haven’t talked since. I’m wondering now if this is the 5th red flag he’s displaying which is the pull away method? Thank you Kev, cause I was gonna say something. But, now I’m just gonna let this one go. He’s cut off.

  • @Pursuepeace0715
    @Pursuepeace0715 2 года назад +23

    after the whole Dababy & Danileigh debacle. I needed a refresher thanks Kev

    • @mayaj2354
      @mayaj2354 2 года назад +8

      I assume you haven't seen zac stacy video yet? You're gonna need to read a bible after seeing that 😩 tf is wrong with men these days.. smh

    • @scooby1970m
      @scooby1970m 2 года назад +4

      @@mayaj2354 just horrible. Almost unbelievable 🥺

    • @Pursuepeace0715
      @Pursuepeace0715 2 года назад

      @@mayaj2354you are right I needed the bible after watching that. I saw the Zac stacy video recently and I was at a loss for words!! He almost killed that girl and throwing her around infront his baby like that againstthe TV and the baby'sbouncy toy. The ex girlfriend said the police didn't believe her so she risked her life getting him on video. We need to be careful out there and the first sign of problems we need to leave. the first time he put his hand on her she should have ended things.

  • @supermommy2717
    @supermommy2717 2 года назад +4

    I wish I heard this messages years ago 🤦🏾‍♀️ but I’m glad I’m in a receptive mind set these days, and this message is a gem within this healing journey I’m on 🙏🏾

  • @teeciewalk
    @teeciewalk 2 года назад +1

    All of this!!!!!! Great content I Knew most of this. I’ve definitely come across my fair share of these types of men. Thankfully I didn’t feel the need to lay down with them to feel validated. Don’t let people that add no value to your life waste your time.

  • @erenslonghair707
    @erenslonghair707 2 года назад

    I am so thankful for this video. I was struggling to articulate these while giving advice to a female friend. You are absolutely right.

  • @veronicamackey9547
    @veronicamackey9547 2 года назад +12

    "He may look like a foot." That's too funny.

  • @karenwilson591
    @karenwilson591 2 года назад

    Thank you soo much for this i will cherish this advice .

  • @KnightGeneral
    @KnightGeneral 2 года назад +1

    Love these Throwbacks ❤️

  • @lyndarutherford2863
    @lyndarutherford2863 2 года назад

    I just found one of your RUclips videos. It was the best advice I’ve heard so far. I absorbed it like a sponge. I’m looking so forward to watching the rest of videos. You are too cool, and friggin brilliant.

  • @walcotttracey12
    @walcotttracey12 2 года назад +7

    Very insightful..wish I knew these signs sooner. Thanks for enlightening us Kev!

    • @sophiadavid498
      @sophiadavid498 2 года назад

      ±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

  • @janine1111
    @janine1111 2 года назад +1

    One of the best videos I watched about dating and men. Thank you!

  • @fallonkeravillafana1812
    @fallonkeravillafana1812 2 года назад

    Thx. 4 this video. I really appreciated it

  • @stellawil
    @stellawil Год назад

    Another great video with much needed brotherly advice.

  • @1983MusicGuru
    @1983MusicGuru 2 года назад +1

    THANK YOU VERY MUCH, YOUNG MAN!!! As a mature woman, I am so proud of you for educating our daughters and granddaughters. I hope they take this knowledge to heart.

  • @thetradingyogagirl786
    @thetradingyogagirl786 2 года назад +1

    You're videos have helped me leave a very toxic relationship. Thank you so much!

  • @jocelynford4209
    @jocelynford4209 2 года назад +11

    Love it! Set your standards. Demand More or Move On! 👏🏾

    • @sophiadavid498
      @sophiadavid498 2 года назад

      ±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

  • @strawberrymins
    @strawberrymins Год назад

    You’re the only real dating coach on here it seems, thank you so much for keeping us safe!!!🌟

  • @ibstayfly
    @ibstayfly 2 года назад

    Facts Facts and more Facts. Thank you so much for this

  • @scorpionbeatlesgirl87
    @scorpionbeatlesgirl87 Месяц назад

    Your content is so refreshing after watching hundreds of red pill videos. Thank you Kev.

  • @babsfohsho616
    @babsfohsho616 2 года назад +1

    Love your videos thank you for this ❤

  • @liagomez2410
    @liagomez2410 2 года назад

    Thank you for this video!!

  • @daughteroftheking721
    @daughteroftheking721 Год назад +1

    So much wisdom, articulated yet practical and relatable ✨❤️✨ it❕

  • @Pheonix1111
    @Pheonix1111 2 года назад +7

    Kevin, thank you immensely for protecting women from players by describing their game playing tactics, so they can easily be identified by women and avoided. Your wife must be very proud of you for protecting women from players. God must also be very grateful to you for protecting his daughters. I am certain that God blesses you for all your work. I am very grateful to you and appreciate your help as always. May God bless you Kevin.