Horses are incredibly smart too, so it likely understood she was injured and maybe even the part it played in her injury. I feel for them both and I cried too!
Krishna Verma cried at that part.....I teared up through the whole thing. It was funny when she said that....not blaming the horse but she wouldn't put her money on em. To go through this and still keep a sense of humor says alot about her. I could hope 2 be that strong 1 day
Jin I think this video is much too mature for you. I really don’t know why you watched it. Maybe you should stick to skateboarding fail videos and phone pranks.
I admire how incredibly resilient you are. I had a dving injury and I am a c5/6 Tetraplegic, yet I have been riding since I was 5. I was completely dependent when I came home from the hospital but worked hard and slowly rebuilt my independence. It took 2 hours to out my pants on, now its 4-5 minutes. I learned to shower, transfer, cook, drive and finally live without assistance. I met the love of my life and got married two years ago. He sees me, not the chair.I am currently working on my Ph.D in Clinical Psychology. Nothing is impossible and life is full. Laugh when you want to cry and never say no to an invitation. Just keep being you beautiful. Im excited to continue to watch your journey. Much love, stay strong
I’ve been a T7 paraplegic since I was a kid, 40 years ago. Life is challenging but awesome. I graduated high school, college, married my college sweetheart, have an awesome professional career, and have twins. I’ve travelled the world. None of it was easy, but it’s all been worthwhile. You get out of life what you put into it. Sophie will be fine. She, like me, will never walk again, but it’s not the worst thing that happens to people.
I just sent you healing prayer video link, they've been very healing for me and other people too, you can read it in their comments. I hope you're just as blessed by them, God loves you so much!
Also, reading the bible out loud healed my neck, made my bones, joints and whole body feel very much stronger too. I believe it can heal anything so always do daily bible reading. Look up healing bible scriptures online or read any of it, it's all so good to read. Pray every day in Jesus' name and always Tithe faithfully, it heals so much too if you do it right.
I wish the film makers would acknowledge in these documentaries that being able to live the life Sophie does, - having a fully wheelchair accessible flat all to herself next to her parents and a separate space for her carers to be, is never possible for most people. This is extreme privilege because governments around the world do not support disabled people enough. Coming from money is what has improved her quality of life just as much as her determination. And I don't say that to take away anything that she went through, she seems great. Just a note to the non-disabled viewers out there - if you know a wheelchair user who is down on life and not thriving, please do not blame their attitude. The world can be a cruel place for disabled people
Just had a thought similar to this. Mine was primitive though, it went like "Well she can thank god she's packin' on some serious money, otherwise she would pull the plug a lot sooner".
I was 23 yrs old and was in the Navy when I became an incomplete quad. July 6th, 1987 at 1640 PST. I did not know the seriousness of my accident until I was 60 today. I thought my wchair could crush the stick in front of me. Boy, was I wrong! Now I'm on bed rest and I have a plate and screws covering C-5,6,7 from the first accident. A week ago I was going for a new MRI. My current accident basically destroyed all of my vertebra from T-12 through S-1. I have 6 bulging disc. T-12 DISC is herniated, ALL the fluid is gone. 1 herniated disc the other 5 disc are torn and and leaking the fluid out that was inside the disc for the past 37 yrs. The surgery to fix the mess down there! The first step is to get my body at it's best . Once they go in and clear all the damage away, the process for healing begins. After it's healed well, they can go back in and cut a few incisions for the last phase of my procedures. What or how long this part might take is still unclear. After Tuesday I will know. I've had many yrs to reflect on what happened. I can honestly say that even though it was a surprised me, God new just what He was coming. He knew that as long as I could be of service to Him, I would endure it. He had me buy certain items as gifts. I never questioned him. Till after I came home and I was alone and very lonely. It would be 35 yrs before I learned that 4 people have given their hearts to Jesus; be ause of the seeds I planted. If only 1 person gave their heart to Jesus, to me, I still would do it all again!!! I went from being a ASIA "A" -can barely move, to up and walking alone. I competed in 7 categories and won Gold in every one of themat the PVA summer games. After my last surgery and I get the drs approval, I'm going to Snowmass Village in Colorado for the older folks!!!😅😮 Please keep me in your prayers 🙏 ❤️. As I will do for each of you. God.loves you!! He left us as Witnesses for HIM. TIMES are changing. You are definitely going to want Him on your side. Listening to Serve Him~ My truck is getting an elevator...Man Magnet...hehehe😂. I'm happily married. If any ladies want to chat about "women concerns", please feel free to ask. I'd like to lead an Women's Asseccible Cruise. Or we can go on a cruise and have classes to certain subjects. Come on, Let's Roll
I love Mom's transition to the country and gardening...in heels. She has a great attitude too, and so supportive. No wonder Sophie's attitude and strength are so great. Not to take away from what she does and what she has been through.
@@hessranch I’m sure Sophie will not have any shortage of suitors but your statement isn’t exactly correct. There’s people who end up alone. People who never find anyone. That’s just a reality of life. I’m 31 and have never been in a relationship.
My husband is a C-4 C5 Quad. I have been loving him and helping him physically for almost 40 years. We met when we were in our mid 20’s and have been together ever since. We have a rather hard life physically speaking compared to the average, but LOVE CONQUERS ALL. It is possible to have a very fun exciting and fulfilled life with meaning, it just depends on how one looks at life. If you have a good attitude and you try you will go far. That goes for the caregiver and the disabled people as well. Life is what you make of it.
At 27:10 "Am I still lovable?" I have absolutely no doubt that a man will love fall in love with Sophia. She is far too charming and sweet and beautiful for that to not happen.
@@mindfucker8515 True but it's not selfish if they can admit they wouldn't be up for it. I know of a friend of mine whose wife told him point blank. If something ever happens where you can't take care of yourself I am gone. I'm not taking care of a cripple.while I applaud her honesty it certainly shows her true colors. I attended their wedding where they said the traditional vows of in sickness and health etc. I told him he needs to drop her right now and move on. They have no kids so he doesn't have to worry about that. Is it selfish to admit when you are not up to a situation like this? I would never take care of anyone else's kids but my own . Does that make me selfish if I don't want to adopt?
@@mindfucker8515 What's with the name calling? I originally stated it would take a special kind of person for that relationship. I have no idea what the hell you're talking about with the personality nonsense you mention. You know nothing about me yet you can be so judgmental. I happen to prize loyalty very highly and have ended friendships because of disloyalty. Your efforts at shaming me reveal what your character is all about.I don't mind that you commented because if I comment on something I expect people to get in on the action. Your words do not bother me and we both will go on with life a forget this conversation ever took place. That's what I do with unimportant things and people
My apologies I was on sleeping medication and misread your comment. I know a guy who speaks a LOT like you and he actualy is an ass so I was like.. are they ALL like that?!
I've had an SCI for 11 years now and I've ALWAYS SAID that being in a wheelchair is NOT a death sentence!!!! You keep going girl and you're going to do amazing things in your life!
Thank God she survived! And at least she has the use of her arms! I was in a car accident and had concussion/broken neck. Every day is a gift. Medical breakthroughs are still hopeful.
From what i understand, we may be really close, but there are laws drastically slowing the promising research in, for example embryonic stem cell treatments....if not outright preventing much of it.
@@numalesoybea1348 I see it the same way Numale. These bodies are so complex, designed by an Awesome Creator. I don't believe that man will ever completely figure them out. Even if you remain healthy your entire life you'll still die at some point. What will never die is the Spirit that lives within your temporal body. That's the part that's most important! Take care, God bless!!!
My mom was paralyzed in a car crash at 19 I was only 11 months old she fought everyday and eventually lived independently it took years to develop Ways to be independent but she did don’t give up hope I pray for you
And suddenly all my problems don’t seem so big at all. I wish you a lifetime of love and laughter, strength and peace, Sophia. What an inspirational young woman you are!! Xx
It's terrible going from an independent woman to having to be treated like a child. You don't want to be called inspiring or brave. It's NOT like you chose this. It's as hard to accept help sometimes as it is to give it. Be strong, sweet girl.
I also am quadriplegic since nine years old, and must agree with you. The word may seem harmless and uplifting, but hearing it as many times as I have it loses its effect. There's even a description of it among the disabled community: Inspiration Porn.
You are right, she didn't choose this but Horseriding is an extremely hazardous sport and aspiring to be a jockey is about the most dangerous discipline. Horses are living, thinking, breathing animals who can/do spook without warning.
I'm in tears watching the horse approach her. OMG what a beautiful but heartbreaking thing to watch! Thank you for sharing your story. You're a strong and inspiring young woman 💜
lori ann Costello It depends from injury to injury, if you completely sever the spinal cord there is no mobility. If you damage it there is still some mobility usually
Quadriplegia occurs when the neck area of the spinal cord is injured. Sometimes people with quadriplegia can move their arms, but have no control over their hand movements. They cannot grasp things or make other motions which would allow them a little independence.
I’m a c5 myself and seeing you visit the place where you had you accident touched me so much! Always keep moving forward nomatter what, prayers to you and your family
Reading the bible out loud healed my neck, made my bones, joints and whole body feel soooo much stronger too. I believe it can heal anything so never forget daily bible reading out loud. Look up healing bible scripture online or read any of it, it's all so good to read. Pray every day in Jesus' name and always Tithe faithfully, it heals so much too if you do it right.
Thank you so much for the encouraging word! I have peripheral neuropathy and I’m 71 years young. I have been reading the New Testament but will now read it aloud. 🙏🏻❤️
How are u doing now? I am a 54 yr old C3-C6 incomplete walking with a walker outside, inside walking alone. Some balance issues still. Loss of sensation from my waist down but looking into issues with my Lumbar. Rehab is going well. Theorists can't understand some of the things I can do but they love watching me get better each evaluation.
Oh Sophie honey ! You are so beautiful. I know what you and your family have gone through. My niece was a quadriplegic as well. She was c1 and was ventilator dependent. Her vocal cords were paralyzed, she couldn’t swallow and the only movement she had was her face. She was six at the time of her accident and I was one of her care givers for the last 15 years of her life. She lived 30 years like that. She was so much like you. Gorgeous and happy and busy all the time. Her care givers were like family for us. We had to read her lips and misunderstandings were often quite hilarious. She graduated with honors from high school despite it all. You and she are my hero’s forever. We heartbreaking lost her in October 2017 due to her trachea hemorrhaging from so many years of having a trach. You are blessed you have so much my dear. Hold tight to your amazing attitude. Life is still beautiful. Much love.
I am sorry your going thru this too. I grew up with one of my coolest ppl in my life she was paralyzed at 19 and she help make me who I am.. she just still to this day I think of her often..thanks for sharing your story
I’m so sorry this happened to her. I was 13 when my dad broke his neck and was a quadriplegic for 32 years. It’s a difficult life. The good thing is that with research especially stem cell advancements in spinal cord injuries She will be young enough to see these advancements and walk again.
@Lady Heart whoa 😶 Ignoring your clearly messed up in the head, I'd like to point out that muscles and bones can repair and regenerate even after 27 years of atrophy, especially with stem cell application. The problem is they still haven't the slightest clue how to heal a spine.
I live with you, my injury is on my th 9, but I’m 46 I had more years, but you can live better with your handicap when you 46, and maybe some nerves wil heel, I pray for you so long I live, your hart is so big, you can stil love the horse… stay that lovely person.. lots of love wishes from Holland 🍀🌹
I have Muscular Dystrophy and I know how driving a car made me feel so independent. It helped me a lot to go where I wanted or needed. So I hope by now you have your own equipped vehicle!
the nerve has to regenerate to the extent that it can conduct an action potential. Unfortunately just because she can feel some things does not mean that she can move her leg
On bbc news they are reporting on a Swiss clinic that has got a paralysed man walking and there is a French guy walking again after being stabbed through the spine,there is hope and progress being made .this lady and others will not be in a wheelchair all there life.
Jonathan M sorry for the late reply it the national technical college of Lausanne.i,m unsure how you would get the news report from the BBC it would be the best place or you could try emailing the producers of "click" at the BBC.Its difficult to find the genuine sites amongst the drivel on the web.we had about 4/5 days of reports and stories on tv and newspapers of advances in treatment in the UK.I don't want to pass on a possibly duff site.
Jonathan M .i don't know where you are in the world but on the BBC website there are catch up episodes of all there programmes including Click ,they are supposed to be uk only but seemingly there are emulators on the web which allows people abroad to watch I have an American friend who managed to watch the the remembrance ceremony from paschendale.history buff.
Hey my friend. I was 20 when I broke my neck. I was one of those "shot in a million" people that went from completely paralyzed to being able to walk 6 months after the accident. While I had 2 fingers with function on the left, I had nothing on the right. I found a surgeon that would re-engineer my right hand fingers to run off the wrist muscles. I see you have the wrist function which would be the function you need. it's accomplished over a series of 2-3 surgeries. The first one is to get your fingers out of your palm. I can see you struggle with that problem. I see that from miles away on any quad. It felt so good to be able to do things just because they weren't curled in my palm. I told my surgeon that the thing I loved the most, was that I could shake peoples hands. From that point the doctor will start to motor the fingers. After the second surgery you start to have the ability to grasp things. The most important thing is that this function, even in only one hand, will give you back the ability to live on your own. Please give it some thought buddy.
@@sleepytASMR It’s just how humans are, unfortunately. Ugly people are not seen as worthy, but beautiful people are. This is in everything really. It’s an innate trait in people and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
You're right on target. Seeing someone with this kind of disability makes you appreciate what you have, makes you almost ashamed at dwelling on the petty "problems" we grouse about. You might know that Kris Reeve, who played Superman in the movies, became a quad after falling off a horse. He was even more disabled, needing a ventilator in order to breathe. I admire this girl's determination and grit. As for me, being so active and independent, I might end my life.
It is heartbreaking to see someone like Sophia crying. I hope through advances in stem cell research we will be able to completely repair spinal cord injuries. From what I've researched, such new therapies should be possible in the not so distant future. I hope it will happen soon so that people like Sophia can regain their independence. For now, I hope Sophia will be able to find happiness in her life as well as regain some independence, even if it's only a little. Sophia, you will get through this. I cannot imagine what it is like to be a quadriplegic so I will not pretend. However, I do know what it feels like to feel very hopeless at times. You are a beautiful young woman and that has not changed. My ex gf was diagnosed with MS but it did not stop her from attaining a PhD in neuroscience.
Sophia please pray the Lord's Prayer 500 times you will be healed completely,, this is what you learn to HAGAH 💞❤💕 in Hebrew Jesus still the same for ever 🍎
I can’t imagine what she must’ve felt going back there for the first time what an amazing courageous woman she is it puts in perspective what matters in life I hope I can live with half as much much bravery she does
Hanf Kartoffel A lot of disabled people don’t want a cure, I think instead of trying to fix people we should make the world accessible when people do inevitably become disabled. The ableism and inaccessibility of the world as of now is horrific and it needs to change. It isn’t the disability that makes things hard, it’s the things around us.
Molasor Rosalom As a disabled person and member of the disabled community, a majority of us do not want a cure. We are proud to be who we are and do not need to be “fixed” in order to be worthy or multi faceted people. We don’t need cures. We need accessibility.
Joseph Yes. There are some good academic articles about ableism, and disability Twitter is full of good information. Our main priority should not be to fix, but to make things accessible. Disability is inevitable, it will happen to most of us. Focusing on a “fix” only makes people with incurable or irreversible illnesses feel inadequate or less than as they are.
Sophia, I can't begin to imagine how awful in some respects this must make you feel. To see millions of people take movement for granted and never see it as a gift, while you struggle everyday . I'm sure the never ending talk inside our heads asks the question to God about "why me?" with never really receiving a satisfactory answer either. Perhaps your strength and courage is a gift to this world and you become a light to others as people draw power from the flame that burns inside you. You make others see just how fragile life is and for us to be ever so grateful for the blessings we have. There is little fairness and not much justice in this world anymore, but I pray you get a miracle or cure and continue to be that miracle to others. Bless you always.
@@PannaLola..... thanks so much, but yes I try to make something I think will encourage someone but most times I never feel like I've done enough. This life we have here can be just brutally unfair but we all just keep moving forward the best we can. It would be nice if we'd all help each other but I don't see that happening on a large scale in this lifetime. I've had a tough life with drunken, drugged up parents and so much suffering, yet I endure nothing compared to this courageous young woman I wish I could help in some way. thanks for the comment.
@@PannaLola.... My dad was from Poland and my mom was Irish. My dad was a jerk and I never met him util I was 15. He was always trying to make it in life but had one of the kindest spirits I ever saw. My childhood was so awful I was just trying to stay alive for the first 17 years. It helped to shape me in life though to have more empathy and compassion than almost anyone else I know so in a way...(not all) but in a way, it did make me maybe a better person. Who knows about life anyhow? Just when you have a sense of how to live it ....it's over like the seasons of the year, gone. May God bless you every day of your life.
@@PannaLola If you can think of anything you need from amazon as a gift I can order it and have it sent to you at a friends house or police station or lock box, PO box what ever. I'm just pulling for you to get better or at least feel okay about it sometime. You do seem to be doing wonderfully in many ways with that courage you have so much of. Bless you always.
@@PannaLola thanks so much for the trust. Delete this before some corporations get it and will spam you forever like they do here in the U.S. In this country corporations run the country and everything in life is now about money. I do hope you're feeling better and I bet that pup of yours is about the best friend you could have.
"Life doesn't stop with the wheelchair. Your legs stop, but your life doesn't." by Sophia Malthus Thanks for sharing this story to us, greetings from Ecuador :)
You remind me so much of my 19 almost 20 year old daughter, Meg. She was in a ski accident a little over a year ago. Meg is now a paraplegic. She is so determined just like you. Meg works out hard everyday. Everyone who is in our day to day life is encouraged and had have witnessed many results in progressive PT. I wish one day you could meet or at the very least communicate...you both have a lot in common. You are an incredible young women, Sophia. I am still very traumatized by my daughters accident and what my daughter has had to over come. Seeing your youtube was emotional but it also gave me hope. Thank you.
It must be awful as a mother in ways that no-one else could imagine. In some ways maybe even worse than the daughter's experience because I bet part of you wishes you could just take her place to give her back her freedom. The selfless, unconditional love of mothers is simply awe-inspiring to me. Make sure to take care of you too Shannon. I wish you strength, hope, healing, light and love for you, your daughter and your family and I hope she continues to get a little better every day. Keep the faith! x
Now I know money won't take her suffering away and all the things I've read in the comments BUT I am extremely glad she seems not to have financial issues. Not because money will cure her or take her disability away, but because it's given her better life quality. She's an incredibly strong young woman and her attitude towards the horse shows she also has a wonderful spirit.
Romy it wouldn't matter in NZ if her family had money or not. As i've replied to someone else higher up, we have ACC (Accident Compensation Corporation). Every working person here pays 1.5% of their wages in a tax to cover ACC, and employers also contribute for each worker. However, although funded by workers, it covers literally every person in NZ, regardless of nationality, or work history, for costs associated with an accident that happens in New Zealand, while they're in New Zealand. Her carers are paid for by ACC, as are her rehabilitation, medicines and equipment. Even her cabin most likely was paid for by ACC, as it pays for renovations or necessary construction costs to return home and make the property meet the needs of the injured person. Her family may cover some costs, such as alternative therapies, or a partial fee if only partly funded, which is normally $30 or less per visit. ACC also pays 80% of your pre-accident income, and adjusts yearly for inflation. If a young person is injured before ever working, they can apply for an assessment of income based on the average wage in NZ. Her income will also be propped up by social security payments, such as Disability Allowances etc. We have universal medical care here, and no, our taxes aren't high either.
+vKarl71 We do, but we don't actually need Health Insurance in NZ to get the care Sophie is. We have ACC (Accident Compensation Corporation) and universal health care for all residents. This includes funding for disabilities and carers. Health Insurance in New Zealand doesn't cover carers etc. That is covered either by ACC or the government.
One has to appreciate the resources and her sorroundings. Imagine being in this difficult situation with a broken family, broken contact to family members and not the means to support the disability. her parents can buy her everything and they love her. Shes very privileged in that sense
It's her destiny everyone has their destiny nd I have notice most of the time only rich people suffer such injuries nd diseases that needs millions in treatment
@@firstchoicetuber3757 Not true. There’s millions of people in this world who get an illness or an injury and become disabled who are not well off financially.
I have severe anxiety and depression that really impacts my life and while it sucks ass I should at least be thankful I have a healthy body. This puts things into perspective. God speed on your journey Sophia. P.S you're gorgeous.
Yeah, I have severe anxiety not depression though. Anxiety impacts my life so much and sometimes I think why do I have to have anxiety and be like this cause it is wasting important moments I could be having like going out with friends but now when I watch things like this I realise that there are people in far worse situations than me and it makes me a lot more grateful.
@@cat-lw6kq what kind of natural supplements? I'm going through an existential crisis. How would supplements help me figure out what I wanna do with my life?
Dear Sophia, I just met you tonight via RUclips. I so appreciate who you are and want to say thank you for sharing your extreme challenges, struggles and love.
I can understand it very well . unluckly m paralysed and m just 20 years old I m suffering from 3 year's. Plz pray for me that I get back my normal life
I'm an above-knee amputee after coming off a horse at speed on an outride. I've had Rheumatoid Arthritis since I was 15yrs old (I'm 63yrs now) so I'm now in a wheelchair. My generation were a 'don't talk about it' group. Watching you back at the track where you had your accident had my heart racing at the memory of my own accident. You are a huge inspiration for having the courage to tell your story on video!🥰
You remind me of my daughter. She’s 21 now, was in an auto accident at 4 months old. She’s far less capable of self care than you, but your attitude makes me smile. Along with her, I lost my son to an accident at 17yo. Bless you four your amazing spirit, and attitude! While I’m lucky to be healthy, I chose happiness and positivity to overcome the tragedies my children gave gone through, and you seem to do the same.
Thanks, I think it’s a choice really. I have people tell me that, but I never thought of another way. Be thankful for what we have, don’t be disappointed in what we don’t.
If Sophia or anyone else in a similar position is ever reading this, just know that you are still lovable and you will see someone who sees through the disability!! My boyfriend has a spinal cord injury, and is paralyzed from the waist down (i didn't know him as able-bodied, this only happened to him about 2 years ago (at 18) after a tumor was found and removed from his spine). I love him more than anything, and his disability has very little effect on our relationship as we've figured out how to do things differently. I don't see him as his disabilities, and sometimes I even forget he has them (which he finds quite funny lol). He is the most determined and positive person I've ever met. Watching this was actually quite strange for me, as a lot of the journey we saw Sophia go through - my boyfriend is/has gone through too (you also have the exact same water bottle?? Which just made it ten times weirder for me as we live in the UK, I know its just a water bottle but with other similarities, this really takes the biscuit lmao)
I just sent you a healing prayer video link, they've been very healing for me and other people too, you can read it in their comments. I hope you're just as blessed by them, God loves you so much!
Also, reading the bible out loud healed my neck. My bones, joints and whole body felt very much stronger too. I believe it can heal anything so always do daily bible reading . Look up healing scriptures or read any of it, it's all so good to read.
He's lucky to have you. I'm 38 born with Spina Bifida and it's hard man but I've accomplished a lot in my life and I'm blessed so no complaints. Still waiting for a partner. Hope you guys stick with each other forever ❤️❤️❤️
I went horse riding two times, in my life. I'm very inexperienced. My second time on a very irresponsible trip, on my side too actually. The horse was riding at a good pace, not running but not even walking. I lost my footing, and I was hanging on the side of the horse. I couldn't get back on while riding, so I decided to let myself go. I tried to fall as far as possible from his hooves but he still kicked my in the head. Few minutes prior the accident I suddenly remembered I hadn't latched my helmet. This accident is a constant reminder in my head of how lucky I am to be still alive and in health. If I hadn't remembered to latch the helmet I'd probably be dead. Thank you for sharing your story, you're such a strong soul. Much love, Alessandro
Before I even got to the part where she mentioned she was doing therapy, I thought, "this girl is SO going to be walking again!" I will not be surprised one bit the day she walks on her own. Also her family arrangement is awesome. I love that she gets her own independence by her own house, but her parents are only a few feet away. I would love for that. Also, that interaction between her and the horse that she fell off of was so touching. I couldn't tell for sure from the little bit they showed, but it looked like the horse knew exactly what happened.
I expect she will walk again along with loads of other spinal injury patients. BBC news has been reporting on lausanne University which has a new treatment that looks impressive. Some day soon, right out of left field a viable mass treatment will appear. Love science and technology.
@@Axelfl6161 this was back in my suggested videos again, I wonder if she's walking yet?!? I half expect her to because she's so awesome lol. Watching this, she's definitely left an impact on me.
You cannot imagine the admiration and respect that I have for you and for other disabled people. I have jumped out of my way to help people who I saw would need help.
@@bumbleink9555 When she started crying at the site of her accident you could feel her mourning the life she had dreams of living. It was so gut wrenching.
I cried watching this, cried like a baby for her lost dream...and a bit for my own... My boyfriend and I were talking marriage and we were out celebrating when he tried to stop a man for beating his wife in the parking lot of a bar. He was stabbed in the neck, at the base of his spine, severing the nerves, leaving him a quad... We stayed together for 12 months afterward, I loved him and would have stayed with him. I tried to get him to live again and we went skydiving regularly - it got him out of the chair and feeling alive... But he latter took his own life...so although its been 20 something years since his passing, today I morned the loss of both my dream, my boyfriends, and for this young lady...
Same here and it even seemed her horse still knew her and seemed like it knew something was wrong, sniffing at her and her chair...ain't gonna lie, I lost it. 😢😭
You can do this. I’ve been hurt 47 years since I was 14 have a husband, drive, work and live. You are great. Prayers and be blessed for the rest of your life.
Horse ain't that smart ! A Horse doesn't understand Human condition or the fact someone is in a Wheelchair, it means nothing to it. You can't attach Human emotions to a Animal that's basic functions are Eat , Move and Sleep.
Dumb comment. Horses are intelligent. Most likely doesn’t put together the accident, but they’re not stupid. There is a reason they are therapy animals. Ever been around a horse? Obviously not.
Every single day I'm so grateful and thankful for everything I have. People feel bad for me because I live on housing, am a young widow, and have a boy with autism. I always tell people to not feel sorry for me. This beautiful human being is the reason why.
rebecca seppanen I'm retired now. But I think back to all the risky things I've done. I could have been seriously injured many times. Watching this young woman makes me want to stop getting upset over trivial matters.
I love her spunk and positivity! And she's incredibly lucky to have the care and support of her parents and carers. What a wonderful girl - I wish her all the best!
I have equal appreciation for all the love and support from people around her. Having a strong support system had to have been crucial to how positive and full of life this girl seems.
As a father of a 36 year old son who lost his left leg in Dec. of 2019, this hurts! Mentally working your way past all the emotions isn't an easy road. While in the hospital, he said "Dad, what woman will ever want me now?". I was so heart broken for him. But like I told him, if a woman doesn't accept you for having one leg, you don't want her in your life anyway. Sophia is beautiful inside and out, and with her determination and great attitude, she can live her life. It will just be different.
Your son can have a beautiful and fulfilling life just like anyone else. Although a disability can be easier to notice than other differences between people, it is likewise a characteristic that doesn't make one better or worse, superiors or inferior. It simply makes us human. Much love 💗
Wow...Talk about beauty and inspiration...I broke my back 3 years ago and had to deal with partial paralysis...its people like this One that truly inspire me. My heart goes out to her and send her all the love and strength the universe has ... Just know young Lady, that you are absolutely incredible...if there was ever a reflection of the universe...its you. I really hope we cross paths one day. Keep being you...xx
Beautiful young lady with a bright outlook. What a lovely mum who thankfully is in a position to afford that lovely country estate to support her daughter's quality of life!!❤❤❤
@amandamorgan2802 The United States government helps people that have disabilities like hers. The usa doesn't have universal Healthcare but there's programs in place for things like this.
Hang in there, Sophia. Pulling for you in West Branch, Michigan. You have plenty to offer. Things will get better. I know it doesn't seem this way now, but it will. Science is progressing. Another viewer indicated you should have your own RUclips channel. I agree. It would be great to witness your progress. Please consider doing so.
Sophia is amazing. It's such a toss up when you ride horses. I rode and showed horses in my younger days. Fell off many times. I was never seriously hurt and was fortunate. I had a friend who was killed when a horse reared up and fell backwards on her. You just never know day to day. So much admiration for her rebuilding her life after being injured and paralyzed. Best wishes to her in the future.
A) Someone get this girl a modelling contract, she is stunning. Agencies are now crying out to show full social range of models B) everybody that types sweet words to Sophia, that is lovely, but get online and make even a tiny donation to the Christopher Reeve Foundation or similar to scientists can MEND broken wings like this champion. Words don't mend spines, SCIENCE will.
French Classes from LogicLanguageLearning Aye I just said the same! The camera loves her face; she's beautiful. They are FINALLY casting a wider range of actors in film and tv. The son in Breaking Bad was so good.
I broke my neck (C1) on may 7th last year and I have since regained the ability to walk and use my hands again. I can now go back to university and live similarly to how I used to before. There's a lot of problems coming along being a tretraplegic that are difficult to see or understand on the surface. I am incredibly thankful for being so lucky and seeing Sophia's story is very inspiring. I wish her all the best in the world and that she's able to stay healthy and happy in the future!
She is so beautiful!!! Omg and having a daughter with disease and that struggles I feel the mothers pain. It’s hard but we are more resilient then we know. I also have a debilitating disease and my daughter and I sometimes spend a lot of time in bed but we spend our down time together. We especially love our prayer time together and watching stories like this to encourage us. There’s no doubt we go through things to inspire others. God bless you sweet girl! ❤️
The facilities for rehab in New Zealand are really good, the UK is so backward in comparison to what I received. Sophia you are doing so tremendously well, the world is such a better place with people like you in it.
Man, you have my deepest respect! I landed in a wheelchair myself after i got leukemia and Graft versus host. I also had worries about meeting a girl. But if i stay alone for the rest of my life i'm okay with it. You still look beautiful, have a lot of courage, you are positive and strong! And i think you're a great girl and the man who can call himself your boyfriend is very lucky with you! I wish you all the best! 🥰
She is very fortunate to have any arm movement with that injury what an amazing story to share thanks to her for allowing the filming and her mum is fantastic
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The moment she touched the horse I was in tears this shows she doesn't blame it on the poor animal ,she accepted and moved on and is surviving
I was crying in that moment too
Horses are incredibly smart too, so it likely understood she was injured and maybe even the part it played in her injury. I feel for them both and I cried too!
So true i cried to when i saw that
Krishna Verma cried at that part.....I teared up through the whole thing. It was funny when she said that....not blaming the horse but she wouldn't put her money on em. To go through this and still keep a sense of humor says alot about her. I could hope 2 be that strong 1 day
Jin I think this video is much too mature for you.
I really don’t know why you watched it.
Maybe you should stick to skateboarding fail videos and phone pranks.
My father was quadraplegic due to polio at age 2. The best dad a girl cold ever have
So sorry hope hes doing ok💕
My dad is body able but is traumatized and ruined his family
could*
Awe I have two girls
how did your dad boink your mom if he is paralyzed?
I admire how incredibly resilient you are. I had a dving injury and I am a c5/6 Tetraplegic, yet I have been riding since I was 5. I was completely dependent when I came home from the hospital but worked hard and slowly rebuilt my independence. It took 2 hours to out my pants on, now its 4-5 minutes. I learned to shower, transfer, cook, drive and finally live without assistance. I met the love of my life and got married two years ago. He sees me, not the chair.I am currently working on my Ph.D in Clinical Psychology. Nothing is impossible and life is full. Laugh when you want to cry and never say no to an invitation. Just keep being you beautiful. Im excited to continue to watch your journey. Much love, stay strong
An inspiration to so many, well done!
I’ve been a T7 paraplegic since I was a kid, 40 years ago. Life is challenging but awesome. I graduated high school, college, married my college sweetheart, have an awesome professional career, and have twins. I’ve travelled the world. None of it was easy, but it’s all been worthwhile. You get out of life what you put into it. Sophie will be fine. She, like me, will never walk again, but it’s not the worst thing that happens to people.
Please join Jesus Christ and repent. Jesus bless you!
I just sent you healing prayer video link, they've been very healing for me and other people too, you can read it in their comments. I hope you're just as blessed by them, God loves you so much!
Also, reading the bible out loud healed my neck, made my bones, joints and whole body feel very much stronger too. I believe it can heal anything so always do daily bible reading. Look up healing bible scriptures online or read any of it, it's all so good to read. Pray every day in Jesus' name and always Tithe faithfully, it heals so much too if you do it right.
Stay strong. I’m a quad of 45 years. You will be amazed as what you will be able to do.
Love you
That was such a sweet comment.
How did you become a Quad
@@kevinhill8097 I am a quad as well.
I keep seeing these comments on her appearance... yes she is a stunner, but her personality and grit is fricken phenomenal.
The beauty of your face is fleeting, but the beauty of your character will last a lifetime!
Zoza Oberle Yes, strong young woman.
I don't know her but from this documentary she is a wonderful woman
true
She looks like Jennifer Connely
"am I still lovable"
That broke my heart.
She's so brave and gorgeous.
And she is so lovable even more than some girls that can actually walk.
@@numalesoybea1348 woah you are a genius why would she be lovable otherwise? 🤦♀️
@@Dubhe68 what's love without sex? Just friendship.
@@numalesoybea1348 it's not just sex either
" your legs stop but your life goes on." What a great attitude
It's not just her legs though. It's everything from the collarbone down...
I like this
@@davidk7212 except her arms . Which means she’s not a quadriplegic
I wish the film makers would acknowledge in these documentaries that being able to live the life Sophie does, - having a fully wheelchair accessible flat all to herself next to her parents and a separate space for her carers to be, is never possible for most people. This is extreme privilege because governments around the world do not support disabled people enough. Coming from money is what has improved her quality of life just as much as her determination. And I don't say that to take away anything that she went through, she seems great. Just a note to the non-disabled viewers out there - if you know a wheelchair user who is down on life and not thriving, please do not blame their attitude. The world can be a cruel place for disabled people
Bisognerebbe essere più empatici
So true 💜
Just had a thought similar to this. Mine was primitive though, it went like "Well she can thank god she's packin' on some serious money, otherwise she would pull the plug a lot sooner".
The intro of her going back to the location of the accident, and meeting the horse she fell from again was so powerful and emotional...
It really hit home when she said she was 19. I'm 19. God bless her.
I was 23 yrs old and was in the Navy when I became an incomplete quad. July 6th, 1987 at 1640 PST.
I did not know the seriousness of my accident until I was 60 today. I thought my wchair could crush the stick in front of me. Boy, was I wrong! Now I'm on bed rest and I have a plate and screws covering C-5,6,7 from the first accident. A week ago I was going for a new MRI. My current accident basically destroyed all of my vertebra from T-12 through S-1. I have 6 bulging disc. T-12 DISC is herniated, ALL the fluid is gone. 1 herniated disc the other 5 disc are torn and and leaking the fluid out that was inside the disc for the past 37 yrs.
The surgery to fix the mess down there! The first step is to get my body at it's best . Once they go in and clear all the damage away, the process for healing begins. After it's healed well, they can go back in and cut a few incisions for the last phase of my procedures. What or how long this part might take is still unclear. After Tuesday I will know.
I've had many yrs to reflect on what happened. I can honestly say that even though it was a surprised me, God new just what He was coming. He knew that as long as I could be of service to Him, I would endure it. He had me buy certain items as gifts. I never questioned him. Till after I came home and I was alone and very lonely. It would be 35 yrs before I learned that 4 people have given their hearts to Jesus; be ause of the seeds I planted. If only 1 person gave their heart to Jesus, to me, I still would do it all again!!!
I went from being a ASIA "A" -can barely move, to up and walking alone. I competed in 7 categories and won Gold in every one of themat the PVA summer games.
After my last surgery and I get the drs approval, I'm going to Snowmass Village in Colorado for the older folks!!!😅😮 Please keep me in your prayers 🙏 ❤️. As I will do for each of you. God.loves you!! He left us as Witnesses for HIM. TIMES are changing. You are definitely going to want Him on your side. Listening to Serve Him~
My truck is getting an elevator...Man Magnet...hehehe😂. I'm happily married. If any ladies want to chat about "women concerns", please feel free to ask.
I'd like to lead an Women's Asseccible Cruise. Or we can go on a cruise and have classes to certain subjects. Come on, Let's Roll
I love Mom's transition to the country and gardening...in heels. She has a great attitude too, and so supportive. No wonder Sophie's attitude and strength are so great. Not to take away from what she does and what she has been through.
She has left me speechless, Beauty, personality sense of humor, and a love of life how could you not be motivated around her
william sandrelli same here, she’s a phenomenal person
It's so sad, i'd personally end my life
I agree 109% she is amazing and a inspiration!
I'm motivated to become more beautiful. Calling the surgeon today!
In a world full of soulless celebrities, this beautiful person Sophia should be worshipped and celebrated the world over. Love from the UK.
fr
"Am I still lovable?"
Yes
How you can live without with urine bag
maturation nation
There is someone for everyone!!!
It's what you have in your mind and heart that matters the most. Bless you beautiful lady.
@@hessranch I’m sure Sophie will not have any shortage of suitors but your statement isn’t exactly correct. There’s people who end up alone. People who never find anyone. That’s just a reality of life. I’m 31 and have never been in a relationship.
My husband is a C-4 C5 Quad. I have been loving him and helping him physically for almost 40 years. We met when we were in our mid 20’s and have been together ever since. We have a rather hard life physically speaking compared to the average, but LOVE CONQUERS ALL. It is possible to have a very fun exciting and fulfilled life with meaning, it just depends on how one looks at life. If you have a good attitude and you try you will go far. That goes for the caregiver and the disabled people as well. Life is what you make of it.
I agree, the right attitude can make all the difference in how one lives their life.
Emotions being processed in real time. Such a genuine and inspirational window into her life. You are so strong and wonderful Sophia!!
I got a tear in my eye when she put on a sock by herself and she had the biggest smile on her face.
At 27:10 "Am I still lovable?"
I have absolutely no doubt that a man will love fall in love with Sophia.
She is far too charming and sweet and beautiful for that to not happen.
But to take on all that goes with caring for a paralyzed person is a rare person who is up for that way of life
Selfish men in generaly are not up for it. Not every man is that selfish.
@@mindfucker8515
True but it's not selfish if they can admit they wouldn't be up for it. I know of a friend of mine whose wife told him point blank. If something ever happens where you can't take care of yourself I am gone. I'm not taking care of a cripple.while I applaud her honesty it certainly shows her true colors. I attended their wedding where they said the traditional vows of in sickness and health etc. I told him he needs to drop her right now and move on. They have no kids so he doesn't have to worry about that. Is it selfish to admit when you are not up to a situation like this? I would never take care of anyone else's kids but my own . Does that make me selfish if I don't want to adopt?
@@mindfucker8515
What's with the name calling? I originally stated it would take a special kind of person for that relationship. I have no idea what the hell you're talking about with the personality nonsense you mention. You know nothing about me yet you can be so judgmental. I happen to prize loyalty very highly and have ended friendships because of disloyalty. Your efforts at shaming me reveal what your character is all about.I don't mind that you commented because if I comment on something I expect people to get in on the action. Your words do not bother me and we both will go on with life a forget this conversation ever took place. That's what I do with unimportant things and people
My apologies I was on sleeping medication and misread your comment. I know a guy who speaks a LOT like you and he actualy is an ass so I was like.. are they ALL like that?!
Damn, disability or not shes one of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen. Wish her the best. Stay strong.
I've had an SCI for 11 years now and I've ALWAYS SAID that being in a wheelchair is NOT a death sentence!!!! You keep going girl and you're going to do amazing things in your life!
Thank God she survived! And at least she has the use of her arms! I was in a car accident and had concussion/broken neck. Every day is a gift. Medical breakthroughs are still hopeful.
From what i understand, we may be really close, but there are laws drastically slowing the promising research in, for example embryonic stem cell treatments....if not outright preventing much of it.
Travis Ryno Tacky
@@ChadDidNothingWrong they've been telling us were close for decades. We're always "on the brink of a medical breakthrough".
@@numalesoybea1348
I see it the same way Numale. These bodies are so complex, designed by an Awesome Creator. I don't believe that man will ever completely figure them out. Even if you remain healthy your entire life you'll still die at some point. What will never die is the Spirit that lives within your temporal body. That's the part that's most important! Take care, God bless!!!
@@ChadDidNothingWrong Does She Like Wearing Only Cinderella Goodnites Pull Ups After She Got Paralyzed?
I saw sadness’s in that horses eyes. She is a beautiful person.
Absolutely, I saw such raw emotion
I saw nothing it's a horse.
You foolish person horses are so
destructive ....raw emotion my arse
and saw that the horse was horny
Yes, i can see. The animals, have feelings. 😭😭😭😭.Brasil-Rio de janeiro. 🙏
My mom was paralyzed in a car crash at 19 I was only 11 months old she fought everyday and eventually lived independently it took years to develop Ways to be independent but she did don’t give up hope I pray for you
Wow, that's really tough 🙏😀
And suddenly all my problems don’t seem so big at all. I wish you a lifetime of love and laughter, strength and peace, Sophia. What an inspirational young woman you are!! Xx
It's terrible going from an independent woman to having to be treated like a child. You don't want to be called inspiring or brave. It's NOT like you chose this. It's as hard to accept help sometimes as it is to give it. Be strong, sweet girl.
RatTaxi whats inspiring is her attitude, positivity and outlook on life.
I also am quadriplegic since nine years old, and must agree with you. The word may seem harmless and uplifting, but hearing it as many times as I have it loses its effect. There's even a description of it among the disabled community: Inspiration Porn.
You are right, she didn't choose this but Horseriding is an extremely hazardous sport and aspiring to be a jockey is about the most dangerous discipline. Horses are living, thinking, breathing animals who can/do spook without warning.
@Raw Cienna Everyone is different. Some find it condescending and get sick of hearing cliches.
I agree ,same with motorcycles .....super dangerous , bad accidents....why bother.....its sexy but risk is significant ....
I'm in tears watching the horse approach her. OMG what a beautiful but heartbreaking thing to watch!
Thank you for sharing your story. You're a strong and inspiring young woman 💜
Isaac Martinez lol thanks, Isaac!
I didn’t realize that being a quad included any mobility at all. Im glad that she can use her arms. And what a strong, determined young woman.
lori ann Costello
It depends from injury to injury, if you completely sever the spinal cord there is no mobility. If you damage it there is still some mobility usually
@@renyputman7118 depends on what level of the spinal cord too
Quadriplegia occurs when the neck area of the spinal cord is injured. Sometimes people with quadriplegia can move their arms, but have no control over their hand movements. They cannot grasp things or make other motions which would allow them a little independence.
@@brett8460 thank you for clarifying thats really helpful does that mean paraplegia would be a spinal cord injury in the back?
Mee too, I thought she can't use any of her limbs.
I’m a c5 myself and seeing you visit the place where you had you accident touched me so much! Always keep moving forward nomatter what, prayers to you and your family
Reading the bible out loud healed my neck, made my bones, joints and whole body feel soooo much stronger too. I believe it can heal anything so never forget daily bible reading out loud. Look up healing bible scripture online or read any of it, it's all so good to read. Pray every day in Jesus' name and always Tithe faithfully, it heals so much too if you do it right.
Thank you so much for the encouraging word! I have peripheral neuropathy and I’m 71 years young. I have been reading the New Testament but will now read it aloud. 🙏🏻❤️
Start posting content bro I already sub
All the best
How are u doing now? I am a 54 yr old C3-C6 incomplete walking with a walker outside, inside walking alone. Some balance issues still. Loss of sensation from my waist down but looking into issues with my Lumbar. Rehab is going well. Theorists can't understand some of the things I can do but they love watching me get better each evaluation.
Oh Sophie honey ! You are so beautiful. I know what you and your family have gone through. My niece was a quadriplegic as well. She was c1 and was ventilator dependent. Her vocal cords were paralyzed, she couldn’t swallow and the only movement she had was her face. She was six at the time of her accident and I was one of her care givers for the last 15 years of her life. She lived 30 years like that. She was so much like you. Gorgeous and happy and busy all the time. Her care givers were like family for us. We had to read her lips and misunderstandings were often quite hilarious. She graduated with honors from high school despite it all. You and she are my hero’s forever. We heartbreaking lost her in October 2017 due to her trachea hemorrhaging from so many years of having a trach. You are blessed you have so much my dear. Hold tight to your amazing attitude. Life is still beautiful. Much love.
I wish I could share a picture of my niece with you. She too had the most gorgeous hair. Lol.
I’m really sorry for your loss!
From what you say your niece sounds like a wonderful, smart and lovely woman. 💜
Thanks so much. She was amazing.
Jhgd Eggg thank you so much. Life is odd and beautiful. You just never know where it will take you but attitude and love gets you through anything. 💖
Tracy Sunny Whited Thank you for sharing your story. I'm sorry about your niece.
I'm also quadriplegic C5. I got injured May 28th 2017. She's very beautiful by the way and very bright.
I am sorry your going thru this too. I grew up with one of my coolest ppl in my life she was paralyzed at 19 and she help make me who I am.. she just still to this day I think of her often..thanks for sharing your story
Send me an e-mail Felix scooter08lee@yahoo.com I'm quadriplegic and I'm looking to start a RUclips channel and would love to talk.
I’m so sorry this happened to her. I was 13 when my dad broke his neck and was a quadriplegic for 32 years. It’s a difficult life. The good thing is that with research especially stem cell advancements in spinal cord injuries She will be young enough to see these advancements and walk again.
@Lady Heart wtf
Unlikely. Stem cells are hugely overhyped nothing-burgers. Their application is limited to healing regular leg fractures (and even then not much)
@Lady Heart whoa 😶
Ignoring your clearly messed up in the head, I'd like to point out that muscles and bones can repair and regenerate even after 27 years of atrophy, especially with stem cell application. The problem is they still haven't the slightest clue how to heal a spine.
Lady Heart your post made me sad. There are no words other than I’m sorry
Yes I agree 💯 she will walk again .Your right.
I live with you, my injury is on my th 9, but I’m 46 I had more years, but you can live better with your handicap when you 46, and maybe some nerves wil heel, I pray for you so long I live, your hart is so big, you can stil love the horse… stay that lovely person.. lots of love wishes from Holland 🍀🌹
I have Muscular Dystrophy and I know how driving a car made me feel so independent. It helped me a lot to go where I wanted or needed. So I hope by now you have your own equipped vehicle!
Yup she does!
I hope medical miracles/advancement happen for spinal cord injuries. They are so devastating.
stem cells
the nerve has to regenerate to the extent that it can conduct an action potential. Unfortunately just because she can feel some things does not mean that she can move her leg
On bbc news they are reporting on a Swiss clinic that has got a paralysed man walking and there is a French guy walking again after being stabbed through the spine,there is hope and progress being made .this lady and others will not be in a wheelchair all there life.
Jonathan M sorry for the late reply it the national technical college of Lausanne.i,m unsure how you would get the news report from the BBC it would be the best place or you could try emailing the producers of "click" at the BBC.Its difficult to find the genuine sites amongst the drivel on the web.we had about 4/5 days of reports and stories on tv and newspapers of advances in treatment in the UK.I don't want to pass on a possibly duff site.
Jonathan M .i don't know where you are in the world but on the BBC website there are catch up episodes of all there programmes including Click ,they are supposed to be uk only but seemingly there are emulators on the web which allows people abroad to watch I have an American friend who managed to watch the the remembrance ceremony from paschendale.history buff.
The injury could have been worse...and so could her attitude. This is beautiful to see. We need more people to live optimistic lives in this world!
Do something with your own life besides trolling the internet.
Ddrhl Not all of us have lives, so that’s why we troll on the internet
Brave girl. Very lucky to have the support system she does.
She’s the type who will figure out ways to make good things come out of a bad situation. She’s strong, smart & independent...she’ll be good. 👍🏻
Hey my friend. I was 20 when I broke my neck. I was one of those "shot in a million" people that went from completely paralyzed to being able to walk 6 months after the accident. While I had 2 fingers with function on the left, I had nothing on the right. I found a surgeon that would re-engineer my right hand fingers to run off the wrist muscles. I see you have the wrist function which would be the function you need. it's accomplished over a series of 2-3 surgeries. The first one is to get your fingers out of your palm. I can see you struggle with that problem. I see that from miles away on any quad. It felt so good to be able to do things just because they weren't curled in my palm. I told my surgeon that the thing I loved the most, was that I could shake peoples hands. From that point the doctor will start to motor the fingers. After the second surgery you start to have the ability to grasp things.
The most important thing is that this function, even in only one hand, will give you back the ability to live on your own. Please give it some thought buddy.
Please can I get the doctor’s name or hospital address 🙏
She is sooo beautiful. I laughed when she said, "am I still loveable?" Honey, If you are not loveable, there is no hope for the rest of us.
So she's loveable because she's gorgeous? This world is so superficial
@@sleepytASMR It’s just how humans are, unfortunately. Ugly people are not seen as worthy, but beautiful people are. This is in everything really. It’s an innate trait in people and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.
My “problems” are suddenly ridiculous and non-existent.. This beautiful soul is so inspiring and amazing! Bless her heart ❤️
You're right on target. Seeing someone with this kind of disability makes you appreciate what you have, makes you almost ashamed at dwelling on the petty "problems" we grouse about. You might know that Kris Reeve, who played Superman in the movies, became a quad after falling off a horse. He was even more disabled, needing a ventilator in order to breathe. I admire this girl's determination and grit. As for me, being so active and independent, I might end my life.
Even her bed hair look like a beautiful victorian aristocrat girl
Yes! it does
That’s so weird! I saw the thumbnail and was like, she looks like she came straight out of the 1800’s! I’m glad you saw the same thing :)
Even crying.
It does 😍
She's the epitome of an English rose.
It is heartbreaking to see someone like Sophia crying. I hope through advances in stem cell research we will be able to completely repair spinal cord injuries. From what I've researched, such new therapies should be possible in the not so distant future. I hope it will happen soon so that people like Sophia can regain their independence. For now, I hope Sophia will be able to find happiness in her life as well as regain some independence, even if it's only a little.
Sophia, you will get through this. I cannot imagine what it is like to be a quadriplegic so I will not pretend. However, I do know what it feels like to feel very hopeless at times. You are a beautiful young woman and that has not changed. My ex gf was diagnosed with MS but it did not stop her from attaining a PhD in neuroscience.
Christian O. Holz i pray this will be possible one day especially for her
Sophia please pray the Lord's Prayer 500 times you will be healed completely,, this is what you learn to HAGAH 💞❤💕 in Hebrew Jesus still the same for ever 🍎
Her smile is magical. This young woman's strength is simply unbelievable!
I can’t imagine what she must’ve felt going back there for the first time what an amazing courageous woman she is it puts in perspective what matters in life I hope I can live with half as much much bravery she does
This the kind of stuff that makes me want to work 24/7 for to speed up biotechnological progress and make disabled people abled again.
Hanf Kartoffel A lot of disabled people don’t want a cure, I think instead of trying to fix people we should make the world accessible when people do inevitably become disabled. The ableism and inaccessibility of the world as of now is horrific and it needs to change. It isn’t the disability that makes things hard, it’s the things around us.
You don't think they would want a cure? Are you serious?
Molasor Rosalom As a disabled person and member of the disabled community, a majority of us do not want a cure. We are proud to be who we are and do not need to be “fixed” in order to be worthy or multi faceted people. We don’t need cures. We need accessibility.
Joseph Yes. There are some good academic articles about ableism, and disability Twitter is full of good information. Our main priority should not be to fix, but to make things accessible. Disability is inevitable, it will happen to most of us. Focusing on a “fix” only makes people with incurable or irreversible illnesses feel inadequate or less than as they are.
@@nicoleadoresyouu
Sure, shes probably going to need to be cared for the rest of her life, and she's in pain.....but she doesn't want a cure.
Sophia please make a youtube channel!! I'd love to see more vids of you!!
katyyymacc Excellent idea!! 👍
there r a lot of people with disabilities on youtube ...Molly Burke is pretty cool and her channel is pretty huge at this point
Yesss!!
It will be inspiring!
"Your legs stop by your life doesn't"...spot on! Well done! May God bless you sweet girl:+) God bless~
Sophia, I can't begin to imagine how awful in some respects this must make you feel. To see millions of people take movement for granted and never see it as a gift, while you struggle everyday . I'm sure the never ending talk inside our heads asks the question to God about "why me?" with never really receiving a satisfactory answer either.
Perhaps your strength and courage is a gift to this world and you become a light to others as people draw power from the flame that burns inside you. You make others see just how fragile life is and for us to be ever so grateful for the blessings we have. There is little fairness and not much justice in this world anymore, but I pray you get a miracle or cure and continue to be that miracle to others. Bless you always.
@@PannaLola..... thanks so much, but yes I try to make something I think will encourage someone but most times I never feel like I've done enough. This life we have here can be just brutally unfair but we all just keep moving forward the best we can. It would be nice if we'd all help each other but I don't see that happening on a large scale in this lifetime. I've had a tough life with drunken, drugged up parents and so much suffering, yet I endure nothing compared to this courageous young woman I wish I could help in some way. thanks for the comment.
@@PannaLola.... My dad was from Poland and my mom was Irish. My dad was a jerk and I never met him util I was 15. He was always trying to make it in life but had one of the kindest spirits I ever saw. My childhood was so awful I was just trying to stay alive for the first 17 years. It helped to shape me in life though to have more empathy and compassion than almost anyone else I know so in a way...(not all) but in a way, it did make me maybe a better person. Who knows about life anyhow? Just when you have a sense of how to live it ....it's over like the seasons of the year, gone. May God bless you every day of your life.
@@PannaLola If you can think of anything you need from amazon as a gift I can order it and have it sent to you at a friends house or police station or lock box, PO box what ever. I'm just pulling for you to get better or at least feel okay about it sometime. You do seem to be doing wonderfully in many ways with that courage you have so much of. Bless you always.
@@PannaLola thanks so much for the trust. Delete this before some corporations get it and will spam you forever like they do here in the U.S.
In this country corporations run the country and everything in life is now about money. I do hope you're feeling better and I bet that pup of yours is about the best friend you could have.
"Life doesn't stop with the wheelchair. Your legs stop, but your life doesn't." by Sophia Malthus
Thanks for sharing this story to us,
greetings from Ecuador :)
You remind me so much of my 19 almost 20 year old daughter, Meg. She was in a ski accident a little over a year ago. Meg is now a paraplegic. She is so determined just like you. Meg works out hard everyday. Everyone who is in our day to day life is encouraged and had have witnessed many results in progressive PT. I wish one day you could meet or at the very least communicate...you both have a lot in common. You are an incredible young women, Sophia. I am still very traumatized by my daughters accident and what my daughter has had to over come. Seeing your youtube was emotional but it also gave me hope. Thank you.
It must be awful as a mother in ways that no-one else could imagine. In some ways maybe even worse than the daughter's experience because I bet part of you wishes you could just take her place to give her back her freedom. The selfless, unconditional love of mothers is simply awe-inspiring to me. Make sure to take care of you too Shannon. I wish you strength, hope, healing, light and love for you, your daughter and your family and I hope she continues to get a little better every day. Keep the faith! x
Now I know money won't take her suffering away and all the things I've read in the comments BUT I am extremely glad she seems not to have financial issues. Not because money will cure her or take her disability away, but because it's given her better life quality. She's an incredibly strong young woman and her attitude towards the horse shows she also has a wonderful spirit.
I think they have decent health insurance in NZ.
Romy it wouldn't matter in NZ if her family had money or not. As i've replied to someone else higher up, we have ACC (Accident Compensation Corporation). Every working person here pays 1.5% of their wages in a tax to cover ACC, and employers also contribute for each worker. However, although funded by workers, it covers literally every person in NZ, regardless of nationality, or work history, for costs associated with an accident that happens in New Zealand, while they're in New Zealand.
Her carers are paid for by ACC, as are her rehabilitation, medicines and equipment. Even her cabin most likely was paid for by ACC, as it pays for renovations or necessary construction costs to return home and make the property meet the needs of the injured person. Her family may cover some costs, such as alternative therapies, or a partial fee if only partly funded, which is normally $30 or less per visit.
ACC also pays 80% of your pre-accident income, and adjusts yearly for inflation. If a young person is injured before ever working, they can apply for an assessment of income based on the average wage in NZ. Her income will also be propped up by social security payments, such as Disability Allowances etc.
We have universal medical care here, and no, our taxes aren't high either.
+vKarl71 We do, but we don't actually need Health Insurance in NZ to get the care Sophie is. We have ACC (Accident Compensation Corporation) and universal health care for all residents. This includes funding for disabilities and carers.
Health Insurance in New Zealand doesn't cover carers etc. That is covered either by ACC or the government.
@@kipplest172 what a dream place to live
You're right because I'd want to kill the horse...and I mean kill it myself lollllll
like she is AMAZING
One has to appreciate the resources and her sorroundings. Imagine being in this difficult situation with a broken family, broken contact to family members and not the means to support the disability. her parents can buy her everything and they love her. Shes very privileged in that sense
Yeah she's been gifted with physical beauty and a good family but she's suffered far more than the average person.
It's her destiny everyone has their destiny nd I have notice most of the time only rich people suffer such injuries nd diseases that needs millions in treatment
@@firstchoicetuber3757 Not true. There’s millions of people in this world who get an illness or an injury and become disabled who are not well off financially.
I have severe anxiety and depression that really impacts my life and while it sucks ass I should at least be thankful I have a healthy body. This puts things into perspective. God speed on your journey Sophia. P.S you're gorgeous.
hang in there, find a dr. that practices functional medicine which uses natural supplements.
Yeah, I have severe anxiety not depression though. Anxiety impacts my life so much and sometimes I think why do I have to have anxiety and be like this cause it is wasting important moments I could be having like going out with friends but now when I watch things like this I realise that there are people in far worse situations than me and it makes me a lot more grateful.
How do you even get a job when you have anxiety and depression? I'm finding it so hard..
@@brokenbutterfly3178 some natural supplements have helped me...suggest your find a chiropractor or MD that practices functional medicine..
@@cat-lw6kq what kind of natural supplements? I'm going through an existential crisis. How would supplements help me figure out what I wanna do with my life?
What a beautiful young woman, inside and out. Wishing her all the courage and strength to continue improving her life.
Her most attractive quality is her attitude. Keep it up!
Dear Sophia, I just met you tonight via RUclips. I so appreciate who you are and want to say thank you for sharing your extreme challenges, struggles and love.
She's a tough woman. I admire her spirit deeply.
I can understand it very well . unluckly m paralysed and m just 20 years old I m suffering from 3 year's.
Plz pray for me that I get back my normal life
👍👌🙌👏🙏🙇
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I’ll pray for you!
You're healed in the mighty name oof Jesus
i will pray for you tonight, God bless you, little girl.
She is absolutely breathtakingly beautiful. I hope for nothing but the best for this young woman and as she will reach all her goals
I'm an above-knee amputee after coming off a horse at speed on an outride. I've had Rheumatoid Arthritis since I was 15yrs old (I'm 63yrs now) so I'm now in a wheelchair. My generation were a 'don't talk about it' group. Watching you back at the track where you had your accident had my heart racing at the memory of my own accident. You are a huge inspiration for having the courage to tell your story on video!🥰
Her smile at the end absolutely changed my day. You keep being a rock star babygirl!! Cheers!!
You remind me of my daughter. She’s 21 now, was in an auto accident at 4 months old. She’s far less capable of self care than you, but your attitude makes me smile. Along with her, I lost my son to an accident at 17yo. Bless you four your amazing spirit, and attitude! While I’m lucky to be healthy, I chose happiness and positivity to overcome the tragedies my children gave gone through, and you seem to do the same.
That is tragic. You must be extremely brave. I have a friend with a similar story and I am amazed at your strength.
Thanks, I think it’s a choice really. I have people tell me that, but I never thought of another way. Be thankful for what we have, don’t be disappointed in what we don’t.
Larry Hillock God bless you, a brave man also with a good attitude worthy of praise!!
This is the rare type of quad who WILL become independent. Because she wants it. Keep at it Sophie, you are doing fantastic!!
Tell her to watch the other side of the mountain....true story....girl had 2 husbands.
Regards from Chile ..i will share your video with my students!! They Will❤You...go ahead!! God bless you
If Sophia or anyone else in a similar position is ever reading this, just know that you are still lovable and you will see someone who sees through the disability!! My boyfriend has a spinal cord injury, and is paralyzed from the waist down (i didn't know him as able-bodied, this only happened to him about 2 years ago (at 18) after a tumor was found and removed from his spine). I love him more than anything, and his disability has very little effect on our relationship as we've figured out how to do things differently. I don't see him as his disabilities, and sometimes I even forget he has them (which he finds quite funny lol). He is the most determined and positive person I've ever met. Watching this was actually quite strange for me, as a lot of the journey we saw Sophia go through - my boyfriend is/has gone through too (you also have the exact same water bottle?? Which just made it ten times weirder for me as we live in the UK, I know its just a water bottle but with other similarities, this really takes the biscuit lmao)
hi cheetah how is it going with u guys ?
do u know shopia instagram ?
God Bless
I just sent you a healing prayer video link, they've been very healing for me and other people too, you can read it in their comments. I hope you're just as blessed by them, God loves you so much!
Also, reading the bible out loud healed my neck. My bones, joints and whole body felt very much stronger too. I believe it can heal anything so always do daily bible reading . Look up healing scriptures or read any of it, it's all so good to read.
He's lucky to have you. I'm 38 born with Spina Bifida and it's hard man but I've accomplished a lot in my life and I'm blessed so no complaints. Still waiting for a partner. Hope you guys stick with each other forever ❤️❤️❤️
@@Carolinakid1984 hello do you walk with spina bifida
Her attitude is so bright and beautiful! You are amazing Sophia!
Sophia is determined and smart and she will do much with her life. Kudos to her parents who give her amazing support.
What an inspiration she is for everyone. I am watching this and I am in tears. She isn't letting anything getting in her way. Amazing!
I went horse riding two times, in my life. I'm very inexperienced. My second time on a very irresponsible trip, on my side too actually. The horse was riding at a good pace, not running but not even walking. I lost my footing, and I was hanging on the side of the horse. I couldn't get back on while riding, so I decided to let myself go. I tried to fall as far as possible from his hooves but he still kicked my in the head. Few minutes prior the accident I suddenly remembered I hadn't latched my helmet. This accident is a constant reminder in my head of how lucky I am to be still alive and in health. If I hadn't remembered to latch the helmet I'd probably be dead. Thank you for sharing your story, you're such a strong soul. Much love,
Alessandro
Before I even got to the part where she mentioned she was doing therapy, I thought, "this girl is SO going to be walking again!" I will not be surprised one bit the day she walks on her own. Also her family arrangement is awesome. I love that she gets her own independence by her own house, but her parents are only a few feet away. I would love for that.
Also, that interaction between her and the horse that she fell off of was so touching. I couldn't tell for sure from the little bit they showed, but it looked like the horse knew exactly what happened.
I expect she will walk again along with loads of other spinal injury patients. BBC news has been reporting on lausanne University which has a new treatment that looks impressive. Some day soon, right out of left field a viable mass treatment will appear. Love science and technology.
@@Axelfl6161 this was back in my suggested videos again, I wonder if she's walking yet?!? I half expect her to because she's so awesome lol. Watching this, she's definitely left an impact on me.
Thanks for sharing your story. It gives me the courage to keep on going even when it gets rough. Much love from Quebec.
You cannot imagine the admiration and respect that I have for you and for other disabled people. I have jumped out of my way to help people who I saw would need help.
She's gorgeous and such an inspiration keep achieving your goals sweetheart
She totally looks like if she got out of a picture of the early XXth century, like a gibson girl
So inspirational Sophie!
She's wonderful
janefromtennessee iam so proud of her
fuking pervert!
Omg, what a brave girl, I'm in tears watching this.
I don't know why but this made me cry like a baby.
@@stopthephilosophicalzombie9017 Terribly sad 😰
@@bumbleink9555 When she started crying at the site of her accident you could feel her mourning the life she had dreams of living. It was so gut wrenching.
I cried watching this, cried like a baby for her lost dream...and a bit for my own...
My boyfriend and I were talking marriage and we were out celebrating when he tried to stop a man for beating his wife in the parking lot of a bar.
He was stabbed in the neck, at the base of his spine, severing the nerves, leaving him a quad...
We stayed together for 12 months afterward, I loved him and would have stayed with him.
I tried to get him to live again and we went skydiving regularly - it got him out of the chair and feeling alive...
But he latter took his own life...so although its been 20 something years since his passing, today I morned the loss of both my dream, my boyfriends, and for this young lady...
Same here and it even seemed her horse still knew her and seemed like it knew something was wrong, sniffing at her and her chair...ain't gonna lie, I lost it. 😢😭
😮 wow. She’s so young ! So beautiful!!! The things we take for granted !!! All my prayers to her 🙏❤️
You can do this. I’ve been hurt 47 years since I was 14 have a husband, drive, work and live. You are great. Prayers and be blessed for the rest of your life.
The sadness in the horse's eyes when looking at her.
I can tell it is sorry for what happened.
Horse ain't that smart ! A Horse doesn't understand Human condition or the fact someone is in a Wheelchair, it means nothing to it.
You can't attach Human emotions to a Animal that's basic functions are Eat , Move and Sleep.
What horse ?
Dumb comment. Horses are intelligent. Most likely doesn’t put together the accident, but they’re not stupid. There is a reason they are therapy animals. Ever been around a horse? Obviously not.
@@andysalter7192that’s rubbish that animals don’t have more complex emotions. you know nothing about animals
the horse has no idea lol
Every single day I'm so grateful and thankful for everything I have. People feel bad for me because I live on housing, am a young widow, and have a boy with autism. I always tell people to not feel sorry for me. This beautiful human being is the reason why.
I am touched by your comment thank you. I send you smiles.
rebecca seppanen I'm retired now. But I think back to all the risky things I've done. I could have been seriously injured many times. Watching this young woman makes me want to stop getting upset over trivial matters.
I love her spunk and positivity! And she's incredibly lucky to have the care and support of her parents and carers. What a wonderful girl - I wish her all the best!
I have equal appreciation for all the love and support from people around her. Having a strong support system had to have been crucial to how positive and full of life this girl seems.
This content can change the world. A new perspective is what we all need, the simple things we take for granted makes me cry i feel this to the core
Agreed... nice one :)
I am 30 years old,drop out ,now I go back to school to pick up where I left.
thank you,for giving me the courage.thank you.
As a father of a 36 year old son who lost his left leg in Dec. of 2019, this hurts! Mentally working your way past all the emotions isn't an easy road. While in the hospital, he said "Dad, what woman will ever want me now?". I was so heart broken for him. But like I told him, if a woman doesn't accept you for having one leg, you don't want her in your life anyway.
Sophia is beautiful inside and out, and with her determination and great attitude, she can live her life. It will just be different.
Your son can have a beautiful and fulfilling life just like anyone else. Although a disability can be easier to notice than other differences between people, it is likewise a characteristic that doesn't make one better or worse, superiors or inferior. It simply makes us human.
Much love 💗
Wow...Talk about beauty and inspiration...I broke my back 3 years ago and had to deal with partial paralysis...its people like this One that truly inspire me. My heart goes out to her and send her all the love and strength the universe has ... Just know young Lady, that you are absolutely incredible...if there was ever a reflection of the universe...its you. I really hope we cross paths one day. Keep being you...xx
She is a winner. I'm sorry she has this challenge, but her attitude and strength is truly making her better off and inspiring. Love her.
How blessed she has all the carers, a lovely home and caring family. It sure helps her stay motivated. 👍👍 Everyone has a wonderful attitude.
Her positivity is inspirational. I hope she makes progress.
Beautiful young lady with a bright outlook. What a lovely mum who thankfully is in a position to afford that lovely country estate to support her daughter's quality of life!!❤❤❤
Can not help to wonder what would have happened,was it a poor family...
@amandamorgan2802 The United States government helps people that have disabilities like hers. The usa doesn't have universal Healthcare but there's programs in place for things like this.
Hang in there, Sophia. Pulling for you in West Branch, Michigan. You have plenty to offer. Things will get better. I know it doesn't seem this way now, but it will. Science is progressing. Another viewer indicated you should have your own RUclips channel. I agree. It would be great to witness your progress. Please consider doing so.
Also in Michigan pulling for you!
Sophia is amazing. It's such a toss up when you ride horses. I rode and showed horses in my younger days. Fell off many times. I was never seriously hurt and was fortunate. I had a friend who was killed when a horse reared up and fell backwards on her. You just never know day to day. So much admiration for her rebuilding her life after being injured and paralyzed. Best wishes to her in the future.
A) Someone get this girl a modelling contract, she is stunning. Agencies are now crying out to show full social range of models B) everybody that types sweet words to Sophia, that is lovely, but get online and make even a tiny donation to the Christopher Reeve Foundation or similar to scientists can MEND broken wings like this champion. Words don't mend spines, SCIENCE will.
French Classes from LogicLanguageLearning She is beyond gorgeous but if she was not, she would still deserves the same love and support.
French Classes from LogicLanguageLearning Aye I just said the same! The camera loves her face; she's beautiful. They are FINALLY casting a wider range of actors in film and tv. The son in Breaking Bad was so good.
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I agree!
Would her story be any less if she wasn’t beautiful?
I broke my neck (C1) on may 7th last year and I have since regained the ability to walk and use my hands again. I can now go back to university and live similarly to how I used to before. There's a lot of problems coming along being a tretraplegic that are difficult to see or understand on the surface. I am incredibly thankful for being so lucky and seeing Sophia's story is very inspiring. I wish her all the best in the world and that she's able to stay healthy and happy in the future!
She is not only gorgeous.......she has an amazing attitude and sweetness about her. Beauty for ashes. What an inspiration.
She is so beautiful!!! Omg and having a daughter with disease and that struggles I feel the mothers pain. It’s hard but we are more resilient then we know. I also have a debilitating disease and my daughter and I sometimes spend a lot of time in bed but we spend our down time together. We especially love our prayer time together and watching stories like this to encourage us. There’s no doubt we go through things to inspire others. God bless you sweet girl! ❤️
She's very brave.I wish her all the happiness a young girl can have.
Incredible story & attitude!
"Life doesn't stop at a wheelchair, your legs stop but your life doesn't" well said
Mother and daughter are Absolutely Stunning 💕
I agree both stunning
Auntie too.
The facilities for rehab in New Zealand are really good, the UK is so backward in comparison to what I received. Sophia you are doing so tremendously well, the world is such a better place with people like you in it.
Man, you have my deepest respect! I landed in a wheelchair myself after i got leukemia and Graft versus host. I also had worries about meeting a girl. But if i stay alone for the rest of my life i'm okay with it. You still look beautiful, have a lot of courage, you are positive and strong! And i think you're a great girl and the man who can call himself your boyfriend is very lucky with you! I wish you all the best! 🥰
Awesome attitude Laurent! With a heart like yours I know that that special girl is soon to find you! Take care, God bless!!!
She is very fortunate to have any arm movement with that injury what an amazing story to share thanks to her for allowing the filming and her mum is fantastic
I agree, her Mum is an incredible woman :)