SEVEN TRAPS WOMEN FALL FOR IN RELATIONSHIPS w/ RC BLAKES
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The Traps
1. When a man makes you chase him, only to consistently reject you
2. Letting a man move in into your house
3. Unclear ex relationship status
4. In a private/secret love affair {he hides you)
5. A high value lifestyle image (the brokest ppl in the world wear the biggest labels)
6. The words "I Love You"
7. I will change for you "When a person show you who they are the first time, believe them"
Thank you very much for the notes!!🙏🙏
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Thanks so much for the notes.
Thank you so much for this Lord knows I need to get up and start getting stuff done😂
“I was born AT night, not LAST night.” That was my granny’s line!!!
From Mumbai, India… I’ve been listening to you since 4 years … I have started my own business all because of your teachings… renewing my mind… ❤… I love you and thank you…
Amazing! ❤
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Awesome🎉
„Women get emotionally committed” so true: we commit before gathering data from a men to see through if it’s even worth it for committing emotional!
Amen!! Just Google ladies!!! & pray!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢😢😢😮😮😮😮😮😮😢😢😢😮😮😮😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅thanks Dr Blake’s advice is sooooooo on point& I’m the happiest ever( in 30 yrs) no “puppy
Love “💕 here!!!! That’s your wisdom and truth that’s got me “ hooked”❤❤❤❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
So true!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
AMEN!!! PREACH THAT THANG BISHOP!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤ TELL THE TRUTH SHAME THE 😈 DEVIL!!!!!
@@brendacrawford343 Amen 🙏
Hi Pastor. I am a 76 year old caucasian female that attends a conservative Christian church. The women in my age range don't seem to be interested in men. It may be because single men in our church stay under the radar or are almost nonexistent, or the women feel passed over, or they don't want to go through what women go through when they date. As a result, the women don't seek out instruction about men. However, I believe whether a woman seeks dating and marriage or not, the instruction you offer is critical to our well being and self esteem. It also raises our awareness, making us more observant. Would you consider doing a video geared to this age group to encourage them that the instruction you offer is not just about them, but the generation following them? As older women, we need to be able to advise younger women intelligently, and not just use our own experience, which may limit our influence.
Very interesting
At 76 focus on the Lord not men. Focus on your family not dating. Most men your age have prostate issues by that age and are focused on bigger things then relationships. Be a bride of Christ.
@ashleyhonch4444 people can get married at any age if the right person comes. It can happen just because she is in her 70's doesn’t mean she can't find love. She's not dead.
@ashleyhonch444 - WOW. Your response reeks of ignorance regarding seniors. Our pitiful society treats seniors as if they should have no needs, wants or a life of their own. Focus on family? What if she doesn't have one or wants something more than babysitting grandchildren all the time? My mother in law remarried at 71 and was happily married for 14 years until he passed. They had a full life of traveling, volunteering & exploring shared interests. SMH
@@michellevibonese5673I really don’t care about your mother or what she was doing. This isn’t a family tree conversion lady. No one asked your family line. Sounds like you’ve never taken care of 70 year olds as most stink like pee and can’t take care of themselves there’s nothing appealing about that. In the last 15 years spend it helping the homeless or doing productive things rather then still chasing men.
"Creeps creep into a woman's house." My my!
Lord have mercy. This was me. 15 year Marriage, almost 20 years together with 3 children. I did it all. I was wore down. But with GOD I recently filed for Divorce. We deserve so much better Women of God. ❤️❤️
Hi,did you accommodate him in your house,this is where I am right now,he is desperate wants to move in my place,I'm already emotionally tired and financially tired already
Bishop you brought a powerful message this evening. I was once this foolish woman. I had the exact man you were speaking on. He broke me all the way down, but oh what a powerful lesson he taught me. I’ll never be bound again. Keep helping us Bishop, much love❤️🙏🏽❤️
Same here I was once this woman too, we are definitely stronger for this now 😊❤
Amen sister!!!!!!lesson learnedddt😂😂😂
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Me too 🙋🏾♀️…, but who the Lord set free is free indeed. Now let’s stay free ❤
Me too🎉
OMG THIS WAS MY 18 YR toxic marriage just got out. He allowed me to do it ALL. I was so tired and so happy and peace now. Thank God. I was with a true narcissist seriously. He always told me pimps taught him how to deal with women I should of ran then but I was 20 years old. Now I'm 39 just left and not looking back. Took me a mintue to leave due to our son but realized he was being hurt too. So blesses I was able to leave!
Common intimate traps women fall into.
When a woman is Emotionally influence by the man she loves See below what happens.
1) Peter 3:7) (Genesis 3:16)
(1) A man makes you chase him only to reject you. (Proverbs 13:12) (2) Letting a man move into your house. (2 Timothy 3:6) (Proverbs 25:28) (3) An unclear ez relationship status (James 1:8) (4) When it’s a totally private love affair (John 3:19) (5) A high value life style image (Luke 12:15) (6) The words I love you (Proverbs 27:6) (Psalms 55:20-21) (7) I will change for you.
Thanks for the notes.
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I really love the music before the word. It puts me in a particular space that makes me feel proud and like a Queen. Thank you Sir for what you do.
Me too
I thought I was the only one. It's like affirmations to my soul. Reminds me of who I am and my worth❤
The music is too cheesy and R& B. Too drawn out. Regardless, RC is the man.
I'm wondering where this CD is At 🤔👀👀
@@diamondgold5277Hi Sis, it is entitled "She" by Dave Hollister and he made specifically for Bishop RC Blakes' Queenology series.
Cribs are for babies. You're a grown man lol! Gotta love it
“ the brokest people where the most expensive labels” that was a whole word in itself! We needed this reality check. I made so many mistakes in the past
He will have you chase him only to reject you. Ooowe! I have experienced that ….He will have you dazed 🥴 and confused for sure😂😂🤣🤣Bishop….Facts
I just experienced this last week. After 2 1/2 years he proposed on Sunday then the very next day said he did not want to get married. I am devastated right now😢
You dodged a Bullet. It may not feel like it but be thankful, that's protection
@marilynirby2446 ..,,,, his rejection maybe God’s protection! Count it all joy!
Thank God you saw his true colors before you actually got married! It's much cheaper that way.
If somebody tells you he wants to go, open the door for him and kindly say good bye. You are the one winning here even when painful at beginning. 🤷♂️
Never waste 2 1/2 years dating. This man sounds demonized. Dismantle soul ties. Repent to the Lord & take responsibility.
I find it really insulting when a man wants to move into a woman's house/apartment and not make any commitments to her first, truth be told a man should have his own place taking care of himself first!! Bishop Blakes you raised a really important point that really got my attention! When we let a man move into our space it does not allow us the freedom to think🙌🏾🔥💯! No one has never brought up that point to us women before!! Thank you so much for your teachings and helping us queens to adjust our crowns and our behaviour with men❤ God bless you, Lisa and family🦁
A real man will respect us when we set boundaries and not settle!!! Speaking from experience!!!
Its easier to let a devil in than to kick him out! Amen to that! Your knowledge is priceless! You are invaluable to many people!❤ Thanks to you and Lisa for spreading the word to those college kids! Lisa went right in and straight to the point with those kids because that's what nurses do! 🥰
Definitely went through this in my marriage. He made me feel safe and wanted....but a few months in, his mask fell off. It was a trap to break and destroy me! Now, I'm free!
Did God give you warnings?
Love this message .We woman are pure Gold.We should value ourselves as that.
Canada 🇨🇦 I am 52 and since I know you my life is changing for the best
I am choosing me over anything and anybody else
And you know what @RCBLAKES JR ? GOD is in front , behind me ,on my left on my right… everywhere
Never late to learn don’t give up you all there 🙏🏾🙏🏾you can do this
May Allah Bless you, Lisa and your family
Amin, Amen
Assalamu Aleikum Sister. Nice to see more Sister here. I study neuropsychology and love RC blacks classes. May Allah swt bless him with more understanding and wisdom and His family. Amin
This is a solid list. Thank you for always unravelling these games especially for empaths like me. Now i peep game super early.
Bishop dont speak NOTHING but the Truth!!! He is a father figure to SO many!! Even though i had my father & uncles until they passed. You never get too old to need your Daddy! Ive been married for a long time, but Bishop has taught me SO much about my past & present self. Yall please pray for Bishop ALWAYS & never forget to support his channel & ministry 💚
If only I would have listened to this five years ago. Thanks. Never foolish again.
😅😅 The sermon has humor with spices of wisdom and hard truth. Thank you for breaking it down Pastor. Really insightful nuggets👌🙏
Proverbs 13:12 - (amplified version) Hope deferred makes the heart sick. But when the desire is fulfilled it is a tree of life. ❤
Pastor Blake's when I tell you... You preaching tonight... YOU PREACHING..!! I was just in some mess like that..I asked why is it that you don't want your ex-wife whom you are still friends with.. talk to on the phone (away from me) and repair things at her home.. Why don't you want her to know I exist.. he said it would be disrespectful to her because we have only been divorced for 2-months & have been separated for 10-12 years.. I just walked out his house and im never coming back.!! Thank you for this message it's confirmation.
The condition of his heart is so incredibly vital
Get out that loop of hope!!! There’s no closure just let go you’ll heal! Let’s do it!
Father O God, continue pouring out the Holy Spirit on Pastor Blakes.
Spread Your protection over him, his wife and his family. In Jesus name we pray. Amen!💙
Thank you for this powerful message! Where were you when I was making so many stupid mistakes, back in the day😅
Wonderful, learning new equipment. Digital Engineer is something else you can add to your lovely resume. Thanks, greatly appreciate your teachings. They have helped enormously and books as well.
Powerful message i have made poor choices in relationships and previous marriage . Im 52 single and in my healing journey til god provides the husband meant for me . I learned to spot the traps and best to walk away when not valued . Love this message thanks for sharing Pastor Blakes . Know my worth and love myself first ❤❤❤and i seek my guidance through God
Amen
OMG! Bishop, Is there any oil left in heaven for anointing!?! I'm in Los Angeles and missed your live but I can't tell you how many times I paused and rewind this video to really listen to each point!! Whew!! If this was not a message from God to me, then I can't hear from him. Thank you Bishop for the fire. Thank you Lord for the anointing! 🖤🖤❤❤
I lived in L.A. Hot mess central. I would think it would be difficult to be found by a good brother willing to commit.
@@danilaroche1156 You're absolutely right. With a county of over 9.5M people, you'd think there wouldn't be a shortage of descent men. A lot of them are lovers of themselves; of other men; or in concubine relationships. I tried online dating for the first time and it's even worst. Glad I subscribed to eHarmony for only a few months and cancelled it after the first. Living in Los Angeles, it's even more imperative to focus on God and wait on him. He's the greatest matchmaker.
This is Stephanie from Detroit Michigan one of your top fans and followers on Instagram! This is narcissism described at its finest. I’m a recovering narc survivor thanks to the Lord introducing me to your teachings 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️♥️
Hey sis I’m from the ‘D’ too💜
I too am a recovering narc survivor. It takes the the Good Lord, and teachings like Bishop Blake’s is teaching to pull you through. Many blessings sister 💖🙏🏽💖
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HELLO FAMILY! Where are you coming in from tonight?
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!!!!! This Man and His Wife are a Gift!!!!
Amen!! No lies told. Ladies respect and love ypurself.
Yes definitely,child birth pain is definitely unfathomable
This is so powerful, I have never pursued a man. I have never chased a man. I have open myself up when I knew I should have listened to my gut feeling.
I have never let a man in place to live in. My family has done it but I haven't. I doing good all by myself and God.
I love 💖 my peace and space. It took me a long time to get where I am and I 'm not giving that up for anything or anyone. I had that problem.
I wasn't anyone secret 😊 I was around I took pictures and I was around the family. I never sex with the individual that I recently walked away from. He had red flags 🚩. I heard that. That's what I tell people.
Exactly 💯 that's what I did. I walked away and I 'm doing so much better.
I experienced more than one of these traps. Thanks for the information.❤❤
I was going around in a cycle caught in a loop until God guided me to you Bishop! Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤
So nice, must listen twice🔥
“Cribs are for babies, you a grown man” 😂 👌🏻
You go Bishop with your new equip
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Woooooooooo thank you Pastor,Thank you Lisa. We needed this. Out plain and straight. Lord help us ladies to let it soak in and not keep making the same mistakes over and over. Y'all we don't have an excuse now,cause we who got daddies who never thought us this. I'm for one is greatful to our spiritual fathers here👏🏿 Thank you.👏🏿♥
YES🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🧡❤️ THANK YOU BISHOP & LISA BLAKES FOR TEACHING US QUEENS TO BEHAVE PROPERLY WITH OURSELVES AROUND OUR MEN👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Amen Pastor. Never mind who don't like it you are telling the truth for real. Keep it 100.
Hi Pastor Blakes and First Lady Blakes. Wow! You got everything thing out this evening! I wished my father had talked with his five daughters about men so that we didn’t have to fall into this trap. I have learned so much about men since I been watching your videos. Pastor Blakes what you had mentioned are 💯% correct. I thank God for your ministry and we need pastors like you to tell us the truth. The red flags are there but we over looked them. I am confident and I want God’s best for me. I will patiently wait on God. Again, thanks so much. May God richly blessed you and First Lady Blakes.🙏🏾
My dad had 6 daughters 2 sons ,never had a heart talk wuh any of us. He was a womanizer, had no intention to treat our mother with respect.
Yes, my father was a womanizer too! My parents has five daughters and three sons. He didn’t love my mom or us. He truly suffered and died at the age of 68. My mom was a good woman, wife, and mom, she died at the age of 83. I believe marriage should be forever/Black love. I was married for 13 years and I wanted it to be forever. I am divorced. I tried everything to saved my marriage. I was married once and my ex has been married 4 times. I want to get married again but I want a man that truly loves God. Ladies need to truly trust and wait on God for her mate/spouse. Importantly, let the man pursue you. Women should be celibate until her wedding night! Pastor Blakes message was truth and on point. Ladies don’t want to be alone. All seven points was good, when Pastor talked about “if a man says he loves you”. I said wow! Love is an action word, we don’t need soul ties. I felt that I was in a soul ties. I let it go . I am going to truly wait on my man of God because God knows what is best for me. Ladies let us wait for Gods’s best! Let the godly men pursue us! We don’t want boys we want men that truly loves God. I thank God for Pastor Blakes for telling women the truth about how a man thinks! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Such great wisdom from the Lord. "It's easy to bring a devil in t h a n it is to kick one out..." thank you Bishop Blake's for this wisdom from the Lord.
This is very profound! The Lord continues to bless you, Pastor Blakes for always bringing us words of wisdom
I agree 💯💯 with you Pastor RC BLAKES Congratulations to your grandson and his friends attending college 🎉 THANK YOU for your teaching and preaching 🙏🏾😁💯💯
Bishop, this teaching was well needed, once again you hit the ball out the park. We Appreciate You and Lisa 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️!!! God Bless!!!
All women need this message. Anyone who thinks they are above wisdom is foolish.
Bishop Blakes, I can't thank you enough. The truth hurts, but it's needed. Thank you for having a genuine heart for the people of God.
Inglewood Ca, this song gets me every time. Thank you
Most of the time women give sex for love and some men play at love to get sex. So I have heard and I believe it's a true saying.
A message , thank you Pastor, not many authentic pastors around like you anymore.
So So True!!! In total agreement with you sis✋🏿✋🏿✋🏿💯💯💯💯💣💣💣
Mannnn, this message right here!!!! All I can do is thank God for it! Yesterday, I realized how a guy was wasting my time and I was angry and disappointed b/c he had pursued me over and over again after I told him that I wasn't interested in having "relations" with him. He lives in my neighborhood and I ran into him when I was facing a situation with my daughter. We spent time on the phone and/or in person daily and I noticed that he never followed through on anything but he tried to use possibly all of the 7 tactics mentioned. I'm so happy that I didn't have a desire to sleep with him but nonetheless, I felt heartbroken when my eyes became opened. I often analyze my feelings and was wondering why I was so disappointed and when you said that "hope deferred makes the heart sick" it all made sense. I'm pretty selective and when this lil demon told me that I'm always on point with my observations I wanted to knock his head off. lol...Thanks for the teachings - It's so necessary in this world of dating!
The beginning song is just beautiful ❤️❤️❤️! Thank God for the gifts and talents in your family!
You preaching good Bishop
RC this the best I totally agree with you I hollered when you talked about a man moving in 😂😂
❤❤A lot of men in our community aren't wired for rejection either. They can't take NO for an answer. Some of them will even go as far as calling you a B if you aren't responsive. That statement goes for men too❤❤❤
That's wrong. Calling a woman a B. In my experience because I carry myself like a lady. Never called that. Plus if a man approaches, I'm gracious and don't hurt their feelings.
This was a whole word. Always knew I was right. He must be able to provide for himself first.
Ooooh Pastor, I love how you knock some sense in us. We are so gullible at times that we don't even take the time to read between lies and manipulation. Sad reality!
“If a man say’s his wife is not _____it’s a reflection on him. B/C the greatest influence on a woman’s life when she loves is her man/ husband. 12:40
From Antigua and Barbuda 🇦🇬
Unfortunately I was this woman and fell for all the 7 traps. However with finding God and he sent mentors my way and my growth transformed me.
Sec ya -in church -next month!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ love yall lady Lisa especially!!!!😮😮😮😮😮❤❤❤ such a queen 👑 !!!!!!!!
Drop the 🎤! Every thing you said here is THE TRUTH!
It's all about getting one's life right before God first, life with God alone in itself is such a pleasure and gift, praise God! I therefore bind to hell accepting any man rejecting me for god-ordained values and principles, I bind to hell to fall for false expectations raised by any man, binding to hell desiring any man that is not clear about his intentions with me and does not have decided in his heart to want to marry me by godly principles, while I am willing to wait for my god-ordained spouse, even if this takes longer than I would think. No such horrors of being stuck with the wrong man! In accordance with this word and 1 peter 3:7, genesis 3:16, proverbs 13:12, proverbs 25:28, james 1:8, john 3:19, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah ❤!
Amazing stuff ❤❤❤❤ Jesus Christ's heart for women ❤❤❤❤that's why He's my very life
Good Evening Pastor, Lady Lisa and followers. ❤️❤️❤️
Everyday I thank God for coming around this Channel. Indeed the scripture said” seek and you shall find” when you seek growth genuinely for the reason God wants it, you’d definitely find.
Thanks to you Pastor R C Blakes you have been a father I never have. This teaching comes at the right time because I almost make the same mistake love you and Lisa ❤ God bless you both
Preach on I’m shouting
Facts
Amen. I am not young, but I still needed to hear this! God Bless.
Watching from Indianapolis at work listening 3am. Thank you Pastor Bishop Uncle Blakes 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Girllll I’m in the nap too.
@@marialeshea7430Living in Naptown too
Bishop you're saving thousands of soul
Breaking from this soul ties is hectic due to this traps .
Thank you. I hear you from South Africa
Ohh My God! I just walked into the exactly same situation
I have a downstairs neighbor who let a dude move in. He calls her all kinds of Bs words. He will not leave and he don't work. He verbally abused her.
Love the start of the video with the song, smile and wave to the audience. Very nicely done.
What would we do without you Pastor RC Blake!!
@RC Blakes Jr. Thanks dad for this message this is one of your spiritual daughters love you as always this is good for us as young women looking for love.
And older women as well! This video is worth watching again so it can definitely soak into my spirit, and yes I will definitely share this with my sisters!!
Thank you Pastor Blake's and Lisa. That rejection 💔 is very painful especially when the speaking of marriage is in a conversation, just to hear a weak later that we "should take it slow."
Pastor. Thank you for these conversations. I've been listening to you for quite some time, and i must say God has truly been using you. Your ministry is amazing. I thank you, because i know my worth. I am now waiting, not chasing, i am now abstaining and bring kept by my father. Keep doing what you are doing. One of my spiritual fathers. I'm looking forward to you coming to Atl.....
U are all the father figure that some females have sir. I agree with u 💯 ❤️..God bless u for your videos thank u
I let mine move in lost everything Please God forgive my sillness and gullible living in sin He is speaking fact 😢
God gave me this verse as well 😢
Thank you R.C. Blakes, I needed to hear this
Calgon take me away😂😂
I love this song!❤❤❤ I’m listening to the intro just to hear this anointed music with lyrics that feed my soul! 😘 😊
Greetings from Tennessee by way of NOLA. Pastor this message sho' nuff blessed me. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and the WORD with us. I pray I will be able to come home and attend your conference next time! Blessings to you and Lady Lisa 💜
Preach Pastor RC BLAKES!!🙌🏽❤
Thank you. I’ve been listening to Pastor Blakes closely after leaving a relationship with separated man (not legally divorced). RC hits every point very clearly, confirming red flags in my last relationship. This helps me stay grounded. Thank you for reminding us.
Very powerful. Thank you
THANK GOD FOR JESUS 🙏❤
I believe this was the most profound lesson that l have ever heard in my 50 plus years on earth! Thank you tremendously for your God given insight into my personal life!
Never seem to amaze me with the message and the word backing up the true facts ❤
Savannah Ga here been following for about 4 years now… Thank You Amen🙏🏽 thank you sir for the message they always see me through.
I just ended a one-year relationship. I am 48 years old and he was 53 years old. I had the beginning he was very attentive. We went out places together. He also dinner for me and my 14-year-old son several times. Then all the sudden as a relationship progress he’s starting to slack off, not wanting to go anywhere as much and also move into my house without me even discussing it. I would ask him for half of the bills and he would do it sometime, will take a long time to pay. I end I ended the relationship two months ago because I want someone in my life that’s going to bring something to the table along with me not taking away from me and my son.
Thank you bishop. I always get amazed with your insights. I love you and lady Lisa Blakes
They will even claim to want to marry you but hold out especially when you have had 3 9 to 5 jobs and he could not keep 1 part-time work.