The mom needs counselling. It looks like she still feels so much guilt about what happened to Charlotte. But as a mom she did the right thing by administering paracetamol, she could not have known that it was meningitis. She's a babying mom, but even with that she's a super hero. She deserves a little bit of credit.
Valken she did, she did take her to the hospital ASAP. Meningitis moves through the body with absolutely terrifying speed, if you have never actually watched it take hold of a person yourself you have no idea. It is a 48 hour thing or less. The mother did absolutely everything she could.
NorthernLight did you miss the part where she actually did take the baby to the hospital a couple hours later? What is wrong with you and why are you so hellbent on blaming this woman? Does it make you feel like a bigger person somehow?
Those men are the big brothers she needs in her life! I feel like everyone needs a mentor like that in their life. She is such a lucky girl to have them!
So thankful that these two young men want to help encourage Charlotte and work with her. My mom has amputations due to septic shock from chemo. She had to learn how to walk on prosthetics at the age of 70. Very proud of her. It was wonderful to see Charlotte walk so much in the park. What encouraged my Mom was having another person with similar amputations come see her in the hospital and seeing that he was able to walk with prosthetics. These two young men doing this for Charlotte is extremely important and will help her tremendously.
I kind of want to smack her mom in the face she is so negative and it affects Charlotte so much. She needs to stop dubthing her daughter and start suporting her. Maby this film one sided but it makes her mother sound like a selfish asshole -__-.
hypnotherapy69 if u watch all of her videos on RUclips u will see there times her mum pushes her and try’s to make her do things with Charlotte fighting her the whole way and her dad too, she even took her to America for 3 weeks to try different postetics for her legs and one of her arms and Charlotte cry’s and fights her the whole time, that’s why her mum looks so worn out for her age she’s constantly trying to push her to do things but I know what u mean when her mum uses the excuse of her tendons were cut it makes it harder for her, and that’s why I think the other Cameron bought the other guy Cameron along too because one of them was born with no limbs and the other one wasn’t so he knows what Charlotte is going thru and together they’ve managed to get her to do more, she will get better as she gets older too, young kids sometimes get lazy and give up easily but she will become more determined as she gets older and hopefully give her mum a break her mum needs one xxx
I agree somewhat. Not that she (mom) doubts Charlotte. In fact , she's her biggest supporter. However , I do feel as though the guilt she harbors tends to make her want to "baby" Charlotte continuously. Which is definitely not helping anyone. She needs to let go of the guilt. None of what happened is her fault. I hope she seeks some psychological help. For her own well being, as well as Charlottes. I wish them all strength and continued support. And much love ❤❤
If you have watched other documentaries of Charlotte, her mom is the exact opposite. She pushes Charlotte to be independent and has fought for years to get Charlotte to wear Prost.
The two mentors are really cool and inspiring! The mum has been worn down with the heavy workload and stress. I would not be surprised if she has depression. The trauma for the mum seeing her baby going through that pain and dealing with years of struggle would wear anyone down. I think she is a very caring and loving Mum.
A lot of 11 and 12 year old girls have reached puberty. It's fairly common, though the downside is it sometimes makes it easy for others to not realise they're still just kids inside.
Emmaoh, I've been reading your obnoxious comments. What's wrong with YOU? The comments made about Charlotte seem to me to be innocent. They're commenting that she doesn't look to be 11 or 13. She does look older than that, right? They are being respectful. Why are you accusing all these people of having a "dirty mind" or being perverts? It seems to me that you're the one with a dirty mind!
The mom doesn't deserve this much hate. She may be a bit skeptical and defensive, but she's just being protective. She had to be confinced her daughter could be more independent just like Charlotte had to be. This was just a 28-minute video. She explained to Cameron why her daughter's situation was different from his. And she did push Charlotte when trying out the first legs. It's good for her to see she can do more than they both used to believe.
I don’t hate the mother, but I think she held her daughter back quite a bit. My mom was so much less protective and that pushed me to be as independent as possible. I had to figure out life as a paraplegic on my own and it gave me huge satisfaction to be successful in the end. There’s a difference between being protective and being stifling. It wasn’t so much the doing up seatbelts and picking her up into the car; it was the making excuses for every time Charlotte said she couldn’t do something that was damaging. That’s stifling.
"I don't like cops and robbers much but once I get those blades, I can play cops and robbers". AWWWW Best of luck to Charlotte. She seems awesome! And her mom looks so tired but also really sad for her part in her daughter's disease but it seems she's done a fantastic job
What great mentors for her! I wish some people in these comments would stop picking on her mother. No one knows the pain and emotions that charlottes mother has gone/is going through. It's hard enough being a mother and worrying about your babies, let alone when the world is catered to those who are not like your baby. Having a physical disability is hard on everyone in the family, especially if said disability could have possibly been preventable. Charlottes mother obviously loves her, she has devoted her whole life to taking care of her. Learning to let go is hard for any parent. Just put yourself in her shoes before you comment hate to a complete stranger. God bless Charlotte, her mom, and both Camerons. ❤️
it is hard but it needs to be done char wont do it for herself if her mother does everything this is common for people with disabilities the mothers dont let go enough for that kid to develop they get used to the kid being dependant on them my sister is same way.
I think , Charlotte mum is just being a mum, protective but very supportive. Between themselves and the help of the 2 Cams I have no doubt Charlotte will go on to live a happy and successful life. Great documentary. Well done to you all!
Seiko Shinohara Her mom needs to not baby her it will only hinder her and it probably tires the mom out. I say this having Spina Bifida and a mother who still tries to hover and baby me at 31 but when I lost my leg I put an end to it. It is understandable but not healthy for anyone invovled. Moms deserve their own time, things, headspace if I fall it is not the end of the world and I was up and walking on my prosthetic the first day I got it.
Allison Scheirer ....you are SOOO right! Her mother needs to stop making excuses for her and babying her. As a mom I understand the desire and "need" to do everything for your child and "protect" them but she is in fact hindering her child's ability to learn the necessary life skills she needs to be independent!
Seiko Shinohara the mum is probably depressed because the girls amputation was because of a disease that could have been avoided with a vaccination but she decided not to vaccinate her baby
K V I strongly disagree. She PUTS the burden on herself, she babies the hell out of Charlotte. She doesn’t make Charlotte do anything herself. Charlotte seems like a spoiled brat. Maybe she should have gotten her vaccinated,then she never would have lost her limbs to begin with.
None of Your business the vaccine wasn’t available at the time. The vaccine became available in New Zealand after charlottes experience BECAUSE of Charlotte. Yes she lost limbs but she has saved lives
None of Your business Charlotte was born in 2003. Likely that she was born before the cutoff date like I was and would have had to pay out of pocket if I didn’t go to a school which was at high risk for having the illness. Or that she was too young to receive the vaccine at the time she got sick. Too many variables to consider here really.
she can do it. I think she plays mum a little bit and mum should say "you try" b4 she does it for her. but this little girl has a great lease on life and I think she will succeed at anything she puts her mind to.
The boys are awesome and mum needs the help. Anyone who thinks they could do a better job, swap places with the mum for a month. I'm sure the mum would enjoyed the break.
Janet Donald so thankful someone said this. I put myself in her shoes and imagined this happening to my daughter..I would definitely be at least a little down sometimes, especially during a documentary about it
AMEN. People will be the first to criticize something they have no way of understanding and the last one to offer any support even if it's just a kind word.
Sure, but the mum doesn't give her enough positive encouragement. Every time Charlotte is frustrated, mum doesnt help her through it, mum just gets frustrated herself. Not good.
Juli-Yashka I know that's the sad thing :( every time we skype she says other people look good and she is ugly. But it is just self confidence and it part of growing up. Kinda
they are all doing a great job but I do think Cameron had a good points. Charlotte needs some tough love and push her. It will be much better for her in the future
I was pregnant with my first child when I first heard of Charlotte's story in 2014. Her story educated myself and hubby and she is the reason all my kids have had their vaccs. Its lovely to see how she has grown in to such a gorgeous happy young lady :)
I'm sad to see how harsh some of the comments here are. There's actually another Attitude video about a man who loses both legs above the knee in an accident. He was very fit before his amputation, has working hands to use crutches and catch himself if he falls, is highly motivated, and has an adult ability to push himself, yet the doctors are STILL quite cautious about making predictions and point out that among people who lose both legs above the knee, those who learn to use prosthetics well enough to walk well are actually the _minority_. It is genuinely an objectively difficult athletic task, which uses a lot of strength and balance. Sure, it would be great if she learned to use them well, but it's not somehow shameful to use a wheelchair.
junbh2 Great points. There is a higher energy cost to walk with a prosthetic. Also, just like a person who wears contact lenses should have backup prescription eyeglasses, I would think that a lower limb amputee should have a wheelchair. Perhaps Charlotte and her mom could find the video of the guy who ports his own kayak and kayaks independently. Ultimately, it is up to her. I may watch professional athletes and admire their skill, but it doesn't mean that I want that for myself. Yet, daily living is something we all must go through....
Mum looks tired and burned out. I wish she was less defensive and a bit more charlotte tey this or get her more closer to a goal. But now seems like she is not doing that. Its 2 camerons who are helping that. Also maybe charlotte must try to loose weight. She is very young. And alot of difficult roads ahead. So with more muscle and less overweight its easier to learn how to do things yourself. Good luck. I hope a series will be made about those 2 man. There incredible with showimg how and helping others. Very inspiring. 🌞🌞🌞🌞
I could not imagine for one minute how that mum feels. Having to watch her baby one moment sleeping and the next, having no limbs. I would most likely feel guilty too and want to do everything for her. Unless you are in her position, you could not say with absolute certainty how you would do things and how you would manage things with your child. Sure I can easily say I would make sure my child learnt to do things on her own and give them tough love, but I'm fortunate enough to not have to deal with these issues to know.
She is beautiful and amazing, and I am so glad the Camerons are mentoring her, she really stepped it up and seemed willing to work harder once she met them and saw all the possibilities. I am so glad she has them to push her and help her really become everything she is capable of. I believe she can do anything she wants to, and I wish her all the best!
I think at 50 her mum is just exhausted. Its a very physical job to care for her. She is probably worried about her future. When Charlotte is 21 her mum will be 60. She will grow bigger and heavier too as she is only 11. The Govt should be offering in home care to give her mum a break..
I wish Charlotte a life full of love , peace and success she is a inspirational young lady and can achieve anything she sets her mind too and with the 2 Camerons and her families support she will grow into a strong independent young lady . As for one of Charlotte 's mentors Cameron Clapp ( the American guy ) wow he is so cute I wish he could mentor me because I know he could inspire me to do anything 😊
Elaine Warren Thanks Elaine I can see the enthusiasm in young Charlotte's eyes she is bright and eager and has a thrist for life and I know she will do well at anything she puts her mind to . As for Cameron well he is a bit of eye candy and I am pretty sure he has that special gift that he can inspire anyone especially the ladies LOL good for him . Charlotte is lucky to have both Camerons as role models on her team because they can empathize with her and relate to any struggles she may have that an able person wouldn't have experienced .
JAchica11 hi, this is Charlotte on my bfs account. Shes not stopping me from anything. Shes just beong my mother. Shes done so much for me. You just havent seen behind the scenes
As a swimmer, I have always wondered how quadruple amputees push off of the walll. Though, I had a close call in 10' when doctors thought I had either bone cancer, a bone infection, or leukemia. Had it been bone cancer or an infection I would have lost my entire right leg. These people are amazing!
That's what charlotte needs, tough love. I find her being too comfortable with her mother babying her. I get that it's 100x harder then we have to go through but those guys are doing great because of tough love. Hope the best for her though. Like to see where she's at now
The day I had my amputation I was knocking and rubbing on my cast. Desensitization is so important you have to not think of the biological part like "omg my bones going to pop through my skin!" and just keep thinking "This will allow me to walk!" because you will be able to walk and that bone will be just fine.
She can't go wrong learning from these two guys! It's the coolest thing how much they truly want to help her! What she survived through, is absolutely amazing!
I feel that Charlotte mom is probably feeling parental guilt which in turn is causing her to feel bad whenever her daughter is hurting. She needs to realize that those feelings will only hold her daughter back. I can totally understand her feelings as a parent but she needs to put her guilt aside to help her daughter reach her goals
What a lovely guy Cameron is such a positive influence to this beautiful girl Charlotte. Charlotte is beautiful and intelligent and she will do well in life . What a wonderful programme and such lovely people. Charlottes mum is a hero x
I remember seeing her at the pools when we were little. Her story was so widely talked about in New Zealand and I remember the whole country being behind her. My dad was really effected by it such a strong kid man 🤙🏻 kia kaha x
Charlotte is so mature oh my god. She looks and acts at least 5 years older than she is! But I imagine trauma does that to a person. With a life that difficult, you have to learn to manage things on your own and grow thick skin. I wish her the best in overcoming all of life’s challenges, but she looks like she has wonderful friends to get her through it :)
you can see the love and support from the mother, I hope she has a lovely holiday to debrief and relax one day when her daughter becomes more independent. it must be so hard day in and day out ontop of normal teenager hormones.. the daughter is just a beautiful soul but she is only 11, so the mother being protective is understandable around older boys... (the boys are lovely too and aren't over stepping there roles) but its understandable for the mother to pull everybody in line, (if the daughter was in her early adulthood 18-19? im sure the mother wouldn't be hovering over her). the fact is the community is working together to get the daughter up and independent which is beautiful. this was a beautiful story to watch and i wished everyone was more open to understanding the plight to each person and that they are just human and doing the best they can xx sending lots of love from QlD Australia xx
She's got close to the worse kind of amputation - above the knee, both legs, AND she has no hands to use crutches or to catch herself when she falls on her face. Why do you think she 'should' be walking? From everything I've heard of her type of disabilities, it seems like it's actually really normal for learning to walk to be very difficult for her. I don't know what percentage of double above the knee amputees learn to walk well on prosthetics even with arms... Some do, some don't, from what I can see.
I believe the mother is holding her back. I understand being a parent and wanting to take the burden of pain off of our children. But mom has to let go and allow her daughter to fail and learn. I always tell my son, failing is never a bad thing. It teaches us to do the right thing the next time around. From failure comes knowledge! 💆🏻♀️💕🧐 Mom is just to protective and needs to allow her daughter the freedom to find her own groove. I wonder if she is worried about the boys around her daughter.
Charlottes an attractive girl, and it was wonderful to see her and others challenging themselves in their environment and bright futures. Its a beautiful story. Thank you all for sharing. And thanks to the boys and Attitude.
I'm really proud of her at the end! Wtg charlotte. It may seemed I was against you but anything is possible for you. The more and harder you try the better you'll get
Everyone is too harsh toward Pam. She's exhausted because they don't have a careteam. Most quadriplegic will have multiple caretakers but Pam is doing it all and on an island without a lot of resources. Yes, she's now holding her back- she admitted that in the start that she's too exhausted and doesn't have time to do everything. They simply need more help so Pam can stop having to do it all, however that's even more costly. She needs to give herself a break. And be proud she raised a happy daughter. Good work Pam.
Most amazing boys/ mentor's I've ever seen! They saved her from not giving up n giving her so much motivation. Charlotte is a hard worker n I bet one day will hear about something amazing shes doing! ❤Also Char's Mother is a hero! ❤
+aquia80 Wow, I didn't hear any resentment towards her daughter at all. Maybe a little resentment towards doctors and mentors telling her she's not pushing her daughter enough, or protectiveness towards people saying her daughter is being lazy, not not towards her daughter.
Charlotte and her mother are amazing. Fullstop. Compassion and sweetness go a long way in this world. Both these people are lovely. It cant be easy on either of them but our family believe in them and find them delightful people. Much love always
I think it's wonderful that Charlotte grew up with this support and love around her. Charlotte is 20 years old now and has done many sports, been an advocate, she's lovely. ❤ I personally feel a bit sad on how much time was spent on her prosthetics. Charlotte never seemed to really like them or feel comfortable in them. It was clear early on that they did not work well for her and even though prosthetics are a miracle, some find that they just get along better and can be more mobile without them. That their time is better spent learning to be as independent as possible in other ways. From what I've seen on social media, Charlotte now uses a wheel chair or hoverboard to get around not prosthetics. She also has a wonderful service dog. 🙂
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO....I added it to the top of a list I have, I will watch periodically so that I can be reenergized when I am experiencing difficulties in my own life..it is extremely inspirational.... these young men are unbelievable...!!!!!
watt an amazing story with different people with the same people who got the same disability very powerful story’s when you think you can’t do something in your mind think you can do it these are very important skills for her to do on her own when she laves home and to get her own place
Unfortunately her mother started her on walking upright too late. She's not motivating the child to walk correctly disputed the pain. It's going to hurt her but if she ever wants to be independent, she's going to have to push through it.
Actually it was Charlotte who denied to do exercises because it would hurt. Have a look at the older videos on her to see. Her mum knew she had to push her more. But what to do with a child in constant meltdown state?
It's really hard for a parent to watch there child in pain. It is especially hard to push them through the pain. On top of that it strains the mother/daughter relationship. That's what physical therapy is for. I think a break for the mother would also help a lot.
+Charell H Yes, there are long term downsides to a parent trying to force a child to endure pain when they're too young to understand what it's for and why the parent is doing that to them, too. It's a difficult situation for a parent to find themselves in. Or even for a physiotherapist, but at least that's better.
Mary Poppins I think with the two mentors around, she will learn little details and learn it is the right thing to encourage walking and why.. those men are a gift to mum and daughter..
I agree she was amputated as a baby she should be doing alot more stuff by herself the mom has done way too much that's y she looks so old and defeated she needs to let go a lil
What's so hard too is the fact that Charlotte is only 11, so she's going to take her mother for granted because she's been there her whole life, ya know>? Must be really hard for the mother. Very hard!!
Dalester1979 what 11year old doesn't take their mom for granted. But like the camerons say she will come forward, and when she sees the independance of the guys and how they sort of get it it on both her and her moms perspective, and she will always have more challenges than most, but she puts the effort in where she can
Kajun Means Seasoned Not Hot! Hey this is charlotte on my bfs account. The thing is my mother is protecting me like mothers do. Shes not holding me back, shes just doing her job and shes doing it right.
This is amazing and very inspiring to watch. The things humans can do... we may call them "disabled" but the way they face life is much more "able" than most. I feel for Charlotte, her mother is great parent and very loving, but I think like her negative attitude may be yet another obstacle that she has to overcome/change. I'm sure she'll be fine though...
Those young men are amazing, to say the least I hope they continue to support her, her mum needs help! She is holding her back because of her own guilt, Mum your not helping her, step back let her do it even when it’s hard don’t help her, you have to make her do it or will never be able to function on her own.
She is awesome, and so is her mom! Her mom deserves a break, because taking care of a differently abled child on your own is the hardest thing in the world. Part of being a good parent is teaching your children to try new things and push them... but another part is keeping them safe, supporting them, and holding them back until they are ready to handle things on their own. And clearly the daughter is ready ti take on the world! 🎉🌞🌹🌟 You can tell she is an amazing mom, because her daughter is amazing, and kids don't turn out that great without an awesome loving parent. I wish I could send mom on a paid vacation for a couple weeks. 😃
I have a disability and go threw many difficult challenges on an everyday bases but I manage to get threw the day even when I get frustrated an irritated
I have spent a lot of time with people with various disabilities and the biggest Charlotte has is her mother. You hear her say that time wise it’s quicker for her to do it than let Charlotte so how is the poor girl ever going to learn and adapt. Sadly she will have to fit into the world not the other way. The two Cameron’s are doing amazing things for her and “go” them.
It amuses me that people watch a positive attitude and mindset video channel then leave a bunch of negative mindset comments. You all need to take a deep breath of fresh outside air and inhale and exhale with a huge smile and you will feel so much better. :) I think both Camerons and Charlotte are all extraordinary people with great outlook on life! The mother has gone through horrific trauma, remember that before you hate on her. She will feel so much better when she sees her daughter thrive because she will with this great head on her shoulders. Especially after seeing what is possible!
I love that he was wearing different prosthetics so he would be short with her.
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The mom needs counselling. It looks like she still feels so much guilt about what happened to Charlotte. But as a mom she did the right thing by administering paracetamol, she could not have known that it was meningitis. She's a babying mom, but even with that she's a super hero. She deserves a little bit of credit.
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If your baby has high fever you need to take them to the hospital ASAP.
Valken she did, she did take her to the hospital ASAP. Meningitis moves through the body with absolutely terrifying speed, if you have never actually watched it take hold of a person yourself you have no idea. It is a 48 hour thing or less. The mother did absolutely everything she could.
Essentially if the baby survived the mom's a damn hero.
NorthernLight did you miss the part where she actually did take the baby to the hospital a couple hours later? What is wrong with you and why are you so hellbent on blaming this woman? Does it make you feel like a bigger person somehow?
That dude running around on his stumps is fuckin great!!! So positive.
(...And handsome too, lol.)
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Those men are the big brothers she needs in her life! I feel like everyone needs a mentor like that in their life. She is such a lucky girl to have them!
''I just had to learn how to adapt myself to the world, not adapt the world to me''. Epic attitude!
So thankful that these two young men want to help encourage Charlotte and work with her. My mom has amputations due to septic shock from chemo. She had to learn how to walk on prosthetics at the age of 70. Very proud of her. It was wonderful to see Charlotte walk so much in the park. What encouraged my Mom was having another person with similar amputations come see her in the hospital and seeing that he was able to walk with prosthetics. These two young men doing this for Charlotte is extremely important and will help her tremendously.
Thanks for watching Heather and your lovely words 😊
Heather Junker your mom is a brave, brave woman. I hope she knows how fierce she is.
Your mom is a rockstar and my hero
@@elizabethhansen2889 Thanks, Elizabeth. She is my hero too.
@@pinkmonkeybird2644 Thanks. She is a fighter that's for sure. I am very proud of her.
I feel like the mom means well but is a bit negative leaning and tends to influence Charlotte in that way.
I kind of want to smack her mom in the face she is so negative and it affects Charlotte so much. She needs to stop dubthing her daughter and start suporting her. Maby this film one sided but it makes her mother sound like a selfish asshole -__-.
hypnotherapy69 if u watch all of her videos on RUclips u will see there times her mum pushes her and try’s to make her do things with Charlotte fighting her the whole way and her dad too, she even took her to America for 3 weeks to try different postetics for her legs and one of her arms and Charlotte cry’s and fights her the whole time, that’s why her mum looks so worn out for her age she’s constantly trying to push her to do things but I know what u mean when her mum uses the excuse of her tendons were cut it makes it harder for her, and that’s why I think the other Cameron bought the other guy Cameron along too because one of them was born with no limbs and the other one wasn’t so he knows what Charlotte is going thru and together they’ve managed to get her to do more, she will get better as she gets older too, young kids sometimes get lazy and give up easily but she will become more determined as she gets older and hopefully give her mum a break her mum needs one xxx
I agree somewhat. Not that she (mom) doubts Charlotte. In fact , she's her biggest supporter. However , I do feel as though the guilt she harbors tends to make her want to "baby" Charlotte continuously. Which is definitely not helping anyone.
She needs to let go of the guilt. None of what happened is her fault.
I hope she seeks some psychological help. For her own well being, as well as Charlottes.
I wish them all strength and continued support. And much love ❤❤
If you have watched other documentaries of Charlotte, her mom is the exact opposite. She pushes Charlotte to be independent and has fought for years to get Charlotte to wear Prost.
Woman, let these two young men help your daughter to become self sufficient!
be nice, you dont knjw enough..and womens bodies are diferent, and she is basically a torso where those men havve more..
She is!, thank you very much, sir -The Charlotte
TheFoxandTheRabbit maybe she needs more fitness... and I agree mama should back off a bit. Charolette needs to find her own grove.
JAchica11 exactly
JAchica11 What do you mean? She IS letting them help her become self sufficient.
these type of videos really make me appreciate what I have in life.
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The two mentors are really cool and inspiring! The mum has been worn down with the heavy workload and stress. I would not be surprised if she has depression. The trauma for the mum seeing her baby going through that pain and dealing with years of struggle would wear anyone down. I think she is a very caring and loving Mum.
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I was shocked to hear she's only 11...she definitely looks 17 or 18 to me. I thought the blonde dude was her boyfriend for a split second!
A lot of 11 and 12 year old girls have reached puberty. It's fairly common, though the downside is it sometimes makes it easy for others to not realise they're still just kids inside.
Moriah Ingram-Gallegly 2017 she is 13.
Moriah Ingram-Gallegly dirty mind shut up ☝ an have a bit of a respect
Emmaoh, I've been reading your obnoxious comments. What's wrong with YOU? The comments made about Charlotte seem to me to be innocent. They're commenting that she doesn't look to be 11 or 13. She does look older than that, right? They are being respectful. Why are you accusing all these people of having a "dirty mind" or being perverts? It seems to me that you're the one with a dirty mind!
Rick Hilton Thsnk you, something with common sense
The mom doesn't deserve this much hate. She may be a bit skeptical and defensive, but she's just being protective. She had to be confinced her daughter could be more independent just like Charlotte had to be. This was just a 28-minute video. She explained to Cameron why her daughter's situation was different from his. And she did push Charlotte when trying out the first legs.
It's good for her to see she can do more than they both used to believe.
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I don’t hate the mother, but I think she held her daughter back quite a bit. My mom was so much less protective and that pushed me to be as independent as possible. I had to figure out life as a paraplegic on my own and it gave me huge satisfaction to be successful in the end. There’s a difference between being protective and being stifling. It wasn’t so much the doing up seatbelts and picking her up into the car; it was the making excuses for every time Charlotte said she couldn’t do something that was damaging. That’s stifling.
Ikr? People judge entire lives based off of a 20 minute video.
Those two are great mentors. This girl can now knows that she has to do the same as them in order to be like her mentors.
Thanks Alyssa, they sure are great mentors!
Attitude Cool video really touches my heart ❤️ I am really close friends with Charlotte. And we skype ALOT
Attitude wow amazing 💓 I'm a new subscriber
Those two handsome mentors are so incredible
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"I don't like cops and robbers much but once I get those blades, I can play cops and robbers". AWWWW
Best of luck to Charlotte. She seems awesome! And her mom looks so tired but also really sad for her part in her daughter's disease but it seems she's done a fantastic job
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What great mentors for her! I wish some people in these comments would stop picking on her mother. No one knows the pain and emotions that charlottes mother has gone/is going through. It's hard enough being a mother and worrying about your babies, let alone when the world is catered to those who are not like your baby. Having a physical disability is hard on everyone in the family, especially if said disability could have possibly been preventable. Charlottes mother obviously loves her, she has devoted her whole life to taking care of her. Learning to let go is hard for any parent. Just put yourself in her shoes before you comment hate to a complete stranger. God bless Charlotte, her mom, and both Camerons. ❤️
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it is hard but it needs to be done char wont do it for herself if her mother does everything this is common for people with disabilities the mothers dont let go enough for that kid to develop they get used to the kid being dependant on them my sister is same way.
I think , Charlotte mum is just being a mum, protective but very supportive. Between themselves and the help of the 2 Cams I have no doubt Charlotte will go on to live a happy and successful life. Great documentary. Well done to you all!
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She’s actually been extremely emotionally and physically abusive. I’m her daughter.
her mom seems so depressed
Seiko Shinohara Her mom needs to not baby her it will only hinder her and it probably tires the mom out. I say this having Spina Bifida and a mother who still tries to hover and baby me at 31 but when I lost my leg I put an end to it. It is understandable but not healthy for anyone invovled. Moms deserve their own time, things, headspace if I fall it is not the end of the world and I was up and walking on my prosthetic the first day I got it.
Seiko Shinohara corpse party ayw
Allison Scheirer ....you are SOOO right! Her mother needs to stop making excuses for her and babying her. As a mom I understand the desire and "need" to do everything for your child and "protect" them but she is in fact hindering her child's ability to learn the necessary life skills she needs to be independent!
Seiko Shinohara She isn't depressed she is just exhausted. I am really close friends with Charlotte we skype a lot
Seiko Shinohara the mum is probably depressed because the girls amputation was because of a disease that could have been avoided with a vaccination but she decided not to vaccinate her baby
I need those two as mentors. I'm not an amputee or anything. I just really need some stability.
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It helps that they’re also really cute 😂
Praying for you
Charlottes mom needs counseling....her depression is so obvious & sucks the joy out of every scene.
Her mom needs support. Where is the dad? She has an unbelievable burden and she is doing her best.
K V I strongly disagree. She PUTS the burden on herself, she babies the hell out of Charlotte. She doesn’t make Charlotte do anything herself. Charlotte seems like a spoiled brat. Maybe she should have gotten her vaccinated,then she never would have lost her limbs to begin with.
None of Your business the vaccine wasn’t available at the time. The vaccine became available in New Zealand after charlottes experience BECAUSE of Charlotte. Yes she lost limbs but she has saved lives
jessica adams wrong! The vaccine has been available in New Zealand since 2004. She could have gotten it. Her mother opted out
None of Your business Charlotte was born in 2003. Likely that she was born before the cutoff date like I was and would have had to pay out of pocket if I didn’t go to a school which was at high risk for having the illness. Or that she was too young to receive the vaccine at the time she got sick. Too many variables to consider here really.
she can do it. I think she plays mum a little bit and mum should say "you try" b4 she does it for her. but this little girl has a great lease on life and I think she will succeed at anything she puts her mind to.
That guy is ridiciously handsome. not his looks but the way he handles his handicap.
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It was a fascinating watch especially since I'm a menginitis survivor myself. I'm blessed to have kept all my limbs tho.
Thanks for sharing isax, awesome to hear you enjoyed 😀
@@AttitudeLive not hard on the eyes though either!
And his looks help too. He’s gorgeous.
The boys are awesome and mum needs the help. Anyone who thinks they could do a better job, swap places with the mum for a month. I'm sure the mum would enjoyed the break.
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Janet Donald so thankful someone said this. I put myself in her shoes and imagined this happening to my daughter..I would definitely be at least a little down sometimes, especially during a documentary about it
AMEN. People will be the first to criticize something they have no way of understanding and the last one to offer any support even if it's just a kind word.
Sure, but the mum doesn't give her enough positive encouragement. Every time Charlotte is frustrated, mum doesnt help her through it, mum just gets frustrated herself. Not good.
I think they are doing amazingly well and I just think mum is probably exhausted.....she is doing a great job.
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Best comment-too many people judging so much, and it’s clear that they’re all doing their best🙏💕
She's never gonna learn to do anything if her mom doesn't back off.
She kinda looks like Adele! She's very beautiful girl)))
Juli-Yashka I know that's the sad thing :( every time we skype she says other people look good and she is ugly.
But it is just self confidence and it part of growing up. Kinda
She is beautiful!!!
She really is beautiful-crazy that she doesn’t feel that way!🥺🙏
they are all doing a great job but I do think Cameron had a good points. Charlotte needs some tough love and push her. It will be much better for her in the future
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Agreed
I was pregnant with my first child when I first heard of Charlotte's story in 2014. Her story educated myself and hubby and she is the reason all my kids have had their vaccs. Its lovely to see how she has grown in to such a gorgeous happy young lady :)
I'm sad to see how harsh some of the comments here are. There's actually another Attitude video about a man who loses both legs above the knee in an accident. He was very fit before his amputation, has working hands to use crutches and catch himself if he falls, is highly motivated, and has an adult ability to push himself, yet the doctors are STILL quite cautious about making predictions and point out that among people who lose both legs above the knee, those who learn to use prosthetics well enough to walk well are actually the _minority_. It is genuinely an objectively difficult athletic task, which uses a lot of strength and balance. Sure, it would be great if she learned to use them well, but it's not somehow shameful to use a wheelchair.
Thanks you for sharing and hope you enjoyed the episode!
junbh2 anythig is possible. One i saw runs like the famous amputee
junbh2 Great points. There is a higher energy cost to walk with a prosthetic. Also, just like a person who wears contact lenses should have backup prescription eyeglasses, I would think that a lower limb amputee should have a wheelchair. Perhaps Charlotte and her mom could find the video of the guy who ports his own kayak and kayaks independently. Ultimately, it is up to her. I may watch professional athletes and admire their skill, but it doesn't mean that I want that for myself. Yet, daily living is something we all must go through....
Totally agree. I’m amazed by all of these incredible folks💕🙏
These 2 guys are such a blessing to her! Mum, it's time to let your baby girl spread her wings xx
I was like ar you skydiving... girl you have more balls than I do.*reevaluating my life choices and courage*
She's literally better at everything than I am
How is everyone better at anything physical than I am
Mum looks tired and burned out. I wish she was less defensive and a bit more charlotte tey this or get her more closer to a goal. But now seems like she is not doing that. Its 2 camerons who are helping that.
Also maybe charlotte must try to loose weight. She is very young. And alot of difficult roads ahead.
So with more muscle and less overweight its easier to learn how to do things yourself.
Good luck. I hope a series will be made about those 2 man. There incredible with showimg how and helping others. Very inspiring. 🌞🌞🌞🌞
I could not imagine for one minute how that mum feels. Having to watch her baby one moment sleeping and the next, having no limbs. I would most likely feel guilty too and want to do everything for her. Unless you are in her position, you could not say with absolute certainty how you would do things and how you would manage things with your child. Sure I can easily say I would make sure my child learnt to do things on her own and give them tough love, but I'm fortunate enough to not have to deal with these issues to know.
I think Charlotte's mom is amazing. So much love for her daughter. Be proud of yourself and your daughter, life will unfold as it should.
i'm so glad to read i'm not the only one who finds mum extremely frustrating.
She is beautiful and amazing, and I am so glad the Camerons are mentoring her, she really stepped it up and seemed willing to work harder once she met them and saw all the possibilities. I am so glad she has them to push her and help her really become everything she is capable of. I believe she can do anything she wants to, and I wish her all the best!
Elizabeth Adams it makes all the difference for kids to see by example by others who could move forward in life with the challenges
I think at 50 her mum is just exhausted. Its a very physical job to care for her. She is probably worried about her future. When Charlotte is 21 her mum will be 60. She will grow bigger and heavier too as she is only 11. The Govt should be offering in home care to give her mum a break..
I wish Charlotte a life full of love , peace and success she is a inspirational young lady and can achieve anything she sets her mind too and with the 2 Camerons and her families support she will grow into a strong independent young lady .
As for one of Charlotte 's mentors Cameron Clapp ( the American guy ) wow he is so cute I wish he could mentor me because I know he could inspire me to do anything 😊
Kylie Wilson...Yes, her 2 mentors Cameron and Cameron are beautiful! Their kind spirits show through and make them even more beautiful!
Elaine Warren 😊
And Kylie, I loved your comments to Charlotte and your sassy words about Cameron...smile
Elaine Warren Thanks Elaine I can see the enthusiasm in young Charlotte's eyes she is bright and eager and has a thrist for life and I know she will do well at anything she puts her mind to . As for Cameron well he is a bit of eye candy and I am pretty sure he has that special gift that he can inspire anyone especially the ladies LOL good for him . Charlotte is lucky to have both Camerons as role models on her team because they can empathize with her and relate to any struggles she may have that an able person wouldn't have experienced .
Kylie Wilson...Sassy, caring and intelligent! Nice to read positive comments like yours.
Both of the Cameron's are such cuties!!
I keep forgetting she's 11, she looks 16 to me :O
Cameron Leslie and Cameron Clapp are awesome life coaches!
I was amazed with Charlotte's writing skills. Her penmanship was beautiful!!
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The mother keeps making excuses! Please stop holding your child back! Please!
JAchica11 hi, this is Charlotte on my bfs account. Shes not stopping me from anything. Shes just beong my mother. Shes done so much for me. You just havent seen behind the scenes
TheGamingBadger Whyyyy are you faking
TheGamingBadger She cant even type...(not being rude i think She is a great strong person)
Consider that her friend could be typing for her, she could be using voice-to-text or a device to help her type.
AliciaLand Oh I didnt think about that I feel really stupid right now and im sorry I accused her...
I wish Charlotte all the best as she continues to inspire others.
Thanks for your kind words Brittany!
I wish all of them the best in life.
Thans for the continuous support Rashidah!
As a swimmer, I have always wondered how quadruple amputees push off of the walll. Though, I had a close call in 10' when doctors thought I had either bone cancer, a bone infection, or leukemia. Had it been bone cancer or an infection I would have lost my entire right leg. These people are amazing!
That's what charlotte needs, tough love. I find her being too comfortable with her mother babying her. I get that it's 100x harder then we have to go through but those guys are doing great because of tough love. Hope the best for her though. Like to see where she's at now
she seems so much older and mature. really inspiring.
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I keep forgetting she is only 11, WOW she seems at least 14-15. Great job Mom, you did everything you can and raised a strong, confident girl.
i love how they are helping charlotte as they have been thru the same pains
She is lovely full of fun and such a positive attitude. The two boys are fantastic what a lesson on life . All the best in her life lovely Charlotte .
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The day I had my amputation I was knocking and rubbing on my cast. Desensitization is so important you have to not think of the biological part like "omg my bones going to pop through my skin!" and just keep thinking "This will allow me to walk!" because you will be able to walk and that bone will be just fine.
Thanks for your feedback Allison, hope you enjoyed the episode!
Allison Scheirer
That’s good information to know..
This documentary was beautiful! Bless those two guys for making Charlotte see how powerful she really is ^^
She can't go wrong learning from these two guys! It's the coolest thing how much they truly want to help her! What she survived through, is absolutely amazing!
I feel that Charlotte mom is probably feeling parental guilt which in turn is causing her to feel bad whenever her daughter is hurting. She needs to realize that those feelings will only hold her daughter back. I can totally understand her feelings as a parent but she needs to put her guilt aside to help her daughter reach her goals
What a lovely guy Cameron is such a positive influence to this beautiful girl Charlotte. Charlotte is beautiful and intelligent and she will do well in life . What a wonderful programme and such lovely people. Charlottes mum is a hero x
I remember seeing her at the pools when we were little. Her story was so widely talked about in New Zealand and I remember the whole country being behind her. My dad was really effected by it such a strong kid man 🤙🏻 kia kaha x
Cameron's pretty damn hot.
We will have to pass that on!
which Cameron do you mean?
mindyschocolate lmaooo 😭
mindyschocolate Au
mindyschocolate she's 11 nigga🤣
She’s 11 she should be able to walk by now, her mothers defeated attitude is holding her back tremendously.
This video has brought me so much joy, so proud of how far Charlotte has come with the help of her amazing mentors!
Charlotte is so mature oh my god. She looks and acts at least 5 years older than she is! But I imagine trauma does that to a person. With a life that difficult, you have to learn to manage things on your own and grow thick skin. I wish her the best in overcoming all of life’s challenges, but she looks like she has wonderful friends to get her through it :)
Three very courageous and strong young people. The level of compassion is outstanding.
Charlotte you went so far in just this short docu, you and Mama keep up the good work! 👍
These guys are amazing! I would definitely watch their reality tv show.. *wink wink*
We will see what we can do!
Yes please!! Those 2 are f.ing anazing. Docu series please
Absolutely. Awaiting this. 2 selfless young fellows helping this young girl.
you can see the love and support from the mother, I hope she has a lovely holiday to debrief and relax one day when her daughter becomes more independent. it must be so hard day in and day out ontop of normal teenager hormones.. the daughter is just a beautiful soul but she is only 11, so the mother being protective is understandable around older boys... (the boys are lovely too and aren't over stepping there roles) but its understandable for the mother to pull everybody in line, (if the daughter was in her early adulthood 18-19? im sure the mother wouldn't be hovering over her). the fact is the community is working together to get the daughter up and independent which is beautiful. this was a beautiful story to watch and i wished everyone was more open to understanding the plight to each person and that they are just human and doing the best they can xx sending lots of love from QlD Australia xx
Why does Charlotte seem so old? She looks like she's 18! Btw it's her mom's reticence why she can't walk! She should be able to walk by now.
She's got close to the worse kind of amputation - above the knee, both legs, AND she has no hands to use crutches or to catch herself when she falls on her face. Why do you think she 'should' be walking? From everything I've heard of her type of disabilities, it seems like it's actually really normal for learning to walk to be very difficult for her. I don't know what percentage of double above the knee amputees learn to walk well on prosthetics even with arms... Some do, some don't, from what I can see.
I believe the mother is holding her back. I understand being a parent and wanting to take the burden of pain off of our children. But mom has to let go and allow her daughter to fail and learn. I always tell my son, failing is never a bad thing. It teaches us to do the right thing the next time around. From failure comes knowledge! 💆🏻♀️💕🧐
Mom is just to protective and needs to allow her daughter the freedom to find her own groove.
I wonder if she is worried about the boys around her daughter.
+Fluffy Unicorn No, I don't think that's what they meant.
She's 11
JAchica11 she looks 20 something
It takes a lot of courage and strength to face this condition! These people are an inspiration. God bless them! They are amazing.
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I love watching these things.... You get to see how great the human spirit is during adversity.
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Charlottes an attractive girl, and it was wonderful to see her and others challenging themselves in their environment and bright futures. Its a beautiful story. Thank you all for sharing. And thanks to the boys and Attitude.
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I'm really proud of her at the end! Wtg charlotte. It may seemed I was against you but anything is possible for you. The more and harder you try the better you'll get
she is a beast, how can you even be so strong. just fucking amazing, keep it up gurl
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Everyone is too harsh toward Pam. She's exhausted because they don't have a careteam. Most quadriplegic will have multiple caretakers but Pam is doing it all and on an island without a lot of resources. Yes, she's now holding her back- she admitted that in the start that she's too exhausted and doesn't have time to do everything. They simply need more help so Pam can stop having to do it all, however that's even more costly. She needs to give herself a break. And be proud she raised a happy daughter. Good work Pam.
I saw Cameron Clapp and his story and I liked it very much!
These 3 young people are amazing. God bless them.
This is so sad
Her mum is not helping and is depressed
Most amazing boys/ mentor's I've ever seen! They saved her from not giving up n giving her so much motivation. Charlotte is a hard worker n I bet one day will hear about something amazing shes doing! ❤Also Char's Mother is a hero! ❤
She looks so joyous when shes walking on her own limbs, it genuinely made my heart smile
My niece died from meningitis at two years old in 1978. You are wonderful, Charlotte ❤
i don't understand why people would dislike this...
natalie emtage because people don't have to like it just because she doesn't have arms & legs lmao.
+aquia80 Wow, I didn't hear any resentment towards her daughter at all. Maybe a little resentment towards doctors and mentors telling her she's not pushing her daughter enough, or protectiveness towards people saying her daughter is being lazy, not not towards her daughter.
Charlotte and her mother are amazing. Fullstop. Compassion and sweetness go a long way in this world. Both these people are lovely. It cant be easy on either of them but our family believe in them and find them delightful people. Much love always
Charlotte is doing fine, but mum needs some emotional support.
I think it's wonderful that Charlotte grew up with this support and love around her.
Charlotte is 20 years old now and has done many sports, been an advocate, she's lovely. ❤
I personally feel a bit sad on how much time was spent on her prosthetics. Charlotte never seemed to really like them or feel comfortable in them. It was clear early on that they did not work well for her and even though prosthetics are a miracle, some find that they just get along better and can be more mobile without them. That their time is better spent learning to be as independent as possible in other ways. From what I've seen on social media, Charlotte now uses a wheel chair or hoverboard to get around not prosthetics. She also has a wonderful service dog. 🙂
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO....I added it to the top of a list I have, I will watch periodically so that I can be reenergized when I am experiencing difficulties in my own life..it is extremely inspirational.... these young men are unbelievable...!!!!!
She is so inspiring❤️ What a beautiful person, inside and out
Charlotte is pretty incredible!
Great kid
Amazing to see her learn to walk and do what she enjoys. I'm glad she met wonderful friends who helped her.
watt an amazing story with different people with the same people who got the same disability very powerful story’s when you think you can’t do something in your mind think you can do it these are very important skills for her to do on her own when she laves home and to get her own place
Wow. You guys are straight out of the MCU. Just amazing.
Unfortunately her mother started her on walking upright too late. She's not motivating the child to walk correctly disputed the pain. It's going to hurt her but if she ever wants to be independent, she's going to have to push through it.
Actually it was Charlotte who denied to do exercises because it would hurt. Have a look at the older videos on her to see. Her mum knew she had to push her more. But what to do with a child in constant meltdown state?
It's really hard for a parent to watch there child in pain. It is especially hard to push them through the pain. On top of that it strains the mother/daughter relationship. That's what physical therapy is for. I think a break for the mother would also help a lot.
+Charell H Yes, there are long term downsides to a parent trying to force a child to endure pain when they're too young to understand what it's for and why the parent is doing that to them, too. It's a difficult situation for a parent to find themselves in. Or even for a physiotherapist, but at least that's better.
Mary Poppins I think with the two mentors around, she will learn little details and learn it is the right thing to encourage walking and why.. those men are a gift to mum and daughter..
I agree she was amputated as a baby she should be doing alot more stuff by herself the mom has done way too much that's y she looks so old and defeated she needs to let go a lil
What's so hard too is the fact that Charlotte is only 11, so she's going to take her mother for granted because she's been there her whole life, ya know>? Must be really hard for the mother. Very hard!!
Dalester1979 what 11year old doesn't take their mom for granted. But like the camerons say she will come forward, and when she sees the independance of the guys and how they sort of get it it on both her and her moms perspective, and she will always have more challenges than most, but she puts the effort in where she can
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That child needs another care giver her mom is holding her back. I bet in 3 months she would be a whole new person away from that over bearing mom
It is a lot of pressure for the mum too, both she & Charlotte would benefit from someone else helping her.
Agreed. I have all my limbs, but my parents are still overprotective by loving me too much. :D ❤️✌🏽️
Kajun Means Seasoned Not Hot! Hey this is charlotte on my bfs account. The thing is my mother is protecting me like mothers do. Shes not holding me back, shes just doing her job and shes doing it right.
Her mum is doing a great job. She loves her girl and that is her life, and she’s going it on her own.
21:12 I just love how she looks at the camera when she says it.
Straight up sass
PsychoKitty사랑 oh this is so easy, yeah for her because she's babied too much
its easy for her just to sit and theres and guy with no arms and legs freakin carrying her fat ass up some stairs
PsychoKitty사랑 hey this is char on my bfs account. I was thinking that too XD
This is amazing and very inspiring to watch. The things humans can do... we may call them "disabled" but the way they face life is much more "able" than most.
I feel for Charlotte, her mother is great parent and very loving, but I think like her negative attitude may be yet another obstacle that she has to overcome/change.
I'm sure she'll be fine though...
Thanks for your support Mario! 😀
Those young men are amazing, to say the least I hope they continue to support her, her mum needs help! She is holding her back because of her own guilt, Mum your not helping her, step back let her do it even when it’s hard don’t help her, you have to make her do it or will never be able to function on her own.
She is awesome, and so is her mom! Her mom deserves a break, because taking care of a differently abled child on your own is the hardest thing in the world. Part of being a good parent is teaching your children to try new things and push them... but another part is keeping them safe, supporting them, and holding them back until they are ready to handle things on their own. And clearly the daughter is ready ti take on the world! 🎉🌞🌹🌟 You can tell she is an amazing mom, because her daughter is amazing, and kids don't turn out that great without an awesome loving parent. I wish I could send mom on a paid vacation for a couple weeks. 😃
What absolutely inspiring people Charlotte and both Camerons are!
I love this, please do another charlotte update!
soon ☺️
I have a disability and go threw many difficult challenges on an everyday bases but I manage to get threw the day even when I get frustrated an irritated
That's got to be the oldest looking 11 year old I've ever seen :/
Mag Nificent. Hahah I thought she was 25-30
Mag Nificent yeah I thought she was the same age as the other guys skydiving
Mag Nificent I thought she was 20 at least.
Mag Nificent she is 13
How dare I say what most everyone who views this video is thinking? I'm an honest woman, that's why I "dare"
She is so adorable wish the best for all of them she is so precious I hope she's alright
I have spent a lot of time with people with various disabilities and the biggest Charlotte has is her mother. You hear her say that time wise it’s quicker for her to do it than let Charlotte so how is the poor girl ever going to learn and adapt. Sadly she will have to fit into the world not the other way. The two Cameron’s are doing amazing things for her and “go” them.
It amuses me that people watch a positive attitude and mindset video channel then leave a bunch of negative mindset comments. You all need to take a deep breath of fresh outside air and inhale and exhale with a huge smile and you will feel so much better. :) I think both Camerons and Charlotte are all extraordinary people with great outlook on life!
The mother has gone through horrific trauma, remember that before you hate on her. She will feel so much better when she sees her daughter thrive because she will with this great head on her shoulders. Especially after seeing what is possible!