HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024
- Insight on what was it about you that the narcissist was addicted too?!!
For Coaching inquiries please email: theteaonnpdcoaching@gmail.com
For other inquiries email:
theteaonnpd@gmail.com
For those that requested contribution information and would like to donate please see the following links and information:
My PayPal information:
theteaonnpd@gmail.com
My Cash App information:
theteaonnpd@gmail.com
$TelshaQEdenburgh
Venmo: Telsha Edenburgh
Zelle: Telsha Edenburgh
mnredenburgh@verizon.net
For all of those that choose to contribute - thank you - all contributions are appreciated!
It's true... I really did put him on a pedestal. I honestly believed that he was my soulmate. I honestly believed that he really loved me. But, all the while, there were red flags all over the place. I just kept sweeping that stuff under the rug. I wouldn't let myself believe it. But, God never gave up on me. And, I finally listened to HIS still small voice. God kept showing me subtle signs that the man that I thought was my companion, and my best friend was actually my worst enemy. True Story! God is the ONLY reason that I broke free from the narcissists insanity...
You just wrote my story ❤
@@firesha-x Isn't it mind boggling how we can all relate to similar lifestyles that we lived with the narcissists? They all follow the same playbook. Therefore, we can all relate to the same life stories that we lived with them. It's just crazy....
this is my life story. So hard to break away. My whole life was tied to that Narc. And we weren’t even in a “labelled” relationship. I was his comfort blanket until he found his new supply. I got accused of not being happy for him. And that’s the moment the glasses fell off and i realised what had occurred over the past 13 years. I put my boundaries in place on that date and cut off.
@@HonestyIsAVirtue7 ❤️
me too. i started prayin to god every night to reveal the truth and the next day i found out he was cheating
Well. I've got 2 addiction.
Smoking cigarettes Vs Narc..
The Narc had too go..
Now peacefully smoking with my cup of coffee Fantastic 🥂
He Didn't Want Sex With Me And I'm Glad Because No Telling What God Kept Me From Catching ALL The Glory Belongs To God 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Amen 🙌🏿
BINGO! Helped her to get her degrees and gave her almost everything I had. But, it was all transactional. Tried to tell me how to talk, how to walk, what to wear and was always critiquing me about how I should act. Thank God for that last triangulation attempt, and she thinks that I lost a good thing...while she is co-dependent and I am standing on my own? 🤷♂🤷♂🤷♂ I am THANKFUL for her PRIDE; because she's doing me a favor by NOT hoovering! Getting stronger every day. #NOCONTACT
Hang in there. You can do this. One day at a time, one moment at a time. I promise you, it will get better.
YES!! "I love the way you make me feel"... "no-one has loved me the way you have"..."you make me feel like the luckiest women on the planet"... its all about how they feel, not who we specifically are... trash!
The Narc I married would always tell me how beautiful I am but he didn’t treat me as such. I got cheated on, physically abused, mentally abused . Called awful names. I Never needed him- - I left like a thief in the night and never looked back. 3 yrs ago. I’m a peace . So glad to be away.
Annnndddd you bet , he was addicted.. and obsessed- I was the best he ever had & he knows that.
Ditto
He really thought i was in love with him😅. He became inconsistent and i reciprocated. Stopped returning calls then i blocked that 🤡. 😊
Iktr
Isn’t it crazy that they think you must be in love with them and they are incapable of loving….I always gave him what he gave me. I’d loved the silent treatment…a great break and an opportunity to hangout with my friends.
Boom 🎉🎉🎉
Boundaries
I remember the second time that he came over my house, he said why do we have to stay in the living room?
(My then 20 yr old daughter was still living at home) and I said because there's no reason to be anywhere else in the house outside of the living room or the kitchen.
I found myself only having him come over when I knew my daughter wasn't gonna be home so that I could entertain him in my bedroom.
I realize now that was his first attempt at testing my boundaries and I allowed it.
Im constantly replaying that 8 year addictionship in my head and realizing how terribly clueless I really was and how he came in my life knowing how he was going to try to destroy me.
Yes, he got me yo fall in love with him but there were certain things he couldn't do.
He could NEVER get money from me without paying me back!
Id NEVER put anything in my name for him!
He did get ALL of my energy!
He couldn't destroy me!
I love myself, I am powerful, I am healing 😊😊
Using my kindness for weakness.
When I met the narc he said to me what’s a deal breaker for a relationship with you ? I said someone with no teeth 🤣 he didn’t smile for 3 months when he finally did I found out he had 2 fangs left in the front which fell out soon after …. Lmao 🤣 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
This can not be true 😆😂🤣😆😂
Omg this is insane!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Ms. T, every. single. word you said is true! The ex narc I married told me lots of s3x and home-cooked food were the two most important things to him 🙄 Mind you, he was terrible in bed 😵💫 no intimacy or emotional connection whatsoever. He was addicted to my loving, trusting nature and my lack of boundaries. Can't believe I put up with that mess for almost 5 years.🤦🏾♀️ Thank God I'm out!
Same here for 16 yrs now he just died in September
Good afternoon Ms Tea to and survivors, I thank God I got out of that demonic stronghold and situationship if the narc is obsessed I wouldnt know cause I'm not contact I refuse to have anything to do with that pigeon with the missing feathers at all. I left that dusty burd kicked him out into the street the abuse from him was crazy never again than you Jesus for making a way for me to escape ,I'm divorcing that misreble creature he will never find grade A supply like me who did everything for him.
The narcissist i knew told me i didn't deserve what he was doing to me...He said it's better if he left me alone hmmm.❤Thanks for the vid.
Thank you for this!!! Definitely explains a lot!!
“What do you love about me?” …Narc - “I love the way you make me feel” 🤯 I’m talking about you repeated it verbatim …wow I feel so validated right now for not feeling like I was going crazy. Thank you God for this channel.
I continue to learn almost every day, something new about this bird, and my experience. Why the desperate need for s=x from a presumably 'CHRISTIAN" woman on day one , when I was celibate for 5 years, waiting on God. DOPAMINE FIX desperately needed. As I, a grown man, sat and wept after the fact, there was no emotion, no empathy, no wonder or concern. I had no idea what I was dealing with at the time. It's hard to see red flags when you're wearing rose colored glasses. Thank you sweet sister for continually being used to help pull layers of the onion off this complicated mess. ILY
As I did the hard internal work, addressed my codependency through Christ centered recovery (Celebrate Recovery) and learned how to establish healthy boundaries, that began the beginning of the end. It's hard and it's work, but it is so worth it to become free from the dysfunction and the walking on egg shells ( Great book by the way). I learned I can't fix people, I can only fix me. I'm worth the attention and hard work. God don't make junk. Be encouraged beloved. God loves you and you matter!
Greetings from Los Angeles. Love your ministry. Currently detaching from the toxic narcissistic family unit, so I need all the guidance I can get. Thanks!
You got this. They are weaker than we think😊
Yeah, the Narc FAM Unit trained their Golden Child YOUR NARCISSIST EVERYTHING THEY KNOW. They use the narc TO MOVE IN ON YOU AND LEECH OFF OF YOU FINANCIALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND SPIRITUALLY 💯💯💯
Girl keep letting God use you ❤️
Happy Friday beautiful woman of YAH!!! ❤🩷
Amen ! Everything you said was spot on. Dealing with a narc is tough . I’m thankful to be able to listen to you ! In Jesus name ❤
As a former Narcissist, I approve of this message.
Omg. Verbatim. Scary & unreal
You are a very beautiful woman ❤❤❤❤❤
You look absolutely beautiful and radiant!!!!! I have noticed that when people first start going through this living hell from the demon itself they look like they have been through the war. Once you are healed that person is absolutely beautiful and at peace! Found it was true with my before and after pictures from the pure hell I went through. Everyone I know that is a survivor has also noticed the change in themselves. Check your first videos and now! What a beautiful change of healing and inspiration! Thank you for all you do to help others!
You are spot on on this! Learn and walk away!!!
Hello Queen Telsha❤ A lot of in the moment moments with no future planning, a life of here & now, because they know there is no future with you! in their future 👀👀
10:53 Break it Down Sis, Yessss 🙌🏿
Where were you all my life...I wish I knew you 21 years ago..I have a narcissist ex and he's my son father's he has giving me hell for 21 years!!!! And still tries to this day!
YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL 😘🤭
She truly is
when i said bye to him it was more about what i did for him and why he didn’t want to let me go it was all about him
i’m so glad i found your channel it’s helped me process so much still overwhelmed but idk when i let go of him i felt a form of relief
8:52 smash that like button!! Amen
I am rocking with my girl
Not a pole in da basement 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He'd tell me he loved me often but i would feel it was phony somehow. I asked a few time what he loved about me and his answer was always, I'm sexy and kind. I'd think yeah it's all about what you're getting from me.
Porn and alcohol.
It's amazing how you understand the narcissist mind , you are really unique.
He acted that way in the relationship until he ghosted on another all of a sudden all of that act stops. It was all a show n a fake.
Excellent piece! 💯
May Yah Continue to bless u Abundantly Ms T ✨
I told him to leave and he said that he can't ,so I've blocked him
Thank you Telsha!! Such a bright beautiful smile 👄🙏
😂😂The tea Facts 100 Thank You For sharing Blessings 🙏
Hey lady. Welcome back
insert>PRAISE BREAK!!!!!
My ex even said to me, "I am addicted to you, I need you, and, I will never let you go". 😂
I absolutely love your energy and positive vibes. It's contagious.
I LOVE HIM
I LOVE HIM 🔒❣️
Yep 100 per cent true lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣my boundaries were so low I thort he was a good catch lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Tea you just hits the points
Yes. He is .
He was into porn, I wasn’t still ain’t so he tried to hide it. Lmbo I need you. No you don’t Smurf I’m glad it’s finally over. Sheeesh!!!
You're awesome 👌....I like that i learned some new things...
Thanks Tesha
The light was shed
I got cha ❤
This A Word Telsha!
😂😂😂😂😂definitely on the coffee table. Narc don’t play😂😂😂😂😂
He called me his Fighting partner. I told him I don't want that, I want to be in love
How do you handle winged monkeys? Do you discard them right away? No contact? What's the best way to do all this with the least amount of chaos? Thanks!
Me? Simply put they are a part of the entire dysfunctional low vibration mess. What good does it serve to stay attached giving their demons continued access to me? NONE! They will ALWAYS protect their own destructive, sick group.
If I was a bit older I'd be in your dms 😂tryin to respect my elders.
JS...
Teach!
Amen
Hi Ms T so when u go fully no contact is the narcissist looking bad & struggling in life without grade A supply
Thank u so much for continued learning 🫶🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎
TRUTH
Yes 🙏
I’m starting to think I’m the narcissist. 🤔😂 I’m serious tho 💎❤️💯🔥
❤❤❤
🙏🏾❣️☮️☀️
THANK YOU, KNOWLEDGE IS POWER,