I sleep with him and we had a sex on ourfirst date.and he's keep trying to chase me.should i stop loving him back? Please mind my question i bafly need your opinion
1. Guy is abit nervous and careful (because he cares how you see him) 2. tone (he won't need to lower his tone to be sexual/bedroom tone if he is genuine to know you and not sex) 3. Space (testing your physical limits by coming close to you. Move back if he comes near if you don't want him to think you are open) 4. Compliments (excessive compliments about your look as a red flag) 5. What is he offering (friendship and companionship, he use your number to get to know you/talk, not to set up first date. If he avoid talking to you before meeting means no effort just want sex) 6. His curiosity during first few conversations (talk longer with you to understand your head and heart)
This is SPOT ON!! Women always think that men are so complicated, they are not. Effort = Interest, and this video speaks to that so truthfully. God Bless you Kevin for speaking truth!
Men really are simple except in the era of Love, but effort mos def equates to interest, Madam. The Women who think that Men are complicated fall I three camps: 1. Blind/not paying attention 2. Haven't learned about Men to not understand them 3. Don't have Male advisors (Dads, Brothers, Friends, etc.)
Ladies, I know that the process can be very exhausting, but I also have seen God's grace and can tell you that if you walk in God's light, not only will you have the protection of the holy spirit, but you will have the wisdom and discernment to know a keeper from a creep. The presence of God will reveal a man's true heart.
First of all you're disrespectful and this is why our society is so fucked up 🤦🏾♀️ out here telling sb what they said is worthless 😒 if you have nothing positive to contribute, why bother shutting somebody else up
@@deanna6742 Thank You👏.. Honestly I am the QUEEN of ignoring SHEER FOOLISHNESS!!😂🤣 Truly if more people decided to SPEAK UP "then the world 🌍🌏 would be a better place for you and ME!!
I hope the time NEVER comes when you feel like your talking for nothing or your advice is being taken for granted. Your videos are nothing but the truth and have helped more than you will ever know. Thank you!
I definitely have been meeting too many guys who are eager to tell me all about themselves and answer my questions, but never seem to have questions in return.
Be Careful, ...thats usually the Signs of a Narcissistic Person!!! Steer Clean!!! 20yrs. Later they will Never Change!!! You'll end up being his Biggest Fan as far as he's Concern!!! 1 of many!!!
Rejection isn't the only thing that makes men nervous. Sometimes they're nervous because they're hoping you're not a waste of their time and attraction💁
I've been dating a guy here and there for 7 months...no sex. I'm surprised at how things have progressed. We've gone out and really enjoyed each other's company. He does have a healthy fear. He's looking at my attributes and really getting to know me. We actually have phone conversations and not just texting. So, we will see how things continue. But, it's been great not dealing with a player. I'm in the ATL btw. So I'm very pleasantly surprised.
@Tender Agression Split the bill?? Did you offer to take her out?? Then there is no need to split the bill unless you are going dutch!! Don't be so shallow!! I hope she doesn't see a meal at Friday's as a come up?? Maybe you are afraid of being "Pimped??" Or receiving the label as a "TRICK??" Only low vibrational men and women identify with those terms of endearment.. Besides unless you are upscale dining at the finest of resturants like Nobu or Mr. Chow?? You Need To CUT IT
So funny my baby is in college and can easily peep game....I just told her to not say much and sit down and look around and listen , you will find out all u need to know. ✌🏾
mocca coffee of course but the pain she’s suffered for seventeen years made her miss out on an actual life. her kids are her kids but if she left that guy she wouldn’t have had those kids but others she’d love as well.
"If a Man is not curious as to What's in your head or what's In your heart meaning He doesn't care about What you think or What you feel.. he's just After sex..He doesn't care About your thoughts and Feelings because he doesn't Plan on dealing with them.."
Superficial men have an easier time catching a woman's attention precisely because they are the most visible, confident and assertive. They often steal the spotlight from better quality men with genuine interest who might require a bit more diligence and attention to be noticed.
Kev, i have watched many relationship gurus here on youtube with over millions subscriber , but you are the best and right on the point. I hope women watch your channel to get dating advice. Thank you for helping women , you are fun , exciting and know your stuff. Keep up the good work .
The one thing I don't do is focus on whether a man likes me or not. If he does he does if he doesn't he doesn't. People worry so much about the superficial. Men worry if someone likes or loves them too. So if a situation is meant to be it will happen. If it doesn't it won't. Lolololol!!!
“ After being rejected, underestimated, and disregarded, a GOOD man might lose faith in the ability of a woman to see his value. For every woman whose been mistreated, I can show you a man whose been played by a woman for a lesser man.” Daaaaang Gina!!!! This is too raw! We GOOD women need to hear and be reminded of this more often! I’m telling you, it would totally change our perception of how we see dating and communicating. To think, more times than not we are all thinking and experiencing the same things. Lol. Kev strikes again!💃🏾
@Polygamy not for me! My Choice High Value Women don't have SEX while dating. Dating doesn't mean Sex. You want sex. You make it official. I'm your girlfriend. We're in a Relationship. I SWEAR...I've ONLY had Sex when I was in a Relationship. They don't want to wait. They just want sex.
Too much flattery is a problem I know what I look like my parents told me I was born beautiful and all that other s*** so you got to say something else to get my attention
Facts I don’t mind if it’s genuine but if it sounds like it’s just a way to try and get my treats I’m like naw bruh I’m good. No thank you, I have a man... ect 😂
I have a male friend who uses the shyness approach to trick women that he's nervous. He uses it as a calculated move to get girls to believe he has genuine intentions 🤦🤦🤦
That’s a shame but it’s not that hard to pick up on these guys faking shyness/nervousness..if you get to know them ask questions it’s very easy to differentiate..for example some years ago I met a man about 12 yrs older than me found out he had 2 kids, was married twice and supposedly divorced both women but he would act nervous and his hands would shake around me only when I was watching him..I called BS lol he said Oh I’m nervous cuz I never been around a female as pretty as you 🤣 I told him straight up get the hell outta here cuz I know you’re full of shit 🤦♀️😂
@@nanaabenadarkowaah1800 yes I know right! But little did this dude know.. I was friends with someone who knew him pretty well and she told me about how much of a player/cheater he was and would brag about putting on that shy/nervous act to try and get women to sleep with him 🙄
I was listening to a you tube video yesterday about how empaths love. I guess I sort of forgot how I am when I'm with someone because I've been alone for so long. It reminded me that empaths fall deeply when they like someone. I guess that is why I have to remember as I start to meet men that I have to be strong in my convictions what kind of man I want to be with and if I see that things are going south or I am betrayed I have to be able to cut my emotional ties. The last one has been hard for me in the past but for my own self care it is going to be a necessity.
Glad to see a fellow empath here! I hope you're healed by now. True. Empaths falls deeply inlove because making others feel comfortable and happy is our strength/purpose in life. It's either good or bad. When meeting the wrong person, it could be a recipe for disaster that's why I'm really wary before having relationships to anyone. While being selfless is good, we should not forget to take care of our own selves too (There's this guy that I like but I'm being wary of my emotions because I know my capacity when it comes to love.)
Hello I am in love with this guy I really don’t know how he feels about me I am 65 he’s 49 sometime I think he’s feeling me and sometimes I think he’s not what should I do he’s nice to me but he doesn’t answer his phone sometime and don’t return a call
I’m watching this and kissing my screen in total adoration for the wisdom and self awareness you give us naive clueless ladies... You are indeed a great addition to the universe and I can only imagine how intellectually and emotionally sound your kids will be. Your wife has a real one and your mama did that !!!
I'm 64. Young guys who claim to like older. Some may like someone who is a little young but 64 verses someone under 40. That is some bull crap. They are looking for a sugarmomma.
You're always dropping gems!!! I just met someone new and I'm trying to figure out where I stand with him. Now I have a better understanding. Thank you so much!!
brokenjade21 Hey hey. I’m feeling the exact same way. I’m just saying ‘wow! So this is why it’s been going down like this between men and myself! 🤔’. I’ve been going about this all wrong. Thanks, Kev. Keep it up. I’m enjoying this new light on my past dark situations.
Dude, you're so legit for making these videos. It's like I knew all this stuff, but hearing you speak on it I can see much much clearer of which men have approached me recently, and what their true intentions were/are. Bless your heart Kev! You are appreciated!
I disagree with number 1. Men feign nervousness to get you to put your guard down. These are the real players in my experience. A confident (but respectful) man can be a sign of integrity.
My previous sex buddy (let's call a spade a spade), used to act nervous to touch me after we had already had sex multiple times. I asked him "why do you act nervous to just me, just touch me". Unknowingly this basically have him permission to push boundaries and sexual handling
Sometimes putting them in their place when they come to you with pet names and they do not even know you. Such as babe. I cannot stand to be called out of my name I have a name use it.
i just want to thank you Kevin! i left my kids dad who was abusive over a year ago. got a full time job, my own place, and became a manager. i found a negative pattern in my life with every guy i ever dated, and every situation i encountered with a man ended badly. i realized it was my self worth. i decided to stay single and work on my mental health, and your videos have helped me alot. i lost my dad when i was only 12, and most of my life he was in prison. the last 3 years of his life he was in a hospital bed and that's when i finally got to see him more. i never really had any older male figures to teach me things like this. and you have helped me so much. so here i am 24, and i feel as tho threw you i have like an older bro or something. thank you, keep making videos cause you have helped people like me a lot
Ive been binge watching your videos. You're honest, keep it real and you don't drone on about the same thing. You understand how people work and have helped alot of people it would seem. You're sense of humor and articulation is attractive too. Definitely my fave relationship channel on here.
am in my fifth year of dry spell and after my last encounter it got me so deep coz he told me to my face "I was just using you" and just gave up dating or ever the thought of any man pursing me.if real men do exist well, am yet to know. thank you for these lessons Kev hick
Thank you so much for this video! As a survivor of sexual assault dating is very a strugle for me so having a man reassuring me that Im not just being mad for nothing and that the person Ive been talking to is probably not taking me seriously really helped me see clearly
Kev Hicks I appreciate you. Your honest, straightforward approach to helping women understand the male perspective, motives and actions is priceless; and, so is your humorous way of getting your message and lessons across to us. Thank you for your time and efforts!
Am glad my boyfriend scored well on this list. Going six months of talking n three months since we started going out am glad I found a good man. Just nervous how to keep him interested for longer. Thanks Kev good info as usual
Being you should keep him interested. It is all you can be anyway. Be your true self and pay attention to how you feel around him. Pray all is continuing to go well.
You know, if I'm like most women, we have been approached so many times by guys who want nothing more than sex that we don't know what it feels like to have a man who's interested in more than sex approach us. I was dumbfounded the first time my (now) husband approached me because he didn't talk about my looks at all. I was actually self conscious because I didn't think he found me attractive. I wish I saw this back then! And congrats on 100k!!!!
You are telling the truth on the personal space. It’s just lots of men lately don’t care. You may back up but they keep pushing I’ll you give in. Showing me they can give 2 fucks my personal feelings. So I don’t respond bc I know if they behave like that the first time the second time they will continue that behavior I may even take it to another step due to the fact that you allowed them to be in your presence again.
I loved this video. Especially the part about 7.5 billion people and there being more than one soul mate or perfect/compatible person for everyone. I truly believe that.
Yes absolutely correct and well explained, a man that is interested wants to know about us, or will stop and listen to what we have to say, he definitely makes an effort💯 thank you for this video
That is saying a lot. The men I’ve noticed that have approached me lately were nervous. They started sweating, stuttering, looking away, saying hello to random people to walk by, or “the squirrel” him pointing out something he just noticed on the ground. I never knew how to take them. Thanks!
Im so happy ,because I feel like my boyfriend was like this and still like this, we almost have 3 months and I always watch your videos to compare his action with your point of you !! And I'm just feeling like I made the right choice !! I'm just hoping everything goes well
This was deep. Great video! after a while the basics are understood but getting deep into things like this is helpful to the women who already have enough wisdom but need more tips. Good looking out bro!
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you have won yourself a another subscriber :D
Thank you 🤗
Yep! Sent to four friends already
thanks for your wisdom!
I sleep with him and we had a sex on ourfirst date.and he's keep trying to chase me.should i stop loving him back?
Please mind my question i bafly need your opinion
"He doesn't care about your thoughts and feelings because he's not planning on dealing them"....bam!
"Dont just play hard to get, be hard to get" just wow.
Just wow 😂
Thanks for saving my time with guys who
want to waste my time 😏
So, you needed someone to tell you that ? You didn't know that people should not be able to just get access to your body or mind ?
This doesn’t mean anything 😂
@@a.m.thomas9366 unfortunately a lot of women do not know their value and do not love themselves...
1. Guy is abit nervous and careful (because he cares how you see him)
2. tone (he won't need to lower his tone to be sexual/bedroom tone if he is genuine to know you and not sex)
3. Space (testing your physical limits by coming close to you. Move back if he comes near if you don't want him to think you are open)
4. Compliments (excessive compliments about your look as a red flag)
5. What is he offering (friendship and companionship, he use your number to get to know you/talk, not to set up first date. If he avoid talking to you before meeting means no effort just want sex)
6. His curiosity during first few conversations (talk longer with you to understand your head and heart)
Somebody clone this man and send me a copy
Kara bo bara Foreal ✅
GIRL 😁😁😁😍😍😍
Yas girl! 😀
😁😁😁😁
@bigjayking24 yes for sure.
Caution shows signs of respect. Its so so so true. He doesnt want to mess up a chance with you so hes careful not to get ahead of himself.
Exactly! I do the exact same thing. When I truly Love and care about her, I tend to be more apologetic when things seem to go sideways.
That's also called. Respect.
Yeas my man
This is SPOT ON!! Women always think that men are so complicated, they are not. Effort = Interest, and this video speaks to that so truthfully. God Bless you Kevin for speaking truth!
Men really are simple except in the era of Love, but effort mos def equates to interest, Madam. The Women who think that Men are complicated fall I three camps: 1. Blind/not paying attention 2. Haven't learned about Men to not understand them 3. Don't have Male advisors (Dads, Brothers, Friends, etc.)
Women are complicated. Men NEVER give mixed signals when they REALLY like you. Only when they don't. 😒
aaaaamen
Ladies, I know that the process can be very exhausting, but I also have seen God's grace and can tell you that if you walk in God's light, not only will you have the protection of the holy spirit, but you will have the wisdom and discernment to know a keeper from a creep. The presence of God will reveal a man's true heart.
Absolute truth
Amen 🙏
Amen. Thank you Jesus!
Hear, hear!
And it's up to us to listen and follow it if we still choose to entertain the creep it's not gonna be good.
"Listen Ladies
If a man is not
Curious as to what's
In your head and what's
In your heart meaning
He doesn't care about
What you think and.."
You are not a man so your advice about a man is worthless
First of all you're disrespectful and this is why our society is so fucked up 🤦🏾♀️ out here telling sb what they said is worthless 😒 if you have nothing positive to contribute, why bother shutting somebody else up
Exactly!
@@deanna6742 Thank You👏.. Honestly I am the QUEEN of ignoring SHEER FOOLISHNESS!!😂🤣 Truly if more people decided to SPEAK UP "then the world 🌍🌏 would be a better place for you and ME!!
Where’s the rest?...
I hope the time NEVER comes when you feel like your talking for nothing or your advice is being taken for granted. Your videos are nothing but the truth and have helped more than you will ever know. Thank you!
Thank you 😊
Word. I weed the players out faster. I even go as far as blocking them numbers.
cathy amerson As in “ player #3
Word.
❤️
I definitely have been meeting too many guys who are eager to tell me all about themselves and answer my questions, but never seem to have questions in return.
Be Careful, ...thats usually the Signs of a Narcissistic Person!!! Steer Clean!!! 20yrs. Later they will Never Change!!! You'll end up being his Biggest Fan as far as he's Concern!!! 1 of many!!!
i had one like that too
Thisss
I got out of this recently, it was about him 70% of the time and about me 30%. I had to butt in to get my life info out there it was so annoying.
Or they only say: "tell me about yourself" ... like: Which of my many parts? What are you curious about ?
No matter how nervous a man appears in approach there's always intent in it because only thing he's nervous about is being rejected
Real Talk
Rejection isn't the only thing that makes men nervous. Sometimes they're nervous because they're hoping you're not a waste of their time and attraction💁
@@teshamiller6001 or a waste of time even attempting to approach a woman who knows how she wants to be treated and being a piece of ass is not it
True
Whew!
I've been dating a guy here and there for 7 months...no sex. I'm surprised at how things have progressed. We've gone out and really enjoyed each other's company. He does have a healthy fear. He's looking at my attributes and really getting to know me. We actually have phone conversations and not just texting. So, we will see how things continue. But, it's been great not dealing with a player. I'm in the ATL btw. So I'm very pleasantly surprised.
I'm in ATL too. God bless you in your endeavor.
@@tayanab9580 Thanks! God bless you as well. ATL can be a tough place for relationships.
Congratulations!
Wow that is s rarity! Does he have any single brothers? Lol
Siatta Mass Have you two kissed?
These men are too smart these days they know exactly what to say and how to behave and still it's fake, hff
Yeap they throw that mask on quickly
Thats why we have to be very observant and learn not to fall for their tricks... Know the signs and act on our gut...
True 😂😂😂
Women are smart too. Just stop making excuses for Bad treatment.
Predators. The frog and the scorpio.
"Guys
Who Know
They
Want you
Will do
The work
For you.."
NaturalDivineGoddess--yaaaas!
Truly! We'll go through hell and high water to a degree.
@@STEPSOFPURPOSE indeed..
@Tender Agression Split the bill?? Did you offer to take her out?? Then there is no need to split the bill unless you are going dutch!! Don't be so shallow!! I hope she doesn't see a meal at Friday's as a come up?? Maybe you are afraid of being "Pimped??" Or receiving the label as a "TRICK??" Only low vibrational men and women identify with those terms of endearment.. Besides unless you are upscale dining at the finest of resturants like Nobu or Mr. Chow?? You Need To CUT IT
@Tender Agression I see why you're single. Already imagine asking her to buy stuff for a baby while you spend money on strippers.
Lmao his side captions in the videos TAKE ME OUT 😂😂
Ashley Me too
Me 3 🤣🤣
Me 4
Me 5 😂 when he put the image of meat I can't 💀 🍖
Me 6 😂😂
“Hey sexy” will definitely get you blocked sirs
Right
Or good morning gorgeous/beautiful... Because I have learned these words don't mean shibbity.
Them pet cat calling names. I hate that too. Very disrespectful.
@@felishapittman2778 lol true.
Felisha Pittman That word though 😂😂😂
"He's got to see how
You interact with
Other guys..he has
To figure out if
He can trust you
And if you are worth
Being weak for.."
As a woman, I really like the way that you present the information - straight to the point while also being respectful for women
Expose them mr. Kevin! You are the realest. Thanks, I really needed this. Thank you again.
Wow I love this man. He seems so well-spoken and so respectful towards women. Man, you were raised damn well!
This DRY-HUMOR is LIFE GIVING!!! 🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾♥️♥️♥️
So funny my baby is in college and can easily peep game....I just told her to not say much and sit down and look around and listen , you will find out all u need to know. ✌🏾
Where were you 17 years ago??! This could’ve saved me from 17 years of a pitiful marriage and 5 kids. Thank God I still look good! Thank you!
dont you like your kids?😳
mocca coffee of course but the pain she’s suffered for seventeen years made her miss out on an actual life. her kids are her kids but if she left that guy she wouldn’t have had those kids but others she’d love as well.
@@okOKokOKok1111 oh okay, that makes sense..
"If a Man is not curious as to What's in your head or what's
In your heart meaning
He doesn't care about
What you think or
What you feel.. he's just
After sex..He doesn't care
About your thoughts and
Feelings because he doesn't
Plan on dealing with them.."
NaturalDivineGoddess Gold
Can you explain this to me?
@@lapisstories BINGO!!
💯
This can still be a ploy to get in your pants period.........
Superficial men have an easier time catching a woman's attention precisely because they are the most visible, confident and assertive. They often steal the spotlight from better quality men with genuine interest who might require a bit more diligence and attention to be noticed.
Kev, i have watched many relationship gurus here on youtube with over millions subscriber , but you are the best and right on the point. I hope women watch your channel to get dating advice. Thank you for helping women , you are fun , exciting and know your stuff. Keep up the good work .
The one thing I don't do is focus on whether a man likes me or not. If he does he does if he doesn't he doesn't. People worry so much about the superficial. Men worry if someone likes or loves them too. So if a situation is meant to be it will happen. If it doesn't it won't. Lolololol!!!
Yeeees girl that's real talk
Exactly..verbatim
I need your confidence
facts
Agreed! Too much work worrying about this
*Guys Who Know They Want You Will Do The Work For You* The Entire Video In A Nutshell! Respect Kev 👌🏿
Nadine Venson I still got played from men that were everything on this list! 🤷🏾♀️
@@FuturePsychNurse You May Want To look At The Boundaries Next Time 👀
Truly!
@@FuturePsychNurse "Everything." I highly doubt that, Madam. I know Men quite well. Be wary of guys who act.
I’m so happy for you
“ After being rejected, underestimated, and disregarded, a GOOD man might lose faith in the ability of a woman to see his value.
For every woman whose been mistreated, I can show you a man whose been played by a woman for a lesser man.”
Daaaaang Gina!!!! This is too raw! We GOOD women need to hear and be reminded of this more often! I’m telling you, it would totally change our perception of how we see dating and communicating. To think, more times than not we are all thinking and experiencing the same things. Lol. Kev strikes again!💃🏾
**saves video to private playlist**
Dating these days is just hard period.
It really is
Dating is hard because Women got easy. Make a Man work for you.
@Suny Blaze Finding a nice house, good job. You make a plan and search. Thats what you need to do to find a good Partner.
@Sunny Blaze.. perfectly well said!
@Polygamy not for me! My Choice High Value Women don't have SEX while dating. Dating doesn't mean Sex. You want sex. You make it official. I'm your girlfriend. We're in a Relationship. I SWEAR...I've ONLY had Sex when I was in a Relationship. They don't want to wait. They just want sex.
I've seen dozens of dating, relationships, love etc videos.. None of them had this solid core wisdom like you. I'm so glad I found this channel. ❤️
Too much flattery is a problem I know what I look like my parents told me I was born beautiful and all that other s*** so you got to say something else to get my attention
Exactly. When the guy says, “you’re so beautiful” over and over, I say, “I’ll tell my parents thank you for that.”
@@trekstarsam2494 If a guy says that to me, I`ll either say thank you, or I know! :)
Facts I don’t mind if it’s genuine but if it sounds like it’s just a way to try and get my treats I’m like naw bruh I’m good. No thank you, I have a man... ect 😂
🤣🤣🤣
This video is right on time. It’s time for me to tell him, “Boy, Bye!”
You are so articulate, I love it!
I hope you're getting a professional counseling degree to go with this natural 'talent?'
WearingRose ColoredGlasses sir....that’s not what she said.
I have a male friend who uses the shyness approach to trick women that he's nervous. He uses it as a calculated move to get girls to believe he has genuine intentions 🤦🤦🤦
Nana Abena Darkowaah Trash Bag !!! Ugh !!!
That’s a shame but it’s not that hard to pick up on these guys faking shyness/nervousness..if you get to know them ask questions it’s very easy to differentiate..for example some years ago I met a man about 12 yrs older than me found out he had 2 kids, was married twice and supposedly divorced both women but he would act nervous and his hands would shake around me only when I was watching him..I called BS lol he said Oh I’m nervous cuz I never been around a female as pretty as you 🤣 I told him straight up get the hell outta here cuz I know you’re full of shit 🤦♀️😂
@@heather21231 Wow, so shameless some of these men
@@nanaabenadarkowaah1800 yes I know right! But little did this dude know.. I was friends with someone who knew him pretty well and she told me about how much of a player/cheater he was and would brag about putting on that shy/nervous act to try and get women to sleep with him 🙄
I wish I’d seen this a looong time ago!
London Williams sameeeeee
You got it now though Love. That's all that matters. Some NEVER get it!!!❤
London Williams Like pre-marriage years for me ...
Exactly, at times one wakes up really late ..
Yess you and me both
I was listening to a you tube video yesterday about how empaths love. I guess I sort of forgot how I am when I'm with someone because I've been alone for so long. It reminded me that empaths fall deeply when they like someone. I guess that is why I have to remember as I start to meet men that I have to be strong in my convictions what kind of man I want to be with and if I see that things are going south or I am betrayed I have to be able to cut my emotional ties. The last one has been hard for me in the past but for my own self care it is going to be a necessity.
You don’t need easy you just need possible 💪🏾 You can do it
Glad to see a fellow empath here! I hope you're healed by now. True. Empaths falls deeply inlove because making others feel comfortable and happy is our strength/purpose in life. It's either good or bad. When meeting the wrong person, it could be a recipe for disaster that's why I'm really wary before having relationships to anyone. While being selfless is good, we should not forget to take care of our own selves too (There's this guy that I like but I'm being wary of my emotions because I know my capacity when it comes to love.)
Congratulations on the 100k! Great video!
Hello I am in love with this guy I really don’t know how he feels about me I am 65 he’s 49 sometime I think he’s feeling me and sometimes I think he’s not what should I do he’s nice to me but he doesn’t answer his phone sometime and don’t return a call
@@godsgiftbelton7405 dont be too available..he may not be that into you and just being nice..match his pace if he likes you he'll say something.
Diana Garcia Thanks you
I’m watching this and kissing my screen in total adoration for the wisdom and self awareness you give us naive clueless ladies...
You are indeed a great addition to the universe and I can only imagine how intellectually and emotionally sound your kids will be.
Your wife has a real one and your mama did that !!!
"When a Man
Of Subtance and
Maturity is measuring
You for companionship
He has to vet you like
He's filling a job opening
He's got to assess.."
He said "a scoundrel" lmaooo
😂😂😂😂i was rolling
I hollered!🤣👏🏽🤣👏🏽
Cerzell Don’t you love how he can say anything without hesitating at all?! He tells it like it is!! Love it!!
Right 😂😂😂
I don't know what it is Dutch does anybody?
I'm 64. Young guys who claim to like older. Some may like someone who is a little young but 64 verses someone under 40. That is some bull crap. They are looking for a sugarmomma.
You're always dropping gems!!! I just met someone new and I'm trying to figure out where I stand with him. Now I have a better understanding. Thank you so much!!
With every video you open my mind even more. This video was just what I needed as I re-enter the dating world. And congrats on reaching 100k subs!!
brokenjade21 Hey hey. I’m feeling the exact same way. I’m just saying ‘wow! So this is why it’s been going down like this between men and myself! 🤔’. I’ve been going about this all wrong. Thanks, Kev. Keep it up. I’m enjoying this new light on my past dark situations.
Kevin You are a very stand up guy! I truly appreciate your transparency. May God continue to bless your platform and your family!
"What is
He OFFERING
A Man
Should be
Offering
To TALK
To GET TO KNOW
And to DISCOVER
MORE ABOUT YOU.."
NaturalDivineGoddess 🙏🙏
@@animalames78 ♨️
Dude, you're so legit for making these videos. It's like I knew all this stuff, but hearing you speak on it I can see much much clearer of which men have approached me recently, and what their true intentions were/are. Bless your heart Kev! You are appreciated!
Thank you!
I disagree with number 1. Men feign nervousness to get you to put your guard down. These are the real players in my experience. A confident (but respectful) man can be a sign of integrity.
I'd say a lot of men feign "vulnerability" more than them feigning nervousness.
The ones who actually say to you that they’re nervous might be faking. Somebody who really is nervous is more focused on hiding it.
feel his pulse 😂😂
I really don't think that nervousness is something that can be easily " faked".
My previous sex buddy (let's call a spade a spade), used to act nervous to touch me after we had already had sex multiple times. I asked him "why do you act nervous to just me, just touch me". Unknowingly this basically have him permission to push boundaries and sexual handling
☢ Caution equals RESPECT! 🔥🔥 Powerful!
Sometimes putting them in their place when they come to you with pet names and they do not even know you. Such as babe. I cannot stand to be called out of my name I have a name use it.
Truly!
"Is She
WISE
ENOUGH
To
RECOGNISE
What's
IN FRONT
OF HER
And VALUE
This Opportunity.."
i just want to thank you Kevin! i left my kids dad who was abusive over a year ago. got a full time job, my own place, and became a manager. i found a negative pattern in my life with every guy i ever dated, and every situation i encountered with a man ended badly. i realized it was my self worth. i decided to stay single and work on my mental health, and your videos have helped me alot. i lost my dad when i was only 12, and most of my life he was in prison. the last 3 years of his life he was in a hospital bed and that's when i finally got to see him more. i never really had any older male figures to teach me things like this. and you have helped me so much. so here i am 24, and i feel as tho threw you i have like an older bro or something. thank you, keep making videos cause you have helped people like me a lot
Ive been binge watching your videos. You're honest, keep it real and you don't drone on about the same thing. You understand how people work and have helped alot of people it would seem. You're sense of humor and articulation is attractive too. Definitely my fave relationship channel on here.
Finally have someone showing real interest in me , is so wonderful and new to me even .
am in my fifth year of dry spell and after my last encounter it got me so deep coz he told me to my face "I was just using you" and just gave up dating or ever the thought of any man pursing me.if real men do exist well, am yet to know. thank you for these lessons Kev hick
I agree with everything you said, my only issue is that I've made most of em wait until I was sure they were serious with the same bad results.
Every time we hang out we talk till 4am. Either he really cares or he’s really strategic
Thank you so much for this video! As a survivor of sexual assault dating is very a strugle for me so having a man reassuring me that Im not just being mad for nothing and that the person Ive been talking to is probably not taking me seriously really helped me see clearly
I loooove his articulate wording... Yasssssss
Snaps fingers to literally everything you said!!!!
You should write a book.
Steve Harvey has nothing on you...
he's so real and outspoken, it hurts but i like it.
Thanks for watching 😁
I said, let me see what this ‘young’ man is saying. You’ve proved your maturity. Enjoying the vids ☺️
This guy is amazing
Kev Hicks I appreciate you. Your honest, straightforward approach to helping women understand the male perspective, motives and actions is priceless; and, so is your humorous way of getting your message and lessons across to us. Thank you for your time and efforts!
Am glad my boyfriend scored well on this list. Going six months of talking n three months since we started going out am glad I found a good man. Just nervous how to keep him interested for longer. Thanks Kev good info as usual
Being you should keep him interested. It is all you can be anyway. Be your true self and pay attention to how you feel around him. Pray all is continuing to go well.
I am a new subscriber and I totally love your honesty and transparency, as a psychologist I can say that you are totally on point
Vala Dina thank you so much 😊. Welcome to my channel! That is so validating 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
You know, if I'm like most women, we have been approached so many times by guys who want nothing more than sex that we don't know what it feels like to have a man who's interested in more than sex approach us. I was dumbfounded the first time my (now) husband approached me because he didn't talk about my looks at all. I was actually self conscious because I didn't think he found me attractive. I wish I saw this back then! And congrats on 100k!!!!
Tell em Sam! Thank you so much ! 😊 I need you on my podcast! Will be starting that very soon. Would love to have you as a guest!
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls yes! I’d be honored 😊
This man is the truth✊🏾
Great advice as usual. The sigh at the end took me out 😂 That’s the way I be feeling trying to interpret these dating streets. Thanks Kev!
I love the thing about flirty compared to wanting to get to know you....that’s a real big one I needed to hear
You are telling the truth on the personal space. It’s just lots of men lately don’t care. You may back up but they keep pushing I’ll you give in. Showing me they can give 2 fucks my personal feelings. So I don’t respond bc I know if they behave like that the first time the second time they will continue that behavior I may even take it to another step due to the fact that you allowed them to be in your presence again.
Thank you. No wonder he gave me so much space. He would sit across from me on a different sofa and give me room to breathe.
You explain things so clearly!
The written commentary in these videos cracks me up so much I have to rewind and listen to what I’ve missed! Lol 😂 Great content. Thank you
I just like how you make it clear, loud and short ♥️
More AMAZING advice from Kev! Thank u!
Thank you. I really needed to hear this.
Had to subscribe after watching this! Never knew I was entertaining so many clowns!
Kev, u be saving me from some MAJOR BULLSH💩T, and from jawing somebody's son 👊🏾😎🤣
Pretty Pretty 😭😭 Cause these people’s sons sure be asking for it!!
нe ѕυre doeѕ!!!
lol
I loved this video. Especially the part about 7.5 billion people and there being more than one soul mate or perfect/compatible person for everyone. I truly believe that.
I just reminded myself this today. There is someone for me.
This man is spittin truth ladies. Please pay attention!
Yes absolutely correct and well explained, a man that is interested wants to know about us, or will stop and listen to what we have to say, he definitely makes an effort💯 thank you for this video
My pleasure 😇
Your folks did an exceptional job raising you right 👏👏👏.
Solid advice my brother, as always! 👌🏾
That is saying a lot. The men I’ve noticed that have approached me lately were nervous. They started sweating, stuttering, looking away, saying hello to random people to walk by, or “the squirrel” him pointing out something he just noticed on the ground. I never knew how to take them. Thanks!
You are the realest on the internet. Period!😂
You really need to have millions of subscribers!!🔥💯🙌🏽
In due time😁
Kev be saving lives in these streets 😭 Thank you so much God Bless you & your family 🕊🔥
"Or not duh if you're not used to hearing it.."
"Your knowledge
Skills and abilities
He's got to do a social
Background check
He's got to look for
Signs of emotional
Stability or instability.."
No lie..that’s what stood out to me.
Them eyebrows tho👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
😊😊
Im so happy ,because I feel like my boyfriend was like this and still like this, we almost have 3 months and I always watch your videos to compare his action with your point of you !! And I'm just feeling like I made the right choice !! I'm just hoping everything goes well
ANA rosario Hope everything is going well.Happy for you girl
My kids’ father never asked me questions on our dates. We got to know each other just by hanging out. All. The. Time.
*He should*
*Be through*
*His ACTIONS*
*Offering*
*Friendship*
*And*
*COMPANIONSHIP*
Not just a
GOOD TIME 👈👏
Absorbing one’s intention can be tense if you can’t shift the energy being displayed 🖤
This was deep. Great video! after a while the basics are understood but getting deep into things like this is helpful to the women who already have enough wisdom but need more tips. Good looking out bro!
My pleasure 😇
I'm in awe of your wisdom. keep up the good work and time, that you put in to making these very informative videos.
You are definitely blessed🙏
He always ask me questions. To me that's a good sign.
Narcissists gather data in the beginning too hehe
Every girl should view this video. Thank you.