THANK GOD I FOUND YOU GUYS !!! Finally a couple I can relate to in so many ways. Like Dre I was born and raised in church, but relationships seem so hard and complicated to me because I want to wait for marriage and that’s something not a lot of people understand now in days so it can be hard, but I’m waiting and just making my relationship with God stronger in the meantime. PLEASE KEEP POSTING VIDS ❤️Gbu ‼️
Idk of you need this but I felt moved to comment so take this however you want it. Be strong continue waiting don’t let men who aren’t on that path distract you because you will be caught in a moment of weakness where you can’t resist anymore and you’ll open the door to sin. The peace of mind of avoiding pregnancy and diseases and knowing that God will provide will outweigh a few minutes of pleasure every single time. But if you do fall know you aren’t damaged know you are forgiven and saved. Know God will still use you but repent and get back on track with the Lord.
Okay this video is two years old but forever will be RELEVANT. I just starred at the thumbnail for so long and I started tearing up. I’m praying and hoping I can pray with my future partner that God has prepared or is preparing me for. I am 19 still working with God just learning to grow spiritually and faithful. But boy oh boy I can not wait for a lovely Godly relationship
" God...stripped me of everything I knew, everything I was comfortable with and basically put me in an uncomfortable place where I could really learn about myself and my purpose for being here" - Breanna Aponte....This whole video was such a huge blessing for me as I'm in that single season where I took a leap of faith into business and God is growing me and teaching me "me" in this process...when you hear that someone else had a similar path it's an encouragement to your spirit. Thank you both so much for this and I pray God continues to bless and keep you both. Much love from the Bahamas!!
You guys are very inspiring! And it goes beyond the relationship, physically, being entrepreneurs. I’ve watch 3 or 4 of the videos and I love how honest, authentic, and warm, true your relationship is. Sending you guys blessings and success!! 😊
"Peace is not that you don't have issues but it's that in the midst of your issues and problems that you have a calmness that everything will be ok" - Dre Smith I appreciated this cause worrying is not healthy.Read Matthew 6:27 and Luke 12:25-31
Bre, I can relate to you concerning your relationship with God. For me, it was only when something happened to me that I really placed my faith in God and I'm still struggling. Your story is inspiring. Keep the faith you two. By the way I just subscribed to your channel because I just found you.
Seriously God bless y’all, thank u so much 🙌🏽 This gave me so much needed inspiration. Always been strong in my faith but I didn’t know how many young couples loved God and stuck to his word. Ugh makes me so happy and hopeful for my future husband whoever he may be 💖
I really loved this, it was so helpful to me and I shared it with my daughter!! I love to see people in HAPPY, HEALTHY MARRIAGES!!!! Keep UP the GOD work, my prayers and blessings for marital bliss are with you!!!!!
I needed that last part!! God has been pulling on me to attend bible study. So I’m definitely going to attend! Y’all are truly a blessing to this space!! Keep doing what y’all doing! 🙌🏾🙏🏾
That just blessed me I've been in the church all my life my grandparents are my pastors and it's always someone saying you need a good Christian man but I feel like if the spirit of god is saying this is the right person he will fix that person whether he is Christian or not then do it so that blessed me bless you guys !!
Hey Jessica!!! Thanks so much for watching and sharing some of your story with us. We definitely feel that God will allow you to inspire the person who you are meant to be with to become equally yoked with you. Dre and I are the perfect example. As long as he is willing to communicate and put in the work, and wants to learn more about God and build a relationship, God will work within him. Now, if he is unwilling or unwanting to do it, then he probably isn't the one for you. People change everyday. We love your comment and can tell you have a big heart. We wish you the best and hope you continue to share this journey with us! -Dre & Bre
Your video came up in my feed and I hesitated to watch bc I was feeling a bit discouraged. However I decided to listen to your testimony and I truly appreciate your transparency and your ability to balance being jovial and serious when sharing your testimony. It made it so easy to watch your video. Thank you for sharing and I’m encouraged to continue to seek God and wait on him. This season is really tough, but I trust Him. Continued blessings!
Wow this video gave me chills. Y’all story reminds me so much of me and my boyfriends. Lately I’ve been feeling like he’s gotten complacent in his faith though, because he’s similar to Dre in that he grew up with his faith and now he seems to not be walking so much in his faith as I am and it is worrying me a bit or just contributing to some relationship stresses. Can you guys offer some advice or do a video on something along the lines of how you would approach that situation when your partner is falling off their path
Having a personal relationship with God is what’s important. @Bre- Your Journey is your Journey. God is developing you at his Pace. You will get there just continue to seek him for yourself!!! @Dre~ You can go to Church all your life but God wants you to know him on a different level, he wants you to know him for yourself . That’s why he sent those situations - to build your Faith, and know God on another level !!! *There was some Good points in this video though, keep up the Good work
Omg I just came across you guys and this so amazing ... I have been longing to see a spiritual couple oh gosh .... Thank you guys ... I love u already and this my first video of watching u guys
My favorite part of this video begins at 11:50! 🙌🏾💎👏🏾💎🙌🏾💓 I JUST actually “got” this valuable life lesson at 44 years old!... All I could do is say, “Mmmmm Mmmm-Girlfriend, you better say!!!” 😂... I rewound it like 3X!
I’m young 16 actually and I’m looking for someone who can court me and can be in a strong relationship with me through god so I needed to hear this video. Thank you.
Jay Robertson You’re actually young in my opinion. Why don’t you use this time to get to know yourself more. Try by writing down about 100 things you really want God to do for you. If it’s about courting, write down exactly the type of man you want. Be specific and detailed. Read your list daily and pray and believe it’s done. Whilst on it, try to have as much fun and keep God at the center of your life. All the best
"GOD bless you Peter said to them, Repent, and let every one of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ, for the remission of your sins; and you will receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. (Acts 2:38) There is no salvation in any other; for there is no other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved. But God shows his love for us, that when we were still sinners, Christ died for us. (Romans, Chapter 5: 8) For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans, Chapter 6:23""
Love it! Question: what are y’all thoughts on living together before marriage while trying keep your celibacy commitment ? Do you think it’s opening the door to temptation or rather a learning experience helping you deal with it face on together as a couple ?
Also how much is too much when it comes to the girlfriend doing things for her man, like without performing “wifey duties” so the guy won’t get too comfortable? (If that makes sense lol)
@@whereis333 That's easy....when your Married. What's that scripture say about having hot coals on your lap...(honestly I don't remember). Why tempt yourself...
I agree with you. Don't do it if you are not married. Yes, like you said @Brittany Taylor, it does open more door to temptation. So noooo. stay pure and away from each other like that, u know, before the big day.
Funny how this video popped up out of the blue... Right on time 🙌🏾 I'm talking to this amazing guy now, we've been friends for like a year and a half and he's always been there for me, very kind hearted and treats me right... He grew up in the church as well but recently took a philosophy class and a lot of things he's learned has him skeptical about Jesus being our savior. I never grew up in the church but I was brought up as a Christian, but never really started to develop a relationship with God until I was in high school because I was going through some things. To make a long story short, we both really like each other and he's fine with going to bible study and church with me and encourages me to read my Bible, but he just doesn't see himself being a Christian. I don't know if I should continue trying and let him find his own way, while I lead by example or just stay friends with him. I don't want to push being a Christian on him, but I know that's something I want in my future husband and it'll always be in the back of my mind... 😭 Even if we don't date, I still hope he'd find his way towards that, I just don't want to push him you know? Y'all are very inspiring though 💕 Gives me hope and I just subscribed! Godspeed 💕
Hey Charity! First, thanks so much for subscribing and watching :) Means the world to us! YIKES! You are in a tough pickle lol you definitely need to have an honest conversation with him before making a decision. At the end of the day, you cant raise children without being "one" meaning you have the same beliefs and systems in place to properly raise your children and lead your household as a family. If you know that your husband needs to be a man of God, then you know it can't be him. If he knows how important that is to you, he needs to take a deep look at himself and his relationship with God. If a class made him question God, his relationship wasn't strong with him in the first place. I would challenge him to choose God and if he doesn't, he should only be a friend because he wouldn't be able to be what you need him to be. - Hope this helps!
Breanna Aponte & Dre Smith - Worth Thee Wait 💕 Thank you so much! Yeah it's like everytime that conversation comes up, we agree to disagree. He claims that if we ever did get married and if I wanted to teach the children about my beliefs then he wouldn't mind at all. He doesn't think us having different views would hurt our relationship or the way we raise our children if that were to happen. Then he already has a baby, that was another reason I didn't want to get involved with him because I wanted to avoid the baby mama drama. But he handles it well and reassures me about everything and he's a great father. But yeah, I told him I want a man that can pray with me/for me and he doesn't think it's really necessary but wouldn't mind doing it. I always end up choosing the wrong guys 😭 but I think I'm just going to work on him the best I can and just pray for him while protecting myself. If that doesn't work, we'll just have to be friends because I can't sacrifice my faith and beliefs for him. At the end of the day, I want a Godly man and I want to do right and I know he means well... But being spiritually connected is very important to me, and without that I feel like we'd fail.
Charity Dyer I just came from the same situation, girl it’s not worth it, Gods giving you red flags for a reason. Listen to him, trust God, he’s know what you want and what you need. When you wait on God and stay in his will, everything else will come with it and you’ll be so blessed. I’m in the waiting process too, if God is not first in his life, there should be no relationship as you know more than friends and potential husband. Focus on you and God and in Gods timing he will let you know. You cannot change him, only God, so continue to pray for him but distance your heart. The more you put your hope in him changing the more your giving your self away to him emotionally and spiritually without realizing it and you’ll be putting your hope in the wrong things and people. Put your hope in God and run this race of faith. I just don’t want you to be hurt like I did, you never know , in time he may come around , but you can’t sit around placing your hope in him changing because it will affect your relationship with God. Pray about it all , and your future husband!! ❤️❤️❤️
Thelight 15 thank you so much! Me and him talked about it more and went back and forth all day on it and he told me that he started to let a few walls down with some things that I was saying. He decided to ask his mama about it because she's really into her faith and is close to God and she basically said the same things that I was saying, agreeing with me. So he called me and told me everything and told me that he's going to give it a try this time and be more serious about it... Because he didn't really give it a chance at first. I understand what you're saying completely! It hurt me so bad at first because I attached myself trying to put my faith and hope in him coming around. But he said he'd give it a chance and we're supposed to go to a bible study session next Friday so I'm going to see how that goes. I just need to distance my heart like you said.. But I'm trying to make sure he's backing up what he said to me and that he's being a man of his word. But I told him that I'm not about to have my hopes up just because we're both trying to work towards a better relationship with God. I need to pray more about it too! And I'm sorry about your situation! I'm still in a rocky situation but him trying to work towards that is giving me some hope. I just want to stay friends with him at the moment cause the hurt I felt a few days ago isn't something I want to feel again. So my guards are up 😪 Can we message on here or something? You should message me lol, I like being able to discuss things like this with others. So hit me up if you'd like, I wanna hear more about your faith and everything! 💕
Wow. Bless you hun. Its good you even care to think things through. That makes me see you quite wise in my opinion as a fellow christian who's also waiting to marry the next man I "date". I want to suggest my advice. Ofcourse praying about it is a first. I feel its best you dont date and awaken love lust ruin things e.t.c I feel prayer overdose is key 😂 patiently waiting for God's answer on if he the one or for his heart to find God again while you indeed as you said be example. The enemy uses the lack of us having the gifts of the spirit as his weapon. Speaking from my mistakes. I hope this could help. I encourage and admire your desire to do it right and ask Abba to grace you to hear and discern His thoughts and plans on this. Much love Charity bless you
Wow something led me here and I see why. There’s a guy in my life like she was. He seem like he’s trying to get there but I’m stuck in alot of confusion concerning him because of prophecies and hearing things from others.. and I’m letting him go not because I want to but because I feel like he put me through a lot of hell. But I love him so much and it hurts I gave up a few times
You look beautiful with your hair any style. With that being said, my personal opinion is that, you look even more beautiful with your hair out of your face. Meaning, if any hairstyle covers your eyebrows, we can’t see your beautiful face. I commend and applaud you and your husband on the work of God you guys are doing on RUclips, you don’t find this out here much, especially from such a young couple. Keep working in the vineyard of the Lord.
Y'all are setting a good example I'm a older man 62 im looking for celebant relationship myself I look young for my age I love beautiful black women bar none I been relevant 4 years now and proud of it
Hi Guys. I'm all the way in South Africa. I love your channel. Advice please.... Some unexpected feeling are happening between my friend and I. Problem is he's an Atheist(believes in truth) and I believe and love God. Do you think that can ever work out especially the fact we respect one another and are each other's best friends.
You haven't asked me, but I will offer my opinion anyway on this public platform. As a Christian myself who loves God and lives for Him, there is no way that I could be best friends with and/or date and/or marry a man who denies God's very existence. God is love. The two of you will never know and understand a God-centered love if you both don't know Him, claim Him, and keep Him between you. Pray and seek God's word. He will guide you on your path to finding a God-fearing man, who will be evenly yoked with you and can treat you as only a godly man can. God will grant you the desires of your heart if they are His will.
Y’all look like y’all smell like dove soap and essential oils. ❤️
Lol that's funny
That was adorable *Ariole*
Lol
Facts, LOL.
Lol,Smh,Hilarious comment,Lol
So.... does he have like brothers in Christ? 😂 but I’m happy there are couples like this in the world. God is good.
Girl! Lol
😂😂😂 u just kild me now
You and both. Its great to see such🙏
THANK GOD I FOUND YOU GUYS !!! Finally a couple I can relate to in so many ways. Like Dre I was born and raised in church, but relationships seem so hard and complicated to me because I want to wait for marriage and that’s something not a lot of people understand now in days so it can be hard, but I’m waiting and just making my relationship with God stronger in the meantime. PLEASE KEEP POSTING VIDS ❤️Gbu ‼️
Idk of you need this but I felt moved to comment so take this however you want it. Be strong continue waiting don’t let men who aren’t on that path distract you because you will be caught in a moment of weakness where you can’t resist anymore and you’ll open the door to sin. The peace of mind of avoiding pregnancy and diseases and knowing that God will provide will outweigh a few minutes of pleasure every single time. But if you do fall know you aren’t damaged know you are forgiven and saved. Know God will still use you but repent and get back on track with the Lord.
JOELIS VIDA omg I’m in the same boat !!!
Nunell Nude what’s your Instagram?
bro beard is on point!
Facts bro facts
Came across this video when I NEEDED to hear it the most.
Yay!!! So glad we could be of service :) Make sure to subscribe and follow us on IG!! @breannaaponte @itsdresmith @worththeewait
The Life of A’Gail me too
Okay this video is two years old but forever will be RELEVANT. I just starred at the thumbnail for so long and I started tearing up. I’m praying and hoping I can pray with my future partner that God has prepared or is preparing me for. I am 19 still working with God just learning to grow spiritually and faithful. But boy oh boy I can not wait for a lovely Godly relationship
Your story is beautiful! My husband and I have a similar story! God works in miraculous ways but always for the better!
Dre seems perfect. Maybe I needed to see this to give me hope.
Be patient and honest with yourself and you shall get your Godly desire.
" God...stripped me of everything I knew, everything I was comfortable with and basically put me in an uncomfortable place where I could really learn about myself and my purpose for being here" - Breanna Aponte....This whole video was such a huge blessing for me as I'm in that single season where I took a leap of faith into business and God is growing me and teaching me "me" in this process...when you hear that someone else had a similar path it's an encouragement to your spirit. Thank you both so much for this and I pray God continues to bless and keep you both. Much love from the Bahamas!!
Wow I'm going through this now
25 abstinent & God fearing, your channel motivates me to make my first RUclips channel as well.
Also God bless the internet for opening up different art forms for God's ministers.
You guys are very inspiring! And it goes beyond the relationship, physically, being entrepreneurs. I’ve watch 3 or 4 of the videos and I love how honest, authentic, and warm, true your relationship is. Sending you guys blessings and success!! 😊
Thank you so much for the love and support Amina!!!! Means a lot : )
So many gems in this video!❤️ Having a true relationship with Christ is so important!
Relationship > Religion
"Peace is not that you don't have issues but it's that in the midst of your issues and problems that you have a calmness that everything will be ok" - Dre Smith I appreciated this cause worrying is not healthy.Read Matthew 6:27 and Luke 12:25-31
Bre, I can relate to you concerning your relationship with God. For me, it was only when something happened to me that I really placed my faith in God and I'm still struggling. Your story is inspiring. Keep the faith you two. By the way I just subscribed to your channel because I just found you.
Phyllis Ferguson ❤️❤️❤️
Love your curls and your bangs
Seriously God bless y’all, thank u so much 🙌🏽 This gave me so much needed inspiration. Always been strong in my faith but I didn’t know how many young couples loved God and stuck to his word. Ugh makes me so happy and hopeful for my future husband whoever he may be 💖
Y‘all are beautiful man, loved both of your testimonies! god bless this union 😍❤️🙌🏾
Bre your hair is beautiful! I absolutely love watching y'all. You guys have this soft, sweet, vibe about y'all and I learn a lot. I love it.
I’m so so so happy that God allowed me to find this chanel! Everything you guys said said in this is on target about how I’ve been feeling
Still here 2 yrs later & in a courtship towards marriage 💕💕💕
The way you look at him is soo beautiful, I see admiration in your eyes 😍
You guys are BEAUTIFUL! God bless the both of you!
I really loved this, it was so helpful to me and I shared it with my daughter!! I love to see people in HAPPY, HEALTHY MARRIAGES!!!! Keep UP the GOD work, my prayers and blessings for marital bliss are with you!!!!!
I needed that last part!! God has been pulling on me to attend bible study. So I’m definitely going to attend! Y’all are truly a blessing to this space!! Keep doing what y’all doing! 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Life Of Renee Thank You! 😌
I have no clue what took me so long to find this channel but thank God I did because Wow. Thank You guys.
That just blessed me I've been in the church all my life my grandparents are my pastors and it's always someone saying you need a good Christian man but I feel like if the spirit of god is saying this is the right person he will fix that person whether he is Christian or not then do it so that blessed me bless you guys !!
Hey Jessica!!!
Thanks so much for watching and sharing some of your story with us. We definitely feel that God will allow you to inspire the person who you are meant to be with to become equally yoked with you. Dre and I are the perfect example. As long as he is willing to communicate and put in the work, and wants to learn more about God and build a relationship, God will work within him. Now, if he is unwilling or unwanting to do it, then he probably isn't the one for you. People change everyday. We love your comment and can tell you have a big heart. We wish you the best and hope you continue to share this journey with us!
-Dre & Bre
Thanks for sharing! I sort of have a similar story and God is so great all the time!!
Your video came up in my feed and I hesitated to watch bc I was feeling a bit discouraged. However I decided to listen to your testimony and I truly appreciate your transparency and your ability to balance being jovial and serious when sharing your testimony. It made it so easy to watch your video. Thank you for sharing and I’m encouraged to continue to seek God and wait on him. This season is really tough, but I trust Him. Continued blessings!
New Supporter God is Always Good. Continue to believe in God and watch how much he will bless the both of you growth is important 🤗
You guys are amazing!!! Can't wait to see/hear what God is doing in y'all lives! God bless y'all!!! You guys are beautiful and inspiring!!!
i love yal 😩🙌🏽 but no you guys are a beautiful couple and so inspiring! thank you for your transparency!! and keep the videos coming!!!
Wow this video was beautifully spoken. God bless your union, blessings, peace & love to you both.🌹 patiently waiting for God to send me my soul mate 🕊
it was me !! - super ecstatic to hear about the two of you all’s spiritual journey and cannot wait for the videos to come ❤️❤️
Awwwww :) Yay!!!! Thank you so much for the suggestion! We had fun filming it!!
is your ig name @_teearnaaa ???
yes it is - Dre and Bre - Worth Thee Wait
okay cool! we tagged you and thanked you on the page : )
“If that’s what God desires” 🙌🏾
Wow this video gave me chills. Y’all story reminds me so much of me and my boyfriends. Lately I’ve been feeling like he’s gotten complacent in his faith though, because he’s similar to Dre in that he grew up with his faith and now he seems to not be walking so much in his faith as I am and it is worrying me a bit or just contributing to some relationship stresses. Can you guys offer some advice or do a video on something along the lines of how you would approach that situation when your partner is falling off their path
Having a personal relationship with God is what’s important. @Bre- Your Journey is your Journey. God is developing you at his Pace. You will get there just continue to seek him for yourself!!!
@Dre~ You can go to Church all your life but God wants you to know him on a different level, he wants you to know him for yourself . That’s why he sent those situations - to build your Faith, and know God on another level !!!
*There was some Good points in this video though, keep up the Good work
Omg I just came across you guys and this so amazing ... I have been longing to see a spiritual couple oh gosh .... Thank you guys ... I love u already and this my first video of watching u guys
Will and Dom have a channel like this but without living together before marriage. Celibate couple, who's now married
Bre you are so amazing !!!!! Needed this is so many different ways ! Love you guys and your videos :)
Hey Ash!!!!! We love you too!!!! Glad we could help!
Wow that's awesome my pastor is teaching about faith to its a season of faith
My favorite part of this video begins at 11:50! 🙌🏾💎👏🏾💎🙌🏾💓 I JUST actually “got” this valuable life lesson at 44 years old!... All I could do is say, “Mmmmm Mmmm-Girlfriend, you better say!!!” 😂... I rewound it like 3X!
I’m young 16 actually and I’m looking for someone who can court me and can be in a strong relationship with me through god so I needed to hear this video. Thank you.
Jay Robertson You’re actually young in my opinion. Why don’t you use this time to get to know yourself more. Try by writing down about 100 things you really want God to do for you. If it’s about courting, write down exactly the type of man you want. Be specific and detailed. Read your list daily and pray and believe it’s done. Whilst on it, try to have as much fun and keep God at the center of your life. All the best
"GOD bless you Peter said to them, Repent, and let every one of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ, for the remission of your sins; and you will receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. (Acts 2:38) There is no salvation in any other; for there is no other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved. But God shows his love for us, that when we were still sinners, Christ died for us. (Romans, Chapter 5: 8) For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans, Chapter 6:23""
Amen
Wonderful testimonies.
TheQueenBarb Thank You! 😌
First your hair looks amazing !!!!! And second I love this video!!!!! God Bless you both ❤️
I just relate to you so much Bre😩😅 you are so inspirational
Thank you for this its very inspirational and a huge eye opener for me. You got a new subscriber💕
This was very inspiring, I’m glad I found your channel💜 Blessings to you guys
Can anyone tell me the title of the song in their intro
I needed to hear this!
The song at the beginning
I relate to this on a spiritual level ,literally ahhh😩♥️
Wow right on time!! 🙏🏾 Bless y’all ❤️❤️
Wow quite inspiring. God bless you both
New subscription here !!! I Definitely agree with y'all spreading. God bless your channel.
You guys are awesome!💕
Love your bangs, love how brave yall are.
I’ve learnt a lot from this video God bless you both 🔥🔥❤️
Love this Video , just found yal channel definitely subscribing .
such a beautiful couple. God bless your marriage
I really need to hear this.
Thank you God❤️
Love it! Question: what are y’all thoughts on living together before marriage while trying keep your celibacy commitment ? Do you think it’s opening the door to temptation or rather a learning experience helping you deal with it face on together as a couple ?
At what point in the relationship do you think it’s acceptable to live together too?
Also how much is too much when it comes to the girlfriend doing things for her man, like without performing “wifey duties” so the guy won’t get too comfortable? (If that makes sense lol)
Yeah, I have the same question!
@@whereis333 That's easy....when your Married. What's that scripture say about having hot coals on your lap...(honestly I don't remember). Why tempt yourself...
I agree with you. Don't do it if you are not married. Yes, like you said @Brittany Taylor, it does open more door to temptation. So noooo. stay pure and away from each other like that, u know, before the big day.
Funny how this video popped up out of the blue... Right on time 🙌🏾 I'm talking to this amazing guy now, we've been friends for like a year and a half and he's always been there for me, very kind hearted and treats me right... He grew up in the church as well but recently took a philosophy class and a lot of things he's learned has him skeptical about Jesus being our savior. I never grew up in the church but I was brought up as a Christian, but never really started to develop a relationship with God until I was in high school because I was going through some things. To make a long story short, we both really like each other and he's fine with going to bible study and church with me and encourages me to read my Bible, but he just doesn't see himself being a Christian. I don't know if I should continue trying and let him find his own way, while I lead by example or just stay friends with him. I don't want to push being a Christian on him, but I know that's something I want in my future husband and it'll always be in the back of my mind... 😭 Even if we don't date, I still hope he'd find his way towards that, I just don't want to push him you know? Y'all are very inspiring though 💕 Gives me hope and I just subscribed! Godspeed 💕
Hey Charity! First, thanks so much for subscribing and watching :) Means the world to us! YIKES! You are in a tough pickle lol you definitely need to have an honest conversation with him before making a decision. At the end of the day, you cant raise children without being "one" meaning you have the same beliefs and systems in place to properly raise your children and lead your household as a family. If you know that your husband needs to be a man of God, then you know it can't be him. If he knows how important that is to you, he needs to take a deep look at himself and his relationship with God. If a class made him question God, his relationship wasn't strong with him in the first place. I would challenge him to choose God and if he doesn't, he should only be a friend because he wouldn't be able to be what you need him to be.
- Hope this helps!
Breanna Aponte & Dre Smith - Worth Thee Wait 💕 Thank you so much! Yeah it's like everytime that conversation comes up, we agree to disagree. He claims that if we ever did get married and if I wanted to teach the children about my beliefs then he wouldn't mind at all. He doesn't think us having different views would hurt our relationship or the way we raise our children if that were to happen. Then he already has a baby, that was another reason I didn't want to get involved with him because I wanted to avoid the baby mama drama. But he handles it well and reassures me about everything and he's a great father. But yeah, I told him I want a man that can pray with me/for me and he doesn't think it's really necessary but wouldn't mind doing it. I always end up choosing the wrong guys 😭 but I think I'm just going to work on him the best I can and just pray for him while protecting myself. If that doesn't work, we'll just have to be friends because I can't sacrifice my faith and beliefs for him. At the end of the day, I want a Godly man and I want to do right and I know he means well... But being spiritually connected is very important to me, and without that I feel like we'd fail.
Charity Dyer I just came from the same situation, girl it’s not worth it, Gods giving you red flags for a reason. Listen to him, trust God, he’s know what you want and what you need. When you wait on God and stay in his will, everything else will come with it and you’ll be so blessed. I’m in the waiting process too, if God is not first in his life, there should be no relationship as you know more than friends and potential husband. Focus on you and God and in Gods timing he will let you know. You cannot change him, only God, so continue to pray for him but distance your heart. The more you put your hope in him changing the more your giving your self away to him emotionally and spiritually without realizing it and you’ll be putting your hope in the wrong things and people. Put your hope in God and run this race of faith. I just don’t want you to be hurt like I did, you never know , in time he may come around , but you can’t sit around placing your hope in him changing because it will affect your relationship with God. Pray about it all , and your future husband!! ❤️❤️❤️
Thelight 15 thank you so much! Me and him talked about it more and went back and forth all day on it and he told me that he started to let a few walls down with some things that I was saying. He decided to ask his mama about it because she's really into her faith and is close to God and she basically said the same things that I was saying, agreeing with me. So he called me and told me everything and told me that he's going to give it a try this time and be more serious about it... Because he didn't really give it a chance at first. I understand what you're saying completely! It hurt me so bad at first because I attached myself trying to put my faith and hope in him coming around. But he said he'd give it a chance and we're supposed to go to a bible study session next Friday so I'm going to see how that goes. I just need to distance my heart like you said.. But I'm trying to make sure he's backing up what he said to me and that he's being a man of his word. But I told him that I'm not about to have my hopes up just because we're both trying to work towards a better relationship with God. I need to pray more about it too! And I'm sorry about your situation! I'm still in a rocky situation but him trying to work towards that is giving me some hope. I just want to stay friends with him at the moment cause the hurt I felt a few days ago isn't something I want to feel again. So my guards are up 😪 Can we message on here or something? You should message me lol, I like being able to discuss things like this with others. So hit me up if you'd like, I wanna hear more about your faith and everything! 💕
Wow. Bless you hun. Its good you even care to think things through. That makes me see you quite wise in my opinion as a fellow christian who's also waiting to marry the next man I "date". I want to suggest my advice. Ofcourse praying about it is a first. I feel its best you dont date and awaken love lust ruin things e.t.c I feel prayer overdose is key 😂 patiently waiting for God's answer on if he the one or for his heart to find God again while you indeed as you said be example. The enemy uses the lack of us having the gifts of the spirit as his weapon. Speaking from my mistakes. I hope this could help. I encourage and admire your desire to do it right and ask Abba to grace you to hear and discern His thoughts and plans on this. Much love Charity bless you
Wow something led me here and I see why. There’s a guy in my life like she was. He seem like he’s trying to get there but I’m stuck in alot of confusion concerning him because of prophecies and hearing things from others.. and I’m letting him go not because I want to but because I feel like he put me through a lot of hell. But I love him so much and it hurts I gave up a few times
I love these conversations!
You look beautiful with your hair any style. With that being said, my personal opinion is that, you look even more beautiful with your hair out of your face. Meaning, if any hairstyle covers your eyebrows, we can’t see your beautiful face.
I commend and applaud you and your husband on the work of God you guys are doing on RUclips, you don’t find this out here much, especially from such a young couple. Keep working in the vineyard of the Lord.
you two are so amazing and inspiring
Randomly came across this video. I went to Riverdale as well, small world. Love the content 😊
Haha! yes, small world! Thanks for subscribing :)
Loveeee the hairrrr
Aww y’all the cutest 😍❗️ I just discovered y’all
This really blessed me..thx y'all
Thoroughly enjoyed this ❤️🙌🏽
Thanks for sharing!!! ❤❤
Pretty hair!!
Thanks Dre & Bre❤..
Latoya Kanneh Thank You for watching Latoya! 😌
y’all are gorgeous 🥰
Y'all are setting a good example I'm a older man 62 im looking for celebant relationship myself I look young for my age I love beautiful black women bar none I been relevant 4 years now and proud of it
This is beautiful ❤️
Thank you for this.
I love yall!
We love you too girl!!!!!!! - Bre : )
Yall should start a mini segment were yall give do A &A where we ask yall anonymous questions and give advice, a ask and advice?
Y’all are beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️
She is even speaking for him.
I can already imagine ur children 😍😍😍
Where did you guys meet?
Thank you ❤️
Great topic's
Loved this😍
Gorgeous couple!
Your such an awesome couple 😍
Awesome
Hey! do you guys have any recommendation for podcast?
LOVE THIS! :)
They are a beautiful couple omgggggggh
Hi Guys. I'm all the way in South Africa. I love your channel. Advice please.... Some unexpected feeling are happening between my friend and I. Problem is he's an Atheist(believes in truth) and I believe and love God. Do you think that can ever work out especially the fact we respect one another and are each other's best friends.
You haven't asked me, but I will offer my opinion anyway on this public platform. As a Christian myself who loves God and lives for Him, there is no way that I could be best friends with and/or date and/or marry a man who denies God's very existence. God is love. The two of you will never know and understand a God-centered love if you both don't know Him, claim Him, and keep Him between you. Pray and seek God's word. He will guide you on your path to finding a God-fearing man, who will be evenly yoked with you and can treat you as only a godly man can. God will grant you the desires of your heart if they are His will.
So random, but what church do you all attend? 🤔 New to the DMV area and looking but I do live closer to MD.
This is soooo cuteeee 😍😍😍
love it
Love Dre, he is the man!! He is as cool as Obama!!!
Beautiful couple...
I’m ready to give up .. its easy for me but HARD for me bc NO MAN is on board when there are easy TINDER hook ups out there. It’s so discouraging
Just have babies 😭😭
Y’all are beautiful.