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I wonder why all my comments are invisible on all channels except in comment responses...I guess I wasted all of my 20's on two different guys. Years down the drain...they were never sure because they loved their exes who treated them badly more than me. Because they were "prettier than me" I have a huge nose. and huge childhood wounds. I met my twin flame but even he doesn't accept me. So I don't accept myself.
I was attracting someone that didn't choose me because I didn't choose me. Once I started to prioritize myself, so much shifted. Don't give up you guys.
Yes! I used to date people who really liked me/I really liked them. Then some weird experiences occurred in my life and I now understand they were trauma/ego wounds.. and then I started chasing people who didn’t really want to be in committed mature loving relationships..bc I was coming from ego wounds that wanted to “win” people over and yes fix them instead of “fixing” myself...looking at those ego wounds with love and integrating into my soul self. This fed chaos drama ego unconscious energy... cycle happened a few times.
@@iam6968 I realized that I really want giving myself the love that I deserved. I didn’t really find myself worthy of it either, so that’s how manifesting someone that wasn’t choosing me happened. What I had to do was really work on the limiting belief of “I’m not worthy” by addressing why I felt that way, meditating on it and learning how to find worthiness right where I am instead of looking elsewhere for it. I did do the affirmations, I did the meditating, I started to put my happiness on a pedestal basically. This meant leaving a job that didn’t make me happy, a person that didn’t make me happy, and living a life doing things that would actually fulfill me. This is a very concise explanation of so many things I had to do, but trust me, it wasn’t an overnight process but it was so worth it
👉 *7 things to master before this year ends:* ✅ *1. Don’t chase anyone* ✅ *2. Don’t beg anyone to stay* ✅ *3. Know your worth* ✅ *4. Save space for people who matter* ✅ *5. Accept what cannot be changed* ✅ *6. Leave what isn’t for you* ✅ *7. Love yourself*
Love yourself until you feel whole. Love yourself to the point you feel like you dont need a relationship and a relationship becomes a bonus in your life. Much love from a growing RUclipsr 💜
So hard for em to grasp this concept it feels extremely unnatural to me. I've always been the one who approaches. The one who "Chases" never the receiver...ever.
@@tiko690 Helping people has nothing to do narcissism. This actually means he's more likely to be a narcissist because he wants to pretend to help people. That's what narcissist does.
💖Heal your inner child 💖Fall in love with your own energy 💖Constanly spend time alone to know who you are and how amazing you really are 💖Meditate daily to calm yourself, raise your energy and become the OBSERVER of your life 💖Protect your energy from toxicity 💖Heal yourself and your inner child 💖Practice techniques that gives you the beliefs of I am worthy 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
You create your thoughts, your thoughts create your intentions and your intentions create your reality. - Wayne Dyer ~ Much Love from a Growing RUclipsr💜
Wayne Dyer was eye opening...Our thoughts/intention can direct energy to create your reality once you learn about the flow and how to tap in. And either we're consciously creating our reality or our subconscious blocks and shodows are doing it for us IMHO. Peace and Aloha
Just got out of a situationship with someone who wasn't giving me the energy that I needed. I tend to choose people who don't care about me at all. I have a lot of childhood trauma, she did too, and she pushed me away, and prioritized work, her friends, partying, etc. I confronted her, she didn't like that and here I am. She reminded me a lot of my mother, in both personality and appearance. I should have walked away before it had even started, but I wanted to feel something and she gave me bread crumbs and in person, gave me attention. I'm trying to heal and stop making these mistakes, and your videos are helping a ton. I tend to be picky to the point, where people who do give me the attention I want, I'm not attracted to. So I chase people I feel are attractive enough or tick x amount of boxes, and get burned. Each failed attempt is a lesson.
The girl I fell for was in the same boat. She basically chose this guy who is emotionally closed off. I was ready to step through hell for her, but in the end that wasn't enough
You know why I like you? Because you’re authentic and the information does not feel superficial and scripted. Because you use language any person can understand and you structure your concepts simply.
You have a relationship with life itself! You attract the right relationship the more you can develop & deepen your relationship with YOURSELF!!! Thank you for the content Aaron & blessings to everyone 🙌😊
@@watchme7076 no, its a purely vibrational statment; we get the biomagnetic frequency in our partner which we send out. This means low self esteem men will only attract low self esteem ladies.
18 years of not being chosen, I feel like I have wasted my life with this person. This video totally made sense to me, I never felt chosen as a child either. But I see now it’s me that feels I don’t deserve real love and only I can change that
16 years here. My STBXW still yearns for her married coworker that ceased contact with her 10 months before. After spending over 2k on her and leaving work early for mothers day, only to make a post on Whisper about how she misses him, I was livid. Maybe it wasn't a waste though, she taught me a lot of lessons going forward. Hopefully you find love that is equitable!
YES THIS MAKES THE MOST SENSE. I CHOOSE MYSELF NOW. I WANT FREEDOM TO BE MYSELF. I AM WORTH KNOWING MYSELF. IM READY TO HONOR MYSELF & LOVE MYSELF. TY AARON,
I cried throughout all the video...i altrady knew this, but still hit me hard. I wish everyone to find their eay out! You deserve to be loved as your heart desire! May you all be blessed with whatever you wish. You are worthy, enough and perfect just the way you are! 🙏
Man, you ARE so right. I have been chasing AND choosing someone who clearly is NOT choosing me... In fact, he ran at the first problem... THANK YOU for sharing this.
Aaron, I just (today) ended a relationship with someone who you described to be emotional unavailable. I opened RUclips and there was your new post. I’m speechless and realized after watching your video that I’m on the right path. I wanna thank you for posting this vid! Namaste 🙏
my parents broke up i grew up with my grandmother while my two other siblings stayed with my mom and my dad had his new family. im attracting men who are emotionally unavailable while my siblings are in commited relationships. I have to heal my childhood wound thank you for always going back to this topic. I am now working to healing my self. I am worthy.
What a brilliant message Aaron. This is absolutely spot on. Love it ❤️ I am emotionally available and I am only willing to connect with authentic people who are willing to step out of their comfort zone and be vulnerable. Emotionally unavailable is just being love starved and it's a huge turn off for me now ❤️❤️❤️
I had the exact same shadow..crave for female attention based upon childhood dynamics with mom..and then I became needy and needy is creepy and pushes people away. I have healed it though through practicing presence and heart expansion and learning how to connect with "flow", or energy and direct it to clear the shadows and blockages..it's amazing the change and I can reate Aaron!
The difficulty was he didn't commit to me and was emotionally unavailable but then committed to another woman, this was the bit that made it hard to get over
I'm on this journey and I'm 41 years old. Only recently realised that I've got childhood programmes that have shaped my life. I've chosen people that didn't want me because I grew up believing that my father didn't like or want me and that made me feel that something is wrong with me. I still feel that way, albeit not as deeply and I'm determined to overcome it. I seriously wish this information was widely available when I was younger; my life would have been different now. Young people reading this, please do the childhood healing work whilst your young so you can manifest an amazing life for yourself. I don't believe we have to suffer through life but we'll struggle unnecessarily if we have subconscious childhood blocks. Do the work, don't waste your life....
It’s been a few years since I’ve done one of your meditations or have heard your message. I needed to kind of go and process everything. Well now I’ve been called to hear you again and wow! I’m right at the energy you are at. Meaning you speaks to me to my higher self. You speak so much about childhood wounds & letting go! These messages are so powerful. I am so grateful for the reminder of who we really are. You’ve truly helped me expand my consciousness! 🙏🏼
I just want to deeply Acknowledge you and say thankyou. You are helping me heal. I love looking deep into myself and being responsible for everything that's happening in my life and be responsible for why relationships are the way that they are. I love being aware. You are bringing so much healing into my life. Keep being an angel. Thanks Nga mihi from Aotearoa New Zealand
man human to human i just love you aaron. the facial expressions & body language make me 😂😂😂during a really challenging time, these videos are perfect!!! cus although i’ve only experienced this emotional availability one time, it’s with my twin flame, so i literally can’t escape, until i figure out each clue & go to the next level & i’m just trying to get TF out, so i can have my peace of mind back PERMANENTLY & the twin’s sposed to come back as well, once we don’t care, but like wow what a dynamic. smh🤷🏽♀️
You are what you attract. We have to take responsibility for that and begin to change within. Only then we begin to attract something (someone) different! Be blessed! 🙏🏽
I needed this. I’ve been regretting vocalizing my feelings to a DA guy. He basically ghosted after 5 months. I’m not as distraught as I normally would be, but 3 days into no contact I was wanting to lower my boundaries and not speak up for myself. I haven’t healed past not choosing DA guys but at least I’m growing.
This is so true. I kept going for people who were emotionally unavailable until I realised what I was doing. Once I realised, my current partner came along and at first I was scared because he was emotionally AVAILABLE. But I stuck with it and I let him in and I'm so glad I did 🥰
Really wish that I was able to participate....no funds. It sounds like a blessing to someone who is struggling with healing things within myself to open up to contributing more positively to the collective and to myself.
I literally just uncovered this dynamic within myself during a breath work ceremony. It started in early childhood, I made it mean I wasn’t enough. Then I kept re creating not getting chosen which proved I wasn’t enough. Which caused me to feel like I needed someone to choose me to show me I was enough. I’m so grateful I got to see and shatter this
I am currently self-healing and loving myself. Loving myself more than ever before and doing things for ME. And although I want love someday, I know now that I'm not going to just settle nor will I chase someone that's not choosing me. I am going to be happy and content with my life until love finds me when it's time. Because a relationship shouldn't be your source of happiness...you need to be happy without someone. So if a person comes along then they will add to your happiness and make you an even better person than you already are. Always love yourself first and keep your head up! Because you got this and you're always worthy:) just takes the right person to see that.
Thanks for this video, it was really enlightening for me. My mom and dad were never emotionally available to me growing up and for a good part of my adult life. I’ve learned to set boundaries now with them. I have a good relationship with my dad, my mom on the other hand never speaks to me and took me out of her will with no forewarning or reason. I’m good without her toxicity any way. It’s made me a better person and mom. Peace and love 💕
Thank you so much, Aaron. I had to pause the video several times to let all those words sink in... It made me cry and i realized that there is nothing wrong with me, and never has been. Just those childhood things... Now let's put it into practice and let's cut my toxic relationship. Thanks again!!
I think I came across this for a reason, thank you so much for this. My longtime boyfriend just broke up with me and never gave a reason why, maybe you are right and i’ll be tuning in. :) thank you!
This is something that nobody can avoid. This state of mind and situation in life. Even if your parents are councious about that and try to teach you that dynamic, you will have to experience that and fine it yourself.. Thanks Aaron for this important video. ❤️
This is exactly what I’ve been looking for and you’re the first to explain it so easily! I have know this for along time but ignored it as I was fixated on that twin flame path dynamic with an ex, which I now believe is destructive and not healing. Just ordered the 21 day challenge !! I’ve followed you for many years Aaron and you have lead by example and grown so much it’s ultra inspiring that we are NOT broken we just need to heal our childhood wounds. ❤️
This is an important message. Mine happened because my Mom died, which creates a weird guilt. And i hope this helps someone. I just had this breakthrough yesterday and am navigating through it Blessings!
i'm a narcissist magnet bc both my entire family, extended inc are ALL narc's. I absolutely agree. The people who love me, honestly, exactly as Aaron has said, seem initially boring but the narc's or the ones who make me feel insecure, I chase like I'm chasing heroin. BUT, I am beginning to CHANGE and choose love for myself and for those beautiful people who do truly love me. Goodbye narc's!!!! Hello new life!!
I achieved enlightenment on this through a karmic twin flame.. The lack of emotional awareness in family households is what led to Societies failures... This info could save the world one by one.. 💞😉🤝
After truly healing every day my Inner Child, I stopped chasing Love. I Stop feeling attracted to toxic people & I stopped Choosing Love that is not Meant for my Highest Good. Thank you Aaron! Thank you for Helping Us All Being More Aware ❤️❤️❤️
😢💔🤧Thank you for this Making this Video I believe the universe put this in my path to listen and learn...this Video has stopped me from digging my own grave and distruction. I'm done with giving and getting breadcrumbed with no Future. 💪🏽NAMASTE BROTHER👍🏻
Isn’t it funny how we unconsciously recycle ♻️ our childhood trauma/unmet needs. Up until, we consciously heal our inner child as adults and the love ourselves wholeheartedly. Worthy of love. Fulfilled now without being defined by anyone because we are safe, secure, and stable at home within ourselves. Choosing ourselves over and over again. Blessings everyone! 💖🌟🦋💃🏻
Omd! This came at the right time! In the past two days I've been wondering why no one is choosing me ! Youre the best Aaron! Thankyou so much! Growing again!
I recognize I’ve been stuck in this familiar pattern/feeling (old wounds)with someone. But I’m lost on how to clear it and heal it. This 21 day thing sounds right up my alley. Keep up the good work bro❤️❤️
I love the way my twin flame far distance helping me grow as i m learning more with ur amazin videos! I m learning more about psychology n twin flames these days...self-love,self-growth,being grateful for everything....enjoying every moment!😇
This must be the reason I turn down emotionally available, decent guys. They don’t reflect back my beliefs about myself and they feel “off”. I’ll start accepting men like that around when their admiration and appreciation of me matches my own beliefs
I’ve been watching Aaron since 2018 and this video for some reason, really hit me like it finally got through to me. Maybe I was finally just ready to receive what he was saying because I’ve heard him say it other videos but this one did it for me.
Amazing video Aaron, once you become conscious of those patterns you start evolving into a better person, and realizing that you are okay with your phrame, people and situations can change but it is to you the power of how you react to those things
Hey everyone! I'll be going live for 21 days starting on July 1st to help you heal and release love blocks so that you raise your love vibration and become a more magnetic version of you in less than 21 days! Join here: ➡ AaronDoughty.com/Love
Thank you ! You SHINE Aaron ⭐️
You're the bees knees!! 🐝
I want to sign up buy i need to know it is a set time of day fot yhe 21 days???
Hi Aaron I just signed up, I'm so looking forward to raising my Love vibe thanks ur awesome😊❤️
Is it free or chargeable??how much ..
“Never choose someone who needs to think twice about choosing you.” ✌🏽
Yes !! And so do our self of choosing them
Wow best comment
Yup
I wonder why all my comments are invisible on all channels except in comment responses...I guess I wasted all of my 20's on two different guys. Years down the drain...they were never sure because they loved their exes who treated them badly more than me. Because they were "prettier than me" I have a huge nose.
and huge childhood wounds. I met my twin flame but even he doesn't accept me.
So I don't accept myself.
Never accept crumbs to make a meal from anyone
I was attracting someone that didn't choose me because I didn't choose me. Once I started to prioritize myself, so much shifted. Don't give up you guys.
Yes! I used to date people who really liked me/I really liked them. Then some weird experiences occurred in my life and I now understand they were trauma/ego wounds.. and then I started chasing people who didn’t really want to be in committed mature loving relationships..bc I was coming from ego wounds that wanted to “win” people over and yes fix them instead of “fixing” myself...looking at those ego wounds with love and integrating into my soul self. This fed chaos drama ego unconscious energy... cycle happened a few times.
What u mean with prioritize myself like what did you do , self love affirmations daily meditations or what give us more details please
@@iam6968 I realized that I really want giving myself the love that I deserved. I didn’t really find myself worthy of it either, so that’s how manifesting someone that wasn’t choosing me happened. What I had to do was really work on the limiting belief of “I’m not worthy” by addressing why I felt that way, meditating on it and learning how to find worthiness right where I am instead of looking elsewhere for it. I did do the affirmations, I did the meditating, I started to put my happiness on a pedestal basically. This meant leaving a job that didn’t make me happy, a person that didn’t make me happy, and living a life doing things that would actually fulfill me. This is a very concise explanation of so many things I had to do, but trust me, it wasn’t an overnight process but it was so worth it
@@siobhanmulvey amen
@@siobhanmulvey so how to get out of that pattern ?
*“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending...”*
*―C. S. Lewis*
I see you everywhere
Wow
Excellent quote!
Ahmet... Nice very nice....Thank you , sharing! CarpeDiem
Sometimes the hardest person to love is yourself.
Sad but true.. in my case I consider the word "to like", cause "to love" is high above the clouds
💔
👉 *7 things to master before this year ends:*
✅ *1. Don’t chase anyone*
✅ *2. Don’t beg anyone to stay*
✅ *3. Know your worth*
✅ *4. Save space for people who matter*
✅ *5. Accept what cannot be changed*
✅ *6. Leave what isn’t for you*
✅ *7. Love yourself*
💛
I can dig these
Ive already mastered this 😂❤
Love yourself until you feel whole. Love yourself to the point you feel like you dont need a relationship and a relationship becomes a bonus in your life.
Much love from a growing RUclipsr 💜
On Point ! So true ! 🥳
I love your posts!!
So true. 🙏🏻
That's what I'm doing right now frankly speaking !!!!!!!
Facts
Stop making people a priority in your life, when they don't make you a priority in their life, good vibes everyone 👍🙏💯
I got the problem that my crush priorities me too, but still can‘t commit to it. 😢
Relax. Sit back and allow people to come to you. No need to do all the work. When you stop needing is when you start receiving what you're worth.
So hard for em to grasp this concept it feels extremely unnatural to me. I've always been the one who approaches. The one who "Chases" never the receiver...ever.
@Thomas Grabowski I understand, yet when there is an impulse to do so, stop and put the phone down. Allow people to miss you
@@bellakim9404how can you be sure that someone will miss you
What if they don't care about you
And that's what hurts more like unbearable pain
This hit home for me. Really needed to see this today ❤
Narcissist want people to want them, they don't want intimacy, they just want to be wanted.
This guy is a perfect example of a narcissist ^^^
@@nosockaccounts9766 why you say that?He helps people.
@@tiko690 Helping people has nothing to do narcissism. This actually means he's more likely to be a narcissist because he wants to pretend to help people. That's what narcissist does.
@@nosockaccounts9766 That is literally some ignorant shit. Narcissists don't help anyone, much less care about anyone else's problems.
💖Heal your inner child
💖Fall in love with your own energy
💖Constanly spend time alone to know who you are and how amazing you really are
💖Meditate daily to calm yourself, raise your energy and become the OBSERVER of your life
💖Protect your energy from toxicity
💖Heal yourself and your inner child
💖Practice techniques that gives you the beliefs of I am worthy
💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Thank you! 😊
thanks
Thanks ☺️
Thank you ! Im on my way 🌹❤️
Well I do all that. Annnd still alone lol. Happy but alone and a little lonely
Perfect timing. I got ghosted and ended up blocking that guy... that's self love. I deserve better!
Awesome
Dude really just went "meow" 😂
On God🤣🤣
Get a razor and go take a course so you can really help everyone .
That’s the most badass thing I’ve ever heard
Lol repeatedly. 🐱
😂🤣
You create your thoughts, your thoughts create your intentions and your intentions create your reality. - Wayne Dyer
~ Much Love from a Growing RUclipsr💜
Wayne Dyer was eye opening...Our thoughts/intention can direct energy to create your reality once you learn about the flow and how to tap in. And either we're consciously creating our reality or our subconscious blocks and shodows are doing it for us IMHO. Peace and Aloha
When I accepted my mom for not being the perfect mother,I began releasing the need to have her love
Just got out of a situationship with someone who wasn't giving me the energy that I needed. I tend to choose people who don't care about me at all. I have a lot of childhood trauma, she did too, and she pushed me away, and prioritized work, her friends, partying, etc. I confronted her, she didn't like that and here I am. She reminded me a lot of my mother, in both personality and appearance. I should have walked away before it had even started, but I wanted to feel something and she gave me bread crumbs and in person, gave me attention. I'm trying to heal and stop making these mistakes, and your videos are helping a ton. I tend to be picky to the point, where people who do give me the attention I want, I'm not attracted to. So I chase people I feel are attractive enough or tick x amount of boxes, and get burned. Each failed attempt is a lesson.
I'm fighting this behavior now... Selflove is the key
*Remember today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.*
*-Dale Carnegie*
This hits home
*Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not who someone else is today.*
*Jordan Peterson*
That's true I find out years later that i felt emotionally abandoned when I was a child. So I choose emotionally closed people. Wow..
The girl I fell for was in the same boat. She basically chose this guy who is emotionally closed off. I was ready to step through hell for her, but in the end that wasn't enough
You know why I like you? Because you’re authentic and the information does not feel superficial and scripted. Because you use language any person can understand and you structure your concepts simply.
Omg, I just broke up.
Because my boyfriend had become emotionally unavailable all of a sudden.
People are soo unpredictable.
But i am Worthy. 🙏🏼
Who knows, maybe you changed for the better 😉❤️
You have a relationship with life itself! You attract the right relationship the more you can develop & deepen your relationship with YOURSELF!!! Thank you for the content Aaron & blessings to everyone 🙌😊
LOVE this!❤️
You never get in life what you want but what you are 🥶🧘🏿♂️💯
How is that? I dont know how to choose my self.
True.
I don’t get it is it like if I’m always happy fun then I get that ?
@@watchme7076 no, its a purely vibrational statment; we get the biomagnetic frequency in our partner which we send out. This means low self esteem men will only attract low self esteem ladies.
You are pure love. Just a reminder to you sweet souls reading this.❤
18 years of not being chosen, I feel like I have wasted my life with this person. This video totally made sense to me, I never felt chosen as a child either. But I see now it’s me that feels I don’t deserve real love and only I can change that
how?! psychic wounds don’t just change….
16 years here. My STBXW still yearns for her married coworker that ceased contact with her 10 months before. After spending over 2k on her and leaving work early for mothers day, only to make a post on Whisper about how she misses him, I was livid. Maybe it wasn't a waste though, she taught me a lot of lessons going forward. Hopefully you find love that is equitable!
YES THIS MAKES THE MOST SENSE. I CHOOSE MYSELF NOW. I WANT FREEDOM TO BE MYSELF. I AM WORTH KNOWING MYSELF. IM READY TO HONOR MYSELF & LOVE MYSELF. TY AARON,
“If you’re choosing people who don’t want to choose you is because you haven’t chosen yourself” WOW JUST WOW
I cried throughout all the video...i altrady knew this, but still hit me hard. I wish everyone to find their eay out! You deserve to be loved as your heart desire! May you all be blessed with whatever you wish. You are worthy, enough and perfect just the way you are! 🙏
Man, you ARE so right. I have been chasing AND choosing someone who clearly is NOT choosing me... In fact, he ran at the first problem... THANK YOU for sharing this.
Aaron, I just (today) ended a relationship with someone who you described to be emotional unavailable. I opened RUclips and there was your new post. I’m speechless and realized after watching your video that I’m on the right path. I wanna thank you for posting this vid! Namaste 🙏
my parents broke up i grew up with my grandmother while my two other siblings stayed with my mom and my dad had his new family. im attracting men who are emotionally unavailable while my siblings are in commited relationships. I have to heal my childhood wound thank you for always going back to this topic. I am now working to healing my self. I am worthy.
Grandparents raised as well and they went on to have more kids separately and raise them I feel this!!! 🙄
Aaron I hope you know how many of us you are actually getting through too and helping ❤️👍🏼
What a brilliant message Aaron. This is absolutely spot on. Love it ❤️ I am emotionally available and I am only willing to connect with authentic people who are willing to step out of their comfort zone and be vulnerable. Emotionally unavailable is just being love starved and it's a huge turn off for me now ❤️❤️❤️
I had the exact same shadow..crave for female attention based upon childhood dynamics with mom..and then I became needy and needy is creepy and pushes people away. I have healed it though through practicing presence and heart expansion and learning how to connect with "flow", or energy and direct it to clear the shadows and blockages..it's amazing the change and I can reate Aaron!
The difficulty was he didn't commit to me and was emotionally unavailable but then committed to another woman, this was the bit that made it hard to get over
This really spoke to me,I will probably watch this a few more times for it to totally sink in
Me too!!!
I love him because he’s so authentic and doesn’t try to be perfect. Definitely can relate
Aaron you’re such a cool cat... Living in the meow! 😘
I'm on this journey and I'm 41 years old. Only recently realised that I've got childhood programmes that have shaped my life. I've chosen people that didn't want me because I grew up believing that my father didn't like or want me and that made me feel that something is wrong with me. I still feel that way, albeit not as deeply and I'm determined to overcome it.
I seriously wish this information was widely available when I was younger; my life would have been different now.
Young people reading this, please do the childhood healing work whilst your young so you can manifest an amazing life for yourself. I don't believe we have to suffer through life but we'll struggle unnecessarily if we have subconscious childhood blocks. Do the work, don't waste your life....
This video becomes more and more powerful, relatable and makes me feel so much more stronger and worthy. Thank you Aaron for making it real.
So true..I can't be vulnerable with people. And I'm learning to be vulnerable..with myself and others..
Aaron youve changed my life literally overnight thank you for all you do for everyone!
I always get way more than what the title promises on your channel.
It’s been a few years since I’ve done one of your meditations or have heard your message. I needed to kind of go and process everything. Well now I’ve been called to hear you again and wow! I’m right at the energy you are at. Meaning you speaks to me to my higher self. You speak so much about childhood wounds & letting go! These messages are so powerful. I am so grateful for the reminder of who we really are.
You’ve truly helped me expand my consciousness! 🙏🏼
Why I want to restore anything. I’m moving forward not back.
Let it go sister!
What a perfect time to post this video!thank you, Aaron.
I just want to deeply Acknowledge you and say thankyou. You are helping me heal. I love looking deep into myself and being responsible for everything that's happening in my life and be responsible for why relationships are the way that they are. I love being aware. You are bringing so much healing into my life. Keep being an angel. Thanks
Nga mihi from Aotearoa New Zealand
I'm in 😊 excited for the 21 days raising love vibration challenge!
I love his new look, growing your hair out was a very good decision
@Lilian Bulus I don’t understand
man human to human i just love you aaron. the facial expressions & body language make me 😂😂😂during a really challenging time, these videos are perfect!!! cus although i’ve only experienced this emotional availability one time, it’s with my twin flame, so i literally can’t escape, until i figure out each clue & go to the next level & i’m just trying to get TF out, so i can have my peace of mind back PERMANENTLY & the twin’s sposed to come back as well, once we don’t care, but like wow what a dynamic. smh🤷🏽♀️
Wow. I do attract emotionally unavailable men as I find other men 1, boring and 2, I feel pressure. Thanks for this.
Okay but why does it feel like everyone in the world is like this.. where are all the emotionally secure ppl :/
Because everyone hurts
Society is a bunch of children having children
That part!
You are what you attract. We have to take responsibility for that and begin to change within. Only then we begin to attract something (someone) different! Be blessed! 🙏🏽
I totally had an a-ha moment! The guy is ridiculous! And I love myself now…so, he doesn’t serve me at all!
You go girl
I needed this. I’ve been regretting vocalizing my feelings to a DA guy. He basically ghosted after 5 months. I’m not as distraught as I normally would be, but 3 days into no contact I was wanting to lower my boundaries and not speak up for myself. I haven’t healed past not choosing DA guys but at least I’m growing.
This is hands down, your BEST video on RUclips. Exceptional insight‼‼‼‼‼‼‼‼‼‼‼‼‼‼‼‼‼‼
I'm stoned and the "right MEOW" cracked me tf up.
This is literally me. And im crying right now watching this
It's not always from childhood, it can be from a previous relationship where you had emotional neglect and that's where you suffer long term trauma
This is so true. I kept going for people who were emotionally unavailable until I realised what I was doing. Once I realised, my current partner came along and at first I was scared because he was emotionally AVAILABLE. But I stuck with it and I let him in and I'm so glad I did 🥰
💔❤️🔥already knowing this video is gonna hurt, in a good way lol
been on the 21 day love challenge and I feel great. haven't found my Love yet but It will come when the timing is right.
Thank You Aaron, Im choosing Me the most important relationship is Me with All of Me⚛️
Really wish that I was able to participate....no funds. It sounds like a blessing to someone who is struggling with healing things within myself to open up to contributing more positively to the collective and to myself.
I literally just uncovered this dynamic within myself during a breath work ceremony. It started in early childhood, I made it mean I wasn’t enough. Then I kept re creating not getting chosen which proved I wasn’t enough. Which caused me to feel like I needed someone to choose me to show me I was enough. I’m so grateful I got to see and shatter this
@Stanley Rambo you are a scammer, I don’t even need that lol
I am currently self-healing and loving myself. Loving myself more than ever before and doing things for ME. And although I want love someday, I know now that I'm not going to just settle nor will I chase someone that's not choosing me. I am going to be happy and content with my life until love finds me when it's time. Because a relationship shouldn't be your source of happiness...you need to be happy without someone. So if a person comes along then they will add to your happiness and make you an even better person than you already are. Always love yourself first and keep your head up! Because you got this and you're always worthy:) just takes the right person to see that.
We all have a journey... the key to life is learning to let go ✌
I just went through a breakup today I needed this I needed to hear this thank you Aaron!
Thanks for this video, it was really enlightening for me. My mom and dad were never emotionally available to me growing up and for a good part of my adult life. I’ve learned to set boundaries now with them. I have a good relationship with my dad, my mom on the other hand never speaks to me and took me out of her will with no forewarning or reason. I’m good without her toxicity any way. It’s made me a better person and mom.
Peace and love 💕
Thank you so much, Aaron. I had to pause the video several times to let all those words sink in... It made me cry and i realized that there is nothing wrong with me, and never has been. Just those childhood things... Now let's put it into practice and let's cut my toxic relationship. Thanks again!!
For the the longest time I was picking partners that were emotionally and mentally like my mother and had the behavior of my father.
I think I came across this for a reason, thank you so much for this. My longtime boyfriend just broke up with me and never gave a reason why, maybe you are right and i’ll be tuning in. :) thank you!
Just what tha Dr ordered...please keep me notified thanks
I always wondered what was wrong with me. It was spot on. I see that now. Ty. Love and light.
I definitively didn't experience the mentioned child trauma. I'm worthy of love and I deserve to be happy.
your videos are straight-up lifechanging
This is something that nobody can avoid. This state of mind and situation in life. Even if your parents are councious about that and try to teach you that dynamic, you will have to experience that and fine it yourself..
Thanks Aaron for this important video. ❤️
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰🥰
Whatsaap him"**
This is exactly what I’ve been looking for and you’re the first to explain it so easily! I have know this for along time but ignored it as I was fixated on that twin flame path dynamic with an ex, which I now believe is destructive and not healing. Just ordered the 21 day challenge !! I’ve followed you for many years Aaron and you have lead by example and grown so much it’s ultra inspiring that we are NOT broken we just need to heal our childhood wounds. ❤️
This is an important message. Mine happened because my Mom died, which creates a weird guilt. And i hope this helps someone. I just had this breakthrough yesterday and am navigating through it
Blessings!
You changed my life, Aaron. Thank you for your content. I finally feel I am on the right path.
i'm a narcissist magnet bc both my entire family, extended inc are ALL narc's. I absolutely agree. The people who love me, honestly, exactly as Aaron has said, seem initially boring but the narc's or the ones who make me feel insecure, I chase like I'm chasing heroin. BUT, I am beginning to CHANGE and choose love for myself and for those beautiful people who do truly love me. Goodbye narc's!!!! Hello new life!!
I achieved enlightenment on this through a karmic twin flame.. The lack of emotional awareness in family households is what led to Societies failures... This info could save the world one by one.. 💞😉🤝
Thanks! You are God’s sent. I was wandering about this things lately and I needed some guidance
Choose being Love , so you will know you are true Love . Do not look outwardly for it , for you will never find it!!!!
After truly healing every day my Inner Child, I stopped chasing Love. I Stop feeling attracted to toxic people & I stopped Choosing Love that is not Meant for my Highest Good.
Thank you Aaron! Thank you for Helping Us All Being More Aware ❤️❤️❤️
how you did it?
How did h heal your inner child
😢💔🤧Thank you for this Making this Video I believe the universe put this in my path to listen and learn...this Video has stopped me from digging my own grave and distruction. I'm done with giving and getting breadcrumbed with no Future. 💪🏽NAMASTE BROTHER👍🏻
Love this perspective! I choose me! I'm in for the challenge!
Hoping I can attend the lives!
Ooh that last statement, that their going thru their own journey helped loosen me up
Isn’t it funny how we unconsciously recycle ♻️ our childhood trauma/unmet needs.
Up until, we consciously heal our inner child as adults and the love ourselves wholeheartedly. Worthy of love. Fulfilled now without being defined by anyone because we are safe, secure, and stable at home within ourselves.
Choosing ourselves over and over again.
Blessings everyone! 💖🌟🦋💃🏻
Omd! This came at the right time! In the past two days I've been wondering why no one is choosing me ! Youre the best Aaron! Thankyou so much! Growing again!
Thankyou Aaron!!! Thats my pattern. Im just like that. Im working on it.
I recognize I’ve been stuck in this familiar pattern/feeling (old wounds)with someone. But I’m lost on how to clear it and heal it. This 21 day thing sounds right up my alley. Keep up the good work bro❤️❤️
Ow. It's stuff I needed to hear, but the truth hurts sometimes. The silver lining is now I understand I can change this pattern.
You're a great person! Thank you for giving back!
I love the way my twin flame far distance helping me grow as i m learning more with ur amazin videos!
I m learning more about psychology n twin flames these days...self-love,self-growth,being grateful for everything....enjoying every moment!😇
Damn Aaron, where was this video 5 years ago?!?! 😭😂 Anyways, makes me happy that future generations will be wiser
As a high value man who is on my purpose , I always choose friends and girls who choose me
This must be the reason I turn down emotionally available, decent guys. They don’t reflect back my beliefs about myself and they feel “off”. I’ll start accepting men like that around when their admiration and appreciation of me matches my own beliefs
Yes ❤
"it's not authenticate for you to be in a relationship with someone who's not choosing you!" AMEN!!
I’ve been watching Aaron since 2018 and this video for some reason, really hit me like it finally got through to me. Maybe I was finally just ready to receive what he was saying because I’ve heard him say it other videos but this one did it for me.
Amazing video Aaron, once you become conscious of those patterns you start evolving into a better person, and realizing that you are okay with your phrame, people and situations can change but it is to you the power of how you react to those things
This stuff freaking works.. when I just detached I get the best results!!