WHY A WISE WOMAN IS ALWAYS CONCERNED ABOUT A MAN’S MONEY by RC BLAKES
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- Опубликовано: 10 ноя 2020
- In this session I discuss WHY WISE WOMEN ARE ALWAYS CONCERNED ABOUT THE MONEY by RC BLAKES
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"...When a man finds a woman of a proper caliber, she should not have to dig ; A real man presents it!"
THATS THE ONE
Such a relevant topic pastor. Have heard men be turned off by women asking for money. Even working full time and responsibly paying my bills I am turned off by men who don't respect that at times I may from time to time need help. His selfishness catches my attention.
My dad always said that a man will come bearing gifts if he loves you. You won't have to ask because he will present you with his best.
Gems and Daimonds
Wasn't that a whole word! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Money management is key! If he earns a decent income but has no money management skills & won't listen to sound advice, move on, it won't work.
It won’t work 😂....
True Money Management Skills are essential irrespective if you have more or less. This is also a joint decision how to spend the money whether it is his or hers.🙏
Only kids don't manage money well, Amen
Amen
Amen
Even a little bit of money gives a narcissist a sense of power. Women, please pay attention. no life insurance, no car insurance, no health insurance. But got on Gucci and live with his mama! But aware of the fake wealthy.... drive a BMW
👌
And if they have a car his mama gave it to him
💯
@GodLoveFreedom Exactly the same here, but I'm free now. The not bathing thing got me..5 days at a time. Wow!
SHOUTING WORDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
“He has to have fruit, not just potential.” 🙌🏾
Yesss💗
Bingo
I totally agree
That spoke to me!
Most definitely... I tried building the Black man & his White Masseur has brainwashed & taught him well to not build an empire WITH HIS QUEEN 👑
If a Nubian man has nothing to work with, OR proof of some form of success, I’m really not interested.
If he has any worth or content of character/intellect he will SEE WHO I AM in addition to my God given Beauty which he will look & don’t touch & just imagine! I’m A Nubian Queen 👑 Mother Of The Human Race...Lies were told & All has been revealed...no one is in the dark & respect starts with Us & the Nubian Man needs to start taking control & using the Power possessed by the Nubian Queen 👑 It’s 2021 & the Nubian King 🤴 needs to WAKE UP because he has truly held our progress back due to his stubbornness/ignorance on a global scale. I want a man who is like me I don’t want another who sees me as an object to “DO” OR EXPERIENCE as 100 Things To Do Before “They” Die!” With a possible agenda! Im not a fetish! I’m so angry by their stupidity, lack of protection & MANHOOD! Their arrested development nurtured by narcissistic behaviour practices by over protective Mommy’s must stop ✋
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Straight Facts. I'm tired of being a "masculine woman". I'm excellent at playing my part, I just can't play all the parts.
Well said
Don't do it Sis. Stop performing wifely duties for a man that does not honor, protect, and love you by making sure you are financially safe.
@@mw7882 Amen to that.
Ditto here.
Absolutely💯
“She shouldn’t have to dig for it!
A real man Presents it.”
So true
Facts child of god
That's why I'm single now. I refuse to settle for just anything. A man must meet me where I am, or higher
Lmfao
YESSSSS
I am right there w you Sis!
Same here!
me too, I'm single and loving it and it wont change unless I meet someone on my level or above.
My daddy was definitely a provider as you described. I’m 39, a nurse and have yet to find a man that wants to be a provider. Until then, I will still be single, childless and in waiting while living and focused on my purpose. As my granddaddy told me before he died, never let a man fool you. Words to live by❤️
Hi Sis. If you desire children, consider saving your eggs now. Asap. Remain blessed ❤😊
Broke men are attracted to nurses! Watch out! Don’t fall for their trap no matter how cute they are. Find a provider, better to find someone older than you at least 10+ years older, they wanna settle down and provide.
❤❤❤❤
Just because women can support themselves...doesn't mean MEN can suddenly get lazy....Two people contributing can make it even more wonderful than one!
Yes indeed!
Accurate
It's about pushing role reversal... The world wants everthing twisted
I'm dying BLOCk HIM??😁
BLOCK HIM!!!
I made that mistake the first go round. He made decent money but didn't possess COMPLETE provision....emotional, mental, spiritual, etc. Money is certainly important, but a FULL covering is MOST important!
I like that.. Full coverage! Like full coverage auto insurance! 🎶Like a good neighbor my husband is there 🎶😁🤣
@@theadvocate2782 Yeees!😆😆😆
@@theadvocate2782 love it!
Yesssss they can use the money to manipulate you
😊
In a nutshell do NOT fall for the ‘ride or die’ trap.
Where yall ridin to? He aint got no car!
Big Facts .
Struggle love trap
@@missmargmillionaire6421 😂😂😂😂
@@missmargmillionaire6421 🤣🤣🤣🤣
TELL 'EM PASTOR!! I'm so tired of women being shamed for expecting a man to take care of us! Thank you for your wise words of wisdom
Marriage is a BUSINESS MOVE...PERIODT.
On both sides? Or do you just subscribe to the fact that it is for women only? Curious
@@susanowens1028It's applicable to both parties.
51:19 Also never commit your life to a man who does not openly share his financial portfolio with you. Those who keep financial secrets need not apply!
Thank you bishop for helping us women, especially black women understand that it's ok to expect a man to be a provider and not feel ashamed for it.
Hey girl. Us white women needed to hear that message,too. God bless you!!! Thanks again Bishop.
@@LisaSmith-dg1lu I hear that!
I hear you sis 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
Yasss, to all of this. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Yes, #guiltfree for wanting/needing a provider 🙏🏾
A woman should never commit to a man that cannot add to her financially. 💎💎💎
❤️PREACH pastor! I’m finishing up my RN program and I have to really rely on my faith and discernment in dating because “clowns with crowns LOVE a nurse with a purse💰”
This right here. I don’t even tell ppl I’m a nurse . 🤦🏾♀️
@@Prettydarcskn Girl You ain’t lying. “ I’m in customer service” lol👩🏾⚕️
😂😂😂👍🏾👍🏾
@Michael Neal how so?
Congratulations on your upcoming nursing degree!!!!!😊💕
"There's a lot of church-going bums"...lol Truth.
YES absolutely absurd. I weed them out quickly
#Facts
Amen Sister 😂 LOL
😂🤣😂😂
You took the words right out my mouth lol..
I have been called gold digger so many times because i know what I want for my future. I refuse to date a man I don’t think can provide or add to my future. I’m not a shame of the name calling, make me aim higher and never will I lower my standard for anyone. I know my worth.
Same here
@fabianimbert Same Here... I have been called a gold digger because I carry myself very well, know exactly what I want and I refuse to settle for less than I deserve. Gold digger is a term thrown ever so loosely by folks especially by DUSTY men, jealous men.
That means you a gold digger to me because I like you but " CAN'T AFFORD" you. And I ain't got no gold to offer you. Thats why they call us such ladies.
Only broke men try to make u guilty!But if he wants to take from u ...it s number 1 .
Sis, same here.
Same here
Man must be provider head of household real man
Yea real man don't got time for the fake broke busted and disgusted guy
@@blessedchildofgod9112 0000000000000000000000000
God taught me man is not worthy of me if first his life isn't in God being unequally yoked man with no money have no vision or plans.
God is good to protect us from struggles heartache pain when we are not led by emotions.
God taught me now guard my heart look for fruit man possess patience is virtue after being married to malignant narcissist.
God got me out hell from 10 years working on building me up to be Queen daughter that will not settle for any man .
@@angeliquechronicles3579 Thank you for the warning and as a friend I dated for a Year and he ghosted me to go back to a old girlfriend and when a male friend he try to be nice to me again! I don’t have time for this Man he was being a Narcissist then and is been 6yrs ! Thank you God for opening my eyes not even as friend ! I’m not being unequally yoke with no man brother friend or mate . I had my brother around me and before that my daughter cousin .. I can smell one when I know who you are !!
@@madelinebigio7565 sounds like my ex bf. He wanted to be a friend after the break up. Naaahh if he wasnt nice as a bf he's not gonna be a good friend either Yep! bye bye dude. I dont shed tears any more. He has kept the mask on for the new gf but I KNOW that mask will slip. She will be sorry. I just keep listening to Pastor Blakes .. he has great information! He is filled with God's love !
No money means lack of wisdom and usually an addiction too. Covert or overt. Wasting all of his time doing stupid stuff. No respect.
You hit the nail on the head - they are victims of “everybody” in their own words - but what that means is “I’m a USER and an ADDICT”
My Fair Lady We were brainwashed by soap opera deceptions, unrealistic romance movies and MTV degrading us women to be portrayed as hoes
This is so true...
Exactly!
This👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
"No provision no submission." "You got to pay the cost to be the boss". Love that.
A good way of seeing it 😇😍
Many african men dont see it that way. For them born as male makes them believe submission is a right.
I wish more men were watching this. All I see are women in the comment section. Men need to be watching this also.
They may be ... but you, sir, were brave enough to speak and support. Much respect...
This truly bless me, I am 28 years old with my own house job and when men approach me they are very cautious.. I will not allow a man to be in my life with NOTHING ‼️
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Very factual at “ a woman want to lay down at night and know everything is ok” women are forward thinkers. Lack of stability scares me and bring me anxiety. Stability makes a woman feel secure .
Taking care financially of a man is even bad for your health, I'm talking about my experience. Unfortunately I accepted not so long ago a situation to support my partner financially UNTIL he could get a job. This means that I worked and he was waisting his time at home watching football. It turned out that he was an abusive narcissist, etc... For me as a woman, this situation was a constant stress. Like I had to go fighting each and every day - was a woman designed for this? Well, not exactly. So it affected my hormone system, because our body is wise, as I went on war each and every day, my body needed more testosterone, estrogen, less progesterone, like little by little I started to become a man. Okay, I didn't change sex, but it produced a tumor in my uterus which was a result of these hormone problems. And it's all because of loosing contol over me as a female! So girls, this is serious, you have to respect yourself as a woman otherwise you can easily accept an disrespectful clown in a crown abusing you, turning you into their mother, father, whatever but their partner
yes, i can relate. I developed acne and chronic fatigue. I had to take progesterone pills.
Thank you for sharing ❤️
I’m glad you woke up and came to your senses.
Yes you are right. I think this is why some women shoulders are broad and why she has facial hair. Women were not built to carry a man nor carry the load of a relationship mentally, physically, financially and emotionally.
@@a.8774 🤦🏾♀️ if a woman has broad shoulders, it’s because she has broad shoulders. That has to do with their body type. Smh.
Now if a woman has facial hair it can be a sign of genetics or maybe even an issue with a hormone imbalance. There are different factors that causes facial hair in women.
Thank you, marriage is not about feelings! Feelings come and go!
True!
I'm not enabling a grown man; I trapped myself into that and I stopped that because I work too hard for Him to sit in my house all day and eat the fruit of my labor while I'm out in the streets all day earning an honest living; I wised up and got rid of Him.
He should not just be working but willing to contribute to all financial obligations.
We may contribute, GOD made the man to provide.
Thank you Pastor. As women we are sometimes made to feel guilty for considering the money.
Never feel guilty as a woman for considering the money.
Absolutely they pull the hostile gold digger attitude
@@ms.a806 And men shouldnt feel guilty for chasing the young and beautiful.
@@jgun4125 You're right
I’m 41, I’m considering the money for sure it’s a must your able to provide & sustain us financially! Nothing else to discuss.
Say that, Pastor!!! The word of God says: A man who doesn't provide/or leave an inheritance for his family is worse than an INFIDEL!!!
In layman's terms..he is a
LOSER!
In my humble opinion, when you take care of a man, you CASTRATE him. Deep inside, he doesn't feel like a man. So this is one of the reasons why a man that you have to support will cheat on you. He has to cheat on you to feel like a man. Again, he is a LOSER!!!
The word of God also says that: if a man doesnt work, he doesn't eat.
As Pastor Blake's said, it should bring a real man joy to provide for his wife and family.
Amen
very well said, why is this knowledge kept from us?
These men in Texas marry a
Hard working women to only
Quit working after he marries
Her. All in their plan unknown
To the now wife.
@@marshamcdonald1475 That makes me so sad. Some of these so-called men are just PITIFUL, PIITIFUL, PITIFUL!!! They know how to play the game until after the wedding. He planned on being a bum the whole time! SMH
@@wilmatouw4397 It isn’t kept from us it’s written. What it shows that Male Pastors in Churches & Their Wives aren’t looking & sharing the word written & tackling the demonic cancer manifestation which is destroying Nubian women’s lives & giving them true guidelines on what God says is acceptable & protecting fake “Christian” men sitting in their churches & pussy footing around real issues endured by Queens 👑 which need to be openly spoken about, regardless whether it ruffles feathers of some boys with arrested development & still running home to mummy wanting her biased opinion.
This is a Stronghold which needs to be broken once & for all! The legacy curse is continuing for our younger Queens 👑 & God helps those who Help Themselves As A Collective, which Nubian people are still being devilishly selfish to each other. God Isn’t Sleeping & Watching Soooo closely right now! It’s 2021!
@@wilmatouw4397 LIIIIIIIKE REALLY REALLY THOUGH. THIS NEEDS TO BE CLEARLY FUCKING SAID. MOTHERS DNT SAY NOTHING AND FATHERS PROLLY DOING THIS TO OTHER WOMEN....
THESE CONVOS NEED TO BE NORMALIZED. I’ve had these convos with my father but sheesh. We need to tell our sisters... and brothers must tell their sisters too so they can also be held accountable.
Today, most men EXPECT the wife to do all the mothering, shopping, unpacking groceries- cooking/ cleaning, homework- and WORK F/T
7 billion people on the planet expand your options ...traditional men still exist❤
She’s right! I simply stopped cleaning and being proactive about dinner. I ain’t nobody’s maid.
Men wanna do the bare minimum in the relationship. They should be providing financially since the woman has to cook, clean, raise kids.
The first date and he asks a woman to pay bill or split bill it’s a good sign he won’t provide for his children. This happened to me and now child support are chasing him for money
Damn I'm sorry you had to experience that
Don’t give up! Keep having the court take care of it. When men get away with this it only gets worse
Yet you gave him a child?
amen, lesson learned
I cried during this entire video. This hurts to not have a real man that you can depend on.
I feel your pain
Let. Him. Go. See what happens.
You deserve better 🎉 Dispose of Him if you haven't already.
Some men have a job and still have no business being in any relationship
Sisters please stop dealing with jobless bums, that’s hopeless! As Bishop said “You gone need luck, cause the blessing ain’t on that!”
Ladies listen to RC Blakes. One of my classmates from middle school divorced her husband after 3 years of marriage because he wasn't a provider & couldn't keep a full time job. She was paying majority of the bills.
She did the right thing
Married unknowingly to a covert malignant narcissist for 33 yrs, who became an alcoholic and drug addict, we both worked businesses together and were very successful. We accumulated alot of wealth and assets jointly. In the end, he stole everything and said it was all due to him when he never would have amounted to anything without me. That was the day I gave it all to God, gave him all the things he stole and wanted, knowing myself that the only thing that ever really mattered to him, he could never have again. Me. And he has gone clinically insane trying to replace me which he will never be able to do that will most likely lead him to prison, over dose, or suicide. Mental illness does play the most prominent part in self hate and self deficiencies. If they have no empathy, they sold their soul to Satan and want to take you to hell with them.
Powerful
Say that again sister!
A wise woman has her own money as well
@ComplexElegance thank You.
"You got to pay the cost, to be the boss." Well said.
That's why I am a single independent black woman take care my own mortgage and my own bills I can do good with the help of God by my self I don't have time for foolishness pastor
I'm 36, no kids, traveling the world & focused on my career
Lol @Janet 😆
"If dude don't have no provision it probably means he has no mission" Right, Pastor!!🙌🙌
I never would consider a man and his potential. For me that’s a waste of my time. Get it together then reach out to me. ❤️
If he gets it together, why wouldnt he just go for the fine 19 yr old instead?
@@jgun4125 Because he wants a mature woman he can lead intelligent convesations with and who can understand him,beside just having sex with him?
Amen!
@@jgun4125 if a man has money but wants an immature 19 year old because she's "fine" then he by no means has it together. Did you even listen
Lately I’ve met men ( and I’m 49 , 50 in a few weeks) who don’t want to work for anyone else. Mind you these men are not sure fly employed or may I say transitioning. Now when I disagree with having a relationship with these clowns , since my divorce, I’m told “ Oh , I see why y’all not together “. Of course I didn’t fall for the Narc move. It just shows me that listening and applying Gods word is ESSENTIAL. My advice and one thing I attribute to looking young and feeling great , is not having men in my life to bring me down. I’m enjoying being single . It’s my time and I thank God. My future husband is somewhere being prepared for me. God Bless Everyone
Sure grandma 😂
I am so thankful that you are doing THIS work. ALL women need it whether we are black or white. God Bless You Pastor
that has nothing 2 do with anything.
No disrespect but the majority of women that work two and three jobs work harder than men ( the Boss) single women with a house full of babies( baby mamas) and not married or on assistance(some of them) and that are masculine enough and stupid enough to provide for a man and he sits at home are black women. Non black women the majority are married and they have a great life structured the husband makes six figures she's the housewife not saying black women are not like that but the statistics don't show that in the highest favor for black women ... And God forbid when you are a black woman that's educated no kids traditional and you want to be a stay-at-home wife eventually you get ridiculed by men and women
This rings so true to me. I was married and he worked but was very stingy with helping with the household bills. That to me was worse than him not working or helping. It’s like he was dangling a carrot in front of me and blatantly not helping to punish me in some way. So happy I’m divorced and healing. Thanks to you Bishop ❤️
That happened to me too. No way. happily divorced !
I went through the same exact thing. Dealing with a stingy man is a complete turn 📴
Yes! Just broke up with a boyfriend that prided himself on being “frugal” and “conservative”. He was the CHEAPEST man I have ever met in my life that would not take me on a date anywhere! I was so scared of what it would be like being married to him. I think your word “stingy” is perfect. Guys... if you can’t afford to have a woman in your life, STAY SINGLE.
@@julieanne413 my current situation that I’ve decided it’s not gonna work. He offers nothing to help at all. He constantly says I Love You, I Wanna Marry You, I tell him so what, I’m not marrying no one that shows me by his example that it’s just not on him, we’ve had conversations about this & still no signs of change.....................I’m out!
@@tacowboys6890 You won’t regret it!!!
I don't settle for less my ex know!either love me treat me right take care your child or kick rocks .....never trust a man that never provide for your family
“You had the cheesecake & three ice teas... all I had was water.” 🤣🤣🤣😭😭
That had me rolling 🤣🤣🤣
Ok....😭😭😭😭😭
Me too😂😂😂
@@joyadams6005 I was weakkk!!!
@@SierraSharae1 that line still has me LOL and I watched this video weeks ago.😂😂
Who are these dislikes? They must have broke men in their lives 😂
You know it. Truth hurts especially when it comes from R.C. Blake
The dislikes are from the broke men who don't want to have to provide anything to get a wife. They just want one to fall in their struggle laps while laid up in mama's basement.
They are the broke Men
I was thinking the same or they are the broke men 😂
@@malikastone
Precisely & don't have anything to offer but dust
Very true - I had a man who I decided to leave due to his possessive and controlling nature. But he did provide as much as he could but it wasn't enough (because he really couldn't afford it). In addition, he had no retirement plans and or a future plans that made me feel secure. I have to look out for my future. I've learned love is not enough.
But an easy meal ticket is.
That was God saving you!
@@lynetteclay 😊
I met someone & figured out about 2 months into “getting to know him” I realized he can’t afford to take care of me. Mine you he’s 44 & I’m 41, I decided to continue the process of seeing him thinking maybe he has a plan he’s working on bettering his financial situation but nope 7 mos. in he seems content where he is! So it’s a no for me I won’t be entering into any relationship with him. It’s best to just simply be friends!
That's right I always said love doesn't pay mortgage, buy a boat pay for vacations or anything for your lineage 😎
While you out hustling taking care of the sorry man.. he'll be at home on dating sites.
Ohh chile I've seen that before.
Been there..
Yeap!!!
This is CON-FIR-MA-TION!!!!! 🙌🏿
This man is everything! WOW
Sisssss
Some women love their spouse. However a functional alcoholic at night produces violent, raging, anger when their plans are evil and the women doesn't obey. No women wants to give herself to a man that is taking care of other women. Extremely difficult situation to get out of. Years of mind games and other women. Ladies learn about Narcissistic Personality Disorder and addiction.
It is SO nice to hear a mature man hold other men accountable! Today you confirmed for us ladies that our intrinsic concerns & desires in a man are not awry.
“She shouldn’t have to dig for it!” Love! ❤️
I wish I had this information 40 years ago. My life would have been so different.
Me too. I always seem to come across wisdom after the fact.
Don't be discouraged and don't give up
The most realistic pastor I have ever seen. ❤️
I’m watching the recorded version: but you know it’s gonna be good when he got his hat on and the lights low 😊 🎩 😎😇🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Absolutely
😩😂😂💯
He in pimp mode but for the Spirit instead...look out darkness!!!! Some light gonna spread
A Man Doesn't Have To Be Rich But He Must Have A Vision and A Work Ethic. 💎💎💎
Thank you Pastor for the wisdom and advice you share with us!!! I had a man who wanted to sit at my table and eat well i.e. seafood and be entertained but refused to do anything for me, especially financially, so I got fed up and kicked that loser to the curb and refuse to let him back in my house!!!
Why? I mean it , WHY you needed someone who hasn’t proven to be a great man in your house, your bed, at your table???
Try dealing with someone that has a dream of striking it rich through constant play of lottery tickets instead working with your spouse to plan a budget and save to purchase a home for your family. Smh.
Run Forest Runnnnn....🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Man....you got me crying laughing because I have been in this situation....the part u said dont have nothing to bring to the table but an appetite.
It's so refreshing to hear a man speak with great knowledge on this subject.
Wow‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ Well said. I'm a widow and I refuse to settle for less. I'll rather be by myself than to take care of a man. To hear a man stress the issue of a man being a man is awesome ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
“ No,no,no! I don’t want pray...I want Pay!”💰
Pastor Blakes- I spat out my damn smoothie! 😂😂🙏🏽🙏🏽💯💯
Thank you so much for this whole WORD!!! 💗💗
Pastor I love that one: " You gotta pay d cost 2 b d BOSS!"
Men who don't provide is like having a car that won't start ...lol😂😂😂😂
SOME OF THESE MEN OUT HERE ARE TOTALLY CLUELESS. . . CLOWNS WITHOUT THE CROWN
Many are CLOWNS with A CROWN lol - Thank God for my father & uncles providers/leaders
“Hobo sexual!” Haha
God I pray one day a godly man who understands his role will find me ❤️
I don’t wanna be a bum. I really wanna take care of myself and what God has call me to do because I know I can’t be with a Women unless I complete these two things. Seek ye first the kingdom and everything else will be added on to you. I have work ethic it’s just this world don’t have nunthin that really interest me besides truck driving and music
Truck driving IS HARD WORK! & It does support you....maybe more....
There is nothing wrong with driving a truck. There is good income in truck driving, but a job that calls for sacrifice. The key is to find a woman that will be supportive and faithful to you and the two of you can conquer great things. God bless. I am also a truck driver. Keep your head up. There is no shame in our profession. Only pride for a hard job well done.
call me. I might have something in finance & wealth building that fits you do you can do music full time . 414-233-0830. I love your spirit.
@@LisaSmith-dg1lu the world would be a tangled mess without truck drivers! Not only is there no shame, ya'll are neccessary and appreciated, thank you!
Well do those things. Whatever you put your hands to do and it provides do that!
Very true Pastor, since listening to you i have grown so strong mentally and spiritually, Bless You...
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All young ladies need to hear this they are so blinded
BLOCK HIM. Thank you PASTOR!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why a wise wife (woman not gold digger) always concerned about money;
1 - To men Money is sign of love as Sex to women.
- Women work for women they love.
2 - Money is security-basic need for a woman.
- Ensuring every thing is covered
- Visionary...ensuring the future is covered.
- No pray 4 money, pay
- Only wisdom + money = defence.
3 - A woman's future & 4 her chren is depends on man's drive & vision to provide.
- A wise man leaves inheritance for his children's children.
4 - A masculine man will insist to provide.
5 - A wise man will always have resources.
Needed ‼️ I’ve been a helping hand for too long in my past relationships. I felt as though It would be “shallow” of me to be concerned with a mans finances b/c I’m not in it for the money. But as I grow and talk to women I’ve learned that is something to definitely take into consideration. Just because I take that into consideration DOES NOT mean I am in it for money... I truly understand that now.
Yes, you’re just being smart and wise just like RC Blake’s said. Don’t let those negative thoughts keep you from your blessings. ❤
I am Muslim and I totally agree with you Pastor. It's exactly the same thing we have in Islam. The man is the provider and protector for his family. My father is our provider & protector and I will only settle down with a man who will fully provide for me and our future children.
I am my father princess and will be my husband Queen . Periooood!
Bless you ❤
Get married to your father then LoL ? Incest ? Hell yeah I bet your religion has provisions for that 😂
Yes, you've gotta pay the cost to be the Boss. Luv it!❤
These men nowadays want a woman who has money .saaad
Thts why am still single since I subscribed to your utube channel am wiser ...
@Victoria Akoms These Are called "DUSTY" aka BROKE grown boys...
Real Men PROVIDE, period!!!!
I'd rather be single than ever settle for less than I deserve. If you approach me the wrong way. BYE✌
Its weman out here who do the same! We need to stop bashing each other, you Got weman with six kids and no job looking for a baller so hey it's dusty on both sides but I would never judge im not God
Its like men and weman are in a battle with each other these days what's up with that shit is corny
Your wife and family are very lucky to have you. Men like you are few and far between these days.
When she leaves, I will be in the suitcase! 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Lmaooo
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Bonus points for the part about submitting to a husband provider and not to a boyfriend. Truer words never spoken
A Husband Is A Protector and Provider. 💎💎💎
Pastor Blakes I just appreciate you so much. My way of living exactly, I'm not settling for nothing but a Whole Man... The total package.
The “I got it” piece made me want to cry. I’ve always wanted that type of security and have never had it. 🥺
There’s a lot of Church going bums! Submit to a man with a mission AND provision.
I'm an Atheist but ooooo weeeee this message hit the SPOT!!!!!! *standing ovation*
He has alot of good messages
I'm humanist pantheist. I have seen a Buddhist send him love too. This guy is on point to everybody.
I been waiting on you at tha doe!!!! Come on now Pastor!!!!🙌🙌🙌 I knew I wasn't a fool for feeling like I've felt with requiring a man to work and be a provider ! A lot of these men dont want to work! Some see me able to take care of myself and think automatically they dont have to do anything!! Wrong! Yes I still need you!! I need you to make me feel safe a secure. I still need you to provide!!!
So truth even some woman 8months pregnant and man still wants her to work oh no nahh facts real man don't allow that real provider🙏
This was gold. I’ve been saying this forever. And another thing, a real man provides without asking. When a man really cares for you, he will ask you about your needs and take care of it. A man should enter your life and make it better. If he doesn’t elevate your current position, financially, emotionally or spiritually- he’s not doing his job as a man and if he can’t provide during the courting or relationship stage, it also shows what to expect during marriage.
In our culture, a man is expected to provide and if a man cannot provide, we are discouraged from even courting with him. My mother and aunts would constantly remind me that when dating you should present the man with your plans, your monthly expenses and investments you need him to take care of. If he doesn’t provide something or make no effort to help out- he’s not the one. And if he has no vision, no way of making provision then he’s not the one.
A man should never see you doing the heavy lifting, working two jobs, stressing, being all manly or bossy to make money to take care of of yourself- and not Offer a hand.
No it’s not gold digging, it’s the mindset that a woman should never get with a man who cannot provide and secure her future.
Of course men woman shouldn’t just look at a man for only what he can provide because a man is worth more than his money but baby, if you can’t provide you are taking up space.
I have a 66 year old man who has asked me to marry him a few times. ABSOLUTELY NOT When I met him he claimed he worked, he would come bring food and smoothies to my job. I was I a verbally abusive relationship and he was my confidant. I now live in his home with my own room. His house was in disarray..quite filthy I went through it and clean from top to bottom, I cook 2 times a day because I work so headed to work during breakfast hours. Come home from work....he's been sitting around all day or went out for fruit or some household items he needs. He is laid off...he doesn't work. But steady asking me to marry him. He done lost his mind....
I wouldn’t even entertain him.
Just stack your money and move when you can hun. I cannot live in a dirty house. When I was homeless, this man said I could live with him. His house was disgusting. I spent the night 1 time and never returned.
Just leave him
It’s the way I’m laughing the entire video because of your delivery and side-eye 😂not only are you wise, but you’re HILARIOUS.
LIKED: "No provision no submission...you've got to pay the cost to be the boss!" Few men really understand this, and it's a crying shame!
“Men Provide!” A Man Provides! RC ♥️🙏🏽👏🏽
It was the block him for me. A mighty word, keep doing God’s work.
I am great ful I have a man that provides for me .In my previous relationship he was always complaining about how much I made him do jobs he didn't want to do
Oh I know some grown boys are going to be mad at you for this message, but men understand.
I learned this from watching my parents. One time my mother was talking with my father about working over time at her job. He said “no, I got this.” Then he went and worked double shifts. He told her to just look out for his daughters and the home.
I asked him about this later in life and he told me no man will sit back and watch his woman work herself to death.
The men you talked about who ride the waves of richer women usually either cheat and/or leave her when he gets on his feet. At least, that is what I’ve seen so many times.
Jesus Jesus Jesus teach this is my very first time ever hearing a man teach this it brings me to tears and makes me laugh God is so amazing so wow!! thanks so much
I have never had this and have been the fool by accepting this I'm so grateful thank God he makes a way of escape for us in Jesus name
A partner in every sense of the word is a wise investment indeed👌
Ooh.....I sat up about 2 minutes in...Pastor Blakes men need to hear this. Make it plain Sir. A women after finding the the right Caliber man SHOULD NOT have to dig.... A powerful RANT
Here for ALL the rants!! Yes indeed!
Are you worth it though?
@@jgun4125 before we ever question someone and their worthiness we should make sure we are. Even then, I'm never quite sure what others are expecting. Flaws and all most think they're worthy. If we are worthy of God's goodness and we fail him daily then certainly....but that's part of the dilemma today, we are quick to ask the question of others, quick to point the finger but havent addressed the wo/MAN in the mirror. But to answer ur question ABSOLUTELY worthy
You exactly right earn have my own money but must make sure next man finances are together you asking for trouble