Back in October I asked my gym crush out and she said…Sorry I have a boyfriend and I replied that’s ok I totally understand but added I just felt a connection (probably shouldn’t of added that) Anyway seen her 4-5 times in gym since and she ignores me or pretends not to see me and one time turned her head when we passed almost to the point of being rude! I mean flaming hell I know she has a boyfriend but is there’s a chance that much of a problem to nod your head and be civil? I make sure I’m On the opposite end of the gym now and don’t make eye contact But I must admit I do feel hurt as it’s rare I find a girl that attractive ie maybe once every 3-4 years! I’m told I’m a good looking guy who looks a lot younger I would just like to know if she at least secretly likes me back? She was in the gym today and I was amazed that she used a couple of machines near me although we didn’t make eye contact! It’s been almost 3 months now and I still feel there’s a connection there but in auras at least! I’m not desperate and I’m capable of getting other girls but I can’t seem to forget this one for some reason! What do think?
Im attracted to people introverts with some sorts of problem, the feeling of helping somebody just make me feel better, an easy thing thats starts me with mixed feelings is when i realise somebody has a “mask” and is hiding something.
People you are attracted to: 0:35 younger 1:14 older 1:40 talented and creative 2:19 lone wolves 3:01 free spirit 3:31 social butterflies 4:10 strong and silent types 4:46 nurturers 5:14 life of the party
I’m attracted to confidence above everything. Not sure what that would say about me 😅 but it’s so attractive. They don’t rely on putting others down or tearing people apart. They don’t rely on outside validation or constant compliments. I want more of that
I'm attracted to almost everything you mentioned, let's just say they all have something that attracts me. I really liked the drawings on Jungkook, it made me laugh a little😂 Are there any ARMY here💜
People you are attracted to : Younger than you : 0:34 Older than you : 1:11 Talented and creative people : 1:39 Lone wolves : 2:18 Free spirit : 3:00 Social butterflies: 3:28 Strong and Silent : 4:10 Nurturers : 4:44 Life of the party: 5:13 Hope it helps :)
I didn't consider the youthful excitement as a reason for liking to surround myself with those younger than me, I just thought it was about the childhood I didn't get growing up
I was born in the transition of the technology age, so I was affected by that mindset. Most people around my age or older generally don't understand technology, so I reach for the younger ones 'cause they actually understand
For me it's the trait of the person who is open minded!! If I become Friend with this person, I feel more free to express what I want and try New things@@Psych2go
Timestamps 1). Younger than you 0:33 2). Older than you 1:11 3). Talented and creative 1:38 4). Lone wolves 2:18 5). Free spirit 3:00 6). Social butterflies 3:29 7). Strong and silent 4:09 8). Nurturing 4:45 9). Life of the party 5:12 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
after watching this video, i now see that i prefer quiet people over more social people. i can see that im friends with a lot of people who fit the nurturer/strong and silent types, i fit in very well with the nurturer type, nice video! :)
I am attracted to talented, creative free spirits that are often the silent types, it’s already some essay about what that says about me. I love that series and I really got excited about JK performing euphoria in your video🙈
That's also me.... I'm a ISFJ-T, and at times, I seem quiet, alone and invested time with enjoying life to the fullest. I have no problem living by myself, because that's everyday of my life whenever I go to my classes. I can't make friends... but that's ok. Because deep down, I have family and I have God. Both are the most important people in my life, and I wouldn't give up anything for them to be a part of my life.
The "lone wolf" bit pretty much reflects my attraction to a tee. I really like shy girls, and I guess that "solving them" is part of the reason for that. It may also stem from my inferiority complex and the fact that I don't think I'm good enough for someone with a lot of friends, but whatever.
Ahhh, good insight. People do tend to go for those they see as "in their league," meaning that your attraction reflects your self-perception/self-esteem.
What the…? Almost all these traits are ones I find attractive in others! 🤯 The age-based ones are a little trickier to define, though, since I tend to project as much younger at face value than my actual age (there’s no greater compliment or confidence boost than the other person accusing you of lying for claiming to be five or more years older than they think you are 😂).
Jungkookie is everywhere❤🩹🥺 and my beloved SuperTuna💞. The one who drew this is definitely ARMY💜. The previous part too had the thumbnail of Koo💜. I really laugh and smile every time their drawings appear 🤍. And your videos are really great👍, following you was a nice decision, and the way you talk in a very understandable way about every topic😊💫.
@@Psych2go I think I'm quite related to the attraction toward older, strong, silent, and nurturing partners. I grew up in a hard circumstance and barely survived. I've learned that I need someone who can lead and teach me more about how to live a much more complete life, to learn etiquette and social norms since I've never had any proper relationship with people but rather animals. I also have difficulties coping with new environments and circumstances, so I'm truly hoping for a stable, safe, and mature partner. My ex-girlfriend also had these traits. She was very hardworking, very silent, sweet, and good at listening to others. We had been besties and then I had fallen for her before we knew it. She adores my creativity and told me that my talents, knowledge, and versatility charmed her.
I am attracted to talented and creative people, lone wolves and free spirits. All the reasons why I might be attracted to them are true. However, even though I am attracted to younger people, according to what you said I should definitely give a chance to older people x') but that's scary!!
I'm attracted to people who show genuine interest in me as a person. I mean, sure, some of these traits I do find attractive, but at the end of the day, just show me that you actually care. That's all I really want in a partner 😅
Aww, 1:53 ¡¡Supertuna Jin!!! ¡Sí, amo a las personas creativas! Que lindo detalle que consideren a los bangtannies, mas cuando los extrañamos tanto. :')
🍃 Great video as always! If I can give a suggestion for futures content: “what people you attract says about you”. I think just as much as we are attracted to certain types of people, like these 2 parts disclosed well, we attract different types of people as well. And if you can develop on the aspect that, sometimes, the people we attract doesn’t match with the people we are attracted to. And possible reasons for that. 😊
I'm always attracted to talented and creative people, I was thinking that a while ago, and after watching this video, it was confirmed to me that this is not only my observation. Every word that has been said describes me.
I entered this channel for mental health and to know myself better, found out that the other factor that made me start looking and take care of my mental health is here as well, BTS 😂 I💜U psy2go
I'm attracted to people with a great sense of humor. As long as they can make me laugh, consider me blind because I couldn't care less what you look like as long as I'm gigglin 😂😂
@@Psych2go I didn't know how to answer this question without showing you what made me laugh uncontrollably so I'm uploading a short video right now to my channel so that you can laugh with me 😂🤍
I loved the bts references. I've been a subscriber for a quite but never came across with this video until now, it was nice to see. Definitely identified with people attracted to talented and skillful people 🤭💜
Definitely drawn too someone whos like a mix of Talented, Creative, Lone Wolf, free spirited, stong and silence who would be very nurturing in the relationship once they open up.
▪︎ Toxic: nope ▪︎ Detached/Unattainable: nope ▪︎ Xerox of my Father: nope (The same applies for Xerox of my Mother.) ▪︎ My Junior: commonly ▪︎ My Senior: sometimes ▪︎ Bad Boy: sometimes ▪︎ Talented: commonly ▪︎ Life of the Party: sometimes ▪︎ Social Butterfly: sometimes ▪︎ Strong and Silent: sometimes ▪︎ Lone Wolf: occasionally ▪︎ Free Spirit: sometimes ▪︎ Nurturing: if it comes with more immediate appeal (e.g. "Talented" or "Life of the Party")
Always loved older people; they never put me down or make me feel bad like kids in my school did. Most of my friends are in their 40s and 50s and I am only 25.
Qualifications for dating me -personality: not a jerk, not intentionally ignorant, willing to learn -height: can reach the top shelf (I’m short) -gender: optional
@@Psych2go someone said they felt the same, and it's kind of a weird thing to say the least, as it's out of the ordinary i think, I'm attracted to ppl i used to hate or despise (even w celebs or fictional characters lmao)
I have a feeling, your magnet only activates when you get more personal time with them no? Because that's what I get, I'm comfortable and open when it's more one on one time. Seems that most people I get that oppertunity with me are charmed.
Me being attracted to social butterflies but also someone who's the strong silent type lol. Some of these types can cross over. I like how social butterflies can easily form bond but strong silent types are dependable. I'm attracted to both aspects.
I think there is a significant difference between what we want and what we are drawn to. For example, I want someone who is social, but I usually end up with lone wolves. What the description of being drawn to a lone wolf is relates to me much more than the social one. Sometimes you can't really choose who attracts you.
Absolutely, attraction can be complex and often defies our conscious preferences. It's interesting how the heart has its own compass. What do you think it is about lone wolves that draws you in despite the initial preference for social individuals?
i m attracted to younger people because i m the mature , the protective , the healing one and my love language is taking care of the other one , even tho i m the weaker one physically . i have a mother like aura , that would be the reason , not that i am playful or youthful , i m actually calm and protective.
i cant blame tony soprano now for his opinion on gary cooper 😭 that strong, silent type being those whose actions speak more than words is literally so attractive. even the older ones who can guide you through anything MAN they have my heart
You're amazed by smartness. And you want to feel less smarter than a person you like. That will make you feel protected, comfortable, feel that you have someone you can rely on. It's also a sign of your own high intelligence and that you're kinda fed up with stupidity around you. If you were in the environment of many very smart people for a long time, you would feel less attracted by the smartness itself and start to notice other characteristics. But it doesn't mean you would suddenly like stupidity 😅 you will just feel less stressed around ... less intelligent people.
@olyabutorina6869 I know I'm somewhat smart, but I'm not really fed up with people who aren't as smart (unless they're mean for no reason) but I do find myself enamored with people as smart as or smarter than me because it's really fun to have someone else around with a perspective I can trust. It's also not specifically intelligence that I'm attracted to. It seems it's, for lack of a better term, a prerequisite for me to be attracted than anything else.
This was awesome I guess im drawn to nurturers cause I am drawn to reliable people and empathetic people also strong and silent types What they say about me I am still thinking about it usually they want me to take the leadership role cause im reliable but I am gonna ask one of my friends to give you a little more detail on what they think
@@Psych2goHi I might be late but I will right now I've been hesitant because I'm very closed off with things I like but watching your videos gives me new perspectives each time just watched the Valentine's one today and it was super informative and hopeful I'm currently studying psychology and I get very excited when their are topics that are being thought at the same time sending love to the psych team wishing you all well ❤
*Fictional Characters:* Want what I can’t have which brings a certain level of comfort because that way I can’t be rejected and don’t ever need to deal with confronting your feelings. Scared of intimacy, scared of dependency. Oh and probably a romantic who is disappointed by the state of dating and relationships
My couple combination is my boyfriend a lonewolf that's strong and silent and I'm his anxiety indusing free spirit, talented and creative nurterer girlfriend, Our relationship is like a theme park ride 😂
older, talented and creative, social butterflies, and nurturers were mine ! honestly if someone had all those qualities we need to get married immediately jejdj
I didnt really know what type of people I was attracted to. But as soon as you started talking about being attracted to lone wolves. I realisede that the person im attracted to right know is a lone wolf and the more you explained why it felt like you described exactly why im attracted to this person.
1. I'm not young, I just have higher basal metabolic rate than younger generations who overindulged themselves. 2. I'm not old, most people just keep guessing my chronological age younger than my actual age by at least 10 years 3. I'm not talented, I just believe any skill can be improved with intentional hardwork. 4. I'm not a lone wolf, I just prefer to work on myself while I don't like conformity. 5. I'm free spirited insofar that I practice discipline equals freedom. 6. I'm sociable insofar that I'm approachable and confrontational. 7. I'm strong enough that I speak what's necessary, not what others' wanted to hear. 8. I'll remind others on how to take better care of themselves, I don't live their lives. 9. I'm the life of the party insofar that I'm not afraid to make a strong impression.
I was like "mmm no, I don't feel attracted to any of these"... until lone wolves appeared 😳😳 I even blushed while watching this, it absolutely resumes almost all my likes. BUT I thinks there's a fine line between feeling attracted to that kind of people and the ones that are less interested in us (the first video). Before therapy I kind of confused both having the feel of "challenge" of getting them to open up to me, but on that time it was a challenge of getting them "love me". Now, after therapy, I can see the difference ❤
Which is true as I myself have always been a hermit and trying to not be in the way or a burden. I am not a leader but enjoy company, quiet, emotional support and I want someone who can drag me out yet will be fine as I want to be share life and costs so I want to get this dinner or grocery trip since I offered. It’s hard expressing what I want with someone who won’t take initiative in life or has a desire and drive to learn and care which is how a relationship of 12 years ended because she wouldn’t better herself be it learn to drive or get above a job she was comfortable with but hates.
@@Remi-Toruzenyou have no right to be emotionally dependent on a woman and socially dysfunctional while telling her how she should be evolving. First off, if she was comfortable at the job, then mind your fckin business. Maybe she had something she was hoping to get out of stayin that made it worth it to her. She has the right to prioritize her comfort. It’s a job. Not a passion. Driving? That’s not even a skill everyone has and totally depends on if you had to drive her everywhere and if there were transportation options around your city. If there were, then you were just pressuring her to have the skill because YOU saw it as a necessity. People don’t have to to accept that and you don’t come out sounding good in this equation. You want to be a hermit and have someone be all supporting for you and keep you company, but then you can’t match it. Support isn’t dictating and ultimatums. And it’s always some dude who isn’t that impressive being overbearing to compensate for what he lacks through his poor female partner. You seem like the issue in that relationship. If all you have to offer is telling someone what to do while they’re expected to be quiet, emotionally supportive, company for you then you’re not worth being with. You should work on your social skills and leveling yourself up so you can focus on you more than what someone else does, and stop treating women like therapists. That’s not our job. You’re supposed to have a whole support system and it doesn’t start with us. You learn coping skills, have a therapist if needed, spirituality, family, friends, figure it out
I'm attracted to older guys who's talented and also strong and quiet. I could feel the warmth of their presence and just talking with them like deep conversation or smth. I also like the maturity, I feel secure around those kind of people. +Nurturers.
Me whose attracted to just about all of these.....WHAT AM I THEN??? I'm a jumbled pool of conflict that likes what I like for reasons I don't understand that are beyond my control
I love aspiring confident people some categories include rash dumb but kind hearted angry short temper but keeps no grudges loud and helpful .cant just stand people who stand like a statue when something happens.❤
"Like attracts like" - just remember, just because they are like you doesn't mean they are going to be "the one." Most long-lasting relationships and marriages are often people who tend to be on the other side of the spectrums, yet share the SAME BELIEFS AND VALUES.
Some people who are attracted by younger people are immature . They are also admiration seekers because when you're younger, you haven't seen so much yet and are more prone to admiration.
My two biggest cartoon crushes are Star Butterfly and Elastigirl, so I'm attracted to both people younger and older than me, haha, even though they are animated characters, figured I could put this out there for fun
I do seem to be attracted to 2 general types: people older than me + 1) lone wolves + strong silent type + free spirit or + 2) free spirit + social butterfly
I'm attracted to bad boys, lone wolf, people who are a little bit older than me and the strong silent type 😅. I'm an introvert + I don't talk a lot but I love getting to know new people sometimes ☺️
After watching this video, who do you think you attracted to? Comment below!
Just confused..mainly attracted to narcissists..
I think I might be a mix but I am mostly in to people older than me because I think am wiser than most of my peers my age
No one 😅
Back in October I asked my gym crush out and she said…Sorry I have a boyfriend and I replied that’s ok I totally understand but added I just felt a connection (probably shouldn’t of added that) Anyway seen her 4-5 times in gym since and she ignores me or pretends not to see me and one time turned her head when we passed almost to the point of being rude! I mean flaming hell I know she has a boyfriend but is there’s a chance that much of a problem to nod your head and be civil? I make sure I’m On the opposite end of the gym now and don’t make eye contact But I must admit I do feel hurt as it’s rare I find a girl that attractive ie maybe once every 3-4 years! I’m told I’m a good looking guy who looks a lot younger I would just like to know if she at least secretly likes me back? She was in the gym today and I was amazed that she used a couple of machines near me although we didn’t make eye contact! It’s been almost 3 months now and I still feel there’s a connection there but in auras at least! I’m not desperate and I’m capable of getting other girls but I can’t seem to forget this one for some reason! What do think?
Im attracted to people introverts with some sorts of problem, the feeling of helping somebody just make me feel better, an easy thing thats starts me with mixed feelings is when i realise somebody has a “mask” and is hiding something.
If you’re attracted to abusive or manipulative people, something is seriously wrong.
Nuh uh :3
first thing i see when i open the comments, this caught me so off guard😭
Yes, it usually reflects a deeper wound/ trauma that is unresolved.
True tho-
@@Jelouse fym nuh uh-
People you are attracted to:
0:35 younger
1:14 older
1:40 talented and creative
2:19 lone wolves
3:01 free spirit
3:31 social butterflies
4:10 strong and silent types
4:46 nurturers
5:14 life of the party
This was even more comprehensive than the first one. Love your contents ❤
Thank you so much :)
What if I'm attracted to all these personality means 😢?
@@The_mythical_shadysnake7668You're down bad, or just based
What if you’re attracted to more than one of these😭😭😭
I’m attracted to confidence above everything. Not sure what that would say about me 😅 but it’s so attractive. They don’t rely on putting others down or tearing people apart. They don’t rely on outside validation or constant compliments. I want more of that
Omg yes
What is your zodiac sign?
@@Drinkwater80095
Gemini
I was just going to comment the same thing!
I don't rely on any of those things either, but I still don't have confidence. XD
I'm attracted to almost everything you mentioned, let's just say they all have something that attracts me.
I really liked the drawings on Jungkook, it made me laugh a little😂
Are there any ARMY here💜
They summoned whole BTS fandome by one thumbnail~ 💜💜 (Btw, Jungkook's clip art was cute)
Jungkook is everywhere😭😭😭
Jungkook's popularity knows no bounds! 😄 We love him
Who is junkook? 🙃
@@ayushmaina8372 Its jungkook, he's a member of bts
@@Psych2go Indeed!
@@ayushmaina8372 no problem
People you are attracted to :
Younger than you : 0:34
Older than you : 1:11
Talented and creative people : 1:39
Lone wolves : 2:18
Free spirit : 3:00
Social butterflies: 3:28
Strong and Silent : 4:10
Nurturers : 4:44
Life of the party: 5:13
Hope it helps :)
I didn't consider the youthful excitement as a reason for liking to surround myself with those younger than me, I just thought it was about the childhood I didn't get growing up
It could be linked!! One thing is not final, each thing is linked to something that happened in your life
I was born in the transition of the technology age, so I was affected by that mindset. Most people around my age or older generally don't understand technology, so I reach for the younger ones 'cause they actually understand
Damn. That could be one, too...
Ok whoever drew this art is definitely ARMY😂💜
You can deff apply this to friendships too !!! 👏🏼
Which traits do you noticed most?
YES it was what I was thinking!!
For me it's the trait of the person who is open minded!! If I become Friend with this person, I feel more free to express what I want and try New things@@Psych2go
Timestamps
1). Younger than you 0:33
2). Older than you 1:11
3). Talented and creative 1:38
4). Lone wolves 2:18
5). Free spirit 3:00
6). Social butterflies 3:29
7). Strong and silent 4:09
8). Nurturing 4:45
9). Life of the party 5:12
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I love how 정 국 is in here!!!💜
after watching this video, i now see that i prefer quiet people over more social people. i can see that im friends with a lot of people who fit the nurturer/strong and silent types, i fit in very well with the nurturer type, nice video! :)
I am attracted to talented, creative free spirits that are often the silent types, it’s already some essay about what that says about me. I love that series and I really got excited about JK performing euphoria in your video🙈
There are SO many easter eggs for army! It's like little drop of joy for me every time 😄💜
Yes,your totally right 🥹💜
Thanks for taking care of my emotional health since young I love your vids!
You're welcome! Glad to hear you enjoy the videos. Anything specific you'd like to see more of?
Could you guys please make a video on those of us who have never been chosen to be in a relationship
You can check out our previous video “signs you want to be single but your heart doesn’t “
0:44 it could also signify prison time.
Awful comment.
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I like older people, lone wolves and strong and silent types. Which in my opinion is kinda hard to find. You described me fairly well lol.
That's also me.... I'm a ISFJ-T, and at times, I seem quiet, alone and invested time with enjoying life to the fullest. I have no problem living by myself, because that's everyday of my life whenever I go to my classes. I can't make friends... but that's ok. Because deep down, I have family and I have God. Both are the most important people in my life, and I wouldn't give up anything for them to be a part of my life.
Then I matched all ur criteria. Lol! I like younger n intelligent people.
Same this is my type also
The "lone wolf" bit pretty much reflects my attraction to a tee. I really like shy girls, and I guess that "solving them" is part of the reason for that. It may also stem from my inferiority complex and the fact that I don't think I'm good enough for someone with a lot of friends, but whatever.
Ahhh, good insight. People do tend to go for those they see as "in their league," meaning that your attraction reflects your self-perception/self-esteem.
but guys go for above their league (ego-driven) and girls for under the league (sense of safety) @@chloechalamet3886
Team that likes older people 😢😅😂👇:
MILFing Man!
THE BTS PART🖤🩵
YASS!
😂
Sleeyyy
😊😊😊😊😊
I was just watching your vids bcoz they teach alot and then i suddenly screames seeing jungkook! 😂❤ Jungkook is almost Around the whole world
i get so excited when u incorporate bts in your videos it’s like my two worlds colliding lmaoo 😭
What the…? Almost all these traits are ones I find attractive in others! 🤯
The age-based ones are a little trickier to define, though, since I tend to project as much younger at face value than my actual age (there’s no greater compliment or confidence boost than the other person accusing you of lying for claiming to be five or more years older than they think you are 😂).
It’s not tricky.you’re just making a thing out of something common
The creative and talented, along with the lone wolf was spot on
Jungkookie is everywhere❤🩹🥺 and my beloved SuperTuna💞. The one who drew this is definitely ARMY💜. The previous part too had the thumbnail of Koo💜. I really laugh and smile every time their drawings appear 🤍. And your videos are really great👍, following you was a nice decision, and the way you talk in a very understandable way about every topic😊💫.
I love this series ❤
Glad you love it :) which one did you relate to?
@@Psych2go I think I'm quite related to the attraction toward older, strong, silent, and nurturing partners. I grew up in a hard circumstance and barely survived. I've learned that I need someone who can lead and teach me more about how to live a much more complete life, to learn etiquette and social norms since I've never had any proper relationship with people but rather animals. I also have difficulties coping with new environments and circumstances, so I'm truly hoping for a stable, safe, and mature partner. My ex-girlfriend also had these traits. She was very hardworking, very silent, sweet, and good at listening to others. We had been besties and then I had fallen for her before we knew it. She adores my creativity and told me that my talents, knowledge, and versatility charmed her.
I am attracted to talented and creative people, lone wolves and free spirits. All the reasons why I might be attracted to them are true. However, even though I am attracted to younger people, according to what you said I should definitely give a chance to older people x') but that's scary!!
I'm attracted to people who show genuine interest in me as a person. I mean, sure, some of these traits I do find attractive, but at the end of the day, just show me that you actually care. That's all I really want in a partner 😅
Aww, 1:53 ¡¡Supertuna Jin!!!
¡Sí, amo a las personas creativas!
Que lindo detalle que consideren a los bangtannies, mas cuando los extrañamos tanto. :')
Reee 💜😭
🍃 Great video as always! If I can give a suggestion for futures content: “what people you attract says about you”.
I think just as much as we are attracted to certain types of people, like these 2 parts disclosed well, we attract different types of people as well. And if you can develop on the aspect that, sometimes, the people we attract doesn’t match with the people we are attracted to. And possible reasons for that. 😊
I'm always attracted to talented and creative people, I was thinking that a while ago, and after watching this video, it was confirmed to me that this is not only my observation. Every word that has been said describes me.
I entered this channel for mental health and to know myself better, found out that the other factor that made me start looking and take care of my mental health is here as well, BTS 😂 I💜U psy2go
I'm attracted to people with a great sense of humor. As long as they can make me laugh, consider me blind because I couldn't care less what you look like as long as I'm gigglin 😂😂
Laughter is definitely a game-changer. What's the last thing that made you laugh uncontrollably?
@@Psych2go I didn't know how to answer this question without showing you what made me laugh uncontrollably so I'm uploading a short video right now to my channel so that you can laugh with me 😂🤍
@@Psych2go I just posted it, it's a video of one of my dogs so if you watch it, I hope he makes you laugh just as hard as I did 😂😂
THE EDITOR IS SURELY AN ARMY😭😭😭😭
I find the explanation for attraction to nurturers very relatable. I always crave cuddling up with someone who cares and/or just snuggling.
I loved the bts references. I've been a subscriber for a quite but never came across with this video until now, it was nice to see. Definitely identified with people attracted to talented and skillful people 🤭💜
This felt more like astrology logic than psychology
The one a being into someone was legit spot on! I was legit surprised- that was fun ^^
I'm attracted to smart and and stubborn types, with a preference to introversion.
And we've been married for 13yrs.
Explanation on why someone might want an older partner is spot on
I am still impressed that you manage to post a video every single day.
Definitely drawn too someone whos like a mix of Talented, Creative, Lone Wolf, free spirited, stong and silence who would be very nurturing in the relationship once they open up.
What do the people I’m attracted to say about me? They usually say they only see me as a friend for starters.
▪︎ Toxic: nope
▪︎ Detached/Unattainable: nope
▪︎ Xerox of my Father: nope
(The same applies for Xerox of my Mother.)
▪︎ My Junior: commonly
▪︎ My Senior: sometimes
▪︎ Bad Boy: sometimes
▪︎ Talented: commonly
▪︎ Life of the Party: sometimes
▪︎ Social Butterfly: sometimes
▪︎ Strong and Silent: sometimes
▪︎ Lone Wolf: occasionally
▪︎ Free Spirit: sometimes
▪︎ Nurturing: if it comes with more immediate appeal (e.g. "Talented" or "Life of the Party")
It looks like I need a rare mix of stability, stimulation, and validation.
This actually helped me understand who I am as a person more than who I am attracted to.
Always loved older people; they never put me down or make me feel bad like kids in my school did. Most of my friends are in their 40s and 50s and I am only 25.
Qualifications for dating me
-personality: not a jerk, not intentionally ignorant, willing to learn
-height: can reach the top shelf (I’m short)
-gender: optional
after this video guess we know who's an Army here haha and JK biased too at that. love it
Ahhh... Sun Biscuit is a very nice animator :)
Edit: I imagine my crush being a Free Spirit btw
Wow okay, this is amazing because yesterday i posted a tiktok about how I'm always attracted to the same type of ppl
That's quite a coincidence! It's interesting how our attractions can be a recurring theme. What kind of responses did you get from your TikTok?
@@Psych2go someone said they felt the same, and it's kind of a weird thing to say the least, as it's out of the ordinary i think, I'm attracted to ppl i used to hate or despise (even w celebs or fictional characters lmao)
I like nobody just mythology, then what of me?
Embracing a passion for mythology is unique and fascinating! What aspects of mythology do you find most captivating?
I don't attract people that much, but I did attract a small amount of people who are very cool, and that's enough for me really
Quality over quantity! It's great that you've connected with some cool individuals. What makes them stand out to you?
I have a feeling, your magnet only activates when you get more personal time with them no? Because that's what I get, I'm comfortable and open when it's more one on one time. Seems that most people I get that oppertunity with me are charmed.
@@Psych2go they give me advices that I really need and they'll listen to what I have to say.
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Me being attracted to social butterflies but also someone who's the strong silent type lol. Some of these types can cross over. I like how social butterflies can easily form bond but strong silent types are dependable. I'm attracted to both aspects.
fr fr i can't choose between those 2- i tht i was the only one omg thnxx
I think there is a significant difference between what we want and what we are drawn to. For example, I want someone who is social, but I usually end up with lone wolves. What the description of being drawn to a lone wolf is relates to me much more than the social one. Sometimes you can't really choose who attracts you.
Absolutely, attraction can be complex and often defies our conscious preferences. It's interesting how the heart has its own compass. What do you think it is about lone wolves that draws you in despite the initial preference for social individuals?
Good point :)
i m attracted to younger people because i m the mature , the protective , the healing one and my love language is taking care of the other one , even tho i m the weaker one physically . i have a mother like aura , that would be the reason , not that i am playful or youthful , i m actually calm and protective.
Attracted to skillful people , lonely wolves ❤❤❤ bet those quiet guys have a lot charming personalities under their sleves
Me who is atracted to people with my age, talented and creative, lone wolves, free spirits, and nurturers 😂 in other words: Impossibleeeeeee 😂
i cant blame tony soprano now for his opinion on gary cooper 😭 that strong, silent type being those whose actions speak more than words is literally so attractive. even the older ones who can guide you through anything MAN they have my heart
What if i always find myself attracted to academic types or really smart people? Could that be touched on in a future video?
You're amazed by smartness. And you want to feel less smarter than a person you like. That will make you feel protected, comfortable, feel that you have someone you can rely on.
It's also a sign of your own high intelligence and that you're kinda fed up with stupidity around you.
If you were in the environment of many very smart people for a long time, you would feel less attracted by the smartness itself and start to notice other characteristics. But it doesn't mean you would suddenly like stupidity 😅 you will just feel less stressed around ... less intelligent people.
@olyabutorina6869 I know I'm somewhat smart, but I'm not really fed up with people who aren't as smart (unless they're mean for no reason) but I do find myself enamored with people as smart as or smarter than me because it's really fun to have someone else around with a perspective I can trust. It's also not specifically intelligence that I'm attracted to. It seems it's, for lack of a better term, a prerequisite for me to be attracted than anything else.
This could be because, your parents always compared you to some other better kids, n u started worship them to be like them to satisfy ur parents.
@dorinnew_life7245 Shoot, I'm still a kid. I'm only turning 17 soon, and my parents never did compare me to others, so idk about that.
Strong and silent is the one for me
yeah lone wolves vibes tho longing for euphoria, nostalgia & sheer relatableness
But i love it when it’s Amanda’s voice 😔
I never thought I'd see a part two of this
This was awesome I guess im drawn to nurturers cause I am drawn to reliable people and empathetic people also strong and silent types
What they say about me I am still thinking about it usually they want me to take the leadership role cause im reliable but I am gonna ask one of my friends to give you a little more detail on what they think
That’s good to know :) thanks for sharing! Did you share this video with your friends ?
@@Psych2goHi I might be late but I will right now I've been hesitant because I'm very closed off with things I like but watching your videos gives me new perspectives each time just watched the Valentine's one today and it was super informative and hopeful I'm currently studying psychology and I get very excited when their are topics that are being thought at the same time sending love to the psych team wishing you all well ❤
*Fictional Characters:*
Want what I can’t have which brings a certain level of comfort because that way I can’t be rejected and don’t ever need to deal with confronting your feelings. Scared of intimacy, scared of dependency. Oh and probably a romantic who is disappointed by the state of dating and relationships
My couple combination is my boyfriend a lonewolf that's strong and silent and I'm his anxiety indusing free spirit, talented and creative nurterer girlfriend, Our relationship is like a theme park ride 😂
older, talented and creative, social butterflies, and nurturers were mine ! honestly if someone had all those qualities we need to get married immediately jejdj
Great one! older and 'strong and silent' types! Kind of a lonewolf myself.
I didnt really know what type of people I was attracted to. But as soon as you started talking about being attracted to lone wolves. I realisede that the person im attracted to right know is a lone wolf and the more you explained why it felt like you described exactly why im attracted to this person.
1. I'm not young, I just have higher basal metabolic rate than younger generations who overindulged themselves.
2. I'm not old, most people just keep guessing my chronological age younger than my actual age by at least 10 years
3. I'm not talented, I just believe any skill can be improved with intentional hardwork.
4. I'm not a lone wolf, I just prefer to work on myself while I don't like conformity.
5. I'm free spirited insofar that I practice discipline equals freedom.
6. I'm sociable insofar that I'm approachable and confrontational.
7. I'm strong enough that I speak what's necessary, not what others' wanted to hear.
8. I'll remind others on how to take better care of themselves, I don't live their lives.
9. I'm the life of the party insofar that I'm not afraid to make a strong impression.
I was like "mmm no, I don't feel attracted to any of these"... until lone wolves appeared 😳😳 I even blushed while watching this, it absolutely resumes almost all my likes. BUT I thinks there's a fine line between feeling attracted to that kind of people and the ones that are less interested in us (the first video). Before therapy I kind of confused both having the feel of "challenge" of getting them to open up to me, but on that time it was a challenge of getting them "love me". Now, after therapy, I can see the difference ❤
The whole video basically says "Who you are attracted to is who has what you desire but don't have "
Which is true as I myself have always been a hermit and trying to not be in the way or a burden. I am not a leader but enjoy company, quiet, emotional support and I want someone who can drag me out yet will be fine as I want to be share life and costs so I want to get this dinner or grocery trip since I offered.
It’s hard expressing what I want with someone who won’t take initiative in life or has a desire and drive to learn and care which is how a relationship of 12 years ended because she wouldn’t better herself be it learn to drive or get above a job she was comfortable with but hates.
@@Remi-Toruzenyou have no right to be emotionally dependent on a woman and socially dysfunctional while telling her how she should be evolving. First off, if she was comfortable at the job, then mind your fckin business. Maybe she had something she was hoping to get out of stayin that made it worth it to her. She has the right to prioritize her comfort. It’s a job. Not a passion. Driving? That’s not even a skill everyone has and totally depends on if you had to drive her everywhere and if there were transportation options around your city. If there were, then you were just pressuring her to have the skill because YOU saw it as a necessity. People don’t have to to accept that and you don’t come out sounding good in this equation. You want to be a hermit and have someone be all supporting for you and keep you company, but then you can’t match it. Support isn’t dictating and ultimatums. And it’s always some dude who isn’t that impressive being overbearing to compensate for what he lacks through his poor female partner. You seem like the issue in that relationship. If all you have to offer is telling someone what to do while they’re expected to be quiet, emotionally supportive, company for you then you’re not worth being with. You should work on your social skills and leveling yourself up so you can focus on you more than what someone else does, and stop treating women like therapists. That’s not our job. You’re supposed to have a whole support system and it doesn’t start with us. You learn coping skills, have a therapist if needed, spirituality, family, friends, figure it out
Jungkook is so famous like really he is everywhere 😮
I'm attracted to older guys who's talented and also strong and quiet. I could feel the warmth of their presence and just talking with them like deep conversation or smth. I also like the maturity, I feel secure around those kind of people. +Nurturers.
Sometimes nice people turned awful. And others and I walked away.
And then there's me. Who doesn't know what to want from life, never looks for partner and is just confused when it comes to relationships.
Me whose attracted to just about all of these.....WHAT AM I THEN??? I'm a jumbled pool of conflict that likes what I like for reasons I don't understand that are beyond my control
People I am attracted to:
My crush.
I love the strong and silent kind of people 🙆♀️
Bro I'm attracted to who ever is nice to me as long as their from the opposite gender
OMG JK is everywhere 😭💜💜🇦🇺🇦🇺 BTS for life!
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I love aspiring confident people some categories include rash dumb but kind hearted angry short temper but keeps no grudges loud and helpful .cant just stand people who stand like a statue when something happens.❤
"Like attracts like" - just remember, just because they are like you doesn't mean they are going to be "the one." Most long-lasting relationships and marriages are often people who tend to be on the other side of the spectrums, yet share the SAME BELIEFS AND VALUES.
1:14 spot on!! this was too relatable
Glad you could relate! What about it hit home for you? 😄
Some people who are attracted by younger people are immature . They are also admiration seekers because when you're younger, you haven't seen so much yet and are more prone to admiration.
I'm into people with talent and creativity, and it's quite true what it said about me or reflects about me. 😄
i love the talented and creative types, so I'm quite invested into artists and idols T_T
My two biggest cartoon crushes are Star Butterfly and Elastigirl, so I'm attracted to both people younger and older than me, haha, even though they are animated characters, figured I could put this out there for fun
Who is the ARMY at Psych2Go? 💜 Borahae
I'm a social butterfly who is attracted to strong and silent types that are talented and creative... MIN YOONGI! I'M COMING!!!
So for me it's talented &creative,😌lone wolfs...strong and silent
I do seem to be attracted to 2 general types: people older than me + 1) lone wolves + strong silent type + free spirit or + 2) free spirit + social butterfly
Our boys r everywhere n I love it😭😭😭
This voice i like. I miss the old voice but this one is almost as soothing❤
Apparently I’m attracted to talented, creative, social butterflys, who are nurturing lol
That’s good to know! Did you learn more about yourself after watching this video ? :)
I'm attracted to bad boys, lone wolf, people who are a little bit older than me and the strong silent type 😅. I'm an introvert + I don't talk a lot but I love getting to know new people sometimes ☺️