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- Опубликовано: 10 ноя 2010
- Do tween fashion trends push girls to mature too fast? Parents share their concerns about their daughters' sexy attire, marketing to young girls even before they hit puberty.
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Kids seem to be growing up faster than ever, and these stories highlight the youngest age group acting like adults "too young, too soon" (TYTS). Kids are exposed to many more influences and bad behaviors through television, film, and access to the internet. Are celebrities bad role models for young impressionable children? Between stories of teenage gunmen who are not old enough to carry their weapons, toddlers in tiaras, crazy dance moms, and kids getting plastic surgery as birthday presents, it’s easy to see that maybe growing up too fast can hurt rather than help kids.
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Okay let's not blame the teenage girls for this, blame the adults who run the media for oversexualizing girls who aren't even 18 yet
+Bobby Bob Let's blame nature for not having read the penal code about age-of-consent.
+Bobby Bob No. Blame the teenagers for getting pressured into it and thinking they HAVE to dress that way. It's having self control and not giving a fuck about what the media says.
+Rare Who Roast Beast yea but you know they wouldn't know those styles existed if it wasn't for society today
Baby Cupcake That's true but I don't think society is gonna change for the better any time soon so its best to just not be so easily influenced.
yes respect this is so true
Did they really just compare 2010 to 1938...
Rachel Rosell yes yes they did
K Kennedy lol
Yea
HAHAHAHAHAA
Moral-ism is in the mind of the beholder.
They had no idea what they would face in 2018
Swear parents now a days let there daughters look like fucking 20 year Olds it's crazy
What do you mean darling??
Brooke Cantu lmao
Joe Orzech what’re you on about ?
Breanna Gbenedio its screwed up what parents let there kids wear now
Tweens are definitely not 8 yrs old😂
idk about america but where I live tweens are called kids and teens are 13-14-15-16-17 and If you're/were a late one 18
Tween 9-12 years old And teen is 13-17 years old
Actually I think it's either 8-12 or 9-12 that's a tween sooooooo
Tweens are 10 -12 years old
IKR
"Now she's in black leather pants" please, that miley is absolutely *nothing* compared to the miley today
Right?😄
Clementine :D I just wanted to write the exact same thing :D
Daniel Isenberg sorreh
Wasn't complaining np :D
Clementine :D True. :D
*wears pants under a dress* "um..no not appropriate for my daughter"
*but wears a shorter dress* "yeah I like this"
Reneé Yankah no I think that dress was just ugly
Hello Everyone smh.
Yeh I know it looked cute on her with the pants /trousers under the dress
I know your a bitch
Lmao the fact that they're 20 now
I was 8 now I'm 16
Erika yes that Finn Wolfhard profile pic 👌🏼
I was seven now I’m fifteen
Damn maybe she can get the dress now
That's scary
No tweens are 10-12 not 8-12 duh
and how old are you -like, 10?
So edgy for a 10 year old
no, they are from 8 xx
You look about 9, how would you know ?
9-12
Tbh my mom isn't too bothered about what I wear. Just as long as my butt isn't falling out of my pants and my chest and stomach is covered. I wouldn't wanna flash my whole school either way lmao
Yeah, I think parents should be a little less strict on children because if you become too strict on them they'll start to rebel as a teenager because my parents used to be strict and when I became a teenager I started rebelling against my parents and did things that I knew they hated
Grace Catherine Yeah, I think it's make me want to do it more if I knew they didn't want me to.
+Ruby Arndt Yeah. I don't believe in biblical shit, but you could say it was like when Adam was told not to eat the apple and he did anyways
Grace Catherine yeah 😂
True
It's so unfair how we judge these celebs based on the roles they've played. Hannah Montana was a character. we can't look down on Miley for basically giving the world Miley and not Hannah.
xp0sh I agree
iam sorry to tell hannah Montana is a bad influence for kids girls are known to get more fat n that's is healthy. she is sending all wrong message to the people. ask any doctor I know iam right.
xp0sh AGREE
xp0sh ikr
I missed 2013 Miley
You can’t comprare a 12 year old girl to a 17 year old teen , they’re so different. there’s a pretty big gab between those ages. How ridiculous!
Hiii
It's only 5 years
@Limenko UHC it's not ,trust me
Both are children. Of course you cannot compare as there is no comparison!
What's a "big gab"?
I never got what people find so inappropriate about belly buttons...
Welcome to your tape it’s the stomach
I think im missing the point here, but that girl is SO lucky to have such a beautiful window view. Imagine it at night.
Lol I'd never go to sleep, I'd stay up every night staring out my windows!
How us guys pick out clothes: huh. Fits and it's cool.
How us guys decide what to put on: Smells fine, put it on
Me: grab whatever is closest to me when I wake up, sniff it, smells good? Wear it.
Sturggle ima girl and i do that... xD
Your are right but women, girls, (basically any age group of the female gender) are judged more so here is to my ladies out there you are awesome and beautiful. Inner beauty defeats outer beauty. Which would you rather be: Evil and gorgeous or Good and fine. THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 👧🏻👧🏼👧🏽👧🏾👧🏿👩🏻👩🏼👩🏽👩🏾👩🏿👍🏻👌🏻👍🏻👌🏻
melli per me:fuck sakes im just going to stay in my pyjamas and play video games
Sturggle lol ikr
But why is a girl showing some stomach ‘sexual’ I don’t get it... boys aren’t criticised for what they wear.
Lily Celia yes they do lmao
I'm not sure the stomach is viewed as sexual. But the area of the stomach is where a womb happens to be
Calvin Klein models, Celebs ect. Its not classy for a guy to do just walk around like that either
Marcel Huchwajda *boys
Michael Naughtin
No, that's where intestines happen to be. The womb is way lower than that.
“It’s a little low cut”
*is literally just below the collarbones*
How about y’all just don’t sexualize young girls making decisions about how they want to present themselves and are deciding who they are k thanks
Dear kids rushing to be mature adults, stop. Adulthood sucks. Be a kid for as long as you can.
but kid means school and school is the worst
eagleeye929. rather be doing that than school you have no idea about my life
I make thousands of dollars a year.
Being 18 seems easy as fuck.
Princess Games being 18 is easy as fuck because you're hardly an adult. Just wait.
Andrea K I'll be 14 in a few weeks. Money seems to be the only issue and i'm already making plenty.
Did they say 8-13 yr old girls are "spending their OWN" money?" WHAT?
Stacey Kersting yup, im 13 and i have to spend my own money (not all of the time/ on food or anything like and sometimes not clothes but i have before)
Laurennn she means OWN as the money of their parents not the money they worked for
Riuka-chan Art yeah...8-13 year olds cant have a job so what do you mean
I had 900 dollars when I was 10 -_-
summer roses uhh how for you earn that much. you worse for it????
The problem isn’t when a child wears different clothes, the problem is when an adult looks at the child and immediately think sex.
James Jonathan then why is at the the “children’s place” are u dumb?
James Jonathan i didn’t say your dumb😭I asked if your dumb. cause if your smart you would know that they wouldn’t clothes for hookers at a children’s store🤷🏿♀️ I guess u are
What do you expect a man to think when you dress your daughter provocatively?
If you don't want your daughter looked at by adults then don't let her dress as an adult.
As a parent, I will say it's the parents that are too blame.
@@jeffreyretsbolder2662 IKR. Two things can be right at once. No excuse for men do violate but it is the women who also must take responsibility for themselves. After all, you’d tell your daughter and I’d tell my niece the exact same thing on the practical level.
@@jeffreyretsbolder2662 uh oh. Someone get this guy on a predator list
"Not a young person's outfit."
Oh no, a shoulder. God forbid that we teach girls not to feel guilty for having skin.
In Australia the temp gets up to 35' C, but girls are forced to wear dresses that go down to their knees, and on top of that leggings and an undershirt, whereas boys can wear short shorts and tank tops! The girls must be boiling!
Piotrek Szczepanski Ok I live in Australia and that’s total bullshit. Girls show way more skin than boys do in t-shirts and shorts. Lots of girls wear those really short shorts and vests. Stop trying to make a big deal out of everything.
Yes it is inappropriate, immoral westerner.
And these celebrities should be in prison for spreading such indecent clothes amongst our children.
Mystery Man
Here’s a question: Why do you care? This doesn’t affect you at all.
Then there's me.
A socially awkward freak who likes oversized hoodies and netflix.
You should rule the world
Chelsea French Why thank you :)
*gives you a free oversized hoodie*
Six Fears That's because Hoodies are so much better than skanky outfits :D
Sameeee....😁
Imani Warren Honestly, I think it's become sort of 'hipster' to call yourself a socially awkward freak and wear more traditionally male and oversized clothes and Netflix definitely is. Nothing wrong with that, just my observations.
So basically this video is about once again telling girls that their bodies are shameful and that expressing yourself in a non conservative way is wrong.
***** If people didn't sexualize girls bodies then showing skin wouldn't matter.
Well I'm sure if society didn't let guys get by with cat calling and harassment then that wouldn't cause any problems. It's normal to have urges but acting on them can be easily controlled.
Girls dressing their age is not society shaming a females body. Wake up and get off the brainwashing mainstream media. 12 year old kids don't need to walk around half naked and dressing like a 25 year old, it has nothing to do with freedom of expression. Grow up.
TechN9neAddict actually it is about expression and rights. You yourself just said "12 year old kids don't need to walk around half naked and dressing like a 25 year old". The only reason that people consider showing women's skin to be an adult thing is because people sexualize women's bodies. Legs, breasts, arms, shoulders, etc have no sexual purpose. The only sex organs are the vagina and penis (and debatably the anus I guess) so unless someone is whipping one of those out their shouldn't be an issue. Like seriously, there are still tribes in which both men and women of every age do not wear anything but a short skirt like article of clothing and no one there sees it as a big deal. A lot of the idea of covering up just comes from religion.
***** you can joke all you want but change needs to happen. People need to spread the truth and awareness and create a domino effect of the spreading of intelligence on this topic.
Ya know what would be cool? not sexualizing underage girls.
Ya know what would be even cooler? Girls not sexualizing themselves
Samson Ato Nympha people have the right to do whatever they want to themselves but creepy ass strangers don’t.
Hailey Steen well those clothes were meant to sexualize adult women
Are we really pretending like wearing lingerie or super short skirts isn't sexual?
J J not on a little kid, sorry that’s a bit weird if someone thinks that.
I saw nothing wrong with the dresses
I can see why 😒
0 so little girls’ morals aren’t based on clothing, they’re based on character just like everyone else
@@user-is3yn7xr4c f morals morals r just a way of control
@@sierradawn8996 f morals morals r just a way of control and this is the usa and the usa equals freedom
Guys can walk around shirtless but a girl cant even wear shorts. That's fair.
mia kasper Girls always wear shorts and revealing clothing....where are you from? The point of this video is that very young girls are encouraged by the media to dress in a sexualised manner, not girls cant wear shorts...
mia kasper Thats because we don't have huge mammary glands flopping about.
They're just boobs. They were never meant to have any sexual meaning. They're meant to feed children, not to be sexualized by pervy guys
mia kasper I agree, dressing laws/rules are stupid. For example, the 'no spaghetti straps in school rule'. "Oh look I have shoulders i'm such a slut", "oh look I have a stomach, oh look I have boobs, I'm such a slut". No. There's nothing sexual about any of those parts, they're really outdated and unintelligent rules.
I see you have no clue to what it is that your relating to people here
how about teaching boys that obectifying women is wrong, instead of girls not to dress how they want. Yes, I realize that some of those dresses were too mature for those girls, but society only made them too mature because boys will undress girls wearing it with their eyes. If it's 80 degrees out, I should be allowed to wear shorts, a tank top, or a bikini without guys making sexual remarks. If it's 20 degrees out, I should be able to wear leggings or yoga pants without being told that my butt is too noticable in them, and that I can't wear them. Highschools and Middle Schools should be having assemblies called "Don't Rape," but no, I had to sit through a 2 hour assembly called "How to not get raped." If those girls feel confident in a tank top dress, than hell, let them wear it. Leggings and tight muscle shirts are the same material. Muscle shirts on guys: allowed. Muscle shirts or leggings on girls: completely inapropriate and asking for rape. Nobody asks for rape, however clothing is a completely valid and cceptable use for violating a girl and forcing her to have sex.
Sure blame guys... guys don't judge girls at the beach. You wanna know what girls judge guys on cars, house, money, clothes, weight, height. Not to mention girls have the final judgement in divorce court for children and money. My friend is being denied to see his child because his ex wife thinks he is "unfit" to see him and the court says well we will trust her judgement. But noooo just blame men.
Lol
Fuck off troll...
LOL
I'm sorry but this is just ridiculous. I agree that objectifying women is wrong and that a portion of the population does this, but recklessly blaming men for what you are able to wear is absolutely insane. Are you honestly worried that your clothes will cause you to be complimented by a guy? How would you ever know if someone is into you if you can't compliment them? This is part of the reason why it is hard for some guys to approach girls, because they are worried someone will respond just as I imagine you would. Also you say that there should be "Don't Rape" assemblies for adolescents(i'm sure you mean males). This is a pointless argument as the people who rape aren't of sound mind. An assembly isn't going to prevent a psychologically unstable person from raping someone. It is wise for women to be educated in ways to protect themselves from these people.
8 years later it’s even worse
Seriously
Well...
I dont dress like that
he he omg you’re so quirky and different
“Little too low cut” it literally only shows half her collar bones
I literally wear T-shirts about 95% of the time. XD
I only wear tank tops
Same.
And?
+Farah H same
+Farah H Same
Who's watching in 2017 and thinks all the clothes look like there from 2005
2018 actually
they're (sorry)
I’m in 2018.
2010
Lol
Well she can definitely wear that black dress now
A lot of these clothing options for girls are becoming harder, and what I mean by that is when I was a tween going shopping I couldn’t find anything decent to wear for school in the tween section because a lot of the clothes broke my school’s rules, I’m glad to have grown out of that section. I always found it hard to find pants with good pockets on them in the young girls section, and I admit I sometimes had to go to the boys section because of how ridiculous it was. Also if your a band or orchestra kid do you know or relate to how HARD it is to find PLAIN BLACK CLOTHES in elementary-middle school EVERYTHING had sparkles and #’s on them and when you spotted what looked like a plain black dress....NOPE (believe me I even looked at the uniform section, no black just beige, white, and khakis)
I still shop in the Mens section til this day...just due to general sizing of clothing in the womens departments. (I like waist and inseam measurements rather than those random number labels)
I bet the Beige, White, and Khaki only works if the band/orchestra uses those colors though...when most do use black.
god i wish i can shop in the men’s section but im a small woman
WHEN I WAS 12 I WAS WEARING A SHIRT. AND A JEANS.
''high edge fashion'' WHAT? BISH? NO!
"and a jeans"
things changed for the better
Darkstar 暗スター ikr grammar is stong in this one
EXACTLY
Ditto
Reading these comments, and I'm honestly disgusted with society. You've got people that think this crap is acceptable, and that a twelve year old should be dressing like a prostitute because hey, life's short so why not? Then you get the women that think the root of the problem is men, for god only knows why. I'm just absolutely disgusted.
All men have secret rape fantasies about young girls. They just cant say how they feel becasue they would be called out,
Lilly Langley Wait, what?
As a woman, THANK YOU!!! I completely agree with you, Nick. I'm 20 and I would never dress this way. I'm so sick and tired of the American culture. You can't get away from the sexual content.
Lilly Langley
No they don't. Where in the world did you get that??!!
***** Thank you very much for agreeing! Its really nice to see people can still keep their values.
The thing is... I've always been tall and thick for my age. I *have* to wear what is made for people my size. And that is always in the older sections of clothing stores. I cant help that my clothes look "sexual" it's what's made for MY BODY! I'm 12 and wearing stuff for a 17 year old.
I was wondering why people were dressing like that, and then I saw this was posted in *2010*
It's worse when your an early bloomer. You can't wear most of the clothes that other girls can wear, and it's very isolating.
Very very true. My daughter has a hard enough time telling high schoolers to leave her alone she is only 12, I can’t imagine what she’d hear if she wore the “hot” clothes for kids in her age group. Thankfully she has a good eye and a quirky style we can work with most of the time. It’s not easy as an early bloomer, I was one too and totally understand.
It's better than never getting anything
Christina True
It's not the 40's anymore, people. Get over it.
Vendetta V That is completely different. What you're describing is statutory rape. What they're talking about here is clothes and culture. There will always be parents, and there will always be teenagers pissing their parents off by doing things that their parents' culture deems scandalous. Do you think parents in the 20's approved of their daughters dressing like flappers? What about the 50's with all of the hip swiveling that Elvis started? Do you think parents approved of the twist? Or the big hair, sex symbol styles of the 80's? This is how it goes. Style changes, culture changes, teens change love it and change with it, parents HATE it.
+Vendetta V No, you really can't "grow a child" (I believe the phrase is "raise a child") that doesn't give a *damn about pop culture because culture is what shapes us. I hate to break it to you, but culture made you who you are. Culture made me who I am. Culture shapes you, and there's really no denying, it avoiding, that. Even if you took your family away to live as hermits in the woods, that then becomes your culture. Living in the 21st century civilized world, this is what culture is. *Clothes are just that, clothing. Pieces of fabric. You still can't compare that to even alcohol because people don't die because of clothes. No one puts on a skimpy dress and promptly drops dead. You're trying desperately to grasp at comparable examples to prove your point, and failing miserably because there aren't any.
Vendetta V ....do you even know what the term" pop culture" refers to...?
Vendetta V No, because nothing your saying makes any sense. You keep contradicting yourself. Yes, people use clothes as expression, but people also use clothes for self esteem. People should be able to dress in what makes them feel good about themselves, end of story. Now, yes, places like schools and work establishments have dress codes to portray a sense of professionalism, but to tell a person that they cannot dress how they want on their own time is archaic and ridiculous.
It's honestly too bad it isn't the 40's. Our society just keeps getting worse and worse.
"Teenagers are very aware of who they are."
um
no
Um, yes.
Don’t mind me. I’m just afraid of everything. Then you have never met, nor were, a teenager.
jeez this mom is literally so strict
Katharine Cosgrove nope, doesn’t want her daughter snatched by an old creepy man.
@@piperbarry7853 yeah but its the creepy old mans fault for liking that
[roh-zee] ! Yes, but the mom can only help her daughter.
Lol u should meet mt mom
Is she Amish?
If abc is shocked at Miley Cyrus's look 5 years ago, they must be praying for her now.
Jolee Lai PEOPLE LIKE THEM, ARE THE REASON WHY SHE'S THE WAY SHE IS NOW !
Anyone else thinks its a huge problem that 12-14 year olds are losing their virginity? Disgusting.
Not to mention they drink, smoke and do drugs. That's like most yr 9 at my school
What exactly is virginity? Everybody sees that in different ways. I did something really stupid at eleven and now I want to kill myself.
Ha ha.
F my life.
***** If your hymen is intact then you are still a virgin..
And everyone does stupid stuff when they're growing up.. A lot of people don't figure out it was stupid til years later though so don't feel too bad about it.
Dee Jay That isn't true. You could damage your hymen by doing athletic activity or using tampons but that doesn't mean the girl isn't a virgin.
Abbye Erickson My point was that if there was penetration then she is not a virgin anymore.
I didn't think that was too complicated to understand :S
They talked about Lucy hale… I guess they never watched pretty little liars
emmaa bea lolll #relatable
Lol😂
Thought the same thing... XD
If boys wear the same style of clothes that adults wear they are praised for looking so grown up. Adults think boys look responsible in adult clothes. Sight a girl wearing more grown up clothes and no one is thinking about how mature they look.
I perceive a problem with double standards, probably starting with teaching our boys respect. I think the problem is that while girls often view boys with sexual thoughts in mind, they do not often force the sex act upon them, and there in lays the reason we curtail girls, hoping our boys will not be tempted to abuse. We all accept these double standards, which are in reality not far removed from the Arab nations.
The reality is that adult clothes for males don't usually sexualise them much, while adult clothes for females generally do. Hence why it's not uncomfortable to see a young boy wearing adult clothes whereas a young girl doing the same thing is disturbing. If a 12 year old boy wore an explicitly sexual outfit, he'd get the same shock and disapproval, that's just much rarer
Kazzana preach
No we are very far away because in Arab a women forced to mutilate her genitles while in America this is illegal a women is forced to have a male body guard and to cover her face and in America thats not the case the internet is very helpful and its very easy to research something but people like you are so lazy that you won't even do a bit of research I found this out in a couple of clicks you can't beat the facts also check yours you libtard I think you better go to your safe space your looking a bit to triggerd also we shouldn't teach boys to respect. Respect is earn not gifted do something to our someones respect and then you'll get it
ThreeDragonsTalk exactly
Well male clothes arn’t revealing is it
You don't have to interpret this as "selling sex." As someone who was 14 years old when this video was released, I can tell you I didn't interpret it that way. Clothes do not equate to sex.
gigiky dressing like a skank might just mean...youre a skank 🤣🤣🤣
lol yes u are 14, for sure. When a lady of the night stands in the corner selling kisses she dresses provacatively; wearing revealing and sexy clothing often accompanied by highheels or tall boots. They dress this way to show their customers that their breasts are nice or their legs, whatever. When u wear a low cut top u are 'advertising' your wares to attract a mate. This is why adult women dresses sexy. This is a problem for teenagers and preteens because at this young age the child is unable to interpret the advances of men this type of clothing encourages. This leads to children ending up in confusing and uncomfortable situations. Sometimes the child ends up in abusive situations.
Gracie Goble He never said that?????
I'm sorry you look at children that way.
Exactly
I can't believe some of these comments. That girl looks like she's dressed for a cocktail party and she's in middle school. Even though some make the argument "clothes shouldn't be an excuse for rapists and pedophiles" (which is understandable) that doesn't mean it should be acceptable for 12-year-old girls to dress like they're 21. There's a reason 8-year-olds don't walk around in g-strings. A lot of the people on here defend these girls but bash Toddlers and Tiaras for oversexualizing children, even though it's virtually the same thing.
Exactly... It's fine for adults to dress like this but really... 12 year olds in right black mini dresses? She looks 20. Enjoy your childhood while you can.
*tight
Meghan Prenter NO IT'S NOT EVEN FINE FOR ADULTS TO DRESS LIKE SLUTS
When girls become old enough to breed (at age 13 i think) they will start dressing slutty because they subconsciously try to attract men to make babies with them
I'm 20 years old, and I would never dress in the way those girls want to! I'm tired of the American Culture pushing sexual content in EVERYTHING. Music, t.v, movies, books, clothing, even our celebs. As a tween, I was a Hannah Montana fanatic. When she became who she became, it broke my heart.
who says we have to follow society’s rules?!? let us were what we want..... let us express ourselves! (not saying u gotta dress like a 21 year old...... u get my point)
I'm sticking to leggings and cropped hoodies
I don't like how sexulized this world has become and how everyone's biggest problems is their looks!!
I want a world where people get admired for how much educated they are, not for how sexy they look like, We improve by Einstein and Newton, Not by Madonna and Shakira!!
unfortunately we can't ignore biology.
!
katy dillard Straight A student? Um maybe if you knew how to use the English language smart one. Its allowed*** not aloud AND its not "an still be smart," it's "and still be smart." what a "smart straight A student" you are...you should go back to school sweetie
vitadolceekjy yea maybe spell check should too.
Educated? education means nothing neither do grades or IQ(well IQ is something to keep in mind).A fools a fools ain't no matter what suit they wear, you can see thousands, millions of "educated" dumb people in our society, while at the same time smart failures or worst, suicides.
This is the stupidest news report ever. If girls want to dress a certain way, who the fuck cares? The way you dress has nothing to do with their personality, or if they're sexually active. It means they like to dress a certain way.
It's a whole issue of whether it's too soon for them to wear certain clothing, is it ok to sexualize a child? I don't think many would say yes, and this is the debate if something is appropriate too soon
Why? Well, last time I checked, these girls are minors. And until you are not a minor, you should, logically, not dress as someone who is over 18. The reality is that weather you like it or not, you are portraying an image when you dress a certain way. Odds are you are not over 18, because the ones upset about these kinds of things are the kids that are not allowed to dress this way. And to be blunt, a 12 year old walking around in a pushup bra and skin tight mini dress is disturbing. I am 17. I get the annoying parental bickering that goes on. But if a girl dresses like a slut, the people who see her are going to automatically think that she is, what she is portraying. And if you are that, fine. But if you aren't, don't get angry when people think you are easy. And in no way shape or form should someone that is not an adult do something like that, it. is. not. ok.
Madison Adams Could it be that they simply like to dress that way because it's the style they've adapted? If people really assume a twelve year old is easy, then it's not the child's fault. It's the people who assume that because a child is wearing a dress or a bra that means they're sexually active. Clothes do NOT indicate what you do with other people. Unless you are wearing a shirt that says "I HAVE LOTS OF SEX" then people should not be assuming thing about your sex life. Especially one of a child's.
Babs Seed Whether you like it or not people judge others by looks, and their is NOTHING that can change that. If a 12 year old dresses and looks like a 18 year old people will assume they are that age. Most (not all) 18 year year olds have had some sort of sexual encounter, so if some sees said 12 year old they will stare because they assume they are of age. It has to do with dressing your age. You only get to be young for a short period of time, then you just get older and older, why speed up the process?
i agree i hate strict parents
But Forever 21 and HM is a tween/teen/adult clothing store, but a lot of the children’s clothing is so babyish and dumb. And some clothing is wayyyy inappropriate but some of it is perfectly okay!!
Boy: wears only underwear
Girl: where’s long jeans, and a sweatshirt
People to girl: Omg put on more clothes
When do boys wear nothing but underwear???
Mark Calvelo their imagination obviously
Where tf do you live?
They haven't seen Miley yet.
This was in 2010
+Kathya R ok and is that a problem
+Melissa SuperGirl ??????
fyi miley is an important activist,feminist,and humanitarian.
she is the founder of young lgbt ,homeless foundation.
futureengineerable she is a disgrace to the whole world how she acts cuz people in China or in France are like is this how all of the young peeps in America act?
If they thought Miley Cyrus was bad then... Check out 2016😂
Lol ikr?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol haha
😂😂😂😂😂😂
You have a point :D
these girls who were child actors should not be expected to look, act and be like a child forever
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How? Jojo Siwa is actually very kid-friendly.
If you're a preteen and reading this: please don't wear sexy clothes. Throw on a pair of denim shorts and a tank top, grab a Capri Sun and your DS, and go flop on the couch next to your friends and play some Mario Kart. Make a blanket/pillow fort. Play with moon sand, go biking, explore the woods. Just be a kid while you still can! Trust me, when you're filling out college and job applications, you'll wish you hadn't thrown away your childhood.
Thanks.♡ we need more people in the world like you.
Who DOESN'T do this? I mean, I'm thirteen and this is all I ever do :D And well, sometimes have a walk in forest or go swimming but antways :D Being young is fun :D
We really need more people in the world like you...at my school we have uniforms and all the other girls pull their skirts up to their belly buttons while I'm over here with some pants and a baggy sweatshirt lol. somtimes I'll wear a crop top even though I'm 10 but the crop tops I wear barely show my belly button...and I have my moments with high waisted shorts but trust me I show nothing more than my legs☺ it feels nice to know that not all of society has not fallen apart...the girls at my school are over there wearing booty shorts in public while I'm over here with my baggy sweatshirt and Netflix... thanks for hearing me out with all my blabbering on the subject...have a nice day!!😊☺
Dude, my girlfriend and I are 16 and 15. We still do this. 😊
DaisyEpicness Fuck this shit, I'm sitting exams, have a part time job and I still fucking love DS.
This is a terrible video. You can't keep slutshaming women/girls and telling them to be modest but making sure they still have an edge of sexy to them. If a girl wants to dress a way let her thats NONE of your business, it's not your body so you have NO say whatsoever. This is disgusting girls should be able to dress the way they want to without getting told that she's "asking to get raped" or "doesn't respect herself"
In free countries girls dress how they want and it is their business. It comes to a surprise that America is becoming one of those countries where girls cannot wear what they want, and I thought it would be only in Islamic countries. I was wrong. In America for girls to dress in anyway feminine or to express their femininity is a big problem. Maybe covering the face will be the next step so girls don't look too sexy? It could happen. After seeing this I would not be surprised if that happened. In Japan and Europe girls dress 10 times sexier with no problem at all where people understand what freedom is.
pargonyan DID I SAY TELL TEN YEAR OLDS TO HAVE SEX? NO I SAID STOP TELLING WOMEN AND PLANTING THIS ROTTEN THOUGHT THAT A WOMAN IS DRESSING AND LOOKING THE WAY SHE DOES FOR THE ATTRACTION OF MEN
1:30 ... you would be okay with that? Seems unsanitary to have such a thin layer of cloth separating the genitalia/vaginal fluids and say, a street bench.
MangaEater68 But but.. who suggested anyone to be nude??? Or who here is or was???
NetSurfer1111 I believe I said lingerie in reference to the time stamp posted.
And in reference to your futile attempt to neutralize my argument by saying "Well, people wear less than that in other places."
And your reference to places where people wear thongs, I said you couldn't do that in, say, DC or NY.
In reference to your statement that "It doesn't matter if anyone would be okay with that"
I said yes, it does matter, because people will call the cops on you.
But now that you have mentioned the nude, did you know that (according to your argument), because people are stark nude in some African countries, that "would probably totally neutralize every thought" a cop ever had when arresting someone for indecent exposure?
Yeah, try using that argument in court. I'd like to see how that would go.
"But, your honor! In some places, it's okay to run around nude! So who cares if I run around in a thong?"
Uhh, no. We're not okay with that, so you're not allowed to do that, contrary to your statement that "It doesn't matter if anyone would be okay with that"
It does matter.
being a teen, it was hard growing up without wanting to dress “cool”. my mom would always say no to what i liked and i honestly thought it was sooo mean! but being older, i know my mom was looking out for me and i’m very thankful! i miss being young and not having to worry about my image! i try to dress modestly, not for men, but for myself out of respect of my body. for others, that may be different, but i agree with this mom. she is looking out for her daughter!
"Oh, I'm very strict about the way my daughter dresses"
Hahahahahahahaha! Coming from MADONNA?????
So glad my 10 yr old girl is happy wearing her brothers hand me down shorts and sweats.
that will change lol
+hors kok right
+Angela Davis
I agree! The legal system should be so much in place that a girl can be a girl without having to worry about someone doing something to them against their will. It's a free country! Let's keep it like that!
+hors kok
no it won't
+hors kok
Oh I get it! You're muslim and think women should stay covered at all times! That's why we should not let the Syrian Refugees in our country.
And then im just here as a 14 year old loser who wears black skinny jeans, hates dresses and skirts, and stays in the dark all day on the internet and plays video games
Yas
You're not really a loser. In this type of Modern Day as me and you see it, you're the new normal.
Me too
The life of a boy without skinny jeans .
That's me too
I just really hate those mom's that want to control their daughters life. Let her do her own style as long as it's not too inappropriate and not against the school dress code it should be fine. Like that black strapless dress, just but a black coat over it and it'd be so awesome!!! 😘 My mom doesn't mind what I wear unless you can see my underwear or it looks like something a stripper would wear.
Yeah and they will end up like every other teen girl who doesn't listen to there Mom and dress like a hooker and be knocked up at 15 years old and live off welfare the rest of there lives!!!!great idea!!!
You are so lucky 💞💟
Steven Blake How old are you? Adults love to act like teenagers are stupid and don’t know anything about the real world when we do. The internet lets us have access to literally anything. We know current events, and what’s happening in our world today. Teenagers are smarter than adults when they were teenagers. As of right now, we are the smartest and most innovative generation. We are learning more, doing more, and realizing the importance of things faster. We are training to be engineers, doctors, scientists and so much more. But adults love brushing that off and criticizing us and then wondering why we’re insecure. And btw, the number of teen pregnancies has gone down in the past 10 years.
How old are you? What you call control, is actually love, maturity and wisdom.
@@stevenblake8642 Get your head out of your ass. Just because a girl enjoys wearing clothing they think looks nice on them, even if it shows a little bit of skin, doesn't mean their gonna get knocked up at 15 and living on welfare.
“Beautiful journey of figuring out who they are...” Does this include staying up until 2:30 AM (or later) crying and working on homework?
Sry for being one of those annoying offended people who tell the same jokes over and over again because it’s relatable. But this really does happen to me
Elizabeth Jacobs Join the club, lmao
ME
Elizabeth Jacobs ME
Elizabeth Jacobs Meee
My little sister literally hates showing skin or wearing anything that is too revealing or too tight. Even I try talking her into getting into the whole concept of "keeping up with fashion" but she clearly doesn't care about it.
I'm so proud to know that she knows who she is and is comfortable with her style rather than to try and be more like others.
Half of the time she looks like an homeless person. What gets to me is that, most people or friends she hangs with look older and dress like 18-20 yr old ( when in reality are 13-14 yrs olds)and yet she wouldn't change a thing to fit in.
I am not hating on anyone, not even hating on her friends. Just super proud of my sister for simply being herself.
Learning new things everyday, even from young people.
That sounds wonderful! I wish you both the best in life.
i was like that. still am. i hate getting the attention from "older" men cause im still a little girl. im 16 soon to be 17 and i get alot of attention from older men and its scary to me. and gross. i try not to dress all flashy while dress in the fashion trend
I'm so happy you are lucky to have a sister like her. She likes to be herself and that's great. 👏
Thank you all for your kind comments. I do indeed Love her and am proud of her always.
Proud of her. I like tight pants,but shirts just alittle loose. It's her style like what I said was my style.
You can wear that dress now! You're 18!😂😂👌
You're really different from when you were 17...
+SarahThePotato YOU are REALLY a potato.
true
Damn... I'm only now getting this is SIX YEARS OLD!😰
That means shit has gotten WORSE 😂! I shoulda know this was ancient when he mentioned the Diane Chicks being 😤... "good girls!" LMAO
NumNut 😂
This is why I liked the clothes before 2000 or just after because the clothes were more modest. And people didn't wear skimpy clothes. I'm 13 and wished I lived in the time my mum grew up. I like simple clothes, sure I like wearing shorts but I'm always conscious how short it is, always wearing descent length shorts etc. I shop at H&M cause it's more modest, simpler clothes
That's great! Not everyone likes to wear the same clothes (I am thirteen as well), but I think it's okay to be able to wear what you want, and I am thankful for that. I don't like wearing anything too tight or short as well, but I am still happy that I am growing up in a world where I feel comfortable and respected to do so most of the time.
It’s only ‘sexy’ if men sexualise it. The young girls should not be objectified because they want to wear revealing clothes
there are so many serious problems in this world yet we choose to obsess over what people are wearing.. c'mon :/
Init
So many serious problems in this world yet young girls choose to obsess over what people are wearing.
Everyone pray for Aleppo 🙏🏻😔✌🏻
This is one of those serious problems though...
Jenna this is serious to when it comes to social issues in North America
Tween = 10-12
Teen = 13-19
Uno Ewah nineTEEN
When you’re 18 you’re an adult
Thx was confused lol
I mean you’re an adult at 18 but still a teenager at 19. It’s like a young adult and confusing lmao
Uno Ewah Actually you're a legal adult but still technically a teen
all the girls that she said were good girls really arent anymore
Top 10 Awesome because of their clothing? How does that work? If a man changes his style is he not good anymore too?
Oof these adults didn’t know wat was coming for them in 2018
Ikr
Bruh 2021 is gonna have them tripping.
Am I the only one who thinks that all of those clothes at the shopping (maybe the exception of that one black dress) looked perfectly fine?
Yeah they looked fine
drinking game: take a shot for every 'I'm a girl and I wear jeans/t shirts/hoodies!' 😒
The thing is that most people watching this will be too young to drink 😂
Take two shots each time a 'tween' says something along the lines of: 'We understand! We're mature!'
I tried this and I died of alcohol poisoning
megan lol I can't not 21 but that's basically all I wear and I'm 13
Just another moonwalker use apple juice
The resent on the daughter's face in the interview oml XD
The only one I would have said no to was the black body con dress.
The others were lovely.
When I was 12, I was watching Harry Potter, playing video games, going to sleepovers, spending time with my family, going to church and getting good grades.
Davida Ward when I was 12- wait I was never 12! 😂
Davida Ward your not even 12
+Dorothy Deyes I'm in my 20's. I was telling a story when I was 12 back in the day. Duh!
Davida Ward Ikr, I'm 13, I wear jeans and simple t-shirts and baggy hoodies. Wtf are these other kids doing.
Gooood foorrrr youuuuuuu
Meanwhile, I'm 14 and love my sweatpants and video games.
The Athena Show Good for you! Innocent teenagers ROCK!!
Cool. You like your thing. They like theirs. End of story
Psxlmii Same.. I wear baggy hoodies sweatpants, tbh ppl mistake me for a kid
Zoe doodle IKR? It's no wonder some people lamenting about this issue believe that an overgrown child reputation is a possible, if not the most perfect solution to this problem to the point where fashion designers and clothing manufacturers are responding by designing and cranking out childlike clothing for adults!
PugSpirit samr
Mom: I don’t want my daughter seen in that dress
Also Mom: Proceeds to let 10 million strangers see daughter on national news
My mom encouraged me to dress what she called girly for Instagram when I was 9. I was told to age myself up and I got a large following. I soon felt as grown as I was appearing online. I would date older boys, lost my virginity by 12 and had an abortion by 13. I got into a lot of adult situations when I was still a child but I had to keep up with the in control yet controversial image for my IG. I’m 19 now and yes I have money but I missed out on a normal childhood and I don’t speak to my mom. I’m in therapy twice a week and now as an adult I feel exploited and sick about my adult image at 12. My advice, keep kids kids. They’ll grow up one day but let that be when they are age consenting people.
I feel like there is a very small window for "sexy" clothes. Like, it's not appropriate until you're 18, but once your 24 you're to old for it, and it's immature.
*too
Jesus Christ.
Oh my fucking God, are you serious? Please do the whole world a favor, and go live in a mayonnaise jar.
i didnt know 24 was too old to wear short skirts. you make no sense.
TheHarlequinHatter nice expression
Ashley tisdale was in her 20's when that song came out, she wasn't a teen anymore
Then there’s my mom who want me to cut back on my over sized hoodies and sweatpants. 😂
They’re making it seem like it’s a bad thing. Are we just going to bash the next tween who shows a “little too much skin”?
Tweens in H&M and Forever 21? Honey when I was that age I still shopped at Justice.
Same
Same
Justice is too shiny and sparkly for some people lmfao
All those stores are marketed to teenagers.
Justice? Wow girls were... "girly" back in the day. Not as bad as what this generation has though. I usually strive to find the most tomboyish things at Burlington, and of course I shop at Hot Topic.
I'm 14 and I wear batman shirts and leggings. Lmao XD
SAME. Along with my band tees and skinny jeans haha
Ikr
great you deserve a fucking award because you aren't like any other million pre-teen tumblr fangirls
I wear dresses
Batman leggings!From where?!I want them!
COME ON JUST LET THEM WEAR WHAT THEY WANT TO WEAR
Lmao nah
HeyItsElla you’d be surprised
Honey it's not that easy
Bitch. You must be 12. So you're gonna let girls walk around in stripper outfits and say the same thing? Didn't think so.
lighing flash pedophiles are gonna be pedophiles no matter what girls are wearing. That’s on them. Let girls wear what they want.
Oh wow... The only clothes I wear these days are sweatpants! 😂🤣
These girls are 19 now........
There legal
Bruh they 21 now😂
Andrew Camp aye
the heck those outfits are suitable for pre teens (8-12)...not even that revealing
True, well...12 year olds yeah but maybe abit mature for like 10 and below, there's nothing revealing but I just think younger kids should wait for them kind of dresses maybe idk
Biz 💩💩
*cough cough* Mackenzie ziegler and Danielle Cohn should really watch this video!!
0:01 : "As long as there have been pre teen girls, there have been *Parrots* agonizing over how they dress". How do they train the parrots to do this? It's just amazing!
when i was 12 i wore long-sleeved shirts with cats on em and sneakers and ugly jeans... nothing cute about that, i didn't even have a phone back then and played with little pet shop.. girls now got to be remembered they are 12 and that they need shorts longer than their private parts...
Not really. Most 12 year old girls have enough common sense to not walk outside like that. Jesus Christ, you people act as if girls literally walk outside naked. They are just wearing normal clothes and its your fault for seeing it as anything more.
why would you want to wear that? That's why girls now have their own fashion sense. like I definitely wouldn't want to wear ugly jeans.
+ayeeitsjayla I wouldn't be a picky bitch like you.
+dragon64 Hahhha
These comments are pissing me off. A lot of these girls are talking about how "the girls in their school are 'slutty'" because they dress a certain way. How the hell does the way you dress affect how many sexual interactions you have? Girls I barely know that dress differently than me call me a slut or a whore all the time based off my appearance and I'm a virgin. Please learn the definition of 'slut'. Also, all the girls explaining how other girls dress and then bashing them, why do you care so much? I don't give a shit how you dress. You can wear LBD's or neon jeans & band t-shirts and I won't make any judgements on you because of the way you dress. You like what you like, your outfit doesn't affect me whether I would wear it or not.
Exactly! I dress sexy too, but it doesn't mean I am a whore! People need to stop judging people's appearance and look at what's inside. I have no idea why people link what you wear to who you are because it really doesn't define a person. And if people think that then they are very shallow.
The fashion sense makes me want to die
"Ashley Tisdel is crancking it up." Can't stop laughing
I'm 16 and I honestly don't see the point of dressing 'sexy' at this age. You're supposed to be focused on your learning not attracting boys. If a boy likes you, you don't want him to like you for your sex appeal. That's kind of why I like winter time because the fashion is so beautiful, and young girls don't have an excuse to wear a little bit of clothes in freezing weather.
But girls dress like this in Japan and in South Korea, and does it impede their learning? Japanese and Koreans are academically superior to Americans and this is what these academically superior girls often wear much more often than American girls. This is an actual fact.
NetSurfer1111 what a bunch of crap.
Izolda G Nobody dresses like this in America and anywhere except for one place. Your television set. But that Japanese and Korean girls dress much sexier and they study longer hours than American girls everybody knows that. Is America known for students to have academic excellence? No. Japan and Korea are better known for academic achievement, per average student, than America is. Everybody in the academic world knows that. How Japanese girls dress in Tokyo and Osaka? Look in the street and you'll see. And the Korean girls at Gangnam? Look in the street and you'll see. And the American girls? Look and see. So? No relevance for one to the other. SO HOW DOES DRESSING GET IN THE WAY OF ACADEMICS?????? It does only on choreographed TV shows and scripted newscasts. In real life one and the other is hardly in the way of another. Once yes. But one thousand times no. Because the TV is saying the opposite it is lying.
there was that one shirt thing that was too low cut and I'm here like "Why don't I have a turtle neck yet..."
SammmyWammyLlamma Draws EXACTLY
My mother would always tell me and my sister when we were growing up that the way you dress shows who you are. So if young ladies especially dress inappropriate like showing their cleavage and their hips the only that means is that they want to entice boys or men.
Emilio Maurice Your mother sounds terrible... For starters she's assuming women who dress in any way that could be seen as sexual do it for men AND she's saying its "inappropriate" to show any cleavage or to have any tight clothing.... So by her standards if I wear skinny jeans it's not because I want to feel good about myself it's because I want to "entice" men? Thats so fucked. You should just wear traditional Islamic clothing for women. Don't show your hair cause you're inducing men! Don't show the natural shape of your hip that can't be hidden fully because you're enticing men!
Your mother should be teaching you that men isn't the priority when it comes to women and what they wear. She should be teaching you that your clothing doesn't make you who you are as a person. She should be teaching you that men are accountable for their own actions.
i lost my tutrtle neck :(
ÖRLOGSKAPTEN #MAKERUclipsGREATAGAIN TRUTH SPOKEN
"I don't want to be her friend, I want to be her parent. She can like me when she's 30."
Ok wow
Megan Wilbur
I don’t like her now.
They should interview those mom's and daughters now to talk about the shift in fashion and shift on how people view women's bodies now in 2018.