Thank you Zack. I know this can be a very personal and awkward subject, but your openess, maturity, and informative way of explaining it has no doubt helped people in this situation as well as answered many questions for us all.
I think it's pretty safe to say that the vast majority of us was wondering. It's a natural thing, in my opinion. Sex is one of the most compelling human instincts
Thank you for being so brave my son became a quad 2 years ago and he is so depressed i wish he would be like you to see life the way you see it i pray for him everyday
It's normal he's still upset and depressed. That's part of the grief, grief is a cycle and an essential process for personal growth. I'm pretty sure your son will eventually overcome it. It's just a matter of time.
Celina Torres you are one of the only people I have met with the name Celina...that is what I named my now 9 month old daughter. I will pray for you and your son.
I'm so sorry to hear that! Just to encourage both of you, my husband became a quadriplegic in his middle 20's, due to a car accident. He is now 48 years old. He learned how to drive a special equipped van, and went to college and has several degrees. One of them is a Master's in Counseling. We married 9 years ago, and although it's been a rough road for the both of us, we have a lot of happy times, and a lot of laughs. Its a mindset, once you accept it, you can change your thought process and choose how you will navigate through life. Some of his family told him that he should just go into a nursing home, he will never get a girlfriend, never have a job and never own his own home. He now counsels individuals with disabilities, and is very successful. He of course equates all of his successes to finding Christ in 2005. He now has a great job with the state, is married, drives, and we just bought a beautiful home! Its never going to be easy, but your attitude and frame of mind makes all the difference. Its not about what you CAN'T do but about what you CAN do after an injury that could have killed you, but didn't. Your son is a SURVIVOR!! I will say a prayer for him and that he would be successful in all he sets his mind to, and that because of that, he will reap a ton of blessings. Stay strong Mama!.
I don't have a SCI, but I am a peds ICU nurse, and I have looked after a couple young gentlemen who became quad from accidental injuries. Once the acuity of their care came down and the severity of their injuries became more apparent, this has always been one of the first questions they asked me. I was only able to give them answers of "to the best of my knowledge" and "according to research" as sex and erections aren't commonly talked about or taking place in the ICU setting. This video is so helpful for me and will provide me with a tangible experience to share with them, if I should have any patients who may face these same difficulties in the future. Thank you for sharing!
I was born with a birth defect that affects my spinal cord and I get this question a lot! Personally, I don't mind people being curious, but it is a bit awkward to talk about. I commend you for being so open. I know a lot of people will find this helpful.
Dude, great video. I really appreciate your honesty and maturity on this subject and your healthy attitude towards talking about sex. It's a normal part of life and your videos are so informative. I always learn heaps. Keep up the awesome work, bro!
@T.L.H.O Yes, I know. But lots of young adults actually can't talk calmly and openly about sex without laughing etc. How he addresses it is mature for his age I think.
Thank you Zack, I have worked in the nursing field for 12 years and I am so glad to see someone who was willing to put make a video like this for the public to help EDUCATE and give ideas to others in your position or similar situations... I have had multiple patients with spinal cord injuries in acute rehab and long term care.. I love your channel and keep up the good work
I’m A 60yo quadriplegic ( incomplete C3-5). Injured a year ago. You are very mature Zack. Great coverage on this uncomfortable topic. To add to this topic I have to say an orgasm forces my body into violent spasms, almost seizures. Vibrators like the wand are very helpful. Still worth it, just something to be aware of. Thanks for being so open on the subject!
My husband has been a quadriplegic for 23 years and we have been married for 9. His injury looks exactly like yours, the way your hands, arms and legs move/don't move. Whenever we meet new people, they later tell us that that is exactly what they are thinking, but never wanted to ask. My husband has 100% feeling in that region. He's one of the lucky ones. ***please pin this comment. I am also pasting to this comment something that I commented on down below. I hope that what I have to say also encourages others in their walk through their new injury. ... "I'm so sorry to hear that! Just to encourage both of you, my husband became a quadriplegic in his middle 20's, due to a car accident. He is now 48 years old. He learned how to drive a special equipped van, and went to college and has several degrees. One of them is a Master's in Counseling. We married 9 years ago, and although it's been a rough road for the both of us, we have a lot of happy times, and a lot of laughs. Its a mindset, once you accept it, you can change your thought process and choose how you will navigate through life. Some of his family told him that he should just go into a nursing home, he will never get a girlfriend, never have a job and never own his own home. He now counsels individuals with disabilities, and is very successful. He of course equates all of his successes to finding Christ in 2005. He now has a great job with the state, is married, drives, and we just bought a beautiful home! Its never going to be easy, but your attitude and frame of mind makes all the difference. Its not about what you CAN'T do but about what you CAN do after an injury that could have killed you, but didn't. Your son is a SURVIVOR!! I will say a prayer for him and that he would be successful in all he sets his mind to, and that because of that, he will reap a ton of blessings. Stay strong Mama!"
Paper Angel ASMR Ah Jesus is so good! He gives us hope in even the darkest times and gives strength and victory in the hardest circumstances. All glory to Him!
The way you zoomed into the room up to the camera gave me the biggest smile ever.. you are so brave to put yourself out there over such a sensitive topic for the entire world to see
Zack, thank you for posting this video. I for one was thinking about this, but would never ask, I would never want to hurt you in any way. So happy for you, I can see you being a great Dad. Take care my young friend. Big hugs from my family to yours.
Thank you so much for sharing! I’m a nurse on a spinal cord unit and this is a topic that many of my patients have questions about but feel uncomfortable asking about. I’m definitely going to be recommending your channel!
I truly appreciate your videos! My injury is still fairly new, I'm going on two years. There's still a lot I want to learn and you're really helping me get through some of the topics a lot of people aren't comfortable speaking about. Thanks again
I’m glad that you felt comfortable enough to come on here and answer these questions that we all have, including for anyone else with a spinal cord injury that may be looking in to what options they can use.
Your honesty and transparency is great! It is a personal topic, but I'm sure many of us (myself included) appreciate the answers and clarity you provided. Very interesting and informative. So thank you for sharing!!
You are so brave to put a video up that is so personal. When you have children, they will be great looking, kind and very compassionate and have a excellent outlook on life just like you! Somebody start Zack Collie a GoFundMe for his expensive vibrators he needs!!!
Thank you so much for being so open and honest. I'm sure many people wanted to know this but didnt want to ask. Your awesome and I enjoy your videos and I wish you the best
This shouldn't have to be awkward at all. Its life and it's what u do. Thank u for educating a bunch of people about this. The more personal u get, the more interesting it is. People take a lot of daily activities for granted..
Thanks for doing this Zack - you're right it's super important for people to be able to talk openly and honestly about sex. I wish you nothing but the best in life, dude!
Thank you Zack for talking about such a sensitive and private topic about sexuality, many wanted to know about that topic but out of respect some people kept quiet and never asked, it is something very personal for you as well as for everyone who has your condition. You have been very explicit in the information I hope that everyone has understood your message that you can lead a normal life, deserve to be happy, love and be loved and also have a normal family ❤️. My respects for you Zack. It's a pleasure to be on your channel. God bless you 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Zack Collie Thanks to you Zack for seeing and reading my comment ❤️. You have my unconditional support, you are a very mature young person and focused on what you want in life. I have a very special affection for you and for Cole, both are very kind and affectionate with their followers. God bless you and always take care of you 🙏🏽
I loved this video! You are so well spoken and even as a doctor myself (not an SCI specialist by any means), I did not know the answers to these questions and I learned so much! Thank you
Well, sex shouldn't be an awkward topic but for some it is. I think it was very courageous of you to talk about this and informative. I did not know they made special vibrators for spinal injury people. How cool. Amazing really when you think how technology has progressed and can help people live their best lives!!💕 You're story is very inspiring!! Love your attitude and courage!!
Thank you for sharing! You are making your knowledge a power for someone who may not have the amazing confidence you have. Please don’t apologize for “poor quality or editing “, you approached this with respect and education and you have probably just helped so someone who is afraid to ask! Cheers💖🇨🇦
Yes you were correct, that is what someone would wonder I have. I am disabled and suffer from this. I considered this video helpful and informative, you handled it in a tasteful way. Thank you, Zack and God bless.
Thank you so much for putting this video out! I really appreciate you putting yourself out there in this manner. It’s so awesome that there are vibrators made for people with spinal cord injuries!
it shouldn't be awkward. its a natural normal human function. something most everyone has and as adults understand we have sexual organs just like lungs, heart, liver, kidneys etc. we can all have issues with our organs, including sexual organs. thank you so much for the educational video and informing many. of course, like u said,everyone is different, everyone has different levels of injuries. but this is a wonderful conversation to have to normalize the subject. its absolutely NOTHING to be embarrassed about! and you did this in a very professional manner and covered the subject very well!
I guess ppl do find it awkward to talk about but you have proved that by being straight forward, mature, and just being "normal " talking about sex! ( oh did he REALLY ) No reason to be weird at all. What a great way to help ppl and YEP....EVERYONE wants to know about paralyzed people and sex! I KNOW it's probably the FIRST thing they want to know if they're being honest! You are a really wonderful young man. So glad you're not all gloomy and victim like! Great example of just being a good dood....
Wow you did a great job of talking about such a sensitive topic. You were candid without being icky or cringey. I've always wondered this about people with spinal cord injuries. Thanks for the info!
I just wanted to say than you for your willingness to share the struggles and things you have to go through of being a paraplegic. May God continue to bless your life in many ways as you continue sharing your story with others. I have a better understanding and respect for people with being a paraplegic. Thank you Zach!
This is definitely not an awkward topic. You are so blessed to actually have feeling like that when some people don't and they wish that they did. Praying that you will have a family one day maybe lots the Kids 2
Thank you for sharing your videos to the world . You are truly an inspiration. Not just on this topic, but in general. So many people don't have the strength like you and you are showing people you can still have a full and rich life. If only you knew the countless people you have helped by doing this. You are positively impacting a lot of lives. Thank you.
Zack, for many years I have wondered and had questions about this. You are the first person out there that has answered this question for me. I guess your right, not a subject people are able to discuss, and so glad you did. Thank you! Now that that’s done...when will you bring in to this world a bundle of joy? He or she will be adorable as you and your girlfriend are a very good looking couple. I’m glad you want to have kids:)
I have a spinal injury and this helped out so much thank you man I don’t tune in too often but when I do you always remind me to keep my chin up much love
Thanks Zack, people need to get over being embarrassed or awkward for asking for information on this subject. I do not have a spinal cord injury but the info you have provided is worth listening to. Thanks again!👍💖
Dude you are really amazing. You have such a strong sense of empathy and can explain things to people on terms that they can understand. You are great at communicating knowledge . Have you thought about teaching as a career? I could see you as a professor at college. You are still so young you have plenty of time to go back to school or whatever else you may want to do
You're definitely a better person than I in this area. I generally tell people that unless you are having it with me, how I have sex is nobodies beeswax. I was born paralyzed pretty much from waist down due to Spina Bifida. I have some feeling in my knees and random spots, but it changes from day to day. In regards to autonomic dysreflexia, it is without a doubt the worst feeling in the world for me. I suffer from chronic migraines, and I would take 1 any day over the pain of AD. I have been hospitalized numerous times with cellulitis in my lower legs, and the first symptom is always headache with dizziness/nausea. A doctor in the ER told me that it happens anytime we (spinal cord injury sufferers) have an injury below our level of sensation. Others tell me if they are late cathing they experience it. I'm glad you are so open with your life and have such a positive attitude.
This guy man 👌. I love how open and willing to share your life with us you are. Its appreciated. Thanks for all the time you take to make these videos.
I know this topic is awkward and so personal but its such great information especially for nursing/medical students. Thank you for your honesty and openness. You're very brave and from what i can see super sweet. Thank you for giving us a peek into your life.
I’m a quadriplegic too. And sexual stim gives me the worst autonomic Dysreflexia. Going to the bathroom is impossible For me without assistance from suppositories or an enema. I pretty much suffer with the autonomic dysreflexia all day and since I can’t feel what’s wrong I have to use a process of elimination. Until I get it right. The fact that you can be sexually stimulated and feel pleasure is a blessing from the gods
Thank you so much for always being candid and matter of fact. You are such a inspiration, because you are teaching people about a situation that most of us don’t know and this will help people with spinal cord injuries and those who know or love a person and this helps everyone and you really should think about a book or teaching, because you’re relatable and wonderful. Thank you. 🤗
Such a brave and personal vid to make, you're helping people for sure. I was really taken aback by the prohibitive cost of the vibrators, IMO, the manufacturers are taking advantage of injured people! Thank you 💓
Zack you have college professor vibes going on there. I see a great future for you, where you will be able to contribute to the greater good with your wit, intelligence and valiant spirit. God speed.
This is an important topic for so many reasons. Thank you for putting yourself out there in order to educate, reduce ignorance, and smash stigma around sex and disability! Everyone should be entitled to comprehensive sexual education that creates room for healthy sex experiences! Regardless of ability :)
Hi Zack. I want to thank you for being so willing and brave to come out and make this video. Of course people that do not have the issues you do are wondering about this. And I think for the people that do have the issues like you do it was very informative and very helpful. So either way I think this video was a great video you explain things in a very mature fashion and show the different equipment that might help. so I just want to say keep it up. most people never bridge this topic because they're too afraid. And like you said it's the number one thing most people are actually thinking about. Good luck to you and stay well.
Thank you for sharing. And I am glad to hear that you can still enjoy things like this. The video, actually, wasn't awkward to watch, but thank you for being informative. 👍
Thank you Zack for your honesty and sincerity on a very difficult subject. I have a close friend who just recently experienced a SCI and I am always looking forward to your videos to help get a better understanding of what he is and might be going through. Thank you again for all the videos.
Very informative video Zack. You are a very generous person with what you share, and I am sure your talk has helped a lot of people who otherwise wouldn't be able to address this topic. Well done!
You are such a brave soul! I admit I think about that and hope that others don't have issues with this personal subject. Thank you so much for sharing! I love your videos and look forward to all of them. You are an awesome dude! Keep it up. Love, Tammy from Mesa, AZ
Zack you are a great man, truly inspiring. I am not injured other than a bad back but I look up to you and pray for you from all the way in London, England. Allah will bring you back you health don’t worry. Keep fighting my brother! Because your amazing!
Thank you. Keep being visible and normal. We all are vulnerable in this world, at the end you still have a good life to live and blessings w your name on them. Stay positive. God bless.
Thank you Zack for getting so personal with us.... I’ve been following you for awhile and taken a huge interest in you ... you just touched my heart an I’ve pray for your healing.. but I have to be honest, when I first started watching you I was like , omg this poor kid and his family... will he ever have a life again ? “I don’t feel that way anymore” you blow my mind with all you do and continue to do.. your an inspiration to others .. also make ppl like myself to get off the petty wagon and do what we’re afraid to do!!!!! I’m so happy for your relationship with your girlfriend.. you will be a great husband & dad one day hon.. so keep on keeping on !! Lol
I find all your videos so interesting, I have a son who is 12 and was born disabled so I have a natural interest In disabilities. I think its great your sharing personal stuff to educate people, I'm sure it will help alot of people as well.
Great information. May God continue to bless and keep you. No need to feel awkward anyone at anytime can get this type of injury withoit warning. Much love from Tobago.
Hey Zach thank you so much for all these videos. As a C4 quad similar to your age that has only been injured for a year, your experience with the injury has really been beneficial in my progression. I would love to hear about your approach towards dating as I've definitely found it to be a little different since the accident and somewhat confusing. Also, if you're willing to take me under your wing and act as a mentor, I would love to chat or Skype with you one-on-one whenever. Thanks again for everything
Great informative video! Helps remind the non disabled that we are just as human as they are, these natural things don’t magically disappear once you are disabled. Conversations about sex shouldn’t be taboo!
Thank you Zack. I know this can be a very personal and awkward subject, but your openess, maturity, and informative way of explaining it has no doubt helped people in this situation as well as answered many questions for us all.
U r comment is beautiful
Mosaic Rose I agree. I found Zack’s candour on such a potentially awkward subject admirable.
Wether we were all wondering or not, this was a brave video to put out there...thanks for being you!
I think it's pretty safe to say that the vast majority of us was wondering. It's a natural thing, in my opinion. Sex is one of the most compelling human instincts
I was curious about this but I dare not asked. I felt it was to personal of a question. Thank you for sharing info with us. 🤗
theres a cool video called
#gettingsome: Disabled and sexually active | Life Links
that has more info
Thank you for being so brave my son became a quad 2 years ago and he is so depressed i wish he would be like you to see life the way you see it i pray for him everyday
It's normal he's still upset and depressed. That's part of the grief, grief is a cycle and an essential process for personal growth. I'm pretty sure your son will eventually overcome it. It's just a matter of time.
Celina Torres you are one of the only people I have met with the name Celina...that is what I named my now 9 month old daughter. I will pray for you and your son.
I'm so sorry to hear that! Just to encourage both of you, my husband became a quadriplegic in his middle 20's, due to a car accident. He is now 48 years old. He learned how to drive a special equipped van, and went to college and has several degrees. One of them is a Master's in Counseling. We married 9 years ago, and although it's been a rough road for the both of us, we have a lot of happy times, and a lot of laughs. Its a mindset, once you accept it, you can change your thought process and choose how you will navigate through life. Some of his family told him that he should just go into a nursing home, he will never get a girlfriend, never have a job and never own his own home. He now counsels individuals with disabilities, and is very successful. He of course equates all of his successes to finding Christ in 2005. He now has a great job with the state, is married, drives, and we just bought a beautiful home! Its never going to be easy, but your attitude and frame of mind makes all the difference. Its not about what you CAN'T do but about what you CAN do after an injury that could have killed you, but didn't. Your son is a SURVIVOR!! I will say a prayer for him and that he would be successful in all he sets his mind to, and that because of that, he will reap a ton of blessings. Stay strong Mama!.
Paper Angel ASMR wow so inspiring thank you for sharing! God Bless!
God bless your son
I don't have a SCI, but I am a peds ICU nurse, and I have looked after a couple young gentlemen who became quad from accidental injuries. Once the acuity of their care came down and the severity of their injuries became more apparent, this has always been one of the first questions they asked me. I was only able to give them answers of "to the best of my knowledge" and "according to research" as sex and erections aren't commonly talked about or taking place in the ICU setting. This video is so helpful for me and will provide me with a tangible experience to share with them, if I should have any patients who may face these same difficulties in the future. Thank you for sharing!
I was born with a birth defect that affects my spinal cord and I get this question a lot! Personally, I don't mind people being curious, but it is a bit awkward to talk about. I commend you for being so open. I know a lot of people will find this helpful.
Dude, great video. I really appreciate your honesty and maturity on this subject and your healthy attitude towards talking about sex. It's a normal part of life and your videos are so informative. I always learn heaps. Keep up the awesome work, bro!
@T.L.H.O Yes, I know. But lots of young adults actually can't talk calmly and openly about sex without laughing etc. How he addresses it is mature for his age I think.
Ben Harrison: yup I think the same
Thank you Zack ! I'm not paralyzed but I'm a man and a nurse, so these informations will be helpful to me and my patients !
Thank you Zack, I have worked in the nursing field for 12 years and I am so glad to see someone who was willing to put make a video like this for the public to help EDUCATE and give ideas to others in your position or similar situations... I have had multiple patients with spinal cord injuries in acute rehab and long term care.. I love your channel and keep up the good work
I’m A 60yo quadriplegic ( incomplete C3-5). Injured a year ago. You are very mature Zack. Great coverage on this uncomfortable topic. To add to this topic I have to say an orgasm forces my body into violent spasms, almost seizures. Vibrators like the wand are very helpful. Still worth it, just something to be aware of. Thanks for being so open on the subject!
Thanks for being so open ☺️
My husband has been a quadriplegic for 23 years and we have been married for 9. His injury looks exactly like yours, the way your hands, arms and legs move/don't move. Whenever we meet new people, they later tell us that that is exactly what they are thinking, but never wanted to ask. My husband has 100% feeling in that region. He's one of the lucky ones.
***please pin this comment. I am also pasting to this comment something that I commented on down below. I hope that what I have to say also encourages others in their walk through their new injury.
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"I'm so sorry to hear that! Just to encourage both of you, my husband became a quadriplegic in his middle 20's, due to a car accident. He is now 48 years old. He learned how to drive a special equipped van, and went to college and has several degrees. One of them is a Master's in Counseling. We married 9 years ago, and although it's been a rough road for the both of us, we have a lot of happy times, and a lot of laughs. Its a mindset, once you accept it, you can change your thought process and choose how you will navigate through life. Some of his family told him that he should just go into a nursing home, he will never get a girlfriend, never have a job and never own his own home. He now counsels individuals with disabilities, and is very successful. He of course equates all of his successes to finding Christ in 2005. He now has a great job with the state, is married, drives, and we just bought a beautiful home! Its never going to be easy, but your attitude and frame of mind makes all the difference. Its not about what you CAN'T do but about what you CAN do after an injury that could have killed you, but didn't. Your son is a SURVIVOR!! I will say a prayer for him and that he would be successful in all he sets his mind to, and that because of that, he will reap a ton of blessings. Stay strong Mama!"
Paper Angel ASMR
Ah Jesus is so good! He gives us hope in even the darkest times and gives strength and victory in the hardest circumstances. All glory to Him!
Your story is so amazing and inspirational! You and your husband sound like awesome people
And why would you feel the need that your comment is more important than others? Because of your personal story? Get over yourself.
wow what a lucky man your husband is to have you... thanks for the insight. bless
@Billy Bob seriously? What a horrible shallow comment! Judging her doesn't define who she is, it defines who YOU are!
You handled this topic like a pro, honestly i find it so interesting. Wands are amazing ❤
Gwendolyn Wallace he’s brave
I'll handel you like a pro sexy
The way you zoomed into the room up to the camera gave me the biggest smile ever.. you are so brave to put yourself out there over such a sensitive topic for the entire world to see
This video was very professionally done, by an intelligent spoken man 👍
Zack, thank you for posting this video. I for one was thinking about this, but would never ask, I would never want to hurt you in any way. So happy for you, I can see you being a great Dad. Take care my young friend. Big hugs from my family to yours.
Thank you so much for sharing! I’m a nurse on a spinal cord unit and this is a topic that many of my patients have questions about but feel uncomfortable asking about. I’m definitely going to be recommending your channel!
I truly appreciate your videos! My injury is still fairly new, I'm going on two years. There's still a lot I want to learn and you're really helping me get through some of the topics a lot of people aren't comfortable speaking about. Thanks again
Your kids are gonna b STUNNING
Lavender Clorox Bleach Beyond STUNNING
They are both cute as hell. But not pressure for them to marry and have kids. No young couple needs that.
And really tall
I’m glad that you felt comfortable enough to come on here and answer these questions that we all have, including for anyone else with a spinal cord injury that may be looking in to what options they can use.
Thank you for you honest discussion on this subject. It is horrible at the extremely high prices they charge for products people need,
Thank you. And yes I agree!
Your honesty and transparency is great! It is a personal topic, but I'm sure many of us (myself included) appreciate the answers and clarity you provided. Very interesting and informative. So thank you for sharing!!
You are so brave to put a video up that is so personal. When you have children, they will be great looking, kind and very compassionate and have a excellent outlook on life just like you! Somebody start Zack Collie a GoFundMe for his expensive vibrators he needs!!!
Thank you so much for being so open and honest. I'm sure many people wanted to know this but didnt want to ask. Your awesome and I enjoy your videos and I wish you the best
You’re seriously so handsome
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Lmao Ikr?? He is a real looker! 😍
This shouldn't have to be awkward at all. Its life and it's what u do. Thank u for educating a bunch of people about this. The more personal u get, the more interesting it is. People take a lot of daily activities for granted..
You’re such a wonderful and sweet soul Zack ❤️
Thanks for doing this Zack - you're right it's super important for people to be able to talk openly and honestly about sex. I wish you nothing but the best in life, dude!
Thank you Zack for talking about such a sensitive and private topic about sexuality, many wanted to know about that topic but out of respect some people kept quiet and never asked, it is something very personal for you as well as for everyone who has your condition. You have been very explicit in the information I hope that everyone has understood your message that you can lead a normal life, deserve to be happy, love and be loved and also have a normal family ❤️. My respects for you Zack. It's a pleasure to be on your channel. God bless you 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you for the comment and support on this video. Appreciate it!
Zack Collie Thanks to you Zack for seeing and reading my comment ❤️. You have my unconditional support, you are a very mature young person and focused on what you want in life. I have a very special affection for you and for Cole, both are very kind and affectionate with their followers. God bless you and always take care of you 🙏🏽
I loved this video! You are so well spoken and even as a doctor myself (not an SCI specialist by any means), I did not know the answers to these questions and I learned so much! Thank you
Well, sex shouldn't be an awkward topic but for some it is. I think it was very courageous of you to talk about this and informative. I did not know they made special vibrators for spinal injury people. How cool. Amazing really when you think how technology has progressed and can help people live their best lives!!💕 You're story is very inspiring!! Love your attitude and courage!!
Thank you for sharing this !
You are incredibly strong for sharing and putting this out there for the world.
I just came across this, thank you for being honest and vulnerable.
Thank you for sharing! You are making your knowledge a power for someone who may not have the amazing confidence you have. Please don’t apologize for “poor quality or editing “, you approached this with respect and education and you have probably just helped so someone who is afraid to ask! Cheers💖🇨🇦
Yes you were correct, that is what someone would wonder I have. I am disabled and suffer from this. I considered this video helpful and informative, you handled it in a tasteful way. Thank you, Zack and God bless.
Thank you so much for putting this video out! I really appreciate you putting yourself out there in this manner.
It’s so awesome that there are vibrators made for people with spinal cord injuries!
You will have a lot of kids. You are beautiful, clever, wise, calm, patient... You are special. I wish you all the best in the future. 💕
Very good topic to discuss, thank you for being brave enough to share this!
Proud of you for talking about this
it shouldn't be awkward. its a natural normal human function. something most everyone has and as adults understand we have sexual organs just like lungs, heart, liver, kidneys etc. we can all have issues with our organs, including sexual organs. thank you so much for the educational video and informing many. of course, like u said,everyone is different, everyone has different levels of injuries. but this is a wonderful conversation to have to normalize the subject. its absolutely NOTHING to be embarrassed about! and you did this in a very professional manner and covered the subject very well!
I really like how he was so informative and even though it can be an awkward topic, he was not awkward and was very comfortable talking about it
I have absolutely no idea why this was in my recommended! Having said that I have wondered so glad I watched!
Thank you for your kindness and sincerity! May God bless you! I love you very much Zack! ❤️
I love that you are not afraid to talk about topics like this , stay strong love 💗
Such a mature way of talking about this. You're awesome.
Awwww and he's GORGEOUS,too😘😍
Ashli Slizone righhhht 😍
I guess ppl do find it awkward to talk about but you have proved that by being straight forward, mature, and just being "normal " talking about sex! ( oh did he REALLY ) No reason to be weird at all. What a great way to help ppl and YEP....EVERYONE wants to know about paralyzed people and sex! I KNOW it's probably the FIRST thing they want to know if they're being honest! You are a really wonderful young man. So glad you're not all gloomy and victim like! Great example of just being a good dood....
Wow you did a great job of talking about such a sensitive topic. You were candid without being icky or cringey. I've always wondered this about people with spinal cord injuries. Thanks for the info!
I just wanted to say than you for your willingness to share the struggles and things you have to go through of being a paraplegic. May God continue to bless your life in many ways as you continue sharing your story with others. I have a better understanding and respect for people with being a paraplegic.
Thank you Zach!
This is definitely not an awkward topic. You are so blessed to actually have feeling like that when some people don't and they wish that they did. Praying that you will have a family one day maybe lots the Kids 2
Thank you for sharing your videos to the world . You are truly an inspiration. Not just on this topic, but in general. So many people don't have the strength like you and you are showing people you can still have a full and rich life. If only you knew the countless people you have helped by doing this. You are positively impacting a lot of lives. Thank you.
Zack, for many years I have wondered and had questions about this. You are the first person out there that has answered this question for me. I guess your right, not a subject people are able to discuss, and so glad you did. Thank you!
Now that that’s done...when will you bring in to this world a bundle of joy? He or she will be adorable as you and your girlfriend are a very good looking couple. I’m glad you want to have kids:)
I have a spinal injury and this helped out so much thank you man I don’t tune in too often but when I do you always remind me to keep my chin up much love
Thanks Zack, people need to get over being embarrassed or awkward for asking for information on this subject. I do not have a spinal cord injury but the info you have provided is worth listening to. Thanks again!👍💖
Dude you are really amazing. You have such a strong sense of empathy and can explain things to people on terms that they can understand. You are great at communicating knowledge . Have you thought about teaching as a career? I could see you as a professor at college. You are still so young you have plenty of time to go back to school or whatever else you may want to do
Zack you are brave for discussing this. I hope you find a girl that will love and a appreciate the sweet and honest soul you are.
You're definitely a better person than I in this area. I generally tell people that unless you are having it with me, how I have sex is nobodies beeswax.
I was born paralyzed pretty much from waist down due to Spina Bifida. I have some feeling in my knees and random spots, but it changes from day to day. In regards to autonomic dysreflexia, it is without a doubt the worst feeling in the world for me. I suffer from chronic migraines, and I would take 1 any day over the pain of AD. I have been hospitalized numerous times with cellulitis in my lower legs, and the first symptom is always headache with dizziness/nausea. A doctor in the ER told me that it happens anytime we (spinal cord injury sufferers) have an injury below our level of sensation. Others tell me if they are late cathing they experience it. I'm glad you are so open with your life and have such a positive attitude.
This guy man 👌. I love how open and willing to share your life with us you are. Its appreciated. Thanks for all the time you take to make these videos.
I know this topic is awkward and so personal but its such great information especially for nursing/medical students. Thank you for your honesty and openness. You're very brave and from what i can see super sweet. Thank you for giving us a peek into your life.
You are unique and reassuring to those other patients in similar circumstances. Thanks for your courage and for educating all of us!!
You just get more and more amazing the more I watch. I’m not very good at putting things into words but you are a role model.
I’m a quadriplegic too. And sexual stim gives me the worst autonomic Dysreflexia. Going to the bathroom is impossible For me without assistance from suppositories or an enema. I pretty much suffer with the autonomic dysreflexia all day and since I can’t feel what’s wrong I have to use a process of elimination. Until I get it right. The fact that you can be sexually stimulated and feel pleasure is a blessing from the gods
Hey! We have the same last name! I'm a Quintino too! Where are you from?
Thank you for making this video. The only reason it is awkward is because we make it.
You are so honest and that takes courage.
This was a really rad video. I love when people talk about topics that may be uncomfortable but also informative ❤️👍🏼
You’re so brave for taking this question to maturity.....very well done!!👏🏼
Thank you so much for always being candid and matter of fact. You are such a inspiration, because you are teaching people about a situation that most of us don’t know and this will help people with spinal cord injuries and those who know or love a person and this helps everyone and you really should think about a book or teaching, because you’re relatable and wonderful.
Thank you. 🤗
Such a brave and personal vid to make, you're helping people for sure. I was really taken aback by the prohibitive cost of the vibrators, IMO, the manufacturers are taking advantage of injured people! Thank you 💓
I think u r a hero to people that r in the same situation as u... ur honesty is awsome cuz i bet lots of people feel intimidated to ask there doctor
Zack you have college professor vibes going on there. I see a great future for you, where you will be able to contribute to the greater good with your wit, intelligence and valiant spirit. God speed.
You're so brave for speaking so openly about this.
You and Mom have a great spirit. I’m sure there were hell days for you, but what I see now is a great kid with a great attitude.
This is an important topic for so many reasons. Thank you for putting yourself out there in order to educate, reduce ignorance, and smash stigma around sex and disability! Everyone should be entitled to comprehensive sexual education that creates room for healthy sex experiences! Regardless of ability :)
Hi Zack. I want to thank you for being so willing and brave to come out and make this video. Of course people that do not have the issues you do are wondering about this. And I think for the people that do have the issues like you do it was very informative and very helpful. So either way I think this video was a great video you explain things in a very mature fashion and show the different equipment that might help. so I just want to say keep it up. most people never bridge this topic because they're too afraid. And like you said it's the number one thing most people are actually thinking about. Good luck to you and stay well.
Thank you for sharing. And I am glad to hear that you can still enjoy things like this. The video, actually, wasn't awkward to watch, but thank you for being informative. 👍
A handsome dude!!! Thank u for sharing this private subject. Definitely would help lots of people out there who are too shy to ask.
You're so awesome Zach! You are helping a lot of people with this video!!
Thank you for keeping it real bc this is the first thing that pops into our mind
Thank you Zack for your honesty and sincerity on a very difficult subject. I have a close friend who just recently experienced a SCI and I am always looking forward to your videos to help get a better understanding of what he is and might be going through. Thank you again for all the videos.
This is so helpful for all spinal cord and brain injuries!!! thanks for sharing!
he’s so handsome and so open when this is something considered so taboo. i wish people were more like this.
Your presentation of this sensitive subject was well done. It wasn't vulgar or too clinical. Thank you Zack.
Very informative video Zack.
You are a very generous person with what you share, and I am sure your talk has helped a lot of people who otherwise wouldn't be able to address this topic.
Well done!
Thank you for opening up and letting people understand what you go through. Sending so much love your way❤️❤️
You are such a brave soul! I admit I think about that and hope that others don't have issues with this personal subject. Thank you so much for sharing! I love your videos and look forward to all of them. You are an awesome dude! Keep it up. Love, Tammy from Mesa, AZ
Thank you so much for sharing this information!! I’m a provider and didn’t know any of this, great information!
Zack you are a great man, truly inspiring. I am not injured other than a bad back but I look up to you and pray for you from all the way in London, England. Allah will bring you back you health don’t worry. Keep fighting my brother! Because your amazing!
Thank you. Keep being visible and normal. We all are vulnerable in this world, at the end you still have a good life to live and blessings w your name on them. Stay positive. God bless.
You really have so much charisma and I love that you share everything you can with people, to educate them and to share your story.
Thank you Zack for getting so personal with us.... I’ve been following you for awhile and taken a huge interest in you ... you just touched my heart an I’ve pray for your healing.. but I have to be honest, when I first started watching you I was like , omg this poor kid and his family... will he ever have a life again ? “I don’t feel that way anymore” you blow my mind with all you do and continue to do.. your an inspiration to others .. also make ppl like myself to get off the petty wagon and do what we’re afraid to do!!!!! I’m so happy for your relationship with your girlfriend.. you will be a great husband & dad one day hon.. so keep on keeping on !! Lol
So happy for Bree and you. May you have many happy years together.
A good honest video, you are one person who will go far in life, and by the way, you don't have a problem, you rock.
Thank u for being so honest and open. I know it's such a taboo topic but it's really an important topic as well. Keep up the amazing videos!
Not awkward, but let say natural, yes, very informational. You are living your best life!
I find all your videos so interesting, I have a son who is 12 and was born disabled so I have a natural interest In disabilities. I think its great your sharing personal stuff to educate people, I'm sure it will help alot of people as well.
Great information. May God continue to bless and keep you. No need to feel awkward anyone at anytime can get this type of injury withoit warning. Much love from Tobago.
Love how honest you are here. Thank you.
You are stunningly handsome, Zack! Thanks for the upload. I found it to be very informative.
Hey Zach thank you so much for all these videos. As a C4 quad similar to your age that has only been injured for a year, your experience with the injury has really been beneficial in my progression. I would love to hear about your approach towards dating as I've definitely found it to be a little different since the accident and somewhat confusing. Also, if you're willing to take me under your wing and act as a mentor, I would love to chat or Skype with you one-on-one whenever. Thanks again for everything
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Thank you for opening up with us on this very personal topic. God bless you and your family! ✌️❤️🤗
Great informative video! Helps remind the non disabled that we are just as human as they are, these natural things don’t magically disappear once you are disabled. Conversations about sex shouldn’t be taboo!