I almost bought a new 30K SUV because I "needed" it for our family or 7. Instead I spent $900 to fix our 12 year old van. I avoided 30K in debt because of Dave Ramsey.
John Lester Except next month there will $2000 in repairs. It’s cheaper to buy a whole car than every part individually. Putting money into an old car is throwing good money after bad. If a car needs more than $750 worth of repairs get rid of it and buy a better car. You could buy a $10k car instead of a new $30k car.
This is exactly why I’m single. My ex was a princess living off her parents dime at 30. And she was an alcoholic. Leaving her was the best thing I ever did
Never try to change someone. People only change if they want to, and even then it isn't easy. Find someone who is on the same page. It's worth the wait.
@@whitegoodman7465 lol exactly that is a long term relationship making it nowadays. People want a fast food relationship of instant gratification then bounce.
If you want to marry this woman, she’s going to have to understand that her father and brother in law are not the men in her life once she’s married or there will be too many people in the marriage.
Yea, it’s a tough situation, because we also don’t know how she feels about marriage in the nearish future. If it’s too early, bringing this up might make him seem more controlling, rather than just that he cares, and he doesn’t want it to be both of their problems in the future.
He's coaching her to be the ultimate CONSUMER..Because that's what the brother-in-law is...& he's just hasn't seen the repercussions of that mentality YET.
Black Assassin Just a little because he cares about her. It’s not good to just cancel people. I believe if he has a conversation with her again like Dave suggested, she will turn around. If not, he will probably marry her at his discretion.
@@ChosenDeeDee better to be harsh now then have him 10 years in the future riddled with debt, having to pay alimony over a divorce, and having no financial freedom for the rest of his life.
Seeing yourself marrying someone and knowing that person is feeling the same way because you discuss your future are two different things. She may not be riding on the same train.
Let’s not forget 30 years down the road when the brother-in-law has to try and live off of him and his sister because of his life long poor financial choices.
@@robertwhite6203 yep this family could interfere overstepping boundaries in other areas too if they stay together. And it's weird lol, typically we hear about in laws or sibling being controlling but not a brother in law.
That's the point he has to make to the girlfriend....... he's up to his eyeballs in debt, are you sure that's someone you really want to take advice from
I was that lazy guy who got into a relationship. It took one kid and another on the way, homeless, sleeping in a church basement, to wake me up. That was 2011. In 2017, I was able to buy a house and my wife has been a stay at home mom to our 3 daughters since 2014. People can change.
Of course people can change but you’re advocating the hard way. You are the exception not the rule and therefore prove the rule. Many people who are unambiguous and homeless for majority of their life usually stay that way or have been so unprepared or unlucky that they never get a another real opportunity at life to correct those wrongs. They are clearly referring to likelihood
I tend to agree. It can go the other way as well. Somebody can be good looking and a hard worker and once they get married turn into a lazy slob. The important thing is to find somebody you enjoy being with that you can take on life with. It's going to go up and it's going to go down, but if you're a solid team you can handle anything!
@@pierrehenry3483 in not advocating the hard way. In saying that it can be overcome. Also, as long as someone has breath, they have opportunity. It's so easy to make money in America and there's no good excuse for most people to just exist in poverty forever
Empower her with financial knowledge. 💪🏼 Do Financial Peace University together. If she still doesn’t get it, then you know this isn’t the best person for you and you just saved yourself a lifetime of financial problems. If she jumps on board with FPU, then she will have her own decision-making power and you will have a great partner.
I was going to say this but you said it better. “Honey, you are going to be making a lot of money for the first time in your life. You have some big financial decisions to make in the near future. That’s why I got us two Financial Peace University classes for us. The leading cause of divorce is not being in the same page financially.” You should educate not dictate.
@@saulgoodman2018 Quotes are concise and says a lot in few words. Better than I can explain. On top of that, I can reword the essence of the quote and take credit of other words, as most people do. I think there are no thoughts that hasn't been spoken yet. But If you're curious whether my thought is any good then I've few contents and then you can pass a judgement if you want to.
@@TheQuickyouknow same msg for you too. Quotes are concise and says a lot in few words. Better than I can explain. On top of that, I can reword the essence of the quote and take credit of other words, as most people do. I think there are no thoughts that hasn't been spoken yet. But If you're curious whether my thought is any good then I've few contents and then you can pass a judgement if you want to.
When "family" is in your business more than their own, there's a problem with boundaries! Obviously the girlfriend doesn't think their relationship is as solid as he does, so he needs to think twice about her being his future wife. Great guy for being concerned but he should move on.
0:17: Joe: "I've been dating this girl for a long time" 1:35: Dave: "So, how long have you been dating." Joe: "For about a year" This conversation is not going to end well...
If you marry her be prepared to be the number 3 guy in her life 😬 you will never come first and your voice won't be heard until she confirms with daddy and brother in law. 🥴
I just got 6 years old car for 7.5k with 30k miles on it that person payed 28k when new. With taxes 8k vs. 31k.... 6 year loan would cost about 4k...35k dollar car for 7.5k ☺️
Boyfriend has no say whatsoever... Brother-in-law and father will be there... Boyfriend can leave tomorrow... Unless he commits, he can make suggest, but really has no say..🤫
Exactly why I broke up w my ex girlfriend at 18, not willing to work, lazy, sometimes annoying family, no ambition for the future. Best decision of my life so far. Thanks for making me feel even better of that decision.
My sister bought a brand new Nissan Altima, leather interior, back up cam etc. Overall, it’s a really nice car. She got it for $32k and paid it off in under 2 years. Truly proud of her work ethic. She is a true workaholic just like my mom! It comes down to your discipline. Goodluck
Kakusei - Yes, but they have been friends for years before they started dated. I think in his mind he is adding all that up. Which would make it "seem" much longer then they have actually dated.
it's the world we live in. I'm 21 and realized that everyone on instagram and other medias count everything from likes to views, but not what really matters.
"If you marry someone who's lazy..." I'm lazy and I know it. So to get what I want for what I'm willing to do, I have to learn to do something that's really valuable in the marketplace. That's the key. -- Marine Naval Aviator, CPA, MBA.-- Just like anything else, put together a salable package.
Get her a book on how to have healthy boundaries and tell her you thought she would love it. Let her figure out this simple puzzle for herself without your input, while observing her actions. 2 Possible Outcomes will occur 1. She will either never learn from her mistakes, then you should dump her 2. She will learn how to say NO and stand up for herself, then Marry her..
@@midkort I'm sure he's told her 100 x already, so it doesn't seem to sink in. It's called the definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. She's got to figure this out on her own. Common and sense and simple logic is not simple or common for 80% of humans.
My wife wanted to buy a brand new car when we first met and I asked her what was wrong with her current car. I told her not to get a new car because it wouldn’t be a smart financial decision on her part. She ended up getting her dream car later, and I helped her find it, but it took time and patience before she was ready. She listened to me and still thank me to this day for being honest with her. We have no car payments.
He's the exact opposite of that. He's actually smart for seeking the advise of others on a potential relationship issue. I bet you use that word a lot to describe other men, but it never applies to you.
Please research divorce statistics before marriage. I'm not saying to not marry necessarily, but you need to know the risks before jumping out of that plane with a parachute that has a 50% chance of opening.
That's the worst marriage advise I've ever heard. It's not to research statistics. It's to research the reasons why people divorce and fully understand the purpose of marriage. If people based their decisions on statistics, then they'll never get married.
I believe the best thing to do would be to be understanding of her situation, trying to explain your side but approach it with kindness and not anger/mockery. The best thing you can do is try and be as helpful as possible!
JoeAceJR I think you misunderstand me, I am agreeing with you %100 however there have been many times where someone has asked the advice of another and gone and done the complete opposite. It sounds like this is yet another instance.
The caller needs to listen to red pill content. He sounds young and the girlfriend is actually considering getting into debt with the Hyundai Palisade which is essentially the Korean Cadillac Escalade lol
Need to get to know someone. Do not move in with girlfriend/boyfriend. If it does not feel right, getting pushed into things financially you know is wrong.
@@walden0220 He can give his opinion, and leave it at that. But since they are not married, he does not get a vote. If she wants to buy a new car, that's her choice.
I can think of so many more fun things to do than buy a car I can't afford. I mean you could buy nice bike and ride your bike every now and then instead of the car and it wouldn't haunt you with debt
Got this friend at work. Got a girlfriend 3 months ago and in that time hes financed a 70K warlock, and he and her are moving in to an apartment together with her sister.
I swear this is 2 calls in a row with a boyfriend trying to save someone. Y’all gotta stop trying to save people. One thing you can’t do is tell grown people what to do. Let her do it. She’ll regret it.
Oh I know those exact kind of brother in laws. Sometimes, they will gang up on the boyfriend. Just ignore them and talk to your gf. If she can't understand why her future husband is more important, dump her.
Is this guy the boyfriend or Daddy? Until she gets to tell you what to do with your money, don't think you can tell her what to do with hers. Bring it up, discuss it once and let it go...you are a boyfriend (she may want to get the car and ditch you).
"I want you to have a good life, not just a good car". Nicely put, but he is just the b.f., so I think he should just have the Peace University/Baby step conversation and let her make her own decision!!!
Yeah, you will get used Lambo instead brand new Prius 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Some people just want the fresh, straight out of factory thing, this what makes them excited 😊
@@tomaszstarzZz I'm glad that doesn't really effect me much, it makes me think about the general attitude of those types of people. Are they buying it for practical reasons (illusions) of being slightly more reliable than a 12 month old car - or do they think this new STUFF is going to make them feel fulfilled in life?
Hyundai Palisade, 8-passenger SUV, starts at 32K - probably not a good choice as a starter car for someone on a budget, other wise nice vehicle for a solid career person with 3+ kids. Marina? At 291HP, could probably tow a recreational boat? towing capacity 5000lb?
Strongly reconsider marrying her. Those other folks will continue to have a strong influence on her after you are married. If you don't, you are going to be paying off her car for her soon. Good luck with that!
I almost bought a new 30K SUV because I "needed" it for our family or 7. Instead I spent $900 to fix our 12 year old van. I avoided 30K in debt because of Dave Ramsey.
Natalie Linden great call always good to be smart with your money. If you need a brand new car to impress your friends, you need new friends.
John Lester Except next month there will $2000 in repairs. It’s cheaper to buy a whole car than every part individually. Putting money into an old car is throwing good money after bad. If a car needs more than $750 worth of repairs get rid of it and buy a better car. You could buy a $10k car instead of a new $30k car.
@@user-tb7rn1il3q the $10K car would also need repairs. The car we have has been reliable with minimal cost. It really depends on the car, of course.
@@natalielinden Get a Toyota and your set.
Yay!
This is exactly why I’m single. My ex was a princess living off her parents dime at 30. And she was an alcoholic. Leaving her was the best thing I ever did
Chuuch!!! Live and learn
Never try to change someone. People only change if they want to, and even then it isn't easy. Find someone who is on the same page. It's worth the wait.
Exactly!
Very well said!!! People expect someone to change after marriage
Good point !
Perfectly put 👌🏻
“Been dating quite some time” ...”about a year”. Lol
Hahahah...i know right ....come on !!!..
A year is a long time
nowadays thats a long time, sadly.
Zach Scheel 😂😂😂
@@whitegoodman7465 lol exactly that is a long term relationship making it nowadays. People want a fast food relationship of instant gratification then bounce.
If you want to marry this woman, she’s going to have to understand that her father and brother in law are not the men in her life once she’s married or there will be too many people in the marriage.
Definitely true.. but he's gotta earn that right first with a ring.. Being the boyfriend doesn't earn it...
love 4leggers totally agree.
Yea, it’s a tough situation, because we also don’t know how she feels about marriage in the nearish future. If it’s too early, bringing this up might make him seem more controlling, rather than just that he cares, and he doesn’t want it to be both of their problems in the future.
This guy gonna figure out a way to. Many everyone happy
the longterm issue is the brother in law, he's not gonna go away anutime soon
He's coaching her to be the ultimate CONSUMER..Because that's what the brother-in-law is...& he's just hasn't seen the repercussions of that mentality YET.
That can be arranged 😈
No, the BIL isn't the issue. He's a symptom.
Buying a new car is the worst mistake. We bought a 1996 pick up truck for $3300 in 2012. With regular maintenance, it runs great!
A new girlfriend is cheaper than a new car lol
Aww that’s so mean 🤣
Is it though?....
Black Assassin Just a little because he cares about her. It’s not good to just cancel people. I believe if he has a conversation with her again like Dave suggested, she will turn around. If not, he will probably marry her at his discretion.
A fleshlight is cheaper than both 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
@@ChosenDeeDee better to be harsh now then have him 10 years in the future riddled with debt, having to pay alimony over a divorce, and having no financial freedom for the rest of his life.
Correction. "My girlfriend wants me to get a new Girlfriend".
🤣👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Lol
Guys you never get any action , will do anything once they find it
Boom!!!! Haha
Seeing yourself marrying someone and knowing that person is feeling the same way because you discuss your future are two different things. She may not be riding on the same train.
Let’s not forget 30 years down the road when the brother-in-law has to try and live off of him and his sister because of his life long poor financial choices.
Oh you do not want to marry into this, you'd be controlled by them too.
Sitting both on the couch with brother in law right in the middle.
100% true
Sounds like a mess !
@@robertwhite6203 yep this family could interfere overstepping boundaries in other areas too if they stay together. And it's weird lol, typically we hear about in laws or sibling being controlling but not a brother in law.
“He gets into debt like it’s his day job” that was pretty funny😂😂
That's the point he has to make to the girlfriend....... he's up to his eyeballs in debt, are you sure that's someone you really want to take advice from
I was that lazy guy who got into a relationship. It took one kid and another on the way, homeless, sleeping in a church basement, to wake me up. That was 2011. In 2017, I was able to buy a house and my wife has been a stay at home mom to our 3 daughters since 2014. People can change.
Stop teaching young men to be simps please
Of course people can change but you’re advocating the hard way. You are the exception not the rule and therefore prove the rule. Many people who are unambiguous and homeless for majority of their life usually stay that way or have been so unprepared or unlucky that they never get a another real opportunity at life to correct those wrongs. They are clearly referring to likelihood
@@edgehodl4832 what do you mean by your comment?
I tend to agree. It can go the other way as well. Somebody can be good looking and a hard worker and once they get married turn into a lazy slob. The important thing is to find somebody you enjoy being with that you can take on life with. It's going to go up and it's going to go down, but if you're a solid team you can handle anything!
@@pierrehenry3483 in not advocating the hard way. In saying that it can be overcome. Also, as long as someone has breath, they have opportunity. It's so easy to make money in America and there's no good excuse for most people to just exist in poverty forever
Why is she putting so much faith in what her brother in law says but she doesnt even want to hear her boyfriend out? Suspish
Her brother in law hitting her cheeks 😴
I think every guy who has seen too many sibling in law “videos” will assume something is going on.
Daniel Veira probably is. Your partner is suppose to have the most influence in your life not some relatives.
NoSpark sweet home .....
NoSpark more like destroying her gutz!
Empower her with financial knowledge. 💪🏼 Do Financial Peace University together. If she still doesn’t get it, then you know this isn’t the best person for you and you just saved yourself a lifetime of financial problems. If she jumps on board with FPU, then she will have her own decision-making power and you will have a great partner.
Well said!
I was going to say this but you said it better. “Honey, you are going to be making a lot of money for the first time in your life. You have some big financial decisions to make in the near future. That’s why I got us two Financial Peace University classes for us. The leading cause of divorce is not being in the same page financially.”
You should educate not dictate.
Lol “that’s why I’m still single” @Anthony 🤣🤣🤣
As the boyfriend, don’t make other people’s problems, your problem.
If he plans on marrying her than it will become his problem (as they mentioned marriage)
“Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes. That way, you'll be a mile from them, and you'll have their shoes.”
-- Jack Handey
What's your point?
@@TheQuickyouknow point [noun] : the tapered, sharp end of a tool, weapon, or other object. Source: Google.
@@saulgoodman2018 Doesn't look like it lol
@@saulgoodman2018 Quotes are concise and says a lot in few words. Better than I can explain. On top of that, I can reword the essence of the quote and take credit of other words, as most people do.
I think there are no thoughts that hasn't been spoken yet. But If you're curious whether my thought is any good then I've few contents and then you can pass a judgement if you want to.
@@TheQuickyouknow same msg for you too. Quotes are concise and says a lot in few words. Better than I can explain. On top of that, I can reword the essence of the quote and take credit of other words, as most people do.
I think there are no thoughts that hasn't been spoken yet. But If you're curious whether my thought is any good then I've few contents and then you can pass a judgement if you want to.
I think it's great that Dave said he couldn't say it nicer and then literally formulated the perfect response.
Sell the gf.
If you said rent, I might be interested
When "family" is in your business more than their own, there's a problem with boundaries! Obviously the girlfriend doesn't think their relationship is as solid as he does, so he needs to think twice about her being his future wife. Great guy for being concerned but he should move on.
Good point ! In laws have no business in other family’s business . Some are just plain nosy .
@@robertwhite6203 yep too controlling and overbearing. We hear about this with in laws but it's even more stupid a brother in law involved.
People saying sell the gf? She’s in debt.. she has no value to sell 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
well than make her work it and pay it.
He can take a personal loan to cover the loss
0:17: Joe: "I've been dating this girl for a long time"
1:35: Dave: "So, how long have you been dating."
Joe: "For about a year"
This conversation is not going to end well...
He is so naive. Thinking he is more into the relationship than she is.
Long is relative. Maybe this is his longest relationship. He needs to keep looking.
@Shorty Uh, he's smart enough to seek out advice before moving forward. Meanwhile, you're home jerking it, "alpha" boy.
If you marry her be prepared to be the number 3 guy in her life 😬 you will never come first and your voice won't be heard until she confirms with daddy and brother in law. 🥴
He pointed out daddy is dead
"Hyundai Palisade"???. So she has kids right?
SIMP away Joe. SIMP away.
When your brand new car’s back tires roll off the pavement of the car lot, you’ve lost $3k in value and now own a used car. STUPID!!
Truth :(
I just got 6 years old car for 7.5k with 30k miles on it that person payed 28k when new. With taxes 8k vs. 31k.... 6 year loan would cost about 4k...35k dollar car for 7.5k ☺️
But if you keep it 8-10 years it will be worth it
@@krecikowi must not be a good car if it lost that much value in that short of time.
Boyfriend has no say whatsoever... Brother-in-law and father will be there... Boyfriend can leave tomorrow... Unless he commits, he can make suggest, but really has no say..🤫
He literally acknowledges and says this himself
Why should he commit before he finds out if she will listen to reason?
@@LG123ABC this^
Better get a brand new girlfriend.
When you get married you get the whole family as well so make sure you make the right decision before committing to crazy
Exactly why I broke up w my ex girlfriend at 18, not willing to work, lazy, sometimes annoying family, no ambition for the future.
Best decision of my life so far. Thanks for making me feel even better of that decision.
My sister bought a brand new Nissan Altima, leather interior, back up cam etc. Overall, it’s a really nice car. She got it for $32k and paid it off in under 2 years. Truly proud of her work ethic. She is a true workaholic just like my mom! It comes down to your discipline. Goodluck
Don’t co-sign with anyone, simple. There’s no need especially when nothing is guaranteed.
"quite sometime" ... 1 year. 🤦♂️ That's not long at all.
Right!! 🤣🤣🤣
Kakusei - Yes, but they have been friends for years before they started dated. I think in his mind he is adding all that up. Which would make it "seem" much longer then they have actually dated.
What he meant: they were play buddies for years ...She recently gave him a chance..So they are now official...😄😄
With just 800 miles on the clock I saved 9k and a wait for my Car.
Don’t buy new buy nearly new.
Ahh the American princesses who live to impress others, rather than themselves
it's the world we live in. I'm 21 and realized that everyone on instagram and other medias count everything from likes to views, but not what really matters.
@@armandol1826 very wise!!! They are living from their egos not soul purpose striving to impress others with fake lifestyles.
Disobedience from a woman is sickening!
Leave bro! Her family is wayyyyyyy to overbearing
1 year in relationship? nahhhh you gotta let her go
"If you marry someone who's lazy..." I'm lazy and I know it. So to get what I want for what I'm willing to do, I have to learn to do something that's really valuable in the marketplace. That's the key.
-- Marine Naval Aviator, CPA, MBA.-- Just like anything else, put together a salable package.
Get her a book on how to have healthy boundaries and tell her you thought she would love it.
Let her figure out this simple puzzle for herself without your input, while observing her actions.
2 Possible Outcomes will occur
1. She will either never learn from her mistakes, then you should dump her
2. She will learn how to say NO and stand up for herself, then Marry her..
Yup, I think that's the best way to do it.
If he tells her what to do, how does know if she really understood the underlying problems?
@@midkort I'm sure he's told her 100 x already, so it doesn't seem to sink in. It's called the definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. She's got to figure this out on her own. Common and sense and simple logic is not simple or common for 80% of humans.
Learning tact is a great thing.
My girlfriend bought a $62K car before I met her and said I “need” it for my future kids. She’s 30, living at home, broke, and has no kids.
My wife wanted to buy a brand new car when we first met and I asked her what was wrong with her current car. I told her not to get a new car because it wouldn’t be a smart financial decision on her part. She ended up getting her dream car later, and I helped her find it, but it took time and patience before she was ready. She listened to me and still thank me to this day for being honest with her. We have no car payments.
Waiting for your dream car to depreciate for the price is the best feeling for a car guy like me . 💰🤣
Dave knocked this out the park
With marriage, their debt is your debt. You can't control anyone. Don't get married! Marriage is a liability.
I can see that he cares about her
@Shorty And you're a jag off. What's your point?
Hey Joe.... Look up the Word “SIMP” and read the definition to yourself 10x’s....🤷♂️😂
Lol
💯
A simp is a man who beckons to a woman’s every need. Key words “every need”
Lolollo so true
He's the exact opposite of that. He's actually smart for seeking the advise of others on a potential relationship issue. I bet you use that word a lot to describe other men, but it never applies to you.
CT! Let’s go!
If you're wondering why your kid college fund isn't funded. Take a look in your driveway! You are driving it.
A kid's college fund should be funded...by that kid. Mom and Dad should worry about retirement.
They also want the prestigious college decal on the back of that fancy car!
Leave her if she buys a new car.
Ex-girlfriend I hope. Just dump the whole family. Don't do it son. Run away now. Save yourself.
She isnt buying the car. She is borrowing money to drive the bank's car. Unless its paid off, its not really your car.
Ayy CT represent! Also never get a new car unless you wanna throw away your money.
correction: my girlfriend wants *(me)* to buy *(her)* a brand new car
If you can afford it, why not?
@@glorymanheretosleep A girlfriend...? That's why.
glorymanheretosleep don’t buy a girlfriend a new car. That’s stupid. Buy your wife a car.
@@scuba535 Buy your wife a used car with cash and invest the difference.
"I'm not known for sugar-coating things..." see entry for "understatement" in dictionary
Dave Ramsey is so wise
Liabilities have this thing about them that makes you love them more than you do reason.
Please research divorce statistics before marriage.
I'm not saying to not marry necessarily, but you need to know the risks before jumping out of that plane with a parachute that has a 50% chance of opening.
Very well said !!
That's the worst marriage advise I've ever heard. It's not to research statistics. It's to research the reasons why people divorce and fully understand the purpose of marriage. If people based their decisions on statistics, then they'll never get married.
I just bought 2005 Mustang for 2k it's new for me
I got this one Dave: to the caller,
AMS
The Four Horsemen of game podcast
Yes lol
Fthts😂
Dusty male strategies.
Don’t tell utube. But I smell red pill. Dave is changing. Spread the word. Brother
Dave is not red pill at all, but a lot of guys in the comments are...
Valor_X true that. lol true that
I believe the best thing to do would be to be understanding of her situation, trying to explain your side but approach it with kindness and not anger/mockery. The best thing you can do is try and be as helpful as possible!
JoeAceJR I didn’t say there was, but I don’t think beating a dead horse is a constructive counter argument.
JoeAceJR I think you misunderstand me, I am agreeing with you %100 however there have been many times where someone has asked the advice of another and gone and done the complete opposite. It sounds like this is yet another instance.
Perfect counsel! If they do it while you’re dating, they’ll do it worse when you’re married! That goes for ALL bad behavior.
Great video
The caller needs to listen to red pill content. He sounds young and the girlfriend is actually considering getting into debt with the Hyundai Palisade which is essentially the Korean Cadillac Escalade lol
when he marries her thats his debt
Boundaries in Dating by Cloud and Townsend a good read.
at 34 i've never felt more understood than Anthony's comment of knowing in 10 minutes if it will work or not on a date.
This guy is jumping the gun trying to marry this girl after only a year of dating. He definitely doesn't think rationally.
Need to get to know someone. Do not move in with girlfriend/boyfriend. If it does not feel right, getting pushed into things financially you know is wrong.
This guest dude is hilarious 😂😂
How old is the girl? That plays a huge role.
Since he has not stepped up and married her, he does not get a vote. She is a single adult and can decide for herself.
It's been one year. It is not been long enough to see a person's true intentions in a situation like this will help show it
@@walden0220 He can give his opinion, and leave it at that. But since they are not married, he does not get a vote. If she wants to buy a new car, that's her choice.
Don’t date people in debt. It’s hard to get through to someone who is in debt and doesn’t know any better. They’ll think you’re “showing off”
And that life is necessary to live without actual means. Those people-and there's a lot of them-will never accumulate enough to be safe.
Brother in laws 😂
Father in laws 😂
It’s brothers-in-law and fathers-in-law.
I can think of so many more fun things to do than buy a car I can't afford. I mean you could buy nice bike and ride your bike every now and then instead of the car and it wouldn't haunt you with debt
Got this friend at work. Got a girlfriend 3 months ago and in that time hes financed a 70K warlock, and he and her are moving in to an apartment together with her sister.
if she doesn't listen to you now, do you think she will listen to you when you get married?
Simple
You want a new car ? Fine.
I refuse to have a gf with debt.
Anthony got that summer glow! We see you
Dave is concerned for his cohost lol
I swear this is 2 calls in a row with a boyfriend trying to save someone. Y’all gotta stop trying to save people. One thing you can’t do is tell grown people what to do. Let her do it. She’ll regret it.
Great content! Maybe i'll add that in my VIDS. 💪🏻
Just tell her bro to think twice before buying the car bye
Dave - providing pretty good relationship advice!
Do I want to buy a new car. Those are my favourite talk em out of it!!
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Oh I know those exact kind of brother in laws. Sometimes, they will gang up on the boyfriend. Just ignore them and talk to your gf. If she can't understand why her future husband is more important, dump her.
Time to mosey on down to the comments...
1:29 (autotranslate) I could definitely see "burying " her in the future rofl
Is this guy the boyfriend or Daddy?
Until she gets to tell you what to do with your money, don't think you can tell her what to do with hers.
Bring it up, discuss it once and let it go...you are a boyfriend (she may want to get the car and ditch you).
Maybe both..
@@ChrisMFlorida YUCK!
@@steelcastle5616 don't be serious you'd simp out to a woman in no time the way you keep commentating on here lol.
@@dolf7014 Not everyone is like you.
She wants to be normal
"I want you to have a good life, not just a good car". Nicely put, but he is just the b.f., so I think he should just have the Peace University/Baby step conversation and let her make her own decision!!!
Answer : Drop the girlfriend 💀🤣
I would imagine when I become a millionaire that I still wouldn't buy a new car. A one year old car is still DANG nice.
Also with a 20 year old Corolla you still can be a millionaire and stay a millionaire.
Preach 🤣💰
Yeah, you will get used Lambo instead brand new Prius 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Some people just want the fresh, straight out of factory thing, this what makes them excited 😊
@@tomaszstarzZz I'm glad that doesn't really effect me much, it makes me think about the general attitude of those types of people. Are they buying it for practical reasons (illusions) of being slightly more reliable than a 12 month old car - or do they think this new STUFF is going to make them feel fulfilled in life?
Hyundai Palisade, 8-passenger SUV, starts at 32K - probably not a good choice as a starter car for someone on a budget, other wise nice vehicle for a solid career person with 3+ kids. Marina? At 291HP, could probably tow a recreational boat? towing capacity 5000lb?
She should buy it then. What's the problem? Just don't marry her until she pays it off or it gets repossessed.
Strongly reconsider marrying her. Those other folks will continue to have a strong influence on her after you are married. If you don't, you are going to be paying off her car for her soon. Good luck with that!