Do not try to be super smart as nobody before....do not try to make eny experiment hidden me abot me....you know nothing about me......just try represent your self and sekf idea....if you think you know every thing...please think again.....you can be free here only hidden me.....Whats ever I am kay for everything even I have sace eart not ond but twice time even every universe that are hidden me right now......I work by secret speciffic order even with every god ans over......
Because people are unpredictable! We most often want things we cannot have and thats just the Ego. Its best to move on, its not worth your health. Be with someone who appreciates every piece of you! Who prays that you are a part of their lives. Don't ever sell yourself short! For you are one of a kind ✨ ❤
11:11 777 222 444 888 555 888 I receive the powers humbled in grace blessings and abundance 🕊starseed 12-22-77 Thank u Lord in the mighty mighty mighty Name of Jesus Christ 🔥🙏🔥
Yes, this just happened to me last night. When You completely let go, they come back in the most unexpected ways. So let go of the attachment and the right people Will come back to You.
Everyone there are 7.8 Billion people in the World, when someone chooses too leave… let them go, there are Sooooo many others, Have an Abundance mindset, chase Excellence and you will Win 👏🏻
To the person reading this: THANK YOU for being here and adding value to our world 💖 Hope you have a blessed day filled with joy, happiness, health and love! 💖
Love shouldn't repel people!! It should pull you closer together!! Why as a society are we so messed up on this? Everyone should want their Divine Counterpart that will stay!!
@@davidmorrissey5075 nah we just live in a society that plays too many games, don't love love, empathy, loyalty or gentleness anymore, and disposes people! This makes me think of Lions and Tiger and Bears by Jasmine Sullivan.
I get what you are saying but I think what’s actually repelling others is not “love” but it’s actually that you’re emitting an energy of needing the other persons validation and relying on them to feel okay. Idk how to describe the energy exactly but believe me, it’s not love. Pure, unrestrained, no agenda love is the most attractive force/energy. But not energy that has ulterior motives and needs you in order to be “okay”. Does that make sense?
Another way of looking at it is to just be as fully present in the now as you can, and to declare out loud “I don’t mind what happens” multiple times everyday so it energetically sinks in ✨💜🌞
@@mindyann8903 you’re so welcome! 😋 Something else I started saying everyday is “I am free from all attachments to past and future. I am completely anchored in the now.”
This is actually happening to me right now. I started taking my energy back after watching your videos. And my ex that broke up with me is sending me attention.. You have to let go people…and work on yourself
This is so true though. When I am waiting for someone comes back to me, it never happen. They always come back after I detach the person…. This is crazy…
That's because people have free will and despise having their free will imposed by someone else. People like to choose for themselves, whether it's a job, career, or a partner. Also, everything is about self-interest, so whatever you want in life, you have to give what THEY want first. Because people could care less about YOUR needs and wants, and there's no one out there that really cares for you or who wants to help you. Unless you satisfy THEIR self-interest, whatever that might be. That's why the best way to succeed in life is to focus to become great at something that earns you a lot of money, and you surround yourself with like-minded individuals in an organization to create the best results. You can also start your own business and do your own thing if you have what it takes. But whatever you do in life, never be a naive victim because everybody is playing THEIR game, and you either play your own game or become a victim of someone else's game. Become hard, fearless, and powerful in life and you'll go a long way.
@@True38 Hi, thank you for the explanation! Well… I get the idea people care about them self and need to have high self-interest to succeed in life, but I was not able to understand how it relates to this video “why do the come back once you let them go”… Can you explain it a bit more? Thank you 🙏
Before I thought this is BS. But trust me guys this is real. Before I woke up every morning with a heavy feeling in my chest but after I let her go . Everything feels better . The energy that he is saying is also real, do everything that he said for u to find out. ❤️
It is always possible to get someone back into your life, We just have to let them go, because if we keep holding on even though it hurts, all we can see is fear of loosing them and all the factors that made us think that it's impossible to get them back again, And once we had moved on, and come back to our own frame, We gain clarity over the situation. And we will realize that there are still ways to get them back, Peoples thought and feelings will not be set as stone forever, And most of all we Just have to trust God, because he is the only one who knows everything and will write a good chapter for your life, If it's not ment to be with that specific person, it's ok, There still someone better out there that is destined
Thank you! I’m going through a breakup that was the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had…. So far! At first I was afraid I’d never find that again, but this really shows me there is more to come!
@@isisrodriguez4468 I just made it to 5 weeks post breakup! Today is the first day I’m not in active pain. Due to an age gap (I’m 13 years older) we broke up because he wants to have kids of his own, so there isn’t really a possibility of him coming back. That has made it easier for me to move into the acceptance stage of grief. It’s been absolute torture, but there’s no hope either. No contact has helped me break what was basically, my addiction to him. This has been one of the hardest losses of my life. Trust that what’s meant for you will stay. Never beg for love. ❤️
@@isisrodriguez4468 hey Isis, I'm in my second week of no contact. It is torture and I feel your agony in not feeling strong enough to continue or go through it. You have to keep yourself busy, you have to fight every single day to make yourself go through it. If you know you are worth it, then all this suffering is worth it. You will have to fight every day until the feeling disappears, and it will eventually
"If you are ever tempted to look for outside approval, realize that you have compromised your integrity. If you need a witness, be your own." Epictetus
A heartfelt honest prayer to the Almighty to release me from it and let go...is the sure fire way that works. Any other techniques keep confusion. In other words, TURN IT OVER TO YOUR HIGHER POWER TO BE FREE
I am a theoretical economist and no dating coach, but I can explain this using knowledge gained from economic theories. I will limit my explanation to two main economic principles that most people are aware of. 1) The law of supply and demand 2) The sunk cost fallacy First of all I want to be clear that the product/resource/good traded here is "attention" and that all people suffer some degree of risk aversity. 1 - As most people know the law of supply and demand explains the interactions between sellers of a resource and buyers for that resource. If we apply this to the subject of a break-up and one person "letting go" everyone here understands that the person who "let go" of the other person suddenly supplies less attention to the other person. In economic terms one could say that the person supplying attention suddenly places a lower value on the currency he is rewarded with for giving that attention. At the same time the person receiving the attention doesn't so drastically change his or her demand for attention. This results in a temporary scarcity of the good attention, which makes the receiver of attention having to pay more for that attention. So, in short, supply of attention decreases while demand for attention stays the same, increasing the value of attention. 2 - Going back to the tendency of people to be risk averse explains why people rather seek attention from someone they know, instead of investing time in meeting new people as potential attention-givers. In economics the tendency to continue an endeavour if we already invested time and effort in something, regardless if that something is profitable or not is referred to as the sunk cost fallacy. It shouldn't be too hard to see the analogy here. I also would like to add that people are social creatures, so one could argue that the phenomenon of people coming back to someone who "let go" can be explained by just looking at the regret of losing a social connection. Even if you aren't in a relationship anymore there still remains a social connection as long as one person puts in energy in trying to stay connected to you. People who have studies behavioral economics know that losing or regretting something makes people behave a lot more irrational than winning something. Once you have lost something you desperately want to win it back, to the point of investing more in winning something back than the value of the actual winnings. (That's an explanation of why gambling addicts exist) Another way to look at it is by looking at the value of the person who has "let go" of the past. That person grew emotionally as he/she overcame hardship. That person thus gained value, which explains why the other party is more willing to invest time and effort to get that person back. Simultaneously the other party perceives him- or herself to have lost value, at least in the eyes of the person who let go of him/her. Cheers. PS. I hope my grammar isn't too bad, because I enthusiastically wrote this down in one go and I am not motivated enough to double-check at the moment. Forgive me for that :-) EDIT: I just started watching the video and I notice that Mr. Doughty is talking about this from a wholy different perspective, so I understand if the people reading my comment think that the way I analysed this isn't their cup of tea.
@@SpicyEmma If he ghosted you then he was likely messing around or has some issues and is not trustworthy imo. My point is that you have to live by certain principles (at least from a guys perspective). If a chick says she wants a break or ghosts you for a extended period of time then you end it forever otherwise they will know you will be waiting for them no matter what they do thereafter. Maybe your scenario is different, who knows, but one must ask themselves why people do what they do. Hope all is well, cheers
I started watching your videos after a break up and it helped me so much through depression. Your completely accurate because now that I’m over him , he wants me back ‼️I’m now the star of my movie ❤
I love that expression! Star of your own movie. That's wonderful! I hope you guys work it all out, if that's what you want. If not, I'm glad you have peace with yourself. Go you!! 🎉
When we create an energy of resistance and attachment, we repel the energies and people that are in alignment with our Higher Self because we're not resonating at that level of energy which like Aaron showed is almost like 2 magnets which simply repels what we actually prefer at a higher level of consciousness. Once we start to align our energy with our hearts desires and who we truly are, we start to attract the people that are in alignment with that same energy, which might be someone that we were attached to and created a lot of resistance in the past. Great Video Aaron! Thanks for being one of the people that inspires me to post videos every single day. Much Love 🙏
Thank you so much Aaron; I’ve been feeling this intuitively, and I’ve really been guided to fully let go not just physically (which I already have), but energetically too. I believe in the connection, but right now I’m being called to embody the love in my heart and not focus on the external for now.
Same... 77 👍 by the way. A divine number. He messaged me like what happened cause I left him on read he almost got me back but I stood my ground. There is something special but things are in both of our ways for now im detaching and he is feeling it
Every time I feel weaker when it comes to no contact rule and I feel like contacting him, I come across your videos and it helps me to stay strong. 😢 You are such blessing in my life, thank you!
I feel all these words. It was so hard to let go of this girl I felt such a strong connection Sooooo much because of my abandonment issues. But when I did, I felt a change inside me that made me feel more mature. It just felt right even if I still feel the way pain of not having her. Learning to let go is the hardest thing any person can do.
Hey Aaron, I wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart. There is something about the way you’re teaching and presenting the information that’s shifting my whole mindset and makes me feel seen and validated and understood. I have had a lot of trauma and finally understand how to let go of the emotion attached to my past experiences and I wanted to let you know it’s thanks to your videos and the way you act and the community that’s on here. It makes me feel whole and like I am not alone and there’s no need to be ashamed for my feelings anymore. Thank you and I hope one day I won’t have to go back and question my value since It’s deeply engrained in myself ❤
It works every time true! I let go just as Aaron says to practice this : “4:13 The thing I most often say is simply LET GO..let go of the story that you might tell yourself about this person ….let go of the outcome…the more you let go the more you will bring your energy back “
When someone some girls want to come back when I am in the best version of myself , I do not allow them ! I only reunion with girls who treat me well in my worst situations !
Aaron, the good that you are doing for people is unimaginable. Who you are, as well as your message, is like a brother, a cousin, a real friend, offering the most wise and insightful guidance. I so much appreciate it. Just watching and hearing you and your message has been healing and encouraging (en-courage-in)! Thank you so much!
When one is in this state of trying to let go to get someone, it won’t work. They literally cannot care about whether they are with the person or not. Letting go is very difficult for people in this state.
The point is you want them to come back but once you focus on self love and no longer on them, when they come back you no longer want them anymore so it really didn't fix the situation. It sucks how we all have to become lovers of ourselves.
This is true and is the way of the world but it is not Gods way. Prayer to God to bring them back if it’s His will ..and giving them what they want is far better. Bc you still want them but you are now trusting in God ..not them ..putting God first ..on the pedestal. This is the same concept but different approach. The outcome is also different ..bc if they come back you can be more assured they came back bc God ordained it ..and it was not based in energy ..making for a healthier long lasting relationship We should never love ourselves ..for we already do ..and what is there to love ..we are as serpents from birth. No ..it is bc God loved us first that we can then love ourselves.
I needed this. I needed this to be the last video I’m going to watch in order to move on, because the more I watch, the more I perpetuate the distance. Thank you 🙏
Aaron- this is so shocking to me in the synchronicity as I am literally in the middle of experiencing this exact same scenario that you have described… I am so grateful for this message- totally turning this around right now! Going directly to this MEDITATION- HUGE GRATITUDE! 💜💜💜
Same !! I opened my phone this morning and this was my first notification! I was upset all night after 2 weeks of being swept off my feet to now being ghosted .. this was RIGHT on time ! Time to take my power back and validate my damn self ! We are worth it !! 💫
You should not have to change for someone else. Be yourself. Someone should love you for you . They should love you for who you are or you should find someone else that wants you as you are.
Embodying love is basically manifestation. So if you're manifesting someone, you can think about them because you aren't 'waiting' for them. You're also not attached to the 3d version of them. You're living in the end,which basically means, if you had that person in your life already, you wouldn't be wishing and wishing for them to be with you. You also would probably not think of them 24/7. But yes, it is important to still embody love, have self love and not be dependent on the outcome. Even though I'm manifesting an sp, I always tell myself that me amd God come first. You can live without anyone, you don't 'need' anyone except God.
Hi Aaron, I recently started watching your videos since I am having no way to let him go.... I am still trying, but I like your points of how we are sending them energy when we miss them and keep tracking on them... he is draining my energy even when he is literally doing nothing to/for me everyday, I really need my energy back and will watch more of your videos and let this thought deeply go into my mind... thank you.
We can't talk about people like an energy, get away from toxic people, be with people who wants you, who cares for you, narcissist love that you are running to them, it is trauma respond, let magnets stay magnets, human is a lot more than energy, what you are speaking can put somebody in delusional state... You can let go a ball from the hand, if you don't have disfunctional hand, so letting go a person is a whole process, with a lot of emotional work. Love on❤
Right but at that point, you've lost all your interest in that person, so it doesn't matter at that point what they want or whether or not they want you or not, it doesn't mean anything anymore, so more or less, when people feel their in control of the situation, they loose interest.
I’m so hurt. I told him that I was falling for him, and he said that he likes what we have now, it’s fun and carefree. He also said he didn’t have a timeline on when his heart and mind would be ready. I told him that I needed time and space. I’m so hurt.
5 month situationship that's constantly up and down, her pulling away, me feeling rejected.... just realised this is exactly how I felt when my dad would go out of my life for years on end, come back into it only to leave it again... Holy crap, crazy
After a few of your ‘letting go’ videos in addition to the build up of information throughout, I really resonated with the topics of “integrity” and, “The relationship serving its purpose”. I really felt a click inside…difficult to explain. Love your content. I’ve only recently been able to cognitively accept energies as a resource we can all manage. Thank you for helping me open that door.
Let go not in hope them coming back, but really letting them go forever from your life.
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I have been working hard for my ex, but she was constantly on and off with me, breaking up with me all the time. Once i let her go, she finally found relief and moved on with someone else. I am devastated.
It's going to be a long hard road man I will not lie to you. I got broken up with 2 years ago and have tried that whole time to get it back. But very slowly I am learning that the answer is self focus, self improvement. I hear you man the struggle is very real. But get started with facing your fears and improving, I promise you it is the way out of this.
Same here. I worked so hard for her and twice she left to other guys. I am also devastaded while she is off with her life like I never existed. And yes its extremely difficult to just let go and feel like they are going to dissapear from our lives forever. And even if they came back will they be in love or will they be an empty shell? I really hope we all find happiness again wether it be recovering our ex or finding someone else. Lets be strong and let time reveal what shall be.
I love this. I am actually going through a similar process of learning internal emotional regulation rather than external emotional regulation. It has been SOOO FUN!! And freeing!! ❤
I was told that I was very popular among my college girls and the only reason was that I was focused on studying and career than anything else. And after getting the job, I wanted to seek the attention now and approached by chasing a girl and woala she rejected me by sensing that energy. So I can confirm this. Only suggestion is to find higher goals and purpose but still look for signs from females which I rejected during college days
Man it's hard to not think about them sometimes but I figured it out when you started that not remembering her she make that phone call or text you or just come over unexpectedly at your house so you can still havel a thought that will fill that energy that pull them closers to you cause once the memory fade that energy fade
Thank You Aaron Brother you have helped me many years on my journey I am sending good vibes and good luck 🍀 to everyone so it is Thank You Father ❤️🐯🦁👊👑
Yes. The "old energy dynamic" is so true. I found myself drawn to someone, but the circumstances were absurd for me to be feeling that...& so, I had the "soul awareness", for some reason, to recognize it as an "ancient" vestige of past wrong relationships. I withdrew and did not move in that direction. & I think the reason my soul signaled me like that, is because I asked it to, during the interaction with the person, and also afterwards...I said to myself, why am I feeling this way about this person...and I realized the ancient imprinted pattern had been triggered by the person's persona ...not the person's fault, they were just being them. But my response was going in the dysfunctional dire tion and I stopped it. A real growth experience for me.
OK so i thought this was going to be about no contact or whatever, but this was some really good stuff about self growth and ego death. Really love this.
Wow on point with the narcissist/empath relationship. I only realized after the relationship that that’s exactly what it was. And I not only see if with my past relationship but the relationship who I surround myself and who he surrounds himself with. My friends are actually my family and support group while his aren’t - but it’s a reflection on himself because he doesn’t take care of our souls and only tends to a relationship if convenient for him. Which is why I see it when he complains that no one’s got him, and I told him it’s because he needs to care and understand for others if he wants the same for himself. And also on point with him saying he’s a starseed lol he actually told me I shouldn’t call myself an empath when I’m actually doing good and caring and loving other unconditionally no matter what. While he’s over there caring for superficial attention for his ego.
Thank You SO much! Feel as I have truly just attended a real ife-lesson Masterclass. YES, we have been told and YES, we have heard before, "Let Go"! But this lesson was shared and delivered in such a personal, direct, genuine, engaging way that it is relevant and meaningful for each person listening, in a different and specific way. And one has to be good at what he does and relateable to be able to achieve that, even with thousands of people. Congratulation on ALL you've accomplished through your supporting the learning and growth of others!
Thank you for every video that you make. I've lived in Vegas for a little over 1 year, and finally getting over something that happened with someone when I moved here. I dont have anyone to talk to about living here (ups, downs, culture, etc) but knowing that you were able to tune out all of the negativity, focus on your craft and become a success here really motivates me and gives a different perspective. I'm going to Flagstaff and Sedona next week for a much needed getaway and relaxation. Can't wait! If I run into you, I will wave hello!
Thank you so much for this video it has helped me to be open minded even though i'm going through spiritual transformation and awakening of the soul was troubled because i've been waiting upon the Lord to answer my prayers but it looks like my journey is too long and painful. I'm in a twin flame journey and i wasn't thinking of my twin flame doing my own things unexpectedly he called me after a long time of waiting now i'm scared and no longer excited that he called me but i'm relieved i want to practise the law of detachment and try to fight this desire i have for him awesome video❤🙏🙌
This reminds me from my past experiences. Gladly I found myself back within again at the same time I've learned a lot from the experiences and it made me feel much stronger and the vibe went high and inspired after pulling back and letting go. Meditation and being with nature is powerful.💚💙☯️♾🌈☀️❤ Thank you so much.🙏
Thank you Aaron ! Im going through some challenging times with a relationship I just got out of🥲 You are an Angel because somehow you make videos that come to my rescue! God Bless you! 😍🥰😘
Right now, I'm stressed about our long distance relationships. I don't trust my girlfriend. I can't neither break up nor approach to her, I'm very very very stressful, anxiety, can't study anymore. I'm wasting my time every about a month now. What I want to say is, thank you more than you can see on my comment. You make me out of stressful, anxiety and scared of losing that love. You you you are the problem reliever to me
Wow, this guy is smart and intelligent. There are so many truths in what you've been explaining. It happens in real life and it has happened to me many times. God bless you brother
Loving the teachings here! So excited that I’m finally going to witness your wisdom in person at The Shift Experience in May 2022!!! Can’t wait, Thank you Aaron!!! Austin here I come!🙏🏽🔥🖤
I remember you in a relationship with that other RUclipsr and you looked extremely uncomfortable and not yourself glad you figured it out it helps me understand
Aaron, thank you so much. You've helped me in a lot of situations in my life I can't stress enough how much I'm grateful for your content. You help me by reminding me of the things that are true, and that's all I need. I'm going to head on that meditation you talked about because I think I really need it. Thank you much love
This proves that renunciation is an attractive quality and opulence. The soul is naturally sat chit ananda so it makes sense. The way to perfect our human life is to become attracted and attractive to God.
I keep attracting narcissistic abusers. I have to break that pattern to start to attract a genuine, loving and kind partner. Not sure that person exists but I want to try one more time to get it right.
Hey guys! Listen to the most powerful meditation for attracting a relationship for 21 days here: ➡️ ruclips.net/video/urLm5MfM1Tw/видео.html
Infinite thanks to you Aaron you posted this video at the right time every time you are posting videos according to my situation ❤️
Thanks u. I know it’s hard u for this video thqnks u
Do not try to be super smart as nobody before....do not try to make eny experiment hidden me abot me....you know nothing about me......just try represent your self and sekf idea....if you think you know every thing...please think again.....you can be free here only hidden me.....Whats ever I am kay for everything even I have sace eart not ond but twice time even every universe that are hidden me right now......I work by secret speciffic order even with every god ans over......
YOU ARE AWESOME!!!!
Hi Aaron, you mention a book on Consciousness what was the book?
Because people are unpredictable!
We most often want things we cannot have and thats just the Ego.
Its best to move on, its not worth your health. Be with someone who appreciates every piece of you! Who prays that you are a part of their lives. Don't ever sell yourself short! For you are one of a kind ✨ ❤
So true
Very helpful. Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you for saying this, I don’t need the video tho I appreciate it, I feel what you said in my heart !
Great comment and so true
Thank you for this comment 🙏🏻
People are like shadows.Try to catch your shadow it runs away, turn around and walk off and your shadow follows you. People are like shadows.
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Awesome
Never thought of it like this thanks for that bro
Wow!!! Idk why but this is super deep! 🙌
I must be a bigfoot impersonator 👀
If you read this, that means you are a super powerful manifestor. ✨💪
Lol!🤞💃🕺🏻💪🧚🏻♀️
I Am!
Thanks guys and girls. 😊 You are indeed! 💪🌟
Yep
11:11 777 222 444 888 555 888 I receive the powers humbled in grace blessings and abundance 🕊starseed 12-22-77 Thank u Lord in the mighty mighty mighty Name of Jesus Christ 🔥🙏🔥
Yes, this just happened to me last night. When You completely let go, they come back in the most unexpected ways. So let go of the attachment and the right people Will come back to You.
What if you want to be left alone? I'm always open for a chill smoking buddy but that's about it.
@@samusaran7317 I mean.. it depends on You.. and what You want..
Hell sometimes the wrong people come back
Facts… At the weirdest time in the weirdest ways
What happened? Something magical? I cant believe in law of attraction... It does'nt exist
Letting go shows confidence and confidence is attractive. Letting go is for your own health..desperation makes people appear pathetic
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"Stress is who you think you should be, relaxation is who you really are."
Wow
Very profound word 💪🏽
Love this!
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Everyone there are 7.8 Billion people in the World, when someone chooses too leave… let them go, there are Sooooo many others, Have an Abundance mindset, chase Excellence and you will Win 👏🏻
Abundance mindset 🙌💯👌
You live in a city of 7.8 billion people? Wow man.
@@user-yk4gd1fl4z Much wow
@@user-yk4gd1fl4z stopp 🤣🤣
Profound ..."have an abundance mindset"
To the person reading this: THANK YOU for being here and adding value to our world 💖 Hope you have a blessed day filled with joy, happiness, health and love! 💖
You 2!!❤😂😅
You too sweetheart! ❤
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Love shouldn't repel people!! It should pull you closer together!! Why as a society are we so messed up on this? Everyone should want their Divine Counterpart that will stay!!
@Stephanie N this what I said so many times! Soooo messed up@ too much games!
Difference between loving someone and needing someone. One is healthy and the other isn't
@@davidmorrissey5075 nah we just live in a society that plays too many games, don't love love, empathy, loyalty or gentleness anymore, and disposes people!
This makes me think of Lions and Tiger and Bears by Jasmine Sullivan.
I get what you are saying but I think what’s actually repelling others is not “love” but it’s actually that you’re emitting an energy of needing the other persons validation and relying on them to feel okay. Idk how to describe the energy exactly but believe me, it’s not love. Pure, unrestrained, no agenda love is the most attractive force/energy. But not energy that has ulterior motives and needs you in order to be “okay”. Does that make sense?
@@davidmorrissey5075 which one is which?
Another way of looking at it is to just be as fully present in the now as you can, and to declare out loud “I don’t mind what happens” multiple times everyday so it energetically sinks in ✨💜🌞
Love this! 😍❤️
@@witchypoo3535 😊 glad to hear it helped you!
I needed to hear this ! Thank you 🙏
@@mindyann8903 you’re so welcome! 😋 Something else I started saying everyday is “I am free from all attachments to past and future. I am completely anchored in the now.”
That is how I like to look at it!
The more you want it, the less you have it.
And the less you want something or someone, the more you are desired.
@@True38 That sounds wierd
@@chantehowe7798 It sounds weird but that's how most minds work.
This is actually happening to me right now. I started taking my energy back after watching your videos. And my ex that broke up with me is sending me attention..
You have to let go people…and work on yourself
This is so true though. When I am waiting for someone comes back to me, it never happen. They always come back after I detach the person…. This is crazy…
That's because people have free will and despise having their free will imposed by someone else. People like to choose for themselves, whether it's a job, career, or a partner.
Also, everything is about self-interest, so whatever you want in life, you have to give what THEY want first. Because people could care less about YOUR needs and wants, and there's no one out there that really cares for you or who wants to help you. Unless you satisfy THEIR self-interest, whatever that might be.
That's why the best way to succeed in life is to focus to become great at something that earns you a lot of money, and you surround yourself with like-minded individuals in an organization to create the best results. You can also start your own business and do your own thing if you have what it takes.
But whatever you do in life, never be a naive victim because everybody is playing THEIR game, and you either play your own game or become a victim of someone else's game.
Become hard, fearless, and powerful in life and you'll go a long way.
@@True38 Hi, thank you for the explanation! Well… I get the idea people care about them self and need to have high self-interest to succeed in life, but I was not able to understand how it relates to this video “why do the come back once you let them go”… Can you explain it a bit more? Thank you 🙏
Yes, happens to me quite often
It's crazy seeing you guys got a repaonse back it's been months for me & nothing of that in the nature . No calls no nothing moved onto next
Before I thought this is BS. But trust me guys this is real. Before I woke up every morning with a heavy feeling in my chest but after I let her go . Everything feels better . The energy that he is saying is also real, do everything that he said for u to find out. ❤️
Protect my energy at all cost , so I can go have fun on my own ! Enjoy horse riding , enjoy camping , enjoy beach enjoy sea enjoy the world
I am trying to protect my energy lately, but tough! 😌
It is always possible to get someone back into your life,
We just have to let them go,
because if we keep holding on even though it hurts, all we can see is fear of loosing them and all the factors that made us think that it's impossible to get them back again,
And once we had moved on, and come back to our own frame,
We gain clarity over the situation.
And we will realize that there are still ways to get them back,
Peoples thought and feelings will not be set as stone forever,
And most of all we Just have to trust God, because he is the only one who knows everything and will write a good chapter for your life,
If it's not ment to be with that specific person, it's ok,
There still someone better out there that is destined
How old are you? If you answer that question I will be able to ask you another question.
I'm 23
Love this 🙏🏼💜
Thank you! I’m going through a breakup that was the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had…. So far! At first I was afraid I’d never find that again, but this really shows me there is more to come!
Hey, how is it going after 3 weeks? I'm going through the same now, and I'm devastated... I don't feel strong enought to go through this
@@isisrodriguez4468 I just made it to 5 weeks post breakup! Today is the first day I’m not in active pain. Due to an age gap (I’m 13 years older) we broke up because he wants to have kids of his own, so there isn’t really a possibility of him coming back. That has made it easier for me to move into the acceptance stage of grief. It’s been absolute torture, but there’s no hope either. No contact has helped me break what was basically, my addiction to him. This has been one of the hardest losses of my life. Trust that what’s meant for you will stay. Never beg for love. ❤️
@@isisrodriguez4468 hey Isis, I'm in my second week of no contact. It is torture and I feel your agony in not feeling strong enough to continue or go through it. You have to keep yourself busy, you have to fight every single day to make yourself go through it. If you know you are worth it, then all this suffering is worth it. You will have to fight every day until the feeling disappears, and it will eventually
@@isisrodriguez4468 same here, 8 days ago here as well. Hang in there, you are not alone! Connect, and stay connected:)
@@rachellp7897 Yes you are correct. Never beg for what should come naturally. We are worth more than that and deserve to be loved as we love.
I don't want a person who doesn't want me...simple! ☺️
"If you are ever tempted to look for outside approval, realize that you have compromised your integrity. If you need a witness, be your own." Epictetus
Woah, I love this.
A heartfelt honest prayer to the Almighty to release me from it and let go...is the sure fire way that works.
Any other techniques keep confusion.
In other words, TURN IT OVER TO YOUR HIGHER POWER TO BE FREE
When you break up with someone with whom you had a healthy relationship it's painful but when you break up with someone who was toxic it's a nightmare
My ex is in a relationship with someone else and pregnant and still acts crazy and jealous if I'm with another woman.
I am a theoretical economist and no dating coach, but I can explain this using knowledge gained from economic theories.
I will limit my explanation to two main economic principles that most people are aware of.
1) The law of supply and demand
2) The sunk cost fallacy
First of all I want to be clear that the product/resource/good traded here is "attention" and that all people suffer some degree of risk aversity.
1 - As most people know the law of supply and demand explains the interactions between sellers of a resource and buyers for that resource. If we apply this to the subject of a break-up and one person "letting go" everyone here understands that the person who "let go" of the other person suddenly supplies less attention to the other person. In economic terms one could say that the person supplying attention suddenly places a lower value on the currency he is rewarded with for giving that attention.
At the same time the person receiving the attention doesn't so drastically change his or her demand for attention. This results in a temporary scarcity of the good attention, which makes the receiver of attention having to pay more for that attention.
So, in short, supply of attention decreases while demand for attention stays the same, increasing the value of attention.
2 - Going back to the tendency of people to be risk averse explains why people rather seek attention from someone they know, instead of investing time in meeting new people as potential attention-givers. In economics the tendency to continue an endeavour if we already invested time and effort in something, regardless if that something is profitable or not is referred to as the sunk cost fallacy. It shouldn't be too hard to see the analogy here.
I also would like to add that people are social creatures, so one could argue that the phenomenon of people coming back to someone who "let go" can be explained by just looking at the regret of losing a social connection. Even if you aren't in a relationship anymore there still remains a social connection as long as one person puts in energy in trying to stay connected to you. People who have studies behavioral economics know that losing or regretting something makes people behave a lot more irrational than winning something. Once you have lost something you desperately want to win it back, to the point of investing more in winning something back than the value of the actual winnings. (That's an explanation of why gambling addicts exist)
Another way to look at it is by looking at the value of the person who has "let go" of the past. That person grew emotionally as he/she overcame hardship. That person thus gained value, which explains why the other party is more willing to invest time and effort to get that person back. Simultaneously the other party perceives him- or herself to have lost value, at least in the eyes of the person who let go of him/her.
Cheers.
PS. I hope my grammar isn't too bad, because I enthusiastically wrote this down in one go and I am not motivated enough to double-check at the moment. Forgive me for that :-)
EDIT: I just started watching the video and I notice that Mr. Doughty is talking about this from a wholy different perspective, so I understand if the people reading my comment think that the way I analysed this isn't their cup of tea.
I watched this video yesterday and he came back today…. After 3month silent!!! Like wtf ?! Aaron is the best ! And they do always come back!
I hope so!
@@Poker-is8dt I really don’t get your comment…. Why this monologue on obesity ?!
@@SpicyEmma If he ghosted you then he was likely messing around or has some issues and is not trustworthy imo. My point is that you have to live by certain principles (at least from a guys perspective). If a chick says she wants a break or ghosts you for a extended period of time then you end it forever otherwise they will know you will be waiting for them no matter what they do thereafter. Maybe your scenario is different, who knows, but one must ask themselves why people do what they do. Hope all is well, cheers
"laying out your heart, going into this experience, KNOWING that you could get rejected … thats vulnerability and that's courage"
I started watching your videos after a break up and it helped me so much through depression. Your completely accurate because now that I’m over him , he wants me back ‼️I’m now the star of my movie ❤
I love that expression! Star of your own movie. That's wonderful! I hope you guys work it all out, if that's what you want. If not, I'm glad you have peace with yourself. Go you!! 🎉
When we create an energy of resistance and attachment, we repel the energies and people that are in alignment with our Higher Self because we're not resonating at that level of energy which like Aaron showed is almost like 2 magnets which simply repels what we actually prefer at a higher level of consciousness. Once we start to align our energy with our hearts desires and who we truly are, we start to attract the people that are in alignment with that same energy, which might be someone that we were attached to and created a lot of resistance in the past. Great Video Aaron! Thanks for being one of the people that inspires me to post videos every single day. Much Love 🙏
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Thanks this is awsome.
They come back because their see that you completely change mentally and physically.Keep up forward never back.Glow up sis you deserve it
Thank you so much Aaron; I’ve been feeling this intuitively, and I’ve really been guided to fully let go not just physically (which I already have), but energetically too. I believe in the connection, but right now I’m being called to embody the love in my heart and not focus on the external for now.
Same... 77 👍 by the way. A divine number. He messaged me like what happened cause I left him on read he almost got me back but I stood my ground. There is something special but things are in both of our ways for now im detaching and he is feeling it
Beautiful Katie. Thanks
Most of the time they never come back and that is a blessing..😊
Every time I feel weaker when it comes to no contact rule and I feel like contacting him, I come across your videos and it helps me to stay strong. 😢 You are such blessing in my life, thank you!
Bt before move on try ur best to maintain relationship sometimes people change
I’m glad that you defend your dignity 🙂
Be open to everything and attach to nothing.
I feel all these words. It was so hard to let go of this girl I felt such a strong connection Sooooo much because of my abandonment issues. But when I did, I felt a change inside me that made me feel more mature. It just felt right even if I still feel the way pain of not having her. Learning to let go is the hardest thing any person can do.
I, personally, don't want anyone that would make a relationship this complicated.😂
we attract what we are, and I'm guessing that you are definitely attracting no-drama relationships! yes!
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And the one you want is already doing this without you knowing, that’s why you want them 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Hey Aaron, I wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart. There is something about the way you’re teaching and presenting the information that’s shifting my whole mindset and makes me feel seen and validated and understood. I have had a lot of trauma and finally understand how to let go of the emotion attached to my past experiences and I wanted to let you know it’s thanks to your videos and the way you act and the community that’s on here. It makes me feel whole and like I am not alone and there’s no need to be ashamed for my feelings anymore. Thank you and I hope one day I won’t have to go back and question my value since It’s deeply engrained in myself ❤
If they want to be with you, they will be. Period. Stop playing yourself and just live your life. If they left once, they’ll do it again.
It works every time true! I let go just as Aaron says to practice this : “4:13 The thing I most often say is simply LET GO..let go of the story that you might tell yourself about this person ….let go of the outcome…the more you let go the more you will bring your energy back “
Let it go and pull you energy back👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I’m wishing everyone who clicked on this channel nothing but LONG LIFE & PROSPERITY💰☀️🌎
~Much Love from a Law of Attraction RUclipsr💜
Aw thank you and same to you brother 🙏🤗
That's some good stuff right there brother. God will Bless you
Very good content. The Power of Letting Go. As my mom would say, "let go and let God".
My mom literally said this to me a hour ago lol. ✨
When someone some girls want to come back when I am in the best version of myself , I do not allow them ! I only reunion with girls who treat me well in my worst situations !
So true. I started drinking due to my dad's death and she left
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Aaron, the good that you are doing for people is unimaginable. Who you are, as well as your message, is like a brother, a cousin, a real friend, offering the most wise and insightful guidance. I so much appreciate it. Just watching and hearing you and your message has been healing and encouraging (en-courage-in)! Thank you so much!
When one is in this state of trying to let go to get someone, it won’t work. They literally cannot care about whether they are with the person or not. Letting go is very difficult for people in this state.
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I didn't get it. Could you explain it clearly
The point is you want them to come back but once you focus on self love and no longer on them, when they come back you no longer want them anymore so it really didn't fix the situation. It sucks how we all have to become lovers of ourselves.
This is true and is the way of the world but it is not Gods way. Prayer to God to bring them back if it’s His will ..and giving them what they want is far better. Bc you still want them but you are now trusting in God ..not them ..putting God first ..on the pedestal. This is the same concept but different approach. The outcome is also different ..bc if they come back you can be more assured they came back bc God ordained it ..and it was not based in energy ..making for a healthier long lasting relationship
We should never love ourselves ..for we already do ..and what is there to love ..we are as serpents from birth. No ..it is bc God loved us first that we can then love ourselves.
I needed this.
I needed this to be the last video I’m going to watch in order to move on, because the more I watch, the more I perpetuate the distance. Thank you 🙏
Aaron- this is so shocking to me in the synchronicity as I am literally in the middle of experiencing this exact same scenario that you have described… I am so grateful for this message- totally turning this around right now! Going directly to this MEDITATION- HUGE GRATITUDE! 💜💜💜
Same !! I opened my phone this morning and this was my first notification! I was upset all night after 2 weeks of being swept off my feet to now being ghosted .. this was RIGHT on time ! Time to take my power back and validate my damn self ! We are worth it !! 💫
@@mindyann8903 yessssssssssssss
@@mindyann8903 my same situation! We was connecting so well together to now he has ghosted me
Just checking in ❤. Are you doing happy now? I’m going through it and just coming out of the hurt part.
Thanks Aaron. You have probably saved many people from downward spirals. You certainly are saving me from despair and helplessness
This video was literally like someone telling my story! Word by word. Its truth!
Take your new energy and run and don’t look back !!! Because like a battery they will drain you again !!! You are better off with out them !!!!
You should not have to change for someone else. Be yourself. Someone should love you for you . They should love you for who you are or you should find someone else that wants you as you are.
Sometimes, it's not necessarily changing that is needed but personal growth. Some people can be further along their spiritual journeys than others.
"that's just as deep as it's BEEN".... omg. That section was awesome. I'm going to have to come back and listen again and again to this one.
Embodying love is basically manifestation. So if you're manifesting someone, you can think about them because you aren't 'waiting' for them. You're also not attached to the 3d version of them. You're living in the end,which basically means, if you had that person in your life already, you wouldn't be wishing and wishing for them to be with you. You also would probably not think of them 24/7. But yes, it is important to still embody love, have self love and not be dependent on the outcome. Even though I'm manifesting an sp, I always tell myself that me amd God come first. You can live without anyone, you don't 'need' anyone except God.
Hi Aaron, I recently started watching your videos since I am having no way to let him go.... I am still trying, but I like your points of how we are sending them energy when we miss them and keep tracking on them... he is draining my energy even when he is literally doing nothing to/for me everyday, I really need my energy back and will watch more of your videos and let this thought deeply go into my mind... thank you.
We can't talk about people like an energy, get away from toxic people, be with people who wants you, who cares for you, narcissist love that you are running to them, it is trauma respond, let magnets stay magnets, human is a lot more than energy, what you are speaking can put somebody in delusional state... You can let go a ball from the hand, if you don't have disfunctional hand, so letting go a person is a whole process, with a lot of emotional work. Love on❤
Right but at that point, you've lost all your interest in that person, so it doesn't matter at that point what they want or whether or not they want you or not, it doesn't mean anything anymore, so more or less, when people feel their in control of the situation, they loose interest.
I’m so hurt. I told him that I was falling for him, and he said that he likes what we have now, it’s fun and carefree. He also said he didn’t have a timeline on when his heart and mind would be ready. I told him that I needed time and space. I’m so hurt.
I am focused and grounded, and my goals are clear.
5 month situationship that's constantly up and down, her pulling away, me feeling rejected.... just realised this is exactly how I felt when my dad would go out of my life for years on end, come back into it only to leave it again... Holy crap, crazy
That is because of your dad that you are with that person. You are reproducing what is familiar to you.
After a few of your ‘letting go’ videos in addition to the build up of information throughout, I really resonated with the topics of “integrity” and, “The relationship serving its purpose”. I really felt a click inside…difficult to explain.
Love your content. I’ve only recently been able to cognitively accept energies as a resource we can all manage. Thank you for helping me open that door.
Let go not in hope them coming back, but really letting them go forever from your life.
I have been working hard for my ex, but she was constantly on and off with me, breaking up with me all the time.
Once i let her go, she finally found relief and moved on with someone else.
I am devastated.
It's going to be a long hard road man I will not lie to you. I got broken up with 2 years ago and have tried that whole time to get it back. But very slowly I am learning that the answer is self focus, self improvement. I hear you man the struggle is very real. But get started with facing your fears and improving, I promise you it is the way out of this.
Same here. I worked so hard for her and twice she left to other guys. I am also devastaded while she is off with her life like I never existed. And yes its extremely difficult to just let go and feel like they are going to dissapear from our lives forever. And even if they came back will they be in love or will they be an empty shell? I really hope we all find happiness again wether it be recovering our ex or finding someone else. Lets be strong and let time reveal what shall be.
Means tht its not meant to be.let go of ppl tht dont love u anymore. Dont waste ur time
It's rebound it won't work. I got dumped after 6 years and engaged he is with his ex and his ex who is married. Two women.
@@LotusFlower732 :(
This vid should have 10m views, so crucial.
Aaron. This message was divinely timed. Thank you.
This truly helped, because I just got dumped , this was really true . Thank you man
I love this. I am actually going through a similar process of learning internal emotional regulation rather than external emotional regulation. It has been SOOO FUN!! And freeing!! ❤
6:26 thanks Aaron, I really needed to hear this. I understand a lot better now. I really do need to let go.
I was told that I was very popular among my college girls and the only reason was that I was focused on studying and career than anything else. And after getting the job, I wanted to seek the attention now and approached by chasing a girl and woala she rejected me by sensing that energy. So I can confirm this. Only suggestion is to find higher goals and purpose but still look for signs from females which I rejected during college days
Wow man, I just got divorced and from time to time I feel miserable and this just helped to understand what’s going on energetically in me
Man it's hard to not think about them sometimes but I figured it out when you started that not remembering her she make that phone call or text you or just come over unexpectedly at your house so you can still havel a thought that will fill that energy that pull them closers to you cause once the memory fade that energy fade
i noticed all this on my own was hungry for change emidiatly when we broke up...very usefull informations for life..
Love your videos man letting go is the hardest part but iv let go. Dont care anymore and I feel like it's best I focus on myself. Feels best this way
This is called Detachment...and it applies to everything including people.
Thank You Aaron Brother you have helped me many years on my journey I am sending good vibes and good luck 🍀 to everyone so it is Thank You Father ❤️🐯🦁👊👑
I love this guy. He gives so much positive energy to everyone
Yes. The "old energy dynamic" is so true. I found myself drawn to someone, but the circumstances were absurd for me to be feeling that...& so, I had the "soul awareness", for some reason, to recognize it as an "ancient" vestige of past wrong relationships. I withdrew and did not move in that direction.
& I think the reason my soul signaled me like that, is because I asked it to, during the interaction with the person, and also afterwards...I said to myself, why am I feeling this way about this person...and I realized the ancient imprinted pattern had been triggered by the person's persona ...not the person's fault, they were just being them. But my response was going in the dysfunctional dire tion and I stopped it. A real growth experience for me.
OK so i thought this was going to be about no contact or whatever, but this was some really good stuff about self growth and ego death. Really love this.
Thank you Aaron,I learned a lesson of letting go of one story and the outcomes was awesome.
Please fill us in.
Something magical has happened?
You're better than a psychologist hands down! 💯 %
Wow on point with the narcissist/empath relationship. I only realized after the relationship that that’s exactly what it was. And I not only see if with my past relationship but the relationship who I surround myself and who he surrounds himself with. My friends are actually my family and support group while his aren’t - but it’s a reflection on himself because he doesn’t take care of our souls and only tends to a relationship if convenient for him. Which is why I see it when he complains that no one’s got him, and I told him it’s because he needs to care and understand for others if he wants the same for himself. And also on point with him saying he’s a starseed lol he actually told me I shouldn’t call myself an empath when I’m actually doing good and caring and loving other unconditionally no matter what. While he’s over there caring for superficial attention for his ego.
Absolutely brilliant analysis. All play dating mind games unknowingly but you showed the psychology behind it
Thank You SO much! Feel as I have truly just attended a real ife-lesson Masterclass. YES, we have been told and YES, we have heard before, "Let Go"! But this lesson was shared and delivered in such a personal, direct, genuine, engaging way that it is relevant and meaningful for each person listening, in a different and specific way. And one has to be good at what he does and relateable to be able to achieve that, even with thousands of people. Congratulation on ALL you've accomplished through your supporting the learning and growth of others!
Spot on! And you’re even cuter in how you explain it. Your teachings are priceless. Thank you.
Thank you for every video that you make. I've lived in Vegas for a little over 1 year, and finally getting over something that happened with someone when I moved here. I dont have anyone to talk to about living here (ups, downs, culture, etc) but knowing that you were able to tune out all of the negativity, focus on your craft and become a success here really motivates me and gives a different perspective. I'm going to Flagstaff and Sedona next week for a much needed getaway and relaxation. Can't wait! If I run into you, I will wave hello!
Thank you so much for this video it has helped me to be open minded even though i'm going through spiritual transformation and awakening of the soul was troubled because i've been waiting upon the Lord to answer my prayers but it looks like my journey is too long and painful. I'm in a twin flame journey and i wasn't thinking of my twin flame doing my own things unexpectedly he called me after a long time of waiting now i'm scared and no longer excited that he called me but i'm relieved i want to practise the law of detachment and try to fight this desire i have for him awesome video❤🙏🙌
This reminds me from my past experiences. Gladly I found myself back within again at the same time I've learned a lot from the experiences and it made me feel much stronger and the vibe went high and inspired after pulling back and letting go. Meditation and being with nature is powerful.💚💙☯️♾🌈☀️❤
Thank you so much.🙏
It's not about vulnerability - that exposes you to losing boundaries - it is about sensitivity
It would be awesome when Aaron and Sadhguru could have a conversation. Would be something different but I would freaking celebrate that haha
Sadhguru 👎
You my friend have found your life’s passion. So good! Thank you for sharing with us.
Thank you Aaron ! Im going through some challenging times with a relationship I just got out of🥲 You are an Angel because somehow you make videos that come to my rescue! God Bless you! 😍🥰😘
Right now, I'm stressed about our long distance relationships.
I don't trust my girlfriend.
I can't neither break up nor approach to her, I'm very very very stressful, anxiety, can't study anymore.
I'm wasting my time every about a month now.
What I want to say is, thank you more than you can see on my comment.
You make me out of stressful, anxiety and scared of losing that love.
You you you are the problem reliever to me
This video has come to me at the most perfect time in my life. Thanks Aaron. 🙏🏻💙
Wow, this guy is smart and intelligent. There are so many truths in what you've been explaining. It happens in real life and it has happened to me many times. God bless you brother
What nonsense that?
Loving the teachings here! So excited that I’m finally going to witness your wisdom in person at The Shift Experience in May 2022!!! Can’t wait, Thank you Aaron!!! Austin here I come!🙏🏽🔥🖤
I remember you in a relationship with that other RUclipsr and you looked extremely uncomfortable and not yourself glad you figured it out it helps me understand
Aaron, thank you so much. You've helped me in a lot of situations in my life I can't stress enough how much I'm grateful for your content. You help me by reminding me of the things that are true, and that's all I need. I'm going to head on that meditation you talked about because I think I really need it. Thank you much love
This proves that renunciation is an attractive quality and opulence. The soul is naturally sat chit ananda so it makes sense.
The way to perfect our human life is to become attracted and attractive to God.
Love this new style of video, more shorter but full of values ❤️
Actually, I let go of the narcissist and they are so self absorbed that they never noticed and never returned. What do you think of that? 😅
It hurts. It should be there when I wanted it the most.
I keep attracting narcissistic abusers. I have to break that pattern to start to attract a genuine, loving and kind partner. Not sure that person exists but I want to try one more time to get it right.