Yes this blessed me!! Every guy I’ve dated always told me I’m a wife, and they’d either stop talking to me immediately or they’d feel the need to express to me being married is not in their plans. I never have to express my desire to be married. I use to think there was something wrong with me. But I will continue to carry myself this way, and walk in my purpose. There is nothing at all wrong with me. The right man, my God ordained husband will find & appreciate me. This was an on time word. 🙌🏽
Girl same!!!! I have always been told that and I always felt like something was wrong with me. But I now realize that those men saw the Queen and wife in my spirit and soul and knew they could never give me what i deserved. And for that I am so grateful that God protected. Keep shining and being you girl!
1. Manners and etiquette 2. Language of the women a.) Tone b.) vocabulary c.) timing 3.Feminine pacing a.) running ahead of a man = stop needing his protection b.) respect his role as leader/ represent him with dignity and Grace c.) stop being proud being his partner 4. Facial Expressions A mean mug is no way to attract kings a.) kind eyes b.) heart is warm but face is cold
I often get bullied especially by black women for being too kind and I thought something was wrong with me. I tried to do things that made me “tougher” but it only made me weaker. I’m still learning that it is okay to be kind and not have a mean mug all the time. The video is confirming that there is nothing wrong with me. God made me this way for a reason
Same shoes as you but I won’t ever change my kind nature for anybody just because they don’t wear that kind of clothes on them and wish they would possess such quality.
@@nicolesolomon213 I don’t look down on black woman…I just don’t think we need to be seen a certain way, but I’ll let you win with your opinion since only you knows what I’ve experienced in MY life
My Nani was an Etiquette teacher. Her & my grandfather were also English professors at Bowie State. I remember weekends full of simulated dining. Posture correction. Correct bending over & sitting techniques. Positive mirror affirmations. I literally thought my Nani was Crazy when I was little. 😂 My grandfather took us to the Ballet. The Opera. Fine dining. We weren't allowed to speak broken English. Our manners had to be impeccable. On my Father's side ..My Big Mama was a Geechie/Native American "Uman" loI (iykyk) who loved my grandfather dearly. We sat on the porch snapping peas. Washing greens from her garden, planting watermelon, taking the mattresses out and beating them with a stick...EVERY SATURDAY MORNING!! (Wasn't no cartoons till chores were done 😩😂) tending goats, making ho cakes, hand washing the floors, & cleaning EVERY piece of China with vinegar and hot water. 😩 I was teased relentlessly when I was younger. Called white girl. Thought I was"better than." Called Bourgeois. Country ...You name it!! I was low-key ashamed of my upbringing. But as an adult with a successful husband, 4 Wonderful boys, and a 16 yr long marriage. I'm glad I was raised the way I was. My childhood wasn't ordinary but my adult life is Blessed bc of it.
When he said “consider this a father daughter talk” made me so emotional 😭 thank you so much for this. My father passed away when I was 11 & I’ve always yearned for his wisdom. ❤
My dad just passed away a fee years ago, and I needed more wisdom from him. I got married early and became a widow early in life. My dad just kept saying that I was so smart and married a good boy. He said that I knew what to do, but after being married then widowed and getting back out there late. I made mistakes. My dad called himself complimenting me about being smart and didn't realize that I needed his male guidance. I will just wait to see if God has another for me. I do appreciate Bishop Blake's and Lisa's wisdom.
What makes a woman attractive to a great man... 1: Manners & Etiquette 🧄 A great man isn't going to tolerate buffoonery. Proverbs 12:4; 1 Corinthians 11:7-9; Proverbs 11:16 2: A great man is drawn to the language of a woman. Proverbs 31:26 🧄 A woman's words will move a great man positively or negatively. A. Tone - Proverbs 21:19 B. Vocabulary - 2 Timothy 2:16 C. Timing - 1 Peter 3:1 3: A great man is attracted to your feminine pacing: slow & deliberate. Colossians 3:18 When we aren't in our feminine pacing, it signifies that - A. I don't expect your protection B. Don't respect his role as leader C. Not proud of being next to him 4: Facial expressions - Proverbs 15:13; Isaiah 3:9 Thank you Bishop.
This was sooo good and highly informative. This is why some women never lack male attention and suitors simply by how they carry themselves and the kindness they operate with. I'm never stepping out of my feminine, I love being treated like a lady by a masculine man. The dynamic is beautiful. These are all facts.
When you have to do everything solely as a lady you lose your feminine. Sometimes it’s not by choice but rather you are forced to be masculine. This is how I’ve survive with my 4 children alone
I told a man I’m not matching his energy so he needed to change his tone and speak to me like a lady. That’s growth for me because I used to match energy and had no problem cussing someone out. I don’t want to be that way anymore. Maintain your dignity.
Did this the other day because I used to be a woman who fought fire with fire and would definitely argue back. He yelled, cursed, and I remained respectful in a calm tone while getting my point across by the end of that exchange he was apologizing for his yelling and how he talked. He’s been calm ever since, don’t raise that voice at all and very well at communicating now.
Thank you! I’m a southern woman, I was raised up like this and I still believe this to the fullest! I thought something was wrong with me for a moment! Thank you Bishop 🫶🏾
I grew up thinking my whole life men only desire me for my body and looks and I still struggle with that. From being abused as a child by a family member I always thought sex=love love=sex. I'm thankful there are men who speak on these things because I was never taught otherwise
I AM ANTICIPATING TO WATCH THIS CROWN ADJUSTING VIDEO BISHOP BLAKES!!!! YOU ALWAYS REMINDS US QUEENS TO KEEP ADJUSTING OUR CROWNS, WALK, TALK AND REMEMBER WHO WE ARD AND WHOSE WE ARE!!! THE KING'S DAUGHTERS AMEN!!!!!💜💜💯💯🖐🏾🖐🏾💃🏾💃🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥👑👑🦁🐑
WOW!!!!!!!! “When a woman runs ahead she is not respecting him as a leader” I’m always running ahead of my bfs.. I was never told this advice!!!! Thank you!!!! 🤯💞
Can’t wait! It’s a privilege to be mentored by a prophetic leader. Clearly, something has changed in the spiritual realm. I feel that Bishop is preparing us for marriages that are about to manifest. Thank you so much Paps. We honor you. 🙏🏾
Another fantastic message, Bishop! This was confirmation for me that I really am ready mentally and emotionally to be someone’s wife. Once I graduate this summer I am making a promise to myself to get myself out and about so that I can actually be found. I’ve grown and healed so much throughout my 20s, and now in my 30s I’m amazed at all of the blessings and peace I’ve been granted now that I’ve surrendered my ego and committed myself to being obedient to God. His timing is perfect, and His plan has beaten mine every single time.
My favorite video to date by far! My earthly Dad is 74 and has never ever taught me anything godly preachers and teachers preach and teach! Thank you 5 fold minister!
I have been askiing this question forever and you actually give clear instructions that I never would have considered. Everybody says - wait on God, rather than - here's what you need to work on! God can tell us what we need to work on while we're waiting. Thank you SO MUCH - implementing immediately. I'm no Roger Federer. I will be moving slower etc.
I'm a Queen and I know my worth and I will not back down. What is sex without Marriage and as you know Queen we who love God our steps are ordered by God ❤❤ ❤
Crying at my desk at work listening to the intro. It’s been hard. Never thought I’d be a single mom after decades of marriage & trying to be a good wife & mother. Was kicked to the curb for a WW. The intro really touches my soul. Thanks RC!
I hope "WW" isn't referring to a "white woman". If it is, blame your husband, not the color of the woman he left you for. I am a WW who was recently treated horribly by a narcissistically successful, Bentley owning, BM. I just tell people this man was not worthy of me, irrespective of the color of his skin. If in fact I'm wrong, apologies...............from this size 10, educated, well-mannered, intelligent WW.
I cried as I listened to this. Cause I try so hard to be what I think I'm supposed to be, but I make so many mistakes. Look around trying to find out what to do but no one to teach me. It takes a father to care enough to correct you. Despise not the chastening of the Lord, for whom the Lord loves He chastens. Thank you @Rcblakes for being that for me, and for hearing the voice of the Lord and for showing us the way ❤️
Thank you once again, Bishop! This video was right on time as I am softening myself and tapping into my feminine energy. I have a wonderful man in my life who is healthy and serious about our relationship. I want to match his loving, kind, and compassionate energy. This was a right on time message for me and I will share the video.
You just got another daughter from Nigeria, started following you 2 weeks ago and I can't stop listening to you every message I tune into comes with mind blowing truths for my growth as a queen 👑 that I am. Thanks for helping me find me
It truly blessed me to hear this! The traits that you described are traits that I have but also traits that have been unappreciated or criticized, like “Why are you so proper?” or “You’re too nice!”, etc. I honestly feel like this has kept me single because a lot of men are marrying or partnering with the loud, crass, promiscuous, abrasive, ratchet type of women, BUT… these are not the type of men that you described as being high value and that’s the key! I think a lot of women like me have been overlooked or unappreciated by certain men for being softer, well-mannered or thoughtful, but I’m finally figuring out… that’s just not my audience! And I think it’s so important to understand (particularly for us women of color because the cultural norms are perpetuating a different standard) women with class are just as rare as the truly high-value men who can appreciate and recognize a woman like that!
No push back from me ! I need these conversations. I been out of order for years ! Thank you ! You are a blessing to me. I didn’t have a father to teach me. My daughters don’t have a father to teach them. I take these lessons back to them.
As long as GOD gives you air to breathe, don't you ever STOP teaching the truth! I was thoroughly blessed after listening. I must admit, I need to work on my "facial expressions"! Thank you❤️. Massachusetts 🙏
They used to promote Etiquette Classes back in my day. If they brought it back, I would be trying to get in ASAP. You act like who you are around. I need a refresher course. I'll never stop absorbing knowledge. ✌️❤️🍷
I NEVER had any idea of feminine pacing, etc. I just thought moving fast meant being active/ agile . I'm soooo glad you're teaching this. May be useful for my next husband.
Thank you for this teaching. I needed this. With being a single mom and having to do everything on your own, sometimes it’s hard turning that masculine energy off. With this and other teachings I can say I’ve drastically improved. So thanks again bishop. Happy New Year to you and your family🎉🎉❤
@@amerokeewiya1320 I'm not sure I agree with you...if I understand what you're saying. If we're consistently in our masculinity then we would repel a masculine man.
This was sooooooo good!! I truly have to continue to be myself. Don't allow a job or anything to take you out of your Godly mindset! I'm happy had a chance to listen to this video!
I watch all your content, very educational and much needed. Thank you for sharing the content, we need more of it!!! Your videos have changed my life ❤
I cry when I hear this song because I been through so much, sometimes I even got numb to my circumstances being too pensive. Your ministry is so encouraging and really uplifting!!!
Excellent timely message. True father and daughter talk. I needed to hear this. Now I know the areas I need to work on as I position myself as Godly wife to a Great man. I clearly know what a great man looks like. God bless you Bishop..
I’ve been listening to Bishop for at least a year now. Side note.. I’m not a religious practicing individual, I do believe in a God/ universe/ source that provides men like bishop for us on this earth plain.. And many of his contents were very helpful in aiding us as women to be better versions of ourselves. I thank you from the bottom of my heart, from changing and growing out of bitterness and super independent.. to being engaged and will marry my amazing God given gift of a man by the end of this year! Thanks again for your content!! ❤
Diamond you need to get a relationship with your creator CHRIST IS RETURNING SOON and your opinion and view will not stand. The bible says you must be born again. If you are not born again and do what the LORD TELL us to do. Your soul will be cast into hell. GOD wants people who will honor him and do things his way. Anything other that you are a rebel. I hope you make the right decision.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I think women need to hear you on a constant basis. Some of us don’t know what to look for or don’t care how they behave or influence someone else to behave😢
Dear R.C. Blakes, I just wanted to express my heartfelt gratitude for all that you’ve done. I’ve been listening to you for five years, and I’m still learning and growing from your teachings. Life has been challenging, but your words have been a great source of encouragement. Your excellent sense of humor always lifts my spirits! The "Oh my God, Oh my God..." moment and the board meeting voice had me laughing so hard today. You truly have a gift for making even the most important lessons enjoyable and engaging. May God bless you abundantly in this world and the Hereafter
Coming to think about it: it is actually a sad thing that grown ups have to learn these days that it isn't only about looks... character, decency, etiquette, friendlyness, how to address people, public behaviour... I was approached by a young man recently. A few years back I would have totally fallen for him, because he's my type 🤣. But this time I told him I can't stand the way he addresses or approaches me. I told him that I was very sorry but he's too rude for my liking. The poor guy couldn't believe his ears, because he was counting on his looks and career.
This has truly blessed me and opened my eyes. I am too masculine. I am working on tapping into my feminine energy, and this has set the course for me to achieve who I really am! God is bringing me back in alignment
Sir!! You have blessed me with this truth right here! My God!! My parents raised my sisters and I this way, but I have never heard anyone teach about it!! Thank you!!
I'm from the state of Louisiana! Having said that, that introduction song was amazing; I am that woman, however; the man I chose didn't deserve me nor value me and I gave him everything plus three kids. So after 30+ years I divorced him; I couldn't be happier. Currently, I'm in a long distance situationship with my guy from another country! Come to find out he's a very high level soulmate or something deeper that I've never experienced before. WOW! Also My ex was a man of the cloth too!☹️
As a 22 year old woman this is exactly like that father and daughter talk I've always needed I love my dad dearly but he never had these types of conversations with me but listening to you has restored my understanding more about becoming a better woman 💕
I absolutely love Bishop Blake’s content, and how funny he is sometimes without even trying to be. Every time I click on one of his videos it blesses me.
Beautiful Message Bishop.. Your Examples Are Wonderful Points… I Came From COGIC Churches From Baby Up To My Adult Life & My Mother & Father Keep Us All In Line From Purity Class Sunshine Band Young Women & Men Groups… We Was Blessed To Have These Teachings Along The Way & It Has Stuck With Me Throughout My Life Even When I Went The Wrong Way & Thought I Was Gonna Do It My Way… Even As We Just Laid My Dad To Rest A Few Months Ago.. I Get It Now!! Amen!!!
This is the one I needed! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Well said ❤ RC has helped me sooo much!! He’s literally my earthly father. He’s taught me things that my parents should’ve taught me. I’m so blessed to have found him.
As a Devine feminine listening to this was such a pleasure…. This gave me the confirmation that I am already in my feminine energy I love this great teaching for a woman thank you great king❤♥️🙏🏾 all women need these teachings to be truly Devine feminine.
I needed this word Bishop Blakes. The section on feminine pacing is a word in season. I was doing everything else you mentioned, but I struggle greatly with feminine pacing. I will meditate on this word and apply. Thank you SO much , as always for your divinely inspired , practical, applicable teaching.
Pastor, I’m so thankful to GOD for this message given to you to give to women, specifically ME. I’ve lost a “great man” and didn’t realize that I can be this woman you speak of. I cursed, he told me he didn’t like it. I tried to remove it from my daily vocabulary/dialogue but it still came out. He would tell me to watch what I said to him. I was quick to anger. SMH. I hung out with my friends a lot too. I am being read like a book and all of my actions are flooding my head right now. Now, I get what he meant by “love is not enough”. He would tell me that I need to change and I didn’t perceive the depth of what he meant. I am truly saddened as I now realize but he is gone. I am humbled, contrite and convicted. This is helping me more than you know. GOD has been dealing with me and this amongst other revelations has confirmed it. Change is coming. Thank you 🙏🏾
You are getting better and better every video, Dear Pastor!❤ Thank You So Much for everything You do, and for making such a huge impact in women’s destinies 🥹 God Bless You and Your Family 🙏Always with love from the bottom of my heart Your Loved Ones ❤
I’m 21 and so happy I’m seeing your videos while I’m still young so I can get ready early and make being a Godly feminine women my lifestyle. I really needed this video. I was avoiding it lol but I finally decided to just watch it. The last part about facial expressions…Thank you so much for this video!!!
I watch this video at least 3 to 4 times a day and while I lay in the bed wanting to fall a sleep. This is my favorite video, because not only is it funny, but it speaks facts. When he starts talking about forks and going to the bathroom, I cannot stop laughing. My husband watched a couple of video's and said he wished he would touch on men too, because we have issues too not just women. Now I'm trying to go through all his video's to see if there is something I can share with my husband and our son's. I know it is up here somewhere.
Lots of us are heading that way thanks to the great and high value content of your channel, Bishop. May God bless you and your beloved ones. Hear you later! 🍀🤍🙌
Real talk. I got to comment on the woman running ahead of a man. This is so common and a shadow of disrespect. It hilarious, I don't think I've heard many man talk about this. My boy RC old school fr! God bless this man 🙏
🦋Just like you said, it's the rhythm of the relationship. It just flows like a dance when you're compatible. 🦋A lot of women especially the black woman have preachy tones. That's something that we have to work on. Men don't like to be spoken down to. 🦋Not being vulgar is a challenge for a lot of us because that is how a lot of us in our culture present ourselves. I curse when I'm mad but to speak like that in everyday conversations, I try not to. It doesn't look good when men do it either. Men shouldn't get a pass and BURPING is a huge turn off. 🦋As far as a partnership goes. You are partners. Equal. As in equally yoked. You are both leaders in the relationship and I would love to walk side by side with my partner and not ahead of him. I haven't felt feminine in a long time since my appearance changed. I am tall and fat. 🦋As far as being dignified, I have to disagree. You are in a profession where your image is very very important. I know how it is. I was a pastor's daughter. I was around a lot of serious people who had that type of composure BUT every dignified man does not want the serious type. Some men like a more exuberant type of woman. I'm in the middle. I don't like too serious but I don't like too exuberant. And just because you don't act dignified it doesn't mean that you don't have any dignity about yourself. Sometimes that could come off as self righteous or too uptight. I am quiet. What's the scripture? A quiet woman is like rubies to her husband. Something of that nature. My motto is just be yourself. Don't try to be someone else. Thanks for the tips
Yes this blessed me!! Every guy I’ve dated always told me I’m a wife, and they’d either stop talking to me immediately or they’d feel the need to express to me being married is not in their plans. I never have to express my desire to be married. I use to think there was something wrong with me. But I will continue to carry myself this way, and walk in my purpose. There is nothing at all wrong with me. The right man, my God ordained husband will find & appreciate me. This was an on time word. 🙌🏽
Thank you for answering what I was wandering.
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@@thembimadzimure you’re welcome Queen!
Girl same!!!! I have always been told that and I always felt like something was wrong with me. But I now realize that those men saw the Queen and wife in my spirit and soul and knew they could never give me what i deserved. And for that I am so grateful that God protected. Keep shining and being you girl!
“A wife is not discovered in the eyes; a wife is discovered in the soul.” Bishop this statement was awesome! ❤🙌🏽
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Yes indeed!!!!!🎯💯‼️
I felt that 🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥
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Yessss a whole word💯💯
1. Manners and etiquette
2. Language of the women
a.) Tone
b.) vocabulary
c.) timing
3.Feminine pacing
a.) running ahead of a man = stop needing his protection
b.) respect his role as leader/ represent him with dignity and Grace
c.) stop being proud being his partner
4. Facial Expressions
A mean mug is no way to attract kings
a.) kind eyes
b.) heart is warm but face is cold
1. Manners
Thanks ❤
Thank you
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Thank you for listing this
I often get bullied especially by black women for being too kind and I thought something was wrong with me. I tried to do things that made me “tougher” but it only made me weaker. I’m still learning that it is okay to be kind and not have a mean mug all the time. The video is confirming that there is nothing wrong with me. God made me this way for a reason
Absolutely nothing wrong with you sister 😊
Those women was jealous of your kind spirit because they do not wear it in them..God Bless
Same shoes as you but I won’t ever change my kind nature for anybody just because they don’t wear that kind of clothes on them and wish they would possess such quality.
I seriously doubt black women are bullying you. Maybe stop looking down on black women instead of thinking so "highly" of yourself.
@@nicolesolomon213 I don’t look down on black woman…I just don’t think we need to be seen a certain way, but I’ll let you win with your opinion since only you knows what I’ve experienced in MY life
My Nani was an Etiquette teacher. Her & my grandfather were also English professors at Bowie State. I remember weekends full of simulated dining. Posture correction. Correct bending over & sitting techniques. Positive mirror affirmations. I literally thought my Nani was Crazy when I was little. 😂 My grandfather took us to the Ballet. The Opera. Fine dining. We weren't allowed to speak broken English. Our manners had to be impeccable. On my Father's side ..My Big Mama was a Geechie/Native American "Uman" loI (iykyk) who loved my grandfather dearly. We sat on the porch snapping peas. Washing greens from her garden, planting watermelon, taking the mattresses out and beating them with a stick...EVERY SATURDAY MORNING!! (Wasn't no cartoons till chores were done 😩😂) tending goats, making ho cakes, hand washing the floors, & cleaning EVERY piece of China with vinegar and hot water. 😩 I was teased relentlessly when I was younger. Called white girl. Thought I was"better than." Called Bourgeois. Country ...You name it!! I was low-key ashamed of my upbringing. But as an adult with a successful husband, 4 Wonderful boys, and a 16 yr long marriage. I'm glad I was raised the way I was. My childhood wasn't ordinary but my adult life is Blessed bc of it.
Love it sis ❤
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story ❤
Keeping it classy and elegant. I love it
Your story is beautiful . Thanks for sharing
WoW inspiring
When he said “consider this a father daughter talk” made me so emotional 😭 thank you so much for this. My father passed away when I was 11 & I’ve always yearned for his wisdom. ❤
My dad just passed away a fee years ago, and I needed more wisdom from him. I got married early and became a widow early in life. My dad just kept saying that I was so smart and married a good boy. He said that I knew what to do, but after being married then widowed and getting back out there late. I made mistakes. My dad called himself complimenting me about being smart and didn't realize that I needed his male guidance. I will just wait to see if God has another for me. I do appreciate Bishop Blake's and Lisa's wisdom.
It made me emotional too. My father was never in my life. I need this so much.
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Encouragement for you:Ps 56:3,Jer 29:11,John 14:15,John 14:18&John 14:27 kjv
Me too. Loved the Father & Daughter talk
What makes a woman attractive to a great man...
1: Manners & Etiquette
🧄 A great man isn't going to tolerate buffoonery. Proverbs 12:4; 1 Corinthians 11:7-9; Proverbs 11:16
2: A great man is drawn to the language of a woman. Proverbs 31:26
🧄 A woman's words will move a great man positively or negatively.
A. Tone - Proverbs 21:19
B. Vocabulary - 2 Timothy 2:16
C. Timing - 1 Peter 3:1
3: A great man is attracted to your feminine pacing: slow & deliberate. Colossians 3:18
When we aren't in our feminine pacing, it signifies that -
A. I don't expect your protection
B. Don't respect his role as leader
C. Not proud of being next to him
4: Facial expressions - Proverbs 15:13; Isaiah 3:9
Thank you Bishop.
Exactly what u was looking for. Thanks sis.
Thank you sis, for the information beautifully written. 💞
Thank you!
Thank you Sis❤
Thanks for the Cliff notes! 📝
A woman who spends time in Gods presence will have these Traits ☺️
the man is attracted to the sound coming from a womans soul!! You preaching...my husband said the same thing! i agree with him.
I’m so thankful I grew up under my grandmothers,mother, aunts, teachers that were Ladies!!! They taught me ETIQUETTE 🙌🏾
Somebody failed Somebody..teach it
VES, GOD KEEP US FROM BEING UNCOMMON.
Yes, it is so very important
Amen my Sister!
Yes I learned how to act like a lady but alas.
Thank you for sowing into your Internet Daughters and blessing us with your insight! 💕
This was sooo good and highly informative. This is why some women never lack male attention and suitors simply by how they carry themselves and the kindness they operate with. I'm never stepping out of my feminine, I love being treated like a lady by a masculine man. The dynamic is beautiful. These are all facts.
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When you have to do everything solely as a lady you lose your feminine. Sometimes it’s not by choice but rather you are forced to be masculine. This is how I’ve survive with my 4 children alone
Some women lack male attention due to skin color.
Which is sad
@@lifeis2171 Preach!!! Lets' talk about what men really look for first, white skin. Especially black men.
I told a man I’m not matching his energy so he needed to change his tone and speak to me like a lady.
That’s growth for me because I used to match energy and had no problem cussing someone out. I don’t want to be that way anymore. Maintain your dignity.
Blessings to you sister for that growth!🙏
We absolutely don’t match energy. We should always be strive to be our best selves no matter what.
Did this the other day because I used to be a woman who fought fire with fire and would definitely argue back. He yelled, cursed, and I remained respectful in a calm tone while getting my point across by the end of that exchange he was apologizing for his yelling and how he talked. He’s been calm ever since, don’t raise that voice at all and very well at communicating now.
@@keyanberry3703 love this
1. Refined, polished, and dignified. (etiquette / manners) 2. Language. (tone, vocabulary, timing) 3. Feminine pacing. (*Ladies do not rush.) 4. Facial expressions.
Feminine pacing is a problem for me. I do everything at a fast pace. Been like that my whole life.
If you can pay for a concert to see Beyonce, then you can, and should pay for an etiquette class. That's WORD! I love you sir!
We sometimes forget that is the beauty of the soul that really counts😊
Thank you! I’m a southern woman, I was raised up like this and I still believe this to the fullest! I thought something was wrong with me for a moment! Thank you Bishop 🫶🏾
Same darling. In due time, we will have our God ordained spouse.
Same!✨🫶🏽
I grew up thinking my whole life men only desire me for my body and looks and I still struggle with that. From being abused as a child by a family member I always thought sex=love love=sex. I'm thankful there are men who speak on these things because I was never taught otherwise
When you said to consider this a father-daughter talk it brought me to tears. Something I never knew I craved and needed. Thank you
That's uncle R.C... He's my uncle and he don't even know it..🙏🏾💕
I AM ANTICIPATING TO WATCH THIS CROWN ADJUSTING VIDEO BISHOP BLAKES!!!! YOU ALWAYS REMINDS US QUEENS TO KEEP ADJUSTING OUR CROWNS, WALK, TALK AND REMEMBER WHO WE ARD AND WHOSE WE ARE!!! THE KING'S DAUGHTERS AMEN!!!!!💜💜💯💯🖐🏾🖐🏾💃🏾💃🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥👑👑🦁🐑
Amen
Well written! and definitely speaks to the mission of the RC Blakes we honor so much!
WOW!!!!!!!! “When a woman runs ahead she is not respecting him as a leader” I’m always running ahead of my bfs.. I was never told this advice!!!! Thank you!!!! 🤯💞
😂😂. Well sounds like you have to stop 🛑 leaving that Man behind 🙄😂
Can’t wait! It’s a privilege to be mentored by a prophetic leader. Clearly, something has changed in the spiritual realm. I feel that Bishop is preparing us for marriages that are about to manifest. Thank you so much Paps. We honor you. 🙏🏾
I agree with you!
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Standing in agreement & praying while waiting on the prepared specimen ❤️👆🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽
I’m sanding in agreement
wow i just had the same throught while strolling through the comments during the opening song
Another fantastic message, Bishop! This was confirmation for me that I really am ready mentally and emotionally to be someone’s wife. Once I graduate this summer I am making a promise to myself to get myself out and about so that I can actually be found. I’ve grown and healed so much throughout my 20s, and now in my 30s I’m amazed at all of the blessings and peace I’ve been granted now that I’ve surrendered my ego and committed myself to being obedient to God. His timing is perfect, and His plan has beaten mine every single time.
Ditto❤️
queen ❤
Come back and give us an update in 3 years.
@@October3074 I most definitely will!
this is so beautiful. proud of you sister. i pray the lord grants you plentiful blessings for the fruits of your labour, amen ✨
My favorite video to date by far! My earthly Dad is 74 and has never ever taught me anything godly preachers and teachers preach and teach! Thank you 5 fold minister!
My Mother taught me to focus on inner beauty. The outer beauty I have couldn't have made me who I am today.
I have been askiing this question forever and you actually give clear instructions that I never would have considered. Everybody says - wait on God, rather than - here's what you need to work on! God can tell us what we need to work on while we're waiting. Thank you SO MUCH - implementing immediately. I'm no Roger Federer. I will be moving slower etc.
OMG THAT INTRO SONG BRINGS TEARS TO MY EYES… I FEEL SO EMPOWERED EVERY SINGLE TIME I HEAR IT🙌🙌🙌🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎵🎵🎶🎶🎶
ME TOO! It says it ALL
What's the tittle of the song?
@@hadijawasike5251 I’m unsure. I honestly think it’s like a customized theme song that he had exclusively made.
Yes it gets me every time!!
I got it and downloaded it.. The title is "SHE" by Dave Hollister
Don’t have a husband. No man in my life. Just working on being a Queen.😊😊
I'm a Queen and I know my worth and I will not back down. What is sex without Marriage and as you know Queen we who love God our steps are ordered by God ❤❤ ❤
Crying at my desk at work listening to the intro. It’s been hard. Never thought I’d be a single mom after decades of marriage & trying to be a good wife & mother. Was kicked to the curb for a WW. The intro really touches my soul. Thanks RC!
Baby you're going to make it and thrive! And you'll be in an interracial marriage as well. ❤️❤️
I hope "WW" isn't referring to a "white woman". If it is, blame your husband, not the color of the woman he left you for. I am a WW who was recently treated horribly by a narcissistically successful, Bentley owning, BM. I just tell people this man was not worthy of me, irrespective of the color of his skin.
If in fact I'm wrong, apologies...............from this size 10, educated, well-mannered, intelligent WW.
Sis, you gon be alright! Keep praying and moving forward 🙏
❤❤❤ praying for you sis. I am and for you to see how valuable you are in Gods eyes. He will take care of you. He will!
@@kare2165well said! Glad you kicked that BM to the curb! Good for you!❤❤❤
I cried as I listened to this. Cause I try so hard to be what I think I'm supposed to be, but I make so many mistakes. Look around trying to find out what to do but no one to teach me. It takes a father to care enough to correct you. Despise not the chastening of the Lord, for whom the Lord loves He chastens. Thank you @Rcblakes for being that for me, and for hearing the voice of the Lord and for showing us the way ❤️
Baby the internet will teach you great thinks if you let it. I use it for etiquette classes that I put together for my children.
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A Character Of A Person Is What Makes Them A High Valuable Human Being! It’s The Matters Of The Heart That Makes Them Valuable To me!!!
Been married for 9 years , dated for 1, friends for 2…. He is telling the truth !
Thank you once again, Bishop! This video was right on time as I am softening myself and tapping into my feminine energy. I have a wonderful man in my life who is healthy and serious about our relationship. I want to match his loving, kind, and compassionate energy. This was a right on time message for me and I will share the video.
You just got another daughter from Nigeria, started following you 2 weeks ago and I can't stop listening to you every message I tune into comes with mind blowing truths for my growth as a queen 👑 that I am. Thanks for helping me find me
It truly blessed me to hear this! The traits that you described are traits that I have but also traits that have been unappreciated or criticized, like “Why are you so proper?” or “You’re too nice!”, etc. I honestly feel like this has kept me single because a lot of men are marrying or partnering with the loud, crass, promiscuous, abrasive, ratchet type of women, BUT… these are not the type of men that you described as being high value and that’s the key! I think a lot of women like me have been overlooked or unappreciated by certain men for being softer, well-mannered or thoughtful, but I’m finally figuring out… that’s just not my audience! And I think it’s so important to understand (particularly for us women of color because the cultural norms are perpetuating a different standard) women with class are just as rare as the truly high-value men who can appreciate and recognize a woman like that!
your not being overlooked there is something hindering you being married or staying married ask YAH to show you
This is definitely the father daughter talk I needed growing up. I appreciate the message and I receive it 🧘🏽
No push back from me ! I need these conversations. I been out of order for years ! Thank you ! You are a blessing to me. I didn’t have a father to teach me. My daughters don’t have a father to teach them. I take these lessons back to them.
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As long as GOD gives you air to breathe, don't you ever STOP teaching the truth! I was thoroughly blessed after listening. I must admit, I need to work on my "facial expressions"! Thank you❤️. Massachusetts 🙏
They used to promote Etiquette Classes back in my day. If they brought it back, I would be trying to get in ASAP. You act like who you are around. I need a refresher course. I'll never stop absorbing knowledge. ✌️❤️🍷
I NEVER had any idea of feminine pacing, etc. I just thought moving fast meant being active/ agile . I'm soooo glad you're teaching this. May be useful for my next husband.
Thank you for this teaching. I needed this. With being a single mom and having to do everything on your own, sometimes it’s hard turning that masculine energy off. With this and other teachings I can say I’ve drastically improved. So thanks again bishop. Happy New Year to you and your family🎉🎉❤
I'm right there with you... Even learning to step out of it when dealing with my adult son... Thankful for uncle R.C!
It’s a balance to have both energies. Not having a balance of masculinity will get you used.
@@amerokeewiya1320 I'm not sure I agree with you...if I understand what you're saying. If we're consistently in our masculinity then we would repel a masculine man.
Thank you Bishop RC Blakes Jr. for all you and Lisa do. 🙏🏼
Ask and you will receive.
In his Time, his will has been Done.
Sent me a Queen 👸🏾
“Pacing…”, what an amazing illustration. So true!
This was done with Excellence! At times I was crying laughing 😂. But Bishop, you spoke nothing but the Truth! I look forward to more.
Yesss he be cracking me up 😂😂😂
This was sooooooo good!! I truly have to continue to be myself. Don't allow a job or anything to take you out of your Godly mindset! I'm happy had a chance to listen to this video!
I watch all your content, very educational and much needed. Thank you for sharing the content, we need more of it!!! Your videos have changed my life ❤
Love these father daughter talks. Keep up the excellent work Bishop
I cry when I hear this song because I been through so much, sometimes I even got numb to my circumstances being too pensive. Your ministry is so encouraging and really uplifting!!!
Isn't that intro song amazing!!! Come through!
Patiently waiting. I know it will be a very informative, yet exciting discussion!
Keep helping everyone Bishop!
Excellent timely message. True father and daughter talk. I needed to hear this. Now I know the areas I need to work on as I position myself as Godly wife to a Great man. I clearly know what a great man looks like. God bless you Bishop..
I’ve been listening to Bishop for at least a year now. Side note.. I’m not a religious practicing individual, I do believe in a God/ universe/ source that provides men like bishop for us on this earth plain.. And many of his contents were very helpful in aiding us as women to be better versions of ourselves. I thank you from the bottom of my heart, from changing and growing out of bitterness and super independent.. to being engaged and will marry my amazing God given gift of a man by the end of this year! Thanks again for your content!! ❤
Diamond you need to get a relationship with your creator CHRIST IS RETURNING SOON and your opinion and view will not stand. The bible says you must be born again. If you are not born again and do what the LORD TELL us to do. Your soul will be cast into hell. GOD wants people who will honor him and do things his way. Anything other that you are a rebel. I hope you make the right decision.
These conversations are always so classy and deep.Thanks Pastor for another intriguing message. Continued blessings on your ministry and your family.🙌
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I think women need to hear you on a constant basis. Some of us don’t know what to look for or don’t care how they behave or influence someone else to behave😢
Dear R.C. Blakes,
I just wanted to express my heartfelt gratitude for all that you’ve done. I’ve been listening to you for five years, and I’m still learning and growing from your teachings. Life has been challenging, but your words have been a great source of encouragement.
Your excellent sense of humor always lifts my spirits! The "Oh my God, Oh my God..." moment and the board meeting voice had me laughing so hard today. You truly have a gift for making even the most important lessons enjoyable and engaging.
May God bless you abundantly in this world and the Hereafter
Etiquette is missing in society…I could go on but I don’t want to step on toes……
Coming to think about it: it is actually a sad thing that grown ups have to learn these days that it isn't only about looks... character, decency, etiquette, friendlyness, how to address people, public behaviour... I was approached by a young man recently. A few years back I would have totally fallen for him, because he's my type 🤣. But this time I told him I can't stand the way he addresses or approaches me. I told him that I was very sorry but he's too rude for my liking. The poor guy couldn't believe his ears, because he was counting on his looks and career.
This has truly blessed me and opened my eyes. I am too masculine. I am working on tapping into my feminine energy, and this has set the course for me to achieve who I really am! God is bringing me back in alignment
Thanks Pastor ☺️
I was just thinking about a good word from you. Thanks Lady Lisa!❤️
Sir!! You have blessed me with this truth right here! My God!! My parents raised my sisters and I this way, but I have never heard anyone teach about it!! Thank you!!
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!! No better teacher than a GODLY man!
Our Nation and the World are Blessed to have Your Teachings!!!!!!!!
Thank you Bishop, may the Lord continue to empower and inspires you as you put in more wisdom in relationships and marriages
@Rcblakes-jr will do that ,bless your heart always.
I'm from the state of Louisiana! Having said that, that introduction song was amazing; I am that woman, however; the man I chose didn't deserve me nor value me and I gave him everything plus three kids. So after 30+ years I divorced him; I couldn't be happier. Currently, I'm in a long distance situationship with my guy from another country! Come to find out he's a very high level soulmate or something deeper that I've never experienced before. WOW!
Also My ex was a man of the cloth too!☹️
I appreciate you and all you've shared!! You put truth into the world. You are the REAL!! REAL DEAL!! Praise God for your ministry. Keep going!!
I love your teaching!! God bless you and your efforts to enhance the lives of women.
As a 22 year old woman this is exactly like that father and daughter talk I've always needed I love my dad dearly but he never had these types of conversations with me but listening to you has restored my understanding more about becoming a better woman 💕
Great message I was never taught to have a wife attitude or present myself that way. So glad I have found you! Thank you.
COME ON WITH IT PASTOR BLAKES IM HERE FOR IT
I absolutely love Bishop Blake’s content, and how funny he is sometimes without even trying to be. Every time I click on one of his videos it blesses me.
Loving the intro song. Well written and heartfelt. Thanks
Thank you Bishop, to God be The Glory!!!
This is one of the most amazing messages I've heard, it's so illuminating and inspiring! This message is for me. God bless you more for this sir.
Beautiful Message Bishop.. Your Examples Are Wonderful Points… I Came From COGIC Churches From Baby Up To My Adult Life & My Mother & Father Keep Us All In Line From Purity Class Sunshine Band Young Women & Men Groups… We Was Blessed To Have These Teachings Along The Way & It Has Stuck With Me Throughout My Life Even When I Went The Wrong Way & Thought I Was Gonna Do It My Way… Even As We Just Laid My Dad To Rest A Few Months Ago.. I Get It Now!! Amen!!!
This is the one I needed! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Well said ❤ RC has helped me sooo much!! He’s literally my earthly father. He’s taught me things that my parents should’ve taught me. I’m so blessed to have found him.
Thanks for this! 💯 FACTS! Married for almost 3 decades. 🙏🏽🙌🏽
21:59 🤭😂 Much needed father & daughter talk…. Thank you for being our spiritual father!
Bishop 😂 that impression of the woman chewing gum sent me LOL!!! Such a great message. Thank you for always keeping it real with us.
Same here it was soooo hilarious😅
Thank you…..❤🎉
I have some work to do …
This message convicted me on things I need to work on. Thank you. ❤
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My first time catching RC Blakes Jr live 🙌🏽
As a Devine feminine listening to this was such a pleasure…. This gave me the confirmation that I am already in my feminine energy I love this great teaching for a woman thank you great king❤♥️🙏🏾 all women need these teachings to be truly Devine feminine.
It’s key to balance BOTH energies.
I needed this word Bishop Blakes. The section on feminine pacing is a word in season. I was doing everything else you mentioned, but I struggle greatly with feminine pacing. I will meditate on this word and apply. Thank you SO much , as always for your divinely inspired , practical, applicable teaching.
Girl, ouch, right!
Pastor Blake your words are always refreshing in helping me prepare myself as lady (wife)of excellence.Thank God for your ministry.
Amen, thank you. You nailed it Bishop! from a " thriving widow with a purpose"
Manners and etiquette are soft skills that I teach. ❤
Pastor, I’m so thankful to GOD for this message given to you to give to women, specifically ME. I’ve lost a “great man” and didn’t realize that I can be this woman you speak of. I cursed, he told me he didn’t like it. I tried to remove it from my daily vocabulary/dialogue but it still came out. He would tell me to watch what I said to him. I was quick to anger. SMH. I hung out with my friends a lot too. I am being read like a book and all of my actions are flooding my head right now. Now, I get what he meant by “love is not enough”. He would tell me that I need to change and I didn’t perceive the depth of what he meant. I am truly saddened as I now realize but he is gone. I am humbled, contrite and convicted. This is helping me more than you know. GOD has been dealing with me and this amongst other revelations has confirmed it. Change is coming. Thank you 🙏🏾
You are getting better and better every video, Dear Pastor!❤ Thank You So Much for everything You do, and for making such a huge impact in women’s destinies 🥹 God Bless You and Your Family 🙏Always with love from the bottom of my heart Your Loved Ones ❤
I’m 21 and so happy I’m seeing your videos while I’m still young so I can get ready early and make being a Godly feminine women my lifestyle. I really needed this video. I was avoiding it lol but I finally decided to just watch it. The last part about facial expressions…Thank you so much for this video!!!
Sooooo good Bishop, sooo on time. Bless you sir! I thank God for your teachings.
I'm. Glad. You. Are. Talking about this. Because. Men. Thinks. All. Women. Are. Looking. For. The. Wrong. Men. Thankyou
I watch this video at least 3 to 4 times a day and while I lay in the bed wanting to fall a sleep. This is my favorite video, because not only is it funny, but it speaks facts. When he starts talking about forks and going to the bathroom, I cannot stop laughing. My husband watched a couple of video's and said he wished he would touch on men too, because we have issues too not just women. Now I'm trying to go through all his video's to see if there is something I can share with my husband and our son's. I know it is up here somewhere.
Thank you Bishop Blakes. Much needed father daughter talk.
Lots of us are heading that way thanks to the great and high value content of your channel, Bishop. May God bless you and your beloved ones. Hear you later! 🍀🤍🙌
I appreciate you so much Pastor Blake’s. You are heaven sent. You are living proof that God work through his people. Again, thanks, stay blessed🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you for taking the time to share this message with us 🙏🏾👏🏾💜
This is good! I needed this! Thank you for sharing this! It’s crazy that I have to learn this online from a man. My mother never taught me this stuff
Real talk. I got to comment on the woman running ahead of a man. This is so common and a shadow of disrespect. It hilarious, I don't think I've heard many man talk about this. My boy RC old school fr! God bless this man 🙏
Just straight up practical teaching. This is what makes the Bible come alive
🦋Just like you said, it's the rhythm of the relationship. It just flows like a dance when you're compatible.
🦋A lot of women especially the black woman have preachy tones. That's something that we have to work on. Men don't like to be spoken down to.
🦋Not being vulgar is a challenge for a lot of us because that is how a lot of us in our culture present ourselves. I curse when I'm mad but to speak like that in everyday conversations, I try not to. It doesn't look good when men do it either. Men shouldn't get a pass and BURPING is a huge turn off.
🦋As far as a partnership goes. You are partners. Equal. As in equally yoked. You are both leaders in the relationship and I would love to walk side by side with my partner and not ahead of him. I haven't felt feminine in a long time since my appearance changed. I am tall and fat.
🦋As far as being dignified, I have to disagree. You are in a profession where your image is very very important. I know how it is. I was a pastor's daughter. I was around a lot of serious people who had that type of composure BUT every dignified man does not want the serious type. Some men like a more exuberant type of woman. I'm in the middle. I don't like too serious but I don't like too exuberant. And just because you don't act dignified it doesn't mean that you don't have any dignity about yourself.
Sometimes that could come off as self righteous or too uptight.
I am quiet. What's the scripture? A quiet woman is like rubies to her husband. Something of that nature. My motto is just be yourself. Don't try to be someone else. Thanks for the tips