Overcoming a Spinal Cord Injury: Claire's Story

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @isfj1009
    @isfj1009 7 лет назад +480

    "I want to design wheelchairs where you see the person first.......not the chair." Powerful statement. Wonderful direction. Definite inspiration. :)

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +6

      Thanks for the comment isfj1009

    • @cynthg9547
      @cynthg9547 6 лет назад +4

      Im in a wheelchair i like to decorate it make it nice cause its a part of my life /got in a car wreak 2011 broke my back

    • @one567
      @one567 5 лет назад +2

      Its been a year since you posted this, im curious if is something you have looked into? what a great goal if you have.

    • @MrDomestosWC
      @MrDomestosWC 4 года назад +2

      It actually made me thinking, the wheelchair design hasn't been changed much for decades.

    • @meiraloraduncan8953
      @meiraloraduncan8953 4 года назад

      Keeper They were quoting something that Claire said towards the end of the video. It wasn’t necessarily something that the person who commented was planning to do.

  • @tadpole53
    @tadpole53 7 лет назад +1417

    I love how she goes around in her wheelchair with her high heels on and her legs crossed. Lady like and bad ass.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +21

      Thanks for watching Plastique, hope you enjoyed👍

    • @SH-to8sh
      @SH-to8sh 7 лет назад +3

      Haha

    • @ilovesatan5951
      @ilovesatan5951 7 лет назад +5

      Plastique -she looks pretty cool

    • @mimicoolwhip5991
      @mimicoolwhip5991 7 лет назад +10

      Plastique Thats a BOSS GIRL front & center! #shesdaboss #achairdontstopher #neverevergiveup #sheinspires

    • @carolesitze7055
      @carolesitze7055 7 лет назад +3

      Caring for tetraplegic

  • @RAMONA3118
    @RAMONA3118 Год назад +29

    As a fresh neurologist, I promise to do my best to help to make new steps toward curing.

  • @claydrummond9571
    @claydrummond9571 7 лет назад +488

    I'm 39 male living in New Zealand, 5 years ago found a tumour on my s1l5, pain 24/7 and slowly losing feeling in my legs, no family but a few good friends. This movie helped. Thank x

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +21

      Thanks for watching Clay! We're glad this episode helped you.

    • @Sarah1920s
      @Sarah1920s 6 лет назад +9

      Clay Drummond Prayers 🌹

    • @realrussianreview1186
      @realrussianreview1186 6 лет назад +12

      Cheers brother. Much prayers

    • @katrinashostakovich3607
      @katrinashostakovich3607 6 лет назад +13

      How are you doing, Clay?

    • @joanmcgilton5148
      @joanmcgilton5148 6 лет назад +13

      Clay Drummond I know how you feel. I have multiple tumors and other disk problems in my back
      I have a widening that’s filled with spinal fluid. I’m in excruciating pain 24/7
      And can not walk. I feel like I’m to young to feel this damn old.

  • @Gamerz-oc6te
    @Gamerz-oc6te 3 года назад +35

    I am 16 , 6 months back I had a paralysis attack ( quadriplegia) both hands and legs. Later doctors came to know by MRI that I was having incomplete spinal cord injury because infection in my spine. I was not able to move at all. I thought everything is finished but with the help of physiotherapy and having a supportive physiotherapist for 6 months now I can walk with the help of stick and I am trying to walk without any support and indepently.
    Don't lose your hope and confidence people will judge you anyways but you should stand strong for yourself.

    • @Preeti-lw9jc
      @Preeti-lw9jc 8 месяцев назад +2

      How are you now hope you're doing well ❤️‍🩹

  • @jasminreynolds9181
    @jasminreynolds9181 7 лет назад +97

    Claire, you are in inspiration. I am also in a wheelchair since my 20s, am now 52. I know there are bad days but you have lifted mine. Love always, Jasmin.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +3

      Thanks for watching Jasmin, glad to hear you enjoyed watching Claire's story 😊

    • @ethanlee-c3d
      @ethanlee-c3d Год назад

      Jasmin may I ask how it happen?

  • @GalCharlotteOG
    @GalCharlotteOG 7 лет назад +196

    Claire is a fine example of what true beauty really means!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +3

      Thank you for watching Lisa!

    • @erickalejandropullastaboad9718
      @erickalejandropullastaboad9718 4 года назад +1

      What is the meaning?

    • @lwwelding8466
      @lwwelding8466 Год назад +3

      @@erickalejandropullastaboad9718 Your that thick you need to ask

    • @susannehall7234
      @susannehall7234 6 месяцев назад +1

      It comes from within. You can't define beauty. She is an inspiration to many people and gives them hope with her inner radiance which shines bright. She is alive and loves living. Despite her limitations she doesnt allow her disability to totally rule her life. She has come back from the brink and now realises that she can still serve a purpose improving others lives as well as her own.

    • @SUPERSPAZD
      @SUPERSPAZD 10 дней назад

      @@susannehall7234
      EXACTLY!!!!🙌🏽❤️🙌🏽

  • @drumtravelfun
    @drumtravelfun 6 лет назад +300

    My heart goes out to the Mom. She still obviously carries the weight of the accident. I hope someday she can let go, realize it was an accident, nothing more (easier said then done, I understand). Love to her.

    • @Pebble_Collector
      @Pebble_Collector 5 лет назад +34

      Well I mean it could have been prevented if she didn't fall asleep at the wheel and made her daughter wear a seatbelt.

    • @alejc5192
      @alejc5192 4 года назад +6

      It is and will be very difficult, many times we ask ourselves "what would have happened if... "
      I think her mom will hardly be able to let go of the guilt she has, because even though Claire has advanced and has a pretty good life, any mother would like to see her daughter standing without the help of others.

    • @enoidsk7169
      @enoidsk7169 4 года назад +8

      I really feel for the mum. Wish her lots of love.

    • @kgspvgsp7569
      @kgspvgsp7569 3 года назад +1

      @@Pebble_Collector its part of her life now just as paralysis is part of her daughtets life

    • @rainwhenidie666
      @rainwhenidie666 2 года назад +6

      I feel I may be uniquely qualified to relate heavily to the mother. There is absolutely no way to predict the future and crazy things happen. She can't blame herself. Easier said than done. 33 years ago my father owned his own auto shop and salvage yard. He used a trojan loader's bucket to lift the back of a car off the ground so he could cut the rear axle out in preparation to be put in a crusher and crushed. One morning he had me with him like normal and I was riding along with him and he had me stay up in the seat because he didnt want me running around with the car not being safe for a toddler to run around and I remember some things but I guess I started to play like I was impersonating my father as a heavy equipment operator and the hydraulic lever could only be operated one way while the engines are off and as you could guess I played with the wrong lever and dropped the bucket as my father was under the car. My father says he remembers the bucket coming down and jumped under it to try and protect himself and 2000 plus pounds of solid steel layed on him and he heard a loud pop and was instantly paralyzed. I for some reason remember getting out and running to the house yelling my daddy is dead over and over and my mother running down and called emergency services. Although I was far too young to be left in such a dangerous piece of equipment alone Ive always had moments of feeling responsible. Cant help but think my childhood was different from other kids watching kids running around with their father and not doing some things because of a stupid pull of a lever I did as a 2 yr old. I hope she doesnt beat herself up just because something can be prevented doesnt mean we as humans always notice and things happen. We are human after all.

  • @xenazenx2241
    @xenazenx2241 7 лет назад +306

    That man is an awesome friend . I love this video.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +8

      Thanks for watching xena, hope you enjoyed👍

    • @justhavefun2640
      @justhavefun2640 6 лет назад +70

      he achieved an unachievable level of friendzone

    • @justhavefun2640
      @justhavefun2640 6 лет назад +1

      dan bravo. oh , i didn't think of that possibility

    • @paulharrison7948
      @paulharrison7948 6 лет назад +14

      Poor bastard got friendzoned bigtime !!

    • @meirsolomon5626
      @meirsolomon5626 5 лет назад +9

      How do you know he's "just" a friend? ;-)

  • @danpastirik3682
    @danpastirik3682 6 лет назад +18

    I am a paraplegic T9. I have been paralyzed for almost 2 years and totally understand how it took you years between denial and acceptance. I have acquired new skills over the past two years, but have been non-committal on learning as if things are going to automatically improve. I am head back to he rehabiliation unit now to learning independancy skills. Your story is very inspiring, thank you for publishing!

    • @TheRandomINFJ
      @TheRandomINFJ Год назад +2

      Hi Dan! I'm 4 years late but was compelled to comment. I genuinely hope you're well, warm, safe, happy. Thinking of you and your recovery. *YOU GOT THIS* 💗🤜🤛

  • @sperformance.96
    @sperformance.96 6 лет назад +381

    37?? How? She looks like 24

    • @Jake5537t
      @Jake5537t 5 лет назад +18

      Steven CC
      I thought she was 18 - 20 or something 👀

    • @keelandavis9681
      @keelandavis9681 4 года назад +2

      I know man I was like what??

    • @xaomixaomi8420
      @xaomixaomi8420 4 года назад +1

      U need to check ur eyes. ....ASAP

    • @jamesdoe9531
      @jamesdoe9531 4 года назад +2

      tons of makeup. Arround 18:05 you see the truth.

    • @FubarMike
      @FubarMike 4 года назад +1

      @@jamesdoe9531 still not bad she looks 30s though without makeup

  • @botibomaus
    @botibomaus 6 лет назад +66

    Every once in a while I watch videos like this just to remind myself that even though life isnt always easy...there are people out there who were dealt an even tougher hand in life. Claire is a very inspirational and strong woman, thanks for sharing your story!

    • @kgspvgsp7569
      @kgspvgsp7569 3 года назад +8

      I dont think u should be saying this, these are real people and not a tool for u

  • @jvertrees1988
    @jvertrees1988 6 лет назад +160

    I feel bad for the guilt her mom must live with. Such a tragic and awful mistake with a life changing outcome for her daughter. I think it’s beautiful that they have a good relationship despite the past. How devastating..

    • @sriramappa.mmuniyappa822
      @sriramappa.mmuniyappa822 5 лет назад +12

      Truly speaking no body wishes or foresees an accident. A mom is always a mom and she always thinks only some thing good to her children. So there is no point in blaming the mom.

    • @edwigcarol4888
      @edwigcarol4888 3 года назад +3

      very very sadly the perfect storm: the Mother sleep-deprived has a "microsleep-event" during driving and the daughter has no belt..
      Probably has been the first surgeon sadly also deeply sleep-deprived when operating the first time...

  • @maddieebobaddiee
    @maddieebobaddiee 4 года назад +105

    oh I thought the support worker was her boyfriend 😂 they look so adorable together

    • @Jadenicoleluna
      @Jadenicoleluna 7 месяцев назад +3

      I hope he stayed around they get married

  • @robinswaytoday
    @robinswaytoday 7 лет назад +82

    I have been an incomplete quad since 1974. I don't see myself in a wheelchair but just my normal self. Attitude and our will to move forward means everything. I saw my life experiences in your story . Thanks for sharing.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +2

      Thanks for watching Robin and sharing your story with us. Glad to hear you enjoyed our documentary 😊

    • @John-hg5pw
      @John-hg5pw 5 лет назад +3

      1996 here. Jesus Christ is returning soon. He is coming! The corruptiple must put on incorruptible. Amen!

    • @sararickmore1195
      @sararickmore1195 4 года назад +1

      People like you leave people like me in awe - your spirit and courage is so inspiring

    • @louiedangelo3843
      @louiedangelo3843 4 года назад +1

      Your are amazing Robin, great attitude.

    • @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605
      @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605 3 года назад +1

      Play Christian 'healing prayer' utube videos as much as you want, I get healing when I play them. I play Benny Hinn's 'healing prayer' utube videos and there are others. You can read in their comment areas that many people are getting healed. Even our dog received healing in her eye. People say the spine can't heal but God can fix anything. 🤗😉

  • @southernplayero3940
    @southernplayero3940 6 лет назад +13

    I admire how she keeps going no matter what . She is a truly inspiration .

  • @jessiecastille8185
    @jessiecastille8185 7 лет назад +42

    I also became disabled after falling out of my moms truck, and ended up under the right front tire.I was very young. I don't remember any of that day. I am wheelchair bound. But live life as it comes. You are so beautiful! I am happy you have a good friend to help you. That is Awesome, Thumbs up to you dude.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +4

      Thanks for watching Jessie Castille 😊

  • @genevieveflowers1246
    @genevieveflowers1246 5 лет назад +35

    I was 19 years old when I had my car accident 1 1/2 years ago. I was also sleeping in the back seat without my belt, our car flipped 5 times and my foot was almost ripped off from my leg. They were able to save it but I'm considering an elective amputation because of severe pain and very limited mobility in my foot. No matter what life throws your way you can always make the best of it! 💘 Embrace your body however you are, everything happens for a reason! When there's a will, there's a way

  • @jerryel2
    @jerryel2 7 лет назад +36

    Hi, I'm 74 years old and have been a para for 48 years. You "youngsters" I see on the Net are still inspirational as I think some of the reasons life is different for wheelchair users now is because myself and many others paved the way...In the US anyway. Raised two daughters from infancy as a single parent which gave me the early drive to keep going. I think the hardest part was learning how to live with myself because unless I could do that I couldn't live with others. It certainly wasn't easy and even after 48 years I still have to bite my tongue sometimes and say to myself it just isn't worth it..."Move on". So it's been a series of "moving ons" but with aging it's a very slow move now. Still independent and my daughters grew up to be caring successful people with their own families, and life goes on, albeit slowly now. The world is all yours now, make it even better.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +5

      Thanks for that beautiful message Jerry. We hope you enjoyed the documentary and are living a happy & healthy life!

    • @renukathonas8416
      @renukathonas8416 3 года назад

      Can you record a prson who walked after c 5 injury in three weeks?? Me

    • @SUPERSPAZD
      @SUPERSPAZD 10 дней назад

      @@renukathonas8416
      huh? 🤔

  • @justinmalone8518
    @justinmalone8518 5 лет назад +31

    Oh wow, I’m a c5 incomplete also. You have so much more hand and upper body function than I do! Looking good Claire!

  • @katelynnmcdougall9826
    @katelynnmcdougall9826 4 года назад +44

    Claire and her caregiver have a very good friendship I can see that blooming into a beautiful relationship 🥰

  • @jgroenveld1268
    @jgroenveld1268 7 лет назад +147

    I was in total denial when I first sustained my disability thinking this is just a phrase and everything will go back to normal. Than you approach that low point coming to the realization that I will never get back to normal. But what I defined as "normal" needed... a new definition hence a new outlook on life. I'm still not quite there emotionally but I'm over the moon meeting people whom I would never meet if it wasn't for that event.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +5

      Thank you very much for sharing J Groenveld

    • @nyla-amarasmit8117
      @nyla-amarasmit8117 7 лет назад +5

      J Groenveld do you live in europe holland? You have a dutch name.
      What disability do u have?
      Xx

    • @MzClementine
      @MzClementine 6 лет назад +2

      Aw!!! So lovely to hear! Hugs love!!!

    • @spike16965
      @spike16965 6 лет назад +3

      I was that way being diagnosed with epilepsy I know it's not the same as being paralyzed but it can be paralyzing when not able to control your body ever so often from jerks or seizures

    • @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605
      @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605 3 года назад

      Play Christian 'healing prayer' utube videos as much as you want, people get healed every day just from watching them. Even our dog received healing in her eye. I play Benny Hinn's healing prayer utube videos and there is more. People say the spine can't heal but God can fix anything. 🤗😉
      Also, I had excruciating neck pain and it vanished while I was reading the Bible out loud one night so definantly do that every day. Pray every day and look up healing scriptures online and quote them. God bless you so much and your spine be right in Jesus' name!

  • @leanderrowe2800
    @leanderrowe2800 2 года назад +16

    As a mother myself, I fully understand her guilt feeling but accidents do happen. As a working single mother myself, I was tired all the time and I did AMOST fall asleep many times on the wheel with children in the car. So I learned to pull aside and close my eyes for a while and that helped. Please people, stop and pull aside when you feel you need to rest your eyes.

  • @hotflippinmess9178
    @hotflippinmess9178 3 года назад +9

    Oh man. This is such a bitter sweet story. I feel so bad for her mom for feeling so much guilt. They are both incredible.

  • @CherokeeMoor
    @CherokeeMoor 7 лет назад +65

    I'm recovering from a back injury and I've been feeling really down about it and how much of an inconvenience it's been for me. Watching this made me humble....

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +3

      Thanks for sharing Yaa, hope the recovery goes well! Thanks for watching!

    • @dawnklug6986
      @dawnklug6986 6 лет назад +3

      Yaa Sera, It's all a downer for all of us who have been injured. Don't worry. just get back as much as possible to being who you were prior to your injury. All of us will go through adjustment periods , sometimes for years, though we finally come 'round to reality. Are you paralyzed or just a "walking wounded"? I'm 37 years a quad (same type of injury level as Claire and lack tricep muscles also, but decent dexterity when I concentrate.

    • @nwatson2773
      @nwatson2773 6 лет назад +2

      Hang in there. Let the tears come but remember you are strong and fierce!

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 3 года назад

      I had excruciating neck fractures and the pain went away while I was reading the bible out loud one day. My bones , joints and whole body felt so much stronger also. So never forget your daily bible reading out loud for a few minutes or more, pray every day in Jesus' name and always be faithful with your tithing.

    • @kgspvgsp7569
      @kgspvgsp7569 3 года назад

      @@godislove7500 are you for real?

  • @shannonknoernschild5787
    @shannonknoernschild5787 6 лет назад +28

    i find you to be so incredibly aww inspiring and beautiful inside and out. I really needed to find your video and watch. I am a Mother of a young girl who was in a ski accident, a year ago March 11 2017 and she is a now T11 para. Your stories almost match, she was 18 and starting to receive all of her college acceptance letters when the accident happened. Our family has been struggling to gain footing and search for knowledge to help her as best as we can. She did end up going to University and loves to prove naysayers wrong, just like you. I am so happy you are trying to change how people see the rolling world. Thank you, from Seattle wa.

    • @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605
      @sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605 3 года назад +1

      Have her play Christian 'healing prayer' utube videos , I get healing when I play them. Benny Hinn has some and there are others. Excruciating neck pain vanished while I was reading the Bible out loud so do that every day, quote healing scriptures. 🤗😉

  • @anneshewell8799
    @anneshewell8799 4 года назад +9

    Hello Claire, I am watching your "story" and am just absolutely in love with you and your attitude. I needed to watch this story
    because number 1 it's a wonderful story and 2 I had back surgery 4 years ago that went wrong, I am able to walk a bit but when I do the pain is excruciating and I try to manage pain with turmeric and advil because I became so dependent on Opioids that I couldn't think anymore. I have become so depressed that I seem to sit and watch movies and RUclips. After watching your story I joined a gym close to my apartment and am working out with a goal of walking without a cane or crutches. I want to "Thank You" for the inspiration and the realization that I have a chance to walk and I know you wouldn't just sit around if you had a chance to walk! THANK YOU so much for the inspiration. I'm also a designer, landscape architect.

  • @geoffbarnes2758
    @geoffbarnes2758 5 лет назад +9

    Driven. Tough. Smart. Confident. Helps others. What an amazing woman. 😍

  • @aricmackenthun1206
    @aricmackenthun1206 7 лет назад +39

    She is a very beautiful young woman. I wish her nothing but the very best for the rest of her life.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +2

      Thanks for watching Aric, hope you enjoyed watching!

  • @DoloresJRush
    @DoloresJRush 7 лет назад +14

    It was really hard for me to listen to Claire's story of thinking of assisted suicide, because my brother, an alcoholic, died by his own hand. Then I fell and herniated a disc in my lower back a few years ago and with it came incredible pain, but I think it is harder for my birth family to accept the hardware I now live with as I see a "tool," not the stigma, so I'm beginning to think that's the difference between my brother and I. We were both disabled in our own way, but I think he had lost hope that things could ever change for the better. I'm grateful that Claire didn't end her life and that she's now feeling confident enough to share her story. And I'm also glad to hear that she is thinking of designing better tools for us to use! Thank you Claire! :) And thank you "Attitude" for bringing us these lovely videos of OVERCOMING people!!!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks for your comment Dolores! We're really happy to hear you enjoy and appreciate our documentaries 😊

  • @djsiroki
    @djsiroki 4 года назад +4

    Hálás vagyok azoknak az embereknek, akik segítenek neked, és szeretnek téged. Óriási dolgot csinálsz végig minden egyes nap. Le a kalappal a lelkierőd előtt, és előtted. Csodáslatos ember vagy. Örülök, hogy egy kicsit megismerhettelek. Greetings from Hungary

  • @rx.rabbit
    @rx.rabbit 7 лет назад +55

    This is beautifully shot.. I guess it helps when your subject is drop dead gorgeous!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +5

      Thanks for watching Tokiorose, hope you enjoyed!

  • @li1misskates
    @li1misskates 6 лет назад +6

    The part about forgiving your mom brought tears to my eyes! My mom is my best friend too. Keep rocking, girl.

  • @hunterjumper5892
    @hunterjumper5892 2 года назад +4

    I was paralyzed at 55 in a freak accident. Your words about feeling like everybody stares at you disapprovingly. Your story amazing and more. Wow. Completely related on all. Thank u!

  • @jessecarson3021
    @jessecarson3021 7 лет назад +125

    I'm a 36 year old male. had a spinal tumour..surgery caused me to be paralyzed..i go months without showering,don't leave house,I'm in so much deep depression..its been 4 years and still havnt excepted it..wish to JESUS CHRIST I was as strong as these people

    • @kumikoStarss
      @kumikoStarss 7 лет назад +28

      I don't know you. But I truly believe you shouldn't give up because you're stronger than your disability. Fight that depression!

    • @iloveujesusxo
      @iloveujesusxo 7 лет назад +16

      Jesse Carson -- Jesse, you're in my thoughts and prayers. God will substain you and carry you through this... Keep your eyes on Him. He's faithful and He sooo loves you. Lifting you up in Jesus' mighty name I pray. Amen. ♥🙏

    • @nyla-amarasmit8117
      @nyla-amarasmit8117 7 лет назад +27

      Jesse Carson im srry to hear that.
      Ive myself are depressed too..
      Im 31 i have crohn kidney problems benign braintumor and chronic pain in my body.
      Every 4 weeks IV med. Also alot of meds besides that. Morphine also.
      I live mostly in my room. I live now with my second dad. He takes care of me.
      But i feel very lonely.
      Do u have help to take care of you?
      ⚘⚘⚘⚘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

    • @lululovesyou7618
      @lululovesyou7618 6 лет назад +12

      Jesse- I hear you- you are not alone. There are a lot of us with similar experiences . We'll get there.

    • @Sarah1920s
      @Sarah1920s 6 лет назад +2

      God and prayers 🌹 that's the answer 💓💕🌹

  • @discardedarchitect8638
    @discardedarchitect8638 6 лет назад +5

    Staying so independent in a situation like this is so inspiring. I have epilepsy and seize around 10 times a day but wow, I am so thankful for what I do have.

  • @alexeechambers5807
    @alexeechambers5807 6 лет назад +35

    She could be a model in Milan, seriously gorgeous - but it's what's beyond the face that is really lovely.

    • @kricket8801
      @kricket8801 4 года назад +2

      Just saw a video recommended about her in Milan, modeling. I'm gonna go ahead and credit you lol

  • @deemariedubois4916
    @deemariedubois4916 5 лет назад +2

    Claire you never gave up. In even your dark times, you pushed through. You are an inspiration.

  • @NS1.
    @NS1. 4 года назад +6

    Her positivity is inspiring. Also, I'm wondering why they aren't a couple. It seems like they care for each other, more than just friends.

  • @lizajane1878
    @lizajane1878 4 года назад +17

    As a Mom too,I feel so much for your Mom. Even you cannot truly understand her deepest pain. She caused irreparable damage to her child. That is her narrative so her reality. I believe her remaining life is far worse than yours. Glad you stopped resenting her. She cannot bear more pain. I am so glad you made a life and you are beautiful. I pray for your Mom.

  • @hughlingard
    @hughlingard 7 лет назад +147

    Our bodies may break but our souls never will.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks for watching Brian , hope you enjoyed!

    • @MoonChicken1
      @MoonChicken1 6 лет назад +2

      Our bodies WILL break. It's just a question of how much time we have until it does.

    • @keelandavis9681
      @keelandavis9681 4 года назад +4

      I believe my soul was broken before I had my spinal stroke.

    • @herewegokids7
      @herewegokids7 4 года назад +2

      @@keelandavis9681 souls can definitely break

  • @quicktastic
    @quicktastic 6 лет назад +3

    Wonderful and inspirational video. One thing I learned from it is that the world is a better place with Claire in it. I'm glad she made the choice she did.

  • @DONALD1951
    @DONALD1951 4 года назад +7

    Wow...amazing that you designed and built your own home...I built 3 homes and it’s very difficult for anyone without physical disabilities...good for you for sure.
    And the dog is so cute.

  • @raegruder4626
    @raegruder4626 4 года назад +1

    I've worked with people in wheelchairs one of the biggest complaints I've gotten was people say they aren't noticed in their chair. people don't look them in the eye, you're a breath of fresh air ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @carolynkor3021
    @carolynkor3021 6 лет назад +14

    Gracious, Beautiful young woman. I can't imagine what her Mom also went through.

  • @kimberlee3243
    @kimberlee3243 7 лет назад +64

    Incredibly inspiring! Your strength and tenacity are such a force! Hello from the US 😊

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +2

      Thanks for watching Kimber , hope you enjoyed!

    • @drenica97
      @drenica97 6 лет назад +2

      Kimber Lee hello Kimber!

  • @kaz6655
    @kaz6655 2 года назад +4

    What amazing woman , she’s not only very beautiful with a smile that lit up the sky but so inspiring.

  • @melissanunn5664
    @melissanunn5664 7 лет назад +32

    love this video, I am from the US and there isn't really videos like this. There needs to be more videos about people succeeding and living their life while being in a chair. Its always videos about people walking and overcoming their disabilities but none about learning to live differently while in the chair.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks Melissa, we really appreciate those kind words. We hope you keep watching!

  • @1purplerose
    @1purplerose 6 лет назад +3

    From Seaford, Delaware, USA.
    WOW! Made my 1st comment before finishing video. I'm a nurse working the night shift. Had to check on my baby client. So, I'm back. You have got it together in a real good way. I'm so glad u didn't go thru with the assisted suicide. You have so much to offer. You and ur male companion looked so happy at the end of video. I know God will bless the rest of your journey. 💖💝💜

  • @alliebeth77
    @alliebeth77 7 лет назад +23

    You are an inspiration to us all. It is unbelievable how you answer everyone's comments. We should all be grateful for what kind of life we are given. Thank you!!!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад

      Thanks for watching Allie! We love interacting with our subscribers 😊

  • @2kiona
    @2kiona 5 лет назад +4

    Wow lady. You are an inspiration to all. When I get in my "pity pot" moments, I look at this video and realize I have zero problems compared to what my neighbor may be going through you know? Keep pushing, keep dreaming, and never give up.

  • @jamesfortner9695
    @jamesfortner9695 7 лет назад +45

    I think she is arguably the prettiest Woman I've ever seen. Beautiful Green eyes and smile. I heard her talking about her freckles ....those freckles make her even prettier.

    • @florence1395
      @florence1395 3 года назад

      Her freckles are her beauty spots…………she’s beautiful!

  • @svetlanaz7872
    @svetlanaz7872 6 лет назад +44

    youre absolutely breath-taking and, yes, as an american, i heard "leg". also, not meaning to be forward, but i think theres a bit of spark between you and the young man thats around you. perhaps you should explore that a lil...further.

  • @desiertoscacti5388
    @desiertoscacti5388 4 года назад +2

    Being body abled and still "broken" inside due to various issues, I can relate to her having felt broken once. Very inspiring, honest person. Loved the video and wishing her the best in life.

  • @bliss7166
    @bliss7166 6 лет назад +8

    I can’t imagine how guilty I would feel if I was her mum. This really makes me value how important it is to be safe on the roads! Claire is an amazing woman and I respect her perseverance. Her friend at the start is amazing and kind-hearted as well.

  • @colin101981
    @colin101981 3 года назад +1

    Inspiring! Totally inspiring. I'm a powerchair user (spinal injury lumbar). We NEED people like you to challenge what can be done. THANK YOU so much for posting this. Greetings from North Wales UK

  • @SitDownPerspective
    @SitDownPerspective 7 лет назад +61

    31 years a paraplegic, you have my admiration

  • @macbuff81
    @macbuff81 5 лет назад +1

    Beautiful...inside and out. Claire has a really great taste in fashion. Her work in helping others adjust and to regain as much as independence as possible is really beautiful as well.
    I hope in the not-so-distant future we can regrow/repair spinal cord injuries.
    Let's also always always remind our kids to wear their seat-belts. They save lives. I've also at one point or another rushed to what I felt was an important appointment. This story once again reminds all of us that NOTHING is more important than one's health. I currently struggle with one boss at one part-time job. I greatly respect his work ethic. It is his own business after all. However, he also really does not live a healthy lifestyle in part because he allows customers to constantly hassle him. He method of coping is really unhealthy and I am still trying to figure out how to set my own boundaries. I struggled with anxiety and depression for a while and one of the triggers in my case is lack of sleep esp. in the morning. For a long time I thought of myself as lazy and somehow broken because I couldn't really function in the morning before 9am. At this point though I have come to accept that I am not broken. I simply function differently. One thing I am trying to figure out now is how to operate in this world being the way I am. I am considering becoming a mental health counselor. This would allow me to help others and also allow me to set my own hours. It is still a work in progress now.
    Claire's work in making wheelchairs and the needed accessories "sexy" and organic is truly inspiring. Art informs science and vice versa. Claire is a great example of this. There is similar work being done for functional prosthetics which also looks amazing. Taking cues from anime series for example.

  • @avisboulter2698
    @avisboulter2698 7 лет назад +13

    Claire, you are inspiring many. I hope you continue to design. You do make a difference. Wishing you the best.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад

      Thanks for watching Avis! Hope you enjoyed and stay tuned!

  • @ramjet5192
    @ramjet5192 4 года назад

    Hey Claire. Almost two years ago, I got a brain injury from a minor fall, here in Jackson Hole, Wyoming, where the story should have been more exciting. I'd been here 25 years, and done all of the outdoor athletic sports to excess: mountain climbing, all types of skiing, mountain biking, trail running, marathon running....All that stopped, even my wildlife photography, with my head injury. Any kind of work has been challenging.
    Enough background. I just found you here and wanted to thank you for your story, since I've been teetering on just leaving this world, too. Your story and a couple of others I just accidentally stumbled on have helped. I use a walker because balance and coordination is difficult. I experience fatigue daily. But, like you, I'm stubborn and trying hard to transition to forearm crutches. We'll see how that goes. Enough for now.
    As an older guy with experience, my saying what you've heard so many times, that you are quite beautiful, head to toe, might mean something. What chair? Good luck and thanks for the inspiration.

  • @janella4561
    @janella4561 7 лет назад +6

    You know it would have been so easy to cry for her but her attitude is just so awe inspiring that you simply forget that she has the disability. Good for you Claire good for you....

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад

      Thanks for watching janella4561, hope you enjoyed!

  • @heathercatcatherine
    @heathercatcatherine 3 года назад +1

    She is so incredibly well spoken! It makes me so happy to see her thriving!

  • @emiliodilorenzo5107
    @emiliodilorenzo5107 7 лет назад +6

    I suffered a T9 SCI 25 years ago. Your story is so very similar to mine especially when you talk about the mental aspect of the injury. I had such a hard time explaining my feelings because people do not understand your state of mind with an SCI injury. You perfectly described it and it mirrors exactly my own feelings. I went through a really hard divorce because of it. People just want you to move on and forge ahead but if you do not deal with what happened to you it all comes crashing down at some point. For me it was 18 years post injury.

  • @jamesfrench8015
    @jamesfrench8015 4 года назад +2

    I was on the same self improvement as Claire many years ago now. We were all so incredibly moved by her story and the release she experienced when she let go of holding onto the tension and grudge with her mother. Wow so cool to see where she is as now!

  • @blzr1155
    @blzr1155 7 лет назад +8

    Claire you are a inspiration to others and myself, thank you for making the world a little bit better. I hope you succeed at every goal you set for yourself.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад

      Thank you for watching Blazer1155 1

  • @Useless_101
    @Useless_101 2 года назад +1

    She is absolutely stunning!
    She said she isnt a model but i disagree! She 100 percent has to opportunity to be one!
    Intelligent, funny, stunning, innovative, driven and most of all a warrior ❤❤❤

  • @StephWeller
    @StephWeller 7 лет назад +5

    I love what you guys are doing. My 3 year mark will be coming up in January and I'm planning to open up more about my injury and the condition that caused it. You're stronger than you think x

  • @deeraines9416
    @deeraines9416 7 лет назад +1

    As someone who had a spinal injury that paralyzed me from the neck down. I was rushed to surgery and i was very fortunate to be in the right time, the right place, and with lots of loving and hard work, i was given back 98% of what was lost. No matter what i have been through...it's those just like this young woman who inspire me and keep me from giving up. I have days when i really have to search for even the smallest victory...its at those times i come to this channel. Thank you for the encouragement.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад

      Thank you for the beautiful message Dee, hope you have a good week!

  • @JulikaExplica
    @JulikaExplica 6 лет назад +140

    She's so talented and beautiful. Very inspiring story.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 лет назад +7

      Thanks for watching Julia Jolie! Hope you enjoyed 😊

    • @giorozza
      @giorozza 6 лет назад +1

      Oi Julia! Você também é! Sigo seu canal e recentemente ajudei uma moça com transtorno bipolar através de um dos seus vídeos.

    • @JulikaExplica
      @JulikaExplica 6 лет назад

      Obrigada Giovanna! Muito feliz com a sua mensagem

    • @usamaaliatiq3896
      @usamaaliatiq3896 3 года назад

      Tears..😢😢😢

  • @hr1270
    @hr1270 6 лет назад +1

    I want to thank you Claire! After watching this video, my live changed within just two weeks! I feel ridiculous to tell that. It is just because i could`nt read a book or newspaper anymore for several years now. I finally got me glasses one week ago. I can see again!
    I was so impressed of seeing someone managing her live after such a bitter fate that i dared to have small talk to a woman who just started to work in our local supermarket that i found very pretty. She weares very thick minus glasses, but in my eyes she is the prettiest woman alive (Beside you Claire!)!
    Soon after that i send an email to my R&D chief for a personal speach. I hasn't still be possible to meet but i am sure that he will aggree with my new ideas about my job. So i might become my own group leader soon and might be able at first to have some students working for my projects! Thank you and good luck for yourselve!

  • @monicadahlin
    @monicadahlin 6 лет назад +13

    Very nice! Here in Sweden the worse thing for me and my wheelchair is the snow, it’s real hard to take a stroll to the store or something, I have been out about 5 times yet this winter, besides the times I just been in or out the car.

    • @houseofsolomon2440
      @houseofsolomon2440 Год назад

      As you probably know, they have mobility vehicles that are designed for off-pavement use, with much larger tires w/aggressive tread design, higher clearance & electric propulsion geared for situations requiring more torque (snow, mud, steep slopes, stairs, etc. Cheers & best of luck 🌿

  • @dionetaylor931
    @dionetaylor931 2 месяца назад

    Bless you for sharing your journey with me today. Recently I had Covid Flirt, the flu and as a result I had a heart attack and stroke. Your strength and courage gave me inspiration to overcome my difficulties, thank you. ❤

  • @stevenhorne5089
    @stevenhorne5089 7 лет назад +16

    I busted C5-6 about 5-6 years before you. Seeing your hands was like looking in a mirror at myself. I have the same videos that you do only with myself in the chair. I ignored the injury and pressed on. I was able to walk again and have never used a wheelchair. I saw all the faces of my friends in rehab as they watched 3 P.T.'s stand me up behind a walker with platforms for my arms because I couldn't grab the walker. I can still remember it today like it was all in slow motion. I could see on all their faces how they wished they were the ones that had that tiny chance to be where I was at that time. I remember thinking how I wanted to be any place other than behind that walker. I was about find out how much my world was going to come crashing in and I wasn't even 21 years old yet. After a half hour I moved about 3 meters. But in that time nothing in that gym moved. Everybody was fixated on me. After therapy that night when all the patients and families gathered on the porch, the mood was very somber. It was like we all knew that there was going to be 1 lucky winner of the "Walk Again Lotto" and everybody found out that they were not the winners. There was no joy for me because all my friends for the past 6 months just found out that they weren't going to walk again.
    I fall constantly. Broken a few bones over the years. Today I'm starting to see the abuse my body has taken over the years. I look at you and wish I could pass this winning lotto card to you. If only I could.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks for watching Steven, wishing you the best 😊

    • @jaikumarrajak244
      @jaikumarrajak244 7 лет назад

      Inspiring video

    • @Sarah1920s
      @Sarah1920s 6 лет назад

      Praying is the answer God can heal anything 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @JavierBonillaC
    @JavierBonillaC 4 года назад +1

    I had a fracture of my sacrum and many other bones in a skydiving accident. I have learned that humans are incredibly tough and resilient, not physically but mostly mentally. We adapt our expectations and learn to adopt new goals md cherish our progress towards those goals. At the beginning it seems impossibly depressing but the mind is wonderfully da-table. Your story Claire is so particularly inspiring. You are a brilliant example of this resilience.

  • @jen1579
    @jen1579 7 лет назад +8

    I love her mentality, she doesn't do things because people tell her she can't, she does things because she knows she can and that is an amazing way to live

  • @ekassien
    @ekassien 4 года назад +2

    Clare is an amazing, inspiring woman, & so is John, her support worker. What an amazing pair!

  • @loopguru66
    @loopguru66 7 лет назад +171

    Haha living off cup noodles to save for her dream home? She has real grit and character that doesn't match her pleasant face imo. Much respect!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +3

      Thanks for watching loopguru66, hope you enjoyed👍

  • @michelep.4380
    @michelep.4380 4 года назад +1

    Inspirational beyond SCI disabilities, she spoke of many key thoughts that I can relate to and became motivated from as a Stroke Survivor. Thank you.

  • @justinaplowden9350
    @justinaplowden9350 7 лет назад +4

    Thank you so much for making feel like I can start to accept all the grief I I've never accepted...you inspire me!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад

      Thanks for watching Justina, glad to hear this has made a positive difference 😊

  • @jamieteems7389
    @jamieteems7389 6 лет назад

    This Beautiful Woman & Soul is the most Justifiably Confident Person that I have EVER seen in my 53 years of Life. She makes me realize just how Good I have it in Life & Remarkably, she's got a Better Attitude & Outlook on Life than Me! I have No Disabilities to speak of & now that I have seen her, I need to shut up & Stop Complaining. I know Tons of People like me that need to do the Same! I wish this story would broadcast across every Media Venue in the World & let us all Witness the Silence that would ensue while it was playing!
    The Gentleman helping you is an Incredible Person as well! I actually hoped that something would come of that Energy the two of you put off but, whatever works for y'all.
    You are my Hero Young Lady & I Love You for who you are!
    Respectfully, from South Carolina, USA.

  • @sEaNoYeAh
    @sEaNoYeAh 4 года назад +3

    She's actually gorgeous. She has a great style and a really lovely smile too. Beautiful woman.

  • @ReSearcherSusie
    @ReSearcherSusie 6 лет назад +1

    Wow. Claire has an indomitable, beautiful spirit! What an amazing woman. I’m so grateful that she’s alive, that she’s actively pursuing her dreams! What a great inspiration! Thank you Claire!!!

  • @evanskimberlyevans
    @evanskimberlyevans 6 лет назад +3

    You inspire me. I appreciate your candid honesty. I have C5-C6 and C6-C7 spinal fusion from car accident when I was 18years old. I am inspired and renewed by your strength and courage. Also...how do you drive? Love your doggie too btw. Thank you for sharing with us!

  • @rdunyc554
    @rdunyc554 6 лет назад +2

    You're amazing! You need a RUclips channel Claire! Your story and who you are as a woman will empower millions of young women. Please start a channel! You have so much to contribute to the world and the world needs you! Don't stop ever!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 лет назад

      Thanks for watching NYCGirl Rdu! Hope you enjoyed 😊

  • @princessaz79
    @princessaz79 7 лет назад +27

    Poor mom. She feels guilty. My question is is it more horrible to be able body then become disabled or be born disabled. I became disabled at the age of 25.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks for watching princessaz79!

    • @dawnklug6986
      @dawnklug6986 6 лет назад +2

      I think born with it as one "always is", but I know from personal experience that many of those children I knew as a kid wondered all the time what it was like to be "normal", So really it cuts both ways. I had just turned 24 when I was paralyzed and am now 61. I was November 1980. My son grew up only knowing me in a chair as is his son is now learning about his 2nd Granma. His other is a walker, so he knows both worlds and doesn't carre.

  • @dooddirl1
    @dooddirl1 4 года назад +1

    What a beautiful human being, inspired is only part of how I feel after learning her tragic story. Ma’am I’m in awe of you.

  • @salvadorrodenas3071
    @salvadorrodenas3071 7 лет назад +8

    Thank you for sharing this with us. It´s a story of suffering, I was very sad while I was watching your extraordinary video, putting myself in the skin of a beautiful teenager full of dreams, who suddenly sees her life plans truncated and how this situation gets to a point of almost no return and... finally, thanks to God and all the good people that surrounds you, be able to make peaces with all your personal demons and find your well deserved happiness. I´m happy too.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks for your kind message Salvador, we hope you enjoyed the documentary!

    • @salvadorrodenas3071
      @salvadorrodenas3071 7 лет назад +1

      Attitude you're welcome. It's me who gives you thank you for addressing to me. you are lovely. bye

  • @sonjam314
    @sonjam314 4 года назад

    I have to use a power (electric) wheelchair to go any kind of distance. I have a nervous system disorder called CRPS that affects my entire body. I am just about to turn 44 and I seldom go out because it’s so difficult #1, #2 I feel people stare at me and I am already so insecure and #3 I have gained over 100 pounds in the last 6 years from medication and total lack of mobility. I’ve become a hermit. When I was measured for my wheelchair they didn’t bother measuring the back do when I try to lay back to get the pressure off my lower back the headrest is below my neck and I have no support. I would love to decorate my chair and make it awesome looking lol
    You are such a beautiful, smart and talented woman and even though I don’t know you I am proud of you at the same time!!! Your courage is so beautiful to watch and I thank you so much for the documentary about your life!!!!! You are probably one of the strongest people I have ever seen!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @glorytoukraine9442
    @glorytoukraine9442 7 лет назад +23

    she is great

  • @mmmmlllljohn
    @mmmmlllljohn 6 лет назад +2

    Great lady - glad she has such great support! She has done so much with her life already. You go girl!🇨🇦 All the best from Canada.

  • @talhairshad7129
    @talhairshad7129 2 года назад +3

    Being an SCI patient I know how it feels like when you're going thru paralysis and it becomes a life long challenge to overcome your injury psychologically.

  • @paulanewhouse4252
    @paulanewhouse4252 2 года назад +2

    Wow. She is so beautiful. What a strong person. I wish her and her mom well.

  • @lilli9822
    @lilli9822 7 лет назад +19

    her house is amazing!she is lucky to live in NZ in many countries if you are disabled you can't get much support. I feel sorry for her mother, I guess she will feel guilty for the rest of her life.

  • @robray7106
    @robray7106 6 лет назад +2

    I can tell you're a fighter and all around beautiful person! I wish you all the best from San Antonio, TX USA.

  • @iainbannerman1543
    @iainbannerman1543 5 лет назад +2

    Man, what an inspirational video, I have so much respect for you. I wish you well.

  • @eghuanoyeemugh5538
    @eghuanoyeemugh5538 6 лет назад +2

    BRAVO CLAIRE YOU ARE SUCH AN INSPIRATION FOR USING YOUR CONDITION TO MAKE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 лет назад

      Thanks for watching Eghuan Edighotu

  • @robertfarley8425
    @robertfarley8425 7 лет назад +6

    Truly amazing Claire, I was teary eyed in segments. Then had inspiration for your mind set you have embedded in your self. May God continue to guide you on your life's journey. XOXO

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад

      Thanks for watching Robert, hope you stay tuned! 😊

  • @catjudo1
    @catjudo1 4 года назад

    This woman is so much stronger than I am. I'm amazed at what she has done with her life because with an able body I sabotage everything I try. Her strength and resilience makes me feel like such a loser. The world needs people like her, not me.

  • @kaedebaker4624
    @kaedebaker4624 4 года назад +6

    okay but what's really impressive is that she fits a wheelchair in an audi tt

  • @kimoconnor495
    @kimoconnor495 4 года назад +1

    I came across your video by chance,I think you are awesome such a inspiration truly beautiful inside and out. I've become disabled and at 55 thought life was the worst but seeing you made me smile .Your mum must have felt awful and been devastated over your accident. I'm so glad you have moved on and your relationship is better.Your friend seems a great guy so caring and seems to understand your needs.You have a beautiful relationship whatever it is. I wish you all the best and hope your life just keeps getting better and better. Enjoy every moment because life is short and living with regrets suck.