SUPER ATTRACTIVE TRAIT that DRIVES MEN CRAZY | Signs of a good woman | What men want | Part 2
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- SUPER ATTRACTIVE TRAIT that DRIVES MEN CRAZY | Signs of a good woman | What men want | Part 2
How to attract real men and get taken seriously.
Women always ask me what men want. There are many answers to that question. I always try to answer this question from the context of healthy minded men. As we all have known and met less than healthy thinkers on the subject. Men love a few character traits in women and some of them even make men want to take the plunge and commit. A woman who can handle herself appropriately in anger is definitely one of those things men are looking for. When they find it, they prefer to hold onto it. Women who’s wisdom and logic, and femininity doesn’t leave them when they are challenged or upset. Women who manage their words, tones, and actions when things aren’t going well make men feel emotionally safe and secure in relationships. Men are often waiting for the first major disagreement before they decide if they can truly trust a woman. If she handles it well, it can make a man finally trust her and commit to a future with her. If you want a man to fall for you and commit then you should have this character trait, and if you don’t, develop it.
“be hard to conquer, hard to surrender, hard to misuse, hard to mislead”
For many of the genuine/valuable women still out here, who have little to no circles to discuss these types of things. This is very beneficial information. There are so many masks being worn and caricatures being played by "grown adults" today that it's difficult to know who or where the real people of substance are in the dating scene anymore. Good luck to all you lovers and seekers of value❤ please continue to make this type of content. You are sparing people out here.
Girl I couldn’t have said this better myself! Absolutely facts!
@Love YourzTV you hit the nail on the head! 😃👍👏👌
Always on point..direct authentic delivered by the messenger ..
Give thanks
Love you for this! 🤍🙏🏾💐
Trust your intuition. A lot of us women ignore our instinct regarding relationships because we do NOT want to be alone and/or what to be in the GAGAG just to say “I have a man”🙄 Remember....People will always display their red flags.....just do not ignore those signs🙂
“She shows him what she feels like; but doesn’t show him who she really is.”
That was powerful, Kevin.
👏👏👏👏
Then he's not the one if she can't truly show who she is or he's a narcassist 💕
And we don’t show who we really are because of shame, wondering if he’d accept all of her
Don't bring Kevin into my cousins show...My cousin is nothing like Kevin
@@ZeNeptunz that part. Women carry od shame, a man who loves you will help you learn, you don’t need to do that
You don't have real feelings for a guy until he is real with you. Shows you respect and honor. Shows you consistent appreciation and sincere adoration. Having feelings for a man before he does all of that that is a trauma response on her part. It's not honest. It's desperation to not be alone.
I hope God brings me a man like Kevin with fine character, fine judgment, morals, and principles.
Yea definitely
Swear. He’s the only one living
He will ❤
2 min in...he speaking facts. Us strong men want an equally strong woman. FACTS!!!!
This is nice to hear, but where are they? The women I see getting the long-term commitment are the ones requiring the most "help"
@@LoveyourzAF Like he said...everywhere and nowhere. So idk. Lol
@@LoveyourzAF Exactly! They love to pick up the women who are nothing more than dependents on a tax return
@@jayc5756 The everywhere and nowhere, so idk. Took me out!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Reallychris_ 😂😂🤣🤣
It’s called Feminine Energy !!
Kev is dropping gems as always!!
Shout out to you Mrs.Hicks! When a divine masculine finds a divine feminine, he treats her as his equal, uplifts her, himself, his family and then others! God bless, thank you both! 💐🤍🙏🏾
👏👏👏 So well said!!! I'm looking forward to the day I finally meet my divine masculine match. What a glorious ride that will be!!! I pray we all find our divine match(es) who compliment our energy, and lovingly grow alongside us, into our most evolved magnificent selves - healthy & balanced.
Beautiful.
Just so no one is confused, when Kev talks about powerful men, it’s not synonymous with aggressive men. All powerful men can be aggressive, but not all aggressive men are powerful. I don’t know what women think about aggression, but, just because a man displays aggression, that doesn’t make him/mean he is powerful (in his own head) as a man. Sometimes that aggression stems from his internal sense of his own lack of power, is own insecurities, his own internal acknowledgment that he doesn’t have it. Sometimes, aggression is a defense mechanism against feeling internal fear. The fear is felt, is rejected in the moment, and the aggression is the reaction- not a response. There is a difference between the two- reacting and responding (to internal feelings as well as to people…..to me, they aren’t different, but that is just my own way I think about it as of right now). Real power, to me, comes from men who have done emotional work on themselves, maybe have gone to therapy, who don’t pretend to know it all and do it all, who ask questions when they need answers, who respect boundaries and express their own, who take other people at their word because they take their own word just as seriously. There are the type of men I take as seriously as I take myself. In fact, they are really the only people I interact with in any real, meaningful way. They are men I trust. They are men I’d put on my team if I were assembling one. That’s just my take on it.
I love this
I appreciate this comment, thank you
You’re 100% right. Men have misconstrued aggression with assertiveness and masculinity all while ignoring the fact that aggression/anger are emotional reactions that display a lack of self control. Our culture/machismo doesn’t help with this at all. Look at prisons - tons of “manly” men incarcerated for losing control of their emotions. This actually translates to effeminate behaviour. Stoicism and emotional control really should be practiced by both men and women. Encouraging men to never display emotions results in emotionally absent partners/fathers. This leads to broken relationships and broken children that grow to become broken adults. Showing emotions and affection should be encouraged while being dominated by them should not.
This!!! So profound.
Thank you
Wow. This was just me in my last relationship. I was totally a yes yes lady to him. Now I see where I got it wrong. I totally lost myself to him. In trying to please him and be gentle so as not to appear as nagging or reminding him of his previous relationship. Wow. Thank you Kelv. This really helped.
Yes 😞
Yes
This young man right here is Wise beyond his years. . An old soul
I think this is the your best video hands down. I’ve been single for a while and thinking I need to lower my standards because 21 Century dating quite literally sucks but shortly after my pity party my good sense kicks in not allowing that thought take root. Coming across this video gives me renewed hope the right man is out there and is looking for the same thing I’m looking for. Thank you opening my perception!
No, keep your standards. The right man will meet them.
What high value man would be stupid enough to settle for damaged goods like you? He can find a young fertile girl to start a family with instead of a girl with high milage.
I started law of attraction principle man they are powerful. My outlook changed. My confidence changed and i know the guy i deserve is already mine . i am manifesting the relationship i desire. I feel so good.
This doesn’t work I’ve been trying for years.
Have you found him yet?
@@chrissy4803 hello friend happy new day. Time to attack our goals without mercy. yes i did i manifested what i saw in my head and now its a reality. I was focused on the goal and committed to the process without attached to the outcomes. At some point as you keep knocking the door will open. Les Brown said that. He said you knock at the sane door over and over and eventually it will yield and open. Never give up. Yes i call him Royalty he calls me Queen. Hahaha we believe the same things are striving for better and we dont dwell on the past. Every new day we strive to be better than yesterday. Core value discipline focus consistency and never allow weakness or emotions to take control we are in charge. We are assets to each other not liability. We unplugged from everything and everyone who is not moving us towards our goal destination which is to be better than i was yesterday. Every day mentality. Focus on you daily the man will show up. You attract what you are. Work on yourself daily. Get rid of anything and everyone who is a liability, unplug from all distractions. If it doesn't serve you its a time waster unplug. Decide Commit Resolve its an every day mentality no zero days by Marcus Taylor my favorite motivational speaker and pastor i love him to bits. Theme is consistency. At the end of your feelings you get nothing at the end of every principle its a promise. Remember some fights are not won in the first round. You need resilience persistence focus committed to the process. It works i am a living testimony.
@@tamerakennedy6893 wrong it works it worked for me. You get what you tolerate in life and you attract who you are change your perspective and come back lets discuss. Have you made excuse bigger than your dream its time to apply pressure my friend its your life fight for the future its worth the fight No excuse mentality
We have one shot at this gig called life. Your dream should be stronger than your excuses powerful no quit mentality
This one of your best lessons you have done . Today my boyfriend walked out on me because I will not be his call girl. I let him know what makes me feel untrustworthy about him, and calls him out on things that he does to bring my self estimate down .So he tolded me it's over. I BLOCKER HIM OUT ! It hart me but I am 65 years old and he is 78 .We are not young anymore .We need to build our future . And life together .If not with him then with someone else.
Absolutely. It hurts but that's a wise decision. You're beautiful and deserving of real love with a man you will respect and who esteems you 🙏🏽
Definitely!!!!!!
78???!!! So it never ends??? What age do certain males stop being “baby boys/man child”😩😩😩
Sounds like his loss..good luck to you dear.
78 ?, life's too short you've now need the real deal after spoiling him. At least your realising your self worth move on and away from this old narc
Kevin when us black women are strong and stand our ground they say we are “difficult” to deal with. They say we have an attitude. I wish God would bless me with a man who values me. Everyday it seems I’m gonna be single forever.
Yes! This!
So true, I had a black woman told me this because I didn't want to have a drink ( i don't drink) with her and her man. Some black women act so stupid for these men it's unreal.
@2:37 "Too often I meet women who once she likes a man she doesn't give proper representation of herself everything is emotional!" It looks like weakness, airheadness, and the ability to let a man dominate her!" 😱😱😭😭 Thank you for that! 😊😊❤❤
This was me. When I like I guy I become putty and that is something I can’t do anymore
Just treat a guy like you don't care they love that
Lmao idk which guy.ish like these things he's been telling yelled turned me to a beast.i don't like sleeping around it was nvr my thing but trust I have women asking me out n I'm not even where I truly wanna be,relationships don't seem like sumthing I honestly want
wtf
@@pctopgs 🤣
I love how this Man ALWAYS praises HIS wife in front of the world!!!🙏🏽❤️💪🏽💯🌹
Bet. I'm gonna replay this before every date as a reminder! Thanks Kev,, blessings💕
Idk what is going on, but you are dropping gems in overtime lately.
Right?! Maybe because it’s cuddle season, “ I miss you “ season. Staying off the dating sites for the first winter in years. It’ll be tough but worth it.
He been dropping gems for years....so underrated. X
I just meant the frequency. I really appreciate his solid advice.
I'm upset b/c this is a common thing I keep doing to myself. Seeing all the red flags but continue to try to pursue a man by proving to them that I'm a good woman but that obviously does not matter to them. A person will take advantage if you allow them. I'm almost 30 & still haven't learned my lesson. Im gonna go binge Kev's videos for clarity
Kev yet again, this video is a jewel! We have to be authentically ourselves. It is simply impossible to wear a mask forever. From what I’ve observed in my personal relationships is men want you to be authentic and challenge them as Kev said doing so with grace. I love this message
Yes! Exactly
It is refreshing to hear a human being speaking the God's Honest Truth, to both male and female, what you do is wonderful and amazing and I Thank You So Much!!😉😘 I hope that you and your family have a blessed Weekend
Genuine comfortable secure alpha male giving excellent unbiased coaching respectfully.
Thanks Kev
Teach Kev!!!! Emotional intelligence is important.
So in short…be a woman with substance, gracefully do what men do, and maintain firm boundaries.
“What strong man wants rulership over co-operation?”
~Kevin Hicks
"Be different!"
"Be a challenge!"
No boundaries, no respect!
If you're Not on the pedestal then you're on the ground where he mentally placed all those other women "beneath him"!
P.s. I find that No one should be saying anyone is beneath them unless the person did something heinous to them! Ijs
I wish you would do a video on the pathetic old men that think when a woman is out on her own she is looking for a creep. Old men act like 15 year old boys.
Lol right, I was out walking and a older man stopped his truck to talk to me. Sis I kept on walking! I thank God for the discernment to know not to entertain him nor the men that says aye aye. Boy bye 🤣
Dosen't seem like a worthwhile issue that needs to be addressed
These men just accept that they are past their prime and reaching the end of their lifespan.
YOU ARE FKN AMAZING! I think women need to understand the balance of strength and femininity.
I think men need to learn to appreciate that when he finds it.
Excellent analogy Kev!
@3:38 rejecting him with daintiness when appropriate
Challenging him with daintiness when appropriate
Correcting him with daintiness when appropriate
Disagreeing with him with daintiness when appropriate
Educating him with daintiness when appropriate
Ttttttthank you!
You have away of cutting through the bullshit and making things so obvious and understandable. Thank you 🙏🏽
A real man, ‘Leads, without ruling’ fellow sisters x
Thank you for this video. Iam in this space right now. I was beginning to doubt why this great intellectual intelligent guy gives me so much of his time, I thought something must be wrong with him. But you made me realize it's because I challenge him when necessary! We have had out fair share of disagreements but were always respectful of one another. I do get loud sometimes but im going to make sure I practice using grace 💛. Thank you God bless you & your family. Have a great day.
Kev! I’m glad you’re a part of the World! Your advice is gentle but firm, thank you!!!
Bro is a amazing at the value he's giving. A woman who's more loyal to her emotions than any type of commitment or oath terrifies any man, but a man that has a lot to lose most of all.
No one said it better at this point! Wow your content keeps getting better! This very valuable and empowering. Thank you 🙏🏻
Omg this was so me..just yesterday my guy was rebuking me about my wanting to get under him instead of growing in him... lesson learned
Wow that's the wisest dating advice I've ever come across! 🙌
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@2:33 "You need to take yourself as serious as you take him!" Yyyyyes!
Very well said. We are always evolving and we always hear what we need to hear at the right time. It’s the right time for me.
Take yourself seriously as you take him.Thank you
This was amazing Kev, I hate to admit I am a victim to this but am able to connect the dots overall when I think of the times where I put my foot down - tables def turn, but this is real and so true, thank you again! XOXO
A strong person deserves a strong partner. To be a women and be a strong partner doesn't mean to be aggressive.
Wow! So much value in a free You Tube video! Your advice really stands out and you have a great energy. Thank you!
This is one of your best videos ever Kev. What a way to empower women. Love you and your advice! 💖🙏👏💕
Reminder: a woman's strength does NOT mean manipulation.... so many ways this gets taken the wrong way.
I guess I can't speak for everyone but I don't really know how to be graceful. If my bf said something I don't like, I just tell him that it was messed up and I tell him how I feel about it. I can't say I handle it how a man would (I don't threaten or belittle him), I just tell him why it was wrong. I hope that makes sense.
When my husband cracks a joke and I don't laugh, he'll say, "Come on that was a good one," I'll say, well do you really want me to laugh or fake it? sometimes I'll laugh if I think it's funny, but not at everthing. I don't know if that is graceful, I'm just being real.
That’s exactly what I do
Really love this topic.. so meaningful Kev..
I use to be a “yes” type of girl, just smile and nod. I thought it was being feminine but I was wrong… when all my relationships ended it was always super unattached and they always can never say anything bad BUT I realized that was a bad approach. Thanks for the reminder!
Serita Jakes and Betty Robinson are great examples of graceful silent feminine strength especially because their husband’s are so vocal and stand out
Hi Kev Ayanda from South Africa here 🥺🥺🥺🙆🙆🙆thank you soo much I know believe am capable of attracting the right Man 🤗🤗🤗🤗Thank you. You like the big brother I never had always protecting and telling us what's right.
Kev!!! You pumping them out faster than I can react😰🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
KEV OVA HERE PREACHING TODAY💪🏾 KEEP TELLING THAT TRUTH!
It’s true I’ve been dating a guy for a month and I can sense he put me on a pedestal and it put some pressure on me and we talked about it that I’m not perfect and he thought I was. It’s good to bring each other back to reality sometimes but I get what kev is saying that A guy needs to put a woman on a pedestal but also be aware that we aren’t perfect
For sweet women reading theee ....and my....comments - I want to suggest against giving that sweetness to someone who cannot empower you. The caption of the video says "REAL men...,". Just because you are sweet, and you love with your whole heart, that does not make you unworthy. A REAL MAN would be able to EMPOWER YOU- meaning he has the emotional, intellectual, social, financial and moral/spiritual resources to uplift your sweet meek spirit, and raise you to a place of esteem....even if quietly (he or you do not have to post all to social media). But if a guy cannot AFFORD your sweetness....you simply cannot be with him. Because bitchiness crushed produces hatred; but sweetness crushed produces bitterness. If he doesn't have a driver's license, he simply cannot drive. Ponder that.
Insightful and articulately expressed. It's hard for women not to act powerful from a masculine place when some men don't know or are too lazy to do the basics of their role and have confused women's quest for equal rights with saying we want men to stop being powerful (in the form you're taking about). Also,many single women feel we have to be a man to ourselves - to protect ourselves in the world, I mean not all streets are still safe to walk around so there are good reasons why women have to adjust or diminish their feminine energy.
Hey I'm from Australia, I've found these video's to be So Very enlightening, I'm feeling blessed to have someone to guide me through this, as I've not had an empowering childhood or a healthy male role model. Because of my traumas I'm unsure how to navigate recognising who healthy men are and/or how to connect appropriately in a potential love situation.
I believe I was guided to Kev. I appreciate you Kev! Bless you and your gorgeous wife and baby's. ✌️🇦🇺
Since I don’t have a man(family) to talk to. Thank you for the straight talk😊
Great video Kev! I like how you always have a unique perspective and insight into a man. Blessings 👌💕
I’m listening to you and what you’re saying here, and it dawned on me, that the reason why so many women do that cowering stuff is most likely they had fathers who weren’t good men, who sought to diminish their daughters in order to feel good about themselves. So, it becomes a learned behavior, because no matter how much of a dirty piece of shit man their fathers might be, at least when they are very young they love their dad and seek for approval and to make him happy. Approval from these types only coming from their dad when she has diminished herself in front of him. And thus, the cycle continues.
Amen. I used to think I had to make a date great I know know that if I'm happy at the end of the date then a second date is possible if not then no. When someone sees your value they see it but when someone doesn't see your value they show it by turning up late talking any how asking you if you want to go out then asking you where you want to go when you say yes lol when a guy likes you he worries and finds somewhere nice to take you not leaving the searching and stress of finding somewhere nice on you. Xx
Kev!!!! If you were on stage there would be a 👠 coming your way!!! You are PREACHING!!
This makes SO MUCH sense‼️ thanks for the video you helped me confirm something 😊
Thanks for sharing this! This is quite confronting in a way, but definitely confirms my intuition about this.
Thank you for this video Kev
I’m sure I probably watched it more than once, but this time it hit different.
This is what women & young girls need ; HEAL THE WORLD WITH THIS WISDOM. Women are lost...
This was the knowledge I was missing thanks Kevin for breaking it down
Hi Kevin! Here's a video request.
Can you please make a video on how to be a challenge to a man? In an authentic, healthy and genuine way. Not about gameplaying
When he was talking about you show him your feelings and not who you are…damn that hit home
Wowww in 10 mins of a video, this is truly life-changing for me right now. Thank you!
So helpful! Thank you for this perspective. I have never heard this information presented in this way before but it is so true
God bless you Kevin and your family! Thank you for your work!
Thank you...this is exactly what I needed to hear today
This man was doing NOTHIING but preachiiinngg. Bars gaLore. I'm having so many aha's about how I conducted myself during my 11-yr marriage. Why my ex-husband kept saying he needs me to be stronger. And he was having trouble knowing who I really was and what I Truly wanted bc I was a big ball of feelings.
Damn! Always speaking facts 💯💯
2020 became mandatory to wear a mask ...for some this was the perfect fitting
You should make a video telling women how to be a graceful woman in a relationship. Because I’m not the type to argue but if your trying me I will curse you out and leave you. So I’m a little confused because I’m not a push over but my relationships still don’t work out I don’t know what I’m I doing wrong maybe it’s because I have 2 kids lol
God bless you, Kev. I wish more people were as common sensed and wise as you were. Thank you so very much for helping women as opposed to debasing/disrespecting and devaluing us.
This had so much power again. The way you explain things makes it easy to understand, believe in them and get super inspired 😍 Please update daily 😭😂
Excellent video. Thank you very much. I normally take inspiration from women but I get encouragement from your videos and it’s also nice to hear it from a man, from your perspective
Always keeping it real and ready..✊🏾🖤🎬🎯
These eye opening lessons!!! Thanks Kev!
Yes in a men's head not in his bed I like how you broke it down and that's the truth..
I’m sitting over reacting like I’m on the Wendy show 😂 you dropped so many truth bombs
8 min 25 seconds, yes, and the true definition of cooperation, not this foolishness KS talks about. 10 min, bruh, you are on POINT!
This one hurt....because its true. Women are not taught this...not even from the men in our lives that love us.
You are always right on time!
Thank you Kevin, this was awesome!
Awesome Awesome insight. U opened my eyes and my head , go me a whole new perspective. Thank you.
Wooooow. This video is so incredibly helpful. Thank you 🙏🏽
I really love this video , thank you for always educating us ❤️
This is a great video. I guess if you miss someone just say “I miss you” and don’t follow with a “but I know you are no good for me”….
So thankful for this content. It is so important to operate from grace and I really need to become more cognizant of this action myself. I love receiving information from him because he is giving real knowledge
So glad u here to at least even the playing field we need you
As always, a message that empowers women and ultimately fosters healthy relationships. Love your content ❤
Thank you for acknowledging my intentions. Sometimes that’s not so clear to some people.
@@KevHick There is a saying, “when the student is ready the teacher will appear” which basically means when we are ready to learn and grow we will be ready to listen and act upon knowledge we obtain from a teacher who is in front of us and may have always been there, but we were not open to receive the message. Don’t worry about those who don’t understand your message. They likely aren’t ready and possibly may never be ready. In the meantime you are positively affecting many (both men and women) in creating and sustaining healthy relationships, and likely in turn healthy families, and ultimately healthy communities.
There is also an anecdote I read (in a book by Wayne Dyer called Your Erroneous Zones) about a presenter that did a demonstration. He had two glasses - one filled with water and one filled with liquor. He put a worm in the glass with water. The worm swam around the water. He took the same worm and put it in the glass with liquor. The worm disintegrated. The presenter asked the audience what have we learned here? A man at the back raises his hand and said, “that if I drink liquor I won’t have worms?” The moral is about perception and how people will see what they want to see. So don’t worry too much about the negative feedback. Especially if it isn’t constructive. There are many who appreciate the thoughtful and wise messages you share!❤️
I have been swimming in dating based women self help chanells and I used to watch these 2 no 3 chanells but meh just settled on this chanell
Its got non tof that "grooming" feels that 2/3 chanells were bouncing off of their videos so just settled here.
Its not explaining things that makes me feel like he's "dumbing it down" for me to understand which is 👌
He's even calling out bullshit women do especially that one podcast episode(I came from spotify 🙋🏻♀😆) that just want to attract a "commited guy"
Im in advertising and I can smell bullshit continents away 🤣
It seems to me that youre not doing this to "please" us women cause of the alogrithm 😉
Its like talking casually to your close guy friends that are not afraid to offend you cause of your bullshit 😆
Thank you for being real Kev 🙋🏻♀🎉
You are such a gem thank you for tis kind of talks 😘
Be safe and healthy always and sending you and your family hugs from Manila! 🙋🏻♀🎉👏👏👏👏👏
I just got some knowledge dropped on me like a falling piano on a sidewalk.
Thank you Kev for this message 😊
This is it, right here!! He just gave up the in ten minutes!! Most of this, will go over some of y’all’s heads… But, it’s the best piece of knowledge he’s ever dropped!!
Thank you keven I like watching your content it is very inspiring and I learn a lot from it so keep it up