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I lost happiness after breaking up with my gf. I realized that i depend on others for my happiness so i started reading and watching videos about frequencies and being happy with myself. Today i looked at my face in the car mirror. I noticed how nice my smile is. I always hated my smile. Its crazy how powerful this stuff is.
7 things to remember about caring what others think: 1. Everyone has insecurities of their own 2. Your value isn’t dependent on how much people like you 3. What others think isn’t your business anyways 4. People usually forget our “embarrassing” moments within seconds. 5. There is nothing wrong with being different than others. 6. You are by far your worst critic 7. We will all die, why waste your life unable to express yourself fully. You are a unique and beautiful expression of source, don’t get it twisted✌🏽💚 - from a growing youtuber
Yes! “Needing nothing attracts everything”.. when we “need” we tend to “lie” by not being our true self, which eliminates our confidence, lowers our frequency and continues to push the things we want away!
Its good to be honest. But honestly speaking you dont *need* them to give you anything. You need to give yourself that. Meet your own needs. Communicate your wants. @awezmo5499
i paused this video at least 15 different times to cry lmao every single word of this resonated with me SO much...this is exactly what i needed to hear. thank you !!!
Smile without a reason, eat fruits, veggies. Take a look at the sky when you go outside in the morning. Breath in. Realize how blessed you are to live another day. Be joyful. Spread good vibes during the day. Your life will change by doing these things everyday. Your life will shape based on your habits. You can do it. You can be whatever you want to be. You are amazing, you have the power. Trust yourself. The universe wants you to succeed, to live joyfully. May this year be the year you start living life the way you want. ~ Much love from a Law Of Attraction RUclipsr💜
Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will be saved. John 3:16 (share the good news of the gospel around the world!).........,,,..,...,..,,.,.
2:57 definition of codependency and neediness 04:06 the locus of control 07:29 1. Frame, your own frame 09:19 2. Vulnerability 11:37 (chipmunk off topic but funny) 12:39 3. Values what do you value
Aaron Doughty your growth is awesome. I Have been following you since 2016-2017 and there's so much of difference in your content and in your energy. Sending you love and blessings! ❤
Aaron I have been on this journey with you. When I was at my lowest I swear listening to these videos really helped me understand my own lack of self worth and I started to look within. One year later, my life has drastically changed. I'm no longer looking outside of myself for validation and when I notice that I am, I am able to turn the mirror back to my own wounds. Thank you and keep up the good work. 💚
You see who is truly there in your life for you when you are vulnerable and the relationship grows. Vulnerability will make most narcissists really happy, because then they know they got ammo, they think they got you on the hook, and they’ll use it to devalue and discard you later. If you’re vulnerable and the person is not returning it, that shows an imbalanced relationship. Don’t give unhealthy people who fear vulnerability use yours that you express as a weapon against you until you see they are showing signs of trustworthiness. And if you do decide to be vulnerable prematurely, don’t allow yourself to feel hurt (or if you do, grieve that there are hurt people who would use your vulnerability as a weapon, and then let it go). Move on to healthier people who are able to share their own vulnerabilities and respect you and hear you when you express yours. Never use them as a weapon to manipulate or defend yourself.
@@SA-px3ln I took a course on emotional resilience and read lots and lots of books on shame and learning how to change my beliefs about myself. That gave me the courage to let go of other people's approval and I got rid of the toxic people and organizations in my life. Basically I quit being a people pleaser and the despair started to lift.
Great and much needed lessons Aaron, needed to hear this 20 yrs ago but better late then never 😅... Only this yr i found the strength to stop fitting in and moulding myself to people i did not even like. The need to be authentic is hard to ignore midlife.
I feel seen. In this one video you have highlighted the grey area I have lived in since I was a little girl. Where I mould shelf into whoever the other person would like. It’s exhausting and always end up feeling defeated anyways. I’m going to watch this video daily ❤ thank you !!
Ok so my name is lily i,m 15 and i,v spiritual awakened and i,m still dealing with the codeppncy and acting ways I shouldn't, this is tough , but thank u
In my experience, I kinda learned that alot of people are so absorbed by …themselves or whatever, that they hardly bother to stimulate others or initiate an interaction. And there are other people who still seek this interaction, often beeing left out as needy… I think this is just sad..
I've binged so many of your vids. I didn't know that I was doing all the work you mention in them to liberate myself from toxic co-dependancy. Living in my authentic self and reality. Thanks for helping others
Values are so important. I feel people have put their values on the back burner. I'm grateful that you, and M. McConaughey have a strong sense of values. You both will help wake many people. Light, and love to you Aaron.
Narcissistic abusive mother and just left a 28 year narcissist abuse marriage with an ex who continues to try to destroy me (his words) through custody property battles This is very helpful Thanks All you videos have given me hope
Aaron from all the youtubers I've been listening, you happen to be the most advanced in consciousness and it's wonderful to listen to you. Your work is really helping me to switch my mind 180⁰s, and I've been in the spiritual path for years and with you I'm learning more things, we never finish learning, I'm grateful with your impeccable job, thank you so much🙏💓💫💥
yeah, The thing that made me start my grounding process, was the first time i used LSD, then, psilocybe shrooms rituals. The impact of really knowing that you are not grounded at all ... was game changing
I discovered your channel just recently, I love your spirit and I appreciate you. You have also taught me a lot, especially now after a recent breakup. Thank you for helping people, namaste.🙏💜💫
Hi Aaron! Taking part in your 21-day magnetic love challenge and loving every transformative moment of it. Would LOVE a meditation with this flame/frame technique!!
You are soo very awesome! Please make more meditation videos concerning "Letting Go." Letting go and allowing your higher self & the Universe to manifest what is right for me. Thank you 🌻Namaste
The value of Being vulnerable is a charactertraid that just has risen into the light of awareness for great majority of Humankind. It has been seen as weak and something unwanted because there was little teaching on how to respond to that or work with that hidden humanemotion for decades. Or even centuries. Being vulnerable has led to slavery in the past so that is why there was a hidden taboo on that. It is a work in progresssubject for Humanity, to truly acknowledge the bravery and heroism of daring to be vulnerable.
The word, needy and codependent Sounds like weakness. But unfortunately, the hardest working resilient people are the ones always looking for approval. It is hard hard work. I don’t wanna do that again.❤
One of the wa:ys to feel positive energy is to take your attention away from the negative and focus on everything that transmits positivity to you. Have a beautiful day! 💜💜
Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will be saved. John 3:16 (share the good news of the gospel around the world!).........,,,..,..., ..,.,.,.,
I did a workbook on codependency and found that the skills taught there could benefit anyone really! I think the same for the info in this vid too 💁🏻♀️
Unconditional love is the only cure to abandonment issues! God sent love but narcissts preferred fear and power over love so that is why they lost love and became empty!
It's very hard to change those patterns, often it also depends on dynamic, people we meet. I'm working on it from years and it's really hard to let it go completly
I hear you Aaron...I did a full-on reprogram using my "Power Attunements" techniques to change my unhealthy patterns from childhood shadows/traumas...because needy is creepy and confidence is magnetic. i would have done it years ago because I made up the program in 2013 but I was not even aware I had these issues but recent shadow work uncovered it all...better late than never lol namaste
@@SA-px3ln I'm still doing it..it's a process. I work with presence first and foremost and calling forth my Spirit and I use energy or the flow to clear my fields by tapping in and directing it with my mind.. I also use mirror and visualization techniques to cultivate new frequencies, I use another technique for embracing the shadows with love and reintegrate the different parts of my selves that got fragmented and lost through trauma and programming which in turn releases limiting self-sabotaging thoughts, feelings and behaviors associated with the shadow aspects and I apply presence and work towards observing my feelings, thoughts and reactions to my environment rather than being those reactions, then in that moment I step out of the programming and predictable behavioral responses and become the observer of the programs instead, and from there I can release with love. I also do archangel work and other energy techniques. There are other rituals, techniques, candle burning exercises. I make up a lot of my own stuff because I understand the concept as well as what works for my own unique make-up. I invented my program for a few reasons but it was more something I could stick to to cure something doctors said was not possible to cure from and I'm presently "in remission" but I made it for empowerment with the focus on manifestation and of course applicable to healing and other things.....there's an overview for you anyway. aloha and peace
Hey Aaron, your videos is always amazing. Most of your videos talking about codependency / neediness, can make video about avoidant attachment style? Much appreciated 🙏🏻✨🌻
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I'm in 🙌
Aaron would you please send me my login link ,
@@jasminehukalop5596 you should get access to an app immediately. They send an email
@@jasminehukalop5596 were you able to get an access? shoot I didn’t get anything as well
Slam13 X no I didn’t
I lost happiness after breaking up with my gf. I realized that i depend on others for my happiness so i started reading and watching videos about frequencies and being happy with myself. Today i looked at my face in the car mirror. I noticed how nice my smile is. I always hated my smile. Its crazy how powerful this stuff is.
7 things to remember about caring what others think:
1. Everyone has insecurities of their own
2. Your value isn’t dependent on how much people like you
3. What others think isn’t your business anyways
4. People usually forget our “embarrassing” moments within seconds.
5. There is nothing wrong with being different than others.
6. You are by far your worst critic
7. We will all die, why waste your life unable to express yourself fully.
You are a unique and beautiful expression of source, don’t get it twisted✌🏽💚
- from a growing youtuber
Thank you 🙂
THANKS BRO! needed to see this
Love you endlesssoul☺️
Number 7 is my favorite
Thank you!❤️✨
Yes! “Needing nothing attracts everything”.. when we “need” we tend to “lie” by not being our true self, which eliminates our confidence, lowers our frequency and continues to push the things we want away!
Very true. Truth done well is 🔑
@77ranko nicely written
Its good to be honest. But honestly speaking you dont *need* them to give you anything. You need to give yourself that. Meet your own needs. Communicate your wants. @awezmo5499
Good point . Being rejected isn’t about you it’s about not having matching energy
I used to feel the exact same way. Codependent neediness needs to be healed at the root. Inner child healing and self love 🙏
I love how you really know psychology that’s what lack most of the people on here they don’t know the real issue
i paused this video at least 15 different times to cry lmao every single word of this resonated with me SO much...this is exactly what i needed to hear. thank you !!!
Smile without a reason, eat fruits, veggies. Take a look at the sky when you go outside in the morning. Breath in. Realize how blessed you are to live another day. Be joyful. Spread good vibes during the day. Your life will change by doing these things everyday. Your life will shape based on your habits. You can do it. You can be whatever you want to be. You are amazing, you have the power. Trust yourself. The universe wants you to succeed, to live joyfully. May this year be the year you start living life the way you want.
~ Much love from a Law Of Attraction RUclipsr💜
Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will be saved. John 3:16 (share the good news of the gospel around the world!).........,,,..,...,..,,.,.
@@1CT1 You are not required to worship a particular entity to receive salvation. That’s the ultimate form of fear mongering.
💖
Thank you.
Great comment and also you're content is great bro
2:57 definition of codependency and neediness
04:06 the locus of control
07:29 1. Frame, your own frame
09:19 2. Vulnerability
11:37 (chipmunk off topic but funny)
12:39 3. Values what do you value
I always feel safe when watching and learning from you. X
It really works, everything works out well when you start being yourself and not trying to be a people pleaser.
Aaron Doughty your growth is awesome. I Have been following you since 2016-2017 and there's so much of difference in your content and in your energy. Sending you love and blessings! ❤
Same here! So true ☺️
Same! I’ve noticed it too
Aaron I have been on this journey with you. When I was at my lowest I swear listening to these videos really helped me understand my own lack of self worth and I started to look within. One year later, my life has drastically changed. I'm no longer looking outside of myself for validation and when I notice that I am, I am able to turn the mirror back to my own wounds. Thank you and keep up the good work. 💚
You see who is truly there in your life for you when you are vulnerable and the relationship grows. Vulnerability will make most narcissists really happy, because then they know they got ammo, they think they got you on the hook, and they’ll use it to devalue and discard you later. If you’re vulnerable and the person is not returning it, that shows an imbalanced relationship. Don’t give unhealthy people who fear vulnerability use yours that you express as a weapon against you until you see they are showing signs of trustworthiness. And if you do decide to be vulnerable prematurely, don’t allow yourself to feel hurt (or if you do, grieve that there are hurt people who would use your vulnerability as a weapon, and then let it go). Move on to healthier people who are able to share their own vulnerabilities and respect you and hear you when you express yours. Never use them as a weapon to manipulate or defend yourself.
This was confirmation for me; i’ve been doing this and feel such an amazing shift! The happiest I’ve ever been 🙂
Leaving a co-dependant, narcissistic relationship was the catalyst to my waking up.
Ditto
Me to how did you get out of dark night of soul???
@@SA-px3ln I took a course on emotional resilience and read lots and lots of books on shame and learning how to change my beliefs about myself. That gave me the courage to let go of other people's approval and I got rid of the toxic people and organizations in my life. Basically I quit being a people pleaser and the despair started to lift.
Same!
@@ChrisVirtualAssistant did you ever face deep depression
Molding like a shapeshifter to get validation is a common point of the codependent with the narcissist
Great and much needed lessons Aaron, needed to hear this 20 yrs ago but better late then never 😅... Only this yr i found the strength to stop fitting in and moulding myself to people i did not even like. The need to be authentic is hard to ignore midlife.
Live for yourself, not for validation😌
Wow!! I just realized that I’m codependent 😬. Abandonment is my fear and it does stem from my childhood. Thank you so much for this video!
Since watching this channel I have learned to smile with me eyes.
i love how he got distracted and excited by the chipmunk
I’m in 🤘 Excited for my own growth, I needed this non-needy message 🙏❤️🕺
I feel seen. In this one video you have highlighted the grey area I have lived in since I was a little girl. Where I mould shelf into whoever the other person would like. It’s exhausting and always end up feeling defeated anyways. I’m going to watch this video daily ❤ thank you !!
Thank you!! Also, “frisky little animals” 😂 cutest digression ever.
Ok so my name is lily i,m 15 and i,v spiritual awakened and i,m still dealing with the codeppncy and acting ways I shouldn't, this is tough , but thank u
THESE CODEPENDENCE VIDEOS ARE SO HELPFUL
YES!! Doughty truth bombs 1,2,3:
Frame - Vulnerability - Values.
Loved the vid, super helpful info. So much love to all of you!
In my experience, I kinda learned that alot of people are so absorbed by …themselves or whatever, that they hardly bother to stimulate others or initiate an interaction. And there are other people who still seek this interaction, often beeing left out as needy… I think this is just sad..
Great job getting all these truths out there , this is helping public health
I've binged so many of your vids. I didn't know that I was doing all the work you mention in them to liberate myself from toxic co-dependancy. Living in my authentic self and reality. Thanks for helping others
Values are so important. I feel people have put their values on the back burner. I'm grateful that you, and M. McConaughey have a strong sense of values. You both will help wake many people.
Light, and love to you Aaron.
Narcissistic abusive mother and just left a 28 year narcissist abuse marriage with an ex who continues to try to destroy me (his words) through custody property battles
This is very helpful
Thanks
All you videos have given me hope
Aaron from all the youtubers I've been listening, you happen to be the most advanced in consciousness and it's wonderful to listen to you. Your work is really helping me to switch my mind 180⁰s, and I've been in the spiritual path for years and with you I'm learning more things, we never finish learning, I'm grateful with your impeccable job, thank you so much🙏💓💫💥
You’re so different from the thumbnail you brought up in this vid. Like a completely different person. Well done to committing to you. Inspiring.
Bro this is exactly what I need to learn and apply right now going through this break up and from being needy my whole life thanks.
yeah, The thing that made me start my grounding process, was the first time i used LSD, then, psilocybe shrooms rituals. The impact of really knowing that you are not grounded at all ... was game changing
Once again, preaching it like it's. Thank you so much for existing, you are such a source of inspiration 🐰
I discovered your channel just recently, I love your spirit and I appreciate you. You have also taught me a lot, especially now after a recent breakup. Thank you for helping people, namaste.🙏💜💫
Hi Aaron! Taking part in your 21-day magnetic love challenge and loving every transformative moment of it. Would LOVE a meditation with this flame/frame technique!!
Inner child work, being authentic, self love
Hey Aaron i think this video its so powerfull, it helped me, im going to see it twice
Thank you for sharing your energy with all of us. Keep smiling keep smiling, keep vibing ✨🐎✨🐎🐎
You are soo very awesome! Please make more meditation videos concerning "Letting Go." Letting go and allowing your higher self & the Universe to manifest what is right for me. Thank you 🌻Namaste
I needed this!
Bro is straight cooking!
Your videos bring me so much clarity! Thanks. Much love.
I’m in! Excited to grow 🌱✨
The value of Being vulnerable is a charactertraid that just has risen into the light of awareness for great majority of Humankind.
It has been seen as weak and something unwanted because there was little teaching on how to respond to that or work with that hidden humanemotion for decades. Or even centuries.
Being vulnerable has led to slavery in the past so that is why there was a hidden taboo on that.
It is a work in progresssubject for Humanity, to truly acknowledge the bravery and heroism of daring to be vulnerable.
Thank you for reminding me of my true inner self. Bless you Soul Brother. Congrats on all your inner work! It shows 💙 🌈
I'm so greatful for your honesty and clear cut explanations, your helping me awaken to my higher self, thank you 🙏🏻
I'm in! Super excited.
The word, needy and codependent Sounds like weakness. But unfortunately, the hardest working resilient people are the ones always looking for approval. It is hard hard work. I don’t wanna do that again.❤
Thank you so much Aaron & Divine Souls of Light My Soul Embraces your Amazings Souls Namaste 🙏❤
You described how I feel with every relationship in my life
I am in and I am so glad to rewrite my relationship blueprint and shoot for an Agape Love relationship with an equal partnership.
You are so wise, Aaron. I hope one day I can change some of these codependent tendencies I’ve always had.
I'm in and excited for change 💙
You literally transform my life ♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much Aaron. Perfect divine timing.
Thank you! This was empowerment for me.
Thanks Aaron! These FVV really resonated with me. Appreciate you 🙏🏼
Love, love, love, love, love your ENERGY....:)
One of the wa:ys to feel positive energy is to take your attention away from the negative and focus on everything that transmits positivity to you. Have a beautiful day! 💜💜
Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will be saved. John 3:16 (share the good news of the gospel around the world!).........,,,..,...,
..,.,.,.,
Love hearing your story of personal growth!💕
Oh!! I used to live in Austin!! I worked at The Paramount Theater!🎬😍
Thank you so much for your videos!! They help me so much to understand myself ❤️
I'm in ! 👌💯💙💙💙
Hear, hear! Been there and still working on it. Great tips, just subscribed :)
I did a workbook on codependency and found that the skills taught there could benefit anyone really! I think the same for the info in this vid too 💁🏻♀️
I am in, so ready to begin
Namaste 🙏
I'm in and ready ❤️
Unconditional love is the only cure to abandonment issues! God sent love but narcissts preferred fear and power over love so that is why they lost love and became empty!
Well said. Great video.
I'm in and excited!!! Yahooo🎉
So good video, thank you 👏
OMG!!! The intro had me dying!!!! 😂😂 love it
I appreciate this value of information. 💯
You're the Best!!! 🙌💖💖💖
I love your videoes.. I’m grateful .. you are awesome ❤️🙏
I have CPTSD, I feel that this 21 day challenge will help
Love you brother!
All I can say is this was divine timing! Just ended a very long time relationship. Ty
Going to sign up
Hello from ATX! Thank you for the video
I am in 🎯💯👍
It's very hard to change those patterns, often it also depends on dynamic, people we meet. I'm working on it from years and it's really hard to let it go completly
Thanks brother, I appreciate you
Loved this video Aaron. Thank you ♥️
I hear you Aaron...I did a full-on reprogram using my "Power Attunements" techniques to change my unhealthy patterns from childhood shadows/traumas...because needy is creepy and confidence is magnetic. i would have done it years ago because I made up the program in 2013 but I was not even aware I had these issues but recent shadow work uncovered it all...better late than never lol namaste
How did you do the shadow work ?
@@SA-px3ln I'm still doing it..it's a process. I work with presence first and foremost and calling forth my Spirit and I use energy or the flow to clear my fields by tapping in and directing it with my mind.. I also use mirror and visualization techniques to cultivate new frequencies, I use another technique for embracing the shadows with love and reintegrate the different parts of my selves that got fragmented and lost through trauma and programming which in turn releases limiting self-sabotaging thoughts, feelings and behaviors associated with the shadow aspects and I apply presence and work towards observing my feelings, thoughts and reactions to my environment rather than being those reactions, then in that moment I step out of the programming and predictable behavioral responses and become the observer of the programs instead, and from there I can release with love. I also do archangel work and other energy techniques. There are other rituals, techniques, candle burning exercises. I make up a lot of my own stuff because I understand the concept as well as what works for my own unique make-up. I invented my program for a few reasons but it was more something I could stick to to cure something doctors said was not possible to cure from and I'm presently "in remission" but I made it for empowerment with the focus on manifestation and of course applicable to healing and other things.....there's an overview for you anyway. aloha and peace
Love 💕 your content 👍 😌
Oh man, love you! Love love your channel ✌🏼 thank you!
I wish there was a formula or therapy to help apply these solutions!
Aaron Doughty, I think this depends on what individuals consider to neediness & co-dependecy.
Thanks for your awesome videos 🙏 sadly I can’t afford the 21 day challenge 😢
Another time perhaps 🤔
PS- loving the high viber app! 👍
Same
Awesome content! Thanks 😊
Loved this video. So helpful 💕
Thanks Aaron ❤️
Love your content it helps so so much thankyoh
Hey Aaron, your videos is always amazing. Most of your videos talking about codependency / neediness, can make video about avoidant attachment style?
Much appreciated 🙏🏻✨🌻
Love you brother.
Amen