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  • @netsanetabraha2218
    @netsanetabraha2218 11 месяцев назад +152

    The new supply is fighting for her position and at this point she's no victim. As for me I can walk away knowing I gave it all and I am free...Never would again!👑

    • @MaxPotential32
      @MaxPotential32 11 месяцев назад +10

      What pisses me off is that people play victim . I don't feel sorry for none of them at all. Adults have choices and number 2 im very petty so imma say a lil jokey joke bout the NS 😂 I don't care . Lol 😂 joking on these people is like sucking on a cough drop ; it rids the congestion; THE NARC WAS THE CONGESTION 😂 They know what they are doing . Some of em be helping the narc make you look crazy and still get roasted 😂

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 11 месяцев назад +5

      Amen, to God be the glory!

    • @Glitter504
      @Glitter504 11 месяцев назад +14

      Delicate Reese 😂I agree! I left him a year plus ago now apparently has a gf she’s barely 30 and he’s 57 they both look like who did it and why ?? 😂😂😂 i I have a new man since last year we saw them when we were at lunch they did not see us . All I thought was omg 😱 he looks too crazy 😂and her short frizzy hair lawd ! She needed help and those sweats yikes 😂! My man and I
      Just laughed 😂 I also heard he’s showing her my pics with him to intimidate her ! Forever those narc games ! Plus he’s got fake accs on Instagram stalking me ! He made it just to stalk me ! Smh

    • @humilitybeforehonorsmk2311
      @humilitybeforehonorsmk2311 5 месяцев назад

      The new supply needs to come to the conclusion she's done all she can too. She's LIKELY just as trauma bonded as everyone else was.

  • @VGH1967
    @VGH1967 11 месяцев назад +20

    You realize that the narc is a low vibrational bottom feeder and he seeks out people who are low vibrational and weak just like he is.

  • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
    @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 11 месяцев назад +50

    I don’t care what my soon-to-be ex-husband’s new/old supply looks like. All I care about is that she’s able to hold him for a few decades so I can live in peace…. I just want peace. Don’t care about anything else; anything! 🙌🏽👋🏽

    • @Goodwillwinoverevil1984
      @Goodwillwinoverevil1984 11 месяцев назад +5

      My ex loved himself more than me. It was sad.

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 11 месяцев назад

      @@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 Narcs don’t love themselves…. They don’t know how to love anyone. They just know how to try to fill their desires…. They care about what makes them feel good at the time…. Not consistent enough to love anything including themselves. So, don’t talk anything they do personal. ❤️🙏

    • @_YohAsakura_
      @_YohAsakura_ 4 месяца назад

      Peace has got to be the most valuable thing ever. Especially to me. Somebody said if its costing to much then it aunt worth it.

  • @treid1369
    @treid1369 11 месяцев назад +46

    I find, I am at a mental space where I don’t care about that man’s existence nor who he is with. We all have to learn the hard way about him, probably some worse than others (myself). My priority is my continued healing. I stay very far from anyone that has any similar characteristics including looks and demeanor. Nothing good comes from people like that. Molded in the image of Satan.

    • @sabrenadavis4279
      @sabrenadavis4279 10 месяцев назад +2

      Yes!!

    • @PottedJam
      @PottedJam 8 месяцев назад

      We all have to learn the hard way about her, too.

  • @LoveWolves777
    @LoveWolves777 9 месяцев назад +8

    I don't ever want to see her again, her new supply and her side exes supply can have her all to themselves, I feel so relieved and at peace from her

  • @aliciabell7631
    @aliciabell7631 11 месяцев назад +46

    I dont think the looks of the new supply is important. Shes just another victim like I was. Im just glad he got tf away from me

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 11 месяцев назад +8

      A lot of times the
      “ victim “ already knew the narc was with someone and didn’t care.

    • @weaselwacker5462
      @weaselwacker5462 11 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@browneyes9507ok and then she learned she is no different than the girlfriend or wife. She gets nothing too in the end.

    • @aliciabell7631
      @aliciabell7631 11 месяцев назад +1

      @browneyes9507 to me this is giving into the notion that he was a PRIZE bc what did she get?? Even if she knew or not. I still feel like worrying about how she look is triangulating yourself against another woman and making yourself feel superior to her like he's a prize .

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@aliciabell7631 I understand your stance. I don’t think nobody ( at least me) is worrying about it.
      It’s just when you see they are with someone so beneath you on all levels including looks( in my case). Initially it’s a shock but after that you digest it then move on as I did.
      The narc I married is a bum ppl was shock to see I even was with him. So after I left him he went back to his bum life including the bum women he cheated with. But you live and you learn , I sure did. Been gone for 3 yrs best move ever. He didn’t think I would stay gone this time cuz he knows the best he ever had.
      ❤️❤️

    • @aliciabell7631
      @aliciabell7631 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@browneyes9507 congratulations 🎊

  • @Najah971
    @Najah971 11 месяцев назад +8

    Did she just say, “this duck with a combat boot on and a ballerina slipper”? 😂

  • @Livingandstilllearning
    @Livingandstilllearning 11 месяцев назад +22

    Narcissistic injury keeps them from healing! Oh this is a light bulb moment. They are stuck on a perpetual merry go round. This is why they Hoover. They are ruminating in the injury; can’t accept defeat from that partner.

  • @cynthialandry7911
    @cynthialandry7911 11 месяцев назад +7

    When I saw the narcissist new supply, I was not angry. I was glad they had to go that low to get new supply.

  • @fosterjanine5112
    @fosterjanine5112 11 месяцев назад +13

    Don't be a fool for anyone!

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 11 месяцев назад +48

    This is so true, when I realized who my husband is shacked up with, I couldn't believe it. I seen him recently in court after I hadn't seen him in 5 months, he looked terrible 😢 In our 12 year marriage, I had never seen him look so rough. He has zero regrets leaving me,he likes his alcohol too much and I wasn't "fun" to him anymore because I gave up alcohol back in 2016. He's 12 years younger than me and he looked older than me at court

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 11 месяцев назад +12

      Alcoholism is not fun either- he don’t love himself which is why he treats you like that. Trust me just cuz he won’t tell you he’s regret what he’s done his conscience bothers him- he’ll be drinking even more- you said yourself he looks terrible. That’s your Karma.

    • @GangstalkingReality
      @GangstalkingReality 11 месяцев назад

      @@browneyes9507they don’t have a conscience that’s why it’s widely documented that they lack affective empathy. They’re literally a monster. Except people admire monsters. Humans respect violence and narcissists bring it. Humans with low self esteem tend to be attracted to arrogance and grandiosity. Therefore, most that are attracted to them have co-dependency issues which is toxic too.

  • @eboyd2478
    @eboyd2478 10 месяцев назад +9

    The next supply isn’t always busted and disgusted. It depends on the type of individual. They don’t have the feelings you’re saying. They feel zero and do not feel the emotion of regret. They are just mad about losing access or control. They never cared so how can they be in pain about you…The pain isn’t about losing you, it’s the pain of the unresolved trauma. Great channel ❤

  • @Shirley-t9b
    @Shirley-t9b 11 месяцев назад +7

    But we were nothing to them. we were only to be used nothing more.

  • @MaroonRose3216
    @MaroonRose3216 11 месяцев назад +6

    3:52 Queue Toni Braxton - He Wasn’t Man Enough😂

  • @dirtroaddestiny
    @dirtroaddestiny 11 месяцев назад +37

    I pray for their healing and thats how i know I’ve come far. They can do or say whatever. I’m going to be over here praying and being positive. That is the ultimate loss for them. 🎉

    • @MaroonRose3216
      @MaroonRose3216 11 месяцев назад +2

      And in 5 years we’ll have moved so far forward in life. While they’ll still be in the same place, wishing us harm.

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 11 месяцев назад +4

      I’ve prayed for mine day one. Never wanted bad for him. Just wanted him to let me go when I figured out something was wrong and he wasn’t happy. Took me 14 years to final stop allowing the bullying to keep me from filing. All I want it peace! I pray for peace for him too away from me…. Not interested in any details of how, what, when is going on with him…. I’ve spent literally three and half decades living it…. I do know no matter how much we pray for anyone; everyone has to meet karma one day. So I hope for the best for him and whoever he’s with but I know her does have a lot to pay for so…. Doesn’t mean I want it, just mean I understand the laws of nature. None of us can escape karma; saved or not. 😞🙏🏽

  • @divamori
    @divamori 11 месяцев назад +8

    The New supply think that she or he have gotten the best ever. lol
    they don't know they have met with satan himself or herself. 😅😅😅

  • @brandykp733
    @brandykp733 11 месяцев назад +8

    When I left, he had another already waiting. When I seen his new supply, girl, I bout fell out! He chose trash. Her behind had 2 canned chicken thighs hangin' off the bottom of her behind. LOL. So glad I walked out and never looked back.

  • @Michelle-mt6jb
    @Michelle-mt6jb 8 месяцев назад +6

    Rino with a bow 😂

  • @annettet7941
    @annettet7941 11 месяцев назад +20

    Woke up to 2 different hoovers from different narcs. One was trying to be sweet, the other had a bitter tone. Ugh...leave me alone you backwards flying pigeons with combat boots on the wrong feet😅😂

    • @xoliemor9813
      @xoliemor9813 11 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂flying pigeons with combat boots😂😂😂😂

    • @chereeB-hummingbird
      @chereeB-hummingbird 7 месяцев назад

      😄🕊✨️

  • @nikkired4925
    @nikkired4925 11 месяцев назад +9

    IF YOU ROCK WITH YOUR GIRLLL "HIT THAT LIKE 👍 BUTTON, HIT THAT LIKE 👍 BUTTON!" 🎶 🎶 🎵🥰

  • @faithmoody7212
    @faithmoody7212 11 месяцев назад +6

    Duck with a combat boot on and a ballerina slipper 😂😭😭😭😭🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂

  • @peacefaith560
    @peacefaith560 11 месяцев назад +8

    He never had control lol 😂 and I served that BIRD 🐦

  • @kp153
    @kp153 11 месяцев назад +13

    The new supply is very beautiful, but that’s the point. She’s soo naive, young and green to his games and manipulation which is why he chose her. How they look like doesn’t matter.

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 Месяц назад

      Most don’t find beauty like that - they usually down grade on all levels with the new one - and yes , younger one too

    • @ainahaga
      @ainahaga 29 дней назад

      @@browneyes9507 I've heard a lot on videos about this, they downgrade with other narsisists and they jump from person to person even though they have that special supply they d get engaged with. The narc I was with even told me I made him want to smoke again, drink alot again, do drugs. I brought up alot of stuff in him, his ego is crumbling and I think he has alot of issues for sure. He also told me he would never forget me, I knew he spoke the truth and believe me he was OBSESSED with me, but in the end it was like I felt like I was his mother 😲😂 I loved him so much and he didn't even love himself. It was so sad cause people told us we looked so amazing together, and yeah we actually did. So yeah I will never ever stop loving him either, but Ive stayed no contact soon 1 year, no contact for ever cause how he treated me I will never forget that pain EVER

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 29 дней назад

      @@ainahaga of course he had issues! Those issues were there before you and will be there with the next one. One thing they do is hide who they really are. They will had before the mask for the supply who they know is the one- but being fake will come out eventually that’s when the mask comes off.
      I thought I married someone who was loving and kind- he was actually a monster who abused me physically too. This monster is 61 I’m 51 so you would think at that age he would be settled.
      I was the best he ever had on all levels including looks too- he never ever had it so good before. Ppl couldn’t believe he destroyed the relationship .
      I left him without him knowing it- and never looked back. He doesn’t have any access to me- whereabouts unknown. It’s been 5 yrs now. He went down immediately after I left on drugs alcohol even worse.
      So glad I’m away. I am totally indifferent I don’t care whether he lives or dies. He treated me horribly. Did everything under the sun to me - & behind my back. I knew nothing about..
      Yeah, you know they have issues when they destroy the best they ever had over nothing.
      It ain’t easy finding descent ppl these days plus you rarely meet a good descent person back to back. They usually down grade after that. He went back to the trash supplies he was use to I’m sure..
      I can’t tell you the peace I feel . Oh yeah in narcissistic relationships you will feel like the parent, just be glad you out-.
      He lost you didn’t! Ppl never ever forget a good person- would you forget you ?😂❤️
      Just stay NC!! He knows exactly what he did .. & the next supply will pay dearly for Your absence & silence..

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 29 дней назад +1

      @@ainahaga you’ll really see it is a blessing you got away- they don’t change.. he will treat the next worse. They only value you when you stay away.

    • @ainahaga
      @ainahaga 29 дней назад

      @@browneyes9507 but I dont wsnt him to value me I just dont want anything to do with that shit bag

  • @Macky_Trades
    @Macky_Trades 10 месяцев назад +2

    It’s been over a year since I divorced my narcissist ex-wife of 15 years and I still find myself watching, processing, and learning about narcissism. All I know is I will never ever ever get married again.

  • @jacksaintjack2844
    @jacksaintjack2844 4 месяца назад

    I was her Grade AA guy. I discarded her after being devalued into hell. I was everything she could want. I sent her a library of voice messages telling her I loved her, was blessed to have her in my life, that she was an amazing woman and I wanted her. I told her I would always take care of her, cherish her, be faithful, loving, kind and considerate. One night I sent her a voice message of me playing my guitar and singing to her. Other times I would just tell her I pray for her safety and that I don't ever want to lose the best thing that has ever happened to me and that I loved her more deeply than I thought I was capable of. I was truthful with her and honest and she knows that. She always told me she loved my voice ( I was a radio disc jockey ) and that it was so sexy. So I left her with a whole lot of "myself".......voice messages, text messages, letters. I am sure she goes back and listens to them and reads them, and I have no doubt they affect her. I was THE ONE for her and she now knows it. Too late.

  • @theresae5362
    @theresae5362 5 месяцев назад +1

    They don’t heal from being rejected by someone they knew was too good for them in the first place.

  • @DonnaS-q9s
    @DonnaS-q9s 4 месяца назад

    Well, they shouldn’t be jackasses

  • @queenb3088
    @queenb3088 11 месяцев назад +15

    You're teaching on this one. After my narc ex discarded me, he was with all kinds of cracked out looking women and getting drunk... and he hardly EVER drank for the 4 years that we were together. And, the only reason why i know this is because his landlord, with whom i had a relationship, would tell me what she saw going in and out. Plus, she sent me pics of him and he was looking awful.

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 11 месяцев назад +8

      Yes I seen a pic of the narc I married I barely could recognize him. He went down so fast when I left him.

    • @queenb3088
      @queenb3088 11 месяцев назад +8

      ​​@@browneyes9507that's because WE validated them and gave them their power. So, when we left we took all of that validation, power and energy with us. While we were with them they got it twisted and started believing that THEY were the sh*t... NOT!!!

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@queenb3088 yessss!! I helped evaluate him and he thought he was better than me. Started abusing me on all levels - when I left he went all the down. He Don’t have nothing now. Best he ever had and he treated me “ wife” awful. Sooo damn glad I’m gone 3 yrs total NC- he can’t find me now.. much love to you ❤️

  • @karenflowers4079
    @karenflowers4079 11 месяцев назад +8

    Thank you for this info. Sure makes me feel a lot better. Cannot believe what ex narc is with. Unreal. Bad on eyes😂😂😂

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 11 месяцев назад +3

      Yes !! . They always down graded. The Narc will never get anyone close on my level.

  • @leniecelewis3415
    @leniecelewis3415 11 месяцев назад +4

    Telsha You Nailed That When I Saw That Alcoholic Crypt Keeper I Cussed That Shell Of A Man Out I Couldn't Believe My Eyes 👀😭😭😭

  • @CJP55
    @CJP55 11 месяцев назад +4

    Every word you said is spot on target, Blessings to you, you said exactly everything I thought when this happened to me after I left my ex narcissists she went sexually crazy, no morals at all, the dudes she started sleeping with were junkies literally...blew my mind, exactly like you said, at first I was mad, then embarrassed, I thought why are you mad she's sleeping with dirt balls, then it became funny to see how far she lowered her standards, looking at the guys she was with, you'd think she had none at all...thank you for pointing this out.

  • @funnyface5596
    @funnyface5596 7 месяцев назад +1

    I saw her....she's beautiful. Waaay more beautiful than me

  • @peachesmcghee9802
    @peachesmcghee9802 11 месяцев назад +1

    😂 No I was embarrassed to know, the garbage and how low they will go. No way, No Return. Healing and Blowing Up.❤

  • @lorettamoore5509
    @lorettamoore5509 11 месяцев назад +2

    My husband have a street working lady

  • @lorraineolivera24
    @lorraineolivera24 6 месяцев назад +1

    Omg this hippo with a bow! I'm dead!!! 😂

  • @lorraineamaker9416
    @lorraineamaker9416 11 месяцев назад +4

    I’m grateful I’m out of that mess., someone sent me a video with him in it. wow! Is all I can say. He looks like an overstuffed Smurf 😳I was blown away cuz I never wanted that for him., but I feel so much better cuz I saw I missed out on nothing 🤷‍♀️

  • @geraldpleasant7733
    @geraldpleasant7733 11 месяцев назад +8

    Narcissist don't care about the pain they through because they don't have any remorse or empathy and incapable of love and she knows it permanently over for good and she has no get back at she deserve it and that is 100 💯 for sure and for Christ sake and hell to and I like my healing journey and I will break that to endure that type abuse no way jose and, I love myself too much for that to go through again yes indeed in Christ Jesus name anan...

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 11 месяцев назад +1

      They still human in flesh

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 11 месяцев назад +1

      They are human too- they do feel something especially if you been with them a long time. They good at hiding their emotions too.

    • @kimmoyo8220
      @kimmoyo8220 11 месяцев назад +1

      In the mighty name of Jesus!❤🙏

  • @genevas-grace
    @genevas-grace 11 месяцев назад +3

    It's been a long difficult journey but so thankful to be out and over. The ex narc does hate me and he will be okay. He said he doesn't back track and he would never ever be with
    me again and I was the worse woman he ever had....that hurt me a first and I felt some type of way because he didn't fight for me. However now I am glad he is sticking to it. I pray he stick to those words. I am sooooo free. The new supply can have him. The Rhino with a bow.
    Telsha you look beautiful btw❤

  • @stephaniemacias3445
    @stephaniemacias3445 11 месяцев назад +2

    🤔 is this WHY these things get worse and worse and worse with age? ... over years of a life-span, these things can learn and therefore tweak behaviours, getting better at skills ; AND BUT they also have more injuries/GRUDGES at at age 50 than at age 27 , or at ate 70 than at age 39!
    😳
    ...these things get waaaaay bad in their senior years! ... these things have sooo many scars from sooo many years: they have sooo many grudges! (+ they grow to have more needs)

  • @user-me7on8eb7x
    @user-me7on8eb7x 11 месяцев назад +2

    His new supply is his first cousin!😂

  • @gemini188
    @gemini188 8 месяцев назад

    He seem very happy 😂

  • @Jessecraft1954
    @Jessecraft1954 11 месяцев назад +8

    Good afternoon! Love your videos!!! Was thinking what the narcissist really looks like and then I received the vision. Yes, the vision of Michael Jackson's Thriller Video. The group of zombies dancing in the street. Yes, this is what they really look like lacking the talent.

  • @MissTia777
    @MissTia777 11 месяцев назад +1

    Ghosting me out of the blue for a week (no reason at all) but calling me at 8 AM on a Saturday wanting to meet up.immediately and ghosted me again because I didnt was the LAST STRAW! Ghosted him right back but first told him "If youre going to ghost away then stay the F away!" He didnt post on his Tiktok in 2 weeks thinking it was going to get me to reply! Not this time!

  • @cjsoywaxcandles
    @cjsoywaxcandles 11 месяцев назад +2

    Sometimes I can’t stand how you set the record straight! Speak Sister Speak!

  • @DonnaS-q9s
    @DonnaS-q9s 4 месяца назад

    She hates him and wants him out

  • @manuelsantos3779
    @manuelsantos3779 11 месяцев назад +2

    The new supply is no where near me he was scared of me and she got mad at him because he wouldn't charge at me 😂😂😂😂😂I am shining and she gets to see that from now on is just the beginning and i am not even trying i am just being me 😂😂😂😂

  • @lilipalss9216
    @lilipalss9216 8 месяцев назад

    I just watched the new supply and my heart went out to her but I couldn't do anything about it. I guess soon she will see thru the charade.

  • @Shalom.4.4.
    @Shalom.4.4. 11 месяцев назад

    That’s EXACTLY what he did! Almost 4 years after our divorce I got really sick and was in a coma. He used that opportunity to try and play the superhero. He started trying to contact my family and my kids to show “concern”. He even sent me a get well card with some money in it after I got home. And when I didn’t respond to that Hoover, he tried again just a couple months ago. I guess he thought he would get me to react to him having his church send me a letter letting me know that our marriage was annulled through the Catholic Church and both of us were free to remarry. He could’ve been getting married, or he could’ve been just trying to get me to react thinking that he was getting remarried. Again, he received no response from me. He’s such a creep.

  • @aalexnavas
    @aalexnavas 11 месяцев назад +5

    My ex was a drunk. I am a year and three months Narc Free!! ❤

  • @Mo.1988
    @Mo.1988 11 месяцев назад +2

    You look beautiful, Ms. Telsha! 🎀💕

  • @kat4049
    @kat4049 11 месяцев назад +15

    New supply this and that.... At the end of the day we have all been NEW supply...😉 We should not talk crap about the new supply because at one point we were the new supply and not aware and fed into the toxicity too... I dont talk crap about the new supply, but I pray for the new supply..

    • @kat4049
      @kat4049 11 месяцев назад +1

      I didn't even know what narcissism and all the terms that came along with it was until I went through it. I'm speaking from my own experience. I ain't no desperado over here and not a home wrecker either. 😉That mask they wear hides a lot of secrets and lies behind it. The dynamics of this stuff blows my mind and I'm thankful for these ppl that make these videos and spread awareness. Wishing I had stumbled upon this type of information sooner. I would have been able to avoid a lot of pain. New supply don't always know what they're getting themselves into. For those that do that's they're own character and it's on them. Some new supply are equally yoked with the narc.. Some are simply oblivious.. 💔 Lots of good vibes and healing your way.🙂

    • @treid1369
      @treid1369 11 месяцев назад

      I don’t care about the narc’s existence or the existence of the new supply. If they exist, they should do so on the other side of this planet, far away from me. I’ve gone through so much and come a long way in my healing, whatever is going on with them is not a concern for me, not even on a humanity level, I just don’t care.

    • @adidouglas2571
      @adidouglas2571 11 месяцев назад +6

      I'm not praying for no new supply, she knew exactly what she was doing involving herself with my ex husband, a WHOLE MARRIED man. Although I was once a new supply, I never knew he had someone else. She on the other hand knew about me and still encouraged his cheating behind. So she deserves whatever karma she gets and so does he.

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@adidouglas2571 yes that part !! Same here

    • @trobie1242
      @trobie1242 7 месяцев назад

      That part!! We've all been hoodwinked and bamboozled. I don't pray for her, just healed from praying for him. Praying for myself NOW and giving God Glory for the rescue🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @manuelsantos3779
    @manuelsantos3779 11 месяцев назад +3

    Why is she angry at me when she is the one that left me I been no contact for 2 years

    • @dodibenabba525
      @dodibenabba525 11 месяцев назад +3

      Because you're healing and out of her control

    • @vahustle804
      @vahustle804 11 месяцев назад +2

      She’s right when you move on and actually living life care free not thinking of them and their life isn’t where they thought it should be they come back

  • @dididisun
    @dididisun 11 месяцев назад +4

    You help me so much, love you Telsha

  • @marsha04053
    @marsha04053 10 месяцев назад +1

    Mine chose a blonde with bad teeth and she's toxic really bad😂😂😂😂.I'm living a awesome life while he is gradually getting bored with her already😂😂.nobody want give him a time of day

  • @neludemianurda263
    @neludemianurda263 11 месяцев назад +2

    I was married to a narcissistic woman for 9 years until I discovered that she cheated with a former prisoner, we have three children, I don't even know if they are all mine, now she is in a mess at her parents' house. she has a daughter from her first marriage, she was a prostitute before I met her, but she didn't tell me until after I fell in love with her, I offered her everything, the beautiful house, all the good conditions for a peaceful life

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 11 месяцев назад +3

    Hi Ms. Telsha. I like your pink glasses. You really do look nice in them, I love your sophisticated look. I can relate to this, as I thought sometimes to contact my narcissist mother, but no way is that the right thing to do. I cut her off, after many years of mean mistreatment I was subjected to by her cruel ways. I suppose she would only want revenge by now, because a narcissist thinks, how dare you not allow me to mistreat you as they see fit, even if it kills you, and the devil is the biggest liar in the land, cause, the narcissist is not even a god, they are just mere mortals, that should step out their delusional state and act like they know, their just as human as us all. So no way am I going to be my mother's victim again!

  • @WomanofGod-jc4cj
    @WomanofGod-jc4cj 3 месяца назад +1

    THAT'S REVELATION. TEACH QUEEN. THAT BIRD GOT THREE CHICKENS. ONE OF THEM REALLY LOOK LIKE A CHICKEN WITH THAT YELLOW,SUPPOSED TO BE BLOND HAIR ON THAT BIRD. I DON'T WANT TO SPEAK ON THE OTHER TWO. BETTER THOSE THREE OR MORE BIRDS THAN ME ANY DAY. THOSE THREE KNEW OF ME. AGAIN, BETTER THOSE BIRDS THAN ME

  • @weireffie29
    @weireffie29 11 месяцев назад +3

    Keep the Truth coming😊

  • @hosealynch3221
    @hosealynch3221 7 месяцев назад

    True talk.

  • @mimin4084
    @mimin4084 11 месяцев назад +3

    JESUS ❤

  • @fonzobooker7998
    @fonzobooker7998 10 месяцев назад

    Shalom ❣️

  • @geraldmitchell2892
    @geraldmitchell2892 10 месяцев назад +1

    You have a beautiful spirit. Thank you for such great insight on this subject.

  • @RamonaTitus-uy7gx
    @RamonaTitus-uy7gx 6 месяцев назад

    Good Evening 🌆🌆🌆✨✨✨✨🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤

  • @markkasinsky6082
    @markkasinsky6082 10 месяцев назад

    Hi girl! I have to say thank you God, and thank you for helping people, your a messenger from God !!!! Boy you have no idea how much you helped me , I can SAY YOURE MY FAMILY! I thought that I'm alone stuck with ,and don't know where to go or who to talk to for them to understand where I'm at.I thank God that there is people that understand what narcissist is all about, for three ears I didn't now ,but I was in love , I'm healing now , mostly I study spiritual books , and workout, also watching your videos on you tube ,thank again to you and you're community for support that you give , .Let GOD ALWAYS MAKE YOU HAPPY!!!!❤

  • @dawnettawilkins2088
    @dawnettawilkins2088 11 месяцев назад

    Happy Sunday yes 1 yr & 3 months 🫶🤎🤎🤎🤎

  • @rachelegilbert8175
    @rachelegilbert8175 11 месяцев назад +1

    The Greater! ❤

  • @miamiflorida6965
    @miamiflorida6965 11 месяцев назад

    I ❤ how you call them "Birds" 😂 ❤ that!

  • @ChanellG904
    @ChanellG904 11 месяцев назад +3

    Very powerful and refreshing!!!!! God bless you Telsha 💜💜🙏🏾

  • @aprilcobianchi2815
    @aprilcobianchi2815 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hello sister
    Well it has been 6 weeks no contact and blocked his number thank you so much
    God Bless 🙏

  • @shadeedholmes
    @shadeedholmes День назад

    It’s ironic because she have a control tattoo

  • @ANTLORDH760
    @ANTLORDH760 10 месяцев назад

    Your absolutely brutal and brilliant and spot on with your analysis. You put a smile on my face for sure. 😂. God bless you in Jesus name.... Satan is being exposed in this season. ❤❤🙏🙏

  • @TheSpiritRoom23
    @TheSpiritRoom23 8 месяцев назад

    If the narcissist finds another grade A or someone better, do they eventually leave you alone?

  • @fonzobooker7998
    @fonzobooker7998 10 месяцев назад

    I hear you good my sister ❤️

  • @MzQlutch
    @MzQlutch 11 месяцев назад

    Wheww God my god u hit me right on the nose🛎
    🌎👏🏾 blessings to everyone connected to this prophetic word. Praises to God always✨

  • @iamrobronquillo
    @iamrobronquillo 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this knowledge ❤

  • @carlynholmes
    @carlynholmes 11 месяцев назад

    This was so good, something I didn’t know but fits my ex-bird to the tee. Thank you again! 😊

  • @roydecker8340
    @roydecker8340 11 месяцев назад

    I was gaslighted, I caught on and I ended it,dated her for 4 years,I blocked her on Facebook and the next day she texted me looking for her car keys,when she did text I asked her is that the only reason you texted ,she said yes.I mentioned to her how much she hurt me playing her games,She came back and said now you know how I feel like when I broke up with her..cold hearted..I've caught her driving by my place and honking the horn...

  • @Fullgrace061
    @Fullgrace061 11 месяцев назад

    That’s the truth and he can have her and couldn’t believe it she was in church with us

  • @stefaniebolton8060
    @stefaniebolton8060 11 месяцев назад +3

    Not watching and don’t care. Lolololol I’m free.

  • @valenciawalker6498
    @valenciawalker6498 11 месяцев назад +3

    🙏🏽🤍🕊️✝️

  • @lorettamoore5509
    @lorettamoore5509 11 месяцев назад

    I'm stay out with a divorce

  • @roxannewalcott8092
    @roxannewalcott8092 10 месяцев назад

    🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌💯💯💯💋💋💋🇹🇹🇹🇹 thank you auntie Telisha.

  • @PaintbrushedByGod
    @PaintbrushedByGod 11 месяцев назад

    Ms.T gon keep it real❤❤❤❤

  • @LovingIdaho
    @LovingIdaho 11 месяцев назад

    I would be very glad if my ex wife narcissistic wife would meet someone and leave me alone .
    She moved 365 miles away to Forest Grove , Oregon and I thought it would be over . But , she has been trying to contact me for 6 years now . She cant get a hold of me , so she allways contacts my family or friends and tells her stories . My family and friends dont try to talk to me about it no more .

  • @WayneGretzky-jz4cg
    @WayneGretzky-jz4cg 11 месяцев назад

    They're loss, next Woman gain 😎

  • @jillpowers225
    @jillpowers225 11 месяцев назад

    That was a good one ! Thank you 🙏🏼 ❤

  • @gsgd4424
    @gsgd4424 11 месяцев назад

    Excellent video right on point

  • @VeraOhiaer
    @VeraOhiaer 11 месяцев назад +8

    My narcissist never hoover me. His new supply is much prettier and younger than me. He looks and dress much better than he did when we was with me. Spending money on her. I had to pay for everything

    • @rochellemack642
      @rochellemack642 11 месяцев назад +5

      KARMA is A BEAST

    • @VGH1967
      @VGH1967 11 месяцев назад +10

      It’s not a matter of his new supply being prettier and younger because there is always going to be someone prettier than yourself or myself. Just pour all that love that you poured into him just pour it into yourself. Regain your confidence and not worry about a hoover. One thing about a snake is it will eventually shed its skin. Going forward, I hope you never allow someone to demean you to the point of always making you pay for everything. God bless you.❤

    • @weaselwacker5462
      @weaselwacker5462 11 месяцев назад +12

      He cheating on her too trust me

    • @VeraOhiaer
      @VeraOhiaer 11 месяцев назад

      @@VGH1967 Thank you

    • @VeraOhiaer
      @VeraOhiaer 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@rochellemack642 Thank you

  • @Shirley-t9b
    @Shirley-t9b 11 месяцев назад +1

    Clarise what happens to the new supply who was there flying monkey she was abusing me and my child i was married to that malignant narc he had women and babies all over he was full of std. Can you please anwser thanks.

  • @talentedt5080
    @talentedt5080 11 месяцев назад

    FACTS 🤦🏽‍♀️💯✔️

  • @jeremylmckinney3364
    @jeremylmckinney3364 11 месяцев назад +1

    Why is the narc still alienating me from our children?

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 11 месяцев назад +2

      Trying to hurt you- stop acting like you wanna see them - ignore ignore then she’ll be calling you. When you emotionally have moved on- here they come ..

    • @rochellemack642
      @rochellemack642 11 месяцев назад +2

      Go 2 Court & handle Your & Your Children's business. Unless they r over 18 ,if so just Pray 4 them HARDER

  • @gwencalhoun7040
    @gwencalhoun7040 7 месяцев назад

    So what happens to the new supply

  • @taylordenise9215
    @taylordenise9215 11 месяцев назад

    Hello just wanted to let you know a person is using your pic on tiktok, as a spiritualist, have a blessed day

  • @sandiepartin830
    @sandiepartin830 4 месяца назад

    I didn't find what u are saying to be true cause the ine I had didn't do any of this

  • @Shirley-t9b
    @Shirley-t9b 11 месяцев назад

    There flying monkeys are there new supply his new supply was neighbour

  • @rochellet1333
    @rochellet1333 11 месяцев назад +1

    My concern is she (narc) will return here crying, when her husband does something harmful to her. She will have the grandkids in towe. I don't know what I would do. Please respond with suggestions.

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 11 месяцев назад +1

      If they treated you back , then do nothing. You witnessing the Karma.

    • @rochellemack642
      @rochellemack642 11 месяцев назад +1

      NO CONTACT

    • @Greatness-nb9kl
      @Greatness-nb9kl 11 месяцев назад

      Don't answer your door

  • @delphicmemories5722
    @delphicmemories5722 3 месяца назад

    What is a duck ?

  • @Missybella92227
    @Missybella92227 10 месяцев назад

    Have to disagree with this one based off my recent experience with ex fiancé, covert Narc.
    He was extremely unkind, hateful during the last couple weeks before being discarded.
    It was effortless for him; was discarded for his side supply.

  • @mjathisbestandteachingskil6980
    @mjathisbestandteachingskil6980 11 месяцев назад +1

    You're correct Telsha. Just like as of today11/3/23 still trying to Hoover. I will not accept nothing, still ghostly as of 11/3/2023. Exactly as you said it, she is to weak to hold me; especially on foolishness and the BS.💯%🙏x7. Let the field monkey go, monkey branch somewhere else. I'm only interested in a peace of mind and a faithful woman💯%✌. She needs to go heal herself thou, besides me and let it go. Its sad😢.

  • @OneWhoKnowz
    @OneWhoKnowz 11 месяцев назад

    Telsha oh that’s they’re karma 😂 and I don’t feel bad 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ and it’s true the narcissist is truly feeble minded that was what the dictionary ought to have as an definition 😂😂😂😂 oooooo so my ex was in pain pain and that’s why they slander you the way they did cause that new person was UGLY they ain’t got no alibi!!! Mmmm u preaching 🫰🫰🫰🫰 Chile my ex came back a few days ago hoovering and small talking and I’m like this small talk is not something I’m interested in. 😂I was blocked so quick!!! 😂