lgbt groomer memes are the worst | stillnotcorry
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it makes me so happy to see a cis bi man getting equally as mad as trans people, makes me feel like I'm not feeling anything irrationally.
We support you, we care about you, we love you, there's no LGB without the T.
@@danorott you are such a sweetie pie, not often do I hear that especially recently. Thank you hun.
@Hank Hill babe what
r u ok
do you need a doctor
@Hank Hill babe im not grooming anyone. now why dont we find jesus together and ask him to take care of u.
@@rainbowconnection7601 I will go with you I'm good at convincing gods. Because I can guarantee Jesus wont want him.
I respect you so much for your anger on this, this is how furious everyone should be.
Conservatives aren't just being absolute bigots, they are actively trying to change the definition of the word groomer by targeting LGBT people which literally only helps actual pedos get away with it, they do not give a shit about children's safety
I saw a tweet the other day where someone said “Guy who’s child bride is just out of frame: uhhhhh trans people are grooming children”
and there were ACTUAL replies being like “well child brides have hundreds of years of history to back them up as useful tools to society”
it’s all projection. and I hate it.
666 like
While what bigots are doing harms you, anger does nothing but make them not listen to you.
The way to make LGTBQ people more accepted is to politely explain it.
The way to make homophobes is to have people associate us with anger and outlash.
We aren't trying to change shit, I really don't know where you got that. could you give me a source that's unbiased?
Oh wait you must've meant the religious bastards yeah those fuckers are blinded by "God's might".
@@Blio_ They don't listen when we are passive either. While we should control out anger, we must also use it to get through to people. Some people, conservatives especially, are way too stubborn to give up their beliefs. We need to be harsh to make them see our side. After all, it's better to shoot down homophobic/transphobic comments when they happen rather than letting it fester and grow until it turns out physically harming people.
Though, a lot of people are different and being angry won't work all the time. And sometimes, people will just be ignorant no matter what method you use.
Conservatives: Gay people are groomers!!
Also Conservatives: 10 year olds can and will give birth 😀
@@Anna-hy4sb Please explain
That makes no sense
@@mrmiagi6052 exactly
Wait what who’s saying this
@@thatoneweirddudeinthecorner They haven’t actively said 10 year olds can/will give birth, but in several states where there are no exceptions for abortion, minors have had to leave the state with their parents to get an abortion or give birth.
As an LGBTQ+ person who *was* groomed, this is fucking appalling.
Teaching children a little more about sexuality might help them recognize grooming if it happens to them, so that they know to avoid the groomer or know to complain to someone that can protect them. Knowledge is power, even for children.
It's actually so awful that they throw the word around like it's nothing. It's making the word have no real meaning which means that when someone, who is actually being groomed, isn't going to be believed because of the amount it's just thrown around.
im confused, corey or the posts?
@@robbesworkshop the fact there are people calling lgbtq people groomers
@@koallawangja ah ok, totally agree
The real groomers are christian evangelicals tbh...
i mean 👀👀👀
Right? It's not even a joke they like to self project and say we're the groomers
Textbook grooming...
*looks nervously at Catholic priests*
True
How tf would teachers even choose your gender? Hand out colored name tags? “Ok little Timmy u are gorl now”
Despucble me
this is hilarious and if i was a high school teacher i would honestly do this as an activity to help people learn about hypocrisy
It literally enrages me. Statistics actually give more weight to the pattern of trans youth being groomed by cis men, rather than becoming ones themselves. Although, as a trans guy who was groomed and abused in high school by a cis het man, maybe I'm biased.
I mean, sometimes people who were sexually abused end up repeating the cycle, but it's not a high enough amount that it would make trans people any more likely to DO that.
I’m so sorry that happened to you ❤️ :(
@@copyrightstrike6949 thank you. It was years ago now, but I appreciate that.
Staticstics? where?
@@mlmoreno75 Look it up. RUclips doesn’t like links for some reason.
I, myself, am a trans, bisexual guy in high school, and this is insane. My school is very conservative, and I got in trouble with a teacher when a kid asked me if I’m a boy, and I answered truthfully. The kid also asked me if I had a girlfriend, and I said no, I have a boyfriend. Again, truthfully. The parents contacted the kid’s classroom teacher, and the teacher turned to the principle. The principle gave me a warning not to ‘press my views on little kids’ and to ‘stop taking advantage of kids and trying to turn them gay’. I couldn’t say anything, or else I’d be taken off of my sports team and get a couple detentions. Not to mention, my parents are very conservative and I’d kept my boyfriend, sexuality, and being trans a secret from them, (I had only come out at school, to my teachers and friends) and this whole situation forced me to come out to them. Everything is screwed up now, just because a parent refused to accept that people are queer, and a school system that can’t realize that queer people aren’t trying to exploit kids.
What the actual f*ck, man, I'm so sorry that happened to you.
I hope you're ok dude :]
I'm so sorry that happened to you ! I hope everything ended well for you and your boyfriend .
Ewww 😟 your school sucks. I’m so sorry, stay strong. You’re valid, love
"Stop pressing your views on kids"
- The people actively preventing someone from identifying as the gender they are and loving who they love, while that person is literally just living their life and vibing.
But of course, you're the one pressing your views on others and not the other way around...
The insane amount of hypocrisy would be hilarious if this wasn't such a serious issue that's actively hurting so many people.
I'm sorry your school and these people in your environment suck. Like the people before me already said, you are valid. We support you💜
I’m so sorry for you!! I love you some much m8❤️❤️❤️xxx
As a gay trans guy who is the proud parent of two lovely little kiddos, the groomer thing really upsets me. It implies that I, and people like me, are inherently unfit parents just because we are lgbtq..
Yea and conveniently they don't ever discuss asexuals. Obviously an ace would not be a groomer. So are they all unfit to be parents too? My little sister is ace and homoromantic. Biggest prude I've ever known, but she's also said many times that if I ever decide to have a kid she'd be willing to surrogate, cus my fear of giving birth. It gives me a lot of perspective on the hate against lgbtq+ when they constantly argue that being part of it is bad because it's a sexual or predatory thing when it's not. Having a sexual orientation =/= being a sexual person
And having a preferred gender =/= being some kinda fukin screaming blue haired insectoid alien snowflake or whatever they seem to think it is now
But they don't care to look into anything beyond stereotypes cus MUH RELIGION MUH GUNS N MUH CISHET SONS
(sorry btw if ur kids are cishet boys that was just a joke not implying it be bad or nothin)
@@kiraoshiro6157 Unfortunately, many of these same people also hate ace/aro folks. From the words of my bigoted POS uncle, "asexuality is unnatural, and you're mentally ill if you identify as that". They don't care about us, they only care about what they gain.
@@kiraoshiro6157 it's because TERFs etc don't believe Asexuals are real, they think it's just a cover-up. Again the assumption that everyone wants s3x etc.
@@kiraoshiro6157 Come on, do you really think these people even REMEMBER Asexuals exist? We are constantly ignored even by our own community.
@@falcon_arkaig sad but true bruh
So I initially went to your channel to try and figure out what was going on in your pfp. Then I saw that golden channel desc lol
Cishet ppl to lgbt+ ppl: “stop sexualizing our children”
Also cishet ppl when they see a toddler: “oh he’s gonna be such a stunner when he grows up, he’s gonna be breaking girls’ hearts left and right”
Go to hell man.
Off topic, but a guy on Twitter said “if there are only straight people in heaven why the f*ck would I willingly go there. Sounds worse than hell tbh” and it’s at these moments that I couldn’t agree more.
Orrr those clothes that say “does this make my diaper look big?” I HATE when I see it, I just cringe smmm
@@harigoodman7718 damn I never thought about that
Not all cisgender and heterosexual people are burning garbage, sort of stereotypical.
@@kimmel636 well, many are
I grew up in an ultra Christian community. I went to Christian schools, read Christian books and watched Christian movies. Still trans tho.
Same here lol
I'm a trans boy and also still christian
How they gonna explain that one?
same lmaooo, no one in my childhood ever taught me anything about the LGBTQ+ community and that really fucking sucked looking back at it. i literally had to find out on my own that not everyone is cis, straight and allo and was like "oohhhh that makes sense now"
and it turned out im a gay part-androgyne demimasc, so there goes people's plans to raise me as a conservative cishet guy lol. bitch they thought
@@kuuderepanda4207 I'm athiest myself, but I've seen trans christians explain that they see their trans identity as the plan God had for them from the start, and embracing it because it's literally what they know He wants for them; to be comfortable in their own skin (with the help of social/medical transition if they need it), and to be loved for who they are. I think that is an absolutely lovely way to look at it, and it suggests a much more compassionate higher power than the one bigots claim to worship.
I hope you're doing well out there, friends
Literally me my whole childhood. Still ended up pansexual 😭
I just love to watch the look on their faces when I tell them that the kid is far safer with someone that is LGBTQ than they are around your priest
Sitation needed.
Fr
*glances at catholocism*
To answer the question early on in the video: I am the A, in LGBTQIA+. The most common thing I get is oh your male you just hate women. It's like contrary to popular belief men can be asexual. Another is oh you dated people you can't be asexual. I didn't say I was aromantic I am asexual. I can love I am just not sexually motivated for lack of better words.
You're valid!!
Even if you dated people, you can discover that you're not comfortable or that it isn't for you or whatever else. Society forces people into the traditional romantic and sexual roles that correspond with their sex assigned at birth. It's not a hard concept.
Me personally? Also an ace person, but with so much nuance that I couldn't even begin to explain, so I identify under the ace umbrella or spectrum.
(Hope this doesn't come off as me arguing against you -- I'm supporting your point.)
What I find interesting is the Christians say that aro/Ace people go against the Bible and nature, but snails can reproduce without another snail. Also Paul said if you can devote your whole life to God. He was literally saying it's better to be aro/Ace rather than have a relationship.
exactly, as someone who is also grey-aro/ace there is a really big difference between sex and love, and just because im asexual doesnt mean that i cant date someone who is truly special to me without sex.
Also even if you have had sex you're still asexual to be honest it's just more proof because you've actually experienced it
My school used to have a “gender bender” day, which has been the same other places too. It’s not that “drag is sexual,” it’s because people are doing drag and they’re not allowed to laugh/mock people for doing it.
Drag and cross dressing aren't the same. Drag is done for entertainment of audiences. Cross dressing is done for one's personal life.
@@Nakia11798 well… drag is cross dressing, cross dressing might not always be drag though, but my point is that the act of *cross dressing* shouldn’t be met with scrutiny. I think that it’s very stigmatized and drag shouldn’t be so shocking. People should be able to drag or choose to not participate without being ridiculed.
If I was made to learn how hetero sex works as a 10 year old, I don't see why it's harmful to say that not all people are straight. You don't even have to go into the how's and all that. Just like, "Hey, kiddos, sometimes boys like boys and girls like girls and people change from boys to girls, etc." If that's the worst parents feel their kids are going through, they should pull them out of school ASAP because I recall learning about death and war and genocide and shit as a very smol human. Comparatively, gender and sexuality ain't shit.
I find this funny because if your beliefs as a parent are so weak that the very existence of gay/trans people will completely undermine them, then you should be focusing on evaluating your own beliefs instead of trying to hetero-wash the classroom.
I was taught about sex from a very young age too. My parents kept an open and honest conversation about sexuality and it did so much for me in my life. It is so important for parents to not avoid these subjects. It’s important for both the children and the parents. When I came out, both my parents and I had a learning journey because my parents were willing to learn. I wish everyone experienced the parents I have. I wish there were more parents like mine who learn and accept instead of shame.
I swear puritanism is making a come back hard. God forbid kids learn about things that exist.
@@DeathnoteBB "Don't teach my kids about those dirty left handers!! They are all evil and groomers!!" - how they sound
You see death and war are caused by politics. Gender and sexuality are just straight politics
Not straight as in sexual preference but rather direct? Exact? I don't know, it's just children shouldn't be apart of political debates.
Meme : Teachers should only teach kids about reading, writing, and arithmetics
Science, history, and gym : *im not even here baby I'm a hallucination*
right?
reading/writing and arithmetic is like... 1st to 2nd grade
Even in just the realm of math, what about algebra, geometry, etc.
what about sciences?
Honesty so cathartic to hear people being appropriately infuriated about this rhetoric, thank you
Regarding puberty blockers; I'm a 15 year old trans guy with endometriosis. I was relying on Lupron (leuprorelin) shots once a month to manage the majority of symptoms associated with my condition. Lupron works by blocking estrogen and progesterone, and is commonly used as a puberty blocker. Recently, I was outed to my doctor, and have since been forced to stop receiving my shots because the area I live in does not allow transgender healthcare under 18. This isn't even trans healthcare, but it's being treated as such. This ideology is so extremely harmful.
damn that sucks
Maybe you should try sueing the law?
for real, i have PCOS meaning my hormones are really unbalanced, and because i came out to my mom as trans, im not allowed to get puberty blockers, so i have to deal with being on an abnormally high dose of birth control, which stops my period all together, but is much more harmful since im still a child!
@@Blue-fg8vt you cant. sueing isnt that easy, plus with our justice system right now not giving a shit about roe v. wade, i doubt they will care about a law for trans minors
It is because blockers do acutal damage to the body if the body does Develop Properly then it will be Permanently be damage
I love that you're expressing the anger all of us are probably feeling. Even basic sexual education is f*cking limited. Never heard of the notion of consent in school. Barely even heard about trans identity til I was 16. Keeping children unaware of the diversity that exists around them is just creating generations of bullies. Y'all are just advocating for children suffering and insecurity. Y'all are just trying to make us disappear.
they act like if someone is ignorant about something, then they won’t do the thing, but that’s simply not true.
it’s also ineffective to tell kids “abstinence only” or “say no to drugs” because it doesn’t talk about what to do instead and it doesn’t help the people that are going to have sex or do drugs anyways, all it does is gives adults a pass to say “I told you so” and that it’s someone’s own fault for not knowing better, even though it’s well known these programs don’t work.
Consent, safety, unsafe situations and relationships ALL need to be taught at school
So you would like to groom preschool children... ok
@@petertrueteller8043 many people have worked on ways to convey information in appropriate ways for different age levels. for example, when talking about consent, the topic can be about giving and accepting hugs consensually. sex doesn't need to be mentioned.
also, a child knowing more about their bodies and inappropriate behavior will be more equipped to communicate with adults if they are being abused or assaulted. don't you want kids to be able to ask for help in those situations?
@@pheonixrises11 This is job for parents and not some random person. What you describe is tactic of pedos who in such way groom young children.
I've seen someone call a person a groomer for saying Kyle Rittenhouse was guilty. Yeah.
And also around 95% of grooming cases are hetero so,, major projecting going on.
And the use of the word so much like this diminished it's meaning, like what what happened with "trigger" and "gaslight"
I'm glad to see someone talking about this! It's hard to actually express how this effects people because.. its just so weird. Like many trans people, I felt this way for a very long time. Ever since I could remember I wished I was a guy. I didn't think that I would develop the way I did. I always thought the older I got, the lower my voice would be. I was NEVER exposed to anything LGBT, and it caused me a lot of harm- I had no idea why I felt the way I did and I just assumed everyone felt like I did. Heck, I didn't even know gay people existed until middle school.. The people that are pushing for the removal of education of the LGBT community are doing just as you said: trying to get rid of something THEY find "problematic." Even though they do the things they say we are doing.. It's crazy.
Same bruh. When I started growing flesh blobs on my chest I was so baffled at this turn of events that I made my parents take me to the doctor because I thought they were tumors. I just knew that it didn't belong. I didn't find out nonbinary people existed until I was twenty and then I was like 'Oooohhhh.... so that's it then.'
wait this comment says it was posted ten days ago, and the video says it was posted seven days ago...
@@cereal_snake I’m a patron! We get extra videos and get early access to uploads :) it was up 24 hours before it was uploaded for everyone! I am not a magician lol
@@utterlycasey you should have claimed to be a time traveler
I’ve always felt a certain way towards girls, but I couldn’t explain the feeling because I didn’t know about being gay and when I did I only thought men could be
Hi! Groomed as a child, if I ever bring it up to these people, it’s “my fault” but these poor kids are getting transed😔
Fuckin exactly 😭 These people dont actually give a fuck about survivors of gr00ming and CSA, they just want a reason to hate.
The only thing hurting me about that groomer stereotype is that I'm already autistic, they won't let me adopt or foster and if that gets taken seriously I wouldn't even be able to help taking care of any kid
Why are you picking a fight with this content creator? If you haven’t see his other comments, I can provide context.
@@juniorqindes8335 who the heck is picking a fight?
@@draalttom844 you said I was. I ca. Show the comments but they happened really recently so I think you know what happened
Wait autistic people can’t adopt kids ?
@@soupsoup8006 depends where, depends if they decide to call us low functioning or high functioning and I am punk si they obviously ignore my good acting
I wish this video would reach the actual homophobic audience. Not that they’d listen to it anyways because they don’t have an open mind🙄
based on the comments it’s def reaching some of them. issue is they don’t really care, they just see me getting mad & think it’s funny hahaha
a lot of bigots have seen this video but their too stubborn.
@@stillnotcorry frustrating 😔
@@stillnotcorry If you read my first comment ,you know I don't think it's funny....but rather ridiculous!
@@sabrinaclarus6290 tbh it makes it even worse if you did think about what he said and still decided it's better to be a bigot
its so funny how I many queer kids were groomed by straight people but when we tell them that its "you're gay because you were abused" like what??
i'm lucky enough to have never been groomed or assaulted and im certainly not a groomer myself so im not sure where i fit into all of this
@@unnamed312 considering that was 5-6 years ago how old are you?????
@@unnamed312 that checks out. You don't "Become" bisexual man, media can't do that.
I'm bi, and I was s3xually abused when I was 6 until 7, maybe s3xually assaulted again at 9 (not sure if I count it really, its kinda borderline), nearly kidnapped, s3xually harassed from the ages of 11 to my current age (19), got followed home by men, etc etc. All by straight people lmao. Stats show the majority of child s3x offenders are heterosexual too lmao
@some dude
That's not how sexuality works. You're born that way and you cannot train yourself one way or the other. You're also like 14, so?? Just letting you know that's misinformation to say you can become a sexuality. You either are or you aren't.
I feel like there’s going to be a problem at some point when teachers have to teach elementary schoolers pronouns, which is a basic part of the English language. People, animals, objects, and other nouns all use pronouns. I can picture a kid coming home talking about pronouns and their parents knocking the doors down at the school board meeting
I saw a story on Reddit where the teacher had that exact thing happen. She was teaching pronouns on zoom and some crazy mom tried to get her fired lol
Its funny because they clearly don't know what pronouns are when they get mad at that or when they say "I don't use pronouns"-
@@faerie5926 I is a pronoun
I was closeted untill 2019. I couldnt hide it anymore. I had come out about being pan before and my mother didnt get what i said so shes told everyone im gay. Came out to my mother in 2020 as trans. In 2 years my parents went from being allies and fairly liberal, to being almost anti and increasingly more conservative. It just gets harder. I didnt think i was safe either time i came out. Growing up in straight ideology world didnt stop that. It just made me hurt quietly
i'm so sorry that happened to you, i'll never understand parents who are like this. i hope you're in a better place now and that you are around people who love and accept you
I’m so sorry!! Just know that I love you❤️❤️
I’m gonna be honest, I love how they forget kids can be LGBTQ+. I remember seeing some parent being like “Those gays are groomers and trying to take our children!!” And the kids friend stared at the parent and said “I’m gay, I have been since I was born Karen”
Looks like you are in to grooming as well.
@@petertrueteller8043 Remember, every conservative accusation is a conservative confession.
@@petertrueteller8043 as someone who knew i was gay since 6th grade I'm just gonna say you don't understand anything, you really think a kid questioning sexuality and people being like "hey it's ok discover yourself" and not immedeatly being like "no if you try to find yourself even if you find out you are straight we will tell you are a horrible person" like may i ask what makes it grooming to say "hey you can explore your sexuality" and what makes "you are straight and we will force you to he straight' is not grooming
And hell I've seen the most homophobic parents have gay children
@@petertrueteller8043 projection
I was so ready to be disgusted by a homophobic man whose name isn't Corry, so I was pleasantly surprised when I learned that I'd just misinterpreted the title. I know you're supposed to interpret it as "memes about LGBT people being groomers are the worst," but I interpreted it as "memes made by lgbt groomers are the worst."
I'm queer and it is scary how we are being blamed and our rights and being restricted
Is it not MORE scary that children are being abused in the name of LGBT?
It’s so fucked that people don’t see this as what it is, blatant bigotry against queer people. I’m about as queer as they come and currently working toward my own top surgery. I’m honestly very lucky and very privileged to be able to have a supportive family and friends and be able to seek the healthcare I need. It hurts me to know how much this shit is hurting specifically queer kids, some of the most vulnerable out there. Lovely video! I’d love to see some deep dives in to articles. Getting to see someone else get angry about this is cathartic.
i got fired from my outdoor ed job for talking about gender. i'm nonbinary and queer, and we would work with mostly 5th through 8th graders, yknow, the time of life where kids are thinking about their orientation and gender. i never corrected kids on my pronouns because i didn't care enough, but when kids asked i would answer honestly and appropriately for their age. another kid heard that i said i wasn't a girl, and went home to their parents and caused a huge issue with my employer hiring "a biological male to be the in-cabin instructor for girls" which 1, isn't true and not what i said, and 2, put me as the star of a fox news article! the bad press got me fired. fun times!! it's so exhausting to try to be out and proud and be an example of a queer adult who is alive and doing cool things while constantly being told to hide and not engage with the kids who are afraid to speak with their parents about their queerness but brave enough to open up to me. it's so hard.
That’s terrible. I’m so sorry that happened to you. I’m non-binary and an accountant, but not out. Some day it might be nice to be out as an accountant just for the fact that accountants are usually seen as very ordinary, run-of-the-mill type people and non-binary people are often seen as “freaks” or “weirdos”, so it would be nice to subvert people’s expectations on both sides of that coin. But it’s reasons like your story and many similar ones why I’d rather just get along and not be out of a job.
@@coralovesnature it would be fun to be an ordinary job holder and make people do a double take! that being said, it isn't hard to find an accepting employer (at least where i live), and what they did was illegal & i'm working with some federal and state agencies to set precedent so it can never happen again. when/if you are ready, it's really freeing to be out.
@@Goldlucky13 that’s good that you have some recourse at least. At my current job, I think my immediate boss and my team member who I have to work with the most closely wouldn’t be weird about it at all, but I could see several of my other coworkers making things awkward. Particularly, there’s several who are pretty religious who I have overheard make blatantly transphobic comments amongst themselves on several occasions. While I don’t work directly with those people, there’s like
So you were talking with young kids about your gender and sexuality and still cant figure out why they fired you? :D
@@petertrueteller8043 i wasn't talking about sexuality. a kid asked if i was a boy or a girl, and i said i wasn't either one. that being said, children are exposed to gender and sexuality from the time they are born. one person is referred to as "mister" another as "miss", and they are told why. expectations are placed on them about what toys/clothes they should and should not use. no one bats an eye when an adult tells a child they are pregnant, even though that is a direct representation of sexuality. it is perfectly acceptable to tell a child that you have a spouse at home, also a representation of sexuality. talking about gender and sexuality in an age-appropriate way around kids who are asking questions about it is not wrong. demonizing someone who represents gender and sexuality in a non-binary and non-heterosexual way for talking about their life like any cis or straight person does is the wrong thing.
saying school should only teach reading writing and arithmetic means that we shouldn't learn about history in general nothing about laws or black history or culture or any type of history
You want to learn science or engineering? Sorry kid, it's reading/writing/arithmetic only, that's the rules!
and they cant learn anything other than multiplication, addition, division and subtraction!
Lol the reading writing and arithmetic one is so fun y cause like... You don't want your kid learning about history? Or geography? Or science? Wtf
I love how they straight up put SLIPPERY SLOPE in full caps on that meme, as if it wasn't obvious enough how much of a fallacy it is lmao
Right, they are aware that their slope isn't even true
Corry bringing some very appropriate anger. I heard on the radio the other day the Superintendent of Public Instruction (running for re-election in August) saying that he "wants children to be able to think for themselves." so a vote for him is "a vote against Critical Race Theory and Gender Ideology." I hate it here. There are reasons I'm still largely closeted.
He wants people to think for themselves by banning any discussion he disagrees with??? That literally makes no sense.
@@gyxureality1967 He's one of the "free thinkers" where "free thinking" is "eat my dogma and demand more of it". Like when it's conspiracy theorists going "WAKE UP SHEEPLE" trying to shill their latest notzee-propaganda-origin historical "cover-up".
As someone who's queer, nonbinary, and a teacher, this is the reason why I feel uncomfortable teaching kids and teenagers, and why I don't feel totally comfortable being openly queer online while I still have young students. I'm afraid their parents will have a problem with it, and it's ridiculous, but it happens, especially since I live in a pretty conservative and Christian city.
I teach English to other Brazilians and I currently work on my own with private classes, so I'm now only looking for adult students.
Edit: last year I taught a group of teens at a school, and three of them vented to me about how their parents were LGBTphobic and they were queer, and I had the chance to be an affirming adult that listened to them. I could tell it made a huge difference, but I was scared their parents would somehow find out and think I was "encouraging their behavior" or worse.
I hope it gets easier soon, for everyone’s sake. It’s hard having to repress such a core part of your identity for the comfort of others, and I just hope we won’t have to soon. Much love, and know how immensely strong you are. You’re wonderful and worthy
Dont talk with children about your sexuality (nobody cares) and you will be fine.
But heterosexual teachers can?
@@petertrueteller8043 who asked you anything?? Little rude man
I'm also from brazil, and i understand how intense it gets. Our country is very homophobic, but please stay strong :]
As a lesbian, I was afraid of being in dressing rooms after I came out…Or in bathrooms, or just in public sometimes cos I was scared of being a creep
in my highschool there was a female teacher who has senior level classes [17-19y/o] was repremanded for bringing up her wife in her intro at the start of the year :T
It's a slippery slope, first the fish came on land, and now we have fascism
It’s so cute how right-wingers expose their tactics by accusing the left of that behavior🤣
I'm a transman who grew up in the 90's. I grew up without any words for myself and I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
Ugh, same. I absolutely hated being made to think of myself as a "lesbian". I literally remember watching Pinnochio and relating to wanting to be a real boy. Noone ever told me trans boys can also be real boys.
corry expresses all my pent up emotions for me so i don’t do so at my transphobic mother
I'm trans and don't even interact with kids very often, and I still get called a groomer. What's even better is that when it's by someone on Facebook whom I don't actually know they assume that my partner is a trans woman. My partner dresses in femme and is nonbinary but isn't a trans woman and is generally OK with presenting as male (they're AMAB). Oftentimes the first thing that these people will say to me is "your partner's not a woman!"
What's AMAB?
@@thatdumbass9856 assigned male at birth.
@@thatdumbass9856 It stands for "assigned male at birth"
@@thatdumbass9856 assigned male at birth
@@thatdumbass9856
Assigned male at birth
And on the other side we also have
AFAB
Assigned female at birth
Love how the very first 'meme' is a logical fallacy lol
Healthy anger. Thank you for saying things as they are. I'm done being nice to homophobes and transphobes as well. I'm over 40 and sometimes it feels like things are getting worse for the community.
There are a whole lot of people that are done being nice to heterophobes!
@@sabrinaclarus6290 what?
@@ItsDarkHUD What do you think that means?? It means that there are a whole lot of people who are tired of you, as a minority, trying to change how we speak or even think,tired of your perverted parades,tired of you acting as if the world "owes" you!
The real world doesn't have to adjust to you people,that's not how it works!
@@sabrinaclarus6290 i'm sorry? heterophobia doesn't exist
@@ebonydarknessdementiaraven4610 Sure it does,look it up!!
I love that you use the Sci-Guys sounds to censor words.
that’s not the sci guys sound it’s just a glitch sound effect haha
@@stillnotcorry Well it's the same sound bite i think... lmao maybe not
haha it def isn't! similar though so i get the confusion
im so sick of conservatives trying to strip our rights away. i haven’t even heard of this until today. thank you corry for enlightening me on this. i’m absolutely enraged.
I told my friend that I was trans….
We’re not friends anymore…
Good, you dont need people like that in your life
im sorry. that always sucks, but if they couldnt except you for who you really are, you dont need them in your life! you deserve way better:)
I’m transmasc nonbinary and pansexual. I’m currently in the process of helping my Dad clean the house before I search for a house of my own and move out of Dad’s so that I can start getting proper treatment because my Dad is transphobic and has no valid reason to be so. He constantly brings up the Bible stories of sodom and gomorrah (which I believe were made up by the same people who accepted the homophobic mistranslation in the bible as the “true word of god” to justify their homophobia and provide false evidence that god was truly against the gays when he wasn’t) and there was obviously no verse that said anything against transgender people so I don’t believe he ever had a valid reason to be transphobic and he’s just talking nonsense.
Hey, I'm sorry to hear your dad is transphobic, and I hope you'll soon be in a better place. By the way, I'm transmasc nonbinary and pansexual too.
The “man should not lie with a man like he would with a woman” verse was 100% purposefully modified to justify their hatred - the second man was never there until, I believe, sometimes in the 1900s. The word in it’s place was one that we don’t have a direct translation for, but it was for a young boy sold as a slave, so, commending r@p3 and p3d0philia.
Sorry that your dad is transphobic. Mine is too but I'm not gonna get into it. Just know that I know what you are going through and I hope things get better. Also since you mentioned your dad is a Bible thumper just show him galatians 3;28. I think he will be in a bit of shock lol
"Teachers should teach reading, writing and arithmetic, nothing else" love that admission that they don't want kids being taught science and history lol
As a queer non-binary kid, I think it's insane. Kids love their teacher's romantic life, they think it's so fun. My 5th and 6th grade class (one classroom, small school lol) our teacher was asked about her boyfriend a lot. my when my teacher got pregnant she had one of the kid's parents make gender reveal cupcakes for the whole class. She had a gender reveal party with a bunch of 11/12 y/o's. and they loved it! nobody had any problems about it, either.
Thisss!! Kids love to ask questions about their teachers romantic lives. Nobody gives a fuck if the teacher is straight. As SOON as the teacher or the teachers partner is queer people care.
I really respect your ability to make Simpsons references in almost all of your videos :)
As someone who just recently came out as bi, I just cannot wait for people to start calling me a groomer! That'll be fuuuuuuuuun :) Then again, RUclips is literally the only social media I have and am active on, so probably won't be getting much of queerphobia lol thank goodness
Lucky Kirby 😩
People won’t call you a groomer unless you are actively seeking validation from young people about your sexuality. As many teachers do these days
@@mrmiagi6052 seeking validation from young people? you have it all wrong. they want kinds to understand that being gay is valid.
God i love your rage, i wish more people had the balls to let their anger show. Troll culture has made everyone afraid to express outrage
Your anger feels powerful corry, that’s fucking awesome. It’s easy for stuff like this to make us mad, but we have to use that anger to educate, inform, and push for change. Sincerely, a gay trans communist
The real groomers out there are adults in a position of trust who groom and abuse children. In the past, often the children tried to say what was happening and weren't believed by their parents because the adults in question were church leaders, celebrities, sports coaches etc.
Thank you for this video @notcorry. I understand your righteous anger. Unfortunately, the bigots, with their closed minds, will never see the lies behind the memes. They don’t want to.
@Won’t Stand Down sorry, but you are either deluded or just believing the hype on right wing news channels
@Won’t Stand Down Quick question, what definition of 'groomer' are you using in this context? The one I'm thinking of, where an adult in power abuses that power to sexually prey on children through assault, molestation or other abuse, certainly doesn't apply to LGBTQ+ people.
Would love a deep dive into that article! I’ve had quite a few people bring up the topic and it’s been damaging to myself and friends at school, so I’d love to really see what they’re freaking out about and have some knowledge to fire back with!
Check Caelan Conrad's Inside a Cult: Gender Critical, it's a massive three-parter about the "gender critical" dogma-- if you're okay with swearing and can stomach seeing transphobia-- Caelan's angry the whole time so if you need the catharsis they've got it covered.
(They explain the same talking points that the "gender criticals" keep regurgitating so it works for pretty much ALL of that. basically that article just sounds like textbook gender-critical parent forcing their kid back into the closet for their own safety because they drank the TERF koolaid.)
What would be the benefit of “teachers choosing students genders?”
Yes, I am asexual.
The anger and intensity in this video is great. You should be mad. I’m mad.
as a transmasc teen I'm so happy the school I go to is really trans friendly. it's been a lifesaver for me since even though I can't be myself at home I have school as a place to just exist as a guy. anyone who is against teachers supporting their lgbtq+ students is just really messed up. def don't care about the kids and teens who are struggling
i'm bisexual and genderfluid and honestly, hearing this kind of shit is just so tiring.. like, it's always the same exact arguments (that aren't even based on anything real) they make and i just don't have the energy anymore to argue with ppl like this so i just ignore it and move on.. it's hard to reason with someone whose opinions are based on irrational fears and hatred (but i applaud ppl who still try lol i recognize that it is important to do but i'm too mentally exhausted -_-)
Underrated content creator.
Genuinely he should get way more views
@Hank HillCare to explain?
I'm a trans person who went through a precocious puberty and even for ME getting puberty blockers wasn't on the table. I promise all these transphobes that it is NOT that easy, even if a doctor can see you need them. Checking these things is just apparently impossible to them
I'm honestly glad you're talking about this. I used to be openly bi but now because of the recent hate for queer people I started going back in the closet because we were getting framed as groomers
i can believe im, a grooming victim whos a trans gay man being called a groomer. this is just disgusting, i didnt choose to be trans or gay and yet im being called a literal pedophile for existing. i cant believe people like this exist
ikr
I'm nonbinary and pansexual, and I'm pretty sure my conservative relatives can tell I'm ✨not like other girls✨
i like how you're wearing almost a shirt
Little pre warning cause i get a little personal here lol.
I'm nonbinary (and bi but that doesn't matter much in this case) and going through school I did know what the LGBT+ community was and was very accepting of that cause lots of my friends are a part of it, but i was not taught about gender at all outside of christian values. I did not understand why I felt the way I felt, like I was wrong somehow, that messed me up. It took me until i was seventeen to realise that I might not be as cis as I thought I was and I'm going to be honest, that took a huge mental toll on me. I almost took my life 3 times and have thought about it more. I'm getting some help now and trying to figure out how to get solid mental help but sometimes those thoughts return. I think that if I was taught the concept of gender and how you could be in or out of the binary and what it felt like to be in the wrong body I would be so much better off (I have other issues but that would have helped a lot.)
I wish one day these concepts are taught even to older teens because it could help people and probably save people.
Heres to hoping.
I’m so glad that you are getting help now and are here with us to share your story. My story is pretty similar to yours, except that thankfully I have not felt the pain to try to take my life due to having a couple of key people in my life who are very loving and supportive.
From one non-binary person to another, I sincerely wish you the best and hope that we all can feel more accepted some day.
@@coralovesnature thank you, I hope so too, and I thank those people who have helped you because we need more of those people. 💛🤍💜🖤
You hit every point on this that I’ve been thinking of, but couldn’t put into the right words. This may honestly be one of my favorite videos on the platform, good stuff!
With the right, every accusation they make is an admission of guilt, and every demonizing trait they assign to their fellow humans are but projections and reflections of themselves. It's a doorway into their mindset.
Yep, more people need to recognize this, especially online where accusations for being queer are practically thrown out of a hat. These people are projecting and telling on themselves, because no decent person makes the claim without substantial evidence.
Also, love the XANA banner!
@@megamillion5852 Thank you! I should really rotate it so the prongs are more clear tho
And yeah, online there tends to be a lot of dogpiling as well, so when someone throws out one of those insults people tend to bandwagon it instead of thinking rationally about it.
You are continuously the most well-spoken person I've seen online,
this is probably the only time I've seen you actually get visibly angry and yet you were still very clear and concise in getting your points across.
The urge to show this to my parents is very strong because I can't tell them any of this myself. However, I can't because transgender issues are involved and they are ridiculously transphobic. They say they aren't. but they definitely are, and because this video talks about that, that takes away all credibility in their minds and I really hate it.
I love that you made this and I hope that I have the courage to talk about this kind of stuff again with my parents soon. You have the passion that I don't see in enough people. Thank you.
The grooming thing pisses me off as well. I have been SA 3 times as a child. One of them being an R by a female. I was 10. The other two were 6 and 8. And the fact they are trying to say that we want to do that to children appalls me.
Corry, thanks for sharing the info and thank you for your passion in clarifying extremely important misinformation about the LGBT Community.
I am indeed lgbtq+ im bi and recently came out as trans
congrats!
Same!
Congrats 😊
Congrats 🤙🤙
I'm a CisHet guy and to be perfectly honest these """memes""" make me want to pull my eyes out.
👀 corry is especially unhinged today and I love it
I WISH I could get top surgery without my parents permission as a minor. I’m an AFAB demigirl! I have gender dysphoria. I don’t have that ability. I wish I could, but I understand that’s not something we can allow. We can’t let kids/teens get life altering surgeries. I don’t understand why people are so worried about something that is impossible.
frr if it was my decision id be on testosterone rn, instead of being non verbal for 90% of the time bc i cant deal with my own voice
The real groomers are religious people (honestly regardless of religion) saying that girls are 'too independent' and boys are 'not tougher', and then advocating for child marriages.
*waves* Trans-masc, Non binary, pansexual and demi-sexual.
You literally cant be both non binary and trans. Thats not how it works.
**waves back** nonbinary, kingender and bisexual using they/them pronouns
thought gender critical meant that you were someone who was critical about gender in society and how it was all social and not biological...Boy was i in for a surprise
pop a trans at the beginning and it all makes sense
you’re absolutely spot on, as always. keep doing what you’re doing
also… is it about my cube?
For the question, I'm bisexual, genderfluid, and polyamorous
Hearing someone be genuinely upset about this shit feels nice. The memes that make us laugh so we don't cry aren't doing enough to convince people. This is what we need to actually get rights
I'm not gonna lie and say that it doesn't affect me when someone accuses me of being a groomer just because I'm trans. It *is* frustrating because I'm just trying to live my life authentically and you have people coming in and demonizing it, refusing to understand. I try not to take it to heart though, because they're just projecting. Every accusation the right makes is a confession. They're the same people defending people like Matt Gaetz, or say that it's "actually a wonderful opportunity for life" when a child gets assaulted and ends up pregnant. It's like when your partner gets really paranoid and constantly accuses you of cheating, and it ends up that they were cheating all along. It's still harmful and you're allowed to be mad, but it says much more about them than it ever could about you. So just take care of yourself and don't take it to heart, you're not doing anything wrong by just existing 💜
im a queer nonbinary kid :))
im a queer nonbinary adult! solidarity :)
saaaame!!
I am non binary college student.
"stop grooming and SAing our kids!"
- catholic alt righters
Projection at its finest.
huh?
Correct, conservatives are projecting their grooming onto the LGBTQ+ community
@@cinnastag 👏If👏you👏 don't 👏want👏to👏be👏called👏a👏 pedophile👏don't👏act👏like👏one👏
@@jo9932 Yeah, agreed, conservatives should stop acting like pesophiles, glad we could agree
KING IS SPITTIN FAX
Lookin forward to when I'm a teacher and some parents start accusing me of grooming
Fr though, I was groomed as a kid and this is fucking infuriating. Good thing I'm afab so people think I'm a small confused child instead who will one day grow up and realize my dumb lil girl brain just got it wrong :) (I think that is how my dad's taking it and I know this is also shitty but I prefer this over the alternative)
Btw I KNOW afab ppl get the grooming thing too this is just my experience and what I've seen from the queer people around me
I am afab non-binary and I agree. I think also people tend to be less hard on masculine afabs b/c being masculine is generally seen as “desirable” so it’s understandable to society why an afab might want to be more masculine. Conversely, being feminine is seen as “inferior” so when an amab wants to be more feminine, they are seen as stooping to a lower level or degrading their value. Really it just boils down to society hating anything associated with women or femininity.
What every transphobe needs to hear.
Thank you for this video!
I am a transgender bisexual 13 year old with a sister who is an 11 year old pansexual. There have been so many issues in our school involving us not being straight, but this is the one that pissed me off the most. My sister was hanging out with with one of her friends and her (at the time) girlfriend. My sister saw no teachers looking at her at the time so she kissed her girlfriend on the cheek. The friend didn’t care, as she knew the two were dating. They were sitting on a bench outside the bathroom when this happened. After they broke up, their friend told one of their classmates that the small moment happened. The classmate then told one of his friends. The friend told his sister. His sister decided to change the story to “two girls were making out in the bathroom”. She told all of her friends and they told theirs. Soon enough other schools in the area had heard about it. This drew the attention of the teachers and principal. The principal called the girls in and asked what happened. My sister was the only one who told her what happened. Now if this was a straight couple, they would have been let off with a warning, maybe a detention or two if anything. But my sister got detention for a week and the ex girlfriend got suspended (her punishment was more severe due to the fact that she lied). The principal called our mother and one of the things she said was “this hasn’t happened before, i really don’t know exactly what to do.” No, it was not the first time this had happened. A big deal was just being made out of it because this was the first time it was two girls instead of a boy and a girl.
A lot of people probably still believe that homosexuality is a kink. It's why more people accept it if people keep the idea closed up in a bedroom
help i've been indoctrinated and now i'm gay 🤬😕 !!!
i also wanna say: gay marriage is so important not just because "love is love" but because of why we wanted it in the first place, which is related to the AIDS epidemic. many gay people couldn't be together with their partners in their last moments due to not being married or family, and that's when the idea of gay marriage as an important thing really took hold.
gay marriage is a human rights issue when related to healthcare. people who have a problem with it literally want us to die alone.
This "groomer" meme is so stupid because there are virtually no trans or openly gay teachers in the public schools. And teachers, liberal or not, have zero incentive to "convert" students to gender fluidity--they're just dealing with the fact that more and more students in their classes ARE trans. If parents can't "stop" their teenagers from being trans, why do they expect teachers and schools to? There are some younger students experimenting with fluid gender roles, but that's almost always because they have "woke"/liberal parents. It is not the job of teachers to counter the parents who "let" their children be trans any more than it is their job to counter parents who "let" their kids be Jehovah's Witnesses. Conservatives can make a meme equating tolerating/accommodating different students with "grooming", but it really only shows how intolerant, ignorant, and stupid THEY are.
Why is it that more and more kids THINK they are "trans"?? Because you people fill their little heads with rainbow colored nonsense!
im a they/them bi trans man, seeing these "memes" make me disgusted.
hiii im a nonbinary pan person
but yea this is fucked
I say I don’t have pronouns because I don’t like she or they and don’t feel safe with he right now… I don’t like my name either so I’m not trying to hate anyone by not using pronouns. I’m just in the closet and not comfortable yet.
That is valid, wish you luck on your discovery journey =)