SEVEN KEYS TO A WOMAN TESTING A MAN by RC Blakes
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SEVEN KEYS TO A WOMAN TESTING A MAN by RC Blakes
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When a man says " you ask too many questions" I'm out
"Marriage is not the death of me, but the birth of we."
Beautifyl!!
This is beautiful!
Yes that sounds beautiful and all but in most cases it's not true.
Yes 🎉✅
“Lust gets bored.”
That’s a word of truth right there!
I actually needed to pray about my situation rn and I sent this to one of my girls. She JUST texted me and I also JUST read this comment while the video was playing and the pastor said the exact same sentence. If those aren’t signs, than idk what is.
Real Raw Truth Here Buddy!
1. Prove his self - control. 2. Prove his servant's heart by expressing your needs and watching his response. 3. Prove his synergy with you by sharing your dreams with him. 4. Prove his authenticity through questions. 5. Test his love by his capacity to rest with you. 6. Is he learning your love language? 7. Can I please him?
Exactly why i'm still totally Celibate, Single Not Lonely and Happy. Amen
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6:42
13:10
1. 15:14
2. 27:49
3. 34:24
4. 43:30
5. 52:10
6. 55:03
7. 56:04
I Totally Agree...
My niece who is an RN and her boyfriend is an attorney. (They are married now.) They are both very Christian. The would always meet for every date and leave separately and go to their respective residences. They were never alone together and were not tempted. They were both virgins until their wedding night. They were both in their 30s when they got married! It worked! It can be done. They dated for 4 years. Great video as always!
@rhondawalker amazing!
Thank you for sharing this testimony! I hope they are still successful and doing well! Esp with very difficult careers
4 years? Um, way to long for clean, holy young people..
Did they date structuredly, in stages, starting by dating several, platonically?
"Just because a man is a good man, doesn't mean he is a good man for you" AMEN, I am 3 months out of a toxic relationship with a "good man", who was controlling and manipulative, had low self esteem and projected all of his insecurities into our relationship.
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Doesn’t sound like a good man then.
Dated a man like that. He was “good” from afar but extremely difficult to deal with up close.
Not good. He displayed goodness but was evil inside, this is called a snake…..
You teach all the things that I wish my father had taught me. I'm 51 years young, from Delaware. Divorced after 3 decades from a narcissist, went right into bad relationships because I felt SO lonely. I was the breadwinner, made the decisions, gave to everyone else, was a people pleaser and just so tired of being the leader. I should have stopped to heal, to learn myself and the results of my childhood trauma. You have helped me to start over again, to listen to my intuition, to make wise decisions to end relationships that aren't evenly yoked. THANKYOU for being an example of a godly man. MAY Adonai bless you and your beautiful wife!
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It's never too late to learn. I know women older than you who still haven't learn. I'm spending time now healing and getting over my childhood trauma. This is best I've ever felt...single and growing.
Be gentle w yourself .. we didn’t have this education , information or spot light on these characters . We didn’t realized are behaviors are from our childhood wounds , and theirs predators that feed off childhood wounds .. married 40 yrs w covert narc . We need pastors videos shown in high schools … bc these narcs are the real pandemic . 😵💫
Hallelujah!!! My story too
God Gotcha 😇
I wish.....I wish I had heard this one year ago to save me the pressure of having sex with someone who ended up being the worst monster I had ever met. I pray that God will heal my heart, mind and spirit and that I will be able to forgive myself and move forward.
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Psalm 147:3
You’re not the only one. I did this too I am a witness GOD will heal you. Forgive yourself and forgive the person.
I think it’s so funny when he says “I gotta go I’ve spent too much time talking” and then I immediately go and watch two or three more 50 minute videos 😂 I just love the wisdom that spews from him. 🙌🏾
Lol!! I do the exact same thing! 50 minutes of divine directions! My soul is being nourished & the Holy Spirit is confirming.
Thank you RC Blake’s
Me too! Lol
Same here! 😅
I put up with so much in relationships because I didn't understand my worth. I know better now. Thank you for this teaching.
Amen me too!!!
Yes!!!!
Amen me too!!!!
Amen me three!!
I still am searching for my worth. I’m attracted to toxic situations
Abstinence is a test of one’s character or even “fruit of the Spirit” since self control is one of the fruits of the Spirit. I think we forget about this one fruit.
The fruit is a reflection of the root.
as a young woman who’s biological father passed when I was 15…and seeing all of the older women in the comments wishing they would’ve met you sooner or had you in their lives younger…as a 28yr old with no kids and no man. Thanks “Dad” 🙏🏾💕
I AM AN OLDER SINGLE WOMAN MYSELF NO BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN EXCEPT SPIRITUAL ONES AND I AM STILL LEARNING!!😇
God is blessing you
I resonate with this. Lost my dad at 14, now im 26 with no kids and no man. Forever grateful for this wisdom.
Dear 28 year old sis. Preserve yourself. These men are AWFUL many narcissist and predators. I am now 53, single, one adult child. I wish I could go back to 28 and stay celibate to truly weed out all the imposters they will waste your life and use your body and no God in them. They will use God and religion to get over on you. Very sad. I am not bitter just FACTS. I am starting Graduate school to get my masters soon and looking forward to dating an equally yoked man who will prove himself. Be smart.
Blessings sisters 😊 we are all like sisters now 😅
"How can two walk together unless they agree?" One of my favorite Scriptures Pastor Blakes.
Amos 3:3 very good one 👍
“Submit to her Husband, to her husband, to her husband” period!! Amen 🙏💯💯💯
Truth….my marriage was to an untrustworthy man. He was not a masculine man. He was a “simp”. So tragic. If I had knowledge, it would have saved so much pain. Thank you Pastor.
Pastor…would you update the 9 questions?
I thought my husband was bi polar .. but just realized he’s a covert narc and I’m w him 40 yrs . Ppl wear a good mask these days 😵💫
Masculine men can as well be toxic and abusive. As a woman it’s just the luck of the draw whether u get a men tht truly loves yu. No matter his mannerisms
Yes
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At 30:32 - To me, when a man drops everything when you ask him for some help, this is so romantic & loving, it shows a wonderful connection between the couple.
My ex did but let me tell you, he is the worst kind of a narcissticist. He jumped most of the time bc I ran the relationship & it was NOT by my choice.
So true. Acts of service is my love language and the man I was involved with knew this and when opportunities presented themselves to prove his words he failed almost every time! That actually was the last straw recently that caused me to cut him off and block him.
An unproven man is an untrusted man”
That message spoke to me...Im taking this as a vow... Thank you Pastor Blakes.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
YUPPA!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾I AM RE EVALUATING THINGS CONCERNING MY RELATIONSHIPS WITH MEN NOW!!! MAN LOOKS AT THE OUTWARD APPEARANCE, BUT GOD LOOKS AT THE HEART AMEN!!!!
I recently heard an author say attraction and chemistry are just the floor and paint (find out what the house is made of, foundation, roof, history before buying). I loved the analogy and thought I'd share.
Amen
It has taken me 32 years to realize this!
Me to sis 💗🙏🏾
Pastor, the first thing that came to my mind was I wish I had found your teaching years ago, but a thought came to my mind’ it’s never too late!!! Thanks for your growth Jesus ❗
When the student is ready, the Teacher will appear. You are ready my friend. The time is now. God bless you. 🙏🏽🌺❤️
I agree 💯
@@keepthechange1 Ooohhh! That is a word right there.🔥🔥 The Lord bless you as well. 🙏
I AM IN FULL AGREEMENT WITH YOU SIS!!!👋🏾👋🏾! IF I KNEW WHAT I KNOW NOW FROM YOUR TEACHINGS BISHOP BLAKES, I WOULD HAVE BYPASSED THE DUMB STUFF, MEN AND SITUATIONS AMEN!!!
That was God.
Thats right abstinence it won't take long before they show you who they are lol 😆 😂 🤣 SELF CONTROL IN SINGLENESS HE WILL STRUGGLE IN MARRIAGE...BIG OLE FACTS...late night calls never wanna take u out always wanna come over are Red 🚩
This channel deserves to be on Oprah Winfrey's channel. It's a genuine match. This is the type of content she and her audience would appreciate. It's beyond valuable. Thank you for being the father that most of us will never have in real life, when it comes to being able to go to him for relationship advice.
I don't think he/we need more Oprah at all. We're good.
It should be it’s own show. Pastor Blakes and his beautiful bride Lisa are amazing.
I agree this valuable information. 🙏🏽
No not Oprah. That woman is about self promotion and not a woman after God's heart. She is apart of the elite and has an agenda to introduce people to New Age teachings instead of Christ's teaching. Blake's is doing just what he needs to do at this time
When your “standard is broken”…it’s time to pray, look inward, ask the Father to help you heal and draw closer. Thank you for your teachings. God bless you!
This is exactly the issues in my relationship. Every single one of these is lacking and my husband has been trying to convince me that Im asking for too much. Its all my fault, he never wouldve passed the tests if I wouldve known before. I found all of these things to be necessary on my own. You put them into words beautifully.
When a woman questions and interrogates a man, she's working to a place where she can trust him in order to be In her role and allow him to lead 🥳🥳🥳🔥
This part sums up the whole message! Everything is locked solid within this simple context! If he can’t / won’t answer questions, red flag flying all over the place!! Let the whole thing go, he’s not the one for you.
Hello from New Jersey. I can’t get enough of your teaching & extremely grateful that I found your channel!! I’m 52 & lost my Dad to cancer when I was 4, your wisdom has changed my life because I was a silly woman who attracted my childhood trauma in every relationship I found myself in & a narc magnet but thanks to you, those days are over!! Thank you 🙏
Some entertainers are good pretenders...
My ex-husband was a good provider and father. I settled. He was a workaholic. Where was the love ?
@@janicerockwell8417 pppp0pppppppppp lol ppppppppppplplplllp
These clowns are great actors…….UNTIL you know what you’re looking at!!! Biggest lesson of my life.
@@janicerockwell8417 yes they are Really Good at this!!!True Fakers!!!!
I listen every night as I go to sleep.
That’s funny- I do the same!!
Lol same!!
I love this msg, POWERFUL, I call my husband my king bcuz of the man he is to me and in general, I often times tell him that he is a man of many men, this msg showed me truly that he is a king. I give Yahweh praise and thanks for blessing me with a really good husband 🙏
Dear God,i want this to be my testimony
Bless me with a good man ,Amen
Yes! I want this to be my testimony too
Yes! I want this to be my testimony too
I'm happy for you!
Yes I want this to be my testimony too! Amen 🙏🏾
The Queens are here. God bless each of you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hahaha OMG that was my email! I'm so happy you replied in this form and so quickly! Woke up in the morning and saw this, made my day 🤣 God bless you always
Blessings to you! It was a great question which answer has benefited many!
Agree, it was a great question of how to vet a man without playing games
The greatest gift a woman can give to a man is her FEMININITY, not just her feminine body. Woman’s body is a part of much bigger picture which includes spirit, energy, beauty, passion, and love. A body without a feminine soul means nothing.
There should be no excuses for staying in a relationship with someone that puts you through more stress and pain over love and joy.
💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Queens ask questions only a king can answer!!
I know that's right 👍.
Some men get very angry and shout when you ask them certain questions like about their marital status!
@Deborah you are right... that's that red sign... runnnnnn lol
Hello Pastor you are a blessing to me as 22 yr old woman.
I Love Your teachings Pastor Blake's, because you back it up with the scriptures from the Holy Bible!
Amen!
Very good teaching
This is going to be GOOD. I feel it in my soul.
Me toooo
Me three
You describe a dance where a woman can trust the true course of the man and follow his lead, and so then can 'submit' to the beauty of the music and movement of two as one...
Thankyou, beautiful
Amen!!! That's why I have been Celibate for 4 years!!! God is Awesome! I pray that God continues to keep me until I get married.🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
These teachings are for generations to come. I pray Gods blessing over a man who has covered us as daughters of God.
Amen!!!
Bless Pastor Blake!!!🙏🙏🙏
Ooooooooh Jesus
How I wish I had this message in my young teens, twenties and thirties.
i married someone who was not supposed to go past being an acquaintance. we dint last past 3months in the marriage. i dint have this knowledge and wisdom, thanks so much for this pastor RC
When a man treats you like God wants him to treat you, you will have no trouble submitting to your man! R,C Blake's is speaking truth!
God is going to keep blessing you both and your ministry because you are helping so many.🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Years ago I dated a guy for a bit, then one day I told him about my dream.. my passion of photography. Mind you, I'm already one and I have some success behind my back. He told me my dream was too much and that I should pick something more down to earth.
Dropped him that same conversation and told him why.
Never done better cut in my love life!
These people just weigh you down. Life is challenging enough without them.
Your wise words will work in any relationship. If you could include teachings for widows or those of us over 50 who are considering remarrying that’d be much appreciated. There are different dynamics in 2nd marriages, adult children, etc. Love your teaching.
I agree!
I agree
Me too...I agree!
I love this man. He helps us to set our bar high, be able to look the finer side of a man where most times we women overlook . @RCBlakes, you also need to run a course or a channel for parents. Most times parents need to instill good values and be a good example when the child is growing up. Why I am suggesting this? Coz I believe most of us are built the way we see our parents interact and our environment. Our surroundings makes us who we are.
Very valid point, I feel the same.
This teaching is my “level up” Praise God Blakes ministry
Girl me too💯♥️
Blessings sisters
THIS IS GOLDEN! G O L D E N
Wow. Speechless. I never learned how to vet him. Now after heartbreak amd divorce I am understanding thanks to you. Keep teaching ⚘Thank you
Me either!!! 3 marriages down the drain!
We got this ladies! Abusive marriage and dead end 10 year relationship later, I'm ready for this relationship to myself for myself. We're going to get our king's one day!
Thank you so much for the prayer at the end 💯💖
Can’t wait to hear the word; I have been watching u for months & caught up to ALL ur videos. The way the Lord uses you to minister is a blessing to my soul. 😇 - Minister Mari
Thank you. I am honored. 😊🙏🏽
Thanks for your words of wisdom. You are helping me rebuild the broken areas with… Completely, queen conscious! Thank you🙏🏾
@@RCBlakesJr. God go with you! Lead and give you the words we need to hear that God gives you to share. With Us!!!
Yes try the Spirits .watch how they operate in their lives.The words they speak when the man feels lax and comfortable around you. When they feel that they can be their real personality identity self!!!
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Hi everyone good to be here from Trinidad and Tobago
I have been very wise when it comes to handle men. They like boys who love their toys and Selfish. You have to be catch me if you can. 1) Love yourself 2) Able to live with yourself 3) Set boundaries 4) Respect yourself as a woman 5) Be very wise 6) Don’t take things personal 7) Watch your words 8) Able to control your thoughts and your actions 9) Choose wisely 10)Take care yourself mentally physical 11) Don’t be the first 1 to say I love you 12) Travel with that person before you move in together 12) Don’t tell your business with your man to your family or friends 13) Keep yourself very busy
Don't move in at all till marriage. Cohabitation isn't Wise because it's puts you in a place of compromise and temps the flesh
Amen! God is so faithful that even when I try to back slide he steps in on my behalf and I'm able to be kept!!! I have the power and authority over my flesh to wait for my KING and hold myself and walk as a QUEEN
I am excited to be apart of this evenings presentation 🙌
'The marriage it is not the death of me, it is the birth of we' ...Great! Thank you Pastor Blakes 💕
I love your channel! Still grateful for your teachings! While I have been engaged, I'm so glad I did not go through with that wedding! He was a horrible man and I knew it. Now I'm glad that I purposely take the time to date these men and figure out what they want from me. I have learned that I am lusted after by alot of men. Smh🤦🏽♀️ When you said is it infatuation, that's exactly how I feel, they feel about me. Until they get into this hot seat! I asked a man yesterday is he ready for the hard questions because some men tend not to be, even when they think they are. He said I will answer your questions! 😆 I have also had the man who came to visit me in flashy cars. When I asked him to teach me about stocks, he gave me nothing. He was the most inconsistent man I have ever met. So I took heed and moved on. I love testing a man to see where his mind is. It is so vital to my life and my purpose as a feminine woman. It has taken some time to get here. But I am here!
Watching for the 2nd time
How accomplished you are for all those you help to find true love. We all need love, we all want love, we all hope for love, we all hope for lasting love. You are on point with your direction. We just need to trust and follow your teachings. More importantly set our standards ,values and expectations and NEVER waiver. Ladies we are the power!
Good evening Bishop Blakes and First Lady Lisa Blakes🙏 I am so thankful for your ministry helping fatherless women like myself. ❤
Str8 awesomeness
Whew Praise the Lord Bishop!! I’m chuckling because I don’t know how to test 😂😂😂
My 1st time listening to u Pastor Blakes it was sooo very enlightening & refreshing i wish I had this knowledge b4 I got married & divorced....understanding a man and his intentions is key.....thank u for knowledge
You just described everything I’ve been doing subconsciously. I ask any man that shows interest questions upon questions while guarding my heart. So far, none have been able to Elicit trust because my questions were not answered.
God bless you sir. You are a spiritual guide to many. Thank you for your teachings
I grew up with no father in the home, most of my relationships have been dysfunctional but I'm learning to love ME first. and to respect myself.
Although the videos that are helping me through this difficult time were made between 1-3 yrs ago, they are speaking to my heart and soul TODAY! The exact messages that I need to hear are being delivered through this amazing servant of GOD to help his Queens and KINGS improve themselves and each other. I thank GOD that he allowed me to find you on this platform. Much love and blessings to you and your beautiful wife Lisa. GOD bless! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hello Bishop and everyone listening. Ready to enjoy and receive the message
Hello. Yes I am and shared it.
Pastor your truly annoited and I'm thankful for your life. I love your sense of humour, you put a smile on my face when you say 'Clowns in Crowns 👑' I once had one! Your words touch my soul and bring me to tears, just what woman needs from a wise father figure. I start my day with your videos without fail! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
There's a lot of people "Talking" but not "Truthing". Wise counsel.
You are doing EXACTLY WHAT GOD WANTS YOU TO DO......teach women (even me who at age 75, widowed aft. 53 yrs. in happy, good marriage....YET has been lacking in social skills because I never HAD to!!!...now I'm having to learn things I NEVER HAD A CLUE ABOUT!!!) So, that said....KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING PLEASE and I give GOD all the glory for it, which I can tell you are already doing. And thank you!
GOD Bless you Bishop for speaking about this pertinent subject!! 🙏 ❤
Wish I had this information in my early 20s, but learning it at 30 in this format/teaching is so refreshing. Tfs your knowledge with us Pastor Blakes! God bless you💫
Powerful and Outstanding!
Wow .. eye opening.. I’m just seeing it as I’m growing in a Queen consciousness
Thank God for you. I’m so happy He led me here.
I think Submission is a natural thing when the man allows the woman to function in a state of security because of his actions and words. He has made her feel safe, comfortable and trusting of his wisdom and ability to lead.
😆😆You're right about that...these days are just boys pretending to be men.
I love this word. It reminds me of animals. Males have to fight and/or prove themselves before the female animal submits herself to him.
Hello Pastor Blakes. Thanks for this message. The Holy Spirit has been speaking to me about this in this season of my life. My boundaries have been violated time and time again by this man and I'm at a point where I am no longer playing his game. Thank you for empowering young women all over the world. Your South African daughter here!
Ok so the introduction was a whole word by itself!!! 🙌🏽 thanks pastor for this word I so needed this as a reminder during this time of season 🙏🏽
Thank you for your wisdom tonight.God Bless you and Mrs Blake's
Thank God for your wisdom you are anointed and appointed for such a time as this to teach the women but also the man that would hear and not being offended or timid dated but learn to be blessed in their marriage and their relationship Godly marriage first putting God first honor that and blessed a man mentally physically and yes financially Thank You Pastor RC Blake, Beautiful Wife for being a Example of what a Marriaged couple should represent!🙏🏾🙌🏾👩❤️👩💞
I am absorbing these teachings and sharing with my sister and friends!, THAN YOU, pastor Blakes!
Wow. Pastor Blake's, I'm 45 and you say things I've never heard before but you make so much sense. May God bless you and thank you for your words of wisdom.
I share your video with many, you’ve been such a blessing to me. Thank you for keeping it real, God Bless you & ur wife. Look forward to seeing you both in Houston, Tx. 🙏🏼
1: Proves his self-control.
If a man can’t abstain from having sex; he won’t be able to abstain when he’s married. Proverbs 6:20;31:2-4
2: Proves his servants heart: by expressing my needs and watching how he reacts. Ephesians 5:24
3: Proves his synergy with his woman.
• Shares her dreams with him.
• Are we equally yoked?
Marriage isn’t the death of me but birth of WE!
A man that is too small for you; he will always be imitated by “his woman”. Genesis 37:8
4: Proves his authenticity through questions 1 Kings 10:1
• Ask a man the Hard questions?
Any man that’s authentic and genuine; is a man that’s comfortable with your questions.
A real man asks for trust.
When a woman interrogates a man, she is wanting to rest in her femininity.
5: Proves his by his capacity to rest with you. Judges 16:19
If a man has sex with you, and he leaves shortly after, he’s not your man.
6: Is he learning your love language?
1 Corinthians 4:5
If he isn’t learning you, he isn’t invested in you.
7: Can I please him?
When a woman can’t please a woman, her self-esteem is ruptured.
Thanks
#1 is rare especially in 2022. Men can pause and take their time pretend to be deeply involved.
I’m learning to be celibate again and hold unto to my cookie till I feel fully ready.
I love the fact that this Pastor is open about his life. He doesn’t hold back. Now he is happily married.
Thank you
@Nurse Raqki Joie - Thank you for the notes. 🙂🙏
THANK YOU BISHOP BLAKES!! GLAD YOU'RE IN HOUSTON!! NEXT TIME I'll GET MY DAUGHTER & HER FRIENDS TO VISIT YOUR CHURCH!!
At last, I am on time!!
Good night. I am watching from Anguilla in the Caribbean. I am always blessed by your videos, Bishop Blakes.
"When you ask questions and they get offended!" That's your answer! "When you ask questions and you get no answers!" "That's your answer!"
The male I been knowing for over 5 yrs told me that he hates questions cause questions lead to answer! He said that women trap men when they ask questions!
"If a man really loves a woman he is alright with questions, real talks, long talks for hours!
When a man really loves uou he opens up hie heart cause he wants a female to trust him. When a woman asks not accuses question after question for general understanding it's cause she wants to be able to trust you.
Good evening from Texas ♥️
Hey Sharon!!! 🙏🏽 Welcome 🤩
Good evening
Excellent Teaching and I AGREE ❗️👏🏾 My Significant Other heard some of his teaching from another video ; and he agreed that Mr. Blakes is SPOT ON❗️
This has shown me in a short time what I never knew about how men work. Yeah I have been in relationships that I wanted to be in but I never knew that that there were levels or foundations to be set. I normally went by the words and common sense known or felt through both parties. I felt all what has been said in this teaching and experienced all what has been said in this teaching directly and indirectly. I gave men all the control over themselves as a Man and in the end I was left with asking all kinds of questions in my mind. I give my all every time whenever I connect with people. But it was always taken advantage of from my perspective.
This is definitely Most Definitely One Of Your Best Like always thank you so much Pastor. Hello to the lovely first lady Lisa. Ty ty.
Perfect timing… I think I’ve bumped into the one. I have asked him tons of questions…he was patient. We are both in our God given purpose which is that we are both in the helping profession and we have the same lifestyle and hobbies. It’s been 2 weeks…. He is a bit reserved to ask me anything…I know men are hunters and prefer to peel back layers slowly and learn us on their own… I’m waiting for him to state his intentions, start asking and investing in me, he is smart not to just open up and make himself vulnerable to me just yet it’s still new. I’m waiting for it to flow naturally to the point I tell him I’m sacrificing my body to God until marriage. Thank you for the other good questions about asking him where to invest money… I plan on keeping the conversation light for him to continue to learn me. We are 5hrs apart…he’s mentioned me coming to visit but I need him to do his work and tell me on his own that he has self control without my asking and with out him just saying it. Pastor first time I have felt like I am talking to myself…we are already a reflection of each other…all we have to do is abstain, vet each other thoroughly, blend our lives in one place and get married. We don’t have to change anything about ourselves. However, I am a co dependent personality and past the test on my last narcissist attraction and he failed…because of listening to you and others I’ve learned how to spot them immediately. 1.) they mess with your boundaries 2.) they mess with your time 3.) they play with your mind and emotions. 4.) they never do things for you, your pleasure and that take, take, take! I’m cured 🙌🏾 and I’m doing some shadow work of my own to test out all other lingering childhood traumas. Keep me in prayer. This is exciting and I am definitely prepared to walk away. I’m loving myself and keeping my own life fun and exiting.
2 weeks? Slow down🙂 please...
Slow down and be careful. Be sure he’s not mirroring you. That’s what narcs do. Trust he’s not another you. Even if that’s the appearance. You have to be aware that his reactions to the same issues could be totally different than you expect. God bless you. If he’s for you, I’m sure God will show you in time. 2 weeks is just enough time for you to fantasize about what you want the relationship to be based on what you’ve begun to feel. Take you’re feelings out of your dating process until you’re sure there’s a real possibility, which should at least be 90 days or more! In two weeks you know nothing except what he wants you to know.
When u pray about this man. Ask God to show u his heart and his sprit.
This was powerful🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾!!!
Good day Bishop Blake's. I just bought your book Queenology. I bought my guy friend Kingology. I cannot wait to read it. Thank you! I love your godly wisdom. It has helped me with my relationships
Thanks Mr Blake I write down all ur points in my note book. Thanks alot man of god. God bless u and pray for me to find a great man of God husband like u🙏
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Once again , your guidance is of Excellence Pastor Blakes. Thank you for speaking truth always. 🙏 ❤
Glory to God!! Thank you Pastor Blakes for pouring into my spirit today. This was an Excellent and anointed word. Thank you..Thank you!!!! God bless you and Lisa! 🙏🏽☀️☀️😊
Hello, first time watching from Pittsburgh Pa
Whooou men of God, your teaching are just the best. I love both of you too❤️🙏