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Комментарии • 11 тыс.

  • @MMellette
    @MMellette 5 лет назад +12888

    This is not her parents fault
    It’s not her fault
    She’s not just picky
    It’s a medical condition

    • @Ronald-xx7gh
      @Ronald-xx7gh 5 лет назад +145

      americans so wierd

    • @MMellette
      @MMellette 5 лет назад +23

      Lilith Ruetz 😂😂😂

    • @catslayeggs5448
      @catslayeggs5448 5 лет назад +34

      Ronald Americans are weird cause the weird ones are the ones that stayed home that day and survived

    • @cold-teawith-lemon7555
      @cold-teawith-lemon7555 5 лет назад +20

      *~2D~ , I have spotted yes ?*

    • @HDMIcord
      @HDMIcord 5 лет назад +13

      too dee

  • @cjabernathy4594
    @cjabernathy4594 5 лет назад +11324

    She’s almost 16 years old now. I wonder what she looks like. Hope she’s doing fine.

    • @Gentleman_uk
      @Gentleman_uk 5 лет назад +289

      probably looks like something out of breaking bad

    • @hiinsanity
      @hiinsanity 5 лет назад +53

      @@Gentleman_uk lmao

    • @Leanne_w
      @Leanne_w 5 лет назад +46

      @@Gentleman_uk damn

    • @aestheticalmidnight
      @aestheticalmidnight 5 лет назад +102

      Yeah I also wonder what she looks like too. The video said that she eats apples with peanut butter. I actually found out peanut butter is healthy. I never even looked into that until now

    • @GameChanger597
      @GameChanger597 5 лет назад +177

      @@aestheticalmidnight Peanut butter without any additives and no added sugar is healthy:)

  • @asens6241
    @asens6241 4 года назад +3415

    I’m really annoyed how the reporter kept saying “picky eater” clearly it’s deeper than that!

    • @ocellaris1271
      @ocellaris1271 4 года назад +79

      I'm pretty sure she's reading off a paper somebody else wrote, you can't blame her for doing her job

    • @honestasempre3972
      @honestasempre3972 3 года назад +12

      Jesus Christ powerful Holy Saviour of World bless and your family my friends ❤🙏

    • @lumijasminasmr3583
      @lumijasminasmr3583 3 года назад +23

      @@ocellaris1271
      So someone else did their job poorly. But you have a point!

    • @Amelia-w9u9k
      @Amelia-w9u9k 3 года назад +6

      That’s literally what she’s saying, is that it is more than being a “picky eater”

    • @Crunchy13
      @Crunchy13 3 года назад +1

      Hehe 1k likes now

  • @stephaniejohnson7679
    @stephaniejohnson7679 4 года назад +3435

    “Still eating like four year olds”. This entire news report seems really judgmental and disrespectful.

    • @sabriaghee6153
      @sabriaghee6153 4 года назад +25

      Pediatrician told us daughter would eat when ready and she did.if her parents couldn't fed her due to lack of food Some can't afford food.we put so much on food.

    • @mussolinismistress
      @mussolinismistress 3 года назад +17

      @@sabriaghee6153 Don’t ever let your kids enter a “survival mentality” by basically starving them. There are mental disorders both in poverty and abundance. This is why anxiety and depression still take hold regardless of economic background. Your child probably never had ARFID, if she did, then she would’ve starved herself (which is one of the basis of the diagnosis). There are kids who are built like Anorexics because they starve themselves and have to get hospital treatment before starting therapy. Don’t downplay a mental illness because you were “cured.”

    • @honestasempre3972
      @honestasempre3972 3 года назад +7

      Jesus Christ powerful Holy Saviour of World bless and your family my friends ❤🙏

    • @user-cnfan
      @user-cnfan 3 года назад +2

      more like 1 or 2

    • @God-if9xx
      @God-if9xx 3 года назад +4

      Not really, it is what it is

  • @Daraling1
    @Daraling1 5 лет назад +14117

    I wish my parents tried to force me to eat pizza.

  • @bettyb1313
    @bettyb1313 4 года назад +2355

    Has anyone thought she may have hypersensitivity to taste texture smell etc...

    • @TealAstronaut
      @TealAstronaut 4 года назад +33

      They did

    • @randa5933
      @randa5933 4 года назад +50

      5:38

    • @2m2_2w2_2s
      @2m2_2w2_2s 4 года назад +58

      I have that too. For some reason with me, it's some foods and also fabrics and stuff. I'm weird lol

    • @VenomousDread
      @VenomousDread 4 года назад

      300th like your welcome

    • @ejmobiel
      @ejmobiel 4 года назад +4

      I think she's a supertaster also

  • @izzycelleri3433
    @izzycelleri3433 5 лет назад +5918

    Wtffff, the reporter who went into the mans fridge and started eating their food💀💀💀💀

  • @mparker123
    @mparker123 4 года назад +812

    I’m so happy to hear that she still eats breakfast and other things.

  • @santiago4708
    @santiago4708 5 лет назад +1113

    i love how the mum admits they treated her like she was just picky and then they realised that wasn’t it

    • @MrsBax
      @MrsBax 4 года назад +5

      Tell tale sign they enabled the behavior early on...

    • @yanetdelgado3209
      @yanetdelgado3209 4 года назад +11

      They,re good parents

    • @jennslater9264
      @jennslater9264 2 года назад +32

      @@MrsBax They already tried being strict and it got worse. She has stomach problems. If you’ve never had such issues, then stay quiet because it can hurt terribly and affect your mental health even for adults. Stress from being shamed would just cause more acid and make her condition worse. I’m glad she has great parents who understands this and actually helps her.

    • @malford9991
      @malford9991 2 года назад +1

      @@yanetdelgado3209 not

    • @timohara7717
      @timohara7717 Год назад

      @@malford9991 bro tho picky

  • @redvorchannel
    @redvorchannel 5 лет назад +1597

    She probably developed the fear extremely young do to fear of the pain that happened every time she ate when she was little. She likely learned real quick a few safe foods that didn't cause her pain.

    • @JenniferLoveBrown
      @JenniferLoveBrown 5 лет назад +108

      You are very right. This is an eating disorder called ARFID: Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder. It was added as an eating disorder to the DSM-5 in 2013. It is a mental disorder. People who have this would literally starve themselves them put what they consider an unsafe food in their body. See this video to better understand what ARFID is: @4d-k

    • @smallpaws2843
      @smallpaws2843 5 лет назад +25

      That's how I develop the fear. I only eat spaghetti soup salad fries pickles tomato most veggies most fr fruit and crackers

    • @aminasamatarofficial8980
      @aminasamatarofficial8980 5 лет назад +7

      My son only ate pb and j sandwiches as a child

    • @dearboss9136
      @dearboss9136 5 лет назад +8

      Or is she smart? She doesn't want to eat things that exacerbate her agida.
      Duh! There are grown adults who continue to eat crap that disagrees with them and then they whine about the pain they are in!

    • @cuteedits2970
      @cuteedits2970 5 лет назад +3

      It could be but, in the video she said she ate grilled cheese sandwiches but such in a certain way so it's not the texture and with the peanut butter she just liked certain brand so IDK if that could be true

  • @oppaloopa3698
    @oppaloopa3698 4 года назад +1203

    That little girl really is blessed to have parents who did this for her. So many kids with everything from anxiety or sensory disorders to acid reflux or paralyzed stomachs/intestines get severely abused because their parents just don’t care enough to take a second and wonder why or what if.

    • @ellyottsnotokay2254
      @ellyottsnotokay2254 3 года назад +24

      I have arfid and my parents yelled at me. I wanted to eat but if I ate I might vomit and that scared me more than anything

    • @rejim.philip9431
      @rejim.philip9431 3 года назад +4

      @@ellyottsnotokay2254 aww I'm sorry hope ur parents go to jail..

    • @gregorkrause
      @gregorkrause 3 года назад +15

      Ashes x2 parents also assume that problems like this are behavioral and not medical, missing things that could cause permanent illness or death like from an ignored #bleedingulcer that got so severe that the person dies.

    • @Chim3983
      @Chim3983 3 года назад +9

      Completely agreed as someone who had terrible reflux due to an anxiety disorder . My parents said I was over reacting and forced my to eat. Always yelling at me for something I can't control

    • @Gomer._.
      @Gomer._. Год назад

      all these human sacrifices on the altar of a false sense of universality that proper service requires

  • @a14a17k
    @a14a17k 4 года назад +708

    I'm glad that the family is taking her condition seriously even though the reporters aren't. I hope she continues to thrive in treatment

    • @honestasempre3972
      @honestasempre3972 3 года назад +7

      Jesus Christ powerful Holy Saviour of World bless and your family my friends 🙏

    • @Kevbot6000
      @Kevbot6000 2 года назад

      @@honestasempre3972 get help for your delusions

    • @nataliadagon
      @nataliadagon Год назад

      I hope, she never eats hotdogs, burgers and peanutbutter...

    • @CutesyDaisy
      @CutesyDaisy Год назад

      @@nataliadagonwhy?

  • @fogggggoooo8194
    @fogggggoooo8194 4 года назад +5250

    The reporters are getting on my nerves.
    " pIcKy eAtEr "
    She's not picky. She's got a condition. She has health issues. She doesn't _want_ it to be that way. She _wants_ to eat like a normal kid. Please stop, it's very disrespectful!

    • @snalxx1100
      @snalxx1100 4 года назад +23

      mhm

    • @qp3696
      @qp3696 4 года назад +46

      Exactly.

    • @fogggggoooo8194
      @fogggggoooo8194 4 года назад +94

      @Utkarsh Gupta What? She's not doing it on purpose, you know that, right?

    • @gregorkrause
      @gregorkrause 4 года назад +57

      @Utkarsh Gupta that isn't the case here, she has a phobia of food, and not a normal i only want to eat what i want type of kid like in the old days before doctors discovered different reasons for food refusal.

    • @Kerrogann
      @Kerrogann 4 года назад +54

      @Utkarsh Gupta I'm an adult and have the same problem she has. And I really wish I could eat like everyone else. So yeah, being called a "picky eater" is disrepectful and wrong.

  • @issan4425
    @issan4425 5 лет назад +2516

    Imagine when she is older. “Hey babe where do you want to eat” like bro if her boyfriend asks her that then he dead

    • @igetcoldtoes
      @igetcoldtoes 5 лет назад +53

      At Waffle House lol

    • @bbyrae
      @bbyrae 5 лет назад +18

      She is older she is about 16

    • @thecupcakedepot
      @thecupcakedepot 5 лет назад +20

      I am the same way, i never "grow" out of it, i tried very hard
      But couldn't, I am 29 now and I am married. My husband is very understanding but sometimes we do struggle because he can't eat some things cuz the smell makes me instantly sick.

    • @tiaraw872
      @tiaraw872 5 лет назад +5

      Issan make a meme on Facebook not the comment section of RUclips. The hell🤔

    • @issan4425
      @issan4425 5 лет назад +9

      Tiara W I don’t think you’ve seen all of youtube then

  • @KaneaxXx
    @KaneaxXx 5 лет назад +2733

    i feel bad, she’s literally aware of her problem this young and wants to get help. that’s so sad she recognizes what’s happening. i thought she was just being a brat about it for a second but she’s not!

    • @ombreberry2886
      @ombreberry2886 5 лет назад +14

      Kanea Douglas food gives me panic attacks sometimes lol

    • @supertuber120
      @supertuber120 5 лет назад +66

      The fact that she's aware of her problem this young means she has a lot of time to work on it. She'll probably be O.K. by the time she's an adult.

    • @sierrashoemake518
      @sierrashoemake518 5 лет назад +15

      I’m almost 17 and still this way I can’t eat fruit or vegetables it’s looks good but when I try to eat it it makes me sick

    • @Lex-jj7hb
      @Lex-jj7hb 5 лет назад +38

      @Sand Man She's not a brat, she's afraid of most food due to a psychological trauma. If she was a brat, she'd only eat stuff like pizza. But trying thing makes her physically sick.

    • @darkniteo________o4994
      @darkniteo________o4994 5 лет назад +2

      @@sierrashoemake518 because you are picky

  • @olivianotrodrigo
    @olivianotrodrigo 3 года назад +372

    imagine having to face your fear 3 times a day, poor girl.

    • @timothywait9457
      @timothywait9457 2 года назад

      oliviryuh, the road is dry eating is a chore drugs and drink are beater

    • @nataliadagon
      @nataliadagon Год назад

      She still doesn's look starving and not obese like many American people...May be it's smart not to eat what they eat? Her intuition tells her that this food is bad for you...

  • @ana-beatrizdesousasantos1079
    @ana-beatrizdesousasantos1079 5 лет назад +1574

    I dont like them saying she's just a 'very picky eater'
    It's a phobia, it's more complicated than that

    • @rachel7440
      @rachel7440 4 года назад +48

      I agree, it always bugs tf out of me when people call it 'picky eating'. People like this little girl have a psychological disorder, 'picky eater' makes it seem like it's a choice they're making

    • @nataliaroseep1797
      @nataliaroseep1797 4 года назад +2

      Rachel right! its so annoying. It’s not her choice!

    • @kinsi966
      @kinsi966 4 года назад +2

      She just eat the food I’ve often ate food I don’t like

    • @Araminta22
      @Araminta22 4 года назад +1

      yeah it sounds like an overactive gag reflex too

    • @Kerrogann
      @Kerrogann 4 года назад +4

      @@kinsi966 Yeah it seems normal to you, but to us who have that phobia, it's not that easy. We just can't.
      And it's not a choice. I swear I'd give anything to eat normally and not have to bother about food.

  • @daxydax9718
    @daxydax9718 5 лет назад +3823

    "She has a phobia of food"
    Not a minute later
    "THE ONLY FOOD SHE'LL EAT IS BREAKFAST"

    • @silviat4848
      @silviat4848 5 лет назад +15

      Daxy Dax lmaoo

    • @SparkleP8nter
      @SparkleP8nter 5 лет назад +75

      Daxy Dax she tries Bacon and they are all shocked she ate it... even though it’s a breakfast food...

    • @saimakhaliq7908
      @saimakhaliq7908 5 лет назад +31

      Are u dumb it’s one of the few foods she ate/eats

    • @katschmit513
      @katschmit513 5 лет назад +66

      She wants sugar lol

    • @SparkleP8nter
      @SparkleP8nter 5 лет назад +9

      kat schmit if you remember in the video they said she doesn’t really like Dessert foods much

  • @GraceSolar
    @GraceSolar 4 года назад +2811

    "Still eating like four year olds" that's just plain rude.

    • @camilazelaya2481
      @camilazelaya2481 4 года назад +8

      Camille Moore just eat-

    • @redspond
      @redspond 4 года назад +70

      mxlaadfwu
      If you had it, you would understand. No I don’t have it but no need to be like “jUsT eAt”

    • @redspond
      @redspond 4 года назад +43

      Camille Moore
      I’m sorry that you have to be going through this. I hope your doing ok

    • @Hazelll2502
      @Hazelll2502 4 года назад +13

      TurtleMyths right? There are too many insensitive people.

    • @bleachforyoureyes9790
      @bleachforyoureyes9790 4 года назад +17

      Ik it’s a medical condition it’s just disrespectful

  • @aboultbee1
    @aboultbee1 4 года назад +245

    Umm the one reporter who just starts eating his weird cookie crumbs in the fridge...?! Seemed so unprofessional. The point was highlighting his illness and she’s like OMG THIS LOOKS TASTY

    • @LindyNicholson
      @LindyNicholson 3 года назад +9

      Weird cookie crumbs? I think they were chocolate chips 😂

    • @Defnotjolie
      @Defnotjolie 3 года назад +2

      Lmao might as well call them wired cookie crumbs

    • @LindyNicholson
      @LindyNicholson 3 года назад

      True. I won't object to that haha

    • @cami9528
      @cami9528 3 года назад

      He said yes 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

    • @blossom9876
      @blossom9876 3 года назад +3

      Ikr like who just shows up to someone’s house to film them opens the fridge and gose ooo this looks good
      *eats their food*

  • @Sharon-pb7so
    @Sharon-pb7so 7 лет назад +2395

    This was our story. Our son wouldn't eat anything. I made him instant breakfast every day and used 2 packets to add calories. We took him to Children's Hospital, we tried everything. Oddly enough he did like French toast, pancakes and eventually grilled cheese. He started eating peanut butter when he was about 8 and poptarts . I worried constantly about his health and weight. This went on for several years. When he was in middle school he got invited to stay over at friends houses, I thought he'd starve. That's where he learned to eat cheese pizza. Oh my gosh, I was thrilled. Every time he stayed at a friend's he'd try something different. Not too different but progress was progress. Fast forward... he went away to college, we took him out to dinner and he ordered fish and chips but asked for broccoli instead of fries I was stunned.... he's now married and we all went out for Chinese not too long ago and he ordered crispy DUCK! Duck, for the love of God. I thought my eyes would come out of my head. He cooks all the time now and makes really good food, I'm beyond amazed.

    • @Sharon-pb7so
      @Sharon-pb7so 7 лет назад +52

      My son was also born with GERD, infant apnea and bradycardia.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods 6 лет назад +35

      Sharon Martin
      I wonder how he was really able to beat this problem

    • @allisondesery1129
      @allisondesery1129 6 лет назад

      Sharon Martin Z

    • @prihaps
      @prihaps 6 лет назад +19

      Naaaah bro. My stepson is like that and I broke him in one month. Fully in three.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods 6 лет назад +10

      Sharon Martin
      PTubes... I'm very fortunate that I did not really go through this with my child but I'm certain there are many people here who would want to know how you were able to break your son of this habit within a few months

  • @Emilio-wb7lu
    @Emilio-wb7lu 8 лет назад +3158

    I would like to see Gordon's Ramsay face when this girl says "Your food is horrible''

  • @lpsrainbowfantasytm9503
    @lpsrainbowfantasytm9503 9 лет назад +6453

    I'm on a seafood diet. I see food and eat it.

  • @mintzoni
    @mintzoni 4 года назад +223

    I have a eating disorder myself, and I don't like it that they say she is a "picky eater. " It's disrespectful and rude.

    • @r5ndom527
      @r5ndom527 3 года назад

      Was it a texture thing or taste thing?

    • @mintzoni
      @mintzoni 3 года назад +4

      @@r5ndom527 most likely texture, I used to have it when I was younger, and I tended to throw up with most foods, so either that or taste

    • @Dablooner
      @Dablooner 3 года назад +1

      How she just doesn't wanna say neophobia thing over and over it means the same thing

    • @kittycat8222
      @kittycat8222 3 года назад

      @@mintzoni I’m jumping in to say I had this same thing and still struggle at the age of 33 and one of my 2 children has it with both texture and taste. I would also become so overwhelmed by food textures and tastes I would vomit in my lap as a child. I survived on mostly eggs and cereal.

    • @mollydean3222
      @mollydean3222 3 года назад

      Periodts

  • @blahblahblahblawww
    @blahblahblahblawww 5 лет назад +1005

    Shes not afraid of the food she afraid the pain will come back when she eats

    • @clowicous
      @clowicous 5 лет назад +36

      Bigfoot from The florida woods okay this makes more sense, I was thinking how is she afraid of food in general if she still eats some food and for a minute was just thinking she’s a brat but I get it now, poor thing~

    • @blahblahblahblawww
      @blahblahblahblawww 5 лет назад +1

      @I boop ur nose what do you mean

    • @choosey87
      @choosey87 5 лет назад +16

      I boop ur nose @ 3:00 they start to talk about her stomach pains....She has acid reflux...

    • @nota2364
      @nota2364 5 лет назад +2

      Talk like Alexis afraid of the gnarly shits

    • @nota2364
      @nota2364 5 лет назад +2

      I boop ur nose pooping

  • @bbyrae
    @bbyrae 5 лет назад +1252

    This is everyone's recommend in 2019. When this was from 2010.

    • @kai2721
      @kai2721 5 лет назад +5

      Army 💜

    • @josephmora8950
      @josephmora8950 5 лет назад +16

      Fucking BTS fans suck

    • @Molowa369
      @Molowa369 5 лет назад +8

      Joseph mora i know right

    • @josephmora8950
      @josephmora8950 5 лет назад +4

      Sean Oh yeah man

    • @avani496
      @avani496 5 лет назад +2

      @@josephmora8950 if you don't like them, why are you here? No need to cuss someone the shit out of them.

  • @ciao614
    @ciao614 5 лет назад +574

    I wonder if they ever tried giving a nutritional shake as a supplement.. poor kid hope she's doing better.

    • @Recroomsniperpro
      @Recroomsniperpro 4 года назад +12

      Mass Lass like pedia sure

    • @natalia1800
      @natalia1800 4 года назад +8

      I have this condition and trust me it’s actually worse to have shakes, cause we still know exactly what’s in there. At least in my experience.

    • @natalia1800
      @natalia1800 4 года назад +1

      Alex Rivera that’s what I mean. Like shakes with tons of different fruits.

    • @londonchandler18
      @londonchandler18 4 года назад

      With my son we did, and for a short time he would drink them along with smoothies I would make! Now he won’t touch anything with a texture like a smoothie or shake. 😔

    • @emmaspaz6435
      @emmaspaz6435 4 года назад

      Probably

  • @dumbfridge7576
    @dumbfridge7576 3 года назад +100

    the reporters referring to people with this health condition as “very picky eaters” reminds me of that other video of reporters saying that children with severe social anxiety are just “shy”

  • @louisawatters265
    @louisawatters265 4 года назад +564

    She might be hypersensitive to food, she didn’t like the texture of tomatoes but she likes fruit like apples and bread. She only likes some textures of food

  • @Champagne_Rob
    @Champagne_Rob 4 года назад +1018

    “Yummy yummy yummy”
    5 seconds later
    *Doesn’t eat*

    • @leaspeer3323
      @leaspeer3323 4 года назад +30

      RobbyIsFromTheShire think anxiety kicked in

    • @ace1967
      @ace1967 4 года назад +30

      I think it was the brother

    • @oneandonly8746
      @oneandonly8746 4 года назад +7

      Lol justin biebers song

    • @iaka1306
      @iaka1306 4 года назад +8

      She didn’t say that, her mom said that.

    • @homophobic6393
      @homophobic6393 4 года назад +1

      She wasn't the one saying that doe

  • @husamibrahim1
    @husamibrahim1 8 лет назад +2774

    She's scared of food? I am sorry for your loss.

    • @mollynbrown241
      @mollynbrown241 8 лет назад +40

      dude thats not funny

    • @P76-f9w
      @P76-f9w 8 лет назад +41

      +Mollyn Brown what's not funny? she's a picky eater

    • @iSummerBur
      @iSummerBur 8 лет назад +22

      +Clockracer MC until you see the ones who need to be fed through a tube, this is minor

    • @iSummerBur
      @iSummerBur 8 лет назад +3

      its not minor now that i look at it hoLy

    • @iSummerBur
      @iSummerBur 8 лет назад +26

      actually i feel like shes just picky now, shes not even gagging or anything

  • @elyce2760
    @elyce2760 3 года назад +73

    It’s crazy that she’d be 17 or 18 now-

  • @jthrn
    @jthrn 9 лет назад +2624

    if she eats only breakfast foods, why not give her breakfast foods all the time?

    • @reflexray
      @reflexray 9 лет назад +82

      Srsly though...

    • @jthrn
      @jthrn 9 лет назад +197

      MasterOfLaughtur i think i would enjoy waffles, pancakes, french toast, and eggs for dinner every night.haha. breakfast for dinner is the best!

    • @axelpersson1008
      @axelpersson1008 9 лет назад +34

      And bacon! Mmmm donuts.

    • @selfan8111
      @selfan8111 9 лет назад +331

      that's not a healthy diet. she needs a variety of healthy foods especially since she has a ton of growing to do.

    • @jthrn
      @jthrn 9 лет назад +192

      im not saying its healthy, but at least at that point shes eating.

  • @cloutelfin8323
    @cloutelfin8323 4 года назад +1907

    The reporters are very disrespectful. She isn’t “picky” she has a health condition. Get it right.

  • @emmamoss3670
    @emmamoss3670 5 лет назад +2781

    Why give her a tomato lol every kid hates tomatos
    Edit: wow y'all really care about tomatoes huh

  • @loganchaffin6021
    @loganchaffin6021 4 года назад +33

    I'm 16 and have this same disorder and its comforting seeing it brought to light. everyone has always tried to tell me I'm just picky and I need to grow up but it's a genuine mental issue and makes life extremely difficult. It makes me glad to see other kids can get help for this.

    • @struggling5432
      @struggling5432 3 года назад +2

      I have this disorder too im 15 but nobody in my family takes me serious like its so sad me and my boyfriend can never go out for like dinner dates cuz i wont eat anything most of the time it can really affect lives

  • @jeneralmattel8850
    @jeneralmattel8850 5 лет назад +648

    I sympathize with her parents. It's beyond being picky.

    • @niawalker5920
      @niawalker5920 4 года назад +8

      My son is just like this girl he old eats breakfast and one snack maybe I should get him help

    • @blueberry_smoothie1563
      @blueberry_smoothie1563 4 года назад +3

      Yeah, you should. :-:

    • @cabdifaarax7340
      @cabdifaarax7340 4 года назад +20

      It's a medical condition, a phobia

    • @peachabutt
      @peachabutt 4 года назад +14

      Hey I actually have food neophobia. It's usually the result of other conditions (in my case autism). It's a huge pain in the ass, but as long as people understand it it's ok!

    • @elifilsantony9222
      @elifilsantony9222 4 года назад +2

      I am like that too

  • @artemisfielder235
    @artemisfielder235 4 года назад +793

    I die a little bit inside whenever this sickness is just called being a "picky eater"

    • @kinsi966
      @kinsi966 4 года назад +2

      That’s what it is

    • @lydia3158
      @lydia3158 4 года назад +10

      Kinsi 96 it’s not being a picky eater you’re just stupid.

    • @artemisfielder235
      @artemisfielder235 4 года назад +5

      @@lydia3158 id say I wish you had it so you'd see how much of a shitty disorder it is but I woulsnt wish it on anyone tbh

    • @3nfferr
      @3nfferr 4 года назад

      Artemis Fielder and how do you know they don’t have the phobia lol??

    • @lydia3158
      @lydia3158 4 года назад +1

      Artemis Fielder I literally said it wasn’t being a picky eater to the person who said it was.

  • @Allthingscute123
    @Allthingscute123 7 лет назад +565

    It's sad that some of you think this is just picky eating. That's like saying anorexia is just occasionally skipping a meal because you're full.

    • @Sharon-pb7so
      @Sharon-pb7so 7 лет назад +20

      EarthLoveBeth I have a kid who was exactly the same, it's not indulging a picky kid, it's way beyond that. As a parent, at least for me, number one priority was CALORIES. I should have owned stock in Carnation Instant Breakfast. I bought it by the case.

    • @Sharon-pb7so
      @Sharon-pb7so 7 лет назад +5

      In addition my son was in the 90th percentile for his height and in the 5th for his weight.

    • @loafed3064
      @loafed3064 6 лет назад +4

      EarthLoveBeth why? She doesn’t have an eating disorder she eats food she’s being very picky

    • @thecraftycyborg9024
      @thecraftycyborg9024 6 лет назад +49

      PanPan -you missed the entire point of the piece. She DOES have an eating disorder. That's why she receives treatment in an *eating disorders clinic*. Imagine if every bite you took, you knew there was 50% chance of being poisoned. You'd be scared shitless of food, especially new foods. That's how her mind works. And it's not that the parents did something wrong. It's that her earliest memories of food are memories of intense pain and vomiting.

    • @paleaspaper4161
      @paleaspaper4161 6 лет назад +6

      Gemma Rendell your not taught many things in school, think about this then. School is known worldwide as a big educational system, why ain’t we learning about the biggest geniuses in history,? Why would we learn about disorders that only a small population has? You think everything we “learn” in school is important? and if it’s not learnt in school it’s not important? Sounds ridiculous. We were never taught the life importance’s. I can’t remember learning anything in school which is important except primary school.

  • @BeckyMD26
    @BeckyMD26 4 года назад +125

    I had this for most of my childhood. I'm 23 now and things are way better, however this is not a joke. I remember wanting to try certain foods but my brain stopping me from picking up a fork and eating it and I remember sitting in a restaurant and knowing it's wrong to be the way that I am but stuck on how to fix it. I remember when I was about 6 years old, my primary school did a curry tasting session one day for our class and I hid in the toilets before a teacher realised I was missing and then forced me to eat something in front of the rest of the class because "I was being rude for not trying anything" when my brain physically wouldn't let me. I also had acid reflux as a baby and I used to get bullied over my eating habits at school and kids would either throw food at me that they knew I didn't like or even with my closest friends I would stay over at their houses and they'd ask me why I was the way I was and try and hold me down so I'd eat pizza and stuff (Now I realise they obviously weren't real friends) but things like that traumatised me and also what made matters worse is that my family made such a huge deal about it when I did try something and that embarrassed me and made me not want to do it again.
    It started getting better when I was around 16 because I realised friends were inviting me out to meals and parties and I realised if I didn't eat or refused to eat then I could easily lose those friends as they'd think I'm weird and so I used to look on the menu for an item of food that was closest to something I'd eat and then try that, e.g trying a Salmon fillet because I ate tuna and thought it might be similar or noticing it came with mash potato and veg (which I loved) and realising that if I didn't like the salmon then it didn't matter as long as there was something on my plate that I was willing to eat.
    I do still struggle with this sometimes today but I am getting there, my taste buds are willing to accept a lot more foods nowadays and I'm comfortable eating certain foods in front of people and I do have a balanced diet. I never realised that what I had was a condition, I thought I was just weird but back in the 2000s there was no help for me and everyone looked down on me for it. I am proud of myself for how much I've overcome and dealt with.
    There may be some of you in the comments who see this and just think, "Wow she's weird" or "This is dumb". I ask you to hold back your judgement and instead try and emphasise and think about what it must be like to want to eat something but having no willpower in your head to physically pick up a fork and do it. It's been a challenge and it's taken a lot of hard work, no one is to blame but myself and I wish I never had these struggles but I'm proud of myself now for doing as well as I have and now being able to say that I have a balanced and healthy diet 😊

    • @MR-zq5gt
      @MR-zq5gt 3 года назад +9

      Hmm I wonder if my cousin has this.. she’s very similar - she will only eat chicken fingers, grapes, and cheese and crackers and she’s now 15.. I tried to gently probe why she didn’t want to eat other foods and she described it very much like you just did.. I think she wants to but her brain just stops her from trying new things… she also doesn’t like change so I think it’s also an anxiety/control issue ..

    • @Hexedbug
      @Hexedbug 3 года назад +5

      you have no idea how much this resonates with me i’m still right in the thick of it but i hope it’ll get better for me aswell

    • @kanika_j
      @kanika_j 3 года назад +5

      Please don't blame yourself it's not your fault :))

    • @BeckyMD26
      @BeckyMD26 3 года назад +3

      @@kanika_j That's really lovely, thank you xx

    • @BeckyMD26
      @BeckyMD26 3 года назад +4

      @@Hexedbug I'm sure it will get better for you and I'm so glad I'm not alone xx

  • @lahleelah5453
    @lahleelah5453 5 лет назад +729

    ‘Get off the bed, FREDDY’
    Me: YEAH FREDDY OFF THE BED

    • @halieuwu9148
      @halieuwu9148 5 лет назад +26

      I love your humor tbh.

    • @spooky961
      @spooky961 5 лет назад +1

      Halieisnotonfire UwU totally

    • @lahleelah5453
      @lahleelah5453 5 лет назад +2

      ❤️

    • @kai2721
      @kai2721 5 лет назад +3

      I read that when she said that 😂

    • @ellagraham4695
      @ellagraham4695 5 лет назад

      It’s spelled Freddie lol got em

  • @staytrippy2042
    @staytrippy2042 6 лет назад +388

    “She isn’t just a picky eater she is a *EXTREMELY* picky eater”

    • @yesmysticeon
      @yesmysticeon 5 лет назад +1

      jamie vlogs I guess i’m an above picky eater

    • @livindeadghoul
      @livindeadghoul 5 лет назад +10

      I hate that sentence so much

    • @grenks6387
      @grenks6387 5 лет назад +1

      @@livindeadghoul ikr makes me hate her even though it's wrong

    • @livindeadghoul
      @livindeadghoul 5 лет назад +1

      @@grenks6387 She's not just a tiger, she's a *BIG* tiger

  • @winterknightstorm
    @winterknightstorm 4 года назад +269

    They said she have acid reflux since she was a baby. Oily food causes acid reflux. Some vegetables also causes acid reflux/gas. Avoid sour stuff. She's scared of the acid reflux that happens after eating.

    • @oppaloopa3698
      @oppaloopa3698 4 года назад +19

      I have always had severe gi issues and I can confirm. Acid reflux is no joke. When you’re a kid you can’t comprehend why you are constantly throwing up in your mouth or why your stomach and throat is burning. Just that it happens after you eat. So you don’t want to eat anything. Especially not pasta and vegetables. I hope she got the treatment that she needed for it.

    • @lisa8012
      @lisa8012 4 года назад +8

      @@oppaloopa3698 I'd get acid reflux all the time. Multiple times a day usually.. so i stopped eating.. acid reflux was very painful.. but I watch what I eat and I'm better now and only get it a few times a week :)
      Yay only once a week now

    • @illegalwaffel6435
      @illegalwaffel6435 4 года назад +1

      I was curious as to what the reasoning was that she was afraid of eating, glad to hear you know her personally and know that's the reason..

    • @tburrrg2502
      @tburrrg2502 4 года назад +3

      Meanwhile they are feeding her tomatoes which are acidic.

    • @viewtifulgold4223
      @viewtifulgold4223 4 года назад

      - Random Person on the Internet who isn't a Professional

  • @ama.mensss
    @ama.mensss 3 года назад +120

    The reporter was really being rude. She has a condition. “Are still eating like 4 year olds” You don’t get to disrespect and judge people like that smh 🤦‍♀️

    • @The_Noblesse
      @The_Noblesse 2 года назад +2

      It's to describe, I don't think its meant to be offensive

    • @twothousandandchew
      @twothousandandchew Год назад

      @@The_Noblesse notice how nobody likes your comment

  • @cerebralhemorrhage3660
    @cerebralhemorrhage3660 5 лет назад +303

    well duh she doesn’t like that pizza, it’s from whole foods

    • @mariah2690
      @mariah2690 5 лет назад +8

      official holy water bro the pizza from Whole Foods is bomb af

    • @Camothor10
      @Camothor10 5 лет назад +4

      I hate whole foods but the pizza is fucking great

  • @tabifiedler6944
    @tabifiedler6944 4 года назад +510

    As someone with chronic stomach pain, I sympathize with her being afraid of food possibly because of her past acid reflux. She’s about sixteen now; I hope she’s doing much better :)

    • @tabifiedler6944
      @tabifiedler6944 4 года назад +10

      Dowse I’m so sorry! Chronic pain sucks so much; I feel you :( I hope you can find a way to manage your pain xx

    • @tabifiedler6944
      @tabifiedler6944 4 года назад +7

      Dowse I’m really sorry to hear that. Chronic pain often times makes us feel hopeless because there isn’t really a “cure” per say, but it helps a bit to know that there are ways to manage it. I wish you the best, and remember that your pain does not define you. Good luck with everything♥️♥️

    • @marian151215
      @marian151215 4 года назад +9

      -Seedrian Sparkles- I used to eat anything I wanted until 2 years ago, I started having chronic pain it was unbearable I didn’t know what was causing it, I pretty much ate the same meals until I realize it was beef what made me sick, scallops, shrimp, once I stopped eating that I didn’t have the horrible pain anymore, but I’m always afraid of new foods now, I’m very picky when I eat out and it bothers me so much when people try to tell me to just eat a bite of beef 😕 I always say it’s not worth the pain, the person I’m nowadays is not the same I was 2 years ago..

    • @mossthegremlin6161
      @mossthegremlin6161 4 года назад

      Me too

    • @Tadpole_Plyrr2
      @Tadpole_Plyrr2 4 года назад +1

      Probably not... I’m 16 too and I have this disorder as well
      Got diagnosed at age 6 and I’m not better still

  • @ccchat8
    @ccchat8 5 лет назад +527

    It’s so upsetting how many people’s first thought is to physically abuse the child to get them to eat :/

    • @spauldingrebecca869
      @spauldingrebecca869 5 лет назад +34

      ccchat8 I can imagine that if this child was alive about 100 years ago. Picky eating was a major no no. Either you eat or you got spanked. I do feel that we have come a long ways since then. I too was a picky eater but not as bad as this child. I out grew it but there still some things I don't eat.

    • @presssquareproductions2303
      @presssquareproductions2303 5 лет назад +28

      Perfect example. When it wasn't a bunch of shitty parents raising kids there was a million less disorders.. Coincidence? Lol

    • @alexso820
      @alexso820 5 лет назад

      Uhm my parents (I’m Asian)

    • @faithgarcia9213
      @faithgarcia9213 5 лет назад +24

      MAG God'z AmonG Men No mental health just wasn’t taken as seriously and many people just went undiagnosed.

    • @ramitouhami4912
      @ramitouhami4912 5 лет назад +5

      @@presssquareproductions2303 exactly, she has absolute control over her parents her parents need to show her that in life not everything goes her way

  • @nikvlai
    @nikvlai 3 года назад +55

    She seems so sweet, I feel bad about her condition and I find it disrespectful that the reporters are calling her picky when she can't even control it. Not to mention, she really doesn't WANT to be like this :/

  • @marissa1373
    @marissa1373 8 лет назад +661

    I feel bad for these people. I have the opposite problem, I eat everything that is put in front of me 😂😂😂

  • @PaigeyLeighWolf
    @PaigeyLeighWolf 5 лет назад +287

    As someone who has emetophobia (a phobia of vomiting) I have struggled for YEARS with food. I can eat a lot more than I used to, but I can feel her pain. I know her cause of fear of food is different, but to everyone complaining "she just wants sugar" etc, when richer foods make you feel sick, you find your safe foods. Mine are always carbs and are mostly always sweet. Muffins and cereal and my top safety foods. I hope she's doing a lot better now, it's really hard to push through.

    • @ojo6178
      @ojo6178 4 года назад +41

      some people dont realise emetophobia is an anxiety disorder, not just a typical phobia. my mom used to laugh at me when i was screaming and crying that i wanted to die because i had a stomach ache. i dont think people realise what we go through on a daily basis..

    • @redspond
      @redspond 4 года назад +4

      очень одинокий
      Aw I’m so sorry, I hope your doing better :(

    • @Marieparawho
      @Marieparawho 4 года назад +11

      Peachŷ Røse I have emetophobia too! Regardless of who is throwing up, if they are next to me, I plug my ear and get the hell out of there. I’ll start crying and have an anxiety attack if I can’t leave. If I’m get sick, it’s even worse. I feel like I can’t breathe!

    • @Marieparawho
      @Marieparawho 4 года назад +3

      I have it too and I also love carbs and sweets. I love muffins and pancakes.

    • @yeseniarad
      @yeseniarad 4 года назад +7

      I only more recently learned about emetophobia but oh my gosh I really struggled with this as a kid. Nobody ever gave it a name. Everyone would say it was just a sensitive stomach or I was easily grossed out but it was more than that. Years of crying, getting belittled by school nurses, stomachaches, and starving myself because I was scared of vomiting and I finally have a name for it. I'm glad to say I'm doing much better now and have been doing great for the past 8 or so years. I even love food now! I've never even shared this with anyone or allowed myself to think about it too much but I'm proud of myself and where I'm at now

  • @pearliee
    @pearliee 5 лет назад +97

    She talks so maturely for a 7yr old

  • @Axilrenn
    @Axilrenn 4 года назад +45

    "Still eating like four year olds" That's just Rude -_-

  • @meteeoroid
    @meteeoroid 7 лет назад +371

    And I thought I was picky

    • @awesomealbertini4658
      @awesomealbertini4658 6 лет назад +2

      Prastutee Nepal same lol

    • @flowerqueen174
      @flowerqueen174 6 лет назад +2

      I'm picky but fat

    • @Ex0dus2
      @Ex0dus2 5 лет назад +2

      My parents are like why am I so picky XD but I am not dat picky like dat girl

    • @emi4564
      @emi4564 5 лет назад

      Same 😂

    • @cdrake79621
      @cdrake79621 5 лет назад +1

      Same I will only eat certain foods but I’m not this picky

  • @d0r0thy
    @d0r0thy 8 лет назад +766

    My grandma would honestly murder me if I said I'm not eating.

  • @yesmysticeon
    @yesmysticeon 5 лет назад +270

    2010: ❌
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    • @poop-tw7ny
      @poop-tw7ny 5 лет назад +7

      Mystic Eon 2020 for me ahaha

    • @Mamayesseniaa
      @Mamayesseniaa 5 лет назад +8

      2020✅

    • @genalles2849
      @genalles2849 5 лет назад +2

      HEY ITS 2020 COME ON

    • @nelestially
      @nelestially 5 лет назад +1

      They reccomeded me this in 2020

    • @scorpionqueen3550
      @scorpionqueen3550 4 года назад +1

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  • @umdonttalktome
    @umdonttalktome 3 года назад +25

    If she has a medical condition clearly it’s not “extremely picky eating”

  • @emmi5581
    @emmi5581 7 лет назад +621

    i love seeing these people in the comments thinking they know more than doctors and specialists... loll

  • @mo-oe7sd
    @mo-oe7sd 7 лет назад +76

    Her: NO I DONT WANNA EAT MY SPAGHETTI!!
    Me:Are you gonna finish that or.....
    😂😂

  • @alyssalutz3182
    @alyssalutz3182 8 лет назад +145

    *Watches this while eating food*

    • @bladetek9635
      @bladetek9635 8 лет назад +21

      Watches this while very hungry...

    • @Schatten2712
      @Schatten2712 8 лет назад +6

      does drinking milk count? I mean... it smells sour and tastes sour but at the end of it, it is still milk u know

    • @leilani9291
      @leilani9291 7 лет назад

      Alyssa Lutz watching this searching 4 food

    • @ddaengella9512
      @ddaengella9512 7 лет назад

      Alyssa Lutz IM EATING NUTELLA TOAST😂😂

    • @squigglynoodle6127
      @squigglynoodle6127 7 лет назад

      Alyssa Lutz it made me hungry

  • @ali.6409
    @ali.6409 5 лет назад +165

    why is this recommended to me 9 years after it was posted?

    • @LAOWayMusic
      @LAOWayMusic 5 лет назад +3

      Because there's nothing good coming out in 2019, I got a 2011 video rec the other day 🙄

    • @gamzeemakara7409
      @gamzeemakara7409 5 лет назад

      I hate it when people act like age is a factor to video quality on RUclips. I enjoyed it.

    • @astheticgirl7167
      @astheticgirl7167 5 лет назад

      ali ʕ⁎̯͡⁎ʔ༄ same..

    • @genalles2849
      @genalles2849 5 лет назад

      𝕀𝕥𝕨𝕒𝕤 𝕣𝕖𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕖𝕟𝕖𝕕 𝕥𝕠 𝕞𝕖 10 𝕪𝕖𝕒𝕣𝕤 𝕒𝕗𝕥𝕖𝕣 𝕚𝕥 𝕨𝕒𝕤 𝕡𝕠𝕤𝕥𝕖𝕕

    • @scorpionqueen3550
      @scorpionqueen3550 4 года назад

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  • @heathergjerdingen3548
    @heathergjerdingen3548 8 лет назад +351

    its good she's eating fruit

    • @flam3zzvisuals312
      @flam3zzvisuals312 8 лет назад +10

      heather gjerdingen at least

    • @torir3967
      @torir3967 8 лет назад

      heather gjerdingen You broke the law. when you set up your youtube accout, and signed the terms of service, it clearly states you must be 13+ years of age. They could remove your account or have minimal legal consequences, so please if you're going to watch videos at least don't comment. You're portraying your age by your attitude I'm guessing 9-10 at the greatest. So stop before you pay the price me report should start you off.

    • @torir3967
      @torir3967 8 лет назад

      heather gjerdingen never mind mabe even 7-8 seriosuly

    • @zuppy0
      @zuppy0 7 лет назад +10

      +Tori R what are you even saying, idk if your just making a meme, or you're just one serious person with basically no friends, because of your personality. If hes stupid, just tell him to stfu not that hard

    • @caitlinthomson6453
      @caitlinthomson6453 7 лет назад +7

      Tori R you can't tell what someone's age is by just one comment and it is good that she is eating fruit and your probably just saying that cause your under 13

  • @itsjustthefantes9789
    @itsjustthefantes9789 5 лет назад +216

    She eats enough food to stay alive at least... I bet eating made her have pain so she eats what's safe to not get sick r hurt n it's stuck w her

    • @jorcurtis07
      @jorcurtis07 4 года назад +5

      But she is not eating meat or vegetables so she is losing nutrients.

    • @ASmith-jn7kf
      @ASmith-jn7kf 4 года назад

      My daughter has foods that cause her pain, like pasta and rice and she won't eat them and I won't make but I also didn't raise her on eating junk.

    • @seagullz6317
      @seagullz6317 4 года назад

      JoJo Love dude it makes her sick that’s just cold dude..

    • @missmoonlight629
      @missmoonlight629 4 года назад

      It sounds like she has bad mental habits and patterns

  • @zen6529
    @zen6529 4 года назад +22

    If anyone has questions about this disorder, I have been suffering from ‘food neophobia’, now more commonly know as ARFID, or Avoidant/Restrictive food intake disorder, for 17 years now. Feel free to ask me anything as a reply

    • @idk9594
      @idk9594 3 года назад +4

      i have questions so im only 13 and i think ive had this my whole life, but ive never been diagnosed.. everytime i go to the doctor they tell me im okay.. ive probably ate around 70 different foods my whole life.. yesterday and today i searched up everything about ARFID and now ive developed really bad anxiety and ive lost my appetite..... so do you think i just have really bad anxiety which makes me feel like throwing up when i eat ANYTHING? or is it something more serious? this has kinda been happening for the past month.

    • @idk9594
      @idk9594 3 года назад +3

      another thing is, i dont know if i get my nutrients if i eat foods like:
      bread, quesidillas, grilled cheese, pb&g, i eat salads too, literally every type of fruit, almonds and peanuts, and i eat pizza, french fries and other junkfoods too. OH AND i also eat some veggies like celery, cucumber, carrots, lettuce, spinach along with smoothies. but im afraid to try new foods because i will gag at the smell

  • @Mirrorgirl492
    @Mirrorgirl492 8 лет назад +121

    People commenting who don't have this condition have no idea what they are talking about. It's not that you don't want to eat; you really do. But imagine that just about everything makes you physically wretch. That's what happens, you try new foods, it gets to the back of your throat and your tongue literally throws it back out. It is so painful, embarrassing and debilitating, that eating when anyone else is there becomes a nightmare. You very quickly identify what you can and can't eat without throwing up. You try the very best you can and it can take years to add just one food to your diet. I have suffered with this my entire life. I have tried hypnosis, counselling, kinesiology and desensitizing therapy. Nothing has worked. It is a constant 'thing' in one's life, and folks mouthing off about how it is just being 'picky' or juvenile don't have any idea what a pain in the butt it is.

    • @ashtree8868
      @ashtree8868 8 лет назад +4

      Exactly. People really need to understand that it isn't all that simple.

    • @alimona14
      @alimona14 8 лет назад

      your right

    • @darksouls4120
      @darksouls4120 8 лет назад

      Then wouldnt it be something to with the taste buds or that specific part of your brain? I would think that in 2016 they could run some test and narrow down the problem. Like finding out what foods you do eat and see if their are similarity in taste or texture between them. This girl seems to eat alot of sweets. Its been proven that sugar is very similar to cocaine in the way it produces serotonin in the brain. Could she just have an addiction to sugar?

    • @shanshan0878
      @shanshan0878 8 лет назад

      I think im battling with the same thing....maybe u can inbox me n I can ask you some questions bout it...

    • @Mirrorgirl492
      @Mirrorgirl492 8 лет назад +1

      Dark Souls You make some interesting points. Sugar is the devil every which way...lol. However, as to research, there is currently a major research attempt being made by Duke University. Many picky eaters are probably what is known as 'supertasters' (my son PE is definitely a supertaster, he can literally identify something that has just been in contact with something else. As a child he could pick up a toy and say what the plastic was made of and who was the last person to touch it).
      It is an extremely complex issue and most PE are looking forward to more research into our condition.

  • @raymonddeactivated7118
    @raymonddeactivated7118 5 лет назад +229

    I thought that it said,
    *_"f o o d n e c r o p h i l i a ."_*

  • @sydneedavis1017
    @sydneedavis1017 9 лет назад +216

    Anyone else see that video of an 11 yr old girl allergic to sunlight?

  • @morenorobertaleighc.8986
    @morenorobertaleighc.8986 4 года назад +68

    The reporter keeps saying "sHe'S a VeRY pIckY EaTer" even after knowing she has a condition, a phobia like its just a fancy new word to describe "picky eater"

  • @puppyboo2323
    @puppyboo2323 9 лет назад +162

    All these people are calling her a "brat" or a "bitch" but neophobia is a mental disorder just as real as a mental disorder like anorexia. The fact is, they are I convinced that she's just not eating it because she doesn't like it or the way it looks, but she literally can't help it. When she sees a plate of food that she's never tried, it scares ever because she knows that there's no way she will be able to try it. Deep down, she wants to be able to try it. The problem is that her mind won't let her. The problem with neophobia is that even if they bring themselves to try the food, they will almost never like it because their brain will override their taste buds when they begin to put it in their mouth by saying "this will be horrible" and so it is. Just because it's a mental disorder you don't understand doesn't mean you should act like it's not one at all.

    • @walkingthroughashes8982
      @walkingthroughashes8982 9 лет назад +8

      Thank you! People need to stop being such cyber bullies n leave the kid alone!! Who hates on a little girl?

    • @gigihuamani871
      @gigihuamani871 9 лет назад +5

      finally someone understands !!

    • @disneygirl4130
      @disneygirl4130 9 лет назад

      Gum bearz Way to go yet your waiting your time! Its sad yet that the way pp can be.

    • @OnEquinox
      @OnEquinox 9 лет назад +8

      Yaaa, no it's just being a little brat

    • @SantaClaus-kk8zr
      @SantaClaus-kk8zr 9 лет назад

      Player Equinox I second that. "I don't have anything to eat." She has plenty to eat. She just doesn't do it.

  • @ateezpop1199
    @ateezpop1199 5 лет назад +60

    i had this for two years and it was hell. I didn’t eat even when i was hungry because i was scared to throw up. I lost 20 pounds. I still suffer from emetephobia but I eat now.

    • @KittenWhiskers246
      @KittenWhiskers246 4 года назад +7

      I'm so sorry! I have had this since I was 4... I'm 16 now and am still dealing with it. It definitely sucks. I also think I have Cibophobia because I'm afraid of getting food poisoning because of feeling nausous with goes hand in hand with my emetophobia. I hope you feel completly better and just know every day it'll be better. I'm trying to tell my self the same thing because there our days I've been really depressed thinking I'll never get over this.

    • @ateyourmother
      @ateyourmother 4 года назад +2

      Hey! I can’t believe you went through this. I also face this a lot. I so feel your pain. And I hope your okay now, my empothobia always told me food would make me _ (don’t want to say a trigger word). I’m so sorry you had to go through that, good luck with it. :)

    • @chelseagames3370
      @chelseagames3370 4 года назад

      Jesus loves y'all

  • @bonquiqui8190
    @bonquiqui8190 5 лет назад +270

    i was like this when i was a kid. lol wait till she's older, prolly ended up eating in the middle of 3am infront of a fridge

    • @bbyrae
      @bbyrae 5 лет назад +4

      She's 16 now

    • @celestecelestial90
      @celestecelestial90 5 лет назад +6

      Me too, but now I eat almost everything. Love to cook too.

    • @mynameiskarenandilltalktoy3111
      @mynameiskarenandilltalktoy3111 5 лет назад +10

      I have a cousin that has same condition as her. He only eats chips, ramen, and rice. I can remember him crying over a hotdog cuz his mom forced him to eat. Currently he's now 25 y.o and the menu increased with peanut butter and chicharon.

    • @bryelletavares9280
      @bryelletavares9280 5 лет назад

      My brother was like this i thought he was just being picky and annoying. he eats everything now not healthy but its okkkkkk

    • @geocina7
      @geocina7 5 лет назад

      bon qui qui me too! Hahaha

  • @bluepie9583
    @bluepie9583 3 года назад +19

    The “still eating like four year olds” comment is like telling a kid who broke there arm to just
    “fix it”

    • @honestasempre3972
      @honestasempre3972 3 года назад +1

      Jesus Christ powerful Holy Saviour of World bless and your family my friends ❤

  • @destinysaucedo6611
    @destinysaucedo6611 5 лет назад +116

    "Shes not justs a picky eater, shes an extremely picky eater."

  • @ObeyTheAlien
    @ObeyTheAlien 9 лет назад +586

    Guys, stop saying she just "picky" it's obvious she has Neophobia. SHE TURNED DOWN NUTELLA. NUTELLA!

  • @Midnight_Ruby
    @Midnight_Ruby 6 лет назад +47

    If my family ever calls me picky for trying to eat healthy foods, I’m going to show them this video. There’s a difference between healthy eating and restrictive, picky eating.

  • @charliemay964
    @charliemay964 3 года назад +10

    This hurts me. I have a less talked about eating disorder that is exactly like this. And saying "she's eating like a four-year-old" is incredibly rude. If you knew what this was like and you had it you would know that getting the right nutrition is super hard

  • @thetwistedsamurai
    @thetwistedsamurai 9 лет назад +611

    Food Neophobia exists. She doesn't have it. The parents gave up too quickly.

    • @hayleypdowd
      @hayleypdowd 9 лет назад +30

      sonicawesomeness thank you, doctor

    • @thetwistedsamurai
      @thetwistedsamurai 9 лет назад +87

      hayleypdowd She is literally just saying "Mmm... no." She's deciding. People with actual food neophobia get physically ill when they see other food.

    • @lunaebear6920
      @lunaebear6920 9 лет назад +54

      sonicawesomeness I agree with you. She's a brat. Her parents are coddling her.

    • @zaraguth
      @zaraguth 9 лет назад +34

      1, she was starving herself from birth
      2, she's refusing Pizza, even after tasting it
      3, This is MURICA damit--jk lol
      I think she's legit food phobic

    • @zaraguth
      @zaraguth 9 лет назад +6

      The only reason a child would be spoiled and not wanting to eat is because she doesn't want to get fat, or look like one of those Photoshopped magazine models.
      I think she's too young for that at this point

  • @OddOttAllen
    @OddOttAllen 8 лет назад +195

    7 years old? Damn, I ate almost everything when I was 7.

  • @gogeeks96
    @gogeeks96 9 лет назад +80

    Some of yall need to get your heads out of your butts. This girl has a real problem and it's not her parents fault. When the lady described the mind of a picky eater, she was pretty spot on. You do not know what it's like to be a picky eater or have a picky eater child. I have sensory issues so I can understand a lot of her preferences. Like the only creamy peanut butter. And only certain brands. I don't know about her taste, but for me, I can taste a difference in brands of food when other people often can't. And sometimes it's gross. It is not bratty to have food preferences. Walk in people's shoes, educate yourself and have a little empathy.

    • @MireVale
      @MireVale 9 лет назад

      Thank you! My husband has this exact problem and he's doing fine :)

    • @NasikaSakura
      @NasikaSakura 9 лет назад

      +Bethany Brown Thank you from me too!

    • @GamerGirl0829-w9y
      @GamerGirl0829-w9y 9 лет назад

      I have a sensory disorder also. I know how that kid feels! I think Arron has a sensory disorder, that is more serious!

    • @gogeeks96
      @gogeeks96 9 лет назад

      +anglekan I can't tell if you're agreeing with me but my parents beat my butt for acting up and as a result, I respect my elders and know how to hold my tongue but I'm still really picky.

    • @NasikaSakura
      @NasikaSakura 9 лет назад +2

      You don't teach a child to respect you by beating them. Beatings teach them to do what you want of them with fear as an incentive, not respect. Bethany Brown

  • @sydneymcclain5947
    @sydneymcclain5947 Год назад +4

    At the beginning of last year I struggled with eating due to panic attacks due to emetophobia (fear of vomit). It was the most painful thing ever because I was so hungry and I all I could do was sit and stare at my food while hysterically crying. I hope this girl is better and healthy.

  • @dreamlink100
    @dreamlink100 7 лет назад +25

    As a 20 year old that suffers with this condition. People don't understand, it actually causes sooo much anxiety even thinking about trying a food were not comfortable with. I went to a child psychologist at 4 and he told my parents I would grow out of it. At almost 20 and I still haven't "grown out of it" my parents even tried a "eat it, don't eat it, don't care method" didn't work. Lol however pizza is Bae to me lol

    • @loganmiller7827
      @loganmiller7827 6 лет назад

      I have this too and watching her trying the foods made me nauseous. I'm the opposite of you though. Pizza is my number one worst nightmare food.

  • @katiereynolds6300
    @katiereynolds6300 8 лет назад +75

    This isn't just pickiness. This is ADVANCED pickiness.

  • @thewannabegamer9
    @thewannabegamer9 4 года назад +82

    I feel so bad for her. Hopefully she’s doing better now.

  • @user-xl9oc7re7v
    @user-xl9oc7re7v 2 года назад +8

    This happened to me for around a year. The first month was so difficult. I could barely even swallow applesauce. I had extreme anxiety with eating anything solid. I needed to eat alone and with lots of water to help me wash down the food. I'm not sure why sweets were okay for me, not "actual" food though. Thankfully I have recovered almost completely, but it was the worst thing ever. I could never wish this upon anyone.

  • @gugugatuke9106
    @gugugatuke9106 5 лет назад +90

    My daughter has this....she literally runs when you offer her food, she's currently eating weetbix and noodles only

    • @pogoz2005
      @pogoz2005 5 лет назад +12

      Hope everything gets better

    • @lexihayes1571
      @lexihayes1571 5 лет назад +2

      Javier Ruiz WTF?!?!??

    • @lexihayes1571
      @lexihayes1571 5 лет назад +2

      Javier Ruiz that’s sick

    • @JesusChrist-sm4bm
      @JesusChrist-sm4bm 5 лет назад +4

      @@lexihayes1571 I see no Javiar what did he say

    • @Claire-e1u
      @Claire-e1u 5 лет назад +2

      It could be Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder. It can be treated by professionals. Hope everything goes well

  • @harries-angel_8495
    @harries-angel_8495 5 лет назад +68

    dead ass my little cousin def has this. i swear these are the only things he eats:
    cheerios
    doritos
    kraft dinner
    fruit snacks
    bananas
    that is it. he cries because he is so petrified of trying new food i just don’t get it

    • @JenniferLoveBrown
      @JenniferLoveBrown 5 лет назад +12

      He most likely has ARFID: Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder. It was finally classified as an eating disorder in 2003. See this video:
      m.ruclips.net/video/JK9r14D4d-k/видео.html
      My daughter has this & we are going to therapy for it.

    • @jenniexgorgeousxx5198
      @jenniexgorgeousxx5198 5 лет назад +6

      Cheerios are disgusting

    • @someoneissomeone6382
      @someoneissomeone6382 5 лет назад

      Here is some more information about it
      ruclips.net/video/dQw4w9WgXcQ/видео.html

    • @harries-angel_8495
      @harries-angel_8495 5 лет назад +11

      Dibab believe me. they’ve tried. he’s 11 and they legit told him that if he won’t eat what she makes he will starve. and he didn’t eat for almost 2 days so she couldn’t continue that

    • @rawrxD69
      @rawrxD69 5 лет назад +3

      @Dibab okay boomer

  • @survivingthroughlife
    @survivingthroughlife 5 лет назад +67

    I understand that kid, my parents almost enrolled me in a eating disorder clinic. I feel so bad for her. She must feel so judged.

    • @Livetoeat171
      @Livetoeat171 4 года назад

      Annika Lunsford Why didn’t they? Did you get over it?

    • @survivingthroughlife
      @survivingthroughlife 4 года назад +1

      Mountain N they didn’t because it is expensive and because they thought I would get over it. I am better than those kids for sure. But I still have a feeling of fear when I eat certain things.
      I used to love Salmon, I got sick from it one time and now I feel anxiety just at looking at it.
      I didn’t like seafood as a kid and my first instinct when I see something I didn’t like as a kid is to panic and not eat it.
      I have to calm myself and think logically and take slow bites.
      It doesn’t always work but it helps.

  • @DIYcraftychic
    @DIYcraftychic 3 года назад +6

    Although I can't relate specifically to being that "picky", I've had my share of issues with food and a lifelong struggle with anxiety so I can feel her pain so much. She's doing so good honestly, this video resonated with me so much. I'm so proud of this little girl

  • @Liuhuayue
    @Liuhuayue 9 лет назад +310

    I hated raw cherry tomatoes too.

    • @4u25out
      @4u25out 9 лет назад

      Liuhuayue Think of antioxidant ,vitamin and minerals.

    • @archiecook55
      @archiecook55 9 лет назад

      Liuhuayue I still do.

    • @Liuhuayue
      @Liuhuayue 9 лет назад +3

      Unicorn Lady (formerly archiecook55)
      I don't blame you. I'll bear with them now, but I still don't like them.

    • @evil_regal
      @evil_regal 9 лет назад +5

      Liuhuayue I'm allergic to raw tomatoes, they are ok when they are heavily cooked, but if I eat them raw my throat swells and I get hives under my chin and down my neck, and my stomach hurts and I throw up. Part of this girl's problem may be she has an actual food allergy or sensitivity that the parents don't know she has. If she was made to eat things that made her hurt or not feel well, I can see how her mind would reject accepting food she did not already know didn't hurt her.

    • @archiecook55
      @archiecook55 9 лет назад

      Chantell Scherer I think you're probably right about the allergy/sensitivity thing. I remember the video did say she felt sick a lot of the time.

  • @justmestatingfacts7696
    @justmestatingfacts7696 5 лет назад +199

    As an asian I must say I never heard a kid with this phobia around here.

    • @farhans2113
      @farhans2113 5 лет назад +15

      In asian your lucky enough if you can eat.

    • @silverapple3986
      @silverapple3986 5 лет назад +19

      gracie that girl needs a Mexican mom

    • @candycanenee
      @candycanenee 5 лет назад +31

      I laughed way too hard at this. My Filipino grandma would have whacked me with a stick if I didn't eat hahahah

    • @imalice6806
      @imalice6806 5 лет назад +25

      american kids are just spoiled. and americans just playing along making it a disorder and coining terms

    • @razm.3135
      @razm.3135 5 лет назад +7

      Only in America!!!!!! I’m sure it exists in other places. However…

  • @darleneponce2349
    @darleneponce2349 8 лет назад +171

    Everyone is so damn rude in these comments. It's a real "disease" or "phobia" , whatever you want to call it. My younger brother (who is only 3 years old) has this same damn problem & they can't help it . The most logically reason this girl has this problem is because her parents never fed her solid food soon enough when she was a baby.
    Don't be so damn ignorant. It looks childish and naive of you , when you say she's doing it for attention

    • @ItsKardamin
      @ItsKardamin 8 лет назад +7

      Darlene Ponce I agree. Also when babies don't get great milk they can become very sick. I used to be a very sick baby, always sick :/ I hope your brother gets better

    • @_emily_171
      @_emily_171 7 лет назад +2

      Darlene Ponce I HAVE IT TOO 😭😂

    • @rlee3538
      @rlee3538 7 лет назад +2

      thank you

    • @bkgirlmay
      @bkgirlmay 7 лет назад +3

      Darlene Ponce I struggled really bad with eating solid foods. I would start to gag and feel sick. I lost so much weight and relied heavily on nut bars. I would eat 1 but bar for the day and a smoothie. My anxiety is better now than it was and I'm much much much better now, but from time to time it still comes back.

    • @chistinelane
      @chistinelane 7 лет назад +5

      Darlene Ponce she had acid reflux as a kid. Every time she ate was painful and that pain was associated with food

  • @Jaxsen522
    @Jaxsen522 3 года назад +13

    The reporter that keeps saying she’s a “picky eater” is rude and disrespectful, because it’s more than her being picky.

  • @bionic_bat
    @bionic_bat 4 года назад +23

    I was suspicious that she was just pickey and spoiled. But then they said she said she wants to eat normal. And that it started really young. Thats heartbreaking..

  • @apryor324
    @apryor324 8 лет назад +152

    The only meal I DON'T eat is breakfast

    • @Brisker
      @Brisker 8 лет назад

      sameee

    • @shay4968
      @shay4968 8 лет назад

      Yup same

    • @clintross7778
      @clintross7778 8 лет назад +1

      Breakfast=my favorite meal

    • @nawal10
      @nawal10 8 лет назад +1

      Same..until I heard it causes bad health risks

    • @TheThundershock100
      @TheThundershock100 8 лет назад

      Basically, you hate carbs, the energy that lets you do anything...

  • @mariambombo2921
    @mariambombo2921 8 лет назад +103

    She eats, fries, pancakes waffles etc isn't that food? I'm actually confused

    • @eleanor5795
      @eleanor5795 7 лет назад +5

      Maria Raniel she eats food just barley any types.

    • @emmamay__4668
      @emmamay__4668 6 лет назад +5

      So basically she tried these foods and liked them but as time went on she stopped trying and liking foods until it became a problem

    • @Mr1986Mitch
      @Mr1986Mitch 6 лет назад

      Maria Raniel It may seem confusing. However the chips, peanut butter, and all other things those are junk foods not actually food that kids should not really eat..

    • @TeenDream888
      @TeenDream888 6 лет назад +2

      seems to be her mom enables her. don't feed the kid and see if they'll eat when they're really hungry.

    • @Ultrawicked
      @Ultrawicked 6 лет назад

      My son is like this but not that bad 😔. but only with rice , pasta , slimy foods and sauces. He likes his food contained inside bread or breaded foods . If that makes sense .

  • @animeaddictdude6109
    @animeaddictdude6109 4 года назад +7

    I once saw a maggot in my rice, I stopped eating rice for a year. This is the only thing I can relate to "Food neophobia"

  • @StacyPowerhouse
    @StacyPowerhouse 5 лет назад +32

    This reminds me of what’s its like for some pregnant women that can’t eat certain foods.

  • @sinclairgavin72
    @sinclairgavin72 8 лет назад +26

    Erin is exactly like my son. I thought we were the only family with this challenge. I didn't know it had a name and was a condition. The negative comments here are exactly how we feel some people view us as parents, but we have always felt it was related to his severe reflux. This is actually a relief. I can't wait to show my son. He has started getting really upset and frustrated with himself. I can't believe I found this film. It is an absolute mirror of our son.

    • @Sharon-pb7so
      @Sharon-pb7so 7 лет назад +1

      Gavin Sinclair Our son too and he had GERD as well, was born with it. People don't understand.

    • @hollowswirl7618
      @hollowswirl7618 6 лет назад +1

      Gavin Sinclair That's so depressing. I hope he recovers, god bless you and your family.

    • @angelblue52
      @angelblue52 6 лет назад

      have hope bc it takes 15 times of trying new foods until u like it so keep on giving him foods again again and again. I was a picky eater and I gradually expanded my diet by starting with healthy shakes which contained fruits and spinach (my parents gave me this and its nice because u get proper nutrition an since I drank it with a straw I barely tasted it, I actually started liking the taste when they masked it with honey which is a good trick). the most difficult challenge is breaking the barrier, once he tries one food it'll be easier for him to try more especially if he as problems with texture, for example if he tries one fruit, he'll be use to its texture and it'll be easier to try more. also when trying new foods instead of thinking "omg this taste disgusting" (which is what all picky eaters think) tell him to have positive thoughts and think "hey its not that bad" or "it actually tastes kind of good." positive reinforcement will take him a long way. I hope this helps!

  • @krasimira6283
    @krasimira6283 7 лет назад +225

    Omg ppl she has just food neophobia,even if she gets hungry she wouldn't eat beacse she is scared of the food or whatever,my mom exactly knows that too she has heared of it. Watch more of this things and learn before you comment idiots,the others who thinks she really has this food fear are smart and poor girl.

    • @jenniferprioleau7908
      @jenniferprioleau7908 7 лет назад

      krasimira manolova 😒

    • @yolandesaal8624
      @yolandesaal8624 6 лет назад +2

      krasimira manolova
      They comment stupid things because they aren't the ones suffering once the tables turn they will be just as hellpless

    • @hai4125
      @hai4125 6 лет назад +4

      krasimira manolova Yep, that's exactly what I'm like. Some people are like, "oH yA! ShE dO fOR atTentOn" (Note: I spelled 'attention wrong' on purpose cuz usually commenters can't spell) then I'm all like, "Bruh. *STABS IN FACEEEEE* DANG YOU, MAN, SHE LEGIT CAN'T EAT MOST FOODS. IT'S NOT BECAUSE SHE'S PICKY!!!"

    • @gabs7523
      @gabs7523 6 лет назад +1

      I suffer from this and is horrible. I have fear for food I don’t like. For example, if I have to eat veggie soup I’ll literally have a panic attack and a breakdown.

    • @paleaspaper4161
      @paleaspaper4161 6 лет назад

      That’s not neophobia mate, I live with it.

  • @tatheerakbari3964
    @tatheerakbari3964 4 года назад +2

    I am a person with food neophobia and I am so thankful my parents do not force me to eat things I don’t want to. They only encourage me. I hope to improve in the future!

  • @naw2099
    @naw2099 9 лет назад +87

    This was me as a child. I would never eat, and I was the most active person ever. So I was extreeeeemely skinny. Plus, I never ate vegetables or peanut butter. But the main difference between me and her was I have so many allergies. So many, so I was afraid to eat anything. And I would never agree to try new foods. There is not any way in the world that I would.

    • @thehighvaluecat9313
      @thehighvaluecat9313 9 лет назад

      Heather Laney is that low carb? Do they sell organic versions of it?

    • @naw2099
      @naw2099 9 лет назад +4

      Yep, the organic version melts your inside faster though, but it's slightly less painful. And yes, it is low carb. In fact, it's no carb. It's acid, dumbass.

    • @thehighvaluecat9313
      @thehighvaluecat9313 9 лет назад

      Heather Laney I can't seem to find them in pharmacies near by...:(

    • @naw2099
      @naw2099 9 лет назад +2

      Order it off of carolina biological supply.

    • @dvotzmusiccompilationsandc5647
      @dvotzmusiccompilationsandc5647 9 лет назад

      You didn't like peanut butter. How could you?