THE CURSE OF BEING A CRITICAL PERSON by Bishop RC Blakes

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  • Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
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    THE CURSE OF CRITICAL PEOPLE by Bishop RC Blakes
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Комментарии • 80

  • @mesha0932
    @mesha0932 Месяц назад +42

    Wow you said “ usually the person that is the most critical is also the person that needs mercy the most” so true.

    • @liltee8363
      @liltee8363 Месяц назад +1

      This is so true.

    • @WovenPsalm
      @WovenPsalm Месяц назад +1

      I considered this as well, but then wondered if he meant that the person being criticized is in need of mercy. I will listen again.
      Peace and Blessings.

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 Месяц назад +8

    I was homeless thru no fault of my own . I was in dire need. A.'leader' at church told me I was in this position because I didn't love God. I was shook. It nearly broke me but I forgave him. I dont trust him but I forgave.

  • @ireneramirez3691
    @ireneramirez3691 Месяц назад +13

    Pastor, we need to hear this! I don’t want to be critical anymore. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @WhyCee74
    @WhyCee74 Месяц назад +11

    My mother's very negative and is always complaining about something. It's draining the life out of me 😩.

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 Месяц назад +3

      Sis I can relate! But God says in Psalms 139 you are fearfully and wonderfully made Amen!!!!😊

    • @WhyCee74
      @WhyCee74 Месяц назад +1

      @@janellamurphy5665 Amen, sis 😍🙏🏾

    • @kendraheard1097
      @kendraheard1097 Месяц назад +2

      Goodness I have a coworker like this...I had to completely avoid her at work because it easily turns into gossiping as well...HOW CAN SOMEONE DO THIS ALL DAY EVERYDAY LIKE GET A LIFE!!!

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Месяц назад +3

      If possible, maintain some distance for your sanity. It doesn't matter if your family. I had a friend whose mom put him down relentlessly. He couldn't cope & committed suicide. No joke.

    • @kendraheard1097
      @kendraheard1097 Месяц назад +1

      @@danilaroche1156 man smh such a tragedy...some people don't realize the power of words...my mother was the same so critical of me..and always expressing how i didnt meet her expectations...man even tho i went no contact with her in 2016 her words still live in my mind...I struggle with believing in myself I know I can be so much more I just continue to cling to Jesus to give me the strength to be the woman he has ordained me to be....God bless you all ❤🌹

  • @lilchance1286
    @lilchance1286 Месяц назад +23

    A lot of critical people that I have come across seem to have mental health issues.

  • @judyyates2763
    @judyyates2763 Месяц назад +5

    Huge difference between criticizing and helping. Here's the kick... God knows your ❤. He knows if you're truly loving your neighbor!

  • @pamelaredd5967
    @pamelaredd5967 Месяц назад +6

    I love the fact that you are authentic and not so “perfect” that you are unrelatable and unapproachable. ❤❤

  • @mh-m3682
    @mh-m3682 Месяц назад +7

    If no solution is available, then it’s meant to hurt and to break… This is so sad, but true because we live in a waxed cold world!

    • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
      @durbansaladyinaccra2173 19 дней назад +1

      Most critical people are so used to criticizing others that they don't even see the effect it has on others.

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 Месяц назад +3

    Regarding the brawling wife. My sister constantly criticized her spouse. Constantly! In front of family. I spoke to her gently about it. She wouldn't consider my advice. Anyway they didn't even make 3 year mark in marriage. He up and left Christmas day & never returned.

  • @TheLittlePrayerCafe
    @TheLittlePrayerCafe Месяц назад +5

    You and your wife should become marriage counselors. Both of you are down to earth.

  • @wandathomas8962
    @wandathomas8962 Месяц назад +2

    Your music is always so chill for your messages. Don’t change.

  • @Ruth-vy1qj
    @Ruth-vy1qj Месяц назад +10

    Excellent video as always. People that are critical/judgmental of others will be judged that a spiritual law no one can escape it Matthew 7:1-2 I see that happened all the time. These same people when someone criticize them, they don't like it they can't handle it. They are really quiet when their sins/mistakes are expose. They are hypocrites can’t be trusted at all.
    They want to play God. He doesn't need your help. You have to face the same God as everyone else. You don't show mercy don't expect no one show you mercy in your time of need. You will be judged by others and by God. (Romans 2:5) We all made mistakes and sinners. Pride always come be4 a fall.

  • @classicrebel9577
    @classicrebel9577 Месяц назад +7

    I’m very critical both in relationships and workplace. From my perspective it’s justified. I work in the healthcare sector I have seen too many cases of unethical practices and negligence at the cost of human life. The “finesse” and “savage” relationship culture is toxic and I have no tolerance.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Месяц назад +3

      That's ok at work but relationships? That's different.

  • @deborahfranklin9370
    @deborahfranklin9370 Месяц назад +4

    Hi fam ❤ I'm blessed by this ministry.

  • @dhaimasimon3764
    @dhaimasimon3764 Месяц назад +6

    This is great!!

  • @wandathomas8962
    @wandathomas8962 Месяц назад +1

    I sleep so well after listening to your messages I thank God for you

  • @adrianjohnson3435
    @adrianjohnson3435 Месяц назад +2

    We should guard our words, because words does causes wounds.

  • @resteralexander3891
    @resteralexander3891 Месяц назад +5

    We love u

  • @SherylHands-bx6my
    @SherylHands-bx6my Месяц назад +1

    You are speaking my heart and thank you so much.
    When someone points the finger at someone else’s flaws they don’t realize the fingers pointing back at themselves.
    We speak blessings or curses but we have to eat the fruit there of.
    Help us get rid off pride Lord

  • @annahibbard4284
    @annahibbard4284 Месяц назад +3

    I always love what you say

  • @Blessed75463
    @Blessed75463 Месяц назад +3

    Lord, Thank you!!

  • @annahibbard4284
    @annahibbard4284 Месяц назад +3

    I hear you. I m guilty

  • @annahibbard4284
    @annahibbard4284 Месяц назад +2

    Your so right

  • @TyIsabella
    @TyIsabella Месяц назад +1

    thank you for you consistent wisdom bishop. This is my therapy.

  • @UYLhealth
    @UYLhealth Месяц назад +1

    Build others up!🎉🙌🏻❤

  • @Allforlove78
    @Allforlove78 Месяц назад +2

    I loved this! 🙏🙌😇🩷 Thank you so much! And it made me realize that growing up with critical people around me, as a grown up now, I'm critical with my own self!😮 that's a really incredible thing to realize and break free from🙌😇💚 thank you so much for this Pastor! 🙏 Light and love💚😇🙌

  • @burymeinbaldwin5896
    @burymeinbaldwin5896 Месяц назад +2

    HEAVY HITTER RC 👊 APPRECIATE YOU'RE CHANNEL ✌️ KEEP GRINDING!

  • @lwarfield52
    @lwarfield52 Месяц назад +1

    Wow. This is a good Word of God. 💖💖💖

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 Месяц назад +1

    I grew up in a family that has critical spirits around me😢 so Bishop Blakes I can totally relate to this message indeed😳🥺! I was at the point of very low self esteem, not believing I couldn't do anything right or be what God says about me. As a result I carried it into adult life. Anyway now I know who my FATHER is I can walk in fullness in HIS LOVE and forgiveness Amen❤🙏🏿🙏🏿!! Now when I associate with people, I reflect back on my life and what was spoken to me and I have more compassion on those who are going thru the same self esteem issues , share and encourage them to stay focused on what the LORD says about them Psalms 139. I also am listening more before speaking James 1:19. Again, sorry for the long text and thanks❤❤❤

  • @annahibbard4284
    @annahibbard4284 Месяц назад +1

    I know I'm not better then someone else because there are no humans are better then anyone else. Mine is to recognize when I'm have fear and worry

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад +1

    I was very very broken when l was very very toxic l have slowed down little bit

  • @elizabethash4720
    @elizabethash4720 Месяц назад +2

    I like your music. Thank you for sharing.😊

  • @annahibbard4284
    @annahibbard4284 Месяц назад +2

    I know when I'm pointing a finger there are 10 pointing at me

  • @annahibbard4284
    @annahibbard4284 Месяц назад +1

    I think it's the fear on my part and fear and faith can't be in the same place I'm working on it

  • @irmabryant6979
    @irmabryant6979 Месяц назад

    👍🏾💯

  • @stephanie5839
    @stephanie5839 Месяц назад +1

    How do you be honest with your grown kids when you see that their choices are going to cause you to pick up the peices. But not sound or be critical?

  • @carriesimmons9506
    @carriesimmons9506 Месяц назад +1

    TEACH BISHOP!! BULLYING THE PEOPLE WHO YOU THINK ARE BENEATH YOU.

  • @tondabrown953
    @tondabrown953 Месяц назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @dawnweston9382
    @dawnweston9382 Месяц назад

    Wow! This was very poignant and relevant to so many people. It's a problem that pervades too many family relationships, friendships and associations. Thanks RC, for shedding a lot of light on this topic.

  • @annahibbard4284
    @annahibbard4284 Месяц назад +1

    I know I have faults. I know when I criticize is when I'm in fear mode

  • @UYLhealth
    @UYLhealth Месяц назад

    Yessss! “This is who I am!” Must see the value of message over critiquing everything.

  • @carriesimmons9506
    @carriesimmons9506 Месяц назад

    YES! WE ARE ALL STILL GROWING.👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @tamterell
    @tamterell Месяц назад

    Sound, sound, sound discipline and advice Pastor!

  • @s.spivey7677
    @s.spivey7677 Месяц назад +1

    Thanks!

  • @traceypalmer7002
    @traceypalmer7002 Месяц назад

    Pastor Blakes! God bless you! This message hit home for me. Thank you for making me take a better look at myself. 🙏🏾 Yes, part 2 needed. 🙏🏾

  • @eacd393
    @eacd393 Месяц назад +1

    Yes

  • @heiditugers
    @heiditugers Месяц назад

    True. My mom is incredibly critical and I avoid her as much as possible. She wonders why I never want to come visit. Why would I want to visit a person who is so negative, mean and ruins my self esteem.

  • @KAAT2239
    @KAAT2239 Месяц назад

    Love this msg so much!! Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @resteralexander3891
    @resteralexander3891 Месяц назад +2

    Hi Pastor RC

  • @Nic2Blk
    @Nic2Blk Месяц назад

    Typically when people are overly critical, they are also overly critical of themselves as well. Their internal dialogue would shock most. There's also a high level of trauma and insecurity at play.

  • @LucyLucy296
    @LucyLucy296 Месяц назад

    5:02 Critising others stresses them out
    8:24 Why people criticise
    10:58 Delusions of a critical person
    15:08 The karma of a critical person
    - Matthew 7:1-5

  • @susanakaan810
    @susanakaan810 Месяц назад

    Bishop this is great ..

  • @katieowen4676
    @katieowen4676 Месяц назад

    critisisable ! I like it! I am in Australia so I am adding s and not z.

  • @HAR-HollyARandle
    @HAR-HollyARandle Месяц назад

    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @shaintac6072
    @shaintac6072 Месяц назад

    Find a way to position your chair where you don't have to turn your head for the other camera

  • @kibibishaw1194
    @kibibishaw1194 Месяц назад

    Amen

  • @annahibbard4284
    @annahibbard4284 Месяц назад

    I think it's my own fear and worry of what ifs I know I need to stop

  • @AtlantaAngel84
    @AtlantaAngel84 Месяц назад

    My dad is insufferable because he is so critical.

  • @wandathomas8962
    @wandathomas8962 Месяц назад

    I have a person like that close to me and I have had to stop talking to them. They can only text me.

  • @SacredDaily
    @SacredDaily Месяц назад

    🙏🏼

  • @kellypolfleit3942
    @kellypolfleit3942 Месяц назад

    When my clients husband critizes me. I shut right down. I can’t communicate with her or have her do her exercises 😢😡

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    Some people love two get under my skin

  • @Ella03434
    @Ella03434 Месяц назад

    ✨👂✨

  • @keyscott-hale939
    @keyscott-hale939 Месяц назад

    1, 2, 3 therapists 😅
    Ok well help then 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @LaLaBenFranklinWagle
    @LaLaBenFranklinWagle Месяц назад

    Going th

  • @KyMiche978
    @KyMiche978 Месяц назад

    😂😂😅

  • @tamterell
    @tamterell Месяц назад

    Learning to “shut top” and be quiet & stop murmuring and complaining. 🤐

  • @SherylHands-bx6my
    @SherylHands-bx6my Месяц назад

    You are speaking my heart and thank you so much.
    When someone points the finger at someone else’s flaws they don’t realize the fingers pointing back at themselves.
    We speak blessings or curses but we have to eat the fruit there of.
    Help us get rid off pride Lord