The Dark Side Of Sexual Fetishes

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @g_schetka
    @g_schetka 2 дня назад +332

    The utter shame caused by them should be mentioned, no matter how harmless they may be I've never come to terms with them, never disclosed them and they continue to bother me, I wish I could go back to prevent myself from exploring them during my childhood as my brain is now wired to seek pleasure from them and the shame kills me.

    • @Big.Von313
      @Big.Von313 2 дня назад +10

      Exactly the same for me

    • @JoeShmoe376
      @JoeShmoe376 2 дня назад +29

      Everyone's got a fantasy, my friend. If it's something you think would be harmful to yourself or a partner, there is virtue in refusing to act on those desires.
      Shame and guilt are of the devil.

    • @g_schetka
      @g_schetka 2 дня назад +12

      ​@@JoeShmoe376 The act would be anything but harmful, rather it is due to the stigma surrounding it I have grown deeply ashamed of it and despise myself for it.

    • @karapveigas
      @karapveigas 2 дня назад

      This tool could help - I’ve used it to get relief of anxiety, shame, misunderstandings from things I witnessed or perceived in childhood: ruclips.net/video/W9Xy9hZBqOk/видео.htmlfeature=shared along with this: ruclips.net/video/EsPKRUu3KV0/видео.htmlfeature=shared and: ruclips.net/video/gZeM4AEag3c/видео.htmlfeature=shared I use the tool with clients with great results.

    • @WyzszaKalibracjaPerspektyw
      @WyzszaKalibracjaPerspektyw 2 дня назад

      Who really cares tho

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n 2 дня назад +87

    Timestamps
    1). Hybridtophilia 0:48
    2). Frotteurism 2:00
    3). Sommophilia 2:51
    4). Necrophilia 3:53
    5). Autoerotic asphyxiation 5:29
    Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

    • @Vsxe
      @Vsxe 2 дня назад +2

      I was wondering when someone would do this

    • @codybriangalacticraft69
      @codybriangalacticraft69 День назад +1

      Appreciated the effort! 🎉❤

    • @Sonicfalcon16
      @Sonicfalcon16 День назад +2

      ok so basicly none of the ones that apply to me. Thank god

  • @egg1179
    @egg1179 2 дня назад +567

    I hate how I instantly click on this video lol

    • @mc2invent
      @mc2invent 2 дня назад +22

      Ooooo .... How interesting.

    • @snafu1635
      @snafu1635 2 дня назад +8

      Same 😅

    • @Muroxa
      @Muroxa 2 дня назад +9

      Maybe u can call it wanting to learn idk really

    • @Dr_Doctor_Lee
      @Dr_Doctor_Lee 2 дня назад +3

      ye..same.-

    • @FeeceStudios
      @FeeceStudios 2 дня назад +1

      Same tbh

  • @rwolfrocks
    @rwolfrocks 2 дня назад +229

    Never underestimate your safe word

    • @luki_85
      @luki_85 2 дня назад +9

      Zendaya

    • @SooshieInHeadspace
      @SooshieInHeadspace 2 дня назад +6

      "remember your safeword" -TV Girl

    • @luki_85
      @luki_85 2 дня назад +2

      @@SooshieInHeadspace i had no idea tv grill was that freaky

    • @SooshieInHeadspace
      @SooshieInHeadspace 2 дня назад +3

      @@luki_85 oh well TV Girl's song lyrics are very freaky most of the time-

    • @AJHyoton
      @AJHyoton День назад

      Lemondrop. When timed right, the "dr" part gets drawled out

  • @peishancraken
    @peishancraken 21 час назад +181

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @Malaikamuskan-v5z
      @Malaikamuskan-v5z 21 час назад

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @AfkAliaga
      @AfkAliaga 21 час назад

      Steve_porss1 is the man , I share similar experiences with anxiety, depression, PTSD, and addiction. Psilocybin mushrooms have been a game-changer for me, aiding greatly in my recovery and sobriety."

    • @speedemonxs
      @speedemonxs 21 час назад

      I wish those were more easily accessible where I live.
      Microdosing was my next step for my husband. He's 59 & dealing with lots of mental health challenges, possible CTE & a TBI that put him in a coma for 8 days. Unfortunately, I had to get a TPO since he's 6'6, over 300 pounds, and showing violent behavior, constantly talking about harming others. He's aggressive. To anyone reading this, if you're familiar with BPD, is it common to have an obsession with violence?

    • @Malaikamuskan-v5z
      @Malaikamuskan-v5z 21 час назад

      Is he on instagram?

    • @AfkAliaga
      @AfkAliaga 21 час назад

      Steve_porss1 is the man

  • @12boss_king
    @12boss_king 2 дня назад +167

    I am so dumbfounded after watching this. Are people in the real world really like this?New fear unlocked. 💀

    • @duckling8
      @duckling8 2 дня назад +15

      Be afraid

    • @Inquisitor86779
      @Inquisitor86779 2 дня назад +46

      This stuff just scratches the surface.

    • @12boss_king
      @12boss_king 2 дня назад +15

      @@Inquisitor86779 Oh my goodness ~ That's just terrifying😷

    • @Kaymitlit
      @Kaymitlit 2 дня назад +8

      I am 37 woman and hesitate to watch the video I am reading the comment first but I will watch the video to educate myself but scared to what I will discover haha 🙈😅
      EDIT:It was okay I thought it would be some really really dark crazy things.

    • @ΔημητρηςΑντωνιου-μ2λ
      @ΔημητρηςΑντωνιου-μ2λ 2 дня назад

      ​@@12boss_king not even the surface... Just don't search sites about h*nt*I. You won't like what you will see.
      And to think these would be the top searches/findings if you were to look blindly

  • @Wilebane
    @Wilebane 2 дня назад +86

    It's actually really cool that you guys are open and willing to make videos explaining these things. I'm not really into any of these myself, but it's always good to learn about them.

    • @AJHyoton
      @AJHyoton День назад +2

      Especially when that day arrives. Find yer inner kink!

  • @deleteduser3424
    @deleteduser3424 День назад +38

    As a psychologist and counsellor. Most, if not all fetishes stem from trauma, neglect or fear.
    Fetishes which directly involve your partner In changing or disabling their behaviours and actions are the ones we need to pay more attention to. Consent is important - yes. That does not mean going full out and fulfilling whatever fantasy you have, consent > safety > comfort. If a partner is uncomfortable with it then that should automatically mean STOP. We should all know that hopefully.
    Other fetishes can be on inanimate objects or involving inanimate objects OR a specific body part like the infamous foot fetish we all know about. This one, more harmless but again it’s all about what the partner is comfortable in doing.
    I personally believe that fetishes which don’t involve the restriction of the partners movement, behaviour and boundaries are completely safe and shouldnt be looked down upon, in a way, we please ourselves with hand made toys anyway.
    It’s the ones mainly mentioned in this video as well which need to be looked over. If a partner gets a kick out of having more control over someone then you need to look into it, I’m only saying this because 80% of my abuse survivors (men and women) involved bdsm in their sexual interactions.
    If someone asks to be tied up etc, by all means - go ahead. Just discuss limits and hard boundaries beforehand.
    Things like choking, I personally would avoid, and if someone asks for that then I believe they need to be looked over by a professional because in a way, it’s self harm to a degree that can cause permanent damage or death.
    Again, it’s all about Consent > Safety > Comfort. On both sides.
    Things like groping and public harassment, or even bringing your sexual fantasies to public, are the ones I’m personally against. Why is groping considered a fetish? If that was the case then we should be calling child predatory behaviour a fetish as well? Nonsense, these things need immediate seeing to and jail time!
    Have fun and be safe in this weird and wonderful world!

    • @umcaraqualquer3640
      @umcaraqualquer3640 День назад +2

      Fetishes have to be integrated healthily, in the end. I have fun with my foot fetish now, but it took a while to be comfortable and respectful for both me and my partner. And of course, it's known only to us.

    • @toyotawitha20mm35
      @toyotawitha20mm35 День назад +2

      I have never experience trauma or anything of the likes, yet I still have a few fetishes (all of them are litteraly not possible irl thankfully), why is that?

    • @riarivera5995
      @riarivera5995 День назад +4

      I've also read about a growing trend in younger men that they begin to choke their partners because the media they consume telling them that women like it. Sex needs to lose its shame but there definitely needs to be more education about the subject. This is why I appreciate this channel so much.

  • @hunterlovejoy7651
    @hunterlovejoy7651 2 дня назад +179

    As a dude I don’t think “I can fix her” I much prefer the “she can ruin me”

    • @broc80
      @broc80 2 дня назад +8

      Not really looking for a project

    • @ph0ne_c0rdle
      @ph0ne_c0rdle 2 дня назад +11

      what about both she gets better but you get worse

    • @danielcaraveo4844
      @danielcaraveo4844 2 дня назад +1

      Lol😂

    • @acid_atr0city
      @acid_atr0city 2 дня назад

      ​@@ph0ne_c0rdle sexually transmitted criminal behavior

    • @MikomikYT
      @MikomikYT 2 дня назад

      That could make a good movie/series​@@ph0ne_c0rdle

  • @NatashaVincent
    @NatashaVincent 2 дня назад +88

    Can we fully appreciate our trusty animator, Zuzia, please? In fact, thanks to the entire team who break down these topics with citations.

    • @semi_dott
      @semi_dott 2 дня назад +2

      Fr man the animators aren't appreciated enough

    • @frodriquez1
      @frodriquez1 16 часов назад +2

      Zuzia? Who's name is that it's beautiful

  • @insertwordshere6952
    @insertwordshere6952 2 дня назад +279

    Diddy's favorite Psych2Go video.

    • @kujo62
      @kujo62 2 дня назад +14

      Take that take that haaaaa

    • @arjunmongado1435
      @arjunmongado1435 2 дня назад +14

      "This will scare diddy" ahh comment💀

    • @MrMuffin5
      @MrMuffin5 2 дня назад +12

      Get out of this comment section, only serious stuff here

    • @Toby-Jr
      @Toby-Jr 2 дня назад +6

      ​@@MrMuffin5 🤓

    • @auserwitha404
      @auserwitha404 2 дня назад +4

      woah calm down my guy

  • @iamAustinxD
    @iamAustinxD День назад +14

    What if it’s a fetish you’ve had since you were a child?

    • @toyotawitha20mm35
      @toyotawitha20mm35 День назад +3

      Yeah I'm asking the same question, I was never abused, never experienced trauma, yet I still have a few.

    • @teally-bop
      @teally-bop 15 часов назад +1

      😬

  • @Naex__
    @Naex__ 2 дня назад +14

    I really did not think it was going to be THAT dark

    • @Vsxe
      @Vsxe 2 дня назад +2

      and the only dark one they mentioned was the last one.

  • @DaHuuudge
    @DaHuuudge 2 дня назад +49

    The thing is, just about any kink or fetish - even ones that seem harmful on the surface - can be integrated into a complete person in a healthy way. The key is honesty and consent. There are communities that can help with this, along with therapy. Guilt, shame, and fear are not helpful reactions here. If you are experiencing shame with regard to a kink or fetish you have, I would gently urge you to leave it aside to whatever extent possible.

    • @SuperiorRobyn
      @SuperiorRobyn 2 дня назад +2

      I honestly don't believe that is always true

    • @Lysirell
      @Lysirell 2 дня назад +8

      ​@@SuperiorRobyn I mean it's kinda true up to some degree. There are some kinks that are outright harmful 100% of the time, but well, many other kinks are simply "dangerous". With that i mean there is always a risk involved, but they can be done in a relatively safe way

    • @XM8A1
      @XM8A1 2 дня назад

      Kinks in general are typically seen as taboo by alot of uneducated people, so they'd shame people with them if they knew. So it depends on why u feel ashamed.

    • @Vsxe
      @Vsxe 2 дня назад +1

      you're right, but sadly when talking about fetishes most people only think of the non-consensual related ones.

    • @AJHyoton
      @AJHyoton День назад +2

      Finally, someone who presents understanding rather than criticism. To clarify the last sentence, but aside the shame, not the trait. The trait is the same as having a discolored fingernail or a birthmark. The shame is trying to hard to be rid of something that is just there and it is not a big deal.

  • @Hurkuhntreeks
    @Hurkuhntreeks 2 дня назад +26

    ❤I dated a girl with a shoe. Fetish. She had 1000’s of shoes. Used and nasty. She’d stuff nasty socks in her and keep them inside all day at work and have weekend parties with girls all foot stuff. She’d get really bad yeast infections

  • @kujo62
    @kujo62 2 дня назад +75

    If you could maybe die while you're doing it, it's probably not a good idea. I had a cousin go out that way.

    • @justalpha9138
      @justalpha9138 2 дня назад +3

      I'm sorry to hear that

    • @Vsxe
      @Vsxe 2 дня назад +1

      maybe that is the whole idea.

    • @AJHyoton
      @AJHyoton День назад +3

      Out with a bang not a whimper

    • @umcaraqualquer3640
      @umcaraqualquer3640 День назад +1

      Damn what a way to go!

    • @hallucinatiing
      @hallucinatiing День назад

      The "gun fetish" whole thing is apperantly a "taming" thing like u have control over theyre life and the fear is like submission thing. Watch out for those bitches that bullshit rubs off on you

  • @Quinn_1441
    @Quinn_1441 2 дня назад +39

    I don't understand, this vid says it was posted 1 min ago but the comments were like weeks or days ago-
    Edit:Ok guys, I get it. It was a membership okay!?😭 I've never had a memebership neither heard of it. Besides ya'll could say it nicely y'know? (Telling to the ones who were rude.)

    • @TThe_w1o
      @TThe_w1o 2 дня назад +4

      maybe memberships?

    • @jesspacial
      @jesspacial 2 дня назад +2

      They are CLOWNS TRYING TO BRAINWASH YOUR PSYCHE 🤡🤡🤡

    • @MILLIEHEARTU
      @MILLIEHEARTU 2 дня назад +6

      Same but i think its member ship---

    • @jesspacial
      @jesspacial 2 дня назад +1

      ​@@MILLIEHEARTUyes but they have been doing this for like 5 months ago. They NEED ATTENTION 🤡🤡🤡

    • @jesspacial
      @jesspacial 2 дня назад +1

      ​@@MILLIEHEARTUit is okay because they need to eat from somewhere... but by brainwashing people with old psychology and generalizing in ways like this 🤡

  • @ALT-vz3jn
    @ALT-vz3jn 2 дня назад +28

    The singer of InXS also died from autoerotic asphyxiation. It caused a lot of drama back in the day, as the band were at the height of their popularity.

    • @Hurkuhntreeks
      @Hurkuhntreeks 2 дня назад +1

      😡that’s what we all thought. Dig deep and research. Chris Cornell BORDAIN Chester Bennington Robin Williams David kerideen all died the same way. Also all had red handkerchiefs or ties which is a code. Bob geldoff is a high ranking Freemason. Favors are done and the media is owned by all same people. Don’t badmouth Michael hutchence, he’d never do that and leave his daughter behind. He was murdered. Plain and simple

    • @billd66
      @billd66 День назад +1

      Michael Hutchence. :( RIP

  • @d4ni3415
    @d4ni3415 2 дня назад +31

    We start strong with this one☠️🙏🏻

  • @TheNerdMichael
    @TheNerdMichael 2 дня назад +12

    Like how Psych2Go has been doing these videos on sexuality and fetishes.
    I want to see them go deeper - I would love to see them talk about the furry and vore communities and what recent research has brought up on these goofy goobers.

    • @AriaLavinde
      @AriaLavinde День назад +2

      Should that video happen, I think it would be worth taking a look into endosomatophilia as well then. A very little known word but which stands for the safe side of vore. Usually, people tend to look at vorarephilia as a domination/submission, or a pred/prey thing, but because imagining that scenario with humans is pretty much on the realm of fantasy, many more dynamics can be applied, and thus that many drives for this kink/fetish/paraphilia.

    • @toyotawitha20mm35
      @toyotawitha20mm35 День назад

      Litteraly me, furries and vore are so based. But also it doesn't really apply to these videos, because again, these things are purely fantasy, they are not possible in real life interactions.

    • @TheNerdMichael
      @TheNerdMichael 13 часов назад +1

      @@AriaLavinde I learned something new today - and I thought I knew most vore & online terms 🤣
      Thank you for sharing! I am really curious about how the past few decades of internet culture has had on sexual development. It's really uncharted stuff compared to decades before of more "traditional" development.

    • @AriaLavinde
      @AriaLavinde 12 часов назад +1

      @@TheNerdMichael You are welcome~ Truth be told, the term is barely used or even known in the stead of "safe vore". I have been in the vore community for many years and I could count the people who have been using it in the fingers of one hand... maybe two. Lol
      But the drive still remains: some people dream of it like a comfortable union at distance zero, all in safety and care for the other person.

  • @IncultaInc
    @IncultaInc День назад +5

    Yes please. More people need safe information regarding kink

  • @wiseguy240Winston
    @wiseguy240Winston 2 дня назад +29

    Women telling me they like to be chocked was pretty shocking, and ain't nobody tryna catch a case 😩

    • @hallucinatiing
      @hallucinatiing День назад

      Theyre way kinkier then men WAYYY shit rubs off on me to this day. Ppl is not fucking knowing

  • @ANTPHRESSH89
    @ANTPHRESSH89 2 дня назад +29

    Fetishes are so important with balance

  • @CommonNeon
    @CommonNeon День назад +8

    I dislike having fetishes but I can't help it. I wish every day that they would go away. It's a obsession for me. I would say that fetishes started to develop for me when I was only 10 years old and it's gotten worse from there. It's not harmful or affecting anyone, but I am deeply ashamed about it and I am still trying to accept it. I have rarely opened up to anyone about it other then online and with my therapist, and I know exactly how I got my fetishes. I would say that my fetishes are only fantasies since I do not wish to experience them irl because I have no sort of attraction to people so I guess that helps a bit for me. But to sum it up, it's only towards fictional characters and it makes a lot of sense to me as of why that is. It's sort of confusing to explain to people who don't understand it, but it's not related to sex at all but it is definitely sexual. That's all I'm going to say here. I often watch this channel, and stumbled across this video today and just wanted to share this.

    • @Lavendeer201
      @Lavendeer201 День назад +3

      I totally get what you're trying to say. While I'm not you and can never fully understand what your experience is like, I can say that as long as there's no harm or illegality involved, you're totally okay! We're all different, and it's normal to have those types of feelings. Shame is something I deal with a lot, and it can be very easy to see yourself as abnormal or "wrong" in some way.
      The majority of people have different feelings like this. Everyone has at least something that they like that someone else wouldn't. And that's okay, and nothing to be ashamed of ❤

    • @matzof
      @matzof День назад

      I don't get why you wish so much to get rid of them if they are not harmful. Anyway, for me opening up about these things with people I really trust, made me understand that everyone has something like this hidden inside, and the only important thing about it is to not let it harm others or ourselves. Mine are probably less extreme/complex than yours, but still, it is a general principle.

    • @therum3
      @therum3 14 часов назад

      I think you're just a kid and you'll grow up.

    • @CommonNeon
      @CommonNeon 6 часов назад

      @therum3 I am an adult, but I wish you were right. And no, that's not how fetishes work. You can't just grow out of it, unfortunately, and it's stuck with me ever since I developed them. There is nothing to do with growing up, I can't help what turns me on. That's all there is to it.

    • @therum3
      @therum3 6 часов назад

      @@CommonNeon As adults, people are raised to fall in love with fictional characters.
      What I can recommend is to see a psychiatrist.

  • @MrMuffin5
    @MrMuffin5 2 дня назад +12

    Not the greatest pop up when my mums on my phone 😢

  • @RobloxCrushIdol
    @RobloxCrushIdol 2 дня назад +5

    The way you pour creativity and dedication into your work is truly inspiring, making each piece not only entertaining but also unforgettable.❤❤❤

  • @PotterManiac344
    @PotterManiac344 2 дня назад +10

    I was about to comment that this is Diddy's go-to video but someone already beat me to it lol

  • @eagleaura6718
    @eagleaura6718 2 дня назад +5

    Great video! It's nice to learn about other sides of psychology and relationships...
    Thank you for this!

  • @Trickcy
    @Trickcy 2 дня назад +10

    I clicked this to be safe 🥲
    Literally my class is so weird they make weird sounds and all 👁️👄👁️ i wanna be home schooled it's better than this it's quite too

  • @asayake1
    @asayake1 2 дня назад +5

    anytime i start to self loathe too much from being single, videos like this help remind me of the creepy fucked up people out there that i could (and have) been a victim of, and that i'm better off alone.

    • @grenade8572
      @grenade8572 2 дня назад +2

      I just listen to my coworkers stories. It's as effective. 👍

  • @rinkrundall
    @rinkrundall День назад +3

    I have somnophilia myself, and would like it either done to me or a partner but obviously would have to talked about the night before. I don't understand why I have it but it is what it is...

  • @CarsonW518
    @CarsonW518 2 дня назад +5

    Came in to learn, Left Terrified.

  • @simonbelmont1986
    @simonbelmont1986 2 дня назад +5

    Hybridtophilia sounds like my former neighbor. She was housing a tall skinny muscle guy who ended up in jail just before she ended up in jail as well. Crazy story

  • @djshanewupp.5014
    @djshanewupp.5014 2 дня назад +13

    This came at a very convenient time 😭

  • @faithlesslove2563
    @faithlesslove2563 2 дня назад +3

    love the 'i can fix him (no really i can' reference :))

  • @letsgetupdated7505
    @letsgetupdated7505 2 дня назад +4

    Hey! I love you're videos and appreciate you on you're motive to get psychology available to all... I request u to make a video based on 'How To Read (Understand) People Through Their Body Language' or on the topic 'How To Comfort People When they Are Emotionally Unstable'

    • @grenade8572
      @grenade8572 2 дня назад +1

      There is no method to read body language, as everyone is different. For example: we often think that someone avoiding eye contact has domething to hide... but some people (like me) just have trouble at making eye contact.

    • @letsgetupdated7505
      @letsgetupdated7505 6 часов назад +1

      @@grenade8572 Right, I totally agree with u but i meant to say a video based on facts like acc to my research arms behind back indicates great power whereas lip purse indicates some form of disagreement... etc.

  • @rpimenrotmgvideos8716
    @rpimenrotmgvideos8716 День назад +1

    I tend to prefer looking at things rationally rather than emotionally, including sex. I always thought that sex is fine. However, I don't think fetishes, masturbation, or anything that can be mentally or physically harmful are fine. Thank you for making me aware of those; at least now I can add them to my red flags list. Damn it, I don't care how good it is-I won't ever submit myself to things like asphyxiation just because my partner likes it. Again, tysm.

  • @TAHOEkaleidonaut
    @TAHOEkaleidonaut 2 дня назад +5

    For Necrophilia, a Physical Health risk:
    PARASITES from the dead bodies…
    Trigger Warning for potential (secondhand) Sexual Trauma, & “allergic” skin reactions:
    Friend of a friend had a close call during a one night stand with a Necrophiliac who thankfully didn’t ejaculate in her, but needed an ER visit stat when her skin had an immediate reaction. The staff notified the cops, who then caught the guy, & was “forced” into treatment; another risk: law enforcement… keeping Coroners & other people who “care” for the dead in check. 😱
    Needless to say, the friend of a friend’s story has created a number of second hand Caedsexuals, &/or wholehearted Demisexuals in the wake. Good grief. 👀💧

  • @Fernando_Cabanillas
    @Fernando_Cabanillas День назад +1

    As someone who has some really unusual kinks (not mentioned in this video) and also being someone who has spent a long time selfreflecting on them... I think that there is a lot yet to be understood about how they form... Also while i agree that the ones mentioned here are dangerous and need the assistance of medical professionals, i think that trying to propose a cause or reason might lead to people assuming that those are necesarily the case and can be often off-mark

  • @meghnasingh27
    @meghnasingh27 2 дня назад +6

    You're voice is my new fantasy now 😂😂

  • @raikerthedestroyer4092
    @raikerthedestroyer4092 20 часов назад +1

    I both didn’t have much contact with my parents and didn’t get much contact from caregivers plus was exposed to adult content from a very young age

  • @Powlid
    @Powlid 2 дня назад +10

    Okay, we get it. yall are members 🙄😭

  • @jocysatu1038
    @jocysatu1038 2 дня назад +24

    I don't get how sexual fetishes are attractive/arousing to others, i just feel -quite- disgusted at some types of it when i see it. Can anyone let me know how it feels when you watch one? Just curious.

    • @jayredz7807
      @jayredz7807 2 дня назад +4

      I would say it's a personal choice and indeed your respective prerogative to feel however you decide to feel. If it's an automatic response that you are wishing was otherwise, and would like to change how you feel, this could be something to address. Ultimately one should feel at peace and remain in full control with exploration of one's life

    • @jocysatu1038
      @jocysatu1038 2 дня назад

      @jayredz7807 Quite the unintelligible words there, but I understand what you mean and yeah.

    • @jayredz7807
      @jayredz7807 2 дня назад

      @@jocysatu1038 If you feel it is unintelligible, please share what is errorneous about my comment; syntex, grammar, etc, make a note, and I could edit. I don't mean to create confusion. Or is it just an intentional attempt to not understand? Regardless, it is up to you

    • @schizoorreality
      @schizoorreality 2 дня назад +3

      They're not attracted, they are arousing. It's an automatic response to certain stimuli for the person.

    • @jocysatu1038
      @jocysatu1038 2 дня назад +1

      @@jayredz7807 No, it just sounded like something out of a book or something. I can still understand it and that's what matters.

  • @Dragnail
    @Dragnail 2 дня назад +20

    I feel like this video was lacking a few more topics, like poly fetish (group), illegal like children, incest, and animals (some religions still practice this), pain interduce in weird ways, and many more. Interesting to watch, but they lack a lot more info, wishing they take the same way of videos like what Kurzgesagt, if you going to talk about a topic, got to look at all the different angles, not pick and choose.

    • @Kaymitlit
      @Kaymitlit 2 дня назад +1

      Thanks for sharing, I thought too it will be on that kind of topics, people need to be aware. For the animal I never thought it could be religion induced what is that poor animals 😳.

    • @Dragnail
      @Dragnail 2 дня назад

      @Kaymitlit A lot of Christianity and Greek, for example Zeus turn into an animal to seduce women

    • @SooshieInHeadspace
      @SooshieInHeadspace 2 дня назад +3

      Wdym poly relationships are a fetish?? Polyamory is a valid sexuality.

    • @WyzszaKalibracjaPerspektyw
      @WyzszaKalibracjaPerspektyw 2 дня назад

      Beastiality is nasty those animals carry bacteria and parasites people are nasty

    • @XM8A1
      @XM8A1 2 дня назад +1

      ​@@SooshieInHeadspace
      No where did OC mention poly relationships. Yes, poly FETISH was mentioned, but not poly RELATIONSHIPS.
      There's some fetishes that involve groups of people. VS crowd at it's finest, jeez

  • @mslittlegoodytwoshoes
    @mslittlegoodytwoshoes Час назад

    this actually helped me a lot! thanks!

  • @t0rtUR3D_bY_br41N
    @t0rtUR3D_bY_br41N 2 дня назад +15

    Well i have a LOT of paraphilias and a lotta ppl will and have thought that I'm just a pervert and mad. You need to know that paraphilias and paraphilic DISORDERS are different things. And that's it cuz if u hurt or influence someone with ur fetishes and paraphilias, that's gonna be some jail time 4 u lol

  • @therum3
    @therum3 14 часов назад +1

    Every girl have a dark sexual fantasie..💀

  • @XxXxXOzoneXxXxX
    @XxXxXOzoneXxXxX 2 дня назад +14

    We need a positive video about fetishes. i feel fetishes get heavily discriminated and condemned

    • @kathrineici9811
      @kathrineici9811 День назад +3

      That’s because they’re dangerous, usually to the objects of such objectification
      There are channels on RUclips all about creeps coming up to and touching sleeping women

    • @AJHyoton
      @AJHyoton День назад

      For now, you and I can just feel positive about them. I understand my own, but not those other people have, though I get that they have them and that's fine

    • @matzof
      @matzof День назад +1

      I think fetishes shouldn't be "discriminated and condemned" as long as they don't become harmful, but we also shouldn't see them as "positive". Fetishes are objectively "bad", and something we should try to limit, but they can be bad and not harmful to anyone, and that would be totally fine (everyone has some), or they can be horrible degenerations when they make you do something harmful.
      The reason why we don't need a "positive video about fetishes", is because it would encourage people to develop them, and I don't think that's a good thing for individuals and for society.

    • @AJHyoton
      @AJHyoton 10 часов назад

      @@matzof No. They are not bad. They are just a series of precise specifics that get the blood up. People who are without specifics and get their blood up in a more standard and generalized nature are not any better off. Like anything that gets the blood flowing, it is how one handles the blood flow. Fetishes are not objectively bad, but subjectively bad vis-avis your woefully incorrect opinion.

  • @MPandJamles
    @MPandJamles 2 дня назад +25

    The increased tolerance of hypersexuality and the unwillingness/oversight to not scrutinize the psychological reasons behind these bizarre fetishes in our culture has been very harmful and sets a dangerous precedent. There's a reason a variety of unrelated, disconnected civilizations have all came to the same conclusions about this issue throughout time. We've become too accepting with this stuff

    • @ArchdukeJake
      @ArchdukeJake 2 дня назад +1

      facts

    • @INGIE32
      @INGIE32 2 дня назад +5

      Scrutinization doesn’t help anyone my guy. You’re just on high-horse behaviour at that point.

    • @SuperiorRobyn
      @SuperiorRobyn 2 дня назад +1

      ​​@@INGIE32 I have my own fantasies. Engaging with them would be fun. Do I think that it would make me healthier? No not really. And tbh I don't think I'd really want the type of guy who would engage in my fantasies, as a partner

    • @chrissybert
      @chrissybert 2 дня назад +3

      See there are helpful ways to go about this like the video telling people the risks and issues with certain fetishes, and then there’s people like you who will yell at others for having these fetishes without being constructive in any way, most likely adding to the persons trauma and causing them to get worse fetishes because of it.
      Reminds me of the “bring back bullying” crowd. You’re not gonna make someone normal by making them feel like shit, you’re just gonna make them feel like shit.

    • @MPandJamles
      @MPandJamles 2 дня назад +1

      @@chrissybert I actually agree with you for the most part. You can go about resolving this issue in an emotionally intelligent way while also making it clear their behaviour is unsetteling and harmful, emphasizing that they need to change this aspect of themselves. However if they cross the boundary into illegal shit or stuff that simulates it then they should be shamed. marginalised and punished.

  • @3339409
    @3339409 2 дня назад +5

    i want more, please.

    • @3339409
      @3339409 2 дня назад +1

      a fetish series playlist, please...

  • @Jason_Maier
    @Jason_Maier 2 дня назад +15

    Sexual attraction to criminal activity; that's new to me

    • @INGIE32
      @INGIE32 2 дня назад +1

      You’ve never seen Luther then.

    • @Jason_Maier
      @Jason_Maier 2 дня назад

      @@INGIE32 Luther?

    • @alexbaribeault
      @alexbaribeault 2 дня назад

      You sweet innocent soul

    • @INGIE32
      @INGIE32 2 дня назад

      @@Jason_Maier It's a detective tv show with Idris Elba.

  • @RorizonHD
    @RorizonHD День назад

    I'd love to see a part 2 about this but with *Partialism*

  • @Citiesinmotionplayer
    @Citiesinmotionplayer 2 дня назад +18

    No way they actually said unaliving in a video that's meant to be serious

    • @darkworlddenizen
      @darkworlddenizen 2 дня назад +9

      They did.

    • @Goldy01
      @Goldy01 2 дня назад +16

      youtube monetization is more serious!

    • @absolutelycitron1580
      @absolutelycitron1580 День назад +3

      May be taken down if they don't

    • @bofuuu
      @bofuuu 38 минут назад

      it’s not just an ironic term anymore it’s censorship because hearing actual words related to it can really be triggering for some of us :(

  • @md43-81
    @md43-81 2 дня назад +1

    I'm a male in my mid 40's. I would describe myself as averagely attractive. I have a foot fetish and a balloon fetish. The latter is better known as "looner". In my experience, most women I've dated, 99% of them, have been dismissive of these fetishes, even though I think both are perfectly harmless. I don't tend to be rude in either of my fetishes. This situation makes it very difficult for me to have a successful relationship. In recent years, it has somehow become even more complicated than before. I don't know why.

    • @YesIHaveManyProblemsThanks
      @YesIHaveManyProblemsThanks День назад +1

      I have a deep seeded fear of being judged for my super weird fetish. I have in recent years learned that there are maybe 50 people on earth who share my fetish. Im 33 and on the cusp of starting my first ever relationship with a guy I met online.

    • @deleteduser3424
      @deleteduser3424 День назад +2

      Same here with balloons! It obviously stems from a fear of them and having more control or seeing someone more in control is more sensual for us.
      I’ve personally never told anyone yet but am I scared? Kinda, I believe if a partner leaves you or judges you over it, then they’re not meant to be your partner. If they’re ok with who you are but don’t wish to participate then that’s cool. If she joins in then you’ve got yourself a winner.
      Also it’s about bonding first, you’ve really got to find out a lot about it eachother first, you don’t wanna leave it too late but don’t do it too early either.
      You’ve got to enjoy eachother first, which is one of the reasons I don’t indulge in it often, I don’t want it to become my primary source of sexual pleasure.
      Once you enjoy eachother, then mention it. I would open up about it in a way that maybe you never really delved or understood it, how it’s harmless and how you’d love to maybe try it out if she’s comfortable.
      “Hey, I’ve got to tell you something and it’s something I’ve always kept to myself and you’re someone I can really put my trust in - I’m unsure how it happened and I haven’t really tried it out in a while but I have a fetish. It’s harmless and very niche but it’s a balloon (or whatever it is) fetish! Instead of saying it’s about the balloons, it’s about how she uses the balloons maybe? You don’t want to replace her with them, you just want them to be part of your sessions!
      You’ve got to make her feel comfortable, dont replace her sensualness with them and don’t come across like it’s something you want 24/7.
      Thats how I’d do it anyway! But, again, it’s all about the woman and how comfortable she is with you, if they’re ok in every other aspect and find comfort in you then I’m sure it’ll go fine!
      Good luck brother, all the best to you. Stay healthy!

    • @toyotawitha20mm35
      @toyotawitha20mm35 День назад

      I'm a 20 year old male here. My boyfriend likes feet but I dont.. it's awkward but tbh, it's not that bad, I can put up with it. Your partner doesn't even need to fully be into it, I just want to make him satisfied yk. There are partners out there that you can make it work with, even if they're not into it. This doesn't apply always tho

  • @Vsxe
    @Vsxe 2 дня назад

    dozens of videos could be made on this subject as there are so many types of fetishes. Unfortunately, when these topics are discussed, it is almost always mentioned only those where the fetishist wants to have some control without consent.

  • @vino7985
    @vino7985 День назад +1

    Okay uh.. asphyxiation is dangerous, I get it but.. What caused it, exactly? Why we like to do that?

  • @ijustworkhere1008
    @ijustworkhere1008 День назад

    I have to admit, of all the things I thought I’d watch today, I never would have guessed I’d see an explanation of paraphilia narrated by Patrick Bateman

  • @lookatdozenuts
    @lookatdozenuts 2 дня назад +3

    who else but quagmire

  • @starShadowe
    @starShadowe 2 дня назад +1

    Oh come on, canonically speaking, harley quinn only chose to get close to the joker because he was famous and she wanted to make money off her book. It was the whole reason she decided to talk to him in the first place.

  • @billpetersen298
    @billpetersen298 День назад

    I really need to pick up my game. I asked my wife to give me an intentional kiss, while sitting on a park bench. She said, don’t make me do something I don’t want to do.

  • @DaArtsi
    @DaArtsi 2 дня назад +2

    What's wrong with these ppl sending love letters to TED BUNDY?!!! That's crazy bro

    • @alexbaribeault
      @alexbaribeault 2 дня назад

      Wait till you hear about Wade Wilson

    • @kathrineici9811
      @kathrineici9811 День назад

      The idea is to have an attack dog that won’t attack you

    • @Sephiroth3000
      @Sephiroth3000 5 часов назад

      ​@@kathrineici9811 Until he attacks you.. and then they moan and cry.

    • @kathrineici9811
      @kathrineici9811 2 часа назад

      @@Sephiroth3000 I didn’t say they were smart, I’m explaining their reasoning. It’s like people who have pitbulls.

  • @niasiamack9333
    @niasiamack9333 2 дня назад +2

    This video helps me alot

  • @ArchAngel8216
    @ArchAngel8216 День назад +1

    PSYCH2GO POSTED WAKE UPPPPPPPP

  • @dl4037
    @dl4037 2 дня назад +9

    I think we should talk much more about dark sides of fetishes in general, I think it is very problematic if someone gets horny from choking and dominating another person as well as it is unhealthy to like being dominated. This got way to normal nowadays, living this out. When we talk about dark side of fetishes it doesn't have to be the named extremes, but we have to talk about things that are considered normal today.
    I know many people who are into bdsm and in my experience there is often one part who is more narcisistic and sadistic and a part who has issues with their self-image and is more self-destructiv. These are often no healthy relationsships in my opinion.

    • @Kephy_
      @Kephy_ 2 дня назад +4

      If there is consent without manipulation, there is no problem.

    • @SuperiorRobyn
      @SuperiorRobyn 2 дня назад

      ​@@Kephy_ yeah it just can't be healthy to desire to choke people though. Like there's gotta be some weird negative implications. That's just how life works

    • @popgamer2602
      @popgamer2602 2 дня назад +1

      I dont see how liking to dominate or be dominated as long as its consensual would be unhealthy

    • @WyzszaKalibracjaPerspektyw
      @WyzszaKalibracjaPerspektyw 2 дня назад +1

      ​@@popgamer2602wtf, your lost in life

    • @XM8A1
      @XM8A1 2 дня назад

      If u don't know, childhood abuse CAN cause people to develop a fetish or kink. Not everyone with a fetish or kink was abused as a child, but some are

  • @GamerGirlLily0702
    @GamerGirlLily0702 День назад

    My ex-Dominant took kink to such an extreme level, I flatlined twice, in one day, due to her ab*se. Between psychologically breaking me, deliberately lying to me and making us sign a BDSM contract in my own bl**d inside a pentagram...yeah, not good. I've never known a darker empath in my life, as she could be compassionate and flirtatious when she knew she needed to be to keep me under her power.
    TLDR: Dark Empaths + BDSM can be a very dangerous combination.

  • @STA-3
    @STA-3 2 дня назад +3

    No hate but why has Pysych2go gone so sexual?
    Idk.

  • @aleks169
    @aleks169 2 дня назад +11

    A lot of people dont want to acknowledge it or just dont realize it at all, but childhood sexual trauma/childhood trauma in general will cause these kinks; not saying thats the case for everyone that has kinks but i know i sure have some cause of trauma :/

    • @XM8A1
      @XM8A1 2 дня назад +2

      It really does. I was sexually abused as a child and I love CNC.

    • @aleks169
      @aleks169 2 дня назад

      @XM8A1 I was gonna say the same thing but I'm scared of other people thinking I'm a rpist or some shit. It's honestly how I cope with it though.

    • @Vsxe
      @Vsxe 2 дня назад +2

      you are right in saying that not all of them come from childhood traumas.

    • @aleks169
      @aleks169 2 дня назад +1

      @@Vsxe yeah sorry I was trying to say most aren't from s/a childhood abuse but I suck at wording

    • @XM8A1
      @XM8A1 День назад +1

      @@aleks169
      I understand. I don't really talk about it either unless I'm really really comfortable with that person. Which rn is no one lol

  • @ZedAufDEU
    @ZedAufDEU День назад

    0:57 bro that sims death on phone reference 😂

  • @GoetzeLP
    @GoetzeLP День назад

    I went down the sexuality rabbit hole again... now I am only getting this stuff in my suggestions... 😂

  • @ElohimAndSwigenne
    @ElohimAndSwigenne Час назад

    Men and Women, i need to know, as a lactophiliac (Lactophilia: fetish of being breastfed) DO I HAVE ISSUES?!

  • @reaella4373
    @reaella4373 2 дня назад

    I'M HERE BECAUSE OF SOLIVAN ON THE THUMBNAIL 😭

  • @thenerdyknight1559
    @thenerdyknight1559 2 дня назад

    A good film about this kind of thing is David Cronenburg's "Crash"

  • @HATERSHAQ
    @HATERSHAQ День назад

    Trophy unlocked: Click on this video without questioning myself, "why did I click this video?"

  • @ArchdukeJake
    @ArchdukeJake Месяц назад +26

    why does this only have 144 views 💀

    • @Mrvishnu1276
      @Mrvishnu1276 2 дня назад +3

      Because it's unlisted

    • @SkullBeast3000
      @SkullBeast3000 2 дня назад +1

      What it has 238 views

    • @kindlydouae
      @kindlydouae 2 дня назад +3

      It was dropped only 20 s ago, what do you expect 😂

    • @Utashi_65
      @Utashi_65 2 дня назад +2

      Because we're early?

    • @VasuSharma-dz3wv
      @VasuSharma-dz3wv 2 дня назад +3

      How tf you commented 3 weeks ago when it is published just now????

  • @KehindeEgbeola
    @KehindeEgbeola День назад +1

    Hey um I know am not supposed to be here but. I want you to answer this question because I struggle with it. What does it mean to love, What do you do after yoy love. And why does it vanish so quickly.

  • @BiancaLakewood-n2e
    @BiancaLakewood-n2e 13 часов назад +1

    A classmate is always touching my legs when he’s talking to me It makes me feel uncomfortable what do I say?

    • @Ash-x9m
      @Ash-x9m 11 часов назад

      😂😂😂😂

  • @AJHyoton
    @AJHyoton День назад

    So difficult to find ball gags with an option to attach a leash. What happened to the good ole' days?

  • @trentreffner5699
    @trentreffner5699 День назад +1

    I am surprised he didnt go over each genders most common kink:
    Women = grape
    Men = scat/butt play

    • @toyotawitha20mm35
      @toyotawitha20mm35 День назад +1

      Scat is extremely rare and very uncommon, idk where you got your stats?

    • @trentreffner5699
      @trentreffner5699 День назад

      @toyotawitha20mm35 alexander grace had the stat in one of his videos from like 5 years ago.

    • @toyotawitha20mm35
      @toyotawitha20mm35 День назад +1

      @trentreffner5699 I refuse to beleive that's accurate. Scat is so niche and weird. I understand the second one, im gay myself, and I mean.. there's really nowhere else to- nvm , anyways my point still stands, I'm pretty sure scat is like a VERY and rare niche kink, I'd review that information.

    • @trentreffner5699
      @trentreffner5699 День назад +1

      @@toyotawitha20mm35 oh yeah.... i believe his stat came from the hub xD
      I get that it is gross... but i dont kink shame lols. Just if they gonna do it, they better clean up before i smell it. My kink is shower sex for a reason.

    • @toyotawitha20mm35
      @toyotawitha20mm35 День назад

      @trentreffner5699 shower sex? That's S TIER right there

  • @StillTaru
    @StillTaru 2 дня назад +3

    I thought being into bondage was fucked

    • @ajlucky0076
      @ajlucky0076 2 дня назад +7

      Being tied up is weirdly comforting. It makes me feel safe

    • @grenade8572
      @grenade8572 2 дня назад

      ​@@ajlucky0076Like a child being tucked (I hope it's the right word in english. Anyway, I don't mean the f-word) in his bed? (Genuine question)

    • @grenade8572
      @grenade8572 2 дня назад

      ​@@ajlucky0076Like a child being tucked (I hope it's the right word in english. Anyway, I don't mean the f-word) in his bed? (Genuine question)

    • @toyotawitha20mm35
      @toyotawitha20mm35 День назад

      I envy people into BDSM, all my fetishes are impossible irl..well except for one, kinda.

  • @wintersking4290
    @wintersking4290 19 часов назад

    Says it'll be dark. Literally only one of these is illegal and they left out the really weird stuff.

  • @AmayaElijah05
    @AmayaElijah05 22 часа назад

    Sleeping people do not want tea. Don’t give sleeping people tea.

  • @David-ki2dl
    @David-ki2dl День назад

    I don't know why I watched this,
    I guess curiously got the best of me,

  • @shimerrill967
    @shimerrill967 День назад

    My dreams get real dark and sexual sometimes.. it either involves Pinhead or Freddy Krueger. Most recently vampires and Bigfoot.. clowns to

  • @RayPeng-07
    @RayPeng-07 2 дня назад

    It is an interesting topic. Although kinda disturbing in some moments. Now it makes me think why some people like zoofilia... so you can use the topic in a next video.

  • @MegaB1tez
    @MegaB1tez День назад

    I'll never get to use this

  • @jorunisntreal
    @jorunisntreal 2 дня назад +2

    When is this channel gonna get onlyfans exclusively for sex Ed with visuals

  • @rileyludlow961
    @rileyludlow961 День назад

    Why'd I click this whilst I was waiting on a response from my boyfriend lol

  • @Sanguine_Vampire_Lord
    @Sanguine_Vampire_Lord 2 дня назад

    Well, as if my day wasn’t weird enough💀

  • @alligatordawg
    @alligatordawg 2 дня назад

    there's a bright side to fetishes?

  • @ShiroTheFurry
    @ShiroTheFurry День назад

    ✨ New fear unlocked!! 🔓

  • @TheNonameHousehold
    @TheNonameHousehold День назад

    Well this awoke something in me... a realization 😅

  • @EarlTheOtaku
    @EarlTheOtaku 2 дня назад +9

    WHEN YOU JUST FINISHED SHOWER AND THIS THING SHOWED UP 🗣️🗣️

  • @mstrmm35
    @mstrmm35 2 часа назад

    I thought it was only the dark side but sure

  • @MoldavianBall
    @MoldavianBall 35 минут назад

    Now im scared in The future😭🙏💀

  • @MrMack65
    @MrMack65 4 часа назад

    Used the word 'unliving' Twice. Did you mean MURDERING? There, I fixed it for you.

  • @jonbilgutay2
    @jonbilgutay2 2 дня назад

    Sometimes i think about me sexual fantasies and wonder what it says about me.

  • @Thenogomogo-zo3un
    @Thenogomogo-zo3un 2 дня назад +6

    There are more women into dark stuff than men from my experience.
    No wonder I'm still single 😥

    • @lfr234
      @lfr234 2 дня назад +4

      Cant confirm that from my experience.

    • @WyzszaKalibracjaPerspektyw
      @WyzszaKalibracjaPerspektyw 2 дня назад

      Woman are more prone to possessions

    • @Vsxe
      @Vsxe 2 дня назад

      I would say that there are more women into submission stuff. No wonder I'm single too.

  • @Rut11115
    @Rut11115 День назад

    @Psych2Go why you changed Thumbnail of this video?

    • @therum3
      @therum3 14 часов назад

      True. girls can be bad too, not only boys

  • @zaharia4479
    @zaharia4479 2 дня назад

    Hey, what's up. I have a different depression that other says like, "Is that your problem?" And it makes me less valuable.
    With my blind belief of my artworks success my classmates sees me creative intellectual alien.
    Plus I had Deslexia when i was kid, and Maniac depression and some twin depression brother to Maniac.
    I'm a subscriber from India. In there schools really feels hell. And everyone around me saying like 'GREATEST OPPORTUNITY' but dyslexia curses me again,
    I don't feel i can study. I think you can understand. I am an INFP personality type person. My love/lust of creativity and responsibilities od a student is ridiculous. i have no money to get a psychiatrist or therapist if anyone have good words for me please show it. It gives ma kind of psychological self harm please help me.And peace ✌.
    (Last two paragraphs are major problems)

  • @PerceptionVsReality333
    @PerceptionVsReality333 День назад

    A long time ago my younger sister had a fetish for brother & sister doing the deed. At first I didn't want to but it got so irresistible because she was built almost like a Greek goddess so I gave in at the time she was 19 & I was 27 it was her first time too. Nobody ever suspected. To this day no one ever found out. We joke about it when there's no one around.
    🤣🤣🤣